The “Who TF Did I Marry?” Situation On TikTok Is Insane
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- čas přidán 20. 02. 2024
- Watch Reesa's series to get all the details, I highly recommend it! vm.tiktok.com/ZGeA91PY5/
In today's video we will be talking about Reesa Teesa and more
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Watch Reesa's series to get all the details, I highly recommend it! vm.tiktok.com/ZGeA91PY5/
I genuinely never use TikTok but I spent 4.5hrs on a mix of x1.5/x2 speed just to listen to her story ❤
Also highly recommend it!
Markie it just got so much more worse. Legion’s 1st wife and stepson corroborated Reesa’s story. Also another woman he dated between his second ex-wife and Reesa made a TicTok corroborating her story as well.
@@sassycatenthusiast I think I'm going to have to do this.
Ah you saw my comment blessings my good sir
Bro I barely have time to watch this 30 min video. Ain't no way I got 7 hours 😭
Anyone judging or blaming this woman underestimates the lengths a narcissist will go to just to sell a lie.
Exactly. I’m honestly a little sad that there’s a handful of comments blaming Reesa. This man thought out EVERY step, they went to all these deals in person etc. it would be ridiculous to expect her NOT to believe him at first.
It is hard to understand when you're a normal person. Untill you experience one. Unfortunately there seem to be a fair few out there
People who do understand it and are defending him are also narcissists. Birds of a feather flock together.
Yep. I was raised by 2 of them, they know no boundaries
Only the ones who never saw or talked with narcissistic people, do that. They don't understand
The title “Who TF did I marry?” Sounds like it would be a reality tv show on tlc
There was (is?) a reality show “who the (bleep) did I marry?” That’s the name - bleep in the title 🤣
@@Alison73851 that’s iconic haha
I'm pretty sure you can find the Who the (beep) did I marry show on Max!
@@Alison73851I was about the mention that show. It’s one of those Discovery ID shows. Not sure if it’s still around, though
@@thxwanderer defo going to check it out
A lot of people like to blame the partner for missing or ignoring the red flags, but until you're in it, you don't truly know what "you would do." It’s better she leaves late than not at all.
Right , especially COVID times were soooo different , like even a “information request” to government would have taken months compared to weeks.
I sometimes recollect the times during COVID and it really does feel as though we lived through an alternate timeline
Especially when you look up all of the cities that usually are filled with MILLIONS, absolutely empty. Wicked
Exactly! We as humans are vulnerable to thought traps like the sunk cost fallacy. It is better not to put more time and energy into a situation that is harmful, but that’s a lot easier to say from the outside.
lol …. Please speak for yourself.
Some people don’t fawn in situations like this . I understand people do but she made all the wrong decisions while KNOWING HE LIES CONSTANTLY. So don’t put it on people who make the right decisions based on logic and not emotion because you can relate to her poor decision making. Love doesn’t absolve you of the dumb decisions you make . Remember that before you become an adult kid
@@thatbeaatcch9884 Thanks but I wasn’t talking to you.
@@thatbeaatcch9884someone hurt you didn't they. You're way too angry my love
I love the quote, "When you're wearing rose colored glasses, all of the red flags just look like flags."
That's exactly what it's like being in a relationship like this.
Plus people like him don't just lie, they gaslight you for noticing their bs too. (Actual gaslighting where you question your own perceptions and sanity, not the way people use it for any time someone attempts to manipulate them.) He probably had her thinking she was being paranoid and unloving toward him.
That show went deep
Bojack is such a great show
BoJack Horseman really has all the quotes. That show runs real deep
And the whole ride looks like a parade.
When markie says, I’m sure you’ve heard of this.. no my dude, I have not. I don’t have tiktok and don’t want it. You must continue to fill people like me in 😂
I agree 😂
Same 🎉
Seriously, I love getting all the tea summed up for me without needing that app😂
Same. I've never had Tik Tok.
Same.
I just found the drama all recapped in one compilation on YT and it's literally 5 hrs long 😭
Link? 😊
Oh my God!?
HELP WHAT
@@mindybunnyReal Talk with Yanie has uploaded them all on her channel!
Link please ❤
ngl I cried when she described talking to his aunt and discovering he had lied about her miscarriage. That is absolutely disgusting he put her in that position.
This may be a bad time to say it lol,but i *love* your pfp
Of all the lies, that shit was WILD !!!!
That was sad. What made me mad thousands if ppl basically saying their happy glad she had. Miscarriage. Not realizing it was a innocent baby who did nothing wrong.
@@LynnVon3443truthfully I think people said they’re happy with the miscarriage is because a child will tie you to an awful person forever. Wish people said it in a better way
@@ccvv1119 see that's all I'm saying it's still sad cause it's a loss and I always find it sad when a child is lost . But like I tried to tell ppl there's ways around having to deal with him. I met a pathological liar him his family And my own mom lied and hid the fact my ex was married and had kids. I ended up pregnant before I found out and I don't regret my child. She was innocent in the whole thing my ex doesn't have contact with her because he's violent
I think the part that disturbs me the most is, where tf was he during her miscarriage?? He obviously wasn't in some super-important corporate meeting if he was working construction...the poor excuse not to be there dropped to no excuse! Did he seriously not go simply because *he didn't want to*?!
Might've been with one of the prostitutes she found messages from.
My ex was a tiler and he would work in high end million plus houses worked on some projects that were crazy like airports. He left work a couple times because I had asthma attacks and the person I was with at the times called him to tell him and more than once he travelled over and hour to come and sit with me in the hospital. No excuse if she is having a miscarriage, she must have been so scared there alone
I think it was just a another one if his torture techniques. He was getting off on looking self important and making her feel like shit
Someone had mentioned something about him potentially getting caught at the hospital for something so they assumed that’s why he made an excuse but I forgot what. Too many details 😭
She theorized that he probably couldn't get off work.
I’m glad he went public himself cos women need to know who to look out for
Yeah we should expose verified abusers more. I guess it’s a slippery slope of who to dox and at what line but like, she had the receipts. Idk, I feel like if you can prove the thing, post it for the world and let them decide if it’s worth it or not. She might’ve saved another woman from his games
I did a quick search, and I see a number of places interviewed the first wife and his son, and they have confirmed this woman’s story, as well as said he’s lying in his recent video.
Agreed. I was with someone like him and people like that need to be as far away from women as possible.
I believe her because every time she tells her story or answers questions, the answers are consistent and the people who have come forward as knowing him in the past do confirm every personality trait she describes.
It also just doesn’t seem like she’s lying
Also he behaves like a pathological liar. From my experience dealing with ppl like this in the past.
also all his other exs are posting videos now
Also she’s not even being dramatic. She’s just telling the story. For some reason I feel that’s a point towards believability for me
@@Mama_Bear524 exactly, she's not posting 1-minute part tiktoks and spending 30 secs of it recapping the previous part nor is she dressing up the story being like "wait until you hear what he does next...like and follow for the next part!". She's genuinely just telling the entire story straight up.
I'm only at 2:15, but her calling her husband Legion is already telling me the kind of roller-coaster we're going to be on.
😂That is what I thought!
I’ve been wanting to tell the story of my marriage (less messy than this woman’s story, but still lots of lies and gaslighting and abuse of many kinds) and trying to come up with alternate names for everyone is HARD
@@ryanhburnetteInitials or very common/popular names would work.
Just as a general tip, the less specific information you'd share the less like it'd be that someone identifies you or anyone involved. There's always the risk of harm in some way, even when posting anonymously (I'd use a throwaway email account since it's sometimes possible to find out someone's email address with the "forgotten password" option on a login page)...
Exactly
Right!? Gotta be a demon!
At some point she definitely just decided to see this out to see how far hed take it. His biggest mistake was not realizing shes not a fool
I mean she married him so I wouldn't say not a fool at all. She smartened up eventually but she got lucky at the end for the dumb choice she made
@@honestyisadyingvirtue she more gave him the benefit of the doubt but the. Decided not to ignore red flags. The house thing, I think she thought he got himself into trouble trying to impress her and she wanted to give him a way out. It was rather forgiving but she was aware the whole time
@@honestyisadyingvirtue❤❤
She married him. That’s not “just seeing how far he’d take it”.
@@Mama_Bear524 well yeah but no one goes into it thinking someone is a lying sack of sh**
I made it through like the first 30 videos and gave up. It was so heartbreaking. This woman did not deserve it at all. He LIED so hard! It was psychotic! The whole saga is so good because people are falling for scams all the time. It can happen to any of us. We must all be careful!
Wow I didn’t make it passed number one when i was told there was 38 parts I gave up
you have to finish it to get all the ups and down and character development that teesa experiences as well as the final rage she experiences after she decides to finally leave and move on and the way she speaks about her own redemption, shes a great story teller
@@three7142Legit. It was all worth it for the moment that both moms (hers and his) were telling him to GTFO before she killed him 😂
Reesa seems very smart and conscientious. This is proof that anyone can fall for a master manipulator.
Nah, not everyone. This man was so painfully easy to see through but she wanted to be chosen
Absolutely. 💯
@@elodieelvira7913nah, she was asking questions the whole way through and he learned how to manipulate her and ultimately she did figure it out despite the extreme lengths he went through, she did that because she’s smart. Anyone can be manipulated given the right circumstances, it’s ignorant to assume you’re immune to manipulation as well.
@@elodieelvira7913Once again, there was nothing to tell her that he was lying at first. She had her suspicions, but she was looking at houses, deposits, cars with this man IN PERSON. Hindsight is 20/20.
They said anyone can fall for a master manipulator not anyone would fall for THIS manipulator. Their statement is true. There are plenty of stories from intelligent people falling for manipulators to prove as much. @@elodieelvira7913
My friend’s ex boyfriend was a pathological liar. He lied about everything (family, job, education, hobbies, etc.). He tried to isolate her from her friends and also tried to baby trap her by telling her that they didn’t need to use protection because of a medical issue he apparently had that would make it nearly (99%)impossible for her to get pregnant. Of course that was a lie too. Thank god she didn’t get pregnant and also discovered that he lied about everything after about a year of being with him. She broke up with him and then he stalked her for a while until her father called him and threatened him. After that he left her alone. I felt so bad for her.
Oh my gosh. Did your friend date my ex?? That’s exactly what happened to me too.
My ex was IDENTICAL TO THSI
whats the end goal here?
@GalinaEv never trust men for 100%
@@GalinaEv Nothing in particular. Those people are ill and are unfortunately unlikely to get the help they need, they may not even consider the possibility that they're in the wrong. It's just sad, but obviously doesn't excuse the lies and manipulation.
The lengths some people will go to manipulate and deceive is truly terrifying, always trust your gut instincts and never ignore red flags...
I appreciate when you go over the topic despite it being popular. I don’t have TikTok anymore so a small synopsis is great
I haven’t had TikTok in a long while and I am forever grateful whenever Markie fills us in
Same. I've never had tik tok but enjoy a drama recap
Right! I have TikTok, but also, I’m a divorce attorney and I just don’t have it in me to watch all of this after dealing with my own clients during the day.
Got the all episodes up 😩 5hrs check it up
his response made me believe her more. If she's lying, why go to someone's channel to do an interview and not go to a lawyer?
I believe her. Why on earth would someone announce publicly that they continued a relationship with a person who lied like that? I am certain she's telling the truth and he is grasping at straws with his little video. It 100% looked like he picked the name Bradley out of thin air. Hopefully the next woman who crosses paths with this man watches her videos 1st. Could save herself a lot of heartache.
she always says she will tell the whole truth even if it makes her look stupid or bad, and she took accountability for the bad decisions she made. regardless of the red flags she ignored, she didn't deserve any of that. he took advantage of her and all his exes and she's warning people to not do what she did!!
@@naurrr exactly. You're correct.
No one deserves to be so manipulated, blind sided, lied to, emotionally abused like this- I can't imagine how she felt feeling so hesitant towards her own husband, and uncovering all this information, and seeing it get worse and worse. This poor woman..
If someone has never been manipulated or dealt with that kind of abuse, they have no right to call her naive. He sounds like a narcissist, which I have personal experience with. It’s not a behavior that normal people would expect. Plus narcissists tend to lie so much and so easily that they believe the crap they are saying! I’m currently trying to get out of a narcissistically abusive relationship, in which I am financially dependent, and I just had to start a GoFundMe account because he takes away all my money that he knows about. Thank God this poor woman got away from him. I hope she finds peace and happiness while she heals emotionally.
I hope you can leave him!! You don’t deserve to be in that relationship, and I hope you get nothing but the best ❤️❤️
@@uchiki_bunny1248 thank you, I really appreciate it. Believe me, I've been trying. It's just, every time I get any money, or try to save money, he either just takes it, or forces me to spend it so I can't save anything (including the change), if he knows about, or finds out about it. That is the only reason I started the GoFundMe account when I was told that I needed to if I wanted to safely get out, sooner rather than later.
Yep. Lived with my narcissistic ex for a year. He was even saying he didn't say certain things to me and I gaslighted him 🙄
@@sherriv4860 that projection of their behavior onto someone else is probably one of the things I hate the most! Usually me being the victim of the projection too, and I bet it was the same with you. 🤬
@@sherriv4860 My ex (recent breakup) has been telling me I told him soon after we met that I said to him after an argument "I never want to see you again." I never said that. I wouldn't say that to him, he had some of my things FFS (my dead grand father's ring and shirt that was my mother's and a knife that was my dad's). Turns out he was high on meth all the time and I didn't know that. He was so high he heard me say something I never said. And instead of just admitting that, he doubled down. And he really told me I was gaslighting him. Narcissists are horrible and so weird, add meth to that disorder and JFC what a nightmare.
Even the stepson has come forward and said he believes everything she's saying because he behaved the same way while married to his Mom.
Honestly as much as this sucks for reesa this was actually the best outcome. Because people like her husband bury themselves so far in the lies that when someone threatens to expose em they react so violently to keep the truth from coming out.
@@megand12345Exactly.
She needs to get a restraining order asap if she hasn’t gotten one!
I’ve watched her vids and omg 😱 he’s insane! His ex stepkids, his brother confirmed her story as true on TikTok
gosh, I feel so bad for everyone involved, especially Reesa but I also particularly feel for the stepdaughter - how on earth do you react to finding out your former stepfather has fabricated this elaborate lie about you passing away and is using it to trick his wife for whatever messed up reason?? like it's just disturbing to think that someone has pulled you into their sick game and is writing real life fan fiction about you losing your life?! I hope that everyone this guy has hurt can seek help and that he can change, if only so he doesn't mess with more people
I have a sister who is also a pathological liar and they lie about absolutely everything. They will lie about anything to get their way, they will lie about anything in order to get out of certain situation and it is super scary to know that you live with someone as spontaneous and dangerous as that. My life has been completely altered just by a simple lie. People like that are truly terrifying.
My mom told me that “god told her who I was going to marry and I had to marry him”
So I hung out with the guy just to see how it would go and I later found out he lied about absolutely everything. Things there was no reason to lie about, things like his favorite color or if he’d ever eaten certain foods, like literally everything he said was a lie. I genuinely don’t even know why he lied about absolutely everything but clearly it wasn’t meant to be💀
I feel like it's important to point out that this is what a relationship built on gaslighting actually looks like. "Gaslighting" as a term has been so diluted with people using it incorrectly that it can result in people completely missing the warning signs when it's genuinely happening to them. But this right here is what it looks like. I'll get down off my soapbox now...
Also, I know this is very likely a hugely unpopular opinion but I genuinely hope Legion gets some kind of help. It's very clear he's not 100% well mentally and he seems to be heading down a path of complete self-destruction. Most will probably say he deserves it (and they're not necessarily wrong about that if everything in Reesa's account is true) but if he's allowed to just continue acting like this until he does implode, he's going to take plenty of others down along the way. Getting him help will hopefully stop anyone else from being hurt because of him too.
Gaslighting is lying with STYLE. I hate when people call regular old lying gaslighting, a key feature is the liar saying “you misremembered that/you must have made that up/you saw wrong”.
Just plain “no I didn’t!” isn’t good enough, you gotta deny reality or it doesn’t count!
You’re totally right, people like him need therapy. No mentally okay person would treat anyone the way he treated his wife.
@@baydiac Exactly! Honestly, very few things in life annoy me as much as people using terms that actually have a fixed and very specific definition incorrectly, especially when it comes to mental health. It's like people who call anyone they don't like a "narcissist" - like...no. Gaslighting - like narcissism, depression, anxiety, triggers, or any of the myriad other terms people latch onto and insist on misusing until they've lost all meaning - is a very specific thing and people constantly claiming "gaslighting" when they just mean lying ultimately only serves to help people who do engage in actual gaslighting behaviour. Because it means the victim is less likely to realise that that's what's happening to them since they've got a false definition in their heads and, if they do realise it and speak out, very few will actually take them seriously.
As a society we've been through this cycle so many times, you'd have thought we'd learned our lesson by now...
No I agree. People in general need help and it’s not progressive to just deny help to people. Especially since people that continue abusing until they explode will definitely take others down with them.
@@overlydramaticpanda Apparently, he's suffering from HIV now. He's still lying, though, and claiming that SHE gave it to him. I hope she's gotten herself tested.
Something I always have to remind myself of when I listen to these kinds of stories is that so much "daily life" happens between each lie that surrounds and dampens the deception from the victim's perspective. Because when each event is laid out back-to-back like this after the fact and after she's gone through the work of puzzling it out, it's so much easier to see the red flags - I'd call it something like Listener's Privilege.
Not to mention, at the time, she had proof he was telling the truth.
It's only after everything that she finds out it was all falsified.
Great assessment adhering terminology
Exactly. In between, everything is normal so you'd have no reason to believe those events weren't normal, even if sometimes he was having some issues. Because in real life, regular, boring, everyday life, everyone has stuff come up sometimes that annoys us and makes things harder. Especially things like buying homes or cars or whatever- things we may not do every day and may not be familiar with all the tiny ins and outs. When we were buying our house a couple of years ago, it was a nightmare. The market was so tight, a house would get listed and I'd basically have to sit on the computer all day, refreshing all the websites and then call my realtor the second they got listed to go see one. Half the time, they'd be gone before the end of that day. One house we actually were closing on and had to have a second inspection for the VA loan who found that the wood floor underside was completely rotten and it was going to be about 50k to replace. The seller wanted to tack that onto the price but hell no- they were selling it for the original price under the illusion that the floor was totally fine. Not my responsibility to pay to fix the floor so you still get the same profit buddy.
One question I had was if he put the wrong social on their marriage license wouldn't that make the marriage void anyways?
I thought it would be at least grounds for annulment (in addition to at least half the other stuff he did).
@@pleasestopscreaming i watched all 50 parts lol. she addressed this. Apparently it's not grounds in the state of Georgia.
@@tiffany.Elizabeth. oh no 😕
@@tiffany.Elizabeth.yeah I can see why it wouldn’t be, if someone accidentally wrote down the wrong number it wouldn’t be fair for their marriage to be voided because of a little mistake like that. But he’s definitely done enough things to break the marriage contract based on what she’s said. I feel so bad for her though this guy is a psychopath.
He probably used the real one on that
I feel so awful for Reesa and hope she has the space to heal. We can talk about avoiding red flags and walking away all we want, but some dudes are so manipulative and deceptive that their true colors do not come out until they feel their partner is locked in to the relationship via marriage, pregnancy, etc. This was sobering.
Yes it went that viral. Delta posted on her tiktok saying they’ll pay for her flight to London and Paris and offered her a hotel
What like a healing vacation??
@@lunarae2266it’s because he knew it was her dream. So she came home one day to the whole itinerary he created and printed out for their trip that he is gifting her. Of course it never happened. He just wanted to being her up again to watch her be disappointed again. He loved that.
Hell 👏🏻 Yes 👏🏻
She deserves her dream vacation to London and Paris 😭
Delta W. I’m so happy for her I hope it goes well
@@opiumfieldWTF!! Who would do that?! Why?
I get scared for people in these situations because there have been too many cases of people lying to the point they end up murdering someone who tries to or accidentally discovers the truth like Chandler Halderson, Jennifer Pan, Grant Amato and even Casey Anthony had a habit of pathological lying. There are many many more but those are the ones I think of right away.
Exactly. She’s lucky she found out the truth and got rid of him legally… a lot of people will kill to cover up this level of deceit.
The way he just labels everything as a lie instead of going into detail or pointing out the lies, then telling us his version. 😅
If ever you feel that you need to run a background check on your partner, just go. You will never be able to trust them.
Did you watch the video? She did a background check
@@TrashwareArtthat is the point of my comment. If you ever feel the need to, there is no point in taking the next step. Just go. So yes I watched the video in its entirety.
so this is a 30 minute video that was released 1 hour ago and ur comment was made 52 minutes ago. Its not possible for you to have watched the whole video before commenting. Why you lying.
I think this is incredibly naive to take this position. If you don't believe in pre nups or marriage as a legal institution that ties finances together and generally has affects on personal economy, then yeah don't get the background check. But also don't get married. If it's a legal contract find out or pay the consequences. This has nothing to do with lacking in trust and everything to do with understanding what you are getting into. I wouldn't let someone put their name on my house without knowing their financial situation. It's honestly very reckless to not obtain information about someone you are signing a legal contract with.
@@TrashwareArt I think that was the point.
Just the fact that she felt the need to do a background check might be a bad sign for the relationship.
I was so blown away by this. Never seen something so authentic take over the internet like this. Wild. She kept us hooked for 7 hrs on a platform designed for 15 sec content.. Crazy
This story was seriously triggering to me because I dated a guy that did so many of these SAME things. He ended up stealing thousands (almost 20k total) from me and I didn't find out until I was so desperate for him to leave that I just left it all alone and didn't pursue legal actions (bc he had weaseled away all my money on a truck and trying to to get custody of his child)
Wow. His name isn't Brian, is it? I lost almost that exact same amount of money on a Brian about 6 years ago.
@@WookieWoman nope. Colt and he has a twin brother that's just as bad
Literally started crying for this woman. So unlucky for her to have crossed paths with this truly sociopathic liar. I’ve dated someone like that and when the lies all start falling apart it is truly terrifying, so I can only begin to imagine marriage and sharing a life. I am so sorry for her. Hope she can remove him from her life immediately and finally.
Women always looking a reason to cry even when they not the victim
@@Knowledge7D maybe there would be less psychotic men if you cried every now and then 🙃🙃
@iluv2cheer176 Is OPs reaction normal? Im not being rude, I was recently diagnosed with autism, and Ive always found comments like that unbelievable. Like, I feel bad for the woman for sure, but I couldnt imagine getting emotional enough to physically cry.
But now Im like, oh sh*t is it _me?_ Am _I_ the one having the unbelievable reaction? Sorry, this is probably bizarre as hell, but I haven't encountered one of those comments and a replies that agrees.
My father's a pathological liar himself and it has created a rather unstable relationship with my partner's mum and I because he told her a lot of lies about me such as: "being an abuser, a thief, a liar and a drug addict". It took my partner's mum 5-6 years to realize my father lied to her but, sadly, she still doesn't trust me in the slightest. So, instead of being neutral terms with her, it's quite a bit negative. So yeaaah, definitely know how it feels to be lied to constantly and to be framed for shit I didn't do.
Be toxic back. Tell MIL that your father’s been telling you that she’s on crack and robbed a gas station therefore you don’t trust _her_ either. (…this is not good relationship advice but can you imagine 😂)
@@baydiacI find that funny.
She literally got romanced scammed in real life....😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳 Hope she's doing okay now!
Why is that shocking though, romance scams happen all the time
Poor woman. I've encountered somebody just like this before. He lied about his niece getting into a horrific car accident involving an 18 wheeler, and then his OTHER niece ALSO getting into a horrific car accident just a year later, both of who died. He gave a lot of detail. Then my mom met the first niece, who was completely alive, and learned the second niece never even existed. People like this are so full of it that I genuinely think they believe their own lies.
Legion. The demoniac in the bible was called legion- ‘because we are many’. This guy seems to have many too.
She really is a gifted storyteller. Drama like this happens every day but she kept me hooked for hours. She needs to write a book about this.
She said “I wanted it to be my turn” 😭 when she explains why she blindly believed, that’s honestly sad af and such a good warning, DONT MISTAKE SOME TINFOIL FOOL FOR YOUR KNIGHT IN SHININ ARMOR JUST BECAUSE YOUVE ALWAYS DREAMED ABOUT IT 😢
Ain't no way this man told his family the plot of Trapped in the Closet to say she was cheating with a cop that threatened him with his duty weapon
She obviously knows him better so I would take her word on it before mine but regarding his motive for lying. Narcissist don’t typically get off on your disappointment. Rather they get off on your adoration and admiration. When we watch a movie there is a point where we forget the world and feel like we’ve become the characters. This is called suspension of disbelief. Most people like to escape through movies, books, video games etc. Narcissists use people in this way to live an alternative life where they are the hero. They know they can’t actually provide the things they promise but if they can just get those brief moments of suspension of disbelief as you are at the peak of admiration and adoration, they live for that.
I heard rumblings about this through social media but im glad i waited for the markie recap, give me the cliffs notes 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼
THANK YOU FOR THIS BREAKDOWN!!! I was not about to sit and watch 50-11 parts of this on Tiktok lol. Always can count on your channel for the best representation of these stories!!! Thank you Markie! ❤❤❤
Oh it is so worth it, like watching a horror story unfold 😅
@@phiakate 🤣🤣🤣
Not the 50-11 parts 😭😂
@@missyd9864 🤣😂🤣😂
I had a friend lie about having cancer, and I know it’s different but like when someone you love tells you things like that, you don’t doubt it cause why would they lie about something like that 😢
Mom always said be in a relationship for 5 years before you get married... and I later added live with that person at least 2 of those years (trust me)😅
Hope that serves you folks well😅
I've seen abusers mask for longer than that, unfortunately. Most people can only keep it up for 1.5-3 years max, but every once in a while you get a real ice cold bastard who can go upwards of a decade before going full mask off.
I’ve never thought about how long to date before marriage for an abuser but I always think it’s a red flag if you get engaged before 1 year. Like my fiancé and I got engaged at 2 years but we’re not going to get married for another 2. On that note, I feel like it’s also sort of a red flag to be in a big hurry to get married too.
@@ndawn90 some abusers will wait until the marriage to start the abuse no matter how long that will take
@@shannawelch563why is wanting to get married quickly a red flag? Is it a codependent thing?
Not after you have only known them for a week
At time stamp (approx) 17:30 - In the USA, you do not have to pay extra to have your records marked “CONFIDENTIAL.” There is a provision in federal law (FERPA) that requires a college/university to restrict access to your information upon request. This is frequently managed within the Registrar’s Office. Every school that accepts federal financial aid is bound by this law. (Source: I am a Registrar.)
ALSO (edited to add), your SS# is *NEVER* publicized. EVER. It is only used to process financial aid and produce tax documents.
Also the "private citizen" thing isn't...a thing!
Private citizen just means someone who isn't in a military or official political position, that means that most people are private citizens.
It has nothing to do with keeping your enrollment in college a secret!
I genuinely appreciate this summary. I have kids, I can't commit to 50 parts 😂
I heard someon suggest this playlist to netflix with the tag "dirty john: legion of lies" and i fucking love the idea!
The story isnt necessarily dark enough for the true who TF did i marry show on ID but its definitely fit for a tyler perry movie or a netflix special.
I feel so bad for this woman, I have been scammed so similarly :C My liar lied about jobs, family, his history, everything. It's a nightmare to find out you don't actually know the person you are with and that they've gone through so much trouble to manipulate you just to keep their ego up and get what they want.
Also, if he's a grifter like this, he's likely got other women on the side he's doing this to/with, which explains the phone calls. It all makes sense if you think of this as a grift and not just a guy who lies.
Its shit like this that makes me wonder if some people are like.. addicted to lying. Like a genuine addiction like they really cannot stop themselves. Its one thing when someone lies to protect themself or someone else.. but making up lie after lie for no actual reason is just insane to me.
I'm a recovering heroin addict, been clean almost a decade now, but when I was using I had to lie a LOT and it basically gave me constant anxiety trying to remember what lies I told to who and always trying to come up with new lies on the spot of why I have no money or why my pupils are so tiny or why I have new bruises all over my arms when I'm supposed to be "getting clean".. its a lot to keep up with and its not fun. And the guilt is by far the worst part. Guilt will eat you alive.
Well.. guilt will eat normal people alive.
My mother was a narcissist and a pathological liar who would lie about the weirdest things, things that can be fact checked, and I'd bust her out and she'd just keep lying. Strange people.
I'm so glad you're doing this ... I saw 50 and left ...I won't watch a show if I'm more than 7 episodes behind 🤣🤣🤣
About halfway through your video now, and the "how could she believe all of this?" part comes up. I had to pause for a few seconds as I had flashbacks about my own relationship with a manipulative narcissist who's been a pathological liar (and yeah, for the ones who are like "don't throw around buzzwords yada yada... he's been officially diagnosed some time after I ended our relationship).
They are SO GOOD at what they are doing, folks. So. incredibly. good. Always showing or manufacturing enough "proof" for you to feel like a bad person whenever a doubt about them crosses your mind. "How can I think they're lying? I got so much proof of their honesty, they showed me so much of them, told me so much about them, have a valid explanation for everything, they let you look deep into their soul, their "insecurities", they may make themselves look vulnerable, or like THEY have been a victim once... It's such a masterfully orchestrated web of lies and emotional manipulation, if it wasn't so devastatingly awful, it would be considered art.
So whenever someone tries to shame you for falling for someone like this: fuck that person very much.
Lots of estate agents won't even show you a house unless you can prove that you have the funds to afford it, whether that's a mortgage offer or cash. It would be almost impossible to see a house, especially an expensive one, without doing it.
How does anyone have the energy to maintain this intricate framework of lies?
In Alabama it's not the case. I'm not sure about Georgia, but realtors will show a house without anything. You don't need any proof of funds or money until you want to put in an offer, there's also earnest money you have to put down to submit an offer to show that you're serious
She’s didn’t know it, but she’s saved her life.
This is scary. People have done some horrible things to keep their lies from being exposed.
Hi. California State University employee here! .... 17:42 That's not how that works.
I refuse to use tictok so i love that you cover drama lol
Actually love how you talk and I’m from West Yorkshire so I’m not sure why, as its not like you’ve an unusual accent, but I literally feel all warm inside listening to you…you’re my comfort CZcamsr 😂🤷🏼♀️ also 6k views in 20 min gwwwaannn son 👏🏼
Oh, is his a Yorkshire accent? Or is there a big difference between West Yorkshire and "just" Yorkshire?
@@SecretAgentNeinit’s a northern accent, he’s from middlesbrough! plumbella (a sims youtuber) has the same one i love it
When you apply for a loan, just for an FYI, the amount approved for includes the interest tacked on for the term of the loan. my car loan approved for 54K my car was 16K but after 72 months it will be 38K So, the amount of the loan is for 38K. Just for those who don't know. But yeah, I didn't realize it was 7 hours. It's nuts.
What country are you in? In the U.S. they would approve the loan for 16k at whatever percent interest. If you pay a little extra every month, it actually goes toward the principle balance and can lower your payments or pay it off early.
There's a couple people who have compiled the parts together in compilation videos. One YTer did it in 2 videos: Video 1 is parts 1 - 30 at over 4 hours and Video 2 is 31 - 50-something over 2 hours. I'm into just an hour. Thank you for this bc it was a little daunting to know that I have to watch 7 hours of this situation lol. Markie comes through, as usual! ❤
Edit: I will still watch the two compilation videos, plus videos of the Husband snd Step-son responses. It's kinda like a "Limited Series" TV show or something and I'm binge watching the "Episodes" aka Parts. I can't believe Im invested in this like that stupid cruise (also covered with several videos by Markie lol).
WHERE 😭
I only watch Markie’s episodes on the 9-month cruise. It almost feels disloyal now to go elsewhere for my fix. 😂 I too feel guilty that I am so invested
MARKIE MARK, COMING THROUGH! Thank goodness. The other video I've been following is 3 parts and the last one isn't out yet.
lol Of course you would post this after I spent a literal whole day watching every one of those 50 videos.
One piece of good news to come out of it though: I’m pretty sure someone in the teatok community held a live to raise enough money for her to get her trip to London and Paris like she always wanted.
I saw someone say that delta had donated the flights
thank you :) I didn't wanna watch 50 parts or read the declaration of independence
The Declaration of Independence is one page. But if you don’t want to read it, that’s your prerogative.
15:55 He would seem to get off at letting her down and disappointing her. I don't have to explain how disgusting that is...
You have no idea how many men get off on humiliating, degrading and disappointing their partner. Not on the BDSM type of degradation but genuinely destroying their mental state and giving them mental disorders. Like for example lying and calling them fat when they're at a normal healthy BMI weight and then making sure their as skinny as Eugenia Cooney. 2. Calling them ugly for days on end so they get plastic surgery.
Thanks, I tried to watch but she draws the story out so much. Also why do people do videos when driving, that can't be safe.
I do have thoughts on the fake phone calls to the brother, they make perfect sense. This allows him to ignore potential conversations in the morning. Actually quite smart if you are hiding something.
This! I really wish people wouldn't drive while doing story times.
25:50 as fucked up as it is.. I think that is actually true. Idk if it varies from state to state, but I live in Pennsylvania and here you have to give someone a 30-day eviction notice. Years ago my mom was nice enough to let someone flop on her couch for like a week or two, found out they were still getting high (they were supposed to be in recovery) and tried to kick them out. They called the cops and the cops literally told my mom that she cant make them leave. She had to go to the courthouse almost an hour away to file for an eviction notice and was then forced to let a junkie liar stay in her house for weeks.
Needless to say.. I went and stayed there with her and made it as unwelcome and uncomfortable as I possibly fucking could lmao he ended up leaving a week early.
She’s going up def bc her story is crazy but crazily relatable. Digital Derek’s CZcams channel does a great job narrowing things down
50 parts and they're about 10 minutes each...this woman has produced a TV show and this could be split into like two seasons or it could be a very long movie that gets split into two parts. She has told a story about the length of Mockingjay, lol.
She needs to make a deal with Netflix
@@MsNG82 a six part docuseries
It sounds like Anna Delvey "the wire transfers is on the way"
this title scares me
Lmao
It is the craziest story I’ve heard in a while and it was genuinely crazy, not in a physical way but mentally
It should lmao
This guy is beyond stupid, Reesa never came across as “wanting” all these big houses and stuff, she said she’d always wanted a BMW and to visit London and Paris but never said she wanted someone to fund those things. Had he just been honest, got a regular job and not lied his arse off, they probably could have still been happily married. He’s his own worst enemy as well as everyone else’s nightmare
It’s not stupidity, it’s just someone being mentally fucked up and self-sabotaging. This is the kinda guy who needs years of therapy to stop messing up their own life.
Finally a video less than an hr to help summarize this whole sitch 😭🙌
I literally did not watch any other Tik Toks for 24 hours while I consumed all 7~ hours lol
Hey Boo, no lie. I just saw a tiktok referencing this but had no idea what this was about. Clicked on the hashtag and felt like I don't want to do a deep dive now. Thanks for serving me this so well and so immediate 😂❤
I don’t use TikTok BUT this is something I’m actually on top of!
I spent 4.5hrs the other day watching ReesaTeesa on x2 speed lol.
She’s a strong woman and I have so much respect for her. I’m not here to be like “you missed all the red flags” because I also missed them in a previous relationship and *almost* married my walking red flag.
I truly believe her story is going to help other people ❤
ETA: I know it’s super long but I *highly* recommend watching the whole thing. Like it’s 1000% worth it!
I'd love to say this is unbelievable but my bfs aunt has gone thru a much less wild but similar situation. Only after separating with him did all the previous lies come out and the new ones only got worse.
Look at you almost reaching 500k followers! I remember the days you were 'begging' to reach 200k!! Proud of your progress mr Markie! Keep up the good work!
I am so triggered 😂 My ex was a compulsive liar too, and there are so many similarities 💀
4:50 fun fact, that's why my husband got married after 1.5 years. He and I spent an ungodly amount of time together. I was living with my mom, and she didn't think covid was real. I dipped out as soon as I could
I can’t even blame you. Some people’s relationships move faster than other too so I don’t see the issue 😂
She was being naive as hell, but that only shows that she was way too pure at heart and loving towards someone who used her kindness. I feel sorry for her, but I’m glad that she’s out of the relationship now.
I've been off tiktok so I have no idea of current events so here's a big thanks for keeping me up to date
No way i am watching 50 part videos about something that isn't my business lol but speaking from experience of my ''dad'' being a compulsive liar, they will lie and lie and lie until they start to believe it themselves.
just here to contribute to the stats.
thanks for the video mate.
Thank-you so much for enlightening us on this heartbreaking situation. I don't have the patience to watch 50 episodes of a really f'd up relationship.
The way Legion just lied and said she was lying was scary! Any person who wasn’t lying would have been outraged about someone lying on them to this extent.
When I say, this lady had me in a chokehold, wow! I was up past my bedtime, waiting for more parts to be uploaded, I don’t go on TikTok a lot, and usually get my TikTok drama from you and then maybe go check it out on the app, but this one it was wild to watch it unfold in real time. The best part for me about her story was first of off, that it was completely insane, but also it was the way she told it. Saying things like “having someone be responsible for my bills was intoxicating” and “I was pregnant with his child, so I decided I was going to let him lie his way out of this” or just so real and authentic, it really puts you in her headspace better than just saying “looking back that was a red flag“ LOVE ReesaTeesa! Can’t wait to watch her in London and Paris ❤
I don’t have tiktok, I just watch videos like yours to keep up on the drama
same
Realizing you have no idea who you've actually married is terrifying.
I married at 19 and found out two years in that they only married me to hide their gender identity problems.
Their family had made life hell and to make that treatment stop meant marrying a woman.
Enter me, naive, mentally not well and desperately needing to believe someone loved me.
Turned out no one could but for personal reasons someone will pretend to for 4 years
My ex stepfather was a pathological liar like this, no where near as bad but he lied a lot and lead on lies for DECADES
He also cheated on my mom so checks out
Omg this poor woman 😢!! It's great she is sharing this because maybe it can help other women who may be in a similar situation. I wish her all the best!! ❤ I believe her, she seems to be telling the truth. But like you said, who knows.
There’s definitely going to be a Lifetime movie with this plot.
I love how you are doing these new stories that pop up - I don't have tiktok but I love your coverage of the drama on there! My mother went through a similar situation with her long term partner and he lied about everything and then gaslight her so that by the end he could tell her the sky was green and have to apologize for looking out of the window to check!!
I was almost embarrassed that I sat and watched this whole thing!!! I’m 50 years old hooked to a series on tik tok 🤦🏻♀️ it makes me feel so much better knowing im not alone in watching it hahah! I’m so glad you made this video!!!! Great as always!!!
She is holding herself accountable for a lot of stuff, so I believe he’s telling the truth
YES IM SO GLAD YURE COVERING THIS!!! I haven’t the patience to watch the series
As others have said: his response makes me believe her more. He doesn’t seem hurt like someone that had been cheated on (myself included lol) would sound like. Bradley sounds like a fake name. He just sounds angry and bitter for being exposed.
I just got through with the entire playlist. And I just. I don’t like how so many are treating this like entertainment. This is this lady’s life. And my heart is broken for her. When she said over and over “I hoped it was my turn”, I felt that. I **know** that. I’m just so glad she survived this. Thank God.