Houseplants That I Don't Bother Buying Or Growing Anymore

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  • čas přidán 10. 06. 2021
  • Today I share some lessons I've learned the hard way, so you don't have to! Or perhaps you're already in the process or learning yourself... Thanks for watching!
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Komentáře • 847

  • @SJ-yu5zk
    @SJ-yu5zk Před 3 lety +996

    "they're a piece of garbage.. I love them aesthetically, I hate everything else about them"
    - Me, thinking about my ex

    • @magdalena2238
      @magdalena2238 Před 3 lety +32

      Sometimes the 'I love them aesthetically' part is not even true.

    • @emmy8009
      @emmy8009 Před 3 lety +31

      And the “their behavior is absolutely piss poor” after fit perfectly 🤣

    • @tynouiy
      @tynouiy Před 3 lety +2

      🤣🤣

    • @christinebeames2311
      @christinebeames2311 Před 3 lety +7

      Once you are Indifferent about them , you know your truly over them ,it can take years for the rage and sadness to go completely

    • @aminahgomez8553
      @aminahgomez8553 Před 3 lety

      😂😂😂

  • @ninamodaffari1412
    @ninamodaffari1412 Před 3 lety +276

    my pothos: oh? you forgot about me? well it doesn't matter bitch, I don't care. I don't need water, care or love. I will thrive without you
    my maidenhair fern: T_T you looked at me weird now I'm gonna die

    • @Cutecat689
      @Cutecat689 Před 3 lety +1

      🤣

    • @liviatozzi
      @liviatozzi Před 3 lety +1

      😂😂😂

    • @LoriFahy
      @LoriFahy Před 3 lety +6

      yup maiden hair.. it just drops dead with a look.. even if u look at it lovingly, .. it has a suicide mission to die :(

    • @Harmony-pi4ty
      @Harmony-pi4ty Před 2 lety +1

      @@LoriFahy they just need water everyday or every other day and they’ll reward you

    • @Galemor1
      @Galemor1 Před 2 lety +1

      I love pothos, just because they give so much, and if you give them a little, they give you even more.. 😍

  • @KatDatura
    @KatDatura Před 3 lety +469

    This is so funny because most of these plants are my personal favorite *because* they're so needy lol. I like having something to pay lots of attention to and I tend to kill plants that are considered "easy" because I fuss with them too much. My year old majesty palm is putting out new fronds like nobodies business, but she's most certainly a diva.

    • @nicolekelly7580906
      @nicolekelly7580906 Před 3 lety +47

      I used to be just like you until my collection got up to 33 plants & like a moron I transplanted them all into terra cotta to match the rooms tile they’re in & now I have to water them like every two days. They’re all doing really good, but I’m getting tired of constantly watering them.

    • @Fire-Queen
      @Fire-Queen Před 3 lety +31

      @@nicolekelly7580906 I have had the same experience! I loved the look of terra cotta with the rest of my decor. but plants soon died... I learned that terra cotta outers, with plastic inners seems like it might be the best solution, hope it's available for you?

    • @reizak8966
      @reizak8966 Před 3 lety +13

      I have a mix of needy and easy plants, I just try to make sure I don't helicopter my plants that don't want to be fussed over. 🤣

    • @Shinelikealways
      @Shinelikealways Před 3 lety +3

      Same here!

    • @malindarayallen
      @malindarayallen Před 3 lety +27

      You're smart to know what kind of plants work with your parenting style. It's the most important thing.

  • @lovableasshole
    @lovableasshole Před 3 lety +188

    Title of the video should have been Nick Unpacks His Trauma 😅

  • @vlong7112
    @vlong7112 Před 3 lety +252

    "they're a piece of garbage.. I love them aesthetically, I hate everything else about them" 😂

  • @starry-mantle
    @starry-mantle Před 3 lety +224

    me, watching my second calathea white fusion die a slow death: why did I do this to myself.

    • @Fire-Queen
      @Fire-Queen Před 3 lety +1

      Why is it dying???

    • @tristanchung8831
      @tristanchung8831 Před 3 lety +4

      Why your plant budget must be huge. They are so expensive that when they die it’s painful in my heart as well as my wallet

    • @Fire-Queen
      @Fire-Queen Před 3 lety +14

      @@tristanchung8831 maybe it all depends on where in the world you are. In the Netherlands and Indonesia these have been tissue culturered like crazy, and 3 sorts are available. (White fusion, white tiger and Louisiae.)

    • @tristanchung8831
      @tristanchung8831 Před 3 lety +3

      @@Fire-Queen that is true price is only dependent on local retailers.
      Over here in the UK white Fusion Calathea sell for around £70

    • @niko7996
      @niko7996 Před 3 lety +10

      For some reason calatheas and marantas do fine for me. I have a calathea dottie was almost dead when I bought it (marked down at a big box store). It only had two leaves that were covered in pest damage. Gave it some love and it doesn't even look like the same plant anymore, it's growing like crazy. I also have a lemon lime maranta trailing down the side of my tv stand that's doing very well.

  • @PaintFae
    @PaintFae Před 2 lety +19

    I only got into plants a year or two ago but my mom always had plants around the house growing up. Except she had like 10 majesty palms, half of which came in for the winter and went out in the summer and lived for YEARS. When I tell you that gave me unrealistic expectations for when i moved out and bought my first palm to make it "feel like home".....thing died in a month. I was shocked. I thought they were hardy. Turns out my moms just a magician.

  • @linwong1494
    @linwong1494 Před 3 lety +101

    13:10 "growing out of cracks in the sidewalk I'm sure in areas of the world"
    You would be very correct. Here in asia, maidenhair ferns are found around the mountains as weeds lol. My apartment parking lot has some growing out of cracks in the wall and I've gotten some weird looks from our security guards when I tried pulling them out of said wall lol. Which is why I find it a bit sad that it's got a rep as a diva when really the most demanding part is high humidity and frequent watering, which admittedly, is much harder to maintain for plant friends over in drier countries.

    • @MarisaAndChew
      @MarisaAndChew Před 3 lety +4

      I had one and i wanted her to love me. I set up a humidifier I watered her daily, I set a timer on her light... and she was like "ur not good enough for me" and died... Even her humidifier was on a timer! Meanwhile I live in one of the colder parts of Canada and I have a citrus tree in the same room and it has been alive for 3 years and has produced fruit two of those 3 years... I would have thought if I could grow a citrus tree that the maiden hair would be a breeze! This said, I would definitely try another if i found one with a good price again! I had only paid about 4 dollars for her. I think maybe she was overly coddled and didn't get a chance to be an independent woman :P

    • @linwong1494
      @linwong1494 Před 3 lety +7

      @@MarisaAndChew perhaps it was a problem with fluctuating temperatures? I've noticed that these guys only pop out of the walls in the beginning of summer/late spring when we get storms coming in and the heat is about 26c° to 30c° in the day in bright shaded areas. Once it gets drier than 65% humidity and the temperature drops to below 25c° they immediately die back or struggle real bad. Not to say they are dead though, the same ones sprout from the same cracks once spring/summer rolls around again. I hope you manage to find a reasonably priced one and succeed this time! :)

    • @MarisaAndChew
      @MarisaAndChew Před 3 lety +2

      @@linwong1494 the room i have it the indoor temp doesn't fluctuate more than maybe 4 degrees all year but its more like 18-21 so it could just be far too cold for it! I wonder if the one I got was ripped from a natural habitat potted and sold or if it was raised in a nursery its whole life. It was quite small. I know there are import/export laws on plants but a lot of people get around them. I did get it at a real store not ebay or somewhere though. Maybe I shouldn't give one another try since I keep it so cool in here year round. Or, maybe I should look for one that is much larger and established. This was a 4 inch pot and not overly large but was healthy and had a lot of growth, perhaps it was just too young and tender for my temperature though! Oddly, I never see them in our garden centers in summer when it is actually 26-30 outside! Grrr

    • @geetak1006
      @geetak1006 Před 3 lety +2

      I live in Vancouver Canada and have pretty mild winters.. i actually put one maidenhair fern outside last summer since the soil was getting flies because of so much watering. I though it had died down in the winter but i was pleasantly surprised to find that it is growing new leaves now. Meanwhile my indoor ferns are dying :(

    • @elly512
      @elly512 Před 3 lety +2

      Where I live it’s about 60% humidity in the summer and 80% in the winter and my ferns STILL get crunchy because they want more humidity. I ended up putting them on a window sill right above my 20 gal fish tank (lidless) and they are doing much better now. But I swear with the level of humidity they want they should just become aquarium plants 😂

  • @nikkyoyinlola920
    @nikkyoyinlola920 Před 3 lety +153

    Disclaimer- I live in Nigeria... palms are easy plants. They just don't need that much care, but then, we tend to leave them outside, in their natural state. No one here would dream of putting a Majesty Palm indoors, eg. They're huge! But the smaller palms, parlor, kentia lady palms ,etc are dead easy indoors here. Episcias are a dream plant. They never die.

    • @MsTriangle
      @MsTriangle Před 3 lety +21

      yes, because that's their original home. While in Europe or in the US...that's a different story

    • @jannertfol
      @jannertfol Před 3 lety +7

      I have a parlour palm that is about 6 feet tall. I keep it in a centrally heated sitting room, next to a now-defunct fireplace, lit only by an eastern-facing picture window on the other side of the room! However, when I bought it 30 years ago, it was just a tiny 6-inch high plant. It IS slow-growing. And I nearly killed mine by underwatering it. I must have read somewhere that it's best not to water palms too often! Anyway, once I realised my mistake, I started drenching it nearly every day. I also repotted it into a larger, taller pot. It rewarded me by putting on a foot or two of height and bushiness in about a year. It now flowers regularly as well. It's a great plant, and not hard to care for, if you don't mind waiting for it to become jungle. But don't stint on the water.

    • @bumbygrl
      @bumbygrl Před 3 lety +7

      Same here in Florida everything thrives outside, you put it inside it dies.

    • @yespls4184
      @yespls4184 Před 2 lety +1

      They're super susceptible to spider mites if you keep them indoors-- when they're outside, there are other beneficial insects and environmental factors that keep them in check

    • @sandy_carpetsthesecond5013
      @sandy_carpetsthesecond5013 Před 2 lety

      I think Ponytail Palms are good for more dry areas, but that's because they're pretty much succulents with how absolutely chunky their trunks are. The only issue is that they're slow growing, and that you can't play with their leaves despite wanting to ruffle them up every time you look at them.

  • @mirnazelaya430
    @mirnazelaya430 Před 3 lety +40

    I live in Central America, and it's soooooo humid. So, I have beautiful calatheas and marantas. But they can be such divas.
    And yes, ferns here grow in street cracks and forests... 😅😅😅

    • @calmaconejo
      @calmaconejo Před 3 lety +2

      Yes!
      Yo tengo de todos modos un mini humidificador alrededor de todas mis prayer plants para asegurarme que sean felices haha

    • @calmaconejo
      @calmaconejo Před 3 lety

      @L. P. aww haha

    • @sloeberdoet
      @sloeberdoet Před 3 lety

      high humidity may be healthy for plants for humans between 40% and 60% is better for the health. Above is too high and under is too dry.

  • @lost_in_conversation7988
    @lost_in_conversation7988 Před 3 lety +69

    "Beautiful person that turns out to be apocalyptic." That's fucking poetry lol.

  • @RuubinSelena
    @RuubinSelena Před 3 lety +46

    I bought a maiden hair fern at a grocery store almost two years ago and have had it planted it in a clear glass bowl/vase with no drainage, western window, and it has gotten MASSIVE! Don't give up on maiden hair ferns, just keep them soggy, not even moist but soggy! That's what I do anyway 😂

    • @patriciawhite1206
      @patriciawhite1206 Před 3 lety +1

      Inwant to try one they are on sale right now but just know I'll kill it

    • @leslieparsons408
      @leslieparsons408 Před 3 lety +2

      @@patriciawhite1206 I've seen them growing in nature. They are tougher than you think, but they live with water, out of cracks in the limestone.

    • @cabbagesprinkles7322
      @cabbagesprinkles7322 Před 3 lety +7

      My mom has one and it keeps dying, coming back, getting a fungus, dying, coming back again! She said it’s normal and they die off several times a year and hers has grown quite a bit since purchase. She’s a botanist that specializes in plant tissue culture so I trust her lol.

    • @eshepard8565
      @eshepard8565 Před 9 měsíci

      I bought 6 a few years ago - 3 went in the garden, 3 came inside. The ones in the garden didn't even last the summer, but the indoor ones are still going - and one of them has even propagated itself into two other pots! They do get yellow leaves sometimes but they're still doing well enough. I don't give them a ton of light but maybe I'll try more.

  • @jocelyngreger1174
    @jocelyngreger1174 Před 3 lety +50

    Nick talking to the stromanthe trio like a troubled child 😂😂

    • @tristanchung8831
      @tristanchung8831 Před 3 lety

      Is he wrong though?

    • @kincelgarden8536
      @kincelgarden8536 Před 3 lety +3

      This video is the answer to accept that my 4th Stromanthe is going to be buried soon. 🤣😬

    • @noellesercer9978
      @noellesercer9978 Před 3 lety

      I swear prayer plants need to be pushed five to six feet away from a west facing window and given DISTILLED water. They are LOW LIGHT plants! So much fun to watch them move their leaves from day to night 😊

  • @Lorenmcdee
    @Lorenmcdee Před 3 lety +33

    Hey man I said this in your moving post and I have to say it again here
    You are REALLY doing great recently letting your personality shine through

  • @KennaKeegan
    @KennaKeegan Před 3 lety +3

    Okay 30 seconds in and I’m already obsessed with ur energy

  • @_leafylife
    @_leafylife Před 5 měsíci +1

    Nick, I am so grateful for ALL your peperomia videos. Every now and then I rewatch them for a fix of pep love, and learn or relax, and admire types I don't have. Today I'm watching this one while my two small children are busy playing for a bit, I'm sitting in front of my newly arranged peperomia area, with tea and toast and just luxuriating in it all. I would be so delighted to see a current collection/update on your peperomia/peperomia you've spotted lately/wishlist peps, if you have time and inclination to make one (please). I point friends to your channel all the time when they're stuck.

  • @elly512
    @elly512 Před 3 lety +8

    I’ve always heard that prayer plants are really difficult, but ironically they’re some of the easiest ones I’ve grown. Most that I’ve had have thrived. That being said, I like to baby my plants so having ones to fuss over work well. I also live in a climate that averages 60% humidity in the summer and 80% humidity in the winter, which I’m sure helps them. It’s just funny to me because these “super difficult” plants are much easier for me than the “easy” ones like succulents, cacti and snake plants.

  • @lschoenrank
    @lschoenrank Před 3 lety +4

    Stromanthe Triostar is a bit of a space hog too. At night, all the leaves are pointing straight up and it looks so polite. In the morning, all the leaves drop and obscure half of your other plants. I took a time-lapse video, which was fun. I've been keeping all of my tropicals on one big glass table in the living room window, and every morning I mist the whole kit & caboodle, hoping to keep the humidity sufficiently high for the day.

  • @Clutchpearls
    @Clutchpearls Před 3 lety +4

    Nick, I found a secret to the stramathis and a lot of the prayer plants! So I get green moss, put around the dirt section, it holds the moisture in longer which is what the plant wants and loves, it also helps greatly by keeping the humidity up around the plant even during the winter in cold climates that you and I both live in. I literally killed every single plant like stramathis along with other prayer plants until I did this, now they are not only alive but they thrive! Please try it!

  • @MissJoaniB
    @MissJoaniB Před 3 lety +24

    Totally agree about calatheas. I got one as a gift and I'm pretty sure it was a test of friendship. Which I failed.
    Also my majesty palm is slowly dying in a corner in the stairwell. So I feel this very hard. (I wish I'd seen this first)

  • @worthyones
    @worthyones Před 3 lety +69

    I have a simple parlor palm that I thought would be easy to care for. She is currently on my balcony away from my other plants. She will not be allowed back in the house until she decides to behave. I thought about throwing her off the balcony! Does that make me a bad person?😳😆

    • @tristanchung8831
      @tristanchung8831 Před 3 lety +4

      Parlour palms are soo easy to care for though 🤣 I’ve got one that’s been alive for almost a decade now. I neglect it so much😬
      Edit: the parlour palm I have is Chamaedorea Elegans

    • @REEEEDACTED
      @REEEEDACTED Před 3 lety

      LOL

    • @faustineli375
      @faustineli375 Před 3 lety +1

      Same. I think mine got shocked from repotting and decided to give up on life.

    • @rainbomg
      @rainbomg Před 3 lety +4

      I was gonna say, don’t worry it’ll kick the bucket soon enough on it’s own! Lolz I have killed so many parlor palms. They kept sending them to me as replacements or in my mystery boxes from the sill, and I just started giving them to my BFF when they were near death. She’s got that good light and probably sorcery tbh that makes plants do a 180 when they land in her house, although she tends to have a hard time with the plants I normally do really well with. So, a good way to deal with a plant you’re fighting with is to pawn it off on your friend who has the opposite luck with plants as you do, and rehab her butthole plants, and then talk about it with her ALL THE TIME ;)

    • @worthyones
      @worthyones Před 3 lety

      @@faustineli375 hmm, that might be the problem!

  • @hennesseyme9112
    @hennesseyme9112 Před 4 dny

    🤣 These types of vids, never disappoint! It makes my heart smile knowing I am not a complete failure. Brandi and Verrucosum are the ones I will not spend money on again.

  • @marahcamps
    @marahcamps Před 3 lety +19

    After I realized I needed to use distilled water on my maranta, it’s been rewarding me with flowers! Pinstripe calathea on the other hand….so beautiful but it’s all downhill after bringing it home.

    • @ghostprimer
      @ghostprimer Před 2 lety

      I use tap water for my maranta and it’s doing fine. I bought it as a cutting a month ago, and it’s already working on its second new leaf

    • @sandyheredia3027
      @sandyheredia3027 Před 2 lety

      My first makoyana was thriving, then it died.I have another sent for free when I bought 4 of another. I have her in my bathroom window with medium light and humidity.

  • @Anni_Mau
    @Anni_Mau Před 3 lety +22

    I've had ridiculous success with my prayer plants I think. They have never given me a headache, they just grow and I water them about every 2 weeks or when one of them starts letting her leaves hang/ rolling them. She is like an indicator. Then I water her and the others and she perks right back up.
    They all stand very close to each other between 2 Aquariums and about 2.5 to 3 meters away from my east facing window and they're just vibing lol.
    Last year one of them dried out because I was away for 2 weeks and died but I cut back the dead stuff down to the soil and kept watering it along with the others and it just grew back :)

    • @GEOMETRICINK
      @GEOMETRICINK Před 3 lety +2

      Same. I think it has a lot to do with the humidity of the state you live in. Here in eastern Michigan (I live right on Lake Erie) My prayer plants do amazing, always have. In the winter the humidity gets to 40% in my home, but in the summer since were right on the lake it’s very high. I might get the tiniest crispy edge here and there but they still grow vigorously throughout the entire year. Plus you’ll be all good once you learn that perfect balance of keeping them damp, but not to damp, letting them dry out but not dry out LOL. I personally love prayer plants.

    • @Cheezyjr
      @Cheezyjr Před 3 lety +2

      Prayer plants are my absolute favorite- I own at least 8 varieties that I purchased last year. Some species are just so much more finicky than others. I have a triostar and white fusion that I purchased in 4” pots that are now in gallon pots and thriving with almost no brown tips. But my red maranta and vittata have a bit of brown on almost every leaf and it drives me nuts. I only water them with distilled water and they still look like trash. So frustrating

    • @LA-jq3ur
      @LA-jq3ur Před 3 lety

      Same. But I only have three species. Calathea makoyana, C. rubifarba and Stromanthe triostar. I have real trouble with Peperomias which Nick loves.

  • @monicalesser
    @monicalesser Před 3 lety +12

    Putting all my prayer plants in self watering plastic pots and making sure the humidity is at least 60% and getting indirect light seems to have made them all happy. They live clumped together near a tiny 1c cold mist humidifier when needed.

    • @HannahLindy
      @HannahLindy Před 3 lety

      Drop the link please 😫 maybe a new humidifier is what my calatheas need!

  • @backpackingrannie5088
    @backpackingrannie5088 Před 3 lety +21

    I had a really bad day. I say down with a beer and decided to watch whatever CZcams gave me. Which was this video. I've got to say I laughed my ass off. Everything you said in this video I totally agree with and have had the same experiences with these plants.
    I am a chronic over waterer, to the point where my standard soil mix is 1/2 to 3/4 succulent mix, no matter what the plant. Although... knock on wood, I do have a couple calatheas that made it thru the winter and are doing well. Every morning I get up and expect it will be time to toss them.
    Thank you for a great video that really brightened my day!

  • @feliciafelicia6965
    @feliciafelicia6965 Před 3 lety +4

    Ponytail palm. I got one in the mail by mistake and the seller let me keep it. It grows wonderfully in my low humidity home.

  • @Laundrification
    @Laundrification Před 3 lety +36

    For finicky ferns, I find a mulch/soil cover can really help slow down how quickly the pot dries out. I've had a maidenhair fern for about 2 years that's happy as a clam, and I water it every 3-4 days. Aquarium gravel, pebbles, even fine orchid bark can help.

    • @caramelmaru
      @caramelmaru Před 3 lety +3

      Yes! That in combination with a self watering pot, it bcomes every once a week :D

    • @rainbomg
      @rainbomg Před 3 lety

      I’d like to make a comprehensive list of the plants that _want_ the gravel/compost soil covering and the plants that hate it, bc I have had to adjust my snake plant, zz plant, Rhaphidophora tetrasperma, etc. by emergency removal of the rocks after I realized it was a problem for them. They made a little palm I had get mold at it’s base, but I think there are definitely some plants that would love it like a fern. Maybe fittonia? Begonia?

    • @joankennes3230
      @joankennes3230 Před 3 lety

      @@rainbomg Definitely Begonia. And Anthurium.

    • @dolltimewithkayla
      @dolltimewithkayla Před 3 lety +2

      decorative moss is great for this, cute to look at and provides more air flow than pebbles!

    • @rainbomg
      @rainbomg Před 3 lety

      @@joankennes3230 yessss yes very good

  • @annacallisto7491
    @annacallisto7491 Před rokem +3

    Since I started spraying my calathea burlemarxii with water everyday and keep the soil moist, it started to shoot out so much new growth (in winter!!) and it looks lush and beautiful. Just a little tip 😊

  • @rainbomg
    @rainbomg Před 3 lety +12

    I love Nick’s real-ass plant talk.
    I’ve been fighting with these dang peperomias for too long yall, but I gave up on ferns and palms before I even started with them. I’m hard core into vining and trailing plants that aren’t ivy or ficus right now and we are making some decent progress

    • @lev2727
      @lev2727 Před rokem

      *_"I gave up on ferns and palms before I even started with them"_*
      In plain English; you're just too lazy to learn what a plant needs.

    • @rainbomg
      @rainbomg Před rokem +1

      @@lev2727 uhhh yeah dude, _exactly_
      What the plant _needs_ is to *not be in my house* 😜

  • @lisawagner6076
    @lisawagner6076 Před 3 lety +21

    I always thought the Triostar always looks "dirty". BUT, I went and bought one anyway. I have about 18 Calatheas in my bedroom right now, some are crispy and need to go. And the humidity is very high in there and they do get distilled or rainwater. Sometimes you do everything they want and they still die. I have not given up on calatheas yet, but I am getting there. I will never get another fittonia. I have killed several of them. I had a majesty palm that was not doing too bad, until...I got a kitten! And that was the end of that palm. I did miss you last week. Glad your back. I enjoy your videos and sense of humor.

    • @Kirorokat1132
      @Kirorokat1132 Před 3 lety +2

      I've recently discovered Calatheas as a favorite of mine; have four of them and a Maranta. They've so far been doing great in my apartment with a North-facing window. I used to want the Tenanthe Triostar, but then I saw a White Fusion! It's apparently THE biggest diva of the Calatheas, though, so I plan to wait until I'm sure the rest of mine don't die before I get one of those XD

    • @lisawagner6076
      @lisawagner6076 Před 3 lety

      @@Kirorokat1132 I have 2 and I am still trying to figure out what they want.

    • @baylietrout7888
      @baylietrout7888 Před 3 lety +1

      Me and my mom very recentyl got into plants at the same time and we both are drawn to calathea variants and had no idea how finicky they are.

  • @LameTurmeric
    @LameTurmeric Před 3 lety +1

    My mom has had a parlor palm for 10 years. She knows NOTHING about plants. She neglects it, she's never repotted it and it's not even in a pot with drainage holes 😭 and this thing is. still. alive 😂

  • @enchanted_wildflower_
    @enchanted_wildflower_ Před 3 lety +11

    "In summer the humidity is high enough"
    Me: lives in the center of spain, where it feels like the desert during summer

    • @auntylinda7640
      @auntylinda7640 Před 3 lety +1

      In the desert you would need to grow an Adantium under a glass dome! 😘

  • @Dhalpourie
    @Dhalpourie Před 2 lety +1

    This guy is hilarious! OMG. I can listen to him talk all day about how devastating his experience has been with ferns.

  • @Kenzieistired99
    @Kenzieistired99 Před 3 lety +28

    My grandma has a dragon tree palm that she's had since I remember, at least a decade. In that time she has never reported it out of its 16 inch plastic planter, the plant is now upwards of of 15 feet tall, it sits in a giant blue real pot that if I could I would repot it into but our opportunity to move this tree alive was gone about 8 feet ago. It's somehow thriving, we water it maybe once a month because we forget about it all the time back behind the other plants. We've cut it off and let it regrow new tops a couple times and it's multiplied it's tops quickly each time. I have no idea how it's still alive but alas, it fights to see another day. Oh obviously it hasn't had any new dirt in this pot since day one, also not a drop of fertilizer the past three years I've lived here lol.

  • @hooksknotslove1528
    @hooksknotslove1528 Před 3 lety +4

    I love this. As of today, I am getting rid of plants that are too high maintenance. Glad I'm not the only one :) Thanks for sharing.

  • @tessalia87
    @tessalia87 Před 3 lety +4

    In the old grave yard in St. Augustine, FL I ❤️ how maiden hair ferns grow on the old tombstones.

    • @jenniferamundson15
      @jenniferamundson15 Před 3 lety +1

      My mother loves st Augustine. We go to Florida every year (we're in New York). I've never been to the graveyard, I'll have to check it out. I love maidenhairs:)

  • @rileymcconnell3232
    @rileymcconnell3232 Před 3 lety +5

    I love ponytail palms! They store water in their trunk and are somewhat drought resistant.

    • @carrielange2692
      @carrielange2692 Před 3 lety +1

      my cat ate every frond down to the nub, and I was so crushed. it was literally just a trunk with little bumps where the fronds were. Amazingly, new fronds are growing, and even a new sprout coming up from the soil! I could NOT believe it!

  • @eringrim9885
    @eringrim9885 Před 3 lety +2

    Hi Nick! I am a plant newbi and I have learned so much from you!!!!! I was feeling very guilty after killing a beautiful triostar…today I am no longer feeling guilty! Thanks for your brilliant insight! 💜🌴

  • @FishStank
    @FishStank Před 3 lety +98

    “You think they’re the most beautiful person until you get to know them and then they turn out to be apocalyptic”…. Hmmm that guy I dated named logan… that’s targeted at you LMFAOOOOOO

  • @savannahdavis8194
    @savannahdavis8194 Před 3 lety +3

    I almost bought a triostar because it's just so pretty. I read in many places that it was a hard one to keep so I decided to buy a sparkling sarah during a local sale here instead. I just wanted a pink plant for my little collection

  • @dwightcorbett8889
    @dwightcorbett8889 Před 2 lety +1

    I fully agree with your view on majesty palms. I bought three of them last fall. All three are dead and gone. I tried everything I could think of and even did research, but still lost all three. This is the first plant I ever failed with growing as a houseplant. I've grow philodendron, dieffenbachia, Boston fern, dracaena, snake plant, rhoeo, Christmas cactus. Everything has survived, with the exception of the majesty palms.

  • @shiny-dust
    @shiny-dust Před 3 lety +4

    the apocalyptic beauty!!!! the fern forest!!!! i love when you get a little off-topic and weird, haha

  • @vetafields7966
    @vetafields7966 Před 3 lety +2

    First, yes, yes and yes. You named all the plants I smile at when I’m in a store, a nursery or a garden but when I see them go home in someone’s hand I just feel pity.
    Second, thank you for the giggles.

  • @plantjunkie69
    @plantjunkie69 Před 3 lety +16

    Just get some self watering planters! They’re life savers for plants that need consistently moist soil

    • @AlysiaTribeca
      @AlysiaTribeca Před 3 lety +2

      WAIT! Would this make calathea easier to keep?! I love them and want them so bad but I've killed 3 in my 8 plant keeping years so if this would solve my problem then you would be my hero

  • @aniliname
    @aniliname Před 3 lety +14

    If you can get your hands on lechuza pon, try putting your prayer plants in pon and self-watering pots (with distilled water). Ever since I did that, I haven't had any crisping on my five (otherwise very bitchy) calatheas. It also effectively turned my hardest plants into my easiest ones.

    • @picklepirate
      @picklepirate Před 2 lety +1

      🥹 this may save me and my calatheas

    • @aniliname
      @aniliname Před 2 lety +1

      @@picklepirate good luck! I’ve also had the best results when converting stressed calatheas to first put them in water (filtered/distilled) for up to two weeks before putting them in pon so they can recover from the initial stress of having their roots so unsettled

    • @picklepirate
      @picklepirate Před 2 lety +1

      @@aniliname thank you so much for the information! calatheas can definitely be drama queens. My pon just came in the mail! so, let's see what happens. I appreciate the comments

    • @aniliname
      @aniliname Před 2 lety

      @@picklepirate Good luck! Here's a recent video from Plant Friend Down the Street on getting started with pon :)

  • @mattlloyd9054
    @mattlloyd9054 Před 3 lety +1

    Dude I've had a majesty palm for years indoors. Outta all palms for me it's as easy as a parlor palm. It's very resilient when I've let it get close to death I've just put it out in a shady corner on my deck for the summer, water the shit out of it, and by fall it's back to its former glory. Seriously it's been down to just the spear several times. It's also a balance of spider mites here and there to a full blown infestation you never get rid of them all!

  • @frejulundr6851
    @frejulundr6851 Před 3 lety +5

    All my prayer plants slowly died no matter how hard I tried to keep them humid. But a stromanthe I gifted my boyfriend has been doing wonderful in low light and barely being watered monthly for the past two years. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @breannenichols7
      @breannenichols7 Před 2 lety

      My stromanthe literally just gets my half finished flat bubbly water and it flourishes I don’t know how I do it

  • @gleichita
    @gleichita Před 3 lety +3

    My brother's first plant is a boston fern, and he waters it every three days, mists it almost daily. She's thriving lmao (probably because we live in a very humid climate)

  • @plygirlcutie
    @plygirlcutie Před 3 lety +2

    100% right on the palms! When I started getting into plants I was so excited to see such a big plant for so big that I had to have it! within a few months the frawns would turn brown and ugly. It also had spider mites several times before I decided enough is enough and tossed it. I was so afraid of spider mites and it was my first experience with them.

  • @fashion4point0
    @fashion4point0 Před 3 lety +254

    Does anyone else have trouble with fittonias or is it just me? Lol

    • @Nunu1293
      @Nunu1293 Před 3 lety +10

      I keep wanting to buy one but all I see about it is how terrible it is to take care of 😭😭 they’re so pretty tho!!

    • @S73820
      @S73820 Před 3 lety +10

      Me too, I never knew what I did to them that they hate me so much 😂

    • @stephaniewest88
      @stephaniewest88 Před 3 lety +6

      Hate fittonias! It’s in the name, fit! Drama

    • @peaceandfreedom101
      @peaceandfreedom101 Před 3 lety +9

      Worst plant ever

    • @Badgercat
      @Badgercat Před 3 lety +12

      I have trouble with them and Ive never even owned one

  • @daniellekirsch5402
    @daniellekirsch5402 Před 3 lety +4

    I've had plants for years and I've never even attempted buying most of these for exactly these reasons! I know my limits haha

  • @anicesunset2022
    @anicesunset2022 Před 3 lety +71

    Your background is such eye candy 😍

  • @raninisart7963
    @raninisart7963 Před 3 lety +9

    interesting... my mom has been growing episcia for years and years and always considered it a very easy going plant :D but so she did begonias and they are such drama queens in my opinion :D

  • @carolyntulk4437
    @carolyntulk4437 Před 3 lety +2

    It’s funny, I have a majesty palm that I’ve had for about 7 years (and gone through 4 moves) and it’s thriving. It grows very slowly for me indoors but for whatever reason this thing will not die or deteriorate no matter what I do to it! I bought it from ikea for like 20 bucks (Canadian) and it’s lasted me forever. It’s my easiest houseplant to grow. I just find it needs a higher humidity than I general keep my house at, so I placed a humidifier close by and it’s as happy as can be!

  • @SSaaNNddYY77
    @SSaaNNddYY77 Před rokem

    I almost killed my Cotton Candy fern and a Fluffy Ruffles... but I kept them for a challenge! So glad I did. They are gorgeous today. I also have a HUGE Boston Fern. I totally will never buy any Prayer plants again! Agree!

  • @femmebitale
    @femmebitale Před 3 lety +13

    Your piper ornatum taunts me every time I watch your videos 😂😂

  • @alyssalewis8421
    @alyssalewis8421 Před 3 lety +1

    Maidenhair Fern Tip: Use a passive watering rope dangling out from the bottom of the pot, into a permanent water source. I literally never water my fern, and it's been growing great for the last 4-5 months now. I don't do anything for it AT ALL. Planning on doing this with my Boston soon, too.
    Just remember if you use an aquarium as this water source that you do not have any fertilizers or pesticides in your fern soil! It can transfer across the watering rope to the tank and hurt your fish!

  • @dianawhynot2393
    @dianawhynot2393 Před 3 lety +2

    I got my calathea and some of its leaves are turning brown/ dying BUT it has so much quick and new growth since I got artificial lighting and a humidifier ! I love calatheas

  • @rebekahlgonzalez9315
    @rebekahlgonzalez9315 Před 3 lety +3

    Yeah prayer plans are on my do not buy list. I’ve killed too many of them but every time I see one at my nursery I still fall for them.
    I put my first fern in a terrarium, so fingers crossed that works well.

  • @elyselewis2569
    @elyselewis2569 Před 3 lety +2

    As someone who dang near kills my fussy makoyana peacock on the reg, this video is the affirmation I’ve needed. I appreciate the free therapy! 🪴

  • @EnchantedwithPoodles
    @EnchantedwithPoodles Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for this video. It’s reassuring to hear that an indoor gardener with you level of expertise has struggled with certain 🌱 plants and therefore maybe I’m not the worst indoor gardener in the 🌍 world because I have struggled and in many cases failed with the same plants. Thanks again.

  • @Loradeyn
    @Loradeyn Před 2 lety

    I have invested in a big, realistic plastic palm for the darkest part of my appartment. No one notices it's fake, and it always give me a chuckle when people ask me how I manage to keep it alive.

  • @HeatherTheHippyGardener
    @HeatherTheHippyGardener Před 3 lety +3

    I LOVE my episcia silver skies. I keep it in the same window as my orchids and african violets. I care for it as if it's an african violet and wick water it. It's doing great!

  • @blumooo
    @blumooo Před 3 lety +1

    I was looking forward to buying my first prayer plant!
    I have three areca palms and I love them for the growth they have had in the last few months.

  • @myabs06
    @myabs06 Před 3 lety +4

    I’ve had my majesty palm for over a year, in a second floor apartment, in Massachusetts lol it’s in my kitchen that has 3 south facing windows and it’s in a non draining pot, I think that is the trick.

  • @annaluisa660
    @annaluisa660 Před 3 lety +1

    I own a palm you were talking about for three years now and my one is good… I had her a little bit too dark and she got too wet around the root but after changing the pot and putting her lighter she is growing again😊

  • @animalpeeps
    @animalpeeps Před 3 lety +1

    I loved the jungle rambling at the end because I just imagine I'm in a nice little jungle or forest when gazing at my plants 🥰
    Also, I've been having some decent success with my asparagus ferns (just a couple species) by placing them on a relatively high shelf at a shaded south window. I water whenever the soil is slightly dry and they've been doing alright! I've tried mimicking a shady, temperate forest floor for them 😺

  • @TheVikingCarrot
    @TheVikingCarrot Před 3 lety +11

    I have houseplants. I have cats. The former better be easy, cuz I ain't got time for TWO needy things in my life, folks! 🤣

  • @jackiesplanthaven
    @jackiesplanthaven Před 3 lety +6

    The Stromanthe is the only Calathea that I have manage to keep looking great. It flourishes in the bathroom. I’ve had mine for 3 years and it stills looks good. Calatheas though are a headache!

    • @avionterria7855
      @avionterria7855 Před 3 lety +1

      ALL of my prayer plants are in the bathroom 😄

  • @tamihill4856
    @tamihill4856 Před 3 lety

    I have an episcia I have been growing some version of for over 20 years. There have been times I would have given up on it, but it’s from a cutting my grandmother gave me of my great grandmother’s plant. I grow it in a self watering pot to cut down on getting water on it, but sometimes it will get to looking just awful, so I cut it and propagate and start over. It’s blooming right now and is just lovely. 🥰

  • @heathertroynak9041
    @heathertroynak9041 Před 3 lety

    Your self talk through your “fernundrum” was the best part of my day! Yes, I know, it’s not even 8 am yet but I’m confident nothing else will top it.

  • @CK-solutions
    @CK-solutions Před rokem

    Interesting about the prayer plant family. I tend to agree for the most part. I pretty much stay away from Calathea all together. However I've had luck with the Rattle Snake Calathea and Medallion. Surprisingly, Stromanthe Triostar is also one I've had success with - but not straight away.
    Those three survived my Calathea phase, so they deserve to stick around. At this stage, they're about five years old. As far as palms go, I've had continued success with Parlour Palms - and you're right about the moisture requirement. But the thing to credit the Parlour Palm's success is, they sell them in clumps of young plants. Creating the needed humidity, they like.

  • @barbara4944
    @barbara4944 Před 3 lety +2

    Nick, you had me crackin up in this video! Omg! Hilarious! My prayer plants got offended however lol.

  • @pattygaspari-bridges5637

    So glad you filmed thus video again. Thank you, it was very helpful.

  • @cefcat5733
    @cefcat5733 Před rokem

    Trio Star. Same experience here. If I bought one, I would press the leaves and put them in a frame later. Love Prayer Plants. Used distilled water, lots of carrying heavy loads. I might make it with just one plant, figuring out everything to save it. First plant was an orchid. Gave it with new buds, back to the owner. I need a Calethea Dr.

  • @blackcatbitch
    @blackcatbitch Před 3 lety +10

    I accidentally got into calathea plants after finding one nearly dead in a supermarket, got it reduced and brought it back to life, it's been a learning curve but think they just need about as much water as a spider plant, I keep my thirsty bitches in the bath for ease haha

  • @mayfrost5189
    @mayfrost5189 Před 3 lety +3

    I just love my palm, Dypsis lutescens, which has a blossom right now. I have it for about 2 years and it is a easy going plant.

  • @sharoncox1734
    @sharoncox1734 Před 2 lety

    As a chronic over-waterer, prayer plants and ferns were made for me.

  • @Alright_tough_guy
    @Alright_tough_guy Před 3 lety +1

    After three months fighting for my majesty palm- it is dead. I was heart broken. Thank you for telling me this info! I feel better. Ily.
    I recommend a sweet and tiny Bella palm! They’re pet friendly too. I have luck with it in a dappled lit north facing window.

  • @thevahandbook
    @thevahandbook Před rokem

    I have a huge Kentia Palm that is doing really well. It's pretty easy and the only thing I have to look out for is the leaves burning when the sun is too hot.
    I also have an amazing Asparagus Fern which grows like crazy. Easy to look after but the needles drop.
    The only way I've ever been able to keep Prayer Plants alive is to take them out of soil and put them into water. They're no bother in water.

  • @jenat82
    @jenat82 Před rokem

    I have this love for parlor palms, I've never bought one but I am tempted every time. OOOH! I was gonna say I gave up on my dream of ferns too and then I hear you bring up varieties I need to explore. I LOVE ferns. Boston and bird's nest. I dream of a ligght bathroom with loads of plants. I have a tiny bird's nest I literally put in a MOAT of water. In it's small pot with a bigger pot around it with standing water. It's not for me, the fern, it's for my snail enclosure. I am keeping it out as long as I can to let any pesticides degrade.

  • @MosaicRose99
    @MosaicRose99 Před 3 lety

    Now off my list, Ferns, Calatheas, Begonias, Alocasias, Ivy and Palms. There are some more, but to my friends and family who are able to grow these plants with no problem? I salute you. For now I will just enjoy them when I come to visit your house instead, lol.....

  • @Saritabanana
    @Saritabanana Před 2 lety

    My flame violet grows so fast in the spring and summer when out on the porch. It blooms nonstop and I made like 8 new plants from the babies. It's doing ok so far inside. I run a humidifier a few times a week. I hope I can keep it alive until it's time to go back outdoors

  • @13taraliane
    @13taraliane Před 3 lety +1

    I have always had good luck with all my marantas/calatheas/stromanthe. I always make sure the soil is moist, most frequently and just keep it slightly out of the window. Most of mine live in the bathroom

  • @sandyg8794
    @sandyg8794 Před 3 lety

    Hi Nick! Oh my, you hit it on these plants! I've tried some of them and stayed away from others because of what I've heard and read about them. I do have the same problem with peperomias though. No matter how hard I try, they never make it. I do have one that is doing good so far, but I've only had it a couple of months. It is a Nevada and I really love it, so wish me luck! I love your sense of humor, you always make me laugh and/or smile the whole time! Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @horace6851
    @horace6851 Před 2 lety

    The mystery to Boston fern - give it lots of light, even several hours of direct sunlight, and put in the saucer/bowl that always has water. When the saucer is empty fill it back. And I don't mean humidity tray, I mean that the plant is always standing in water. Once you give them light and constant water they are really easy...Before I gave mine away I would put a gallon of water in the 6 inch pot weekly but that was all it needed, really. The mistake people made is to assume that ferns like low light. But ex. maidenhair can grow outside in full sun if it has enough water.

  • @fabycolon4855
    @fabycolon4855 Před 3 lety

    Lol! Too funny- I just pulled this stromanthe Tristar out the garbage to nurse it back. So fussy!! I guess nah, right?? Thx for this video and laugh, Nick!

  • @jenna9085
    @jenna9085 Před 3 lety

    Prayer plants are so DRAMATIC!!

  • @rutasudmantaite9751
    @rutasudmantaite9751 Před 3 měsíci

    I’ve had my majesty palm for 3 years and it has tripled in size. You’re totally right about the light and water but otherwise it’s pretty easy going

  • @qctropicals
    @qctropicals Před 3 lety

    Browning of the leaves is due to transpiration burn. These plants are unable to regulate their temperature when the humidity is low. Areas furthest away from the trunk, main stem run out of water first and burn (leaf tips). Higher humidity will prevent this from happening but you will also need heat. Another problem people encounter even when adding humidity is temperature. Most people run air conditioning indoors and this is another reason why these plants don't thrive in most houses. We keep our Calathea's outside here in Arizona even in the summer inside our greenhouse where the temperatures reach 110F but we also run misters which keep the humidity at 100%.

  • @tammyjohnson7401
    @tammyjohnson7401 Před 3 lety

    Like your honesty. So many rare plants were sold and barely anyone could take care of them and they would die or look like crap on Utube plant channels. I get the challenge but I don't get taking a rare exotic plant and thinking you can grow them in your house🙄🤦

  • @greensage7381
    @greensage7381 Před 3 lety +2

    OMG I was so surprised when you said prayer plant I have had one for 7 years and it is still thriving even though I had it in a bad pot. But that’s just my experience. (Her name is Maisie btw)

  • @altitudeiseverything3163

    Sigh…. I literally placed a plant order that included a rabbit’s foot fern 10 minutes ago! Every other plant on the order was carefully chosen to survive my brown thumb, but at the last minute I weakened, LOL. I’d also love to have a “fern forest” in my home, but have never had good luck with them. I’ll inevitably forget to water them at some point and . . . 😢. I’ll put this one in a terrarium and hope for the best. Thanks for these types of videos!

  • @emmasplantz
    @emmasplantz Před 3 lety

    Couldn't agree more with the prayer plants. They look gorgeous but I can never keep them happy.

  • @awarmwind
    @awarmwind Před 3 lety +1

    I have a Majesty Palm I've had for years, and it's still growing. I do treat it kind of like a fern with lots of water, and it likes bright light.

  • @jennifer_loves_8766
    @jennifer_loves_8766 Před 3 lety

    Watching this video make me feel proud.... proud that I did adequate research before buying houseplants..... I have never owned any of these plants.... I didn't think they would do good in my home

  • @thatonedog819
    @thatonedog819 Před 2 lety

    We've kept a Majesty palm alive for approximately 3 years now here in Chicago area. She doesn't look... Fantastic..... But she's alive and growing. To be fair, most of her damage is because she doesn't have drainage holes and I left her outside in the rain all summer as well as damage from 3 large dogs running into her and clubbing her with their tails. She also has a volunteer coleus in her pot too
    Eta - I sad to say, she has passed of root rot.

  • @petecilione4166
    @petecilione4166 Před 3 lety

    Ugh. Just bought two Boston ferns. I swore I would never own one but it was a school fundraiser. So far they have lasted two weeks living in the bathroom. Fingers crossed. I have also sworn off Maranthas. I finally put it out to die. I bought it humidifiers. Did the pebble tray thing. Moved it around for the perfect light. What a freakin’ nightmare. Happy pride month Nick. Love your videos and personality. ✌️

  • @nguyenhuynh5567
    @nguyenhuynh5567 Před 3 lety

    When you start talking about fern, your cuteness sparks. That lovely