6 Behaviors That Make Someone Chase You

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  • čas přidán 19. 09. 2020
  • Are you looking for dating advice on how to make someone chase you? Psychologists and researchers have long been developing studies to find out what exactly it is that makes someone attractive. Good looks? Pleasant voice? Positive attitude? While these are goals anyone would want to achieve, indeed they are attractive qualities, as we desire them for ourselves - what about the little habits we can develop that will make us more attractive? Behaviors that can make a potential partner admire you so much they’re willing to chase after you?
    #attraction #crush #dating
    If you find this video helpful and want to learn more about what makes you attractive, we have a video on that as well: • 8 Things That Make You...
    Writer: Michal Mitchell
    Script Editor: Morgan Franz
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Animator: Tris Canimo
    CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
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    If you have any stories or video requests that you would like to share with us, please reach out to us at editorial@psych2go.net

Komentáře • 4,3K

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +6447

    How many BTS references can you spot? Comment below :)

  • @JKAZ_M
    @JKAZ_M Před 3 lety +36072

    If you steal someone's phone, they're almost 100% guaranteed to chase you.

  • @zuko1569
    @zuko1569 Před 3 lety +8196

    1. Attractiveness
    _Oh wait that's not a behavior_

    • @pcdlee6536
      @pcdlee6536 Před 3 lety +143

      wtf are these replies bro

    • @Ash_Wen-li
      @Ash_Wen-li Před 3 lety +278

      You can learn to behave more attractive. Body language, posture, eye contact, voice ect

    • @aestthelicx4408
      @aestthelicx4408 Před 3 lety +242

      @@Ash_Wen-li my bones says no

    • @Me-th8go
      @Me-th8go Před 3 lety +72

      Find your honor yet

    • @maple_latte2669
      @maple_latte2669 Před 3 lety +19

      @@Me-th8go 😂😂😂😂😂😂atla fan 😂😂😂😂

  • @mangotangolango
    @mangotangolango Před 3 lety +7467

    "hang out with a group of friends"
    ...we are going to pretend we didnt hear that

    • @chatonsacrement7454
      @chatonsacrement7454 Před 3 lety +491

      "You're more attractive if you hang out in groups." So I'm screwed, I always do things alone.

    • @mangotangolango
      @mangotangolango Před 3 lety +387

      @@chatonsacrement7454 bold of them to assume that we have friends

    • @skaldlouiscyphre2453
      @skaldlouiscyphre2453 Před 3 lety +123

      @@mangotangolango
      I find cardboard cutouts of celebrities work almost as well. Wanna borrow mine?

    • @rashmisharma9711
      @rashmisharma9711 Před 3 lety +22

      @@skaldlouiscyphre2453 😂

    • @andrewlerdard-dickson5201
      @andrewlerdard-dickson5201 Před 3 lety +17

      This is once was called the " l am going to sleep with all your friends affect ! "........ and only those that find you more attractive when you are in a group.....is refured to as "FOMO", Fear Of Missing Out.....So it is Bullock's that they find anyone more attractive in a group at all, the trueth is the only thing that the find attractive about viewing a group of friends of the same gender.....is their desire to manipulate and sleep with certain members of that group......so this video is actually saying you are more attractive if you sleep around with as many people as possible with out any commitment......yeah sure and why not just make a video based on implying false misinformation !

  • @fz1792
    @fz1792 Před 3 lety +3967

    I like how every k-drama director has this knowledge

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all Před 3 lety +10838

    You must first be that person you want others to chase. Be such a beautiful soul that people crave your vibes 🖖

    • @nightangalesweet9239
      @nightangalesweet9239 Před 3 lety +51

      @Old dudes wisdom I hope you are healthy and away from Corona. I have a question🙋. I have heard to be the best version of yourself. Also opposite attracts and not sameness of the person. If I am talkative I will be attracted towards introverts. If I am a clumsy person I will attract towards the orderly person and so on..😷

    • @divaowu7469
      @divaowu7469 Před 3 lety +28

      @Emely ! I NEED SЕЕХ ღ*GO MY PROF!LE* ღ, wtf is that name????? Pls change your name, thank you!

    • @TheBontekraai
      @TheBontekraai Před 3 lety +53

      But isn't that seeking external motivation? Just be yourself seems better to me, and others will like you for it.

    • @nicolefuentes8279
      @nicolefuentes8279 Před 3 lety +3

      Indeed :)

    • @nehanair5552
      @nehanair5552 Před 3 lety +2

      True

  • @aliciadeleseleuc
    @aliciadeleseleuc Před 3 lety +5725

    Summary:
    - Compliment others
    -Spend more time around your crush
    -Play copycat and mimic
    -Say their name often
    -Be capable and intelligent, but still human
    -Hang out with a group of friends

    • @dleenedouglasdd
      @dleenedouglasdd Před 3 lety +107

      My crush stays like in a whole other country
      *cries in lonely

    • @vreep7497
      @vreep7497 Před 3 lety +116

      But still human? Does that mean i can't sell my soul to demons?

    • @--alvie---3000
      @--alvie---3000 Před 3 lety +19

      @@vreep7497 you really a mood lol

    • @peggz223
      @peggz223 Před 3 lety +3

      Thanks g

    • @npaul-
      @npaul- Před 3 lety +4

      i already do that tho :cryemoji:

  • @michellemonroe-rz2di
    @michellemonroe-rz2di Před 3 lety +1865

    Me to my crush: you’re so nice and energetic
    Crush: *runs away in horror*

    • @BtsArmy-pr7fg
      @BtsArmy-pr7fg Před 3 lety +80

      My crush runs away if he sees me coming in his directions 😕

    • @Bioniclema90
      @Bioniclema90 Před 3 lety +67

      Every woman I've ever had feelings for runs away freaking terrified at the slightest hint of anything more than friendship.

    • @sansadrake4133
      @sansadrake4133 Před 3 lety +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sansadrake4133
      @sansadrake4133 Před 3 lety +6

      @@Bioniclema90 😂😂😂 not good...you must be doing something wrong

    • @ZIATVofficial
      @ZIATVofficial Před 3 lety +1

      HAHAHAHA

  • @candiedbakery3832
    @candiedbakery3832 Před 3 lety +888

    "Hang out with a group of friends"
    Anxiety: I think not

  • @ramen24_
    @ramen24_ Před 3 lety +4543

    “Hangout with a group of friends”
    *cries in lonely*

  • @youraphrodisiac.895
    @youraphrodisiac.895 Před 3 lety +11718

    1. Compliment others .
    2. Spend more time with the person you like mirror exposure effect
    3. Play copycat and mimic their behaviours
    Chameleon effect
    4. Say their name often
    Cocktail party effect
    5. Be capable and intelligent human
    6. Hang out with a group of friends

    • @zonattacktv362
      @zonattacktv362 Před 3 lety +187

      gods work

    • @annahild1696
      @annahild1696 Před 3 lety +22

      @@zonattacktv362 haha fr tho

    • @marii2150
      @marii2150 Před 3 lety +70

      It's called "mere exposure effect" :)

    • @EdgarHernandez-uu4iw
      @EdgarHernandez-uu4iw Před 3 lety +89

      Does complimenting really work tho? I complimented a girl once and she was like “of course you men will resort to cat calling in hopes of getting me to sleep with you” in my mind I was like “ wtf 😳 I just did it out of courtesy but gah damn no need to chew my ass out, a thank you would’ve been nice”

    • @multicreativeartist6579
      @multicreativeartist6579 Před 3 lety +65

      Imagine having a group of friends

  • @meikme
    @meikme Před 2 lety +2589

    Me: " Sarah is just so great. She's so nice to everyone. She's adorable."
    My crush: "can you hook me up with her"
    Me: 🙂😀

  • @aleyandrarazellyn8340
    @aleyandrarazellyn8340 Před 3 lety +324

    "You making some mistakes still make you look capable and intelligent"
    Then there's me looking like an idiot

    • @MsMegamom
      @MsMegamom Před 3 lety +4

      You are probably a lot smarter than you think.

    • @sorohye
      @sorohye Před 3 lety +4

      Shit I got straight A on exam yet I’m a blur type of person and people always said that how can I get A hahaha

  • @zaynrobert1110
    @zaynrobert1110 Před 3 lety +1925

    interviewer : so tell me about yourself
    Me : spills coffee
    you're hired

  • @cristinabrando5924
    @cristinabrando5924 Před 3 lety +2614

    is it just me or does anyone else find someone way more attractive when they’re by themselves rather than when they are in a group of people?

    • @amymhchan1584
      @amymhchan1584 Před 3 lety +40

      @Cristina Brando I agree

    • @Bioniclema90
      @Bioniclema90 Před 3 lety +415

      I prefer if they were mostly by themselves. It's WAY more difficult getting close to them if they're always with their friends.

    • @ashercoleman-smith8562
      @ashercoleman-smith8562 Před 3 lety +9

      me 2

    • @marijajanicijevic8211
      @marijajanicijevic8211 Před 3 lety +97

      Maybe because the people you found more attractive alone were like that because they were pretending to be someone else in the group. I know fakeness is repellant in many cases (regardless of the gender, both men and women are less attractive when being fake), for me at least.

    • @avantikaroy5146
      @avantikaroy5146 Před 3 lety +18

      I'm the same but I've always noticed it's the complete inverse. Peeps always like ppl who ate in popular groups. Idk why.

  • @meology8510
    @meology8510 Před 3 lety +152

    btw, complimenting others DOES actually make a difference. I was the only one in my class who called my new physics teacher beautiful for the past few weeks and today she told me that she likes my personality and thinks i'm kind and a good person.
    but remember to be genuine in your complimenting :)

    • @reddragon6174
      @reddragon6174 Před 2 lety +13

      I don't mean to be rude but, at what age did you say this to your teacher?

  • @sierrafazekas3530
    @sierrafazekas3530 Před 3 lety +236

    When people make a mistake and laugh it off, I think it's cute... But if they make a mistake and get irate it's not cute.

    • @goldflo91
      @goldflo91 Před 3 lety +20

      If they get irritated when making a mistake, they may be reacting as people they've seen before, that tells a lot about their past and family 🤔

    • @Angel-gc1gn
      @Angel-gc1gn Před 3 lety +7

      If they laugh it of to me that feels like a passive aggressive person depending on how they act after but if someone was irritated and lets it out but can still communicate and understand each other in a argument or in general I’d respect that a lot more, but if they just constantly attack me and do nothing but be negative then yea that’s not attractive in the least xD

    • @user-ud7pt9bo8w
      @user-ud7pt9bo8w Před 2 lety +2

      @@Angel-gc1gn you are right, but I think they meant mistakes out of physical clumsiness, not mental abuse

  • @agr0nianTV
    @agr0nianTV Před 3 lety +2657

    You forgot a big one, be yourself. If you're using a fake persona then even if you get your crush then things will not turn out well after all the relationship would be formed on a lie.

    • @fredericmoresmau4303
      @fredericmoresmau4303 Před 3 lety +10

      Moving to Auckland. If they don't they wasn't interested to start out.....

    • @spookyho5994
      @spookyho5994 Před 3 lety +1

      truee

    • @Halcyon1997
      @Halcyon1997 Před 3 lety +96

      Think its also important to mention, you gotta be your best self. Be who you want to be, but be true to You. It's imperative though, that you do not sacrifice your values to get someone to like you, be honest about how you feel about things, don't compromise, don't settle... Sorry for the book lol

    • @cheesebutter9531
      @cheesebutter9531 Před 3 lety +11

      Who are you who is so wise in the way of science

    • @Jords250
      @Jords250 Před 3 lety +8

      Being myself is the problem here

  • @wysteriaherr8306
    @wysteriaherr8306 Před 3 lety +2855

    I'm 40 years old, and this channel teaches me more life skills than I ever learned in school.

    • @cheesebutter9531
      @cheesebutter9531 Před 3 lety +33

      That is good right?

    • @wysteriaherr8306
      @wysteriaherr8306 Před 3 lety +55

      @@cheesebutter9531 that is definitely good

    • @midnight-cn7vd
      @midnight-cn7vd Před 3 lety +7

      Wow really?

    • @wysteriaherr8306
      @wysteriaherr8306 Před 3 lety +40

      @@midnight-cn7vd yes....if you are in school now, I urge you to listen to these videos... really listen and put into practice what they are teaching you... especially when it comes to communication skills.

    • @midnight-cn7vd
      @midnight-cn7vd Před 3 lety +10

      @@wysteriaherr8306 ok I will and thank you💛

  • @syk2973
    @syk2973 Před 3 lety +507

    It doesn't matter how many of your vidoes i watch, i'll end up dying alone

    • @bookenjoyer3970
      @bookenjoyer3970 Před 3 lety +30

      I’m sure you’ll find someone, just takes the right person to come along

    • @xinhuichen8849
      @xinhuichen8849 Před 3 lety +5

      😂 same

    • @thebatman.
      @thebatman. Před 2 lety +22

      Everybody has different preferences, so I can basically guarantee there’s someone for you out there. It’s just a fact. Also, sometimes you have to fail alot before you can succeed

    • @esthervip
      @esthervip Před 2 lety +9

      hold onto hope

    • @LicensedGuitarist2000
      @LicensedGuitarist2000 Před 2 lety +3

      @@thebatman. there's nothing for anyone.

  • @youknowwhoyouare11
    @youknowwhoyouare11 Před 3 lety +324

    I spent more time with my crush to the point he started acting like me and I acted more like him. But he never saw me as anything more than a friend. Even though we didn't end up together, I see that as a win

    • @stewartmarques1485
      @stewartmarques1485 Před 3 lety +9

      If you actually confessed your feelings maybe it would of gone somewhere 🤔

    • @bananian
      @bananian Před 3 lety +18

      @@stewartmarques1485
      Yeah but girls never do that.

    • @sorohye
      @sorohye Před 3 lety +17

      @@bananian yeah I agree and please don’t ever confess to a boy (from experience) unless you’re as beautiful as an angel

    • @ayumimaxinerallos2824
      @ayumimaxinerallos2824 Před 3 lety +23

      @@sorohye awieee. You can owe it to yourself to at least be honest with what you're feeling towards a guyyo. If the person don't find it well, give yourself a pat for the confidence to confess. Patpat.

    • @phillinedenniezejulle
      @phillinedenniezejulle Před 3 lety +2

      Such a beautiful mindset 💙

  • @veganroastedturkey1291
    @veganroastedturkey1291 Před 3 lety +812

    I can't believe I can chase food, even though it has no human qualities at all!

    • @Mariue8553
      @Mariue8553 Před 3 lety +10

      It doesn't lie...because it can't talk😂

    • @heliosw8068
      @heliosw8068 Před 3 lety +4

      WHAT IF THE FOOD IS CHASING YOU

    • @Usoda_
      @Usoda_ Před 3 lety +6

      Our ancestors did that a lot

    • @iyaiiya-wawg3657
      @iyaiiya-wawg3657 Před 3 lety +8

      Taste is enchanting. Food doesn't have to talk when it makes love to your tongue.

    • @fahmida9533
      @fahmida9533 Před 3 lety

      😂

  • @user-tw9bk9is4l
    @user-tw9bk9is4l Před 3 lety +5742

    Am I the only one that thinks the animations are so c u t e 💛

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +374

      Thank you so much! We're glad this video has helped you in some way! Which behaviors would you like to try on your crush?

    • @bekaeast7346
      @bekaeast7346 Před 3 lety +61

      @@Psych2go have friends 😖

    • @jak.cr1ym
      @jak.cr1ym Před 3 lety +18

      @@bekaeast7346 :(

    • @bekaeast7346
      @bekaeast7346 Před 3 lety +20

      @@jak.cr1ym haha I do I just thought it was funny & was the first thing to pop in my head. I’m gay in a southern state so I’m auto friends with every gay around here ahhaha

    • @jhashope2398
      @jhashope2398 Před 3 lety +9

      Your not alone they are sooo cute

  • @lunamadz1983
    @lunamadz1983 Před 3 lety +332

    The two types of ppl watching this video:
    Those hoping to get ppl to chase them
    And those hoping to stop doing things that make certain ppl chase you

  • @user-db5km
    @user-db5km Před 3 lety +249

    "spend more time with your crush"
    oh no, he's in another country

    • @Mister_Kourkoutas
      @Mister_Kourkoutas Před 3 lety +19

      In a another country in the middle of a global pandemic. I know that feel

    • @MythopoeicNavid
      @MythopoeicNavid Před 3 lety +5

      @@Mister_Kourkoutas what ya'll doing crushing after folks in other countries? ... asking for a friend

    • @Mister_Kourkoutas
      @Mister_Kourkoutas Před 3 lety +18

      @@MythopoeicNavid Met her a few years ago and have been catching up online. It’s stupid really but this pandemic is spreading loneliness globally and it’s the same in every language.

    • @MythopoeicNavid
      @MythopoeicNavid Před 3 lety +5

      @@Mister_Kourkoutas true. Good luck with your pursuit for love, friend. Just be honest to yourselves and be chill while you're at it!

    • @frogperson7481
      @frogperson7481 Před 3 lety +5

      ...They're not real... They're fictional 😞😞🔪💕

  • @FPS.bhargav
    @FPS.bhargav Před 3 lety +1054

    Me to my crush : your friend is lovely
    My crush : go and date her then

    • @rowantaylor335
      @rowantaylor335 Před 3 lety +134

      this happened to my friend once and they actually are dating now

    • @me-eh1zt
      @me-eh1zt Před 3 lety +9

      R.I.P.

    • @faivana_
      @faivana_ Před 3 lety +6

      AND its at 69 😏

    • @FPS.bhargav
      @FPS.bhargav Před 3 lety +1

      Thx bbys for 140+ likes plz pray for me 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

    • @maraalexandrasuditu5989
      @maraalexandrasuditu5989 Před 3 lety +10

      it means she likes u. tell her asap or she might lose feelings bcs she thinks you like her friend. TELL HER

  • @amornratsaengsun800
    @amornratsaengsun800 Před 3 lety +467

    I swear her voice is so relaxing-

  • @hugoyaztromo3532
    @hugoyaztromo3532 Před 3 lety +77

    I always notice when someone is mirroring me, and knowing that, the chameleon effect actually feels manipulative and creeps me out.

  • @shresthaditya2950
    @shresthaditya2950 Před rokem +178

    1:35-Spotaneous Trait Transference
    1:48-Mirror Exposure Effect
    2:30-Chameoleon Effect
    2:56-Cocktail party effect
    3:36-Be clumsy since mistakes make you more human
    4:44-Cheerleader effect

  • @Nintentoad125
    @Nintentoad125 Před 3 lety +411

    1. You pretend youre the gingerbread man.
    If you shout "can't catch I'm the gingerbread man!" and run away, if someone chases you, this might be a sign your being chased

    • @a_raichub
      @a_raichub Před 3 lety

      Perfection.

    • @a_raichub
      @a_raichub Před 3 lety +3

      @@imnot1291 Likely a bot.

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 Před 3 lety +12

      _I don't think you have any idea... how FAST I really am._

    • @ArtofBrandonTruster
      @ArtofBrandonTruster Před 3 lety

      This is stupid enough to possibly work! By that, I mean it is smart. Too bad I hate humans and no longer desire a mate or, I would give it a try.

    • @Dee010s
      @Dee010s Před 3 lety

      Ralph, is that you?

  • @panikz8754
    @panikz8754 Před 3 lety +680

    “Hangout with a group of friends”
    me: they fall in love with my friends...

  • @lazypotato2928
    @lazypotato2928 Před 3 lety +20

    The person who voices this makes me want to cry! It’s so soft and calming.

    • @laurajames2308
      @laurajames2308 Před 3 lety +1

      I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem

    • @laurajames2308
      @laurajames2308 Před 3 lety +1

      Text me via what’s app for recommendation

    • @laurajames2308
      @laurajames2308 Před 3 lety +1

      + 1 6 7 8 4 2 6 5 0 9 5
      From Los Angeles

  • @shybairnsgetnowt
    @shybairnsgetnowt Před 2 lety +20

    I really like this channel's comment section. People are kind and positive and joking heartily, sadly a rarity on CZcams nowadays.
    And the animations are incredibly cute!!

  • @kimyejin3802
    @kimyejin3802 Před 3 lety +2689

    "Spend more time around your crush"
    **covid joined the chat**
    **quarantine joined the chat**
    **social distancing joined the chat**
    **quarantine added modules in the chat**

    • @-r-3656
      @-r-3656 Před 3 lety +98

      Socially awkward joined the chat.

    • @VictoriaWilder95
      @VictoriaWilder95 Před 3 lety +23

      I just entered the chat hehe

    • @TehAntares
      @TehAntares Před 3 lety +35

      2020: *Slowmode is enabled.*

    • @VictoriaWilder95
      @VictoriaWilder95 Před 3 lety +15

      New comments have been temporarily suspended. Please wait 8 working days before responding.

    • @Andrewalten
      @Andrewalten Před 3 lety +1

      Lol

  • @lemon_boii1074
    @lemon_boii1074 Před 3 lety +738

    This is why I'm afraid of liking someone.
    Its literally all in my head.

  • @socialpsychologymantras
    @socialpsychologymantras Před 2 lety +13

    “The beautiful thing about love is that you just need to plant it once and nurture it and it shall bloom into blossoms that would cover the valleys.” - Hermann J. Steinherr

  • @person4119
    @person4119 Před 3 lety +14

    When you realize you’ve been trying all of these for years:
    Guess I’ll die

  • @Sad_Baguette420
    @Sad_Baguette420 Před 3 lety +2822

    "Be capable and intelligent but still human"
    *Confused cheeseburger noises*

  • @eevee93
    @eevee93 Před 3 lety +477

    If you break someone's car, they won't stop chasing you alright

    • @cheesebutter9531
      @cheesebutter9531 Před 3 lety +22

      But if they are getting annoying, break their leg to make them stop

    • @vibez5441
      @vibez5441 Před 3 lety +12

      Just incase they are still chasing you snap their neck it will end it for good👌

    • @LittleTheKobold
      @LittleTheKobold Před 3 lety +3

      I mean... your not wrong lol

    • @KdramaLover168
      @KdramaLover168 Před 3 lety +3

      @@vibez5441 then hide the body in a bag and bury it 😀

  • @morrissmith5338
    @morrissmith5338 Před 3 lety +16

    I think it’s important to take some of these methods in stride. Like in some cases, saying someone’s name can come off kinda creepy if you force it into your dialogue too much

    • @stewartmarques1485
      @stewartmarques1485 Před 3 lety +2

      None of these actually work with woman anyway xD

    • @m.tigerbeans6898
      @m.tigerbeans6898 Před rokem

      Same! It bothers me when I read it in books too, like why do you keep repeating it, she knows her name! (Also when it's done to me it absolutely feels manipulative)

  • @LunarTheFrog
    @LunarTheFrog Před 3 lety +9

    Anyone else here cause they like someone and are unsure if they like you back but their friends joked about him/her/them liking you and u wanna be sure that before you even say anything about liking them, they use a few tricks to give them better chances? Just me-? Oh- we'll have a nice day anyways :>

  • @spongebobgirlfriend
    @spongebobgirlfriend Před 3 lety +808

    "How to manipulate your crush into liking you back"

    • @adrocky1236
      @adrocky1236 Před 3 lety +25

      That’s what I thought lol.

    • @kay9kill
      @kay9kill Před 3 lety +34

      The only thing I find is manipulative in my opinion is mimicking someone else to make them like you. But, in some cases if you do that, it won’t work because they hate themselves🤣

    • @lynnhaning5373
      @lynnhaning5373 Před 3 lety +18

      You took the words right out of my mouth, my friend. It was my understanding that, based on the title of this channel, the goal was to educate the general public on human behavior, and not to give well intentioned, yet generalized and misguided dating advice ? CZcams is already saturated with these kind of videos, as it is. The only piece of advice, that I agree with, is spending more time around your crush, so they can get to know the REAL you. Other than that, just be yourself. If things between you and your crush progress beyond a friendship, great 👍. If not, cut your losses, and move on. There's no point, in wasting precious time and energy on people who do not value you for who you are.

    • @julianchrobak-prince1915
      @julianchrobak-prince1915 Před 3 lety +3

      suddenly i don’t want to try any of these anymore :(((

    • @victherocker
      @victherocker Před 3 lety +2

      as if you don't want your crush to like you back

  • @adfka.algie1011
    @adfka.algie1011 Před 3 lety +601

    Funny thing is that a few months ago, I actually tried to spend as much time w/ my crush as possible a I said his name often while nobody else did (they called him nicknames he didn't like). And well, now we're dating 😁.. So it worked for me

    • @CoM_tE
      @CoM_tE Před 3 lety +15

      Oh my gosh, I'm so envious

    • @myainx
      @myainx Před 3 lety +13

      Why does your comment say 22hrs ago...

    • @gerry7860
      @gerry7860 Před 3 lety +15

      bruh i call people nicknames they don’t like at first, but eventually, they get used to it. only do this to people i’m close with tho

    • @astrophile_0721
      @astrophile_0721 Před 3 lety +8

      Well good for you 😊

    • @rasnabegum7749
      @rasnabegum7749 Před 3 lety +2

      Myapooh 1157 Early access probably

  • @danib712
    @danib712 Před 3 lety +8

    “People tend to find others more attractive when they are in a group over being by themselves” well….that explains everything….😅

  • @m3ta11ica_
    @m3ta11ica_ Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you so much! I really needed this! Also love your animations! They’re adorable!

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee Před 3 lety +1563

    Here's how - without playing hard to get
    Build a high-quality, exciting life.
    Don't stop being single.
    Raise your standards for love.
    Don't give him boyfriend benefits if he's not your boyfriend.
    Judge him only on his actions towards you.

    • @SomeSCP--withInternetaccess
      @SomeSCP--withInternetaccess Před 3 lety +32

      guess I can’t get chased down an alleyway. I’m empty for love, I barely have love for myself lol.

    • @jehakim4067
      @jehakim4067 Před 3 lety +133

      I don’t know about that last one, you should also look at if the person you like is an overall good person and not just a good person to you specifically. Otherwise you might find that, after some time together, they start to treat you poorly or worse. Finding a person who is genuinely a good person is important.

    •  Před 3 lety +20

      Good, solid advice for females.
      Men have it somewhat easy.
      All we really need to do is take time paying attention to make sure she's not a psycho.
      I must urge both genders to be genuine and not pretend to be something that they're not.
      In the long run that works in the best interest for both. .

    • @Ash_Wen-li
      @Ash_Wen-li Před 3 lety +57

      The last one is questionable. If someone is good to you and treats everyone else poorly, the they are most likely faking it or toxic

    • @visit_vaticancatholic_dot_com
      @visit_vaticancatholic_dot_com Před 3 lety +23

      There’s no such thing as “boyfriend benefits.” It’s called HUSBAND benefits. People need to fear God and be just and pure. By the way, do you know how many “long term boyfriends” a woman can have before she’s 30? Then women stupidly wonder why no one wants to marry them. Body count does matter, even if the number was accrued in a “long term” context. I realize people will think this is politically incorrect and “backward” but the simple truth is that sex is reserved for marriage. Don’t give husband benefits to boyfriends is the correct way. Fear of God, self-respect and common sense will help us to be our best. (Men shouldn’t have high body counts either and should also be virgins before marriage. I had to add that before I am accused of misogyny etc.)
      Even if a woman were involved in one “solid” relationship for 5-15 years, there’s the old saying that goes “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” Don’t EVER be anyone’s fool (“cow”).
      Visit vaticancatholic.com for crucial information about why it’s necessary for eternal salvation to become a traditional Catholic. Take care.

  • @ewruuweeddd7528
    @ewruuweeddd7528 Před 3 lety +263

    I really like the way she speaks, so peacefully makes me feel so calm

  • @Jaspy_Jaspy
    @Jaspy_Jaspy Před 2 lety +1

    I just love how your voice is so calming

  • @quadroalas1567
    @quadroalas1567 Před 2 lety +1

    Your voice is so calm that makes me feel calm and better

  • @lilywebber7718
    @lilywebber7718 Před 3 lety +201

    1. Compliment others
    2. Spend more time around you crush
    3. Play copycat and mimic your crush
    4. Say their name often
    5. Be capable and intelligent but still human
    6. Hang out with a group of friends

    • @TheAmazinqStar
      @TheAmazinqStar Před 3 lety

      Thank you for this!! I hate hearing her voice for some weird reason 😩

    • @ArtofBrandonTruster
      @ArtofBrandonTruster Před 3 lety

      Compliment a woman and you can go to jail.

    • @ArtofBrandonTruster
      @ArtofBrandonTruster Před 3 lety

      @AshLand it's okay so long as the girl is already attracted to you. Know what? I polled women back in 2017. I asked them how they would respond to a rape scenario where Johnny Depp was the rapist. They all responded that they would be fine with it. I did another poll replacing Johnny Depp with a picture of a hideous male, guess how they responded to that? :)

    • @cameronm896
      @cameronm896 Před 3 lety

      Basically Mt. Everest for ASD folk like me. Can we have a vid about accepting that you'll never experience a relationship?

  • @pigeonseed3366
    @pigeonseed3366 Před 3 lety +89

    1. Steal their phone
    2. Run away
    There ya go. They’re chasing you now (:

  • @misskitty1134
    @misskitty1134 Před 3 lety +1

    I absolutely love this narrator's voice. It not only sounds nice but it calms me. Thank you voice

  • @Kalidreamine
    @Kalidreamine Před 2 lety +4

    These videos are so good. Researched correctly and thoroughly. I have a psychology minor and I’ve learned a lot of this in school too.

  • @munnabhaiya3993
    @munnabhaiya3993 Před 3 lety +3271

    How to make a girl chase you?
    Step 1 : Take a picture of her
    Step 2 : Laugh after looking at the picture
    Step 3 : Don't show picture to her
    Step 4 : RUN FORREST RUNN!!!😂😂😂

  • @enfynet
    @enfynet Před 3 lety +139

    “Try getting them to notice you first.”
    Hmmm ok
    “When you’re with your friends”
    Oh 😒

  • @cazzievivaldi9137
    @cazzievivaldi9137 Před 2 lety

    The illustration of this video is the cutest 🥺💕 i love everything about this video.. the voice, the music, the researches ❤️ keep up the good work! 🤗🤗🤗

  • @kay9kill
    @kay9kill Před 3 lety +2

    The little animations are always so friggin adorable

  • @_-classy-_8145
    @_-classy-_8145 Před 3 lety +301

    This hurts to watch after finding out my crush doesn't like me back...

    • @elchikano1719
      @elchikano1719 Před 3 lety +25

      Don't worry you'll find someone one day. I've been in that same boat before but you'll learn and grow from it. Thinking of it as a learning experience is better than thinking of it as rejection. Hope you have a good day!

    • @_-classy-_8145
      @_-classy-_8145 Před 3 lety +6

      El Chicano, thanks brooskie that helps

    • @ArtofBrandonTruster
      @ArtofBrandonTruster Před 3 lety +8

      Welcome to the club. None of my crushes like me, either, even when those crushes aren't exactly the most desirable mates. Maybe you should find someone that you don't like? At least that way, you can experience the joy of getting laid then watching in amazement as your mate crafts BS out of thin air as justification to not interact with you again.

    • @_-classy-_8145
      @_-classy-_8145 Před 3 lety +4

      the beans Art & Music, o u ch
      Dang dude, sorry to hear that.. Hope someone cool enough for you comes along, it'll happen eventually just chill and do your own thing. If you like someone be straight up so that you don't get too caught up in feels, (it really helps doge bullets) and just c h i l l, don't Frick around with people cause they can be going through tough shiz.

    • @ArtofBrandonTruster
      @ArtofBrandonTruster Před 3 lety +2

      @@_-classy-_8145 I like your choice of words. I'm good. Doing my own thing is all I know how to do anymore. Consequently, that keeps me indoors where I belong.
      Sorry to hear about your misfortune as well. I guess "it" happens to all of us at some point.

  • @MsDragoFire
    @MsDragoFire Před 3 lety +89

    Summary of the video:
    1. Compliment others 0:57
    2. Spend more time around your crush 1:46
    3. Play copycat and mime 2:16
    4. Say their name often 2:44
    5. Be capable and intelligent but still human 3:34
    6. Hang out with a group of friends 4:34
    Your welcome!

  • @jasperthesilly297
    @jasperthesilly297 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Being confident and at the same time having a bit of clumsyness sometimes is the best way for all genders.

  • @jacoblee208
    @jacoblee208 Před 3 lety +7

    Imagine being attractive enough to prove love exists

  • @worldwidehandsome52
    @worldwidehandsome52 Před 3 lety +30

    REMEMBER
    Be with a guy who respects you and your choices. You have your own self respect nd never let anyone break it no matter what! And remember to first love yourself no matter what

  • @rxdrxd8887
    @rxdrxd8887 Před 3 lety +44

    What i've noticed about myself the more that i dont care about someone the more they become into me... and its always that someone who s i least expected the one whos having crush on me

    • @NoNickname9090
      @NoNickname9090 Před 3 lety +15

      Absolutely this!! And it never fails. From friends, to people who have liked me. I just never see it coming. I be seeing what they mean when they say "don't look for love". LoL!! Because it's when I'm at my most peaceful secure state that people tend to... just like me. Maybe I need to be a bit more calm and stop being so anxious about life. Just let things... fall into place.

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 Před 3 lety

      @@NoNickname9090 Well said 👍

  • @bunkerdisc
    @bunkerdisc Před rokem

    This makes so much sense without thinking I naturally do what the person I’m talking to dose and they usually tell me they like me

  • @sarove13
    @sarove13 Před 2 lety +2

    I think the first one is called 'projecting', my therapist told me about it. If we like something about another person (both physically and psychologically), we also have those traits; even if you don't have much self-esteem.

  • @vi2448
    @vi2448 Před 3 lety +537

    "hangout with a group of friends"
    *Silently cries..*

    • @lowkeyrose8020
      @lowkeyrose8020 Před 3 lety +7

      Saanvi Pahari i’ll be ur group of friends😔✋

    • @vi2448
      @vi2448 Před 3 lety +2

      @@lowkeyrose8020 thankyou :)

    • @vi2448
      @vi2448 Před 3 lety +1

      @@lowkeyrose8020 yayyyy, i have a frienddd!!!!

    • @dldl5731
      @dldl5731 Před 3 lety

      @@vi2448 two* xd

    • @themanbehindtheslaughter8768
      @themanbehindtheslaughter8768 Před 3 lety

      Why don't you have friends?
      You can't be innocent on this one. Maybe you're not a likeable person.

  • @cloudanimal5209
    @cloudanimal5209 Před 3 lety +56

    The one about complimenting others makes so much sense! I always get a feeling that if someone is talking bad about others to me, they would talk bad about me to others. The opposite would make sense then too!

  • @somniumneon6233
    @somniumneon6233 Před 2 lety

    Not looking for someone to chase me, but those who follow me hate it when I better myself , and when I set the bar they have to meet me there to make a statement on my character and some just can’t. Some arent nearly as dedicated at changing themselves as I am for me. All in all this channel has become one of the most relevant channels for my growth when others want to cut me to size. Thanks for helping me recognize my own light , it better explains the bugs. (:

  • @GentleGeorge69
    @GentleGeorge69 Před 3 lety +8

    Me: Trying to spend time and engage in a conversation with crush on discord.
    Crush: *texting other people and be fully disinterested*
    Pain is the way of life.

  • @Psych2GoDE
    @Psych2GoDE Před 3 lety +73

    Mirroring the person you're talking to really works. Small gestures like tilting your head the same direction they do, or touching your hair/face, when they do can go a really long way!

  • @BlueRain508
    @BlueRain508 Před 2 lety +7

    "Spend more time around your crush"
    Crush: ignores my texts

  • @sibongilemapeka2240
    @sibongilemapeka2240 Před 3 lety +1

    Her voice is so soothing

  • @gardenoffaith_6983
    @gardenoffaith_6983 Před 3 lety +75

    “Do you find yourself subconsciously mimicking the gestures, movements, expressions of your crush every when you’re talking to them.”
    **snorts**
    Bold of you to assume I even look his way!

  • @t-poset-pose9827
    @t-poset-pose9827 Před 3 lety +41

    Reason why some comments are 2 or 1 week old is because they have member ship aka
    Early access to videos

  • @m1yanda
    @m1yanda Před 3 lety +32

    I dont even have a crush I just want people to be obsessed with me 😹

    • @Bug_Bait
      @Bug_Bait Před 3 lety +4

      Uh oh. Maybe your parents didn't give you enough attention?

    • @siyacer
      @siyacer Před 3 lety +2

      @@Bug_Bait definitely neglected

    • @sugaristhenewwhite
      @sugaristhenewwhite Před 3 lety

      @@Bug_Bait lmao

  • @whynot8169
    @whynot8169 Před rokem

    Than you so much. I already watched some videos about depression, it helped me a lot right now I can help myself when being alone.Love you.

  • @nevanread
    @nevanread Před 3 lety +69

    I'm 24 years old and I'm still single 😵. I have had no one chase me. I have decided to be single forever by choice, because I can't bear getting another rejection. I'm also an introvert, which doesn't help matters

    • @goatku
      @goatku Před 3 lety +7

      Sounds like you may be a fearful avoidant attachment style.
      How does being introverted not help things?

    • @didjaseemyjams1582
      @didjaseemyjams1582 Před 3 lety +1

      I'm 22, and an introvert as well. I've never been in a relationship before. But I only have myself to blame for that because I don't seek out enough oppurtunities to get to know guys. Rejection is hard, but you've got to pick yourself back up because that's life. I'm currently enjoying being single for now, but you have to be confident the right person will come along when the time is right.

    • @user-jv1qk4qf4f
      @user-jv1qk4qf4f Před 3 lety +5

      Aw it’s ok. Me too. I’m okay with that. Being in a relationship takes so much energy and commitment which I’m not capable of. ☺️ Let’s have fun as we are!

  • @elara6370
    @elara6370 Před 2 lety

    I love the random super strength crowd jump!

  • @macalagayelijahrej6255

    she has one of the calmest voices i've ever heard, it makes me wanna chase her

  • @Meikyu88
    @Meikyu88 Před 3 lety +71

    "Hang out with a group of friends"
    I'm the type that goes shopping alone 😂

    • @kareneveler9658
      @kareneveler9658 Před 3 lety

      Be concerned about u getting noticed

    • @Meikyu88
      @Meikyu88 Před 3 lety

      @Short& Sweet Aawww thanks for liking my profile picture haha and thanks for the tips too. 😂 Sry that I've been too busy and didn't notice the reply! Tbh I'm not upset about it, I quite enjoy shopping alone too but ya, maybe I should interact more with others.. I will think about it~ 🤔

    • @facedowngaming
      @facedowngaming Před 3 lety

      Same and I’m very extroverted!

    • @facedowngaming
      @facedowngaming Před 3 lety

      @Da Virus Think about it, you go alone and no one will bug you to buy this or that etc. saves more money in your pocket to spend on yourself!
      That’s a win.

  • @Yan-np5do
    @Yan-np5do Před 3 lety +173

    “Hang out with a group of friends”
    Coronavirus has left the chat

    • @bekaeast7346
      @bekaeast7346 Před 3 lety +3

      Update- coronavirus still hasn’t left the chat

    • @totall3371
      @totall3371 Před 3 lety +1

      Corona virus has entered the chat

  • @notkamui7573
    @notkamui7573 Před 2 lety

    thanks for the tips and her voice is so clear🥺 I wish I had a voice like her

  • @suparnadas3821
    @suparnadas3821 Před 2 lety +1

    The next time I start having a crush on someone,I will definitely follow these steps.

  • @swethayang4307
    @swethayang4307 Před 3 lety +496

    I did all of them
    And guess what?
    😎They chased me
    Away...😑
    Edit:- Thanks for the likes
    P.s- replies got me dead😂

  • @Rachael_Callista
    @Rachael_Callista Před 3 lety +12

    Did anyone like her voice....aww it's gold

    • @heysanyasmith
      @heysanyasmith Před 3 lety

      YES first thing I noticed! Accidental ASMr

  • @rissababy6479
    @rissababy6479 Před 3 lety +1

    I really love this channel so much 😍😍🧡

  • @jynnejam
    @jynnejam Před 3 lety +3

    woah I learned these effects mentioned in my ap psych class too! cool to see it in use here :)

  • @afloatgamer8582
    @afloatgamer8582 Před 3 lety +180

    Complement them
    Me who has social anxiety: hey... You look... Good today...

    • @Aaron47916
      @Aaron47916 Před 3 lety +26

      Hello I am in fact not a serial killer and I am pretty sure you are not one aswell, do you want to reproduce.

    • @tonypajares4660
      @tonypajares4660 Před 3 lety +11

      @@Aaron47916 What the crap 😂

    • @fallenangelmichael1276
      @fallenangelmichael1276 Před 3 lety +2

      Good

    • @ametsunami4070
      @ametsunami4070 Před 3 lety +8

      Me who is the living embodiment of anxiety: you.. you’re a human being..

    • @abtribal100
      @abtribal100 Před 3 lety

      ZodiacMoon What you think as Me!. Is not who u really are. You are the being experience life through what u call is me. Your thought is creating anxiety you are also not your thoughts

  • @mikochaa
    @mikochaa Před 3 lety +22

    What i learned from my experience that people likes positivity, like when you're being happy and smiling. I once got my crush liking me back after breaking up with his gf simply bc i seem so cheerful, well yes i was sad when he dated her but then i decided to just be happy and keep being nice to him, its a long story but he fell for me even tho judging from my appearance, im not that pretty. Being positive is actually attractive :D

  • @lisaboo5806
    @lisaboo5806 Před 2 lety +1

    The animations are so cute 😉💗 I always thought absence makes the heart grow fonder and this showed you should spend more time with the person 🤔

  • @honeybun3596
    @honeybun3596 Před 3 lety

    *Proceeds to compliment absolutely everyone*

  • @akt3037
    @akt3037 Před 3 lety +38

    How I see myself talking to my crush: hey how's it going?
    How I actually talk to my crush: is it mangos or mangoes?

  • @christopherrobertson7723
    @christopherrobertson7723 Před 3 lety +21

    When people say my name too often I feel like I’m in an interview instead of a conversation

  • @saloni2244
    @saloni2244 Před rokem

    Your voice is so beautiful and calm ❤

  • @zephyrar6642
    @zephyrar6642 Před 3 lety +1

    Your voice makes me wanna watch your videos even more.❤️❤️

  • @PlanetPsych
    @PlanetPsych Před 3 lety +92

    "People may not 'tell' you how they feel about you. But they always 'show' you". So be on the lookout:-)
    Have a great day!!

  • @Deez_nut_Z
    @Deez_nut_Z Před 3 lety +12

    I just love this woman’s voice, It’s so soft and nice and dreamy...

  • @playanakobi4407
    @playanakobi4407 Před 3 lety

    1.8M people needed to see this. Well best of luck people!

  • @user-os8nv4rt6x
    @user-os8nv4rt6x Před 2 lety +1

    This is the cutest thing I have seen in the whole week

  • @xisoxik861
    @xisoxik861 Před 3 lety +58

    ''Hangout with a group of friends"
    Me :having no friends
    Crying in corner..

    • @ArtofBrandonTruster
      @ArtofBrandonTruster Před 3 lety +2

      You don't need friends, you have yourself. Find a hobby that could be turned into a productive business venture and everything should be peachy.

    • @crazymadstriker766
      @crazymadstriker766 Před 3 lety +2

      @@ArtofBrandonTruster not really you are reminded of your lonliness every day you go back to school though having my new hobbies, starting to excerise makes me feel better school still reminds me of loneliness

    • @ArtofBrandonTruster
      @ArtofBrandonTruster Před 3 lety +1

      @@crazymadstriker766 Oh, no, you have to go to school? Not only can that be the loneliest place of all, it will actually cause you to learn at a slower pace. IF you have the means to self-educate, it might be a good idea to pursue that instead. Well, that is my opinion, anyway.
      What are your new hobbies? Are they anything you could turn into a viable business?

    • @crazymadstriker766
      @crazymadstriker766 Před 3 lety

      @@ArtofBrandonTruster My hobbies are learning spanish, playing the drums and excerising recently started that. I actually find a nice group of people so while im still lonely the feeling is less