Dress Designer Regains The Confidence She Lost After Her Divorce | Say Yes To The Dress Lancashire

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  • čas přidán 13. 05. 2022
  • Wedding dress designer Sarah struggles with her body image, but luckily Gok is there to help her begin her journey towards self-love and empowerment.
    From season 3 episode 6
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Komentáře • 528

  • @karenacton3854
    @karenacton3854 Před 2 lety +1092

    Her anxiety levels are so high, the pain on her face is heartbreaking to see! Way to go exhubby you definitely messed her up! Girl you have got this, you are so deserving of a new start AND you look absolutely stunning!!

    • @hennykatz-moryoussef1716
      @hennykatz-moryoussef1716 Před 2 lety +20

      she looked simply gorgeous in the first gown

    • @laureengiglia445
      @laureengiglia445 Před 2 lety +10

      The Dress you have chosen is fantastic you look absolutely gorgeous don't ever look back. Congratulations on finding out that you are a unique beautiful woman and your future is bright. Ex-Husband eat your heart out for what you have lost, and you should be ashamed of the damage you have done to this lovely lady inside and out. BUT your day is done , she is moving forward to a much better life which she deserves 100%

    • @DylanRomanov
      @DylanRomanov Před 2 lety +2

      @@hennykatz-moryoussef1716 I agree! I was surprised she didn’t like it

    • @MsWarriordiva
      @MsWarriordiva Před rokem

      I had the same thing happen to me.....husband came home one day & said he didn't want to be married. No reason given....ever. So I get her. But I was un survival mode....we'd just moved 2000 miles & I didn't have a job yet. So I focused on that to help me through. I've never married again, though came close once.

  • @lauriefox5350
    @lauriefox5350 Před 2 lety +895

    Gok can make every woman feel like a shinning star.

  • @juliairzyk
    @juliairzyk Před 2 lety +699

    I really appreciated how her daughter was so supportive and gave constructive feedback. And the dress she chose was perfection. She was glowing. Amazing what the right dress and Auntie Gok can do.

    • @marycornwell2908
      @marycornwell2908 Před rokem

      Gok is AMAZING! Love him to bits! He always knows the right thing to say. This bride looked fantastic.

  • @MegaBlueMoon88
    @MegaBlueMoon88 Před 2 lety +380

    What a 'WOW' dress. No frills, no lace and absolutely perfect. She looks stunning in it 🤩

    • @zabindhanji
      @zabindhanji Před 2 lety +13

      I think that the simplicity of it made her look radiant. The other lace, busier dresses aged her and made her look like she was trying too hard.

    • @bodybalancer
      @bodybalancer Před rokem +2

      Yes! Simple stands out bc everyone does frills & florals & sparkles etc. There’s something timeless and even regal about a more structured, simple gown. This will never go out of style, or look ‘dated’. It is classic. Perfection.

  • @timak23LB
    @timak23LB Před 2 lety +66

    I think that brides struggling with insecurities and lack of confidence are really brave to come out on the camera and talk about their feelings 😥
    They don't know how many women they can help by just expressing their fears and Gok is just amazing the way he deals with them ❤

  • @courtneymoore9904
    @courtneymoore9904 Před 2 lety +357

    She looks so lovely in the 3rd dress! I literally screamed “yaaasss!” when they panned to her walking down the stairs. Gok is the best.

  • @Theater00jock
    @Theater00jock Před rokem +8

    I love how Gok is repeating back the language she is using. He's not saying "your body is amazing" he's saying "How great is it that your body is ok!"

  • @lauriehollister9428
    @lauriehollister9428 Před 2 lety +503

    How awful that someone could hurt this beautiful, kind woman. May she have nothing but happiness in her new life. 💓

    • @RaquelPereira-fj4kt
      @RaquelPereira-fj4kt Před 2 lety +6

      I guess you know few men

    • @jacqueline6926
      @jacqueline6926 Před 2 lety +26

      I was married for 22 years when hubby decided to get out. To make sure there was no reconciliation, he so verbally abused me about my faults and short comings, that 25 years later, I never recovered my confidence. I wish her all the best

    • @hebe4703
      @hebe4703 Před 2 lety +14

      @@jacqueline6926 You still have time to regain control of your life. Sending you light and strength.

    • @natashakuzmanoska9656
      @natashakuzmanoska9656 Před 2 lety +5

      @@jacqueline6926 Like when they are building their confidence to go out - they become verbally abusive monsters, same experience 2 years after, hope I will regain my confidence to serve as better example for my daughters. Now he thinks he can come back, why?! so I can return the favour and bring him down ?!?

  • @Grace69B
    @Grace69B Před 2 lety +264

    I’m so thankful that this bride had Gok, who is a Counsellor to his brides as well as a Consultant. If she’d had David, her self esteem would have just plummeted as he would have put her in some monstrosity and blamed her for being anxious.

    • @camjamcam1
      @camjamcam1 Před 2 lety +51

      AND David would have found her a dress that was over budget.

    • @Janeintheok
      @Janeintheok Před 2 lety +11

      I can't watch episodes with him 🤢

    • @avril33322
      @avril33322 Před 2 lety +1

      Hello darling!!!!
      Me too David Emmanuel is the worst

    • @gaurig88
      @gaurig88 Před rokem +2

      Sooo true ❤️❤️

  • @seriliaykilel
    @seriliaykilel Před 2 lety +86

    Gok is such an amazing human being - no drama, no overreacting. Just treating people with kindness and showing them their best selves.

  • @rachaelpanda
    @rachaelpanda Před 2 lety +73

    I started to cry seeing her anxiety and pain in the first dress. My heart just ached for her. Gok said exactly the right things to gently encourage her confidence. Then seeing her face when she came down in the third dress made me freaking ball like a baby! I'm just so happy for her and the dress was EVERYTHING! Such a perfect gown for the perfect bride

  • @lynnys.1789
    @lynnys.1789 Před 2 lety +47

    The pain in her eyes when she talked about her ex husband 😭 I'm glad she is able to move on and smile again and her her supportive daughter is the best!!!

  • @kateymateymusic1
    @kateymateymusic1 Před 2 lety +239

    Gok you are a bundle of love and kindness to these woman. What a beautiful dress she chose- so classic and elegant

  • @baalah7
    @baalah7 Před 2 lety +113

    *Seems Gok has gone through so much pain and agony, that he is able to understand every person's emotions and stress causing factors* 😇
    *Gok You Rock Always* 🙌🏽

    • @annedalton289
      @annedalton289 Před rokem +6

      He was overweight as a teenager 21stone (133kg 294lbs) and was bullied 😢😢😢😢

  • @seashellstyle1901
    @seashellstyle1901 Před 2 lety +122

    Literally crying at her coming down the stairs in dress 3. You can just feel the pure joy from her ❤

  • @Quantum36911
    @Quantum36911 Před 2 lety +99

    My jaw literally dropped at the 3rd dress... stunning in every way... she looked gorgeous and absolutely regal!

  • @kimangelica9582
    @kimangelica9582 Před 2 lety +252

    She’s gorgeous in the dresses and wishing her all happiness in her new relationship. ❤️

  • @KarleneE
    @KarleneE Před rokem +32

    She looked spectacular! Gok spoke to her with so much empathy and understanding. I have so much respect for what he does. Truly. Such a joy to see her "lifted" in her own eyes!

  • @MD-ef7nl
    @MD-ef7nl Před 2 lety +55

    Obvious you did love your ex. I am so sorry it destroyed your confidence. Gok is a Master at his craft. Stunning choice.

  • @cathybaldry7822
    @cathybaldry7822 Před rokem +3

    Ohhh Gok you are a godsend. This episode brought tears to my eyes.

  • @Chrstnrchrdsn
    @Chrstnrchrdsn Před 2 lety +40

    She looked lovely in the first dress, beautiful in the second dress and stunning in the third dress….but best of all is she has a wonderful daughter !

  • @jacquelynbaisden1583
    @jacquelynbaisden1583 Před 2 lety +84

    Again Gok is absolutely amazing, he s able to give every bride confidence, in their darkness or challanges. Such a blessing

  • @janeschiffler5347
    @janeschiffler5347 Před 2 lety +30

    I am 66 years old, married for 40 years. I had to wear a hand me down wedding dress. I would have loved to try on dresses with Gok!

    • @kaycee5129
      @kaycee5129 Před 2 lety +8

      Renew your vows! You deserve it 💕💕 Gok has the heart and the expertise to make you look and feel your best!

  • @LuanaMaria22
    @LuanaMaria22 Před 2 lety +11

    Therapy and a wedding dress. I freaking love Gok 💕

  • @ashsmee
    @ashsmee Před rokem +3

    I would need someone like Gok if I ever have to wear a wedding dress. He’s so supportive and he listens!

  • @phyllisgrossetti4511
    @phyllisgrossetti4511 Před 2 lety +62

    Gok I literally got the chills when I saw her in this dress and went wow out loud. Absolutely stunning .

  • @hollyess9281
    @hollyess9281 Před 2 lety +72

    What a beautiful lady oh my gosh. I hope her second partner treats her the way she deserves!

  • @catibarra4496
    @catibarra4496 Před rokem +2

    "Isn't that amazing that your body can be 'okay'?" Never expected the best body positivity related quote to come from a reality tv show

  • @personalchefservicesofsues4362

    Got has the best inventory of beautiful, unique and traditional gowns of any of the Bridal Reality shows. His selection is superior.

    • @MegaBlueMoon88
      @MegaBlueMoon88 Před 2 lety +3

      So much better than the other shows

    • @carmenmiranda2288
      @carmenmiranda2288 Před 2 lety

      Gok.

    • @personalchefservicesofsues4362
      @personalchefservicesofsues4362 Před 2 lety

      @@carmenmiranda2288 yes. Spellcheck. Sorry.

    • @annedalton289
      @annedalton289 Před rokem

      Shops have dresses that are exclusive to their shop from the designer. Also dresses stocked are for the area the shop is in , what kind of weddings happen there and what venues are like

  • @Art4ArtsSakeVideo
    @Art4ArtsSakeVideo Před 2 lety +5

    Fabulous, flattering third dress -- the others may have made this older bride feel too 'mutton-dressed-as-lamb,' but this is sophisticated and flattering to the max. Gok demonstrates once again that he is as much a therapist, able to help women see themselves as beautiful, as he is a bridal consultant. Bravo and brava, a great episode.

  • @jillmorrison5202
    @jillmorrison5202 Před 2 lety +1

    Well done Gok, not just for finding the right dress for this bride but also for giving her the confidence to wear it...

  • @tinastaniscia9057
    @tinastaniscia9057 Před 2 lety +7

    Nobody does it better than Gok! His empathy and compassion for his brides surpassses all the other SYTTD hosts. BTW, this bride just blossomed when she started to see what everyone else did. Amazing.

  • @barbaraturner200
    @barbaraturner200 Před 2 lety +2

    Her daughter is precious. This woman is beautiful.

  • @naziahrana
    @naziahrana Před 2 lety +21

    Just so heartbreaking to see how she felt after going through the experience of her first divorce... when I see people going through this, I wish I could tell them "you are enough!". She looked stunning, classy and just down right gorgeous in that 3rd dress. Wishing her happiness and hope she finds her path to true love.. with herself and her new husband.

  • @brittanychapman5438
    @brittanychapman5438 Před 2 lety +13

    I know this feeling. I was in a relationship for seven years and he just would not marry me but he wouldn’t tell me why he just never could pull the trigger so for two years after I left I was left feeling what was wrong with me. It took me that long to realize that it wasn’t me he just wasn’t the right person

    • @Emma-uh8vp
      @Emma-uh8vp Před 2 lety

      I feel you, mine just stopped showing me any affection after 7 years but wouldn’t give me any reason and when I asked said I was insecure or jealous. I had to dump him as treated me like an inconvenience but wouldn’t do the decent thing and end it himself. Couldn’t get even a hug or a kiss off him, and not a single word of explanation.

    • @victorluis9058
      @victorluis9058 Před 2 lety

      Hello my lady 👋

  • @susancarr2026
    @susancarr2026 Před rokem +13

    Gok is an amazing human being - I'm always inspired by his kindness and insight

  • @charisamartin2152
    @charisamartin2152 Před rokem +2

    She's 100% carrying the hurts and scars of her traumatic divorce into her new relationship. I hope she can find the healing and wholeness that she needs to fully enjoy her new life! ❤ Gok is so gentle about guiding people into facing their fears...he's a wonder.❤

  • @VedderState
    @VedderState Před 2 lety +20

    Gok is an exceptionable human being and I wish more people strive to be as kind as he is.

  • @juliam.mallen9019
    @juliam.mallen9019 Před rokem +4

    This consultant was amazing with her! So kind compassionate and a super counselor! She looked beautiful and I'm very happy she had so much love and support surrounding this beautiful princess!

  • @ashasmom147
    @ashasmom147 Před 2 lety +22

    The bride looks STUNNING in the last dress and Auntie Gok makes me feel better about myself and I’m watching from home. I can only imagine how these brides must feel after spending time with him and listening to his words of encouragement and self-love❤️

  • @alifetime360
    @alifetime360 Před 2 lety +35

    I love Gok! He is truly an inclusive people person & really cares about each bride regardless of their situation. Much happiness to every bride that walks through his doors!

  • @constantineangelgutierrez1851

    she looks fabulous. in all 3 actually but the last one is fabulous.

  • @mommabierman5168
    @mommabierman5168 Před 2 lety +9

    MORE GOK PLEASE!!!

  • @Loulou-sr3tk
    @Loulou-sr3tk Před 2 lety +4

    Gok and the curvy brides hosts are the best.

  • @cathybaldry7822
    @cathybaldry7822 Před rokem +3

    I have to say that this episode set off a major PTSD emotional episode for me. I've been through the loss of a relationship that for me feels like it has knocked the wind out of my sails. I have been through a lot in my life and am yet to be married, I do wonder if I ever will. This has seriously brought up a lot of fears and tears. Thank you Gok..

  • @alisonshanahan9529
    @alisonshanahan9529 Před rokem +2

    That 3rd dress is stunning and is perfect for Sarah. Gok is a marvellous dresser, he knows what to put on a woman to make her feel fabulous. I also appreciate the way he trains his assistants, to be helpful, positive influences.

  • @ykook7000
    @ykook7000 Před 2 lety +57

    Great dress at the end....love the genuine support the daughter was giving

  • @seashellstyle1901
    @seashellstyle1901 Před 2 lety +5

    Saw Gok and clicked so fast 😍

  • @tango9257
    @tango9257 Před 2 lety +9

    Gok to me is one of the loveliest people on this planet. I don't think life has always been kind to him but he has such a kind, genuine
    nature that I could just hug him. He really does make a bride feel wonderful. Bless you Gok😘😇

  • @wendyeskelin8765
    @wendyeskelin8765 Před rokem +4

    I think she chose the right one. It's the most figure flattering. I like that it's more simple than the others. GOK is really amazing. It's really hard when you've been hurt before to move past insecurities. I wish her the best in her new marriage.

  • @melody_shmelody
    @melody_shmelody Před 2 lety +3

    I hope her new husband is kind and gentle with her. She deserves so much happiness.

  • @justalittlebitmo
    @justalittlebitmo Před rokem +2

    That last dress though! She didn't need to hide behind illusion necklines and lace. So pleased with that last dress. She looked stunning!!

  • @Salomeii
    @Salomeii Před 2 lety +30

    That is the best I have seen anyone look in that style of dress! She looks amazing and I'm so happy she said yes!!!

  • @mitsuomits9077
    @mitsuomits9077 Před 2 lety +2

    "From this moment you are our bride"😊 beautifuly said

  • @elizabethportuguez3825
    @elizabethportuguez3825 Před 2 lety +2

    When a true artist finds a true gem to carve his wonderful work!!

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 Před 2 lety +21

    She is gorgeous! I had shivers when she walked down the stairs. Gok knows EXACTLY what every woman will look beautiful wearing.
    I keep saying it....GOK IS AMAZING!! I love him. 💪🙏🏻💗

  • @nicolataylor6011
    @nicolataylor6011 Před 2 lety +11

    Just love Gok ❤.. he is so so kind and gentle and absolutely genuine ❤..beautiful bride..perfect dress

  • @kathleenwoodbury7491
    @kathleenwoodbury7491 Před 2 lety +1

    I don’t usually cry watching these videos but when she came down the stairs in that third dress I literally burst into tears of joy for her!

  • @zenny1258
    @zenny1258 Před 2 lety +41

    I'd love to fly over to Gok if I ever decided to get married, I have a lot of body issues and I know he would definitely help me feel "me", love him! ❤️

  • @ToastontheEastCoast
    @ToastontheEastCoast Před rokem +2

    I love how Gok gets to the heart of the issues and helps his clients work through and look past them. As fantastic as he is at his job, I think he missed a calling in life as he would be a wonderful therapist/counsellor. He's so kind and caring and gentle with the brides, it's beautiful to watch.

  • @4WhatItsWorth
    @4WhatItsWorth Před 2 lety +1

    We truly are our own worst critic. When I saw her standing in front of that mirror in that first dress I literally thought "wow, she looks so beautiful". I was just heartbreaking that she couldn't see it. The third dress was stunning too.

  • @stapleskeri9811
    @stapleskeri9811 Před 2 lety +22

    I hope this lady knows she is amazing and should never let any man doubt her self worth. 💜💜💜

  • @mariannemilkshines2390
    @mariannemilkshines2390 Před 2 lety +3

    What a beautiful dress. Perfect for her mature beauty

  • @dorisriedling9532
    @dorisriedling9532 Před rokem +2

    I love Gok
    He does such a beautiful wholesome Job of making the Bride feel beautiful.
    But it feels like not just for the Day, it feels like he's coaching them to boost their confidence💗
    I love it❤️
    And WOW she looks georgious in her
    Wedding Dress 😍😍😍

  • @kennedysimpson2000
    @kennedysimpson2000 Před 2 lety +25

    Absolutely stunning!
    It’s his loss, you deserve every happiness

  • @kathleenbemis9676
    @kathleenbemis9676 Před 2 lety +11

    Every time Gok is around, he helps the "brides to be", to find their perfect wedding dresses, and builds up their self confidence. Gok has a very special way with people. 🙂😉

  • @clairebriggs4333
    @clairebriggs4333 Před 2 lety +6

    As soon as I saw dress three I shout yes Gok does it again. Looked amazing and her confidence was amazing.

  • @hilarytaber6138
    @hilarytaber6138 Před 2 lety +5

    The dress Sarah chose was absolutely stunning! It fit her in all the right places, and you could tell she felt amazing and confident!

  • @dietotaku
    @dietotaku Před 2 lety +19

    when a wedding dress designer wants someone else to find her a dress and she knows to go to gok, we know *everyone* should go to gok. gok never misses.

  • @mainecoonmomma9494
    @mainecoonmomma9494 Před rokem +2

    I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Gok is an angel. I am so glad that she chose the dress that she did. It was very simple but she looks stunning in it.

  • @missybelmont9830
    @missybelmont9830 Před rokem +4

    LOVED this episode ❤️, she came a long way in just one appointment, she's now truly glowing, Gok, you are the dream!

  • @gabriellaberglund3651
    @gabriellaberglund3651 Před 2 lety +5

    I got chills when she walked down the stairs in the last dress! She didn’t need all the frills, it was simple and extremely beautiful and just right for her! Stunning!

  • @danni1993
    @danni1993 Před rokem +3

    The best thing a bride can do is walk into the bridal boutique and say 'Gok find me a dress'. It's that simple.
    And, Gok amazes me with how he can always be 'on stage' and upbeat, with a big smile on his face, and giving FREE counseling sessions.
    EVERYONE has bad, horrible days, including Gok, yet he's absolutely wonderful no matter what he may be going through personally.
    GOK IS A STAR. 🥰

  • @shakirah.r
    @shakirah.r Před 2 lety +5

    Im 52sec into the video and already in tears. The burden on her mind.. I wish nothing but joy and love for her 🌻

  • @cleoc136
    @cleoc136 Před rokem +1

    PERFECT dress for her!! Well done, Gok. She was a flower waiting to bloom again.

  • @dreamyemony
    @dreamyemony Před rokem +1

    Gok really is awesome! He's so gentle and kind.

  • @Necoh
    @Necoh Před 2 lety +4

    I thought she was beautiful in the first dress. I started tearing up. I love Gok!

  • @marciabenson9371
    @marciabenson9371 Před 2 lety +6

    What a beautiful dress, it fits her and her personality beautifully!

  • @ljwilliams755
    @ljwilliams755 Před 2 lety +6

    AS IF anyone needed another reason to love Gok and the magic he weaves

  • @Mimi-fe2gm
    @Mimi-fe2gm Před rokem +1

    All three looked great on her, but personally, I thought #2 was the most flattering. Really beautiful dress. Love the daughter, so sweet and supportive. Wish this bride many happy years with her groom, she deserves it!

  • @barbarashames1372
    @barbarashames1372 Před 2 lety +26

    She looks lovely! Gok is wonderful ❤

  • @Nyquil5
    @Nyquil5 Před 2 lety +7

    I adore Gok. I think every one of us would come away from a session with him, having a new outlook on ourselves. Wonderful entourage as well. The dress she chose at the end was very elegant and suited her well.

  • @annieblue9974
    @annieblue9974 Před 2 lety +2

    Part Designer but equally successful as a therapist. Love Gok.❤❤

  • @shena1256
    @shena1256 Před 2 lety +1

    Her giggles in that last dress was divine 😍

  • @pamelawalker2501
    @pamelawalker2501 Před 2 lety +2

    I enjoy the approach Gok uses with body conscious brides.

  • @judyfain3160
    @judyfain3160 Před rokem +2

    Excellent choice, beautiful bride & an amazing daughter that is genuinely happy for her Mom. Her Mom taught her well.

  • @samwisegamgees679
    @samwisegamgees679 Před 2 lety +5

    I can't imagine the number of lives Gok changes everyday.. bless him

  • @pamelafox7677
    @pamelafox7677 Před 2 lety +2

    Poor dear, she was being really vulnerable.

  • @sharonorbell7355
    @sharonorbell7355 Před 2 lety +3

    You are the nicest and kindest man Gok - you radiate such a gentle warmth and care. How lucky for the women who come through your doors.

  • @MUR23
    @MUR23 Před 2 lety +6

    I love gok!! He sees every woman as a whole person, beautiful and perfect. He is a stylist, artist and psychologist. I also feel like being his customer

  • @humaneleaguelancPA
    @humaneleaguelancPA Před 2 lety +4

    With every dress, her beauty just came through more clearly! When she came out in the third dress- I gasped! So, so, beautiful!! You have done it again Got!

  • @PrincessAurora1396
    @PrincessAurora1396 Před 2 lety +1

    I’ve never wanted to hug someone more in a SYTD video. She’s absolutely radiant!!

  • @vickid.1251
    @vickid.1251 Před 2 lety +4

    The last dress is PERFECT on her!! So looks so amazing and lovely!!

  • @sarahdewson6352
    @sarahdewson6352 Před 2 lety +4

    She looked beautiful in all three dresses and Gok did an amazing job of making her see her own beauty. The last dress was stunning on her 😍

  • @elizabethmenegon8057
    @elizabethmenegon8057 Před rokem +1

    The third dress is spot on perfect. She looks stunning.

  • @andreacope7534
    @andreacope7534 Před 2 lety +1

    Not often that I say this, but WOWZA. That last was stunning! The cut and fit of it was perfect for Sarah. She doesn't need bling when SHE is the bling.

  • @michelleswitala9689
    @michelleswitala9689 Před rokem +2

    The dress took my breath away. The bride looks so beautiful. Gok is so amazing. He is always spot on. Well done. 3:21

  • @artisticmoves8279
    @artisticmoves8279 Před rokem +2

    She is a beautiful women and her eyes are literally like stars

  • @zinebelalaoui9658
    @zinebelalaoui9658 Před 2 lety +2

    how can you not love Gok. we definitely need more of him

  • @denisehall4818
    @denisehall4818 Před 2 lety +1

    This is the best one I've ever seen.I love Gok and She looks wonderful in the dress.