Bride's Entourage Is Fixated On Her Weight! | Say Yes To The Dress
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From Season 4 Episode 17
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The cousin saying the groom isn’t gunna marry her is probably the worst thing I’ve heard on this show.
and the mother nearly splitting her sides agreeing with it. So cruel
"Gunna"???? What kind of hideous grammar is THAT?!?
Right ??!! So cruel @@barbarahayden5602
@@jb6712 they meant gonna , isnt that too obvious that it was a mistake . god
Yes. Horrible people. Bride should ditch them.
What an awful Entourage. Laughing at her and calling her overweight is just cruel.
the way the cousin says "she wants to look sexy, but right now she's overweight" like you can't be sexy and overweight at the same time? i'm probably 100 pounds heavier than she is and my husband still can't keep his hands off me, "sexy" is all in the eyes of the groom.
Не может. Лишний вес - это жир,складки,отсутствие здоровья,красоты и ничего больше
I wonder why she bought them? They are so evil!
@@dietotaku they just have problems with self lov sadly and project it on her
Yes it is
Sophia really should go alone to her next appointment and also should never ever again take these two mean, disrespectful women with her. This is one of the saddest videos of SYTTD, I ever saw. Imagine having such a mother, that loves to devalue her own daughter just to lift her confidence. What a shame!
Her mom was fatter! What about that!
She’s not gonna go alone to her next appointment because her mom is paying for the dress
This is very common in hispanic households
I have one of those. It destroys you! I want to see this whole episode
The whole thing was so sad, but I got angry when she started laughing at her daughter. What a piece of work. That’s not a mother 😭
The bride looked good in the first dress, she has a nice figure! Her Mom is vicious!
Her mom is mean and not small herself and not a loving caring mom and the cousin kick her Ugly self to the curb you don't need her !!
I liked the first one on her, but the second wasn’t flattering to her. Maybe because it was a sample dress.
Yes I really liked the first dress on her
Agree - it looked great on her figure!!! She’s never going to find the right dress if she doesn’t kick them to the curb, bring the people who REALLY love n support her. Also, if she looses 20-30 pounds she’s be anorexic - she doesn’t have 20-30 pounds to loose safely.
@@thoughtsideas6929 yes, she has a beautiful figure. Better than scrawny stick figure cousin.
Overwirhgt? fat? They were just extremely jealous of her. She had a great figure and nice curves. The dresses were just too small and they would have looked great when ordered in her size. Shame on her mother and she should definetely cut relationships with that toxic and jealous cousin.
Yes. When the cousin said the groom wouldn't want to marry her I thought "or so you hope." I don't know if she likes the groom in particular or if she's just bitter about not having the attention or whatever. Why did the bride even bring that woman with her? Family or not, that woman is not her friend.
They're from Puerto Rico....family culture overrides kindness.
Yes they are
👀 girl be so fr. I get we are trying to defend her. But she is fat and square. No one’s jealous of her
Her mom can't say nothing she is bigger than her daughter. I would have done told them to get the heck out.
Her mom is a dumpling. Her daughter might have inherited her shape, something she'd do well to point out to her unsupportive mother.
I was looking for this comment.
there is deff projection going on with the mom
Right like idgaf about people's weights but when you're bigger than your kid calling her fat??? Get the fuck right out. And that cousin??? No. Toss that whole-ass entourage and elope with your man and HIS family.
But, the mom is paying. If Sofia really wants to be free. She should consider bringing her own wallet..
She looks good. Being criticized about one's weight is ridiculous and smacks of character bashing.
Not to mention her mom could lose about 30 pounds her own self. What an abusive person she is.
Mom & the cousin are actually PERPETRATOR'S of psychological & emotional Domestic Abuse (DV).
But if anyone pointed this out to them, they'd both be shocked & 100% disbelieving of that basic fact.
They'd probably actually excuse & rationalise their abuse by saying things like, we only want her to look her best at her wedding, or we're saying these things for her own good.
They are in a position of power, over their victim.
Good intentions? No, domestic abuse 😢
She isn't fat@
It is the only thing left that people are allowed to ridicule, harass and publicly shame..without consequences.
The styles were unflattering around her stomach . The family were too unpleasant however it’s not kind to let a bride go out in an unflattering dress just for a sale
This cousin and mother are horrific despicable people.
The mother looked more overweight than Sophia did. Sophia didn’t even look overweight at all! The attitude of the mother and the cousin is a reflection of how they feel about themselves.
Yes they are
Wow, with family like that who needs enemies🫣
100% I agree with you; that was also my first thought!
My heart goes out to her, they're bullies hiding behind their fake smiles. Evil women, she's not even overweight
The hostility from the mom & cousin has to be more than just about 20lbs. That was just hateful. The girl looked good in some of those gowns, even without the dresses being sample sizes, or her not having the proper supporting undergarments she would be wearing. I mean, look at her mom laughing and saying her daughter is too big when she herself is twice her daughter's size! They were sabotaging her and I hope everyone who sees this in their real life shamed them for being so petty and cruel. They weren't being helpful, they were bullying her. It made me angry for the bride.
The mom looked like a rectangle.
Amen!!!
This poor bride…she looked beautiful in all the dresses!
No, she did not. They were all way to smoll for her
I would elope and not invite either one
She wants to make a splash. Her big day. Maybe threaten to elope if they don't put away the daggers they keep stabbing her with.
Yep she should
Wow! These two are horrible! Cancel the appointment & bring in people who support the beautiful person Sophia is!
In a lot of these cases the mom comes along because they are paying for the dress. This is a good example of funding your own wedding so you can do what you want even if it is small or destination.
@@ambongiornoYup and being economically independent is best as we get the freedom to do and pick what we want.
Who needs enemies when you have a MOM like that? Both her and cruel cousin are despicable creatures.
The consultant said "with a cousin and mom like that she better loose weight" I say with a cousin and mom like that she better elope and marry on a cruise away from them.
Well she could ditch the mother and cousin that’s about 250 to 300 pounds right there 😅
She should have said that with family like that, who needs enemies
Yep. "I lost 300 pounds for my wedding."
These people would be told to get out. And they will never be in her life again
Mom and cousin should have to watch this, read these comments and be held accountable. I'm crushed for her.
Me too why are people so offal
That first dress was beautiful on her!
I agree!!
Yes it was
Nobody needs to point out to the bride that she is overweight.
She is aware. Just help her pick out the dress that flatters her the most.
And her fiancée and soon to be husband loves her curves. Everyone needs to hush and support her.
“If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing “. Your words will always haunt her of this memory.
Weight issues?? Where?? She's beautiful!
I agree! Also, the mother looked more overweight than Sophia did. They will never be happy with her weight. It is a reflection of how they feel about themselves.
Came back when you lose the weight....
I would have talked with her family about their comments. She needed Randy. He tells the family to lighten up and consider the bride's feelings when they are rude. I wouldn't bring that cousin back with her the next time she goes dress shopping. So sad.
I kept waiting for Randy to come and rescue her😢
Wow, they treated the whole appointment as a joke.
it's ironic to me that the salon known for "southern hospitality," bridal by lori, would have given those two the tongue-lashing of a lifetime and threatened to throw them out of the store if they didn't stop bullying the bride. i can only think of one instance where someone at kleinfeld's actually threatened to remove a member of the entourage from the store because of their nasty comments.
That bride needs an entourage made up of Gok, Randy and Monty. Gok to dress her so she feels amazingly confident, Randy to have a heart-to-heart, and Monty to make her laugh. And all 3 would praise her beauty.
Also Monty to tell the family off
It's truly disheartening to see the bride's experience of being bullied and laughed at by her cousin and her very own mother. They made what should have been a happy memory of a lifetime a difficult time. She must prioritize her happiness and leave those two at home on her next bridal dress shopping trip. She should bring someone who can support her in deciding on a bridal gown that truly makes her heart sing!
She looks amazing in the fitted gowns! She has a great figure. Mom and cousin are blind.
They’re assholes, too.
They act like they hate her, really. She needs to go shopping with ppl who care about her.
i mean... some of them, yeah. others not so much. i would have liked to see her in an A-line or a dropped waist, i think she needed a little more volume at the bottom to balance out her chest.
They did not look good on her. They did not do her any justice however, her family is insufferable. She is such a kind soul. They do not deserve her.
She looked great in the first one! 👍
I thought so too.
i feel like she also liked it the most bcz she immediately said “ im getting married “ and thats the feeling ur supposed to get
Omg this mom and cousin are rude, crude, and obnoxious! They needed kicked out by her! She needs to see herself as beautiful. Those two are the worst meanest people ever! ❤❤
Not the right speech about her weight. Really disrespectfully and destuctive.
I feel so bad for the bride. For many years my family (including my mom) criticized my weight. When I was a size 10, I was fat. When I was a size 6, I was too skinny. I finally realized that no matter what I weighed they would find something negative to say and that is THEIR PROBLEM, not mine. Sophia is beautiful…I hope she knows that.
Same here. You are too skinny. Then, oh, I didn't know you had such heavy thighs. Now it's, have you lost weight? You look so thin. My weight has not changed since I was 17. I'm 79!
The first dress in the fitted final version would have been absolutely gorgeous on her! Her mother and cousin don’t even deserve to be invited to the wedding after this disgusting and cruel display of how LITTLE they care about her! And they obviously don’t know anything about sample sizes in wedding gowns, (which is a pet peeve of mine)! Wedding shops should carry larger samples for NORMAL size people! Most people are not a size 4 or whatever their tiny samples are. At least some should be in a size 10, 12, 14 or 16. I know a lot more people in those sizes than I do in sizes 2 through 8… Clipping the back works for a smaller bride, you can still envision the final look. But filling in the open back of a dress that’s distorted from being way too small, doesn’t let the bride see the final look at all! It’s all pulling and bunching up, can’t tell anything from that.
Wow. This segment actually broke my heart. Terrible jealous entourage.
I believe the reason her cousin is so cruel is because she can’t find a man to merry her
She looks beautiful and voluptuous. The family is horrible!!! The first dress looked beautiful.
For the mom, I have this to say: People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. The cousin, on the other hand, is so jealous of the bride that it's almost comical. The bride deserves so much better. I thought the first dress was lovely on her.
What a mean family! She has a lovely figure that looks good in fitted. The right size will be fantastic on her.
This was really hurtful to watch.. Poor girl.
Why is her mom making fun of her? She is even heavier. Cousin is just mean!
Wow,that mother and cousin, how vicious!
The cousin is a word that rhymes with rich. I wish this bride had a supportive friend there.
I can honestly tell you, if I were Keasha, I would have been FIRED that day. The moment I saw them laughing I would have slammed the door twice, a slam per horrible face there. Keash, God bless you and your way of handling stupid people.
This mother should be ashamed of herself . How disgusting of her to treat her daughter so poorly
This was incredibly sad.
And I feel she purposely picked out dresses that wouldn’t flatter her the most to get content for the show smh this episode mad my blood boil!
I am Puerto Rican and my family does the same thing 😢. Every time I go and visit they are just criticizing me about my weight. If I am skinny is bad and if I am overweight is bad too. I am just mentally exhausted 😩.
That’s what they do. It’s gross behavior and I just don’t get it smh
Sadly, not just Puerto Rican. I do believe a lot is jealousy. She has a home, a dog, a car and now a man who wants to cherish her. The cousin can barely hide her jealousy.
Families are cruel like that in China or East Asia too.
Can you go No Contact? I’d rather be an orphan if my family is cruel. Can find kind people to love instead.
Fine, stay fat
As a mother, I can't believe her mother was laughing at her daughter in a wedding gown!
💀 you can tell they are jealous of her she looks healthy and beautiful
Every bride is beautiful each in her own way.
She looked gorgeous in that first fitted gown… her family is terrible. Poor woman
Girl I loved the way she laughed after the cousin said she chose the ugly dress 6:12
I think the cousin might be jealous !
7:00 also what the fuck why the mum she laugh like this about her !!!!
She looked GREAT in the first dress she tried on
She only “struggled with her weight” cuz her mom and cousin are evil. She had a great figure and they never tell her that cuz they threw her insecurity in her face every time….
Hope she found her perfect dress without them. Keasha was still the best.
If I ever shop for my wedding dress, I would want to do it at her boutique.
I don't think that the bridal consultant picked dresses that flattered the bride's figure. But that doesn't excuse the bride's mom and cousin's behavior. I think the bride should return to the bridal salon with 2 of her close friends and choose a different bridal consultant.
yes, i know for a fact they have samples in larger sizes, and just because the bride says she wants "an interesting detail" doesn't mean she wants to look like a peacock or a clown. her dress was definitely in there, i think keisha just lacked the imagination to find it.
Oh my these two people are SO horrid. As someone who has struggled with their body what they are doing is no help. When ever that poor bride had any spark of joy they ripped it away. I really hope they found what they loved.
I think the first dress looked great and she shouldn't have listened to everybody's comment, especially if she lost couple of extra pounds, she didn't even have to lose that much.Maybe five and that dress was killer. I love that dress on her.
I love Keasha.
On the other hand, I can’t stand this bride’s family. I can’t imagine why she brought them.
She needs Jo & Al curvy bride love & respect. They would not take the family’s crap
she's not even THAT curvy, like jo & al specialized in brides that needed sizes kleinfeld's doesn't even carry. i know kleinfeld's has plus-size samples, i don't know why they didn't pull any of those gowns.
I'm so happy to see that they're happily married with three beautiful children all grown up now. And yes she did loose weight.
And she wore a beautiful dress for her wedding. Nothing like she tried in that appointment. She looked stunning.
Terrific news.
"Accept who you are". Only carries dresses in a size 6. What do you expect?
I can't believe her family! She's a beautiful bride and they are so cruel to her
Sofia needs to come back without her mother and cousin.
Take ur BFF to your dress shopping spree. Surprise everyone else.
The second dress was so nice on her, and I love her freckles! My jaw dropped when her sad excuse for a cousin mentioned something about not wanting to marry her anymore. Her overweight mom fat shaming her, is just insane. If I was the consultant, I wouldn't be able to keep my mouth shut, I hope she did mention something to her in the dressing room that just wasn't shown on air
she looks so good! the mom and cousin seem toxic, no one should feel comfortable enough to comment on anyone’s body like that.
I'd elope. A man loves her and wants to spend his life with her. That's all that matters. Sophia is beautiful.
She should have left the appointment and scheduled one without them. I felt like I was watching Cinderella with the evil stepmother and evil stepsister.
Mom's not a skinny Minnie. Send them both home on the next plane
The mother and cousin didn’t even try to imagine Sophia in the dresses at the correct size. They are so mean! I felt for poor Sophia.
Every single dress she tried on, except for her cousin's choice made her look absolutely stunning. Not that she needed to because she already is.
😊
She looks really good on the 1st & 2nd dress. The family is just toxic.
They were terrible to her leave them at home.
If you’re struggling with weight issues it’s hard to feel encouraged to feel good in anything. Let along having those critical people with you! Shame on them for shaming her. They needed to be quiet and just say yes or no!
Their laughing at her was shockingly horrid! They should be SO ashamed of themselves!!!
Hopefully the wedding guests saw this video before attending her wedding. Then, the guests can dish cruelty on the mother and cousin. Call them out for having such ugly personalities.
The first dress looked great.
I hope Mom and cousin watched this episode and realized just how awful they treat their own flesh and blood. She looked beautiful, especially in the first dress.
She's what, a size 10 maybe?? Her family are downright cruel and plain rude! Shame on them!
The first two dresses looked GORGEOUS. Her family is mean
This was sad and painful to watch. Being body shamed by your own family.
who needs enemies when u have a family like that.....
The first dress is so flattering.
The sad thing is this is not the worst mom I've ever seen on this show. Randy had to take a time out from an appointment because the mother was so bad. How someone can treat their own child that way, I don't know. My daughter, who is plus size, got married 2 years ago and had 2 appointments. The first I couldn't be there but was on a video call the whole time. The appointment was to start narrowing down her choice of dress and she got it down to 4 options, with one preferred. The second appointment, she made the final decision with me there and chose the preferred dress. I loved her choice, but even if I didn't, it was her choice. Her wedding, her day, her choice and she was paying for the dress. She had my support no matter what dress she chose. I wish I could add a pic of her because she was so beautiful.
The mermaid fit isn't the best for her, but she does not look over weight. Her mom and her cousin do need to back off.
They can not see past the sample size to the beauty of the sculptural simplicity and dramatic detail of the dresses she's preferring. I totally get what she wants to have for her wedding dress. The mom & cousin are obviously enjoying that she's gained weight and they use that to insult her.The thing is, she has a man who can't wait to marry her. They don't. I hope she comes back with a more supportive group of friends.
Her fiance loves her for the way she is!🌷im so sad her mom laughed at her in dresses. Her cousin was awful😡Surround yourself with friends who love you for you! Even if you gotta make mom stay home while you find a dress. Several of those dresses looked beautiful on her🎉Mean awful family!
The mother has zero room to talk. If Sofia goes back, she shouldn't take the cousin.
who needs enemies when you have a mom and cousin like that
Even if it’s scripted, it’s awful. I hope Sophia will come back - either alone, or with kind person/people.
Probably gonna shop alone when I pick a dress.
I hope you have a trusted friend to help you find what makes you feel beautiful. If not, go for it on your own!
I loved her in the first dress, the one she actually liked. It made her good.
Wow. The mother and the cousin are nasty.
Elope, or at the very least, leave them home next time.
This was my experience dress shopping with my mom. My favorites she hated and made it about my weight. Thank god the wedding never happened so I could get a redo without her and with just my friends.
My eyes popped at the first dress. She looks gorgeous! She has a chubby face. Her body is velouptuously gorgeous. Those two are either jealous or just plain vicious!
Mom is built just like her. She should keep her opinions to herself. Her cousin is a different build altogether
mom is projecting like an IMAX theater
They do realize that the dress will be fitted to HER body, right? It will not look like the sample which is obviously too small. And would be too small for a lot of brides! What awful people!
I wouldn't be able to zip 99.9% of the dresses and I'm not even that big! I wear some larges, some extra larges and occasionally a 2x, especially if it's fromm Amazon or SheIn because some of that stuff runs small.
The consultant should see the curvy brides to know what type of dresses suits overweight brides.
Why did she even go to the appointment with them?! Honestly she doesn’t need such mean people in her life
My daughter and I went to Kleinfeld, and it was the best experience ever! Why? The first rule of bridal gown shopping is to be supportive. If you can't do so, don't go. Second, the dress is for the bride, not you. Lastly, if the bride is happy, be happy for her! We can't wait to see my daughter wear her stunning gown this November. FOOTNOTE: We did it on a small budget. The dress should compliment the beautiful bride, not overshadow her.
What? She has a divine figure! Her causin is just very jealous. I loved that first dress on her. Girl, stand your ground girl, it’s your day. These people are just EVIL!
Don't come with mom or cousin. They were degrading you with every dress. Get the dress you love.
Her mother and cousin need to back off!! I am really appalled about how her own mother acted the most!! I would have to had to tell both of them to "Sit down, Shut up, and Look ugly", like they were doing!! She would have been better off going to the appointment by herself
With family like that who needs enemies 🥺🥺