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  • wait for it...emotional damage 😭 - REACTION
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    In this side-splitting episode, we're gonna take a lighthearted look at those TikToks that make you question if you're laughing or crying. We'll be exploring the wild and wacky realm of emotional damage TikToks that have become the latest craze on the interwebs. Get ready to laugh till your abs hurt!
    I've scoured the depths of TikTok to find the most ridiculously relatable and hilariously heart-wrenching videos out there. From epic fail breakup stories to cringe-worthy confessionals, these emotional damage TikToks will have you rolling on the floor with laughter while simultaneously saying, "Wait, is it okay to laugh at this?"
    But hey, it's not all about the laughs! We'll also be discussing the fascinating psychology behind these videos. Why do we find humor in other people's emotional turmoil? Is it just a coping mechanism or are we all secretly twisted? Let's unpack the mystery together, shall we?
    Throughout the video, I'll be reacting and sharing my gut-busting commentary on these emotional damage TikToks. We'll dissect the absurdity, marvel at the creativity, and question our own moral compass along the way. Remember, folks, laughter is the best medicine, even when it's tinged with a touch of guilt!
    So grab your popcorn, prepare for some serious giggles, and join me on this uproarious adventure into the realm of emotional damage TikToks. You might need a tissue for those tears of laughter, but don't worry, I'll be here to guide you through it all with my signature wit and charm. Get ready to ROFL, my friends!
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  • @CharlotteDobre
    @CharlotteDobre  Před 11 měsíci +2008

    Clarifying here for some men who seem to think women are entitled for wanting men pay for their meals: I make fun of entitled women (and men) who have delusional demands, not girlfriends who think it would be nice if their boyfriend would treat them to a waffle😂.

    • @TheAriesFaery
      @TheAriesFaery Před 11 měsíci +144

      People are soooo funny when they’re delusional 😊

    • @TheAriesFaery
      @TheAriesFaery Před 11 měsíci +90

      Also, I’m a blanket person to answer that question. Still have mine and it’s in strings at this point 😂

    • @hellkittyninja7237
      @hellkittyninja7237 Před 11 měsíci

      People will find a reason to be offended about anything 😂 bunch of miserable asshats lol

    • @LyraPyxisVT
      @LyraPyxisVT Před 11 měsíci +40

      Sounds like a bunch of delusional people who don't watch you and just judging solely off of this one video

    • @nekk-ra7080
      @nekk-ra7080 Před 11 měsíci +36

      If they were dating only, it would be different. Once he becomes a boyfriend, he can spring for her waffles every now and then.

  • @PaperMario64
    @PaperMario64 Před 11 měsíci +2046

    Regarding the first lady, I’m actually glad he exposed himself because dudes that act like him are dangerous. I’m happy he acted like a maniac before she went out with him. That was a save.

    • @carriethompson7919
      @carriethompson7919 Před 11 měsíci +129

      Exactly! Imagine if he actually spent money on her.. he would feel entitled that she owed him

    • @Carpathianpixie
      @Carpathianpixie Před 11 měsíci +81

      Plus now, if something were to happen to her, the police would have his picture.

    • @Baalaaxa
      @Baalaaxa Před 11 měsíci +16

      Yeeaaaah, he was an asshole and behaved badly. But it's still not okay doxxing people and spreading their pictures, names or details online to publicly shame them. You're now offending their privacy. You can also be sued for that in some cases, if they suffer losses because of the negative publicity. If they did something threatening or illegal, you should go directly to the police with your evidence, not TikTok.

    • @Tazerboy_10
      @Tazerboy_10 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Yeah...

    • @priscilalondon
      @priscilalondon Před 11 měsíci +24

      Right? He couldn’t even pretend to be normal for at least a couple of dates?

  • @boogs799
    @boogs799 Před 11 měsíci +1315

    When my toddler lost one of his favorite stuffed animals, I ordered another one and told him his buddy went on vacation to visit his sick aunt. I tracked the package and gave him updates, then threw a welcome home party when the stuffie arrived 😂

    • @disneydork100
      @disneydork100 Před 11 měsíci +105

      That’s adorable!!

    • @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes
      @Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes Před 11 měsíci +99

      Parenting Pro! 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @hotshot104
      @hotshot104 Před 11 měsíci +70

      That’s smooth man. A+ parenting

    • @caw7007
      @caw7007 Před 11 měsíci +35

      Best Mom ever!! Bravo!! 💖⭐️💐

    • @AliceNsWonderland
      @AliceNsWonderland Před 11 měsíci +34

      I hope you got a few of them & swapped them out daily stop they'd all age the same, then if he lost one, no biggie, just 1 less in the rotation!

  • @bigfockenrat9469
    @bigfockenrat9469 Před 10 měsíci +84

    The guy who spoke Chinese actually studies many different languages! He’s really fun to watch!

  • @marigonatoffolo7801
    @marigonatoffolo7801 Před 10 měsíci +441

    The guy who lifts weights was so sweet and funny. Somehow you like him even more afterwards. No toxic masculinity, just good self esteem, self worth and a great sense of humor ❤

    • @ednavigil31
      @ednavigil31 Před 9 měsíci +13

      I want to follow him!

    • @tabaxikhajit4541
      @tabaxikhajit4541 Před 9 měsíci +20

      He is KING!!! Such self acceptance! He is the guy I would want to date! I mean, he didn't mean to let it loose. Humility.

    • @k.a.4522
      @k.a.4522 Před 2 měsíci +1

      TOTES!!!!

    • @sjefsviking
      @sjefsviking Před měsícem

      💯

  • @cherylhuot4436
    @cherylhuot4436 Před 11 měsíci +789

    That Toot guy handled that very gracefully. He didn’t make excuses, blame someone else, or lie. He laughed at himself. That’s the best way to handle those situations.
    Both of my kids chose a blanket that was hand made by a Great Grandma. No way to replace them. Both of them lost their blanket when they were between 6 and 7. Oceans of tears.

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 11 měsíci +38

      Toot guy is darling, and if I was younger he'd be my type! That's husband material, right there. A guy who can face absolute embarrassing humiliation and laugh about it!

    • @mamabajahanna9260
      @mamabajahanna9260 Před 11 měsíci +8

      haha i workout and i always toot, especially when i do for abs 😔😂

    • @Chick4choice
      @Chick4choice Před 11 měsíci +3

      At least he didn’t shart himself.

    • @0Onyx13
      @0Onyx13 Před 11 měsíci +6

      Also it's very common to fart while exercising, because of the pushing motion, same reason why it's often for women to poo while giving birth, so I'm pretty sure a lot of people have tooted while exercising, it's only human, nothing to be ashamed about. I don't go to the gym for general social anxiety, but when I exercise at home I for sure toot a lot, and so does my husband. If you toot at the gym and someone makes fun of you, look at them weird like they're stupid, cause they've probably done it too in the past. No worries people, toot freely! (also when he said it got worse I was 100% sure he was gonna say that later he went home and found out he hadn't just tooted, but straight up sharted, and for sure everyone in the locker room had seen it when he changed his pants cause he was in white boxers or something lmao)

    • @valiantsfelinesmccarty6678
      @valiantsfelinesmccarty6678 Před měsícem

      When I was adopted I came with one toy a gray elephant with a rubber band tail. My parents tried to save it for me but unfortunately they were devastated it got chewed up when some mice got into the box it was in. When I turned of all things 21 they got me handmade a beautiful gray elephant with a red curly tail just The same size which surprised me it had been a big thing no wonder why my mama tried to save it because back then stuffed animals were small and this was a big elephant It must have been as big as I was I guess it had been the only thing the police had been able to save. My favorite toy and I still have it is a very old very old sambo's the restaurant tiger that I played with until it's practically hairless from Gund toys with green eyes and my dad called me tiger I think that was my first toy from them and I still have that to this day

  • @CooperGal24
    @CooperGal24 Před 11 měsíci +547

    First guy isn't just a creep, he's also a stalker.
    SO he thought that he can try and "Hook up" with a random woman, try and bribe her with empty promises of "Financial support" and THEN basically find a way to call her again by somehow STALKING her on her pages or something, then verbally assault her when she rejects her?
    Lady, I HOPE you tipped the cops off about "Julius" and his actions after that! He just sounds like a toxic "Nice Guy"!

    • @Reesispiecis
      @Reesispiecis Před 11 měsíci +17

      Also, thinking that “I’m not single” is a flex?!? 😂🙄🤔too bad he WAS cute before all that sh-t

    • @lilg8725
      @lilg8725 Před 11 měsíci +11

      Bro, this is why I just avoid people all the time and just don't interact with anyone. #social introvert for life.

    • @yasminxx9329
      @yasminxx9329 Před 11 měsíci +12

      ​@@Reesispiecisbroooo fr the way he tried to use that she was single as an insult against her is so embarrassing 😂

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal Před 11 měsíci +11

      Women and quite a few Men on every social media platforms have hunting for this guy....
      Actually a few people found him and put his information out there. He threatened assault and that can't be taken lightly!

    • @lilg8725
      @lilg8725 Před 11 měsíci +7

      @yasminxx9329 deadass being single has been used as a bad thing. She can single whenever she wants to be

  • @joycampi7233
    @joycampi7233 Před 7 měsíci +80

    My sister was an incubator baby. She still has the stuffed animal (it was a bunny rabbit) that was given to her when she was in the hospital. That was 62 years ago and you can tell by looking at it now, it has seen better days! Kind of like the one the girl is holding in the 2nd picture!

    • @katanyajason3316
      @katanyajason3316 Před 6 měsíci +5

      Now it's the bunny that needs to be incubated 😄

  • @Queenfloofles
    @Queenfloofles Před 10 měsíci +36

    I felt so sorry for the guy speaking to the Chinese girl. He was even speaking her language, Id be so impressed if I was her.

  • @zorrothebug
    @zorrothebug Před 11 měsíci +1037

    Pro tip for parents: When your child has chosen it's preferred stuffed animal, go get at least 3 to 5 other ones from the exact same brand and model. So over the years you can replace it and say you washed it, or maybe even got it to the puppet doctor/stuffed animal doctor and have it healed again.
    When you do not use all of them, still keep at least one for when your child is an adult and will appreciate and be thankful you still have THAT stuffed animal for him/her.

    • @ItsKaileyBitch
      @ItsKaileyBitch Před 11 měsíci +7

      To add on to this, also make sure you NEVER tell them you replaced the stuffy even if they are an adult lol, it’ll hurt their heart. And if you never mention replacing them they probably won’t ever realize🫶🏻

    • @randomgeneration7781
      @randomgeneration7781 Před 11 měsíci +93

      mine didn't do that. Money was tighter for my family when I was a kid due to my mom leaving her teaching job to be home with the kids full-time, so instead we were taught to understand that the things we have don't last forever and to treasure and protect what we have in the time we have it. Mom taught us all how to patch holes in our stuffed animals, how to wash our toys first by hand then by washing machine, and how to properly block would-be thieves from taking our toys without our permission. It was a good life lesson to teach us while we were young, but I will admit it did make us more "selfish", "territorial" and "rude" in public eyes because we were unwilling to let the other kids in kindergarten take whatever they wanted away from us before we were done with them. Luckily we weren't really bullied for that, because while Mom was teaching us how to protect and care for our toys, Dad was teaching us how and where to throw a punch.

    • @strangelove0108
      @strangelove0108 Před 11 měsíci +17

      I have the same Woofie for 35 years. He went thru heck and back with me. My youngest started wanting his own woofie, so I gave him a similar one (stuffed german shepherd dog)

    • @judywright4241
      @judywright4241 Před 11 měsíci +11

      Such great advice because ‘Mister Fister’ got diarrhea all over his little Jean suit and there was no cleaning him and he was discontinued😢

    • @gw1627
      @gw1627 Před 11 měsíci +10

      I have almost all my childhood stuffed animals. Just took care of them. None “died” except one I set on top of a lamp which accidentally caught it on fire.

  • @aestrology_
    @aestrology_ Před 11 měsíci +775

    “Are you ready to get your emotions damaged” They already are so it can’t get any worse 💜

  • @StuckinNormal
    @StuckinNormal Před 8 měsíci +74

    I love the self deprecating humor of the gym guy. I love that he is so open about it and that he can handle that and be okay! I am super grateful because I have gym-intimidation, and now I can go to the gym and if I can get through a workout without farting like a horse I’m gonna feel OK about myself. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @awg7068
    @awg7068 Před 10 měsíci +50

    I LOVE him for using his toot episode to make others feel less awkward at the gym. Bless him!

  • @mariyamarkova5672
    @mariyamarkova5672 Před 11 měsíci +113

    The Chinese speaking guy was absolutely adorable.

    • @moonhunter9993
      @moonhunter9993 Před 11 měsíci +12

      yeah, he was nice, understanding and cute. Maybe he wasn't a "hunk" but he seemed decent.

    • @rheahorvath9274
      @rheahorvath9274 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Scank wasn't worthy of him!!!!!!!!!!

    • @carriethompson7919
      @carriethompson7919 Před 11 měsíci +6

      I thought he was super cute and he spoke her language. I’ve been in his situation plenty of times where my male friends didn’t find me attractive because I was to nice lol🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

    • @deepakmenon6720
      @deepakmenon6720 Před 11 měsíci +16

      ​@rheahorvath9274 are ypu demented? Not everyone finds every guy cute. People gave preferences and you call her a skank for that? You sound like a nice guy.

    • @GodismyFortressandmyDeliverer
      @GodismyFortressandmyDeliverer Před 11 měsíci +1

      Agree

  • @haleytruslow7200
    @haleytruslow7200 Před 11 měsíci +238

    Can confirm that the meanest people go out of their way to appear “nice.”
    My mom is a malignant narcissist and she ends every interaction/email/voicemail with “Love and Light ✨”

    • @Kronx1970
      @Kronx1970 Před 11 měsíci +20

      My mother was similar and the tough part was if I tried telling anyone the mean stuff she did to me, no one believed it.

    • @Just1Nora
      @Just1Nora Před 11 měsíci +15

      ​@@Kronx1970Unfortunately narcissists are so good at their web of lies that they can appear the most caring victims imaginable to everyone beyond their victims. Hugs. I hope both of you make peace with the damage they have done and no longer have them in your lives. ❤

    • @juliemcleod1119
      @juliemcleod1119 Před 11 měsíci +18

      To everyone she is a wonderful, kind, thoughtful person, to me her daughter, she is a she devil. She is a "2 week wonder" after 2 weeks, she is bored of you. Only way i can breath now is by moving out of the county and blocking her phone. Hard but worth it...

    • @christamillion9073
      @christamillion9073 Před 11 měsíci +9

      My stepfather was always nice to people - until they realized he was an alcoholic, narcissist. He’s been gone 20 years. My mom and I are a lot better.

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal Před 11 měsíci +2

      Damn. I just said the same exact thing on a totally different CZcams channel!
      Spooky!!!😂❤😂

  • @beckettasticm9456
    @beckettasticm9456 Před 10 měsíci +38

    My childhood stuffed animal is a handmade bunny from my Gram who had a dress (and even bloomers!). My mom had learned to sew too so she could make repairs when she could, and if she couldn't, there was Gram. (The clothes really helped keep Bun safe from general wear and tear, too.) Eventually, I got old enough to learn that if I wanted to keep this special friend safe, I had to be careful to keep him clean and intact.
    Bun sits on my nightstand and is there for hugs when times are hard. He was at my wedding, too!

  • @TheMindyAllen
    @TheMindyAllen Před 10 měsíci +10

    The last one is SUPER TRUE!!
    I live in a beach city in Cali, and went to an event in West Hollywood PRIDE2023. I met a famous lesbian who promotes positivity + awareness X 1000. She makes it seem as though she is approachable and overall open. I saw not 1, but 5 "regular" people approach her throughout the night and she was RUDE. No smiles, no positive reaction. Very much "Eww Face".
    A "somebody" she DIDN'T know (they said "nice to meet you") walked up to her and she had the biggest fakes smile. All laughs and shit. Needless to say...I never went to say hi and THANK HER for her "positive videos that helped me in bad time". NEVER MEET YOUR EVERYDAY HERO'S. No matter how small.
    Still sad about it

  • @KatieKitty2003
    @KatieKitty2003 Před 11 měsíci +262

    Laughing at toxic men really is the best thing for them, at least from a distance . Stay safe, y'all

    • @Chelaxim
      @Chelaxim Před 11 měsíci +10

      Carry mace on you and In case if mace doesn't work on some people, (which it doesn't)always carry a backup of bear spray.

    • @Katieopolis
      @Katieopolis Před 11 měsíci +12

      They make real cute tasers these days 😉

    • @KatieKitty2003
      @KatieKitty2003 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@Chelaxim I like it!

    • @KatieKitty2003
      @KatieKitty2003 Před 11 měsíci +5

      @@Katieopolis they're not legal in my state 😤

    • @tonyhaynes9080
      @tonyhaynes9080 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Especially when they are in your face and screaming at you.

  • @zivagoldman2001
    @zivagoldman2001 Před 11 měsíci +232

    For the guy lifting weights... Dude, when you laugh, everyone laughs with you. You made a lot of people laugh today!!! Thank you for that!

    • @andreabradley5837
      @andreabradley5837 Před 11 měsíci +5

      I laughed so hard my ass laughed too!

    • @lexwithbub
      @lexwithbub Před 11 měsíci +7

      Plus he gets extra points for the lift, cause we know he's really pushing!

    • @gr33ngirlsea
      @gr33ngirlsea Před 11 měsíci +6

      Right? He's cute tho and is laughing about himself afterwards.

    • @UsandEveryoneWeKnow
      @UsandEveryoneWeKnow Před 11 měsíci +5

      That was the best, I'd have nothing but respect if someone posted it.

  • @allistrata
    @allistrata Před měsícem +3

    My childhood stuffed animal was a Teddy Ruxpin. Our new house burned down the day after we moved in. I found Teddy on the lawn burnt, soaked and missing an eye and his bottom jaw. TRAUMATIZED! I'm 45 years old and I still want a new Teddy. 🥺

  • @knutelindstrom3716
    @knutelindstrom3716 Před měsícem +2

    When I was a child I always had knives ever since I could first remember! I liked having lots of pockets too, so I could carry survival stuff just in case I’m stuck in the woods, but at the time we lived in a city! LOL
    Yeah, I was a weird kid…. I guess I still am. At least I learned about fighting off bullies at a young age!

  • @katherinemcintosh7247
    @katherinemcintosh7247 Před 11 měsíci +603

    I think the big problem, the only problem, with the Waffle House scenario is that the boyfriend became angry with his girlfriend over something of which she had ABSOLUTELY NO CONTROL. This is a red flag. A big red flag. One can only control their own actions. One cannot control the actions of a stranger. Ever. There is no telling what may happen in any given situation. She was fine with paying for her food. Someone else decided she wasn’t going to. That’s it…and, at Waffle House. That’s not exactly an Indecent Proposal kind of venue. Honestly.

    • @SoManyRandomRamblings
      @SoManyRandomRamblings Před 11 měsíci +19

      Exactly.

    • @seanryan3020
      @seanryan3020 Před 11 měsíci +35

      "Indecent Proposal" at a Waffle House! 🧇 😂

    • @sewdramatic5587
      @sewdramatic5587 Před 11 měsíci +14

      yeah. It's an red flag factory

    • @noxteryn
      @noxteryn Před 11 měsíci +22

      Also, what a stupidly inconsequential thing to be mad about. Literally who cares?

    • @Icetuga1
      @Icetuga1 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Of course she has control over it she can decline and inform that she won´t accept any payment of her food from strangers. How would she feel if she goes to eat with her boyfriend and see some strange girl giving him attention and paying his bill over and over?
      I mean girl can do whatever she want and accept anything coming her way, but to not understand why the boyfriend was mad at that scenario? Really?
      Maybe he was struggling with money at the time and was also out of control in the situation and then he has to watch his girlfriend put him on the side line as soon as some other dude came in flying for her attention.
      Again girl has every right to make her decisions and choose to let other man paying her bills in front of her "boyfriend", but that she don´t understand why that scenario make her "boyfriend" mad is bananas!
      For me that would be a red flag on her because from that moment i know instantly that if i struggle in life she will just jump ship at the first oportunity and leave me stranded!

  • @maryjanedoe
    @maryjanedoe Před 11 měsíci +163

    i think the interaction at 11:55 was actually really sweet. She was happy he spoke her language, he understood that she wasn't interested & was still trying to be polite and not push it.
    also im definitely a blanket kid! actually kinda have one now 😅

    • @FlissFloss2906
      @FlissFloss2906 Před 11 měsíci +10

      Yes, he was so lovely. When she kept saying no handsome men you could see his disappointment even though he was trying to hide it. Poor guy. Life is hard and finding a partner even harder. Xx

    • @ChrisPotato1822
      @ChrisPotato1822 Před 11 měsíci +7

      I don't think she meant it hurtfully and just didn't realize how it came across.

    • @HuskyMama1009
      @HuskyMama1009 Před 11 měsíci +3

      I thought he was attractive too! Very sweet and kind

    • @cindylewwho
      @cindylewwho Před 11 měsíci +2

      Any girl would be lucky to get a sweet guy like him 🥰. He handled it so well, and that made me feel even worse for him. Young man, if you’re looking at this, you are a catch. Any girl would be lucky to be with you! Really! I wish you met my youngest daughter 😊.

    • @startownsend7517
      @startownsend7517 Před 11 měsíci +2

      He does a lot of these kinds of videos speaking different languages with strangers, he's really wholesome

  • @pia-olefa
    @pia-olefa Před 7 měsíci +5

    When i was a kid i had a limited edition Fievel Mouskewitz stuffie from when An American Tail came out in 1986. I loved that thing, i even named my cat Fievel! A family member sent it to me from either America or Canada, i cant remember (im in UK). I had that thing until i was an about 25 and then it got lost in a house move. I was devastated. My husband managed to track one down online from America a few years ago, which was no small feat and bloody expensive too since it was in basically new condition, and surprised me with it on Christmas day. Absolutely magical! I cried so much lol. Now my cat Fievel and my stuffie Fievel both sleep with me every night ❤

  • @TheOneSoulMate_
    @TheOneSoulMate_ Před 10 měsíci +31

    This woman has the best sense of humor. Those reactions with the look. Hilarious. Great content. Editing is always good as well. Making the funny even more epic.

  • @anonymousbosch9265
    @anonymousbosch9265 Před 11 měsíci +257

    I’m a 43 year old man and people perceive me as a stereotypical union utility lineman and I very much remember loving Judy my sock monkey and not being allowed to take her to the hospital at 10 ish to get stitches because “I was too old for a stuffed animal” and I still think of that as a parenting mistake by my father and raised my kids better

    • @thetardyowlvg9155
      @thetardyowlvg9155 Před 11 měsíci +24

      My mom's opinion on my stuffed animal was "When she doesn't need it anymore, she'll put it away herself."
      ETA: Both of my parents probably would have fought anyone who tried to take my stuffed animal from me lol

    • @transsnack
      @transsnack Před 11 měsíci +23

      Yeah, my step-dad did the same to me. I slipped and busted my chin open when I was little, probably about 8, and I just wanted to bring my floppy little giraffe with me because I was scared of the ER. I can't remember why he took it away, but I just remember being really upset about not having it with me in the waiting room. I think the only reason I remember this, beyond the scar, is because of how much worse he made the situation. It went from scary but manageable, to actually traumatic. I'm 23, and I still have issues with that night.
      I'm glad you're doing better than your folks on that. Kids are never really too old for comfort items, especially if they're hurt.

    • @Just1Nora
      @Just1Nora Před 11 měsíci +11

      ​@@thetardyowlvg9155My parents took the same approach. In high school I had my first serious relationship, lasted over five years, and after the first year or two I no longer needed my blanket. I still like to have satin blanket binding to rub between my fingers when I'm stressed though.

    • @meumnomen
      @meumnomen Před 11 měsíci +14

      I was in a horrible car accident at 12 and my parents arrived at the hospital with a stuffed bunny and I will never forget holding onto that stuffie for dear life.

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 11 měsíci +19

      Oh darling, I'm an old lady who makes sock monkeys, and I would have been delighted to be Judy's plastic surgeon if I'd known you!
      I made a few special monkeys back when I was really into it. One of my favorites was for a little boy whose mother contacted me through eBay where I sold mine. Her sweet little boy had Down's and he only liked wearing striped t-shirts. She sent me a pic, and I found fabric exactly like his favorite shirt. He was also wearing a ball cap, so I made that too. I didn't usually make custom monkeys, but made an exception for that little guy. She emailed me a pic of him holding that monkey and looking so happy, and that made ME happy.
      I made a special one for my older brother who (thankfully) has a good sense of humor. His monkey had "Billy Bob" teeth, oversized ears, and a goofy expression. When my brother was a kid, he had very crooked bucked teeth and huge ears. Braces fixed his teeth, and he grew into the ears (and grew his hair longer) and became a handsome man. His monkey had a t-shirt too, on which I painted a white Flying V Gibson guitar (like the one my brother played in his rock band in his 20s).
      That monkey was his Xmas gift from me, and I was 1500 miles away when he opened it. I wish they had taken video. My SIL tried to describe their reaction, but she couldn't stop laughing.
      I made my 82 year-old aunt a "pretty" monkey with a frilly dress, red lips, and long eyelashes. She loved it, and when her Alzheimer's took over, she treated it like it was her baby.🥲
      There's no such thing as being too old for a sock monkey, IMO!

  • @maggiemae3825
    @maggiemae3825 Před 11 měsíci +125

    I wasn’t a stuffed animal or blanket person. I was the dog’s favorite kid. She followed me everywhere. She was a terrible dog, flunked out of obedience school and everything. It’s the funniest thing to me thinking back: the only person who could control this absolute menace of a dog was a little girl. You don’t need a stuffy when you got a fluffy.

    • @Ciborium
      @Ciborium Před 9 měsíci +10

      Doggo knew who the REAL pack leader was. 😉

  • @SavvySchmidt
    @SavvySchmidt Před 10 měsíci +5

    8:24 Mom be rocking the bucket hat tho'... I wanna get one now. Lol

  • @tiffanysanta
    @tiffanysanta Před 10 měsíci +11

    Toot toot guy I just spend a half hour searching through my Charlotte Dobre binge sesh last night to find this and send it to a friend. I just watched it 3 more times. The way he tells the story and laughs and the “toot toot”. So funny. I applaud this man. He undid some of my emotional damage thru laughter 😂

    • @tiffanysanta
      @tiffanysanta Před 10 měsíci

      I thought of sending the tik tok vid but with Charlottes laughing and the edits. Gold

  • @fatgirlfreestyle
    @fatgirlfreestyle Před 11 měsíci +96

    Be careful when blocking or trying to escape weirdos like the one in the first story. Especially when you threaten to expose them publicly. They can become completely unhinged and very dangerous. I hope she carries protection.

    • @Sarah-oj7bh
      @Sarah-oj7bh Před 9 měsíci

      What will condoms do to help her in that case?
      -Oh, you're American, I guess. Strange euphemism for a murder machine.

  • @katrobins
    @katrobins Před 11 měsíci +420

    I couldn't stop admiring how awesome the goth looked as she told her story. Good on her for defending herself.
    And that one guy who knew Chinese? He was so cool....and I daresay handsome in a humble way. He even stayed nice even as the conversation turned awkward. I'd be friends with that guy.

    • @phatanus7313
      @phatanus7313 Před 10 měsíci +22

      The goth girl actually has her own youtube channel! I believe its drama kween

    • @HelloXrancidkitteh
      @HelloXrancidkitteh Před 10 měsíci +10

      @@phatanus7313 yes! I watch her too. she's awesome.

    • @lyssgoddess
      @lyssgoddess Před 9 měsíci +1

      She has an amazing channel ❤❤❤❤ 😂 love her so much!!

    • @lyssgoddess
      @lyssgoddess Před 9 měsíci

      @@phatanus7313yes it is! ❤

    • @AlissaSss23
      @AlissaSss23 Před 9 měsíci +4

      The guy speaking Chinese looked decent, I would have dated him. Also, the girl didn't look like a supermodel. they were both about average/ normal looking in my opinion. I could picture them together 😊

  • @cheyennes7681
    @cheyennes7681 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Back when I used to be pretty Goth and got told I must be a devil worshiper. I loved pulling out that Gothic originally meant godly love or the love of God. It's extra funny since I'm Christian. I just love when people Assume things!

  • @DFullerLisa
    @DFullerLisa Před 8 měsíci +2

    I love how chill the gym fart dude was lmfao!

  • @amunhotep69
    @amunhotep69 Před 11 měsíci +324

    For the first five years of my life, I was raised by my grandparents. My mother (who held me a grudge) was physically and mentally sick. My Grandfather bought me a black and white teddy bear with a yellow bow on my third birthday. I loved that bear. After my mom recovered my parents decided to move to a different state and took me and my brother with them. My so-called father thought a five year old boy was too old to have a teddy bear. As we were driving he took him out of my arms and tossed him out the window on I-70. Even after half a century I could not forgive them.

    • @Kikikrakatoa
      @Kikikrakatoa Před 11 měsíci +58

      Shame on them, that’s heartbreaking

    • @MsKaz1000
      @MsKaz1000 Před 11 měsíci +41

      so sorry that was mean I still have them and I'm in my 50's my sister just got my niece who always used to love going to build a bear when she was little and she had someone make a special bear for her 21st birthday using one of her late father's shirt and pants to make a bear it even has a tie made from the shirt so why don't you get a bear your never to old and it might make you feel a little better

    • @xoxablade8345
      @xoxablade8345 Před 10 měsíci +8

      @@MsKaz1000 Ohhh that's such a sweet idea!!!

    • @cosmicrae
      @cosmicrae Před 10 měsíci +8

      Vile!!!

    • @breesgacha8294
      @breesgacha8294 Před 10 měsíci +11

      I'm so sorry! I have a purple bear who was with me from 1 year old. I still have her decades later. She is very special to me and I couldn't imagine the pain of having your special bear thrown out the window like nothing.

  • @cindylewwho
    @cindylewwho Před 11 měsíci +510

    Oh, the guy who spoke Chinese? So, so adorable and special. Young ladies out there, don’t overlook this CUTE, FINE young man. He’s absolutely kind, understanding, and CUTE, gosh darn it. He deserves everything that he is, kind, sweet, and absolutely adorable!! Young man, you did your momma proud 😊!!

    • @meganelizabeth8776
      @meganelizabeth8776 Před 11 měsíci +22

      AMEN!!!

    • @Kimmyluvsbooks
      @Kimmyluvsbooks Před 11 měsíci +59

      And he was so sweet to the girl he was talking to, even though she basically said he wasn't handsome. ❤

    • @judywright4241
      @judywright4241 Před 11 měsíci +35

      I thought he was so cute too! She was kinda dense, so move on sweet face!

    • @TopHatNat
      @TopHatNat Před 11 měsíci +37

      The Chinese girl just didn't get it. She needs to stop looking for the "handsome guys" and go for a great guy that she can talk, laugh and connect with. Like the awesome guy who can speak Chinese! Plus, I think he was handsome and definitely cute !

    • @bridgetcooney5085
      @bridgetcooney5085 Před 11 měsíci +61

      ​@@TopHatNatNot even sure she meant it as a dig towards him, or even that she didn't recognize that he's pretty cute. She lit up so much when he could talk to to her. I legit think iTs possible that she was so happy to be able to speak genuinely with someone, that she explained her overall experience, and it didn't necessarily have anything to do with the guy she was talking to

  • @yourewearingthat3193
    @yourewearingthat3193 Před 10 měsíci +10

    I came here because I am feeling my depression and I thought hey maybe a damaged emotion would be better than this. And it was! Thank you so much!

  • @genojester
    @genojester Před 8 měsíci +1

    "what kinda person were you?" Was a menace 😂😂😂 taking care of me went pretty eventful each encounter 😂😂😂

  • @rowdybliss
    @rowdybliss Před 11 měsíci +65

    Just this week at my gym, there was a guy doing crunches and stuff on the floor and he baked up a MASSIVE air biscuit that I swear the whole gym heard… but everyone was so cool and polite and pretended like they didn’t hear. A man’s dignity was spared that day.

    • @Meaglovesyou18
      @Meaglovesyou18 Před 11 měsíci +9

      "Air biscuit" 😂

    • @ramsfan515
      @ramsfan515 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Farting is a natural side effect of working out. Everybody who works out regularly has done it and has been around when it happens to other people. You just accept it and move along.

    • @neliaferreira9983
      @neliaferreira9983 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Women can also fart from the vagina, extra to the regular farts... 🥴

  • @SheWolfMoon
    @SheWolfMoon Před 11 měsíci +125

    What a psycho. The first story I cannot believe the audacity!
    Bro was really trying to lose his shit on her just for not answering
    him right away. This is why we hesitate to give out our numbers. Because
    of men like this.

    • @cristela4034
      @cristela4034 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Maybe don't give your number to rando men in the first place, that way they won't think you're easy and treat that way.

    • @CooperGal24
      @CooperGal24 Před 11 měsíci

      THIS....This is a perfect example of a "Nice Guy": Goes from being "Polite and innocent" to being a toxic, insecure and entitled stalking creep who just thinks with his penis instead of his brain!

    • @pogpogpurinn
      @pogpogpurinn Před 11 měsíci +30

      @cristela4034 how tf is giving someone their number meaning they're EASY!? that is a bizzare mindset. They're the ones going up to sometimes multiple women asking for their number, how hypocritical would it be to delude yourself into thinking the women *you* asked into talking with you, is easy?? Wouldnt that make him more desperate than anything else if you use that same mindset even if he was not a creepy guy?
      Plus, some people give their number out because they feel forced to.
      Strange that you would blame the lady in this situation who clearly didnt give him the time of day when it was the guy making all those weird advances and not stopping even when she blocked him. Thats creepy stalker esque behaviour from that guy, not a woman being easy.

    • @TracyDi
      @TracyDi Před 11 měsíci +21

      ​​​@@cristela4034Have you seen what happens when we say no? I've been called a "Stuck up, b**ch," followed by a car full of men through a parking lot, followed to my car and harassed...all for saying, "No, thank you."

    • @dabonthatnae
      @dabonthatnae Před 11 měsíci +17

      @@cristela4034 yikes, giving a phone number doesn't make you easy. you need to go outside and touch some grass. just because a woman talks to you doesn't mean she wants to be with you that way.

  • @jydakota95
    @jydakota95 Před dnem

    I was a baby doll kid, I had tons of stuffed animals but the doll I was really attached to was the baby doll I got for my first Christmas. he still looks pretty good honestly. My mom used to go over to my grandpas to help clean when I was little and I’d tag along and use this tub of pink cleaner on all his plastic pieces which is probably why he looks ok now. He’s also supposed to look like a sleeping baby so he didn’t have plastics eyes that could break or pop out like I’ve seen on other old baby dolls.

  • @ElectricRose9001
    @ElectricRose9001 Před 8 měsíci +2

    It works the other way too. People who are trying to be super giving are usually assholes, and the people who say "Dont be like me, I'm an asshole." have hearts of gold. 😆

  • @anahi_naya_ledesma
    @anahi_naya_ledesma Před 11 měsíci +102

    9:11 Vanesa just created her own "emotional damage" video, by making a compilation of "emotional damage" videos.
    That's what I call commitment. Tha's next level.

  • @Momcat_maggiefelinefan
    @Momcat_maggiefelinefan Před 11 měsíci +106

    My Dad bought me a little brown stuffed dog for my first Christmas. I was 8 months old. Never named beyond “my dog” it went everywhere I did until I was a tween. My dog is in great condition except for a hole in one floppy ear where a bell used to live. My dog rests on my pillow ‘til this very day. I’m 70! 🇨🇦🖖🏻🇨🇦

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 11 měsíci +15

      I'm 62, and I still have the bunny I got for Easter 60 years ago. Better yet, I have the color Polaroid pic of my toddler self holding her when she was brand new when she was shiny and yellow and we were about the same size. I named her "Yellow Bunny", not very original but I was not quite 2 years old when I got her.
      My mom tried to throw her away several times when I was older, but I had some kind of psychic connection to this thing and dug her out of the trash every time. Mom finally gave up. Especially when she saw how angry I was at her for disrespecting my bunny! Mom decided that wasn't the hill she was willing to die on.
      Now her fur is rubbed off, she's mostly grey, her once pink ears that stood straight up hang limply in tatters, and her eyeballs fall out if I'm not careful.
      The older we get, the more we look alike!
      She lives on my headboard and when I'm feeling particularly despondent, I hug her and cry.
      I know it's ridiculous, but if my house was burning, she's one of the first things I'd stuff in my bug-out bag. I think it's because I've lost so much, and so many loved ones in my life and she's the only constant who is still with me.

    • @Mina-hm2og
      @Mina-hm2og Před 11 měsíci +4

      That is so cute and heartwarming!

    • @Just1Nora
      @Just1Nora Před 11 měsíci +6

      ​@@LazyIRanchIf you're interested, there are people who specialize in restoring soft toys and take extra care with washing and repairing them. I kept just a few stuffed animals from my early childhood and have them stored away safely. I'm in my mid 30s and I have quite a collection of collector plush these days, and a bunch I sleep with because of chronic pain. The Squishmallows that have gotten kinda grubby are going to be carefully unstitched at the turning hole, unstuffed, washed and dried, and restuffed. My mom and grandma taught me how to sew when I was young and wanted to learn (the Beanie Baby era) so it will be no problem for me to do it myself, but I know that not everyone can do that.

    • @Just1Nora
      @Just1Nora Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@LazyIRanchIf you're interested, there are people who specialize in restoring soft toys and take extra care with washing and repairing them. I kept just a few stuffed animals from my early childhood and have them stored away safely. I'm in my mid 30s and I have quite a collection of collector plush these days, and a bunch I sleep with because of chronic pain. The Squishmallows that have gotten kinda grubby are going to be carefully unstitched at the turning hole, unstuffed, washed and dried, and restuffed. My mom and grandma taught me how to sew when I was young and wanted to learn (the Beanie Baby era) so it will be no problem for me to do it myself, but I know that not everyone can do that.

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před 11 měsíci +4

      @@Just1Nora I can sew well, I used to work as a tailor in my 20s. I like her "patina" and I have stitched up any holes where the stuffing could fall out. Since I'm worse for wear and have several scars myself, I feel like we are a good match!😃

  • @nemuslund4197
    @nemuslund4197 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I actually cuddled and traveled across the country with my childhood stuffed animal and it is perfectly intact. I took care of it, kept her clean and I wouldn't get her dirty if I could help it aside from the occasional spills or drops in mud puddles. My stuffed animal is definitely sturdy and she now belongs to my daughter who cuddles with her every night ❤

  • @cayleemc
    @cayleemc Před 7 měsíci +4

    14:09 oh no sue, dont be raisin' granny's blood pressure for no reason

  • @naivesunshine4800
    @naivesunshine4800 Před 11 měsíci +100

    16:28 best thing i've heard from Charlotte: "Be wary of the people who spread kindness like confetti. Those are the people that hide how mean they are in real life". That should be an official quote.

    • @tonycowin
      @tonycowin Před 11 měsíci +5

      Yeah lovebombing is a red flag. I realised I'd done this myself when I was younger and was glad to have been taught about how toxic it is.

    • @micktrinus
      @micktrinus Před 11 měsíci +10

      Or...OR, they're actually kind people.

    • @tonycowin
      @tonycowin Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@micktrinus There's a difference and I think a word with them about feeling uncomfortable about the attention bombing will sort it out one way or another.

    • @rachelfox8108
      @rachelfox8108 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Right! And just to add, I roomed with a goth during college, and she was hands down the most genuinely sweet and loving person.

    • @Just1Nora
      @Just1Nora Před 11 měsíci +6

      *sitting in silence*
      There's a difference between trying to be a light in a dark world and being saccharine sweet with hollow compliments. Everyone deserves kindness. Even those with ugly hearts.

  • @karenhackbarth110
    @karenhackbarth110 Před 18 dny

    I’m an in betweener not damaged at all, amused and entertained😅 Grew up in the 60s and 70s so I always just laugh when being insulted. It really pushes buttons when you just laugh and that makes me laugh harder 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MMissTika
    @MMissTika Před 8 měsíci +1

    I was dog kind of person, slept with him, ate with him, ran around outside with him. When I was born he was 3y/o and died when he was 16. He was the best boy.

  • @Akalilly
    @Akalilly Před 11 měsíci +63

    Pro Tip: When your kid chooses their favorite stuffed animal, buy 2 replacements, and when one needs to be washed, swap it out for another so that all three wear evenly, and the kid doesn't even notice when one gets damaged and has to get thrown away.

    • @turnoffthetv
      @turnoffthetv Před 11 měsíci +8

      OR if your kid's stuffy gets fumigated because you forget it under the bed during routine spraying, she doesn't end up sobbing hysterically. (True story - thankfully my grandmother had an identical one she ordered herself, and two days later I was presented with my cat's "twin sister" who came to comfort me.)

  • @meghanvidler9147
    @meghanvidler9147 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I am 70 and my husband 75. In a box in our cupboard we have two very, very tattered stuffed dogs we had as children. We have downsized and moved several times but our dogs remain. Unfortunately we are becoming as ragged as they are.🤣

  • @yelloworchid57
    @yelloworchid57 Před 8 měsíci +1

    My favorite stuff animal was a panda and I left him on a subway train when I was 5. I was heartbroken. At 31 my mom gifted me a stuffed panda. I couldn’t believe she remembered and it made me super happy.

  • @JosiCrochet01
    @JosiCrochet01 Před měsícem +1

    For the blankie thing my grandma said for my dad and his sister she would just give them a pillow case to cuddle with and get attached to. If they went on a trip and forgot it and the kid was crying well guess what the hotel has a pillowcase for them😂 and u can always buy more. I have a blankie that I still have but I will definitely be giving my kids pillowcases😅Love grandma❤

  • @monicabrown712
    @monicabrown712 Před 11 měsíci +51

    The fact that the first lady laughed him out is HILARIOUS. I would also report his dumb arse to the gym. He's a sicko 😳

    • @leogoddess9996
      @leogoddess9996 Před 10 měsíci +5

      For the video of the lady with the gym guy. That guy actually has a record of assault and violence so she dodged a bullet. I know this because there was a man who duetted her video and found the guys mugshot

    • @Roses-lilac
      @Roses-lilac Před 10 měsíci

      She’s an idiot for giving him her number!

  • @rebeccakelly2325
    @rebeccakelly2325 Před 11 měsíci +177

    My childhood “stuffed animal” was a literal towel. A pink towel that we got at a Memorial Day sale at Kohls because I thought it looked so soft and refused to put it down. I walked around in a delusion calling it pink blankie and would meltdown if my siblings called it a towel. I still have it. But I use it as a towel 😂

    • @kryw10
      @kryw10 Před 10 měsíci +3

      ALWAYS know where your towel is.

    • @sweetthistle8
      @sweetthistle8 Před 10 měsíci +2

      That's amazing

    • @tabaxikhajit4541
      @tabaxikhajit4541 Před 9 měsíci +1

      My baby blanket got chewed by my dog, but I took it everywhere until I visited my dad who didn't know me well. He threw it away, thinking it a rag. This is when I learned my dad didn't love me. I never trusted him again. Thank God I still have my Teddy. (edit: and I have an amazing Mom who makes up for all the rest with her love.)

  • @YouTubeCensorsFreeSpeech
    @YouTubeCensorsFreeSpeech Před 9 měsíci

    “If your childhood stuffed animal doesn’t look like a rag with two eyes, you didn’t understand the assignment.” 😂❤

  • @jsharik2466
    @jsharik2466 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The last video was the best! I love her makeup trick. I want her tutorial on how to get that look. She wore her black lipsticks well.❤

  • @philiptheduck9105
    @philiptheduck9105 Před 11 měsíci +122

    Definitely a blanket kid! I took my childhood blanket everywhere. And just two weeks ago, it got left in puerto rico. that was the end of a 24 year long journey together. Rest in peace blankie, you will surely be missed 💕💕💕💕💕

    • @meghancipher6186
      @meghancipher6186 Před 11 měsíci +12

      Not me who lives in Puerto Rico and would love to find your blanket to wash it and send it back
      However, at least you keep the memories, and I know that's the most important thing! 🥰

    • @aoneal3723
      @aoneal3723 Před 11 měsíci +13

      @@meghancipher6186please share the blankie reunion if this happens

    • @rhodabaxter9687
      @rhodabaxter9687 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Had the same stuffed bear for 31 years. He still goes everywhere with me

  • @kimmcsharry4256
    @kimmcsharry4256 Před 11 měsíci +48

    I thought I lost my childhood stuffed monkey. My sister found it last year and mailed it to me. It's so worn out, and it has drawn on eyelashes (I wanted to make him look pretty). I still love it and he is now displayed prominently on the dresser in my bedroom. Edit: I am 47 years old.

    • @kristamkm
      @kristamkm Před 11 měsíci +2

      My childhood bear is sitting in my bedroom and my baby blanket is in my nightstand for when my stomach hurts. I know it’s psychological, but I swear I feel better when the blanket is on my tummy. 😂😂😂

  • @august1763
    @august1763 Před 2 měsíci

    My aunt pulled a Grade A parenting move. My little cousin was a blankie boy, but when he got old enough for it to be embarrassing for him to take his blankie to sleepovers, she turned that shit into a pillow, so his friends wouldn't know he still had his blankie. GENIOUS!!!

  • @user-hv2bs2dn4i
    @user-hv2bs2dn4i Před 2 měsíci

    I was smart. My son loved his stuffed deer, so I bought 4 of them. He never lost it and now he has a deer family. 😁❤️

  • @rachelhardy8735
    @rachelhardy8735 Před 11 měsíci +68

    Vanessa really included her own emotional damage 🤣

  • @lydia1285
    @lydia1285 Před 11 měsíci +36

    The first one reminds me of that girl, just laughing in the dude’s face when he’s crying about getting caught cheating it’s the same energy and I love it I’m so here for it

  • @brittanygrace-xg2cg
    @brittanygrace-xg2cg Před 2 měsíci

    Vanessa sending you an ankle is the emotional damage we all needed

  • @jessicaraig7825
    @jessicaraig7825 Před dnem

    people had doll and blanket as your emotional companion. MY SON had his bottles even if its empty its not going anywear. 2 weeks ago i learned that I had shoe string as an emptional companion hahaha. my mom kept the shoe string!!

  • @fhuber7507
    @fhuber7507 Před 11 měsíci +10

    14:00 Prank caller is just an A$$hat for doing that kind of prank call. That's not a prank. That's just evil abuse.

  • @andreaturner7207
    @andreaturner7207 Před 11 měsíci +48

    This is why many of us don't give our numbers out, not even to workmates or acquaintances or even "potential" friends until we know the situation. Can't trust anyone anymore.

  • @isap7942
    @isap7942 Před 10 měsíci

    Hi have a stuffed Bunny too. My Grandma wanted to throw it away but at the end she fixed him by sewing a new layer of fabric over him. Now he almost gets every year a new makeover, so he always looks beautiful. Not like the original anymore but on the inside he is always the old bunny I know, in almost every color 😂

  • @tquick250
    @tquick250 Před 10 měsíci +3

    When I was a kid my comfort thing was a child-size handmade quilt that I never put down. The ends are all frayed and pulled apart, but I’m almost 30 I still have it in my memory box. ❤

  • @Nelley_Nell_507
    @Nelley_Nell_507 Před 11 měsíci +26

    The “Mistaken Ankle video” was hilarious. 😂😂😂 Every time I see something foreign on my body, I’d take a video like this and send to my sister for her diagnosis instead of going to the doctor first. Lol. 😂😂😂😂

  • @aw8951
    @aw8951 Před 11 měsíci +43

    Who goes to the airport and plans a trip with an expired passport... thats like the first thing you check

    • @jennifermcgoldrick6323
      @jennifermcgoldrick6323 Před 11 měsíci +16

      Teens who’s dad is dead and maybe don’t have an experienced person giving them guidance?

    • @Zardox2
      @Zardox2 Před 11 měsíci +14

      I worked as a "operator standing by" for a large travel group... International, (Italy, and ONLY Italy, but my office was located in NYC)
      Y'all would not BELIEVE the number of calls that were complaining, and demanding refunds, because they showed up with expired passports, or DIDN'T HAVE a passport.
      🤦🏼‍♀️
      One woman b*tched me out because her passport was expired, but her husband's wasn't, and he went without her.
      Like that was MY fault!
      We simply booked the trips.
      We gave them ALL the info.. including "Passport is required for international travel".
      And this lady yelled at ME!
      I wasn't even the one that booked her vacation.
      She was SO nasty. I am sure her husband had a better time without her.

    • @lea88pu
      @lea88pu Před 11 měsíci +2

      ​@@Zardox2Some people just can't handle having consequences for their own actions and take accountability. 😒 Sometimes I feel like narcissism is the biggest pandemic we have to deal with.

    • @yvonneburns2786
      @yvonneburns2786 Před 11 měsíci +2

      ​@@Zardox2 somehow I get the feeling it was the hubby that booked the tickets knowing of her expired passport 😉😏

    • @EH23831
      @EH23831 Před 11 měsíci +2

      A 17 year old boy, that’s who 😂

  • @guineawuv
    @guineawuv Před 6 měsíci

    I still have all of my 19 year old daughter's really special stuffed animals. There were three that she cherished at different times in her life. I also still have my Simba plush from 28 years ago. It's on my bed right now. ❤

  • @yasminni485
    @yasminni485 Před 10 měsíci

    That old lady that got "pranked" reminds me of Betty White. RIP, Betty. You are dearly missed!

  • @Zundfolge
    @Zundfolge Před 11 měsíci +46

    You just know that the Chinese girl will reflect on that conversation later and realize what she said and be horrified.

    • @JutlandAngel
      @JutlandAngel Před 11 měsíci +17

      I hope so, the dude handled it so well too.

    • @amandad802
      @amandad802 Před 11 měsíci +23

      Yeah, that's what I thought. I think she was just so excited to meet a nice guy who could also speak Chinese, that she didn't realize what she was saying. At least I hope...

    • @ParvezMeherhomji
      @ParvezMeherhomji Před 11 měsíci

      That guy slipped in "racist" so casually, she didn't even realise that it was her. Self reflection is not a trait I'd associate with such people.

    • @theemeraldhour
      @theemeraldhour Před 11 měsíci +1

      I dont get this. Is she supposed to pretend to be attracted to him and lie? Is she expected to flatter him and suck up to him if she isnt attracted to him? Seems kinda silly and insecure of people to expect everyone to be attracted to them all the time

    • @Zundfolge
      @Zundfolge Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@theemeraldhour No I think she's just not that great at English yet and didn't realize how her comment came off (plus she seemed flustered by the other conversations she'd just had with racists). In most cultures accidentally insulting someone would be seen as a faux pas whether intentional or not. Even if she thought he was ugly she seems polite enough not to leave him with the impression she thinks so.

  • @shadowdroid776
    @shadowdroid776 Před 11 měsíci +13

    "Don't double text!"
    My anxious ass: "but how else will I double check to see if they don't like me????"

  • @godsavethequeen1816
    @godsavethequeen1816 Před 2 měsíci

    When you said “me being someone who had a wet blanket”
    I spit my cupped noodle juice all over the place!!
    I have to clean my entire dining room! 😂

  • @alisinger007
    @alisinger007 Před 13 dny

    When I was born I was given a teddy bear I absolutely loved it. Called him petunia lol but when I was 12 I was in hospital and a lady with dementia took him, she seemed to really love him and I will be honest I cried for months afterwards but I'm happy he went to a good home. Don't worry no long term mental health damage I'm 40 next week 🎉

  • @ameleiizane
    @ameleiizane Před 11 měsíci +25

    In the first story, I love how he dropped the you don't date black men card as a last effort to guilt her into dating him.👀

  • @brandysears3546
    @brandysears3546 Před 11 měsíci +105

    Some people who may come across as overly friendly or nice are also people who were horribly abused as adults and children. Those are my people. I know what it's like to not hear kindness, see love, and feel visible, and I also know what it's like to invisible. I'm sure I'm not the only person out there who is overly kind & friendly because we know what it's like to never feel the sun on your face. Sending support, love, and kindness from Lexington, Michigan, USA

    • @sandrasurgiewicz2846
      @sandrasurgiewicz2846 Před 11 měsíci +18

      It's so nice to hear someone else who understands what it's like...What's it's like to be raised in a cold home/environment. You never want anyone to go thru what you went thru, so you are always careful with your words, considered with their feelings. It's also very easy to become a people pleaser and a push over...I come to the point where I'm exhausted from putting everyone else before me...working on that now.Sending all my love from Toronto Canada🙏❤️🌹

    • @Therealpixiedust423
      @Therealpixiedust423 Před 11 měsíci +13

      OMG!!!!! I found my people!!!!! I was going to say something similar. Those of us who have experienced either childhoods or even lifetimes of abuse are often (not always -- as the saying goes - hurt people hurt people) the most kind and empathetic. I often say that I've experienced enough ugly in this world, that I don't want to add to it. So, I try to be as considerate of others as I can without compromising my integrity.

    • @PaperMario64
      @PaperMario64 Před 11 měsíci +10

      You all are my people. But I must admit, as the world gets colder and less people reciprocate, it’s getting harder. I hope it’s temporary and I’m not changing.

    • @saleo37
      @saleo37 Před 11 měsíci +7

      Sending much love to you back! -one of your people 😊❤

  • @KatherynMartinez87
    @KatherynMartinez87 Před 10 měsíci

    Wasn’t a stuffed animal/blanket child- but all 5 of my kids have lovies! All have blankets but one, she has a bunny… they are VERY attached, and must have them every night to go to bed. Helps them to feel safe in bed, but dear lord when we can’t find it 😮

  • @purgal5250
    @purgal5250 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I had a yellow baby blanket that used to be my mom's baby blanket. It was made partially of silk and I loved it because it was cool to the touch. I'm not sure if you know what it means, but older silk eventually shatters. Well that happened to my baby blanket and I still carried around pieces of it for years. I even found a small piece when helping mom clean out some old storage. lol

  • @attila0323
    @attila0323 Před 11 měsíci +10

    That Chinese girl with "I haven't found any handsome boys" was a real emotional damage. I felt that.

  • @clairesmallwood2953
    @clairesmallwood2953 Před 10 měsíci

    I have a stuffed lion I got from my grandma who lived across the country! I still have it 26 years later. I do think about maybe sending him to one of those “hospitals” to see if they can help restore him cause I still love to cuddle with stuffed animals to this day

  • @Araceil13J
    @Araceil13J Před 10 měsíci +4

    Oof, big sympathy for Vanessa about the mozzy bite. Im horribly allergic so my bites go RED-red, and the rash from it spreads up the entire limb if i dont get something from the doctor. If the hot spoon trick doesnt work, tell her to get some anti-hayfever medication, it'll stop the itching and swelling for the most part, and if she gets bad allergic reactions like me to it then advise her to try and get the good stuff. Hope she's okay, and thanks for the video.

  • @paulas2218
    @paulas2218 Před 11 měsíci +71

    My oldest boy had a blanket he dragged around everywhere. We had to wait for a nap to throw it in the washer. It got torn and the next time we were at my Mom’s house she offered to sew it up for him. I took a picture of him standing next to her at the sewing machine just bawling while she worked on it. It was her favorite picture!😂
    Also, that sweet young man who took the extra effort to speak in that girl’s native language to make her feel at ease deserves the sweetest woman in the world who will cherish him. He was cute! Get yourself a sweet man, girl. Those “handsome” looks fade, sweet lasts forever!

  • @pamelaliegh
    @pamelaliegh Před 11 měsíci +53

    The first woman, taunting and laughing at that weirdo, is putting herself in extreme danger. Don’t taunt crazy people if you aren’t able to dodge their knifes.

    • @beeech1080
      @beeech1080 Před 11 měsíci +11

      I think she was in danger either way. The fact that he didn’t know where she lived was good sooo I don’t think she had to worry about “dodging their knives” just yet. Obviously cases like this could escalate but luckily everything here worked out afterwards

    • @lea88pu
      @lea88pu Před 11 měsíci +12

      They met at the gym..I hope she didn't return there since this type of man could be delusional enough to wait for her there. It can get dangerous for sure.

    • @pamelaliegh
      @pamelaliegh Před 11 měsíci +4

      @@lea88pu it is scary dealing with ppl like that .
      More than we realize men and woman actually lash out and get physical if not to the person who is taunting them. then someone they love .
      Working in emergency health for 20 years I saw this over and over .. taunting the weirdo makes you wrong , and gives them something valid reduce their time with at sentencing.

    • @moonhunter9993
      @moonhunter9993 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Agreed. Zero interaction is the way to go

    • @Aloysius_OHare
      @Aloysius_OHare Před 11 měsíci +2

      I hope she stays safe. Men like that are scary. Taze him in the balls!

  • @breannajoy6995
    @breannajoy6995 Před 10 měsíci

    I had “my blankie” and “my puppy”, and yes that’s what I called them.. they didn’t have names😆, and even if I had one, if the other was missing I couldn’t sleep and would cry my little heart out LOL

  • @BriannaEnright
    @BriannaEnright Před 6 měsíci

    I had a blanket and a tiny pink elephant whose trunk I constantly chewed on lol. My blanket was my “mae-mae” and it had a ribbon around the edge that was always cooler than the rest of the blankie, so I would snort air through the ribbon. I was addicted to snorting my mae-mae.

  • @a-wsaunders9685
    @a-wsaunders9685 Před 11 měsíci +44

    That last story was so true! If someone is way too into spreading positively, they are probably super mean. I avoid people like that for this exact reason. I know one girl who makes her voice high pitched when she wants to sound nice, but then she finds ways to say she thinks you are a POS without actually saying it. Super messes up.

    • @nightingale5050
      @nightingale5050 Před 5 měsíci

      It's similar with people that post stuff about how fake their friends are and all that jazz. I had a friend like that and after she moved she stopped talking to all of her old friends and won't even tell us when she visits our town any more and yet would post stuff on how we are fake and didn't care about her. I once accidentally walked into her at the mall here and when she spotted me she had the most awkward and embarrassed facial expression

  • @AzizaLoves
    @AzizaLoves Před 11 měsíci +3

    I had a purple and white teddy bear called Grumpy... I use to love watching Gummy Bears as a kid. I was so angry when i came home one day from school and my Mum told me she gave him away... I was 15 at the time. I'm 39 now, and I still miss Grumpy. I guess you never stop loving your childhood favorite comfort toys.

  • @jaypritchett6846
    @jaypritchett6846 Před 10 měsíci

    14:12 my hubby doesn’t swear, *or even yell at people!* 🥰 And while he was at work, a dude was getting frustrated at him because my hubby wouldn’t do what he wanted. So, he went to my hubby’s boss and told him that my hubby was harassing and cussing him out.
    The boss pointed at my man and said _”he’s_ doing that?” And the dude said yes. But, the boss said “You’re lying. He wouldn’t do that.” And walked away! 😉
    *I love my hubby!!!* 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️

  • @nikkigalloway1990
    @nikkigalloway1990 Před 5 měsíci

    I had my bear, Foxy. Shes been on every bed Ive owned. And multiple hospital beds when i was recovering from a car accident. My sister had (still has) a blanket she cannot sleep without.

  • @posttenebraslux690
    @posttenebraslux690 Před 11 měsíci +264

    As a guy, it's nice being called a "prize" for once. Also, Charlotte's laugh needs to be famous. It's the best laugh I've ever heard lol

  • @RabidSnarf
    @RabidSnarf Před 11 měsíci +29

    Agreed on the stuffy replacements. My daughter was very attached to "Molly Doll" and she was flabbergasted one day when I opened up the closet and the bag that held 7 other "Molly Dolls" fell out and spilled on the floor. She suffered emotional damage.

  • @phyzarel1845
    @phyzarel1845 Před měsícem +1

    4:16 I love him and honestly I’m glad he didn’t 💩 himself

  • @ooshiikurai
    @ooshiikurai Před 4 měsíci

    I was a blanket person. My mom kept sewing more fabric to it to bring it back to life. It’s little more than a rag today but I still love it.

  • @sophieprice6190
    @sophieprice6190 Před 11 měsíci +131

    The first story reminds me of something that happened to me a month ago. A man approached me while I was waiting for a train, and started chatting. I have always been very polite, and I don't necessarily have an issue with having a nice chat with a stranger, so I was friendly and polite in return. He asked if I had a boyfriend, to which I said yes, and he continued to steer the conversation towards getting my number.
    Unfortunately we were getting on the same train, so I ended up stuck in this conversation for about 20 minutes before (thank god) I had to get off to change trains. I did everything I could to explain why I didn't want to give him my number, and even why he shouldn't want it anyway, but he kept insisting that we could have some great "friendship". Throughout this, I remained polite and friendly because he was 'friendly', and the most confrontational thing I said was in response to him saying he respects women (I said that surely if he respects women, he'd respect that I don't want to give him my number).
    I ended up caving, because I'd never been in that kind of situation before and could only hold out for so long. Once I was off the train, and on the whole journey home (two more trains), I could only think about two things: a building anger at *myself* for not being strong and shutting him down, and the unignorable fact that if he wanted to follow me all the way back to the flat I live in alone, he could.
    It took me getting home and talking to my boyfriend and our male friends to make me realise that I shouldn't be angry at myself for this. I was raised to be polite, and something of a people-pleaser. I was never taught to stand up for myself, and as an overweight, not very attractive, person I never thought it was a situation I'd need to prepare myself for. During the whole conversation, I hadn't had a moment to process what was happening and decide what I wanted to do about it, so I was just stuck in 'be nice'.
    It really drove home for me the concept of men not accepting 'no' as an answer. Obviously it's not all men, but it is enough. The guy who harassed me likely didn't even realise he was doing anything wrong. I genuinely don't believe he had malicious intentions, but that doesn't make what he did okay, and that's a pretty concerning realisation. Some people think they are just being romantic and persistent, but in reality they are harassing someone who has already expressed that they're not interested, making them at best uncomfortable and at worst scared for their safety.

    • @neliaferreira9983
      @neliaferreira9983 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Romantic movies normalize chasing women. Many movies start with women saying no, and men persisting and winning them over.
      I'm sorry but The Notebook is extremely toxic. For example, the dude literally threatens to kill himself if she keeps denying him, and she giggly caves to that idiotic emotional manipulation, WHAT??

    • @janicetribbiani7535
      @janicetribbiani7535 Před 11 měsíci +23

      As women, we're conditioned to "be nice" and polite to everyone. It will take several generations for us to evolve into setting proper boundaries for ourselves. When my younger sister was harassed for her number, she would give the number for the local tourist lake boat dock. I always thought that was genius!

    • @lizzyk8839
      @lizzyk8839 Před 11 měsíci +10

      I'm sorry that happened to you. When in that situation and just safely walking away isnt an option I give them my husband's number 😂 I gave out his number when we were just dating as well lol he knew I did it and gladly took those calls

    • @danag6756
      @danag6756 Před 11 měsíci +13

      And I quote "...and as an overweight, not very attractive, person..." Sister, don't put yourself down. We are all Queens, we are all attractive, beautiful, and look exactly like we were meant to. I know it's hard to internalize that, but tell yourself every day that you are a beautiful Queen, and you deserve all the good things in life. Take care

    • @notrandom2
      @notrandom2 Před 11 měsíci

      This is were girls like you piss me off... _"I genuinely don't believe he had malicious intentions"_ ... You told him you had a boy friend. You told him you did not want to give him your number. You feared he'd follow you home if you "didn't give him your number". _Do police not exist where you live? Security guards at a nearby establishment? A crowd of people, ANYWHERE!?_ Any case... back to my original point. HE CLEARLY HAD MALICIOUS INTENTIONS. *He wants to phuck you even if it means disturbing your life* . Do better. If the conversation is in a respectful state, ask *_"why do you insist on harassing me?"_* . Be clear. If it's gone passed respectful, then you are already in a dangerous situation... GET LOUD. BE READY TO GET PHYSICALLY VIOLENT.

  • @AimeeAimee444
    @AimeeAimee444 Před 11 měsíci +12

    That guy speaking Mandarin was a cutie! 💕

    • @moonhunter9993
      @moonhunter9993 Před 11 měsíci +1

      yeah, I agree. He was nice and understanding, too.

  • @wekabird886toktown7
    @wekabird886toktown7 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Myself and my siblingsnt stuffed animal or blanky type persons. Our parents made the nighttie sleep ritual as follows....'stfu and go to sleep!!!' We didn't dare get attached to anything that could eventually break our hearts. We could've been blanky type person/s cos we were always fughting and wrestling with them to stay warm. lol

  • @asenarc
    @asenarc Před 11 měsíci +151

    I‘m a digital artist who got contacted by positivity influencers ✨
    These two were the worst: so similar by the way they could’ve been sisters 😂 one of them got 100k and the other half a million followers on Instagram 5 years ago. Both of their aesthetics were all white, luxury lifestyle. You know the kind. One of them wanted me to draw her profile pic while the other wanted a portrait of her for her charity. None of them wanted to pay me but they thought it would’ve been a great chance for me to work with them and to be seen 🙄
    Anyway I said no and suddenly I‘m just an business amateur and idiot to them. They got real mean real fast 😂
    My motto ever since then is: if she’s wearing all white, always, make a big turn 👍🏻

    • @tetedur377
      @tetedur377 Před 11 měsíci

      "White Trash Wedding" by the Dixie Chicks.

    • @animetsystudio9841
      @animetsystudio9841 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Similar thing happened with me...I'm new to this and some account almost forced me to pay so that I can get follower on instagram. I said no, then she called me dumb and told you are yourself loosing this deal...I told her f off and blocked her and reported for harassing me. I would honestly have less follower rather that wasting money to buy follower..ik I'm miser.

    • @Grim_Sister
      @Grim_Sister Před 10 měsíci +1

      Had a few NFT bros try to use my art.
      I didn’t even ask for details. Just blocked them immediately

  • @reginamachamer821
    @reginamachamer821 Před 11 měsíci +69

    This makes me glad there were so many goth kids in my highschool lol there were so many we had no choice but to get to know each other. They're literally just regular people lmao idk why anyone would assume they're "devil worshipers".. one of my highschool goth friends went by the name Lucifer.. which literally started as a joke bc old people at the mall would yell at them that they're Satanists 😂

    • @carriethompson7919
      @carriethompson7919 Před 11 měsíci +20

      My goth friends and Atheist friends have actually treated me better than my fake Christian friends and family 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @lorrainemcgrail6315
      @lorrainemcgrail6315 Před 11 měsíci +10

      Every satanist I've met has literally been the nicest person, including my mum 😂

    • @RubyOnixx
      @RubyOnixx Před 11 měsíci +1

      Ironically I'm a witch that is also Goth and being either doesn't mean you worship Satan 😂 I mean you can but mostly I just listen to Metal sometimes and like playing with dark makeup on the weekends when I'm not working my job as an x-ray technologist. 🩻 ☠️ 💀

    • @RubyOnixx
      @RubyOnixx Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@lorrainemcgrail6315 ❤ 💯

    • @SpamEggSausage
      @SpamEggSausage Před 11 měsíci +2

      goths are perfectly nice people as long as you don't get all judgey and crap