7 Types of Toxic Crushes You Should Avoid

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  • čas přidán 17. 09. 2020
  • Are you having a crush on someone right now and wonder if they are toxic for you? When you have feelings for someone, it’s easy to see everything they do in a positive light, but not every person you crush on is someone you should consider getting into a relationship with. For example, it is not a good idea to develop a crush on someone who treats you and other people badly. So to save you from being in a toxic relationship in the future and heartbreak, we made this video to help you identify the different types of crushes that might not be good for you.
    If any of these types describe your crush and you're looking for tips on how to stop liking them, we also made a video on that: • 10 Tips to Stop Liking...
    Credits
    Writer: Carley Swanson-Garro
    Script Editor: Rida Batool
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Animator: Murielle Lindsley Dela Rosa
    CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
    Resources:
    National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) or www.thehotline.org/.
    References:
    Dubrow-Marshall, L., & Dubrow-Marshall, R. (2017). When your life is not your own. Therapy Today, 28(9), 24-27.
    Johnston, P., Tankersley, M., Joenson, T., Hupp, M., Buckley, J., Redmond-McGowan, M., Zanzinger, A., Poirier, A., & Walsh, A. (2014). Motivations behind ‘Bullies then offenders’ versus ‘pure bullies’: Further suggestions for anti-bully education and practice. Education, 10(3), 316-325.
    Knopp, K., Scott, S., Ritchie, L., Rhoades, G., Markman, H., Stanley, S., Rhoades, G. K., Markman, H. J., & Stanley, S. M. (2017). Once a cheater, always a cheater? Serial infidelity across subsequent relationships. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 46(8), 2301-2311. doi: 10.1007/s10508-017-1018-1.
    Popescu, Adam (January 2019). Why people ghost - And how to get over it. The New York Times. Retrieved 29 April from www.nytimes.com/2019/01/22/sm....

Komentáře • 22K

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +22776

    Who here met their crush this year? Comment below the first letter of their name ;)

    • @asquarededits9261
      @asquarededits9261 Před 3 lety +1077

      I wish, I found out I’ve had a crush this year.

    • @breadaroo
      @breadaroo Před 3 lety +886

      Me, *and I didn't like it-*
      (it's an ex crush-)

    • @Roxyy_Foxyy
      @Roxyy_Foxyy Před 3 lety +756

      Me, it was the worst experience ever... Agh stupid A

    • @Mi-Nasuno
      @Mi-Nasuno Před 3 lety +475

      M

    • @signna
      @signna Před 3 lety +1481

      All of mine are fictional :,)

  • @chungkrixx1279
    @chungkrixx1279 Před 3 lety +5846

    “The Bully”
    Those bully love stories: *Imma pretend I didn’t see that*

  • @abandonedchannel9803
    @abandonedchannel9803 Před 2 lety +3585

    "Does your crush just dissapear?"
    My crush doesn't even exist

  • @lonelycatperson4349
    @lonelycatperson4349 Před 8 měsíci +152

    I had a crush on this girl who had a very adult demeanour. We were in year 7 and she always talked about intercourse and adult topics. Being autistic, I thought this was normal. Then in March that year, I got a crush on her. I messaged her a lot, and confessed to her multiple times. She always said “I’ll think about it” and had crushes on different people every few weeks. Eventually we dated. She started sending me very s3xual messages so despite being uncomfortable I sent them back thinking that she’d like them. She then broke up with me by pretending to cheat on me then claiming the way I talked to her was weird, despite me only doing what I thought was correct. A few months after that, she posted screenshots of everything that I said, censoring the context and not showing her replies for her friends to see. When I tried to report it, obviously they didn’t care because she reported me first.
    if you’re starting highschool, do not be friends with someone who acts like they know everything about s3x. Stay with the people you know and trust. Or stay in your own personal circle.

    • @Taffy143_
      @Taffy143_ Před 5 měsíci +5

      I'm sorry you had to go through that

    • @DrXmaQueen.
      @DrXmaQueen. Před 5 měsíci +5

      So true thx for showing this bc kids needed to hear this (I am a kid lol)
      BTW DONT CALL YOUR SELF DUM OR AUTISTIC OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT BC THAT CAUSE MENTAL ILLNESSES OR DOUBTS AND I HATE THOSE
      Mainly bc I have a friend and her friend commited suicide

    • @emilyhemsworth77
      @emilyhemsworth77 Před 5 měsíci

      Sex is fun though. Instead of criticizing women. Just clearly stay away from a grown adult woman. Geez, its not that hard. Go hang out with ugly woman even they don't talk about Sex. 🤔

    • @emilyhemsworth77
      @emilyhemsworth77 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@DrXmaQueen.I mean he is autistic and woman can also talk about sex. Its not that hard. There are so many gay people, transies, ugly girls you can have a crush on. Why not the woman who loves to talk about sex. Those type of women are known and just looking for mature men.

    • @lerolero6948
      @lerolero6948 Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@DrXmaQueen. yk autism is neither a mental illness or an insult, right?

  • @JohnField-cr6tv
    @JohnField-cr6tv Před 8 měsíci +48

    To sum this up: make sure they're a nice, caring person who wants the best for you

  • @PlanetPsych
    @PlanetPsych Před 3 lety +2005

    Toxic Crush Quote:
    "I'm not ignoring you, I'm just waiting to see if you'll put in the effort to talk to me"

  • @chrissy1250
    @chrissy1250 Před 3 lety +32857

    "THE BULLY"
    Wattpaders: nah, I'll pretend I didnt see that

  • @snakeysnakeGamingSSG
    @snakeysnakeGamingSSG Před 9 měsíci +138

    I've been in relationships with people like this before, trust me...the pain of getting over a crush is worth it compared to the pain of being betrayed or used like a tool

  • @C.D14
    @C.D14 Před 8 měsíci +56

    Its not about beauty, its about personality ❤

    • @arnand6636
      @arnand6636 Před 8 měsíci +7

      Hell naw. I am NOT dating someone unattractive.

    • @legosi2736
      @legosi2736 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Exactly @aliyahrapahferenal216.

    • @legosi2736
      @legosi2736 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I prefer personality over look's

    • @Sezaru29
      @Sezaru29 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@arnand6636💀

    • @SophiaTheSecond123
      @SophiaTheSecond123 Před 7 měsíci

      HAHAHAH@@arnand6636

  • @goofser
    @goofser Před 3 lety +1795

    Unused crush: The self pitier. They say bad things about themselves, and threaten to hurt themselves to try and convince you to date them

  • @LennyTheHopeless
    @LennyTheHopeless Před 3 lety +5891

    Me who hasn't had a crush in 7 years:
    "Yes, this seems like a good, _relatable_ video to watch."

    • @jyjaeskz
      @jyjaeskz Před 3 lety +51

      Oof same but only 4 years for me

    • @stardust5606
      @stardust5606 Před 3 lety +135

      I've never had a crush in my life xD

    • @blipster0074
      @blipster0074 Před 3 lety +31

      Aiming to not have one for a long time

    • @HistoricBlock84
      @HistoricBlock84 Před 3 lety +35

      @@blipster0074 Yeah keep it like that because having a crush on someone you know you don't have a chance with by even the slightest is the worst feeling in the world

    • @blipster0074
      @blipster0074 Před 3 lety +8

      @@HistoricBlock84 mhmm truth, but my recent one confused me cus idk they said they liked me while having another crush. Next day, they changed their mind and soon found out her other crush liked them back. Messed me up for months cus i desperately believed they liked me deep inside but eventually i contemplated that it's just unhealthy for my mental state. So that's another worst feeling, whole crush thing is not worth it

  • @droopystar
    @droopystar Před 5 měsíci +13

    i adore the fact you called out an isolator. As a half one, my issues are NOT purposefully and ive been working very hard. I try my hardest, and im glad you made this. :) your voice is very sweet btw

  • @Killiam_Hyskey_Vampire
    @Killiam_Hyskey_Vampire Před 8 měsíci +6

    When I have feeling for someone, I don’t want them to love me back. They are too perfect that I can’t reach….I don’t deserve them….I can never ask them to like me back else…..it’s too overwhelming for me😢

  • @caseyperryx
    @caseyperryx Před 3 lety +1886

    7 types of crushes you should avoid:
    *A boy named Ryan*

  • @Ari-pf9qn
    @Ari-pf9qn Před 3 lety +2922

    Me just having a crush on a fictional character like-
    👁👄👁

    • @hyo_unbf
      @hyo_unbf Před 3 lety +40

      Bokutos ass is my crush-

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle Před 3 lety +18

      i can relate LOOOL

    • @Ari-pf9qn
      @Ari-pf9qn Před 3 lety +5

      @@hyo_unbf bahahahahha

    • @Ari-pf9qn
      @Ari-pf9qn Před 3 lety +21

      @@hyo_unbf I have a crush on salt😂

    • @teenshii
      @teenshii Před 3 lety +60

      At least, our crushes can't avoid or break up with us, lol

  • @Mydnight21
    @Mydnight21 Před 12 dny +1

    Favorite playlist so far from this channel. I love this....rule of thumb for me. Don't tell the person you have a crush on, that you're crushing on them because it will not end well. Let their actions speak. It will tell you everything you want to know

  • @user-wx7go5vy8y
    @user-wx7go5vy8y Před 8 měsíci +3

    UR VOICE IS SO CALMINGGG

  • @mr.dickbutttheog2064
    @mr.dickbutttheog2064 Před 3 lety +478

    Me: *Laughs in having fictional characters as crushes*

    • @glitchydood1558
      @glitchydood1558 Před 3 lety +5

      Yea lol

    • @justlearn7136
      @justlearn7136 Před 3 lety

      Ty Lee

    • @FarrahKeks
      @FarrahKeks Před 3 lety

      I like your' profile picture! 😁 It's cute

    • @w1ll0w45
      @w1ll0w45 Před 3 lety

      SAMEEEE

    • @gilliancastle5106
      @gilliancastle5106 Před 3 lety +10

      I've literally never had a crush on a real person before. I've only had 2 crushes in my entire life and they're both fictional. The current one isn't even canon.

  • @samdwimch7345
    @samdwimch7345 Před 3 lety +10237

    Psych2Go: **has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute**
    Romance dramas: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”

    • @untrustfulsoldchannel9238
      @untrustfulsoldchannel9238 Před 3 lety +50

      666 likes

    • @samdwimch7345
      @samdwimch7345 Před 3 lety +46

      @@untrustfulsoldchannel9238 not anymore 😔💔

    • @eatmyshortsnoobs3282
      @eatmyshortsnoobs3282 Před 3 lety +36

      Even the ones that don’t exist? 🥺😩

    • @kat74055
      @kat74055 Před 3 lety +15

      @don’t worry bout it BAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @rejilalohithakshan7620
      @rejilalohithakshan7620 Před 3 lety +71

      How about this one?
      Psych2Go: *has really good points on why these relationships aren’t healthy and cute*
      FFs: “I’m gonna pretend I didn’t see that.”

  • @keopijelli
    @keopijelli Před 3 měsíci +3

    this video really opened my eyes, I've been dating this guy for almost two months now and in the start he was super kind and sweet but it went down quickly, for example when I was texting my friend he saw that I was online and texted me asking "who are you talking with?" I would respond that I was just texting my friend but he just would say that I should be talking with him instead and that I shouldn't talk with my friend because she could possibly get me someone else and ruin our relationship. It became constant and I'm very tired of it, I cannot go online without already thinking that I will have an argument with him because I was texting someone else, then he just says it's because he's insecure and he's afraid I might cheat... I definitely remembered him when the Isolater came because that's what he always says, why do you need anyone else when you have me?

  • @xenongd6974
    @xenongd6974 Před 2 lety +853

    1 "the ghoster"
    Well shit.
    3 "the humiliator"
    Well shit.
    6. "The user"
    WELL SHIT.

  • @cheesedoosh
    @cheesedoosh Před 3 lety +1453

    You cant be toxic crush if no one ever crushes on you lmao

    • @bemotivated8443
      @bemotivated8443 Před 3 lety +12

      @Benjamin Tay I usually unconsciously walk around with a angry frown and it turns quite a few people away 🤷‍♂️

    • @twins2936
      @twins2936 Před 3 lety +2

      @Benjamin Tay nah some people who have crush on someone just keep it in a secret and dont tell anyone, not saying that some HAD a crush on you, but it is possible

    • @johnnycripplestar5167
      @johnnycripplestar5167 Před 2 lety +2

      @Benjamin Tay shit i'd end up looking like a psychopath with the smiling.

    • @moonchild8477
      @moonchild8477 Před 2 lety

      *BIG* *BRAIN*

    • @s0Cc
      @s0Cc Před 2 lety

      I wanna like but I don’t wanna ruin the perfect 400 🥺

  • @DeffinetlyNotEgg.
    @DeffinetlyNotEgg. Před 5 měsíci +2

    THIS ART STYLE IS JUST AMAZING

  • @chuckisnthere
    @chuckisnthere Před 5 měsíci +1

    i love how these videos have a different artstyle each time

  • @jjmaybankswife4957
    @jjmaybankswife4957 Před 2 lety +7442

    "does your crush just.. disappear?"
    my cursh being in a whole ass different reality: yes.

    • @exandier4810
      @exandier4810 Před 2 lety +146

      BESTIE-
      LMFAO IM SO SORRY THAT SUCKS
      Hope you can visit soon!

    • @Majin_Xavierras
      @Majin_Xavierras Před 2 lety +39

      @@exandier4810 what?

    • @oceanti6791
      @oceanti6791 Před 2 lety +63

      Wait I relate to this and had a crush on a character or something but I don’t remember who I had a crush on

    • @exandier4810
      @exandier4810 Před 2 lety +53

      @@Majin_Xavierras I assumed the OP was referring to reality shifting lol

    • @lightyagami8517
      @lightyagami8517 Před 2 lety +29

      Anime? Because yeah-

  • @remyhavoc4463
    @remyhavoc4463 Před 3 lety +3809

    8. The Actor
    The type where you won't see any red flags because they're good at pretending since they've done the same things before

    • @epcza13
      @epcza13 Před 3 lety +167

      That’s when you develop skills to notice when someone is acting. >;)

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 Před 3 lety +40

      I'll watch out for them

    • @YourHomieHenry
      @YourHomieHenry Před 3 lety +35

      That's the ghoster basically.. everything goes so well you couldn't tell that anything was wrong, and then in a moment, they're gone. Nowhere to be found.

    • @amberb.6395
      @amberb.6395 Před 3 lety +34

      YourHomieHenry yes and no. That could be it. But my actor was sweet and kind. Then did a complete 180 and controlled my every second of every day, emotionally drained me, and didn’t understand what the word no meant. I think this is the kind of thing they were going for. A complete 180 to how their personality and actions appeared to be

    • @user-rq3zy3li4q
      @user-rq3zy3li4q Před 3 lety +4

      Omg ikrrr!!!!

  • @supersizedbannanaprivitedu8088

    I like the design , it’s so good!

  • @AlfredMarionMartinezDucu-tu7fy
    @AlfredMarionMartinezDucu-tu7fy Před 9 měsíci +28

    👇people's who have no crush

  • @Therabeeee
    @Therabeeee Před 3 lety +1349

    "The bully"
    Gacha Community, wattpad:"ima pretend I didn't see that."

    • @phantasm5840
      @phantasm5840 Před 3 lety +41

      a c c u r a t e

    • @misslove6693
      @misslove6693 Před 3 lety +20

      I'm in the community and I hated the "bully" ones

    • @iliodora25
      @iliodora25 Před 3 lety +17

      every gacha community overrated thing mixed up plot:
      ''i hat u''
      ''but i luv you''
      ''no ful''
      '' :((((( *cries cutely* ''
      '' (that was hot and coote) ''
      at bully home :(((
      ''you butter abuse her or you get alchohol and drug force''
      ''yes fathah/mothah''
      ''don't bully me''
      ''haha nub''
      '' n o why me''
      at hume
      '' *cuts* cut can't stay without bein off cute.... uwu depression is assthetic ''
      '' *sees her on widnwo* omg i feel sos dab!1111!!!!!!!111!!1! ''
      ze next day uvu
      '' i luv you do you want me as ur bf ''
      '' omg yes ''
      10 years later
      '' will u marry me ''
      '' yas ''
      4 months later
      '' i needdo go to beach ''
      '' okie doki uwu ''
      at beach bish
      '' oh luk @ my ex ''
      '' which ones ''
      '' you know the cars that go ''
      '' i hear you hit it!''
      '' WE LIKE THE CAAAAAAARS ''
      technical diffuCULTies uwu
      '' when i was lesbian i was with gurl ''
      '' i was trans once and dated le boi ''
      '' seems like they together ''
      '' i got heartbrok 12 tiems in live ''
      '' i fel dab ;-; ''
      " holup dat mah brothah "
      " oh me good "
      " im gunna go buy lemonade "
      " o k "
      " P A P I T O "
      " ew an ugleh gurl "
      " l u v e m e "
      " no 💖💋 "
      " c h o c o l a t e "
      " omg she hut "
      " yas "
      " Kamukra kamukra yas queen "
      " why "
      " omg you're me ex "
      " GASP "
      " wow look the gay couple "
      " hallo my n-n-n-n-name is femboi and the gacha creators think im an cute beanie i luv twerking infrtont of alfaboi. "
      "Hi guys i am alfaboi and im gaye with femboi"
      " hello femboi and alfaboi how are uuu:3 "
      "Oh uh... W-w-w-were good."
      "You sound very sas"
      "No im hap"
      "I no trust e-you"
      "Im very hap i promise"
      "Prumisee meh."
      "Okaye...."
      "You guyth luk very familier"
      "I danno wae boot chu do to"
      (IM FRICKING TIRED IMMA WRITE THIS LATER ALSO IM NOT DELETING THIS TEXT)

    • @allylovely
      @allylovely Před 3 lety +5

      @@iliodora25 lol

    • @Shichi_arts
      @Shichi_arts Před 3 lety +4

      Very accurate

  • @katsudon7791
    @katsudon7791 Před 3 lety +730

    Psych2go: Don't crush on these people
    Me: crushes on them because of their great character designs xD

  • @KrowsVeil
    @KrowsVeil Před 5 měsíci +2

    Love your content! Your voice is so calm and beautiful and it makes it so easy to watch your vids! Absolutely love this channel, new sub ❤😊

  • @DocDoge.
    @DocDoge. Před 9 měsíci +1

    Hey bro, this helped me, tysm for recommendating this video😁

  • @mxxriie2004
    @mxxriie2004 Před 3 lety +862

    "the isolator"
    Gacha kids with a yandere boyfriend: i'm going to pretend I didn't see that

    • @DUCKMANOG
      @DUCKMANOG Před 3 lety +14

      Your comment speak truth and nothing less

    • @tsukasayugi4282
      @tsukasayugi4282 Před 3 lety +11

      vibes in slightly yandere
      I don't have a problem with people hanging out with my girlfriend but people have told us to shoot ourselves before and that was overboard

    • @wonderlandsshowtime
      @wonderlandsshowtime Před 3 lety +8

      @@tsukasayugi4282 whoa thats very overboard

    • @deadaccounut
      @deadaccounut Před 3 lety +5

      As a Gacha person:
      This is accurate

    • @Veriosity
      @Veriosity Před 3 lety +3

      *Le gacha logic* ✨
      That's what they say.
      A
      *AND I TOTALLY AGREE WITH IT.*

  • @divinity2306
    @divinity2306 Před 3 lety +18543

    When your crush is fictional: 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

  • @03v45inroblox
    @03v45inroblox Před 8 měsíci

    Her voice is so calm!

  • @thatoneguyintheback123
    @thatoneguyintheback123 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Im really impressed by the art style

  • @user-dt8eu9wy9v
    @user-dt8eu9wy9v Před 3 lety +3172

    1. The ghoster
    2. The bragger
    3. The humiliator
    4. The bully
    5. The cheater
    6. The user
    7. The isolator

    • @lol-qb1ez
      @lol-qb1ez Před 3 lety +95

      I got 💞the ghosted💞

    • @Some-Rage-Inducing-Provocateur
      @Some-Rage-Inducing-Provocateur Před 3 lety +75

      And a person with all of the traits from all of the seven is a total narcissist.

    • @444zza6
      @444zza6 Před 3 lety +46

      wattpader : *clears throat*

    • @thepettiestbitch7332
      @thepettiestbitch7332 Před 3 lety +6

      @@lol-qb1ez sameeeeee 🤡🌹✨

    • @EnosCountryballProductions
      @EnosCountryballProductions Před 3 lety +21

      I got a bragger for a crush and i got used DO NOT DATE ANYOME NAMED DEVYN JAYSON WILLIAMS AND HAS DITRY BLONDE HAIR AND GRAY BLUE EYES OK

  • @Son-Deniz
    @Son-Deniz Před 2 lety +25760

    How to avoid bad crushes :
    Step 1 : Don't have a crush

    • @spoon4976
      @spoon4976 Před 2 lety +903

      A man of great wisdom.

    • @sponge8868
      @sponge8868 Před 2 lety +658

      I have followed this step since the day I was born and yes, this is great wisdom 10/10 would recommend

    • @rtertth
      @rtertth Před 2 lety +173

      Well i have been doing that for awhile

    • @arianaganguly
      @arianaganguly Před 2 lety +55

      Great

    • @cookie_crossing4020
      @cookie_crossing4020 Před 2 lety +68

      I can’t 😩

  • @The_most-Enthusiastic_Loser1.

    I LOVE THE WAY THERE'S SUCH A LIVELY AND INTRIGUING ANIMATIONS TO SUCH A PAINFUL TOPIC❤🎉😂😊🤩👌👏

  • @Jac2214onyt
    @Jac2214onyt Před 5 měsíci

    I'm happy people like you post these because they help me out emotionally which rarely happens in the real world. There was this one time where there was this girl I liked and I slid her a note, and she liked me back (or so I thought) and she seemed really committed but during the relationship I was really nervous to talk to her. When she told me that she didnt like me and she was doing to be nice I decided to not chase love anymore so I could not get my heart broken again. It's people like that that give love a bad name.

  • @Just_._M3
    @Just_._M3 Před 7 měsíci

    Really good video
    Thank you
    You probably helped a lot of people

  • @z4c_602
    @z4c_602 Před 3 lety +1261

    7 types of toxic crushes you should avoid
    Me: My lonely ass watching this at 4 am :)

    • @aqsem9073
      @aqsem9073 Před 3 lety +13

      rookie number, only real lonely people (like me) watch stuff like this 24/7

    • @SpaceMonkeyBoi
      @SpaceMonkeyBoi Před 3 lety +10

      Destroy the children

    • @z4c_602
      @z4c_602 Před 3 lety +2

      @@SpaceMonkeyBoi LMAO

    • @Ok-hr4oh
      @Ok-hr4oh Před 3 lety +3

      I am watching at 2 am and this is the reasing I will never care about someone dearly

    • @z4c_602
      @z4c_602 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Ok-hr4oh Same dude

  • @alfalifr
    @alfalifr Před 2 lety +3060

    "Avoid having crush with the isolator, instead have it with the conductor"
    - science joke

  • @gabrielisah703
    @gabrielisah703 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you for the tip, it helped❤

  • @bruh5680
    @bruh5680 Před 6 měsíci

    Ur voice is so calming i love it!

  • @Shreksgyatt27
    @Shreksgyatt27 Před 3 lety +3986

    Me who doesn’t have a crush: interesting
    Edit: Holy shit! thanks for all the likes :)

    • @louishuxtable3322
      @louishuxtable3322 Před 3 lety +62

      Me who knows I have no chance with my crush interesting that's what it's like having a chance

    • @xian9201
      @xian9201 Před 3 lety +30

      Same lmao

    • @MeliAnqel
      @MeliAnqel Před 3 lety +50

      Same i just wanna see this videos cuz they’re interesting

    • @sharkmeansno7464
      @sharkmeansno7464 Před 3 lety +23

      When all of your Are fictional

    • @slash_jay4576
      @slash_jay4576 Před 3 lety +5

      Same😂😂

  • @theshywolfie6655
    @theshywolfie6655 Před 3 lety +2832

    ok but can we talk about how amazing each of the individual crushes look?? They may not be great people, but *man* have they got AMAZING character designs

    • @dfquartzidn6151
      @dfquartzidn6151 Před 3 lety +130

      Especially the humiliator, she was the narcissist in the one of the ‘signs of a narcissist’ videos.

    • @donjohnston1536
      @donjohnston1536 Před 3 lety +73

      My bisexual self: *bi panic*

    • @rosemarie5719
      @rosemarie5719 Před 3 lety +35

      * my lesbian self crushing on all the female designs *

    • @emiliasantos6638
      @emiliasantos6638 Před 3 lety +60

      the bully one was lowkey kinda fine tho

    • @dfquartzidn6151
      @dfquartzidn6151 Před 3 lety +11

      @@emiliasantos6638 I know right?

  • @AxlAro
    @AxlAro Před 6 měsíci

    you fricking do masterpieces so much-

  • @Nomnomplays
    @Nomnomplays Před 8 měsíci

    Thanks for the knowledge now I know 😢

  • @xxrandom_weebxx1989
    @xxrandom_weebxx1989 Před 3 lety +1478

    Most people here: * Talking about crushes *
    Me: * Taking notes on the amazing art style *

    • @Mianashya
      @Mianashya Před 3 lety +19

      Ngl it's really good!

    • @starphobia08
      @starphobia08 Před 3 lety +27

      The person that made this art is named Madhattey!

    • @xxrandom_weebxx1989
      @xxrandom_weebxx1989 Před 3 lety +11

      @@starphobia08 Ooh thank you!! I’ll definitely check them out! :D

    • @sarahlange9029
      @sarahlange9029 Před 3 lety +3

      Same, It just looks so FRICKING AMAIZING! >:3

    • @windtoons5295
      @windtoons5295 Před 3 lety +2

      IKR? I love it ❤️

  • @wisteriashika
    @wisteriashika Před 2 lety +1153

    "4. The bully"
    You hear em! Now throw all those "I fell in love with my bully" books

  • @Alex-jm4ed
    @Alex-jm4ed Před 8 měsíci

    Why is this so soothing to my ears

  • @imgood-sf6ty
    @imgood-sf6ty Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thanks for showing this video

  • @T355V
    @T355V Před 3 lety +3656

    1. The Ghoster 0:31
    2. The Bragger 1:03
    3. The Humiliator 1:41
    4. The Bully 2:06
    5. The Cheater 2:35
    6. The User 3:15
    7. The Isolator 3:45

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 3 lety +479

      Thanks for putting this together. This will get a lot of likes by the end of the day :)

    • @Haventplayedgenshin
      @Haventplayedgenshin Před 3 lety +39

      Still pretty much fine 3 week ago ;)

    • @Matthew-vs8iz
      @Matthew-vs8iz Před 3 lety +18

      @princess gamer My Bestfriend Has A Crush On One..
      Best To Tell Him To Let Go Of Her

    • @gianragandan6532
      @gianragandan6532 Před 3 lety +19

      My crush doesn’t even know me :’D

    • @bozhanatoneva1973
      @bozhanatoneva1973 Před 3 lety +18

      Ah the ghoster sounds familliar-
      W a I t
      ;-;

  • @ilovecheeseandtoesd834
    @ilovecheeseandtoesd834 Před 2 lety +761

    "7 crushes you should avoid"
    Me who never gets any: "man I am nailing this"

    • @gabi69420
      @gabi69420 Před 2 lety +8

      I- SAMEEEEE

    • @gabi69420
      @gabi69420 Před 2 lety +5

      @Madeleine L idk as i didnt write the comment, my perspective yes. i just dont get crushes on people idk why.

    • @yippeeyahoowoohoo
      @yippeeyahoowoohoo Před 2 lety +5

      Same.

    • @eddroll9824
      @eddroll9824 Před 2 lety +2

      ABHAHA- SAMEEEEEE

    • @dogu_east4593
      @dogu_east4593 Před 2 lety +3

      I started thinking I had a crush but didn't even notice it from the lack of crushes

  • @NAH87245
    @NAH87245 Před 5 měsíci

    omg you helped me so much i had crush on user and he / she just say : "busy" , "can you do the dishes?" , don't be lazy " and much much other thank you!

  • @P_stelz.
    @P_stelz. Před 8 měsíci +28

    I’m just gonna state my opinion. I don’t see how any one can manage to “fall In love” with someone who is clearly a jerk or a mental/verbal abuser. Physical abuse is harder to spot, so I can understand that.

    • @cg15150
      @cg15150 Před 8 měsíci

      physical abuse is not hard to spot

    • @P_stelz.
      @P_stelz. Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@cg15150 ? Wdym? I mean, I don’t expect a physical abuser to just SMACK LIKE A FAMILY MEMBER OR SUM IN PUBLIC- how would you know right away?

    • @cg15150
      @cg15150 Před 8 měsíci

      @@P_stelz. because the bruises r apparent

    • @P_stelz.
      @P_stelz. Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@cg15150 sometimes they aren’t. From what I’ve seen, a lot of people hide their bruises and scrapes and stuff with clothing.

  • @ochakouraraka3113
    @ochakouraraka3113 Před 3 lety +285

    "When you're looking at red flags through rose colored glasses they just look like flags." 😑

  • @Official_Acelynn
    @Official_Acelynn Před 3 lety +751

    **laughs in having a crush on an anime boy**

  • @SebPearson-zw9iu
    @SebPearson-zw9iu Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks this really helped

  • @Cloudy_vibes1
    @Cloudy_vibes1 Před 5 měsíci +1

    This really helped thank you for making thix❤(I have a friend like that btw)

  • @lizz.303
    @lizz.303 Před 3 lety +1332

    4: the bully
    Gacha tubers: I’m just going to pretend I didn’t see that

    • @sudeshnaghosh2824
      @sudeshnaghosh2824 Před 3 lety +4

      Lmao true😂😂

    • @laziness852
      @laziness852 Před 3 lety +1

      Lol true

    • @kruzzz4852
      @kruzzz4852 Před 3 lety +30

      Gatcha tubers be like:NO THATS NOT TRUE MY BF WILL KILL YOU

    • @gonnagohate3230
      @gonnagohate3230 Před 3 lety +40

      Dont forget to give them different colors for both eyes and make them secretly an angel who has fallen as a cool edgy demon

    • @zomb2531
      @zomb2531 Před 3 lety +16

      @@gonnagohate3230 they also have to be a big boy so big that they’re mom let’s them watch paw patrol now

  • @cinta4985
    @cinta4985 Před 3 lety +655

    Vids: “avoid the bully”
    Wattpad: *a story about a girl who fall for the bully/bad boy*
    ACCURATE LMAO

    • @ItsKim_Him
      @ItsKim_Him Před 3 lety +4

      Anna oop-

    • @lil_is_dum
      @lil_is_dum Před 3 lety +8

      *wattpad and gacha

    • @myfuturelife4445
      @myfuturelife4445 Před 3 lety +7

      And gacha to they be like:
      "Omg bully is mean"
      Bully:"I bully cause I love you"
      Tf?!

    • @remytate6498
      @remytate6498 Před 3 lety +2

      You're missing episode

    • @FarrahKeks
      @FarrahKeks Před 3 lety +1

      @@myfuturelife4445 that moment when I actually liked these kind of gacha and still do

  • @user-ox1ue9rl7s
    @user-ox1ue9rl7s Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks for the help I've just started midle school and this kind if stuff is starting to enter my life and it's just really scary

  • @Rubix_cube809
    @Rubix_cube809 Před 6 měsíci

    Ok, for real, why is so calming? Like, currently, I’m trying to get to sleep, and.. how did I find myself looping this video?

  • @itsmsfantasy1608
    @itsmsfantasy1608 Před 3 lety +3010

    i like how psych's crushes doesn't only focus on one gender

    • @Shichi_arts
      @Shichi_arts Před 3 lety +36

      Sorry i gotta ruin the 101 likes

    • @nukaberry447
      @nukaberry447 Před 3 lety +102

      There’s only male or female, you cannot turn into one or the other and you cannot just not be made or female

    • @officialentrapta427
      @officialentrapta427 Před 3 lety +174

      @@nukaberry447 Leave

    • @billieismybsf153
      @billieismybsf153 Před 3 lety +75

      @@nukaberry447 wha- that isn’t true...😭 i am very offended.

    • @billieismybsf153
      @billieismybsf153 Před 3 lety +58

      @@officialentrapta427 thank you 😊

  • @amityblight6745
    @amityblight6745 Před 3 lety +489

    The video: Avoid these people
    The animators making them look as attractive as possible:

    • @justanotherman6419
      @justanotherman6419 Před 3 lety +52

      Well that's the point they might be beautiful and attractive but they are going to hurt you a lot, that's why you shouldn't go just with looks when you fall for someone

    • @amityblight6745
      @amityblight6745 Před 3 lety +14

      @@justanotherman6419 Very much a good point

    • @samtheman5176
      @samtheman5176 Před 3 lety +2

      King is the best character

  • @caidenrykerjaxjohnson2273
    @caidenrykerjaxjohnson2273 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Not everyone deserves love.

  • @minakukit6903
    @minakukit6903 Před 8 měsíci

    i enjoyed and learned!

  • @Sghgyv
    @Sghgyv Před 3 lety +514

    “the bully”
    me who has a crush on draco malfoy: i’m gonna pretend i didn’t see that
    (thank god i’m over that now)

  • @iwontminddoingyou8857
    @iwontminddoingyou8857 Před 2 lety +1308

    '"THE BULLY'"
    K- drama and c-drama fans: well suddenly I lost my sense

    • @ahgazenity.aliverse
      @ahgazenity.aliverse Před 2 lety +28

      them c dramas forreal lol. i just recently got into c dramas and it's so different from kdramas, much more dominate male. I'm both shocked and amazed

    • @webcomiclulu9056
      @webcomiclulu9056 Před 2 lety +11

      Lmaoo true. Tho I'm glad they are showing healthy relationships in the recent years.

    • @LennyTheHopeless
      @LennyTheHopeless Před 2 lety +16

      Seriously...I've dropped several dramas because the male lead was too much of a d*ck that it pissed me off. Also the reason why I don't read almost any Manhua anymore.
      I don't know what it is about Manhua especially, but it's like they like their male lead to have the biggest ego in the world, also they always have to be stronger than the female lead- ALWAYS, and not only that but he has to be dominant af at all times toward the female lead. And then they copy all these traits and paste them for EVERY MALE LEAD EVER. I couldn't take it anymore.
      Yea there's a select few with actual good male leads, but how much shit do I need to taste test to get there...

    • @Yanniezzz
      @Yanniezzz Před 2 lety +7

      C drama sooo true like I cnat even explain omg 😂

    • @jisooturtlerabbitkimseolam7888
      @jisooturtlerabbitkimseolam7888 Před 2 lety +5

      You didn't have to expose me like that

  • @nicholasposthumus9452
    @nicholasposthumus9452 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks this really helped me

  • @Colin-ku2dj
    @Colin-ku2dj Před 7 měsíci +1

    This make me fall in love again with my crush,thank you❤

  • @ellatheuntalented2126
    @ellatheuntalented2126 Před 3 lety +12789

    I accidentally read the thumbnail as “types of Crackheads you should avoid”

  • @LogicPsycho1
    @LogicPsycho1 Před 3 lety +1311

    Never put yourself in a situation where you are not sure where you stand in a person's life!

    • @onlyhuman5669
      @onlyhuman5669 Před 3 lety +20

      This is so true ;-;

    • @marqueechan
      @marqueechan Před 3 lety +17

      I wish I saw this years ago...
      But thanks for sharing this now then never.

    • @elmiyk
      @elmiyk Před 3 lety +11

      but how can i prevent this?

    • @Sallyskin
      @Sallyskin Před 3 lety +16

      Sometimes you just can't choose who you crush on

    • @ok.4877
      @ok.4877 Před 3 lety +6

      I do this all the time , it actually increases my anxiety.

  • @he4rtz4_meena
    @he4rtz4_meena Před 9 měsíci

    The last one I can relate! My crush was telling me not to talk to other people and only hang out with him making a big deal that I’m talk to one of his guy friends and thinks I have a crush on his friend instead I’m so glad I got away from him he was so clingy he did try to get back to me by texting me “Siri hates me” thinking that I would feel bad for him. This really hurt my feelings when I realized I was being manipulated.

  • @raqluvvs_icespice
    @raqluvvs_icespice Před 7 měsíci

    To be honest, I'm so glad my first ever crush that I had for only a few days was in this list. Why? Well because they're the bully type of bad crush. And to know for sure that it's not just my brain telling me that him swearing nonstop and being mean to his friends (they're also my friends so he's kinda making me feel bad abt them even if they did nothing wrong) just makes me feel like I'm right which makes me happy.

  • @h-a-w-k-s9069
    @h-a-w-k-s9069 Před 3 lety +937

    "the bully"
    Gacha stories: I'ma pretend I didn't see that

  • @Kindred_Lamb
    @Kindred_Lamb Před 3 lety +1133

    "The bully"
    Tsundere enjoyers: Imma pretend I didnt hear that

  • @letran9446
    @letran9446 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for advice👌🏻

  • @R.E.D11
    @R.E.D11 Před 9 měsíci

    I needed this all my crushes I can’t describe because I’m trying to be family friendly.😊

  • @Chipsanimation
    @Chipsanimation Před 3 lety +17164

    This is totally the reason on why I like fictional character
    Edit: okay maybe that was a lie

  • @mehakverma7043
    @mehakverma7043 Před 3 lety +1173

    "the bully"
    Bakugo Fans: I'll pretend I didn't see that

  • @FortniteLobbyEdits
    @FortniteLobbyEdits Před 8 měsíci +1

    idk why but i kinda like her voice! It's so soft

  • @user-qb3jh6fw2e
    @user-qb3jh6fw2e Před 8 měsíci

    I needed this😂😂

  • @ignoreme2275
    @ignoreme2275 Před 2 lety +757

    The Toxic Crushes:
    *1.) The Ghoster*
    *2.) The Bragger*
    *3.) The Humiliator*
    *4.) The Bully*
    *5.) The Cheater*
    *6.) The User*
    *7.) The Isolator*

    • @RiskierGoose340
      @RiskierGoose340 Před 2 lety +55

      *9.) That one guy in school who seems nice but his behavior is all over the place*

    • @LilCat_UwU
      @LilCat_UwU Před 2 lety +48

      10.) The one that mental age is like 5 but is actually 18

    • @YourAverageNormalHumanBeing
      @YourAverageNormalHumanBeing Před 2 lety +36

      11. The insane one

    • @pachimoki3679
      @pachimoki3679 Před 2 lety +35

      *12. The Killer One*

    • @Spring_15
      @Spring_15 Před 2 lety +20

      @@alter_jerry_conner5176 way to ruin the chain mate

  • @hypercaat9531
    @hypercaat9531 Před 2 lety +8675

    Fun fact: The reason it's called "Crush" is because when you try to act on your feelings for them you are most likely to get "crushed"
    Note: Quite a few replies have been insulting me because "boys cant take a no" so just to clear things up: im a girl ??? and also i didnt comment this because i was salty i got rejected, dont take this comment as a "dont confess because you will get rejected" instead take it as a "take the risk because you will never know what will happen" so if you're thinking of confessing to someone take this as you're signal to go do it 😏

    • @yaboi4587
      @yaboi4587 Před 2 lety +328

      Well that's not very fun.

    • @confusedcat4387
      @confusedcat4387 Před 2 lety +230

      Well my feelings won’t be crushed because she likes me back

    • @douk990
      @douk990 Před 2 lety +212

      @@confusedcat4387 see you in a couple months

    • @jacklarson8049
      @jacklarson8049 Před 2 lety +41

      @Confused Cat
      Me too, it’s a nice feeling

    • @rainbowgirl3973
      @rainbowgirl3973 Před 2 lety +43

      Ikr my crush liked me, my friend, my enemy and then dated my enemy! And he still likes me -_-

  • @2drippy697
    @2drippy697 Před 5 měsíci

    You are speaking facts 🗣️🔥

  • @SirKingdomC
    @SirKingdomC Před 6 měsíci

    I couldn't read the words fast enough but overall, that helped me really well. i had a crush on a bully once but since you made this vid i dont like them now

  • @goddess_of.harmony
    @goddess_of.harmony Před 2 lety +562

    The thumbnail:
    Left: Worried
    Middle: Tsundere
    Right: Stalker

    • @Majin_Xavierras
      @Majin_Xavierras Před 2 lety +15

      Isn't it more right to say "yandere" instead of stalker if we have "tsundere" as the middle?

    • @mixar4457
      @mixar4457 Před 2 lety +5

      Justice, the high prosecutor then left is dandere

    • @user-hx2lq4xu6m
      @user-hx2lq4xu6m Před 2 lety +4

      @@Majin_Xavierras Maybe because theres not another word for tsundere and yandere can be completely different then a stalker? A yandere can stalk, but a stalker might be a lot more sane then a cold blooded yandere. But I mean the thumbnail does look like that person got issues so I would say yandere, but being a stalker can be different then yandere witch is somebody who is blinded by love with no return or just borderline insane for someone.

    • @ss-nx7ml
      @ss-nx7ml Před 2 lety +1

      The video: nah, bruh

  • @SpaceWolfLapierre
    @SpaceWolfLapierre Před 8 měsíci

    Thx that’s really helpful

  • @Watching_Warily
    @Watching_Warily Před 9 měsíci

    the best therapy channel :D

  • @hawks_sweet9962
    @hawks_sweet9962 Před 3 lety +299

    All the weebs in the comments like " And thats y i like a *NOT REAL* character."

    • @sillypro
      @sillypro Před 3 lety +6

      couldn't be me....hehehe

    • @kayeaok
      @kayeaok Před 3 lety +5

      @itz_ally here im sligthly Threatened-

    • @tsutanokorii
      @tsutanokorii Před 3 lety +4

      LMAO TRU

    • @bluexthetic753
      @bluexthetic753 Před 3 lety +1

      Relate

    • @deviqntbxnee4713
      @deviqntbxnee4713 Před 3 lety +4

      THE FACT A COMMENT SAYING “this is why i stick to fictional characters” IS RIGHT BELOW U 😭

  • @neeiarayfa
    @neeiarayfa Před 3 lety +661

    8 type of crushes you should avoid.
    1. Anime characters.
    They aren't real.

    • @neeiarayfa
      @neeiarayfa Před 3 lety +3

      @@nana-q6062 ◻▫◻▫◻▫◻▫◻

    • @gaildahlas
      @gaildahlas Před 3 lety +27

      ...but that means they can't hurt you, which is surely a positive

    • @cafers6607
      @cafers6607 Před 3 lety +7

      *uh oh*

    • @Orea_The_Dazai_Slut
      @Orea_The_Dazai_Slut Před 3 lety +5

      NUUU YURI FROM DDLC LOVES MEEEEEEE XD

    • @ArtBlock0
      @ArtBlock0 Před 3 lety +5

      Anime characters are better than people😂

  • @Limit_living
    @Limit_living Před 5 měsíci

    This voice helps me calm down

  • @IamMe809
    @IamMe809 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I don't have crush
    But yo your voice really calms me down 🙂

  • @sabishi2000
    @sabishi2000 Před 3 lety +576

    *7 types of crushes*
    *me who doesnt even have a crush*
    "interesting"

    • @dego4578
      @dego4578 Před 3 lety +8

      same

    • @naucing6566
      @naucing6566 Před 3 lety +3

      It's interesting the way you said "me who doesn't have a crush" hmmm.....

    • @ramieru8117
      @ramieru8117 Před 3 lety +2

      same (if anime boys don't count)

    • @TWStimes
      @TWStimes Před 3 lety

      yeah, samr, lol

    • @iaa.1o162B
      @iaa.1o162B Před 3 lety

      So that we know it when we have a crush 👀👀👀

  • @peecondom6729
    @peecondom6729 Před 3 lety +8379

    My crush is a 31 year old man that doesn't shower and likes cat- and he is an anime character-
    Edit: 1 year later and I still like him

  • @GAL-CAKE
    @GAL-CAKE Před 9 měsíci

    I can be someone who ghosts people I have crushes on because I get scared to get attached to people who already seem to have it good, I don't want to mess it up or be the cause of people's misfortune, so I take myself out of the picture. Its more of a self esteem thing and I don't know what to do about it.

  • @audreysieg2829
    @audreysieg2829 Před 8 měsíci +4

    i know this video is about crushes but I still want to share this. My very first Boyfriend was verbally abusive and there was SO many red flag and all my friends was saying that I shouldn't be with him, but I still ignored it all and I never even liked him but when he asked me he asked at lunch in front of all his friends so I felt like I had to say yes and I had a BIG cruch on one of my friends at the time but our relshinship lasted for 5 months and for the 5 months' time I liked one of my friends and we were in some kind of fight for half that time. Also, latter after we brock up i found out that he was hobafobic and the funny thing is that I'm Bisexual. (sorry about this I kind of vented about this)