How Celebrities Really Bounce Back After Pregnancy: Kylie Jenner, Emrata, Gigi Hadid

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 17. 06. 2021
  • The first 1,000 people to use this link will get a 1 month FREE trial of Skillshare:
    skl.sh/lorryhill06211
    The secrets that allow celebrities to look like they were never pregnant, just days after they give birth. This is the story and explanation of the diets, exercises, and the little known C-Tuck. I will be exposing some celebs who did it, talk about why they shouldn’t hide it, and how the surgery is done. I hope you enjoy this slightly different format of video! #Lorryhill #PlasticSurgery #Beauty
    Doctors featured in the video:
    www.michaellawmd.com/
    danielbrownmd.com/
    Subscribe to my second channel ( Lorry Beauty): / @lorrybeauty
    Support my Patreon and get EXCLUSIVE videos that CZcams DOES NOT ALLOW me to show due to the visual nature or the controversy of the fandom: / lorryhill
    Have a suggestion for the channel?: www.lorryhill.com/suggestions/
    -----
    Instead of perpetuating the lies that celebs tell everyone about how they bounce back into a beach bod just days after birth, I will reveal the truth. It isn’t surprising to my fans, but to the general public, this type of information is new or not well known. I will cover the main ways that celebrities secretly bounce back so quickly.
    Natural methods: I will discuss the genetics, skin health, muscular tone, and other factors that allow such a natural quick recovery as the celeb shown. I even explain how other normal pregnancy related activities when done right can increase the natural ability to get right back to the body a woman had before.
    Surgical method: This is where I talk about the C-Tuck, a controversial surgery that has been getting very popular in certain circles. Many of the women who get this will claim “good genes” and this cannot be farther from the truth. There is no such thing as Celebrity Genes. There is no safe or healthy way to have abs right after a C-section. That is why I explain the process of how they do these procedures, and how they get abs before they are even allowed to exercise.
    I even discuss the possibility of diet, and why that can’t always be a valid argument.
    Because I love to go into all the details, I will cover how to tell if a celeb will likely get the C-tuck and how to spot it after.
    Some celebs that I will discuss in this video either natural recovery or surgical recovery.
    Emily Ratajkowski
    Gigi Hadid
    Gwen Stefani
    Kylie Jenner
    Blac Chyna
    Angelin Jolie
    Britney Spears
    Kate Middleton
    Jennifer Lopez
    Teyana Taylor
    Heidi Klum
    Some other Surgeries discussed in this video will be: Liposuction, Mini tummy tuck, full tummy tuck, laser skin treatment. We will also discuss the cost of these procedures, and the risks and benefits. We will also discuss what kinds of doctors perform these procedures, and why many will not.
    I hope that overall this video is informative and helps all the women out there to know that they are normal and that these kinds of results are not typical or usually natural. That just because a celeb claims to have done it naturally, does not mean they did. I hope that this will help any women out there going through postpartum recovery.
    LOVE YOU ALL!!! Your support means the WORLD to me!!

Komentáře • 3,8K

  • @LorryHill
    @LorryHill  Před 2 lety +563

    *HI Everyone: The first 1,000* people to use this link will get a 1 MONTH FREE TRIAL of Skillshare: skl.sh/lorryhill06211

    • @gwynzynoodles2553
      @gwynzynoodles2553 Před 2 lety +4

      Hi Lorry! :D

    • @MegaTinni
      @MegaTinni Před 2 lety +6

      First minute and I'm already confused: you expect us 'metric people' to become offended?? :D

    • @parisz
      @parisz Před 2 lety +2

      Your baby is so cute, Lorr!!!!

    • @lifeisgood3457
      @lifeisgood3457 Před 2 lety +4

      The whole pregnancy took 9 months right??? So you have to wait atleast that much time to lose it

    • @kilia101
      @kilia101 Před 2 lety

      What about the stretch marks?

  • @ndpd7695
    @ndpd7695 Před 2 lety +14360

    I don't understand how people are so accepting of dad bods but not of mum bods

    • @Meet23ful
      @Meet23ful Před 2 lety +1292

      Especially since the dads do nothing. Sperm donation

    • @Rosetta-gp9mk
      @Rosetta-gp9mk Před 2 lety +1591

      @@shrek-is_love-shrek_islife714 it’s still nothing like what the mother’s body goes through: a lot of pressure is put on the bone, the skin is being pulled A LOT from the bump, leading to stretch marks, and not to mention the sudden drop of volume that then often gives that flabby look with a lot of “extra skin”. And I’m not even mentioning the process of giving birth, preparing for it and then breastfeeding.

    • @konfupandix
      @konfupandix Před 2 lety +897

      I’m guessing hating women for no reason is easy for those people

    • @illusivity3701
      @illusivity3701 Před 2 lety +267

      @@farahjichi4617 thats oPINION

    • @Meet23ful
      @Meet23ful Před 2 lety +125

      @@shrek-is_love-shrek_islife714 yes. I would hope a father would raise their child

  • @elbeelondon
    @elbeelondon Před 2 lety +19262

    The fact these mothers have to post pictures a week after birth just to show off their flat stomach is actually a HUGE part of the problem.

    • @biljam972
      @biljam972 Před 2 lety +482

      Right? That is totally insane!

    • @user-xd3rb1fm5z
      @user-xd3rb1fm5z Před 2 lety +618

      Maybe they are liars : to me it's possible that they took pictures of flat stomach before pregnancy or when it was at the beginning

    • @lisaeischens2352
      @lisaeischens2352 Před 2 lety +264

      I think we’ve all seen how deceiving their photos are even after having multiple surgeries. It’s all a facade and we can’t give in to thinking that things are as they appear because they photoshop like crazy! Kim Zolciak Biermann is another one who looks totally different on her show than she does in photos and it’s rather ridiculous how much she lies about her size.

    • @brunab6474
      @brunab6474 Před 2 lety +299

      The thing is...they don't HAVE to. They do it because they want

    • @jamiehershon
      @jamiehershon Před 2 lety +112

      i agree. some famous personal trainer posted photos of how she looked after pregnancy due to emily's photos. night and day. an in shape personal trainer with little body fat before pregnancy looked like a woman who had just had a baby. Emily didn't however like Lorry said she did only gain weight in her stomach. it just seems bizarre that within a month of having a baby she looked no different than when she wasn't pregnant. i've known really thin women who did bounce back into shape right after having a baby who did breast feed but none bounced back in less than a month.

  • @lauvasquez7198
    @lauvasquez7198 Před 2 lety +8287

    Also take into account the fact that they have chefs, night nannies, personal trainers, maids and who knows what other additional help that regular moms don’t have.
    I’d probably look better after birth if I had proper sleep and a personal chef making me healthy food instead of 3 hours of sleep and frozen pizzas.
    2 am fresh strawberry smoothie instead of a 2am ice cream sandwich.

    • @kalelee6153
      @kalelee6153 Před 2 lety +126

      Yep ☝🏻
      2am ice cream sounds pretty good!

    • @xxyy1318
      @xxyy1318 Před 2 lety +107

      What one eats is a choice.

    • @iamamoth
      @iamamoth Před 2 lety +106

      Sooooo true :D hahaha no sleep, permanently exhausted and then you look for yummy food to make you happy :D It must be so nice to have a night nanny... People say let pregnant women do what they want, I say let postpartum women(parents) do what they want. It is an incredibly rough time, more difficult than being pregnant.

    • @SM-ce1uy
      @SM-ce1uy Před 2 lety +84

      yes, also they are not pressured to go back to a useless job after 9 months or even earlier in some cases. you need more than that to fully recover

    • @delpicsla65
      @delpicsla65 Před 2 lety +188

      @@xxyy1318 you don’t have time to prepare healthy fancy meals when you have a newborn wailing like there’s no tomorrow. You barely have time for sleep, much less preparing quality food or working out.

  • @lestupidunicorn
    @lestupidunicorn Před 2 lety +4441

    her: we will discuss weight in actual pounds
    me, a european: you have no power here

  • @killerqueen7489
    @killerqueen7489 Před 2 lety +18030

    The pressure to bounce back from having a baby is INSANE, the only thing mothers should be worried about that period of thir lives is taking care of their newborn, not having flat bellies and flaunting them online. But it's Hollywood we're talking about...

    • @mushy470
      @mushy470 Před 2 lety +630

      @@as19J01 I never understand why people think not having a child is selfish. There aren't any non selfish reasons for having a child lol.

    • @talienatte5557
      @talienatte5557 Před 2 lety +267

      @@mushy470 i know right?? like not having a kid is the antithesis of selfish.

    • @amaramoramei9959
      @amaramoramei9959 Před 2 lety +254

      Beyonce once also talked about it about her first pregnancy (Blue Ivy) how she felt so much pressure to "bounce back" but with the second batch of kids she just stopped worrying and enjoyed her FUPA, lol.

    • @levlinx1013
      @levlinx1013 Před 2 lety +127

      I think they should also take care of themselves as well, but in a way that they feel good in their own skin, taking a time to get relax, etc. but "taking care of themselves" is not wanting to be unrealistically perfect, it's absolutely insane

    • @mushy470
      @mushy470 Před 2 lety +89

      @@talienatte5557 exactly. People are doubling their burden on the environment in a time of overpopulation, solely for their own pleasure. How tf is not doing doing that, the selfish option.

  • @poppyzol
    @poppyzol Před 2 lety +7529

    the cringiest part is how some of them have photos focusing on their stomach after pregnancy. it's like they're saying "look! i just gave birth and now my belly is flat again!"

    • @carameldare
      @carameldare Před 2 lety +483

      When Kate Middleton proudly displayed her post-birth bump, it was such a big moment. Things take time to shift back. Your body took 9 mons to get this way. It can't get back in a day.

    • @meyrins8058
      @meyrins8058 Před 2 lety +108

      @@carameldare I'd never liked Kate that much but recently I'm seeing so many reasons to adore her. I'm glad she's future Queen

    • @sexyslim3959
      @sexyslim3959 Před 2 lety +50

      Some of these so-called celebrity are not pregnant is Hollywood they're fake they use moon bum...watch the show the factory and u will see how all them so-called celebrity are wicked people.

    • @whydomen5911
      @whydomen5911 Před 2 lety +37

      @@sexyslim3959 Are you crazy, why would anyone fake there pregnancy weirdo

    • @sexyslim3959
      @sexyslim3959 Před 2 lety +41

      @@whydomen5911 the same reason why u fellow them on social media and u don't know them..

  • @twit9129
    @twit9129 Před rokem +144

    Love that you pointed out the fact that for a lot of the supermodels (Emrata, Gigi Hadid etc.) they were already underweight even before pregnancy so them gaining excess weight wouldn't look obvious but natural and normal instead.

  • @priscillalee9767
    @priscillalee9767 Před 2 lety +684

    I totally agree. I have a friend that's very petite and she had 6 kids with barely any weight gain and bounced back to her pre-pregnancy body immediately with a flat tummy; all natural and no surgeries. I believe that is just her body type. I became a buffalo immediately after my first child; my only child.

    • @stormstargazer3056
      @stormstargazer3056 Před 2 lety +27

      Not possible. She isn’t telling you the truth

    • @catm4555
      @catm4555 Před 2 lety +33

      @Storm Stargazer yeah I agree- I mean she might be thin but she would still have a pouch. I had 3 kids and I'm still thin but I have a slight pouch even if I suck my tummy in its not flat flat.

    • @sin3358
      @sin3358 Před rokem +16

      I'll let you know that that could happen due to certain hormones. I forgot its name however I know that there's a certain medical condition some women are born with, that when they give birth, they'll gain a lottt of weight and will have a very VERY hard time losing it, nearly impossible even

    • @MissAngelaiz
      @MissAngelaiz Před rokem +47

      My brother’s wife was after giving birth thinner that before 😄 She also bounced back really fast.. and she also was all her life very thin.. it’s definitely her 🧬 ..because she’s not very sporty aswell lol

    • @morganedubucq1291
      @morganedubucq1291 Před rokem +24

      @@MissAngelaiz this happened to me too.. I'm thinner than before pregnancy

  • @joannaj.2787
    @joannaj.2787 Před 2 lety +11295

    I love that Katy Perry kept it real. She showed up on Jimmy Kimmel after birth in a skintight dress with her pouch and no shapewear

    • @patrickl6987
      @patrickl6987 Před 2 lety +1853

      Katy Perry in general seems to have become pretty comfortable with her natural body. She doesn't seem obsessed with getting back to being how skinny she was back in the day.

    • @Stephaniacat
      @Stephaniacat Před 2 lety +956

      @@patrickl6987 in her last vacation with Orlando she still seems like she still got some weight on her. So good for her. And maybe orlando is a big support for her too.

    • @emmaphilo4049
      @emmaphilo4049 Před 2 lety +426

      @@patrickl6987 I think she looks fantastic and glowing indeed

    • @birdlover7776
      @birdlover7776 Před 2 lety +94

      @@Stephaniacat maybe he likes her that way 🤫

    • @misskothy9116
      @misskothy9116 Před 2 lety +349

      @@birdlover7776 I think he I truly in love with the woman that made him become father again , in love with every single piece of her and all he wants for them is to be happy, healthy and okay. I wish more people were like that

  • @milkbread5036
    @milkbread5036 Před 2 lety +8991

    I like how Cardi B actually talks about everything she's done. She said she had liposuction when she gave birth.

    • @nikkisovain9429
      @nikkisovain9429 Před 2 lety +718

      She talks about a lot of her procedures but not all of them.

    • @bre7931
      @bre7931 Před 2 lety +361

      She has denied certain procedures she’s gotten

    • @Vrjm81
      @Vrjm81 Před 2 lety +477

      She doesn’t talk about procedures she got on her face

    • @pretendfriend1417
      @pretendfriend1417 Před 2 lety +262

      Not the ones on her face tho. Lol

    • @pretendfriend1417
      @pretendfriend1417 Před 2 lety +562

      @@Vrjm81 Exactly. Its manipulating in a way. They'll talk about their bodies so they come across as honest, but not their face. They deny deny deny. Half her nose gone now tf.

  • @annaellemay8590
    @annaellemay8590 Před 2 lety +1524

    I really loved what Kayla Nicole did. Despite her small frame, she still had the stretch marks and the tummy pooch. She didn't hide it. Sure sometimes she expressed wanting it to go away but that's natural right? She loves her mom body and embraced it and I appreciated that alot. Then too theres age, maybe genetics too that play a factor in 'bouncing back'? Every person is different and that's okay. We shouldn't shame others or make them feel bad about themselves. Having a baby is no easy feat.

    • @elaine378
      @elaine378 Před 2 lety +27

      me too! I love her sm

    • @onepunch2310
      @onepunch2310 Před 2 lety +60

      People bullied her for not bouncing back 😒 I hate people sometimes

    • @Frankie.s
      @Frankie.s Před 2 lety

      Most famous people have stretch marks. They just hide it with make up and Photoshop

    • @patriciavandevelde5469
      @patriciavandevelde5469 Před rokem

      Stop having babies or pay a Surrogate! Problems solved!

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d Před rokem +1

      Misery loves company and that’s why you were happy to see her body flaws.

  • @hannagee7
    @hannagee7 Před 2 lety +1016

    If I am ever pregnant, I will parade around my baby-tummy with all the loose skin and stretch marks like a queen. Stop this body shaming of literal godesses who brought children into this world! STOP IT!!

    • @brookebenton8192
      @brookebenton8192 Před 2 lety +16

      You won't necessarily have a "baby tummy." I got pregnant for the first time at 34 and gained 100 lbs. I have lost 80 of it with no sagging or stretch marks:)

    • @cavaleriedesmarresetdesguetres
      @cavaleriedesmarresetdesguetres Před 2 lety +4

      My mom had saggy skin after having my sister, but she never had stretch mark because even tho my sister took so much bloody space, it didn't grow that quickly and my mom put oil on her belly everyday which definitely helped !
      She's still a goddess and I love her, just wanted to tell you that you could have none or less 😄

    • @karayna9071
      @karayna9071 Před 2 lety +18

      I get so tired when I read all these so-called "body positive" posts that are shaming or questioning women who naturally bounce back immediately. Not just the post I'm replying to here. Clearly you are NOT celebrating and loving all types of bodies when you question our validity or say we have no right to post before/after pictures. YOU are body shaming those who bounce back fast, not the other way around. I also brought life into this world, though without stretchmarks or a postpartum pouch. How about accepting all kinds of bodies?

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Před 2 lety +11

      Ewww. Please don’t

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Před 2 lety +6

      Karilina- yes it’s women going after women again. Some of us have good genes. That’s all

  • @miznikki2u
    @miznikki2u Před 2 lety +7101

    Imagine putting your baby’s life in danger because you can’t stand to gain an extra 10 pounds in the last month of your pregnancy. God help these people. Absolutely mental.

    • @Simplelivingslowliving
      @Simplelivingslowliving Před 2 lety +207

      Insane. I cant with this world . 🙄

    • @astrid499
      @astrid499 Před 2 lety +187

      Yep, that's called an eating disorder?..., you should read about it.

    • @jayjayjayjay1067
      @jayjayjayjay1067 Před 2 lety +362

      @@astrid499 actually it's called vanity. It should be called child endangerment

    • @juliabenavider3171
      @juliabenavider3171 Před 2 lety +49

      @@jayjayjayjay1067 it’s not, you’re just uneducated

    • @jayjayjayjay1067
      @jayjayjayjay1067 Před 2 lety +162

      @@juliabenavider3171 enlighten me, how is this not vanity?

  • @dammar117
    @dammar117 Před 2 lety +6495

    Age matters, too. Kylie was 20, whereas Gwen was in her 40s.

    • @americanwoman445
      @americanwoman445 Před 2 lety +119

      So true...

    • @callieestra1095
      @callieestra1095 Před 2 lety +320

      And how active they were before and during pregnancy because that matters as well

    • @rachelwyatt6030
      @rachelwyatt6030 Před 2 lety +351

      I agree. I had a baby at 16 and back to normal in a month. I just gave birth in April and I still look pregnant!

    • @neesa14ify
      @neesa14ify Před 2 lety +126

      So true I gave birth this March (I'm 22) and pretty much look the same like before maybe even a bit skinnier but my belly is still really soft :)

    • @jessicalynn8607
      @jessicalynn8607 Před 2 lety +19

      Not always

  • @Inanothertimeandspace
    @Inanothertimeandspace Před 2 lety +464

    It honestly breaks my heart that a woman who *just created a human* feels so pressured to not only endure the hardships of those extremely difficult early days with a newborn, but to also deal with surgery at the same time.

  • @aprilgrow3667
    @aprilgrow3667 Před rokem +51

    It’s also important to note that the models you featured have very long torsos, which allows more room for baby, so less protruding and distress to the skin, and more room to distribute any extra weight post-partum. They are also very tall, which means any extra weight won’t be as noticeable. Thanks for pulling back the curtain in the extreme measures they take. It’s sad that so many women hold themselves to the same. Bodies change after childbirth. That’s natural and beautiful.

    • @Bianca_Toeps
      @Bianca_Toeps Před rokem +3

      Yes. I've seen model friends 8 months pregnant and you wouldn't even notice it if they were in a coat/jacket.

    • @franceskirsch9906
      @franceskirsch9906 Před rokem +9

      I’m like this. Tall with a long torso. Both of my pregnancies I didn’t really show until late second trimester. Even now, I’ll be forty weeks tomorrow and people have been consistently shocked and confused when I say how far along I am. Also, for SOME reason (most definitely genetic) I just don’t gain a lot of weight during pregnancy. Downside of all that is the overwhelming volume of backhanded “concern” I get for the health and size of this baby I’m carrying. Everyone has an opinion. My body literally just decided to do what it does and I had no say in it.

    • @aprilgrow3667
      @aprilgrow3667 Před rokem +1

      @@franceskirsch9906 my SIL is the same exact way, and her babies are all healthy and perfect. She just has a long torso so there is a lot more room. I’m sorry people give you a hard time

    • @franceskirsch9906
      @franceskirsch9906 Před rokem +1

      @@aprilgrow3667 Unsolicited advice does seem to come with the mum job, haha!

    • @aprilgrow3667
      @aprilgrow3667 Před rokem +1

      @@franceskirsch9906 doesn’t it though? 😂

  • @LiliS319
    @LiliS319 Před 2 lety +5601

    Evicting one's baby a month early for aesthetic reasons is a thing?!? WTF? How is that not child abuse?

    • @coffeesarcasm9318
      @coffeesarcasm9318 Před 2 lety +851

      Right?!
      I have a really hard time understanding how a doctor is willing to put a baby at risk like this. A month early is a month less for the baby to gain weight and develop and mature for birth.

    • @milkbread5036
      @milkbread5036 Před 2 lety +631

      My exact thoughts. You could potentially ruin the health of your future child for plain useless vanity!

    • @c11xitlaly
      @c11xitlaly Před 2 lety +155

      It's a thing unfortunately
      Some of my in laws do that even joke about it so casually

    • @MegaTinni
      @MegaTinni Před 2 lety +35

      Exactly my thoughts

    • @11lizgoodall
      @11lizgoodall Před 2 lety +394

      My baby was born early for reasons beyond my control. I get angry knowing people do that to their babies on purpose!

  • @Asterisk_13
    @Asterisk_13 Před 2 lety +3853

    I remember when Aishwarya Rai got criticized for still having a lot of weight months after giving birth. That's just so cruel 🙄

    • @sarai5467
      @sarai5467 Před 2 lety +243

      And she looked amazing and was probably breastfeeding which holds a bit of weight

    • @SB-no9pz
      @SB-no9pz Před 2 lety +227

      Disgusting how women are looked at after gaining some weight 🤮

    • @huh3265
      @huh3265 Před 2 lety +75

      aishwarya is so beautiful too it makes me sad💔

    • @a79919
      @a79919 Před 2 lety +129

      Its disgusting that we women go through something so hard as bringing new life into this world and will be treated badly for what our bodies endured as if it hasn't happened to women for thousands of years

    • @norah4892
      @norah4892 Před 2 lety +28

      That was brutal. I was so sorry for her😔

  • @isabellaadams6093
    @isabellaadams6093 Před 2 lety +105

    Something that I feel like people don’t talk about a lot is that celebrities/model’s literal JOB is to look good. That is one of their full-time focuses and they spend an incredible amount of time/money just to look a certain way. Think of it as their 9-5 job description is just “be pretty and skinny” of course they’re going to bounce back super quickly because they’re focusing a LOT of energy into looking a certain way. They have to do this for public image and to maintain their desirable celebrity status. Normal people with normal jobs and lives do not have the time and resources to do this. Our livelyhoods do not depend on how flat our stomachs are unlike a lot of celebrities/models

    • @judigemini178
      @judigemini178 Před měsícem

      That's true except that for every celebrity mom ott concerned with their looks there's another celebrity mom who did their pregnancy the healthy way. If this reason you gave was justifiable, then ALL the celeb moms would be posting pics of their flat stomachs a week after giving birth, but that is not the case because there are still women in hollywood who have some of their sanity in tact and understand how ridiculous it is to endanger your baby and yourself for aesthetic reasons.

  • @kd8663
    @kd8663 Před 2 lety +153

    I was nearly underweight and gained very little with my first baby (all due to fallout from brain surgery and other health problems in the years leading into that pregnancy) and can confirm my tummy was 'flat' again pretty much right away. I looked better than I did pre pregnancy, given how sickly I had been before. With my second child I gained about 30 pounds and had stretch marks, loose skin, and a pooch that took a while to fade (and didn't completely disappear.) That child sat laterally in my stomach most of the time too, which stretched me left to right more than the previous. It's amazing how these things can make such a difference. And also telling that what's considered aesthetically 'ideal' was, for me, during my most unhealthy time.

  • @SyilvIsha
    @SyilvIsha Před 2 lety +3316

    women are magical creatures bringing life into this world. instead of being cherished, supported and protected along with their babies, they are pressured to "bounce back". this is a true horror of hollywood.

    • @MusgraveRitual
      @MusgraveRitual Před 2 lety +69

      but that's what I don't get...who is pressuring them? Certainly not the public that constantly protests how unrealistic these celebrities are...they have tons of money, so it's not the need to work that's pressuring them either. So I think it's only their ego that's pressuring them so they can go back being nekkid on the covers of magazines and then give interviews how pressured they are to be perfect. Meh. Also, if they are all such "influencers" why not influence for the change in perception instead of putting your abs in a bikkini on the stage a week after giving birth to quadruplets. not falling for it... OK. end rant! :)

    • @amirahelechi7113
      @amirahelechi7113 Před 2 lety +5

      @@MusgraveRitual agreed

    • @amirahelechi7113
      @amirahelechi7113 Před 2 lety +7

      Creatures 🤨

    • @katodd2925
      @katodd2925 Před 2 lety +95

      @@MusgraveRitual It is MOST of the public. Many people comment about womens bodies, saying cellulite is gross, they're fat, etc, after giving birth. Then they have social media, Hollywood, and influencers telling them this is what they are supposed to look like. So yeah, there's multiple people and things pressuring them.

    • @carlyzikhaliii
      @carlyzikhaliii Před 2 lety +12

      People go through this all over the world,not just Hollywood

  • @annabanana6965
    @annabanana6965 Před 2 lety +4564

    No one’s going to talk about how Emily is holding her newborn? It’s bad..

    • @cryforthemoon
      @cryforthemoon Před 2 lety +1435

      She can't have the baby obscuring the view of her body.

    • @bluecovenalley
      @bluecovenalley Před 2 lety +1091

      yea she deactivated the comments on that pic. tbh its absolutely crazy to me, shes treating her newborn as a status symbol, her instagram has always just been about her body, but please would she care not to objectify her own son and bring him into it? its sick

    • @somyadas3862
      @somyadas3862 Před 2 lety +423

      @@bluecovenalley I am feeling bad for the child. Most of these guys are just concerned about their "status". My point is why include a third person in all this mayhem when you can't even take care. And when the child grows up she will assign a nanny to take care of him:(

    • @pretendfriend1417
      @pretendfriend1417 Před 2 lety +66

      BRUH I KNOW. I WOULD NEVA

    • @Ninatic
      @Ninatic Před 2 lety +368

      Her ig feels like a weird OnlyFans tbh

  • @KatiKosta
    @KatiKosta Před 2 lety +21

    Genetics play a huge part as well. My mom had 4 children, and didn’t have stretch marks or lose skin after births. She also had a small frame and gained about 20 lbs each pregnancy. She also Kept in shape all her youth. It all adds up and helps in the long run.

    • @LorryHill
      @LorryHill  Před 2 lety +8

      True ; the 20 lbs gain is the really significant part as we all kept in great shape prior, during etc but the weight gained means much less to lose. Stretch marks are generally genetic and happen at a higher rate in young pregnancies. Where the skin “overreacts” I had no stretch marks even with 55 lbs gained .

  • @Mai-id4fw
    @Mai-id4fw Před 2 lety +191

    Gosh the things women’s have to go thru to impress the world.

    • @dhrgkbqxtjr2743
      @dhrgkbqxtjr2743 Před 2 lety +13

      They do it to themselves. All of this is so that women can compete with each other because their self-worth is tied entirely to their appearance.

    • @Willowy13
      @Willowy13 Před 2 lety +7

      These vain creatures do it for themselves. They can't stay away from the limelight, IG or youtube for fear of being forgotten. Society has no interest in whatever they are doing.

    • @Chocolavacakeloco
      @Chocolavacakeloco Před 2 lety +2

      @Queen of Kings you go girl !! Be you !! Also I love your username 🥰

    • @annikajonsson5620
      @annikajonsson5620 Před 2 lety +2

      @@dhrgkbqxtjr2743 They "choose" to do this to themselves because they have been governed by the ideals of society. Like you said, girls learn early on that their value is based on their looks and that mindset will haunt many for the rest of their life.
      When people go through a cosmetic procedure, they’re doing it because they feel pressured to do so. In most cases, you don’t decide yourself. For example, your don’t decide yourself if your nose needs botox - Without HAVE HEARD that it “needs it” and when they choose to do so, they have let others decide what they have look like to be seen as desirable. Which is not a strange behavior because humans are animals that listen to others that they look up to (celebrities, actors, etc.).
      So, women have not chosen to do this themselves.. - Without the pressure society gives them to always look good, otherwise you think you are not worth anything. Women have just always been controlled by the opinions of others.
      Because children do not choose to hate their body, nose etc. They hate it because they have received shitty comments about it. Otherwise they wouldn’t have notice that their appearance was "wrong".
      It was not a choice, but others made the choice for you.
      We don’t even notice this anymore because it’s so common to comment on the appearance of others. And unfortunately this applies to both men and women. Hurt people hurt other people, and the circle of competing and pressure about looks is just going around and around.

    • @dhrgkbqxtjr2743
      @dhrgkbqxtjr2743 Před 2 lety

      @@annikajonsson5620 They choose to do this to themselves so they can exploit their looks to ensnare a man to take care of them for the rest of their lives and live off his paycheck. That's not oppression, that's privilege. Every single one of them prefers to put their lifelong efforts into faking beauty instead of doing actual hard work. That's their decision. Nice try.

  • @elainebailey2002
    @elainebailey2002 Před 2 lety +4582

    Personally I think the emphasis on “bouncing back” after having a baby is such an unnecessary pressure on a mum, especially one who can’t afford (financially & mentally) to go through with surgical aid. It just enables a persons poor self-esteem to continue thriving in our society. I’m obviously not trying to hate on these celebrities who probably elected to get a lil help after having a baby, I just think it’s sad that there’s the a pressure in the first place.

    • @IESWlodarczyk
      @IESWlodarczyk Před 2 lety +61

      of course, plus when you have post=partum depression... you really shouldn't feel ever worse because of your body!!

    • @elainebailey2002
      @elainebailey2002 Před 2 lety +37

      @Rain Raçhel Yh i wasn’t blaming the celebrities for having a insecurity, they are people just like you and me. I have an issue with the secretive mentality with getting work done but even then I understand that they are probably just ashamed of getting things done just like how we are about not being able to conform to the high beauty standards. I just wish celebrities/ influencers would use their platform to reassure us that they also struggle with the same things as we all do. It’s so backwards; they have to be the beauty standard whilst also being trapped in the standard set.

    • @RoastedSaltedPeanut
      @RoastedSaltedPeanut Před 2 lety +20

      I absolutely agree with you! Pregnancy and post partum is hard enough. We don't need to add the pressure to have a completely flat stomach to it!

    • @IESWlodarczyk
      @IESWlodarczyk Před 2 lety +5

      @Rain Raçhel exactly they have insecurities because of the expectations of society

    • @barbaraconnolly9000
      @barbaraconnolly9000 Před 2 lety +17

      My Daughter in law could not talk for a week after our grandsons birth it was so traumatic. Last thing i want forcany woman is to feel harrassed for having a mum pouch. I had one 9lb 7.5 oz baby and 37 years later a still havecthat pouch. I could never afford to get that removed.

  • @maram6211
    @maram6211 Před 2 lety +3965

    I don`t like Heidi Klum, because she is so dishonest and shamed new mothers and models on her show in Germany. She squeezed a model`s thigh to demonstrate how much cellulite she had and said that she would bounce back after giving birth every time with a stomach and thighs so firm you could "knock on" and that new mothers just need to "try harder". I think she had plastic surgery after each of her kids, as well lots of facial procedures and breast lifts/augmentations but keeps denying any of them.

    • @amisha25211
      @amisha25211 Před 2 lety +58

      True

    • @sekoaib
      @sekoaib Před 2 lety +527

      What's crazy is after you give birth you need at least 6 weeks of rest and to heal from the pregnancy but, within that 6 weeks she was already back on the runway and I'm sure you need to practice, so she put her health at risk for her career

    • @B_tru_2_u
      @B_tru_2_u Před 2 lety +280

      Yeah unfortunately the modeling/fashion industry has a very unhealthy obsession with other people's weight. And most of the time seem to scold people for not being a size 0 or unhealthy little to no fat on them

    • @Anita_Bath
      @Anita_Bath Před 2 lety +185

      Most _famous people_ are dishonest

    • @melindamercier6811
      @melindamercier6811 Před 2 lety +276

      Stomach you could knock on? LOL! I remember specifically watching Heidi walked the VS carpet after her first child and had a jiggly belly. It was flat, but very loose. It’s truly unbelievable that she said that to others, just horribly hypocritical.

  • @mmgpa2580
    @mmgpa2580 Před 2 lety +23

    I’d like to bounce back… not from a pregnancy but from college and covid. Those two really messed me up.

  • @Sthefaniegoma
    @Sthefaniegoma Před 2 lety +111

    Definitely feel less pressure. I always wondered about getting pregnant and being unable to bounce back. As a person who already struggles with weight management, pregnancy has not been in my wish list for these reasons

  • @teresamckeown5594
    @teresamckeown5594 Před 2 lety +5381

    My youngest “child” is 29, and I am STILL “bouncing back.” I think that us ladies over a “certain age” can be more kind to ourselves because we are pre-social media. We had to take the effort to get magazines in order to compare ourselves to Hollywood! Hugs to all Mothers out there… you are all beautiful

    • @micaeladawnmakeup
      @micaeladawnmakeup Před 2 lety +199

      Exactly. Postpartum is forever. The idea of “bouncing back” is so harmful when there’s so much pressure to look like Emily ratajkowski 11 days after giving birth.

    • @sandyk13599
      @sandyk13599 Před 2 lety +71

      My baby will be 26, I'm still bouncing 😄😄😄

    • @alcruzz
      @alcruzz Před 2 lety +41

      Haha that's cute. Hugs for you mothers, you're amazing.🌹

    • @Mxtraveler
      @Mxtraveler Před 2 lety +68

      Ha! Ha! I just got back to pre-baby weight and he will be 47 on Friday.

    • @allisonsnow9718
      @allisonsnow9718 Před 2 lety +33

      Love it!! Me, too 💕 My babies are now 25 and 6'7" tall + 22 and 6'3" tall 🤭🤭 Y'all are my tribe 💕🌟🎉🌞

  • @RoastedSaltedPeanut
    @RoastedSaltedPeanut Před 2 lety +2281

    I hate how much pressure is put on women to bounce back and lose the baby weight is obscene! Your body just created a human! It should not be starved to fit into a certain size.

    • @gigimohammed7457
      @gigimohammed7457 Před 2 lety +45

      A lot of husbands will abuse verbally there wife’s for it or cheats on them because of it 💩unfortunately

    • @Indigenousqueen56
      @Indigenousqueen56 Před 2 lety +1

      Simple, there not Women.

    • @qwerty-jr4io
      @qwerty-jr4io Před 2 lety +3

      Nobodys pressuring anyones , its just ur own mindset, ironic how they preach on not to think what other people say and yet almost everything they do is to find validation ,to get satisfaction from peoples opinion. IF UR LIKE THAT , ITS UR PROBLEM, TRUTH IS OTHER PEOPLE HAS ALWAYS SOMETHING TO SAY GOOD OR BAD, U CANT CHANGE THAT. BUT U CAN CHANGE MINDSET, HOW U REACT, WHAT U DO.

    • @jenniev1791
      @jenniev1791 Před 2 lety +9

      Majority of the pressure comes from women itself. I wouldn't blame it at all on men.

    • @star_fruitti
      @star_fruitti Před 2 lety +3

      If I starved myself I don’t think I would have been able to nurse my baby as long as I did, just nursing and not working out or anything made me go back down to my pre-pregnancy weight in less than 4mos and I even dropped more lbs from continuing breastfeeding(also not over-snacking, I just ate how I normally would)

  • @highlyhp
    @highlyhp Před 2 lety +37

    I absolutely love how informative your channel is. While I don't plan on having cosmetic surgery, I support people doing what makes them feel good! And I love that you are pro safe cosmetic surgery, while also bringing all the facts and criticisms to the table. This kind of info would've made a huge difference for me growing up and wondering why I couldn't look like celebs/influencers.

  • @laneyk6561
    @laneyk6561 Před 2 lety +14

    Thank u for tht warning at the beginning. when I was struggling with an ED hearing people’s weight was such a trigger. very sweet of u to think of people struggling💖

  • @denanewton1518
    @denanewton1518 Před 2 lety +2651

    I think even saying “bounce back” is unhealthy and problematic. A woman just gave birth to a whole human. Her health is the most important thing!!! Anything else is trivial in my opinion. Women die during childbirth so for a woman to give birth and still be alive and healthy is a blessing and amazing beyond measure to me. Society puts so much pressure on a woman to be perfect especially after childbirth and its so unrealistic and toxic. Now if a woman feels insecure and not like herself after childbirth then she should do whatever makes her feel happy and confident. She should exercise and try to eat healthy but if she wants to get a tummy tuck or boob lift it’s her business because childbirth not only changes your body but can also change your mind (postpartum ). Also not all women will BOUNCE BACK!!! Ands that’s okay!!!! Some women will go back to how they used to look pre pregnancy and most wont!! And it’s normal!! Some women just have different genetics and bodies. All women and mothers should be celebrated and women give yourselves some grace and kindness.

    • @gg_ingy
      @gg_ingy Před 2 lety +40

      I actually have to disagree with the fact that society expects women to bounce back. At least here in Europe everyone understands mommies have a little pouch and they got their hands full with toddlers and newborns. I feel like post partum bods are pretty normalised in the media (outside of model/acting/music scene).

    • @abigailsbooked
      @abigailsbooked Před 2 lety +58

      @@gg_ingy in this US is very different sadly :/

    • @denanewton1518
      @denanewton1518 Před 2 lety +28

      @@gg_ingy in the US it’s pressure maybe not in other regions and areas of the world but in the USA perfection is emphasized and expected from women especially after childbirth

    • @RSyed-tu4rn
      @RSyed-tu4rn Před 2 lety +34

      @@gg_ingy There’s a LOT of pressure here in the U.S. even for normal non-celebs. And I know people in Europe who have the same pressure. I’m really glad that your experience and outlook has been positive, but please be careful with generalizations. One individual’s personal bubble of experience won’t apply to ALL of Europe.

    • @rebeccabisangwa7000
      @rebeccabisangwa7000 Před 2 lety +2

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @themermaidjade
    @themermaidjade Před 2 lety +1364

    A lot of models only show pictures of themselves up until a certain point in the pregnancy and not when they are fully pregnant

    • @EmoeccentricShawty
      @EmoeccentricShawty Před 2 lety +18

      Yup

    • @barlevi2045
      @barlevi2045 Před 2 lety +55

      @@as19J01 she gave birth at her house. Last photo of her with a bump was probably when she was 7 months

    • @GlamSarah999
      @GlamSarah999 Před 2 lety +27

      @@as19J01 maybe, or maybe she wants us to think that. Gigi Hadid’s pregnancy was riddled with questions about the veracity of her timeline she told the public. It’s mainly because of how her belly appeared to be nonexistent when she was far along into her pregnancy, and when her followers noticed this and raised questions about her nonexistent belly, she presented with a huge belly. Her belly also seemed to get smaller as she went further along into her pregnancy. It’s quite possible that the pregnancy pic of her the night before she said she gave birth may not be accurate, even though she wore a fetal monitor. I just find something distrustful about Gigi Hadid about the image she wanted to put out there regarding her pregnancy.

    • @moonee2595
      @moonee2595 Před 2 lety +1

      @@GlamSarah999 yep I agree 👌

    • @ottopotatum5775
      @ottopotatum5775 Před 2 lety +1

      @@as19J01 thats not true

  • @AmbieBambie93
    @AmbieBambie93 Před 2 lety +17

    Also; don't forget lovely ladies, The carriere of the amazing women in this video is their appearance. They have always been really toned and slim, and probably have a whole team of cooks, chefs, dieticians to stay in shape etc. It is literally part or their job to work out. Eating super well and healthy during pregnancy and probably working out...
    Don't stress about this lovelies. You are all worthy no matter your size

  • @ebraden09
    @ebraden09 Před 2 lety +7

    This is really sad. Thank you for doing this kind of video. It’s really important for people to see how people really do “bounce back”.

  • @catkasimir
    @catkasimir Před 2 lety +1869

    Another word on these girls bouncing back naturally: They were all pretty young when being pregnant. It is exceedingly more difficult to bounce back when you are over 35 or even 40.

    • @dyslexiahelpforallages4176
      @dyslexiahelpforallages4176 Před 2 lety +131

      This was my first thought. I DO know people who have bounced back naturally. Usually, they are young. It's often genetic. Also, many in their 20s still do look pregnant after baby comes out. I was 27, but also found that my milk supply dried up when I tried to lose weight. A lot of moms have found this. So, breast feeding can help. But, also, many can't lose weight until they stop breastfeeding, as well.

    • @ye23.
      @ye23. Před 2 lety +16

      Uhh jlo is 50 and had her kids in her 40s...gwen stefani and angelina had kids older too

    • @ye23.
      @ye23. Před 2 lety +30

      @@dyslexiahelpforallages4176 the breast feeding thing confuses me. Because some ppl claim it helps you lose weight while others say it makes you put on weight. Which is it?

    • @dyslexiahelpforallages4176
      @dyslexiahelpforallages4176 Před 2 lety +31

      @@ye23. I think it depends. Breastfeeding can be...... hell. Lol. Some people have no difficulty. Some people have trouble with supply, some babies have tongue ties, need craniosacral therapy, people exclusively pump. There can be issues. 🤷‍♀️. I think a lot depends on the person. People who don't have difficulty with supply wouldn't have that problem.

    • @dyslexiahelpforallages4176
      @dyslexiahelpforallages4176 Před 2 lety +24

      @@ye23. I haven't heard that it makes you put it on. But, I had the experience that when I tried to start losing weight, my supply dipped. So, I had to wait until I stopped. If that makes sense. It didn't MAKE me gain, but prevented me from losing. I know that's relatively common, as well.

  • @Ryu-yt9gt
    @Ryu-yt9gt Před 2 lety +2506

    I'm on a lorry hill marathon and this video in particular has me in tears. The fact that women have to bear children but society pressures them to bounce back immediately. New mothers shouldn't have to "bounce back" but take time to spend with their family and bond with the child. And to think that so many men nowadays shame post partum women for how they're unkept, forgetting the fact that she's bearing his child. The whole world plots it's hatred towards women in every thing they do. Just say y'all hate women and go

    • @sitcomchristian6886
      @sitcomchristian6886 Před 2 lety +103

      Honestly, the pressure comes mostly from other women like this, posting ab photos days after birth.

    • @HabitualLover
      @HabitualLover Před 2 lety +13

      Society isn’t pressuring them. They’re pressuring society! They’re literally making fame and fortune lying about how they look so much better than a nature-made human being, not a surgeon-made human being! They are victims of their own making if anything, and taking down millions along with them as they fall.

    • @kikijayquinn
      @kikijayquinn Před 2 lety +10

      this right here. so distressing.

    • @Nottyastro
      @Nottyastro Před 2 lety +43

      Men shouldn’t talk about stuff that they do not understand, and vice versa

    • @mariapop747
      @mariapop747 Před rokem

      @@sitcomchristian6886 came here to say this. Why do these already rich and famous women post pictures of their flat stomachs and perky breasts after birth? To show off to us poor people?

  • @indiascarlett
    @indiascarlett Před 2 lety +74

    I just clicked on this to say, why on earth is Emily holding her kid like that in the thumbnail? It looks so funny pls 😂

  • @iw1459
    @iw1459 Před 2 lety +9

    I really appreciate your transparency, as you highlight the risks that people will go through to obtain a certain image.

  • @rhondasilver3582
    @rhondasilver3582 Před 2 lety +1652

    Forget “bouncing back” from kids. I’m still trying to “bounce-back” from 2020!

    • @janeca1189
      @janeca1189 Před 2 lety +19

      Haha..it was same for me, I dont even care the loose skin, or strech marks, att all. Nor do any men that I know, cares thosekinds of things. They really dont. Unless they got some internal problems, wich is not my consern, its theirs..

    • @abcdefgh-ce3fc
      @abcdefgh-ce3fc Před 2 lety +6

      🤣

    • @Pelinndemirr
      @Pelinndemirr Před 2 lety +5

      Same🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @bjrock1235
      @bjrock1235 Před 2 lety +5

      Haha 2020 bad so funny it’s not like we have over a million jokes about that already

    • @JackDenn
      @JackDenn Před 2 lety +13

      I gained more weight in this pandemic than I did pregnant. 🥱

  • @abigailsbooked
    @abigailsbooked Před 2 lety +677

    It makes me so sad thinking about them purposefully delivering their baby early just so they can look better. Putting your baby at risk for looks, so shallow and horrible.

    • @liawatson5789
      @liawatson5789 Před 2 lety +25

      So awful.

    • @aoutsky
      @aoutsky Před 2 lety +2

      I don't think any doctor worth their salt would allow it if it was actually going to be bad for the baby.

  • @zeynand4039
    @zeynand4039 Před rokem +4

    I read some study that said if you were super fit before pregnancy, it helps to bounce back. Because it's just skin stretching back with a thin layer of fat. And it helps being young while pregnant.

  • @biancafelton6087
    @biancafelton6087 Před 2 lety +122

    The way emily carried her child…. Not very motherly… its as if the child was an accessory

    • @anunknownperson4018
      @anunknownperson4018 Před 2 lety

      dont say that it will hurt her feelings

    • @salsasalsa943
      @salsasalsa943 Před 2 lety +6

      that was the intention in the photo i think😭

    • @Jenskieez
      @Jenskieez Před 2 lety

      @@anunknownperson4018 im sure emily reads yt comments

    • @Jennifer-wc5fs
      @Jennifer-wc5fs Před 2 lety

      Lol she’s super skinny and probably can’t hold up the weight of the baby. Doesn’t mean she isn’t motherly. That’s a reach

    • @rubyj9497
      @rubyj9497 Před 2 lety

      “Motherly” shut up lmao.

  • @JCH726
    @JCH726 Před 2 lety +994

    Another thing is a longer torso... that may sound weird but if you have a longer torso and are taller there is more room for the baby to grow.

    • @lyzzochka
      @lyzzochka Před 2 lety +139

      Very true! It also means less stretching. I have a very short torso and my stomach never looked the same after 2 kids, it doesn't bother me though.

    • @dianana7371
      @dianana7371 Před 2 lety +69

      Emily Rata definitly has a long torso!

    • @mrsbuena9937
      @mrsbuena9937 Před 2 lety +22

      Oh nice to now, at least this is what it’s good for lmao

    • @nikkisovain9429
      @nikkisovain9429 Před 2 lety +92

      This is true. I'm 6'2, mom of 3 and bounced back after each pregnancy. Left the hospital with a flat tummy. My uterus is tilted toward my back as well so I'm sure that played a part.

    • @nikkisovain9429
      @nikkisovain9429 Před 2 lety +18

      @@ririimari I use to think I was a freak of nature due to my uterus but I guess we're lucky in a way lol

  • @komalparvez7632
    @komalparvez7632 Před 2 lety +1054

    Having a baby a month before ! Putting their baby at risk for a flat tummy is sick .

    • @AbsFabbs
      @AbsFabbs Před 2 lety +16

      I know it’s crazy!! I couldn’t imagine justifying doing something like that.

    • @davisholman6518
      @davisholman6518 Před 2 lety +23

      Those women should lose custody of their child as far as I am concerned.

    • @Dee17
      @Dee17 Před 2 lety +59

      Doctors who accept to deliver a baby a month early without a medical reason for the child or mother, should have their doctors title taken away!!

    • @taniajoy5203
      @taniajoy5203 Před 2 lety

      but do we know if it is bad for sure? I mean, surely they wouldn't do it if it's bad for the baby

    • @giselleb1111
      @giselleb1111 Před 2 lety

      Where she say that?

  • @angelat1839
    @angelat1839 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I love that you took a moment to feature Jessica! She is a very talented and thoughtful photographer. I especially love her videos on America’s Next Top Model. She gives a photographers perspective and shows how most factors the girls were criticized for were beyond their control and cruel.

  • @xtraraushy
    @xtraraushy Před 2 lety +5

    We really appreciate you including real research from accessible legit websites. Thank you Lorry!

  • @melissashows7813
    @melissashows7813 Před 2 lety +786

    I couldn't imagine choosing to give birth 1 month early for a c-tuck. That is literally choosing your looks over your baby's development!

    • @science3816
      @science3816 Před 2 lety +91

      It's seriously something of the worst I've heard when it comes to shallowness, wtf seriously this just makes me so damn angry.

    • @augustaonuoha4499
      @augustaonuoha4499 Před 2 lety +23

      These women may have been given steroids to hasten the babies development.

    • @kendallxberry2230
      @kendallxberry2230 Před 2 lety +75

      What kind of doctor even allows this? I mean seriously? How this not an ethical violation?

    • @Opal3ater
      @Opal3ater Před 2 lety +20

      That is so vile. People are sick and twisted

    • @britnysnyder4991
      @britnysnyder4991 Před 2 lety +16

      @@augustaonuoha4499 even with steroids they can have problems being born early.

  • @seokiology
    @seokiology Před 2 lety +825

    that's why i admire celebs like katy perry who wasn't afraid to show what her body looked like after pregnancy (ie having a bump even after giving birth)

    • @parisday9631
      @parisday9631 Před 2 lety +48

      Katy seems to be more grounded and in tune with reality.

    • @nakiagurl12180
      @nakiagurl12180 Před 2 lety +1

      Omg she had a baby

    • @ErikaBardere
      @ErikaBardere Před 2 lety +1

      I feel like Miranda Kerr has been a positive influence on Katy

    • @Jenskieez
      @Jenskieez Před 2 lety

      this needs to be more normalized

  • @tyedyesky449
    @tyedyesky449 Před 2 lety +73

    I had my babies when I was quite young at 23 and 25, and I have an hourglass figure so I don't carry weight in my tummy. Still it took me 9-10 months of breastfeeding and regular exercise after each birth to look like I did pre-pregnancy. Actually I think it's good to lose the weight slowly to give your skin time to tighten as your body gets smaller. The moms I know who dropped it all immediately have more loose skin. Take your time!

    • @e.s.8184
      @e.s.8184 Před 7 měsíci

      So true. I got stretch marks only AFTER having my son because my body bounced back too fast. I didn't experience this with my other 2

  • @mazayashah213
    @mazayashah213 Před 2 lety +20

    When I was pregnant, I thought that pregnant people don't need to "eat for two" and don't need to gain too much weight in order to have a healthy pregnancy. I would still feel hungry sometimes but decided that I had had enough food to eat and didn't need more. I continued these habits even after I gave birth. I was so tired all the time. When I started eating more and taking prenatal vitamins consistently so that I'd have enough energy, I did gain weight and I lost the look that Gigi and Emily had, but I was so much happier and healthier. I definitely recommend looking up diastasis recti because my stomach muscles split and that gave me my "pouch".

  • @mingb.
    @mingb. Před 2 lety +846

    apart from the idea of getting a "tummy tuck" right after they pull out your baby is absolutely baffling to me, the fact that people "take out" their kids a month early for aesthetic reasons rather than medical i just cannot comprehend 🥴
    anyhow, thanks for the enlightening video! i had no idea this was a thing and you explained it so well.

    • @LorryHill
      @LorryHill  Před 2 lety +35

      Aww so glad 👍🏻

    • @PumpkinMozie
      @PumpkinMozie Před 2 lety +75

      Yeah honestly it’s just sad that they would risk their child’s health for something as shallow as their appearance. I mean I know the pressure to look good is insane but come on; have a backbone and stand up for your kid.

    • @nspector
      @nspector Před rokem +30

      Yes. The rest I knew about. But that they are having premature babies on purpose? It's mind boggling.

    • @abbybrown638
      @abbybrown638 Před rokem +17

      That actually makes me really angry. I had to be induced early cause of HELLP syndrome it actually cause a ton of mom guilt I had to work through. I know so many women would have loved to have made to a safer point in their pregnancy and could not through no fault of their own. How selfish to deny them that lung and brain development if true. I'm having a hard time believing it, I don't doubt her research skills or peoples selfishness but how disgusting honestly. My baby was 5 weeks early and I still gained i significant amount of weight. It was not a healthy pregnancy but I feel like she wouldn't be as healthy as she is now if I was selfish with my body at all at that time. You should at least try to do your best to keep the baby safe if you wanted to get pregnant and raise your child. Ffs dude, how disappointing. I can't believe someone would chose to have a premie... it was so hard and she was at a pretty safe point.

    • @DX-d
      @DX-d Před rokem

      @@abbybrown638you need to work on yourself and not care what other women do to their body. Gaining weight is not normal, being pregnant is no excuse. Other than the baby’s weight, their shouldn’t be any increase in one’s weight.

  • @alisaben1
    @alisaben1 Před 2 lety +452

    ...this "bounce back" focus after pregnancy is SO unfair to women. Our bodies are SO different. I have compassion even for the women that feel the pressure to alter themselves for image, its so unfair to womanhood....

    • @willowsprings7588
      @willowsprings7588 Před 2 lety +12

      Exactly. Not everyone has the same skin that can just mold back to what we looked like before.

  • @mariafernandaredondo6054
    @mariafernandaredondo6054 Před 2 lety +7

    Your voice is so calming, thanks for explaining everything!

  • @HollyL56
    @HollyL56 Před 2 lety +96

    I think genes and age play a big role. When I had my son (who’s now 28), when I was 25, I bounced back quick and was in a bikini a month later looking like I did prior to being pregnant, no visible scars or stretch marks. People couldn’t believe I just had a baby. I had a c section also, but it was a low cut so didn’t show. I gained 50 pounds and my son was 10lb 13 ozs. That’s why I had no choice but a csection. I mention all this because some don’t have to do anything to bounce back because I didn’t, so that’s why I know genes/ faster metabolism, age can make a big difference for some. Regardless, we are all different and in the end none of that really matters. Having a healthy baby is what’s important.

  • @sarahsmiles4607
    @sarahsmiles4607 Před 2 lety +626

    I’ll preface this by saying I’ve never been pregnant so I can’t directly relate to new mothers, but I do have empathy for them when they see photos like this, and compare their bodies to these celebrities. While I think there’s nothing wrong with being proud that your body bounced back, I think taking photos to SOLELY emphasize how flat your tummy is can be damaging to most women. Maybe I’m being too sensitive, but I can only imagine how painful this can be, especially to women suffering from postpartum depression.

    • @wendywoobles
      @wendywoobles Před 2 lety +13

      I completely agree with you!

    • @ToeKnife166
      @ToeKnife166 Před 2 lety +23

      I was too sleep deprived to worry about any of this just after giving birth but after spending a total of 6 years breast feeding my children I had breast implants.

    • @thatdancertho8739
      @thatdancertho8739 Před 2 lety +22

      You’re not being too sensitive. You’re being compassionate, and I agree with you. 🤍

    • @marilynr7469
      @marilynr7469 Před 2 lety +24

      I started out pre pregnancy weight at 123 lbs and ended up 150lbs. It took close to a year to get to 127lbs. Although I felt my self esteem took a dive because non of my regular clothes fit me, it was hardest year of my life. I was so tired all the time, so exhausted. It took a lot for me to make myself presentable. I would not evict my baby a month early just for a flat stomach. How selfish.

    • @marilynr7469
      @marilynr7469 Před 2 lety +3

      @@ToeKnife166 yes lol that was the last thing on my mind. I was happy to get into my fat pants everyday. I just wanted sleep!

  • @SyilvIsha
    @SyilvIsha Před 2 lety +342

    forcingly giving birth one month earlier just to "look good" must be so traumatizing for the baby, this is sick...

    • @florjean965
      @florjean965 Před 2 lety +15

      The babies won't remember any of it.

    • @SyilvIsha
      @SyilvIsha Před 2 lety +59

      @@florjean965 no, but it is still impactful.

    • @asmaali1641
      @asmaali1641 Před 2 lety +1

      @@SyilvIsha it's scary you are forcing to come before has time never heard of that

    • @canreach100subswithnovideo3
      @canreach100subswithnovideo3 Před 2 lety +12

      I’m thinking this should be a human rights violations. Disgusting.

    • @canreach100subswithnovideo3
      @canreach100subswithnovideo3 Před 2 lety +10

      @@florjean965 and because “the baby won’t remember” you believe this will have no medical impact and is ethical? Sickening.

  • @gwen7819
    @gwen7819 Před 2 lety +33

    I've always wondered about this! Thank you for actually tackling this bc it is so important for women, especially mothers to know this bc it becomes so detrimental to mental health and body image issues (not to mention postpartum depression). I know every women is different but the way celebrities bounce back like nothing happened is crazy! This just shows a lot of the realities that they do to themselves to go back to their pre-mom bodies. This is why I love your channel so much.

  • @jasminerodriguez3259
    @jasminerodriguez3259 Před 2 lety +16

    As a young woman who just had A baby at 22 in age the phrase “bounce back “ is completely degrading to all women . My doctor who delivered my baby even used this saying when I was concerned about losing weight ...
    I’m considered one of the women in the “underweight “ category so I lost my weight pretty quickly each day I watched my weight drop but my flat tummy didn’t come back till about 2 weeks after and it still doesn’t look like it had pre pregnancy. I have stretch marks and my belly button pokes out . My baby is now 4 months and I still have the Pregnancy brown line that goes down my belly .
    So mommas love yourselves . Be kind to yourselves always . You’re amazing! Your body is meant to be ever changing not perfect .

  • @romanaabo3664
    @romanaabo3664 Před 2 lety +389

    Inducing a month early is UNETHICAL and nasty and all gynaecologists agreeing to this should be fired!!!

    • @musamoshe8643
      @musamoshe8643 Před 2 lety +33

      So true. That's supposed to be for emergencies only. I was induced a month early because there were issues with the amniotic sack and even then they tried to see how great the risk was before inducing labour. Fortunately I had a very good pregnancy and our little one was strong enough to wiggle on out into this world with no problems.

    • @janeca1189
      @janeca1189 Před 2 lety +12

      Absolutely awful and unethical. Who the hell would do that to their child? !

    • @emiv592
      @emiv592 Před 2 lety +2

      I agree its not the right thing to do on the mothers part. But I'd rather have the gynaecologists there, than not, since I think these celebrities would go through with it without their help too,putting the child more at risk

    • @romanaabo3664
      @romanaabo3664 Před 2 lety +5

      @@emiv592 Uhmm...how would they induce themselves? 😳

    • @infinity-gn9xq
      @infinity-gn9xq Před 2 lety +3

      @@romanaabo3664 there are medicines which can induce a pregnancy..

  • @ellixrose2650
    @ellixrose2650 Před 2 lety +759

    I don't have a problem with plastic surgery in general and find it quite fascinating (though I wouldn't consider it on myself as I am happy with how I look) but the c-tuck is purely disturbing to me. Why would you force your baby out one month early and deny it of that last stage of pregnancy just so you don't gain as much weight?! Also, as if a birth isn't stressful enough for the body, combine it with a tummy tuck? Goes to show that this pressure to be thin and bounce back starts at the minute the baby is born. Like the product these celebrities sell themselves as is more important than human wellbeing of both the mother and child.

    • @dokessezeaka5159
      @dokessezeaka5159 Před 2 lety +74

      For real! And having an unessacary C-section is very harmful for the child since in the last few weeks of pregnancy, the mother transfers essential iron stores to the fetus that lasts for 6 months. That's why premature children are given certain vitamins and minerals because they didn't recive that in utero

    • @RSyed-tu4rn
      @RSyed-tu4rn Před 2 lety +56

      That’s extremely harmful bc the baby does a LOT of important growing in the last few weeks of pregnancy. I’m disappointed in these mothers for putting their babies at risk…but at the same time, you can’t solely blame the mothers bc it’s actually Hollywood’s toxic standards that has pressured these women to do that in the first place. The fear of not being Size 00 or else you won’t get jobs if you’re a model or in the entertain industry. Hollywood brainwashes these women with fear and it’s really sad bc that is now affecting their babies lives.

    • @selinkorkmaz1019
      @selinkorkmaz1019 Před 2 lety +26

      It’s truly utterly, disgusting

    • @maggiekarabel123
      @maggiekarabel123 Před 2 lety +32

      @@RSyed-tu4rn The main thing is their lungs. They’re of course viable at 36 weeks but most of the lung growth happens in those last four weeks.

    • @RSyed-tu4rn
      @RSyed-tu4rn Před 2 lety +26

      @@maggiekarabel123 Yup! Those last weeks are crucial and there are mothers out there who would do anything to keep a pregnancy until full term, and yet here there are celebs who are voluntarily having their babies a month early for purely superficial reasons…

  • @stephieottob
    @stephieottob Před 2 lety +20

    I’m on the last month of my second pregnancy and yes, this video made me feel less pressure to bounce back! I didn’t gain too much weight, but did have my two pregnancies very close together, so I know that my bounce back will take a little time.

  • @broomstickbrujo
    @broomstickbrujo Před 2 lety +3

    Just wanted to say you look absolutely gorgeous Lorry! You’re glowing! :)

  • @cryforthemoon
    @cryforthemoon Před 2 lety +309

    Literally removing your baby from the womb at 8 months to prevent you from getting stretch marks or gaining extra weight is like the height of narcissism and selfishness.

  • @bemydinosaur13
    @bemydinosaur13 Před 2 lety +613

    HEIGHT makes a huge difference- I am 5’8” and my stomach is flat and toned 3 months postpartum. You’d never know I’ve just had a baby. If you have a longer torso there is more upward space for the baby and your belly doesn’t grow outward as much. The strain is distributed across bigger abdominal muscles resulting in less lasting impact. I also went into pregnancy in very good shape with a strong core- I’m sure the two supermodels did the same. Not saying they didn’t get any procedures they very well may have. Just putting it out there that some women are just very genetically lucky with this. All mothers are beautiful and however your body looks post-partum is perfect!!!

    • @gainigaini1366
      @gainigaini1366 Před 2 lety +42

      Nice to hear that as a 5’11” woman

    • @outlawfam4787
      @outlawfam4787 Před 2 lety +43

      💯 % agree-height makes a huge difference in how you carry and how your body heals & looks after giving birth. Longer torsos and taller bodies have room to hold weight without it being noticed as much as shorter torsos and bodies.

    • @rattaxi9645
      @rattaxi9645 Před 2 lety +43

      Absolutely. My poor 5' tall niece had such a hard time with her big baby boys.

    • @ye23.
      @ye23. Před 2 lety +13

      My friend is the same height she was very slim before pregnancy but shes struggling to lose the weight now

    • @birdlover7776
      @birdlover7776 Před 2 lety

      @@rattaxi9645 same!

  • @oliviaok625
    @oliviaok625 Před 2 lety +7

    Thank you for everything you do Lorry

  • @hnia0
    @hnia0 Před 2 lety +1

    I loved your videos more when you just started and you were totally natural, no script. love you 😘

  • @yourmom6318
    @yourmom6318 Před 2 lety +452

    U know they can do whatever they want with there body but literally lying about ur after baby body is just sad cause a lot of women become insecure about their stretch marks

    • @user-xq9wv3ox1p
      @user-xq9wv3ox1p Před 2 lety +22

      You just speak my mind. I bounced back immediately after giving birth but I got stretch marks all over my body. I gained 40 pounds due to my pregnancy. I'm not amazed how these celebrities bounce back after their pregnancy because I bounced back naturally without any surgery right after my delivery. What's baffling me is HOW THEY'RE NOT GETTING ANY STRETCH MARKS?

    • @yourmom6318
      @yourmom6318 Před 2 lety +9

      @@user-xq9wv3ox1p I have never been pregnant cause I’m very young lol but seeing these women just makes me sad like a lot of women I have seen have very low self confidence after giving birth and these people should be honest because they are human not barbies

    • @user-xq9wv3ox1p
      @user-xq9wv3ox1p Před 2 lety

      @@yourmom6318 exactly!

    • @cryforthemoon
      @cryforthemoon Před 2 lety

      Especially Emily since she claims to be such a feminist and body positive.

    • @cryforthemoon
      @cryforthemoon Před 2 lety +3

      @@user-xq9wv3ox1p Laser treatments on the stretchmarks and probably supplements + creams during. But also like she said many remove their baby at 8 months gestation to prevent stretch marks that happen in the last month.

  • @_princessmatcha
    @_princessmatcha Před 2 lety +412

    I love Lorry. She's pro-enhancement but keeps it real. i love the whole point of this channel. debunking these advertisements of being 'naturally gifted'.

  • @elizabethrichter5531
    @elizabethrichter5531 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Lorry,
    This is the first time I have watched one of your videos, and I think it is absolutely amazing.
    I think you are amazing.
    You are so positive and accepting.
    There was no negatively or judgement, the explanations were very good and medical, your speculation is so accurate.
    I look forward to watching many more of your videos.
    Yay

  • @jasperhawk2338
    @jasperhawk2338 Před 2 lety

    i really appreciate the disclaimer at the beginning of this video, weight is so sensitive for so many people and i think this is such an important video topic.

  • @liawatson5789
    @liawatson5789 Před 2 lety +466

    C-tuck sounds terrifying. I never heard of it before.

    • @abigailsbooked
      @abigailsbooked Před 2 lety +49

      This does sound terrifying, your body has already been through so much why add that 😩

    • @rebeccabisangwa7000
      @rebeccabisangwa7000 Před 2 lety +27

      Like I'm so traumatized!!! Recovery must be HELL..!! 🙆🏾‍♀️

    • @PersianPowergirl
      @PersianPowergirl Před 2 lety +12

      TERRIFYING. Thank you. Exactly the word I was looking for.

    • @haliee
      @haliee Před 2 lety +4

      for real! i wanna go back to when i didn't know about it

    • @scifydi6446
      @scifydi6446 Před 2 lety

      So you are awake for both?

  • @leonardosalinasnavia1051
    @leonardosalinasnavia1051 Před 2 lety +386

    The concept of “bouncing back” after giving birth is WILD

    • @nonenone9892
      @nonenone9892 Před 2 lety +1

      Everyone is different, depends on genetics, age, how you eat prior during and post prego, metabolism. I did, I did not even gain weight elsewhere, my stomach was only distended.

    • @Willowy13
      @Willowy13 Před 2 lety +3

      The only think I'd be bouncing after giving birth would be my baby.

    • @hannahthrossell4642
      @hannahthrossell4642 Před 2 lety

      @@nonenone9892 j jbj

  • @petitpoisparis
    @petitpoisparis Před 2 lety +11

    Thank you so much,as a trainer I’ve been telling my clients about the C section trick for decades.Some celebs even would say they would have to have an “ emergency c section “.They also get their bellybutton fixed.I breastfed but my breasts really suffered but hey that’s what they r here for😂

  • @Reviewwithdua
    @Reviewwithdua Před měsícem

    Thankyou so much lorry you doing great job keep giving us information because we middle class people get depressed after watching celebs with flat tummy after giving birth thankyou lorry❤

  • @trustmemysonisadoctor8479
    @trustmemysonisadoctor8479 Před 2 lety +415

    Delivering a baby a month early with out a medical reason shows how narcissistic these women are. I am sure every women who does it will insist "I always do whats best for my baby".

  • @aimeemarsh37
    @aimeemarsh37 Před 2 lety +644

    My grandma said she had four kids naturally only gained 15 pounds per pregnancy and zipped up her size 0 pants and walked out of the hospital after giving birth. She said back in her days it was unacceptable to gain more than 20 pounds per pregnancy. the doctors would hospitalize you if you gained more. Same was true for my other grandma!

    • @LorryHill
      @LorryHill  Před 2 lety +163

      Very interesting; piece of history!

    • @ss-wu1vp
      @ss-wu1vp Před 2 lety +50

      Same for my grandmother and mother and even now for the rest of society. But I live in Central Asia.

    • @yolii16
      @yolii16 Před 2 lety +141

      it’s actually unhealthy to gain lots of weight during pregnancy, it’s bad for the baby and it can lead to pregnancy complications

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Před 2 lety +57

      Yolli- Bull. I gained 60 lbs with each child. They were perfect and I got back into my pants in 9 months

    • @BoitumeloMalatji
      @BoitumeloMalatji Před 2 lety +44

      Same here in South Africa. In my culture your mom will constantly remind you to have a natural diet during pregnancy and to exercise regularly. After birth you must rest a lot ☺️ then get back to your normal habits.

  • @Trees_Bees_Onesies
    @Trees_Bees_Onesies Před 2 lety +25

    As someone who was underweight before pregnancy, I can vouch for this, as soon as I gave birth I had a flat stomach again and had no stretch marks. I think I gained a maximum of 10 pounds during pregnancy. When I gave birth I immediately saw I weighed like 6stone 12 pounds lol.
    I DO NOT recommend being underweight or gaining little weight during pregnancy. Do what is recommended by your OBGYN. I'm just saying with my experience, I agree with this video. I have an ED.

    • @sleepnomore6065
      @sleepnomore6065 Před 7 měsíci

      Why did you want the experience of pregnancy knowing you'd gain lots of weight?

  • @valentine572
    @valentine572 Před 2 lety +20

    This is true. I bounced back in a few weeks. Before pregnancy I weighed 57 kilos and measure 5’7”. Gained 10 kilos during pregnancy. Ina few weeks after pregnancy I was back down to my regular weight at 57 kilos. Breast fed exclusively the first 6 months on both pregnancies. Not a stretch mark. Both pregnancies were after 40 (age). Used a girdle frequently 40 days after. Excersized regularly before during and after pregnancy. Excersize could actually help control hormonal increase in Appetite and anxiety overeating.

  • @sparklejumpropegangsta1176
    @sparklejumpropegangsta1176 Před 2 lety +437

    the way she’s holding the baby like an accessory 3:02😂💀

    • @SB-vp5km
      @SB-vp5km Před 2 lety +8

      HAHAH HAHAHAHA I CAANNT

    • @fatmaslh6306
      @fatmaslh6306 Před 2 lety +60

      That picture gives me anxiety I swear 😂💀

    • @emmaphilo4049
      @emmaphilo4049 Před 2 lety +73

      I never had a baby, but aren't you supposed to be careful with the head? The baby's head is leaning on the side, I am not sure it's good

    • @fatmaslh6306
      @fatmaslh6306 Před 2 lety +56

      @@emmaphilo4049 Yes ! Before a baby turns 6 months they don't have neck controlling , that's why you should always keep your hand behind his head

    • @thirstaefortae5057
      @thirstaefortae5057 Před 2 lety +29

      @@fatmaslh6306 I don’t want to mom shame but that’s not how you hold a newborn baby…

  • @hidansektas
    @hidansektas Před 2 lety +436

    my sister is a personal trainer and she literally looked like she hadnt given birth when i came to visit her in the hospital. tummy completely flat

    • @kyitty
      @kyitty Před 2 lety +29

      Did she have something done or does being a personal trainer and healthy make your stomach flat after giving birth? She’s really lucky

    • @hidansektas
      @hidansektas Před 2 lety +73

      @@kyitty she was always skinny and tall so that helped as well. but she is just extremely fit in general

    • @hidansektas
      @hidansektas Před 2 lety +33

      @@as19J01 true that. genetics also plays a big part. a trainer in the gym im at has never completely recovered after pregnancy. she gains weight extremely easily and she is quite short

    • @-MaryPoppins-
      @-MaryPoppins- Před 2 lety +48

      It’s because her hard work paid off, mixed with genetics, and you said she was tall in general! So happy she and little one are healthy! Her body “bounced back” because those muscles were already so used to being used, and simply did what they’d always been doing after birth!

    • @lisanewcar4157
      @lisanewcar4157 Před 2 lety +3

      @@hidansektas being tall helps

  • @monikazbrardr2056
    @monikazbrardr2056 Před rokem +1

    Looking fantastic in this video Lorry! And also, thank you for clarifying the "Celebrity-Genetics". Love your channel!

  • @camitoast
    @camitoast Před 2 lety +2

    As someone who’s been dealing with Anorexia Nervosa I want to thank you for your warning in the beginning. ❤️

  • @primadonnainterrupted
    @primadonnainterrupted Před 2 lety +626

    can you PLEASE do one on Avril Lavigne she literally hasn’t aged since 2005 i’d really like to know why she’s able to look so young

    • @lovrilgrimme9119
      @lovrilgrimme9119 Před 2 lety +6

      😹😹love avril

    • @twincherry4958
      @twincherry4958 Před 2 lety +15

      Good heart; pure intentions
      You don't hear thst much about hef either...no drama

    • @cynthiaking5308
      @cynthiaking5308 Před 2 lety +30

      Her hair is so thick and lush she must have a weave sewn into her hoodie. Not really, but in that video with yungblud she looks incredible.

    • @Whatarethose393
      @Whatarethose393 Před 2 lety +21

      You mean "Melissa"? 👀👀👀

    • @Lolathebluesmartie
      @Lolathebluesmartie Před 2 lety +3

      Please!

  • @YM-qb6gh
    @YM-qb6gh Před 2 lety +800

    Notice how that Emily chic is holding her baby like it’s a hand bag or accessory (with his little shorts matching her bathing suit). These women have their priorities wrong.

    • @glamprivateye
      @glamprivateye Před 2 lety +69

      I thought the same thing. It’s awful

    • @starchannel123
      @starchannel123 Před 2 lety +74

      Being pregnant and raising a kid is not easy. How she holds her kid does not concern us. Her kid is fine

    • @an7328
      @an7328 Před 2 lety +58

      U don't tell women how they raise their kids or how they treat them based on photos !

    • @scorpioxjonghyun
      @scorpioxjonghyun Před 2 lety +170

      @@starchannel123 not holdig ad supportig a baby properly can seriously harm them ofc people are gonna comment on that.

    • @amandasibley7039
      @amandasibley7039 Před 2 lety +38

      Yeah, I thought it was an odd way of holding him.

  • @finurra3905
    @finurra3905 Před rokem +1

    yes!! Omg thank you so much for sharing this! I really always wondered and now I am so grossed out. Omg C-tuck sounds horrendous.

  • @user-uy4pu3un8n
    @user-uy4pu3un8n Před 2 lety +5

    I've never seen your videos before, but within the first 8 seconds I already appreciate the trigger warning. Very thoughtful of you, thank you!

  • @Kari_X_
    @Kari_X_ Před 2 lety +382

    I think it’s really gross how celebrities post bikini/or bra-underwear pics so soon after giving birth. I understand that there is pressure, but I also think they know the average woman can’t do this. If you value other women, you can’t/or shouldn’t do things that hurt them. It’s no secret that women struggle after giving birth, many before birth with worrying about how much weight they’re gaining. It’s irresponsible to project an image of perfection that is not based on reality and often has to do with money/plastic surgery and resources that are out of reach for most mothers.

    • @HanHanMC
      @HanHanMC Před 2 lety +17

      I guess it’s hard for me to understand this pressure. It’s random people on the internet wanting to see these things from celebrities. They are not being forced into posting photos. Like why do it at all.

    • @samsaekgoyangi
      @samsaekgoyangi Před 2 lety +31

      Nobody is forcing you to do the same. Have some personal responsibility and work on your psychological issues before getting on social media

    • @Rocknrollpawluhhh
      @Rocknrollpawluhhh Před 2 lety +4

      I was just thinking the same thing. Insanity!

    • @ariellelillian8644
      @ariellelillian8644 Před 2 lety +14

      I guess I get it to a point, but if you're a model like Emrata or Gigi, it is literally your job to be the ideal body type. I don't think anyone looks at them like average every day women. They're super models. I think the pressure lies within that

    • @meelamanhattan6271
      @meelamanhattan6271 Před 2 lety +4

      I believe the first few posted those pictures to make other women feel bad

  • @seanprestonfederline9990
    @seanprestonfederline9990 Před 2 lety +359

    The pictures that celebrities post online after childbirth could be edited. Some celebrities even have backlogs of photographs to post for times when they are not looking great or undergoing surgeries.
    Emily Ratajkowski bouncing back so quickly after childbirth seems highly unlikely: after parturition the uterus is swollen and only returns to its normal size after two months, so I’d daresay that Emily’s postpartum photos weren’t really postpartum photographs and were either edited pictures or pictures taken before her birth.

    • @wendigo1919
      @wendigo1919 Před 2 lety +19

      It does depend on how young you are and how thin/fit you are. I was 20 and very thin genetically when i gave birth to my son. Most of the 19 lbs. I gained were in the last two weeks of the pregnancy. Two weeks after i gave birth i had a flat stomach with my abs again (i was breastfeeding also). Don't ask about now though! It is possible. :)

    • @user-js8dp9iy9s
      @user-js8dp9iy9s Před 2 lety +26

      emily rata was TINY before pregnancy, and only gained the bump during....there was no "bouncing back" bc she had nothing to bounce back from...while it is not the norm, SOME women who are very slim, go back to looking exactly the same....

    • @alexialarue1937
      @alexialarue1937 Před 2 lety +14

      Clearly depends. My sister is not a celebrity, does not use social media haha but I was able to see (because she sent me pictures 2 days after she delivered!) that her tummy got flat 48h after and she had her pre pregnancy weight back in just 2 days. She didn't gain much during pregnancy (about 9kg) but she was already 33 when she had my niece. I think genetics, nutrition and how sporty you were before and during pregnancy can really play a role.

    • @moniakthar1963
      @moniakthar1963 Před 2 lety +1

      Absolutely, abs don't go down that quick,definitely edited pics, we obviously know that.

  • @realijeomalove
    @realijeomalove Před 2 lety +10

    I’m so proud of ALL the stretch marks from delivering ALL my 5 kids vaginally and 3 without epidural. Ladies don’t stress about it just get a tummy tuck I’m getting mine at the end of this year! So excited!

  • @spiritualshake4659
    @spiritualshake4659 Před 2 lety

    I love that you included your story as well❤

  • @lisanewcar4157
    @lisanewcar4157 Před 2 lety +92

    It’s always important to gain a healthy amount of weight while pregnant. I was underweight with my first and gained 30lbs. Your unborn baby can be effected for life if they are “starved”.

    • @lisanewcar4157
      @lisanewcar4157 Před 2 lety +14

      Studies have been done on babies born to malnourished moms if anyone wants to google it.

    • @liawatson5789
      @liawatson5789 Před 2 lety +1

      Yup, being overweight can give your baby learning disablities.

    • @wxyz459
      @wxyz459 Před 2 lety +4

      Absolutely. Read about the studies done on the babies and children from the Dutch Famine to learn about how starvation, even if at a young age, can affect one’s metabolism and relationship with food.

    • @nahiedlaila9601
      @nahiedlaila9601 Před 2 lety

      Yeah u cant be selfish while pregnant or just dont get pregnant. It takes a level of emotional maturity which many unfortunately dont posses and ruin their children development in the process. Its super selfish and narcissistic. Not everyone is meant to bare babies and be mothers. Its a privilege and many see it as a game and competition. Its messed up! Its a miracle to even be able to reproduce and here these celebs make it seem like a joke and belittle the whole experience and miracle. They truly disgust me🤮🤮🤮

  • @entertainer106
    @entertainer106 Před 2 lety +265

    Bouncing back after pregnancy is just another unnecessary pressure placed on people. Of course, getting some exercise and nutritional eating are always good for us, but not to the point of causing mental and self-esteem harm as well as health problems. Good topic, Lorry. As a side note, your hair and makeup styles here are especially flattering on you! Lovely!

  • @tooktoomuch116
    @tooktoomuch116 Před 2 lety

    Lorry keeps me sane

  • @lovinbh5817
    @lovinbh5817 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank U So much Lorry for this information ❤️ I Was Insecure about my body and confidence after seeing the bodies and faces of the celebrities and models💔

  • @ayla8345
    @ayla8345 Před 2 lety +437

    Emily’s body is literally insane. She just had a baby and her stomach is completely flat. It looks like pregnancy didn’t change her body AT ALL

    • @nomadichomebody4230
      @nomadichomebody4230 Před 2 lety +57

      It’s beyond comprehension

    • @seeingyouaround
      @seeingyouaround Před 2 lety +160

      tbf her stomach was basically concaved before pregnancy

    • @BC-bt7hu
      @BC-bt7hu Před 2 lety +111

      @@seeingyouaround Exactly! Models are usually underweight before their pregnancies. Even if they gain 40lb that's still nothing. Also, filters

    • @birdlover7776
      @birdlover7776 Před 2 lety

      @@seeingyouaround 🤣

    • @TD-vb6il
      @TD-vb6il Před 2 lety +26

      I wonder, if she planned the pregnancy, if she lost some weight prior so as to not need to lose a much weight after. This could be a thing others possibly do, too.🤔 Just a thought. Bottom line, the health of the baby and mother matters most and celeb or not, avoid anything that contradicts best pregnancy health practices. ♥

  • @naomiandrews4900
    @naomiandrews4900 Před 2 lety +65

    I'm a midwife and work with OB/GYNs to do csections. Any OB/GYN who would perform surgery early for aesthetic purposes is insane

    • @amandasibley7039
      @amandasibley7039 Před 2 lety +7

      It’s medical malpractice. I find it hard to believe any doctor would do this, but you never know

  • @MariaHernandez-xm8ev
    @MariaHernandez-xm8ev Před 2 lety +1

    This video is amazing we sometimes believe celebrities are just blessed with their bodies