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That lady was definitely the one trying to actually kidnap OPs son. The lie to the police officer about the son being her grandchild. The two other ladies who backed her up. The way their faces went pale when they heard about the cameras
Yeah they were human traffickers
@@theonpointheavy4401 That's a bit dramatic.
@@nanashi1173 The whole story is dramatic, I doubt it's validity.
Yeah exactly what if she was kidnapping the boy! Idk why the reader says that the pressing charges was heavy, I donât think they are so heavy at all.
And on top of all that she did, the discrimination against OP too! she definitely deserves the charges
@@nanashi1173 She accused him of faking the photos. I know the average human is stupid, but come on. People who do this kind of thing are criminals.
The stepdad is well within his right to press charges, they boy may not have his blood but he still cares for him as if her were his own, like he mentioned earlier
Not to mention the mother, as in the lady who literally brought the child into this world, and he are married. So no matter which way you look at it... The Karens are wrong
Not to mention the racial profiling and using racism as an excuse to possibly traumatize a joyful kid
Hell yeah
Them three Karens should be jailed for just being crazy. How can ppl operate operate like this????
@@vkak1 just chalk it up to natural selection not doing its job, the cynic in me wants to correct that problem in a permanent fashion and also the Christian in me is on the opposite end of that view, im so conflicted with these thing and most nights im crying out of complete frustration
What a genuinely terrifying situation. Holy shit. I am glad the situation was sorted properly, as I would have probably gotten violent if someone attempted to kidnap my child right in front of me.
There was a more horrifying story in a similar setting were the dad actually got pounced upon by other men because you know - Believe the crazy lady and she almost got away with it
I would to
@@fenstor9694 The father I have to say he did very well. I would have gotten very violent. My keids know me and they ARE NOT AFRAID of me in anyway. But they do know if that had happened with us thing would have gone very bad for others, I just remove the problem. I do know that what is not a good way to deal with something like that, but I lose it quickly. My wife and kids have worked with me to try to help me change. but I still man not good at it :(
A similar thing happened to me. Iâm light skinned, with blue eyes and blonde hair. I got that from my mom. My dad, stepmom and little brother are all tan, with dark eyes and hair. Once in a store with my stepmom, a lady came up to me and tried to tell me to come with her. I said no, obviously, and walked back to my stepmom with the item she asked me to grab. The lady followed me and tried to pull me away, until (while hugging my stepmom as tightly as I could) started yelling that I wasnât going to go with her and that I didnât know her. She ran as fast as she could since people started to stare lol
Hate it when people think they are helping when really they are attempting kidnapping.
My man you are the op's kid in a parallel world
People need to learn that stepchildren and adopting exists :/
Edit: yall have amazing points, I think I left out mixed kids because its in the video?(correct if wrong)
Not only that but mixed kids exist. My mom is black and my dad is white, I was born with a light skin tone, people often doubted my mom was my actual biological mom đ€Š
To be fair, most countries in Europe and and the U.S in America have a white majority by leaps and bounds, last time I checked the Ethnic distribution percentages for the U.S, the balance was I think 76% White to 16% Black and 8% everything else, though these numbers have like changed since then, so the odds of being exposed to a mixed ethnicity family is decently low, even factoring in adoption. Thus making misunderstandings decently likely.
With that said, those ladies were just plainly kidnappers and thought OP was an easy mark due to the ethnic discrepancies between him and his stepson, glad to see they were punished and that OP didn't catch any bad flak from it.
Yeah I was thinking of the adopting thing too. Like it would be completely possible for him to have actually been a Mexican, and his wife to be a Mexican, and for the both to have an adopted white child this is not outside the realm of possibilities.
Also Spain ... which is white in skin majority , not every spanish speaking people = 100% mexican
@@Draculas-knight Spain is counted as European officially, so I just put "most countries in European and in the U.S", though if you are Spanish and do not agree with that association then I will amend my original post to read European, Iberian (or Spanish) and the U.S*
as a new dad this story is scary but im so glad they pressed charges.
Fear the courts. They are the biggest threat to children. See Nancy Schaefer's videos for more information.
When you take your kid to the park be prepared for looks and possibly having the police called on you. It's happened to a lot of men because for some reason men with children are seen as creepy or incapable.
@@drunkbillygoat yea but if a woman does the same thing, its okay. Society is sexist unfortunetely đ
@@drunkbillygoat why tho??? I dont get it. In my country its nothing like this. Why target dads?
@@txffy4605 Countries like the US really do have stuff like that happening. However there are always the countries that don't. Be grateful you're in one of them.
You know the child was trying to get back to his dad. And also when his mom arrived he screamed â MAMA HELP!â I mean surely that would be enough to prove that this is their child. Like didnât this lady notice? I am so happy that he pressed charges against this psycho of a lady
I'm so glad that the man/ maybe the wife pressed charges, because lady 1 almost KIDNAPPED THE KID. Also, you are SO right. The kid literally was screaming that the op was his father, which that alone should get other witnesses on the op's side.
Correction: She DID "kidnap" the child. The moment she laid hands on him and took one step with him away from his father the kidnap was in process. Doesn't need a successful conclusion.
âShut your mouth and sit downâ I lost it at that point! Those witches are so delusional!!
It was not delusion, they were actively trying to take the son full well knowing they were kidnapping him from his father, they are just liars using their gender as a criminal crutch.
(They were human traffickers, pedos or both)
The cop said that not the lady
@@Galaxykittycat33 I know. I lost it meaning I was laughing my ass off
@@Silver_Anchor ohhhhhh sorry lol
Right? God that was so satisfying.
I'm so glad you pressed charges, I'm sick of people getting away with lying to police.
If I can like this comment twice, and I totally agree with the energy behind your name
You should know this person is just a commentator
And only reading the story the op posted
@@Theonenob I believe he is reading them from Reddit.
@@YaboyaJemoiah of course where else?
This type of stories are in r/entitled ( Insert name )
People,parents,siblings,kids
Attempted murder, too.
Wow.
Good move on pressing charges. I would have fkn lost it.
You can't assume that old woman wasn't trying to kidnap him. She could very well be involved with child trafficking.
The guy in the first story I donât blame for pressing charges.
I mean he couldâve had a false imprisonment and his son couldâve been kidnapped.
I would take all 4 to court... on like 10 charges.
Maybe they are a Kidnapper group
@@miciso666 whose 4th? Wait nvm
And that lady hurt his son
@@jimimonsta3209 Who is the fourth??
Those charges are 100% reasonable and are not extreme. Hell, that woman and her buddies are the jerks in the story.
Also, what logic did the entitled woman have? Then accusing the mother of harassment
Yeah, that woman kept changing up her story, first she says she was trying to save the child to find his parents, then she says the child was hers, then when the mother got there, she spoke to the mother like she was the hero saving the motherâs son, then again claimed the child was hers and wasnât the motherâs despite just claiming she âsaved her sonâ, etc. It was absolutely an attempted kidnapping, but not by the father in any case.
If I was the court judge I would give them the full book
That, my friend, is a "Karen"
Karen: a crazed woman who believes she has all the rights and reasons in the UNIVERSE and can do whatever she wants according to that logic.
@@michelecastellotti9172 then there's Kevin's...
@@sougotokiwa8439 what?
The funny thing about the first story is the fact that the psycho woman didn't give up and basically crapped on herself in this situation. The dad is the hero and the three crazy women are the jerks. I also think Lady #1 might have actually been trying to kidnap the kid.
Female kidnappers *do* like to hide behind the "Good Samaritan" look.
TRUEEE
good for pressing charges to these old ladies. Hope they learn their lesson.
Yes file charges because she was telling a story that the child was her grandson and this non truthful item could have caused this child to be separated from his family if the mom couldn't have come to the store. Lady could have told someone that she believed the boy was in trouble rather than grab him and run for the door.
To add to this her claiming the kid is her grandson shows she had no intention of actually helping the child and was actually trying to kidnap the child by falsely claiming guardianship of the child
mmmmm who is the jerk i have no idea ya no lady 1 2 3 are the jerks here
What i really love was the police really did a great job here.
thats so FKING psycho wtf??
She was probably part of a human trafficking ring... She literally had two other stooges there to back up her story while she went looking for good targets...
An atttempt to abuse the privilege and automatic trust women get in the west over men, something criminal women use often.
the same thing happened when i was with my nephew, i look pretty young but this damn woman picked him up and began running when i told her i was his uncle, i was so furious i grabbed her collar and dragged her back so i could hold him again, the staff were no help calling police to say i was "abusing" the woman and "kidnapping" a child, my sister (his mother) was in the shop next door getting her nails and stuff done for her birthday, when the police arrived i explained it all to them and showed them all the pictures i have with him but they didn't believe me either, one of the officers tried to take him out of my arms and he began screaming and punched the officer (luckily he was only 4 at the time so no charges or anything) my sister heard his screams and rushed over half way through her nail job (which caused the lady doing her nails to accidentally cut into her) she screamed at them and took him back, the woman said she should be happy she "saved" my nephew from me and the staff said that i was "abusing him and the woman" and the officer said he was detaining me for child endangerment and kidnapping, my sister reitterated "HE'S MY BROTHER AND MY SONS UNCLE" so it was at that point I called the police and told them an officer was trying to kidnap my nephew, a few minutes passed and a senior cunstable came in seeing the comotion, he took the officer asside and asked if he checked the cameras for the shopping center yet, the officer said no and told the senior i assulted him. i told the senior to check the cameras and you'll see through ALL OF THEIR LIES, so he did. when he came back he apologised and noticed my sisters toe was bleeding from the cut, the senior cunstable helped me press charges against everyone there including the officer who was discharged for the incident while the lady was charged with kidnapping, child endangerment and assult (she had given me a pretty bad black eye and the senior counted my sisters cut as her fault as well) while everyone else was charged for false police reports.
This is why i am so affraid to take my nephew anywhere on my own anymore, i felt even worse since the incident had messed up my sisters birthday AND still gives my nephew nightmares to this day .
Thank you for sharing your story.
That's just crazy, why people can't take care of them own life?
Damn people just suck isn't it?
Yeah man im sure a 4 year old remembers that
@@plansh0332 There's a really bad stereotype that only men can be pedophiles. So when people see adult men with kids they literally go berserk. It's a huge double standard and a lot of men experience it to the point that some no longer go anywhere with their children without their mother or a woman that could at least pass for their mother.
I just had an org*rm* when you said "Absolutely". Happy that you pressed the charges!
While the story is sad- you sound like an amazing dad and obviously love your kid.
The second that lady grabbed my son, she would be taking an involuntary nap while waiting for the EMTs.
I raised 5 and they are my greatest treasure, I'd go to the electric chair for them.
noice man
As any good dad should
Could go badly considering everyone assumed her side from the get go.
@@verticalfracture People in authority tend to believe the first story they hear over the second or third story, that's why Karens always try to get in the first word.
Good thing you got the milk
I love that people are actually being held responsible for their actions in these stories.
THAT!!!
Who wouldn't
Things can come with consequence
@@ayannaclaric4399 can doesnt mean happens all the time
@@ayannaclaric4399 Social media has made people forget that their actions have impact
And I hate that making sure people's actions has consequences should even be considered; "am I the bad guy?"
I would love to hear an update on the court case! Glad your son is safe with his family. I don't care who you are, if they would have grabbed my nephews or niece, words would not have been thrown.
Woulda never happened if he didn't even let the lady touch a kid.
She probably doesn't know what adoption is
As a black woman with a white family thereâs been a few instances where Iâve been out with my nieces at a park or gone shopping with them and have been questioned whether or not theyâre mine - itâs horrible honestly. Iâm just glad that we lived in a somewhat small town where a lot of people begin to recognise you, otherwise we couldâve been in worse situations.
Actually, I'm afraid it might be the opposite. In a big city, it's too busy and there are too many people to care. This kind of stuff mostly happens in small towns where people feel comfortable nosing into other people's business. Noone know anyone or cares in a big city.
Yeah cause if they didn't know and they called the police then things could have gone much worse
Why can't people mind their own business? *sigh*
@@whatsawhizzerwebnovels4927 you call it nosing we call it protecting our community we donât have riots here for a reason you have a family of 5-15 whereas we all group up as a family when you get a flat no one but the tow truck will care but here 30 people will pull over and ask you if you need help
@@speakerboxxers3618 when it gets to the point where you're profiling people just because of their skin color and trying to destroy lives, it's hard to call it "protection".
The moment he said âabsolutelyâ to pressing charges I started sobbing, tears of utter joy.
I started clapping and saying "Fk yes!". Geez, man, bitches be crazy.
I was sitting on edge, hoping he would.
When the cop asked, and told the crazy bitch answered, and we're told to shut the fuck up...
*Mwuah!*
Poetry!
As this was all caught on video and in the presence of the officer, his desire to "press charges" is irrelevant. You do not press charges. The government presses charges. And when they have enough evidence that they don't need your witness testimony, they can go forward with those charges without your permission or desire.
@@snex000 So if u press charges u basically will make the person have the government charges plus your charges?
@@rodriggrrr9788 the government asks if you will be pressing charges because without your cooperation the police wonât have as easy a time locking someone up
"Who are you talking about again?"
The three witchy ladies all point at him.
"Oh, you mean my husband?"
Perfect. So perfect. âșïžđđđđđđ
Story 1: Dad says, "Absolutely!"
Excellent response!
This honestly sounds like some human trafficking scheme. Scary stuff
Yeah with how stupid these people were even acting, if this story is even true and non hyperbolic, that theory makes a lot of sense, except it'd be smarter to not call the cops
Could be. đŹ
Really? Sounds like good old fashioned racism to me
@@peachparee7647 They were probably thinking the could play the race angle somehow to disprove that the boy is his. Thankfully, the guy thought ahead and called his wife, the mother of the child that could clear up that situation. If he hadn't things could have gone very differently.
@@dreaotic7353 Maybe it's both. đ€·
Story one:
The moment she grabbed my kid, I have the right to act in any manner to get my kid back and to safety. Broken arm and nose sounds about right when retrieving the child.
See? Now THIS is reasonable force. Not murder. This.
@@gabrote42
I couldn't guarantee I would follow this if she hurt my child, but you're absolutely correct.
Of course since the guy is a person of color and the child wasn't, people would tend to believe the old bitty.
My child would bite, kick, and hit... but he is older.
@@gabrote42 It wouldn't be murder stopping kidnappers or child traffickers. It would be self defense, specifically of your kid. Killing someone attempting to steal your child is absolutely reasonable force. Nor would any parent worth their salt not use any means and the quickest means to save said child, regardless of the literal trafficker's safety.
Killing is only murder when it's illegal. Hence why currently abortion isn't considered murder.
@@theworstcatholic7247 Good point. Still, killing in self defense is bad if it can be avoided. The woman could have just been insane and even if I weren't thinking that any killing is bad, if I don't have a master attorney I would prefer risking an aggravated assault charge rather than a second degree murder one tbh
â@@gabrote42 And most parents would prefer a living breathing safe child over the possibility of a murder charge. No good parent would think about "Okay I have to stop this person in a specific way so I don't harm the evil fucking kidnapper that may sex traffic my child to a pedo.". No they'd be instinctive and quick to react, doing whatever is the safest and fastest way, and most likely to succeed in turn, of getting their kid back. Generally that means taking the other one out.
Killing in self defense isn't bad. Otherwise the WW2 would of never of been won by the right people and we'd all be speaking German.
I'm not going to wonder how the other KIDNAPPER is doing and their mental health state. Just like I won't think about the r@pists's possible poor mental health that causes them to assault people. They could just be crazy sure. They still need to be stopped and in the way that is most likely to succeed. Which is generally lethal.
So very sorry this happened to you and your son. That woman was a busy body and minding your business. Happy you pressed charges.
Me too. I would have attacked them tbh. Donât touch my kid you r@c!st Biatch!
What bothers me is that she tried to run the kid out of the store....THAT'S ACTUAL KIDNAPPING. If she was really concerned, she would have screamed for a manager.
These people exist. That's seriously terrifying.
Yeah
I seriously question the validity of the story. Anyone, I mean anyone, who was in doubt about whether the man was the father would have just calmly asked the kid "Is that your daddy?"
And that would have been the end of it.
Sometimes the universe has no logic
@@toshikotanaka3249 NOTE: This is just a possible outcome in a situation like this, though fairly likely to be common.
Not if nobody intervenes, or everyone who does intervene takes the side of the female claiming the male is a kidnapper, which neither option would surprise me at all. People tend to believe the female, and all logic goes out the window for something like this. Plus, those other ladies likely knew the one trying to kidnap the child and were helping her while knowing that she was lying.
@@emyasoul8858 I ask myself what is more plausible, that this complicated scenario actually occurred, or that the story is fictional?
I vote fictional.
A similar case happened in Vietnam last year. A lady shouted out that the father was "kidnapping" his own son when his son was crying, and a drunk guy assaulted the father and ended up killing him.
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And people act like these stories are implausible
What the fuck? Dont tell me the drunk ass guy got away with it and ill swap my dream job from being lawyer to become a prosecutor i just cannot let people get away with crimes
Holy shit. Poor kid. The lady definitely needs to get in trouble, along with the drunk dude.
@@CoolyCools The drunk guy was imprisoned, but the lady got away with it because everyone thought that she was not intentional.
Omgosh FINALLY a good cop found. Nice i pray this man took this to the fullest.
Nothing happens till 1:30 minutes.
Story 1: I would probably be going to jail for putting those harpies in the hospital for trying to kidnap my son.
Story 2: That entitled mom is lucky she didn't get a black eye and missing teeth for pulling a child's hair and harassing the good mother
It made me nervous that he let her hold onto his child while they tried to sort it out! Even I as a mom would not have let her touch my child for any longer! Not to mention she was leaving the store with him, not looking for store management!
@@ThatOneLadyOverHere They definitely should have separated the child from the situation.
But DO you go to jail if you slap the kidnappers of your child into oblivion? (serious question I have no clue)
@@Jewus19 might get a charge, but I doubt it'd stick if the d.a. took it to trial. I'd not even worry bout it in a situation like that because I doubt the cops would even care once they knew the situation.
@@Jewus19 could get by with a self defense claim. I don't remember what it is called but if you step in and defend someone, it falls under that category.
Definitely human trafficking. They wouldn't have responded that way when hearing of the security cameras if they had noble intentions.
All three of them?
@@thomaslogan3916 They have accomplice
@@YannSchmidt that's what I was thinking too. In fact I'm sure these women mostly target "single" MEN with children in order to fulfill their agenda. The race thing is just another bigoted factor they'll try to use.
@@thomaslogan3916 the best child trafficker and criminals are those that look to be unable to do so.
Yeah, and the other two ladies being accomplices to false reporting and trying to press charges through racism is stupid. They are definitely some brainwashing cult acting like that.
Those three terrible racist women got what was coming to them. This situation sounds like a nightmare. Iâm glad it was resolved.
Story 1: What century do some people think this is? They must think itâs still a century where people with different skin tones canât possibly be a family.
Fact that not one of these 3 witches were hit in the face by any of the parents is outstanding power of will
Honestly I'm very impressed with both of them. I probably would have gone straight to fists if someone took my kid, although that's almost always not the right answer. Kudos to them both for holding it together
@@roxxdudeplayswow 100% agree with everything you just said Dude
Yeah the minute she snatched at one of my baby's, that's the minute I drop the "I'll never hit a woman" record. That's the fastest I'd ever break a moral code but for good reason, that bitch would be unconscious.
@@roxxdudeplayswow seriously.
We aren't waiting for police. I can't take anything for granted. I'm getting my kid back now, whatever force necessary.
I'll still wait for police after, but I'm getting safe first.
Nah, that kid taught the old bat a lesson himself.
Honestly as soon as she admitted to lying about the kid being her grandson, her argument was over
Basically:
Police officer: so the woman who lied about being the grandmother asks me to now believe her when she says this man who has provided proof of being the father is really not the father?
Iâm wondering if she isnât one of those traffickers⊠women who pretend to be in the interest of the child and never to be seen again
Bro... she never had an argument to begin with đđđ
This is a simple case of why people should mind they own business.
Look, as a father of 11 kids I understand if a child looks like their in trouble or needs help then yea the right thing to do is to ask questions. But this situation the child obviously wasn't in need of help. Sooo yea just mind ur business
She was probably going to use the kid for human trafficking sadly. The way she was so persistent on the kid being her "grandson", the way she tried to just run out of the store instead of "warning" the workers, and the two other ladies backing her up when they saw nothing. Those two were probably in on it if they were human traffickers.
Made me sick
I'm soooooooo happy you got to press charges on those Harpies.
I would be the one going to jail for 1st degree murder, if anybody touched my child. The hell with those 3 ladys.
If you killed only the first hag, you could probably get away with self defense. Even if you couldn't, it could be a type of manslaught-say she died because you shoved her and she hit her head-or at the most, 2nd degree murder because it reactionary and not premeditated.
If this happened to me, she would need to be hospitalized as soon as she started running.
You would never see the inside of a cell for that. Protecting ones self/family and property with force is completely legal. As it should be.
@@strafe501 it has to be reasonable force though otherwise they would get charged
@@brucewayne4537 You start with a punch and the more they get up the more violent you get. Also though it is kidnapping. You can blow whole through someone for breaking into your home. You can shoot sometime for attempting to physically harm you. So there is almost no chance, you would be charged with anything.
You can get just manslaughter if you make it look like you accidentally bumped into them on the stairs
Something like that happened to me when I was a kid. My dad is very Latino, and my mom is a very caucasian Latina, I inherited my traits from my mom. I got lost in a mall (I was a firework, not my parent's fault), and when my dad showed up wanting to claim me, the mall cops had trouble believing he was really my dad. This went on until my mom showed up. Can't blame the cops, they were being cautious. I was kiddie leashed from then on.
Not releasing s lost child as a form of authority to someone who doesnt have proof is one thing. The mall cops did probably the right thing.
Falsely detaining a child and lying to police as a civilian is another
@@ConnorNotyerbidness as a mixed race child I canât blame people for being suspicious. Iâm mixed white and black and though I have a little more color these days, as a child I looked white as my dad. Some people didnât think I was my moms child whoâs black
@@meurumtrain4747 imo golden rule for every parent
Have a picture on your phone or in your wallet- dated- of you and your child. Up to date enough they are recognizably the same child but long enough back to establish history.
If i ever have kids you can guarantee ill do exactly that, even if the kid say looks exactly like me.
@@ConnorNotyerbidness yeah thatâs smart. One time I played at a park and some lady thought my mom stole međ€đ but once she told her and all that the lady went about her day.
@@ConnorNotyerbidness true, although my son wandered off once and all the cop needed to identify that my husband was his dad, was the kid's reaction to seeing him. They probably also asked some verifying questions and stuff, but kids can speak for themselves even if they can't actually speak.
i wish some people wouldn't assume so quickly, just because someone has a different type, or a specific skin color, that doesn't mean they aren't relatives. also the karen should have asked if he was his dad. cuz she'd definitely be doomed if she said he was her "grandson".
Am 63 Black, there was a time I thought we were getting better concerning Race, BUT TODAY WE ARE WORST, I GUESS WE JUST DIDN'T HAVE A PLACE TO EXPRESS IT, SOCIAL MEDIA, CAMERA PHONES, GOD BLESS AMERICA!!!!
I would have thrown hands. Everyone would had been feeling these hands
real why would you run with a kid that not your and is calling for his of her dad
Is it legal to punch someone who try to kidnap your child and run away
I think that wouldâve been really counterproductive. This story is the way you shouldâve acted. Short anger release greater than complete embarrassing and ruining their life.
@ Mr.Mercury well she shouldnât have done that
@@allhailthedoginmyhand5591 Personally yes, socially you would get flamed for hitting a woman, wether she was trying to kidnap your kid or not.
The woman was trying to kidnap the child, no rational individual would do what she did, but she saw an opportunity she thought she could use to get away with kidnapping the kid. That's why she lied, that's why she got others to back her up, that's why she used the racial stereotypes. Any normal rational individual wouldn't of thought twice about this, they may of asked the child where his parents were, but that would of got the child to respond by indicating at his father, and clearing up any concern. Normal people don't think racially like this, normal people can read social ques, normal people don't rush to judgment. This was a 100% an intentional attempt to kidnap the child.
The whole touching someones hair thing... is kinda weird to me, I don't really get it. Sure if I'm with my girlfriend, I don't mind her touching my hair, and I like to touch hers I guess... but a complete strangers hair? I don't care how nice it is, why on earth would I want to touch it? That's the creepiest thing I've ever heard. Maybe if your 6 it's different but.. still..
All three of those scummy jerks should be locked away forever...
Not to mention the boy clung to his dad and scratched the lady's face when she grabbed him. Not surprised if she and her friends had done this before.
She was a child trafficker, predator or... both... She was there looking for good victims, which is why she targeted a father who doesn't look his son because women are believed first over men almost every single time.
It's even more scary that some random women backed her up just because she's some sweet old looking lady that "surely" is right over "some guy that doesn't look like the kid". Like wtf. Especially their "we saw it all happen." Like WHAT?! I would've lost my shit ngl. The audacity.
@@jos-josradvanji6203 they're more crazy than the witches from Hocus Pocus...
I am 65 and yes, have a 4y/o daughter. I had something similar but not as dramatic in a Publix near my home. They have a cop there all the time and I walked directly to him and told him a lady, I pointed to her was harassing me and my daughter. He asked her outside and after 2 minutes she was crying but refused to apologize. I asked the policeman to let her go as she would make the whole jail miserable. The Publix cashier who knew us came over and told the cop I came with my daughter all the time and that she knew my wife. The cop really wanted to charge her I think because he was black and knew how I felt.
put in a bowl 100g of racism , 50g of "it'the best for the child" and forgot to put brain in the recipe , 1h in the oven and this is what you get
Did you just⊠make up a cooking recipe for this
@@senatorstevenarmstrong6703 indeed they did
@@senatorstevenarmstrong6703 well it's better that just saying I'm lusing hope in humanity
what about the element X?
It's not racism dude. Just stupidity. She didn't assume the guy was a bad person based on his skin color. She just assumed 2 people of different skin colors can't be related, which is stupidity, not racism.
I watched this story with my husband, an ex marine. If he had caught up to the lady, there would have been broken bones involved. She's lucky that charged is all she got.
make sure you know the law so you don't over complicate things for yourselves to know what go as far as a self defense or assault, in this case i would be grabbing the perpetrator by the arm as hard as i can to have my child let go with my thumb pressing hard into the wrist to the point it would be unbearable and to do so in a way that the camera does not show it as assault
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My father is a soldier too and yeah she would leave the store with a broken body
yea you definitely donât mess with marines well you shoudnât mess with anyones family like that lady did
I'm not from the US, but I thought it was illegal to do so(atleast there)?
I also would've slapped that Karen several times if I were the dad, but I was also thinking it might get me in trouble (cuz I thought it wasn't legal in US)
In our place it isn't legal to hit some1, but u can easily get away with it lol
âJokes on you lady I believe in equal rightsâ *sprints*
1:11 i feel for this guy not the almost kidnapped son part but the nights part my mom worked nights so I know how stressful it can be
The mom:is thar bagets? You:yes the mom:take her
Sounds to me like those ladies might be an actual kidnapping ring. Like...I wouldn't brush it off as them being entitled racists. I hope the cops look deeper into them.
If so they likely would have left before the cops arrived. I think they were just idiots!
@@phillhuddleston9445 Has anyone heard about any updates on this story...What happened to the Kidnapper,and her accomplices?
First story is the sole reason we see more mothers out in public places than fathers (when it's clearly only one parent with their child). Too many stories out their of fathers being accused of being kidnappers of their own child/children.
Mother's get a bad reputation as well if the child is interracial and looks nothing like them :(
You wouldn't even know how many of these stories have to do with a male kindergarten worker getting randomly accused of doing things to the kids. You'd be surprised
@@misseveville9806 still nowhere near as common compared to men.
Same with women tho to a lesser extent
â@@gabrote42 it happened to my cousin's coworker who worked in a school, he was attacked by male parents because he was a guy and they believed he shouldn't be around their wives and children. i think you can guess which type of parent they were
She's nuts. Hope those 3 crazy women are in jail!!
During an incident, it's insane how common it's for some random women to appear to give out false statements.
So amazing how the officer said "Shut your mouth and sit down". I love this video, first time watching the channel. I am DEFINITELY watching more.
even the officer have enough of karen shit
Sounds like not the first time the officer has faced similar situation
As a relatively new father and also one of the mixed race background, Iâm sorry for what happened to you and your son, but it actually brings me great pleasure to see justice brought upon those women.
Horrible feeling isn't it. My dad is white and mum is black so growing up witnessed my dad getting accused of nonsense coz we don't share the same skin colour.
I'm having a mixed baby of Nordic European and South Asian. I'm really white skinned so would people think it's not my son đ€
@@jenni_noura9170 Hopefully not, but who can say.
There is only one human race ;)
@@calvotama6460 Deadass. My father is white and mom is Filipino. People used to think she was my nanny and asked her how much she charged.
I can't imagine how people would act if my dad was the colored one
Wow, I just had a flashback from when my daughter was 2, and same thing happened. She had gotten out of the yard somehow, where her babysitter lived. I was leaving to go to work, and wanted to say goodbye to her and my other child. Couldn't find her and ran outside to see if she was in the yard, not there. Ran down the street looking for her, while my aunt (babysitter) looked the other way of the street. Spotted her being led away crying by some woman. I screamed for the woman to stop, that was my baby, but she ignored me. My child heard my voice, and started crying harder, screaming mama at the top of her lungs, and trying to free herself from the woman. I stopped the woman, and told her to give me back my child, but she wouldn't. Claiming that she found my child wandering alone, and that she wasn't mine. At this point, I was about to lose it, my child is literally grabbing my leg to loosen herself from the woman. I said how could she doubt that child wasn't mine, when she was my literal mini-me?? I grabbed my child from the woman and ran away, saying that I was going to call the police if she followed me. She ran the other way. I consoled my daughter, and told my aunt to make sure the door was locked, in the event the woman had pried the gate open. How else was a toddler be able to open the gate? I had locked it on my way in.....to have to go through this is scary.
I think lady #1 was actually trying to kidnap your son to be honest about it I'm glad you got your son back and pressed charges on her đ
Why the hell do people think that they can get away with lying to police?! They have access to security cameras
There has been a disturbing trend over the last number of years where it is clear that the people making up the lies believe that the story will become the truth simply because they say it is.
The photos alone were more than enough proof IMO even of there weren't any cameras
If I was that manager and I knew nothing about the situation of who's word was good I'd be hesitant too, but the _instant_ the father showed the family photos I'd have let him go about his day regardless of what that lady said
A true kidnapper would never willingly show anyone photos of themselves with their victim
It's funny how in the first story the lady claim that the dad is trying to kidnapped his own son because their skin tone is different. All of my family member have brown skin, but my little sister somehow have skin tone a kin to Chinese. If this lady is in my country, this kind of incident will surely happened quite often, since it's not rare to see a child that have a different skin tone as their parents.
I think she was just using that as an excuse. I think she's a pedophile or something and just used the race card so that people would think she wasn't a pedophile and just racist (I assume most people would rather be seen as a racist then a pedophile)
@@skullton3292 both are bad but one is definitely worst than the other.
All of my siblings are a different skin tones, even my parents, aunts and uncles are all different. Are people not aware that there are families with mixed genetics.
It's kinda the same with my older sister she's dark skin tone but me and my mom is light skin tone
Surprisingly the Encanto fandom is a good example of people who seem to think itâs impossible for kids to have different skin tones compared to their parents, Pepa Madrigal is a prime example of that, it was made extremely clear that her, Julieta, and Bruno are triplets, but people have it in their heads that Alma cheated. Genetics can pop up at any time, even simple stuff like red hair, not a single living human in my family is ginger, but I am, guess where I got it from? My dadâs mom (she passed away due to cancer not too long before I was born)
You get SO MUCH MUCH RESPECT for not giving the lady a beat down for trying to kidnap your son right in front of you! I am also of mixed race and only experienced once incident of confusion on a subway in NY... but I don't remember much because I fell asleep. Maybe I leaned on some random woman and my mom didn't like her tone when she told me to get off. I just remember hearing my mother saying, "... because she's my daughter!" My mom was all of 5 feet and gently mild-mannered, but she wasn't taking any crap that day!
Good God how scared would that little one be, glad you pressed charges
The fact charges were pressed made this so very beautiful. It's scary because the first lady was clearly trying to kidnap him. And this is something that can happen so easily. Somehow the thought of a guy having a kid is baffling to these people. She was probably in some trafficking ring, I'm so glad you were able to keep your son safe.
Iâm so glad you pressed charges on these âladiesâ and didnât let this shit slide.
Itâs not him, heâs reading it from Reddit.
@@melcorchancla9431 He was talking about op
@@freezytimerx2v I'm gonna guess "op" stands for "original person"
@@mr.midnightgamingYT original poster
@@VKS551 Because he was talking about op
The fact that this lady thinks she can get away with kidnapping a little kid, makes false accusations about OP to the police, and still deny everything shows how entitled and evil people can really get. She definitely deserved those charges
the "we have them inside and out" sounded gorgeus
If that was my son being kidnapped right in front on me I would need to go to the hospital for broken hands, she would be going straight to a morgue, and my son would need therapy after witnessing me lose my mind and seeing someone get murdered. I wouldn't fear any court though, what jury on earth would send a father to jail for killing someone attempting to kidnap his son?
Yea, you'd be surprised on the amount of courts across the world where courts would still charge you for murder even if its for defending ur children
its still murder, bro. You gotta realize that you are legit taking someone's life
@@auggieheart better than them taking your son's life.
Any court that recognises murder, in fact, killing someone like you described would probably get your child out of your life by CPS
even tho ppl here are so "moraly high" idc il side with u murder is just murder evil people aren't worth living in this world and shall be cleansed
As a Father, this is a genuine fear when I go anywhere with my daughter.
Or knife
@LEOLAMM What? You'll go out and if someone starts doing some shit to you, you'll pull a gun out? Good way to get arrested right there.
You should finish whatever situation calmly. Don't wanna go to jail for something stupid that you'll regret later.
@LEOLAMM first off u cant just carry a gun anywhere. and usually u have a gun at home. and even then u can still get in trouble if u hurt someone
@@Boneless-Bones Wait, I'm confused. Does he mean the father carry the gun or the kid? I'm guessing this is America we're talking about?
@@ayroxus94 He's talkin about the dad just carrying a gun wherever he goes
Hey I'm so glad you pressed charges against those crazy ladies
I would press charges against the lady kidnapping my son and anything else she can be charged with. Chances are she won't learn her lesson
1st story: yes, pressing charges was right
2nd story: yes, here too. She'd been warned and still she called the police. Face the consequences of your actions
I bet lady #1 WAS a kidnapper and tried to take him
9:12 to the end is a story about a mom pulled a girl's hair w/o permission .
That woman was most likely truly trying to kidnap the boy since she tried to get out of the store without asking questions or reporting to the employees or authorities ahead of time. And the other two ladies could have easily been accomplices.
Yeah, the fact that she lied about being the grandmother is suspicious. Wouldn't you go to the store manager first?
Good point about them trying to leave the store without reporting to the employees or authorities. This definitely sounds like an attempted kidnapping by the 3 crazy ladies.
And wait till you read this: The footage during the trial showed that the woman SAW the OP and the boy arrive together and followed then through the parking lot and into the store, so she KNEW they that father and son had come together. Sadly justice was not served in the end, and the scumbags got off with a slap on the wrist.
If they were not kidnappers, that proves a point a kid in court made in, what? 2015? "Dogs have more rights then children." That kid got murdered by the guy who he was in court against for, well, attempted murder.
It's possible.
I fear this happening to me with my kids. I'm half native American, brown hair, brown eyes with tan skin. My kids are blonde hair and green/blue eyes and very fair skin. I carry recessive genes from my father who also has blonde hair and blue eyes so my kids don't immediately look like mine.
The video here shows a good idea on what you have to do if this happens (hopefully it never happens). A family photo (or several of it) is a good physical evidence, whereas the trust between you and your children also serves as another proof indirectly.
That being said, I think the case in here is a bit extreme...to think there's someone actually that self-entitled... Hopefully this is a lesson for us all to not judge from just appearance alone.
@@renseiryuu my phone is loaded with pictures of me with my family. I constantly have to keep backing up my phone because my wife and I fill it up with videos and photos. So I'm good there. I would just hate to feel that way because I KNOW my kids don't look like me from a passing glance. I don't dwell on it, just something I've thought about.
@@kenmorrow86 This might not be my place to say since I'm not a parent yet, but I believe you shouldn't care about what other people think. What's important should be what your children thought of you foremost, right?
@@renseiryuu if it came to the point of contention that someone is claiming they aren't my kids? Yes, I have a problem with that. I don't care about passing thoughts or looks. I'm talking about flat accusations of someone calling out that they aren't my kids just from appearance.
@@kenmorrow86 Well, hopefully it won't come to that. Like I said, the video shows an extreme case there. But, I'd say to not worry about it. Even if that happens, there're several ways you could prove your case:
1. Family photos
2. Your children's trust
3. Other family member's testimony
4. DNA test if it really needed
It will ruin your day, yes. But I think you got it in the bag.
Anyway, I just hope you don't feel paranoid instead due to your difference in look compared to your children. If it happens, it happens, and you got enough cards to turn the situation around. But no one knows that it will happen to begin with. Don't waste your time worrying about what might not happen... You've already prepared enough, I believe.
I would definitely press charges. I would have been screaming at them and that old lady would be laid out and the police would have showed up as I made my citizens arrest.
I love how the person or OG deals with them
As a gay man in an interracial relationship, Iâve seen these horror stories multiple times, seeing a parent of a difference race/skin tone to their child, two men with a child or kids, all being accused of being dangerous to children because they donât fit the stereotypical nuclear white family and so must be âpervertsâ and âkidnappersâ instead of normal parents taking their kids out somewhere
It's not because of lack of nuclear white family it's that mixed couples confuse some.. ur post wasn't bad until you said that but of stupidity
Deutschland Deutschland Uber Alles, Uber Alles in Der welt@
everything was good with ur statement until you said "nuclear white family" why the white in there lol. White people are not hte default settings in the world dude
@@cesarandres700 no, but in countries like the UK and US they have been seen as the default and are portrayed as such. I live in the UK, the story in the video is from the US, that is why I said the nuclear white family. And also, it is because in my relationship and the one in the story, they are mixed race relationships, and the Karenâs were racist women who assumed because the child was white and the dad wasnât, that he couldnât be the kids dad, so for them being white was important.
Those were the only reasons I mentioned race in the nuclear family, because it was an important factor of the story and in my relationship, people donât understand or accept the idea of a child being a different skin colour to their parent(s)
how did you bring stereotypes into this?
Iâd press every charge I could if someone tried to take my child bc of different skin tones. I may not like children, but I am *very* overprotective over those I call my own and I think of my cats and guinea pig as my own sons. If anyone touched my babies, Iâd rain hell on them.
Me and my girlfriend never plan on having kids since weâre not big fans of children but my god if someone tried that on me even with a niece of mine I think I would go ballistic.
Thank God you pressed charges! Most people would just say "it's okay, it's good".
Dad did exactly what he needed to. The charges are perfect, unless a little weak ...
Sorry you had to deal with this nightmare. They should have jail time for that.
That dad is 1000% in the right and I would have done the same damn thing. I hope her charges are leaked to her fellow inmates, women tend to suffer greatly in prison for child abuse and abduction charges.
Press those charges. This lady sounds completely nuts and shouldnt be out in public. She sounds like she has no remorse and could do this again.
What would have happened to the child if that woman had succeeded? Charges should be the least of her worries.
the city scene behind the text is epick and rlly calming
If someone tried doing this to my child, I would be screaming and crying because I can't handle people not believing my words over some stranger I don't even know. I don't have that great of a mental to begin with so seeing myself in that situation I may not be able to handle it so well. I really would lose it. Tearing up just thinking about it.
Turn the sadness into rage, its better in the sense people will think twice about pushing your limits. Worry about balance later, worked for me anyway, sorta
You can not allow that to happen, it will only make you look guilty to outside observers.
What a idiotic statement xD
It will also humanize a person when crying.
Take that blue feeling and imagine it turning red.
Channel the red, sister.
@@rebeccawhite3731 oh the sadness quickly turns to rage with us depressed ones donât you worry lmao
So happy he pressed charges, too many of these stories end with the victims feeling bad and letting the psychos off the hook, sick and tired of that. Make them pay!!!
yes, this "I'm so glad you pressed charges, I'm sick of people getting away with lying to police."
Lasting scars and pain,
thats the minimum for attempting to kidnap my child bc of racism and entitlement,
i want her to think of her mistake through pain everyday of the rest of her life.
This is messed up...
"Judging people by skin yone is the worst excuse ever"
What if he was working under the sun? The skin tone changes every sec
Man... People these days
Because of lady number 1's actions you could also charge her with harassment
Since harm was done to the child and her actions were clearly racially motivated, it could probably qualify as a hate crime as well.
I hope that the woman from the first story gets at least 10 years in jail. And that's being generous.
The first charge is a felony, first degree kidnapping. That incurs up to 8 years in prison if convicted. False imprisonment is a tort, they can collect damages for that as personal injury, mental anguish, etc. Now regarding filing a false police report (at least in the state of Florida) is a criminal offense. Here, you can receive up to 1 year in prison, up to $1k fine, supervised probation and/or community service.
"What would you do if you were in this situation" I would be charged with murder
Would you? Since it's defense of your child, you'd be legally right, so you would probably get off Scot-free.
Hmmm he has a point
@@thendrickson7679 at worst I would suspect a manslaughter charge to stick on the basis of excessive force or something. Probably wouldn't get convicted though
While there are a lot of situations where I'm straight up against people pressing charges, these 2 stories are not among them. I don't care if there is a misunderstanding. Knowingly giving a false police report after attempted kidnapping and assault leaves no room for sympathy. Those people are dangerous and at the bare minimum need mental counselling, which they were hopefully provided during their time in prison.