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- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Christina...
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Thank you for all the kind words, understanding and support. I know its long but I do appreciate those who chose to listen. Its difficult to tell a lifetime of memories and get all the timelines correct especially on camera, nervous. Thanks again ❤
Thank you very much for sharing your life story, Christina. You did good! I wish you the very best ❤
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You’re a good girl, Christina. You were a good daughter. Keep looking ahead and be there for Dominick. Thank you for sharing your story, Hunny. May you be surrounded by good hearted souls and cultivate a sense of value from within. ❤
🎉Thank you for sharing your journey! I can relate to how devastated you felt when your husband left you and your one yr old son, and the hurtful thing he said to you, as my husband said something similar when our 2nd son was 1 yrs old, too, that he didn't want to be married, felt like he was missing out and wanted to be with other women, and only married me bc I was pregnant and he wanted his father and his business partners to see him as an adult. I also got depressed, engaged in self destructive behaviors and had quite a few rough decades thereafter. My mother and I also always had a strained relationship, which eventually lead to her disowning me and my children and didn't speak for 7 years before she died suddenly. (She told me I was nothing but an embarrassment to her and I should have just killed myself!) It left lots of loose ends and no closure. You are an amazing survivor and a great speaker!🎉❤😊
Thank you, you helped me with a couple of issues and brought some clarity for me about myself...Thank you for being brave enough to do this....💙🌎
You survived your parents. Kids aren't supposed to ever have to say that, but you survived and remained, at the core, a happy person. You have my admiration and respect for all that you went through and still thrived.
It was hard. It took many years of therapy. I fight for happiness everyday. Thank you for listening to my story ❤
Couldn’t have said it better myself. How powerful to be this reflective and honest. Thank you for this. So much respect,
She sure did! ❤ 🙏 happened alot but no one talked about it. I feel for her. Her childhood was stolen from her and her sister too. I'm not finished the video yet. So I will stop there. 😊
@C_D_ROD you are a survivor my friend. We either repeat the cycle or break the cycle. Sending love to you today ❤ 🙏 I'm up in eastern Canada 🇨🇦 I can feel your pain 😢
You DO deserve love and you SHOULD write a book, your very good at storytelling.
Thank you for listening ❣️
Would make a compelling movie...
@@karenfryberger4260 it's been my dream. Maybe one day someone will see this and think the same.
Her story is phenomenal! She still has a sense of humor and hasn't given up! Amazing. So self aware.
Thank you! I really try to remain positive and not let an awful story sound so awful ❤
You gotta have humor. Sometimes it’s the only way to cope with your past trauma. Christina I pray that you get through this ok. Big hugs
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You are an amazing woman through all that.
@@LoyalAsst thank you ❤️
@@C_D_RODyou are amazing!!!!
Every time I watch one of these I feel like it changes my life just a smidgen. Everyone is amazing.
Yes, AMAZING!
perfect example of having two narcissistic psychopathic parents and being trapped in a cult of a TERRIBLE family. I am SO sorry you went through all this. I hope you have broken free from all those psychopathic criminals forEVER.
The fact that she is sitting there looking beautiful, confident & happy is a miracle given what brought her here. What is so interesting is that whether she believes it or not, she is the most normal of everyone, yet she blames herself for everything. You can't make yourself bipolar. I'm also bipolar, and I struggle with not blaming myself for having a mental illness, too. Thank you for sharing!! I'm sure thousands can relate & know they're not alone.
Thank you. Your kind words mean a lot ❤
I agree! She’s gorgeous and has a beautiful way about her. Speaks very well and is interesting to listen to. She’s obviously very strong. I gotta say though, that outfit is 🔥
@melissarobinson3826 thanks for the outfit compliment! Mark shoots at the most unflattering angles.
Thank you for recording and posting this valuable educational video. I wish you peace and harmony.
@smirkinatu5512 thank you for watching! ❤️
Christina I listened to your story from beginning to end and was captivated. I hope you know just how strong you are. Most people couldn't handle even half of what's been thrown at you. Remember that on your darkest days. We need you here to give others hope. There were some likenesses between your story and my own and I admire you very much. Much love and support to you ❤
You are so kind. Thank you ❤
This poor girl had a hell of a childhood. Mark hasn't had a chance to ask her any questions yet.!! She sure knows her story well and is pleasant to listen to. Wishing Christina happiness and the best of luck 💕💞
Not every interview is him asking questions, alot of them are just like this where the person just tells the story.. there's probably a reason he chooses to either interview them or let them talk, but theyre both different styles of these videos he does
@@izzydeadyet7336 he said he prefers not to have to ask questions and appreciates when people just talk. Thanks for listening 🩷
Editing is a factor, too. He knows most prefer to hear just the main speaker, so I think he edits some of his questions out occasionally.
Mark has said before he likes the interviews where he don't have to ask any questions at all. He prefers it that way I believe.
@jamiegoodwin58 yes. That's what he told me.
Such a beautiful articulate intelligent woman , I can’t understand how she is still alive , I wish Christina all the best ! Please write your story 💜
Christina please do not blame
Yourself for your fathers passing alone. You are only human and were dealing with a tremendous amount of childhood wounding. You did what you had to at the time to survive. I pray you find healing because you deserve it. You did nothing wrong. ❤
I appreciate this comment. I am deeply saddened that my dad died alone on his bathroom floor. I have so much guilt.
@@C_D_ROD It wasn’t your doing. He did it to himself. Consequences of his choices.
Sometimes is best for some people to not be in our lives.
I have a daughter who I wish she would just stay away from me and I put up with a lot because of her kids, my grandkids.
I have a sister who complains about her daughter being estranged but truth is she was a terrible mother to her and she prefer to keep her mother out of her life but my sister fails to recognize and accept.
I would prefer my daughter to do that too but she doesn’t. She complains about me being a bad mother. She has problems and likes focusing on anything bad and imagining things that happened to justify her choices.
I continue doing so much for her and she can’t see it and is never happy and continues making bad choices and being toxic.
I hope you get the point here. Again, I actually do things because of my grandkids. There is one terrible mother in this story and it is not me. Anyway. I wish you well, keep making good choices and let go of the people who doesn’t want to be around you . There is much more peace and happiness when there is no toxicity around you. Strive for it.
First time I cried listening to a story on this channel. What of a woman, survivor, mum and a beautiful human. Much love to Christina
Same , bawling like a baby .
Oh honey, you are not unlovable. You survived such a difficult childhood and I am so so proud of you for moving away and focusing on you & your health. I wish you all the best ❤
This was a really interesting story. She told her whole life she is a really good story teller,I hope she is able to write a book one day about her life. It's worth hearing about. I wish you all the luck,love an support in the world Christina you deserve it all .❤
Thank you and thank you for listening ❤️
She really is lol I died at “tribal rite of passage”
AND whether you realize it or not, on top of everything you are beautiful!
@kimlenz1661 awe thank you so much 😊
@Christinar1424 wish there was a way we could be friends, you have the qualities I look for .. Wishing you much love and peace ❤
Christine you are a delight. I grew up near Hartland in the 1980s. Detroit was like living in Rome. In the height of the Auto boom all our parents worked for one of the “big three”. My parents were descendants of very traumatized Polish immigrants. I had a very similiar upbringing as you. I was in your sister’s position in our family. You had me in tears at different points . Like you, I retained a sense of humor to be able to endure my life. I see you (and me) as rays of light to give others hope. God bless your sweet heart. I’m Your sister from another mother. Thank you so very much. 💜
We moved there in the late 80s. What year did you graduate? My sister graduated in 87
I am from Novi. Hartland was in our sports conference in high school. I’m a bit older than your sis. I was the oldest and unfortunately scapegoated at 15 when I tried to individuate in puberty. My mom was emotionally immature and enmeshed with her three daughters. After the divorce, I was estranged from my sisters and lived alone with my volatile dad in Walled Lake. He dropped me off at Novi High school every morning before he went to work at Ford motor. I waited outside for the janitor to arrive in early morning to open the doors so I could get warm after a 30 min wait. There was no bus route available. I have been through profound trauma all through my adult life. I made some poor choices for sure. I did however live in Europe for five years and traveled internationally in my twenties. I am in 12 step recovery for Eleven years now. It’s sad that the whole family is estranged currently. My family are the people in recovery. Trauma therapy is gut wrenching…. many moments. Grateful that I have a heart of gold through it all, and can experience a true deep belly laugh. That in itself is priceless to me. Thanks for reaching out. Heaven help us all …..in this tribe. 🌎
She has so much compassion for the people who didn't ever have compassion for her. Bravo Chritina
Thank you for watching ❤️
Dear Christina, thank you for sharing your story. The traumatic and brutal childhood you lived is so incredibly sad and horrific. Your face lights up when talking about your son, your therapist and your plans for the future. I wish you all the best on the rest of your journey through life! ❤❤❤
What a sweet woman, Christina definitely deserves the love and happiness shes searching for
Wow! What a strong person she is. Go girl, you deserve a good life, filled with love.
Christina, i dont know if you're reading this, but your interview had my undivided attn!! Just Wow! It's an unfortunate and sad story... but you've told it with class and dignity. I am so happy you're in therapy. I wish you so much love ❤️ and support. Best wishes to you and your son. You're a great storyteller, WRITE a book. It's a good start! Many blessings 🙌 sent!!
I'm here. Reading every comment 😊
Thank you for your kind words and support. I'd love to publish a book some day. Easier said then done though. Thanks for listening.
I was NOT expecting Muskegon, MI to show up in one of these videos. I was born and raised there. Then again, one of the reasons I watch these videos is because I experienced a lot of trauma growing up in rural/small town Michigan and it's cathartic to hear some of these stories, like I can relate to a lot of these people due to my own fucked up life. I'm 38 now, but I left when I was 19 and never went back except when my mom died when I was about 24.
Such a small world and even smaller city. Thanks for watching!
@phorrestnightshade4397, my cousins live in Grand Rapids, MI; they have horror stories, one moved to Arizona 10 yrs ago and vowed to never return.
This has to be one of my fav videos from this channel so far! Christina is spectacular! Bravo to her for stating her truth! Also, props to her ability to be such a good "story teller", I was literally glued to my laptop the entire time and could not do anything else until this video was finished.
Thank you so much. I'm flattered. 😊
I started watching this video at work this morning, and with all the times I had to pause, it took me until 4:30. But I could not block away from this video. You were not a bad daughter, sister or mother yet. All of your son to everyone you care about.
Many times
people take advantage of kind hearts like yours. Best wishes!!
Thank you for listening and for your kind words ❤
Wow,what a story. Christina is so likeable and just oozes authenticity and compassion. Thank you for sharing your story ❤
Thank you for watching/listening ❤️
I love how articulate she is, and how she only throws in a four-letter-word where appropriate
I was trying not to but they just happened ☺️
this beautiful girl WILL be happy one day. you can see she has a heart of gold. her issues are NOT her fault. its the actions of her PARENTS/family who neglected her which has made her believe these lies about her self, her entire life. she WILL BE HAPPY and loved by somebody worth her.
Christina, you went through tragedy after tragedy and yet still stood tall and carried on, humor intact, and grit present. You are simply amazing.
In some ways, our lives parallel, and I know you are hurting. But I ask that you just keep going. One day, you will be looking back, and in a place of peace. The turmoil will be a distant memory. Just keep going, and surround yourself only with people who are good, rock-solid folk, even if that means you have only a very small circle.
I am so proud of you. I hope you know how many of us in this audience admire you. Rarely have this channel's videos made me cry, but I sure cried today, listening to your story. Perhaps it's because I, too, have known this level of despair and pain, brought on entirely by the cruelty of others, but in any case, I know that you can put this behind you, and some day have a happy, peaceful, joyous life.
I believe in you, Christina, and I assure you, many many people in this audience are rooting for you.
All the best to you, Dear.
Thank you for the kind words. They actually made me tear up ❤
You deserve to be loved unconditionally.
SHE NEEDS TO WRITE A BOOK! THEN THE BOOK NEEDS TO TURN INTO A MOVIE! God bless this woman! Incredible story!
I agree! I just don't know where to start
@@C_D_ROD I left a comment yesterday, wondering if Mark would allow you to use this video to shop your story around to screenwriters. It couldn't hurt to ask, and he might even be able to give some advice about how to contact a screenwriter. Just a thought.
@karenfryberger4260 I saw it. Thank you for the suggestion. I sent him a text. Didn't hear back though. Ill start searching on my own..not sure where to start. But, I'll start lol
Christina , I’m just finishing up listening to yours interview, bawling my eyes out because i feel you so closely right now. You are not alone and are so resilient and worthy. I want to give you a big hug and say so many things to try and help in some way. Please keep going , learning, growing, you can do this, you are doing this !! ❤ I’m so proud of you ❤
You are so sweet. Thank you ❤
Wow this is by far my favorite interview. I could listen to her for hours and im sure shes got hours more of life stories. Bring her back PLEASE!!
Thank you for listening! I do have many more hours ☺️
You are loved from everyone watching and listening to you right now!!! Big hugs!!! Much love and respect! You're so brave courageous and beautiful inside and out. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I will definitely buy your book!
With all the craziness you had to endure, you have been so brave and you've turned out wonderful!
Christina, When you said General motors I knew you lived in Michigan. My dad worked for General Motors. Then you said Highland I knew you lived pretty close to me. Then you said Pontiac we lived there for about 10 years and moved to the suburbs. My mom wasn’t nice either. So proud of you! Your beautiful and so sweet! You went through so much. I wish and pray the very best for you.❤️
Are we around the same age?
You matter, Christina, of course you do! Wonderful interview, well told.
Some people get the wrong soil to grow, but find enough water to make it, and you did, be proud of yourself. Don't tell your son he saved you, because i think that puts pressure on him, i am sure you understand what i mean.
Thank you very much for sharing your life story ❤
I wish you safe travels.
Thank so much! 🩷
Love this “some people get the wrong soil to grow but find enough water to make it”. I’m going to remember this. Thank you. Just wrote it down in my ‘remember’ little black book.
@@GrandmaLM That's nice, thank you.
Wow! Great interview. She never missed a beat! Marc just sat back and listened like the rest of us. Best of luck to you. Jesus can help you Christina. His love is unconditional and never failing.
@LeaShaw-lf5hv Just stop. If you mythical all-knowing, all-powerful Sky Daddy actually existed, none of the hell that has been her life would've even happened. Your comment is so so offensive, rude, and obnoxious.
He's the only way..amen
Amen.
Absolutely. Amen! ♡
@lisahinton9682 God gave PEOPLE FREE WILL, because he is a loving God, He isn't forceful. Be mad at people for being awful and commiting atrocities, not God ♡
Thank you for sharing your story Christina. I'm sorry you didn't receive the love you deserved and needed growing up. I loved seeing your smile near the end of the video. 💜💜💜
I’m so glad you had at least one woman in your life🥺I’m just sobbing hearing about her braiding your hair….
Christina, sweet lady, you absolutely did NOT make your mom, dad, sister, partners not like you. They treated you horribly. Shame on them! You are worthy of having a beautiful life ❤
Its crazy she still cares that much about her dad even after all of the physical abuse.
Wow ... u pick these Great storytellers Marc❤ ... This is better than watching TV 😂... But it is Great to hear these stories... This lady has been thru it 🙃 She appears to be such a strong person telling her story💪💪🤩 and despite it All she still keeps a sense of humour... She really LOVES HER DAD ... Wish u All the Best Christina 🤗🤩🤩🙏😘😘😘✌xx YOU'RE A FREE SPIRIT, A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN ... YOU DONT NEED A MAN ... GET A GOLDEN RETRIEVER DOG TO LOVE U UNCONDITIONALLY ❤❤💃🤸♀️🐶 Start writing your book for Therapy 🌠🔥📖😘😘😘
Such a beautiful soul, pretty girl that had to endured so much since she was a little girl :( It is so tragic when a child has to go thru the kind of things Christina has gone thru, she is so eloquent, communicates so well, seems like a genuine loving, caring human being. I wish i could give her a hug. All I can do from here is pray, and wish that the rest of her life is happy and fullfilled, her story will help many. I hope you can bring her back in the future for an update :) Blessings and prayers to her from Cali💖
Thank you. Actually spoke to Mark today and I told him I'll come back for an update. Probably next year 😊
@@C_D_ROD Aweee that is great to hear,😀I am rooting and praying for you xoxo
@@C_D_RODLovely, looking forward to it.. much love from me in Northern Ireland ❤
Thank you Christina for sharing. Keep on healing . You are meant to be here simply because you where born and your a light in a sometimes dark world. I wish you the best. My heart goes out to you as a daughter of a dysfunctional home myself. I feel sad for what you went through as I did myself but I’m hopeful and grateful. I’m thankful I chose a path of healing and recovery as well. Hugs girl❤
What a life Christina has had. Amazing.
Mark loss for words.
Can't even get 5 cents in on the action.
🇿🇦. Cape Town South Africa.
Mark likes the guests who can tell their story like this, no questions needed
@@thematriarchy2075thats exactly what he said to me, too.😊
You did well! ❤️@@C_D_ROD
@@thematriarchy2075 thank you! I was so nervous, hence all the ummmmsss people keep mentioning lol
@@C_D_ROD You did really good, and people that comment about things like "uhms" have no idea how it is to sit there and talk about your life. Much love to you, Christina and you will be fine. Be proud of yourself❤️
Oh Christina...the stories we can tell,eh? The memories that we keep tucked up inside for years.Thankyou for sharing.I wish you well moving forward.Thankyou ,Mark for listening.Sometimes we have to be quiet to hear and be heard.🙏👋🐨🌏xx
What a story. As much as I enjoy hearing stories of all backgrounds, it’s nice when an intelligent and great story teller comes through
Girl! I have asked myself the very question that you are asking at the end of your interview. I’ve been to therapy, and I’ve had a trauma coach. You will learn to love yourself the way you needed to be loved when you were a little girl. Love yourself that way. Why give your love and love others that treat you so bad. When you can love yourself even more.
I can definitely relate to the part about some parents who should not have had children. I was in the same era where children were seen but not heard. You are worthy of love and respect Christina, keep your chin up, for you are a beautiful, strong woman. 🇦🇺🦘🩷
I had to pause to cry for a while. At the end of your video, i feel like im left feeling the same, after one traumatic event after the other. Similar life events. Now i sit alone, but im still here. You seem like such a kind and beautiful soul. Keep your heart golden❤ you inspire me to keep going! Thank you so much for sharing your story!!!
Stay strong
This was truly a heart felt story that she told SO well from start to finish. I wish the best for her and I hope good things come for her because she truly deserves it. ❤
What a beautiful soul you have Christina. You deserve the best life and I wish you everything you wish for yourself xx
Awe thank you so much ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story Christina. I can relate to a lot of parts of your story. I was a dad's girl too and my siblings were the opposite for some reason, I was the only one who did not get beaten up by him, and I can't help but feeling guilty about it even though there was nothing I could do. Just know you are not alone and I hope you find all the happiness you deserve in this world❤
Thank you for listening and foe sharing ❤
I wish you all the very best of good fortune and happiness, Christina. I am a carer for my ex-husband, who has Bipolar 2 with PTSD etc. My advice is: keep a close regular relationship with your team of GP, psychologist & psychiatrist. Take your meds, eat well, and sleep enough. Live a quiet sensible life, and aim for contentment. There is nothing wrong with going back to psych clinic for meds review or anything else you need. In-patient clinic is a very important part of treatment. You dont seem dumb to me, you come across as intelligent and compassionate. Your live from day 1 has been a tale of being let down by the very people who should have been nurturing and teaching you. Its not your fault and in fact nothing to do with you. I really hope you can learn that love is conditional: only good, kind, decent folk deserve your love. Your love is a precious gift, only decent folk deserve it.
A tragic life story but so captivating to listen to. My god what a wonderful story teller she is!!
Thanks for listening ❤
Good interview. Her Mom was very insecure and immature to use her kids like that. Mental health issues. Some people shouldn't be parents. I can't imagine being jealous of your daughters...over the love & affection from their Dad. Disturbing. I have 2 daughters who are 34 & 31. I loved that my husband had 2 Daddy's girls. Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊 Her poor sister who had all the abuse from her parents. Terrible. Used as a whipping post. So sad...💔🥺 and getting kicked out of the house in High School. Gosh, I can't imagine kids living like this. Afraid & walking on eggshells & the older one getting the crap beaten out of her. 😳🤷🏻♀️😕 These stories always make my jaw drop. Wishing her all the best. I hope she can move forward from her childhood trauma. Her Mom was a monster. Physically & verbally abusive. 😳😕 Her Dad was abusive to her when she hit puberty. Yikes! What a *hit show. No kids should be put into a life situation like this. At least she did better, after she knew better. So much dysfunction...all around. Everyone had a part in all of this toxicity. How can you make the right choices...when everyone is toxic? What a mess. 😳 She has to set limitations and boundaries with her toxic family.
I had to stop towards the end where she describes moving 3 hours away with expectations of great changes and thought of my dear old friend, TC. He used to say 'everywhere you go, there you are.'
I know the feeling of your sister stabbing me in the back it’s a bitter pill to swallow when you have to morn the death of a relationship you thought you had but never really was
Stay strong this isn’t the end of your journey love and light
This is such an insightful comment… “When you have to mourn the death of a relationship, you thought you had, but never really was” Indeed, we often make it what we want it to be and only in hindsight can we see what it really was.
Westland Michigan... Hello Christina, neighbor.
Didn't expect a Mark vid of someone just a couple miles away.
Hi! Thanks for watching ❤
Only 50 mins in amd have been captivated the whole time. I want give her a hug 🥺
Oh my gosh! My heart goes out to you, you had so much suffering and trauma. Thank you for sharing your story.
Her father was narcissist. She was the golden child and her sister was the scapegoat. Her mother was a malignant narcissist. Her mom was also a sadist.
I love her! I think we should get her sister on here
Facts! I'd love to hear her story!
yea, good to hear both sides
That would be such a treat ,I want to know what resentments her sister Preceived against her .also hope they can work it out I got kind of confused when she said Dominic was gone did she mean to start his life or is he also not talking to her?
Wow, Christina you never got to dictate your own life - ever facet of your life was dictated by others and you never got to be your own person - and everything you did was in defensive response to your upbringing - everything you have done has been in defense of your self.
My mother lived a very similar life and just know if you stay strong it will always get better - she came out on top and has two successful boys and a beautiful marriage of 45 years…one day at a time ❤
You are so strong and powerful! All of these videos drive home the point that broken, dysfunctional, abusive, unhealthy, and toxic family systems have generational effects on families. These neglected/abused children grow up ill-equipped to cope, heal, and overcome the harmful environment we consider childhood.
If you or your partner aren’t prepared emotionally, financially, and psychologically then do not reproduce. It creates never-ending cycles of trauma. Wait until you are ready.
One of the best interviews in this channel, this one really touched my heart.
Awe thank you. That's so sweet ❤️
Christina you are stronger & braver than you think. You are not dumb, you are an amazing woman who has a kind heart. After all you have been through..its now your time to shiine..be kind to yourself..none of what happened to you was ever caused by you or was your fault!
Thank you for telling your story, i wish you all the best in your recovery & happiness. ❤
Christina, How you feel is exactly how I feel everyday. I have given so much of myself to others only to have received betrayal and deceit. None have ever looked back and cared about me. BOTH MY SONS FATHERS I WAS GOOD ENOUGH TO DATE BUT NEVER AS THE MOTHER OF TTHEIR CHILDREN. They abandoned them. I am also here only bcuz of my kids.. i am tired of being alone literally. But I have accepted my faith to be alone without any one besides my sons caring or loving me. So i just live day by day here.. for my sons.. until the day when they no longer need me.. So your not alone and im proud of you for not giving up and getting up all the times you fall. YOU ARE A strong person and deserving of all good things. Thank you for sharing your story And may god bless you always. ❤
Thanks for sharing Christina. I wish you the best 💜
Christina first I’m so sorry that you had to go thru all this. I have 3 girls that I would absolutely die for and they know it. We as parents do the best we can but then there are people that should have never been parents. You know the difference. Let that guilt go, otherwise it will stop you. Be the parent for your son and the grandma you know you can be, a loving, nurturing and wise mother and a grandmother someday. I’ll be praying for you. May peace be with you dear.
I love these stories when the guest just showcases their life. Thank you Christina! God bless you for coming out on top. My mother has a VERY similar, disgusting family situation :/. Only the strongest can come out above all of the evil!
It’s a human story. Not tooooooo crazy like some of the stories on this channel. But it’s life. And we all can relate to that to certain extent.
Mark portraying human experience for us.
We appreciate your hard work. And all the best to Christina ♥️
YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT, NOT, NOT THAT BAD AT ALL, YOU SEEM LIKE SUCH A SWEET PERSON, YOU DESERVE LOVE AND I PRAY THAT YOU FIND THE LOVE YOU SO DESERVE, WHETHER IT BE JUST A FRIEND OR A PARTNER! YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!!
Having sex to the point where your children can hear it is, in my opinion a form of child abuse. It’s so traumatic as a kid having to hear that and avoid leaving your room or certain parts of the house so you don’t hear your own parents having sex. It’s foul.
Nobody talks about it, it is a form of abuse.
My parents were broke as hell when they had me; not to mention were only 18. You’re telling me that because they didn’t have the space to have enough privacy for me not to hear it (not see it just hear it) that it’s child abuse??? Was a kid that heard it and sorry to tell you it wasn’t abuse. Forgive me for finding this generalized condemnation ill conceived and, honestly, asinine.
@patrickhassing120 there's a difference. My mother had loud obnoxious sex with the door open. While I was awake. While I had friends over. They also enjoyed having me in their bed while performing sexual acts on one another
I have to agree. I experienced this as a child and I am now a 60-year-old woman and I have never forgotten what that was like as a child… I literally remember it like it was yesterday. I think if the parent is compassionate, and the child can tell them what they felt and they can help the child too understand or deal with it in someway, but if that’s not the case, it can be extremely damaging. I was terrified that he (my new stepfather) was hurting my mom terribly and nothing I could do.
I was definitely in freeze mode. Then they brought some man home they had met at a bar and them having been drunk and not able to be decent parents he ended up exposing himself to me.
I think I was about nine years old.
I made up a lie in order to get away from him and got into my parents room and thank God, my stepfather kicked him out, but the damage was done.
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I think it’s interesting… but I do notice that this is a man commenting on a woman’s experience as a child.
I think those are two are very different experiences. I experienced something very similar to what the woman is describing above that you responded to and I have to say that I experienced it in the same way she did.
So this may be a matter of different perceptions of little girls vs little boys.
I’m from Hartland!! I hope you are doing well today and better everyday. Thank you for sharing. I think about all of these stories all the time. Thanks to you to as well mark for giving these people a voice. Real cool man
Are we around the same age? I lived there until about '93
Chris I am so glad you shared your story with all of us‼️ Hope Mark will do an update
Get that book going!! You are such a good story teller. You will accomplish great things!!
What a brave soul you are, Christina! It takes courage to heal and do the hard work after what you have been through. You have so much light and warmth despite the way you were treated by your family. Be good to yourself.
You Got this GIRL! I see it. Your free now. Let them go. Bravest, smartest, strongest woman.... A drug family, though you love them...That is what toxic does. Your healed..I see it. Pain is pain... that's what it is... just pain...Not you Your good..go with God.
Christina, you are not unlovable, you are not the dumb one, you didn't make all the bad decisions, you weren't a horrible daughter... Just the opposite! You were the good one out of the bunch. The good ones a lot of the time get the shittiest end of the stick! Your parents did awful by you & your sister growing up. They were miserable individuals and they never wanted to take accountability for their fuck ups so they took it out on y'all and then when your sister was out of the picture, it was all on you then! In my opinion, you were/are a daughter anyone would be blessed & proud to have! You are an incredible woman, you're hella intelligent, loyal to a fault, beautiful inside & out and SOOOO fucking strong!!! I know you don't feel strong and strangely, there can be a super fine line with that. Sometimes in our mixed up minds, hearing that we're strong can make us feel worse or very pressured... if that makes sense to anyone? That may not be the case with you, but it's been my personal experience at my darkest times. But realistically, it's still good to know that people notice that strength in us! I listened to your interview from beginning to end and it touched my soul. Thank you for sharing. I hope it helped you to do so and i pray that you're able to turn all of your pain into something so unbelievably wonderful for yourself. You deserve every bit of happiness, inner peace & blessings that life and the Lord has to offer! Just ask Dominic how wonderful you are, he'll tell you! I'm certain that young man loves you & believes in you with every ounce of his being... Best mom ever! Much love to you both.... Looking forward to an update in the future! 🩷🙏
Firstly, sending you a big hug Christina!
You are truly amazing,beautiful inside and out...keep going, don't ever give up, you've come this far.
True saying: when you hit rock bottom,there's only one way to go and that's up.
It's your time now to concentrate on YOU!
All the best wishes to you ❤
What a sweet soul, I’m so sorry for all you endured. I listen because I can relate. You were amazing!
❤😘🙏🏼 dear Christina ...sending you so much Love and prayers and compassion to you and yr son 🙏🏼 as is discussed many times on SWU, "your story" is again such an important reminder or a "tale of consequences " of the effects of childhood Trauma, and why parents need to be so aware of the consequences of their behaviors around their children!😢 I understand so much of yr story, but it is brave of you to share yr story and I am so so glad that you've gotten therapy, support ,help and are Smiling!!🎉❤ so brave for you to continue to champion 'the voice of children' and why they should be protected, Loved and cherished. Wishing you and your son the very Best in your next chapter of your journeys xo tara 🇨🇦
Very difficult story but very happy for the conclusion of resilience and positivity. Thank you Mark and guest.
You have overcome so much! I wish you and your son a peaceful life going forward. Thank you for sharing your story
You know what, I just love her...😊❤
My favorite comment lol. Thank you for making me smile ❤
So your grandparents hated your dad because you say they were racist but it couldn’t have been because he was dating your mum who was well underage?
Damn! For reals 😅
More than one thing can be true simultaneously.
I stopped watching right there.
Gen Xer here... Yes, somehow this makes sense in the minds of many boomers.
crazier things have happened my guy
You have amazing clarity/introspection about your life experiences. Thank you for giving such an honest interview. It could not have been easy for you to dig that deep on camera. My hope for you is that this becomes another chapter in your book of healing. You have such a sweet soul ❤.
Christina, l pray that you are still doing well, you had two of the worst possible parents but despite or maybe because of this, you have turned out to be a lovely, compassionate lady. Keep going and l feel strongly that you will succeed and find someone who will love you properly, as you deserve to be 🙏❤
Thank you ❤
Cristina i pray that you find a life partner who loves you unconditionally. You are not unlovable. I believe we pick ppl that arent good for us. God Bless You & thank you for sharing your story❤
Thank you Christina for sharing your story. No child should have a terrible childhood. You told your story well and I wish you so much happiness and love in your life. I live in Kalamazoo, MI.!!!❤😊
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Christina, you are an incredible storyteller! You are so beautiful and strong, I can’t honestly believe all the unimaginable things you had to endure from such a young age. Your ability to look past your family’s horrible abuses and remain so poised and stable in such chaos is incredible. My heart breaks for you 💔 You deserved unconditional love from your parents, as every person does, and it is shameful that they were not able to see that you gave it to them regardless of their downfalls. Thank you for sharing your truths.
I am a 71 year old woman, and all I can think about is braiding Christina's hair. You have a hard life, Miss Christina.I wish you health and happiness from here on out.❤❤❤
Love is always worth it despite all the bumps in the road. You have more strength than you know and a loving heart most important of all. Wishing you all good things moving forward.
Sending you so much love Christina. Thank you so much for sharing your story. You deserve so much love🩷🫶🏼⭐️
I have never heard a sad story ever in my life. The one thing that you didn’t do is choose yourself first. Self love darling. Everybody around you chose themselves.
You really needed to listen to the whole thing for the messages. I wish you peace, love, and prosperity.
Understand. My monster mother abused me on a scale only a few know; locked in closet, tortured, hogtied, starvation, forced drugs, complete isolation from all people, etc. THEN gave my 14mo old baby two black eyes. Received an IFP & state victim protection program but no jail time b/c she had the means by fraud to hire the best attorneys at that time. Now I don’t have a family either; just my son & I. Learned beauty plus financial success is both a blessing & curse because you can’t trust anyone. I spend my days alone in a dark room with no hope for the future. Sending ❤💪🙏
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You need to be interviewed
You told your story very well. My heart goes out to you, and I wish all the best for you.
You are amazing, Cristina. Be proud of the beautiful human being you've became despite all the suffering, abuse and pain you went through. I wish you all the best from the depth of my heart ❤️
I was so enthralled from your story telling. Your child and adult life experiences are unspeakable for anyone but you survived it all. I really do think you should write a book. The therapy from it would help immensely. I hope your son is doing good. I wish you both happiness and peace. Stay strong and God bless you. ❤❤❤
Thank you so much! Thanks for listening ❤