Furries & The Ethics of Cringe Culture

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  • @tillieschwartz8054
    @tillieschwartz8054 Před rokem +42116

    ur becoming so insufferable

  • @X3Mapany
    @X3Mapany Před rokem +8860

    Love how the majority of the internet did a full 180 in the past years and said "Hey, maybe cringe culture is actually just bullying people for enjoying harmless things you personally don't like" and I'm all here for it

    • @reneedailey1696
      @reneedailey1696 Před rokem +360

      It really is lovely seeing people progress.

    • @rainbowlack
      @rainbowlack Před rokem +398

      Haven't seen the majority do it sadly, but there is definitely progress being made, which I appreciate especially as someone who's autistic and Not Cisgender

    • @FeministCatwoman
      @FeministCatwoman Před rokem +212

      Taking way too fukn long if you ask me.
      Sometimes being a decent person means waiting around for years for everyone else to catch up.

    • @Lenlon703
      @Lenlon703 Před rokem +96

      I guess it's more than half in 'safe' communities like kurtis' but it's still a minority in others. Very very tiny minority if you go into a low tolerance and low awareness of neurodivergence country's internet.
      Edit : changed opinion on the amounts

    • @lid2966
      @lid2966 Před rokem +1

      So true

  • @carrotman
    @carrotman Před rokem +12557

    I remember talking to a furry, I asked them about the whole erotic scene and they were just like 'Bro. Do you know how much these suits cost? I'm not trying to get ANY bodily fluids anywhere near this thing'

    • @wildfirefox1
      @wildfirefox1 Před rokem +1567

      That's so fucking funny though

    • @cherrysoda.
      @cherrysoda. Před rokem +860

      ngl amazing answer to those questions that are like “do you screw animals in ur suit”

    • @lioedevon4275
      @lioedevon4275 Před rokem +301

      Yea Murrsuiters baffle me because I don’t get how you could spend THAT much money to have *ahem* fun times in it

    • @monicarenee7949
      @monicarenee7949 Před rokem

      I first was exposed to furries in college around 2005-2006. There was a group of students who ran around with parts of their (suits? I don’t want to use the wrong word) but some would just wear tails, and idk what they wore inside. I just heard rumors that they all had orgies together in their suits and that’s honestly all I knew of furries. Interesting to see a new perspective.

    • @KassieR329
      @KassieR329 Před rokem +467

      fr. my bf is a furry, and I knew before we started dating and he told me the other day "look, idk if you're into furry stuff or not, at least sexually, but when I get a fur suit, I am NOT having sex in that thing. not risking ANYTHING" I just laughed cause I didn't want to do that anyways lmao

  • @mariaholmstead4508
    @mariaholmstead4508 Před 9 měsíci +2751

    I used to be a fur suit performer for Disney world and universal and I openly told people I was paid to be a full time furry.

    • @elicarson6134
      @elicarson6134 Před 6 měsíci +49

      that must’ve been so warm 😭😭

    • @jumpy9088
      @jumpy9088 Před 6 měsíci +98

      @@elicarson6134imagine being in a heavy ass fluffy suit crowded amusement park in florida. A lot of fursuiters pass out just being in inside, ventilated conventions. Imagine that in florida sun 😭

    • @comrademartinofrappuccino
      @comrademartinofrappuccino Před 5 měsíci +2

      you were, but why you stopped?

    • @JohnWall-lj1mx
      @JohnWall-lj1mx Před 5 měsíci +13

      ⁠@@comrademartinofrappuccinobecause his costume probably stunk of sweat and would have given him heat stroke

    • @MoonTideTheOneAndONLY
      @MoonTideTheOneAndONLY Před 5 měsíci +9

      Are you sure you’re still alive?? Like- you didn’t experience heat stroke?

  • @plutoandpolaris
    @plutoandpolaris Před 7 měsíci +1704

    Though I’m not a furry myself, I’ve always found the absolute disdain for them weird as hell. Anthro animals are EVERYWHERE! Cereal mascots, Disney characters, children’s book illustrations, this isn’t a new phenomenon. But make them more colorful and create a community around them and n o w it’s weird?
    Honestly it looks like fun! Who doesn’t like colorful art and costumes and cute animals?

    • @A_A610
      @A_A610 Před 7 měsíci +126

      It also heavily appeals to a lot of marginalized communities, and much of the rhetoric around it generally gives people shit over it on those fronts:
      -Geek subculture ("haha nerd")
      -Overwhelmingly queer ("haha gay")
      -Disproportionately neurodiverse ("haha autism")

    • @plutoandpolaris
      @plutoandpolaris Před 7 měsíci +78

      @@A_A610 yeah, I hear you. That’s honestly true crux of 99% of cringe culture, it’s all just making fun of stuff marginalized people like. It’s an excuse to make fun of those communities without getting shit for being bigoted, because “I’m not making fun of their identity!” But that’s just a cop out and everybody knows it

    • @pinkseonghwa
      @pinkseonghwa Před 5 měsíci +19

      I’ve only met furries at conventions, but for me there’s something about them being brought into 3D, being live and walking, that tips into the uncanny valley territory. Other than that, furries are lovely!

    • @hunny_bon_20
      @hunny_bon_20 Před 3 měsíci +12

      It’s like, if it’s a famous character that your dressing up as as a job, it’s fine. But if it’s an oc and it’s just a hobby, it’s bad and sexual.

    • @dogeclanleader1
      @dogeclanleader1 Před 3 měsíci +6

      “The difference being one is a job and the other is mental sickness”

  • @n6h6
    @n6h6 Před rokem +12241

    the person who drew Kurtis as a furry is probably having the best day of their life right now

  • @Mostly_Roblox
    @Mostly_Roblox Před rokem +5805

    I should start calling sports mascots "professional furries"

  • @xCaptainChloex
    @xCaptainChloex Před 5 měsíci +759

    There was this one time at our local con where a bunch of young adults threatened with a knife a 12YO LITTLE GIRL just because she was dressed in an animal costume... I'm not even kidding

    • @RockySlays
      @RockySlays Před 5 měsíci +79

      That's fucked up

    • @SweetiieHeartZzz
      @SweetiieHeartZzz Před 3 měsíci +25

      Wth

    • @idlegameplayer3756
      @idlegameplayer3756 Před 3 měsíci +69

      that's a straight up crime did they get in trouble

    • @xCaptainChloex
      @xCaptainChloex Před 3 měsíci +14

      @@idlegameplayer3756 I don't think they did :c

    • @zesty_wesley_
      @zesty_wesley_ Před 3 měsíci +68

      i saw a video of a person chasing two young furs who were no more then 13 or 14 with a knife trying to stab and possibly kill them
      and people were siding with the stabber

  • @Its_Plexus
    @Its_Plexus Před 6 měsíci +167

    Gotta love the fact that he actually took the time to research this topic, instead of just watching cringe compilations and laughing or something, mad respect bro. I feel bad that furries are bullied so much over a hobby.

    • @-----_-----------_-------_----
      @-----_-----------_-------_---- Před 4 měsíci +8

      Ye man he's critically thinking and doing research it's a good trait but sadly it's a dying one that's why people look at something and be like lol cringe

    • @Its_Plexus
      @Its_Plexus Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@-----_-----------_-------_---- Sad but true 😔

  • @nglidk
    @nglidk Před rokem +7115

    “Don’t make fun of the furry community. If they can afford a 5,000 dollar suit then they can afford a 5 dollar pipe bomb”
    -Master Chief

  • @Patterrz
    @Patterrz Před rokem +6097

    The fact that most cringe compilations are people that sit on reddit 16 hours a day, making fun of people just trying to enjoy themselves is pretty telling

  • @ysguthiofoberatos
    @ysguthiofoberatos Před 10 měsíci +551

    What I hate is that a good amount of the time people only want others to be themselves when it is convenient for them
    Like you can’t be yourself if you’re too outside of the norm
    I hate that so much

    • @ysguthiofoberatos
      @ysguthiofoberatos Před 10 měsíci +50

      Like someone with an indie or underground music is cool and praiseworthy and even unique but someone who is a furry or isn’t “conveniently different” is to be mocked and shunned

    • @MiyakoPisces4.0
      @MiyakoPisces4.0 Před 7 měsíci +1

      😑

    • @MiyakoPisces4.0
      @MiyakoPisces4.0 Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​@@ysguthiofoberatos😑

    • @MiyakoPisces4.0
      @MiyakoPisces4.0 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@Rapistgaming-uq8fb😑

    • @hisbee1328
      @hisbee1328 Před 6 měsíci

      @@MiyakoPisces4.0what

  • @theonlymeowmeow
    @theonlymeowmeow Před 5 měsíci +187

    the fact that kurtis genuinely made me change my mind about furries because of this video

    • @_.-Midnight-._
      @_.-Midnight-._ Před 3 měsíci +14

      I watched it and waited a couple of months before I watched it again, and now I'm starting to accept them.

    • @mewowow
      @mewowow Před 2 měsíci +21

      Im not a furry but this makes me happy tbh, like finally more people are not hating on certain harmless communities who are just having fun

    • @emoclowngirl
      @emoclowngirl Před 2 měsíci +15

      somehow people are still being annoying after watching it, some people are really just hateful to their core, i’m happy that’s not the case w everyone tho

    • @AlqhemyA
      @AlqhemyA Před 23 dny

      @@emoclowngirlimo its probably queerphobia or something similar, and thats coming from a gay furry

    • @MaryamMaqdisi
      @MaryamMaqdisi Před 11 dny +3

      Same and same, we're all weirdos deep down anyway, why shame anyone who's just having harmless fun

  • @smdb2304
    @smdb2304 Před rokem +6232

    Kurtis you’d be surprised how much so called “cringe” is actually just people dunking on autistic people

    • @sxkratis
      @sxkratis Před rokem +133

      FR

    • @zubidubi792
      @zubidubi792 Před rokem

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    • @BerserksEclipse
      @BerserksEclipse Před rokem +794

      Autistic people, children just existing, and autistic children existing. It’s so disheartening to see. I remember a “homestuck” cringe compilation that was just kids in costumes hanging out at a con. They were just hanging out with their friends…and yet somehow it’s “cringe”.

    • @scout_427
      @scout_427 Před rokem +17

      Fr

    • @wiggletonthewise2141
      @wiggletonthewise2141 Před rokem +14

      True!

  • @Soymaid
    @Soymaid Před rokem +5501

    I used to just shrug at furry hate and go along with the jokes. Then a furry convention got literally bombed and everyone made a joke out of it. That snapped me out of it. Wtf kind of hobby could possibly make bombing innocent people funny?

    • @fastcrasher
      @fastcrasher Před rokem +428

      Just like the 9/11 jokes. A horrible event happens, and people seem use it as a punchline.

    • @Lucy-fn9rj
      @Lucy-fn9rj Před rokem +804

      this comment led me to read more about the bombing and oh my god i have learned so much about furries. i had no idea there’s full blown furry hate groups, or that members of those hate groups have carried out multiple attacks on furry conventions???? including a chemical weapons attack????? like holy shit maybe ignoring furries because they’re “cringe” is a bigger problem than i thought

    • @v_eye_let17
      @v_eye_let17 Před rokem +52

      There’s actually a huge p*dophilia & bestiality problem in that community.

    • @v_eye_let17
      @v_eye_let17 Před rokem +10

      @@Lucy-fn9rj it’s not because they’re cringe.

    • @Lady_stargold
      @Lady_stargold Před rokem +500

      @@v_eye_let17 .....so that means its okay to bomb them?? 😭😭

  • @foxhitsdrums
    @foxhitsdrums Před 8 měsíci +409

    im not a furry but i am someone who overstimulates easily and i struggle to get through school days without these small, almost invisible hearing-blocks i put in my ears, which for some reason is seen as weird or cringe by *some* neurotypicals at my school. long story short, no matter what we do, neurodivergent people will never be fully accepted as non-cringe while still being comfortable, so do whatever u wanna do! live ya life yk

    • @blackqweenmars
      @blackqweenmars Před 2 měsíci +5

      As long as it doesn’t hurt anyone and as long as it’s not causing any sort of disturbance or breaking any laws

    • @doe4003
      @doe4003 Před měsícem +7

      Mood, I'm easily overstimulated by noises so I wear earplugs *everywhere* and for the first year or so there was a lot of "what are those" and "take those out of your ears!!!" etc. It's mostly calmed down now since it's been like 4-5 years of wearing them nearly daily but lord, people can be weird about the smallest things.

    • @buffer_brain1917
      @buffer_brain1917 Před měsícem +9

      I have the kind of autism where it’s really hard for me to feel genuinely shame. When people would get on to me about my stimming or covering my ears, I used to openly mock them for having lives that are so boring that me just doing some hand flapping was so mind blowing.
      When I say mock I don’t mean a sneer, I mean I would fully openly laugh hard as hell at them and ask shit like- if they also get excited when they see a slightly different squirrel. Pretty sure it didn’t do a single thing for my reputation, but they stopped trying to openly tease me about it after the 4th time I hard laughed in their face

    • @dragong33k
      @dragong33k Před 25 dny +2

      I too have sensory issues, and i will never understand why whenever neurotypicals notice a soundblocker they just refuse to continue talking, like we were in a coherent conversation for 15 minutes until you saw them, and suddenly I am deaf? what is the issue?

    • @hatcher365
      @hatcher365 Před 14 dny

      stage 1: denial

  • @galacticgamercat6637
    @galacticgamercat6637 Před 9 měsíci +282

    I can’t thank you enough for not making fun of furry’s but instead helping others understand them! :D thank you!!!

  • @modernpest9410
    @modernpest9410 Před rokem +10625

    kurtis talking about furries while wearing a donkey kong shirt is actually really funny

    • @kendramerc7438
      @kendramerc7438 Před rokem +117

      Why tf are so many links lmao

    • @skyevans7746
      @skyevans7746 Před rokem +17

      @Deadpool. why are we all just trolls he owns so many trolls

    • @kendramerc7438
      @kendramerc7438 Před rokem

      @Deadpool. shut up

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      @zubidubi792 Před rokem

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    • @ReptilianTeaDrinker
      @ReptilianTeaDrinker Před rokem +45

      @@kendramerc7438 Those are all bot comments. Sadly, YT has a bot problem and it isn't being fixed. :(

  • @milessolomon4864
    @milessolomon4864 Před rokem +1042

    Could you imagine being a sick-ass baller furry walking down the street then some guy in a flaming tour bus sticks his head out the window and gawks at you?

    • @nuulcoolpro
      @nuulcoolpro Před rokem +20

      @Deadpool × wolverine consider getting your account back

    • @voxalice1
      @voxalice1 Před rokem

      @yes Isn't It Ironic

    • @Java_Protogen
      @Java_Protogen Před 7 dny

      @@voxalice1 it's almost like rain on a wedding day

  • @Danceyouwolf
    @Danceyouwolf Před 6 měsíci +125

    As a neurodivergent person I have been a furry since I was 12. Actually I blame those cringe comps of furries for making me a furry. I always enjoyed animals and making animal characters. Plus having nerdy supportive parents set me on this path

    • @valuepak
      @valuepak Před měsícem +4

      I've always been very "weird" to others, and been interested in the furry fandom for a while, only recently realized I was neurodivergent after diagnosed at 16 lol

    • @CryonImous
      @CryonImous Před měsícem

      shut up

    • @MaryamMaqdisi
      @MaryamMaqdisi Před 11 dny +2

      Nothing wrong with you, bless you

  • @crow_onpawzies
    @crow_onpawzies Před 3 měsíci +29

    As a furry, i don’t enjoy having people telling me to kms online an in real life just because i like wearing an animal mask. I was out in my fur suit head and someone literally hit me when I was trick or treating with my 9 year old brother

    • @ImternetExplorer
      @ImternetExplorer Před 3 měsíci +12

      It's especially crazy that they did that ON HALLOWEEN. That's just insane.

    • @mukilandhinesh3931
      @mukilandhinesh3931 Před 2 měsíci +8

      ON HALLOWEEN? even normally thats fucked up but like halloween is literally the day you dress up to walk around the neighborhood

    • @crow_onpawzies
      @crow_onpawzies Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@mukilandhinesh3931 they didn't hit me hard they just kinda shoved me off the sidewalk. I'm not sure if it was on purpose, because the sidewalk was a bit crowded, but still

    • @Bumble._.Jellybottom
      @Bumble._.Jellybottom Před 9 dny +1

      someone threatened me with their fake gun
      he was with his friends and im pretty sure they were kinda fed up when he did that lol

  • @fiendishthingy104
    @fiendishthingy104 Před rokem +5389

    kurtis is a delightfully nontoxic man. like a crayola marker

  • @zacktheshrimpist7055
    @zacktheshrimpist7055 Před rokem +5814

    reminder: ALL fandoms have cringy/sexual parts. It’s not just furries 🤝

    • @ABC-sz7rd
      @ABC-sz7rd Před rokem

      and they can all k word themselves too

    • @damienearl8302
      @damienearl8302 Před rokem +222

      Like, does no one remember the days they likely spent in the Undertale fandom?

    • @Ghostly3011
      @Ghostly3011 Před rokem +110

      @@damienearl8302 Half of them became furries, the other half hate furries.

    • @wednesdaybell3062
      @wednesdaybell3062 Před rokem +159

      Yup! And speaking as a former Starbucks barista, it's definitely not just furries that are being assholes to minimum wage workers for the sake of online content either.

    • @ducky.doodles
      @ducky.doodles Před rokem +19

      Ikr I can never join a fandom with out being grouped with the weirder people (I DON'T LIKE SPAMTON AND I'M NOT A STAN)

  • @Rattkix
    @Rattkix Před 9 měsíci +392

    Furry haters look up "Furry cringe" and scroll through images and are basically like "Bro all this stuff is cringe so that must mean all furries are cringe"

    • @Irrationalitys
      @Irrationalitys Před 8 měsíci +29

      fr. they only care to look at the bad side of the community rather than both

    • @AugustWalker01
      @AugustWalker01 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Not all. But most.
      Still is a letdown.

    • @tallyhaller78
      @tallyhaller78 Před 6 měsíci +7

      Honestly, stuff like that has ruined my view of furries. I still think that they arent all bad but like i still have a more negative view of them

    • @crazylemon7938
      @crazylemon7938 Před 4 měsíci +12

      Furries are fine, but some of them are just... I mean how can you do anything but laugh?

    • @Apathy.Apathy.
      @Apathy.Apathy. Před 2 měsíci +4

      A lot of furries say that but never give examples of these not insufferable furries

  • @imadog3837
    @imadog3837 Před 3 měsíci +53

    I’m a furry myself and on the spectrum, and I appreciate the research you put into this and your respectful perspective on furry culture. Awesome video.

  • @sloppyphart7879
    @sloppyphart7879 Před rokem +3134

    Y'know what's WAY worse than someone who's into something taboo or "cringe"? Someone who becomes obsessed with harassing those kinds of people instead of just ignoring it. Comes across as far more cringe.

    • @deaddan2148
      @deaddan2148 Před rokem +116

      You just defined 4Chan!

    • @zerotwo6814
      @zerotwo6814 Před rokem +86

      It's something that's a lot more common than people admit, especially in us Western countries. When people hate something these days, they tend to obsessively hate it, showing said hatred any time it comes up in any regard. An example could be if someone's father said something about a coworker treating them poorly that day, and their mother takes such offense to it that she gets upset and says the pettiest things whenever that coworker is brought up in the future...And yes, I am speaking from experience for this one.

    • @Aimela136
      @Aimela136 Před rokem +37

      I mean, if that taboo causes any sort of harm to anyone(or animals) then that shouldn't just be ignored. But yeah, I get what you mean.

    • @harryballshd
      @harryballshd Před rokem +3

      cringe

    • @frickenpluto
      @frickenpluto Před rokem +61

      @@harryballshd this comment is the cringiest one in the replies lmao

  • @wolfiegamble847
    @wolfiegamble847 Před rokem +2089

    Cringe culture is like- a way too socially acceptable way to make fun of neurodivergent people, and it pisses me off because it ruined my self esteem as a kid

    • @JewelWildmoon
      @JewelWildmoon Před rokem

      Fr. I never really said it directly to them but anytime someone would say furries are cringe because they're all autistic, I'd just be thinking "So you were looking for a socially acceptable way to harass neurodivergent children-?"

    • @zirconium2014
      @zirconium2014 Před rokem +16

      Lol is it though but not always, take the cringy dude emotionally thirst trapping, like thats not neurodivergance is it?
      Also neurodivergent people can be pretty cringe and weird and this comes from a person with ASD. I've only ever been able to truely mingle with those people.
      I've done funny weird cringe shit before because I'm a tard. Thats normal to look at people doing cringe shit and think that's weird and messed up. Because it's not right. Its not just because it's "socially acceptable" its just fact of life dude. You're the weird boyfriend/girlfriend thats taken to parties being silently laughed at, being judged because your shoes match your unmatched neon outfit terribly and you're screaming like a banshee. Get to know it. It sucks but it's true. Everyday I had battle what was once my awful undiagnosed artard crap and it was not quirky or cute and you know what? It was insane cringe for everyone who knew me because it affects everyone, not just the individual who may or may not be blind to their behaviour.
      Also it's actually really nice to not be looked at as a weirdo as much anymore 😊

    • @joemama-zm4de
      @joemama-zm4de Před rokem +261

      @@zirconium2014 buddy you have GOT to go to therapy and work on that internalized hatred. it is not normal to look at neurodivergent people and think they're weird and messed up, and that you have to make fun of them.
      if you're getting laughed at or judged at parties, those are not parties you should be going to, because those people are fucking awful.
      seriously. therapy works.

    • @songofthesea6353
      @songofthesea6353 Před rokem +18

      Shocker, our society has norms and rules that when you break you face scorn.

    • @joemama-zm4de
      @joemama-zm4de Před rokem +92

      @@songofthesea6353 good job bethany, you've stated the obvious

  • @seacaptainminto7169
    @seacaptainminto7169 Před 5 měsíci +47

    I struggle with sensory issues and the way you described it was so well. Not to mention that a mask blocks bright lights and muffs loud sounds which helps a ton. You're also not expected to speak with it on. Plus it's soft sometimes. It's the ultimate form of comfort.

  • @skaraaa_
    @skaraaa_ Před 3 měsíci +80

    while I’m not autistic, I’m still neurodivergent (adhd) and a lot of the things I enjoy are seen as cringe. I’m a furry, I obsess over trolls and other various childrens cartoons, I’m in the lgbtq community, etc. cringe culture is just a way to make fun of neurodivergent people who are just EXISTING and enjoying their life. It fucking sucks.

    • @gnarrcan108
      @gnarrcan108 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Cringe is still cringe lol. I’m autistic lmao

    • @karma-cu8lx
      @karma-cu8lx Před 2 měsíci +14

      @@gnarrcan108or, cringe is something people use against others for simply being happy and themselves 🤷 if everyone worried about not doing cringy stuff no one would live to the fullest. why "cringe" needs to be said makes no sense to me.

    • @valuepak
      @valuepak Před měsícem +2

      ​@karma-cu8lx I agree, I only have pretty mild Autism and ADHD, and honestly, I am so afraid to be openly furry (even on social media) that i just don't tell anyone. Same with a lot of things I am a fan of

    • @dragong33k
      @dragong33k Před 25 dny +1

      ​@@gnarrcan108 caring about cringe is cringe

    • @muzammiljafari9158
      @muzammiljafari9158 Před 14 dny

      cringe

  • @strawberrylemlime4447
    @strawberrylemlime4447 Před rokem +4973

    When Kurtis came out as a Furry to Jenna in his fursuit, I fell to my knees in tears. It was such a beautiful moment in the video, thank you for being so brave

    • @kathyhenderson824
      @kathyhenderson824 Před rokem +18

      Furry pride

    • @ludovicatirone4304
      @ludovicatirone4304 Před rokem +239

      My favourite part was when kurtis got up and yelled "its furry time" that was so good

    • @strawberrylemlime4447
      @strawberrylemlime4447 Před rokem +91

      @@ludovicatirone4304 It made me respect even more. Not just because he’s so brave, being a cis, white man, but because he’s a furry

    • @hexhollows
      @hexhollows Před rokem +24

      i thought that said JERMA

    • @sharty3
      @sharty3 Před rokem +3

      @andrew tate hi andy

  • @gracieh7814
    @gracieh7814 Před rokem +2598

    I had a student who had selective mutism because of parental issues. She felt more comfortable saying small sentences in the suit and liked sewing them. She’d always show me her art. Changed my perspective entirely.

    • @danialrafid
      @danialrafid Před rokem

      Being a furry is a way for autists to have an excuse for being weird.

    • @lordlandcandlestick3010
      @lordlandcandlestick3010 Před rokem +79

      that’s so sweet :'0

    • @uwuLikesEyebrowsuwu
      @uwuLikesEyebrowsuwu Před rokem +72

      Growing up I had selective mutism too. I wasn’t a furry at the time but I did pretend to be an animal (ik it’s like the most stereotypically cringe thing) which helped me to communicate in at least some form. I think it’s great that your student was able to find a work around for her selective mutism like that too, and I’m sure it felt great for her to be able to communicate as well :)

    • @phoebej2695
      @phoebej2695 Před rokem +28

      it's nice to hear somebody mention selective mutism, most people don't know what it is.

    • @bubbleeclorn1231
      @bubbleeclorn1231 Před rokem +8

      I was diagnosed with SM when I was 11, I always felt more confident in fursuits and I liked the positivity people gave me, it’s unfortunate people associate a lot of us with z00s and stuff

  • @Dog_inBoots
    @Dog_inBoots Před 3 měsíci +50

    As a furry, I appreciate these kind of videos covering the fandom and making sure that people understand that the furry fandom isn’t only about the intercourse and sexual stuff. I’ve been in the fandom since I was 12 years old and I only joined because I have an interest in acting and art. Thank you Kurtis! Love from the fandom!

    • @crow_onpawzies
      @crow_onpawzies Před 3 měsíci +3

      boots! hi! (sorry if it annoys you when people do this) but i totally agree with your comment

    • @Nonbeanary_sibling
      @Nonbeanary_sibling Před 3 měsíci +2

      OMG HI BOOTS! Luv your videos, and yeah when I first heard about furries I never thought "ew wtf" I was just "yo that's sick" and then about a year or some months later I joined the Fandom ❤

    • @Faunadoodlez
      @Faunadoodlez Před 2 měsíci

      HI BOOTS

    • @c1d3r-t4bby-p4ws
      @c1d3r-t4bby-p4ws Před 2 měsíci +2

      BOOTS ILYSSM

    • @Echo_8054
      @Echo_8054 Před měsícem +3

      I joined when I was 14 because I thought the characters look cute

  • @kellybmackenzie
    @kellybmackenzie Před 8 měsíci +48

    OMGGG I remember the furry episode of 1000 Ways to Die SO VIVIDLY!! That episode traumatized me as a child, it was so absurd to me. (... I'm also a furry now, ironically, how the turn tables).
    Also, amazing video, thank you for this!! Furries are genuinely so overhated, it's low hanging fruit. Thank you for doing the proper research, it genuinely was validating to watch!

    • @Babysharkboss2
      @Babysharkboss2 Před 8 měsíci +3

      I had to google the clip after this vid, I regret it.

  • @SaturnHunter_
    @SaturnHunter_ Před rokem +3912

    I worked at a Subway for awhile and it was very minimum wage and fucking annoying. Anyway, a girl who was a furry used to come in a lot. Her name was Karina. (She got an Buffalo chicken with every vegetable and extra sauce.) she was in her early twenties and she wore fox ears and a tail every time she came in. One day she came in with her full fur suit, though she took off the head so we could hear her, which was very nice. She explained that she was going to a convention that I was also planning on going to the next day. No one else was in line so we talked about how excited we were for it for a couple minutes. She was the nicest customer I have ever served in any job I’ve had. She also put five dollars in the tip jar as well as putting a 20% tip on her card every single time. She was lovely and I really hope she’s doing well.

    • @crashh-course
      @crashh-course Před rokem +283

      karina seems great :( i love when people talk about things they're excited about! (yes ive got a drop of the tism lmao)

    • @SaturnHunter_
      @SaturnHunter_ Před rokem +175

      @@crashh-course I too have a ‘drop of the tism’ and I loved hearing her talk about what she loved. I sadly never saw her at the con and quit my job shortly after that for other reasons.

    • @missmaia6839
      @missmaia6839 Před rokem +20

      aww bless karina

    • @ajayakennedy5239
      @ajayakennedy5239 Před rokem +35

      i like that you told us her order lol

    • @SaturnHunter_
      @SaturnHunter_ Před rokem +81

      @@ajayakennedy5239 I feel like it’s important to understand her as a person. Impeccable taste

  • @teal_m_101
    @teal_m_101 Před rokem +4089

    I'd rather be authentically cringe than fake being based.

    • @mocha_claws
      @mocha_claws Před rokem +28

      Same

    • @maleahj308
      @maleahj308 Před rokem +59

      Even if they aren't cringe, I have never heard of a normal furry

    • @bugzta236
      @bugzta236 Před rokem +5

      wdym

    • @winonarose7488
      @winonarose7488 Před rokem +242

      @@maleahj308 i’ve never heard of a normal person

    • @genesisosuna
      @genesisosuna Před rokem

      ​@@winonarose7488 because you are a furry.

  • @poopyfartlover313
    @poopyfartlover313 Před 5 měsíci +23

    KURTIS I FUCKING LOVE YOU FOR TALKING ABOUT AUTISTIC PEOPLE BEING OFTEN TIMES TIED TO CRINGE CULTURE I LOVE YOUUU BRO IVE VEEN SAYING THIS YOURE AWESOME

    • @poopyfartlover313
      @poopyfartlover313 Před 5 měsíci +1

      if it isn’t obvious i am autistic

    • @FBI-sr2eg
      @FBI-sr2eg Před 11 dny +1

      Some neurotypicals will virtue signal all day everyday about “mental health matters” until someone has a mental health issue that isn’t aesthetic enough for them

  • @Obserok
    @Obserok Před měsícem +7

    Finally a title that's not saying "all furries are stupid haha"
    As someone who isnt a furry. I appreciate Kurtis saying its cringe culture and not all furries

  • @devanh686
    @devanh686 Před rokem +2490

    As a non-furry autistic, I really really appreciated the edit he added in when he mentioned neurodivergent people. Props for really doing some research

    • @InvestmentIdea
      @InvestmentIdea Před rokem

      @Dark secret thx

    • @spookeymo
      @spookeymo Před rokem +1

      same

    • @g.r.e..g
      @g.r.e..g Před rokem

      i am a furry autistic 💪💪💪

    • @charzelo4244
      @charzelo4244 Před rokem

      @John Doe wait question, no judgement but are you a sociopath?

    • @pooblord6563
      @pooblord6563 Před rokem +4

      As a non furry autistic. I find clarification of it to be cringe. Kind of cringe kurtis but I do appreciate you doing it for others!

  • @Yotesoba
    @Yotesoba Před rokem +1858

    reject cringe culture, embrace doing things because theyre fun

    • @REPLA_ACE
      @REPLA_ACE Před rokem +18

      based and fun

    • @ddjsoyenby
      @ddjsoyenby Před rokem +68

      i can't deny myself.........I LIKE VTUBERS AND WRITE FANFICTION ABOUT THEM AND MY OC A LIVING BODY PILLOW, I LOVE BEING CRINGE!

    • @simppythesimp1370
      @simppythesimp1370 Před rokem +25

      @@ddjsoyenby 👍

    • @c1nnamodoll
      @c1nnamodoll Před rokem +37

      @@ddjsoyenby LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK !!! LIVE UR TRUTH 🗣

    • @chromaduckie5907
      @chromaduckie5907 Před rokem +37

      @@ddjsoyenby IT’S NOT HURTING ANYONE AND YOU’RE HAVING FUN !!!! LET’S GOOOOO !!!!!!!!!

  • @flynntlocke5730
    @flynntlocke5730 Před 7 měsíci +104

    I've never understood why furries get so much hate for dressing up as a character they enjoy and made themselves or paid for yet cosplaying another form of character is seen more as universally acceptable to people. Ain't it just the same thing really at the end of the day, a way to feel more confident and comfortable within yourself. To clarify I ain't a furry but I do like dressing somewhat unique for lack of better terminology.

    • @Alex-bm5de
      @Alex-bm5de Před 6 měsíci +5

      like genuinely it's so cool

    • @Hhssishbrjdksskw
      @Hhssishbrjdksskw Před 2 měsíci

      Probably because the workers are there to entertain children and some adults. They also mostly likely don’t want to be there and are just doing it for the cash, while furries do it in their spare time.

    • @yurisei6732
      @yurisei6732 Před 2 měsíci

      Cosplay is cringe though too, and so is being a unique dresser. End of the day, these are all things that make you stick out, but some things make you stick out more than others. Usually when someone sticks out, it's because they lack self-awareness, so to cringe is a natural response - you're feeling bad that they've accidentally done something that some people are going to judge them for doing.

    • @flynntlocke5730
      @flynntlocke5730 Před 2 měsíci

      @yurisei6732 To judge someone for being unique or differnt however is how you get racism, fascism, etc. Hate is hate and to get pissed off or judge someone for being thierselve regardless of whether they can help it or not is how we get a society children are scared to grow up in or that put people off bringing kids up in a world full of it. A joke is a joke at the end of the day there is plenty people who don't see it that way however and would rather send people to their grave just for being different. Yes transgender, races, religions etc can all change theirselve technically it doesn't mean they should, just because a dickhead can't get over a new idea. I am aware that racism is worse than the way someone dresses my point was that there is plenty moments where people have been attacked just for wearing something abnormal much like being a different race or religion

    • @lenalouwho4100
      @lenalouwho4100 Před měsícem

      @@yurisei6732no you’re just a asshole. If never seen a cosplayer or furry and felt bad or cringed. You have some underlying hatred and distaste your need to work out

  • @mariana9991
    @mariana9991 Před 7 měsíci +11

    As a kid, I also believed color didn't exist in the past bc of old movies being black and white lmao. The fact that Kurtis had this same belief makes me feel so validated bc every time I mentioned this to someone they just didn't get why I'd think that.

  • @carlybarker6180
    @carlybarker6180 Před rokem +33170

    i’m not a furry, but i am autistic, and i really appreciate kurtis mentioning autistic people and how they tie in to discussions of “cringe culture” lots of the behaviors people consider ‘cringe’ can be traced back to normal autistic behavior, and it can be really upsetting to watch. this is just my opinion and if any autistic people disagree that’s totally fine and valid but i just wanted to say thank you, kurtis :)

    • @wormfigure
      @wormfigure Před rokem +949

      same !!! i really wasnt expecting thiz video n itz making me really happy how someone a lot of people look up to is talking abt something so important :D

    • @Alansaurus
      @Alansaurus Před rokem +885

      I am a furry, and im very neurodivergent, and yeah, that is so true. There are a lot of neurodivergent people in the fandom, and people definitely are super ableist and honestly just horrible towards us for just trying to have fun 😭

    • @funtimeplushcreations8720
      @funtimeplushcreations8720 Před rokem +418

      I agree (I’m also autistic) it’s kinda concerning how often that happens

    • @aleisterlilywhite1109
      @aleisterlilywhite1109 Před rokem

      Also autistic and not a furry and I agree with you 🙃

    • @thenavybluewolf5648
      @thenavybluewolf5648 Před rokem +541

      Same!!! When cringe culture was more popular I used to feel crushed when I saw someone calling my interests cringe. It still effects me to this day, because I am obsessively hiding my interests from my peers in college, because I worry that they won't take me seriously once we get into our careers.

  • @radicalradical7437
    @radicalradical7437 Před rokem +2147

    People constantly labeling things they don't understand as a "sexual thing" is so tiresome

    • @TitaniusAnglesmith
      @TitaniusAnglesmith Před rokem

      Straight up. Imma be honest, I can't stand furries, but just because I don't vibe with it. It's not like I hate them or anything. But my dad legit thinks furries are some mentally ill kids who think they're animals and attracted to them... Like bruh, stop listining to boomer Fox news talking points.

    • @calebday6988
      @calebday6988 Před rokem

      ur cringe

    • @Tigersox24
      @Tigersox24 Před rokem +128

      agreed. another example of this is age regression. (not ddlg or ageplay, which are actual k!nks) age regression can be a symptom of severe ptsd or childhood trauma, or just be a lifestyle. it’s always strange to me how people look at an adult in a onesie with a stuffed animal and immediately sexualize it? like kurtis said, i almost think it says more about the person who automatically assumes something is sexual.

    • @AshaSara
      @AshaSara Před rokem +12

      Literally

    • @lunaponta594
      @lunaponta594 Před rokem

      I DONT UNDERSTAND YOU, YOU'RE SEXY AS HELL wait

  • @Waterlemoan
    @Waterlemoan Před 8 měsíci +19

    I've always had the mindset if people don't hurt others or themselves, they should just do whatever they want. But I've not really understood the furry community. I never had anything against them but I never understood what it was about. This video cleared up a lot of things that I wouldn't known otherwise. And I must say, reading about how so many was scared to even watch this just broke my heart. Been crying while reading through the comments and I feel bad for not doing more for the community, even if i'm not a part of it.

  • @amelie5242
    @amelie5242 Před 10 měsíci +16

    I'm so glad he actually researched things. The amount of times ppl have been weird over me wearing a piece of plastic is too many

  • @gabbieh5680
    @gabbieh5680 Před rokem +882

    "a cringe man will always think he is based, but a based man is truthful to his cringe self" - lao tzu

  • @rue353
    @rue353 Před rokem +4566

    In all seriousness it's nice seeing someone shed light on who furries actually are when most of the time they're harmless people just doing what they enjoy

    • @jawaela
      @jawaela Před rokem +59

      @RobotBlue It’s weird. Period. Why you have to make furries have curves like humans and make them all ”sexy”?? It’s an animal??!

    • @senritsujumpsuit6021
      @senritsujumpsuit6021 Před rokem +54

      @RobotBlue am kinda a Furry I don't own a suit but I love Furry artwork
      theirs one of a little fluffy dude trying to keep the Squid in the oven since he used a spell book instead of a cook book oopsie lol

    • @quackmasterson5128
      @quackmasterson5128 Před rokem +273

      @@jawaela calm down anna

    • @nomoretwitterhandles
      @nomoretwitterhandles Před rokem

      @@jawaela Hey Anna! I bet you're a racist. You're a racist, right? I know for a fact you claim certain people behave a certain way based on their skin color. I can just feel it!
      Don't bother trying to defend yourself; you've already outed your inner prejudices. Bye!

    • @lou-cidmire3065
      @lou-cidmire3065 Před rokem

      @@jawaela You are 100% either under the age of 10, or over the age of 60.

  • @HorseGirl828
    @HorseGirl828 Před 3 měsíci +12

    Thank you Kurtis. I’m a furry and autistic and I was scared to watch this bc I thought you’d be hating and honestly it means a lot that you’re open minded

  • @Cicada_WCUE
    @Cicada_WCUE Před 4 měsíci +14

    As a member of the furry fandom, I cannot express how happy this analysis makes me. It is quite possibly one of the happiest feelings to be (although not personally) accepted by one of your favorite people.

  • @aubreymakesfilms
    @aubreymakesfilms Před rokem +1219

    the way kurtis is ALWAYS there to support and empathize with minimum wage workers. god what a king

    • @jihyosspicytoenail9921
      @jihyosspicytoenail9921 Před rokem +25

      He used to work at Starbucks and McDonald's, so I'm sure he knows our pain 😔

    • @my_youtubechannel1717
      @my_youtubechannel1717 Před rokem +4

      Pretty sure Kurtis used to be a barista so he can relate to the minimum wage workers to an extent

    • @imsotiredofthiscrap2341
      @imsotiredofthiscrap2341 Před rokem +4

      if I see one more “Fr” or “Here is the full clip : “ in this comment section imma snap istg

    • @THICCTHICCTHICC
      @THICCTHICCTHICC Před rokem +2

      I mean.... Don't go and grope the guy working the checkout

    • @afiakhalil3877
      @afiakhalil3877 Před rokem +2

      ma'am, bare minimum

  • @vixenrin
    @vixenrin Před rokem +4173

    A friend of mine passed away in February and she was a hardcore furry. She got bullied for it a lot and when I first met her I thought it was weird but I’m glad I met her. It made me realize that i literally can just mind my own business and not judge others. She definitely made me a less judgy person and I thank her for that. I bet she would have loved this video and the open mindedness you had towards it. This video reminded me of her and made me very happy, cool video Kurtis

    • @sunnyandthechlo
      @sunnyandthechlo Před rokem +232

      I'm sorry for your loss. I agree though, when you stop judging people you get to see what really makes them happy and seeing someone talk excitedly about something they love is so fun!

    • @liloaintresting
      @liloaintresting Před rokem +89

      rip for her and i hope she's in a better place

    • @mjc.bughao7441
      @mjc.bughao7441 Před rokem +58

      That's a really nice story, RIP to your friend and Condolences to you and her love ones 🙏🏽💕

    • @hamilcross
      @hamilcross Před rokem +9

    • @vixenrin
      @vixenrin Před rokem +30

      @@sunnyandthechlo absolutely! I love when people can be passionate about things bc of it. It’s pure joy.

  • @Yes-zu3pp
    @Yes-zu3pp Před 4 měsíci +21

    All I want to say is that furry’s don’t think they are that a animal, that is a therein and I want to thank kurtis for making this video! You are loved by many people. ❤️

    • @_gorillazfreakinc._2
      @_gorillazfreakinc._2 Před měsícem +1

      Therians don't believe they're animals, they believe they were animals in a past life. I know this because my sibling is a therian.

    • @_gorillazfreakinc._2
      @_gorillazfreakinc._2 Před měsícem

      And if someone truly believes they're an animal, we call that zoanthropy. Which is a mental illness.

  • @ashy.is.here4
    @ashy.is.here4 Před 3 měsíci +14

    I am a furry. I loved how respectful this video was/is!!! Thank you for making a genuinely informative (for non furries) video!! ❤❤

  • @sadiethecatlady-1989TV
    @sadiethecatlady-1989TV Před rokem +2242

    kurtis needs to make merch that says “My tour bus caught fire”

  • @moonscoot_
    @moonscoot_ Před rokem +8443

    dude. FACTS. I’m not a furry or neurodivergent but I DO have a head on my shoulders and I can understand that when someone’s interest isn’t harming anyone it’s none of my damn business

    • @_Featch_
      @_Featch_ Před rokem +269

      That should be a general moral law imho.

    • @Cynical_Crow
      @Cynical_Crow Před rokem +177

      As someone who is both of those, thank you for being a decent person.

    • @mikefarrell6766
      @mikefarrell6766 Před rokem

      except it is. its a massive predatory culture, it takes advantage of weak-minded individuals, and has higher rates of mental illness than average populations. this is a disease, it capitulates others, our children could fall victim to this. it is harmful, for these individuals and others, and everyone here should seek help and assistance.

    • @KatieBee3139
      @KatieBee3139 Před rokem +83

      Yeah, like I don’t agree with it. But in the end, it’s not harming anyone. So you just have to let people be happy yk.

    • @mikefarrell6766
      @mikefarrell6766 Před rokem

      @@KatieBee3139 i do not know because i literally just explained how its harmful and you said i didnt. thats like cnn saying take your vaccine you wont get sick.

  • @FBI-sr2eg
    @FBI-sr2eg Před 11 dny +6

    “Interestingly, Furries claim the sexual component is small, but a quick search for ‘furry porn’ almost immediately disproves this”
    “Interestingly, the car community claims the sexual component is small, but a quick search for ‘car porn’ almost immediately disproves this”

  • @artistdudebro
    @artistdudebro Před 6 měsíci +24

    Cringe shouldn't be about making fun of people's passions, it should focus on the toxic and harmful people. Furries aren't cringe, pedophiles are. Neurodivergent people aren't cringe, bigots are.

  • @koobacalf
    @koobacalf Před rokem +1521

    this brings up a good point about neurodivergency and cringe culture, a lot of things people find cringe are literally just neurodivergent traits

    • @BigGirthyRod
      @BigGirthyRod Před rokem +98

      Haha, good point, I spent years avoiding getting called cringe by my brother and it left me with no personality.

    • @marnenotmarnie259
      @marnenotmarnie259 Před rokem +42

      i get what you're saying, but "neurodivergent traits" don't exist. it really bothers me that people use ND as a synonym for autism/adhd. it literally just means a difference in how a person's brain works. you can make your point more accurately by just saying the specific types of neurodivergence that you mean

    • @WillTuliv
      @WillTuliv Před rokem +51

      @@marnenotmarnie259 I use ND to describe myself because I have ADHD and haven't been able to get assessed for autism due to money and other issues taking precedent. I'm def not alone in that. Also autism has such a massive amount of stigma that it can be a lot more comfortable to just tell people you're neurodivergent.

    • @bunblebie
      @bunblebie Před rokem +55

      @@marnenotmarnie259 I believe traits mainly means “behavior” in this case. hyperfixation is something mainly autistic ppl or ppl with adhd do. stimming usually happens with autistic people. it’s a behavior or trait they share. so.. they are real. 😄 nothing bad with nd traits. if people wanna call symptoms or behavior that, let em! at the end of the day, it’s not rlly harmful to the community. and yes, I am ND, so I’m not just talking about something I don’t experience and stuff !

    • @sawyerbass4661
      @sawyerbass4661 Před rokem +2

      This is such a non-point dude.

  • @sketchscramblr2959
    @sketchscramblr2959 Před rokem +2756

    One time my sibling and I went to a convention and someone thought it'd be funny to pull the fire alarm. The whole building had to evacuate and it was mid November Cold. The cosplayers in revealing costumes started huddling, my sibby and I, along with other fully clothed cosplayers huddled around them. And then the outer ring of the huddle was a wall of furries forming a barrier around us. It was awesome, and they kept us all warm until we could go inside again.

  • @Justagamerfurry
    @Justagamerfurry Před 3 měsíci +11

    DISCLAIMER: You do NOT need a fursuit to be a furry, and not all mascoters are furries

  • @frankieinu2885
    @frankieinu2885 Před rokem +3614

    All of us kurtistownians are so grateful for the safe environment you are curating. It's so sick seeing a creator value their fan base first. All the people that say they are unsubscribing: good honestly, I don't need them in my neighborhood.

    • @callmeqt1269
      @callmeqt1269 Před rokem +16

      *kurtistownonians/kurtistownhallmember
      kurtistownian is unacceptable,
      improve.

    • @dorkchops
      @dorkchops Před rokem

      ye!! keep the streets of Kurtistown free of scum

    • @Boing2699
      @Boing2699 Před rokem +70

      @@callmeqt1269 Kurtistownonian makes less sense than kurtistownian I feel like tbh. I think kurtistowner or kurtistownie would work well.

    • @cicilg
      @cicilg Před rokem +28

      @@callmeqt1269 no Kurtistownian is definitely better then those. Lol

    • @ainescanlan872
      @ainescanlan872 Před rokem

      facts

  • @KitsuneGB-hc9zb
    @KitsuneGB-hc9zb Před rokem +3768

    Fun fact: One of the leading researchers in the COVID vaccine is a furry. They recently won a prestigious award for their work.

    • @justrandomotaku
      @justrandomotaku Před rokem +96

      Really!! Source please I wanna know who this person is

    • @gatorayds
      @gatorayds Před rokem +98

      Yeah and I am one of the leading researchers of the Furry Vaccine. (Very Important)

    • @heehoopeenut2579
      @heehoopeenut2579 Před rokem +313

      honestly most people dont realize how big of an affect furries have in their day to day lives. a pretty good amount of furries are nerds and go into tech and sciences.
      edit; the furry scientist goes by Chise/sailorrooscout for anyone wondering

    • @foxinabox5103
      @foxinabox5103 Před rokem

      @@heehoopeenut2579 that's how they afford their art collection!
      And furries run the internet, I'll tell you that!
      You piss em off and the internet that you know will cease to exist/j

    • @ayla5909
      @ayla5909 Před rokem +119

      I'm not gonna do my research into this at all and believe you whole heartedly because that is amazing

  • @generalginx
    @generalginx Před 15 dny +2

    Let it be known I got a Charmin ad with those creepy toilet paper obsessed anthro bears during this video

  • @josie4401
    @josie4401 Před 4 měsíci +5

    i never understood the furry hatred cause i was a greek mythology kid and half of those guys are some kind of human/animal combo. you're telling me you can accept a horse with a human head and a fish with human boobs but someone dressing up in a costume is too much for you to handle? bffr

  • @platinumbolt7367
    @platinumbolt7367 Před rokem +713

    i love how kurtis is never going to let that ninja tweet die

  • @val-zd7gd
    @val-zd7gd Před rokem +2317

    my least favorite thing about people harassing furries is how stubborn their views are, being a furry does NOT equal being attracted to real life animals, not every furry runs around in a fursuit 24/7, and really, they’re people with their own unique interests just like us, no need to harass them for having interests you’re not used to

    • @thulitesguide
      @thulitesguide Před rokem +4

      chiyoko kubozono you're so right... thank you for your wisdom

    • @Norithedawgg
      @Norithedawgg Před rokem +133

      Exactly, and not all of them are obsessed with sex in general, actually a lot of people in the community are minors, so it's a really harmful stereotype

    • @toontownvioletbunny
      @toontownvioletbunny Před rokem +109

      @@Norithedawgg A lot of people in the community are asexual as well

    • @Norithedawgg
      @Norithedawgg Před rokem +60

      @@toontownvioletbunny yeah absolutely, kinda sucks to see that being such a side spread stereotype when in most cases it's not even true

    • @audreyumstead5966
      @audreyumstead5966 Před rokem +69

      exactly, it’s like there’s a whole other term to people being attracted to ACTUAL animals sexually.. there’s a difference between being a furry versus being a zoophile

  • @dragong33k
    @dragong33k Před 25 dny +2

    From the moment I understood the weakness of my flesh, it disgusted me. I craved the strength and certainty of steel. I aspired to the purity of the Blessed Machine. Your kind cling to your flesh, as though it will not decay and fail you. One day the crude biomass you call the temple will wither, and you will beg my kind to save you. But I am already saved, for the Machine is immortal.
    in other words, maybe the drone jab you talked about in one of the lie videos is a good idea

  • @sincervondrais4369
    @sincervondrais4369 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I am so glad that someone made a video about this since most people just assume stuff about furries and hate on them. As a furry I've heard tons of negative things from haters, and a lot of phrases I didn't even know existed, yet most of them hadn't done any research at all. They go out and watch compilations, or they read some random news story and then make a generalization, which the same can be said about lgbtq people as well, especially recently. I just discovered your videos today and I love them so much, keep up the amazing content its like drugs to me

  • @goldeneagle8740
    @goldeneagle8740 Před rokem +4018

    The fact that so many furries who are fans of Kurtis were reluctant to watch this because they thought it was gonna be a big CZcamsr hating on the furry community again just goes to show how commonly they are hated on, and how bad it is.

    • @FurretAnimationsIsEpic
      @FurretAnimationsIsEpic Před 10 měsíci +75

      that’s the reality of it folks

    • @anonuser3491
      @anonuser3491 Před 9 měsíci +52

      womp womp

    • @JackalTheProto
      @JackalTheProto Před 9 měsíci +37

      ​@@Snake3417ironic

    • @No.1RatedSalesman
      @No.1RatedSalesman Před 8 měsíci +62

      ​​@@Snake3417nobody is crying lol

    • @wheelbox
      @wheelbox Před 8 měsíci +186

      Honestly yea
      I was super scared of watching it because I didn't wanna find out my favorite CZcamsr was kinda mean
      But then he actually
      Did research
      He didn't hate on the community
      Kurtis is genuinely amazing

  • @jgcoverkknot5701
    @jgcoverkknot5701 Před rokem +5484

    Never before has a non-furry been so well researched, have such a good take, and still manage to have not a hint that they might be a furry themselves

    • @sundalosketch4769
      @sundalosketch4769 Před rokem +71

      You could easily say there were quite a number of possible "hints/signs" that he'd be a furry in denial. /j

    • @valdemarbjork1193
      @valdemarbjork1193 Před rokem +235

      @@sundalosketch4769 nothing in comparison with kwite

    • @sundalosketch4769
      @sundalosketch4769 Před rokem +50

      @@valdemarbjork1193 Oh absolutely, *wink*

    • @RG-rm6ih
      @RG-rm6ih Před rokem

      @Varnist Media Nazi

    • @aydenator2770
      @aydenator2770 Před rokem +80

      @Varnist Media politics moment

  • @Tsunami_the_Manokit
    @Tsunami_the_Manokit Před 8 měsíci +41

    As a furry I'm sure I can speak for the community here that we appreciate people like you that do your research before you assume stuff about us. We wish everyone was like you.

    • @Drag0nmaster
      @Drag0nmaster Před 8 měsíci +5

      Agreed.

    • @Dustpuma1
      @Dustpuma1 Před 7 měsíci

      Furries are typically nice, but there are weird, on the spectrum and have weird gay sex

    • @lastswordfighter
      @lastswordfighter Před 6 měsíci

      Your community is the problem.

  • @idoofus4ever982
    @idoofus4ever982 Před 6 měsíci +10

    Dude, im a mascot and i hate being called a furry. I dont do it to entertain myself and because i have a "fursona", i do it to entertain the crowd, not for myself.

  • @sh4rky466
    @sh4rky466 Před rokem +240

    Baby Kurtis : M....m..
    His parents : He’s going to say mama!
    Baby Kurtis : My tour bus caught on fire

  • @armstrongc02
    @armstrongc02 Před rokem +485

    Making fursuits paid for my car and most of my student loans. The furry community is loadeddddddddd

    • @G0bl1n_067
      @G0bl1n_067 Před rokem +62

      dam i gotta get the glue gun

    • @tuxtitan780
      @tuxtitan780 Před rokem +48

      I've heard this so many times and I 100% believe it.
      The amount of furrys that I've just seen either irl or online that were going to college or planning to go to college to he something like an engineer or doctor, or who already are doctors, engineers, etc is incredible.
      It's absolutely insane the overlap between the furry community and people who have well paying jobs and a good amount of money. I've never seem anything like it before

    • @ckorp666
      @ckorp666 Před rokem +16

      tbf, you just havent interacted with the broke furs bc we don't have suit money lmfao
      its still true tho, glad you got those Furry Industrial Complex checks

    • @gameb9oy
      @gameb9oy Před rokem +10

      I like to think it’s more that furries just really appreciate art and overall get why it ends up expensive. Most of them aren’t loaded, but if they have money they don’t try to get a deal from an artist

    • @ZackShark1
      @ZackShark1 Před rokem

      Art commisions also work if your skill aint that good

  • @itsnotanobsessioniswear
    @itsnotanobsessioniswear Před 7 měsíci +5

    I went to a furcon the other day, and I am now working on my own suit. It was so positive and sweet! Everyone there was so cute, and kind, and just complementing each other and telling each other how cool their fursonas were. they're excited and happy to be there.
    It's so cute, and sweet and everyone there was absolutely so nice! There was older people encouraging the younger kids, it was all amazing. Not to mention their outfits are so elaborate and cool!
    (Not to mention the full suits cost almost as much as cars)

  • @seguaye
    @seguaye Před měsícem +4

    furry hate has always baffled me. furries are literally a bog standard fandom, except they dont have a uniting piece of media. hating furries is like hating trekkies, like, what? they’re so normal. they’re just an internet community, but some people legitimately want them dead

  • @admeliora6226
    @admeliora6226 Před rokem +615

    so much of cringe culture - regardless of what is being cringed at - is just "ew look at this person having fun and being happy"

    • @quandaredevil
      @quandaredevil Před rokem +60

      yeah, that and making fun of little kids for doing silly stuff even though everyone does silly stuff as a kid

    • @furballscave4431
      @furballscave4431 Před rokem +28

      yeah exactly its like they think theres a specific way to be happy and being happy in any other way is.. malicious? somehow? lmao its weird

    • @HeortirtheWoodwarden
      @HeortirtheWoodwarden Před rokem +2

      Not really, it's about entertaining thyself with socially inept and bizarre people.

    • @crypticshadows
      @crypticshadows Před rokem +15

      and a lot of times it tends to be stuff that minorities/discriminated groups enjoy- such as nerodivergent people, gay people, teen girls, etc.. I’m so sick of it, let’s make fun of middle aged white ppl things more idk

    • @HeortirtheWoodwarden
      @HeortirtheWoodwarden Před rokem +2

      @@quandaredevil And how do you think kids stop doing silly stuff? By being repeatedly told that it's silly and not socially acceptable. That's why nowadays you see so many people never growing up and continuing to act like a silly kid well into adulthood.

  • @PolyStarSys
    @PolyStarSys Před rokem +1435

    mad respect to kurtis for mentioning the aspect of being queer and being neurodivergent while also being a furry. shows he really did his research and i appreciate that as a queer neurodivergent furry :]

    • @clownfromclowntown
      @clownfromclowntown Před rokem +39

      Omg same! I’m a queer neurodivergent furry too :DD

    • @nyxx7813
      @nyxx7813 Před rokem

      WHAT. WHAT
      WHAT DO YOU MEAN. ISNT THAT A PRETTY VOCAL FUCKING MINORITY????
      ALL ANYONE HEERES ABOUT ARE THAT BRRED.
      I HAVENT SEEN A PURELY STRAIGHT CIS NON NON DIVERGENT ?WHATs Not auttisic? Cuase normals fucked up.
      Buit like bro.
      What?
      Thats like the second build option for a furry? Wdym? It doesnt take a fucking degree. Its literally one twitter thread ever.
      LIke genuinely bro. I get what you mean. But jsut really think about it. Yeah im not in the furry discord trenches (thank god) but what?
      Theres only like two images of those nazi furries? So you are makingit hard for me to believe that youreally think your in some wild minoirty.
      What do you mena shows he did his research. This is teh same as doing a book report on teh a singular magic tree house.
      like i respect you bro. I hate that youve gone through life feeling uneuqal just cause your brain has different gears. But use those fluffy gears furry friend. Think a ltitle.

    • @snipnnip3269
      @snipnnip3269 Před rokem +4

      memento mori :)

    • @adorablepandaring1975
      @adorablepandaring1975 Před rokem +19

      yeah, i have a good amount of autistic friends who are furries and like i get it my neurodivergence might not manifest through a fursona but i’m super into vocaloid and cosplay, which is another thing people don’t always get

    • @idkwhathomestuckisijustlik3439
      @idkwhathomestuckisijustlik3439 Před rokem +17

      I'm bisexual and autistic and have a fursona I draw sometimes. I hate how people are like "Ew furries are GAY and AUTISTIC" because in my case it's true lol. Most of the fandom is nice though and idk I just like drawing a funky hyena girl character. :) She's fluffy!

  • @MelonMeat-cq1xx
    @MelonMeat-cq1xx Před 2 měsíci +3

    As a furry with autism, the point of the suit for me is so i dont have to be me, and i can pretend to be someone more confident and more open in public, and it also gave me something to talk about to people and find some awesome life long friends. Hell, I met a friend online, met them in person 3 years later, and got invited to their wedding that year and we have been in constant contact since then. Sadly we live a few states away from each other, or we would probably be gossiping every day with tea and working together on furry shit and job shit. furries are pretty cool. but if you get in a relationship with one, be warned, you will be converted. My fiance now has a cow fursona.

  • @jaxvernacchia9254
    @jaxvernacchia9254 Před 17 dny +2

    OMG PICKUP ARTIST! I forgot about that show.
    Dude you should do a vid on it…. So gnarly

  • @Hows_it_hanging
    @Hows_it_hanging Před rokem +3050

    In September i went to a Lil Nas X concert and furries tried to enter the venue in their fursuits, they were turned away by security but after they tweeted at lil nas x, he made sure they could come in and actually apologized for security acting the way they did. It was heartwarming actually!

    • @batwingzzzz
      @batwingzzzz Před rokem +404

      I saw that! Lil Nas X actually tweeted he wanted to see furries at his concerts and thats what prompted those furries to go :)

    • @mal0gen
      @mal0gen Před rokem +173

      that’s really wholesome. Lil Nas X has my respect

    • @yeetmcgeet5166
      @yeetmcgeet5166 Před rokem +15

      Aww

    • @Chewi_
      @Chewi_ Před rokem +180

      It's kinda a security concern though. So I see why they turned away. And like Kurtis said it's distracting. Imagine going to show and trying to see over 2 furry ears, especially after paying hundreds of dollars for tickets.

    • @letsthrowapartyfornoreason1976
      @letsthrowapartyfornoreason1976 Před rokem +87

      How’d they not die of heat exhaustion 😭

  • @PinguPango
    @PinguPango Před rokem +2689

    Kurtis is finally going to confess he’s a Brony. I’m here for it.

  • @PenelopesPlayground
    @PenelopesPlayground Před 9 měsíci +2

    This video is how I found your channel and it instantly made me respect you for being open minded and supportive while also still making respectful jokes.

  • @zachsaviary
    @zachsaviary Před 6 měsíci +7

    if you draw furries (even in a bad light) your a furry , if your a mascot your a furry , if you took a furry personality test your a furry , if you own a fursuit your a furry, if you have ever been on the masked singer your a furry , if you ever went to great wolf lodge and bought the wolf ears their your a furry, so technically most people are furries but dont know it

    • @KlinxKreations
      @KlinxKreations Před 6 měsíci +8

      As a furry, most mascots are just random people who want to be paid to promote smth

    • @Flareguy
      @Flareguy Před 6 měsíci +1

      Ninja my hero my icon my favourite man is an ice cream furry

    • @callmecharlie4250
      @callmecharlie4250 Před 5 měsíci

      you're only a furry if you self identify as a furry

  • @breademojiwheatemoji4003
    @breademojiwheatemoji4003 Před rokem +1333

    i know this isn’t about furries but it is about cringe culture and i just want to say that i’m so happy that you’re not pro-cringe culture bc that was the exact main thing that kept me in the closet (trans) for way too long. the fear of “being cringe” is a real thing and it is so harmful to people, especially those in marginalized groups

    • @damienearl8302
      @damienearl8302 Před rokem +13

      Eyyy, trans sib!
      But for the rest of your comment...thankfully, I live in a place where it's mostly just old people who don't care much about all that, but it kinda makes me think of the Jellybean drama, where this kid was harassed, threatened, doxxed, all over content that people just...didn't think was funny
      Not really offensive or anything, just childish...well, there was also that trend that they accidentally started, and were unable to stop, but people probably wouldn't care if it wasn't for the former...I swear, it's a crazy world

    • @damienearl8302
      @damienearl8302 Před rokem +11

      Though...now that I think about it, I remember one of many reasons why I was afraid to come out was because I was worried that people would accuse me of "following internet trends" and not actually having serious gender dysmorphia (couldn't even take any showers at some point, but that's besides the point for now-), so...yeah, internet culture is scary

    • @junglejin3096
      @junglejin3096 Před rokem

      cringe culture also mainly targets neurodivergent people which sucks

    • @kebbobebop
      @kebbobebop Před rokem +25

      Same here! And even trans people calling other trans ppl “transtrenders” and making cringe comps of ppl “not passing” basically. Those kept me in the closet and hating how I was experiencing transness

    • @damienearl8302
      @damienearl8302 Před rokem

      ​@@kebbobebop Is it weird that I feel like calling trans people "transgenders", gay people "gays", and stuff like that almost feels like...the og n word for queer people?
      For reference, that's mostly because I realized that the word was and is just Spanish for "black", and the people who used it were...Spanish, so I always saw it as similar in that way-

  • @NeoCambria06
    @NeoCambria06 Před rokem +1617

    im not a furry but i am neurodivergent and i rlly appreciate your view on cringe culture. i grew up getting made fun of for my special interests and when i did get the chance to talk abt that stuff, i was just smacked with “what are you, autistic?” and it felt embarrassing, like being autistic would be bad thing. im finally getting comfortable with expressing my interests and being myself and rejecting cringe culture🤗
    edit: if u have special interests, feel free to share them in the replies! i’d love to talk abt special interests if anyone wants to :) safe space for us neurodivergent people

    • @NJ.Magpie
      @NJ.Magpie Před rokem +32

      That's awesome! What are your special interests? I am also autistic and while I haven't really experienced much discrimination because of it, I still feel like I have to limit how much I talk about my special interests because people don't want to hear about them.

    • @NeoCambria06
      @NeoCambria06 Před rokem +50

      @@NJ.Magpie as of now im getting into vocaloid and renaissance art and some special interests are danganronpa (though i’ve never actually played the games😅), Hunter x Hunter, SK8♾️, Saiki K, Gravity Falls, Monster High, and a story im currently writing :) most of my current special interests are anime tbh😂 what about you?

    • @nix.i
      @nix.i Před rokem +24

      @@NJ.Magpie One of my special interests is Shakespeare‘s plays. Which is great because they‘re insanely detailed and full of intent AND it opens up possible careers in teaching and acting BUT nobody wants to listen to me about how fascinating old Billy‘s use of incorrect pentameter and chaotic metrical feet of the words in Richard Gloster‘s lines in Richard III Act 3 Scene 7 to show his well he is pretending to be anxious, meek, easily manipulated and overly pious when I do really want to talk about it because it‘s fascinating. Shakespeare plays are a disliked subject by many which is sad because they‘re really really fun even on surface level, listening to the poetry and reading the words without delving in incredibly deep is still quite the experience (especially if you go to a theatre. I had the chance to see Richard III in Stratford last Monday and how the last Act was acted and how the ghosts played the part in the crowning of Henry VII will always be burned into my mind it was glorious). Well, I have my books to annotate and a friend who got into Macbeth through GCSE work so I‘ll have them to talk to if they want to listen but if I just want to talk about something randomly like comparisons between Richard II and Hamlet (how they both show off Shakespeare‘s existentialism in full force) and my friend isn‘t abalone (edit: fuck, avaliable) then I will not be able to because nobody really cares about Shakespeare in most of the discord servers I‘m in and I can only describe it as frustrating. So I can relate when you say nobody really wants to hear about your special interests.

    • @NJ.Magpie
      @NJ.Magpie Před rokem +2

      @whaaa t Dude, stop, you're just spamming at this point

    • @NJ.Magpie
      @NJ.Magpie Před rokem +6

      @@NeoCambria06 Omg! I love Sk8 the infinity, Monster high and writing too! I have seen the first season of saiki k and I enjoyed it

  • @sh4dysh4de
    @sh4dysh4de Před 6 měsíci +6

    15:11 welp
    Time to make a fursona and join m y p e o p l e

    • @P0ppyPaws
      @P0ppyPaws Před 6 měsíci +1

      Welcome. We beckon you to the furry fandom

  • @skttles654
    @skttles654 Před měsícem +1

    you did so well in this, most ppl that cover furries only do 5 minutes of research and dont understand what they are, you actually did thorough research, you covered everything, you acknowledged the bad stuff, but understood that not everyone was like that, you were so respectful, tysm

  • @nonnonyabuisness1510
    @nonnonyabuisness1510 Před rokem +1341

    Cringe is actually just a facet of empathy. Not always positive empathy, but still empathy.

    • @derekderekplaymaker1898
      @derekderekplaymaker1898 Před rokem +1

      The worst internet culture sucks 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

    • @flowflower2816
      @flowflower2816 Před rokem +68

      @@MatthewMS. yeah apparently, empathy is putting yourself in the other person's place and sympathising, e.g someone broke their leg and you thought 'that must be painful', cringe is seeing someone do something embarrassing and putting yourself in their place you think, 'that must be painful' but you make fun of them after

    • @flowflower2816
      @flowflower2816 Před rokem +14

      @@MatthewMS. Aw thanks

    • @mcphersonellie
      @mcphersonellie Před rokem +31

      never considered negative empathy before. interesting.

    • @ittybittynautilus2468
      @ittybittynautilus2468 Před rokem +14

      wait this actually makes so much sense. cringe really is secondhand embarrassment, and all secondhand embarrassment is is you thinking how uncomfortable and ridiculous it would be to be in that position. cringe culture comes in when people then follow that feeling up with rebuking/mocking the person for making the decision to do what they did, which often comes with a moral condemnation of some sort. the moral condemnation isn't strictly a bad or wrong thing, it's just that the situations in which it's called for vary from person to person because, you know, everyone has different moral codes.

  • @nosog7957
    @nosog7957 Před rokem +3403

    It has always been like this:
    1: A part of a certain group does awful, problematic shit.
    2: People start to criticize them.
    3. People on the internet take it to the extreme and turn it into a circlejerk by spamming obnoxious comments.
    4. Then you got underage teenagers jumping on the hate bandwagon because they think being angsty is a sign of maturity.

    • @EliasMorals
      @EliasMorals Před rokem +249

      1 can also be "people take things out of context" or "people don't understand what's going on fully"

    • @alexandreluiz4923
      @alexandreluiz4923 Před rokem +74

      5. There's a chance that the certain group will hire hitmans to erase that part from the very group
      6. People on the internet will cheer to the hitmans "destroy the whole group"

    • @a_plastic_bag
      @a_plastic_bag Před rokem +160

      @@bigmanliam I ain’t a furry, but I’m curious on your reasoning behind why they’re “weird and cringe”. Just because they don’t conform to your concept of social norms?

    • @pheonity
      @pheonity Před rokem +4

      @@EliasMorals Then don't talk shit until you know what you're dealing with.

    • @catdownthestreet
      @catdownthestreet Před rokem +78

      @@bigmanliam fun fact: people who have a higher IQ tend to be social outcasts… such as furries and neurodivergent folk 😀

  • @TEMPORARY_NAME144
    @TEMPORARY_NAME144 Před 8 měsíci +12

    Props to you for being way more respectful and understanding than most CZcamsrs when reacting to this topic (=

  • @Echo_8054
    @Echo_8054 Před měsícem +4

    It's a shame that the bad people in the furry community overshadow the good people. It's like people are actively only looking at the few bad people and ignoring the good people.

  • @LVJY_Red
    @LVJY_Red Před rokem +1249

    I'd also like to mention how uncomfortable it is to see a lot of young, ND people exploring themselves through something that makes them happy as kids who feel lost in this world and seeing fully grown adults sexualize that and straight up bully them. This could be said about A LOTT of 'cringe Fandoms'

    • @thischannelisdead9
      @thischannelisdead9 Před rokem +51

      Agreed. My interests are more than just interests to me. They're a part of my identity as a whole. I'm 14, and use my fursona and other OCs as a way to represent who I'd be if the world wasn't so judgemental. The community is for people who enjoy that stuff, not for gross people to hang around getting mad that I draw anthropomorphic animals.

    • @zubidubi792
      @zubidubi792 Před rokem

      czcams.com/video/C9FivyYPb9w/video.html

    • @NadiaSeesIt
      @NadiaSeesIt Před rokem +4

      That's a stretch but okay

    • @vvvvv6041
      @vvvvv6041 Před rokem +11

      @@NadiaSeesIt how?

    • @LVJY_Red
      @LVJY_Red Před rokem +9

      @@NadiaSeesIt it's really not

  • @corvixxidk
    @corvixxidk Před rokem +1266

    "Kurtis Town is now a Furry-Friendly Zone!"
    *morphs into 3D low-poly raccoon and begins to rotate*

    • @ayo69420
      @ayo69420 Před rokem +31

      this is so me fr ong

    • @Ihateyouyfga
      @Ihateyouyfga Před rokem +29

      @@ayo69420 yes I will morph into a 3d low-poly racoon and rotate

    • @rulerzreachf4n200
      @rulerzreachf4n200 Před rokem +12

      Wtf has happened to my sense of humour 💀 😂

    • @Fafuchess
      @Fafuchess Před rokem +10

      Morbs*

    • @corvixxidk
      @corvixxidk Před rokem +9

      @@Fafuchess it’s morbin time

  • @ScuzzBuzzProductions
    @ScuzzBuzzProductions Před 10 měsíci +1

    I only discovered your channel yesterday, and I have never laughed so much at someone's channel. In a good way that is. Already my new favourite CZcamsr.

  • @avon4528
    @avon4528 Před měsícem +2

    i genuinely learnt a lot from this video and am a lot more open minded regarding the furry community now. thank you, i loved the video!

  • @wildflowerlove
    @wildflowerlove Před rokem +2373

    love this take, I work with autistic children and one of my clients is a furry & cosplayer and it's helped open my mind to the fandom. I think we are so conditioned to hate on things we don't understand, but once I saw first hand how happy and peaceful dressing up makes her, it all changed. so much of cringe culture is just people bullying neurodivergent and autistic individuals and it's really sick

    • @skweexer
      @skweexer Před rokem

      so much of “cringe culture” is just autistic people having fun!!!

    • @kittysoftpaws3677
      @kittysoftpaws3677 Před rokem +72

      Not even just neurodivergent people just normal people who happen to have a hobby

    • @icantcomeupwithaclevername2500
      @icantcomeupwithaclevername2500 Před rokem +65

      as an autistic girl, I've noticed a lot of other neurodivergent, esp autistic people are furries (although fursuiters are a minority due to cost and if someone actually wants to fursuit.) slowly becoming convinced most of cringe culture is just bullying us as you said. even if someone isn't neurodivergent, it's still just as cruel.

    • @pennysantana247
      @pennysantana247 Před rokem +39

      As more people are becoming open to the existence of autism/neurodivergency and LGBT people, people in general are going out and doing research and looking into themselves to find out if they may be ND or LGBT. In the case of being ND, more people are getting diagnoses, and it's starting to become more obvious why people who are considered "weird" because of these things act the way they do. Cringe culture has always been just looking at these kinds of people and making fun of them for having fun with their interests and/or being "different". You can see it with how most "cringe compilations", how a lot of them just fill their videos with kids having (usually) harmless fun with their favorite show or book, gay people being open with their presentation and identity, and of course, furries.

    • @scoobydoobydoo811
      @scoobydoobydoo811 Před rokem +12

      THIS EXACTLY THIS! I love this conversation. We need to just let people do what makes them happy as long as it's not hurting themselves or others.

  • @cement7095
    @cement7095 Před rokem +937

    as someone who is a furry and is autistic, i appreciate the mention of how cringe culture and being neurodivergent connect!! most people gloss over the fact that they are connected. and yes, fursuits are very helpful for my sensitivities to touch :D

    • @noobier9790
      @noobier9790 Před rokem +2

      yooo renard queenston pfp :3

    • @toothfairy10133
      @toothfairy10133 Před rokem +17

      hey thats cool as fuck, i always assumed they'd be awful for touch sensitivity

    • @g.r.e..g
      @g.r.e..g Před rokem +1

      heyhey omgee me too

    • @hjaylee6583
      @hjaylee6583 Před rokem +2

      Same!! I’m really happy that he brought it up :)

    • @mal3068
      @mal3068 Před rokem +1

      not to mention that fursuiting is just really fun!

  • @layfe
    @layfe Před 5 měsíci +5

    kurtis i put the subtitles font to comic sans because i feel like you're just that type of guy

  • @jck1232
    @jck1232 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I personally don't find it cringe for a furry to be in fursuit in public. Strange in a neutral sense, yes, but not really wrong as long as they're not harassing people(like homeboy in Dollar Tree, leave the cashier alone). A fursuit is really just exotic clothing