The Spiritual War of Narcissistic Abuse
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- Narcissistic abuse is a spiritual war for your Soul.
Understanding that this is happening at a much deeper level than on a superficial, logical, and practical level is a crucial part of your recovery.
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You look amazing 😻,, thanks for this food for the soul , I really needed to hear this message.
Definitely ! On every level physically, psychological, soul level and spiritual, it’s insane and horrible. I think it happens when you idolise someone ! I don’t know how they do it but I never want to come across this hell again xxx ever!!!!!! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Really...that's good
I agree, most definitely, this is spiritual warfare.
We wrestle not against flesh and blood.... still knowing this underlying resides a righteous anger..🙏🏾❤️
Same.
Because the person has to agree with the demon and allow it to use them as puppets....free will.
New here ! Powerful message 🥰 I am a scapegoat . Narc mother , sister. Got aware at age 41 big transformation! Stil healing ✊💫
Narcissists/ narcissism is spoken about in the Bible my dear friends There is a demonic spiritual aspect to all of this. When I came to know the Savior Jesus Christ, I finally came to know and care about myself as He loves all of us unconditionally. He understands how broken we are from such a unstable world we live in. Many of you coaches have taught me the red flags, the warning signs, the fact that a narc doesn't ever change and all that has helped me progress in this season of my life but no one, no one , can heal you from the trauma like Jesus can and show you how you deserve all the love in the world. It is freeing, calming, joyful and so deeply soul satisfying to kindle a relationship with your Creator! Please look to Him...He is waiting on you!! Life changing!!
Couldnt have put that better myself 🙌 Amen 🙏
@@maggiemcdonald3185 Bless you Maggie!
Well said ❤
True Dina God bless you xxx
So true many people fail to realize that we can do everything to battle a narcissist, but in reality we need to draw close to god to help us battle a narcissist and not ourselves.
I can’t thank you enough Melanie for the NARP program 🙏🙏 Like you, I also had a body breakdown last year, after years of abuse. It was really bad, being bedridden most of the time. On my death bed many times in a few months, and then I started doing NARP intensely (I already purchased it 2 years prior but never really did it, maybe I wasn’t ready?). Anyway, each day was a battle for my Soul but with NARP, I was feeling better after eating shift. I kept going, knowing that this is what was going to save me. And it did. I have risen from the ashes, able to function again. You’re such an angel on Earth. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
You help me more all the time Melanie. Thank yo so much! 💕 This made so much sense to me because of the way you explained it! I am evolving. I say no easier. I respond, not react more often. My focus is on me now, not others. I say everyday, “ I TRUST ME! “ I am still working on me diligently and you have been such a help with education and inspiration! Bless you!!!
Thank you, I’ve watched a few of your videos before and I needed this reminder today. ❤️ It’s so difficult when it’s family, and watching your family suffer while your saving yourself. 💔
I know deeply I’m so close to a new level of self love as I had a moment of deep inner peace the other day that I haven’t felt in a long time. 🥰
I call it soul rape…which sounds horrific but it truly was. However, now I am healing and finding myself ❤️🩹
God bless you Katie glad you are healing ❤️🩹 girl keep on keeping on. 💪🏻we will get there one step at a time and then it will all be a very distant vague memory. Xxx
That’s exactly what it is. So horrific, it’s an apt descriptor ☮️
That’s exactly what I have called it. Emotional rape is what I call it because it leaves the victim feeling like the walking dead. I still have a hard time with this off & on during the last 4 years! I can start seeing myself as worthy of the same love & safety I hope I have tried to make others feel. I have a Saviour and He is Jesus Christ🙏🏻❣️
It is soul rape - perfect explanation
This makes a lot of sense nothing else works this is on a soul level
I needed this today. I was just drained with all the truth settling on my heart today. Thank you dearest person
Hope you are doing ok today heather it’s difficult sometimes you think you are back to yourself and then bam 💥 you revisit some of the shit that you experienced and it’s then that absolute rage and revenge comes up. Hoping it’s part of the healing ❤️🩹 and eventually it will all mean nothing to me and have no negative effect. The peace I have most the time now is beautiful though so trying to concentrate on those times.
You hit it out of the park. It is spiritual and there's only one true light. Praise God for that light....
Thank you Mel. I feel like finally someone understands the trauma I’ve been going through! (I realise now that my counsellor of the past 3 years just doesn’t get it! Plus two different marriage counsellors have just made everything worse!)
I have an exit plan now and looking forward to starting NARP.
Thank you so much for this, Melanie. You are gifted healer.
Naracistic abuse is a spiritual war. I even was abused and manipulated by a church leader. I have lost most of my relatives and friends. Its very hard to see a reason behind a lifetime of naracistic abuse from even my closest friends. Flying monkeys are practically everywhere and they always 'believe' the story of the covert passive aggressive naracist. Yes we all have empathy and this instantly makes us a 'target' for every covert naracist. Yes we will eventually 'heal' but healing will for many be a long process. May we all be protected from covert and overt naracists and find true and honest friends who have integrity and respect for us no matter what our past has been. We need to be able to recognise that we are enough and we are worthy and that we are important and have been put here for a purpose. Thank you for this video. May we all grow from strength to strength and find true sources and be able to help others who are genuinely honest and caring. We need to 'stay in our own power'. Yes we need to reprogram our thinking and remember to love ourselves first. Its ok to say 'no'. We need to keep our barriers high and walk away from all naracistic abusers and manipulators. What we accept is what is what that is good for our own health and well-being. Be very very careful who you friends are. Your own health and wellbeing is what matters. You can only fix and control and change yourself. Please remain strong in your own identity. Naracists simply want to 'steal' your soul because they have no soul of their own. May we all support one another to walk away from all these evil individuals who are only out to destroy us. Yes we are all loved but we still live in a world surrounded by evil and evil people. Yes they 'use' everything and everyone so we need to connect to a higher source of 'good'. Once connected, you will not be abandoned. The naracist is a total liar and always will be. Put up high barriers and quietly 'walk away'. You will then become the person that you were born to be. Thank you for this video.
Jeremiah 30:17 God's promises to restore health to us and heal our wounds He declares.
The abandonment is exactly the wound my ex covert malignant narcissist also played on. He did exactly the same to me. You are so wise, thank you so much for your videos ♥. I'm on a spiritual journey and I've healed a lot but still struggle at times.
Yes, be compassionate but not giving second chances. Clear and firm boundaries with everyone...
For those I am already deeply involved with, I do the 3 strikes you're out rule. 3x's is a pattern not a mistake.
But yes...if there is just ONE big red narcissist- flag when meeting someone that is enough warning to stay away.
🗝 Melanie handing the keys to our freedom like a boss.
Life saving and life enhancing teachings!!
Really good stuff, thank you so much Melanie Tonia Evans. I have enjoyed you so much. I am not ashamed of calling out narcissism and the spiritual war between Jesus and Satan. Narcissism is a spirit of anti-Christ/Jezebel, and I, too, had to get with and marry a narcissist in order to realize I needed to work on myself.
Very true
Actually I'm the idiot for thinking any of my family were going to be different than my mother . I kept going back as a codependent for approval and to be their doormat. Well it back fired and the group turned on me and labeled me the narcissist. Instead of feeling sorry for myself I have now gone no contact and will never give any of them a second or 100th chance as I have done in the past. I feel free and liberated as they did not celebrate my life.
Yes I have decided to completely cut all of my family off. I am no one's doormat or emotional punching bag. These idiots are toddlers that think the world owes them. No one in this world owes you anything
My God Joshua and Brendon - this times a charm - me too
Well said. NARP changed my life in so many ways. Thank you 😊!!!
Thanks Mel. I've got lots of work to do. Worked on module one again, today, and will continue until I get this done, no matter how long it takes. ❤
My oh my ,wow! Such an enlightening and such an eye opening video. I wish I could talk with you,but I have no money. I have been handing my power away. That's why I feel so horrible. I think you're absolutely correct about Everything. One day,I told him I feel drained... And you know what he said? It was ..."I like you when you're drained". It was an eye opener. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. So true. Everything you're saying is true. My problem is I've got an overwhelming load of trauma. I was almost murdered several times in the last twenty years. And I nearly didn't survive either. And I'm motivated to work on myself and stop being a victim, however I feel frozen in the traumatic experiences. Still dealing with flashbacks and bad nightmares. I feel like I'm in emotional shock. Every time I begin to get my feet under me,I get knocked back down. I'm being stalked by a predatory stalker, and he's put stalkerware on my cellphone. I'd really like it if you can do a video on removing stalkerware and how to keep physically safe when escaping from coercive control and the abusers rage at learning that I won't be controlled anymore. I hope you'll consider this. And yes, I regress a lot. And he sexually abused me when I was regressed. He scared me. And it almost destroyed me. I left him and he mounted a smear campaign of epic proportions. I now can't get a job or Keep my own apartment because he harrassed me with his flying monkeys. And police don't do anything because they think he's a saint. I'm going to watch every single video of yours. I hope I can get past this trauma. I feel so dirty,like I'll never be clean BC he was so perverted. I feel like weeping every day. He and I don't see each other anymore. People can also download the Anti Stalker app from Google Play store by Malloc. It will tell you if they're activating your camera and microphone to spy on you. It was validation for me of the stalking. Thank you so much for everything you're teaching us. It's so valuable. God bless you. May we all find escape and healing. 💛🙏
You are so uplifting! Found this video so helpful and encouraging to keep going and healing in a positive way- stumbled across this today, on a day that feels very discouraging. Thank you!
Thank you, Melanie. I will be coming back to this video again and again 💙
Wow this is incredible. Feels like you are speaking directly to me in how accurate this is
You are saving my life
Thank you!!!!!!!!!!! Your message is so encouraging for me in my faith journey. Breaking away is still a cross, but I know there is the light of a resurrection. Thank you for shining a light!,,
I have never met anyone with so much knowledge as you! Thank you Melanie ❤
100% nailed it! Thank you 🙏
Melanie, you nailed it. That is exactly what I've been battling for more than 10 years without being able to specifically point out the real issue, they wanted my soul. Wow! That's amazing! This is so enlightening. I'm so thankful for your life, your insight, your wisdom, your tenderness, your sensibility and your care. Thank you, thank you, thank you! Finally, this is the real battle, the real issue, the battle for my soul.
Thanks Melanie it’s not until we go deeply within meditation over a period of time that we can truly observe where our trauma is held within our bodies.
It’s powerful work that can be transformed and gradually healed ❤
This has got to be one of your best Melanie , truly . So on point .
Yep , been to Darwin , very very humid indeed . Hi from the UK 🇬🇧 😊
Yes. I also feel we live in a benevolent universe, and this 🤗 And we are Co-creators and have to learn about how to "stand in our power" and take responsibility for ourselves.
BEAUTIFUL work, I resonate. Thank you! Very wise woman I see you 😊
The Most High is the only creator, period.
@@MrsK976 Never suggested otherwise.
Hi Melanie
Thank you I just came across your videos today. One with Dr Northrup and this one here.
Yes I am in full agreement that this is about spiritual war/battle within self 100%.
My god you are confirming everything I felt this morning after my meditation. I could start to see very clearly why I have kept going around in circles. Healing my own inner shadows is something I have been very aware of. I just wasn’t 100% clear about how to do the work until I started to listen to Dr Joe Dispenza
Right now I feel like I am living in a household with at least 5 energy vampires. This has forced me to submerge myself into the depth of my being.
I am seeing now where I need to do the work unfortunately there are too many like you have said that haven’t known how to do it. So I asked god for guidance and you popped up.
I am in Melbourne great to hear you are Australian. Melanie I now believe my life will turn around with absolute certainty. The veil has lifted.
“It’s actually not happening to me it’s happening for me!”…..I get it
Love this! I feel so understood when I watch your work! Thank you 😊
Thank you for this Melanie! I wanted to hear this! To remind me!
Wonderful message. Thank you!
Even more insane when the equivalent of the love of your life is your own family cult system
God Bless You Melanie!!!
So so good❤️thank you 🌸
I've been doing inner child healing
Possibly ur best video ever 💫🙌🏾🌈🙏🏾☮️💕💎🧚🏽♂️
Very help ful relaxing peaceful video great advice thank you💖🙏
incredible advice
Thank you Melanie! 💖💖💖
Thank You !
Thank You Melanie😊😊😊🌹This is Beautiful💘💘💘
I have watched it More than 2 times…Its what we need to do to escape the trauma we have been carrying.
I am at the top stage to healing,.
All Thy Blessings❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕
Dannng! Thank you for sharing this blueprint!
I love the truth! I identify myself with this video. God Bless you my friend.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Lovely and kind Melanie
Interesting and useful. Thank you.
Great video.. thank you for sharing
That is exactly what the world needs Melanie.. Well Said 💙
Honestly this is what the world needs
Your so beautiful Melanie!!!!
we have a body, a soul and a spirit. our spirit is the part of us that is made to relate to God and is cut off by sin. sin is "the knowledge of good and evil" that the devil tempted us with. ENVY and fear of authority the desire to control instead of trust and submit to authority. the splitting of Good and Bad cuts us off from ourselves and one another. WE HIDE , WE BLAME, WE SHAME, WE WEAR MASKS, WE PROJECT. GOD SENT "THE SEED OF THE WOMAN" JESUS CHRIST BORN OF A VIRGIN. to restore us to GOD IN SPIRIT through "THE HOLY SPIRIT". "HE WILL LEAD YOU INTO ALL TRUTH" when we admit the truth about ourselves , repent, and trust the grace of God. WE receive light and GRACE FROM GOD to be born again. to grow in the light of his truth and grace. we need restoration to GOD our creator
WOW wow wow
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I know this is real
What about God Almighty and his Son Jesus Christ Melanie? God is the source of all light, truth and reality. We are supposed to build on his light, truth reality. I did not watch the whole video because it was so late at night but I saw about two thirds of it. Melanie you have helped many people understand, you look great and are very intelligent but you do not mention the Father and his Son Jesus Christ, they are truly your answer to everything. I may not know or understand as much as you but you need Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit to guide in into light, truth and reality. Melanie you are more intelligent, more able, more focused than me but even so you need Jesus Christ and then you will know that you have a true Father in heavenly who truly loves you and his Son Jesus Christ loves you. May God's love touch your life, may he bless you and be with you. Take care love in Christ Jesus.
Ian I think she does have the message and good news of our Lord and saviour Jesus Christ, I think this because of her teaching in this video, maybe she is keeping it generic because she wants to touch the lives of both non believers as well as those like us who believe, to many Christian’s bombard and force the name of Jesus on non believers and it scares them or turns them away, instead of the intended, gentleness and humility is another approach sharing our beautiful gift 💝 and love and message of having a saviour and a husband and a partner in Jesus Christ, if we put him at the head of our lives and submit to his loving guidance he will take care of us all both man and woman, I think that’s what happened to me I put my ex first and it all became about him and his needs and I was trying to save him from himself instead of Jesus saving him. Anyway that’s only my opinion as a Christian after listening to this lady, she is delivering the message and she is delivering it with gentleness and delivering it to both believers and non believers and you know as well as I do Jesus will reveal himself to everyone in his own way and own time. We are told to fear not!!! So don’t be worrying about anything he is bigger than us all. Glad you brought it up though I enjoyed discussing the subject. God bless you and keep you may his light shine upon you and protect you and guide you in all your ways 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻 we are the head and not the tail, this is what I am holding on to now.
@@racheltoner1906 Hi Rachel, thank you for the message you wrote to me. I will try and respond sometime soon God willing. At the moment I have had to endure over nine years of abuse from an extremely covert malignant narcissist. I also take care (24/7) of my ex-wife who has many health problems. I get tired and stressed but God is helping me get through each day. Thank you again for your kind message, hopefully God willing I will respond soon. May God be with you, watch over you and bless you.
@@racheltoner1906 I am sorry Rachel I will have to try and respond another time, I just have too many problems. I am going to pray. Hope your day goes well, I know things will get better for me, just had so much to cope with for such long time. Take Care.
@@Ian140265 praying is the best 🙏🏻 that’s all we have sometimes and you know what, it’s all we need to get us through it all. God bless 🔥
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@@racheltoner1906 Thank You Rachel. In the end I only managed a few seconds of prayers, I felt so tired that I had to go and lay down. I have slight heart failure. I feel better now. I have a lot of problems but usually I can get through the day. Usually the heart failure does not bother me as I have it well under control, I ran out of potassium citrate and then my problems started to get on top of me. I am my own doctor because I do not have health insurance and most of the time I am ok. I have got over the heart failure before but when I get too much stress and responsibility there always a danger it may return. Anyway about Melanie, she is very intelligent, she knows what she is talking about and you can learn from her. However the only thing missing in her speaking is the Gospel of Jesus Christ, if she could point people to Jesus then I think God could use more effectively what she is saying because people would not only get healed but they might possibly get to know Jesus Christ and get saved from their sins. Being free and healed of narcissistic abuse is great but there still remains the fact that we are all sinners and because of that we need to be saved, which can only be done through Jesus Christ by the supernatural work of the Holy Spirit. Take care and may God be with you.
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I Saw the bigger picture ❤
It feels like is the soft voice of the devil taking 😂
Liars liars liars
I hate liars... The wound I had to face was my mom.was a liar and my sister.. and the the man .....I thought was saving mw
I love Australian women
May ALLAH bless you.
You are right about almost everything you said. Your technique is brilliant and I've been using it to create healing and change for over 2 years now. But when you say you were ''conscientious and moral' in the past...even before being narcissistically abused. I'd have to disagree. You aren't conscientious and moral now. If you were, you'd be vegan. You cannot torture innocent defenceless animals...or pay someone else to...for nothing more than a passing sensation of pleasure on your tongue...and be moral and conscientious. The only other person who would agree you could be, is someone else who themselves tortures animals for the pleasure they get out of it. And no matter how many of you there are, you cannot make evil good by saying it is.
Vegans are speciesists you don't give a god dam whit about the massacre of all those billions of insects
Narcs see evil as good and good as bad.
@@joshuaanzalone2060 Narcs know right from wrong, they just don't care what suffering they cause to others and act for purely selfish reasons. Like all non vegans.
@@joshuaanzalone2060 you know my family I see!
Thanks to 🔝🔝 It is heartbreaking that I had an intermittent relationship for 5 years with my ex-drug addict, to always forgive him and come back to him, so now I broke up after finding out he was a total cheater and flirting. i couldn't take it anymore, i had to uncover the truth thanks to 🔝🔝 who helped me gave me useful information which really proves he was a cheater and also a liar.
The living Dead 🧟🧟♀️🧟♂️🧟🧟🧟🧟♀️🧟♀️😂😂😂😂