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The OP mom with the 5 week old needs to get out of that house, NOW. That is an incredibly unsafe situation for both her and her child. Only an abuser SCREAMS at their partner while she is breastfeeding their child, never mind the name-calling, gaslighting and other emotional abuse, there is a high likelihood of this escalating to physical violence. My hear breaks for this mother and child.
Let's hope she's financially able to 🙏.
No one deserves to live in that kind of house hold
The husband is probably gonna be abuser towards the op and her child. The op needs to get out of the situation N O W or this can be a horrific situation.
Story 3: that husband is definitely a jerk, why would you tell your own wife that she is a "whiny girl"? Belittling her when all she is doing is trying to care of your own child! *Unacceptable*
definitely a product of a Karen
@@spoon4732 indeed, she married a Daren
He is not a jerk; he is an abusive narcicist.
D i v o r c e
@@West_Coast_Gang D i v o r c e
The story about the mother-in-law: I'm not qualified, but based on the information given, I'm comfortable assuming that the mother is a narcissist, and she expertly raised a narcissistic son. If this is in fact the case, that woman needs to get the hell away from that family ASAP and take that child with her.
Seems like people love incomplete families in your country
@@1mol831 Better an incomplete family than one ruled by narcissists. It's not difficult to imagine an endless series of conflicts if she allows her mother in law to have her way.
@@DJoseph-sp4ij your choice. It’s a culture thing after all.
@@1mol831misread your comment as "incompetent" instead of "incomplete" made it funny to me
@@doggo_lover257 I have a great life. It just sounds like people like incomplete family
"Not an object to own."
Husbands mother, ignoring all physical needs, telling OP to wait their turn and refusing to return child like a kid refusing to give up their doll.
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She's acting like it's her kid fr
Story #3 What I find the most strange is that OP is the Mother of the baby. Not the mother-in-law.
The fact that her husband yelled at OP for looking after the baby's HEALTH and defended his mother so strongly is so worrying to me....
OP's husband doesn't care about her or his CHILD and acts like a child himself
He most likely has had to defend his mother in the past and that's why he reacted that way and what that means is that he is not suited to become a parent himself
He's a mama's boy. The relationship is doomed.
Story 3: If the husband has shown similar behavior like this in that past, then I would say that's a deal breaker and prepare for divorce. If he treats you like like before the baby is even born then it's only going to get worse from there. I would recommend getting a close friend of counselor with you and explain to him why you told her no. If he backslashes you, then file for divorce and stay with your parents.
I worked at Michael's for 12 yrs, during my time there I worked with a woman who was our floral designer and deaf. During hurricane Floyd a woman came in the store and got loud because she walked away from her. I had to loudly (to overtop her) say "She's deaf!" At least that woman had the good grace to apologize.
Story #3: I agree with the terrifying comment. A baby of that age is supposed to be fed from 2-3hrs. Preventing that, for any reason, isn’t prioritizing the needs of a baby and instead your own selfishness.
Story #3: I had threaten my own mother with being removed from the hospital because she was so out of control. Both grandmothers were in the room during birth.. My daughter had aspirated mercomium during delivery and had to be taken to the Special Care nursery almost immediately after birth. I got to see her as she was rolled through the door, and my wife didn't see her at all IIRC. My mom from this point started slowly becoming more and more manic. "THEY HAVE TO LET ME SEE MY GRANDBABY!" Over and over. She was losing her grip. Pacing and generally being annoying. The Special Care nursery was open *only* to the parents with ID checked wristbands. No other entry was allowed at the time. The family (10 or 12 people) had all moved down to the nursery window to try and see my new daughter, but she wasn't visible from the window. They were all patiently waiting for me to go in and get an update (all except my mom that is). She was still acting crazy withe "They have to keep me see my grandbaby!" BS. 90 minutes after birth *I* hadn't even been allowed in to see the baby yet.
She tried pressing her face up to the nursery window trying to get a peek through the lowered and closed miniblinds at the nursery window. Raising and lowering her body trying to catch even the slightest peek like a cracked-out burglar scratching at the glass trying to open a window that isn't there. I should point out the lights were off in this particular room and nobody was even in there neither nurses nor children. She was so manic that I had finally had enough. I in front of the whole family told her to her face, "I haven't even been in to see my daughter yet. Get ahold of yourself or I will have you removed from this hospital! You are acting like a crazy person." Her own mother was telling her to calm down and stop her craziness. The family was in shock I said it, but all of them totally understood why. She took it pretty hard at the time like I just betrayed her, shot Old Yeller and kicked a puppy all at the same time. To this day I doubt she would admit she was out of control, and will laugh it off by saying "They should've let me see my grandbaby".
Man, that part about the first OP's sister being a lawyer just set me off laughing. That story was probably one of my favorite since I have a deaf friend and enjoy those kinds of stories from her.
My mom works for Hallmark vendor and I sometimes join her. You'd be surprised how many arrogant people insist vendors work at the places they stock on. "Well it LOOKS LIKE you work here." happens to my mom probably twice a day. FYI. Vendors have a whole list of stores they have to go to. They don't have time or effort to memorize the layout of every store in the valley.
These incidents are surprisingly common. Sadly.
Also as a bonus when I worked as a cashier in the Dollar Tree store, I've had people insist I tell them directions to how to get to a completely different store. Like, jeez! Buy a map. Pull up google maps. Download a GPS.
In Story #3, the mother-in-law was out of line in keeping the baby when the mother wanted to feed it. HOWEVER.... the poor woman's husband berating her and insulting her for trying to feed her child was OUTRAGEOUS! To me, that sounded like the precursor to divorce proceeding because I sure would never have put up with that mama's boy treating me that way. I would have packed his bags and told him and his mother to shove off!!!!
Baby story: Where can I see this man to explain that mothers are allowed to feed their baby without asking nicely. Unless he wants his baby to die, just saying
“Everyone will be elderly If you live long enough”😂
Story #3: That husband was so off base siding with his mom, and insulting his wife. His current attitude shows how the rest of their marriage will go.
Story #4: That guy was wrong in taking something that didn't belong to him. If it isn't his, or isn't communal, then hands off.
Story #5: Again, the husband was siding with his mom, and not supporting his wife. Woman doesn't know her MIL as well as she knows her own mom, so her own mom would be more comfort to her than her MIL. Husband has yet to understand he and his wife are a family, and do not have to have either of their parents involved in their marriage. Because he chose to act like a five-year-old, she should consult a lawyer and get papers ready in case they're needed. Guessing though, MIL is going to cause more problems that husband will side with, and divorce papers will be needed.
I wouldn't be surprised if the OP and her husband actually had issues before that.
I had pretty much the same thing happened to me….I worked retail for over 30 years…and started to lose my hearing. I had a hearing aid in one ear. I was walking to the dressing rooms and I heard someone yell…I turned around and some man yelled at me that he called me three times….and “are you deaf”. I said as a matter of fact I am…moved my off my ear and he saw the hearing aid. I could tell by his face and his wives that he felt about 2” tall. I think he learned a very important lesson that day.
I love the audio of the guy doing an impression of an old granny 🙂🤣🤪
Most of these stories make me wonder why "Am I the jerk?" is even a question. Like, what was the deaf person supposed to do in that situation? It was near impossible for him to understand what the Karen wanted, plus she physically assaulted him. If you were just out in public, and some person you've never seen before just walked up to you, slapped you, pushed you to the ground, and started yelling at you, would you treat them with kindness? I know I'd be pissed in that situation.
OK I am going to be talking about the baby and feeding time story. 1. a baby has to be fed regularly and if breast feeding the baby has to go to mom. 2. from the sounds of it she married a moma's boy who is siding with his mother ignoring the fact that his wife has asked his mother many times and downright had to beg just to feeed HER son. the only jerk in this story is the mother in law who is treating that baby as hers. how can a mother show her child love when her in law keeps taking the child and refusing to allow the mother to have time with her child. if it was me I would pack bags for myself and the baby and go back to my parents house because obviously their is an oedipus complex here with this son and mother
#4 How often do you catch the person stealing your lunch? The OP is not the jerk. Genius!
That man who did not care that his mother was keeping the baby away from the mother is a total maniac
I like how whilst we are talking about Karen’s and thrives there’s just casually a Rat skiing on a mountain lmao
No matter what happens, you do not have the right to hit someone. Employees or not. I glad she's getting changes pressed again her
that father is terrifying, He cares nothing about his own child. That needs to be a divorce situation.
3:30 Karen probably thought he was just throwing up gang signs
YES FINNALY ONE OF THESE STORY'S WHEN THE PERSON PRESSES CHARGES
We definitely need to hear what happened in story 1! I can't believe another human could treat someone like that!
For number 3 politely tell the mother in law, your husband, and anyone else who asks that NO ONE is going to stop you from feeding your baby and you will ONLY ASK ONCE from then on and that after that the gloves are off.
Her patience with these people - dear god - bless her
0:11 bro started on hard mode
Remember when people got out of line like this the response to them was a simple punch in the face followed by "Have a nice day."
Pepperidge Farm remembers.
Hubby needs to know where his loyalty should lay. Get out of the house. Do not go back! He is going to get progressively more abusive. You are going to lose.
A thief is a thief. Being polite to a thief is pointless.
in the last situation I don't think the mother in law was wrong in her point about being as much as a grandmother as OP's mother but the way she handled it by asking about it out of the blue in front of everyone was completely wrong, and how OP's husband reacted was also really weird and should at least be grounds for concern
Being just as much of a grandmother also isn't the point at all. People being there is for the purpose of giving support to the woman giving birth, and she wanted just her husband and her own mother there.
I doubt the husband was there in the end if they had issues before hand
the mother with the baby that has to be fed: the way the "husband" acts is a clear red flag the size of the usa and big enough for a divorce...
I can and can't believe this. I'm partially deaf and sometimes need people to slow down or speak louder when talking to me. This seems to really piss people off, even when I'm beyond polite and doing my best to help. I can't tell you how annoying and rude it is even when I explain that I'm partially deaf. I've never understood this lack of kindness and understanding but some people just don't have it.
Also, lady with the obsessive MIL, you need to leave your husband. Gaslighting and blaming you for following doctors orders? Your husband should put you first, above everyone. Period. He was condescending and has no respect. When you have children, your child comes first, then your partner. If this isn't the case, it's an unbalanced and unhealthy relationship.
My goodness I love this channel so much and I love the stories and him reenacting the voices so glad this channel makes videos
Good for you, son! Stand up to bullies! This is what should happen.
On the story about the woman not wanting her mother in law to be in the delivery room, the woman giving birth has the right to decide who will be present. As a woman, I would NOT want most people, including a MIL, be in the delivery room seeing my private parts as I give birth. For me, I would only want my significant other and my mom in the room.
Depending on the relationships and how the family members gets along, having the grandparents be the first to see the new baby after everyone is settled could be reasonable. The MIL choose a really bad time to ask and I don't blame how the OP reacted. She may also be emotional due to being pregnant. If the MIL kept asking and saying she wants to be there and if the OP just snapped, I can definitely understand her reaction.
The last story is honestly straight up grounds for ghosting them. Not a divorce but a break.
The op is clearly the jerk
"Nuh-uh. You can't feed your own child even though they can die of starvation and need to be fed every two hours. My mother treating the baby like it's a pillow for hours at a time is more important."
like seriously who does that
#5, OMG! How awful your husband is treating you, and it's your choice! If he sides with her over you, watch out, this marriage may be doomed.
@Ivan ok, then answer this question. Would you want a stranger (be it even your mother in law) to see you push baby, poop, fart, pee all simultaneously? I strongly believe it’s her body and her choice whom to let her see in this very vulnerable, very unpleasant situation, don’t you reckon so?
If the husband feels offended because the OP insulted his mother, he has the Right to say that he doesn't want to be on the delivery room, you cannot obligate someone to do what you want
@@mordraxterboy1521yeah, but the MIL kept pushing. Pregnancy hormones do play a part in it, but no means no. If the MIL cant understand that then she deserved it.
For the first guy I hope the Karen who assaulted him got a long time behind bars
"Did I mention my sister was a lawyer?"
HAHAHAHA
I am also disabled. I'm considered Lima still have some.. I worked in a grocery store for like 19 years.. I have some stories but I've I've even more stories in my personal life. I stress this to other disabled people don't be afraid to press charges. Even if you are a man and a woman is attacking you please press charges and don't be afraid to defend yourself if you feel is necessary. Obviously make sure you know the laws of where you live and how far you can take what you can do in matters of self defense. This includes carrying self defense items at their legal where you are depending on the item. Also if you're capable physically of learning martial art or at least some basic self-defense then do it. How I live in Florida and I have a carry permit. For context I've been out firearms and other weapons pretty much my entire life. Don't take crap from toxic people especially if they're trying to get physical.
Am I the Jerk:”And my sister was livid!….”
Also him:”Also did I mention my sister was a lawyer?😁”
Me:😬😧😮
13:36 THAT’S THE SOUND OF A FACKING DIVORCE👹 *helluva boss stolas divorce meme*
Goddammit the last story. Well... OP did go a bit too far with the comment, but it's not like the MIL didn't have it coming. She already had the answer, but kept insisting regardless. Ultimately, it's the mother (OP) who decides who goes or not. "You should just have agreed to her request!"... No, mate, that's not how it works. Once she manages to overstep a boundery, that won't stop, as MIL will have the clear notion of "just keep insisting, eventually it'll work".
The guy and his lunch,you are not a jerk. You were nicer than I was. My lunch kept coming up missing,so one night I got dog food ( it looked like beef stew ) put it in the bowl and put in frig at work. Went to lunch bowl empty. Next night fixed my lunch a taped a note on the lid that said, I hope you enjoyed the dog food last night. When I got to lunch there was a lot of people sitting around that usually were not. Got my bowl,lunch intact. As I turned around I saw everyone in the lunch room laughing. It made me nervous. Someone finally spoke up and asked if that was mine and said yes. They wanted to know if I really put dog food in my bowl last night,I said yes. They wanted to know why. I told them I got tired of going to lunch and having nothin to eat. I couldn’t catch the person. They told me he was in the bathroom and has been for almost an hour now. Never missed out on lunch after that.
After the second slap, it would be my turn, and my palm would not be open.
As a deaf person myself, OP is definitely not the jerk. Believe it or not, people can be so ableist. I haven't been assaulted but I have dealt with many times being pushed, pulled/yanked, grabbed, yelled/screamed at, had small things thrown at me, etc. The only big things I have had was an old lady slamming her cart into my mine because "I was ignoring her", and security guards at one of my old jobs (who knew I was deaf) repeatedly running at me screaming. There are many stories out there of deaf people getting assaulted, beat to the point of needing to go to the hospital, or straight up murdered.
Accusing a deaf person of ignoring you is the same as rudely telling a cat that they’re a cat. It’s probably a bad comparison, but it was the first thing I thought of.
Number 3: pack your bags move out and file for divorce
13:00 that was savage.
in story one I can just imagine when the police ask if the deaf op would like to press charges and the op just smiles and gives a thumbs up
The lawyer reveal was amazing
Assaulted in store story: OP, you are NOT the jerk! It doesn't matter what color shirt you happen to be wearing or that it happens to match what the store employees wear, people are NOT ALLOWED TO GRAB OR TOUCH YOU WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT!!! Quite frankly you would have been justified to punch her or throw her to the floor in self defense after she slapped you. It doesn't matter that she thought you were and employee, she's not allowed to slap employees either, though I'm willing to bet she's gotten away with it before. Good on you for pressing charges. Here's hoping she gets a heavy enough sentence to make her think several times before grabbing and slapping people. By the way, did the store ban her? If I were the store manager and saw that she was willing to assault those she though were my employees, I wouldn't want her back in the store again!
My favourte bit of the first story was "oh yeah and my sister is a lawyer".
OP:looking for something.HER:This hand is empty YeEt
The bad guys in the stories have got me punching holes in my walls
For story #3 I would have left right then and there and tell my parents that I would be coming over to their house instead of staying there
Mom with baby. RUN! Disappear!
Take that baby and leave that TOXIC situation!
I feel really bad that people can be treated like that for something they didn’t choose
The blind,deaf and mute person is NOT the jerk the Karen is for slapping him of things to do
No you are not the jerk you are quite the gentleman for helping the elderly lady. I think it comes from this whole entitled Society and they assume that anybody nice enough to offer assistance must work there whether you have the right uniform on or not I guess that's the only excuse I could offer for her LOL and I don't blame you for getting an inner chuckle over how the elderly lady handled it
Story 3 hit a cord with me, an infant needs to feed every two hours until its older than six months old. The father and his mother should be ashamed with themselves for their behavior.
...**Deep inhale** Did this man...literally call his wife a whiny little girl...and despite knowing how to raise a kid cause you obviously look that shit up...say what's the problem with feeding their son? **Reverb of the loudest faceplate, as my own self esteem for being the same sex as this man causes intense embarrassment** How inept must you be...
5:59 one word for this whole story: DIVORCE. What kind of shitty ass person calls their wife a "whiny little girl" for trying to get her crying newborn away from her overbearing mother-in-law so she can feed the poor thing? Then instead of standing up for or helping his wife, he defends his mother, who has been obstructing his newborn son'e feeding schedule(which yes, is quite serious.) And has the *nerve* to call the wife a Bitch when she stands up for herself?? To quote Dylan Hollis, if this red flag was any bigger it would be a *BLANKET*
Story 3: divorce the jerk, that husband is the jerk!
Okay so for the baby issue there are a few things to keep in mind.
#1 Your spouse is always the most important person what hurts them will hurt you and what helps them will help you so he should have been understanding.
#2 It's possible to fill baby bottles ahead of time with breast milk or use formula so that the stepmother could feed the baby if she wants to spend more time with it unless there is another situation that requires the mother to feed the baby.
#3 It is common and understandable to immediately hand over a baby to its mother when she needs to feed it so as long as the mother asked respectfully this should not have been a problem and by that I may remind you the mother spoke of how often she would have to beg the stepmother for the baby as well as when she finally lost her patience and That's when everything went south
I'm sure the mother could have been more careful with her words but this didn't pop up out of nowhere it's been slowly simmering and boiling till it blew up.
Besides the use of stepmother, I think k you meant mother in law? I'm 100% agreeing. But also, if mama says "give me back my kid" you do it.
I’d LOVE to hear an update about story 1
HELL’S NO! The woman had NO BUSINESS MAKING PHYSICAL CONTACT WITH ANYONE! I’m delighted that 1) you pressed charges and 2) you were open with the cops. Good Godfrey - who the hell acts like this (Karen, apparently!) I swear, it’s become a contest to see who can be pissier and more obnoxious! Get a grip, peeps!
Lol, "her lips were flapping to much"
story 4: threatening not to see your son's first moments is both cruel and unjustified, as if you didn't even care for your son or wife. And if the OP doesn't want her mother-in-law there, then that's what she wants, you don't need to be such a jerk.
She is the jerk here. There is no reason to refuse mother in law in recovery room
I can’t believe that this happens to disabled people… This makes me lose faith in humanity.
14:21 sorry hun if your mum is allowed in the delivery room, why is your husband’s mum not? Make it just you and hubby or all 4 of you. Easy fix
When a mom askes for her baby you give it to her I don't care if it's the grandma holding her, and a baby going hours without food is going to be not nourished enough and he will die, you need to leave that man and get away from him feed your baby and raise him right
On the lunch thief, either way who cares? Don't steal a lunch regardless of whether they are starving or not.
I have had a similar experience on multiple occasions but as a another customer in the store or as an employee with a fellow employee and I don't have a hearing impairment or any other disability I simply was not flirting with or arguing them and so therefore they got pissed
Having had my lunch stollen multiple times at work, I no longer put it in company fridge. I have a lunch bag that I put my lunch in and keep it at my desk.
The fact that the lady thought it was okay to slap someone because they didn't listen to them, employee or not, is absolutely horrible!!!
These kind of people NEVER learn because they're never been allowed to be punished. They should, period
It was king of mean when you snatched the fork 12:10
Totally unrelated, but your the reason I started playing Riders Republic again 😂
ASSAULTING DEAF/PARTIALLY BLIND PEOPLE?! I swear, some people have no respect! >:(
6:31 as soon as he said that I knew there was gonna be a divorce
Hell no, and even if you where a worker, she had NO RIGHT to harm you. She said "i thought he was a worker" like that'd male it better 💀
The fact that you feel that it may be your fault is so terrible. Eff no! She is lucky that she didn't get a punch 😠
Story 3 my judgement: DIVORCE HIS ASS!
By the time my deaf brother is an adult he will have 5 siblings to help with those things and I'll probably have a good life going by then so I could let him move in with me, so he won't have to worry about Karens or entitled people.
Karen Moment™✨ 😂😂😂😂
3:54 The reason I hate hearing the word "therefore". The fact that my sister starts using that word in a Karen way.
God i would love to heat the after math of story 1. I want to know how much time that Karen got in jail. Also I hope he sued her for all shes worth for pain an suffering and any PTSD the OP may have suffered.
In the final story, OP has all the rights of who is in the delivery room as she would be put in a very vulnerable position and has to expose herself for the delivery. She is clearly uncomfortable with her mother-in-law to be there during this.
And also yes, this husband siding with his mother and treating her as if she doesn’t exist is a massive eye opener. If I was in that spot, I would have devorce papers ready.
story 1: you do not assault a store worker ANYWAY. she is 10 times worse than any other karen
I barely understand children but what I do know is that unless the parent(s) are a threat to the child's life or safety, you NEVER keep a child away from them. Most animals will KILL you if you keep their babies away from them, which should tell you WHAT NOT TO DO
You tell the nurses who is allowed in the delivery room, and if someone else tries to crash it, security is called pronto.
Story 2:
It's time for the new mother to seek a divorce lawyer, because this situation will only get worse as the years pass.
Story 4(I think?):
Once again, the mom-to-be should consider a divorce lawyer and papers to relinquish his parental rights, because her MIL and husband will only get worse as the years go by.
Story 3 not 2
How the husband gonna say that she don't own her own kid like what??
Lawyer and security guard be like:
Got to catch em all Karenmon
For the lunch thief story: You don’t owe respect to someone who’s actively in the process of stealing from you. Period.