Every Filipina Manipulation Tactic Explained in 39 Minutes

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Komentáře • 617

  • @SmartGirlPhilippines
    @SmartGirlPhilippines  Před 3 měsíci +45

    Good quality Filipina exists. You just need to be wise and a little bit of luck to find them. 😊 There are successful marriages and relationships that we know foreigners found from their Filipina woman. This video will definitely help you wise up.

    • @jamestopeka2236
      @jamestopeka2236 Před 2 měsíci +5

      I found her 10 years ago , sorry guys she's my keeper lol.

    • @SSJ4Brohan
      @SSJ4Brohan Před 2 měsíci +6

      Can you do one about games foreigners play as well? It would be good to see the other side of the coin. 🍻👍🏼

    • @dominionian7193
      @dominionian7193 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Good quality Filipina women don't fetishize Western men to begin with.

    • @davidtharp2125
      @davidtharp2125 Před 2 měsíci +2

      You’ve scared me away…

    • @jamestopeka2236
      @jamestopeka2236 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@davidtharp2125
      5 % western women are traditional and 95% Philippino women are traditional so you do the math and do the math of risk , I've been with my Philipina 10 years and never been happier . Foreigners here with Philipinas are aways smiling 😃

  • @kevinreist7718
    @kevinreist7718 Před 3 měsíci +232

    Relationships are not games. As soon as "games" enter into a relationship, it's time to end that relationship.

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 Před 3 měsíci

      its all a game... you just suck at playing

    • @LiarLiarBrainOnFire
      @LiarLiarBrainOnFire Před 3 měsíci +5

      I date multiply Ladies at one time just for that reason

    • @ripwff7502
      @ripwff7502 Před 3 měsíci +10

      I'm American and can't stand American TV & movie brainwashing. I need a Filipina who doesn't rule her life by American TV and American movies. I'm 8,000 miles from home to get away from that. Did the Filipina learn bad behavior that makes us choose someone else in #2 from American TV & movies? The man will quickly without word just leave.

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 Před 3 měsíci

      @@ripwff7502 YOURE ALOSER

    • @wld-ph
      @wld-ph Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@LiarLiarBrainOnFire Don´t get them all pregnant...

  • @cliffpearce9043
    @cliffpearce9043 Před 3 měsíci +155

    I have zero tolerance for nonsense if she disappears she can stay gone

  • @billtompkins1967
    @billtompkins1967 Před 3 měsíci +148

    This is GOLD! You just explained the 2 years of drama i’ve had in 39 minutes 🤣

    • @JoeStacks419
      @JoeStacks419 Před 3 měsíci +4

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @lillpoetboy
      @lillpoetboy Před 3 měsíci +10

      Yeap. Went through he'll with a girl . Glad I wisedup

    • @TheCaptainRolla
      @TheCaptainRolla Před 3 měsíci +12

      Exactly 💯. It all makes sense when someone explains it to you. I had one with soooo many of the red flags. I still think she was very loyal and very loving... but ruined herself with all the jealousy and crazy childish games! The games seem to be in the genes.
      Their great when their great but all turn on you in the end!
      Always have an end game

    • @777torch777
      @777torch777 Před 2 měsíci +2

      You are not alone brother 😂

    • @arjayavon7250
      @arjayavon7250 Před 2 měsíci +1

      😂😂😂 me too

  • @HunkyMan777
    @HunkyMan777 Před 3 měsíci +103

    Passive aggressive and lying are instant dealbreakers

  • @tdoo6024
    @tdoo6024 Před 3 měsíci +82

    Tampo never worked on me. My solution was to wait until she made the first move. In the meantime, I just move forward. The key for me was to be willing to walk away from the relationship.

  • @ManOfAdventure2011
    @ManOfAdventure2011 Před 3 měsíci +124

    Whenever a filipina gives me some sad story about money. I say this "have faith, god will provide and see you through...". They shut up and go away. They have zero come back because its based on them being religious 😅

    • @MusicalMarble
      @MusicalMarble Před 2 měsíci +6

      Me too.

    • @louiewatson9389
      @louiewatson9389 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Same. My fiance is very religious. This works every time. 😂

    • @SSJ4Brohan
      @SSJ4Brohan Před 2 měsíci +2

      Same! I mean it too.

    • @jacqueslee2592
      @jacqueslee2592 Před 2 měsíci

      If you are into Southeast Asian women, I would go for Thai women. They are hotter, more daring, and less headaches because they do not play games. They will give you sex and if it does not work out she will just leave you gracefully without playing or stealing you. With Filipinas, they pretend to be religious and family oriented and are stealing your money and will rob you of everything. Most thai women do not engage in these games.

    • @thisismytruckinglife.akaba8112
      @thisismytruckinglife.akaba8112 Před 2 měsíci +1

      That’s a great one thanks

  • @jamestopeka2236
    @jamestopeka2236 Před 2 měsíci +42

    My Philipina of 10 years has given me 100% more respect than the western women I dated did .

    • @SSJ4Brohan
      @SSJ4Brohan Před 2 měsíci

      Western society is now a gynocentric woke society. It's a loose loose for men. More and more men are going out of the country every day and the Western women are FURIOUS. 😂😂😂

    • @milkncookie
      @milkncookie Před 2 měsíci +2

      So 0% x2? 🤔

    • @dacritter8397
      @dacritter8397 Před 2 měsíci

      @@milkncookie hahahah! Hilarious

  • @Flhxs2015
    @Flhxs2015 Před 3 měsíci +65

    Pregnancy being weaponized: dangerous. Drama and silly games: run Forrest run. 39.02 minutes of Daisy: Priceless😊

    • @user-bz5ee5hh7u
      @user-bz5ee5hh7u Před 3 měsíci +2

      Philipinas can be very immature it's hard for them to say there sorry about something a lot of foolish pride and then with all the tampo bs it's a little to much drama don't think the juice is worth the squeeze

    • @monteball1523
      @monteball1523 Před 3 měsíci

      Hello Daisy

    • @jhnyjoejoe69
      @jhnyjoejoe69 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@user-bz5ee5hh7u they really are the Latinas of Asia

    • @deaddropsd1972
      @deaddropsd1972 Před 2 měsíci

      When your country is backwards & poor. Against birth control/ legal abortion- poverty & corruption dominate. Philippines 🇵🇭 needs to legalize abortion & promote birth control 2 kid maximum. Catholic Italy 🇮🇹, France 🇫🇷 & Spain 🇪🇸 LEGALIZED ABORTION in the 1980s but stupid Philippines 🇵🇭 will NOT - so you have this…. Poor desperate women who will sell their bodies & souls for SEX TOURISM.
      I think prostitution should be legalized but this & all passport bros who fly to fk are just sad , pathetic vultures.
      The nightmares of mail order bride who marry for citizenship are HILARIOUS.
      You asked for it.

  • @Life_TakeTwo
    @Life_TakeTwo Před 3 měsíci +80

    NEVER chase a filipina. Let them chase you... they will if they like you. Chasing a filipina means you are playing their game. Instead... treat them well, enjoy them, show them new experiences, let them pamper you, but do NOT start trying to please them. It will never work out once you go down that path.

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 Před 3 měsíci

      No marriage, no family, no green cards = no problems. It's all beta-bux$ unless the man can induce romantic love passion which is based on looks and age (young and hot).

    • @mrgilok755
      @mrgilok755 Před 3 měsíci +18

      They won't chase you just if they like you. They will chase you if they think they can get something they want. It can be many things 😮

    • @N1co777
      @N1co777 Před 3 měsíci +12

      This goes for all women.

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@N1co777 Correct.

  • @paulbucklebuckle4921
    @paulbucklebuckle4921 Před 3 měsíci +60

    Men leaving the west because of silly games will be disappointed to find them played out everywhere .

    • @USA_to_Asia_in_2024
      @USA_to_Asia_in_2024 Před 3 měsíci +15

      At least the women who are playing the games elsewhere look 20-times better, slimmer with long NATURAL hair and more FEMININE than the ones in the USA.

    • @Wuestenwiesel
      @Wuestenwiesel Před 3 měsíci +9

      I came to the same conclusion or I just had bad luck.
      But I guess women all over the world are pretty much the same.

    • @wld-ph
      @wld-ph Před 3 měsíci

      This silly games are divorce court giving a woman half, then the next woman half, and the next woman half... so a man works all his life for 1/8th... and that´s after the government stole half for also doing nothing... So consider how to avoid being 1/16th of your income... Move abroad, drip-feed yourself, don´t be so flash, you get the idea... Women should be like Netflix, cancel and no more money...

    • @crisalcantara7671
      @crisalcantara7671 Před 3 měsíci +9

      women are like this everywhere

    • @ErikLeed
      @ErikLeed Před 2 měsíci +1

      true dat

  • @Ego-Kills
    @Ego-Kills Před 3 měsíci +49

    Once you date 1 Filipina and you try to observe and learn her tricks, no other Filipina can deceive or manipulate you. Why? Becaus 99% of them use the same strategy. Feels like they either went to the same school of manipulation tactics or they consult with each other. It is so funny how their sob stories are exactly the same irrespective of the Filipina.

    • @crisalcantara7671
      @crisalcantara7671 Před 3 měsíci +6

      it has nothing to do with being a philipino woman , it's most if not all women are like this .

    • @ErikLeed
      @ErikLeed Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@crisalcantara7671 Its bc they don't hesitate to dish the dirt to each other and share what works. I think women have been honing their manipulation skills for generations to extract resources from men. It's really not surprising, it was survival for women.

    • @simjam1980
      @simjam1980 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Narcissists all use the same broad range of tactics to manipulate, use or control you.

    • @deaddropsd1972
      @deaddropsd1972 Před 2 měsíci

      When your country is backwards & poor. Against birth control/ legal abortion- poverty & corruption dominate. Philippines 🇵🇭 needs to legalize abortion & promote birth control 2 kid maximum. Catholic Italy 🇮🇹, France 🇫🇷 & Spain 🇪🇸 LEGALIZED ABORTION in the 1980s but stupid Philippines 🇵🇭 will NOT - so you have this…. Poor desperate women who will sell their bodies & souls for SEX TOURISM.
      I think prostitution should be legalized but this & all passport bros who fly to fk are just sad , pathetic vultures.
      The nightmares of mail order bride who marry for citizenship are HILARIOUS.
      You asked for it.

  • @roger.b8046
    @roger.b8046 Před 3 měsíci +163

    2 years in the Philippines has made me appreciate staying single

    • @Not_A_Tourist
      @Not_A_Tourist Před 3 měsíci +14

      You said it 👍

    • @jhnyjoejoe69
      @jhnyjoejoe69 Před 3 měsíci

      if you're meeting city girls yeah, they can be as toxic as the West

    • @daywalker3919
      @daywalker3919 Před 3 měsíci +20

      Staying single is not a bad thing. But if you can find your other half who is supportive it is also a win win.

    • @LiarLiarBrainOnFire
      @LiarLiarBrainOnFire Před 3 měsíci

      MGTOW is a great Retirement plan

    • @Dragon_rls
      @Dragon_rls Před 3 měsíci +4

      Way to go dude. Like being at a smorgasbord, but sticking with soup. I’ll be out there in 4-1/2 years permanently, and will be doing the same 👍

  • @MermanManly
    @MermanManly Před 3 měsíci +45

    I feel like Daisy is warning us to stay away from Filipinas, like a parent telling their kids not to do drugs:
    "You can have an amazing time, but they can also ruin or end your life, and possibly someone else's"

    • @SmartGirlPhilippines
      @SmartGirlPhilippines  Před 3 měsíci +20

      Nope...not at all. Filipinas make AMAZING wives and girlfriends. This video is to help guys fix any problems in their relationships so it will work.

    • @chickydogbreath1
      @chickydogbreath1 Před 3 měsíci +13

      She's saying something more like drink responsibly used drugs sparingly.
      That's no different than any race of women and I've dated most of them. 45 countries and counting currently in Ethiopia and having an amazing time. I'll be in Africa for the remainder of the year.

    • @randyfocht737
      @randyfocht737 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Awesome video. I learned so many things. Did you study this in university, or just realized it yourself?

    • @Steve-ev6vx
      @Steve-ev6vx Před 3 měsíci +4

      I feel like most of this applies well to women overall. I mean I am sure there are differences, but everything here applies pretty well to the Ameican women I have dated.

    • @Agbahizzal
      @Agbahizzal Před 3 měsíci +8

      Women are women. The adjective of Filipina doesn't change the dark aspect of the noun.
      Most men think that by changing the brand, u can not know how to do proper maintenance. No matter how good a car is, u gotta change the oil.
      Learn what basic maintenance is and move accordingly.

  • @sunrayrosin7181
    @sunrayrosin7181 Před 2 měsíci +7

    This goes for ALL woman from ALL cultures. How perfectly well put and accurate to the core. This needs to be standard education for all men young and old. Thank you .

  • @JoeStacks419
    @JoeStacks419 Před 3 měsíci +21

    We all learn manipulation tactics as a child. Some we outgrown, while others we modify to perfection. Some can be tolerated on occasion, while others are a sudden deal breaker. As discussed previously, an upgrade is a mature minded Filipina with good character.

  • @thehuemanimal3626
    @thehuemanimal3626 Před 2 měsíci +29

    This isn't Filipina manipulation, this is a tactic employed by ALL women. From the slore to the nurse, from your mother to the dental assistant...

    • @MisterMikeTexas
      @MisterMikeTexas Před měsícem +2

      Not all of em. I've known women who had the bestest personalities, and were genuinely great human beings. Unfortunately, they were already taken. And I wasn't worthy of them.

    • @portlandGTR
      @portlandGTR Před měsícem

      lol not even close man. Good women don’t do this crap. Maybe 1 or 2 things very rarely sure, humans are humans. But heck no not all women do this stuff. I’m seeing a 19 year old right now and she is just perpetually happy. No trauma, no toxic ex boyfriends, no hoe phase, parents are happily married still. I wouldn’t ever consider dating a girl half my age, 19 is almost half, I’m not one of the 50+ guys over there. But dude she is just a breath of so much fresh air. So easy to be around, so kind and sweet. That I may actually reconsider dating her. No kids either which is pretty common here

    • @portlandGTR
      @portlandGTR Před měsícem

      Damaged women do this. Traumatized women do this. Insecure women do this. Manipulative girls do this. Dishonest women do this. Healthy, happy, confident women have better ways to communicate and get their needs met

    • @markmelanson6785
      @markmelanson6785 Před 12 dny

      its normal behavior in sea

  • @Matowix
    @Matowix Před 3 měsíci +28

    This is why I just goto massage parlors

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz Před 3 měsíci +50

    If she talks suicide, I'm gone

    • @nightowl7261
      @nightowl7261 Před 3 měsíci +4

      What if she talks homicide?

    • @Rastalos
      @Rastalos Před 2 měsíci +2

      It's me or her then. And I'm not going down

    • @baeshin
      @baeshin Před 2 měsíci

      @@nightowl7261 gone faster!

    • @dragonleg8700
      @dragonleg8700 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@nightowl7261😅😅😅😅😂😂😂

    • @ace1926
      @ace1926 Před měsícem

      @@nightowl7261 - LOL!

  • @ryno6101
    @ryno6101 Před 3 měsíci +34

    You just made up my mind 😅deleted my Christian Filipina dating site , was almost ready to pay 😂😂didn’t thank you ❤❤

    • @SmartGirlPhilippines
      @SmartGirlPhilippines  Před 3 měsíci +20

      Filipinas are GREAT...you just gotta find the right one. There's nothing wrong with Christian Filipina. This video is to help you identify the ways they MAY try to manipulate you so you can know how to respond. Filipinas make great wives and girlfriends...you just need to be aware of how things work.

    • @andeanderson1306
      @andeanderson1306 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@SmartGirlPhilippinesAgreed

    • @DrDlane
      @DrDlane Před 3 měsíci +3

      She's not saying that every filipina you encounter will use all these tactics. My guess is it would be pretty hard to find one that does all of these. But some will use several. It's mostly cultural and they are learning that foreigners will not tolerate these behaviors. They are the reason we left our country to come to find a filipina in the first place. Most filipina are wonderful, peaceful women that want to make your life better than you have ever had it. And from what I've seen, Christian filipina Dios more yo eres out the scammers than any other site. There are still some there but much fewer than anywhere else. Don't give up. Filipina are worth it in the end. Just find one you are compatible with.

    • @LiarLiarBrainOnFire
      @LiarLiarBrainOnFire Před 3 měsíci +8

      Smart move. Never Simp! Stay Off Line and meet a Lady in person ... if she wants you/interested she will let you know.

    • @wld-ph
      @wld-ph Před 3 měsíci

      "deleted my Christian Filipina dating site , was almost ready to pay"... you could try DateInasia, PinaLove etc, which work as free sites... not hamstrung messages, where neither can talk... BUT you have to do the work, and wade through the 80+% of scammers. When you have done that, you radar will be honed to every scam and manipulation in the book. Just remember, never send money to anyone you haven´t met (aren´t fracking---)

  • @hungrydude619
    @hungrydude619 Před měsícem +1

    Honestly I think it’s very cute of you to text when you wake up, shower, eat, etc..😊

  • @sorry9388
    @sorry9388 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I’m 65. I had a vasectomy at 30, the best thing I ever did! Especially all those wonderful years in the Philippines and Thailand.

  • @johnfeit6916
    @johnfeit6916 Před 3 měsíci +22

    Daisy, you are so articulate, intelligent and incredibly cute. The man who wins your love is going to be one happy guy!

  • @Bhappy247
    @Bhappy247 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Oh wow, a filipina who was not disingenuous. Daisy, you were talking from firsthand experience and from the heart. Your previously relationship has taught you well. You will be a better girlfriend, lover and wife. Salamat :)

  • @mrcooper1654
    @mrcooper1654 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I appreciate you so much!! I forgiven the Filipinos but it hurts that they can see right through my good heart. I notice good people get recognized by evil people. So when a Filipina says good things and I feel red flags. I must remember we are all human but some times people don't learn about Manipulation Tactic. I promise to not judge someone based on race or ethnic background but on their morals.

  • @Jeff250lbc
    @Jeff250lbc Před 3 měsíci +17

    Men in any country do not chase whisky or women.. if she is interested in you she will do whatever is needed to make you life easier.

  • @Turner_87
    @Turner_87 Před 3 měsíci +7

    I really enjoyed learning about this topic, because it makes me thankful that i have a really great wife who i can trust.

  • @intuitivesean443
    @intuitivesean443 Před 3 měsíci +16

    I’m a 55 year old male unless you got a lady pregnant, DONT DO THE WORK!! If you have to honestly allways work on a relationship find a different lady life is a struggle I don’t need my relationship to be a struggle it should be a place of peace

    • @LiarLiarBrainOnFire
      @LiarLiarBrainOnFire Před 3 měsíci +1

      I'm just Retired and got Snipped ... clapped hands ... no worries.

  • @Billy_B_Goat
    @Billy_B_Goat Před 3 měsíci +5

    Red Flags with Actionable Advice.... Priceless. Set boundaries and don't reward bad behavior. True dat. Daisy you and Reine are really growing on me. Salamat po. Peace and Love, B Goat

  • @bdh1979ta
    @bdh1979ta Před 3 měsíci +6

    While I watch most of the videos on your channel, I really enjoy your Daisy. Very mature, informative, and articulate. Thank you.

  • @michaelfeehily5926
    @michaelfeehily5926 Před 3 měsíci +9

    Having to deal with this BS over 2 yrs ago and after having the Love of my life Walk out on me for Not Falling for Most of these Scams in Person once Being there with Her,Since Being in a semi famous Boy Band as a Job ect and having to deal with that Crap Nonstop!!! This Video is an Eye Opener for Sure Thank You for Making this Video and Giving us F guys Hope for Our Future in trying to find the Right fillippina Girl for Our Future!!! SPOT ON DAISY!!!

    • @jhnyjoejoe69
      @jhnyjoejoe69 Před 3 měsíci +4

      bro just do what i do. Let them know first hand you have other girls. They will compete for your attention with the other girls. So the games will be more between them than toward you. If they get upset about it remind them you let them know up front what they were signing up for. They'll get over it or leave.

    • @JohnMcAfee-se9ms
      @JohnMcAfee-se9ms Před 3 měsíci +6

      Wow you capitalize nearly every word... Insane

    • @wld-ph
      @wld-ph Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@JohnMcAfee-se9ms It´s called Crapitalisation... but at least not SHOUTING...

  • @BigDogsRUSS
    @BigDogsRUSS Před 3 měsíci +7

    Great job Daisy! 39 minutes and the messages were never boring. 😉

  • @augustjohnnycrashed
    @augustjohnnycrashed Před 3 měsíci +11

    They always ask money ALL OF THEM!!!! Married to Filipina 1st year all about $$$ then she got help for her gambling 😅

  • @mileskendziorski8000
    @mileskendziorski8000 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I met a Philippina through a coworker, after almost a year, it was pretty clear that she was was simply trying, and trying to know me in order to financially suck me dry down to the last penny, to the point where she wanted me to go into quite a bit of credit card debt, she wanted to squeeze me for every last penny that I could get regardless of completely ruining me, fortunately I cut off the relationship before ruining my finances to the point of no return.

  • @benjaminnielsen4288
    @benjaminnielsen4288 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Hey Kabayan, this is so spot on. I dated Filipinas for over a decade when I was living in the Middle East... And they all use these tactics in some way or another. Some are really good though. I only had one girl who would hit me up for money a few times a year. Never in my life have I been around women who were so loving and so crazy at the same time. Im very glad I got to get into the Filipino culture and dating. Fun fun times.
    For those who haven't yet, but are wanting to get involved with Filipina girls: Don't start a long distance relationship. It can be difficult, frustrating, and you'll probably end up sending a lot of money. Many Filipinos are poor and looking for security, so be mindful of that.
    Go to a country where both of you can be together, or spend some time in the Philippines. Best to have a face to face relationship with a girl who's priorities are not money and material things, and get to really know and understand them.
    Dont find a girl to bring back to the states. They will be out of their element and comfort zone and can be hard for them. They are happiest when close to family and friends.
    If you meet one thats good, stick with her because the right one will treat you really well. She will.

  • @pringals420
    @pringals420 Před 2 měsíci +3

    There are good Filipinas. I married a genuinely faithful one. The rest if her family is also very genuine.
    With that being said I've seen what people are afraid of here. Be careful about it for sure.

  • @djentile7773
    @djentile7773 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I respect the grind. This is all women not just Philippines girls. This is why men knowing redpill knowledge is so important.

  • @mmoran0614
    @mmoran0614 Před 2 měsíci +2

    This is PURE GOLD and not just for filipinas :)

  • @TheRocketrob3
    @TheRocketrob3 Před 3 měsíci +16

    1:12 ghosting 👻 is very annoying especially when it lasts for days or weeks 😮

    • @andeanderson1306
      @andeanderson1306 Před 3 měsíci +6

      I've already blocked a few like this

    • @Rdkng07
      @Rdkng07 Před 3 měsíci

      Who's dumb enough to hang around for weeks? Lol, after a day or two they get blocked, every woman gets only one chance, no exceptions. There's more women than bananas hanging in a tree, what kind of schmuck has dating problems there?

    • @user-ss4xt1ui1g
      @user-ss4xt1ui1g Před 3 měsíci +4

      I have a 3 day rule. After that I assume she's not interested. Then I go back out to play the field. You got options.

  • @lyndenmanning
    @lyndenmanning Před 3 měsíci +21

    Avoid, l married one...never again, happily with a Thai now

    • @TheVersipelis
      @TheVersipelis Před 3 měsíci +9

      😂😂😂 as if they’re different!

    • @mabahokano7567
      @mabahokano7567 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Was she a city girl or province? In my experience the girls from the country are more down to earth

    • @dragonleg8700
      @dragonleg8700 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@TheVersipelislmao facts

  • @Dapper_Image_Official
    @Dapper_Image_Official Před 3 měsíci +4

    This is my first time seeing one of your videos. I'm not going to comment the way many men on here have which i see all the time. I can tell that you have a good head on your shoulders and you actually have a decent personality which is very good. You have also shown that you hold yourself accountable for any wrongs you have done but the most important things is you actually learned from it changing your ways. 👏👏👏 There is hope for you where as with many others there is no hope because they don't learn or want to learn from their mistakes. You will make some lucky man happy one day. Good video and keep up the good work. 🙂🙏🏽

  • @TheRocketrob3
    @TheRocketrob3 Před 3 měsíci +15

    You will understand once it happens to you

    • @markmelanson6785
      @markmelanson6785 Před 12 dny

      absolutely, the longer im in thailand the more you realize these disorders are cultural/intergenerational

  • @Bravo21
    @Bravo21 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Thank you Daisy and greetings from Bacolod 👍. Great video_ Your information and perspective is always helpful. Gents protect yourself. Do not ignore the red flags... trust your gut.

  • @lillpoetboy
    @lillpoetboy Před 3 měsíci +31

    Was talking to a girl , Justine. And she guilt tripped me alot, she basicly used half of all of tatics on me. And it was hella stressful.
    When she finally cussed me out was when i blocked her and her family. Cant believe it took me too long to cut her out of my life. Guess it took disrespecting me to my face to finally wake up.

    • @SmartGirlPhilippines
      @SmartGirlPhilippines  Před 3 měsíci +16

      Move on. There's better Filipinas out there.

    • @kalebgonzales4009
      @kalebgonzales4009 Před 3 měsíci +6

      It’s good you got out. I’m local but I knew that Filipinas are not what they seem to be. Never bothered to date them ever again after. Just had to live peacefully instead.

    • @Martin51789
      @Martin51789 Před 3 měsíci +6

      When any girl disrespects you, time too leave; unless a child is in the picture, that's harder too solve.

    • @LiarLiarBrainOnFire
      @LiarLiarBrainOnFire Před 3 měsíci +2

      SIMP Once ... OK ... SIMP Twice and you will never forgive yourself

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd Před 3 měsíci +1

      Thanks for letting everyone know you have zero boundaries.

  • @christopher1423
    @christopher1423 Před 3 měsíci +29

    "this is my brother, this is my gay friend."

  • @Gaza-vu6gl
    @Gaza-vu6gl Před 3 měsíci +2

    Very well explained. My gf here after a full year together has become manipulative especially with money. Controlling yes but my relationship has now entered the love bombing stage to get what she wants. No intimacy for months yet she’s just been on a lovely paid for holiday in Indonesia. On our return the word of financial help lend has appeared. Lend means give and I told her this. A promise to pay back was forthcoming yet when I handed the money she said thanks for giving. It’s not as I know going to be returned. Done with all of this now and the tampo.

  • @luxdevoid
    @luxdevoid Před 3 měsíci +10

    The big issue with all of these tactics and with the vast majority of women in general is the adversarial nature of these games.There is no thought to the long-term.There is no thought to the couple, or the health and happiness of the family.These are all very immature and narcissistic tactics. That's why I will probably always be single. Women are 100% transactional.

  • @Martin51789
    @Martin51789 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Hi Daisy, It's great to know that you are giving advice on Philipina mind set. There are many many broken hearts, trying to find a loving relationship.

  • @stephanegosselin2861
    @stephanegosselin2861 Před 3 měsíci +9

    They promised a lot in LDR but when you get there they barely talk to you, they want your money but they barely give you the time of day when you meet them.
    They do prefer their no job no future goal boyfriend.

    • @kirdref9431
      @kirdref9431 Před 2 měsíci

      LDR = Long Distance Relationship

    • @humungushumungus213
      @humungushumungus213 Před 2 měsíci +1

      You gotta improve ur tubesteak boogie game, after all, young girls like to get the freak on 😂don’t show up with ED

  • @mrjohnklake
    @mrjohnklake Před měsícem +1

    I had a woman here in the US get “angry” when I was not responding while working for like 45 minutes. I had warned her prior that I was going to be busy for several minutes and I would get back to her. When I finally got back to her, I was looking at her messages accusing me of not respecting her time. I ended up blocking her like an hour later. She was much younger and I have to wonder how society can function when so many only know how to take without giving like her behavior.

  • @Flymike53
    @Flymike53 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I wonder how you know all this? An incredible piece of work, I’ve experienced most of this over the years. To hear an articulate Filipina lay this out so clearly is mind blowing. Daisy is our fairy god sister / Angel 😇.
    Many thanks Daisy 🙏🥰

  • @Martin51789
    @Martin51789 Před 3 měsíci +4

    The moment a guy encounters: overbearing, major Tompo, manipulation and lies, run and don't look back. This type of girl will make a guy to be alone more often.

  • @trilithon108
    @trilithon108 Před 2 měsíci +1

    The culture is family based, and their family come first until your family of togetherness is strong. 🎉

  • @user-bf5fi4ss2q
    @user-bf5fi4ss2q Před 3 měsíci +11

    There seems to be a lot of fire damaged houses in the Philippines.

  • @Antoine-gx4yl
    @Antoine-gx4yl Před 2 měsíci +1

    Excellent

  • @stevenlawrence5733
    @stevenlawrence5733 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I'm living in Manila one month now. I haven't dated anyone since I arrived here one month ago.
    I subscribed to you because this video indeed took a lot of work and I like the purpose you are on.

  • @user-fh4uq1bj9o
    @user-fh4uq1bj9o Před 3 měsíci +8

    never use dating apps, approach on streets only

  • @austinpowers1999
    @austinpowers1999 Před 3 měsíci +8

    HIGH MAINTENANCE..IMMA PASS

    • @j-bonkers1887
      @j-bonkers1887 Před 2 měsíci

      Trad wives are high maintenance in this economy

  • @Darrynkeith26
    @Darrynkeith26 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this video. It cleared up a lot of doubts with LDR relationship with my girl in Philippines. She hit about five of those cards but I can tell she’s maturing and hopefully when I go to see her the energy we have on video chat is the sane in person.

    • @darwinjina
      @darwinjina Před 3 měsíci

      And not too many other "brothers"

  • @Georgian.A-Music
    @Georgian.A-Music Před 2 měsíci +4

    I’ve been married with a Filipino woman which now I undergo a divorce process abroad because there in the Philippines is no divorce. On my 8 years of relationship with her 6 online and 2 in real which we got married I said to myself I won’t get another Filipino women. I’ve dealt with her toxic family,friends and herself too. Leaving me without anything and had to apply voluntarily deportation to return back in the uk. Maybe there are good Filipino women. But to me that was the first and the last

  • @zerocarbdoc
    @zerocarbdoc Před 3 měsíci +4

    Excellent info all the info in one place, all experienced or seen before but this is very comprehensive.

  • @scotmarq
    @scotmarq Před 3 měsíci +3

    Wow that was on point!!! Absolute truth!

  • @carey8250
    @carey8250 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Daisy,your voice/accent is excellent! Great job, and looking great too. Mahalo for the education 🤙🏽

  • @jesusblessthesecommentsamen
    @jesusblessthesecommentsamen Před 3 měsíci +8

    All women the Jezabel demon until you meet a God fearing women

  • @andoncroft
    @andoncroft Před 3 měsíci +1

    You look like someone who makes big money online. You look successful ☯️

  • @user-sy6jf4hm3t
    @user-sy6jf4hm3t Před 2 měsíci +5

    She just described every female in all of human history.

  • @MyCents-pm6qd
    @MyCents-pm6qd Před 3 měsíci +19

    Dump her as soon at the manipulation/games begin. She can learn to hide the tactics until she gets the binding legal contract (marriage). At that point she can divorce in the United States and take half your possessions. No I am not a bitter man that this happened to, I have just dated a lot of women and see the commonalities. Find a woman without the tactics and manipulation.

  • @Dethrey_
    @Dethrey_ Před 2 měsíci +1

    Be direct, set expectations, set boundaries. 👍🏾 got it.

  • @Jezzyftw
    @Jezzyftw Před 2 měsíci +1

    This literally came up on my feed; not 2 days after I started an LDR with my own Filipiña
    great job youtube algorithm; xD
    Quality content, thank you!

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages Před 2 měsíci +1

      You're welcome.

  • @user-ox8ix6lf4r
    @user-ox8ix6lf4r Před 3 měsíci +9

    Thanks I will be going to Cambodia then 😂

  • @ForeignLifestylestory
    @ForeignLifestylestory Před 2 měsíci +1

    lot of good advice.. wish more would listen and learn.

  • @ntech1507
    @ntech1507 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Me and my Filipina have none of these issues. I do not understand why this happens. But then again we already met and talk a lot so we trust each other very much. I am greatful for my girlfriend because I hear so many horror stories/drama

  • @LassieFarm
    @LassieFarm Před 3 měsíci +5

    Baby voice when she wants something. Intense jealousy, stonewalling/tampo 💯🇵🇭

  • @avatarneji
    @avatarneji Před měsícem +2

    1. CHAT GAMES
    2. LOVE BOMBING
    3. LYING
    4. WORD PLAY ("so how much money do you make?")
    5. PUBLIC POSTS
    6. CLINGY
    7. SAVE ME!
    8. SAVE MY FAMILY!
    9. FACEBOOK STALKING
    10. TAMPO 😮‍💨
    11. JEALOUSY
    12. PREGNANCY

  • @smartbomb7202
    @smartbomb7202 Před 3 měsíci +7

    seems like these flip woman always have a "nephew" that turns out to actually be their son...lol

  • @stephengrenenger7270
    @stephengrenenger7270 Před 2 měsíci +2

    this applies to every woman not just Filipinas

  • @geoffb5813
    @geoffb5813 Před 2 měsíci

    You are very sensible and you come across as genuine.

  • @byronsimpson7024
    @byronsimpson7024 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Tests and games come with all women , especially in the beginning . It's a way for them to gauge your metal . If you want a relationship , you will have to get through that stage . By then , hopefully , you will also have your boundaries set .

  • @pasheka777
    @pasheka777 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Great teacher!

  • @bobbruce4135
    @bobbruce4135 Před 3 měsíci +6

    The Sternberg's Triangle widely accepted by psychologists says that hot burning desire (for a handsome young man) is needed for romantic love (the Passion metric). The "blk-pill" channels discuss this too. Normies are only wanted for male utility, such as for traditional gender roles of marriage, mortgages, babies, etc. Sub-5's in looks is limited to P4P and other forms of big time Beta-Bux$. So, after looking in the mirror at the college gym and determining your SMV, you can know where you fit in.

    • @Steve-ev6vx
      @Steve-ev6vx Před 3 měsíci

      Just find a 5 that is grateful to have a relationship. Forget settling down with a worn out 9.

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Steve-ev6vx Today, they mostly have experience on the c-carousel riding handsome alphas, and don't have lasting passion for a beta. Unicorns.

    • @Steve-ev6vx
      @Steve-ev6vx Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@bobbruce4135 I fully understand mens issues, but you are just bitter and negative. There are religious, conservative women who don't sleep around.

    • @humungushumungus213
      @humungushumungus213 Před 2 měsíci

      @@Steve-ev6vxyeah you’ll be dragged to the church and old granny underwear , you’ll be eating pigs blood soup and peppered bungholes

  • @MVEZombie
    @MVEZombie Před 2 měsíci +1

    A guy I knew who was in the military married a girl from the Philippines. She seemed pretty ok the first time I met her, but then she added me on Facebook (where there are links to my other social media accounts), then snap chat, then started sending me nudes, telling me the guy was abusive and that she'd rather be with me. This was like a month after meeting them for dinner after he came home from deployment. He ended up divorcing her and she went back to the Philippines, but not before cheating on the guy with multiple guys here in the states.

  • @michaelallen4688
    @michaelallen4688 Před 15 dny

    Thank you for sharing this information

  • @MisterMikeTexas
    @MisterMikeTexas Před měsícem

    I already had no confidence in my relationship abilities before I saw this video. Now, I'm more introverted than ever! 😮

  • @waterbug1135
    @waterbug1135 Před 3 měsíci +12

    Guilt for money response can be "I need to save my money for my future wife and kids."

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Nothing really works because handsome young Chads are loved and don't need money (often the money she's after is going to her Chadrone lover she calls her "brother"). Just be a "Chad". But, if you're not (neither am I) then it's P4P, marriage and other forms of long-term relationships are just P4P too.

    • @ronindude9640
      @ronindude9640 Před 3 měsíci

      @@bobbruce4135 You nailed it in the head and went to crux of the matter. Top comment ! Fully agree with you.

  • @benjaminnielsen4288
    @benjaminnielsen4288 Před 3 měsíci

    Hey Kabayan, this iis so spot on. I dated Filipinas for over a decade when I was living in the Middle East... And they all use these tactics in some way or another. Some are teally good though. I only had one girl who would hit me up for money a few times a year. Never in my life have I been around women who were so loving and so crazy at the same time. Im very glad I got to get into the Filipino culture and dating. Fun fun times.
    For those who haven't yet, but are wanting to get involved with Filipina girls: Don't start a long distance relationship. It can be difficult, frustrating, and you'll probably end up sending a lot of money. Many Filipinos are poor and looking for security, so be mindful of that.
    Go to a country where both of you can be together, or spend some time in the Philippines. Best to have a face to face relationship with a girl who's priorities are not money and material things, and you get really grt to know and understand them.
    Dont find a girl to bring back to the states. They will be out of their element and comfort zone and can be hard for them. They are happiest when close to family and friends.
    If you meet one thats good, stick with her because the right one will treat you really well. She will.

  • @robgarcia1631
    @robgarcia1631 Před 2 měsíci +1

    The womaneze language is universaly the all over the world. Its the Man that makes the difference, boundaries, limitations and respect is the deciding factor. Men choose and women help

  • @michaelcausby5762
    @michaelcausby5762 Před 3 měsíci +3

    You are so correct and Beautiful!!!

  • @Chris-wp3ew
    @Chris-wp3ew Před 28 dny +1

    Sadly, I am now married to a Filipina who is INSANELY jealous. Even her female FAMILY members set her off on a major Tampo. I can't even SPEAK or LOOK in these other girl's direction. It's breaking us up... She says there is nothing she can do about it. She says she just wants me to ONLY interact with her. I THOUGHT marrying her would prove there was nothing to worry about. I was soooo wrong.

  • @DrDlane
    @DrDlane Před 3 měsíci +4

    Hi Daisy. These are all really well thought out and good advice for most of the guys. Some of us do not put up with any of these tactics and we make that clear from the very beginning. If a filipina wants to be in a long term relationship or marriage then she needs to show that she is mature enough to do so. If not, there's only one word that applies, NEXT. And there are no exceptions to getting a DNA test. Our government requires it for citizenship proof. I cannot put my name on a birth certificate without proof that i am the father. Keep up the good work.

  • @michaelcausby5762
    @michaelcausby5762 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Smart and beautiful WOW !!!!!😮

  • @Kosty19
    @Kosty19 Před 3 měsíci

    This is a very good and important video! Every man thinking about going to the Ph should watch this, its worth the 39 minutes! Good Job Daisy!
    - All topics in this video are valid for all women worldwide as well.
    - Most behaviours mentioned in this video are based on immaturity, childishness, egoism or toxic narcissm.

  • @OlegDC
    @OlegDC Před 3 měsíci +2

    Good video, good for not experienced men, definitely will help. With me those tricks will not work.

  • @marekmlynar7241
    @marekmlynar7241 Před 2 měsíci

    A very informative and logical summary of the manipulative techniques of women. Unfortunately, not only for the Filipino ones, but all of them in general. Thank God and with a bit of luck and common sense I avoided most of them. Thanks for the video.

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz Před 3 měsíci +4

    I don't mind clingy and a little jealousy.

  • @dangersmymiddlename6341
    @dangersmymiddlename6341 Před 2 měsíci

    The first time she does this you are out. No explanation needed. Vamos!

  • @MrBilldo426
    @MrBilldo426 Před 25 dny +1

    Me and my Filipina wife of 16 years always compromise. For instance I have a phobia of doctors and she has a phobia of caterpillars. We agreed I will face my phobia if she faces hers. We both give some effort but come out of the situation stronger and better. We look out for each other. It takes 2 people making an effort to maintain a relationship 👍

  • @byronsimpson7024
    @byronsimpson7024 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you , you helped me to see that I am currently talking to a very high quality young Filipina . I appreciate your content ❤

  • @BondservantofYah926
    @BondservantofYah926 Před 3 měsíci +2

    My Filipina girlfriend home was destroyed by typhoon Odette . Her brother home was destroyed and their church in which her brother was the pastor, so I started sending her money to rebuild.
    Other CZcamsr were spending around 60-100 k to get a home built. So I started sending her 20 to 25 k a month. But her home is costing 300k and still not finished. But I told her I am not sending any more . So now her sister in Australia is finishing the home. They made the bottom floor a church and the second floor their home

  • @endymion4078
    @endymion4078 Před 3 měsíci +4

    This video is straight 🔥

  • @verlandohenderson5364
    @verlandohenderson5364 Před měsícem

    You're so cool😊. Good information