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    0:00 An Entitled Karen ATTACKS ME on the bus, claiming that I was FAKING my DISABILITY! (u/exlifeguardthrowaway)
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Komentáře • 728

  • @Shoyro
    @Shoyro Před rokem +651

    Seriously, why do people have issues with those with disabilities? Makes one lose faith in humanity.

    • @rottennosk9135
      @rottennosk9135 Před rokem +72

      Because Karen thinks the disabled are inferior to them

    • @amirzaini4048
      @amirzaini4048 Před rokem +2

      Yeah, honestly, when I heard what happened to the OP, I feel like I wanted to put the Karen in the hospital, just so she can experience being disabled for a while and see from their perspective how other people treat her. Honestly, that is just disgusting and she should be ashamed of herself for claiming that the OP was just faking his/her disability. Even if the OP did managed to hit her, that would do nothing to make her stop. 😡😡😡😡😡
      Sorry, I went on a tirade there. But yeah, if I was the OP, I would've just scratched her in the fucking face and then fall on top of her just to give her a clearer picture that I was indeed disabled.

    • @eddiebendigo7317
      @eddiebendigo7317 Před rokem +28

      Wanna lose it all the way? Be homeless for a year and see how long it takes to become the animal they treat you as.

    • @azizcalva-navarro6170
      @azizcalva-navarro6170 Před rokem +30

      @@rottennosk9135 Or jealous that they get privileges she wants but can't get.

    • @dermant_devastated
      @dermant_devastated Před rokem +22

      Dude i think that there should be an international agency against Karens . Literally my heart breaks after listening stories about people who can't defend themselves .

  • @Zakkylah.
    @Zakkylah. Před rokem +385

    For the first story: the passengers and the driver is an absolute legends

    • @linkinlady06
      @linkinlady06 Před rokem

      They are but honestly it took too long for me, I'm sorry but the moment that her cane was snatched away and thrown they should have got her ass right then!

    • @Altherin
      @Altherin Před rokem

      Not really because why did they only intervene AFTER she'd been kicked. The intervention should have happened at least when the Karen took her cane and threw it.

    • @oggfamily5511
      @oggfamily5511 Před rokem +6

      Agreed

    • @thatcsgokid-fl2ti
      @thatcsgokid-fl2ti Před rokem +4

      may god blees that bus driver for his response.

    • @21SupraGaming
      @21SupraGaming Před rokem +3

      yes they did the right thing that could have happened I'm glad they did the right thing instead of the wrong thing :)

  • @MNTNSTARZ80.
    @MNTNSTARZ80. Před rokem +378

    I cried when I heard the first story.
    I've been there early on in my disability, I fell from a shower, broke my neck and spine, have permanent spinal cord damage, need a cane or wheelchair.
    I've had people get in my face about faking, being lazy etc.
    The ones that encourage their kids kids to be rude or kick one of my canes is what I really can't understand at all.
    I also despise those who talk slowly to me like having canes decreased my IQ by 50 points or those who speak louder like I'm hard of hearing.
    People can be nasty, especially when it's something they don't understand or see.
    Now with the pandemic I have a good reason to avoid everyone 🙂

    • @SupTwoWater
      @SupTwoWater Před rokem +23

      I have sympathy for you and I am sorry for what happened to you.😄👍

    • @maxwhite8616
      @maxwhite8616 Před rokem +15

      I should be horrified that is hardly shocking if I am honest

    • @phoenixxam5812
      @phoenixxam5812 Před rokem +10

      im so sorry to hear that

    • @Mehmed_Amedov
      @Mehmed_Amedov Před rokem +9

      Im not gonna be suprised if a karen is gonna be mad at me cuz i blinked near her

    • @GlamrockChicaYTChannel
      @GlamrockChicaYTChannel Před rokem +10

      I am so sorry that happened to you... I am actually recovering from a disease called GBS, and it paralyzed me for a while, people called me an attention seeker, pathetic, crybaby, ect. But I'm healing and hopefully things get better for you too! 😄

  • @cthonmon_4781
    @cthonmon_4781 Před rokem +83

    This first story was a killer for me. I am disgusted and horrified that anyone can be this terrible to another human. I can't express how awful that seemed to me.

    • @down_right_mischevious
      @down_right_mischevious Před 11 měsíci +1

      yes

    • @lanceferguson9008
      @lanceferguson9008 Před 9 měsíci +4

      Wish it ended in nuclear revenge. O.O

    • @jasoncarpp7742
      @jasoncarpp7742 Před 8 měsíci

      It's hideous that anyone would do that.

    • @DarkPretender205
      @DarkPretender205 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I would probably have been charged with assault that day, because honestly, that woman would have deserved to be slapped and I dont think I would be able to hold myself back, my mother has chronic backpains too...

  • @littlelily1714
    @littlelily1714 Před rokem +31

    About the story one, as a disabled person myself with a "invisible" disorder, those things are so common, it makes me mad everytime I see a Karen like this. I feel so bad about op

  • @johnburnside7828
    @johnburnside7828 Před rokem +115

    First story: Someone, particularly the bus driver, should have called the police and had the Karen arrested, regardless of what OP wanted!

    • @willowids369
      @willowids369 Před rokem +11

      That's not really how that works - it's assault, yes, but the person being assaulted always gets to choose whether to charge the person or not.
      If someone pushed you down and you just wanted to move on, would you really want to have someone push on with the charge despite you? As the victim, you'd likely have to show up in court. Being pushed into something like that against your will? I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

    • @gabrielfreire3732
      @gabrielfreire3732 Před rokem

      @@willowids369 yes but if the driver called and said that there was someone physicaly harrasing a passanger she could have called the cops over and the cop would have taken Karen for older crimes do you realy think that the OP is the first one assaulted by that crazy whore and another thing she was phisicaly injured and wasnt able to think clear now the cops would have probably temporarely arrested Karen as op would get treated and once she had her mind clear she could have chose wisely
      You know you americans or whatever country that story is passing say that theyr justice is beter then braziliam but i dont think soo since here in brazil regardles if the victime wants to press charges or not the police would have arrested the person if they have witness enoguh or prof of the act since most of the time the person gets scared and traumatized and might not be able to think clearly an example is the OP of the first sotry she was in só much pain that in the moment she was felling as if she was the one guilty as its shown by the fact that op keeps sayng sorry she was scared and in pain só she coudnt realy think of what to do correctly see that is the problem with your police you guys will let People get away with what they do because the victime its too scared or Hurt ot say anything i bet that the op wrote that story because she wasnt able to report that Karen that time since she was unable to do anything and regret not pressing charges and now its too late the crazy whore is out there hurting other disabled People because OP wasnt able to think clearly int eh moment and wanted to run away from the situation she should have gone to the hospital to get pain killer and others medicines but wasnt able to actualy ask for that because of the pain
      Só yeah ur policement is hella broken since most of the time the dangerous person the one Who damaged and Hurt the other will get free because the ones opresses are scared and unable to think clearly só fuck you police of USA and other countrys

    • @willowids369
      @willowids369 Před rokem +1

      @@gabrielfreire3732 I would agree that maybe time should have been taken first, to determine what should have been done. And yeah, our police system (and justice system in general) sucks. However, I'd also point out that our medical systems also tend to suck, and all of these suck even more for disabled people/people with disabilities. Police and doctors both mistreat them in different ways, and for someone already so panicked, it is not ideal to put them in such a situation. After all, the time spent waiting will be spent with another person. Who would the other person be? The bus driver has to move on, and the nearest person would likely be the very woman who started the issue in the first place.
      I'm not sure what it's like in Brazil, but am I correct to suggest that hospitals are similarly profit-motivated as the US's hospitals are? While most here have a way to get financial assistance, you have to know what to ask for, which can be difficult.

    • @alias_crouton2671
      @alias_crouton2671 Před rokem +7

      Also, considering the op said they were on the spectrum, that makes their reaction make a lot more sense. From what I can tell, people on the spectrum have a hard time reacting to problems and will often resort to cowering if it's too stressful. (I'm sorry if I'm wrong about this. This is just my takeaway from being around autistic people)

    • @midnightbel
      @midnightbel Před 11 měsíci +1

      ​@willowids369 there are many cases where the authorities still take action even if the person doesn't want to press charges.

  • @limkailuen3022
    @limkailuen3022 Před rokem +341

    Give that Karen a Oscar for her acting , if she is the victim , twitter is hate free

  • @annanderson7
    @annanderson7 Před rokem +80

    Regarding story number 1, I can really relate. I have numerous disabilities, all of them hidden. Roto Scoliosis, osteoporosis, COPD, asthma, PAD... you get the idea. I have had this happen to me. Frankly, it gets old. Sometimes my back hurts so much I can barely move. People constantly give me the side eye when I use the electric shopping carts. Probably because I am a whopping 80 pounds. People just be kind. About story 4, run!

    • @soulhunter59
      @soulhunter59 Před rokem +3

      I'm more likely to give the side eye to a 500 pound sad sack than an 80 pound nothing.

  • @machstormer
    @machstormer Před rokem +35

    First story: OP might want to see a neurologist. My mother had minor headaches and semi major back problems. She went to several doctors, but no-one could figure out what was wrong. One day a friend told her to see a neurologist. Less than 5 minutes into the visit, the doctor ordered an immediate MRI. It turned out she had a tumor at the base of her pituitary gland that was also pressing on her spinal nerve.

  • @therealorfakeslungus
    @therealorfakeslungus Před rokem +29

    imagine just kicking people on their sides after they fell and not helping them get up. that's just the actual society we live in right now.

  • @jessicamarsh9779
    @jessicamarsh9779 Před rokem +38

    Story 3- You need to tell him “either you stop trying to controlling me & stop gaslighting me or I’m gonna need some space away from you to figure this out”. Ask your self, is this the type of behavior your gonna be able handle for the rest of your life? I would also tell him “after 9 months with my therapist, we have discussed if I have a drinking problem & we have came to the conclusion that I am NOT an alcoholic. So I will be having a drink when I want one. I am 21 years old and I can make my own choices. If you don’t like who I am & me making my OWN choices, then there’s the door”.

    • @jamiethal1319
      @jamiethal1319 Před rokem

      She’s 36, not 21.

    • @shadowflame2247
      @shadowflame2247 Před 6 měsíci

      Fucking agreed. A partner should never control their partner's choices unless absolutely needed to prevent physical harm to themselves or others (IE drunk driving or something akin to that) but the OP isn't an alcoholic, and the parntner sounds like a narrasistic control freak

  • @razhelfombelle
    @razhelfombelle Před rokem +63

    For the 3rd story: he's 100% trying to isolate her by using the excuse of her having a problem with alcohol to keep her from going out without him, seing her family and socializing in general. Alcohol is only an excuse, a way for him to justify controling her life like that, and a threat that if she tries to argue he'll tell everyone that she's an alcoholic, which would most likely isolate her even more. I hope she finds a solution and leave him because he's definitely a walking red flag.

    • @soroly_1111
      @soroly_1111 Před rokem +2

      totally, it happened 💯 percent same to my mom!

  • @jsonthefallen5218
    @jsonthefallen5218 Před rokem +28

    The first story broke my heart so badly.. 💔 I'm literally in tears.. how there's ppl this intolerant in 2022?

  • @Cosmo0o
    @Cosmo0o Před rokem +21

    When I tell you I wanted to scream and punch at that Karen in the first story, oh my godness I hate people like that.

  • @Regden1000
    @Regden1000 Před rokem +14

    Third story. Try and ask your partner why he is so obsessed with your drinking, was he in previous relationship in which he had alcoholic partner ? Was a family member of his an alcoholic ? If yes then maybe you two should go to couples counseling and help him get over whatever fear he has. If not then how about a compromise if he has any vices then he should give one of them up since you are giving up your joy of drinking. If all of that doesn't work then you should leave him and get your freedom of choice back also if he makes any false claims about you on social media threaten to sue him if he does.

    • @ChevoletNova
      @ChevoletNova Před rokem +4

      Yes! 100%

    • @garyrudolph-hp9up
      @garyrudolph-hp9up Před 11 měsíci +2

      Sounds like a control freak who hid that aspect of his personality until he had you where you were essentially isolated. Run.

  • @sardine8937
    @sardine8937 Před rokem +24

    this poor man or women is being screamed at and falls on their face and still being screamed at and is crying they really deserves better

  • @ItzAprilLOL
    @ItzAprilLOL Před rokem +49

    I really wish I was there on that bus. And even if she was faking it, who they hell does that lady think she is. I really really wish I was there.

    • @Charles-7
      @Charles-7 Před rokem +8

      same, I would tell the op that pressing charges on that Karen is the only way to make sure that she doesn't do it again to another who's just as disabled as they are

    • @ReaperKingOT
      @ReaperKingOT Před 10 měsíci

      U mean he not she?

  • @PineAsassin
    @PineAsassin Před rokem +7

    For number 3. It’s blackmail, threatening to say something if you don’t do stuff for him is blackmail and blackmail is a horrific situation.

  • @marleybob3157
    @marleybob3157 Před rokem +7

    I've been there. Bad back since the age of 19, four major spinal surgeries, years of rehab and finally a permanent disability. For years, I used public transportation to get to and from work and needed the disability seat. I use a cane as well but the stares I get from disapproving people was shocking. The worst was when people who felt they were entitled to the seat I was already sitting in so I totally get it. I've had the do-gooders intervene and tell me a gentleman would give up his seat for a senior r a pregnant woman. Were I Abe to stand for the nearly one hour I was on the train, I would have, but I wasn't and had to explain that time and time again informing them that not all disabilities are visible.

  • @commissar_dk420
    @commissar_dk420 Před rokem +37

    As a young ish person who needs a cane I can unfortunatly say that it happens to often.

    • @TheMazinoz
      @TheMazinoz Před rokem +3

      I'm nearly 70 and it has happened to me when groceries shopping. No elec chair, just came, walked to nearby shop, no disability parking etc.

  • @RaZoRBeLtRaN
    @RaZoRBeLtRaN Před rokem +10

    that first story I can relate. as someone with MS, most people think that there nothing wrong with me. they think I'm faking but only I know how I feel. I'm sorry for the OP and what they went through.

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 Před rokem +6

    Why didn't OP press charges? If it had been me I not only would I had let them call the police & press charges but I would've made sure she got prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law!

    • @teddychu1177
      @teddychu1177 Před rokem +2

      Neurodiverse people may not always be able to make the right decision in those circumstances. They did what they needed to, which was focus on themselves during an incredibly stressful and terrifying situation. Dealing with the Karen would be understandably impossible to deal with on top of that.
      The physical pain they had was barely manageable, and the BS Karen pulled was the tipping point.

  • @VeganLatte
    @VeganLatte Před rokem +8

    For the bus story, you could tell he was not faking the disability after he fell to the floor and did not get himself up. And he probably had a worrying look on his face when the Karen threw his cane across the bus.

  • @rubycararedheart9555
    @rubycararedheart9555 Před rokem +23

    I’m so happy I never met a Karen my whole entire life…honestly I feel sorry for the people who have run-ins with Karens. Although a few times in school I have been bullied because I have a hearing and speech disability. Seriously, what is up with you Karens?????

    • @TheMazinoz
      @TheMazinoz Před rokem

      They are stupid ignorant people with low self-esteem.

    • @ExpertGamerHD
      @ExpertGamerHD Před rokem +5

      I bet Karens are those spoiled brats who get everything they want. They want everything to go how they want it to go, and if they don't get their way, they have their *little temper tantrums.*

    • @gallouelenegallouelne2908
      @gallouelenegallouelne2908 Před rokem +1

      It would be so tempting to punch her in the face

    • @lukes.6045
      @lukes.6045 Před rokem

      Meet one

  • @-SwtGrps
    @-SwtGrps Před rokem +3

    First story: that driver is an incredible person. And also the passengers are also pretty awesome.

  • @youssefhamdy7313
    @youssefhamdy7313 Před rokem +11

    Story 2: the op have every right to suspect he have a second girlfriend
    And she need to break up with him

  • @Truthster772
    @Truthster772 Před rokem +10

    I don’t know, having dealt with alcoholics and narcissists, I could see how the alcoholic could easily twist things just like this. So yikes. Addictions are a whole different ball field. Be careful the advice you give.

  • @catcabincollective
    @catcabincollective Před rokem +3

    I have an invisible disability called POTs (postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome) and people always say it doesn’t exist so 💀 i feel super bad for OP in first story, that sucks. Hope Karen had some repercussions

  • @Nathan_Bookwurm
    @Nathan_Bookwurm Před rokem +5

    I don't understand why the other people in the buss only helped AFTER OP got kicked by the Karen and AFTER she threw away the cane and let OP fall cuz of trying to retrieve the cane. Someone else could've offered their place long before it escalated, or jumped in between before it escalated. Aren't people protective of people with canes (or other disabilities) at all?

    • @myStitch11
      @myStitch11 Před rokem +2

      Plenty of people on buses try to ignore the loud obnoxious karens, praying they will shut up and let the bus continue already. People on the bus probably only really paid attention to what was going on when the cane was throne, then only able to react or even get to the Karen when she screamed and kicked which probably took less than a second. OP was in a lot of pain and recounting a story so it probably felt like slow motion to OP while the other passengers it was only a handful of seconds. But typically people in the US (idk if OP is in the US) just stay to themselves with headphones. It would be better if we didn’t need to protect people with disabilities from Karens like this

  • @booknamebasis
    @booknamebasis Před rokem +8

    So many of these horror stories have a common thread: my partner was so kind and thoughtful, and never voiced any problem with my behavior, UNTIL they moved in.
    It’s like a switch goes off telling the person “You’re in, now you can do what you want!”

  • @reienna6410
    @reienna6410 Před rokem +17

    ugh...first story...ive had so damned much...thankfully the physical attacking has stopped...but not the verbal ones...people seem to think that im young that having extreme scoliosis doesnt qualify as a disability...even when they find out ive had 2 spinal surgeries AND it nearly killed me when i was young via heart and lung compression...which prompted my first surgery...or that walking around with a permenant cracked spine and having to use a cane at 37...having had to use it since i was 16...means i am just faking it for attention or [heaven forbid] because i am being entitled because i am a single white male and just using my gender and skin tone to abuse some kind of power....as if the fact i struggle to breathe most of the time and barely walk has a bloody thing to do with my gender or skin tone...or my age...i am fairly sure it has to do with the fact i am, in fact, disabled and have many health problems

  • @room9019
    @room9019 Před rokem +5

    There is a lot of “you’re faking a disability” and “that’s my bus seat” stories.

    • @chrismc410
      @chrismc410 Před rokem +1

      My Medicare/medicaid card stops the "faking a disability" BS. You don't even get one unless you are

  • @sarahsaleptdpt6879
    @sarahsaleptdpt6879 Před rokem +4

    "There is more than enough witnesses to put this lady behind bars" meanwhile the 4 seat bus:

  • @beaston-hw3qz
    @beaston-hw3qz Před rokem +3

    re: the "I'm not an alcoholic" basically he grew up and matured and wants a healthy lifestyle while you've stagnated.

  • @bradylay4798
    @bradylay4798 Před rokem +10

    I myself am disabled, and I am fourteen years old so when that Karen said "You're too young to have any serious issues like that" I was stirred up into absolute anger. I have a hard time writing and so my school mandates that my teachers let me type my essays, but my History teacher last year made me write my essays with my pencil and when I requested a copy of my Disabled Student Contract I was not given one, so I could not show it to my teacher. Another time, I actually failed an english class because I was on painkillers but that teacher was too stubborn do realize that I was learning even though I didn't have the mental capacity to write her monthly essays. Since then, to prevent people from being jerks, I have developed an INCREDIBLY THREATENING demeanor as well as begun to wear my medical equipment outside my clothes to ensure that I am respected by some and feared by the rest. I have also made sure to learn what the teachers aren't allowed to do and so I *mostly* have rights as a disabled person now. When I am in public, I generally try to amp up my threatening demeanor as much as I can to try to stay out of the OP's situation. If I were, though, I would've called the cops. Screw that Karen. (Controversial Opinion Time) I honestly believe world would be a better place if everyone had to experience trauma, so we could all have empathy and respect.

  • @UwU69792
    @UwU69792 Před rokem +7

    The guy in the first story should of sued the Karen in other words the devil for everything she.....no IT had/owned and also reported the monster to the police.

  • @lmt5732
    @lmt5732 Před rokem +2

    Yeah, I have juvenile arthritis (to the point where I spent months of my life completely unable to move because of pain), and I regularly get people yelling at me to stop faking it, and that I’m way too young to have arthritis. Kudos to the OP to knowing their limits, and removing themself from the situation.

  • @dorseiahill4526
    @dorseiahill4526 Před rokem +2

    I’ve lived this as well. It can be emotionally distressing ! ! !

  • @linamonther8050
    @linamonther8050 Před rokem +4

    I cant anderstand how this Karen can be so angry she kicked a man that has a disability i just know that her parents treated her like she is the queen of the world

  • @smorphous8928
    @smorphous8928 Před rokem +4

    So it's fair for the Bf to look through his Gf phone but whenever his Gf is around he hides it, that's really sketchy to begin with.

  • @laurenzaniewski2492
    @laurenzaniewski2492 Před rokem

    I love listening to this in my earbuds and just sitting on the couch. It relaxes me. Thank you for telling these stories.

  • @Luigi2262_
    @Luigi2262_ Před rokem +10

    I also have anxiety and autism like OP from the first story, though thankfully not the back pain. I really hope I never run into a Karen that entitled!

    • @stephsoohall6841
      @stephsoohall6841 Před rokem

      Sadly I had but in the past she was fine and btw her name is literally Karen. I still remember when Karens didn’t exist unless you had the name Karen.

    • @kateparent366
      @kateparent366 Před rokem

      Same Luigi, that is why my mother goes to my appointments with me in case I go into shut-down mode from being overwhelmed.

    • @ensarodabas1993
      @ensarodabas1993 Před rokem

      Sadly i still dont even straight know what autsm is

    • @stephsoohall6841
      @stephsoohall6841 Před rokem

      @@ensarodabas1993 feel free to ask

    • @ensarodabas1993
      @ensarodabas1993 Před rokem

      @@stephsoohall6841 oh alr! What "actually" autism is? And thanks for answering again :)

  • @iamhungey12345
    @iamhungey12345 Před rokem +2

    Only thing the OP did wrong was not calling the cops and became willing to give the Karen the seat after what she did. The OP is too nice.

  • @ChristopherLaHaise
    @ChristopherLaHaise Před rokem +4

    7:25 - Being autistic myself, if you've shut down you're not going to be able to think well enough to consider calling the police. I've had those kind of shut-downs, and you fixate on a single thing to the exclusion of anything else.

    • @Nintendotron64
      @Nintendotron64 Před rokem +1

      And even if you did call the police, you’re not going to be able to sufficiently explain what happened due to the overstimulation and waterfall of emotions. You’re better off waiting until you’re in a quiet area where you can calm down and process what just happened.
      This is most likely why she was begging to return home.

  • @ferritowastaken
    @ferritowastaken Před rokem +8

    This is just disgusting. I also have what you could call an “invisible disability” that’s attacking my brain, it’s kinda like tourettes and autism mixed as it causes tics and meltdown behavior but it’s a lot worse. I also have severe anxiety. I get accused of faking tics all.the.time. It’s sooooo annoying. Especially when everything hurts and no one seems to understand me except my friends.

    • @shadowthedarkshadow6960
      @shadowthedarkshadow6960 Před 10 měsíci

      Honestly I understand the tics
      As I used to have tics alike behavior (according to doctors) caused by medicine for a disorder that the school forced me to get meds for (they complimented my focus when I was off the meds XD)
      And some of them was audible so I get treated like shit because of something I can't control
      And because of my experiences I have a huge respect for people who can't get rid of tics or alike

    • @ferritowastaken
      @ferritowastaken Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@shadowthedarkshadow6960 omg people treated me like shit too and it’s so annoying I totally understand what you mean

    • @shadowthedarkshadow6960
      @shadowthedarkshadow6960 Před 10 měsíci

      @@ferritowastaken I was literally kicked out of class because of my tics!
      And I had a coughing tic which has been confirmed as a tic not a cold and I was not allowed to participate in home economics (literally the most fun lessons in school) because of my tic
      And I was always told I was disturbing people and because of that they sent me out of the lesson

    • @ferritowastaken
      @ferritowastaken Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@shadowthedarkshadow6960 that’s so fucked up, one time in school something similar happened, students kept complaining about me to the teacher so they sent me out and didn’t tell me what to do and i was just walking in the hallway and the school counselor asked me what i was doing and i just said “the teacher made me leave for no reason and she won’t let me go back-“ and it was really confusing

    • @shadowthedarkshadow6960
      @shadowthedarkshadow6960 Před 10 měsíci

      @@ferritowastaken worst thing was I was in 1- 5th grade somewhere when I kept getting kicked out

  • @cristyjohnston4170
    @cristyjohnston4170 Před 11 měsíci +1

    We need more people like that bus driver

  • @gygyu5189
    @gygyu5189 Před rokem +3

    "it sounds like your partner is overly controlling"
    -said by a girlfriend that obsessed with wine and beer👹🤙

  • @_JoyceArt
    @_JoyceArt Před rokem +2

    Gross! I hope that if I ever witness something like that, I’d have the courage to stand up for the OP in the first story.
    That behavior is so foreign to me, I only know people who inform regularly how someone is doing, when they know they are physically unwell.
    And there’s no thing like “too young to be in pain/disabled”.

  • @gae5327
    @gae5327 Před rokem +1

    I am a disabled teen and I've dealt with Karens as well. I have something close to their situation, with pain

  • @acetvgamingyt4166
    @acetvgamingyt4166 Před rokem +3

    At the first story. i would shout at her like she has a leg. Just stand up and be proud you don't have any disabilities unlike just force disable to standup.

  • @scarletthaeseler2701
    @scarletthaeseler2701 Před rokem +2

    For story one I totally support you bc I've seen videos on CZcams. Of ppl not treating autistic kids right. But don't worry I will support u:)

  • @garysprandel1817
    @garysprandel1817 Před rokem +4

    First story: was a 59 year old truck driver 2 years ago more than capable of taking care of myself,being the one to be helping others and my late wife and I were the ones to dig up a couple bucks for friends in need or tight spot but then an eventually fatal medical condition has put me on early retirement and disability. Two years on and getting around with a walking stick ( figured I didn't feel old enough for a Hurri Cane and if I was going to need assistance I was going to look badass doing it) I still hesitate a bit when people hold doors for me outside of the I'm close enough the holding it for me to not let slam in my face and still find it like I'm imposing to have to ask someone to lift something now too heavy ( coming from a guy that was throwing 50 pound cartons of paper around on a daily basis for 28 years of the previous 40 it's a stark reminder of my rapid change that I need help lifting a case of Ensure to my cart) for me or from a top shelf. Understanding where OP is coming from but would have seen Karen led off in cuffs myself.

    • @maxwhite8616
      @maxwhite8616 Před rokem

      Yeah but he had a autistic breakdown as someone who's had them it is impossible to function higher than repeating the same words over and over.

  • @ashleythibodeaux7201
    @ashleythibodeaux7201 Před rokem +1

    This is very sad especially because I know at least some of the pain he felt in the first story

  • @carlrood4457
    @carlrood4457 Před rokem +9

    The problem with the third story is those are the sort of thing an alcoholic who doesn't recognize their problem would say.

    • @daykibaran9668
      @daykibaran9668 Před rokem +2

      Especially she mentioned that she drinks in daytime

    • @firewing5592
      @firewing5592 Před rokem +3

      I agree but the issue is sense she didn’t have the choice in the matter, or feels she didn’t, she is just gonna relap and it is still very controlling behavior from the boyfriend. Therapy is we’re he should told her to go and maybe watch her drink and tell her how much she’s drinking instead of trying to control it straight up

    • @daykibaran9668
      @daykibaran9668 Před rokem

      @@firewing5592 you’re right

    • @adamclune8983
      @adamclune8983 Před rokem

      @@firewing5592 its the same as if she was overweight. Yes he might be controlling her but its for her own good.

    • @NoahBTW_
      @NoahBTW_ Před rokem +3

      Even then why would he care like they said a few beers isn't going to make you drunk. (But I'm Irish so Idk about everyone else)

  • @FaerieAmira
    @FaerieAmira Před rokem +2

    Why does everyone have to treat people with invisible disabilities poorly

  • @GameBoy2014
    @GameBoy2014 Před rokem

    I like how everybody helps you when someone is telling you to do something it’s very nice:)

  • @nevduv9990
    @nevduv9990 Před rokem +3

    Bro it took way too long for people to step in on the bus…

  • @Chrissy85308
    @Chrissy85308 Před 10 měsíci +1

    My heart hurts for the disabled bus rider. I was 31 when I had an accident that left me disabled. I have had elderly peoole treat me like that when I could still get around with a cane. They could walk better than me without a cane but would have a hissy fit because I had a disability license plate and parked in a disabled spot. It is insane how crazy and cruel some of those people have been. Now I am in wheelchair and dont have to deal with them aa often thankfully.

  • @sylviaruckman983
    @sylviaruckman983 Před rokem

    I also suffer from crippling anxiety. I know what it feels like and that is something that makes me truly feel what they felt.

  • @WanderingCan
    @WanderingCan Před rokem +2

    I feel so bad for the person from story 1

  • @jamiem2444
    @jamiem2444 Před rokem +2

    When I was 34- 35 years old (I'm 38 now) I had such severe sciatic back pain that I couldn't walk to the bathroom without my husband helping me walk. It was completely debilitating until I got physical therapy. Back pain is no joke....

  • @captvalstrax
    @captvalstrax Před rokem +2

    Disability is not a competition!

  • @dimwitdies2734
    @dimwitdies2734 Před rokem +1

    She said "I can't. I simply cannot" and I started cackling

  • @frog_flower_
    @frog_flower_ Před rokem +1

    I feel so bad for you thank god for the people that helped you❤

  • @Gavs_rc_hobbies
    @Gavs_rc_hobbies Před rokem +1

    As someone who is in my mid 30's has arthritis in my hip (also requiring a walking stick), and is also on the autism spektrum, the first story really pisses my off. I too have people look at my in a judgemental manner thinking that im "faking it".

  • @charlenevarada--Stargazer

    That karen in that 1st story was & is insane!!! How dare she insult a disabled person-especially one who has medical & personal issues! No kidding, I would've liked to deck that person who did that as it REALLY made me angry!

  • @ravenous_studios
    @ravenous_studios Před 10 měsíci +1

    There are some Karens who will still say "You're not disabled enough" even if the disabled is literally missing half their body.

  • @MargaretWiggs
    @MargaretWiggs Před 8 měsíci

    My God. Shoutout to the passengers and the driver. If in the event that I ever meet that Karen, it's going to get ugly.

  • @bow_and_aero1210
    @bow_and_aero1210 Před rokem +1

    Funny story that has to do with saying "I love you": When I was a freshman in highschool my friend group was really close. We all felt safe enough to be extremely vulnerable together and we supported each other through everything. All of us loved each other like siblings. So whenever any of us hung out we always said "Love you" when we left. Fast forward a few years and I was sitting in the hallways of the music department waiting for the first theater rehearsal of the year to start when a freshman I had only met at auditions (they didn't actually audition for the show, they were going to be in tech and it was encouraged for them to come just to meet everyone) leans against the door a few yards away that leads outside. They look visibly upset so I ask if they're okay. I have a reputation as being very friendly and open so a lot of the underclassmen see me as a mentor (their words not mine), so it is not uncommon for freshman especially to come to me to talk. The freshman proceeds to tell me that they're having issues with their parents and wasn't looking forward to going home. We had a conversation for almost a half an hour before their ride came and had to leave. I was so wrapped up in the conversation that while they were walking out the door I said "Bye! Love you!" They didn't turn around or anything but I knew they heard it. I immediately felt so embarrassed and couldn't help but wonder what that person was now thinking. Did they think I said it because I actually love them? I obviously don't but I was extremely worried that they thought that I was confessing my feelings after talking to them for 30 minutes. During rehearsal I went over to one of their friends who was acting in the show and asked to please tell them that I didn't mean to say that and it was just a habit. The next time I saw them I apologized again but they just laughed and assumed I hadn't meant it so there was no need to worry. So yeah. lol

  • @garylundberg2906
    @garylundberg2906 Před rokem +2

    So sorry that happened...
    Not all disabilities are easily seen for what they are.
    I hurt for over 10 years after moving a 25 lb package.
    The pain would literally drop me to the ground at times
    No warning whatsoever
    Thankfully, after about 10 years, the pain finally went away on its own
    I still have occasional pain, but it's not anything like what it used to be.
    I never asked for disability for that, as I was mostly able to lead a normal life
    But I would let my employers know so that if they would check the cameras and see me on the ground, they would know what was happening

  • @vexztrinnity
    @vexztrinnity Před rokem

    the first story made me cry poor dude

  • @rambok6299
    @rambok6299 Před 11 měsíci

    Bro this made me cry 😭

  • @erinschlueter91
    @erinschlueter91 Před rokem +1

    the first op said she was screaming like a banshee but the entitled Karen is a banshee

  • @Justin-A-Carter
    @Justin-A-Carter Před rokem +3

    To the last story. The person also has to know not to have sex with somebody on the first date. That's totally cringe!

  • @yvhetalexander848
    @yvhetalexander848 Před 10 měsíci

    This guy deserves 1 billion subs

  • @-forgetfulfroggo
    @-forgetfulfroggo Před rokem +1

    If that Karen is the victim, then I’m the Queen of England.

  • @bethb9143
    @bethb9143 Před rokem

    I have anxiety issues, but everyone shouts and screams at ME.

  • @EddBanshee
    @EddBanshee Před rokem +4

    Story #4: The second date? You've only known each other for two weeks? You gotta run! I mean do you know how many horror movies have people like this? Yes, he might just be really inexperienced, and/or really desperate to get in a relationship. Either that, or you're just way too hot to handle! But guys that think highly of themselves, and have at least a couple options, don't rush into things. You've only gone on two dates! More importantly, you've only known each other for two weeks! That's fourteen days! Plus this might be him trying to manipulate you. Which leads to emotional, and sometimes even physical abuse.

    • @Trojianmaru
      @Trojianmaru Před rokem

      She's also the weird one for screwing someone on the second date, 10 days after they first met, n then acting like he's the weird one for developing feelings.
      I don't usually slut shame, but I do when people start virgin shaming

  • @fernandorios474
    @fernandorios474 Před rokem +1

    Yeah before Mr. Smith (my old neighbor) passed away this year I did help him out with his groceries or stuff he did say "I cannot pick up anything that's heavier than 10 lbs. due to my back." which that's the base of your neck down to your upper hip/tail bone

  • @Transformersfan207
    @Transformersfan207 Před 4 měsíci

    When I'm angry or upset I can't remember anything there

  • @Maddy_54
    @Maddy_54 Před rokem +1

    This has happened to me before and I am dislexic😢 it hurts my hart that ppl are like this

  • @dorothymckay733
    @dorothymckay733 Před 7 měsíci

    I also have a disability where it makes it difficult to walk for long periods of time or just starts to hurt. I was in physical therapy, and if there’s people who will just stare at you look at you whisper about you it’s difficult

  • @davidmiller8445
    @davidmiller8445 Před rokem

    So today I learned what gaslighting was, like I understand it perfectly now. Thankfully mama didn’t raise no b. I’ll call out that bs right then and there

  • @joshiesyoutubelife2858

    First story: Driver and passengers being a legend

  • @danielsgames8810
    @danielsgames8810 Před rokem +1

    I'm in the same situation except for the back pain

  • @logangrattan7364
    @logangrattan7364 Před rokem

    For the first story, the driver is a mad lad

  • @pro25256
    @pro25256 Před rokem

    Person * exists * A random karen: YOUR WORTHLESS, YOUR FAKING WHAT YOUR DOING

  • @Rayquaza-wp8kd
    @Rayquaza-wp8kd Před rokem +1

    The bus story was crazy and I would have helped the victim anyway possible

  • @wendiesweetwood5099
    @wendiesweetwood5099 Před 11 měsíci

    I was born with a defective hip and leg that requires me to use either a walker or a wheelchair depending on how much it is bothering me, and sometimes when I have gotten on a bus because I can't drive. There have been plenty of people who have refused to allow me to sit down, even though they can see that I am struggling to get around. There are also some people who complain about long I am taking to get up

  • @janicekellerkimball4596

    I am so sorry you had to experience this. It wasn't in any way your fault . I get feeling bad about not being able to do things, and feeling like you are imposing on others...I feel the same way with my pain issues....it is frustrating, but please understand it isn't your fault!!!

  • @imknittingahat3520
    @imknittingahat3520 Před 10 měsíci

    I have ADHD and a chronic pain, people don't realize how much of your brain that takes up. I heavily feel for you in general.

  • @geralynorourke784
    @geralynorourke784 Před rokem

    I am surprised that the people and the driver on the bus didn't get up and help earlier

  • @1adrock12
    @1adrock12 Před rokem

    The op in the last one is a freaking succubus 🤣🤣🤣

  • @hayleywebber437
    @hayleywebber437 Před rokem +1

    I feel your pain from the Karen I have the same thing

  • @Teone77
    @Teone77 Před rokem

    Feelings are pretty much a deck of cards, not knowing what to do is normal, you just need to order and shuffle them if you can.

  • @marecekvales7018
    @marecekvales7018 Před rokem

    Its nice listening to you

  • @m0rt4ll1c
    @m0rt4ll1c Před rokem +1

    K)know the rules
    A) arrogant
    R)rude
    E)evil
    N)not nice

  • @jasoncarpp7742
    @jasoncarpp7742 Před 11 měsíci

    *Story 1:* Who in their right mind would attack someone, saying that OP was *"faking his disability"?* What is wrong with this crazy entitled karen? OP should *definitely* have pressed charges against karen for what she did. That's just unforgivable behaviour.

  • @kyliebarnes1651
    @kyliebarnes1651 Před rokem +1

    I am so sorry that you went through all of that.. I've got multiple health issues and am partially paralysed from having 3 strokes at the age of 36... Your story is awful and stresses me as I'm concerned that the same thing will happen to me too.its a true fear of mine.. and hearing you say more than one person has accused you of faking your pain... That sets off PTSD triggers.again I'm sorry that you went through that too.have you looked into having a ganglion block done?

  • @-Lumine_.0
    @-Lumine_.0 Před rokem +3

    why are ppl constantly putting “first”

    • @Rinhorde
      @Rinhorde Před rokem

      You got to let the people know