5 Signs You're Attractive (Even if You Don't Think So!)

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    Have you ever wondered if you’re attractive? How can you tell if you are attractive, even if you don’t see yourself as so? Well, here are a few signs you really are attractive - even if you don’t think you are!
    Did you know that your flaws can actually make you more attractive? Watch this video to find out more about this: • 8 Flaws That Actually ...
    Writer: Michal Mitchell
    Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Animator: Hannah Roldan
    CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References:
    Eyal, T., & Epley, N. (2010). How to Seem Telepathic: Enabling Mind Reading by Matching Construal. Psychological Science, 21(5), 700-705. doi.org/10.1177/0956797610367754
    Swanson, A. (2019, April 29). How to tell if other people think you're hot, according to science. The Washington Post. www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/04/02/how-to-tell-if-other-people-think-youre-hot-according-to-science/.
    Brown, L. (2020, December 8). "Am I attractive?" Psychology says you might be hotter than you think. Hack Spirit. hackspirit.com/psychologist-explains-youre-probably-attractive-think/.
    Herrin, T. (2019, September 15). How To Tell If You Are Attractive: 9 Ways You're More Attractive Than You Think. Regain. www.regain.us/advice/attraction/how-to-tell-if-you-are-attractive-9-ways-youre-more-attractive-than-you-think/.

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +7241

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  • @TheFrosty0ne
    @TheFrosty0ne Před 8 měsíci +7320

    Let’s be honest, we clicked on this to try and believe we were attractive but then this just proved we aren’t

    • @pepsteprep
      @pepsteprep Před 8 měsíci +228

      I feel called out.

    • @erikcopeland
      @erikcopeland Před 8 měsíci +47

      I don't know, the lady's always act nervous and awkward around me 😂. But whenever we do talk, it's usually nice... and then lasts only a day :/
      😢🔫

    • @TheFrosty0ne
      @TheFrosty0ne Před 8 měsíci +34

      Anytime I talk to a girl it’s straight to the friendzone, which is an ok place tbh

    • @friendlyfire6629
      @friendlyfire6629 Před 8 měsíci +5

      it proved that i am for me

    • @TheFrosty0ne
      @TheFrosty0ne Před 8 měsíci

      @@friendlyfire6629 lucky

  • @ranu304
    @ranu304 Před 2 lety +7136

    *Someone: "Stares at me"*
    *me: "Stares back"*
    *my mind:"You want staring contest punk"*

  • @juancabardo21
    @juancabardo21 Před 3 měsíci +1677

    I used to think I wasn’t attractive. But after watching this video, I can confidently say that I am not attractive

  • @miaugapac456_ofc
    @miaugapac456_ofc Před 2 měsíci +306

    I don't even post photos on social media 💀💀

  • @FriedRice3519
    @FriedRice3519 Před 2 lety +19547

    "they may be awkward or nervous around you"
    Everyone when I enter the room: *ABSOLUTE CONFIDENCE & CHARISMA*

    • @bavii3352
      @bavii3352 Před 2 lety +144

      Wot is charisma-

    • @ancientevil0417
      @ancientevil0417 Před 2 lety +280

      The bard went "Nat20 for everyone on confidence!"

    • @neelchaudhary6182
      @neelchaudhary6182 Před 2 lety +74

      @@bavii3352 It basically means a lot of energy

    • @YourFaulty
      @YourFaulty Před 2 lety +323

      @@neelchaudhary6182 not at all lmao. Charisma is charm (ability alter others perception of as a good or attractive person emotionally and physically)

    • @OGLocDogg0978
      @OGLocDogg0978 Před 2 lety +14

      Same

  • @ShortHax
    @ShortHax Před 2 lety +80178

    “You catch them staring at you”
    Me: “Oh no, they’re definitely laughing at me inside their head”

  • @vito6197
    @vito6197 Před 2 měsíci +164

    Thank you for making me feel even worse by confirming I'm no where near attractive. This video is great, it helped me a lot. 😁

  • @CaptainAmerica-yq7bz
    @CaptainAmerica-yq7bz Před 2 měsíci +54

    My low self esteem cracked into infinite dimensions thinking that i am attractive

    • @Mini_Noob22
      @Mini_Noob22 Před měsícem +1

      Your self steem is so low it looped back around and you now think your attractive? Sound like me fr!

  • @brianl8481
    @brianl8481 Před 2 lety +30838

    Thank you for confirming that I’m unattractive. Absolutely none of those apply to me.

    • @Ken-qd1fk
      @Ken-qd1fk Před 2 lety +899

      same

    • @prometeuszpokrywka7341
      @prometeuszpokrywka7341 Před 2 lety +662

      same :/

    • @d1ts321
      @d1ts321 Před 2 lety +417

      Are you the person in your pfp? If so, you look pretty good

    • @brianl8481
      @brianl8481 Před 2 lety +259

      @@d1ts321 The one on the right, the guy, and that’s an older picture.

    • @d1ts321
      @d1ts321 Před 2 lety +190

      @@brianl8481 Then you look very cute!

  • @Lopolin_LP
    @Lopolin_LP Před 2 lety +3481

    "Look at a photo from a few months ago"
    Me who never takes selfies: Yes.

    • @kojeta3200
      @kojeta3200 Před 2 lety +191

      That's me. Not only selfies, but i never take photos too. I don't even remember the last time i took one, but i'm sure as hell it has been more than 3 years now

    • @leperiv4378
      @leperiv4378 Před 2 lety +67

      "months ago" translate to YEARS ago

    • @user-xp7nm8hv3k
      @user-xp7nm8hv3k Před 2 lety +17

      I dont even have a phone or anything to take photos lol

    • @LotFrat
      @LotFrat Před 2 lety +62

      I like taking photos, but not being in one

    • @punpun5888
      @punpun5888 Před 2 lety +20

      Wow, me too, years ago, I don't even like seeing me on them :/

  • @Marcin_Burek
    @Marcin_Burek Před 2 měsíci +43

    1. I always looked ugly.
    2. People around me don't care.
    3. I get no messages.
    4. Nobody stares at me.
    5. Never got complements.

  • @LOLO-POCHO.
    @LOLO-POCHO. Před 2 měsíci +26

    According to me beauty doesn't belong to me because i feel so uncomfortable when i speak to someone, i often struggle to make eye contact just because of my looks, the thing comes in my mind while speaking to someone is "what he/she thinks about my looks?" I lost my confidence!

  • @jumpinthecadilac8388
    @jumpinthecadilac8388 Před 2 lety +8478

    "they may be awkward or nervous around you"
    Me who's awkward and nervous around anyone: *chuckles nervously*

    • @KATapiller
      @KATapiller Před 2 lety +108

      After I read this i stared at your name and pfp for about 20 minutes singing trying to find the video again lol

    • @Crystalline1970
      @Crystalline1970 Před 2 lety +71

      JUMP IN THE CADILAC
      🤣
      Now I wanna watch a tommy vlog 😂

    • @jjosesanchez646
      @jjosesanchez646 Před 2 lety +33

      @@KATapiller that’s what I like, by Bruno Mars

    • @mariagloria5775
      @mariagloria5775 Před 2 lety +40

      I am in love with you now because of the name and the pfp

    • @KATapiller
      @KATapiller Před 2 lety +17

      @@jjosesanchez646 I know but I meant the one with tommy lol

  • @cloudstrike8727
    @cloudstrike8727 Před 2 lety +3972

    “You judge yourself more accurately over time”
    Me looking at old photos and thinking I’m ugly as fucc
    🗿

  • @HandleHandle145
    @HandleHandle145 Před 3 měsíci +41

    I literally can't watch a single video of these guys even if I tried hard because I'm 2 phrases in and her voice is already making me wanna sleep deeply

    • @jahrusalem3658
      @jahrusalem3658 Před 2 měsíci +3

      It's very soothing. I kinda want an ASMR of her guiding us through meditation exercises or some shit.

    • @alLEDP
      @alLEDP Před 2 měsíci +1

      Double speed is the trick

    • @Wattson19
      @Wattson19 Před 24 dny

      It's the opposite for me. Her voice is just so sweet and soothing that i wish to hear more of her.

  • @dennisdixon4505
    @dennisdixon4505 Před 2 měsíci +17

    This helped so much with realizing how much that people lie to me

  • @namnam_23
    @namnam_23 Před 2 lety +8745

    "Just because you don't receive compliments does not mean you're not attractive"
    Me: Don't do that. Don't give me hope.

    • @davidjamesmagtibay6065
      @davidjamesmagtibay6065 Před 2 lety +372

      I mean I get compliments and they don't help at all, I feel like they're more damaging in a way since they tell you that your handsome, cute, smart, etc. you feel more insecure since you don't feel like you fit those descriptions.

    • @sn0wfa11s
      @sn0wfa11s Před 2 lety +102

      If that's u in the pfp then I'd like to say that ur really beautiful and gorgeous

    • @namnam_23
      @namnam_23 Před 2 lety +62

      @@davidjamesmagtibay6065 I'm sorry you feel that way but what you said is really relatable

    • @namnam_23
      @namnam_23 Před 2 lety +29

      @@sn0wfa11s Thanks :)

    • @zaos7321
      @zaos7321 Před 2 lety +48

      @@davidjamesmagtibay6065 yep that's exactly how it is
      I was told something like I'm the best looking friend they have and I instantly think of that mutual friend who looks twice as good as me like bruh

  • @Alteronx
    @Alteronx Před 2 lety +4736

    "You might catch them staring at you"
    Reflection in mirror: *walks away*

    • @holdenjoye495
      @holdenjoye495 Před 2 lety +152

      damn. I felt that. my mom felt that. my neighbor felt that. my cat felt that. everybody felt that.

    • @randomstranger7139
      @randomstranger7139 Před 2 lety +28

      it be like that~

    • @livis2565
      @livis2565 Před 2 lety +6

      OMG KAKAKAKKAKAKAKAKAKA

    • @azrael2855
      @azrael2855 Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/aEycMSVuuu8/video.html

    • @skinnywizard6351
      @skinnywizard6351 Před 2 lety +6

      Heyo.
      That's happened to me too.
      Ya ain't alone

  • @sandamaliwijesinghe5726
    @sandamaliwijesinghe5726 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I really love your voice, like it is so calm

  • @unechtertommy
    @unechtertommy Před 3 měsíci +3

    YOU ARE THE BEST FOR THAT INTRO I SAW THAT STARDEW VALLEY SCREEN❤❤

  • @xVovex
    @xVovex Před 2 lety +3961

    "Confidence is the most attractive part in a person!" Well I'm fucked.
    Edit: i am doing much better and feel like god

  • @Xuejinyuan
    @Xuejinyuan Před 2 lety +6064

    "If you're attractive, people might act nervous or awkward around you."
    Me: "So I might be-"
    Nah fam...that's you being awkward causing them to be awkward.

    • @someoneveryunimportant9136
      @someoneveryunimportant9136 Před 2 lety +207

      And me being awkward because I am very shy causing them to be awkward because they treat me superior causing me to be awkward because they are stiff while with me causing them to be awkward because I am not really reacting to their joke causing me to be awkward because they might think I’m a weirdo causing them to be awkward because they don’t know what to do causing me to be awkward because my mom is here to pick me up causing them to be awkward cause no one wants to greet an adult stranger, right?

    • @whocares4783
      @whocares4783 Před 2 lety +51

      @@someoneveryunimportant9136 an endless cycle

    • @zib69420
      @zib69420 Před 2 lety +31

      @@someoneveryunimportant9136 an endless cycle

    • @strwbrrys
      @strwbrrys Před 2 lety +25

      @@someoneveryunimportant9136 an endless cycle

    • @itzmari3234
      @itzmari3234 Před 2 lety +22

      @@someoneveryunimportant9136 an endless cycle

  • @The_King_Of_Leeches
    @The_King_Of_Leeches Před 3 dny

    I have experienced all of these HOWEVER I think a big one is the first point which is seeing myself as more abstract. I think that looking in a way that showcases yourself as what others would say at a later time is important but also understanding ur current vibe is important. Just remember, YOU MATTER AND YOU ARE LOVED (:

  • @hmingthanavanchhawng9993
    @hmingthanavanchhawng9993 Před 2 lety +2803

    Me: "So I'm actually attractive?"
    People around me: "Well yes but actually no".

  • @distrouse8356
    @distrouse8356 Před 2 lety +2277

    "You're not ugly, you're just not your type"
    -idk some old geezer or smth

    • @diebackmischung503
      @diebackmischung503 Před 2 lety +20

      r/wooosh

    • @aarabhikrishnas.p.3344
      @aarabhikrishnas.p.3344 Před 2 lety +45

      Oogway the guy is oogway master oogway

    • @pan3989
      @pan3989 Před 2 lety +8

      Thank you

    • @shivarampersaud6799
      @shivarampersaud6799 Před 2 lety +11

      That's helpful though. I find myself comparing myself to a few types of good looking dudes, but not other good looking dudes, and this makes sense

    • @distrouse8356
      @distrouse8356 Před 2 lety

      @@shivarampersaud6799 yeah thats true just remember to not compare yourself with anyone either good or bad

  • @-XxENIA-
    @-XxENIA- Před 4 dny +1

    Thank you for letting me know that I am not attractive in any aspect at all, it really helps

  • @user-go5mq7mv2o
    @user-go5mq7mv2o Před 2 měsíci +1

    I just realized I love this channel so much, I watched the whole sponsor.

  • @jealous8024
    @jealous8024 Před 2 lety +2970

    "People will be awkward or nervous around you"
    Everyone: is extremely comfortable around me
    Me: ;-;

    • @sunflower8227
      @sunflower8227 Před 2 lety +204

      at least that means you're approachable i guess lol

    • @jealous8024
      @jealous8024 Před 2 lety +84

      @@sunflower8227 wow that made me happy lol

    • @sn0wfa11s
      @sn0wfa11s Před 2 lety +73

      Personally, I would rather interact with ppl that I feel comfortable and safe with. If I'm intimated by someone then I'm likely to have like 3 conversations a year with them. I would take that as a compliment ngl

    • @jealous8024
      @jealous8024 Před 2 lety +28

      @@sn0wfa11s I'm actually someone who has social anxiety and I'm a social introvert, but my friends always say that they can easily open up to me lol. And idk what to say to them when they do T-T

    • @sn0wfa11s
      @sn0wfa11s Před 2 lety +16

      @@jealous8024 aww yeah I was the same way. Maybe I don't struggle the same way you do but I used to be super awkward and didn't have the best social skills. But really, what can you say other than a thank you? Others may express their thankfulness with a lot more words and actions, but in the end they're still expressing their thankyou's -something that you still can achieve even with 2 words. It's okay! You might repeat that moment in your head for the rest of the month but it's still a moment of just few seconds. If a breathing exercise helps you then do that, if screaming helps you then do that, if hugging helps you then do that. At the end of the day you're still loved❣️

  • @svetozar3396
    @svetozar3396 Před 2 měsíci

    Great animation and awesome voice, it kinda brings a whole new vibe to a regular old 5 reasons for X, Y, Z video. Not sure i agree with all the points made but realistically when do you find someone who does? Nice video def subscribing.

  • @pain8068
    @pain8068 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Your voice is so beautiful 😍 and calming ✨ ❤

  • @rest1585
    @rest1585 Před 2 lety +4544

    “Confidence makes you attractive”
    Narcissists: I knew it, I’m freaking gorgeous.

    • @CartoonyPirate
      @CartoonyPirate Před 2 lety +235

      That- I-
      I can't even argue with that

    • @CartoonyPirate
      @CartoonyPirate Před 2 lety +102

      That fits them so well! 😅😂

    • @ShazyShaze
      @ShazyShaze Před 2 lety +206

      Narcissists tend not to be all that confident. It's more of a defense mechanism.

    • @user-cu3mf6gi2r
      @user-cu3mf6gi2r Před 2 lety +54

      i am freaking gorgeous,and i dont care if you dont agree because your wrong.

    • @rest1585
      @rest1585 Před 2 lety +6

      @@ShazyShaze Booo, don’t ruin the joke smh.

  • @joshuatumambo5674
    @joshuatumambo5674 Před 2 lety +10140

    "Just be yourself bro! Be confident in yourself!"
    - Attractive person

    • @Nalhy
      @Nalhy Před 2 lety +815

      "Just talk to women bro lmao"

    • @kingb3arz198
      @kingb3arz198 Před 2 lety +80

      💀

    • @DarkSentinel52
      @DarkSentinel52 Před 2 lety +246

      i cant be my self i will have alot of consequences when i will do that

    • @cheridoris
      @cheridoris Před 2 lety +15

      @@Nalhy LMAO

    • @cheese9186
      @cheese9186 Před 2 lety +16

      I cant because i have cleft and my face is messed up WHAT DO I DOOOOOO 😢

  • @superstaridol427
    @superstaridol427 Před měsícem +1

    I do think that I am attractive for sure at the same time being complimented by others really makes me speechless but Nevens boasts my concordance through the roof.

  • @Alphaminx
    @Alphaminx Před 2 měsíci

    Legitimately some of this I knew, some of it I question if it's true, and some of it really stood out. The social media one doesn't apply to me due to my lack of posting ever on it, but the other ones were oddddddly true.

  • @scum3981
    @scum3981 Před 2 lety +1244

    "you recieve a lot of messages on social media"
    my DMs: *dryer than california in a drought*

  • @dambqi4217
    @dambqi4217 Před 2 lety +5423

    1. You think that your older self looks better.
    2. People get nervous around you.
    3. You get a lot of messages from social media.
    4. You catch them staring at you.
    5. You don't get much compliments when you expect them.
    Edit: Why do I have so many likes.. the creator commented!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +1056

      So fast lol

    • @trevorsj
      @trevorsj Před 2 lety +154

      The speed of light

    • @omoriinreallife
      @omoriinreallife Před 2 lety +40

      isn't there supposed to be 6 of them?

    • @trevorsj
      @trevorsj Před 2 lety +58

      @@omoriinreallife yeah they’re still editing their comment
      Edit 2: the title said 6 reasons even though there are 5 lol

    • @wiseguy240Winston
      @wiseguy240Winston Před 2 lety +86

      Ah so I am ugly no news there lol 🤣

  • @thornAKAsputnic
    @thornAKAsputnic Před 2 měsíci

    Love how we got 6 signs instead of the five from the title, funny yet a fun surprise :)

  • @fuffyloveful
    @fuffyloveful Před 23 dny

    😊thank you for making me feel better about myself

  • @MrLeahparonid
    @MrLeahparonid Před 2 lety +5727

    Psychology: You are attractive if you're not receiving any compliments.
    Me not receiving any compliments ever: I Am PERFECTION.

    • @joshabrillo4237
      @joshabrillo4237 Před 2 lety +135

      So beautiful.. Your sister, i mean

    • @NecroBecco
      @NecroBecco Před 2 lety +70

      hi im not sure how you identify. you have mr in your name so I just wanted to say that in case you're a boy/man, boys/men receive far fewer compliments than women. it's a really unfortunate feature of our society. if you're a girl/woman, the older you get, the less often you receive compliments in my opinion. if you identify in a different way, that adds a whole other layer of complexity in the way people interact with someone. I dont know, just wanted to day that most people think positively of others but never say their compliments out loud. hope you'll find the confidence to see yourself as cute/pretty/beautiful/handsome/attractive, nice-looking soon :)

    • @Toiyoki_
      @Toiyoki_ Před 2 lety +28

      @@NecroBecco please tell me that was satire

    • @Nai_101
      @Nai_101 Před 2 lety +18

      @@Toiyoki_ unfortunately i don't think it is

    • @Toiyoki_
      @Toiyoki_ Před 2 lety +12

      @@Nai_101 and people wonder why I don’t like talking about how I’m in the community

  • @comidyseeker
    @comidyseeker Před 2 lety +15713

    Before watching this: "I'm pretty sure I'm good looking to some people."
    After watching this: "I now have multiple examples that prove that my best chance at romance is in a long distance relationship with a blind woman."

    • @gokukakarot6410
      @gokukakarot6410 Před 2 lety +203

      same

    • @venm2313
      @venm2313 Před 2 lety +115

      same xD

    • @carbon...
      @carbon... Před 2 lety +158

      Dude if u actually think of urself that way
      Don't do that, it's unhealthy
      You'll find someone 💯✌🏻

    • @venm2313
      @venm2313 Před 2 lety +107

      @@carbon... dude i dont match any of the points xD

    • @comidyseeker
      @comidyseeker Před 2 lety +175

      @@carbon... That's very nice of you to say, but dont worry, I was just making a joke. It IS a bit concerning that is seems others truly felt dejected by this video though. The video is misleading since its ONLY five signs of POTENTIALLY being attractive. Romance is far more complex than an oversimplified video can summarize. And it's a CZcams video. Not an authority on life.

  • @BatBrendo8515
    @BatBrendo8515 Před 2 měsíci

    The first point with the photo i didnt feel at all. Until a few months ago, probably as an effect of of my hard work paying off. In a year i went from no friends to being friend with almost anyone i meet, but i am still critical of myself in the old pictures i link it as a diffrent part of my life almost like another person

  • @Cutiecore-rc1qx
    @Cutiecore-rc1qx Před měsícem

    Your voice is so nice I'm sorry I had to say it.plus thank you for helping ❤

  • @ComicalRealm
    @ComicalRealm Před 2 lety +38159

    "Just be confident. I think confidence is the most attractive part of a person" - Courage the Cowardly Dog

    • @blegh4700
      @blegh4700 Před 2 lety +455

      I just saw you from a helluva boss murch video

    • @sadefada
      @sadefada Před 2 lety +511

      so... inspirational...

    • @SillySamWho
      @SillySamWho Před 2 lety +152

      LMAOO

    • @mikeyy00
      @mikeyy00 Před 2 lety +295

      but what if im too confident and ugly tho TwT

    • @onceu17
      @onceu17 Před 2 lety +225

      Courage can talk?

  • @trashtrance1050
    @trashtrance1050 Před 2 lety +1026

    “Acting nervously” yeah they are totally not terrified

    • @commanderlackgaming1230
      @commanderlackgaming1230 Před 2 lety +17

      They shoulb be terrified of me at school, i walk aeound with a heavy blunt weapon that doubles as a water bottle

    • @HJL-15007
      @HJL-15007 Před 2 lety +8

      Ah yes, waterbottle hammer.

    • @itzsnowy_claus5022
      @itzsnowy_claus5022 Před 2 lety

      I mean I am scary so yea, TOTALLY NOT NERVOUS. HEEHEE:3

    • @basedmanlet8726
      @basedmanlet8726 Před 2 lety +5

      Im on a lethal dose of anabolics and horse tranquilizer

    • @dragondestroyer8465
      @dragondestroyer8465 Před 2 lety +4

      @@basedmanlet8726 I have cords and chemicals running through my body like Bane from Batman, we are not the same

  • @AKsprayndye
    @AKsprayndye Před 2 měsíci +1

    I can relate to every point except , social media messages

  • @AWA_zzz
    @AWA_zzz Před 2 měsíci +3

    WOW THANKS! THANKS TO THIS I CAN CONFIRM I AM NOT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!

  • @matushka__
    @matushka__ Před 2 lety +1084

    “You catch them staring at you”
    Me: "So about that 80 year old woman on the bus..."

  • @prettydead5542
    @prettydead5542 Před 2 lety +24222

    This helped me assure myself I'm not attractive and how kind the people around me have been with me

  • @cheescakes48
    @cheescakes48 Před 2 měsíci

    uhm thanking u so much feel relieved now

  • @samppaax
    @samppaax Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you this really boosted my very low self confidence

  • @nkuowu
    @nkuowu Před 2 lety +1661

    ''Confidence is the most attractive part in a person!"
    Me with anxiety : understandable. have a great day.

    • @STEELEAGLES2019
      @STEELEAGLES2019 Před 2 lety +9

      @@oddballjake229 thanks sunshine

    • @stonecat676
      @stonecat676 Před 2 lety +6

      Confident people have anxiety too, I know this.
      We just have more experience dealinh with it.
      High functioning anxiety, if you will.

    • @josefstalin4526
      @josefstalin4526 Před 2 lety +4

      Confidence nothing more than cope

    • @slothcartoonz7274
      @slothcartoonz7274 Před 2 lety +1

      Dude it works really well, just start saying what’s up to random people and saying hi more and smiling at them it helps with social intelligence

    • @Demonic_Pulsar
      @Demonic_Pulsar Před 2 lety +5

      @@slothcartoonz7274 i tried saying hi to some dude i almost got stabbed

  • @Unknown-vw8wc
    @Unknown-vw8wc Před 2 lety +2578

    "You catch them staring at you"
    Everyone: *Oooh, this is a nice looking wall*

    • @SkiIz9989
      @SkiIz9989 Před 2 lety +73

      “Damn these some nice shoes I got on”

    • @appleman29
      @appleman29 Před 2 lety +70

      some nice oxygen there

    • @thirdeyeshibe4786
      @thirdeyeshibe4786 Před 2 lety +50

      Man these particles lookin sick rn

    • @marcusmg4904
      @marcusmg4904 Před 2 lety +46

      Bro these stairs are made of stairs

    • @homiekitten6161
      @homiekitten6161 Před 2 lety +33

      “This dead cat on the side of the street next to the high hobo doing crack cocaine is very interesting.”

  • @atun0o
    @atun0o Před 2 měsíci

    loved the "psidew valley" SV reference!

  • @NightBoi2
    @NightBoi2 Před 3 měsíci

    Yooo thank you so much! It proved how absolutely horrid I am! ❤️

  • @Faxtyper
    @Faxtyper Před 6 měsíci +3650

    “If someone nervous around you that mean they think you are attractive ”
    Never in my life a woman or man stutter while speak with me, they speak as clear and as comprehensive as possible with extreme confidence

    • @saviour254t9
      @saviour254t9 Před 6 měsíci

      Fake it till you make it. It's probably what some woman do and most guys too

    • @Derpo._.
      @Derpo._. Před 6 měsíci +98

      Relatable

    • @jettsett9354
      @jettsett9354 Před 6 měsíci +54

      Real af

    • @Alvarez_
      @Alvarez_ Před 6 měsíci +22

      Yeah, same here

    • @fredex10x
      @fredex10x Před 5 měsíci +11

      Fr l relate

  • @noble5342
    @noble5342 Před 2 lety +7854

    Psych2go: “Have you ever been frustrated that your dinner is taking too long to make?”
    Me: yes! I might be attractive after all :D
    Psych2go: “thank you to hello fresh for sponsoring this video”

  • @ramoplayzreal
    @ramoplayzreal Před 13 hodinami

    Nozaki mentioned ❗️‼️

  • @Soler965
    @Soler965 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is really weird for me since i was so ugly, i didn't take care pf my skin nor my hair, and i looked like shit, and people looked at me with disdain, it really crushed my self steem, and then (like a year later) i got in the gym, i started taking care of my face and my hair, i obviously still got the same face, is just that is cleaner, and healthier, and now i notice people looking at me, fixing their hair, and turning their head 180 degrees to look at me, i'm not handsome, don't get me wrong, but that shit didn't happened like 2 years ago, it makes me proud of myself, tho, i still struggle to get myself to talk to women i'm interested in, for instance, there's this girl a year younger than me, she is stunning, and i recently been catching her looking at me shamelessly, like literally looking for me with her eyes, but i can't seem to talk to her, she's always with friends and i'm too shy

  • @misscherryblossom7070
    @misscherryblossom7070 Před 2 lety +2079

    Suddenly remembered venti's line
    "Beauty is a waste when the beholder has no taste."

  • @yeopi1958
    @yeopi1958 Před 2 lety +1728

    "new ppl mostly get nervous around you because you're attractive"
    me: maybe they're nervous because i look like a pickpocketer/snatcher 😭🤣

    • @TheReaverOfDarkness
      @TheReaverOfDarkness Před 2 lety +76

      Maybe they think you look like an attractive snatcher and they're hoping to get mugged by you. :P

    • @yeopi1958
      @yeopi1958 Před 2 lety +20

      @@TheReaverOfDarkness HAHA how i wish.

    • @sothreego
      @sothreego Před 2 lety +6

      Exaaactly.

    • @Hello-il1si
      @Hello-il1si Před 2 lety

      Dont look like that
      - Nacht

    • @nohemizamudio1208
      @nohemizamudio1208 Před 2 lety +8

      Or maybe cause I look like a serial killer, i REALLY need some sleep lol

  • @OfficialN1ns
    @OfficialN1ns Před 2 měsíci +1

    I'm not really that confident on my looks, I just think I look average, not really that standing out, but I sometimes get from some of my girl classmates that I look rather cute ish? I don't really believe them that much, but now coz of this video I'm kinda having a bit of confidence now

  • @solarwolf1336
    @solarwolf1336 Před měsícem +1

    Honestly since a lot of people were more negatively impacted by this video than positively, here’s the best advice I can give.
    You can only change your appearance so much, you are who you are, and you need to own that. A LOT of people don’t think they’re attractive, and that lack of confidence is what hurts so many people.
    But if you can improve your confidence, or even project it (literally fake it until you make it) it does wonders for your attractiveness. Absolutely 80% of what makes someone attractive is personality. It sounds cliche but it’s true. I’ve known girls who I thought were stunning, but after getting to know them a bit, realizing they were rude stuck up bratty bimbos, they start to look a lot more ugly.
    While on the contrary, my girlfriend, whom when I met I thought was okay, she didn’t stand out to me visually. But after getting to know her overtime. Her kindness, thoughtfulness, selflessness, I’m literally convinced she’s the most beautiful woman I know. And we’ve been together for just over 4 years now.
    So please, if you look in the mirror and you don’t like what you see, don’t let yourself fall into a depressive hole, I’ve been there. Do what you can to take care of yourself: proper hygiene, put effort into how you dress, formulate your own style. And don’t get stuck on things you can’t change. Learn to cook decent, be chivalrous, be kind, be confident, develop a good sense of humor, but also learn to adapt to others. Fellas there’s only one “you” and you matter. You can change yourself for the better. Don’t just look for the girl who’s for you, be the guy some girl out there is looking for.

  • @geckogirl4755
    @geckogirl4755 Před 2 lety +2018

    Them: They may be awkward or nervous around you
    Everyone around me: *perfect speech*
    Edit: thank u for so many likes

    • @tonkinspoce6949
      @tonkinspoce6949 Před 2 lety +176

      Them:you get many messages on social media.
      My messages.*ded*

    • @WinterRainfalle
      @WinterRainfalle Před 2 lety +44

      Sis youll never know... my bf of 5 years had 'perfect speech' only cos he was nervous😂 idk what kinda logic he runs on but yeah, "im usually full of grammatical errors with other people", said he👀

    • @tifftaffy6062
      @tifftaffy6062 Před 2 lety +51

      Rip I got the opposite of all of them. No DMs, perfect speech, no staring, compliments, and I like photos I post recently more than in the past

    • @joleenjoleen3691
      @joleenjoleen3691 Před 2 lety +6

      With just not good speech in general I wonder sometimes how other people talk so fluently, and it seems everyone around me can sooo

    • @Sketchers.WeGotThaDrip
      @Sketchers.WeGotThaDrip Před 2 lety +7

      Me, trying to compliment my crush: *incoherent rambling*
      My crush if he watched this video: oh no she LIKES me

  • @d3vos_the_god
    @d3vos_the_god Před 2 lety +1744

    "Confidence is the most attractive part of a person!"
    Me: They all probably think im self-centered

    • @N8-Feds
      @N8-Feds Před 2 lety +5

      :(

    • @cristinewithnoh840
      @cristinewithnoh840 Před 2 lety +22

      I have heard how ppl talk about someone who do have confidence she has an attitude bish wha?

    • @jenaalabbas5737
      @jenaalabbas5737 Před 2 lety +17

      @@cristinewithnoh840 i know right? it pisses me off. y’all talk about me when i never talk, but when i finally have confidence, they all think i’m annoying and self centered. 😀

    • @generalyido
      @generalyido Před 2 lety

      They think I don't know how to talk to people while I just don't want to

    • @ravennkings
      @ravennkings Před 2 lety

      They actually DO think I'm self-centered. 🙇🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️...

  • @willko2255
    @willko2255 Před 2 měsíci

    Still not sure.
    + i dont have much photos.
    But awesome video as always.

  • @xoiyoub
    @xoiyoub Před 2 měsíci +2

    "Some people don't compliment that new acquaintance they find attractive because they assume they already know!"
    That's exactly the reason I never complimented my crush at school.

  • @SpinalWall16589
    @SpinalWall16589 Před 2 lety +2885

    Everyone including me right now: *Don't do that, don't give me hope.*
    Edit: Why does this have so many likes? I’m now deeply concerned for the 2,000+ people who liked this comment… Don’t be like me go out there and get your hope, because mine is gone. At least you still have an opportunity, go get it. :)

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +457

      Hope is better than despair sometimes :)

    • @immortaldivinity
      @immortaldivinity Před 2 lety +85

      @@Psych2go After seeing Nagito... I don't know how to feel about that lmao

    • @cloud09gaming
      @cloud09gaming Před 2 lety +54

      @@Psych2go Definitely not wrong, but sometimes it does feel that to hope is to only lead to disappointment. That scared feeling drives a lot of hope away sometimes, fear is a powerful emotion sadly. One I definitely struggle with a ton. You are right though, hope is the brighter path.

    • @user-wy6ru1js3b
      @user-wy6ru1js3b Před 2 lety +43

      @@cloud09gaming "Keep your expectations low, and you will not be disappointed" - Kratos

    • @henrygonzalez5986
      @henrygonzalez5986 Před 2 lety +6

      Same!

  • @pogcow4178
    @pogcow4178 Před 2 lety +12950

    I just love how the comments are negative, funny, and relatable at the same time lol

  • @csgomoments7573
    @csgomoments7573 Před měsícem

    off topic, but may i ask what the name of the song is in the video? great video!

  • @hyeynnutt1062
    @hyeynnutt1062 Před 2 měsíci

    I had all of these expect one

  • @obi5398
    @obi5398 Před 2 lety +4890

    "Girls may be awkward or nervous around you, they might stutter."
    Girls around me: (INHALES) *Begins to rap Godzilla at 1.75x the speed that Eminem sings it*

  • @Farhan_049
    @Farhan_049 Před 2 lety +2410

    "Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder."
    Beholders around me : 🤢🤮
    Edit - Apparantly, self-degrading jokes get you 1.3k likes!

    • @greatwavefan397
      @greatwavefan397 Před 2 lety +16

      Who wouldn't like a powerfully-built jaw?

    • @Farhan_049
      @Farhan_049 Před 2 lety +17

      @@greatwavefan397 Women at my place, apparantly. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Korean pop stars are all the rage currently, and with a face like mine, I'm better off being compared to James Alan Hetfield than anything relatively close to Korean faces!

    • @yharim180
      @yharim180 Před 2 lety +16

      Don’t feel bad man. James hetfield is a fucking awesome guy.

    • @syw9882
      @syw9882 Před 2 lety +13

      If that’s you in your pic, you need to move because your neighbors are blind.

    • @Farhan_049
      @Farhan_049 Před 2 lety +2

      @@yharim180 He's an amazing man. I respect him a lot, even though I'm not a hardcore Metallica fan. My friends say my face structure looks somewhat similar to him. I would never dare to compare myself to him otherwise!

  • @noodisoffline2857
    @noodisoffline2857 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Last photo i take was 2 years ago yes i take photos with my friends,etc but never ask the photo from them

  • @extormm6489
    @extormm6489 Před 2 měsíci

    Everyone is beautiful y'all are soooooo gorgeous 🤩

  • @squidwardonachair603
    @squidwardonachair603 Před 9 měsíci +941

    Self confidence: destroyed. depression: worsened.

  • @Redshoess
    @Redshoess Před 2 lety +1709

    As Hawkeye says, "Don't do that. Don't give me hope."

    • @tazoomturret377
      @tazoomturret377 Před 2 lety +17

      This should be common sense

    • @dude1473
      @dude1473 Před 2 lety +1

      He was ronin at that moment

    • @ashketchum9230
      @ashketchum9230 Před 2 lety +3

      Don't, just dont

    • @Legynus
      @Legynus Před 2 lety +5

      Yesterday is history
      Tommorow is a mystery
      But today is a gift,thats why it is called present

    • @thrasherxthrasher9899
      @thrasherxthrasher9899 Před 2 lety +1

      @@dude1473 bro there’s literally no need to point that out

  • @Lazylog.
    @Lazylog. Před 2 měsíci

    Yea

  • @RH_Z20
    @RH_Z20 Před 2 měsíci

    Your voice is angelic 🫠🌹

  • @darklegion3693
    @darklegion3693 Před 2 lety +1909

    "They may be awkward and nervous around you"
    People around me: OOZES CONFIDENCE FROM THEIR PORES ABSOLUTE GIGA CHADS NO FEAR, FEAR FEARS THEM CHARISMA PLUS ULTRA LITERALLY BECOMES GOD

  • @ThatOneGuyCalledKraze
    @ThatOneGuyCalledKraze Před 2 lety +1203

    “With due time, people see themselves more abstractly.”
    So that’s why Picasso’s self portraits got weirder

    • @devashishtripathi3560
      @devashishtripathi3560 Před 2 lety +6

      Can you explain the abstractly statement more to me pls? English isn't my first language so I didn't understand it

    • @N8-Feds
      @N8-Feds Před 2 lety +2

      Triangle nose

    • @ihmee
      @ihmee Před 2 lety +27

      @@devashishtripathi3560 Abstract is the opposite of realism. Realism basically means real, and is an art form where you draw as real looking pictures as you can. Abstract is the opposite, and usually deals in shapes. A good example of this is Picassos art. Used in this sentence i think it means you start to see yourself deeper than just how you look at first glance, for example if you look at your jawline right now you might just see well, a jawline, but if you look at old pictures you might notice how well it shapes your face in more ways than before.

    • @devashishtripathi3560
      @devashishtripathi3560 Před 2 lety +1

      @@ihmee Ooooh, so that's what it meant. Thanks!

    • @Jay-qg4jw
      @Jay-qg4jw Před 2 lety

      Lol

  • @Mohsin99679
    @Mohsin99679 Před 3 měsíci

    I always end up liking my old photos,got to know today

  • @WindowBlender
    @WindowBlender Před 2 měsíci +1

    I only watch this channel because these videos just calm me down ngl.

  • @thicccatto3956
    @thicccatto3956 Před 2 lety +11624

    This was really helpful. After carefully listening to all the points I finally reached the conclusion that I'm far from attractive.

    • @garotoserelepe7896
      @garotoserelepe7896 Před rokem +249

      You're just like me fr fr

    • @blockydragon_if
      @blockydragon_if Před rokem +44

      same

    • @gabriledella653
      @gabriledella653 Před rokem +236

      Low-key was watching this with a smile, the more things they listed the less I was smiling lol

    • @thicccatto3956
      @thicccatto3956 Před rokem +35

      @@gabriledella653 😂😭🤣

    • @hikki6575
      @hikki6575 Před rokem +32

      gather up brothers ofc we look great to someone even if that someone doesn't excit . jokes aside personality is what really matters

  • @aegisinternational.4937
    @aegisinternational.4937 Před 2 lety +1811

    For me it's better that people are calm and happy around me, not nervous. I like being awesome when someone is

    • @stax7661
      @stax7661 Před 2 lety +8

      So true!
      and I can’t believe no one has replied yet 😮

    • @cloudwalker679
      @cloudwalker679 Před 2 lety +20

      @@stax7661 it's because the op is attractive and we're all shy to reply

    • @marmey1028
      @marmey1028 Před 2 lety +1

      @@cloudwalker679 best comment ever hahaha

    • @cloudwalker679
      @cloudwalker679 Před 2 lety +3

      @@marmey1028 glad you like it.

    • @aegisinternational.4937
      @aegisinternational.4937 Před 2 lety

      @@cloudwalker679 That's 100% relatable, and Didn't expected so many likes

  • @SkyteVR
    @SkyteVR Před 3 měsíci

    Some people have great confidence and act normal around crushes

  • @user-is4fu8pz3y
    @user-is4fu8pz3y Před 2 měsíci +1

    I didn't know you, but now I'm loving your artstyle, music selection and voice. It's so relaxing.
    I wish you all the best!!

  • @whowantstoknawonhumanbones518
    @whowantstoknawonhumanbones518 Před 2 lety +1555

    "You catch them staring at you"
    My borderline personality disorder: no, they are staring at me while judging and internally laughing at my nostrils

    • @jakedoheny7238
      @jakedoheny7238 Před 2 lety +10

      @Psych2Go did a whole video based on Borderline Personality Disorder i hope it helps

    • @whowantstoknawonhumanbones518
      @whowantstoknawonhumanbones518 Před 2 lety +15

      @@jakedoheny7238 Their information in that video has some potholes and slight outdation in it. However, I am still a fan if their content

    • @jodibolan438
      @jodibolan438 Před 2 lety +18

      This sounds kinda like how I feel when people stare at me. It just feels creepy. 😕🤨

    • @ns04402
      @ns04402 Před 2 lety +6

      Same 🤣🤣 RIP

    • @GamingWorld-ep3vm
      @GamingWorld-ep3vm Před 2 lety +6

      @@whowantstoknawonhumanbones518
      They don't even stare at me😂😂

  • @insectslayer1374
    @insectslayer1374 Před 2 lety +8733

    Good ending:
    You realize that you really are good looking.
    Bad ending:
    1. "but I don't take pictures of myself"
    2. You're holding a knife
    3. "but I don't post in social media"
    4. You're hiding a knife
    5. _"you don't look that bad"_
    Neutral ending:
    You are still confused.
    Hidden ending:
    You are deaf and blind.
    Best ending:
    It doesn't really matter what you look like. We're all going to die anyway.

  • @sethpandas2527
    @sethpandas2527 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Aha this video clarifies that I'm not, i have just single handedly won all the arguments that i have

  • @spisifyX
    @spisifyX Před 2 měsíci +1

    Oh boy where do I start...

  • @pissbobamashups
    @pissbobamashups Před 2 lety +797

    "do you struggle Making dinner ? Here is hello fresh!"
    Me who thought that I'm attractive since I struggle Making dinner 😒

    • @mohm9125
      @mohm9125 Před 2 lety +8

      Lol i taught the same😂😂

    • @mohm9125
      @mohm9125 Před 2 lety +3

      Thought*

    • @BTSeomma1977
      @BTSeomma1977 Před 2 lety +5

      Yes I was very confused for a minute 🤣

    • @txe1nd
      @txe1nd Před 2 lety +1

      Lol

    • @tubby_5652
      @tubby_5652 Před 2 lety

      Yes that is totally what they meant😂

  • @literallyfckingjesus5334
    @literallyfckingjesus5334 Před 2 lety +1322

    "They may be awkward or nervous around you"
    Girls around me: _start speedrunning 26 different games within the span of 0.39 seconds while being held at gun point_

    • @somber087
      @somber087 Před rokem +2

      Girls around me: speak and act like they know me from their past life and doesnt give a f if they looked bad

    • @immortalsun
      @immortalsun Před rokem

      That got a good laugh out of me

  • @WRIKZIX
    @WRIKZIX Před 2 měsíci

    I tought i wasn't attractive, after watching this videos, im pretty sure i am unattractive, thank you❤

  • @Brocktoon68
    @Brocktoon68 Před měsícem

    0 for 5. Awesome. Thanks.

  • @thefriendlymetroid6655
    @thefriendlymetroid6655 Před 2 lety +551

    “Just because you don’t get many compliments doesn’t mean your not attractive”
    ...Or I’m just not attractive

    • @AA-gj7tc
      @AA-gj7tc Před 2 lety +21

      "The more mass an object has, the more attractive it is"
      -Sun Tzu (Art of Beauty)

  • @souyakawatasimp1393
    @souyakawatasimp1393 Před 2 lety +883

    "If people act awkward around you they must just be nervous about your beauty"
    Me who hasnt had a conversation face to face with anybody except family in months : *interesting*

  • @corrupted1670
    @corrupted1670 Před 2 měsíci +2

    As someone who thought they were unattractive going into this i can 100% confirm i am the most ugly being to exist

  • @beync55
    @beync55 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I thought they would be easier to relate

  • @nepesaurio
    @nepesaurio Před 2 lety +465

    “You receive a lot of messages on social media”
    - me who doesn't get a message from a single soul not even bots: well that explains a lot

    • @ballinjesus8175
      @ballinjesus8175 Před 2 lety +14

      Not gonna lie you look attractive. Not gay . just to make you feel god in life :D

    • @nepesaurio
      @nepesaurio Před 2 lety +10

      @@ballinjesus8175 mr reggie is hot 👌👌😩

    • @N8-Feds
      @N8-Feds Před 2 lety +1

      Wtf did i just read?😳

    • @taylormomsenssidehoe
      @taylormomsenssidehoe Před 2 lety +3

      Hello here's a message

    • @N8-Feds
      @N8-Feds Před 2 lety +3

      @@taylormomsenssidehoe 🗿