r/AmITheA**hole My Parents Made Bets on When I'd Lose My Virginity
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 10. 01. 2021
- r/AmITheA**hole In today's episode, OP has a confrontation with her bizarre parents. For some reason, her parents are absolutely obsessed with her love life and are terrified that she will become "easy" in college. They call her terribly sexist names, and they even make bets with other members of the family about when she will lose her virginity. OP is pretty sure that her parents are wrong here, but her whole family is against her in this. Is OP the butthole?
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He threw away your socks because they were childish? Throw him away because HE'S childish
Hey Lily, love your content, hope you have a great 2021
Lily, he may be childish, but have you considered this? czcams.com/video/yPYZpwSpKmA/video.html
@@channelnamehere8924 you commented in 2021
Totally.
@@vectorohyeah1163 lol, you're right, thanks for correcting me, still a new year so getting used to typing 2021
If my boyfriend threw away my socks because he thinks theyâre childish, Iâd throw him away
yup. that's a break-up right there.
There's this thing called talking that is very useful in situations like this.
How big of a loser boyfriend does he have to be, to get embarrassed because of socks? I'd also at least entertain the idea of a break up. That sounds way to immature.
Same. I never rarely wear plain socks, and never match them to eachother. Its a matter of personality, not some maturity BS.
@@Shimonotoki I mean... you call me childish because of the socks I wear, but you throw my stuff away?? Goodbye.
@@craftylove5326 that's very Dr. Reid from you đ€
To people who assume white people can't or don't know how to speak Spanish: There is this small European country that you may never have heard of, but it's called *SPAIN.*
And at some point, that little country was a World spanning Empire, a superpower that spread its seed all over the world, the reason why Spanish is being spoken outside that little country, from Manilla to Argentina.
But I guess brown little mexicans don't have the intellectual inclination to learn history!
@@Zamolxes77 >world spanning empire
Laughs in British
@@Epic-pf8od Laughs at stupid: "Arrogant brits, they think they're the one and only world spanning empire."
@Vaughn Imperial Is there any other place called Manilla that was Spanish colony ? Off course its the Philippines.
I feel spain without the S
Family members: **boasting with their life achievements**
OP: **boasts with his**
Family members: "HOW DARE YOU ACT SO HIGH AND MIGHTY?!"
Excellent summary, friend. đđ
_insert "You dare oppose me mortal.gif" here_
Nice
itâs really because they know heâs lying, unless the guy is a drug dealer or won the lottery he isnât a millionaire
@@bostonrailfan2427 no thatâs not true
OP doesn't need new socks. She needs a new boyfriend.
Yep. 100% this.
Why not both?
My thoughts exactly. That guy is shallow and controlling.
[Insert "Why not both?" meme here]
Same conclusion. If she likes wearing silly socks why does it matter? Public imagine should come second to someone's happiness. Unless they're a murderer or the like of course.
1st story,
The grandmother literally endangered OP's brother and manipulated her mother. Then she wants to do the same thing to OP's kid and OP
That grandma is so uncool
She thinks that these children are hers, they're not
I'm honestly not even sure I follow what happened in that story. She took the baby out, just have him sleep on her chest? And why apparently only the boy? I don't really get it, like what's the motive?
Also: Not taking responsibility and showing remorse for what happened, but trying to gaslight op into thinking a real life event she witnessed never happened. wooooow
Causing a person with depression psychological harm like that is the same as punching someone with lung cancer in the chest
For the story of the guy who eavesdropped because he knew Spanish, the girlfriend should be awarded NEGATIVE butthole points because she defended him.
Yeah but she also went off on him about eavesdropping and called him an ah
@@zarahhammer4202 the SISTER of the girlfriend said that. Not the girlfriend
When a family becomes obsessed with a family's member's v-word, then they are toxic and don't deserve a place in OP's life. Women face enough harassment as it is, they don't need it from their own family. She's doing a good thing distancing herself away from them because they're going to turn all her successes into "oh she slept with someone" in order to get it. And if she does find a partner, they'll probably use their bad humor on them too as well as any kids. They think they're so funny they can't see who's not laughing.
I agree. OP need to cut them out of her life
99th like on this masterpiece of a fact
I have no idea how the intend to figure out who wins the bet, but OP could really stir shit with it if she really wanted to.
Entitled Mother: OP, you're SUCH a w**** and s***! I'm willing to bet that you'll sleep with fifty guys on your first night at college! I'll just tell our family about you and THEY'LL agree with me! Oh by the way, I'm getting surgery during the holidays and I want YOU to be my caretaker after my surgery.
OP: No, go f*** yourself, Karen, I don't owe you a damn thing.
Entitled Mother: *Shocked Pikachu face*
Now I understand why they were homeschooling her. Probably ultraconservative parents who think they own their children and trying to protect them from the big bad world out there. They were OK with her hanging out with boys at home, but the moment she's away from their control they go all apeshit nuts. It totally sounds like a control issue to me.
The boyfriend with socks: what a loser Iâm 25 and I love cute socks, heâs boring and borderline abusive
27 over here. I collect novelty socks and my family will even help add to my collection.
I have Pokémon socks from Japan from my uncle and Beetlejuice socks from the mall of America and Cheshire cat socks from Disneyland from my mom; I would have killed that boyfriend if he had thrown out my socks.
(I also love silly winter hats that my mom often buys me on her trips overseas.)
Exactly she can Wear what she Wants too, She didn't care what they Had On Them They were Her Socks He had No Right to Do that
He's worse than a loser. Those were a hobby of hers that she used to cheer up PATIENTS at a health care facility.
OP needs to throw away the BF.
@@spectrelead Yep and him saying she Embarrassed him in front Of his parents it sounded like he just wanted to get ride of him it's so Wrong
Agreed that man is a loser. She should dump him.
He didnât embarrass them they embarrassed themselves.
Yea
And now he knows what horrible, judgemental dickbags they really are. Imagine being so full of hate and bitterness that you can't even keep it to yourself.
I love the the girlfriend was sticking up for him. She's a keeper. Her family, I guess, not so much -.-
You're referring to the racist family, right? The one with the awesome definitely-a-keeper daughter?
Just plain disrespectful to talk in a different language like that in the first place.
One of my biggest pet peeves - when someone is getting shit on and the moment they speak up for themselves, they're the asshole? NOPEEE
âThat conversation wasnât your business!â
If itâs ABOUT me then it IS my business
The Asian architect is definitely NOT a Butthole - his family tried to humiliate him so he flexed...and what a flex.
Considering its Asian they must've been double shocked because to most Asian elders freelance "isnt a job"
Yeah like if the "good mood" is coming from them all being assholes to him it deserves to be killed. Dunno what they expected.
Yeah if he wants a wife and to live on his own I am pretty sure he could get those quick with that million.
Confucius say: Never fuck with an Asian architect.
If I was in his position, I would be flaunting the money I made, because it means that I'm able to one up everyone.
The last story, girl, throw the whole man away. As someone who's been in a toxic and emotionally abusive relationship before, that is a MASSIVE red flag
i agree with thunderwuulf
Agreed. I summarized the story for my husband, whose jaw dropped. He said "That's what we call an INDICATOR!"
Hilariously, my grade-school-age daughter hollered from the other room, "Break up with him now!" #proudmomma We taught her well not to put up with that shit.
@King 150 MAJOR Sus on the bf. He should be an ex like yesterday.
Not even a red flag, itâs a red banner that lights up even more red
More red flags than a military parade in China
Last story:
âWell, good news! I wonât embarrass you in front of your parents anymore because weâre breaking up.â
And they lived happily ever after...
@Kwenci Jones well, she did anyway. He was probably miserable because he couldnât admit he was wrong, and hopefully his parents threw salt in the wound by lecturing him for losing a good woman through such juvenile behavior.
What would be insanely funny is if she maintained a good relationship with his mom after breaking up with him.
"Dammit OP, you ruined the mood by not letting the family think you're an absolute failure and embarrassment! How dare you not be a punching bag!"
Totally ruined the mood!
The housing thing wouldnt even matter if it's the childhood friends home or not. The parents live there. The friend doesnt. They want to sell it, so anyone can buy it. It's not like theres endless supply of big houses for people to be picky where to move. And to be fair, isnt it better if an old friend moves in the childhood home rather than some people you never knew who maybe trash the entire place?
I had a friend move into my childhood home when i moved out with my family and i always thought it was super cool tbh.
Yeah. Would that person think a random person buying that house was "stealing his childhood"? I just guessing, but maybe the friend isn't happy about his parents' decision to sell, knowing he can't visit the childhood home again. And since he can't lash out about it at his parents, he found a good substitute in op.
You are quite right.
I would actually feel like I would see the situation more in a perspective of "I'm glad a friend is buying it", so it is far more like that OP is *protecting* their friend's childhood.
@@annika5893 Agree, but if the friend bought it, he actually could come and visit his childhood home. It would be weird visiting if strangers lived there.
Imagine if criminals were like "The police weren't meant to find out about that bomb. It was private. If we'd have known they were watching we wouldn't have done it"
@@anjafrohlich1170 exactly
Perfect analogy!
Gf's sister: *gossips about someone right in front of their face, and assumes they wont understand a language because of their race*
Also gf's sister: "You shouldn't listen to what I'm saying about you, right in front of your face."
for the sock story: those socks are usually about 15$ because they donât sell as well and are more intricate to make. if she had exactly 30 pairs (mind you this is excluding tax) he wouldâve thrown away FOUR HUNDRED AND FIFTY DOLLARS worth of sucks ($450)
The woman with the socks needs to dump that controlling man. He thinks he can decide what she wears, soon he will ramp up that into worse. It always starts small with men like that. Dump him, please.
Yeah that's such a huge red flag
@@birdbird8364 As women, society as a whole, we must educate women on these tactics. Thatâs the only way to protect women. I also teach my son how not to be that way. (He is 13, but I have been teaching him for years on respecting women)
My thoughts exactly.
Exactly! It's not about the socks. It's about he complete disrespect for her as a separate person, with her own individuality, and even her own personal property. He wants to control her behavior AND he thinks he has a right to do so, AND that he has the right to control her property, as well. Watch out!
Beware his behavior, should you ever have a financial windfall. He'll claim it all as "ours," and soon enough, it will be "his," and it will go from your money that you can spend as you like to "Ours," that "we only spend after discussing it together," to "I'm the man of the house and I decide how we spend the money," to "It's mine. Get over it and $(^% my 8!(^."
RED FLAG!!!
Throwing away her socks?! Boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife, no one has the right to just throw someone else' stuff away! I can't imagine my wife just throwing away my videogames, my woodworking tools, or my book collection and I would never consider doing that to her. The socks are NOT childish! What that boyfriend did IS! Oh, poor baby got all embarrassed in front of mommy. Give me a break. Besides, at my age, medical visits are very common and a professional med tech that offers some lightheartedness to the visit just makes the visits SO much easier.
You should meet my mom, she loves getting rid of my dads stuff without asking.
AMEN đ
no matter how scruffy his clothes got i never threw away DH's stuff. he did throw away my box of iris bulbs and i was devastated, but it was an accident on his part. he thought the old beer box was just an old beer box. never toss someone's stuff. it's theirs to toss out.
@@jadedragon6222 that's so rude of her
Sounds like a controlling narcissist.....dump him . Not your clothes. In the nearest charity - box. Alive I mean.....
She shouldâve thrown away all of his âregularâ socks and replace them with âchildishâ socks
Disagree. This AH is a DANGEROUS SOB. OP should get him out of her life, and start carrying a weapon.
BF: "Oh, those socks are too childish."
OP: "Then you shall purchase new ones."
BF: "But that will be too much work."
OP: "So the time and money I spent to find those is not valuable to me, yet valuable to you?"
Op: grandmother can't see my kids.
Fam: you're alienating her.
Op: yeah, that's what I just said.
What the son meant was: "I was waiting for my father to die so I could get my childhood home for free & you paid him money for it! Bastard."
Bingo!
The story about speaking Spanish reminds me of something "similar". When driving with a friend, we got rear ended by another car. While we were waiting for the police, the family in the other car started speaking Spanish, telling each other how they would lie to blame the accident on us. I am white and so was my friend. I speak Spanish. My friend knew a few phrases. After hearing their whole plan, I smiled and looked at my friend and asked "Que Hora es?" "What time is it?" He respond in Spanish, but didn't know what I was up to. I looked at the family and smile wickedly, letting them know I had fully understood their plan to tell the cops. The told the truth.
I Love it! Yay for you!
Final story: The socks are just the start, the minor thing to see how far he can push OP. If OP had backed down on the socks, he'd have found something else, like her hair or make-up, then it would've just continued to escalate.
Best solution? Throw away the man.
And prepare to defend yourself against physical violence. Throwing away your clothes is not a red flag. It is a black flag. If you continue to be with him, he will kill you.
This whole "It's mean to not tell anybody that they understand their language and you where not supposed to know" is so backwards. If I constantly insult my friend in english which he barely understands and an other friend tells him exactly what I think of him he is not the asshole. I am.
I live in China and a lot of people assume I don't speak a word of Chinese. It's always fun to see their reactions đ€
Exactly, I thought talking behind someoneâs back was universally an asshole thing to do...
@@mewithyouu Especially if you're talking behind his back, literally to his face, where he's actually a part of the conversation, but you just choose to randomly exclude him from the conversation (rude) in order to insult him (more rude), and then call HIM the rude one, simply for hearing what you said, and understanding it?
What that woman is doing is called "gaslighting," and it's a huge red flag. I say, keep the girlfriend, who stood up for you, and make sure that you don't have to have a direct relationship with the gaslighting, rude, judgmental family members. At least, not until they own up to their rudeness and apologize to you.
I hope this title is exaggerating for once
Nooooooo it isnât
Same
It aint
Itâs not
Absolutely was not. And I hope you enjoyed that story because even I'm so very confused on why OP's parents are super controlling on her, but not her sister!!!
I hate it when someone says âYOU EMBARRASSED US!!â
Then why did you do it?
«You canât just throw away someone elseâs property and expect to get away with it»
My mom: đ€Żđ€Żđ€Ż
I honestly expected the âfirst millionâ story to be about some rich pompous dude trashing on someone in his family not as rich and then asking if heâs TA. Glad to see it wasnât
They sound like my family lol. My aunts decided to ignore me because I moved out.
@@velvety2006 tbh screw em
I thought at first it was about a MLM hunbot to be super annoying and that's how they'd answer
@@hearty0 My thoughts exactly, I had enough people who were more than proud when I moved out, hell my brothers in-laws were proud and they only saw me once or twice a year đ
@@velvety2006 right!!!
Kay let me get this straight. Her boyfriend throws away all her socks that cheer up her patients. Not to mention his mom liked the idea and she bought them with her money. And now heâs getting mad cause he has to replace them. If you didnât want to replace them donât throw them away.
The second story. Itâs none of âKsâ business. His parents were selling THEIR house. They were happy to sell it OP, who they considered part of the family. They agreed (and maybe offered) the discount. If K wants to turn his childhood home into a shrine then he couldâve bought it...but he didnât. In fact he lives in a completely different country. None of his business. And the parents would rather they sold to OP than to strangers.
Ah yes, our favorite internet format: gubibips
I work in IT and now refer to speeds this way. my boss hated me
You know it's fast when it's five gubibips down
Gubibips are pretty cool
@@trustyrat8632 i get 600 kububups :(
@@MK-xc7pl I can relate to that
Half the time my feelings about these are summarized as such: play a stupid game, win a stupid prize
As an Asian, Iâm proud of OP for responding to his aunt and cousins like that. Those kind of relatives are so annoying. I wish theyâd just shut up and mind their own business.
9:31
As rSlash has said himself,
âThey can dish it out just fine but get upset when theyâre on the receiving end.â
The sock one reminds me of the boyfriend mad that the girlfriend was dressing like Ms. Frizzle. What is with these guys not liking fun styles and being all embarrassed by them?
Because they're boring people who don't like fun things, and would rather suck the fun out of everyone else's lives.
Right?
Like if you donât like it, gtfo! Go date someone whoâs style is more to your obnoxious standards then and leave these colorful souls Alone.
Most likely an insecure fuddy duddy who perceives the word adult as nothing more than a term of approval. Anything whimsical in their eyes is perceived as childish so therefore get their jimmies rustled if other people induldge in a bit of whimsy. :P Also most likely wants a mindless Stepford Wife/stereotypical house wife from the 1950's to boot. [Not knocking the vintage but the 50's were a pretty iffy time period since most women were pretty much expected to be barefoot and pregnant and weren't really allowed to do much of anything]
fragile masculinity?
I remember that one. I would love to have a teacher girlfriend who dressed like ms frizzle. I also remember one of this woman who was annoyed that her husband had this insane toy collection, because her friends made fun of it, so she called her husband's abusive father to help her get rid of them while her husband slept. As someone who likes toys, video games, and anime/manga, I personally felt the pain on that one. And the kicker, it wasn't the husband who lost his toys that posted the story in the justnofamily subreddit, the wife is the one posting it, looking for vindication. Though she deleted it after reddit tore her to shreds (metaphorically speaking)
People also act like Hispanic people canât look white, itâs commonly known that Hispanic people have a wide range of looks ranging from looking African American, to European, and even jewish
Yeah but I as a hispanic and mexican to find this acts more in the mexican that live in USA than the ones that live here +for example I live in yucatan peninsula and because of all the tourist movement a lot of the population is really white and have from blue to green eyes (one of my friends have really saturated green eyes and all her family is mexican descendants) is just bad stereotypes, (even myself for example I look asian, people mistake me to be from china a lot lol even chinese people ask me about directions on Chinese sometimes and I'm just like sorry I don't spech chinese but english is ok) mostly I believe is also because of the bad stereotypes that hollywood give about us, and still does,
Exactly, it's so annoying how people think Hispanic means just brown, specially when filling out forms, there's pick your race and Hispanic is an option.
People from Jalisco, Mexico are typically more fair skinned. Iâm a child of two Mexicans but am very easily white passing. Sometimes even other Mexicans are a little surprised to find out Iâm Mexican, but then I tell them my dad is from Jalisco and theyâll usually respond with something like âOh, that makes a lot of sense thenâ, or like âYup, that definitely explains itâ
Yes, usually hispanic is used for people that was born in a spanish speaking country including spaing and latin america... But you are being too PC, european and jewish? for me both enters as white (I'm from latin america), and "african american"? please say black, if is a black person who was born in spain/europe will you call it african american?... What I remember from schooll are 6 caste or races black, white, indigenus, mulato (mixed black and white), mestizo (mixed white and indigenus) and zambo (mixed indigenus and black)...
EDIT: Before someone point it out, I made a mistake too, jewish are not white, jewish is a religion ergo any race could be a jew, is like saying christians are only white, etc.
I also think so Asian as well considering there's a lot of mixed races/cultures now a days.
Also would love to date a Hispanic Jew.
Something seems off about the âfirst millionâ story. Why is op still with their parents if they have their first million? How did they get their first million without passing the exam? What kind of job pays that well without the architecture exam?
It just doesnât seam to add up to me.
I love how after the grandmother after saying she doesnât emotionally manipulate people the grandmother tryâs to emotionally manipulate op
First story: what is wrong with OP's grandma? She's insane. Nta op, your grandma is insane
Honestly, for the house story, f*** the entitlement of that friend. Why is it âbuying his childhoodâ when itâs his friend, but not when a itâs complete stranger? Is it because he canât legally harass a complete stranger?
Honestly, the friend should be happier here since:
1: He can still visit his childhood home since his friend lives there. Canât do that if a stranger buys it.
2: If his friend is good, then he should be able to trust them to take good care of the house. Can be kinda up in the air with a stranger.
3: They should be happy for their friend getting a good home at a fair price.
I wonder if itâs just a bit of misplaced anger, and they are actually angry at the parents for selling in the first place.
Or maybe as someone else in the comment already said, that friend was hoping to inherit the house from his parents
Off course his angry at his parents, but not because he wants to buy it himself, but because he doesn't get it for free. What parent would refuse his child if the child ask: "Mom, dad, I know you want to sell the house, I don't have the money right now, but I will in several years and I'd like to buy the house myself. Fuck it, I'll get a loan."
Something that a responsible adult would do, instead he lashes out at his "friend".
3:08
Rslash: "something like 5-10 GiBiBuPs"
My brain: "Sorry ........ what? GIBIBUPS? it's gigabits per second!!"
"Oh, yeah, sure. You're insulting me, and I'M the one that ruined the mood."
The sock story: The bf better replace the socks he threw away and OP should replace her bf. I have a friend with the same passion for silly socks and her socks are from a dozen different cities. Not as easy as buying a ton of black socks...
I think this attitude is a red flag. Shows disrespect and utter disregard to her feelings
They assumed he didnât sprachen the español because he looked like a gringo. Never assume people donât speak your language. Thatâs a NTA all day.
I know Arabic and English I a! African mother africa
So I learned Spanish in school so idk of I can do any of this right sorry if I'm wrong don't be a dick by talking in non native language
Am I wrong for thinking that you rated the boyfriend who threw away the girlfriend's socks too low, he should at least get a four. As an avid sock collector, my heart hurted when you said he threw them away.
At the Sock Story: Get a boyfriend that gets funny matching socks with you
Imagine you getting Egg socks and he getting Bacon Socks
Cute af
That we get someone close to them wear pancake socks
@@ketchupchan891 some of their Friends Can have matching breakfast socks with Apple or orange juice !
The parents: Lets bet on our daughter to do something that we never have done
LOL
O _O
Wait was she adopted then?
What?
She was a miracle from God
The sock girl should break up with her boyfriend if heâs that petty
She can be certain that he has exactly the same respect for her as he has for her favorite sox. If she stays with him, she will he lucky if he just discards her, instead of destroying her. Best advice is ARM YOURSELF NOW, and get away from him.
If a friend that I know very well bought my childhood home I'd be thrilled. When you'd visit you'd already know where everything is and knowing that your parents house is going to people you know rather than strangers is comforting.
"Your baby, your rules." Exactly. Remember this next time you trash the mother protecting her baby from a psycho aunt pretending the baby is hers.
two of my all-time favourite words from you : "Mebebeps" and "Gebebeps"
Wut?
@@hamzahelal929 it's how rSlash says "mbps" or "gbps" refering to data speeds
I was searching for this comment đ
It is funny hope people make fun or embarrass others and get mad when they have to face the consequences of their actions.
My mom is Latina and she is blond and has green eyes. That's what they get for assuming
My cousin is white, blonde, with greenish blue eyes, and he's Venezuelan like most of my family. That family's not only rude, but also kinda stupid when it comes to their own ethnicity
This is how I think and maybe most people think
If you're talking about me, it automatically becomes my business, even if you don't think so
In the story with the so-called childhood "friend", whose house OP bought, I think the friend was just bitter that his parents didn't overcharge OP. So it wouldn't matter to him if they sold a house to some complete stranger, but if his friend bought it, it's not okay? Not to mention that he wasn't friends with just that guy alone, he was also friends with his parents, who owned that house. If they wanted to sell it to OP, it's up to them to do it. Nobody besides that "friend" thinks OP swindled them or paid too low price.
I heard somewhere in the comment section, the friend want it for free (a.k.a inherit the property) and was mad at his parents for sell it, and lashed on op for buying it
If my boyfriend threw out my favorite socks, heâd have his most expensive thing that he loves thrown out. My socks arenât also as common as sushi or pizza socks and more expensive but still
Can actually find a bunch of cute socks like that at the Dollar Store (if OP lives in America).
Nah, could that could be as easy as rigging a ps5, throw out his collections. If he had pkmn cards, chuck them out. Fair is fair
Sorry but I'm pretty sure socks are less important than something a few hundred dollars or more. You'd be able to find a new pair of the same socks probably even if what he did was wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right. I'd just make him buy me a new pair and apologize
@@justaperson4656 but there are some pretty rare Pokémon cards out there who are worth a couple thousand dollars so i would check first before throwing them out
@@Suchsdirhaltaus it's still a collection. Socks can be the same if they're limited edition/quantity etc. Ik pokemon cards are expensive, I owned a few (water damage killed them), but any collection can be worth a lot.
I love how he says âgibibipsâ and âmibibipsâ for gbps and mbps
iâve been having a really really hard couple of days. i came out to my parents and my anxiety and depression have left me with severe shame afterwards despite the fact that it went much better than i couldve expected. nothing has been able to make me laugh and iâve felt broken. hearing rslash pronounce âGBPsâ made me laugh like a complete fool and reminded me why i watch this channel
In the sock story, OP needs to run and don't look back. His controlling behavior WILL get worse. The socks were just the beginning...seriously!!! OP sounds like she has wonderful playful side and that's awesome!
Oscar Wilde said it best.
"A little nonsense now and then
is cherished by the wisest men."
Words to live byđ
@@executor32 I love itđ
Thanks for sharing thatâ€
If they make bets, tell them and get the money from the bets. You can safely move out, and live a normal life. If they get mad, thatâs fine youâre independent now :)
Oh, yesss.
If they don't know that you know, then it's time for some "insider trading" prorevenge. >:)
The last guy gets 5/5 aholes in my opinion - thatâs such an insane thing to do, and so hurtful to someone youâre supposed to love
Honestly, to the socks one, if I were dating someone and they were that controlling I would dump them immediately, maybe after getting them to replace the socks. It reminds me of this one boyfriend I had who said that girls having short hair was a dealbreaker for him and he didn't like it if his girlfriend had shorter hair than he did. Plot twist: I'm trans now and go by a different name, and I stopped speaking with him the moment he told me that and reconsidered how I viewed myself and how other people's opinions affected me. Not only did it cost time to get all those socks, it cost money, too. He has no right to dictate your life or what you own, and this goes for any other similar behaviors as well.
I love that you're making more AITA vids. Best subreddit in my opinion.
Itâs a good sub, and so is r/Askreddit
Yeah aita is the best
The made a million story:
That family sounds like a bunch of arrogant people that like to brag and belittle the family member that "wasn't as successful" as them or their children but when you flip the situation they act hurt and play the victim. Me and my brother can fully relate to this, because he's a car mechanic (Automechatroniker in German, so not just a mechanic but also all the electrical stuff) and I'm studying game art and design and my family belittles my brother because he "doesn't know what he's doing", at least that's what my aunt who's really not bright says and now she acts hurt because my brother won't check her car again. And except for my dad and brother no one in my family knows anything about computers let alone video games so they don't understand that this is a "real" job I'm studying. Family members should support each other not make one member miserable.
(Btw my brother and I are the youngest people in our direct family with him(26) and me(19) after that it's my aunt(50) so yeah there's an age gap.)
About the story regarding the slut bet:
I'd be furious with my family, because I just can't understand what has to be wrong with a family to make ANY kind of bet on one of their family members. And it's not their business whom she sleeps with or when she sleeps with someone. I probably wouldn't contact them ever again until they apologized for basically turning my life choices into a game for their entertainment. They are seriously just gigantic assholes, especially because her siblings, aunt's and parents were a part of it.
Regarding the story about the funny socks:
A friend of mine also loves funny socks and she gets so many compliments because of them. They make the handicapped children at her workplace happy and she has some happy memories connected with the socks. For example she has a pair of socks with fluffy textured hedgehogs on them from our class trip to Scotland and she loves those memories. The boyfriend in the story is really controlling and kind of I guess uptight, because it's just socks and his mom liked them. If he's embarrassed about something so minor that makes her happy then he should seriously think about that. And I think that she should absolutely demand that he buys the same pairs of socks again because she liked them and had happy memories connected with them. If you can't accept that your partner wears funny socks you should think about what your partner accepts about you and realise that it's just fucking socks.
These people are way too nice and considerate towards these butts. If someone treats you like a piece of crap then don't be kind to them, because that's only going to hurt you (and I don't mean be mean to them, just be indifferent or ignore them).
I apologise for any grammatical errors and such, as you might have noticed english isn't my first language.
1. Erst trash talken und dann sich wundern warum es keine gratis Reparatur gibt uff 2. Mach einfach weiter dein Ding klar ist doof wenn die Familie so dagegen ist aber solange du spĂ€ter dein tĂ€glich Brot damit verdienst, niemanden störst, es dir SpaĂ macht und dein Traum ist go for egal wer was sagt. Hoffe irgendwann sieht deine Familie ein das beide Jobs ob nun von deinem Bruder oder von dir fĂŒr die heutige Zeit schon als wichtig angesehen werden können.
@@Suchsdirhaltaus bei meiner Familie ist es halt auch echt weird, da meine Oma zum Beispiel einen Teil meiner StudiengebĂŒhren zahlt, sie kann sich halt nur nichts darunter vorstellen. Die ist halt echt super nett, aber auch sehr aufdringlich, da sie helfen will. Aber die hauen immer so scheiĂ Kommentare raus. Als mein Opa noch lebte sagte der auch: "Er habe eine SpĂŒlmaschine geheiratet", "Ich sollte doch öfter vorbeikommen um was richtiges zu lernen" aka ich soll Kochen oder er sagte " das hast du von deiner Mutter" als ich eine Fassbrause aus der Flasche getrunken habe, meine Mutter ist Alkoholikerin... Jedoch sind alle anderen aus den weiteren Familienkreis echt nett.
Und btw danke fĂŒr die netten Worte!
You do english better than most Americans & I'm American LOL And also Good for you! Good Luck in your chosen field!
itâs fake
Oh, Honey, your English is just fine.
Gubibups đđ€Łđđ€Łđđ€Łđ I love this!!! I needed this laugh today!! Thank you so much!!!!
Lol at the Spanish conversation one. Petty? Yes! Deserved? Absolutely! đ
Nobody:
RSlash: Gibipes
anytime someone is talking about you, you have a RIGHT to be apart of the conversation. especially if they are saying bad things about you.
As a Texan you learn a couple of words from school and all around when everyone can speak a little spanish to say "hey where can I find a good taco"
Hahaha "gububups" and "mububups" gets me every time lol
I'm pretty sure that last story is an example of abuse. He's controlling what she wears and getting rid of something that brings her joy. Dump that asshole, OP, you deserve so much better
I'm a 35 year old woman and my husband is 46. He finds and brings me home fun socks because I love them; he'll even wear a pair himself now and then. Lol
If my parents sold my childhood home I'd be happy that someone, i knew would take care of it, bought it.
I've been watching you for almost 4 years now, I still wonder how you haven't reached over 10 million subs now. Amazing content dude, keep it up.
On that second story. Kâs parents are already selling the house. Itâs not like they went to his parents and said hey sell us your house. Plus If they sold it to strangers then k would never be able to walk around the house most likely ever again
Exactly, and his parents wanted to sell the house at a discount, it wasn't OP that wanted the discount
I love how people get so shocked and offended when they poke the bear and the bear retaliates. Are people not supposed to stand up for themselves?
The last story reminds me of the teacher story where OP wore "silly" or colourful outfits for her young students, and her boyfriend was also embarrased by it
That last one... Throw the whole man out. AFTER demanding compensation. Get small claims involved if you have to. He stole from you and destroyed your property. If heâs this controlling with f***ing socks, imagine if you got married or had a kid.
The spanish speaking parents embarrassed themselves lol
even if he doesn't like the socks he has no right to touch them?? it's not his things wtf is wrong with people. Throw away the whole boyfriend
I've noticed a lot of people asking if they're the butthole for standing up to toxic family behavior. I'm glad they're getting support online because that's not an easy thing to do.
"ÂżPor que otro gĂŒero?" i laugh my ass out LOL
Huh, he posted the moment I was about to go to bed, having a crap sleeping schedule pays out apparently
Exactly the same here
LMFAO SAME
Last story she should tell his mom what he did since the mom thought it was sweet of her to wear colourful socks to cheer up patients
I mostly learned Spanish by the context of the conversations around me. From taking Spanish classes for two years/getting outside experience, I can hear and read Spanish pretty well. I have a sort of speaking problem, so even English (my primary language) is hard for me, let alone Spanish. (The problem with me is that I know the words to say and how to say them, but when the words come out it's really a garbled mess for the first five seconds until it fixes itself.)
I can still speak okay, but it really pisses me off when people in my Spanish class go behind my back and say I'm the worst person to have to be around in English *and* Spanish. I'm not retarded. My problem is speaking, not hearing.
Don't judge books by their covers, people.
I love how they mention that the conversation isnât the Spanish speakerâs business. The conversation is about him and from that second onward itâs his business
Aunt and Cousins: *Shits on OP*
OP: *Roasts them*
Family: *Surprised Pikachu Face*
There's full blood Hispanics that look like OP in the spanish story.
Also what rubbed me so wrong about the family was agreeing that higher education was "wasting money".
Most Hispanics I have met including my own family highly value education over going straight into the workforce.
My boyfriend is also like OP (white guy is dating Hispanic girl) but my family is very supportive of him and other s/o my cousins have for being in college. That family is fuckin weird.
Maybe they're do stuck in their beliefs that they have no room for personal growth and professional growth.
Well, to be completely honest, it does depend on which college/university that they choose to attend and what kind of education they choose to pursue.
For example, I wouldn't value a doctorate in interpretive dance, politically corrected gender studies, or something like highly enough to waste my money on it.
But then again, I'm more of a trade school kind of guy.
The socks story is so wild to me, like good for OP for making the initial compromise... if my boyfriend told me I wasnât allowed to wear socks I liked I would tell him to place himself in the bin
Boyfriend: *Throws Away Her Socks*
Girlfriend: *Uses His Socks As Poop Socks*
âMy grandmother is a 71 [year old FEMALE]â
Never woulda thunk
DUDDDDE NO WAY!
2021, anything is possible
thunk you
Dat profile pic tho!
Missed that part Lol
Instead of the socks, just get rid of this boyfriend.
He doesn't even think there would be consequences for throwing your property away?
Even if you would throw them away, creating unnecessary waste..., he is expecting you will fit his vision by replacing it with black socks.
There's not a single story that I wouldn't have been knocking the disrespect straight out of someone's mouth
Not the ahole for making him replace the socks. AND tell his mom on him since she liked them đ€Łđ€Ł