YouTube almost broke me...[1 year off YouTube]
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- čas přidán 19. 03. 2024
- Back to the CZcams life. And happy to be back. Building a CZcams channel and making a living from it for years and years can be taxing on the mind if you don't have the right systems in place. I approached CZcams all wrong, but we learn on the way.
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FYI I love making videos. I love the whole process. I just lost sight of that and ended up losing myself by focusing on the wrong priorities, but hey! We live and we learn. Slowly getting back on track and working off the rust and getting those reps reps reps in! Much love everybody. Email me at yourmatetom3@gmail.com if you wish to send any topic requests or even respond to one of your letters for a video. Just an idea.
Used to watch your videos years ago and you randomly popped into my recommended with your video you uploaded yesterday. I really like the meditation techniques at the end of the video. I would like to learn more techniques like that if possible. Anyways keep up the great work.
Glad you're back, with someone of your videomaking talent/personality, it would be a damn shame if you stopped completely.
I appreciate the videos mate! been more helpful than you'd believe, wish you all the best!
I would love to see a full cover of the song at the end. Great voice. Happy to see your vids again.
And you got more jacked in the process.
Followed you for about 9 years now, which is strange to think about!! Where did all these years go… I’ve really seen a lot of similarities in your path and mine. I’m glad you’re here again. Life’s a trip man. We’re all going to be alright ❤️
Your pfp looks like Jim Carrey Jesus
You're more important than what you think, or we think of you. I've always loved your videos, and I'm grateful to have followed you over all these years. I'm happy you're back. That staples a very important life event for everyone who you impacted, mate. Please be the best you, not the best YourMateTom.
Been watching for years bro, always liked the self help stuff and anything where you're speaking from your truth. Good to see ya back!!
Stay strong bruv, nothing but love, good things coming ✌
Always watched your content for you mate, down to earth lad on a similar journey as myself. Good to see ya back
I feel like even if you'd disappeared for 5 years we would still think of you as family and the video uploaded after such a long break would feel like a reconnection with an old friend - you meet after years and it still feels the same :) glad to have you back!
Love ya Tom! Your personal well being and happiness is what's most important to me. It has to be for us all individually also. I'll always stay subscribed and watch when I see new stuff
One of the few youtubers i actually tune in to listen to about this kind of shit for, Good to see you back.
I so appreciate you, Tom! I have followed you for a few years, mostly a couple of years ago, and have been so impressed with your honesty and open heart. It has been lovely to watch you and your beautiful lady's relationship flourish into marriage. I really just love you! Big Hugs to you and your lady!
Man, i loved your productions, hope you be back for good!
There’s a lot of wisdom in this video that resonated with me. This is real shit bro, I like where this channel is going. It’s more mature and just real over all
I worked since I was 15 after not being welcome back at school. Out of home at a 17 with no one to fall back on. Crushed by over a tonne and a half of steel and still no one to rely on or fall back on but myself, live on my own and every day is a struggle. 45 now, on meds 3 times daily, disabled and have a daughter who was taken from me by her mother who promised to look after me if we became a family then took off with my daughter.
Maybe this will help you to realise that your life is great and that you should enjoy the simple things like being able to walk and run and do whatever you want. I have adhd, ptsd, crps and god knows what else.
Don’t convince yourself that your life sucks or is too stressful and difficult, instead push yourself as hard as you can to make your life better because you never know if you might end up like me with no ability for much at all and on your own.
So good to see you again!!!! I appreciate your videos so much !!
Love your videos bro, sending positive energy your way 🍻🍻
Walked me through some memorable trips, including the first one. Thank you.
This video cracked me up and resonated too. And your arms looks great 💪
Love you mate. Thanks for everything you’ve done to date. Truly appreciate your work. Peace ✌🏼
Tom ,you're a inspiration to me. Your videos about quitting cannabis helped me coz I was the same man. I struggle with Adhd and other things so your videos hit home with me. I've had bouts of depression at times and trying to stay in a good mindset. Just wanted to say thanks for sharing your experiences brother. ✌
I can totally understand & relate to everything your saying. I've had lots of similar thought processes because of ADHD (which I was only recently diagnosed with.) It can take you to dark places & also give you amazing thoughts. So true about keeping good habits to keep it in check. Love watching your journey !
Hey Tom, so when I first saw your content was through psychedelics, but it became way more than that. Your advice and experiences really helped me get my act straight even beyond the psychoactive realm. You should know that your fans really enjoy your content. Ive been watching your channel the whole year long for next uploads 😂
Im so glad your back you have helped me through so many journeys and i hope to have many more i know u wont be here forever but the time i spent watching you has changed my life for the better
good to see you've been taking care of your mental health before the channel !
I see a lot of maturity has been gained - fits you well mate !
keep it up, you're an amazing guy who helped me on my journey during a rough patch !
thank you !
Thank you for this video man, your vulnerability is really inspiring. I’m sitting with the same issue - I’ve been wondering how not to get affected by such things, especially if someone leaves a hurtful comment - I keep reminding myself people that don’t understand will judge but also they are forgiven for that - Still hurts though
Missed ya mate! Always resonated with you and it's great to see you back. Comment for the al gores rhythm!
Love this video, following you for so long. Thank you for being open, found so much hints in that video. I´m starting to think about testing me on ADHD, that would explain so much
Bro you saying that if you’re not passionate about something or a job that you don’t put your 100% effort into it literally describes me. If I don’t care about something it’s just a waste of energy for me to even go all out because I always see through it.
This was a perfect video ❤ thanks for sharing your heart, story and insights brother 🎉
Glad you are back Tom! Sounds like you are heading in the right direction too, not giving too much of a fuck and just creating things will be much more sustainable. At uni one of my tutors used to tell me not to be too precious and just get stuff finished instead of focusing in on tiny details. You end up losing momentum too + mostly noone even notices anyway. Only you know what your idea was and your audience will just appreciate whatever you put out :)
Same boat man, same shit happened to me in south east Asia. Much love and respect
I feel you, Mate! Good to see you growing :)
It’s good seeing you again dude. Love you!! I’m wishing you and the family all the best!!
I actually really enjoy the rawness of your recent vids
I really love your CZcams channel because I find you so interesting as a person I’m going to be honest I found via the psychedelic content but I stayed because your personality and vulnerability with us as a audience so just take your channel wherever you want to go and we the loyal will go along ;) also thank you for this video I’m actually in the process of creating my channel this year this helped with the take action part
Hey Tom, keep the the good work. wish you all the best mate.💖👍
your such a authentic guy thats what i really like about your vids. havent seen them all but the ones i saw im always impressed how authentic you are keeping it :)
im remember the video with psysub where the acid trip went wrong. dude i felt with you so hard!!!! the whole setting was so weird i would have had the same expierince like you haha. a few years later i had a trip like this on way less and that just changes you man:D
im so glad to see your good and uploading again. will watch more frequently now :) greetings from germany
Move to another platform bro keep the money coming in with the freedom to post what you want f u k the censorship
What's up my brother. I've had similar experience with CZcams. Good to see you. You look good 💪
Missed you bro, glad you back, looking good 👍
hey mate, i first saw your videos when i was doing research on psycedelics. Your videos helped me have good experiences with psilocybin really appreciate you coming back to making videos.
I have always trusted you in wierd cosmical way. Your ebb and flow is kinda different from me but sometimes the difference in that percieved energy swing is what makes my problems seem controllable. Cos its either I've been there, or youve been there and it clears the anxiety. You will survive and love always wins!
Glad to see your face again on here, been missing the videos. Hope you’re doing well Tom
Tom, it was great meeting you in Pai back in October. Pai is awesome, that two huts cafe is elite mate. Sorry to hear about your brother in law, wishing him you and your family all the best and happy to see you back to reuploading again. All the best
Its amazing that you started uploading couple of weeks after I found your channel, alr did a Marathon with most of your vids
I've been following you for a long time now and felt that I related to a lot of your past experiences. I found out I have ADHD last year at 30 years old and a lot of my life makes sense now. Not sure if you've tried meds yet but I tried them for the first time in Thailand actually and I haven't thought about smoking weed since. Love your content, keep going!
It’s good to see your face again man. I hope whatever you end up doing it brings you peace, happiness, and fulfillment. Take care brother
Love the update brother, keep it up do whatever the fuck you want love your vibe, much like myself. If music sits well with you bro I would love to see you take a trip down that path, if you have a OCDish perfectionist mindset and and ADHD based drive like myself bro it could be where you shine. Do whatever makes you happy in the end brother, that's what matters and you genuinely seem happy now man don't let anything stop you from achieving your dreams. Consistency with uploads and transparency will treat this channel better than quality of content will any day bro you will definitely grow the community I personally appreciate the change a lot and needed to hear your processing of thoughts myself to gain my own personal clarity on a few things. Keep it up brother ❤
I think it‘s interesting to just have you talk raw and unfiltered, no fancy shit, that‘s one of your strengths in my opinion. For I myself am facing a sort of burnout in terms of my own content creation which is music.
I love your honesty. So many people feel a similar way but would never dare to say it.
It's almost like working out, if you stop for a week you basically gotta start from scratch but if you have a good daily system it becomes easier and easier as well as if you don't judge yourself as your building your strength
Yesterday I was randomly thinking if you still make videos
Thanks tom for all you have done.
You are a great inspiration and example of how to achieve big things in your own way even with the many obstacles youve faced ive been calling myself a man of many hats and i think you have been the same in the past with the channel you are kinda the person who does everything with your channel even if you get help with production or anything its a division of labour your kinda the captain and do all the other roles or jobs on the boat of this ship your the navigator the person who rows and does the sails the chef or cooks. Imagine all the jobs or roles on a ship you have damn near wore every one or else how did you make it across shore if your boat didnt sail. Dont be so hard on yourself. You cant be everything to everyone one all at once.
Give yourself a place to find peace and be tranquil from your busy mind. I didnt hear much gratitude and i dont say that to be harsh where is the self love and care for yourself and these deep emotions your sharing be grateful for all blessings on your journey there might be more coming just keep working hard. Keep shinning brother and keek being you.
Bro you're a legend, just keep doing you. Wish you success.
I always like your Self Help Videos they are very Original and Honest. And actually you were the first American youtuber i watched. + I‘m 25 in 2 Days man i need to get out there too and do something wich breaks my mental walls.
Good to see ya mate 😊
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Happy to see you back mate, take care of yourself :))
Do you man. Thailand is a wonderful place to escape to though, that's for sure. Hope you can make the most of it.
Yeey! Glad to see Tom. CGKid and PsychedSubs both been slow updaters lately too. Taking breaks is good. Audiences don't forget that easy :)
Daily upload schedule :D Sounds like a burnout schedule again. Don't take it hard when you loosen it up
I'm with you at UPW bro!!
Make a move!!!
welcome back, missed ya mate
"I struggle to find passion & energy for things I don't care about"
You and me both mate, story of my life right there
This is me with crypto
Good to see you back bro!
You have a great singing voice btw 😂
its good to have you back mate
Much love Tom
all the best!!!
I'm gonna give the book a try!
Give me courage to go meet new people
You did great✨ it was very interesting to watch.
For me, it was Human Design that changed everything, I learned so much about myself
Feel u bro
Yeah i suffer from the same thing, procrastination is a biatch. Not so much in creating but going through the process of putting it out there and having to jump through the hoops.
Them Tube has very dark foundations. We all need to be cautious with any such platforms. I’m ashamed to still be using it. I’ve no life. It’s my fake companionship, which makes it even worse. All the best Tom.
Speaking before thinking or thinking before speaking. Take the time to take a breathe and settle your thoughts and anxiety. I preach gratitude and so many things like healthy eating or exercise its not always taken in the best ways because i am the one saying it.
We missed you!
The thing about depression is every time you get through it, you become more resilient. So don't ever put yourself down for going back to that low place because you'll notice you can make it out faster each time. You're getting stronger even though it doesn't seem like it in that moment. Having weak moments does not take away your strength whatsoever.
Sheers bro ! This video will be interesting I just started to watch, but since you've been one of my major inspiration to open my own CZcams Channel I'm looking forward to see what you have to say on the subject.
Astrological curiosity: Can you tell me when is your birth date ? With the date and the year you've been born ? Looking forward to see the end of the video but I already comment for the algo :)
Did you get the stroke poke?
Tom, I am so very happy to see you again! I was very surprised to hear you say that you have ADHD. I never would have guessed.
I have a friend who has ADHD and struggles to stay employed and is on the verge of being homeless. I would have thought that some of the psychedelics would help with that, but I guess not in your case from what you say. Can you relate what helps you the most?
That's crazy I've had adhd since I was very young. I work 50 hours a week and own rental property
I agree there is the 9 - 5 and also there is our personal life’s dharma that God is reminding is of every day and when we don’t heed His Call it get’s heavier.. because that is what we actually want to do but the ego.. it likes what it can grasp from memory and act on that.. just wanted to write that off and yeah i could resonate with almost everything you said in this video im very happy to know you are also going through it.. makes me know im not alone
Thanks Tom 🙏🏼🤗
Good day mate
Brother I’ve learnt with adhd is that we belong best in nature. Learn to connect with nature as much as possible. Make it a routine and make sure to be barefoot while being on grass. I come home from work and go straight in the backyard with my dog. I go barefoot and I’ll start doing body weight exercises/stretches but in a more mindful way. Look up mindful exercising. It’s connecting your mind with your body and doing things more slow and steady. Doing pull ups but controlled and slow etc. I’ll even walk up and down the backyard barefoot but really focusing on how I walk with deep breathing. It helps me focus, I find for as adhd people we need to do more slow and steady exercises to slow our mind down. Connecting with nature and slowing our day down. Reducing as much screen time as possible and making sure to take time to meditate and exercise. This worked for me brother and not sure if you do any of this but give it a try man.
love you tom
Would love to hear you have a chat with tripwhip again..
Id like more of this type of content
Hey Tom.
Greetings from Brazil.
Please, can you write here the name of the book that your friend recommended you?
Thks.
oh shit whaddup
I might be the odd one out when I say I don't care about trip simulation videos but yourself help videos are pretty dope
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ADHD is exhausting. I didn't even realise I had it until I quit smokes and coffee for the first time since I was 12yr old and the symptoms fully reared their head again. Also found out that people with ADHD subconsciously drawn to self medicate with substances like nicotine and caffeine.
when vlogs with Jarrad again :(
Uhhh what a wicked game ;-)
I feel you
I’m ADHD
Listeni to you i got an idea about your higher centers (maybe thanks to psychadelic) beeing really developted but the lower ones not beeing developted enough(i am the same). We need some grounding do some labour work ... Work in the garden exercise , try to be more grounded. I like that you see your ADHD as opportunity to do some things better something as a strange gift.
I may not be right but this is what I thougt / felt
Are you going to film with Dakota again ever?
Life is about letting go
CZcams should add a feature that hides the algorithm, views and numbers, from the creator
Dark spaces are ok for a while 😢
Bring Yesenia !!
Smoking weed made me depressed for 10 years. Such a waste of time and money.
If you're reading this its a sign. Just do it!
I remember you used to make trip videos with your girlfriend, did you guys break up?