8 Subtle Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think
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- čas přidán 7. 06. 2020
- Most people can get a good gauge of how attractive they are based on the compliments they get from others, how many relationships they’ve had, how popular they are on social media, and so on. But did you know that this isn’t always an accurate representation of your own attractiveness? Also, if you are curious, find out if you're compatible with someone here: • 7 Signs of an Incompat...
Credits:
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Rida Batool & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Evelvaii
CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
• Feynman, R. P. (2007). ‘What Do You Care What Other People Think?’: Further Adventures of a Curious Character. Penguin UK.
• Lammers, W. J., Davis, S., Davidson, O., & Hogue, K. (2016). Impact of Positive, Negative, and No Personality Descriptors on the Attractiveness Halo Effect. Psi Chi Journal Of Psychological Research, 21(1), 29-34.
• Burkley, M., Burkley, E., Stermer, S., Andrade, A., Bell, A. C., & Curtis, J. (2014). The Ugly Duckling Effect: Examining Fixed Versus Malleable Beliefs About Beauty. Journal of Social Psychology. 32 (5); 466-483
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Oof. A lot
Too many to count 😂
Almost all 😍
All of them. I need to go to sleep.
all the ones in april 2020 - june 2020
i went here to stroke my ego not to feel even uglier
HAHHAHA
YES
Same 😔😔😔😔
😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is exactly what I was thinking oh my gosh best comment
i came for hopeful validation and was only hurt further lmao
Mirza F Taher SAME 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
“When strangers look at you.”
Yea the baby in the grocery store definitely thought I was hot
Thanks for making me laugh.
I'm dying lmao-
Hello in fact babies stare at the people they find beautiful !
XD
@@mireillelabeille9962 Exactly!
"you don't get a lot of compliments"
Me: suddenly I'm ✨ attractive✨
Can relate.
@ Y/N you an army?...i am one 😁💜
If you don't get compliments, it doesn't mean you're hot or ugly. I've met lots of beautiful women and I haven't complimented them. A compliment says more about the person who gives the compliment than about you. Some people just want to be nice, others are simps.
@@Neo-Reloaded true. Though I've gotten a lot of compliments on my hair
Shrek closing book: Like thats ever gonna happen
That, my friend, is an underrated compliment.
Also Shrek: What a load of... *flushes toilet*
Some.... BODY ONCE TOLD ME!
LOL
I Don't know how but the older I Get the more my friends Get into Relationship's start Dating someone or Get married and I believe I'm Gonna Die single
😂
‘You don’t get a lot of compliments’
Wow, I’m a supermodel.
Wow I'm an ugly person
(I'm saying that I get alot of compliments for my green eyes lol)
When you're male:
I havent laughed for a week. Until now. Thank you
@@marze6292 I was what
@@afoxcatartvideos4877 uh? I don't understand sorry
“When strangers look at you”
So that guy in the white van thought I was cute?
😂😂
Imagine if the guy in the white van doesn't even want to look at you ...
😂🤣😂
Definitely
man you be geting out their
"stranger looking at you"
There judging you. They hate you. There annoyed with you.
Me:
W hating
Mine is always “they’re reading your mind” and I always have immediate internal panic as my thoughts start to bully me.
I don't think so to be honest, I'd rather think they admire something on me or that they didn't even actively notice me.
@@i_EatWafflesYumm 😅
I was walking down the street this morning feeling confident after watching this video. Everyone was looking at me and it made me feel like a handsome prince! They weren't looking at my face though, so I thought they were just being shy.
Until I got back home and saw my Jeans' zipper was still open...
Oof 😂💔
You must have an absolute monster down there
@@leonrussell9607 some people really can see the bright side of everything huh...
Oh lawd-
😂😂😂😂
“You don’t stay single for too long”
Me: *been single for too long*
By looking at your pic youre beautiful!
False perception. I think some ppl are just oblivious to others' feelings
Me: Always been single
*NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP*
I have a friend who I view as very attractive but she’s never really been in a proper long term relationship before. I think the reason a lot of people are single for a longer amount of time is because they choose to not be in a relationship. Either because they don’t find anyone they’d want to be in a relationship with or because they just don’t feel like being in a relationship at all. The right people will show up in different places in time, and one of them will probably the long lasting love of your life
Nobody:
Me: *comes here to get even the tiniest bit of validation*
*most people
I feel further depressed after watching the video.
So did I
I did the same but then realised how even this didn’t help and now will go back to starving myself lol
The poll is literally this comment section lmao
'People may think you are attractive if they wanna get close to you'
Me: nah, they just want to get homework answers
*_True, or try to copy off me, in which I'd rather just give them the wrong answers._*
This is what I’ve realized a while back is that sometimes the insecurities we see in ourselves when we look in the mirror don’t even cross anyone’s mind when they are talking with you. So don’t worry about it so much just be yourself and you’ll find someone will find you attractive.
Be insecure fucker
AMEN 🙏
"When strangers look at you"
Me: They're judging me. They're deeeeefinitely judging me.
Thats how I feel😅
SAME OMG
same
Me: Do I have a wedgie :0
Did my period finally arrive? Is my fly open? Is my hair messed up? Do I look fat in this jacket? Am I covering my bum?
-thought that run through my head
The only one I relate to is no one giving me compliments.
Here's a compliment:
@@user-zg3gh8xg9v Lol
I am so sorry :(( ur stunning amazing beautiful gorgeous pretty unique sweet and much more
@@kennywennyboo Aww thanks! Same to you 😁
@@kimberlysharkey8164 your very welcome and aww thank you! ✨
Lmao the only thing that applied to me was the no compliments part 😅😅😅
same
The fact that people in real life see us as what we look like in photos is killing me and I am crying
they actually see how you look in the mirror
@@Jefferywoodshoodie neither nor. Like I actually think they see us mixed (I mean they see us how we look in mirror but also in photos)
@@galactic_mapper bffr 💀💀
@@galactic_mapper they don't even see us how we look in photos 😹
@@Jefferywoodshoodie no. They see too
Conclusion: I'm not attractive
people call me cute but ive never been in a relationship and literally have 1 friend
@@willow2069 same except no one calls me cute ahaha 😂
(ha...)
@Tayebz Tayebz :3 Same.. Which is why quarantine was the best thing thats ever happened to me lol
Everyone is attractive in a way
Join the club
Video: * appears in my recommended*
Me: *dont do that. Dont give me hope*
Wow this is relatable
Sadly
@@CVSavagepersona exactly vrooo
@@Phantom_8522 you listen to xxxtentacion
I know a vro when i see one
@@CVSavagepersona yes i do lol
Dont give me hope just to crush it again
I usually think people stare at me because I’m ugly and they’re looking at me with disgust. Now I’m not sure about anything any more.
Don’t know if this will help, but this is just kinda how I look at things in general. For starters I’ve NEVER seen anyone and thought they looked bad, sure I’ve seen people I know or even that I don’t know and might notice they look tired or worn out but I don’t think they look bad. Everyone looks great, beauty is a very subjective thing and to me I view it as everyone is human, I never think about how others look (sometimes might compare to myself but quickly quiet those thoughts in my head). Another thing as well is how I think others view me. I try to think of how others would view me if they don’t know me based on how I unconsciously notice things about others. I don’t pay much attention to others looks so I assume most people just see me passing by and don’t think much about it, or if they do then I’d assume they’re probably noticing just simple things like commonly at school I have an instrument (or two) in my hands in the afternoon and it’s usually a bass clarinet or tenor saxophone so fairly large and noticeable. And I’d assume they might notice just the odd thing that might stand out passing by, outfit, facial expression, how you carry yourself, but even if they notice these things it’s probably self consciously so they’re not doing it on purpose and probably overall have a neutral opinion. Honestly I’ve always been a bit of an optimist, so I view the world as until you get to know the other person your opinion of them is going to be mostly neutral. Just think of how you view others you don’t know, and reflect that thinking onto how others may perceive you without knowing you. I also see it as even though people might seem popular or good at something doesn’t mean they aren’t insecure. I used to feel like I had nothing overly special about me I was just ‘normal’. Now I’ve come to realize that even now that I have something that I’m very passionate about (music) and have put myself out more in the community (through a local youth group) I haven’t really changed, I’ve just become more confident and sure of myself and I feel like that helps me feel like I have more personality than I used to (I used to think my personality was very bland, but it was just I didn’t open up and talk as much and was insecure and worried of judgement). I really hope this helps! This was just how I view the world around me from an optimistic point of view of a now (usually) fairly confident high schooler!
0:42 1. You dont get alot of compliments
1:02 2. When you do, it feels insincere
1:30 3. Strangers stare at you
1:52 4. People gravitate towards you
2:11 5. Others might act differently around you
2:37 6. People are surprised by your insecurities
3:02 7. Others tend to have strong feelings for you
3:26 8. You have alot of dating prospects
The only sign I related to was no one giving me compliments lmaooo
Same. And strangers stare at me
Hey guess what, to that person reading this, yes you, your gorgeous and beautiful and great and awesome and amazing and inspirational and deserve the world, I don’t even have to know you to know that. Keep it up!
same 😂
Alec Lu not necessary, most of the people who don’t get much compliments deserve the most compliments. That’s my motto! It’s seriously simple to not have to know them, they seem nice and I love complimenting people here and there! And if you have nothing else to do then insult people, then leave. This is a place for peace.
Same with me. People stare at me, and it creeps me the fuck out.And I don't get compliments either.
Let’s be honest, we all clicked on this video because we wanted to feel better about ourselves. ;-;
Yup, the more I watched the more I realised how ugly I am🙃😅
yes but it didnt work
Ilana facts😪
H-how you know bro
Facts ;-;
Listening to this made my heart basically stop because a lot of these apply to me. People tend to talk to me a lot and, despite being introverted, I make friends surprisingly easily. I feel like it may have been amplified this year because, after quarantine, I felt the need to stop looking like a burlap sack doll of muffins in a baggy hoodie and have been taking much better care of myself. It’s honestly really trippy to realize I might be pretty because I’m blind and can’t really tell if I’m good looking or not. Of course, I’ve felt my face before and have a general idea of my appearance, though people tend to fight about what color my eyes are, I don’t really have a concept of weather or not that’s pretty, y’know?
I’ve had people describe what I look like to me before, but it’s typically a friend or family member like my dad, grandma, or seatmate in one of my classes, so I’ve always thought being told I’m pretty was just someone being nice. I’m feeling a little high now thanks to this video and I think I’ll walk with my back straight and my chin up today.
"You don't stay single for to long"
I am single for about... 21 years. I must be really atractive to other people
"A lot of people stare at you"
**Me with anxiety and I feel like everyone is looking at me on public and it makes me uncomfortable**
Accurate
H_nta1 M_st3r *me, a person that looks extremely gay*
There are alot of strangers who stare at me but not because they find me attractive but something else. Plus I'm ugly as heck.
This is exactly what I'm thinking T.T
Me
Physc2Go:"Think about your most attractive freind."
Me:*Thinks about my most attractive freind.*
Physc2Go:"Do you always gush about how attractive they look?"
Me"YES!"
Physc2Go:"No,probubly not!"
Me:😅
Same 😂
Me:*thinks about my most attractive friend and immediately realises doesn't have friends*
When others stare at me I'm be like: What did I'm do wrong tell me! Am i ugly? Oh yeah they are judging me... Again... I'm so embarrassed 😳
*"strangers stare at you"*
ah yes they must be thinking why is that person walking like a newborn giraffe
I relate to this on a spiritual level
😂
Lmao me
i find it very anxious having that feeling
*I'm in this comment and I don't like it*
“You don’t get a lot of compliments” the reason why is because I’m ugly.
I compliment my ugly friends more
Ramen Noodles don’t call them ugly :(
Weeb i just said I compliment my ugly friends more.... I never called anyone ugly
Ramen Noodles u literally just called ur friends ugly again-
Black Listed ohhh I understand now whoops
These videos helped my self esteem a lot over the past few years. I adore the cute little animations!! 🥰
I needed this! Thank you so much!!
I clicked instantly to make myself feel better i guess
Same 💀
Same yo
I think thats the sense of this video :D
Ditto lol
I don't think im attractive at all and none of these signs click with me
I clicked on this for a confidence boost.
It didn’t work.
Same🙂
I only related to the very first one, and not relating to number 2 made me think, "yep I knew I was right about myself."
Same
Same, couldn't relate
Even though I can’t see you. Ur good looking. Period
Everybody is beautiful in their own way, some are beautiful and some are too beautiful, but we all are beautiful just the way we are and we ain't need to look a certain way to feel pretty, cause getting negative compliments for my looks, makes me feel more beautiful and helps me to love myself more than ever ❤️
Damn ittttt!!! 🙀 except for 4 and 8 all rest of the points are TRUE for me.
And "attractiveness can be intimidating" was an eye opener for me. I do feel like I find it hard to make friends with other women. I had a job where I noticed that fellow teachers started wearing makeup after I entered. And I do feel fellow women and friends see me as a threat often. I had no idea why before now.
me: *thinking i'm attractive.* The video : *think again*
me: thinking im unattractive. The video: yeah you right
@@tabithiajones2511 😭😭😂right
honestly, this video just solidifies my point that I'm-best case scenario-incredibly average looking lmao
@@weliveinasociety4629 and that's good enough my man, that's good enough.
Attractiveness is mostly confidence.
Video is telling you to think that you're more attractive than you think🤗
Turns out I'm not more attractive than i think.
😂 same here sis
@@kristoffersparegodt420
Ffs dont hit her with that line 😂😂😂
Edit: he deleted it but he said that shes a lil to young to wery about it 😂👌
@@kristoffersparegodt420 How would you know the age of someone on the internet, and who are you to gatekeep worrying about one's own appearance?
@@kristoffersparegodt420 you're beautiful 😂😂👋
Strangers stare at me and i never get compliments from anyone. Doesnt really sound like im too attractive :/
I love her quiet, soothing, beautiful voice.
thanks, that hella helped! so nice of you
I seriously realize just now that i'm not attractive because none of this happen to me. I just laughed tho
Oh my god HAHHAHHAHHAHA me too, i cried but laughed
same xD
Saaaaame 😅
Shut up. U are attractive and thatz a fact
That’s a mood
"everyone struggles with low self esteem sometimes"
.....sometimes???
i can’t even take a selfie of myself 😩😂😂😬
All the times*
@@mtreesgt4401 this is because you are smart...
You mean always 😑 literally 🙂
I read this comment as soon as they said that
basically the purpose of this video is to build unwanted over self confidence we all honestly need over anxiety in almost every situation. Thanks psych
Pros: I am 15 and have a jawline of steel and good facial features
Cons:I'm 4'10
And to this day I still doubt im gonna get a girl
Me to I also have jawline , high cheek bones and my height is 5'9 but still I don't get girls cuz I ignore them
@@FPS.bhargav no, u dont get girls cuz ur name is “Aimbot oP”
@@orangepeel7413 it's my online name bruhh -__-
Same...
Become a femboy
“strangers stare at you”
me: green haired living in a small town
HEY WHO SAYS YOU CAN’T BE CUTE AND HAVE GREEN HAIR 😆
I’m androgynous, so they stare.
And sometimes ask whether or not I’m a boy or a girl, like I can’t hear them.
Lol relatable but I wear "animal ears" (Yes I'm a furry) and I dye my hair green sometimes
Bruhhhhh, same! 🤣
I mean Deku from MHA has green hair and is a fecking BUNNY
"1. You don't get a lot of compliments"
I must be the most attractive person in the world then
Not more than me
I don’t even get wished on birthdays
^ i relate
Imaoooo same!🤣🤣
The only compliments I get are for my ugly dresses, from a girl who pities me :)
YOUR AMAZING 😤💓💖💯
I get stared at often, and most times in public people come to me to ask me questions, or directions. I never think much of these things because they usually don't hold a conversation and I tend to keep to myself. However, there are a few times where i've gone to get a haircut and beard trim only to notice the stylist doing my hair stutters or gets nervous afterwards when i'm paying, saying I look completely different. When more than one person tries to talk to me at one time, I focus on whoever started first or is saying thr most important thing (related to job or personal life) and I feel bad because sometimes I turn back to find the other person walked off.
Friendly reminder:
On the one about people easily warming up to you, if anyone reading this is insecure about their looks and thinks people don’t warm up to them easily because they’re not pretty enough, try to look at it in a different way! There very well could be another reason- for example, for me, social anxiety causes me to act very awkward and nervous in social situations, so people can easily pick up on that and may opt to just leave me alone. Don’t jump to conclusions thinking people are avoiding you because of your looks! People that do that are vapid anyways, and could be missing out on a friendship with a very lovely person just because they refuse to talk to you because of some surface level reason. I know how easy it is to get caught up in how you look and start worrying what other people think, and I really hope you can get out of that spiral. It hurts so much to think people could be judging you for something you have no control over. Just do yourself a favor and don’t assume people think you’re ugly when they look at you. And try to find ways to make yourself feel more confident, like a nice hairstyle, or smelly-good perfume. These things sort of help me with my worries, and I hope they can help someone else too.
Me before watching: haha I'm ugly
Me after watching: haha I'm still ugly
I feel you bro 😭I feel the exact same thing
Yeah, me too :,(
Cmon y’all!! We’re All Beautiful!
On the inside.
@@Adrian_Estando that hit hard lol😢👌🤣
I feel ya even though I’ve been in a relationship since June 8th, I still feel ugly because he didn’t make the first move and nobody made the first move for me EVER and he’s my second boyfriend so I hope he’s my soulmate
"Strangers stare at you"
My social awkwardness is shaking
Serahh Social same
MOOD
My social anxiety is SHOOK
I would have a panic attack if strangers were staring at me.
@@twilightlight_
I would've been like: "Is there something on my face or something..?"
The “passing by compliments” part might explain something, and yes I always think they’re insincere. That gave me some hope! Thank you!
When stangers stare at me i think they're judging me
Oml same 🤣🤣
lol BIG same!
Tbh I'm often looking at someone because I think they're cute or have a nice outfit, but I'm too awkward to tell them
Well when you're looking at someone in public, what are you usually thinking? :)
Same
“ You don’t stay single for too long “
Me who never dated anyone in my whole life.
Have you made an efford to find anyone?
I lost my virginity by being raped, and after that I was afraid of men more or less knowingly I put up guards towards men, i didnt have sex willingly until I was 30years old, after that Ive meet six or seven really nice guys and a few really bad ones too Im 37, obese, Intovert( like last six years Ive been home alone like in quarantee( only go out to buy food or, medical appointments, and visit my parents) with no job, but lots of hobbies, and creative thinking is my middle name, Im a booknerd with glasses. But there have been ppl who wanted my number just because I walked by and apparently glowed to them( I think that I was probably sweaty)
@@jayamilapersson4030 I'm sorry that happened to you. I am in a somewhat similar situation, and I'm wondering if you have any advice for getting over the fear of men?
The point about being intimidatingly attractive also applies to whether or not you are single. A lot of people don't try to get a date with someone they consider out of their league, so don't get too down!
Plot twist: commenter is only 16
Ashley Bogdan I’ve been hurt a lot over the years, to the point that this is probably the true reason why I am currently single. I don’t trust people very easily at all anymore, I get plagued with the thoughts that deep down they only care about themselves and I only matter to serve and satisfy them. I am so tired of being hurt and f’ed over. I see my brother- he is truly a great genuine caring person, a wonderful father, and husband to his wife. He has been my reminder in life that good men can actually exist. It’s hard because our painful experiences can F with our mindsets, and I try to not let other people’s mistakes cloud my judgement towards new people because it’s not fair for them obviously. While it is so hard to trust after all the hurt, I try to bear in mind there are technically some really good people like my brother, so keep an open (but still cautious! Lol) mind!
Even though ive been building my muscles and doing more face care routines, i still had i little tiny bit of insecurity in me, this kinda helped thankyou😁
"strangers staring at you"
Me: anxiousness activated TnT
"others may act differently towards you"
My insecure ass: that's because they pity me
@@rebeccaeverett8957 I apologise if this sounds mean in anyway but I don't think what you said was the best response. Maybe you weren't trying to be mean, but it came out that way. I'm assuming that you don't know Selena in real life, so what you are saying isn't right. Try to think about how what you say can be viewed. I'm not trying to be hurtful in anyway, I just want to support people who may need it.
Selena, I'm sure that you are attractive. I've heard someone say that the most insecure people are the most beautiful. Remember that no matter what, you are stunning! I know I'm just a random person on the internet but I wish you the best! Have a nice day/night!
Vannah Melon oh!!! I just realised I commented it on the wrong comment! 😂🤦🏼♀️
@@rebeccaeverett8957 Oh, I understand! Have an incredible night/day!
@@melonmastermind2854 you're such a nice person. We need more people like you in this world
“Have several people confessed their feelings for you?”
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
no.
I agree, this was a very good joke
oh god. feels bad man
😂😂
Ikr this channel obviously don't know their audiences
I love you
So here’s the thing. I think i’m not that attractive for most people, but I’m very attractive to myself ( not in a weird way lol ) so i’m very happy about how I look, it’s just like I want, exept of course for a few details but really nothing much. I say this because I have noticed that this is not the case for most people I have encountered’ whether they are conventionally attractive or not, almost all of them have shown a desire to look different or at least not being satisfied in the way their badly looks. I’m lucky I don’t have that ;) and at the end of the day, I really don’t care about being attractive to others, I like by body ( again, not in a weird way ) as it is and isn’t very interested in dating anyway
I can relate to all the 8 situations 😍 it means I really am ATTRACTIVE 🤯😎😂💟
Thanks!!
“Do people often confess their feelings for you?” Yes of course, Indian men in my Instagram DMs....................
You’re lucky... I don’t even have that much
@@alwaysbeingcalledaweeb772 don't worry I'm here " can I see bobs?" "Bobs please??" " Vag please" source: Indian men
Ugh same..and I'm Indian too 😅
Honestly though, I genuinely want to disown those 'bobs and veganers' 🤢
This is soo accurate
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Being 13 sucks
I want a bf or a person who likes me..... But no one except a few do... People tend to stay away due to my dark skin colour(I am wheatish tho... U know wheatish +a bit of a chocolate shade)
Me: entered the video feeling a bit of hope.
Also me: *leaves the video crying in ugly*
SUBTLE
Why this have 13 likes???????????
Same 😂😂😂
@Raman New yes, but I think that it's just angle and make up bc in real life I'm not pretty 🤷♀️
@@ianejesus7011 Just make sure people you like see you from this angle
@@maciejkleszczynski9808 I'm going to take that joke serious 🤣
Ok this really helped me realize maybe I'm not as bad as I think I am, maybe I just don't like people who always compliment me as much as I like people who don't, but that may just be because they're shy/jealous. That's why I always seem to get a lot of compliments by people I don't really compare myself with
1:06 That's me... everyone is always telling oh you're so pretty oh you look cute today, and i always get that when i don't even take time to look good that day and when i actually do, almost no one tolds me anything 💀. Also i'm a big introvert i'm an INTJ and people always want to talk to me or work with me , and i'm like: Wtf, i'm not even that friendly.
thanks for boosting my confidence 🤣
I was feeling confident until they said “you probably dated a lot of people”
Yeah that one got me too lol
My count so far is 0.
I know I'm good looking. Still at 0 dates because I grew up with crippling social anxiety and lack of confidence.
@@sunnishae5047 same
@@thewildhealer541 yeah me too but I don't think I'm good looking...Idk why...even if some people say that I look good, stare at me etc, I still think I'm ugly
Being single or in a relationship isn't a sign of attractiveness.
People kinda judge u based on ur looks when they first see u..... before u talk to them
The black Beauty i’m 20 and in my first relationship and i consider myself pretty. trust me if you’ve never been in a relationship that doesn’t mean you’re unattractive. someday you will find someone who appreciates you for you.
It doesn't necessarily means you are attractive, but struggling to find someone to date is a sign of unatractivenes. Usually guys have to make the first move anyway, but if you're always being reject, this is a sign, and when I say "always", I don't mean 1 successful attempt after 5 rehections, because this happens quite a lot for normal guys, but when you try 10, 15, 20 times and nothing...well, bad news
Rafael S. i used to look horrible one guy said i look like a cow’s asshole and now i’m dating a model. i got rejected many times in the past. things turn around if you’re going through puberty don’t worry things can change. if someone told me that a few years ago i wouldn’t have worried so much.
Rafael S. ...yep I was right
I don't get many compliments directly, but I sometimes hear someone say "This other person I talked to said you are cute/nice/awesome" and it always makes me so happy that this is what others think about me and tell their friends.
I get more direct compliments on internet chats though, as the partial anonymity allows people to express more without having to talk to someone directly and they are also very dear to me, because I often see myself as not very attractive or special.
The title gave me false hope and after watching the vid i can now confirm that it did indeed brutally crush my tiny bit of confidence left
"You don't stay single for long"
*me being single for 23 years and The last time someone confessed was ages ago.*
*update:* 26 years old and still single.
Marry me
Lol don't count your baby and childhood years as being single! That's cheating!.. Yes I know technically, you didn't have anyone but you weren't really supposed to. You should start counting on the years you actually TRIED getting a date hehe.
Very Relatable ...
@@svasianfilipiname6603 I never tried, I am so shy and guys never approach me lol
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo 😂
what I imagine people are thinking when they stare at me:
"why she look like that 😗"
What I imagine people are thinking when they stare at me: “why she look like tht 🤢”
✨What I imagine ppl think when the look at me: omg she's so tiny I could fit her in my teacup😙✨
People at my school: Stares at my friend because she attractive
People at my school: Stares at me because I make evil nun and chungus jokes and has a weird obsession with drawing cancer zodiac sign along with smiley faces and the word checkmate
Feathered Alpha you are one of a kind in mankind
@@Idk-ue9cf You're gorgeous inside and out
this totally helped, like a lot
thanks guys
This video is *SO* nice and helpful.
I used to think I was atractive
“When strangers look at you“
*Laugh in social anxiety*
😂😏
lol
strangers stare at me cause i’m a guy with long hair
it’s terrifying
@@connerstewart7155 hit me up mate
Me: looks at the mirror
Mirror : breaks in dust
Me: **Looks at the mirror**
My reflection: **breaks itself**
Me: looks in mirror
Also me: oh wait, I don't get mirrors.
you're all so attractive that the mirrors fell apart purely at the sight of you!
It does feel like that here and there...
Damn, your mirror just blipped
"People are surprised by your insecurities"
I have a story on this.
First year highschool and I became friends with a girl called, Prisha. A few weeks in and it's P.E. In the girls changing room I said to her, "I wish my ears were smaller." She said something along the lines of, "Wait, really? I'd kill to have some of your features like your ears!"
So true! I don't get complements because I'm AMAZING! They are so blinded by my beauty they have to look away.
“And strangers may stare at you bc your attractive“
The old men in public:👁👄👁
Edit:Daddy chill with all the likes it’s just a true fact-
xD
i- 💅😌🧚♀️
Bro IK it’s creepy but at the same it’s nice to get attention 😏
CottageFlowers 😭I mean ya but-
and those 9 year olds that stare you out-
Love your video. Well i can relate to a lot of stuff here and feel good about it😍☺
Me: I'm not attractive at all
This video: you're right
Fuuuuck 😂😂😂🤣🤣
XD
Same 😂
lmfao
Same man .-.
*3: Strangers Stare At You*
The kids that stare at me for no reason at public places: 👁👄👁
Relatable XD
If you were unattractive, those kids staring at you would tell you for sure. Kids are brutal
Same they look at me then hide 😔
Omg same! I dunno, maybe it’s the blood...
If_only_I_was_a_potato _I_would_rule_the_world huh???
This blew my mind, thank you
If I was in a relationship the most important part of it is that I can aways be around when I feel bad and they are there,
We help each other when needed,
They don't just like me for my body.
video: "people stare at you"
me: "only because they've never seen someone so ugly and they can't help but stare"
Same 🤣
That was deep🤭
Taili Cotoco I meannn it’s kinda true lol, in my case.
*Oof*
So funny 🤣
"You don't stay single for too long"
*I've literally never been in a relationship*
Same like my whole life
Guess im hideous
Same. Only questionable ppl approach me. Like elderly men at gas stations...
Same: (
SAME
Domo lol, I’ve gotten a sugar daddy, a guy into feet, some random chick sending me sexual gifs, another chick sending me inappropriate mirror selfies, you name it lol
The first and last pointers are so suitable for me😂
I genuinely felt happy after watching this video hahahaha. What happened during my life is that I have been evaluated a lot and when I got asked if a have a girlfriend they got really surprised when I said no. A lot of people really assumed my age, they claim I look younger than I am, a lot of girls like me and really said that I am cute and attractive, also they like my pictures a lot and they mentioned sex. Also I am so smart wich makes me even more attractive (These claims are not mine, legitimately I have been told that)
Beautiful people: I'm so ugly.
Me who is ugly: ArE yOu SuRe AbOuT ThAt
@Cila DelaCroix 😑 my mom is a very attractive women and is been asked out my strangers on the regular, yet she is so insecure, she thinks she's too skinny, just because you think someone looks attractive, doesn't mean jack shit to them, if they perceive themselves one way, that how they perceive themselves, their actual looks have little to nothing to do with what they're insecure about.
I doubt your “ugly”. Take care of yourself and don’t put yourself down
HAH! you're that beautiful person. Im the ugly one HAHAHA
@Cila DelaCroix You seem to hate pity, and arrogance. With a fine dash of overestimation of yourself.
And finally, faking, of course.
@Cila DelaCroix so basically I am a dumb bitch ;-;
POV: You came here to boost your self-confidence.
POV: you came here to boost your confidence only to realize you don't relate to any of these now you feel worse than ever and you're still ugly
Yes... Didn't work out.
Plot twist: its in my reccomendation
@@minudoru same
h a h
Before quarantine I would never get compliments, no one had a crush on me at least that I know of. And now 5 months into school , I get compliments all the time like multiple a day , on my outfits, my hair , my personality, anything tbh. About 6 people have confused to having feelings for me , I don’t notice it when people look at me but other people have told me like omg did u see the way that guy or girl look at u . So idk 😭
I literally receive compliments all the time. Never thought i would be that disappointed about that, lol
“Has anyone seemed dazed and confused around you?”
Looks at my stoner friend who is currently lying on my bed trying to find her feet
...Yes?
PFFFT 💀
Z3XKAGE she started singing Jump by BTS but she speaks Spanish/ English and when she’s high she switches to Spanish so it sounded a little... off...😂
@@lunchablecheese5931 lmao that's amazing
HAHAHAH
Jimin sneezing is my fucking religion your username is * sharp inhale * LoVeLy LoVeLy LoVeLy😂
"Strangers look at you"
Me, with social anxiety: *they're judging me*
Same...
Agree
^
Same
Yeah, same
Today I was totally depressed coz someone said me that I look ugly ... Bt now after watching this video it really feels better ... Thank you so much 💕✨
Wow thanks that actually helped me out a lot. 😀
“Think of your most attractive friend”
Me: *i don’t have any friends*
Oof I felt this one
Oof-
Samesies
It's okay! Friends take up all that extra time you could be reading or watching your favorite shows. They require a lot of energy with their conversations, texts and going... outside. Just be your own best friend! You'll have lots in common! No concerns about talking behind your back! The talking to yourself will keep those other FAKE friends away! Yay, I'm helping others! Oh, better stop before they try to friend me.
@@eumorphavonobscura2753 aww thanks I was just joking but I love your support
Welcome to another episode of "Where quarantine has led me today"
ARMY that ONCE BLINKed ARMYYYYY
@@m_uh HIIIII FELLOW ARMYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
Oh no..
@@Gwapo ???
Seeing this made me remember something, something ridiculously horrible.
wow! i literally don't relate to any of these now my self esteem just hit rock bottom. now i understand that being complimented as pretty/beautiful most of the time are all just fabricated lies to make me feel good even tho it shouldnt
OMG THANK YOU FOR USING THE RIGHT PUSAB FONT
"you don't stay single for long"
Me: laughs in have never been in a relationship
You dont get one cuz you have an anime as your prof pic.90% of the comment section does infact.
And they also complain the same.
@@azmilalon6448 I don't have an anime pfp
One question: WhErE aRe My BoYfRiEnDs?¿
Because you might be still too young in terms of age and maturity I'm 22 and i think i can date woman when I'll be 30 now it just feels like i can't handle the date thing i need to become mature first lol
hahaha same
@@azmilalon6448 it's because weebs are lonely being
Man this says a lot about my looks.
*None of these apply to me.*
gottemm
i bet they do
Same
Truuu
So you DO get a lot of compliments...🧐🧐
Wow thank you for this psych2go because sometimes people just come up to me and idk why. 😭 and sometimes people stare and I don’t know why and sometimes I get anxious.