Gok Helps Bride With Lupus To Feel More Confident | Say Yes To The Dress Lancashire
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- čas přidán 8. 04. 2022
- Millie has been battling lupus for a while and is struggling to find her dream wedding dress due to her condition. Will Gok and the team be able to help her find the perfect dress?
From season 3 episode 4
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33 years old dating a 20 year old and expecting her to help with childcare. Disgusting really. I hope she gets out of that relationship when she is ready❤️❤️ She seems like SUCH a sweetheart. And also beautiful!
Yeah, he spotted a vulnerable girl to be a nanny.
I can't help but wonder what kind of selfish 33-year-old would want to rope a 20-year-old girl (i.e. just out of her teen years) into being a mother to 3 children that aren't hers. The fact that she said she felt like she got lost in the role makes sense. She is too young to take on so much responsibility and she knows it subconsciously. I feel like she will regret marrying this man someday.
Women beware: If you are going to be with a man who has children, make sure that he really wants to be with you and isn't just looking for a mother for his kids.
I love Gok. He knows how to meet his brides’ emotional needs throughout the entire appointment, even if those needs aren’t directly related to “the final dress.” That he found the perfect dress for this bride to play dress up in was such a sweet gesture.
Gok is the best and I love that he know how to dress like every body type he always picks the best dresses to make every bride look amazing
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he is amazing!!! I’ve never seen anyone so blessed with such talent!!
It kinda feels like that guy is using her? Date a twenty year old who after six months is being a step mother to your kids? To the point where she feels like she lost herself. Sure she should support the guy and be involved with the kids but to have so much responsibility so soon sounds like it’s been a lot for this girl. I really wish her the best, she’s obviously so loving but it feels like there are some red flags here
I've been around on this earth way too long to tell you that she's the kids babysitter. I married my husband after a year but neither of us had children at that time. Why take up a grown man with 3 kids at 20??? Where is her dad?
I was looking for a comment that addressed this. And considering she is only 20 now, how old was she when she first began dating this guy? A 30+ year old man going after someone under 20 is a bit of a red flag. I feel sad that the stress of suddenly becoming a step-mum to 3 young kids is taking such a toll on her. She is so young and should be enjoying her life.
I met my husband at 20 and got married a year later. He's 12 years older than me and a father of 2. We've been married for 16 years now. I know it can raise red flags for the family, but they seem to know and support her in this, so it's maybe not a bad situation.
I know someone who found herself in this situation. Guy in his 30s looking for some young thing to raise his 3 kids. After they were married she got pregnant and he was not happy at all. She was meant to be his pretty, young wife and raise the 3 kids he already had. She was devastated. Not surprisingly the relationship went down in flames. He ended up marrying yet another young thing who obediently didn't get any children of her own and they stayed together...so far.
I’m so worried for her 😩 she seems really sweet and agreeable which is exactly what manipulative men go for. Praying for her 💜🙏🏻
Oh dear, she's getting married and feels like she's lost herself? Doesn't bode well for the future. I'm speaking from experience.
She is 20 years old marrying a guy 13 years older with three kids. It sounds like he is looking for a babysitter and not a wife. I mean I could be wrong but it seems off.
@@MsLovestory01 right! 😬
@@MsLovestory01 20? Wait what? she looks....nvm....she looked great!
It's really sad isn't it, I'm turning 37 in few days, my guy friend is turning 50 in few days too, who has 2 kids, and I'm absolutely refusing to deal with him, it's hard to be a mum, I couldn't fathom a 20yr old having to do this. She seems to feel her illness won't bring her the right guy, but I find this sad, she's absolutely beautiful with a sweet and caring personality. She shouldn't feel that she lost herself at this age 😢, this selfish guy needs to find a single mum who would share mutual interest in taking care of their kids
I am sad that this lovely young woman is throwing her life away to be a drudge for someone else's children. Basically that's it for her. Nanny and housemaid to a built-in family. I'm sure she's a great stepmother but with her Lupus the whole shebang is going to be very stressful.
I enjoyed all of the dress's. 20 years old step mom to 3 thats extreme. Can't help but feel a bit icky about it. He's 33, 3 kids and she's 20... If she's happy I'm happy for her. That is just a lot all at once and soooo young.
No doubt she was happy when purchasing the dress - chances of the happiness lasting however are negligible - she's had no opportunity to develop and grow / to spread her wings / to explore the world / to enjoy the true freedom that comes with adulthood BEFORE undertaking the responsibilities of marriage let alone motherhood. Personally I wonder just what kind of an individual the groom is who felt it appropriate to get himself involved with a much younger woman (both chronologically and psychologically) and then trap her into marriage and motherhood ?
@@anaderol5408 EXACTLY
@@anaderol5408 $$$$
💯 well said
@@anaderol5408 I got married at 20. It will be 30 years next week. It was the best decision of my life. I'd do it again in a heartbeat. I wasn't an immediate mom to 3 though. That's rough. And my husband is only 4 years older than I am.
I feel so sad with her saying she feels like she's lost herself. I know that illness can definitely do that to you, but I almost feel like she meant it more about going from 20 to being in a relationship with 3 children and a future husband. I wish her the best, she seems like such a sweet person. Her family is amazing too.
Yep, definitely didn't seem to be about her Lupus as much as the instant full time mum.
Oh no, what is the rush love? Your 20s is about finding yourself, why jump into this marriage (and parenting!) feeling the opposite of that? My heart goes out to her, I hope things go well for her.
Very concerning tbh! and she has to take care of her health, but now got an older guy and his kids. Hope she finds herself
Im usually the one who thinks "dont get married too early! No rush.", But well, you dont choose when you find the love of you life. You can choose to get married or not, but I'd say with her illness, she prob has gone through a lot and is perhaps more mature than her friends. I met my love when I was just 18, he 19, we could have married at twenty-something and it would have lasted - we've been together for 15 years now.
i got married at 18. my mom was 16. it depends on maturity. my husband has actually been the one that helped me find myself so it also depends on the man and your support team.
We need more GOK in this world!
As someone with Lupus I cried my eyes out watching this cuz I don’t think ppl understand the flare ups and other side effects and how it affects your whole life. Gorgeous bride, I wish you so much health and happiness
Gok is not only a consultant, he is also a therapist ❤️
I feel like he knew this girl shouldn't be getting married in this situation at her age-- he even asked point blank "Do you feel like you're too young to get married?" at the very beginning.. This poor girl is taking on so much at such a young age, she's even admitted she's already lost herself.
I think he genuinely loves women and dressing them well and it shows that they're not just mannequins.
100000% right.
Being a step mum is very difficult. They have a mum and it’s a fine line to walk. I did it at 40 and it was hard. Can’t imagine doing it at 20. This poor wee thing has no idea what she’s getting into.
Amen Tasha! With what you know now, would you do it again?
20 years old and 3 step kids... why do I not see this ending well.
with illness and kinda low self esteem
The proof will come when she’s bedridden with her next flair-up. How does he treat her then?
She's so young she's only 20 and been through a lot already. I can't imagine how hard it would be to be a stepmum at 20 to 3 boys..that's taking on a lot, no wonder she feels like she's lost herself..that made me feel sad for her..I wonder if she's still with that guy?? 😢
Gok is such an empathetic person. Just wow. I need someone like that in my life.
Me too..I love love Gok
She looked stunning in each of the 3 dresses.
She’s 20 and everyone is harping on her becoming a stepmom… that doesn’t negate the fact that she is ONLY 20 years old. Glitter and sparkle doesn’t have to be toned down. She’s college-aged! And her family saying it’s her childhood dream dress to the second one…. Yeah she was a child less than 5 years ago. So ridiculous that they tore apart the glittery glitzy dress. I’m 30 unmarried and have no stepchildren, if I was to get married in a feathered glitter ball according to their logic, I’d be “more suited” to that dress because I’m not adopting children into my life despite my “old age”. The whole thing is just silly… she looked great in everything and it was all appropriate to her body and age.
Agree 100% she really lit up in the 2nd dress, her whole body language changed.
^ College.
Well said. The glittery dress was the one that fitted her body best. I don't think the last one does her any justice.
I think the second dress was pretty on her, but I believe being nervous and anxious (as most brides are on their wedding day) exacerbates the possibility of a splotchy skin flare up that she did not want to show on her wedding day. I agree that it is age appropriate for her. If it were me, and I was worried about skin splotches, I would have chosen the first dress. It fit her beautifully and was very unusual. Not the same old strapless style seen so often.
I think that was the best dress!
Her feeling like she lost herself is such a red flag for the relationship. Why do they have to get married now? Why not let her grow up and deal with her issues first?
When I watch Gok on Say Yes to the Dress I never want to see any other version. Not only are the dresses the most beautiful at a reasonable price but he really helps these brides truly feel confident and beautiful.
I totally agree! The dresses are absolutley stunning ❤ i will most definatley travel to Lancashire when we hopefully renew our vows 😊
When grandma came to give her a hug I just couldn’t stop my tears. I won’t ever have that. She’s gone 💔
I’m so sorry for your loss. She may not be physically with you love, but she’s always with 🥰
@@MrsSherrymcm that’s what I keep telling myself ♥️
Same, my two grandpas and one grandma passed away long ago, before I got engaged, and my last grandma died a month ago. She won't see me as a bride and it hurts. Hope you are doing well
@@IAmARainbowSheep im really sorry. I don’t have any family left besides my parents, my brother with his wife and kids. It will never stop hurting. I’m not a huge believer or anything, by grandma was though and that keeps me “sane” in a way. I hope that she’s there and watching. I’m sending you a hug ♥️
Same here, I lost my grandma to Covid19 last August
I love Gok! I'm sure he would never acknowledge this, but the positive impact he has on each bride has now extended to all those millions of people (like me) who get to watch him via this show. He truly makes us all want to be better people. What a legacy!
I loved the second dress. So sparkly, I can imagine myself in that one on my wedding day.
I really loved that second dress on her. However, the dress she chose was beautiful as well. Lovely Bride.
The 2nd one was the worst one
I thought she really shone in the 2nd dress too... lit up! Didn't see that as much in the 3rd even though she looked stunning
I liked the second one too honestly I didn't care for the one she chose. But at the end of the day it's not my day it is hers 💕
She looked stunning in her dress. Wish you nothing but happiness.
Girl he's looking for nanny, run as fast as possible and hold out for a real man
Auntie Gok is the absolute best humanity has to offer.
I think getting married is a mistake, she’s only 20 years old and within 6 months has become a stepmother for 3 children, she probably isn’t even old enough to be their mother. She’s going to regret this.
Agree! This is why she might have lost herself, she's busy babysitting the guy's kids instead of enjoying her young years and taking care of her health. Yikes.
I absolutely believe GOK is a psychologist and a therapist. The way he listens to his clients, validates their feelings and works to find the perfect dresses for them is phenomenal 😍
Flare on the day?? Hire a makeup artist who is experienced with body makeup! Be happy & healthy & have a long joyful marriage!!
A 20 year old woman with lupus shouldn't be taking care of 3 children, (and a husband). How sad.
I LOVE Gok!!!! If I were to ever get married again, I would want Gok to be the one to dress me. He just knows how to make everything come together perfectly and he really has a deep empathy for his brides.
See's a Gok vidéo: instantly clicks
I think Gok's dressing room is more intimate with the warm yellow lights so that the dress reveals for the bride seem more special for too than the flourescent lighting of other syttd shops
I think Gok called it when he asked if she felt like she wasn't ready.
She looked incredible in all three dresses. Love the one she chose. And love seeing Gok again.
Gok is such a doll.........so caring. Adore him
That first dress is so elegant. Simple beauty!
I want a Gok hug -- a real connection of spirits! He has such a big and caring heart and seems to help each bride be more comfortable with herself, not just the dress!
All the dresses were beautiful on her. My favorite was the second dress.
We KNOW before even clicking on the video that Gok is going to absolutely nail it!!!! AND take her on a journey of joy, discovery and confidence while getting there!!!
The dresses look great but I can't help feeling like they're missing that wow factor. But still this is a gok episode. It's wholesome as always and I'm happy that the bride found her dress
I’m really sad that everyone told the bride NOT to choose her dream dress. It’s HER day and HER dress.
They didn't show it in this but in the show she tried on a dress she hated so much she didn't even want to leave the changing room, but it looked absolutely INCREDIBLE on her, it was my fave out of all of them
I absolutely cried watching this! Gok is phenomenal ❤️ Kleinfeld of New York needs to take lessons! Gok has spectacular gowns without the astronomical price tags that Kleinfeld’s has. Gok my darling, you are an absolute blessing to ALL brides!
I liked the first dress on her. It looked fresh and modern and not like all the other dresses we see.
Oh when you say you don't feel like yourself and haven't had a chance to even live for yourself, --getting out of this episode.
Personally, I loved the second dress on her but to be honest, she looked beautiful in all three dresses. Wishing all the best in the future ❤️❤️
She truly did shine in the 2nd one!
Love all 3 dresses, there's no wrong choice. She looked beautiful in all of them.
I would love to go there, and have fun trying dresses on.
So glad to see Gok and his understanding way to know the right dress every time.
She looked stunning in all three dresses!
What a story! The dress she chose was lovely. It was simple yet sophisticated and looked beautiful on HER. Gok, you perform miracles. You really do.
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I loved the first one. she was stunning in it.
She is so beautiful! Gok, I wish there were more people in this world like you!!!!
Goks amazing personality shines through in every one of his appointments.
Gran is just precious, beautiful bride
Lovely choice. Gok is a gem. I bought my wedding dress on my own and still can’t imagine having an entourage tell me what they would want me to wear.
her situation makes me so sad
Essence of Australia makes the most beautiful dresses 😍
I really loved the first dress as it complimented her as a whole from top to bottom.
She looks stunning in all the dresses!! It takes a big heart to love someone else's as your own. I wish them all the best as a couple & as a family 💕
gok if you are reading this.... i just wanna say i love you.... i adore you....❤️
she's sooooo beautiful
The second dress was gorgeous on her
Gok always nails it - but I preferred the first one! So flattering on her! ☺️
Gok is an amazing person. A truly loving soul. ❤
I really do wish her that her marriage is a long and happy one for all of them.
Gok is so special , so is this version of the show and she is stunning... and sweet Nan. I wish we all had a Nan to hug us !
This is the best Say yes to the Dress channel
Goks chuckle is everything ✨
I love Gok.
OK, so the nan made me cry... she is so adorable. ❤❤❤ gosh I miss my nan
I loved her in the first dress.
GOK totally rocks!!!
Got is the best psychologist around!
Gok is my favorite of all the wedding shows, along with the two wonderful ladies with the plus size shop in Englandz
Gok is so lovely and so genuine.. and he is amazing at what he does ..just love him
Gok is just like mind reader
This girl looks fantastic in everything
I'm 18 and I'm getting married soon...I still haven't found the dress I want but whenever I watch gok helping the brides I feel so comforted and like I'll find mine too 🙈
I love how Gok tries to find a dress that the bride will like but doesn’t try to force the bride out of her comfort zone. It’s important to feel comfortable on your wedding too.
She looked amazing in all of the dresses. Beautiful bride.
I feel like Millie is gone...Wow, so sad!
So glad I watched this before I put my make up on otherwise it would be sliding down my face right now......she looked absolutely stunning in her chosen gown. Gok, you are just amazing at taking brides on a journey in more ways than one. Kudos to you ❤️
Ohhh Grandma 😭😭😭 love her!!
Gok is wonderful!💙
Simply stunning in her dress
I love you Gok! You gave her a gift far greater than the dress
Gok is magic.
I love Gok, he’s the best
That second dress was beautiful on her!!!!!
Gok always success to makes every bride feel so special and stunning...magical Gok hands
This bride looks stunning...I love Gok
Gok, you always get it right.
I want that sophisticated gown!
This video was the first that made me totaly emotional! Thanks a lot!!
She looks gorgeous in any dress 🌹
She is very pretty but I think she was looking more prettier in 2nd dress than all ❤️❤️❤️
I love plain fabric dresses like this. Gok is a prince.
Gok is so totally awesome !
Had me in tear’s.. Beautiful bride & family
I love the dress she selected but it’s for the wrong marriage. Marrying at 20...oh, my! And, marrying someone 13 years older than herself and with 3 kids. She barely knows herself at 20...now, she’ll never know who she is or who she could have been. What a melancholy episode. ☹️☹️☹️