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🌊🤿 Dive into the TikTok Sea: Wear Your Diving Gear for this Drama! 🤿🌊
Hey, TikTok enthusiasts! 🌟 Charlotte Dobre in the house, and today we're plunging headfirst into the deep end of TikTok drama that's so intense, you might need your diving gear to stay afloat! 🚀🔥
In this wild ride of a video, we're uncovering the juiciest, most jaw-dropping TikTok sagas that have the internet in a frenzy. From clapbacks to plot twists, we've got it all, and trust me, you won't want to miss a single splash! 💦💁♀️
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I’ll never understand people that brag about cheating. It isn’t cool. It isn’t funny. Just leave if you can’t handle commitment. Also, cats and dogs can be trained to use a toilet 😅
As a guy I do not have one friend in my circle who would brag about it. I do know a handful of guys in the past 40yrs who would but they are the minority.
Not cool
Yep our cat uses the toilet and why in the world did they not contact the parents of these eejit kids?!
I am pretty sure anyone that say anything about litterbox at school are just lying@@sw7833
Cat feces contains chemicals that are harmful to the water system and fish. Do not put cat poop into the sewer system.
They certainly can, but just like as an aside for anyone who doesn't know, it's really not recommended. It seems like a great solution, but it introduces a LOT of weird bacteria into the septic system that it's not designed to handle.
I like how the waitress is at her job, letting this dude who hit on her know she has a BF, and the dude be like "where he at?" Like what is he expecting? Is it take your BF to work day? Is he supposed to follow her every move? Is she supposed to carry her BF in a little red and white ball so she can summon him to fight off other men whenever the need arises? What exactly did he expect to accomplish with that question?
what did she say? i couldnt hear ir
@@LOVEnabiiee she said something about him tipping her $2
Frankly lot's of girls say they have a boyfriend as a white lie to turn men down cause many men will respect another man's territory/property I.E. woman, before they take a simple "no" from a woman. Also the boyfriend excuse can be a way to say no while not bruising the man's ego with a flat out rejection. Cause you never know when a man is going to go full incel on you and commit violence upon rejection, you have to be gentle in your no. It's not him, it's that she's unavailable etc. This guy was either not buying her excuse of being taken or just scum who would try to hook up with someone already in a relationship.
"Where's he at?"
"Not tipping $2.00."
I was looking for this comment. Thank you! Yes, I was like.. “well she’s at her job, is he supposed to be there with her?” 🤣🤣
Arriving super early is actually a thing with time blindness. I have a hard time judging how long it will take to get places and I have anxiety around being late (I used to be chronically late). So, I usually overestimate the time needed and arrive everywhere inconveniently early. There's also the thing where, in an effort not to get distracted and arrive late somewhere, I just won't do anything but sit and wait until it's time to leave. So much fun.
Aah yes, the "well I have an appointment at 3:30 pm so I can't do anything else until after said appointment" paralysis. I know her well 🙃
I'm just now learning of this "time blindness" thing.... I've always just thought I was neurotic... I also have a hard time judging how long it will take me to get somewhere so I'm just always perpetually SUPER early wherever I go.... usually AT LEAST 1 hour early!
Omg you sound just like me. Lol
And this is why I always use google maps so that i can plan my time better when i drive 😂
Same. I leave hours earlier than I should because I'm worried about traffic or accidents or road work. I have Anxiety about driving and being late. Many more as well but they're not relevant.
0:51 *IMPORTANT CONTEXT* some people might be starting petitions like this as a troll now, but the original story that got tons of news and everything was completely fake/twisted around.
The original news story was that a teacher started keeping a litter box in her classroom supply closet after an incident where students (I believe elementary school- ages 5/6 to 11ish, usually) were put on lockdown during a g*n incident, and some students ended up wetting themselves or extremely uncomfortable and upset.
It was an anti-g*n news piece about how insane it is that a teacher would have to resort to these measures. So of course right-wingers turned it around and made it into fake news that they decided to tie into anti-trans bathroom rights bs by saying, “well, if you let x use y bathroom just bc they identify like that, next thing you know people will want a litter box bc they identify as a cat!! One teacher’s already allowing it!”
So basically the entire fuss everyone’s made about it since then was all based on a news piece about the important of keeping children safe by dealing with some of America’s insane g*n laws, which some idiot decided to twist completely to fit an anti-LGBT agenda. It’s so f*cked.
Holy shit! Where can I read more about this?
Exactly! I'm disappointed that this channel even mentioned it
Very much this. Sucks she just believed the bs without looking it up.
@@CrystalFier Not sure you have any idea how much work running a channel doing daily content uploads is. It may look like an easy job, but it isn't. She does reactions, not internet fact checking.
@@CrystalFier it is said before by the other commenter, but yea trying to get content for something that is for daily uploads is hard. they try to find a topic/theme to work on. they have to search through a lot of content related to it and filter them out them out as well for her to react to. (exclude the recording and video editing etc) but heck, even the end product might accidentally have rewatched content again because there's already a lot of content and sometimes they won't notice. and these things are all done in one day. everyday. (even tho they might prepare it in advance but they still have to finish those things by the end of a the day (maybe). so yea don't be too harsh.
You can literally message or inform them nicely about it and they'll try to fix it by next time. it happens, they make mistakes sometimes. get over it.
The litter box thing has been proven more than once to be fake.
I kept waiting for her to get to that part! Like, this urban myth has fooled lots of US politicians. It’s fun to laugh at them try to pass bills about a nonexistent issue that kids came up with to troll authority figures.
It might be fake in some situations but I assure you it's not in all of them.
Yeah it's just a made up thing that anti transpeople use to justify their bigotry. Which is gross.
this exactly, it’s a fake story whipped up to stoke mockery of transgender kids and was the “soft launch” story that led to the current wave of anti-trans legislation aimed at children in the US and UK.
the sad reality is, schools in the US DO have stores of cat litter - because it’s absorbent and can be used to clean up blood after a violent incident!
@@VictoriaMarch13So you know someone who pooped in a school litter box? If you don't I'd zip it.
Word of advice: if you find an earring in your guy's car, give them a chance to explain (and prove that explanation) before erupting - especially if they have female relatives that they're close to. If they can't explain themselves, kick them to the curb (obviously...), but don't always assume the worst until you have more to go on.
I say this because, many years ago, I had recently started dating a guy and I found an earring in his car. It was beautiful and was one of the hook style ones, so easy enough to lose. I showed him it and, instead of panicking, he looked relieved. He just said "oh, thank God! Grandma lost that a couple of days ago. She's going to be so happy to get it back, as they were a gift from Grandad" (his Grandad had passed away a few months before that). To check he was telling the truth, I said "let's pop it round now - the sooner she has it, the sooner she can stop worrying". Again, instead of panicking, he responded with "great idea!" and we drove round there. I met his Grandma, she took one look at the earring, cried, and gave me a big hug. Then went and got the other matching one and put them on. I immediately took my own earrings off so that I could give her the rubber backs on them (so that she wouldn't lose them again). I had spare rubber backs at home that I could use for my own earrings - I bought a job lot after losing too many earrings that I really liked!
I married that man not long after and we've been happily married ever since. But that wouldn't have been the case if I'd followed my instinct to erupt when I first saw that earring... Even though there was a perfectly reasonable explanation for it.
So, moral of the story - test them before assuming the worst 👍😎
I’m so happy for you guys!! And thank you for the word of advice! Wishing you the best!!
Lol or the guy just said that to you so it wouldn’t ruin his chances with you. *trust no man*
@@moyaxoxo5923 But then wouldn’t the Grandma not have run with it if he was lying, or wouldn’t have there been a sign? I get the suspicion, but I think everything tracks in this case. 🤔
I found an earring in my car that isn't mine... it turned out the former owner lost it. I've owned the car 4 years and only just found it! I don't think she wants it back after it's been stuck in the carpet 4+ years
@@emraldembrace7939 Thank you 😊 Wishing you all the best, too 💕
As someone with time blindness, being uncomfortably early is definitely a thing. You're either WAY too early or you're late. Rarely just on time.
This
I'm always early cuz I know if I'm not careful, time will fly by and by the time I realize it, my class starts in 30 minutes and I'm still at home
Well early is always better than late. Being late without a valid reason is totally narcissistic!
Girl I had a guy have a hotel already booked before we met up....then tried to guilt me into going back because "he already paid for it". I said it sounded like a you problem and left 😂
EW GROSS
Um no thank you!
For earring guy, the excuse itself isn’t inherently bad or unbelievable, but the way he DELIVERED that excuse sounded SUSPICIOUS AS HELLLLLLL
Fully agree when they started off the earring thing I was like he could have had someone else’s girlfriend or any female friend but the delivery destroyed that
I still don't get why he had it what part was it in
It was completely unbelievable whichever way he would have delivered it. The weird laughing and sweating made it worse, but it was a disaster either way. "This isn't really an earring"... Ooookay, what is it then? 😅
Lmao seeing a mediocre liar try to create one on the fly
“It’s not an earring!”
So, it IS an earring, belonging to one of the “people” who were “in my car.”
The best response to an influencer's request for free food in a highend resturant was, "Anyone influenced by you can't afford to eat here."
😂😂😂😂
Or "if you had that much star power, I'd reach out to you first."
Perfect
"Absolutely Not"
@@RayvenLunaNiteFacts
I have time blindness and can confirm that it goes both ways. If something is important to be on time I overcompensate for it in fear of being late and end up being far too early. The result is I'm either 5-10 min late for something casual or I'm like, an hour + early for appointments and the like. I can never get the timing right to be perfectly on time, no matter what.
I was going to write this exact thing. It works both ways and the anxiety is unbearable.
I get all worked up and have to spend waiting time to calm for whatever it was i had to rush for. when I'm an hour early i walk around a little to help time pass. When I'm late i call in a straight panic because i am in fact in a panic and i explain what ever fault I've made on my end to make me late.
I've come a long way since childhood lol
@@tiffanycole8058 Definitely! It makes me so mad when she practically belittles those of us who have time blindness. The amount of anxiety that comes with it is unreal and a lot of the “optional” social events I just end up not going to bc of the anxiety of potentially being late and people getting upset over it. Luckily most people I surround myself with don’t care too much so I don’t miss out on things anymore, but when I was in high school I didn’t do anything (even go to school) bc my anxiety around this was so bad.
My sister is exactly like that. I asked her one time where she was going and she said work which was 15 minutes away and she was leaving an hour and a half before her shift started.
Time blindness is totally a thing and often a symptom of adhd. I will stress all day and get somewhere for an appointment 1 hour early. Most of the time I remember to set an alarm to go in because I’ve lost track of time before while waiting for the appointment in the parking lot. As others have said it’s not an excuse just an explanation as to why someone like me would be chronically late yet also ridiculously early 🥴
I mean set up multiple alarms if you know you have trouble keeping appointments. It’s super rude to keep people waiting. Or just go in to wherever you have an appointment if possible and wait in the lobby instead of your car. Minimize the opportunity to be late. There are only few good excuses to be late but if it’s a constant thing you have to be the one to try harder because you’re wasting everyone else’s time. I have adhd as well and try super hard to no inconvenience anyone with things I can work to be better at.
As a former waitress, I can confirm that the guys asking for your number or leaving their number are in fact always the worst tippers (I'd say 95% of the time).
YES also the people who brag about how rich they are
How do you even do that though? I've never asked a waitress that was serving me out, but if I were to do that I'd make sure to give a very generous tip.
Why do you need money when they are handing you God's gift? 🤣
Confirmed.
Yepppp I worked in a restaurants as a driver or waitress. Very true.
The litter boxes in schools thing is trolling. It’s trolling used to emphasize the idiocy within outrage politics. If anyone looked into it, they’d know it was trolling.
Most reaction videos feature trolling and rage bait content. It gets clicks. I mean I still click so I get it.
It was about service animals...what a weird thing to lie about 😅
Knowing that the sources of this litter box lie are hateful people, I really wish Charlotte's staff wouldn't include videos like this. Those who claim this nonsense are trying to equate being transgender with pretending to be an animal. Just stop and think of the level of homophobia one must have to make such a comparison.
Let me put it another way, since I'm older than most of you who didn't live during the Jim Crow era. This isn't the first time I've heard people talk like this, and they were on the wrong side of history then, just as they are now.
I was in 2nd grade when my elementary school accepted it's first black student. Her name was Margaret. The things I heard adults, including teachers, say about having "black kids in a white school" were horrible. The most common phrase heard was something like, "If they're gonna let THAT in our schools, next they'll expect us to teach dogs and monkeys".
Margaret was only a student at our school for 2 months before the bullying was unbearable and her parents put her in private school. We had no more black children until I got to middle school in 1972.
Our racist school boards came up with a "solution", bus the poorest black children from the other side of the county to our schools. Those kids spent 3-4 hours a day sometimes just riding the bus over 20 miles, then they were yelled at by teachers and treated badly. School officials used to bandy around terms like "possible school riots", because they expected our new classmates to be undisciplined savages. I think they purposely treated those students badly so that when they eventually complained about being mistreated, the school employees and board could throw their hands up and say, "See? Those people just want to complain!" One old bag teacher quit because she refused to teach those "N-words"
It all backfired on the haters. Most of us liked our new students, very much, and made lifelong friendships. Musically, a whole new world opened for me! After I heard music from Sam Cooke, The Staple Singers, Marvin Gaye, and others I put away my Archies and Partridge Family records.
As Mavis Staples sang:
"If you disrespect anybody
That you run in to
How in the world do you think
Anybody's supposed to respect you?"❤🩹
The articles about it simply say the furries demanded litter boxes but they were denied, they refused and told them no. So it is still true that furries wanted and requested them. They just didn't get them as a result is all.
Charlotte keeps falling for right wing propaganda BS like the litter box story. Starting to notice a trend... Love you girl, but you need to ask more questions
Wait… did that guy really think that the waitress’ boyfriend should be so attached to her hip that he would be right next to her, even at work? ROFLMAO!
Dude really didn’t want to take no for an answer. 😂
As someone with time blindness, I do show up to things early, sometimes way early. On several occasions I’ve showed up to doctors appointments so early that I’ll leave and get coffee or something and THEN show up a second time 5 minutes late 😂 it’s a skill, truly.
I briefly dated a guy that, anytime I invited him over he would show up with an overnight bag... The third time he did this, *HE YELLED AT MY DOG* for not moving fast enough when I asked her to do something?!? EXCUSE ME?!? I've managed to raise her myself for the last 6 years... I don't need your 'help' get out... we're done!
Had a guy bring an overnight bag on our first date. I dated him about 3 months. Looking back, ew. Lol.
oof. Yeah, good thing he's gone.
for future dates you might want to be cautious. clothes are not always in those bags.
@@tenin982000 could be murder supplies
People who can be mean to animals - big red flag! 🙄
Re the litter box thing: I don't know how true that story is but I recall hearing in the US and, even in Canada, there were people using that scenario to justify anti-trans policies.
That being said, if any students said that they wanted litter boxes because they identified as cats, the school needs to tell them that no toilet paper will be provided by the litter box as cats don't use it.
I mean, that is why the politicians want people to believe the troll posts about it. They love that "slippery slope" BS.
Yep. The kitten litter stuff is BS and never happened.
It’s 100% right wing propaganda. No one is requesting litter boxes in schools
They dont go to college either.
Cats don’t go to school. If we’re pretending they’re cats then they don’t belong in school.
That tea bag riddle had me on the floor. I am deceased, Send my body down the river with a load of tea bags please.
So, as someone who has been diagnosed with ADHD and who struggles with being on time to appointments, I want to say that time blindness is very real and extremely diverse. My sister also has ADHD, and she is always at least an hour and a half early to every appointment. That is just as destructive as being late, because that’s time essentially being eaten up by the anxiety that comes with the fear of being late. She hates it, it’s miserable. ADHD is a very complex disorder that significantly affects Executive Function (EF), which includes, organisation, time management, and many other things. I get such bad anxiety from being late that I literally cry, and it still happens. There are people who understand this is a problem and work on it. I learned that if I set my appointments in my phone calendar for 15 - 20 minutes earlier than they actually are and I do not look at reminder texts or listen to reminder voicemails that have the actual time in them, I’m far more likely to show up either early or on time.
A lot of people with this struggle work very hard to be like a neurotypical person, when their brains are literally not neurotypical. ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder, meaning that this is the way a person’s brain is, and they don’t get a choice in that. Not only that, but ADHD is often missed in the school systems/developmental years because it manifests differently in each person (this is especially true with girls and women). So, there are a huge amount of people who don’t get diagnosed with ADHD until they are in their 20s, 30s, 40s, and even later in life, so their lives are just this way and they don’t understand that it’s a genuine issue with their brains. With that lack of understanding what’s going on comes self-blame, guilt, people getting pissed off about things like being late or disorganised. Even if you personally don’t understand what it’s like, take it from someone who is 28 and just received a diagnosis of ADHD a year ago. This shit is really hard, and people being judgmental because we aren’t perfect doesn’t help at all. I’ve lived this way my entire life. I was raised by a mum who has ADHD, and she didn’t receive a diagnosis until she was 56. She had no idea what was causing her chronic lateness. All four of my siblings have ADHD as well, and every person who has it shows it in different ways.
In conclusion, try to be gentle with others. No one is perfect, and there are plenty of people who work really hard to “make it” in society. If you don’t understand something, look it up. Educate yourself. Because it’s not just a bad habit of being way too early or late for appointments. There’s so much more to it than that.
Eloquently stated. Adhd runs STRONG in my family, and none of us had help for it until my youngest who was then about 9. That was about 5 years ago now, and I will sometimes say to the kids "I give us ALL credit that we functioned and got places AT ALL when you were younger!" I mean, those kids have worked HARD😂
That boy that got caught with an earring in his car? That's a nervous laugh, a guilty laugh, an "I just got caught cheating" laugh.
As a general rule, I don't take too seriously what drunk sorority girls say in street interviews. Especially about furries. A healthy dab of skepticism is called for.
Yea.. that is like the biggest unsubstantiated rumor that was circulating EVEYWHERE. Its just one of those things that has never happend (no proof of it anywhere) but yet everyone says, "oh i know someone that knows somewhere where that happened"
Yeah, it is a big lie.
Absolutely. It’s something fake that went around as a way to be transphobic
That's a popular TERF lie that gets spread around that they are talking about and since every other time has been proven to be a lie I'm guessing they are also lying.
Literally, i always ask them for evidence and they never show it lmao
We don’t talk about time blindness when we’re early because it’s not shamed in our society so we don’t have to apologize, time blindness is real Char. Some people compensate with lots of alarms and showing up waaaayyy too early because of anxiety
As someone with time-blindness, I have at least 2-3 alarms set on my phone to remind me of when I need to leave to be at an appointment or event. Like, I have one for when I need to start getting ready, one for when I need to be done getting ready, and one for when I ABSOLUTELY HAVE to be out the door and in the car. I even do this for my job. I have an alarm to wake up, one for 30 minutes later (in case I decide a shower is not a priority over extra sleep that morning), and one for when I have to be heading out the door to be there before my shift starts. I'm usually either 15 minutes early or just on time.
As someone with time blindness, I set alarms and am almost always 10 to 30 minutes early because I know myself and set myself up for success instead of wishful thinking. Thanks for listening to my TED Talk.
SAME. I'm paranoid about being late to things. Just because my brain can't tell how much time I just spent in the bathroom, doesn't mean I feel okay making people wait on me. My brain can't tell how much time has elapsed, but my phone alarm can.
I need to start doing that 😢
Me: still late 😂😂😂😂😂
@sandylakes7579 No worries! You just have to be raised in a home where your anxiety is pushed through the ceiling every time you might possibly be just on time so that just the thought of not being early gives you panic attacks. 😁
Yep, my ADHD requires wrangling by many multiples of alarms to be on time for anything and the anxiety of missing sonething important is real.
The litter box thing at schools was actually a prank. If you look it up online there’s tons of articles about it! ☺️❤️
A prank that politicians are using to ban proper sexual education in schools and prevent equality to all students.
Some schools in the US have litter handy in case they are in an emergency lock down because of school shootings. They took this piece of info and ran with it. I'm disappointed that it was mentioned on this channel because it's just right wing propaganda
Yes, we really need to stop spreading this nonsense about kids wanting to identify as animals. It’s harmful to people who are actually going through things like trans kids and makes them more of a target for harassment and violence.
They were lying so hard it was almost funny lol. The conservatives took that prank and ran
Nah, not a prank, it's way, way worse. Storing cat litter in classroom closets is for extended school shooter lockdown incidents. It makes sense that conservatives, who are the main ones keeping guns available, would be more interested in spreading garbage about furries when it's really their fault teachers are keeping cat litter on hand to begin with.
On the whole redhead bullying thing, I totally feel you. I have a bunch of very prominent dark freckles everywhere, not just my face. I used to be bullied relentlessly as a kid. Now, years later, freckles are a trend, and everyone is talking about how much they love them. Like, where did this come from, and why is something I was bullied for most of my life now in fashion?
I'm with you on the red hair, Charlotte. I was bullied for my red hair in school too, but now a lot are jealous of it, as they want red hair and have to dye theirs, whereas I don't have to. It's so weird.
I also came to love my red hair, which is kinda funny, bc when I was young, I wanted to dye my hair and never go back to red and now I couldn't even dream of dying it.
His hair is gorgeous. Amazing curls.
It was always jealousy. Bullies are insecure and hate themselves, so they take it out on other people.
I feel you. Mine isn't red though. I started going white prematurely at a fairly young age and by high school it was becoming noticible. Used to hate it when I was young and would dye over it. Got burned out on doing that and quit bothering during covid. Fast forward to now and here I am, at 50, with super long hair (past my waist) that is a bright shiny silver white (NOT grey) everywhere, except a bit at the very bottom where it was black (from the final pre-covid dye lol). And while I mind the white much less now that it isn't spotty or salt and pepper but a uniform color; it wasn't anything I thought was any kind of fashion statement other than "I've been single and am not looking and have just been too lazy to get around to dyeing this mess again".
So you can imagine my surprise when some Gen Z bops up to me gushing about the white color and begging to know who did my hair color like that. I was like LOL..... this isn't a dye job, this is old age. (Although I still don't really look old enough for it yet.) Apparently she had thought it was all intentional, including the black tips, which I had to explain were where my dye roots now stopped post-covid. I have the kind of uniform unbroken totally stark silver white you usually only see on little old grannies, and apparently this is cool now lol.
It's the same with freckles. When I was a kid freckles were highly undesirable, now I see make up tutorials on how to draw them on your face. Even people using henna or tattoos for a more permanent freckled look. Frankly I wish I didn't have the freckles. My family has a history of skin cancer the the freckles make it real hard to spot sus spots.
Ive seen the video before… I cry laughed… the video didn’t disappoint the 50th time Ive seen it 😂 when he sings “the sun will come out tomorrow” I lose it 😂 Im ginger and flash backs to bullying just hit different, always find it funny how there is a year in gingers lives when bullying changes to compliments 🤔 ppl are weird
I struggle with being on time. I hate being late, I really do. Since I got officially diagnosed with ADHD it now makes sense why it's a struggle. But here's the thing. Having 'time blindness' due to ADHD and whatnot is not an excuse. It is a reason why it's a challenge, but not an excuse. It doesn't make it right. With that understanding about myself I've tried to implement strategies to prevent being late like setting alarms to keep me on track for example. It really helps!
Agreed. I’m just as embarrassed being too early because I’m afraid of being too late 😂
I feel you
Yup. Gives me the worst anxiety. I bought myself a smart watch for this reason.
It's crazy, 15 minutes can go by and feel like an hour, and hour can go by and feel like 15 minutes. Ugh. Lots of alarms and reminders lol
Same! Charlotte is wrong on this one. It's ok, though, because I judge her on her bad grammar. 😂
Right 😭 and yes time blindness goes both ways and I have apologized for being early, in fact I get somewhere early and will wait in my car but then get distracted and and up rushing in 😂. I am either way early or late no in between. I love Charlotte but this hurt my already self conscious ADHD heart.
I just assume I've to be at X place half an hour before the actual time. I repeat it enough to believe this new time. Then I tell myself that I've to leave 45mins before I have to reach (where I stay 30-45mins is standard to anywhere), and start getting ready an hour before I leave. My anxious side takes care of the rest. You literally have to manipulate yourself at such times.
As for some of those "identify as a cat or dog" stories that was more of a "I have a service cat or dog and they need a place to poop". That was blown out of proportion. It had nothing to do with furries. They were hating on furries to disguise the actual issue of lack of service animal accomodation.
Here in America the extreme right latched onto and blew up the litter box thing as a slam on transgender people.
Also worth noting: Schools that have litter in the classroom in a bucket... Are there 'in case' of a lockdown because of an active shooter. Kids need a place to pee, and that's better than nothing.
@@ArtVandelayLovesPretzels I think that's happening in GB also, unfortunately. The far right folks on that side of the pond haven't gone quite as mad as what's occurring in the U.S., but they have issues as well when it comes to letting people live in peace. Sounds like these girls are Aussie, but they've got their wackadoodles too. Did anyone catch the name of their girl's high school where they claim this happened?
This! Everybody is turning it into some transphobia by associating it with trans people even though not only is identifying as another species completely separate from trans people but that isn't even what this whole thing was about people just looking for reasons to hate 😭
@@LazyIRanch New Zealanders.
Seriously, No hate to you Charlotte, but Time Blindness is a big deal for a lot of us, and it absolutely *does* mean sometimes we over-correct because people get so upset at us for being late, or we get incredibly upset with ourselves about it. I am a therapist so I totally understand that being on time is incredibly important. I hate making people wait for me. I do my best to communicate if I am running late, but part of time blindness means we don’t always know when that is. I constantly have Waze open to tell me what time I need to leave my house to get somewhere on time. I time myself doing certain tasks/activities to try to get better at noticing how long things take. I set dozens of timers every single day. when my ADHD is really bad (especially when I don’t have access to my medication) it can take me hours to do something that takes neurotypical people minutes. And the whole time my anxiety is through the roof, and my negative self-talk spikes. I have a ton of tools and skills and apps to manage these things and I teach them to my clients. I assure you, the people who actually have Time Blindness (and aren’t just using it as a convenient excuse) know how annoying it is for everyone else. We don’t want to be this way. We work hard to be better. We don’t make plans with people who aren’t able to be flexible or avoid activities that have strict/rigid schedules whenever possible. This means I do things like cut my own hair, and don’t eat at restaurants that require reservations. I make calendar appointments and set alarms for EVERYTHING and I will set the time for things at least 30 minutes before they are actually scheduled whenever possible (it used to be an hour, so I guess that’s progress?). I will drive myself places instead of carpooling so that nobody else has to wait for me if it’s a day I can’t afford to take my meds. Unfortunately stress and anxiety and shame all make Time Blindness worse because we will not notice that we have “zoned out” stressing about being late for so long that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. We aren’t trying to annoy you. Trust me, nobody is more upset with us than we are. I wish people wouldn’t use something that is a serious daily struggle as an excuse to be intentionally inconsiderate or avoid taking responsibility for things. Many of my clients are too stressed or insecure about this struggle to make plans with friends or go out and do things. We get fired from jobs or put on performance plans if we forget to set alarms for our 30 minutes lunch breaks. Unfortunately with ADHD many of the other symptoms make it incredibly difficult to remember to set the timers/alarms/calendar appointments/etc, or we lose track of our phones, or things like this. These things can trigger our Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD), or choice paralysis, or decision fatigue, or “ADHD rage” which all make our Time Blindness worse. It can also lead to meltdowns, or shut downs, or at it’s most extreme, ADHD burnout which is a serious medical crisis that makes it impossible to even do the bare minimum of daily life functioning things like eating, sleeping, or taking care of our personal hygiene. Nearly all people with ADHD also have insomnia or Delayed Sleep Phase disorder (DSPD) which means our circadian rhythms don’t match up with day or night triggers (the release of melatonin, etc) so we tend to not be able to fall asleep until 2-6am because our bodies and minds are wired completely differently than neurotypical peoples. What’s worse is all of these things get increasingly exacerbated if we have a change in routine/schedule or some other stressful activity. This often leads to us not being able to sleep at all the night before an activity/appointment. Which I’m sure you can understand would make things like time blindness even worse. Additionally, nearly all of my neurodivergent clients also meet criteria for PTSD because of the continual shame/guilt/anxiety/depression/trauma… we constantly feel while trying to live in a world that doesn’t believe in making accommodations for our disabilities and we are labeled as “lazy” or “flaky” or told we just aren’t trying hard enough… but I assure you, we are all trying harder than you know. We just don’t share our daily struggles with other people because we usually get gaslit or told things like “well, why don’t you just set a reminder for yourself?”
TLDR. I have four kids and the only time I am late is when we have to wait on my pokey hubby cuz he doesnt understand planning ahead and leaving a buffer.
His family was always late because they refuse to rush or move at any pace but slow and “on their own time”.
If you want to be slow and claim “time blindness”. The world doesnt have to accommodate you. Just like no one has to accommodate my ADD or triggers from childhood abuse. I had to learn to focus and I did because no one is going to care about your excuses if you cant focus or remember things all the time. You just wont have a good job or be reliable. If you want responsibility, you have to learn to succeed past your “issues” so you can get done what needs to be done most of the time.
I have to learn how to adjust and accommodate for others as well. If I am habitually late and told about how I cant be late. I move my leaving alarm back to arrive 20min early.
Cuz there is always a kid that needs to use the restroom, someone without shoes on or proper clothes or my pokey hubby.
Adulting isnt that hard. Learn to not make excuses and accommodate the larger group.
No one has to wait for you just cuz you cant figure out how to get somewhere due to “time blindness”. You know about it, adjust.
@@Jaxmusicgal23woooooooow.... I haven't read such an ableist response to an ADHD comment in a VERY long time. For someone who claims to also be ADHD, you seem to have very little understanding of how much we actually struggle. Which makes me question if you actually are. You basically just regurgitated the same things we have been told our entire lives. You think we haven't heard that or worse? You think we WANT to live this way? That we aren't trying? That we haven't already thought of everything you just mentioned? It's not as simple as just "do the thing". If it was, don't you think we would've already done it? Also, there are people who are more affected or differently affected by their symptoms, so what works for you may not work for others. Get off your high horse and develope some empathy. Your attitude towards us is gross.
Those girls in the first clip were lying out their asses so hard its funny XD
Can confirm: cruise ships don't wait for anyone. Worked on a cruise ship and if people were left behind, the other guests and crew that were working on the deck would laugh. The helmsman and officers would wave from the bridge. It was great 😂
Lol I have time blindness at it does go both ways I've accidentally showed up an hour before an event lol I'm not just late
@@The_felt_eyeball"time blindness" is not a real thing. It's just something millennials made up as an excuse for being late.
@@BeccaHetrickits actually a neurodivergent trait that is incredibly real, common in ADHD
@@SamiFrew97 ok.....
@@BeccaHetrick Of all the citationless nonsense. You sound stupid.
Due to some medical issues, I mistakenly wrote my haircut time down on the wrong day (the day after). During what should've been my cut, I realized my mistake and called the stylist. Paid full price twice for one service, which really hurt financially, but it was my fault. And as someone who also works based on appointments, that was the right thing to do.
The stylist should have sent you a reminder text the day before. "Looking so forward to seeing you tomorrow, 12/24/23 at 2:30pm" but it was still nice of you. Hope you're feeling better.
@@marniebirger4907 yeah, I agree... I always ask everyone for reminder texts , because I'm so forgetful, especially with all the health problems I'm going through.. Luckily, I've never been late or missed my appointments anywhere . well,last week I did,but I ran there ,and was 1hr late, but it was a small gathering for Xmas.. they didn't get angry, because I called and said that I'd be late..but yet, I feel bad for it..
its like the free makeup trial requests when we are using supplies, time and patience :) lol
That's incredible of you to pay twice. As a hairdresser this has happened to me but if it's a regular client who hasn't done it before and is always punctual... I let it slide. When it's what we call a repeat offender (who always runs late yet turns up with their Starbucks in hand) ... They pay extra.
@@elenawilliams32 That's what made me so mad at myself. I'm chronically EARLY. Always arrive 10-15 mins before an appointment. But, this was my fault, so my stylist shouldn't suffer (or be able to book another client). I've only been to her for a couple of years, never late. But like I said, I work the same way, and I'd charge if my clients didn't show up (not a stylist, btw, another career that requires reservations and deposits.
Whoever does your research dropped the ball on the litter boxes at school thing. Those girls were trolling. It was never an actual thing. Anyone who brought it up at school board meetings or to school officials was basically laughed out of the room.
1:17 😂😂 “imagine if people just left poop all over the place,” welcome to every city before industrial plumbing existed Lmao
I moved from Ontario, Canada to Florida of all places for my husband. About 6 months into our time here, he started ignoring me. We started fighting. His glorious idea was that I take a few weeks off to visit a friend in NY because he needed “some space”. So I hauled myself and my two special needs pets back up north.
A few days go by and our security cameras start turning off and on. He calls me crazy. I’m “stalking him”…you know, in my own home. “There is a comm line down.” “The internet has been weird.” MMMMMHMMMMM. Right before I was about to come home, my neighbour calls me asking me when we got the new truck. “Which new truck!?” “The…white one?” “It’s been there overnight?” “Yah…a bunch…shit.”
Obviously I LOSE MY DAMN MIND. Husbands been sneaking his co-worker (this INSUFFERABLE pick-me girl I absolutely despise) into our house. “She’s going through something at home and needed a place to stay!! MMMMMMMMMMHMMMM. They’d been in cahoots. She messages him, he turns the cameras off and they hide her truck on the side of the house without the camera. Swears up and down. “She slept on the couch.”
…Which I guess I’d have believed had she not LEFT HER EARRING IN OUR BED. A fucking bejewelled Minnie Mouse earring.
Yay me.
A Minnie Mouse earring?… how old was she, 5?!?!
I hope you left his pathetic, cheating ass & never looked back. He’s a complete waste of time & energy. I hope you have moved on & are doing awesome 😊❤
Good riddance.
@@Amber-ox8zyyou read my damn mind. I mean she’s a pick me girl. So I’m not surprised
ew what a trashy husband
In the words of Charlotte, "cheating isn't a flex", I don't get why people brag about cheating I mean are they just that desperate for attention. I think it is disgusting to cheat on someone and then brag about it.
it’s embarrassing!!! it’s always the ones that project too.
@@lovelyhorror1 💯 agree!
For at least some of them, it's the fact that two people wanted them at the same time. They think it means something special.
I actually had a Royal Caribbean cruise ship wait to leave port for my dad in high school. I almost got kicked off the ship since I was a minor and had no other guardian on board. Luckily he made it back before, albeit late, before the cruise decided to just leave.
OmG! The old lady story reminds me of my grandma in her assisted living home. I was so stunned by the dating drama there. There were a few guys who really liked my grandma. A couple of them were in long-term relationships with other women at the facility (as long term as it can get in an elederly facility anyways). I shit you not, one day I was following my grandma into her unit at a brisk pace trying to outwalk the guy in his power wheelchair who was flooring it trying to catch up to her with his gf following right behind him in her power wheelchair all pissy because she was jealous of my grandma (who really just wanted to be left alone). 😂
I was not prepared for that scene.
As someone who legit has time blindness, yes, mine works the opposite way. I have called up to work in a panic thinking I was late and apologizing so profusely that my boss couldn't get in a word edgewise. When I finally did let her speak, she told me it was my day off. Mine rarely has to do with being late.
time blindness isn’t real, you just get distracted or lose track of time easily 😭 it’s not a real condition at all but i can relate w me being like i cant really sense time sometimes lol
@be3p you can't sense the normal progression of time? So.... literally time blindness. You have time blindness.
@stealthheistfilms Right? Probably one of those people who says things like they've never experienced [said thing], therefore it doesn't exist because only what THEY experience is real.
@@be3p like I legit cannot estimate how long it will take me to drive to, and from a place that I have driven to, and from for 10 years of my life. Is it 10 minutes? Is it 30 minutes? I don’t know and I cannot estimate it no matter how hard I have tried to train myself to. Because it just doesn’t really feel for me. It fluctuates a lot with me I will say? Sort of that time flies mentality? But I am almost never aware of it at any given time. I have so many alarms for that very reason.
@@be3pit is real, and it’s a symptom of many neurological disorders.
The waitress was so in the right for that! The audacity he had to keep going after she said, I have a bf😂
13:00 the horror and the five stages of grief on her face sells it for me🤣
LMAO I have friends in America and they always joke about "how is the future?" Or if it is new years "what is it like in the new year"... I live in New Zealand (a day ahead) 🤣🤣🤣 it always cracks me up 😂😂
Time blindness is a real thing that happens to us with adhd. It often causes me so much anxiety that I'm over an hour (or more) early to events. It's either ridiculously early or I might be late.
As a person with time blindness- I am CONSTANTLY early to everything because I'm terrified of starting anything else, in case I get lost in time and end up late... It was never fear of missing out it was fear of disrespecting others (FODO). I respect other's so much, my own life is literally on hold until after my scheduled appointment. 1pm? Gonna be a boring morning 😅
I'm with you! I always make my planned time to leave the house 5-15 min before I expect to actually be pulling out of the driveway. Two hours min to get showered, dressed, and ready. For overnight trips I pack everything I don't need at that moment the night before.
Yup!
Exactly my method.
ever since needing a wheelchair, i encounter time-wasting stuff constantly, like having to go around a whole block bc of a bad sidewalk or getting stuck. i used to be punctual or slightly early. now even when i plan in an extra hour i am sometimes late. it drives me CRAZY. but i'm super understanding of everyone else and always tell people i'd rather wait on them than have them do smth dangerous like speeding, so i always say no rush and never get angry at people for it.
Just keep checking the clock.
the litter box story is a known prank. the principal actually had to make a statement to confirm none of it is true. lol
The first story is definitely an urban legend 😂😂
Don't take the litter box thing seriously. It was some asshole politicians joke of a talking point.
that litterbox thing is a World wide urban myth i thought it was only in the US but sad to see go internationally
I’ve been hearing it in my country Ireland as well. Everyone who’s tried to convince me that it’s ‘definitely true’ never had any proof and any school that’s been predominantly connected with the rumour always makes a statement denouncing it.
The best edit in this video is 1000% the face on the pearl earring 😂😂😂
The Charlotte Blob Fish had me struggling to keep my sip of water omfg 😂😂😂
If a man showed up with an overnight bag on our first date, I’d be creeped out. How do I know there isn’t rope and duct tape in that bag! Women, are you actually taking these men home?!!
I once was late for my hair appointment due to missing a bus (over an hour away salon), called to apologize and pay for my fault they said it’s ok and just rescheduled. Second time I got stuck in traffic (same salon) due to crazy car accident right in front of me and they rescheduled me for 2 hours later instead of charging me. It’s a super busy salon but they helped me out cuz they knew me for years and knew I’m not a person to just miss my appointment for no reason and every time I felt bad. Can’t imagine just no show and ignore after.
Charlotte, same, I’m a redhead. I was bullied so much for it in public school, then hit college and learned there’s this whole subset of guys that are really into it. Blew my poor bullied mind. And all of my hair stylists over the years have told me how many women are coming n to get hair like mine. Since my husband and I have 2 red headed children, I’m so happy that they’re growing up getting compliments.
Against all genetic odds, 3 out of 4 in my family are gingers: red hair, blue eyes. Rarest combo in the world. PS: my husband has brown hair and eyes.
time blind here: when i'm early (majority of the time) i just wait in my car. It's transparent for the people i'm with, i don't tell them that i've been waiting for the past 30 to 40min. I'm always 20min early to my sport classes, every single week, even though i live 10min away from the gym and the parking is not a problem at all... the worst is that every week i'm still in such a hurry believing i'm late ^^
1) the cat and dog litter box thing has been proven to be an urban legend and made up, and 2) reminds me of the waitress hitting on my brother while he was visiting me at college! It was so cute, she almost comped our meals she thought he was so cute ;.; I gave her an extra large tip since my bro didn’t pick up on it…
He wanted to ask her out but tipped her $2 omg I'm crying 😂 the ✨️AUDACITYYYYYYY✨️
As someone who is legitimately bad with time yes i am constantly early or late for things, when I was younger I'd often show up slightly late to things but as an adult ive learned that about myself so now im almost always early on purpose.
The first video explains why I can never find cat litter at walmart. 🤣
The furry litterbox drama was fake. If it EVER happens, it's either something like all those challenges the news talk about that were never a thing but the news started now,
Or some people thought it was a good idea to shit in a sink, and they blamer it on furries.
Yup
Exactly every so often someone poops in a sink...for whatever reason.....but now trolls blame it on whatever they think will get the most attention.
I had a guy stalk me at a salon I worked at. He tipped me two buck when I cut his hair, then start driving two hours to harass me daily. A week in I was hiding in the back and another stylist told him I wasn’t there. He stormed into the back saying “I know you’re hiding from me!” Like bro, people are allowed to avoid you, especially at their job, and I would never date a bad tipper anyways. Very little can dry me up faster than someone who is cheap.
I’ll pay my own way, but I value people who work in human services, so I tip well, meaning I’m fundamentally incompatible with someone who doesn’t. Plus he was a stalker anyways, so double no.
My niece has red hair and I was telling her the other day how jealous I was of her hair. I think the same about your hair Charlotte, it's such an amazing colour. The first few videos I watched of yours I thought it was dyed. Its beautiful, never ever change it.
The tea bag one got me.. I see you grinning charlotte 😂
AuDHD person here...Time blindness is a real thing and is extremely stressful to live with.
Also yes.. I can end up so stressed at thought of being late, I'll turn up to stuff a couple of hours ahead of time...Stand around, end up in pain (arthritis/fibro ME) and have to go home because I've been standing waiting for too long. 🤷♀️ It is what it is... we do our best.
Love to those who do their best!
As a redhead I can so relate, used to hate my red hair but now everyone compliments me on my gorgeous red hair so I love that we are coming back!!!!
I was the same way. Then I learned to embrace it. I always got so many compliments on it. Now it is going gray and I am so sad 😞. So love it and appreciate it for as long as you can! 💜 I am debating on coloring mine now. 🤭✌
People used to just be haters because they were jealous. You have the rarest hair color in the world!
I have always loved red hair!
I have loved red hair ALL MY LIFE! I used to threaten my mom that when I got older I would dye my hair red. Well, with well-tanning medium complexion and almost jet black hair, at 20 I understood that red hair would make me look like a banana with a red hat on. I STILL love red hair and I tell every redhead I see, that I love their hair. ❤️❤️
My hair looks red in the sun. Wish it was really that color!
I also have time blindness and the trick is to just have crippling anxiety about lateness, so you get everywhere early and just sit in your car until it's an acceptable amount of early
Time blindness refers to the inability sense the usual passage of time. Time literally feels like it's moving slower or faster than you realize. You only hear it from people who are late because it's very very rare to be shamed for being early.
The first girls stole that misinformation piece from Joe Rogan almost word for word lmao
17:30 I once saw in a video that there's people who actually book cabins on the side of the ship that will be towards the dock just to watch and record people arriving when the ship is taking off. Now that is the level of petty I aspire to.
Hey girl hey! discovered your videos this year, and as someone who's been chronically sick and bed bound/couch bound as a result, the tea you give gives so much life/humour to my day! While we don't know you personally, I can say through the opinions that you give that you are so beautiful inside and out! (And hard working too. A video every day for the last couple years is insane!)
Also, I would love to buy some of your merch but that velour tracksuit is basically sold out, when will that be restocked?
Keep up the good fight! We love you ❤
For the earring one her laughter was so relatable. I literally use it as a safety mechanism or to avoid confrontation especially if I’m never gonna talk to the person again 🤣 when she said “I gotta go” I felt her 🤣
As far as the lost earring is concerned, I know that I lost many earrings with the metal backs. I now use the plastic for rubber backs and haven’t lost any using these. It sickens me to lose an irreplaceable or very costly earring because of those lousy metal backs.
When I was a teenager, my parents got me some 24k gold heart earrings and I was so appreciative and determined to take such good care of them...
Well, they had metal backs and the second time I wore them, the back came off and the earring came out. Gone, just like that and I was devastated.
Worse, my parents blamed me for being irresponsible. I haven't trusted metal backed earrings since then, lol.
Yep, that frat kid could be guilty as heck but for a woman losing an heirloom or precious earring and have experienced this loss, get yourself the plastic or rubber backs for earrings.🙀
The point is that the back was ON the earring. Someone took off that earring, put the back on it, and then "lost" it in his car. Pretty sure that was intentional.
Don’t expensive earrings come with metal backs that you screw on?? Pretty sure that makes them impossible to lose, if not I need to consider my life choices of wearing my diamond earrings without a care in the world because I trust their screw on backs 😂😂😂😂
Word of advice: if you find an earring in your guy's car, give them a chance to explain (and prove that explanation) before erupting - especially if they have female relatives that they're close to. If they can't explain themselves, kick them to the curb (obviously...), but don't always assume the worst until you have more to go on.
I say this because, many years ago, I had recently started dating a guy and I found an earring in his car. It was beautiful and was one of the hook style ones, so easy enough to lose. I showed him it and, instead of panicking, he looked relieved. He just said "oh, thank God! Grandma lost that a couple of days ago. She's going to be so happy to get it back, as they were a gift from Grandad" (his Grandad had passed away a few months before that). To check he was telling the truth, I said "let's pop it round now - the sooner she has it, the sooner she can stop worrying". Again, instead of panicking, he responded with "great idea!" and we drove round there. I met his Grandma, she took one look at the earring, cried, and gave me a big hug. Then went and got the other matching one and put them on. I immediately took my own earrings off so that I could give her the rubber backs on them (so that she wouldn't lose them again). I had spares at home that I could use for my own earrings - I bought a job lot after losing too many earrings!
I married that man not long after and we've been happily married ever since. But that wouldn't have been the case if I'd followed my instinct to erupt when I first saw that earring... Even though there was a perfectly reasonable explanation for it.
So, moral of the story - test them before assuming the worst 👍😎
The Girl with the Pearl Earring portrait with Charlotte's face cracked me up!! 😆😆😆
This episode had me cracking up!!! 😂 love it!!!!
"I'm not taking in strays." I love that. 😂
My first husband had gorgeous red hair, I prayed my whole pregnancy that both of our children would have his hair , and their hair is beautiful but our daughter got a mix of my brown & his red and our son got strawberry blonde 🤷
I am the redhead and my S/O has almost has black hair. Our daughter ended up being very blonde headed and our son was a darker blonde but, his hair turned a dark brown as he became an adult. However, his beard and mustache hair is flaming red the exact colour of my hair. Genetics be wilding! 😂😂😂
Ugh 2:16 when he just disrespected her boundaries and she just claps back! 👏👏👏
Litter is kept at schools in case of school shootings. It’s quieter than using the toilet and students can’t exactly walk to the bathroom.
Well how sad is that
Me to the England friend ‘so did they when the baseball game ?’ 😂😂😂😂
ADHDer with time blindness here. The anxiety of possibly missing the boat would be so high I would be an hour early. Late for anything not important and anxiously early for things like this, so can't call time blindness an excuse.
Same.
Same
The finding of an earring in the car reminds me of a time a while back when my daughter was looking for something in the car and came across an Adele cd. I guess there was a huge blow up! Her husband finally said, “Call your mom! I promise, she gave it to you at Christmas!!” She calls and sure enough…🤣 I hope she at least apologized. Merry Christmas everyone!
You had a chance to troll your son in law so hard, could have feigned ignorance and pretended to know nothing about the CD! Good for you for keeping the peace. He must be a good SIL that you want to keep around.
⭐🎄Merry Christmas!
Sooooo tell me she didn’t think he was cheating because of an Adele CD 😮 please?!?! 🤦🏾♀️
@@LazyIRanch 🤣🤣🤣he’s the best and if you saw the way he looks at her? 🥰
@@DanaFullylove, sadly, she did. It’s kind of a trigger and a worry because so many people in their town are having affairs. She needn’t worry. He is so in love with her and they’re the best of friends.
the eyebrows!!!! LMAO!!! great commentary killing me ryt now- I'm dead🤣
Me! I’m am pathetically early 99% of the time because of my CRIPPLING ANXIETY over my own time blindness and the possibility of being late! I remember the one time in third grade when I was late for school… less than ten minutes, and I came into the classroom in tears. My friends mom had to drive me that morning. Scarred for LIFE. LOL
I adopted a stray cat, and learned the first night that she let's me know when she needs to go out to use the bathroom! Love this cat!❤
I just had a co-worker tell me the other day that being late is a disease. I literally laughed out loud… but she was serious. So I wonder what meds they give for that….? 🤔
My time blindness does make me, on average, 30 mins early for everything. For appointments, it's useful. When I get to a friend's house I have to decide between being extremely early, or sitting in my car looking like a stalker.
Pretty sure that the first one was debunked as false....
He should have told her his frat bros dressed in drag and that's where that pearl earing. That scenario would have been more believable than the gaslighting he was spouting.
As someone with time blindness, yes, I am as often extremely early for things as I am late. Like showing up to work/appointments 40 minutes early. I usually just sit in my car until it is closer to time cause it’s still embarrassing.
when I was about 14 I confessed to my friend through text on valentine's day that I had a crush on her. all she said was "that's cute", I spent the whole weekend stressing out about what her answer could be and what to do when I'd see her again. monday comes, I get to class and I'm super shy and awkward, can barely say anything to her, can't look her in the eye. she was visibly weirded out and eventually told me something along the lines of "get it together, stop being weird". realized at that moment that her lack of answer in my confession meant she wasn't interested.
that's when I learned there's something worse than rejection, and it's to not even get rejected. really makes you feel like you're not even worth their time to get a simple "no".
Y'know how they say "they may not be twins, but they're sisters"? Yeah, those brows are hateful step siblings
Wasn't the litter box thing debunked multiple times already? If it's just sarcasm and you don't actually think it's legit then it flew over my head.
I do have a friend whose a principal at a middle school and he did confirm it was a thing 🤷🏻♀️. Idk
the litter boxes were supposed to be used in case of a school shooting, not cause kids wanted to be cats, context matters@@kolbsy
The litter is used for bodily fluid cleanup. It's been in use forever for vomit & other accidents. Clay litter is absorbant & cheap. People believing it is for furries is a level of naivety that is beyond comprehension. Like there are gaggles of furries running around elementary schools.
@@mkarocia Context does matter. Can confirm that the local high school put litter boxes in for a kid who identified as a cat.
You know, the barber wrote a beautiful but stern message! I love seeing people communicate their boundaries in a healthy manner! ❤
I overcompensate for my time blindness by being early for anything important ever. Like I will be 45 minutes early and just sit in my car or drive around until I can reasonably arrive.
The last one happened to me! I didn't see the overnight bag, but when I told him that he could not come up, he told me that he brought the overnight bag because he knew that we would be out late. I still said no and he sat in the car for 1/2 an hour texting me, asking if he could come up! 🤣🤣 When we talked, I asked, "What in any of our conversations led you to think it was a good idea?".
😂 As someone with time blindness, it does apply to early also. Only we realize it's too early to leave, so we go do this other thing beforehand because it only takes like 10 minutes, but it actually takes at least 30min... then, omg, oh shyt. I'm late.
Like my uncle in Australia congratulating us the day before our birthday. 😂 "So how's my birthday going to be? Fun?" 🥳
Lol. That earing was yanked in the heat of the momment 😂
As someone with time blindness-yes, in an effort to always be on time I am generally 30 minutes to an hour early to most things that I thought I would arrive right on time for-occasionally if I don’t set a timer/reminder for things I forget things are going on and look over at the clock and it’s been 8 hours but typically they can show up too early for things haha
So true