Bride’s Mum Breaks Into The Storeroom! | Say Yes To The Dress
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Bride Hillary has fallen in love with her dream dress, but her mum isn’t too keen, so she breaks into the storeroom to get her a new one. #SayYesToTheDress
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From Season 4 Episode 3
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Your daughter is crying because of you, mom! Her anxiety is 100% based off of what I’m sure has been years of “mommy knows best.” How sad.
I totally agree. Mom doesn’t care what the daughter wants
The most annoying overbearing mother ever. The dress was elegant on its own.
😱 Saddly a SOUL CRUSHING mother
who is completely
UNAWARE of herself .... "
😱whether she likes it or not". 😱
Not all mothers
@@colleenosullivan857 That "whether she likes it or not" comment is very revealing.
For Dad to RECOGNIZE that it was the dress was the most beautiful thing ❤
Yes! And I love how he reminded the wife that he chose dress #2 first.
What a set of idiots. Thank God for daddy. The beads took away from the dream. How can you you want something to be amazing for the person whether or not they like.
He has many years of his wife training him to be quiet and humble.
I hate Mom's like this one. You had your day. Let your daughter have her's.
Exactly!!
But the mom and dad are paying for the dress. If they are paying for it, they get a say. If she wanted no strings attached, she should buy the dress herself. She's a grown adult.
@@catladyfromky4142NOT when she didn't want the wedding in 5he first place and the Mom did it's NOT the HORRIBLE mom's wedding she had her's let her pick her own dress!!!
I CAN NOT STAND THIS MOM!
@@catladyfromky4142I know a lot of people feel like the person paying for the dress has an important say in the choice. But I disagree. Tell the bride the budget and then let her choose! I really don’t like it when money equals power among family members. I also think this mother could benefit from some counseling. I think she is really struggling to let her little girl go.
That Dad was adorable. Humble, quiet, bursting with pride at his beautiful daughter. Just adorable!
He should have grown some balls and told his wife off.
I'm believe Dad has always had to take a back stand to Mom.
That mom was totally clueless as to the irony of the situation. She wants it to be the happiest day of her life, not her daughter’s.
It always shocks me that the moms act unaware of how selfish the things they say are and not embarrassed to be inconsiderate of their daughters feelings. It could be the editing.
Yes. .and how she said .. twice.. 'if she likes it or not'.. awful woman.
@@amysilin8122yes, or staged.
Mom is irony, for she knew it. Control freaks know and love to ruin special days.
"Whether she likes it or not". How utterly disgusting.
I shudder to think what she will be like when the children come along.
No Self awareness at all ... Mind Blowing 🤯
I LOVE that the bride got the dress she loved, sashayed on out there and no one but Dad realized it was That dress. Hahahaha
Right? Love the dad!
Take one person.. not a committee. lol.
as for the fiance choosing lal her dresses. MY God. Red flag for the future or what?
@@mariahoulihan9483 She didn't say all her dresses, she said he's picked the dresses for the weddings they've gone to. Could be she doesn't dress up much, could be she needs validation and confidence boosting about how she looks when dressed up, he might be into fashion, or it could be what you said. But there's a big difference between ALL her dresses and all the dresses for a certain kind of uncommon event.
The mother is disgusting. You don't go into a stockroom. You don't own the store. Stay the heck out of areas that are off limits. I bet she snoops in other people's cabinets.
I bet she snoops in other people's trashcans.
Ihave twice had to throw out of my home someone who did that to me. A long term 'friend'. I even warned him not to do it the second time.. walked back into my sitting room and he had opened a drawer. The man was not a thief.. he said he was looking at the build of the old set of drawers.. out he went.. I was LIVID!
he also ONCE took my dog for a walk. I gave him full instructions on how she, despite my best efforts and the dog training I took her too... not great at recall if she thought something more interesting was going on. He walked her past a cafe on the beach and across the wide beach. then let her off lead. As he is not her owner I told him not to do that. he defied my instructions. She ran straight back to the cafe where people were eating.. smelling bacon and there was another dog there to play with.. he WHISTLED her back.. or tried to. I had given him instructions on her words for recall.. and he didn't use any of them. I even told him to walk her on his left side as I do.. and all the right words she was trained to. She ran off TOWARDS THE ROAD. He told me about it when he came back. I was so angry with him and he blamed her for not coming back to his whistle. I said. when did I say I had trained her to whistle.. never! The tin lid as it were was I got cancer last year. This eejit rang me up and I gave him all the details.. I was getting a lumpectomy.. not a masectomy and I explained the difference. 3 weeks later he rang and asked.. 'are they CUTTING off your breast then?' No care of his words to me at a sensitive time. i was keeping to together as I am alone in all of this.. it was brutal and rude and unintelligent and stupid. We haven't spoken since. I am much better off. I had known him over 40 years.. enough was enough. There are fools out there.. get rid of them. I hung on far too long over far too many instances.
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I'm so sorry for you. Having a friend like that was so stressful for anyone. Hope you are doing well now and have a happy live without him. Take care. 😊
Sorry for my bad English... 😁🙏
I'm from Malaysia
Bye! ❤
I want this day to be the happiest of her life - whether she likes it or not 😂
Ya, no kidding 😏
What a chilling statement... made my blood run cold! Who SAYS that?!
This was filmed in 2009. I wonder if the bride and her husband are even still married? He seemed rather pushy, too, and voiced his opinion on her choice of gown even though he shouldn't have had a say in it at all.
God help her when she has babies.. that woman won't let up.. next stop Dr. Phil's show for her being too controlling on their married life, home and any children they a blessed with.
My Mum was just so easy going. What a blessing we had in her anyway.
Guests have to learn it’s not their wedding but the brides. She is the one that has to look at the wedding pictures forever.
Steve should have supported his fiance instead of her mother in all that.
I agree. He also said, once they blinged up her dress, "Now.. I am lucky."" Like her job was to make HIM feel lucky in front of his buddies.
I absolutely can’t stand when grooms attend these appointments. And that mother, UGH. ☹️
Momzilla of the Bride LOL
Love that first dress…
Shut up Mom! LOL
Dress 2 is even nicer
SHUT UP MOM!!!! LOL
Oh god…beadwork or bling. Wtf is wrong with people. It’s not a costume, it’s a freaking wedding dress.
"It's supposed to be a happy day... Why she's standing there crying, I don't know "
"I want it to be the happiest day of her life, whether she likes it or not"
Umm.. what??
Ya…….what an ignorant thing to say. 😡
How confusing for the daughter, she would want to believe her mother cares for her, but that bit at the end really tells the story “whether she likes it or not”… it’s only really about the mom. I hope this daughter cut ties and left her mom in the dust, that woman will be a steamroller FOREVER.
@@naturefleur2062 hate to imagine if they have children
Does this mother not see the irony of that?
One wonders if the bride ever developed a backbone against her pushy mother...and, frankly, the man she was marryhing.
This was filmed in 2009, so if they managed to stay married for the last 14 or 15 years, it would be only because she grew sufficiently to stand up to both of them.
I agreed with the bride. I picked dress #2. It was elegant and she looked beautiful. My first reaction was “Jackie O would have worn that! Beautiful 💕
Why can’t most moms understand that their grown daughters have thoughts and visions of their own…..you have NO say in this. Just back off already!!! Maybe the groom could have stood up for her as well. How did this woman find a husband…..she is so pushy and arrogant!!!
right? ! as soon as she said "whether she likes it or not" that told me everything i needed to know about how controlling this woman is - im sure she just let people railroad her with her wedding. so glad we hardly told anyone we were getting married - people still dont know lmao
The groom also wanted to have a traditional wedding and wasn’t supporting her her simple dress vision.
Remember that the show overtly looks for drama, for conflict, and everyone coming onto the show knows that.
I am a mother myself and NEVER would I ignore my daughter's wishes so recklessly. It is selfish and self-aggrandizing. None of these mothers would have accepted such behavior from their own mothers.
Yeah I think the groom is momsters little helper! He will never stand up for her bc he is too busy with lips permanently sewed to MIL butt!
Your daughter is NOT YOUR FRIEND. She is YOUR DAUGHTER.
You can be friends with your children too, but not when they are kids.
Thank GOD for an understanding wedding consultant who listens to the Bride!
OMG I love the dad!! He's like, just remember I said yes first for dress #2. 🤣🤣
“What she lacks in knowledge, she makes up for in confidence” DAMN
The mom keeps on repeating the horrible phrase “whether she likes it or not”, that’s really sad how unsupportive mom she is. The mom makes it all about her and not her daughter
I feel so sorry for this woman's husband... The mother, I mean, not the bride.
Ditto!
I agree: how does he put up with this mean woman? Maybe he is afraid she will kill him if he tries to leave. She sure is an unpleasant female. I wish he had married someone lovely.
Sadly there are more men that are “hen pecked” than most think. People always think it is the women who are the victims.
@@kathleenardrey5094Yea, she seems very mean.
People finally realize that men can be victims too.
Dad wants to roll his eyes SO MUCH.
Yikes. Mom, you might actually need some professional help. Overbearing doesn't begin to cover things.
Imagine what she must be like now, 15 years after this episode, and probably two or three grandchildren in the picture! She likely DEMANDS all sorts of attention from the grands, and very likely still makes things difficult for her daughter, unless the daughter developed a backbone against the pushy old hag, and against her own pushy husband...he should have stood by her decisions, not with his MIL-to-be. This was filmed in 2009.
The mom had her day, now its the daughter turn. The second dress on her was perfect for her and Im glad she picked that dress.
I'm really glad she finally stood up for herself
No mum, your daughter is definitely NOT your best friend.
And Mom is definitely not her daughter's best friend.A best friend doesn't pull that sort of crap!
I'm surprised that the store security didn't toss momzilla OUT!!!
Worries when the groom sides with the overbearing and controlling mother instead of being sensitive to what his beloved is feeling and choosing. He should want to see her assert her own taste and choices -unless he plans to dominate and bully her too.
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Yes! Since when does the groom have a say in which wedding gown is chosen?? Red flag right there
That mother probably scares him too. Let’s hope this couple moved far away from her. 😮
"Whether she likes it or not." OMG! This woman doesn't care about her daughter's feelings at all. It is all about mom! "She's going to have a big wedding whether she likes it or not." "This should be the happiest day of her life whether she likes it or not." The big mistake the daughter made was telling her mom she wanted to elope. People, if you want to elope don't tell anyone!
"I want it to be the happiest day of her life. WHETHER SHE LIKES IT OR NOT." What a batch.
Mom, IT isn't your Wedding 😂
When there's an overbearing Mom, it seems the best way to handle is to just get her pick out of the way and then focus in on what the bride actually wants
Whenever you have a parent who thinks their child is their best friend, there is a problem.
That dress looked much better before the fixes momzilla required.
It’s the brides’ day and I wish she had put her foot down. I think she should ditch the belt and other bling before she walks down the aisle!
@@lindabruns6020 Agreed!
Agreed also
The "sleeves" looked better on her before the alterations
@@jessicadevaal2111 I agree! It ruined the whole chest line and upper arms.
I'm just so glad that woman isn't my mother!!
The mom needs to let her husband speak.
She shouldn't tell him to be quiet.
She's too bossy.
I wonder if either of them is still alive? This was filmed in 2009, and they both looked rather old at that time.
I wonder, if on their anniversary, she lets her husband see his testicles that she keeps in her purse.
OMGOODNESS! Those turquoise crocs!
I hate moms who don't care how their daughters feel. "Why're you crying?" JFC.
Her mom is not only forcing her to have a wedding, she’s dictating what she has to wear. What a dictator!
Umm - the brides comment about the groom, " he's chosen all my dresses so far" ????.Between the mum and the groom,I think this bride needs some time to figure out who she is and what she wants.
I think the comment about the groom just simply mean that she trusts his judgement as he knows her AND has good taste... NOW the mother is another matter...!!
I am glad the bride has her dad.
Damn what a bossy Mother
It's not your dress lady
You're making your daughter miserable
The brides choice was beautiful. The mom should let her daughter have her day.
RED FLAG!! “He picked every dress”, this will end with abuse.
it's already abuse, but isn't she used to that from a certain family member anyway? exchanging one cage for another.
The way I understood he was the one who picks a dress when she's unable to decide.
I don’t think men should ever be allowed in the store unless it’s the gay best friend with good taste and even better boundaries
If they're still married, they now have 14 years of it behind them. This was filmed late-ish in 2009.
@@jb6712I was wondering how old this episode. That explains a lot.
Saying she's your best friend... and you'll have to deal with that... nice thing for your husband to hear.
Had my mom pulled what this mother did, I would have been humiliated! Shame on her!!!!!
"I want it to be the happiest day of her life, whether she likes it or not" WTF?? 5:30.
“Why is she standing there crying, I don’t know.” How about if you ask your daughter why she is crying.
If you were her best friend you would know why she's crying.
Just gonna say the belt took it from elegant to tacky
I hope the bride 'forgot' to put the belt on before she walked down the aisle.
@@OnePoetWanderer LOL. LOL. Great suggestion!
Agreed.
When Mom says she didn't know why the Bride was crying.... I yelled "Because of you dammit!".
I'm so glad she got the dress that she fell in love with! What a sweetie. What was up with those Crocs, though? 😅
I loooooove this bride- so genuine and drama free. How refreshing!
Whether she likes it or not...
But Dad knew his daughter right away.
Mom, I am a mom about the same age as you and I hope you watch this and see how your insistence on being controlling hurts your children and your relationship with them. Let them be who they are and trust the work and love that you have put in.
That second dress was fabulous! Will be in style for years. She looked great in it.
4:15 I wanted to see more of this dress. Gorgeous, from the back. I love a pleated wedding dress! Box pleats are so underrated.
I feel so sorry for this bride. Her awful mother and husband to be make a right pair. Why does he think he has a right to choose her bridal gown. The bride knows what she wants. Her mother decided that she would just invite her self into one of the stock rooms. What right has she got to invade a private area. What should be a lovely memory for the bride turned out to be an absolute nightmare. P.S.Dont let ANYONE in the private areas.
You know, it just occurred to me- something I learned in Psychology class in college.
People tend to repeat patterns they grew up with, even negative ones.
The bride to be grew up with an overbearing, abusive mother who made all the decisions for her. A tragic situation but one she subconsciously was used to. Well, she found the same person in her future husband. Sooo sad.
"What??? "I want it to be the happiest day of her life, whether she likes it or not." I hope the groom sees the writing on the wall with this MIL.
He’s the same kind of controlling
Right dress, wrong guy. I hope she dumped the guy and saved the dress for the right man! (Which is what I did when my engagement at 19 was called off. I saved the dress for when I married the right guy 4 years later.)
5:01 -- "Why she's standing there crying, I don't know." The words of a controlling, self-centered mother lacking in all awareness of her actions. She's crying because of _you,_ you ditch! You're taking her wedding away from her and making it yours, just as my mother tried to do to me. Hillary needs to be able to say, "Look Mom -- if you don't back off and let me make decisions on my own, I'll elope. Period." And she needs to make it stick.
I think the only reason she didn’t elope is her fiancé wanted a traditional service. Yeah to Dad for having her back.
100% agree. She had some pretty cool original plans to elope in Spain.
I had a friend whose mom & sister wanted her & her husband to have this Cinderella like wedding. She had to put her foot down & tell them "no;" she & her husband want a simple affair. She got married in a short white dress, he wore a gray suit, & most importantly, they were happy.
My mother would have done the same to me if I had not waited six months to tell her we were married.
This was filmed in 2009, so whatever transpired is long over with.
It'd be mildly interesting to know if Hilary ever developed a spine to stand against both her bossy, brazen, pushy mother and her rather controlling fiance/husband. I'm not interested enough to set up any social media accounts just to find that out, though.
@@kateyare4708 Wow! Your mother must've had blue fits when you told her. My controlling mother certainly would have! How and under what circumstances did you tell her? I hope there were people around so she couldn't rip every follicle of hair out of your head in her initial anger.
Dress #2 is gorgeous. She looks beautiful!!!
Audrey is so no nonsense . Love her.
Should have left mommy dearest in her cave. To have the happiest day of her life would only happen if she left her controlling “mother” at home.
I love the fact that the bride finally stood up for herself
Mom needs to get a life.
Even with the Parents, it’s still the bride’s choice for finding her Dress….PERIOD!
Everyone is focusing on the mom, who is terrible, but no one is mentioning that her fiance is there because he picks out all her dresses! She's going from a controlling parent to a controlling husband.
ok but dress #2 looked better before they pulled the straps up onto the shoulder to look like the dress the mom wanted. i can deal with the belt to add the bling the mom wanted, but the straps looked better further down like they were when she first tried it on. now it just looks like she's hunching her shoulders, and it looks weird.
Yes. The straps were original and prettier before. And the dress did NOT need the bling. Do American girls ever grow up? Are they all so easy to bully? Mom can't keep her mouth shut? Tell her if she can't respect your opinions, you ARE going to elope!
Moms….please realize that this is your DAUGHTER’S wedding!!! NOT YOURS!!!
Dad, you deserve better!
I'm 2 minutes in, oh, god, that poor girl with that mother!
I just hate the husband to be saw she liked the dress but didn't really do anything and went with the mom like what? 😅
The dear man has been hen-pecked all his life by that "plant" he married, and it will be worse when the daughter departs to a home of her own. Firm up, Daddy!!
YES-the groom and her mother will make this bride's life hell. Run Hillary, run from both of them.
@@kathleenardrey5094 This was filmed in 2009, so....
I understand when mum's want their daughters in a certain style but it's the daughters who will be wearing it, nothing worse than giving in to your mum and hating the dress so much so that the first words you say to your new husband is get me out of this thing and you don't mean in the bedroom
Simple dresses are underrated✨
Simple dresses make the bride stand out and are much more timeless. This episode is old, but the dress she chose would still be nice today.
@@charitadeknegt6661I don’t agree as simple dresses are too plain and forgettable.
Why is her fiance siding with her mother...
Her mother does NOT want it to be her daughter's happiest day.....
Se ve realmente hermosa!!! La mamá...bueno.... demasiado intensa....deje ser a su niña!!!! Toda la felicidad!!!❤❤❤❤❤😊
Awwww I feel it for this Mom I know the feeling when you have to let them go😢
So glad my wedding dress shopping went smoothly. Literally. Couldn't have been any better.
The bride’s taste with the second dress is beautiful.
When they asked for beading, she was smart to say she wants people to focus on her and not how much glits and glam was on the dress. Her pick is elegant and iconic for her.
Her mom is the worst. She has to let the consultants do their job. Unfortunately, people that are controlling never learn…
The second dress was gorgeous on Hilary
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That mother said “weather she likes or not” twice 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
*whether
WHETHER...she didn't refer to any meteorological events.
Think it was the blue crocs that did it lol
This is why I went by myself, no bridesmaid, no family, no one. I didn’t want to fight with anyone over MY choice. One thing though, I paid completely for my wedding myself. I was in charge, I was in control, and I paid for it all myself. And folks, I was 18 years old. Truth.
I think that this mom is trying to let her daughter go in her way. We all have some growing up to do.
I can't with the mom. She's a bit of a control freak & the dad, just sort of sits there passively. YOu know who is the head of the household with that woman. I grew up with parents like that. It's not the most pleasant dynamic & I can relate some to te impact on the daughter. She is sort of nervous & just wanting a constant exit strategy out of the situation & likely has ALOT to do with growing up with that type of parent. I went through it to & had to do a lot of healing work around it. When a parent gets that sort of forceful on their child about doing certain things a certain way, it carries over & affects them in their adult life & relationships. Good thing is, it seems like she has a more stable & confident man in her life, that speaks up a bit more than her own dad, because it seems like her mom never really allowed her dad to even have the upper hand... even when he told her that he knew that second dress was the one, the mom HAD to tell him, the second dress, ALTERED... like REALLY? Can you just let other people have their moment, or be right, instead of constantly interjecting why they're wrong?
Yes, I can tell this woman is a total control freak. I bet her husband is hen pecked. How does he put up with this woman?
At the end she said ‘she’s my best friend’. Learn how to be a friend to her mom!!!!🤯
My Mom didn't approve of the wedding, so it would've been pointless to ask her to go with me. My MIL and SIL'S were ignorant of how to act properly in a store (YES!)🙄😬😬🙄 So I had my MOH and HER mom go with me, and I found the dress after only one stop and 3 dresses. I get sad sometimes that she missed that experience; but that was on her. She didn't see my dress until I picked it up after alterations. I paid for the dress MYSELF, and my husband and I paid for our wedding OURSELVES; that makes a HUGE Difference, they had NO say-so on ANYTHING!😉😉😉In May we will be together 41 years.
This girl needs to grow a spine. Her mom ran all over her. But she also said that every wedding they've been to her fiance picked her dress.. I also don't like it when they bring the groom.
This mother is lucky her daughter didn't throw her out of the dressing room and convinced her finance' to go through with the elopement. Mommy needs to behave like an adult. It's not about what mommy wants but her daughter. Dad was fabulous. He knew his daughter far better than mom.
Not that it matters now---this was filmed in 2009---but the fiance said he wanted "an old-fashioned wedding." He didn't want the two of them to go off to Spain (?) and get married there, he wanted the pomp and circumstance bit.
My daughter is getting married next year and I was never do that to my daughter. Whatever she likes that’s what I want her to get.
Horrible mother. Poor girl.
"I don't know why my daughter is standing there crying"
Maybe it's because you couldn't love the dress she chose and is giving her a hard time
"It's supposed to be the happiest day of her life and I don't know why she's crying!" She's crying because of you. YOU! You're the reason she's crying!
People like this drive me nuts! If you want a certain style you can buy the dress you want and wear it on your own time. You're there to support the bride with what SHE wants!🤦🏾♀️
Something about the "whether she likes it or not" keeps rubbing me the wrong way. Like, what do you mean, mother!?
Mercy was mother-of-the-bride like this with the venue, food, center pieces etc?
So glad we paid for our wedding, so we could nix an idea if we felt like it.
Still going strong after nearly 38 years!
I'm not gonna sugarcoat it, I hate this poor bride's mother!! Something about her willfully ignoring her daughter's wishes is absolutely infuriating to me - she needed to be told to sit down and shut the hell up!!
You and me both!!
The mother is so self-important, she doesn't even realize it's the same dress. I hope she's embarrassed by this video.
I had an overbearing Mother like this, and I had "no voice." Actually made me sad to see this bride crying.
The dress she chose was beautiful without those annoying additions.
I liked dress #2, #3 a little more (what I could see of it) and I think her fiancée is gorgeous and kind.
#2 was beautiful