7 HARSH TRUTHS I Wish I Knew at 18

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  • čas přidán 4. 08. 2024
  • 7 harsh truths I wish I knew at 18.
    #HarshTruths
    #LifeLessons
    #WisdomJourney
    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 time machine
    1:04 1st Harsh Truth
    2:09 2nd Harsh Truth
    4:46 3rd Harsh Truth
    6:51 4th Harsh Truth
    9:15 5th Harsh Truth
    10:30 6th Harsh Truth
    11:11 7th Harsh Truth
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Komentáře • 128

  • @OBADIAH47
    @OBADIAH47 Před 4 měsíci +60

    Ayy good to see ya back bro ❤️

  • @lukasguelpa8519
    @lukasguelpa8519 Před 4 měsíci +30

    I’ve been checking back forever to see if you uploaded!! Thanks Tom!

  • @danielt9656
    @danielt9656 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Yessss laddd !!! My favourite CZcamsr is back. Please keep em coming yeah !!

  • @robertron5303
    @robertron5303 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Thank you and all the best for your current challenges

  • @r0styy
    @r0styy Před 4 měsíci +3

    Epic comeback brother!!! Thank u

  • @jackwhelan4567
    @jackwhelan4567 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Appreciate your wisdom tom we are always here for you man

  • @homosapien7935
    @homosapien7935 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I’ve been binge watching your vids for days on end, its nice to see a new upload. I hope life is treating you well man

  • @theorann1229
    @theorann1229 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great to see you back

  • @deanies0561
    @deanies0561 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Verry nice vid man, thanks !

  • @Itz_R41N
    @Itz_R41N Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great messages as always❤

  • @DalmherCraft
    @DalmherCraft Před 4 měsíci +4

    Wow well said 👏🏽 this video popped up at just the right time so thank you very much for sharing!
    Also gave me a good laugh I love the way you filmed this you have an amazing personality~💜

  • @emilolinsson7980
    @emilolinsson7980 Před 4 měsíci

    I just started watching your videos again after 4 years so it's a great time you came back

  • @everytimesthefirsttime
    @everytimesthefirsttime Před 4 měsíci +2

    You’re looking good and fresh. Nice to see you back

  • @zachlerdahl8115
    @zachlerdahl8115 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I'M SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU MAN!!!

  • @miguelbasilio2051
    @miguelbasilio2051 Před 4 měsíci +1

    im glad you back bro

  • @samd6336
    @samd6336 Před 4 měsíci

    I started watching your videos when I was 18. I’m turning 27 this year. I always learned a lot from you. Very happy to see you posting again. Cheers from Chicago 💯

  • @zane2065
    @zane2065 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Looking forward to this one. I had no idea what I was doing at 18, and only the faintest idea more now at 20

  • @evyiennetla9416
    @evyiennetla9416 Před 4 měsíci +8

    ❤❤❤❤🎉 Love you Tom! Cheers from sunny California ❤

  • @willkitt4024
    @willkitt4024 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Welcome back bro

  • @AncientGamer100
    @AncientGamer100 Před 4 měsíci +2

    TOM! good to see u man

  • @wamlartmuse17
    @wamlartmuse17 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Lol.. sometimes I just need a reminder. 🍄💜 Tom, great video!

  • @The10.000ThingsOfficial
    @The10.000ThingsOfficial Před 4 měsíci +1

    bro the 3 questions habit helps a lott!!!, good nuance and ideas!. thanks brother!

  • @Ari.in.aus.
    @Ari.in.aus. Před 4 měsíci

    So good to have you back! Great video, I’m 22 and honestly helps so much to hear these simple truths as it’s so easy to overthink life and feel lost, especially with so many contradictory self-help gurus online now. 🙏 sending love and support to you and your family Tom

  • @blueboxfix
    @blueboxfix Před 4 měsíci +2

    you made me cycle today . thanks. Nature is watching everything. true to yourself is the 🔑.

  • @_XYZ__
    @_XYZ__ Před 4 měsíci +1

    The legend is back

  • @aaabraxas
    @aaabraxas Před 4 měsíci

    its good to see you're finally back Tom!

  • @ClairvoyantEntertainment
    @ClairvoyantEntertainment Před 4 měsíci +1

    Absolute facts bro. Inspiring video, keep evolving👏

  • @ofrahmy2823
    @ofrahmy2823 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I appreciate your content bro ❤

  • @Seamlesscq
    @Seamlesscq Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks for posting this! I’m 19 and the advice you’ve given is what I’m working at daily. More content like this and I’m a new fan. Love the Jarrad Wright interviews you did and hope to see more! That monkey drinking the water bottle was too good😂.

  • @joedoe4845
    @joedoe4845 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Glad to hear from you

  • @FryGuuuuuy
    @FryGuuuuuy Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wish you all the best bro. Namaste

  • @nohatenate
    @nohatenate Před 4 měsíci

    Welcome back Mate!!! Missed you buddy 🤎

  • @Escuelapsicodelica
    @Escuelapsicodelica Před 4 měsíci +1

    Happy to see you hermano 🤙🏻

  • @lxushy
    @lxushy Před 4 měsíci +3

    UM HELLO TOM!!! Long time no see!! Turning 20 soon so this is goood to watch.

  • @flappyjack250
    @flappyjack250 Před 4 měsíci

    Really helpful video man your a very wise soul.

  • @stinkfinger1942
    @stinkfinger1942 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Excellent advice.

  • @FranQuijas
    @FranQuijas Před 4 měsíci +1

    We really missed you Tom, never stop uploading. Hope you are doing fine. Much love from Mexico

  • @OnePercentBetter
    @OnePercentBetter Před 4 měsíci +1

    Churr, watching this at 28, interesting to hear your learnings

  • @akasha.goldenwolf
    @akasha.goldenwolf Před 4 měsíci +1

    Was just thinking about you today!!

  • @Eli-4-0-4
    @Eli-4-0-4 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Was just thinking about you haha. Good to see ya man :D

  • @Dayboi5398
    @Dayboi5398 Před 4 měsíci +1

    So well spoken

  • @nickmcdonald4888
    @nickmcdonald4888 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Back out here speaking real shit, glad to see it. Hope all is well bro

  • @tortilla.pt2348
    @tortilla.pt2348 Před 4 měsíci +1

    A new YMT video= A Great day

  • @redpride7685
    @redpride7685 Před 4 měsíci +1

    ive come to terms with all of these things even though i havent overcome them all, it just makes this video so entertaining!

  • @Lazlo_O
    @Lazlo_O Před 4 měsíci

    thank you mate!

  • @conorflores3377
    @conorflores3377 Před 4 měsíci +1

    yo good to see you upload again.. I've quit nicotine and pmo but not weed yet haha, maybe that's why I don't journal 😂😅
    keen to hear you open up about what's been happening some time soon

  • @Mercherl
    @Mercherl Před 4 měsíci

    I was journaling for years (writing about my day and feelings) and not really gaining anything from it.
    The method of answering those three questions to understand myself better makes so much more sense to me. I’m going to start doing that daily now. Thank you :)

  • @emilolinsson7980
    @emilolinsson7980 Před 4 měsíci

    Best set of advice I've seen in a long time

  • @atozy1478
    @atozy1478 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have deep respect for you brother

  • @dtn876
    @dtn876 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Cheers mate

  • @Hvarchive
    @Hvarchive Před 4 měsíci +1

    wow welcome back

  • @muddypawswanderlust
    @muddypawswanderlust Před 2 měsíci

    Great vid

  • @DushaneB
    @DushaneB Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you

  • @aestasis
    @aestasis Před 4 měsíci

    word mate. hard things. we hear ya.

  • @mathiasvollmann2405
    @mathiasvollmann2405 Před 4 měsíci

    Wow, thought about your channel yesterday and looked it up, seeing that your last upload was years ago. And her you are, one day after 😂😊

  • @uncommonmix
    @uncommonmix Před 4 měsíci

    LMAO, loved the intro of the video.

  • @xadxtya
    @xadxtya Před 4 měsíci

    I love this video

  • @PoeticNixon
    @PoeticNixon Před 4 měsíci +4

    He thrives

  • @50zezima
    @50zezima Před 4 měsíci

    That monkey was adorable. Smart to not try and take the bottle from him haha 😂

  • @vumnoo
    @vumnoo Před 4 měsíci

    Thankyou

  • @nikcafuta
    @nikcafuta Před 4 měsíci

    wise words!!

  • @keef9078
    @keef9078 Před 4 měsíci

    He's back

  • @samisalive7534
    @samisalive7534 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You really are like our mate Tom, if only there was more people like you the world would be a better place

  • @jillmarie180
    @jillmarie180 Před 4 měsíci

    Missed you!

  • @francescoantonio2355
    @francescoantonio2355 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Good to see you back brother! Have you still been following Eastern Orthodoxy?

  • @FRESHVLOGZ
    @FRESHVLOGZ Před 4 měsíci +1

    yes

  • @Ostikylskapet
    @Ostikylskapet Před 4 měsíci +1

    Loved the video, thank you! Does anyone have any insight into vaping? Sounds like he's saying there's no benefit to vaping but in my experience switching to herb vape has been really beneficial for my overall health and it brings the intensity down as well (switched from bong).
    Does anyone have insight into this?

  • @DuDe_TAlhA
    @DuDe_TAlhA Před 4 měsíci

    Looks like a good spot for longboarding....or talking to your old self 🤷💗

  • @uselessvad2444
    @uselessvad2444 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The wind was too string to follow, it's just been taking me everywhere. And now it's not blowing, I don't know how to move

  • @bdnao8861
    @bdnao8861 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Oh wow wish him well................😢

  • @Seyone030
    @Seyone030 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I am 18 now. Curious to see what you have to say.

  • @Comhead1234
    @Comhead1234 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Vaping is way too convenient and I wish I realized how much of a hole I could put myself in before I ever tried it for the first time

  • @arabokl
    @arabokl Před 4 měsíci +3

    idk mate. kinda right . kinda not. guess its different for everybody

  • @umarsubhan7035
    @umarsubhan7035 Před 4 měsíci +1

    thoughts on cognitive reframing/restructuring negative thought patterns, Tom?

  • @DrinkWater47
    @DrinkWater47 Před 4 měsíci +1

    TOM I MISSED YOU TF

  • @Tryppin
    @Tryppin Před 4 měsíci

    Real

  • @MMARE369
    @MMARE369 Před 3 měsíci

    I finally realized at 40 years old what I wanted to do in my life. All of the life I had experienced before this moment was actually preparing me and giving me knowledge and skills for this. Before I thought I figured it out, but nop! Kept hitting walls. There is excitement and ease when you pursue your true goal finally. It's easy now to say no to friends, to joints, and to procrastination when you really want to work on that goal and make it happen.
    P.S. And yeah, psychedelics, green, and plant medicine helped tremendously! But they are there to help and not to do the work for you.

  • @ozzyprod9332
    @ozzyprod9332 Před 4 měsíci

    I turn 18 in 10 days, thanks for this video

  • @shrumal3626
    @shrumal3626 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I feel like some of your truths were pretty anecdotal but then again you were speaking to your past self so i get that.
    If you're still making vidoes in the far future, you should do a followup video on this one where you share truths you wish you knew right now.
    Also i hope everything w your brother in law works out smoothly 🙏

  • @W3Ar33pic
    @W3Ar33pic Před 4 měsíci

    i love that thumbnail tho

  • @dondankleberg4965
    @dondankleberg4965 Před 4 měsíci +1

    d̵o̵n̵t̵s̵ ̵d̵o̵n̵t̵ ̵h̵e̵l̵p̵
    find what you would rather do, set your mind to it, and let it grow towards it like a flower towards the light.
    you can actually observe yourself developing and growing towards your inspirations, but judging everything else than it is like forcing the plant a certain way to grow, but the plant knows best how to open up to light. there is no shame in laying down in bed when you feel like it. in fact, listen to what you feel and abide in it. theres an invisible connection from the true self to a thing that comes to mind. this connection is realized when you find the source to whom the thing came to mind to.
    you always have the right to love yourself and it will always result in truth

  • @midnightoceandunes
    @midnightoceandunes Před 4 měsíci

    🌵

  • @stephaniezepeda7932
    @stephaniezepeda7932 Před 4 měsíci

    Make more videos!

  • @zaveeramini9712
    @zaveeramini9712 Před 4 měsíci

    What I've learnt in life: Pleasure should be hard earned, all easy paths to pleasure leads to suffering. Please should be a result of life events not the result of taking substances. You should not focus on doing things just to feel pleasure.

  • @Deutungshoheit
    @Deutungshoheit Před 4 měsíci +1

    Interesting, how did those things change your life after you realised and applied them? How long did it take for you to be happy with your life after making those changes?

  • @lauriuli
    @lauriuli Před 4 měsíci +1

    🎉

  • @Blacksun1984
    @Blacksun1984 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Ay you dont lie ur gettin them endorphines while u are runnin

    • @keepyoursins
      @keepyoursins Před 4 měsíci +1

      Latest research shows it's probably not endorphines that are released while exercising, but actually endocannabinoids. Pretty interesting...

  • @mking1592
    @mking1592 Před 4 měsíci

    💪

  • @lukasguelpa8519
    @lukasguelpa8519 Před 4 měsíci

  • @haltzy
    @haltzy Před 4 měsíci +1

    Good luck to your brother in law man. You think it was from the clotshot?

  • @Shaman196
    @Shaman196 Před 4 měsíci +1

    54 yrs old...... definitely had no clue about the world except...... Religion and Government are dirty!
    . didn't have my first mushroom trip until I was 48 and then my whole world shifted.

  • @shad0w434
    @shad0w434 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Shit man, just watched 3 podcasts with Jarrad, open your channel and a new video how the fuck does that work like how

  • @documentofchange
    @documentofchange Před 4 měsíci

    Nice haircut my guy
    Edit: if you could also send this to MY past self I'd be grateful. Give HIM/ME a slap too.

  • @jellybablush
    @jellybablush Před 4 měsíci

    Woohoo

  • @blipxblup
    @blipxblup Před 4 měsíci +1

    yeaaay❤whoaa there's a boaar🐗

  • @toriii225
    @toriii225 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Well it’s about time….

  • @Girlyppop
    @Girlyppop Před 4 měsíci

    Im currently 21 and starting get my life on track I’m back in college, gained experience & actually doing new things now.
    I’ve been losing friends, jobs, money, and relationships. But it always comes back to me FINDING MYSELF AND DOING ME.

  • @TherealdealDava
    @TherealdealDava Před 4 měsíci +1

    1:47

  • @GiegueX
    @GiegueX Před 4 měsíci +8

    tom turning into a hustler sigma grindset type of content creator

    • @whoknows5391
      @whoknows5391 Před 4 měsíci +3

      This seems more like a quick video to break the not uploading chain.

    • @toddberkely6791
      @toddberkely6791 Před 4 měsíci +1

      dude hasnt uploaded in 5 months give him a minute mate haha

    • @GiegueX
      @GiegueX Před 4 měsíci

      Ur right lol. Either way what he says is certainly true so i don't mind.@@toddberkely6791

  • @MrLGD1234
    @MrLGD1234 Před 4 měsíci

    Vaping clawed me worse than smoking