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- A 42 year old man describes how it feels to be 40 compared to being in your 30s and 20s. He then offers some life advice and perspective on what it's like to be 42 years old.
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Iâm 40. My advice to younger people is to let go of the ones who have hurt you, you have escaped them. You are free. Embrace those who care for you, these are the people who check up on you, listen to you and value you.
Donât let social media pressure you. You donât have to be a âsomebodyâ but be someone people can look up to. Always save money. Do not buy things that are not important, you donât need 20 purses or 60 pairs of shoes. You just need a few comfortable shoes.
Be kind to anyone you encounter and donât let people intimidate you. We all make mistakes and we all have insecurities. Reward yourself once in a while. Travel if you can.
tq sir! â€â€
Beautiful advice, I screenshot you just to remind myself what's really important.
I need that, hard for me to forgive and let go
Wonderful comment!!!
Great advice. I had to screenshot your comment . I hope you don't mind
I'm 40 this year. I realized I spent my 30s not making money or having fun, but worrying and waiting for something to happen. I believed I was special and something would just come through for me, or "one day," I would start working hard enough to bring about my inevitable success. If I could do it all over again, I'd a) listen to my heart more, b) choose a different career, c) accept that nothing is a given, nothing is permanent, and no one else can help you but you
I'm 43 and preparing to go to university for 6 years for a complete change of career basically because it might be late now but less late than in the future đ
appreciate this. im 26. ur 40, not old. just older. focus up and work hard
@@pigeonlove good for you mate. That's awesome! What are you changing to and from?
@@natedog69420 I appreciate that. When time is gone, it seems so precious that it can feel like it's all run out when it's really only down a notch or two. Hope that makes sense lol. But you're right. I have time. And I will focus, dammit! (saying that to myself) Cheers đ€đ€
I needed this.
This man speaks the trust. I'm 45 -- almost 46 -- and my wife, who is about the same age as me, received a cancer diagnosis last year. She beat it, but it still got me wondering why I was working so much, especially when we own our house, have zero debt, have plenty of cash on hand, and have lots of money saved for retirement.
So I pared back to part-time work and started doing things I enjoy more, especially spending more time with my wife and my friends. I don't need to be wealthy, I just need to be happy.
If only billionaires could see things that way
@@Cocoisagordonsetter what are you even talking about?
@@Cocoisagordonsetter and I'm worried about them because what they do affects my life.
Working hard when you were younger has afforded you the ability to do these things now.
@@dsvet It's so much more than that. I've received a great many advantages over the course of my life, as has my wife, that we didn't earn for ourselves. The biggest being that we both hit the birth lottery and were born into well-off families that loved us very much. The second biggest being that we never had any serious physical or mental health issues until just last year.
I don't want to minimize the value of the work my wife and I have done or the decision we have made to get to where we are in life, but we also need to acknowledge the value of the massive advantages we have over the vast majority of the American population. We took a path to "winning Capitalism" that most people literally cannot walk.
I'm in my 40s, and I feel the same as I did when was 20.
I call BS lol. Not the same...maybe similar, but let's not get crazy đ
@@steved6269 Nonsense, if you take care of yourself.
I mean I'm 38 and I don't feel anything,I also did 10 years in prison so I'm really 28 spiritually đâ@@steved6269
ââ@@steved6269dude you are still on your prime until 45 if you just took care of yourself over the years , like 40s are not considered old at all is an age when are starting to build up wisdom from experience , no muscle loss you still can do all things you used to do back then when 20 as long as you are healthy
Same. Better in some ways
Enjoy life while you're young. Work to live, don't live to work. The decades of wear and tear can really take a toll on your body.
I am 62 now and an EMT/Paramedic Instructor. In my late teens, 20s, 30s, and even into my 40s, I was lifting patients, slowly destroying my body.
My wife, Penny, was also an EMT/Paramedic. She lifted patients until she was in her 40s as well. Then, she transitioned into medical dispatch.
I look back. Penny and I worked a lot of hours (24-hour shifts). However, we worked the vast majority of our EMS careers together. So we were able to enjoy work more than most because we were partners both on and off duty, building a successful life together.
I knew Penny for 43 great years. We lived together for 30 years, married 15 of them. Unfortunately, she passed away suddenly in 2020. Nothing lasts forever. Enjoy it all while you can.
I love and miss you, my wonderful wife. But life goes on.
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God bless you, Sir!
Sorry for your loss, Rick. Happy to know you and Penny shared some great moments in this ife time đ
Sorry for your loss bud
Sorry to hear my man. It seems you met your soul mate! Truly blessed you are to have experienced that. So many can live a lifetime without that luck and never find their true mate! đ
I'm 69 and can honestly say that you're a spring chicken at 42...
Exactly!
oh Uncle Paul i am 36 and i feel like 60 yrs old. I feel like is this it? I working like a dog and on weekend be happy and on weekdays stay sad and also, the depression that hits on Sunday night to go over again another Week of rat race. đđ
that's a nice age
Nice
You don't know the suffering of my generation. At 40 we've already lived several lifetimes. 9/11, the stock market crash, the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, crushing student loan debt most of us can never pay back, under employment, social media destroying lives and dividing society, with new daily Hashtag movements, cancel culture, woke culture and ofcourse let's not forget the pandemic. We're just waiting for the next catastrophe and it should be here anytime between now and the next two years.
Not in my forties yet but if there's one thing my 30s have taught me it's that it's good to have goals and dreams, but it's the journey not the destination that really matters.
That's the poem from Kavafis, "Ithaki"
When they said health is wealth they weren't kidding. In my 20s I chased success and finances in my 30s I was stressed and burnt out now focusing on health and living slow
I'm 34 and I'm reducing sugar intake drastically. It's one of the best things I've done. Makes it so easy to be fit you can't believe it. Also, your skin, your energy levels, your sleep, your focus, almost everything has been improving. Great really
"Some men are old at 30, some are young at 80"
Joseph Murphy
Don't fool your self. It's simply not true. Just words said by elderly people trying to feel better .
FU
or so they say
@@cameliap1146 not true at all I ve met people who died jn the early thirties of health complications from an unhealthy and there is people in there. 60s that can bang out sets of 20 on the pull up bar
Facts
One thing I learned through my 20's:
Don't waste time on people who don't have your best interest in mind. Your circle will be smaller, but much more productive.
What happens if the person themselves doesn't have their own best interest at heart??
@@philipoconnor2236they will gravitate towards bad people and they will âdestroy each otherâ
Why would anyone have your best interest in mind? From your comment, I guarantee you don't have anyone's best interest in mind, other than your own.
I give people the room to change. I don't automatically cancel them. I am glad I didn't cancel my parents. I see them as my friends now and individuals even though they weren't the best parents growing up. Being a forgiving person is a better advice. Burning too many bridges will eventually make you the only person on an island of one.
Very true,
He is spot on. Iâm 40. My niece asked me why I was tired the other day and I told her that Iâve been tired for the last 7 years đ©đ
I'm guessing you haven't heard of shilajit? Look it up, completely natural, it's minerals and it gives you so much energy among many other benefits
Get a complete medical evaluation
That's your fault. Don't drink, eat healthy, exercise, hydrate, prioritise sleep over absolutely everything else.
â@@bookofrhymes225no, it literally is easy. Nothing is forcing you to have unhealthy habits. You choose to drink, you choose to eat junk food, you choose to have horrible sleep hygiene, you choose to not work out. I'm saying "you" in the general sense, not you personally because I don't know you, fyi.
â@@MrJamesdryablepreach
In my mid-40's. I have one piece of advice to young people: Stop worrying about what others think of you! Forge your own path and be yourself. Become happy and comfortable with who you are. Do not put on an act or maintain a persona.
That was my biggest mistake and it took me around 20 years of adulthood to finally figure it out.
Iâm 43 and feel the best I have ever felt in my life ! Itâs all about staying fit and eating right!!
Yes yes & yes đđŸđđœâ€ïž
same age, same feeling o/ greetings
Don't you get nagging pains, sore and locking joints? I used to work out a lot and did several martial arts, but my right hip is knackered now and I get these pinching pains in my torso (donât know what it is, doctors were useless).
i do not agree with this man ,i am 40 he looks way too old and not fit. My energy is somehow the same as i had i my 20s,only reason i am tired is because of taking care kids and aging parents along with a career .Also i do not agree with taking your time in 20s ,pls .....20s and early 30s are about setting goals and making money and a great career.By late 30s and 40s ,If you have a house and enough money in your bank account now is the time to enjoy with kids and family........i learnt from my mistake ,i had a good start in career in my early 20s but i switch my career in my late 20s and my entire my 30s are spent in motherhood ,so my finances are not that good but i am working on it now .I am a woman so i am still considered successful but for a guy i will definitely recommend figuring out what you want to do in your life and working hard for it. Also by 30s pay attention to your diet,eat healthy,......you will thank yourself in your 40s
Say word lol. Low key, he big as hell heâd feel better if he ate better. I drank and ate like shit forever. I lost 30 pounds when I quit drinking, and I stopped eating out. Iâm in the best shape of my life. Im only 37 but I know 42 wonât be bad if I keep this up. đ€·đŸââïž
I'm 48, and I feel like if I DIDN'T prioritize money in my 20's and 30's (or at least getting myself on a path to money), my 40's would have been MUCH harder. It's easy to say other things are more important than money when you've finally achieved financial stability. When you have no financial stability and DECADES of your life are looming in front of you...money is indeed important.
@9λ I do that also. I just have more money to spend on better food choices than I did 30 years ago.
I'm 51 and I'm glad I grew up in the era that I did. This society today is a god damn joke.
Most people who made money later on said that money is not the most important and they wasted their life on losing time with loved ones because of it . Perceptive my f
@greyeyed123 Iâm glad you said this. Because I definitely feel the same. Itâs like the hierarchy of needs. If not having money, like being sick and missing pay, will result in you not having food, rent money, transportation, etc. money becomes important really quickly. All these people saying money isnât important change their tune when you mention words âinvestâ, âhaveâ, âborrowâ, and âmeâ.
Facts
Iâm 42 and at the best shape of my life. Life & age is what you make it.
I work A LOTâŠon top of being an it project manager i have vacation rentals. I manage to exercise and meditate at least 1.5 hrs a day 5-6 days a week. Sometimes 7
I agree I'm 53 and feel unstoppable. Health is wealth
Iâm 60 and healthier and stronger than most 22 year olds I only consume vegetables fruits and nuts
Well Vanessa and IT project manager guess it's not that hard when you don't have kids
@@user-dy1tj9sq3ni have a stepson who lives with us. My husband does the same as i do. Even if its 30 min you can give to yourself, its super helpful.
As someone who's turning 45 this year,, I can vouch that he's absolutely correct. I tend to try to take things in more these days. As opposed to when I was in my 20's & 30's, when my motto was, "don't bother stopping to smell the roses, you can always smell them when you're running with them in your hand".
Damn,, how wrong I was....
It doesn't pay to burn your candle at both ends, people.
Best thing about life in your forties is the lack of toxic people. By this time you learn that you don't need to keep them in your life, you can just...let them go!
Yes! In your 40s you finally prioritize your own happiness.
It's good you figured that out at a young age. Many people never do.
Thatâs encouraging to hear. Iâm nearing my mid 30s, been drowning under so much Toxic people in the past three years as Iâve hurt and been learning slowly to see them for what they are through many tears, anger, disappointment, anguish etc⊠going through a healing process now but the realization of what you shared comforts me greatly. I guess all Iâm feeling and going through now is the process and journey of weaning off the wrong people in life and becoming more acquainted with the standard of healthy loving peeps I truly deserve in life. By my 40s, I can look back on all this and bask in freedom in this arena of life â€
I'm already doing it and I'm on my twenties.
Is it ok to cut off an old friend if you feel anxious everytime she tries to contact you? I kind of feel guilty but i don't have the energy or desire to meet the friend
Never make someone a priority that doesn't reciprocate.
True
Aka modern women
WTF get in shape omg 42 wow
i needed this
â@@CrazyPanda688misogynistic clown đ€Ą
Same, I'm mid forties and my advice to me in my 20s would be save your money. Surround yourself with people that make you happy and appreciate you. Don't try to fit in or worry about hurting others because nobody worries about hurting you. Also, avoid stimulants like a bad plague.
Money IS impt. The number of times i lost sleep or cried myself to sleep worried sick abt not having enough, not having any money, "do i have money for food"? "Can i keep roof over my head?" Money is also what allows you luxury, being able to take care of you, travel (if that's what you want)
Iâm 40, I feel 100 times stronger and better than I did in my 20s-30s.. The key is to stay in shape
I think he meant mentally
Advice everyone should pay attention to, without good health and strength you will struggle later in life. đȘâșïž
â@@pigeonlove omega 3
@@pigeonlove mentally lm 100% better wisdom comes with age
Faster and stronger
Iâm in 40. Honestly, money is more important than so-so friend. Cut so-so friends. Money wonât disrespect you. Money wonât disappoint you. Money is what you need to have comfortable life. Donât believe people say âmoney canât buy happiness and health.â Because to be happy and healthy, you need money. I might change my opinion in 50s and 60s.
True đ
Iâm liking the idea of earning money with friends đ
Money isn't sentient, nor can you eat it or drink it. Gain knowledge first, then lose material attachment
@@enneaf1676 Canât eat money but try walking into a restaurant and ordering something to eat without it.
There are unhappy people with a lot money. Miserable ..
Ive had the exact opposite experience. In my 40s I am the happiest I have ever been. I know more about myself. I care less what people think, thus I no longer people please. I am child-free. I have a job that is rewarding. I continue to travel. I continue to enjoy my hobbies. I have my own place. I feel great! Life is good.
My Grandpa (RIP) was probably about 90 when he told me what age he would be again if given the chance. I honestly remember expecting him to say 20 something or close to that. Without hesitation he said "60. Life clicked a lot for me at 60". Will always be glad we had that conversation because it was a perspective I needed to hear. Just goes to show ya, really.
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I love this.
me2 (needed to hear that)
I'm 43. I too am exhausted.
My advice to younger people: The older you get, the harder it is to make friends. So make good friends. Be picky. Don't invest time and emotion into people who don't value and respect you as they ought, but also don't discard good people because of trivial reasons. You'll only have enough time to develop close ties with a handful of people - so choose wisely.
As for money, don't throw it away on expensive luxury items which depreciate in value within a short time, such as flagship phones. Save up and buy smart things, like realestate.
Iâm curious why youâre exhausted. Iâm in my mid-40s, and I really donât get it.
@@damnjustassignmeone The daily grind, dude. Full time job, and then the constant maintenance of living space, car, body, paper work. Add elderly parents getting increasingly needy. No support from anywhere. Never enough time. And I'm lucky enough to still be healthy and to have no kids.
@@austenhead5303 Huh. Well, I have a gut and a small old house. So maybe that helps. Hear you about work though. I feel like thereâs almost no job thatâs not a ton of hours and stress. That much is true.
@@austenhead5303acts. Well said. The daily grind is exhausting and all that adulting entails.
Oh these or facts for sure! Well said.đđ
Workout and never stop. You will feel better, look better and more importantly move better as you age.
Iâm 42 and I actually felt way more exhausted in my teens and 20s. I was pretty tired in my 30s too. Physically I feel better than ever for some reason.
What are you doing differently???
Same here, I feel more energetic now, I think is because I go to the gym every day, maybe..I try not to eat junk food
@@Carlos_Spartacus I definitely eat way less junk food. I eat fast food like once every two years and make most my meals from scratch. I still have low energy but itâs not painfully low like when I was younger.
Hereâs what Iâve learned at 41. All these relationships that you stress over in your early years, the sacrifices you make to âmake it workâ usually ends up being a complete waste of time. My message to all you guys out there. Focus on making money, not to be rich, but to be able to buy time⊠time to do whatever the hell you want with your life. Whether thatâs traveling, reading and doing nothing, taking care of others⊠donât waste your time trying to make a woman happy, because you canât. Make yourself happy first and foremost. That is all.
đđ divorce court got another one đđ
Iâm DEAD đ
itâs great that you are looking inward first. But only start relationships when you yourself are overflowing with joy and emotional maturity to share with a partner. Life is good and life goes on. No man is an island, so make the best of life with its ups and downs.
Love it! Weâre on the same wavelength. I just turned 41 back in December. Iâm single, never married, nor have children. Iâm on a South American adventure with a buddy of mine who is 31 and also single, never married and no children. We talk about this all the time. Staying focused on yourself, making money and doing the things you want to do. If we were tied down with a wife and kids we wouldnât have been able to do the things weâve done in our lives. Or even a girlfriend we would be tied down.
True 100%
Iâm 42 and after doing literally nothing with my life through my 20âs and most of my 30âs, I feel life is just beginning.
Smoked weed, drank alcohol every weekend and spent my disposable income on stupid shit.
Fell in love at 36, now 4 kids later I just bought my first house and working every spare moment I have. No regrets.
The single most important thing Iâve learned is that you need to take care of your health. You can have everything in the world, but if you donât have your health, you can lose it all in an instant. All that smoking, drinking, unhealthy eating, unhealthy lifestyle will catch up to you and it will hit you all at once and hopefully itâs not too late when it does.
Thatâs awesome you empowered yourself and grateful for your health. continue to be grateful and that joy you feel will one day bless others who want it. Like you posting here, keep encouraging to get better daily and each step. But take the time to be still and reflect. All the manâs miseries from not being able to sit quietly in the room alone.
@@michaelchia6972 thank you for your kind words đđœ
This actually feels good because I'm 27 and do all the partying you just talked about. If your saying i have 10 more years to fall in love and eventually have kids. God damn this is gunna be a good 10 years haha.
I agree..
Very true!
44 here! Iâm living my best years. Kids are grownups and me and my husband enjoy life. Sacrificing over the years and the hard working has payed off.
I am 66 and can confidently say from my own experience that whatever this 42 year old dude says is EXACTLY right Nothing less. However, as you get "younger" -- toward 60s - everything will turn to normal and you will not feel that your age is "exhausting" anymore.
God bless!
Itâs okay to age.
I'm 44 and the most important thing is "Quit caring what others think about you". And you can pick your friends, but not your family... Some of the people closest to you (family) are the ones talking about you behind your back.
Oh totally. I realized that a good portion of my family are actually some of my worst enemies because I trusted them and love them and they should have been there for me and yet they are the ones most damaging to me and speaking ill of me whenever Iâm not around
@@yeshalloween I know what you mean. And what was given to the family was unconditional, and I was too young to see what they were really like.
#facts đđŻđđŸ
This talking behind your back thing, isn't it what everybody does all the time when talking about others? Does it make it ok if it's positive things even though talking behind one's back? In this case it's not spreading rumors, just talking behind one's back, like a parent discussing the child's future but not in front of the child.
I agree with you, we can pick our Freinds, life partner but not our FamilyâŠ.
Staying fit,healthy and flexible is the priority
Sounds like you neglect your kids emotionally
@@M_SC how did you even jump to that conclusion?
â@@M_SC đđđđ are you having a different conversation?
@@M_SC I think you may be a Bot, that's programmed to say that line to 1000s of people who mentions "fit and healthy"
@@M_SCsounds like you đš your dad
I agree with this guy apart from i think money is still very important but he's right when it comes to 40s being miserable no energy, no time and endless stress
Money actually means nothing the older you get. Health is #1 and Experiences.
Oh it means a lot. Just try to be old and without money at the same time. You actually can survive and be enough well with not much money in your younger days..because you have better health then, more strength,much more job opportunities and chances. When you are old, all you have is what you made Till then and yourself.
@@iks9120 The older you get you should have a retirement account and not be working. And health insurance. That's why I said your health is #1 not money.
I love all this bs over money as though the lot of you would not lose your minds the second a government collapses under its own weight. I asked people at xmas dinner what they would do if banks, politicians, and government evaporated tomorrow (which would mean their retirement as well, since that is all done through government stuff) and all I got was an awkward silence
...probably because they were trying to enjoy Xmas dinner!@@enneaf1676
try poor
Enjoy every day. Im 44 and I have no idea how fast the years went. đą
So true. It seems like just a few years ago I celebrated the new millenium and graduated high school. I can't believe it when I see young adults that were born after 2000 - it just blows my mind.
Time goes by so fast but at 44 you are still VERY YOUNG.
Me too girl! What month were you born? I was October
Iâm 44. I wish I didnât buy into the hype of home ownership and new cars so early. I should have spent my 20âs living more.
Did you ride the cock carousel?
My father passed away at 42. He suddenly was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer at age 40. He was the rock of our family and was in the mindset that he needed to work constantly to provide for the family-sometimes 60-70 hour weeks. In his final years, he finally was able to slow down and he said that was the âhappiest heâs ever been.â Donât forget to enjoy the moments, friends, and especially your family.
Yup not working is great so that's what I prioritize, enjoy the depopulation and collapse since work doesn't pay a basic living anymore cuz I'm not killing myself for money that doesn't buy the basics anymore
Wow that messed up. I'm sorry for your loss đ
I lost my dad when he was 54. I hope he was happy; he was a little bit of the quiet type.
Be well :)
â€â€â€â€â€ prays
Tomorrow not guaranteed to anyone
My Dad died at that age too
I'm 40..., and I think money is way more important than "friends". People leave me when I hit the lowest level in my life. I have to fight and survive alone for myself. Money is my only security since I have no one.
I even give up social media and use a little of my spare time scrolling on CZcams and Tictoc. I wonder how it feels to be financially free like him....
Thats true
I am in my mid 40's and the advice I would give a young person is save your money and prioritize trying to retire as early as possible. Nothing else is worth it. Try to escape the rat race as soon as you can. That's all that matters. Trust me on this.
26 here, thanks for these words i really needed it đ this is exactly my thoughts
Wish i had known this. I started investing last year and i'm 39. I'm afraid of how late i'm going to have to work before i retire. If i had known what i know now, I would have hopped on that FIRE movement.
That does matter, but there are things that matter MUCH more than that. You will die some day. At that time, you won't give a crap when you retired.
43 here, and agree with this statement.Stay on your grind gents!
Absolutely with you, the rat race is tge worst
45 and feeling a lot healthier and centred than when I was in my 20s
I hope I'll have the same to say when I'm 45.
can you give some advice how you become healthier than when your at 20s
@@timesseven589 donât smoke weed/tobacco, eat nutritious food, donât drink much at all, practice yoga every day.
Have an active job.
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I'm turning 50 in a week. This gentleman is right on the money about TIME. Don't waste it. You never get it back. You don't have all the time in the world. The work you put in today in your 20's and 30's will reap rewards when you hit your 40's, 50's and 60's. Also...you're never too old to make a change in your life. Work hard and never give up.
Thank you for this â€
4 days work week !
ok that's not really what he said but i agree more with your position, of not wasting time.
Like my yoga teacher once said, "the most important thing you can do in life is to love and take care of yourself so that you can love and take care of others". Because if you don't respect yourself how are you going to respect other people? And always of course try to find the positives and embrace them, super important one as well.
I enjoyed my 20âs and early 30âs and have not recovered in my mid 30âs since Covid; it shock my life up and Iâm not in a good head space
Iâm 41 and have the same energy as when I was 21. Less time to do stuff, sure, but I have more money. Itâs not as exhausting as he says.
Ditto
It all depends. You may not be that busy but he obviously is. Many people are in their prime earning years and hold senior positions in their career. There's a lot to do. A college buddy is a VP at a company. Another is a Sr Manager. Another is an attorney. They're all extremely busy and exhausted. I'm just a Sr Engineer and luckily, I'm not that married to my job. Maybe 45-50 hours a week. It all depends by person how exhausting their life is. Heck, some of my friends aren't busy at all. They're unemployed. LMAO
Everyone is different man
It depends how busy you are not everyone isbthe same, but at 40 usually someone is at a well paid career position but has to manage things at work and most probably a parent...so deffy more hectic then a life of a 20 year old..m
you have to take care of youself more and prioritize nutrition.
About to turn 45, and realizing that if I'm lucky I'm at the midpoint of my life already, and that it's time to make my dreams and passions happen, without giving a damn what anyone else thinks.
I feel u Mark. I'm in my mid 40s as well and I feel like it's now or never with going after my dreams....no more excuses and no more explaining myself to anyone.
I decided this at 25, 11 years ago. Cheers to all gents who take risks and go for it!
Get at it
Well said. Started a business at 47 and I donât count the others since this time money is incidental to doing something I love not the other way around
My thoughts exactly I'm 45 also
This guy says he feels exhausted. Iâm 44 and I honestly feel better physically now that I did in my 20s.
Yeah, no disrespect to this guy but it doesn't look like he's got his nutrition dialed in, which is literally night and day for energy levels and mental fitness
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People in their 20s typically don't prioritize their health and take their healthy bodies for granted.
Iâm on the opposite side of that. I prioritize my health and so forth on because I want to at least live a long life. I am worried about retirement and etc because itâs not easy to save anymore like it was for past groups.
Not anymore
People in their teens and 20s prioritize their health
Stay in shape and take care of yourself and you won't be exhausted all the time at 42.
That and shilajit that stuff is a fake changer (completely natural it's minerals)
No work still makes you feel like shit. Iâm 39 and in shape and am exhausted all the time
Incorrect. It has literally nothing to do with physical fitness. That is disturbingly reductionist.
@@gagejoseph91 fitness, nutrition, and healthy lifestyle. The rest follows. No excuses.
@@user-ce4pt6nn6l Understanding, individual care, and an open mind. No excuses. People cannot be reduced to simple catch-all answers. Anyone who says otherwise is selling something.
Some of the happiest people I've ever met are massively overweight. Thinking that fitness solves mental issues is a red flag, my man.
I am 44, healthy, good career, house, happy family, 2 good kids⊠my advice to younger people is donât listen to anybody who tells you enjoy yourself and live in the moment. Teach yourself discipline, be good to your family and relatives, make good friends, stay away from negative and toxic people specially the opposite sex, always learn, always remember you are just starting your life and anything you do has a potential to create a habit that will stay with you for the rest of your life, create good habits.
TIME! One thing you can never get back. Thatâs why you spend it wisely.
Iâm Female, 35, and thrivingâŠ
I eat well, workout, Married, no kids, good job, I invest and spend my money on travel not material things. I hate drama and enjoy the simple things ⊠So young people donât fret just make good choices
Same, just turned 35 and learning to appreciate things I didn't when I was younger.
Im 40. Prioritize your dreams and passions. Don't worry about what others think of you....if you love what you do then do it. Prioritize your health and mental well being. Enjoy nature, family, friends. Save money. Improve humanity. Spread kindness and empathy. Smile and help eachother. Be yourself and be proud of who you are. You are beautiful â€
Appreciated..
Iâm 41. I live to smoke pot. Been doing it since I was 17. I work a good job and make good money. Weed is finally legal in my state and now I just keep smoking and playing video games.
A very crisp insight of the life by this man, which many so called influencers have trouble finding the right word to put it in to perspective
Female 40. Worked as a nurse for 12 years now becoming an electrician. I feel amazing!!
I'm 42 and tremendously enjoyed my life, primarily because I have loved ones around me and have been a remote worker for 20 years. I travel around the world for several months out of the year and have had a lot of adventures that wouldn't have been possible in any other era unless you were super wealthy. I feel lucky and look forward to the next 20 years of travel and seeing my kid grow up.
Hey, can I ask you what do you do for living that you can work remotely ?
I just turned 41 and Iâm in the best shape of my life and I also prioritized how I work out, eat and just general self care. I realized Iâm also in the best shape vs my 30âs and 20âs because I also prioritized my mental health. Even though I always took care of myself physically starting in my mid 20âs, I never took care of my mental health until my late 30âs. I always felt like I was running empty, workaholic who was always âgrindingâ, but all I was doing was always running myself into the ground and it was difficult to prioritize things I loved to do and people I wanted to be with. Work hard people, but def set aside time for things you love to do and people you care about.
Everyone is different not many people have choices of having a balance life especially when it comes to work or personal problems like taking care of a family member. While I do take care of my health and I still try to workout 4/5 times a week I donât judge people who donât because you never know what they are dealing with on their every day life .
I'm interested, could you specify what you mean by taking care of your mental health? I'm 23 and I think and reflect alot on my mental health but I don't do therapy or something. What has done the trick for you?
@@anaz5918 100% I find that it's easy to judge people, but realistically you never really know what someone is going through unless you really know them extremely well. One thing people can use more of is kindness.
Turning 40 in a month. My life tremendously improved over the years. In my twenties I got a BS and MS in special education. Could not get a teaching job anywhere. Met my wife at 30, got into a top nursing school, worked as a ln RN 5 yrs at a hospital and got an MS to become a psychiatric nurse practitioner making a great salary and living in a big beautiful house with a beautiful daughter and am expecting the birth of our son in one month. I am truly blessed and I wish anyone suffering with depression a wish of nothing , but happiness and success.
Iâm 41 and I am really starting to feel like i got the hang of things. Looking back, i canât believe I survived my 20âs and 30âs and iâm glad those years are over. 40âs are great!
I'm 40 and this guy said exactly what I would have said.
Me too
Exhausted 32 year old married mum here.
@@gardeningandtruecrime8504 keep going now u have your kid to live for as well. Good luckđ
Just turned 38 on the 3rd and This puberty crap is just always gonna hurt. I wonder when it stops for most people.
im 41 and I do not agree with that at all
I'm 45. I think one of the biggest shift is realizing how important family is. When i was in my 20sïŒlife was all about fulfilling my dreams, "finding myself." Then I realized I am not that important. Love is the driving force of life. Cheish those that deserve your love. Love well and love hard, it's worth it.
Amen to that! There's nothing more important than love
I've realised this at 15, and have been saying this to all my peers all the time. Real human connection is the only thing that matters. Find someone you can love and who can love you and stay healthy. That's it.
Unfortunately, I have never succeeded.
â@@someguycalledcerberus9805I agree but sadly I haven't succeeded yet either. It is difficult to find true deep soul connection.
â@someguycalledcerberus9805 Relationships are probably the most important thing overall but they're not the ONLY thing that matter. If you want good ones you still need a strong sense of self that comes from spending time alone
He hit it On the nose âšđ«¶đœ we understand as our time is about to be up all that hard work (modern day slavery no matter what color you r when it come to the work field) itâs not worth it you lose so much to gain things you canât take with you at 41 I thought all that material stuff mattered my time family peace and joy is what matters the most. I would like to die in peace not in should of could of⊠peace and light to this man đđœâšđž May he get some rest âš
Prioritise your health and have a mind set that doesn't dwell on stress too much. And stop waiting for things to happen. Make them happen or at least try to.
I'm 43 and not exhausted. It's all about preventative maintenance. Always have an exercise routine, always prioritize self care, always spend time in nature. If you do these things, and don't spend your free time in front of a television, you will feel younger longer.
You can not abuse your body and expect it to last. Also listen to your body see doctors
He said he is working all the time, not watching TV. He is a man.
I felt very strong at 40 but late 40s there definitely is a drip off in your physical capabilities even as a fairly active fit guy. However, a fit 40 is better than a heavy drinking no exercise guy in their 20s or thirties.đ
Iâm 40 and in my prime. Itâs all a mindset. Power of the mind is phenomenal
yeah I'm around there and sometimes I am straight lusted over by the opposite sex and that RARELY happened in my teens/early 20s
Yes, you are right - internal dialogue is key
@@nweeezy This is so positive and nice thank you, I'm feeling crazy most of the time because I'm not where I want to be right now but actually you have a point
If I had to pick an age to be for the rest of my life it would be 40. The best age.
@@nweeezy They want you now because you are more financially secure. That's all. They'd still rather have sex with guys ten years younger than you.
@@schmingusss A stranger doesn't know how "financially secure" I am when I dress like a bum and keep to myself....you are referring to attraction, I mentioned *lust* (quite intentionally, i might add...)
Iâm turning 49 this year. The 40s has been the worst decade of my life. Iâm trying hard to keep hopeful that my 50s will be better.
*Married men are def happier when older from so many experiences Iâve heard*
If youâve spent your 20s and 30s aimlessly chasing superficial pleasures only, then yes, regrets can set in later.
Iâve seen men in their 40s and even 50s and higher who happy, financially stable and have a rich personal life, some of them have grand kids and theyâre so chill, they say this time in life theyâre the most sorted and in peace theyâve ever been.
I realised money is VERY important in my 40âs. Maybe this will change when I get older
that's bc Biden took over and inflation is the highest in 40+years
Itâs really important until itâs not (when you reach a threshold)
It's always important till you have enough to be confortable and secure.
When I was 42 over a decade ago, I thought I was already old. I see this man and I now think he's a young man. How relative life can be. PD: he has actually more white hair than me.
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ha ha, me too. lâm 52 and have none, it makes a person look old before their time.
I'm 45 and don't feel that old. Never had kids (which certainly would have aged me more). I've almost always worked out since 25, almost never drank, never smoked anything in my entire life, and always ate reasonably healthy. Still feel great and people tell me I look younger than I am. Not like when I was in my 20s, but not much different than my 30s. I do dye my hair now, but thankfully I still at least have all my hair đđ»
Stay healthy and grateful my friends. Main things I noticed are that my eye sight has degraded a bit and my knee joints ache a bit faster than they used to, but I still eat healthy, workout consistently, and am now looking for a less stressful job after recently being laid off. I want to have more time available to socialize, volunteer, and actually enjoy life outside of my career.
Iâm in my 40âs and loving life! I actually felt more exhausted when I was in my 20âs not physically but emotionally.
When I was in my early 30s, I took almost 3 years off from work and enjoyed my time. It was a good experience.
But how did you survive?
@@joaofrederico7361 I had a rental property and I lived overseas. Stretched that dollar.
Thatâs awesome!
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@@RamjiRao_Listening đđ njan 10 đ place ⊠manasilayo?
Stay fit, and make sure youâre doing something with every minute (work, fun, learning, etc - never idle). The good and the bad gets amplified in the 20 yrs between 20 and 40. Make good choices that benefit you later and donât leave you run down, tired and filled with regret.
31 is the new 21. I did not change much so did my friends.Unless you took drugs, have bad genes, drink a lot and had kids... I still do the smokey eyes. STOP TALKING like we are in the elderly. There isn't an age to be and feel sexy. Like many women are jealous of me or give me the cold shoulder because they see I am high maintenance with my body appearances while they got kids and say things like doing exercices is pointless! 31 is still super young.
Thank goodness you brought this up! Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 10 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life. Great piece!đđ..
I would recommend you get started with a professional broker that will guide you through the process and trade for you while you get the daily profit and rewards.
Do you mind sharing info on the adviser who assisted you? I'm 39 now and would love to grow my portfolio and plan my retirement
Francesca Wilson Financial is my portfolio-coach, I found her on CNBC where she was interviewed, I looked up her name on the internet. Fortunately I came across her site and reached out to her, you can verify her yourself.
Making a 100 grand in passive most be one of the best feelings you had in a long while. You must be glad you requested for her services .
I turn 50 in 12 days and can't believe it's finally here. That being said I do a lot more and appreciate a lot more now than ever. I eat really well, I don't drink and my life is definitely not as chaotic as it once was. There's more of a peacefulness at times and I feel like I have less to prove. A quiet life is not a bad thing.
I am 49, doing Martial Arts and reading books like hell. I feel far better than when I was 20.
Keep telling yourself that my brother
@@lionelgrisbane-ud87 im 29 about to be 30 in a couple of months and I definitely believe him. If I had the chance to go back being 18-22 again I Wouldnât but Iâll definitely take 24/25 again.
Wow, i am 49 too and totally tired
Any book recommendations? :)
@@dena264 Depends of the genres you are interested in.
Iâm 47 and while I accomplished many of my goals in life what I would tell my younger self is to LIVE FOR YOU FORGET what others think about you. Donât let people who donât need to be in your life linger get rid of them you will only regret it for wasting your time. Save more money. Try more things and be forgiving of yourself and have grace for yourself like you do others.
I think exactly opposite in terms of priority. When I was in 20s I thought money is not important, now I think itâs the most important for your family and life.
I'm 45, on my next birthday I will be 46. Thank you for attending my TED Talk.
Fascinating stuff
Your Ted talk is like a fine wine
Inspiring
Guys in their 20s are going around asking people in their 30s and 40s questions as if they're 103
Because the 103 year old boomer destroyed his kids financial future so who cares what they think?
I think it's still important though. 40 *is* like 70 to younger people
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â@@kirerunte1046boomers are in the age of 70s & 80s he's not a boomer.
I know, like "Tell me O wise elder"
Iâll be 40 this year and I cannot cannot emphasis this to young people, save money, work harder and smarter then youâre doing now. Pay attention in school, college and university and get a degree which matters. I didnât even go uni and Iâm working along side people with degrees, it took me a while to get here based on experience but had I got a degree when I young, Iâll be way higher then what Iâm today. But Iâve been there done it and now I can only advice young people.
I am 41. And my advice to my younger self would be to find your real passion (which is not illegal/immoral of course) even if the society says that will earn you less money. Stay true to yourself and give life your best shot.
Agree 100% with this. It's hard if you don't have opportunity to try things in childhood and then are forced to make money to survive, but if one can learn what sort of thing you wake up each morning and say "I want to do this/enjoy doing this!" then you're living every precious day and youth are the best quality days of your life due to the body's natural vitality then.
I think it's also easier to build a happier future from that basis too.
In my teens and twenties I was sprinting. The years have gone by and I realise life is actually a marathon.
Time is the great leveller for us all
Death comes for us all. Thank fuck for death. But until then, enjoy life
I like this analogy. Iâm 37 now and feel like that moment where youâve been sprinting for a long time and realise you need to change pace.
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Realizing this in my early 30s
@@Rjcuatrocinco realized this in my 20s. I dont want to get to my 30s too fast. I want to slow down and enjoy time now.
Iâm 46 and so far really enjoying my 40s. Except for some muscle soreness when I wake up, I feel great. Around the time I turned 40, I became truly aware of how short and precious life is, and I started to take much better care of my body and mind. Now Iâm much healthier than I ever was in my 20s and 30s, and Iâm so much calmer, more centered, and happier. I have also completely stopped caring about what people think about me (which is extremely freeing!) and I feel more motivated than ever to pursue my goals and dreams. My kids are older now and much more self-sufficient, and although I loved having little kids, life is a whole lot more relaxed now. The 40s are great!
The little you loose in your body the more you gain in wisdom
Nice!!
Iâm 51, now, and what I discovered at 41 was that being an adult never endsâŠbut they donât tell ya that when you are in your 20âs. P S I enjoyed my 40âs, it gets better and better. Digging my 50âs. Learned that your job, career, and passion are not always one and the same and thatâs perfectly okay. I love you, however, I donât miss you. Be happy first, someone can possibly make you happierâŠonly you can make yourself happy. Cheers
I am 54 always take care of your body health is the most important , nothing else matters if you are not healthy. Always put family and real friends first jobs will come and go , stay away from that material life it drains you .
Thank you for the wisdom. đ
A fellow 1968er. I am sitting on my couch after major surgery after having cancer scraped out of me and some parts taken out. I was working out twice a day before they found the 13.5 tumor. Always outside with the dogs....I was feeling weaker and having more pain than normal. But I didn't think it was cancer. My advice to women or those who love women....ovarian cancer is a silent killer. Just because you go in for your woman check does not mean that they are going to find ovarian cancer. It's hard to detect until the last stages. Bloating, gas and other problems are signs of ovarian cancer. I'm not sure what I could have done differently at this point other than recognizing signs something is wrong....happy 2023 everyone.
Iâm 42 and still have no clue what career to follow..Would lover something that I didnât have to work with people
Itâs not a easy burden finding a work you love I think itâs the thing that will give you more peace of mind in your life Iâm in that search still at 38
You have to pick one that meets your basic needs, allows you to save, and one that enables you to do some (not all) of the things that you want. I'm a foreign language teacher in the states of all places, and while I don't always love my job, I do love that it allows me to be able to save over 20k annually (single, no children) and spend my summers travelling throughout Europe and Latin America. Yes, I deal with disrespect and extreme immaturity from my students, but I do find some joy in it as well. My advice would be to not look for fulfillment through your job/ career, rather use your job/ career to be able to do the things that you love and are passionate about. Wishing you the best!
@@abbyc.4215 thank you so much for your adviceâŠItâs the backstabbing and rude work colleague that gets me down
@@hopeisit1347 To put it bluntly- leave. Quit that job if itâs a bad work environment. Thereâs no shame in leaving a job thatâs bad for your mental health. Hell, you donât even need to find a different career or better job. A lateral move to the same job, but at a different company or location, could vastly improve your life by getting you out of a toxic environment and negative mental state. Not only will you feel empowered by having freed yourself from a shitty situation, a change of scenery may lead to new opportunities.
From my own personal experience, I left one job I was at for a decade, where I thought I was happy and had friends. Little did I know I was actually languishing at a place that was incredibly toxic in terms of people. I got out of there and took a similar job somewhere else (two places, actually), and I met some of the best friends and mentors that I still have to this day. I have learned and grown so much after leaving that toxic job.
The moral of the story: you have the power to leave and improve your life. Go do it
@@eyespy3001 Thanks for your reply..The unfortunate problem is that itâs healthcare I work in as a radiographer and I have moved three times and itâs exactly the same in each hospitalâŠHonestly itâs terrible and the worst of it is the women, they are so bitchy and rude
I'm 42, will be 43 in August, this man just spoke my soul!....i'm a black man and I still felt his words!đŻđŻ
I WISH i had one person in my life who knew about investing and explained to me the value of compound interests and index funds. Had I invested only 100 a month starting in my twenties I would be so ahead in life right now. I NEVER focused on money in my twenties because I was raised to believe that that action was greedy. Instead, I literally spent ALL of my money on friends and experiences in my twenties. Now Iâm in my forties, Iâm not in contact with most of those âfriendsâ from my twenties and Iâm playing catch up to fund my retirement.
I'm 40 and I'd say definitely prioritize money, you're going to need it.
Yes! Prioritize money. Then once that's taken care of then you can move on and focus on a relationship. You'll have more peace of mind.
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I think heâs referring to thinking money will solve all your problems, chasing a dream of having a certain size house, cars, etc. If you make smart decisions with your money and can live below your means, youâll do great. But the reality is most people arenât actually using money to accomplish the things they really want or would really make them happy.
â@@dmsjt5181 and the absence of mony will create all the problems you listed. Old and with no money... wohaaa... you would agree that this aspect should be going uphill, not downhill, wouldn't you..
Yes, despite time is more than money, it includes money AND further down the road one will need more of it...
A lot of these people say the same thing. "Take your time" or "relax"... I feel it.
Yeah
Stress = heart attacks and many other negative things.
45- Balance reached, Peace found, Gained so many powers...One of them being I Enjoy My Own company. It's okay to be alone and there is nothing wrong to give everyone else their space.If they do not call they are fine, family and friends are supposed to be a small part of our lives, they are more like a support system. Keeping contact communication and maintaining distance is Best than a constant attachment that can become or turn into Toxic relationships †Being Present is a HUGE part of it that helps to maintain a well and balanced Tranquil Life. đ In other words let them come to you and wait for others to make contact instead of interrupting their daily tasks. Give them time to miss you đ . Stay supportive and open for everyone. Oh wait This is what I Do....đ At 25 Live Free,Alert and Aware of your Surroundings. â€
This guy felts invincible in his 30s and 20s? What a blessing
Iâm only 36 but blurted out âtimeâ before dude even said it. If youâre in your 20s and reading this, what this dude says is so true. Money is a stupid concept, but definitely find a comfortable middle ground, because you have to, but as soon as you find that spot, spend every minute of the rest of the time available enjoying the present.
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4 DAYS WORK WEEK FOR A BETTER WORK PERSONAL LIFE BALANCE!
Everybody has a different list of regrets depending on the choices they made
Very true!
So far, my 40's have been the best. It's not so much that 'things;' have changed, but how I see them and the way I feel about them has changed. My 40's feel 'old enough to know better, but still young enough to act on it'.
Not just time, but health is important too. You find that out for sure.
I'm 45 and I feel more invincible now than I did in my 20's. Life is all about perspective. Tell yourself that you're limitless and you will be. Tell yourself that you're exhausted and you will be. Simple as that đ€·
4 DAYS WORK WEEK FOR A BETTER WORK PERSONAL LIFE BALANCE!
You can also live in self denial
@Prince yea go for it đ€·
Preach!!!!!!
@@hhjhj393love that. Any tips? For constantly improving, but keeping workload (or at least stress) small?
The problem is people only live in the moment and not prepare for the future and end up regretting their decisions!
And certain world philosophies would say we live in the past, worry about the future and never experience he present.
I have seen so many people sacrifice and save and put things on hold for retirement and then the money doesnât go as far as they hoped, they have no energy, they have physical limitations and retirement turned out to be the biggest con. You want to make God laugh? Tell him your plans. đ
Agreed. Don't do that. You have to think about the needs of your older self.