Her monotone voice feels so staged. She does not smile and I feel like her eyes look sad. Is she privately miserable? I definitely do not hate her but am bothered by the dissonance between her claiming this perfect life and her seemingly hidden sadness?
I agree that all of these traits are INFURIATING, but what's really making me make right now (and I'm only 13 min in) is that she's talking about making cereal and bread from scratch as if these things only take an hour or so to make. You have to let dough SIT FOR LIKE THREE HOURS. THIS IS AN ALL-DAY TASK. YOU CANT JUST MAKE A WHOLE LOAF OF BREAD FOR ONE SANDWICH FOR ONE MEAL.
It is hilarious when she’s like “my baby asked me for a pb&j first thing in the morning so I spent 6 hours making it for her” as if that baby isn’t losing her damn mind waiting all day for a damn sandwich
I'd be dead from starvation if my mom made me wait 6 hrs to eat! 😂 Especially without an easy snack. Oh wait, she'd have to make that from scratch too, nevermind.
1:42 I’m surprised nobody has pointed this out BUT SHE IS LITERALLY PUTTING ACTUAL OREOS INTO THAT. SHE HAS OREOS. WHY IS SHE MAKING THEM FROMT SCRATCH? Am I stupid?
i slightly understand people finding her videos annoying. but hating her for her religion is so unnecessary. she isnt activley being racist or misogynistic, shes just a morman... if i started hating on a muslim or christians because their scriptures can be misogynistic, i would be burned at the stake. if she wants to cook food from scratch in full glam, so be it.
'Slim Easy' sounds like the type of jeans you'd find in an Urban Outfitter and 'Rumble Honey ' sounds like it could either be a flavor of tea or a strain of the devil's lettuce.
I thought you were joking this whole vid, bc she's actually not that bad. Like we can laugh at how unrelatable she is, but for people to be hating on her? I don't get it.
and the sad thing is, she makes a lot of food from scratch due to her eczema and the flare ups that she gets. shes literally getting bullied online for NO REASON.
@@avitheofficial7014 I'm not a doctor and neither do I have eczema, so I'm not the right person to ask. But I am aware that different foods can cause eczema to flare up
@littlekittyonaroof I'm not saying that her husband won't eat it neither was cooper it was just that she wasn't making it JUST for that reason as she record it all and got all dressed up for it. But overall, I just found that line funny.
If someone's content is making you feel like you're not enough as a mother or as a human being, then unsubscribe, unfollow or get off the Internet because it's not their job to make you feel better about yourself. Either do better or stop complaining and unfollow.
It's not realistic. It's highly curated. There are many mormon female influencers doing the same thing. The thing they have in common is how curated everything looks. Now, when you look at others, say even Mennonite or other Christian influencers you see great cooking and impressive home making skills but it tends to be real and approachable. It doesn't look like performance art.
@@talllala sooo whats the issue? Its her content on her page? Beacuase its not ReAliStiC you go stomp your feet and cry and DEMANDS she be to your standard?? Oh boy heres a news flash nearly all of social media is curated or fabricated in some way.
What drives me nuts is the fact that she's 22. TWENTY TWO years old. That's one year older than me. Yet here I am, living with my parents, in a shark blanket, eating crackers at my desk (which is nothing to be ashamed of). All while she has multiple children, and is married. Our contrasting lifestyles completely bewilder me.
I'm 23, desperate to find a job, living with my boyfriend and 2 cats. I feel like my life is profoundly chaotic rn, and I couldn't imagine adding a _human child_ into the mix, especially at my age
I’ll be 24 in two weeks, trying not to be paycheck to paycheck. and it’s hard enough taking care of my cat 😭 she’s spoiled asf but I’m not making no wet food from scratch 💀
What is so funny is that all the people criticizing her for preaching a Mormon lifestyle are completely clueless as to what a Mormon lifestyle is. This is what's dangerous when people have a little bit of information and think they know what they're talking about. I grew up in the Mormon church until I was 16 years old. That's when I left the church because it wasn't for me. What 16 year old likes going to church? Nara and Lucky are not your traditional Mormon family. They would probably be considered "Jack Mormons" by the church. Mormons who go against church doctrine. Lucky had a hard time qutting smoking. Smoking goes against church doctrine, as does drinking. Being a "Trad Wife" is not part of the church. While the church is still heavily male-dominated. Women are free to work and have successful careers. As a non-Mormon, I never felt my family was any different other than they didn't drink or smoke and went to church on Sundays. Other than that they were pretty much regular people. As for Nara. She just shares her life. Doing what makes her happy and that's dressing up and cooking from scracth. She's not hurting anybody. She's also not responsible for how people react to them. For some reason she triggers a lot of people's insecurities. People love to take their shit out on her. What we see and how we react says more about us, then it does about her. I love her videos. I love the way she cooks, what she cooks, and how she narrates them. What I admire about her is that she doesn't let the haters get to her. She still just continues with her life the way she wants.
Thanks for your comment. Like to see there are sweet people in the world. People just see a tag of “Mormon” and jump on it. It’s a trigger word for hate.
8:14 idk if you’ve said that before but that is SO strongly my belief, too. They know they’ll be posting them/about them, so they pick something that’s fun to post. The kid’s actual offline life is in no way considered, just ignored in favor of looking cool/unique/whatever on social media.
Speaking as a professional nanny for the past 30 plus years, this woman has an entire staff behind her. There ain’t no way she’s doing all this from scratch, cleaning it all up, making and editing videos and caring for the kids. She’s making the rest of the world feel inferior….and she’s loving every minute of it.
If you feel inferior after watching a video that is meant for social media, that is a person problem. She isn't making anyone feel inferior. People who wish they were doing something different but haven't made any actual changes get jealous and instead of accepting or working on themselves, they get pissy towards a creator who hasn't put down anyone.
Idc about her but I think people dislike her because she just seems outta touch with reality but that’s just most rich people in general. Also people may see her as fake, spending all those hours creating basic food from scratch while having small children is very unrealistic. Other than that there’s no reason for so much hate honestly.
She’s a Mormon and religion that explicitly states the only good people in the world are yt and to be born anything else is to be a punishment for being a bad yt person in the past life
I think quite a bit of it has to do with how some people assume she’s taking the feminist movement back a few decades. My thing is - the beauty of feminism is that women get to choose now. We can choose to be house wives like she has or we can choose to be career driven.
They hate her because she is Mormon and the Mormon religion teaches that a woman's place is to be subservient to her husband and stay at home and take care of him and be a mother. While she may not be coming out and saying it directly a lot of her content is romanticizing that lifestyle and encouraging that belief (although not explicitly). It's also ironic that she is Mormon as a black woman considering Mormons believe the dark skin = a curse from God for being a sinner
But is it really her fault that people are met with unrealistic expectations ? Don’t we all have our own brains, why are people putting her on a kinda of unwanted pedestal and expecting her to be realistic just because she is an influencer ? If somebody is really triggered by a random video they see online, I think the problem starts with themself.
I’ve seen her on TikTok and I genuinely thought her videos were a funny satire on those videos where women talk about making food from scratch because their demanding husband asked
Elephant in the room is bias. People are very uncomfortable when black women do not fit into stereotypes they've been fed. And when they can't figure out how and why the black woman doesn't fit the mold, they get really agitated and mean. "How dare she have the perceived privilege of time, wealth, beauty and peace of mind? Tell us now, how do you have time to apply makeup annnnd bake with a Walmart stand mixer?" I've noticed women especially with insane criticism over this woman, when it's literally creative content on social media. The jealousy is unhinged, but I'm not surprised. See it all the time in corporate America.
Omg yes! .. and the fact that countless white women who have literally the same content as her rarely ever face the same criticism she is facing for simply being aesthetic its sickening
@@irishather5580im white and i feel its a mix of racisme and jealousy. She is gorgeous, kind, smart (she was going to collège studying science), a model and got to meet the love of her life at 18 and on top of that a young rich hot model who was thé IT boy of the 2010's, and they birthed gorgeous kids, plus their happiness sounds genuine because of how they look kind and unproblematic and have no drama and scandale so people can't handle it. The fact that she was so humble at the point of replying to most of her comments made her an easy target. Whats sad IS that she mostly cook from scratch because she had skin issues
@@ionlysimpformyself7847 definitely not to mention the toxic feminists who were shading her for " promoting the wifey material " even tho she's just being a good wife and a mom . Like she doesn't have to be an independent woman " which am curtain she is " who lives alone .. like some women wanna be happily married with kids it's not bad its honestly ridiculous
@@irishather5580 that's funny cause i'm a radical feminist and was a misandrist but i found her adorable. Those who hate her are just a bunch of jealous pickmees that will be turning into tradwives karens the second a guy will stop leaving them on read 🤣
@@ionlysimpformyself7847 To be fair, I see this a lot when interracial couples are on social media. Women especially will go out of their way to create a delulu case and claim the wife “stole” the White, Black, Arab or African man, etc etc. As if there are only so many of that type of man to go around, like Sriracha. Scarcity mindset.
I have to disagree! I think the basis of people’s dislike does come from jealousy. It’s not her responsibility to make sure people feel like a good mother, even if she IS acting quite pretentiously, she’s not really doing anything wrong. If a 28 mother of 2 is upset, that’s on herself not Nara. I found her videos inspiring and they got me into baking, personally, it’s just the way you look at it!! Her kids names tho, can’t let that slide.
I thought the same thing. I noticed because they are a few other women who make similar videos to her of making homemade everything from scratch and the hate these women receive is simply crazy. It’s a bunch of Comments of jealously and “ oh I feel bad as mother so I’m gonna take it out on you” is basically the sum Of it or “ who has time For this etc” if they have the time and that’s what they wanna do at the end of the day why do people hate so much? As you said and as I said it’s completely jealousy
I think a big part of the cringe for me is the "my family asked for a simple item, and instead of giving it to them I did this thing for 8 hours," and we all know none of that is true. She absolutely made a normal sandwich for her kid, then LATER (while the nanny watched the kids) she made bread/content. I LOVE watching people bake, but the pretense is very annoying.
@@LMBillingsley that’s a great point!! It’s definitely unrealistic for most mothers of 2 to be able to not only have the time for this, but also to afford it. This is coming from a 19 year old with no children so my comment was quite biased there. I don’t feel a sense of superiority coming from her videos, but that could be because i’m not in the same position as her. Another thing I see in her comments is people saying she’s setting an unrealistic expectation for mothers to fulfil, I can see how that could be a consequence of her content, but I hope most people watching have the common sense to know it’s not possible for the average person to live like she does. I still don’t believe she deserves the hate she’s getting, but I can see where they’re coming from!
That’s because you have a positive outlook on it which is great. The people who are triggered by her are the people who wish that they could live her experience since she has some level of privilege and freedom outside the regular 9-5 lifestyle. What I don’t understand is why people are projecting their hatred and manipulating others to feel hatred for someone we don’t know. We don’t know Nara so how can we really question her motherhood, her lifestyle or her aesthetic if we don’t have all of the information? People are only following based on misinformation and assumptions. Speculating based on that very lack of information? Y’all need help.
@@AmbitiousDesire101 i completely agree. I also think some of her content is satire but even if not at the end of day why do people want to outwardly hate on her? It screams jealously to me when people do
As a klara I am wildly offended with how she named her child my name my name is pretty normally spelled and I still have issues with my name I cannot imagine that poor child
Here’s my take: it’s all fake. She has childcare while she works (does her makeup/hair/dress, cooks and films it, VO and edit work, post it, repeat). It’s like a regular job except we only see the curated version she posts with the story she puts with it. People can’t believe her and hate comments are still engagement to the algorithm. Secondly, I doubt her kids are really named those names. She chose those to get engagement. The clue there is that there were regular names in the list that she didn’t go with. I wonder how many comments on that video are “why would you go with rumble honey when dawn was an option?” Because it’s not real.
Imo, I think the scenarios are rage bait. "Look I'm a better aesthetic mom than you. My kid only gets pb&j if I cook it from scratch at his whim. I'm a better wife because I make cookies on demand. She's doing this trad wife flex in a way that sells a fantasy to guys, and insults other women simultaneously, while making other people jealous. That's really impressive imo
From what I’m aware she’s never said anything particularly racist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. Y’all just love to hate on random people on the internet doing better than you it’s giving jealousy. And I also don’t know why anyone would let someone else’s lifestyle affect their own mental health like worry about your own.
Let's be real here. Most of the hate against this woman is likely due to envy and jealousy. She's beautyful. Married to the most popular male model apparently .. so, one of the most handsome guys out there. Also very wealthy I imagine. She has a bunch of cute, healthy kids at a young age. She has money, a social media following, so she's making her own money while she's spending hours just chilling and making food etc. Dressing up like a doll.. sh that a lot of women grew up play pretending. Sh a lot of women were told they didn't want because "wanting children is something the patriarchy pushed on women" or "you don't need no man" etc etc. So now we're seeing 30/40 year old millenial women make teary eyed videos about not having any children, and not being able to find the right guy etc. And then they see this young woman having it all (I'm sure her life isn't perfect either btw) and they get extremely jealous.
Yes honestly, not everyone has the time to be creating cells from scratch in order to make a blueberry smoothie. Like nobody is out on social media being frocking extra every day.
@@Cecilia806how do you know she doesn't get up early for that?? Many women will make time to feel beautiful in the morning. Even full glam makeup like that only takes like 30min-1hr depending on how fast/efficient you are lol
No I’d be saying the exact same thing because that toddler would still probably be screaming and crying in the back waiting 6 hours for that sandwich 💀
It’s the air of superiority combined with the fact that she clearly has staff at home doing other things. She is part of the leisure class roleplaying activities done by the working class while dressed and speaking in a way that denotes an air of superiority. Someone who ACTUALLY cooks from scratch and is a homemaker could NEVER have the time for what she does; but the rich roleplaying as working class is nothing new.
That's what people need to know. Nara has said it all the time that being a Content creator and modelling is her job. It's like saying, "modelling is a scam, why don't I look good the way they does."
@@sundus928 but she’s always out here replying to her instagram comments saying she “makes the time” to do this, and likes comments from men saying should be the standard for women 👀
Soen guy made a video pointing out that this type of "trad wife" influences sell the idea of being a home maker while simultaneously not being one lol Like they never post videos of them cleaning the house, getting a difficult stain out of a shirt or doing chores that actually constitute to taking care of the home. They just do this time consuming meals so they can say "look, I'm a stay at home wife hard at work" but this tells us nothing about their skills as wife or a mother other than they can cook. Idk if it makes sense but is a pseudo-house wife effect if you will, they do something yet show us nothing
@@ellaartenstein853its rage bait. Cooper did not watch that video, whatever the video may be (im not willing to look it up, but im sure its something horrific happening to a child). Theyre saying it to get attention, they say this under thousands of comments on hundreds of channels. Cooper probably has no clue what this is even is, and neither do i.
Lol I swear I watch this for coopers reactions more so than the videos now. The contents always chocked full, but he deliveries in a relatable or comedic entertainment way. I hooe this channel keeps getting subcribers you are doing great!
It’s not the full glam. It’s not the recipes. Cooking in makeup and nice clothes is a thing that’s been done for ages. It’s pretending like it’s all some simple 2-step solution to a healthy life for your husband and kids. THAT’S what annoys people. The PB&J is a perfect example. If your kid asks you for a PB&J for breakfast, you literally can’t make bread and jam and peanut butter from scratch in the 20 minutes before your toddler throws a tantrum. Pretending like you can and that you’re a good mom and wife for it is what rubs people the wrong way. Same with the cookies and cream milkshake. If you have an immediate craving for that kind of thing, it’s genuinely a waste a time to make it from scratch at home. If she just said, “My husband likes cookies and cream milkshakes so I thought it would be fun to make some ice cream and cookies totally from scratch,” it wouldn’t bother anyone. I’ve seen that kind of content before. It’s pretty standard on the internet. BUT she knows what she’s doing. The air of superiority is what she’s going for because for better or (mostly) for worse, the algorithm incentivizes engagement. And this makes people feel some type of way.
That whole my children asked me to or my husband asked me to is just what ppl do on cook tok theres 100s of vids with the same intro like have you seen that one lady that be like my husbands asked me too cook the amazing hamburger etc I’ve actually stumbled across this girl before i liked her so i was shocked to see the amount of hate she has received
I have a well raised toddler? thank G she doesn't throw a tantrum if I tell her I don't have pb&j right away... its obviously a saying "my family wanted to eat this so i genuily make it for them" she's not making it at the moment they asked for it. I sometimes cook from scratch, bc i dont have a 9 to 5 job, it more freely. When my toddler ask for yogourt (14hrs to be done) or cakes or cookies (1hr) "maybe we can have cookies later okay ?, youll have yogourt tomorrow" And I'll simply make them for later and feed her something else ! Maybe she doesn't cook herself every meal for everyone but in her video she's just specifies "they asked me so I tried to do it" sometimes igs just funnier and healthier from scratch too She's not promoting anything or saying her lifestyle is the best and people not making food from scratch with a full face qnd nice clothes are the worst parents on earth. That's some reach...to hate on someone just existing and doing her life, blud shes just posting cooking video and people are mad mad 💀
@@liabstrait8306this is the third time you’ve been in the comments about making your toddler homemade yogurt- kind of seems like you have a touch of the pick me disease the TikTok lady has.
All i'm getting from this comment is she's rubbing people the wrong way because her videos are "unrealistic" and "unattainable" for the average person. Bro, let's not act as if 90% of influencer content isn't already incredibly unattainable for the average 9-5/minimum wage employee. The content that gets promoted tends to be lavish trips and vacations most people can't afford. There's Mr Beast type shit where people are giving away thousands of dollars randomly to random people. There's "tone deaf" and "out of touch" beauty influencers guilt tripping viewers for buying "low quality" dupes of skincare and makeup products that retail for hundreds of dollars or around the $100 mark. Bruh. It doesn't rub people the wrong way because she's actually saying out loud in her content or somewhere in her caption "Hey! You! Loser, poor people!!! Get off your lazy ass and go make your children all their food from scratch or else you are a FAILURE as a PARENT!!!! Unlike me, who is perfect and such an amazing mother for doing this tehe:)" She has never once said any of that, she's never even made a passive aggressive remark about how "i genuinely care about my kids unlike OTHER parents soooo i'm going to make their food from scratch like everyone who cares about their kids should be doing." She is unrealistic, she is unattainable for the average person. But to claim she "rubs people the wrong way" is just a way to justify the backlash and hate she's recieving which is actually just people being upset that her content is unrealistic and unattainable for THEM. It's not supposed to be a tutorial on how to be a good mother. It's her clearly enjoying cooking and making these things from scratch, she most definitely doesn't actually fix all her childrens' meals and snacks from scratch. I personally wouldn't watch her content because, like i said, I know it's not attainable for me and probably never will be. If people want to see realistic content, they should hit "not interested" when her videos pop up, and they should seek out content that matches their lifestyle and doesn't make them feel bad about themselves...which is the REAL reason it "rubs them the wrong way." She didn't actually do anything wrong. People just don't like feeling like they're less than. And that's their problem and their insecurity, not hers. Sincerely, a bitch who's always teetered on the lower-middle class line, whose family struggles to pay bills, whose family has gone hungry from time to time, etc. Her content isn't for or about everyone the way people think it is or should be. It's about & for her & people need to stop calling things that they know are a crazy unrealistic display of wealth as "out of touch" like no shit sherlock! Y'all don't call the Kardashians out of touch when they post shit all the time acting like their world is ending bc their privileged life isn't going perfect while others in the world are starving and dying..."Kim, there's people that are *dying.*"
Finding out Lucky Blue Smith is married after years of seeing him as character inspo in Wattpad books is not what I was expecting from a Cooper video 😭
It's just super weird to me that people care so much about this. People are mad that she's rich and has time to look good and do whatever she wants? Omg what an outrage, lmao
@@axlescogido3713 nah, I don't exactly want to be that person lmao. and its incredibly easy to hate on someone when they name their kids like that.. yikes
It might actually not be true. Apparently people have found evidence of her claiming to be 22 for longer than a year, which isn’t really surprising if you’re a model because it’s hard to keep that job past 30, so lying about being in your early 20s for a while extends the workable time frame before you’re out of a job
@@Kimmie9553 she’s 22. There are records from Germany of her being in an elementary school swim competition at a time that would place her at around 22 years old now.
@@Kimmie9553people assume she lied about her age before because her being 22 now would suggest they dated while she was still minor and married right after she turned 18
28 year old mother of two here. I’d be so mad making everything from scratch and having 60% of it end up on the floor. Not to mention having the little one harass me the entire time I’m cooking it.
28 yr old mom of 2. True that but I also couldn't give two Fs less if other people are doing it 🤷♀️ not saying you said this, but cooper did, it's not a valid reason to hate on someone for being a mom & make cooking videos.
@@drinas2783 It’s a valid reason to critique someone. Lots of people think that Nara’s content is real, and she does give off an air of pretentiousness, but the reality is that Nara isn’t taking 4-6 hours to make breakfast that her child asked for once they woke up. She’s making content and it’s not supposed to be reflective of real life.
I think she's a sweet, adorable lady who cooks lovely food. Her and her husband are fine as fuck and I really appreciate that she isn't exploiting the shit out of her kids. Sure, this is all for content, but the people THIS angry over her aesthetic tik tok videos need to chill. Tons of jealous women are only embarrassing themselves.
I dont hate her content, she has the right to post what she wants, but it is goving Marie Antionette having a fake farm build, so she can play peasant for a while. Wich is not something people should hate her this intensly for.
I like her but I dislike her insinuating that it’s realistic to spend hours in the kitchen with two toddlers. Women who believe that will be up for a rude awakening.
Everything about her videos makes so much more sense now that I know she and her husband are models. The videos are just an extension of their modeling careers. Glamorous and selling an ideal that is not based in reality at all.
it’s based in their reality. you can’t tell people who are way richer and far more successful than you, what “reality” is. they shop in stores you’d never see cause they aren’t in your broke mall!
@@dreamkitty Reality has nothing to do with how much money they have or which stores they shop in. Reality is no toddler is going to wait quietly for hours for a pb&j or cereal made from scratch. No woman dons a full face of glam makeup and a fashionable nightgown just to make food for their toddler. She does that to sell an idealized aesthetic, just like with a modelling shoot. Her shorts are not based in any kind of reality because she is not dressing up like that for herself; she's doing it for a camera because it makes her money. What you see on social media pages like hers is not day-to-day reality; it's the curated ideal she wants you to see.
@@noraeable well yes that's how social media works. any adult should know that by now, the fact that some women still let it affect them to the point they start spewing hate while knowing this is idiotic. also, how do you know she doesn't' glam off-camera? someone wear makeup just to go to the grocery store...and if she's already a model, it makes sense why she'd be more fashion inclined.
@@sainttheresetaylor2054 "Just to go to the grocery store" you say, as if the store isn't a public place full of strangers where some women may feel the need to wear makeup because of societal expectations.
I think it's because they can't have what she has so their only option is to hate on her for having the seemingly perfect life that they do badly want.
I'm not saying she is perfect because no body is but she has this beautiful husband, kids and seem to be living an amazing life. She isn't trying to recruit people into Mormonism neither is she preaching any propaganda so why else would people hate her if not for the reason that they are jealous of her but do not realize it?
It's weird bc i think so as well but I can see why it would be annoying, esp those "simple bread" for breakfast that takes hours to make type comments, idek why but it just exhausts me? i suppose??
tbh what i find annoying about her are the same things i find annoying about most influencers so i really don't see why hating her has peaked so much that it's trending. She is doing the same thing thousands of other people do online and not doing anything particularly outrageous (which thousands of oter people DO and receive less hate)
@@Golf2foto she never said she did though and shes also not even american shes german and liek many eurpean countries they make everything from scratch no matter there gender or marital status.
It's because mothers don't typically have 6 hours to make a pb&j from scratch and most mothers (and fathers) worry about being inadequate already. They have to leave their kids with strangers all day while they work, then come home and try to make healthy meals and try to get the house clean enough and pay attention to the kids and spouse before passing out. While this woman makes it look easy to wear full glam makeup and clothing and cook from scratch AND spend time with her kids AND make her husband happy. While in all honesty it's not because she's better than anyone else, it's just money. She has money and that's why she is able to do all of this. She can be prettier, healthier, a better mother, calmer, etc because of money and that feels a little unfair to some people. I'm not even a mother and I completely get it why this would rub people the wrong way. Is it okay to hate her? Sure, just leave it to yourself, you don't have to tweet it, just shout it into the void and go about your life. Don't send hate to people's faces.
yeah like how can a fricking printed paper (made by humanity) have so much value, grant so much privileges and literally _control the whole world_ (said humanity included, ofc)⁉️
I agree. I don't feel any hate, happy she has the financial stability she has for her family. She's giving something she can to her family, more power to her if it's all real.
What irks me is that she keeps liking people’s comments on her instagram saying this is the standard for women, and this is how women act when they “love their man”, and that she’s this incredible person for setting an example…. Like please be fr she knows exactly what she’s doing
THIS is what actually bothers me about her- the inevitable hateful misogyny that will be cast on any women not like her. Creepy manosphere jerks are already ruining relationships, content like this just feels so much like the manosphere's and other misogynists' biggest fantasy. That's all she is for most humanity, because it's something barely anyone can afford. I guess excessive privilege in general gets really annoying, but I don't know her whole story. It's just rich people like her husband and the lifestyle that are so irritating
shes happy people like her content like what do you want from her please keep in mind she isnt even american shes european they are raised sm differently then we are.
If you already hate her what's wrong with her playing into the role of "villain" plus just block her...,but you clearly can't because you want to be like her...that's what irks me.
LOL!! I’m 24 and gave birth to my second child four months ago, but I LOVE her videos. I feel like she’s just being a meme! And “my toddler asked for this” is just an intro. Not necessarily what they actually asked for, but an introduction to a cooking/baking tutorial. She’s just being her online character. She is Mormon and does make things from scratch, but I think she’s exaggerating to make it funny. I also enjoy making things from scratch. Sidenote: bread from scratch isn’t that difficult to make 😅
I love Nara Smith 😂 I’m a single mother to a toddler with a disability and I love cooking so her videos are basically goals if I had enough free time. I’ve been planning on making our own cereal for my son when I have time and aren’t as fatigued. I don’t understand why other mothers see her as some kind of threat or judgement when she’s the least opinionated about what she feeds her kids, her choices being different to yours isn’t a judgement. HOWEVER; I will be opinionated and say anyone who kids themselves into thinking stuff that comes in a box with a million preservatives, refined sugar and dyes is the same as flour, pb, maple syrup, milk and chocolate is insane. Idk if it’s an American thing maybe about how food works over there but where I’m from - making things from scratch is automatically going to benefit your health especially your gut microbiome far more.
I didn't understand the hate until she pulled out the names. I was like 'okay, making everything from scratch is excessive, but go off' then everything changed once she said the names of her kids.
@bunnywavyxx9524 yeah, I'm sure worried about the amount of bullying the kid will receive or how many people will turn down their application to either college or work because of their name, if they ever have to go through either of those processes/school. In the end, I know the kids will end up changing their name regardless, because honestly, who would want to be called that for their whole life?
@smolcrabbo I'd be really surprised if those kids ever have to fill out a job application. And if they go down their parents' path to be in the modeling/entertainment industry, the unique names would be seen a a good thing. I think that's why a lot of rich and famous people give their kids outlandish names.
it probably has to do with the way capitalism and governments are failing people and most feel fear and anger that they will never be able to achieve the beauty and lifestyle of this rich woman and her rich husband. it's very uncomfortable to watch when you can barely afford to pay rent.
She a black rich woman with a sexy husband and all insecure ppl are going to hate and guess what the internet is full of em!😊 bRo is literally Y/n and ppl are mad about it!😂
I think the part that is so annoying is that it probably isn’t totally true. As a mom seems pretty impossible and borderline bad parenting to make your hungry toddler wait all that time to make them food. It’s one thing to prepare something for a few hours in anticipation for dinner or for fun but when your kid comes to you hungry.. that’s a small window before things get meltdowny
Would be funny if off screen she fed them the premade stuff. Maybe they do come asking for things and it gives her ideas for her next dish to make but she doesn't do it in the moment like she claims. Most of these things can be used multiple times too. Like she is making a whole loaf of bread and probably enough jam for multiple sandwiches, so if her children are always asking for that she could prepare it beforehand. Kinda like meal prep. Obviously it is the portrayal that is more the issue like you said.
@@squigglyspooch246 That’s pretty much what she does. Some of her vids about her kids asking her to make things which she takes 8 hours to cook from scratch are jokes.
She's promoting the "tradwife" lifestyle, which is FINE on it's own if it's chosen, but leads down a very slippery slope into other idealogies. Most of which are very popular in certain fundamentalist religions. The unique name thing is also VERY big/common in Mormon culture (10 different Joseph Smiths in one family gets a little confusing)
Also, much like most tradwife influencers, this is clearly all bullshit. Cooking cereal from scratch in the morning? The kids are either getting up WAY too early or eating breakfast at noon.
But that’s the thing she’s not. She’s not saying “YOU should do this. YOU should want this” She’s just like, “Yes I decided to be quirky and pretend my life is perfect”
Nara has never promoted/sold her lifestyle as better than, we know she lives an unconventional life and that most people don’t have those luxuries. She also has eczema and in severe cases, a natural diet is encouraged. With that said a lot of people that have issues with her like to ignore the fact that most people in America are very disconnected from the food they eat. That bread she made was in fact easy, and most people in other countries make a lot of the food they consume from scratch while doing all their everyday tasks, it's not unattainable.
Does she ever acknowledge her privilege or explain how she’s able to shoot these videos and cook for 4 hours with her kids unattended? Does she show the nannies caring for the kids while she makes everything from scratch? I think it’s the obfuscation and what comes across as basically a “lie” that is intrinsically frustrating for people with more than a few brain cells to rub together. The rest who worship her and fawn in her comments with adoration are probably kids who’ve never had experience babysitting or cooking or are suffering from some sort of amnesia or other cognitive dysfunction.
In many countries having a wife that stays at home and takes care of the children and household is heavily normalised to the point it is almost enforced, therefore it's not a fair comparison. The issue isn't that she is doing something harmful, but that it feels like a slap to the face to hear her saying "Simple and easy" as someone with more money and free time than the average person. This wouldn't be "simple and easy" for someone working several jobs to sustain themself and their family. It's not unattainable -in most cases- but people often would rather use their free time to rest and most of all be with their children.
@@SpiderLilyLover_3000may I ask what you mean about the past? I’m a current member and I believe I’m quite educated on our history, but I don’t find reasons worth leaving.
@@latenightbreakdowns2107 i would encourage you to read rough stone rolling by richard bushman. it's written by a faithful member who takes an objective look at joseph smith and some of the historical inconsistencies that we were taught in church. it was released in 2005, but everything in there is corroborated by the gospel topic essays :) a lot of people have issues reconciling their faith with the history, but if you find a way that is healthy and works for you, that's awesome.
People are just annoyed because it's such an idealized upper class lifestyle that's unachievable for so many. I guess it comes out if frustration and i recognize that. Personally I do get bad vibes from her just for that reason but I'm not about to talk about how "terrible" she is She's just living a life and I'm going to leave her be
I think she’s annoying in the same way Kim Kardashian is annoying. Giving weird names to her kids, being extra in normal moments… ect. It feels inauthentic, like her whole life is scripted. Her videos make me feel like an episode of Black Mirror if that makes sense ? Although I do hear your opinion and it’s perfectly valid 🙌🏼💕 Just wanted you to see other people’s take on this. The bashing is unwarranted and not deserved at all of course.
See, that’s great and all, but she’s not “just living her life”. She’s scripting, filming, and editing her life. So even if she gets flack, she shouldn’t care, it’s all a persona anyway, because it’s all a scene
@@secretformulathief910 Thank you, I appreciate the compliment :) But don’t diminish your previous comment ! A lot of people seem to agree with what you said and the way you said it. Unrelated but I really like your pfp :)
Dont know how i ended up here at 3:20 a.m. but you just got my subscription for making me literally laugh out loud and that that doesnt happen often. Cant wait to watch more of your vids ❤
lol nara discourse is always so funny to me. i was raised mormon and i'm also 22 (she is literally two months older than me), i'm fully on board with this being propaganda because mormons LOVE to push fast, young marriages. My sister just turned 20 and has been dating her boyfriend for a year, people were asking her at six months when she was going to get married. it also helps that nara is half black- she can be a sort of "poster child" for how "accepting" and not racist the church is. i frankly wouldn't be surprised if there is some kind of link between her and a media person within the church.
I feel bad for black Mormons honestly. Had a convo with a missionary which showed me the LDS is definitely still racist from a doctrinal perspective at least. I see these annoying recruitment ads and I think they're at least trying to recruit the lightskins now 😂 when did we stop being cursed??
But the thing is she has only referenced her faith in 2 vids out of all her vids, they were only a few second mentions. One where she reads her bible and the other about their Christmas celebrations. People already hated her before those vids
@@2law2beI think the issue is I’m begging more of us to have more media literacy. This is my issue. Folks feel as if propaganda has to be in your face, but that’s the weakest type of it. Good propaganda is sneaky. I’m not saying Nara represents Mormon propaganda by any means (I actually don’t think she does), but if you genuinely believe that someone needs to be proclaiming their Mormonism in every video in order to be linked to the church and trying to actively recruit….I have news for you. This is the entire basis behind sneaky advertising & marketing. And it’s precisely the kind of slippery slope online that’s led to the radicalization of young men who watch one TikTok and then find themselves weeks later on radical incel forums. Media literacy is key.
@@Neomie92 Not to be rude but please don't try to educate me on media literacy, which is something that doesn't even apply to Nara. She was hated before people found out about her faith. They used dumb excuses to justify their hate (her body, dresses, and clean kitchen). But her Mormonism became the #1 excuse once they found out about her faith. There are actual Mormon influencers on TikTok who don't receive the hate she gets. It ain't about her faith.
@@2law2beI mean it kinda is and on top of that she’s lying out of her ass for views. She said she wasn’t a hardcore Mormon but she is somewhat a Mormon and when she does mention it, it brings to light of “Oh! That’s why she does that”
@@chesiresays what? I literally said I don’t disagree, but people being nit picky about someone who’s content is literally about making food just because of her religion, which she doesn’t even push onto anyone is weird. Every religion is flawed and has questionable ideologies and past. Does that mean every creator who is religious should be bashed online and say they’re promoting cults.
I really appreciate your mention of the LDS church and the way you explained it. I’m a member and i really appreciate how you didn’t hate on it and just shared facts
It's so incredibly over the top and unrealistic that it HAS to be satire. There is another woman who dies this but she smiles non stop. Unless that woman is making fun of this woman. It's getting too meta, my brain hurts
@mok8376 I do too that's why I wonder if this lady is doing something similar. Because it's content after all and noooooooooo body lives that way. Not without going or already being insane.
Firstly she makes most of her food from scretch because she has a skin disease and some ingredients in food causes her to react. So most people who hate her have no reason.
@@maxies4090 Yeah, you're hating on her for having what you don't have and likely won't have if you're this hateful of the woman. A handsome, wealthy husband, children, freetime to spend hours making food and a social media presence. Most of you are salty karens bro. Get over yourself. Leave the woman alone, you people are acting like she is campaigning to end the female vote
I had no choice but to make much of my children's food from scratch due to a digestive condition my daughter had with sensitivity to many common ingredients in many pre-packaged foods. That said, I didn't do it 'on the spot' when they asked for it. I had a bread machine that did almost everything once I dumped ingredients in. I baked 4 loaves a week. I made other stuff ahead so it was on hand when needed. I had days of the week set aside for much of this work where my husband would watch the littles while I attended to, and HE took turns doing a lot of this, too. But to get up, make all the stuff on the spot? My kids would have been sobbing with hunger by the time the food was ready! That's so unrealistic.
Very! I appreciate your view here, you come across as someone who knows how hard that is (obviously) and how much it helped to have help. She seems like she would be judgemental to other moms who don't or can't do that, instead of understanding their situation.
@@twitchy_birdi think she is cosplaying to an extent and to present her life and a life like hers as aspiration, but like she's also a really rich woman so she has a grp of staff or resources to occupy her kids while she does this. I think it might be the mormon influencer urge to do so much and be like hey this is just my life to essentially sell her entire life as aspirational, in the u can have it all way and ure just lazy and its doable with some priorities like ur life shld be in the "backseat" for eg but its rewarding. Similar to ballerina farm who does similar stuff but she cosplays rancher, even brought her cow to a campsite. Like shes the crunchy nara smith with 10 kids.
@@espeon871 I think you're onto something there. I just watched a whole video about that basically, remarking on Nara Smith specifically. It definitely fits the vibe, and explains why so many people suspend their disbelief for content like that.
@@twitchy_bird Once we got the schedule down, and found the recipes, and learned how to do all of the stuff involved, it became routine. Don't get me wrong, it was a whole mess until we found a groove, or a system, so to speak LOL. And many a kitchen fail involved. Now I just do it because it's 'normal' for us, and how life works. This day while at work bake bread, this day make the preserves/jellies, other condiments, that day bake some cookies and the like - only quick things like pasta are made 'on demand'.
@@skycarson1987 I do a lot of home made cooking, just because it's often cheaper (damn that poverty line) and I actually enjoy doing it, usually lol. It's definitely a lot easier with someone watching the kid(s), and after you know what you're doing lol. I would never shame someone, or make them feel less than, because they can't or don't enjoy doing those things though you know? I think that's the difference in "vibes" if you will, between some people and people like Nara.
remember guys, you can just dislike people. you dont need a reason. they dont need to be a cultist or even a bad person. you can just..not like them. Edit: took out "hate" as it obviously is being taken too seriously. Meant simply a strong dislike.
@@datboii4789 while what youre saying can very well be correct, it could still be the case. My point is that you dont need to wait at the edge of your seat to make crazy allegations towards people to justify your dislike. Some people can give you the ick, with some you may just not vibe. Thats what i was trying to say.
i think the reason people are upset is because it feels like shes flaunting it. like "look what i can do that you cant" "look what i have the money and time to do but you dont" like im sure shes a just fine person but the way her stuff feels is very much so uppity
I can see ppl being irritated with her out of a bit of jealousy but at the end of the dayshe isnt doing anything morally wrong. The intenet needs to get off her ass bc its obvious that her videos are simply an aesthetic. Shes portraying something entertaining, visually pleasing and relaxing so I don't see why anyone is so up in arms about her... especially when just about every creator is "lying" on tiktok for views and aesthetics.. sure maybe you could argue that she shouldnt claim to be making these things spontaneously (its probably something she heavily plans, shops and sets time aside for) but as a whole shes gorgeous, talented and shes killing it. Unless I hear that she's doing something morally egregious (those kids names are borderline morally questionable!) im going to continue not thinking about her the way I did before she gained all these haters...
well yeah? whoever compares herself to her is dumb for doing so she’s a rich model why wouldn’t she have a nanny? she also doesn’t need to tell her audience if she has a nanny or not
No but there has been an influx over the years, especially with TikTok, of young modern-era Christian influences trying to appeal to an audience with growing critical thinking skills and endless resources in how they can examine religion. It isn't necessarily the influencer, especially in this case, outright stating that kids should pick up Mormonism. But rather it's a case of selling an idealized lifestyle to young people in ways that appeal to them. Think Paul and Morgan, if you've ever come across them, Girl Defined ect. It's a new kind of preaching to the masses and aims to make the religion as palatable and comfortable as possible. There's a whole discussion surrounding how certain religions have had to adapt to technological advancements and so have subtly started branching outwards into the online influencer sphere, to "quietly" influence young people into certain lifestyles/headspaces. (Also not religious, but no hate/shame towards anyone that is. I respect your right to practice so long as nobody is getting hurt and the sentiment is returned.)
2:49 it is perfectly fine to make cereal , buuuut it is something you do the night or days before. People can get super hungry in the morning, and they want their food now, especially kids. Unless you want a grumpy pants.
Thank you for this. Constant internet discourse has made it damn near impossible to to just dislike something. People always feel like they have to make something "problematic", when they can just say its annoying or they don't like it
Sometimes its both, but i get kind of scared of influencers like her. Ballerina farm is another one, she literally popped out a kid and went on the pageant curcuit in a way that feels like im doing it all and u can too towards moms in her circle.
The thing is, she likely has a house cleaner and a nanny when she does this stuff and she has some crazy need to fill time and to be perfect. Idk on Tik Tok someone made a perfect breakdown of it.
Well… DUH?? Mr captain obvious here. Who woulda thought rich ppl would have workers work for them too to make their lives easier? Common sense isn’t too common
The reason people hate her imo is because everyone these days seems to base their worth on how "successful" they are and success to them is being defined as having lots of money, being hot and being aesthetically pleasing. Cooper even said in the video "people watch her and feel worthless" because that's what the media pushes to young people every single day. That this is success and this is what everyone should strive for and if they don't they've done nothing with their life and they're worthless.
More than that i think its also the uncanny valley energy that she exudes, which is very influenced by religious influencers which is where theyre like you can do it too; and its aspiration. For some people, esp women who arent afforded femininity in our current system, its an escapist content to see someone like u live a life ure not afforded, that i understand and am happy for. However, her videos are very much like i can do it and u can too, and in a world of mom shaming and her religious bg, those with similar context to her might feel pressured and also feel bad esp with the constant standard.
I feel like this the most accurate analysis. She's not doing anything particularly new in regards to her content. She's not the first woman to curate an aesthetically pleasing lifestyle for social media or make food from scratch. Her voice, while nice to listen to, isn't uniquely soft and soothing either. It's the atmosphere around her videos that is the problem. The more people make her aspirational and a model for all women, especially when said people are men, the more hate she will receive. The fact that she's Mormon and teethers on the edge of tradwife content doesn't help either. And they're right. She's not aspirational (though it's not wrong to be inspired by her to make more foods at home). There are very few people if any on Earth who should be aspired to. If her community was a lot less "this is what a REAL woman looks like" and more "that looks nice! I should start making my own recipes too!," no one would be debating about her this much. As a side note, I think there might also be some misogynoir mixed in there because she seems to be a lot more hated and talked about than even some genuine tradwife influencers. That and the fact that she married young to everyone's rich, attractive Tumblr/Wattpad crush from the 2000s/2010s definitely drummed up some haters.
@@UMMH2000DING DING DING !! I don’t see how someone living a privileged life & minding their business is bad?? Like I’m sorry you don’t get to do that.. but how is it her fault that she does? Bc mothers all over the world struggle she should too? And im sure she does struggle, it’s her choice to put it on the internet or not tho?
I genuinely don't see why ppl absolutely HATE her like she's done nothing wrong. I see that the names of her children are strange and she's a Mormon but she's not intentionally forcing ppl into her religion. She literally just looks pretty and cooks. What's so wrong with that?
It is perfectly okay to dislike someone for being in a racist, homophobic, misogynistic religion even if they seeming aren't publicly doing their own harm. They are complicit to horrific crazy ass beliefs and the glamorization of the lifestyle. Not saying she needs to stop or leave the internet or do anything like that but I think it's fair people dislike her for this
The problem with this situation really starts with people just taking content like this too personally. Is her lifestyle unrealistic? Sure. But uhm she’s a model. And so is her husband. Obviously how they live is going to be vastly different than the rest of us. She has never said that what she does makes her a better mom and that she should be the standard. If you watch content like this and feel that way, that is a personal issue. You can’t go through life comparing yourself to someone who lives that differently than you.. I’m sorry but like cope?
Nah, i disagree. She’s v obnoxious. There’s other models and influencer moms who also have vastly different lifestyle, however most of them aren’t as frustrating as her. It’s all about the “tone” in which you convey your content/material. There’s something very artificial about her and that’s irking everyone.
@@sayeemooour irked because she’s better then u in every way and she doesn’t even have to say it. She’s a model, she’s married to a hot rich man, and she’s fucking loaded. THATS why it irks you. She’s none of the words u called her at all. She’s always calm. Ofc she’s “artificial” so is like almost all cook tok people? Stop using excuses and seek help for your issue with jealousy. It won’t make u look any better being like that. Being jealous is ugly. And if ur ugly on the inside you’ll never be pretty on the outside
The way she names her kids reminds me of my ex-friend. I said her kid would get bullied, have no friends, and have difficulties getting a job cuz we lived in Texas. She looked me dead in the eye and said "I don't care about any of that" RIP Azrael/Azazel, prayers that Rumble Honey and Slim Easy find themselves in your class 🙏
Her content is a fairytale. there is nothing realistic about it and I think that is the whole point. so there's nothing to be mad about. it's just chill aesthetics. nothing to compare yourself to and no need to feel inferior. that's how I see it
cooper defending but also hating is my eternal mood
It's what I love most about him 😂
The cognitive dissonance of a feminist when it comes to women like this. I can relate 😂
Fr😂
I feel the same tho. I like her and also dislike her at the same time
Her monotone voice feels so staged. She does not smile and I feel like her eyes look sad. Is she privately miserable? I definitely do not hate her but am bothered by the dissonance between her claiming this perfect life and her seemingly hidden sadness?
Rumble honey? Slim easy? Bubbles? Lucky blue? They are literally named like racehorses 😩😩😩
I’m crying, this is a violation 😂
😭😭 this is spot on
The husband’s first baby was with another model called Stormi Bree and their child is named Gravity 😵💫
Folks are giving babies dog names and giving dogs baby names
@@haleyes98yeah all his kids have weird ass names. 💀💀💀💀💀
her kids names are literally club penguin usernames💀
I just know her kids r gonna be waiting till the day they’re old enough to change their names😭
Ur first Roblox username b like
NOT THE CLUB PENGUIN😭😭😭
Is it your own child leave this woman alone and go and rest
@@arigidijohn7663 you fr?
“you’re not modeling right now luckle bunny” is now my new favorite quote
😭😭
i'm wheezing💀
She straightup gave her children warrior cats names
LOLLLLLLL BRAMBLE PELT
precisely why kids shouldn't be having kids
THATS WHAT I THIUGHT
mlp names even
REALLLL
cooper’s rants about people i’ve never heard of will always be my favourite thing
I just watched an hour long video about this chick this morning, I think it's a pretty hot topic... for some reason.
Fr😭
Watching the whole video I never heard about her or never seen her before lmao
Frrrrr
Same
I agree that all of these traits are INFURIATING, but what's really making me make right now (and I'm only 13 min in) is that she's talking about making cereal and bread from scratch as if these things only take an hour or so to make. You have to let dough SIT FOR LIKE THREE HOURS. THIS IS AN ALL-DAY TASK. YOU CANT JUST MAKE A WHOLE LOAF OF BREAD FOR ONE SANDWICH FOR ONE MEAL.
I never made cereal, so I can't speak on that, but you can make a loaf of bread in about an hour to an hour and a half from scratch.
@@sianais Odd cuz the recipes I've made said otherwise
you're mad bcuz she made a loaf of bread from scratch.....when did she ever say it takes no time to make. you jealous women are so hateful
i've made bread within an hour- hour and a half on multiple occasions, just invest in some instant dry yeast. it's so fun and easy to make (imo)
Bread takes less than an hour for sure
13:12 Cooper was a single mother in his past life
That works too hard and love his kids and never stops with a gentle hand and a heart of a fighterrr
He’s a survivor🤣
Imagine Lucky says he wants redbull and she’s like “My husband wanted redbull at 3 in the morning so I decided to make it for him from scratch.”
They're Mormon, he's not allowed caffeine 🤣
😂😂
since its an energy drink he'll be asleep by the time she finishes😂
btw I know they cant have caffine it just for shits n' giggles
@@thatboymoxieYou can make caffeine free Red Bull
@@thatboymoxie wait until you find out they’ve been making caffeine free red bulls for years now.
It is hilarious when she’s like “my baby asked me for a pb&j first thing in the morning so I spent 6 hours making it for her” as if that baby isn’t losing her damn mind waiting all day for a damn sandwich
legit starving those babies. you tellin me they didnt have any leftovers? when she’s apparently always making food from scratch? damn
@@sleepy.timaeus.arts.Well you can’t know if she’s starving her children since you’re not there 24/7.
I'd be dead from starvation if my mom made me wait 6 hrs to eat! 😂 Especially without an easy snack. Oh wait, she'd have to make that from scratch too, nevermind.
no fr bc the baby damn near climbing the walls for a pb&j only to be told the homemade yeast has to rise for three hours THEN bake i woulda lost it💀
She didn’t even make that much of serial, like that’s barely enough for one 😂😂
1:42 I’m surprised nobody has pointed this out BUT SHE IS LITERALLY PUTTING ACTUAL OREOS INTO THAT. SHE HAS OREOS. WHY IS SHE MAKING THEM FROMT SCRATCH? Am I stupid?
"Rumble stumble into my room" filled me with rage for some reason😭 WHY DID THEY CALLED HER THAT
Slim and rumble sounds like a 90s rap duo
I say it’s a little harsh to say you hate her but I understand why people might be annoyed by her
fr ☠️
I'm slim shady yeah I'm the real shady all you other slim shadys are just imitating so won't the real slim shady please stand up
that is so true wait
@@gwenythpiacenza8978 she named her kids rumble honey and slim easy. SLIM EASY. her kids are gonna hate her when they're older
Cooper reminds me of a teenage girls inner conscience, defending,then beefing,then joking about literally ANYTHING
Real 😭
real
Fr
glad i was never like that
as a teenage girl i can confirm cooper is my inner conscience
Bro is in DISTRESS over these kid names 😭
i slightly understand people finding her videos annoying. but hating her for her religion is so unnecessary. she isnt activley being racist or misogynistic, shes just a morman... if i started hating on a muslim or christians because their scriptures can be misogynistic, i would be burned at the stake. if she wants to cook food from scratch in full glam, so be it.
Rumble honey and slim easy? Are we naming children OR RAPPERS??? 7:46
smh 🤦🏾♀️ whyyy are influencers this way.
yeah “honey” was good enough, but they had to add “rumble” in front… losing my mind 😞
LMFAO IM SAYING
even rumble is slightly forgivable but SLIM? imagine being named Slim.
Their street names are gonna be like Fred and Linda.
'Slim Easy' sounds like the type of jeans you'd find in an Urban Outfitter and 'Rumble Honey ' sounds like it could either be a flavor of tea or a strain of the devil's lettuce.
Rumble honey is for sure the name for a personal massager
‘Rumble Honey’ is something you name a cat, especially if you’re T.S. Elliot.
Slim Easy is the AKA of famous rapper Eemimem
I need someone to invent a giggly bush strain RIGHT NOW 😭🤣
I’d eat that lettuce
I thought you were joking this whole vid, bc she's actually not that bad. Like we can laugh at how unrelatable she is, but for people to be hating on her? I don't get it.
They r jealous
and the sad thing is, she makes a lot of food from scratch due to her eczema and the flare ups that she gets. shes literally getting bullied online for NO REASON.
@@onlyang_elwhat eczema does she have that affects her cooking habits?
@@avitheofficial7014 I'm not a doctor and neither do I have eczema, so I'm not the right person to ask. But I am aware that different foods can cause eczema to flare up
Whaaaaat ur not being sarcastic right@@avitheofficial7014
"shes not making this for her husband...SHES A LIAR SO SHES GOING TO HELL-"
I CANT BREATHE OMFG HELP😭😭😭😭
Wym she's not making it for her husband who else gon eat it? 😭
@@littlekittyonaroof me when people lie for content on the internet
@littlekittyonaroof I'm not saying that her husband won't eat it neither was cooper it was just that she wasn't making it JUST for that reason as she record it all and got all dressed up for it. But overall, I just found that line funny.
That part was hilarious
"My son, Slim Easy...you are named after two of the best rappers I listened to in the 90s."
shes 22 she didnt even exist in the 90s
Lol Slim Shady and Easy E? She wishes.... the kid should probably go with that explaination though lol.
@@meghanmihalko1188 this is actually insane wtf 22 is so young
lmaooo this reminded me of Harry and his son 'Albus Severus Potter'
It's the poor kids only chance 😂@@twitchy_bird
If someone's content is making you feel like you're not enough as a mother or as a human being, then unsubscribe, unfollow or get off the Internet because it's not their job to make you feel better about yourself. Either do better or stop complaining and unfollow.
It's not realistic. It's highly curated. There are many mormon female influencers doing the same thing. The thing they have in common is how curated everything looks. Now, when you look at others, say even Mennonite or other Christian influencers you see great cooking and impressive home making skills but it tends to be real and approachable. It doesn't look like performance art.
@@talllala sooo whats the issue? Its her content on her page? Beacuase its not ReAliStiC you go stomp your feet and cry and DEMANDS she be to your standard?? Oh boy heres a news flash nearly all of social media is curated or fabricated in some way.
@@talllala so, most things on the internet are unrealistic
or maybe they should just stop trying to act superior and better than everyone else lmao???
Omfg yesssssss!!!!! 💯💯💯💯💯
“Slim easy”sounds like the fit for a pair of Levi’s jeans
"can i have a pb&j?" "yes rumble honey it'll be ready by your next birthday . ☺💓"
underrated comment
Can I have a PB and me sandwich?
yall lack common sense, things can be asked for a day before. yall just haters
@@killsomefool1239 literally what
@@bsffr what's not to understand?
What drives me nuts is the fact that she's 22. TWENTY TWO years old. That's one year older than me. Yet here I am, living with my parents, in a shark blanket, eating crackers at my desk (which is nothing to be ashamed of). All while she has multiple children, and is married. Our contrasting lifestyles completely bewilder me.
I'm 23, desperate to find a job, living with my boyfriend and 2 cats. I feel like my life is profoundly chaotic rn, and I couldn't imagine adding a _human child_ into the mix, especially at my age
Your lifestyle sounds better tbh
Girl, same. Also when my classmate gave birth last year I was like damn and here I’m still living with my parents and feeling like a kid.
I’ll be 24 in two weeks, trying not to be paycheck to paycheck. and it’s hard enough taking care of my cat 😭 she’s spoiled asf but I’m not making no wet food from scratch 💀
GIRL SAME. Her whole lifestyle (except the money) is NOT appealing to me at ALL.
What is so funny is that all the people criticizing her for preaching a Mormon lifestyle are completely clueless as to what a Mormon lifestyle is.
This is what's dangerous when people have a little bit of information and think they know what they're talking about.
I grew up in the Mormon church until I was 16 years old. That's when I left the church because it wasn't for me. What 16 year old likes going to church?
Nara and Lucky are not your traditional Mormon family. They would probably be considered "Jack Mormons" by the church. Mormons who go against church doctrine.
Lucky had a hard time qutting smoking. Smoking goes against church doctrine, as does drinking. Being a "Trad Wife" is not part of the church.
While the church is still heavily male-dominated. Women are free to work and have successful careers. As a non-Mormon, I never felt my family was any different other than they didn't drink or smoke and went to church on Sundays. Other than that they were pretty much regular people.
As for Nara. She just shares her life. Doing what makes her happy and that's dressing up and cooking from scracth. She's not hurting anybody. She's also not responsible for how people react to them. For some reason she triggers a lot of people's insecurities. People love to take their shit out on her. What we see and how we react says more about us, then it does about her. I love her videos. I love the way she cooks, what she cooks, and how she narrates them. What I admire about her is that she doesn't let the haters get to her. She still just continues with her life the way she wants.
Thanks for your comment. Like to see there are sweet people in the world. People just see a tag of “Mormon” and jump on it. It’s a trigger word for hate.
8:14 idk if you’ve said that before but that is SO strongly my belief, too. They know they’ll be posting them/about them, so they pick something that’s fun to post. The kid’s actual offline life is in no way considered, just ignored in favor of looking cool/unique/whatever on social media.
Speaking as a professional nanny for the past 30 plus years, this woman has an entire staff behind her. There ain’t no way she’s doing all this from scratch, cleaning it all up, making and editing videos and caring for the kids. She’s making the rest of the world feel inferior….and she’s loving every minute of it.
Oh 100%
“She’s making the rest of the world feel inferior”, PLEASE. Her standard isn’t your standard so why are you so pressed
totally lmao
If her videos are doing a number on your self-esteem then just avoid her TikTok.
If you feel inferior after watching a video that is meant for social media, that is a person problem.
She isn't making anyone feel inferior. People who wish they were doing something different but haven't made any actual changes get jealous and instead of accepting or working on themselves, they get pissy towards a creator who hasn't put down anyone.
Idc about her but I think people dislike her because she just seems outta touch with reality but that’s just most rich people in general. Also people may see her as fake, spending all those hours creating basic food from scratch while having small children is very unrealistic. Other than that there’s no reason for so much hate honestly.
She’s a Mormon and religion that explicitly states the only good people in the world are yt and to be born anything else is to be a punishment for being a bad yt person in the past life
I think quite a bit of it has to do with how some people assume she’s taking the feminist movement back a few decades. My thing is - the beauty of feminism is that women get to choose now. We can choose to be house wives like she has or we can choose to be career driven.
@@officerdeath how do you know he watched that??
They hate her because she is Mormon and the Mormon religion teaches that a woman's place is to be subservient to her husband and stay at home and take care of him and be a mother. While she may not be coming out and saying it directly a lot of her content is romanticizing that lifestyle and encouraging that belief (although not explicitly). It's also ironic that she is Mormon as a black woman considering Mormons believe the dark skin = a curse from God for being a sinner
@@officerdeath wtf
But is it really her fault that people are met with unrealistic expectations ? Don’t we all have our own brains, why are people putting her on a kinda of unwanted pedestal and expecting her to be realistic just because she is an influencer ? If somebody is really triggered by a random video they see online, I think the problem starts with themself.
She js living her own life who are u infleunced so easily
Girl she named her child RUMABLE ion think you understand the problem😭
I’ve seen her on TikTok and I genuinely thought her videos were a funny satire on those videos where women talk about making food from scratch because their demanding husband asked
imagine if cooper got a low tapered fade
Edit: why did this blow up ☠️
Here before this is the top comment
Edit: 1 hour later, 1.2K likes. 🫢
imagine if cooper got a low tapered fade x2
STOP- i’m crying
We don't have to imagine 😔💔 /j
imagine if cooper got a low taper faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaade
The vibe is Marie Antoinette playing peasant in her cotton dresses in her fake farm village on the grounds of Versailles
Nailed it
Lmaooo omg 😭
Lol, you're right. It's very much the vibe of the infamous phrase of "let them eat cake" after she was told that the peasants didn't have any bread.
@GriffDidSomeThingsWrong that phrase is actually an Urban legend, she wasn't THAT tone deaf at least 😂
@@WardGalina Oh fuck, didn't knew that. It's a funny story tho lol
Elephant in the room is bias. People are very uncomfortable when black women do not fit into stereotypes they've been fed. And when they can't figure out how and why the black woman doesn't fit the mold, they get really agitated and mean. "How dare she have the perceived privilege of time, wealth, beauty and peace of mind? Tell us now, how do you have time to apply makeup annnnd bake with a Walmart stand mixer?" I've noticed women especially with insane criticism over this woman, when it's literally creative content on social media. The jealousy is unhinged, but I'm not surprised. See it all the time in corporate America.
Omg yes! .. and the fact that countless white women who have literally the same content as her rarely ever face the same criticism she is facing for simply being aesthetic its sickening
@@irishather5580im white and i feel its a mix of racisme and jealousy. She is gorgeous, kind, smart (she was going to collège studying science), a model and got to meet the love of her life at 18 and on top of that a young rich hot model who was thé IT boy of the 2010's, and they birthed gorgeous kids, plus their happiness sounds genuine because of how they look kind and unproblematic and have no drama and scandale so people can't handle it. The fact that she was so humble at the point of replying to most of her comments made her an easy target. Whats sad IS that she mostly cook from scratch because she had skin issues
@@ionlysimpformyself7847 definitely not to mention the toxic feminists who were shading her for " promoting the wifey material " even tho she's just being a good wife and a mom . Like she doesn't have to be an independent woman " which am curtain she is " who lives alone .. like some women wanna be happily married with kids it's not bad its honestly ridiculous
@@irishather5580 that's funny cause i'm a radical feminist and was a misandrist but i found her adorable. Those who hate her are just a bunch of jealous pickmees that will be turning into tradwives karens the second a guy will stop leaving them on read 🤣
@@ionlysimpformyself7847 To be fair, I see this a lot when interracial couples are on social media. Women especially will go out of their way to create a delulu case and claim the wife “stole” the White, Black, Arab or African man, etc etc. As if there are only so many of that type of man to go around, like Sriracha. Scarcity mindset.
I have to disagree! I think the basis of people’s dislike does come from jealousy. It’s not her responsibility to make sure people feel like a good mother, even if she IS acting quite pretentiously, she’s not really doing anything wrong. If a 28 mother of 2 is upset, that’s on herself not Nara. I found her videos inspiring and they got me into baking, personally, it’s just the way you look at it!! Her kids names tho, can’t let that slide.
I thought the same thing. I noticed because they are a few other women who make similar videos to her of making homemade everything from scratch and the hate these women receive is simply crazy. It’s a bunch of
Comments of jealously and “ oh I feel bad as mother so I’m gonna take it out on you” is basically the sum
Of it or “ who has time
For this etc” if they have the time and that’s what they wanna do at the end of the day why do people hate so much? As you said and as I said it’s completely jealousy
I think a big part of the cringe for me is the "my family asked for a simple item, and instead of giving it to them I did this thing for 8 hours," and we all know none of that is true. She absolutely made a normal sandwich for her kid, then LATER (while the nanny watched the kids) she made bread/content. I LOVE watching people bake, but the pretense is very annoying.
@@LMBillingsley that’s a great point!! It’s definitely unrealistic for most mothers of 2 to be able to not only have the time for this, but also to afford it. This is coming from a 19 year old with no children so my comment was quite biased there. I don’t feel a sense of superiority coming from her videos, but that could be because i’m not in the same position as her. Another thing I see in her comments is people saying she’s setting an unrealistic expectation for mothers to fulfil, I can see how that could be a consequence of her content, but I hope most people watching have the common sense to know it’s not possible for the average person to live like she does. I still don’t believe she deserves the hate she’s getting, but I can see where they’re coming from!
That’s because you have a positive outlook on it which is great. The people who are triggered by her are the people who wish that they could live her experience since she has some level of privilege and freedom outside the regular 9-5 lifestyle. What I don’t understand is why people are projecting their hatred and manipulating others to feel hatred for someone we don’t know. We don’t know Nara so how can we really question her motherhood, her lifestyle or her aesthetic if we don’t have all of the information? People are only following based on misinformation and assumptions. Speculating based on that very lack of information? Y’all need help.
@@AmbitiousDesire101 i completely agree. I also think some of her content is satire but even if not at the end of day why do people want to outwardly hate on her? It screams jealously to me when people do
My Mormon aunt's name is Kristine, her husband is Kurt, and their children are Kyrah, Klairah, Karl, and Karol. This is not a joke
Maybe Ryan Seacrest will produce a show about them.
Oh- we're not mormon but we have the same use of structural name in my family
✨✨✨And together they are THE KKK...KKK✨✨✨!!!
KKK x2 for short
As a klara I am wildly offended with how she named her child my name my name is pretty normally spelled and I still have issues with my name I cannot imagine that poor child
Duuuuude my aunt also gave her kids names that start with K……..
Here’s my take: it’s all fake. She has childcare while she works (does her makeup/hair/dress, cooks and films it, VO and edit work, post it, repeat). It’s like a regular job except we only see the curated version she posts with the story she puts with it. People can’t believe her and hate comments are still engagement to the algorithm. Secondly, I doubt her kids are really named those names. She chose those to get engagement. The clue there is that there were regular names in the list that she didn’t go with. I wonder how many comments on that video are “why would you go with rumble honey when dawn was an option?” Because it’s not real.
Imo, I think the scenarios are rage bait.
"Look I'm a better aesthetic mom than you. My kid only gets pb&j if I cook it from scratch at his whim.
I'm a better wife because I make cookies on demand.
She's doing this trad wife flex in a way that sells a fantasy to guys, and insults other women simultaneously, while making other people jealous.
That's really impressive imo
i think the names are real
cause the father name is Lucky Blue and his sister name is Pyper America and Starlie Cheyenne
so it would kinda make sense
oh and Lucky Blue's first daughter is named Gravity Blue
I'm afraid the name part is real.
her husband's name is literally Lucky Blue, why are y'all so surprised they'd also name their kids something weird
From what I’m aware she’s never said anything particularly racist, homophobic, transphobic, etc. Y’all just love to hate on random people on the internet doing better than you it’s giving jealousy. And I also don’t know why anyone would let someone else’s lifestyle affect their own mental health like worry about your own.
Terminally online haters. Kind of like this guy in his other videos.
Let's be real here. Most of the hate against this woman is likely due to envy and jealousy. She's beautyful. Married to the most popular male model apparently .. so, one of the most handsome guys out there. Also very wealthy I imagine. She has a bunch of cute, healthy kids at a young age. She has money, a social media following, so she's making her own money while she's spending hours just chilling and making food etc. Dressing up like a doll.. sh that a lot of women grew up play pretending. Sh a lot of women were told they didn't want because "wanting children is something the patriarchy pushed on women" or "you don't need no man" etc etc. So now we're seeing 30/40 year old millenial women make teary eyed videos about not having any children, and not being able to find the right guy etc. And then they see this young woman having it all (I'm sure her life isn't perfect either btw) and they get extremely jealous.
Yes honestly, not everyone has the time to be creating cells from scratch in order to make a blueberry smoothie. Like nobody is out on social media being frocking extra every day.
She's literally innocent
i’m sorry but why are we hating on her? if a man got dolled up and made food for his kids from scratch he’d be praised for being a good father.
But he would not have to do his make up for up to four hours.
@@Cecilia806how do you know she doesn't get up early for that?? Many women will make time to feel beautiful in the morning. Even full glam makeup like that only takes like 30min-1hr depending on how fast/efficient you are lol
@@Cecilia806 do men have superpowers? 💀
Exactly
No I’d be saying the exact same thing because that toddler would still probably be screaming and crying in the back waiting 6 hours for that sandwich 💀
It’s the air of superiority combined with the fact that she clearly has staff at home doing other things. She is part of the leisure class roleplaying activities done by the working class while dressed and speaking in a way that denotes an air of superiority. Someone who ACTUALLY cooks from scratch and is a homemaker could NEVER have the time for what she does; but the rich roleplaying as working class is nothing new.
Very well said
That's what people need to know. Nara has said it all the time that being a Content creator and modelling is her job. It's like saying, "modelling is a scam, why don't I look good the way they does."
@@sundus928 but she’s always out here replying to her instagram comments saying she “makes the time” to do this, and likes comments from men saying should be the standard for women 👀
That’s what it is
Soen guy made a video pointing out that this type of "trad wife" influences sell the idea of being a home maker while simultaneously not being one lol
Like they never post videos of them cleaning the house, getting a difficult stain out of a shirt or doing chores that actually constitute to taking care of the home. They just do this time consuming meals so they can say "look, I'm a stay at home wife hard at work" but this tells us nothing about their skills as wife or a mother other than they can cook. Idk if it makes sense but is a pseudo-house wife effect if you will, they do something yet show us nothing
Coopers background is getting closer to Howls bedroom and it’s pretty iconic
He's just gonna end up becoming Howl
@@officerdeatha child DIED in that video dude. Not cool
He was so close. Cooper had the hair for it. (Rip Cooper's luscious locks)
@@Gracie.Gardener What’s this? Can someone explain what that’s about? He didn’t actually watch that did he?
@@ellaartenstein853its rage bait. Cooper did not watch that video, whatever the video may be (im not willing to look it up, but im sure its something horrific happening to a child). Theyre saying it to get attention, they say this under thousands of comments on hundreds of channels. Cooper probably has no clue what this is even is, and neither do i.
Hearing the name Lucky Blue Smith gave me war flashbacks I stg
Lol I swear I watch this for coopers reactions more so than the videos now. The contents always chocked full, but he deliveries in a relatable or comedic entertainment way. I hooe this channel keeps getting subcribers you are doing great!
It’s not the full glam. It’s not the recipes. Cooking in makeup and nice clothes is a thing that’s been done for ages. It’s pretending like it’s all some simple 2-step solution to a healthy life for your husband and kids. THAT’S what annoys people.
The PB&J is a perfect example. If your kid asks you for a PB&J for breakfast, you literally can’t make bread and jam and peanut butter from scratch in the 20 minutes before your toddler throws a tantrum. Pretending like you can and that you’re a good mom and wife for it is what rubs people the wrong way.
Same with the cookies and cream milkshake. If you have an immediate craving for that kind of thing, it’s genuinely a waste a time to make it from scratch at home. If she just said, “My husband likes cookies and cream milkshakes so I thought it would be fun to make some ice cream and cookies totally from scratch,” it wouldn’t bother anyone. I’ve seen that kind of content before. It’s pretty standard on the internet.
BUT she knows what she’s doing. The air of superiority is what she’s going for because for better or (mostly) for worse, the algorithm incentivizes engagement. And this makes people feel some type of way.
That whole my children asked me to or my husband asked me to is just what ppl do on cook tok theres 100s of vids with the same intro like have you seen that one lady that be like my husbands asked me too cook the amazing hamburger etc I’ve actually stumbled across this girl before i liked her so i was shocked to see the amount of hate she has received
I have a well raised toddler? thank G she doesn't throw a tantrum if I tell her I don't have pb&j right away... its obviously a saying "my family wanted to eat this so i genuily make it for them" she's not making it at the moment they asked for it.
I sometimes cook from scratch, bc i dont have a 9 to 5 job, it more freely. When my toddler ask for yogourt (14hrs to be done) or cakes or cookies (1hr) "maybe we can have cookies later okay ?, youll have yogourt tomorrow" And I'll simply make them for later and feed her something else ! Maybe she doesn't cook herself every meal for everyone but in her video she's just specifies "they asked me so I tried to do it" sometimes igs just funnier and healthier from scratch too
She's not promoting anything or saying her lifestyle is the best and people not making food from scratch with a full face qnd nice clothes are the worst parents on earth. That's some reach...to hate on someone just existing and doing her life, blud shes just posting cooking video and people are mad mad 💀
@@liabstrait8306this is the third time you’ve been in the comments about making your toddler homemade yogurt- kind of seems like you have a touch of the pick me disease the TikTok lady has.
It's the attitude
All i'm getting from this comment is she's rubbing people the wrong way because her videos are "unrealistic" and "unattainable" for the average person. Bro, let's not act as if 90% of influencer content isn't already incredibly unattainable for the average 9-5/minimum wage employee. The content that gets promoted tends to be lavish trips and vacations most people can't afford. There's Mr Beast type shit where people are giving away thousands of dollars randomly to random people. There's "tone deaf" and "out of touch" beauty influencers guilt tripping viewers for buying "low quality" dupes of skincare and makeup products that retail for hundreds of dollars or around the $100 mark. Bruh. It doesn't rub people the wrong way because she's actually saying out loud in her content or somewhere in her caption "Hey! You! Loser, poor people!!! Get off your lazy ass and go make your children all their food from scratch or else you are a FAILURE as a PARENT!!!! Unlike me, who is perfect and such an amazing mother for doing this tehe:)" She has never once said any of that, she's never even made a passive aggressive remark about how "i genuinely care about my kids unlike OTHER parents soooo i'm going to make their food from scratch like everyone who cares about their kids should be doing." She is unrealistic, she is unattainable for the average person. But to claim she "rubs people the wrong way" is just a way to justify the backlash and hate she's recieving which is actually just people being upset that her content is unrealistic and unattainable for THEM. It's not supposed to be a tutorial on how to be a good mother. It's her clearly enjoying cooking and making these things from scratch, she most definitely doesn't actually fix all her childrens' meals and snacks from scratch. I personally wouldn't watch her content because, like i said, I know it's not attainable for me and probably never will be. If people want to see realistic content, they should hit "not interested" when her videos pop up, and they should seek out content that matches their lifestyle and doesn't make them feel bad about themselves...which is the REAL reason it "rubs them the wrong way." She didn't actually do anything wrong. People just don't like feeling like they're less than. And that's their problem and their insecurity, not hers.
Sincerely, a bitch who's always teetered on the lower-middle class line, whose family struggles to pay bills, whose family has gone hungry from time to time, etc. Her content isn't for or about everyone the way people think it is or should be. It's about & for her & people need to stop calling things that they know are a crazy unrealistic display of wealth as "out of touch" like no shit sherlock! Y'all don't call the Kardashians out of touch when they post shit all the time acting like their world is ending bc their privileged life isn't going perfect while others in the world are starving and dying..."Kim, there's people that are *dying.*"
Finding out Lucky Blue Smith is married after years of seeing him as character inspo in Wattpad books is not what I was expecting from a Cooper video 😭
thats where i know him from!!
The way my first thought when I saw him was "So HE'S the guy on wattpad"
HE HAS FOUR KIDS, I’m shocked
It's just super weird to me that people care so much about this. People are mad that she's rich and has time to look good and do whatever she wants? Omg what an outrage, lmao
They just jelly and half low self worth. It’s weird but they can’t see what’s wrong with their behavior.
Real
I just enjoy being a hater 💚
@@artwithtreewe Can tell and the envy is visible 💀
@@axlescogido3713 nah, I don't exactly want to be that person lmao. and its incredibly easy to hate on someone when they name their kids like that.. yikes
what honestly BAFFLED me was finding out she’s 22 years old
It might actually not be true. Apparently people have found evidence of her claiming to be 22 for longer than a year, which isn’t really surprising if you’re a model because it’s hard to keep that job past 30, so lying about being in your early 20s for a while extends the workable time frame before you’re out of a job
What???
@@Kimmie9553 she’s 22. There are records from Germany of her being in an elementary school swim competition at a time that would place her at around 22 years old now.
@@Kimmie9553people assume she lied about her age before because her being 22 now would suggest they dated while she was still minor and married right after she turned 18
@@Kimmie9553 can confirm. when I modeled there was a 29 year old woman at my agency & they would tell her "say you're 24"
28 year old mother of two here. I’d be so mad making everything from scratch and having 60% of it end up on the floor. Not to mention having the little one harass me the entire time I’m cooking it.
28 yr old mom of 2. True that but I also couldn't give two Fs less if other people are doing it 🤷♀️ not saying you said this, but cooper did, it's not a valid reason to hate on someone for being a mom & make cooking videos.
@@drinas2783 It’s a valid reason to critique someone. Lots of people think that Nara’s content is real, and she does give off an air of pretentiousness, but the reality is that Nara isn’t taking 4-6 hours to make breakfast that her child asked for once they woke up. She’s making content and it’s not supposed to be reflective of real life.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809no one thinks that. Look at her comments
@@tiahnarodriguez3809doesn't matter 😂
@evelynmuller1046 then don't? 😂
I think she's a sweet, adorable lady who cooks lovely food. Her and her husband are fine as fuck and I really appreciate that she isn't exploiting the shit out of her kids. Sure, this is all for content, but the people THIS angry over her aesthetic tik tok videos need to chill. Tons of jealous women are only embarrassing themselves.
Bingo! I think she's charming.
Seriously, save that anger for climate change, not some model who knows how to effortlessly make ragebait.
@@stealthis Right? Like, save the anger for our "leaders" failing the whole world.
I dont hate her content, she has the right to post what she wants, but it is goving Marie Antionette having a fake farm build, so she can play peasant for a while. Wich is not something people should hate her this intensly for.
I like her but I dislike her insinuating that it’s realistic to spend hours in the kitchen with two toddlers. Women who believe that will be up for a rude awakening.
theyre like cosplaying ppl from the capitol in hunger games...
HELP
THIS IS THE FEELING. It's all so disingenuous that is aggravating
This !!😭😭
that's EXACTLY the vibe they're giving off lmfao
Nailed it!
Everything about her videos makes so much more sense now that I know she and her husband are models. The videos are just an extension of their modeling careers. Glamorous and selling an ideal that is not based in reality at all.
it’s based in their reality. you can’t
tell people who are way richer and far more successful than you, what “reality” is. they shop in stores you’d never see cause they aren’t in your broke mall!
@@dreamkitty Reality has nothing to do with how much money they have or which stores they shop in. Reality is no toddler is going to wait quietly for hours for a pb&j or cereal made from scratch. No woman dons a full face of glam makeup and a fashionable nightgown just to make food for their toddler. She does that to sell an idealized aesthetic, just like with a modelling shoot. Her shorts are not based in any kind of reality because she is not dressing up like that for herself; she's doing it for a camera because it makes her money. What you see on social media pages like hers is not day-to-day reality; it's the curated ideal she wants you to see.
@@noraeable well yes that's how social media works. any adult should know that by now, the fact that some women still let it affect them to the point they start spewing hate while knowing this is idiotic. also, how do you know she doesn't' glam off-camera? someone wear makeup just to go to the grocery store...and if she's already a model, it makes sense why she'd be more fashion inclined.
@@sainttheresetaylor2054 "Just to go to the grocery store" you say, as if the store isn't a public place full of strangers where some women may feel the need to wear makeup because of societal expectations.
Honestly I just see her as a woman that enjoys cooking and just happens to be beautiful like why do people hate her so much
I think it's because they can't have what she has so their only option is to hate on her for having the seemingly perfect life that they do badly want.
I'm not saying she is perfect because no body is but she has this beautiful husband, kids and seem to be living an amazing life. She isn't trying to recruit people into Mormonism neither is she preaching any propaganda so why else would people hate her if not for the reason that they are jealous of her but do not realize it?
It's weird bc i think so as well but I can see why it would be annoying, esp those "simple bread" for breakfast that takes hours to make type comments, idek why but it just exhausts me? i suppose??
tbh what i find annoying about her are the same things i find annoying about most influencers so i really don't see why hating her has peaked so much that it's trending. She is doing the same thing thousands of other people do online and not doing anything particularly outrageous (which thousands of oter people DO and receive less hate)
I just followed her because I found the videos relaxing, don't really care about the rest😂
my personal opinion: i think that Nara raises and nurtures her kids like this because her mother has done the same for her , just my personal take 🤷♀
As a sahm who cooks daily, I call this bs. Nobody can prepare food for hours a day w/o someone who watches the kids and takes care of the household.
@@Golf2foto she never said she did though and shes also not even american shes german and liek many eurpean countries they make everything from scratch no matter there gender or marital status.
@@Golf2foto not true so many African women do this ish. Something can hard not impossible
It's because mothers don't typically have 6 hours to make a pb&j from scratch and most mothers (and fathers) worry about being inadequate already. They have to leave their kids with strangers all day while they work, then come home and try to make healthy meals and try to get the house clean enough and pay attention to the kids and spouse before passing out.
While this woman makes it look easy to wear full glam makeup and clothing and cook from scratch AND spend time with her kids AND make her husband happy. While in all honesty it's not because she's better than anyone else, it's just money. She has money and that's why she is able to do all of this. She can be prettier, healthier, a better mother, calmer, etc because of money and that feels a little unfair to some people.
I'm not even a mother and I completely get it why this would rub people the wrong way. Is it okay to hate her? Sure, just leave it to yourself, you don't have to tweet it, just shout it into the void and go about your life. Don't send hate to people's faces.
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Right she prob has the nanny taking care of the kids so she can do this. That’s fine and all but like cooper says it’s the way she frames it as simple
yeah like how can a fricking printed paper (made by humanity) have so much value, grant so much privileges and literally _control the whole world_ (said humanity included, ofc)⁉️
I agree. I don't feel any hate, happy she has the financial stability she has for her family. She's giving something she can to her family, more power to her if it's all real.
none of that has anything to do with her. you’re projecting. you’re bitter.
What irks me is that she keeps liking people’s comments on her instagram saying this is the standard for women, and this is how women act when they “love their man”, and that she’s this incredible person for setting an example…. Like please be fr she knows exactly what she’s doing
Ew
THIS is what actually bothers me about her- the inevitable hateful misogyny that will be cast on any women not like her. Creepy manosphere jerks are already ruining relationships, content like this just feels so much like the manosphere's and other misogynists' biggest fantasy. That's all she is for most humanity, because it's something barely anyone can afford. I guess excessive privilege in general gets really annoying, but I don't know her whole story. It's just rich people like her husband and the lifestyle that are so irritating
shes happy people like her content like what do you want from her please keep in mind she isnt even american shes european they are raised sm differently then we are.
If you already hate her what's wrong with her playing into the role of "villain" plus just block her...,but you clearly can't because you want to be like her...that's what irks me.
LOL!! I’m 24 and gave birth to my second child four months ago, but I LOVE her videos. I feel like she’s just being a meme! And “my toddler asked for this” is just an intro. Not necessarily what they actually asked for, but an introduction to a cooking/baking tutorial. She’s just being her online character. She is Mormon and does make things from scratch, but I think she’s exaggerating to make it funny. I also enjoy making things from scratch. Sidenote: bread from scratch isn’t that difficult to make 😅
I love Nara Smith 😂 I’m a single mother to a toddler with a disability and I love cooking so her videos are basically goals if I had enough free time. I’ve been planning on making our own cereal for my son when I have time and aren’t as fatigued.
I don’t understand why other mothers see her as some kind of threat or judgement when she’s the least opinionated about what she feeds her kids, her choices being different to yours isn’t a judgement.
HOWEVER; I will be opinionated and say anyone who kids themselves into thinking stuff that comes in a box with a million preservatives, refined sugar and dyes is the same as flour, pb, maple syrup, milk and chocolate is insane.
Idk if it’s an American thing maybe about how food works over there but where I’m from - making things from scratch is automatically going to benefit your health especially your gut microbiome far more.
People hate her not because they are jealous of her, but because they feel like she is trying to make them jealous.
SO well said, its offensive cause she assumes her audience can't see through it
How is she making them jealous?
No? U guys r just filled with hate
@@cosmic_latte3963 This is weird. How do you know what she is or isn't assuming?
@megmurry5904
We do not know the entirety of people mind set to assume that generalization. We can't read minds.
I didn't understand the hate until she pulled out the names.
I was like 'okay, making everything from scratch is excessive, but go off' then everything changed once she said the names of her kids.
😂
but at the same time, if she wants to name her kid that who rlly cares
@bunnywavyxx9524 yeah, I'm sure worried about the amount of bullying the kid will receive or how many people will turn down their application to either college or work because of their name, if they ever have to go through either of those processes/school. In the end, I know the kids will end up changing their name regardless, because honestly, who would want to be called that for their whole life?
@smolcrabbo I'd be really surprised if those kids ever have to fill out a job application. And if they go down their parents' path to be in the modeling/entertainment industry, the unique names would be seen a a good thing. I think that's why a lot of rich and famous people give their kids outlandish names.
@@bunnywavyxx9524honestly, as someone who was made fun of for my name as a kid, it's just cruel to make it easy for the bullies.
The thing is with Coopers new haircut is that it has now been proven that he is one of those men who look magnificent with long hair *AND* short hair
The hate is a lil delulu. I don’t understand why her content makes people so upset.
it probably has to do with the way capitalism and governments are failing people and most feel fear and anger that they will never be able to achieve the beauty and lifestyle of this rich woman and her rich husband. it's very uncomfortable to watch when you can barely afford to pay rent.
@@eggysaladi get what you mean… but you choose what to watch online. Its not hard to filter out that content.
I love her but her kids names arent it
She a black rich woman with a sexy husband and all insecure ppl are going to hate and guess what the internet is full of em!😊 bRo is literally Y/n and ppl are mad about it!😂
just watch the God.Damn video
12:18 I think people hate them because they are like wattpad characters irl atp😂😂😂
I think the part that is so annoying is that it probably isn’t totally true. As a mom seems pretty impossible and borderline bad parenting to make your hungry toddler wait all that time to make them food. It’s one thing to prepare something for a few hours in anticipation for dinner or for fun but when your kid comes to you hungry.. that’s a small window before things get meltdowny
Would be funny if off screen she fed them the premade stuff. Maybe they do come asking for things and it gives her ideas for her next dish to make but she doesn't do it in the moment like she claims. Most of these things can be used multiple times too. Like she is making a whole loaf of bread and probably enough jam for multiple sandwiches, so if her children are always asking for that she could prepare it beforehand. Kinda like meal prep. Obviously it is the portrayal that is more the issue like you said.
Maybe her husband should go grocery shopping
@@squigglyspooch246 That’s pretty much what she does. Some of her vids about her kids asking her to make things which she takes 8 hours to cook from scratch are jokes.
She has said that they eat in-between making these meals in the comments before, if they ask for pb&j it’s most likely as a afternoon snack
@@squigglyspooch246i thought that was obvious. like are people still not understanding that content creators are creating … CONTENT
She's promoting the "tradwife" lifestyle, which is FINE on it's own if it's chosen, but leads down a very slippery slope into other idealogies. Most of which are very popular in certain fundamentalist religions. The unique name thing is also VERY big/common in Mormon culture (10 different Joseph Smiths in one family gets a little confusing)
Also, much like most tradwife influencers, this is clearly all bullshit. Cooking cereal from scratch in the morning? The kids are either getting up WAY too early or eating breakfast at noon.
But she doesn't fit the "tradwife" lifestyle because she works.
Alot of traditional women are Christian which is completely different from mormonisim.
you don’t have to be religious to be a housewife how are people this dumb
But that’s the thing she’s not. She’s not saying “YOU should do this. YOU should want this” She’s just like, “Yes I decided to be quirky and pretend my life is perfect”
Nara has never promoted/sold her lifestyle as better than, we know she lives an unconventional life and that most people don’t have those luxuries. She also has eczema and in severe cases, a natural diet is encouraged. With that said a lot of people that have issues with her like to ignore the fact that most people in America are very disconnected from the food they eat. That bread she made was in fact easy, and most people in other countries make a lot of the food they consume from scratch while doing all their everyday tasks, it's not unattainable.
Does she ever acknowledge her privilege or explain how she’s able to shoot these videos and cook for 4 hours with her kids unattended? Does she show the nannies caring for the kids while she makes everything from scratch? I think it’s the obfuscation and what comes across as basically a “lie” that is intrinsically frustrating for people with more than a few brain cells to rub together. The rest who worship her and fawn in her comments with adoration are probably kids who’ve never had experience babysitting or cooking or are suffering from some sort of amnesia or other cognitive dysfunction.
In many countries having a wife that stays at home and takes care of the children and household is heavily normalised to the point it is almost enforced, therefore it's not a fair comparison. The issue isn't that she is doing something harmful, but that it feels like a slap to the face to hear her saying "Simple and easy" as someone with more money and free time than the average person. This wouldn't be "simple and easy" for someone working several jobs to sustain themself and their family. It's not unattainable -in most cases- but people often would rather use their free time to rest and most of all be with their children.
As an Ex-Mormon who still got that guilt, yknow? cooper vocalizing everything I'm worried about is so nice, 10/10 vid
Same, fellow exmo :)
@@SpiderLilyLover_3000may I ask what you mean about the past? I’m a current member and I believe I’m quite educated on our history, but I don’t find reasons worth leaving.
@@SpiderLilyLover_3000 ah, do you mean the FLDS? They are a cult. We are not affiliated with them.
@@latenightbreakdowns2107 i would encourage you to read rough stone rolling by richard bushman. it's written by a faithful member who takes an objective look at joseph smith and some of the historical inconsistencies that we were taught in church. it was released in 2005, but everything in there is corroborated by the gospel topic essays :) a lot of people have issues reconciling their faith with the history, but if you find a way that is healthy and works for you, that's awesome.
@@SpiderLilyLover_3000*polygamist relationships
Polyamory is much different
Sorry not a criticism just noting 😁
People are just annoyed because it's such an idealized upper class lifestyle that's unachievable for so many. I guess it comes out if frustration and i recognize that. Personally I do get bad vibes from her just for that reason but I'm not about to talk about how "terrible" she is
She's just living a life and I'm going to leave her be
I think she’s annoying in the same way Kim Kardashian is annoying. Giving weird names to her kids, being extra in normal moments… ect. It feels inauthentic, like her whole life is scripted. Her videos make me feel like an episode of Black Mirror if that makes sense ? Although I do hear your opinion and it’s perfectly valid 🙌🏼💕 Just wanted you to see other people’s take on this. The bashing is unwarranted and not deserved at all of course.
Perfect take I feel the exact same way
See, that’s great and all, but she’s not “just living her life”. She’s scripting, filming, and editing her life. So even if she gets flack, she shouldn’t care, it’s all a persona anyway, because it’s all a scene
@@lazerkitty7627 you are absolutely right I feel like what you said describes her much better then I did
@@secretformulathief910 Thank you, I appreciate the compliment :) But don’t diminish your previous comment ! A lot of people seem to agree with what you said and the way you said it. Unrelated but I really like your pfp :)
Dont know how i ended up here at 3:20 a.m. but you just got my subscription for making me literally laugh out loud and that that doesnt happen often. Cant wait to watch more of your vids ❤
jealousy never looks good on anyone
I actually think I look pretty cute today so I beg to differ.
@@Klaurlanah its showing your self hatred, low self esteem and insecurities ❤
@@Klaurladelulu
lol nara discourse is always so funny to me. i was raised mormon and i'm also 22 (she is literally two months older than me), i'm fully on board with this being propaganda because mormons LOVE to push fast, young marriages. My sister just turned 20 and has been dating her boyfriend for a year, people were asking her at six months when she was going to get married. it also helps that nara is half black- she can be a sort of "poster child" for how "accepting" and not racist the church is. i frankly wouldn't be surprised if there is some kind of link between her and a media person within the church.
I feel bad for black Mormons honestly. Had a convo with a missionary which showed me the LDS is definitely still racist from a doctrinal perspective at least. I see these annoying recruitment ads and I think they're at least trying to recruit the lightskins now 😂 when did we stop being cursed??
But the thing is she has only referenced her faith in 2 vids out of all her vids, they were only a few second mentions. One where she reads her bible and the other about their Christmas celebrations. People already hated her before those vids
@@2law2beI think the issue is I’m begging more of us to have more media literacy. This is my issue. Folks feel as if propaganda has to be in your face, but that’s the weakest type of it. Good propaganda is sneaky. I’m not saying Nara represents Mormon propaganda by any means (I actually don’t think she does), but if you genuinely believe that someone needs to be proclaiming their Mormonism in every video in order to be linked to the church and trying to actively recruit….I have news for you. This is the entire basis behind sneaky advertising & marketing. And it’s precisely the kind of slippery slope online that’s led to the radicalization of young men who watch one TikTok and then find themselves weeks later on radical incel forums. Media literacy is key.
@@Neomie92 Not to be rude but please don't try to educate me on media literacy, which is something that doesn't even apply to Nara. She was hated before people found out about her faith. They used dumb excuses to justify their hate (her body, dresses, and clean kitchen). But her Mormonism became the #1 excuse once they found out about her faith. There are actual Mormon influencers on TikTok who don't receive the hate she gets. It ain't about her faith.
@@2law2beI mean it kinda is and on top of that she’s lying out of her ass for views. She said she wasn’t a hardcore Mormon but she is somewhat a Mormon and when she does mention it, it brings to light of “Oh! That’s why she does that”
i swear the interenet will get mad at anything and anyone atp 💀
I mean, pointing out that she’s in a cult is pretty justified tbh
@@froggy5748you can say that about any religion though. Not disagreeing though.
@@lex3150mormonism is definitely a cult
@@lex3150yeah… so?
@@chesiresays what? I literally said I don’t disagree, but people being nit picky about someone who’s content is literally about making food just because of her religion, which she doesn’t even push onto anyone is weird. Every religion is flawed and has questionable ideologies and past. Does that mean every creator who is religious should be bashed online and say they’re promoting cults.
I really appreciate your mention of the LDS church and the way you explained it. I’m a member and i really appreciate how you didn’t hate on it and just shared facts
I love her outfits sm I need
Gotta say the evolution of coopers background is elite. Its soo pretty.
came here to say this! i love the new leaves around each frame its so maximalist and great
It's so incredibly over the top and unrealistic that it HAS to be satire. There is another woman who dies this but she smiles non stop. Unless that woman is making fun of this woman. It's getting too meta, my brain hurts
i know the creator ur talking about, and I find her funny asf
Haha yes, that woman you’re talking about makes satire content
@mok8376 I do too that's why I wonder if this lady is doing something similar. Because it's content after all and noooooooooo body lives that way. Not without going or already being insane.
Firstly she makes most of her food from scretch because she has a skin disease and some ingredients in food causes her to react. So most people who hate her have no reason.
no one is hating her for making homemade food
@@maxies4090 Yeah, you're hating on her for having what you don't have and likely won't have if you're this hateful of the woman. A handsome, wealthy husband, children, freetime to spend hours making food and a social media presence. Most of you are salty karens bro. Get over yourself. Leave the woman alone, you people are acting like she is campaigning to end the female vote
@@maxies4090they do
@@3choblast3r4it’s all jealousy
I was 19 minutes in when I noticed how gorgeous the vines on the back wall are!!!
I had no choice but to make much of my children's food from scratch due to a digestive condition my daughter had with sensitivity to many common ingredients in many pre-packaged foods. That said, I didn't do it 'on the spot' when they asked for it. I had a bread machine that did almost everything once I dumped ingredients in. I baked 4 loaves a week. I made other stuff ahead so it was on hand when needed. I had days of the week set aside for much of this work where my husband would watch the littles while I attended to, and HE took turns doing a lot of this, too. But to get up, make all the stuff on the spot? My kids would have been sobbing with hunger by the time the food was ready! That's so unrealistic.
Very! I appreciate your view here, you come across as someone who knows how hard that is (obviously) and how much it helped to have help. She seems like she would be judgemental to other moms who don't or can't do that, instead of understanding their situation.
@@twitchy_birdi think she is cosplaying to an extent and to present her life and a life like hers as aspiration, but like she's also a really rich woman so she has a grp of staff or resources to occupy her kids while she does this. I think it might be the mormon influencer urge to do so much and be like hey this is just my life to essentially sell her entire life as aspirational, in the u can have it all way and ure just lazy and its doable with some priorities like ur life shld be in the "backseat" for eg but its rewarding. Similar to ballerina farm who does similar stuff but she cosplays rancher, even brought her cow to a campsite. Like shes the crunchy nara smith with 10 kids.
@@espeon871 I think you're onto something there. I just watched a whole video about that basically, remarking on Nara Smith specifically. It definitely fits the vibe, and explains why so many people suspend their disbelief for content like that.
@@twitchy_bird Once we got the schedule down, and found the recipes, and learned how to do all of the stuff involved, it became routine. Don't get me wrong, it was a whole mess until we found a groove, or a system, so to speak LOL. And many a kitchen fail involved. Now I just do it because it's 'normal' for us, and how life works. This day while at work bake bread, this day make the preserves/jellies, other condiments, that day bake some cookies and the like - only quick things like pasta are made 'on demand'.
@@skycarson1987 I do a lot of home made cooking, just because it's often cheaper (damn that poverty line) and I actually enjoy doing it, usually lol. It's definitely a lot easier with someone watching the kid(s), and after you know what you're doing lol. I would never shame someone, or make them feel less than, because they can't or don't enjoy doing those things though you know? I think that's the difference in "vibes" if you will, between some people and people like Nara.
remember guys, you can just dislike people. you dont need a reason. they dont need to be a cultist or even a bad person. you can just..not like them.
Edit: took out "hate" as it obviously is being taken too seriously. Meant simply a strong dislike.
If you go around hating or disliking people for literally no reason there’s something wrong with you and not that other person
@@datboii4789that’s what I’m saying people justify themselves for genuinely being bad people
@@datboii4789 while what youre saying can very well be correct, it could still be the case. My point is that you dont need to wait at the edge of your seat to make crazy allegations towards people to justify your dislike. Some people can give you the ick, with some you may just not vibe. Thats what i was trying to say.
not liking someone is perfectly fine but hate is extensive ppl use hate so much without realizing the difference between hate and not liking someone
@@qouteonqoute4588frrr
i think the reason people are upset is because it feels like shes flaunting it. like "look what i can do that you cant" "look what i have the money and time to do but you dont" like im sure shes a just fine person but the way her stuff feels is very much so uppity
I can see ppl being irritated with her out of a bit of jealousy but at the end of the dayshe isnt doing anything morally wrong. The intenet needs to get off her ass bc its obvious that her videos are simply an aesthetic. Shes portraying something entertaining, visually pleasing and relaxing so I don't see why anyone is so up in arms about her... especially when just about every creator is "lying" on tiktok for views and aesthetics.. sure maybe you could argue that she shouldnt claim to be making these things spontaneously (its probably something she heavily plans, shops and sets time aside for) but as a whole shes gorgeous, talented and shes killing it. Unless I hear that she's doing something morally egregious (those kids names are borderline morally questionable!) im going to continue not thinking about her the way I did before she gained all these haters...
There is no way her husband is watching the kids while she bakes for 4 hours. One word... Nanny
well yeah? whoever compares herself to her is dumb for doing so she’s a rich model why wouldn’t she have a nanny? she also doesn’t need to tell her audience if she has a nanny or not
congrats you figured out what rich people do
No but there has been an influx over the years, especially with TikTok, of young modern-era Christian influences trying to appeal to an audience with growing critical thinking skills and endless resources in how they can examine religion. It isn't necessarily the influencer, especially in this case, outright stating that kids should pick up Mormonism. But rather it's a case of selling an idealized lifestyle to young people in ways that appeal to them. Think Paul and Morgan, if you've ever come across them, Girl Defined ect. It's a new kind of preaching to the masses and aims to make the religion as palatable and comfortable as possible. There's a whole discussion surrounding how certain religions have had to adapt to technological advancements and so have subtly started branching outwards into the online influencer sphere, to "quietly" influence young people into certain lifestyles/headspaces.
(Also not religious, but no hate/shame towards anyone that is. I respect your right to practice so long as nobody is getting hurt and the sentiment is returned.)
"Rumble stumbled" 😂😂👏👏
2:49 it is perfectly fine to make cereal , buuuut it is something you do the night or days before. People can get super hungry in the morning, and they want their food now, especially kids. Unless you want a grumpy pants.
She probably fed them something else and filmed the process on a different day or so
Thank you for this. Constant internet discourse has made it damn near impossible to to just dislike something. People always feel like they have to make something "problematic", when they can just say its annoying or they don't like it
Sometimes its both, but i get kind of scared of influencers like her. Ballerina farm is another one, she literally popped out a kid and went on the pageant curcuit in a way that feels like im doing it all and u can too towards moms in her circle.
You genuinely have such golden retriever energy even when calling someone insufferable.
weed + food + cooper vids = best evening ever
Never heard of this woman but stayed till the end of the video laughing so much. Thanks!
The thing is, she likely has a house cleaner and a nanny when she does this stuff and she has some crazy need to fill time and to be perfect. Idk on Tik Tok someone made a perfect breakdown of it.
Well… DUH?? Mr captain obvious here. Who woulda thought rich ppl would have workers work for them too to make their lives easier? Common sense isn’t too common
10:11 BUCKLE HONEY SMITH omfg that’s honestly better than rumble I’m crying😭💀💀💀
IK I LITERALLY DIED 😭💀
The way u genuinely put me in panic when I heard those goddamm sirens man 😭😭
The reason people hate her imo is because everyone these days seems to base their worth on how "successful" they are and success to them is being defined as having lots of money, being hot and being aesthetically pleasing.
Cooper even said in the video "people watch her and feel worthless" because that's what the media pushes to young people every single day. That this is success and this is what everyone should strive for and if they don't they've done nothing with their life and they're worthless.
More than that i think its also the uncanny valley energy that she exudes, which is very influenced by religious influencers which is where theyre like you can do it too; and its aspiration. For some people, esp women who arent afforded femininity in our current system, its an escapist content to see someone like u live a life ure not afforded, that i understand and am happy for. However, her videos are very much like i can do it and u can too, and in a world of mom shaming and her religious bg, those with similar context to her might feel pressured and also feel bad esp with the constant standard.
I feel like this the most accurate analysis. She's not doing anything particularly new in regards to her content. She's not the first woman to curate an aesthetically pleasing lifestyle for social media or make food from scratch. Her voice, while nice to listen to, isn't uniquely soft and soothing either. It's the atmosphere around her videos that is the problem.
The more people make her aspirational and a model for all women, especially when said people are men, the more hate she will receive. The fact that she's Mormon and teethers on the edge of tradwife content doesn't help either.
And they're right. She's not aspirational (though it's not wrong to be inspired by her to make more foods at home). There are very few people if any on Earth who should be aspired to. If her community was a lot less "this is what a REAL woman looks like" and more "that looks nice! I should start making my own recipes too!," no one would be debating about her this much.
As a side note, I think there might also be some misogynoir mixed in there because she seems to be a lot more hated and talked about than even some genuine tradwife influencers. That and the fact that she married young to everyone's rich, attractive Tumblr/Wattpad crush from the 2000s/2010s definitely drummed up some haters.
How is that her fault?
@@UMMH2000DING DING DING !! I don’t see how someone living a privileged life & minding their business is bad?? Like I’m sorry you don’t get to do that.. but how is it her fault that she does? Bc mothers all over the world struggle she should too? And im sure she does struggle, it’s her choice to put it on the internet or not tho?
@@michellemorales3344 I don’t know what you’re trying to convey to me? Could you be more clear?
I genuinely don't see why ppl absolutely HATE her like she's done nothing wrong. I see that the names of her children are strange and she's a Mormon but she's not intentionally forcing ppl into her religion. She literally just looks pretty and cooks. What's so wrong with that?
people are jealous lol
@@officerdeath source: trust me bro
@@officerdeath why do you keep commenting this and where are you getting this
@@officerdeathwhat’s that
It is perfectly okay to dislike someone for being in a racist, homophobic, misogynistic religion even if they seeming aren't publicly doing their own harm. They are complicit to horrific crazy ass beliefs and the glamorization of the lifestyle. Not saying she needs to stop or leave the internet or do anything like that but I think it's fair people dislike her for this
THE HAIRCUT IS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
All your paintings are croooked and its driving me nuts
The problem with this situation really starts with people just taking content like this too personally. Is her lifestyle unrealistic? Sure. But uhm she’s a model. And so is her husband. Obviously how they live is going to be vastly different than the rest of us. She has never said that what she does makes her a better mom and that she should be the standard. If you watch content like this and feel that way, that is a personal issue. You can’t go through life comparing yourself to someone who lives that differently than you.. I’m sorry but like cope?
Literally
Nah, i disagree. She’s v obnoxious. There’s other models and influencer moms who also have vastly different lifestyle, however most of them aren’t as frustrating as her.
It’s all about the “tone” in which you convey your content/material. There’s something very artificial about her and that’s irking everyone.
fr, I don't understand why the girls getting hate
@@sayeemooour irked because she’s better then u in every way and she doesn’t even have to say it. She’s a model, she’s married to a hot rich man, and she’s fucking loaded. THATS why it irks you. She’s none of the words u called her at all. She’s always calm. Ofc she’s “artificial” so is like almost all cook tok people? Stop using excuses and seek help for your issue with jealousy. It won’t make u look any better being like that. Being jealous is ugly. And if ur ugly on the inside you’ll never be pretty on the outside
@@sayeemoooThat was a lot of words for “I’m jealous of her”
The way she names her kids reminds me of my ex-friend. I said her kid would get bullied, have no friends, and have difficulties getting a job cuz we lived in Texas. She looked me dead in the eye and said "I don't care about any of that"
RIP Azrael/Azazel, prayers that Rumble Honey and Slim Easy find themselves in your class 🙏
"I don't care about any of that" 💩
Azrael isn’t even a bad name? is it just that texas is full of white americans that can’t pronounce anything with more than 3 syllables?
those seem like quite ordinary names to me, sorry to burst your bubble.
@@amaryllisaphid02
Azrael/Azazel? Are you a character from a dystopian YA romance book that somehow got transported into our world?
@@yeehaw7896 look it doesnt seem so bad..
Her content is a fairytale. there is nothing realistic about it and I think that is the whole point. so there's nothing to be mad about. it's just chill aesthetics. nothing to compare yourself to and no need to feel inferior. that's how I see it
Exactly
Oh my gosh the bear thing has me dying🤣