Overbearing Cousin Hijacks The Appointment & Stalks Randy! | Say Yes To The Dress: Big Bliss
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- Bride Ysela struggles while finding a dress that her cousin and her fiancé like as much as she does. Randy and the staff will have to fight hard to protect her wishes!
From season 1 episode 6.
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If the cousin acts like this on camera, imagine what she's like in person.
She makes me sick.
Thinking that too about cousin...call her a cab!
She's probably tryna steal the groom
@@Queenofthatank wouldn't be surprised if they were cheating.
A massive pain in the behind
If anyone in your entourage ever says “It’s my wedding” or “it’s my dress” or “it’s my day” Do NOT bring them with you!
They wouldn't even be coming to the wedding!
This right here. She would get an invitation and then radio silence.
I couldn't agree more
I think you may find it’s all staged. At no point of this video did the bride give an indication that she did not know her own mind. The cousin had been asked to play the role of bridezilla-wanna-be. Probably because the entourage was small and it fell entirely on her shoulders to be critical and then magically change her mind at the end. It’s an old and worn show formula.
I'm not even sure that this is real. That cousin is rude and disgusting.
WHY on earth did she bring her cousin with her!? She's a monster!
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She probably pushed her way into coming
@@Saber-gy7po stalked them probably 😂😂
She reminds me of my mom’s cousin. She wants to be her.
Not only would I have said OUT she would have been taken off the wedding list.
'A smallish wedding with about 100-120 people'
Me now realising my future wedding is just going to be a gathering 😂😂
A gathering of like-minded individuals, lol. 😆. Me too
That's what I was thinking! I have about 5 people to invite! I'm going to have to start making a lot of friends in the next year or so 😆
If I got married right now the only person I’d have to invite is my mom, I don’t feel like I’m close enough to any of my other “friends & family”.
Same, my wedding will have about 10 people. We’re getting married at one of those cute Vegas wedding chapels
A family meeting. 😅
Wow, the cousin Elsa was something else. When she said "it's my wedding" I was furious. No, hun, it's the bride and groom's wedding and Ysela's wedding dress. Ysela was far more patient with her than I would have been. I liked her choice of dress, very pretty.
That cousin is a sicko. "It's my wedding.andmy wedding dress." Uh NO!!!!!
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@@MsWarriordiva Agreed! Elsa needed to sit down and zip it. Overbearing and b**chy.
I could barely watch because the cousin was so upsetting. It’s not her wedding! I know Randy wouldn’t let us see demise!
The ST
American YTTD producers ask the bride and entourage to play things up and exaggerate. It’s the American way - they love conflict. .
"Don't even show Mike"..wow, she thinks her opinion is more important that both the bride and groom's. How controlling and self-centered!
Well that dress she said don't go out in did make her shape look bad.
Makes you question the relationship between the groom and the cousin.
I believe the cousin is an extreme narcissist. All that belies the fact that she is very insecure and wants/needs attention. Best wishes to the bride.
Not so keen on the Fiance either.
The bride should take a class on assertiveness for her own happiness. The other two are going to walk all over her
Yes, the cousin is an extreme narcissist and a disgusting person!!
God help the her when they have their first baby. How much you wanna bet the cousin is in there asserting herself with the old "they think it is their baby, but it is really MY baby" nonsense and insisting that she has some sort of right to be in the delivery room.
@@BetPondue Yeah, there is something "off" there.
That cousin needs to realize that it's not her wedding and she's just there for moral support and not to hijack the appointment
Maybe it's hyped for the camera. IDK but it's a cringe-y episode.
definitely not hyped for the camera, Elsa is my aunt and that’s how her personality has always been 😭
I wonder if the Cousin has broken up the marriage yet
Well, there’s a reason why she isn’t there to find her own wedding dress 😬 can’t imagine a man would like to marry her.
Randy should've locked the cousin in that room. 😂😂😂
Love the lockup idea
I would've 😁
@@jilljacobs5319 Lock her OUTSIDE!
Lock her the ladies room.
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
That cousin was disgusting…… no one cares what you think!! The Bride looked BEAUTIFUL!!
EXACTLY! Its her wedding, whether the cousin thinks it or not!
Randy and the team are so professional. Personally I don't know how I would keep my composure when dealing with such people.
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Same! I'd go off on that cousin
Coming to the wedding is one thing being the maid of honor good grief
I hope this is just for clicks cause no way would I ever think I was the bride when I am not
So odd and not loving or kind
The look on Randy's face when the cousin said @ 4:56 "You can take it off" 😒🙄😶
That said it all
Then you’d make a lousy salesperson. They make light or keep their mouth shut. If they are on commission you’d shoot down your own paycheck.
I can't even finish watching this, the hateful, immature, jealous cousin OMG!
Omg thank you I had to turn it off too and read comments to know I wasn’t alone
Same here
Cousin proudly says, “This is her dress; we found it”. 🤯. Her behaviour and attitude throughout the appointment were terrible and she took partial credit for the final choice - even though she didn’t choose it - and she criticized a design element on the lower bodice. 🙄
This Elsa needs to ❄️Let it Go❄️.
If I saw the dressing room door open while I was changing, I would’ve panicked.
lmao good one
I love this comment
She needs to get that cousin out of her business/marriage and that cousin needs to get her own life, she’s team too much, and will cause problems in her marriage because she has no life, smh!
If this were my wedding I would have barred that cousin from being a part of it a loooong time ago. How toxic and gross
Easy to see why the cousin isn't planning her own wedding.
Exactly 🤷🏼♀️
Just imagine what it’ll be like if she ever finds a fool daft enough to take her on - they’ll all pile in and claim it as “their” wedding””, lol!!
I have to admire Randy’s restraint. I’d have told that rude cousin to do one!
The Cousin was so jealous of the Bride. She needs therapy.
First bride: Oooo. The cousin is the franchise’s ultimate control freak. Bless the gorgeous bride.
Not the ultimate control freak ... a few years ago there was a fiance who insisted on choosing his bride's dress and demeaned her in so many ways during that episode. Most commenters were telling the bride to RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN FROM THIS MONSTER (I think he may have been military, but not in a good way). If you can find that segment, THEN you've found the ultimate control freak because - seriously - he seemed like the type who would murder an unsubmissive wife if pushed far enough. It was downright scary.
@@KingsDaughter1957 Appreciate what you wrote, and the fiance from a few years ago whom you mentioned definitely does sound like the ultimate - and scariest - control freak.
He wanted her to show more of the cleavage???????? That's a husband? And she wanted to pick the gown? To make her look bad? These two remind me of Prince Charles a d Camilla with Diana. RUN!!!
Nah. “Your marriage, my wedding?” Nah.
Lol right?
No shit.. ugh..wtf
I like the dress she chose, I do think the beaded belt was in a weird place, but I can see the cousin not being associated with them anymore after they get fed up with her.
Randy and the consultant were so angry at that cousin. God bless them for their patience.
When? Where?
Ysela was SUCH a sweetheart. She was so happy about every dress she tried on. Was really sad...
The second mom is a queen when she's talking about that first dress. One of the first things she says is how happy her daughter looks in the dress and people rarely seem to care about that on this show.
Does anyone else get the feeling that Elsa is super jealous of her cousin, Ysela & it almost feels like she wants Ysela's fiance for herself in a weird twisted way. At any point, Elsa is a nightmare. I truly think that people who act like this have mental issues that need to be addressed, like shock therapy or something. The whole time, it was like watching a spoiled 5 year old running around & pouting over not getting her way, it was quite embarrassing to even watch. And the fiance.....oh my Lord! Good luck, you're going to need all you can get with these two!
Yeah cause the cousin says I know how to win u over to the fiance. Ill bet a nickel they're closer than they should be.😒
Cousin is definitely envious that Ysela is engaged and getting married….
I wouldn’t be surprised if Elsa never gets married… with a personality like that (narcissist) it would take a saint of a person to hitch themselves to her for life.
@@garnetjohnson763 it was the consultant who said that regarding giving the dress a sweetheart neckline; not the cousin
shock therapy : HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA !!!!!!
A saint or a total masochist!
What pissed me off her running like a for year old down the hall yelling for Randy and she said he was trashing them, he never mentioned anyone's name. Somebody needs to put her in her place
The bride's cousin needs to step way back, and have several seats. It's not her wedding. Better yet the bride needs to cancel everything and find someone who will respect her want and desires.
Step way back ..... like into the next county.
This was aired like 10 years ago and the bride is my grandma and she is married to a different man now
Overbearing is an understatement. She should have stayed home.
I wonder how she has any friends ...
I don't think she does! Seeing how she's so obsessed with her cousin and her life, seems like Elsa doesn't have one of her own!
It breaks my heart that “plus size” women are so forced to hate their bodies and how they always focus how they don’t have dresses for them. Everyone deserves to feel beautiful!
First appointment: cousin would be kicked out
I would’ve kicked that cousin out of the store and being involved in the planning. She’s terrible.
The bride looked beautiful in HER choice.
honestly i hate the drop waist i don’t think it flatters her body at all but i’m glad she’s happy
The bride is so sweet and radiantly beautiful. I'm surprised she has such a close relationship with a person like that.
When I went shopping for my wedding dress I knew exactly what I wanted and went by myself. The sales lady wanted me to try on different styles and I clearly told her I wanted to stick to what I wanted! No way in hell will I ever ask any one’s opinion when I know what my style is.
I went to get a dress and one I didn’t want to try on the lady suggested and I tried it anyway. Sometimes looking at it on the hanger looks so different than you think it be. Unless it’s like a mermaid vs ball gown.
I didn’t know what I wanted initially, but knew it when I saw it. I didn’t take anyone with me - it was MY dress, my day.
I wish I would have done what you did. I hated how my dress looked my whole life. A couple of people said they knew what would look good on me. The one lady said she would make the dress. I just wanted to die when I put it on but it wasn't until I saw the pictures after a few weeks that I realized how bad it looked. I wanted to go to a store and try on different styles. The dress was made well but it didn't look good.
Good for you girl! I wish more brides were as confident and self assured in their choice of style.
Some of these clips are really sad, I hate seeing the brides wishes being bulldozed by overly opinionated self absorbed friends and family. Worst part of this show is watching their smile fade when the dress they love receives uncalled for negative feedback.
@@margarettickle9659 If you are still married, why not choose to renew your wedding vows and wear a different wedding dress (one that YOU picked out) in your price range? Your husband could rent a tux and you'd be good to go. Just a thought ....
That cousin! She's still going through the "terrible two's"!
get that Cousin out of there!!! no just no wow even if she is familie its a no
Wear what you love. No one else's opinion matters since you are the one who is wearing the gown
Wow. Ysela chose so well : the taffeta : ohhhh yes : so beautiful on her : elegant, statuesque and regal. Ysela is a real fashion-fabulous princess. 💖💖💖
Ew
The dress is beautiful on her!
I wish people weren't so body conscious. There is beauty in the majority of people, whatever their size or shape!
WHY would she bring such a negative nancy?!!
I like the one that the BRIDE picked for herself. Should have left cousin at home
Omg tell Elsa sit down shhhh and play your role 🙄
Nailed it!
Oh wow throwing it back to season 1!! My how the times have changed. Randy aged so nicely too since the beginning
Why bring such PPL to the appointment?
If Elsa was with me, I would kick her to the Lobby. I CAN'T!!!
Elsa is named appropriately..... freezing all the good feelings, destroying the appointment as best she can, so jealous and green with envy Kermet would look pale. Maybe cousin and fiancee should get together, and Ysela can find better.
HOWEVER!!! SYTTD is FINALLY doing plus size brides!! They must've finally noticed the popularity of Jo & Al
given Randy and Christiana here, it's clear this was about 10 years ago. I wish they did more "Big Bliss" type episodes
Elsa needs to get her own groom! And search for her own dress. 🤬🤬🤬🤬
Honestly, I must ask:
Where in the h*** do these rude, aggressive people come from???
Do they NOT know what it means to be polite?? Geeessh. 🤐
I can only hope it’s from the editing
I can not respect the bride who can not recpect herself.
If Elsa wants straps on a gown she needs to wait until she gets married. Then the gown will be all about her.
I’m sorry but what a selfish jerk that cousin is. WE found the dress? No, you didn’t find ANYTHING but fault in every dress including the one she bought. Gee I wonder why you’re not engaged with such a charming personality 🤮
The position of the belt was actually a bit weird 😒
@@eller3452 well she took the role seriously lol 😅🤨
Maid of honor is too outspoken. She can try on dresses alone. The marriage is not about looks/how you dress. She needs to say no input any more and just find the dress she likes. She was good looking in both dresses she had. Friends may not realize there are only a few dresses that maybe right/available.
I know it's an older re-run, but holy Hannah. That cousin is a train wreck.
I’m related to her and she still is
I am always amazed at how much patience Randy shows. He's such a kind hearted guy. Thank goodness he's there for these brides!
I went by myself to make selections. Returned the next day to try them all on with my fiancee. He loved every one of them. Honestly, he was just enjoying the experience.
Wow. The cousin is obnoxious.
Absolutely UNBEARABLE
That woman will be a nightmare for the entire wedding prep, the day, and will she be around running your married life too? Hold her away my dear, this isn't stopping any time soon.
It cracks me up when anyone, other than the bride says what “we” want.
This is exactly why I went alone. If I had brought my MIL, she would have criticized everything. As it was, being an older bride, I chose a bridal hat with a veil attached and she threw a hissy. My mother accepted all that I liked. And when we picked out my mom's dress, the first one was her! Don't ever bring a bossy person. Their role is to spoil your happiness.
The cousin needs to get her own wedding
Wow. I love this show, I used to watch it all the time. I love seeing all of the beautiful dresses, I think every one of them is a work of art. I may not think every dress looks good on every girl, but I do believe there is a dress out there for every bride. I watch these girls try on these dresses that cost thousands of dollars, and chuckle when I think how I handed several yards of ivory embroidered sheer crepe and satin and a butterick pattern to a friend of mine who was a talented seamstress and said, 'this is what I want.' I married in the outdoors in the afternoon, had a knee length wedding dress and a big hat instead of a veil, and still look at those pictures and am amazed how good I looked...and it cost less than $250.00. My shoes were the most expensive part of the outfit. I wouldn't change a thing...except maybe for the husband...haha. Marriage didn't work out, but God works in mysterious ways, now married to my second husband for 27 years....🙂
Randy looks so young😭
Yeah 😅
It was probably shot in 2004🤣
Poor Randy and Jessica! , I give y'all props for the silliness you have to put up with, Golly. Y'all handled them all with patience and grace! 😉. I do have to say that I wonder what the cousin's deal is? Is she not married? No boyfriend? , She's a pretty young lady , but she is coming across with a desperate need to live vicariously through her cousin. The bride looks lovely. I pray she learns to speak up for herself more, with her groom also.
"It is her marriage, but it's MY wedding." **Alarm sirens intensify to 100%** This harpy should've been kicked out of the appointment the second she said THAT!
Having said that, the fiance is just as bad. The reasons for not bringing them to your dress appointment aren't just superstitious, a lot of the time.
Elsa is someone that knows they’ll never be loved and experience marriage so she’s trying to follow her dream and plan a wedding through Ysela.
I feel sorry for a bride who doesn't yet have the maturity to know her own style and make her own decisions about her wedding dress. And to bring the fiance to get his approval? Too controlling. The whole episode made me cringe.
It was indeed cringeworthy. The cousin was overbearing and the fiance too controlling. Sad that a woman of her age, doesn't seem to know her own mind, and looks to others for approval.
That is my grandma and she was going through a rough time in her life therefore it wasn’t her fault and the whole trip was stressful for her and she wasn’t even into Mike and the whole wedding was so rushed and she called it quits after she appeared on this show
Elsa is more like a maid of dishonor than a maid of honor
That cousin needs to GO. Yikes!! Poor bride!!!
While my daughter was hunting for a dress, I gave my opinion only when asked. I was not opinionated and disagreeable, I only wanted my daughter to try a ball gown at the beginning, just because and once I saw it I said okay I got the little girl dream dress out of my system. Ask the salesperson to get the dresses my daughter wanted. I cried when she cried and said she was in love with the dress.
When it comes to the bride, it’s their dress, wedding and only her opinion matters.
I would not be surprise if she end up ruining her marriage - what a nightmare that woman is
"I've had stalkers but not like this before"
"I'm such a stalker :D"
I really feel like she was proud to do that....
That's awful, all of this is awful...
it’s so so sad how almost all the bigger women on this show (that i’ve seen) are so self hating towards their bodies😞.
If bigger women were treated better by society it wouldn’t be like this for them😕
if these ladies hate their bodies it is up to them to take action, rarely does a young woman HAVE to be large, she can choose to join a slimming group, most of these are very supportive and encouraging to their members. Being overweight puts your health at risk.
@@joannagodfrey5111 not everyone can just lose weight. There are so many set bavk factors and conditions that prevent people from. And just because they’re self conscious doesn’t mean they want to or should have to change it means everyone else needs to mind their business and support people no matter what.
This is why bridal shops should have someone to be a loud advocate for the bride to give her confidence to speak up for herself
Does that fiance realize he's gonna have two wives! Lol.
Watching that I am so glad that I went dress shopping all by myself.
There should be a sing at all bridal shops that says “it’s the bride’s day, no one else’s”
Sometimes I wonder if the producer meets these people first and sets the whole thing up. Like, “we need a wild episode, so act this way.”
This episode is all real, I’m related to ysela and Elsa and Elsa is still the same
This is what makes weddings hell on earth
This cousin is delusional. The bride should elope to Las Vegas!
Its funny how a wedding of 120 ppl max is considered small
WHY?? WHY do women insist on bringing narcissists with them?
The women entrap themselves.
Why because they love the drama, too.
Sick of the whining!
STOP with the people pleasing!
Leave these "me, me, me", "I, I, I" narcissists at home.
I have compassion for the employees. Don't know they do it.
The bride's first mistake was not laying down The rules! By telling them ahead of time the type of gown she wanted how she wanted it to fit her body and the way she wanted to feel on her wedding day!! Particularly on her wedding day the groom does not get to say I want this I want that by right he's only supposed to see it on the wedding day I don't care if this is marriage number 34 his opinion is to be silent!
No. WE did not find it. The assistant found the dress while you were following Randy.
Which was good. Gave the bride opportunity to pick her own dress.
She'd be out of my wedding in a snap.
Dang! I used to watch this show as a way to mindlessly wind down before I went off to bed.
And recently there were a few gentle shows with lovely bring along people. Kleinfelds has obviously recently AND finally begun to respond to the “plus size” bride; there is quite a market for these women with the same level of $$$ to spend.
I realize the shows are highly scripted. And the morning meeting is hopelessly contrived.
Curvy Brides and Gok vastly exceed the SYTTD ethos. The brides are front and center and the clients are always sustained by their experiences. Al and Jo in Curvy Brides are not to be missed.
Gok and Lucy and the fox in the snow episode will make your heart sing and will remind you of the good in the world. I promise you that you will never forget this episode.
Elsa is just a downright disrespectful, narcissistic, rude person, who is only interested in pleasing herself.
She has no feelings, or empathy for anyone else.
I have always been an outspoken person, who has no problem speaking the truth.
Many People have said, They wish They could be like me, but are to afraid, to say what is the truth, but I also understand the difference, between hurting someone’s feelings, and speaking out unnecessarily, about things that they are aware of, and certainly do not need to be reminded of, like maybe having a weight problem, or a few extra pounds, or giving them, a unbiased opinion, on how a dress looks, that They’ve tried on, and They really like, and perhaps, I might not like quite as much.
Some times, to be a DECENT, or kind hearted human being, People have to consider the other person’s feelings, before making a decision to voice their true feelings, and hurt someone emotionally😰
Words cut deep, and once they are spoken, They can Never be taken back, the damage is irrefutably done forever 🥺😩🥵😱🤷♀️
THINK 🤔, BEFORE YOU SPEAK 🗣. Once those words leave your lips, You can Not retrieve them.🥵❌☠️‼️
It is Not a game, some People have been so affected by “Words” they’ve committed suicide.
None of us, have any control over what anyone else may do.
However, what We All do have control over, is how we, act, speak, and how we interact, and how we, treat All People.
If We are Respectful, Positive, Truthful, Caring💕, and Compassionate too Everyone with whom we interact with, then that is how other people will treat You in return, and You won’t have any Negativity in your life.
The Truth is “We Reap What We Sow”
“ We Get, What We Give”😃
So If You continue to put out Positivity into the World, then That is what You Will get back in Return😅❤️🥰🙏🏽
Stay FABULOUS, and Be Beautifully Blessed 💕
@Glory Believe bloody well said.
Cousin needs to be kicked out of both the store AND the wedding...sheesh honey, it's definitely NOT your wedding!
OMG THAT COUSIN NEEDS HER EARS BOXED!!!
Know your roll cuz...... sit down, shut up & be supportive
If I'd ever go dress shopping, I'd take my mom, my grandma and my best friend. Because I know they're super supportive and would respect my opinion.
Why would you want someone like that to be in your wedding party? Like it's supposed to be filled with peoppe who love YOU and want to support YOU!! Not steal your wedding because they know there's nobody who would put up with their bridezilla shit
The bride said they grew up like sisters maybe she would feel guilty about not having her involved? But i completely agree with you though.
Here we go with "its not your wedding " 🙄 like back off cousin!
Her cousin is a piece of work!! I honestly don't think I could stand to be around her pushy bossy all about me self. Im glad the bride went with her heart.
Danielle’s dress fit her so beautifully it did all the right things for her body!!! so happy for her!! love her family to so supportive of her and what she choose!
The second bride looked STUNNING 🤍
Why do so many of these brides let their family members and friends push them around so much? Any feedback and opinions should be done with the utmost respect so you don't ruin her day. It's their day and their decision, end of story.
Elsa needs to go home! People forget it's the brides day! Over bearing selfish rude pompous friends or family need to stay away😡😡😡
The second family all looked so much alike.
The cousin needs to be shown the door. But since the show is ALL about drama, she fits in perfectly! The bride really needs to stand up to her.