7 Subtle Signs You're More Attractive Than You Think

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  • čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
  • Do you ever think that the way people see you is different from the way you see yourself?
    And hey, it’s not always a bad thing to wonder about how other people see us! Maybe they see something good in us we don’t yet see in ourselves. So if you’ve ever wanted to know whether or not you might actually be more attractive than you realize, here are a few subtle but psychology-backed ways to tell:
    We also made a video on how your imperfections make you attractive: • Your Imperfection Make...
    Writer: Chloe Avenasa
    Script Editor: Vanessa Tao
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
    Animator: TheMindfulMudkip
    CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
    REFERENCES
    Dion, K. K., & Stein, S. (2008). Physical attractiveness and interpersonal influence. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 14(1), 97-108.
    Montoya, R. M., Kershaw, C., & Prosser, J. L. (2018). A meta-analytic investigation of the relation between interpersonal attraction and enacted behavior. Psychological bulletin, 144(7), 673.
    Zhang, Y., Wang, X., Wang, J., Zhang, L., & Xiang, Y. (2017). Patterns of eye movements when observers judge female facial attractiveness. Frontiers in psychology, 8, 1909.
    Place, S. S., Todd, P. M., Penke, L., & Asendorpf, J. B. (2009). The ability to judge the romantic interest of others. Psychological Science, 20(1), 22-26.

Komentáře • 6K

  • @michaelloja6128
    @michaelloja6128 Před rokem +22269

    Watching this while looking like a roach

  • @fiercenfluffy870
    @fiercenfluffy870 Před rokem +7584

    me casually being the most average-looking person ever coming here hoping i'm secretly pretty and then being disappointed

    • @guapbarbiana1959
      @guapbarbiana1959 Před rokem +284

      Lmfaooo frrr

    • @bumpkin8009
      @bumpkin8009 Před rokem +113

      Go and start using mid and bussin as well as get curly hair with a cross necklace people will like that for sure

    • @linalessing1354
      @linalessing1354 Před rokem +153

      Why is average bad? Most people are average.

    • @____________________5680
      @____________________5680 Před rokem +154

      same but I am not average-looking I am just ugly as hell

    • @osku2290
      @osku2290 Před rokem +42

      @@linalessing1354 what if hes so obnoxiously average hes not even average

  • @dandyism7288
    @dandyism7288 Před 2 měsíci +508

    Ok thanks, I get it… I’m less attractive than I think

    • @ElizabethLittlebird
      @ElizabethLittlebird Před měsícem +8

      You are attractive in your own ways

    • @hulda4ever
      @hulda4ever Před měsícem +9

      We see your picture! You are attractive!

    • @watchdog6619
      @watchdog6619 Před měsícem +9

      Broo, c'mon, for real. Unless you pic is fake.🤔

    • @user-bs7zb6xs9t
      @user-bs7zb6xs9t Před 27 dny +2

      Naw, I'm in the same boat. Aside from the last one, which is a constant in my life, I've got the exact opposite from all of these majority of the time.

    • @Imms64
      @Imms64 Před 26 dny +1

      I like your hair tho and your forehead is just legendary

  • @khaleelyounes3258
    @khaleelyounes3258 Před měsícem +387

    came for a confident boost, left with a wet pillow.

    • @Henrick_D_Roger
      @Henrick_D_Roger Před měsícem +13

      Can I join

    • @CookiLovesCookies
      @CookiLovesCookies Před měsícem +18

      “People stare at you.”
      Yeah, because i’m loud and annoying lll

    • @vulturesandravens
      @vulturesandravens Před 29 dny +6

      It's okay I'm here whith you, but I do look like a goblin so that won't help much

    • @Nassa1333_
      @Nassa1333_ Před 16 dny +9

      Basically, I feel the same way, unnatractive, an example, my cousins (girls).
      YESTERDAY I was at one of my cousin's home for my dad's mom birthday, and me with her started chatting, and I couldn't wait to tell her about a character of mine, I was so exicited to share my character with other person, not just with myself.
      But I wasn't able to even tell her the truly exciting part (for me) about my character, 'cause another cousin of mine (girl) had arrived, and us three got for a walk.
      And I really tried to continue to tell her about my character, I bet that since my other cousin had arrived she gave up on me, she left me with my story unfinished, and she didn't even wanted to listen it anymore.
      Please be kind and read my full comment, would it help me a lot knewing that it's someone who readed my whole comment and knows how I feel. 😔
      Edit: WOW, 5 likes already! I expected that no one will like my comment, thank you 💖💖💖

    • @yellowworldyt
      @yellowworldyt Před 12 dny

      ​@@Henrick_D_Roger😔

  • @mahdude4275
    @mahdude4275 Před rokem +5669

    My sister literally asked me what my idea of a perfect date was and then put it on her list of “do nots” for her first date. That says a lot about how people see me

    • @miguelalvarez8140
      @miguelalvarez8140 Před rokem +677

      It's your sister, she's probably teasing you, sibling relationships are like that haha. I bet your idea of a perfect date was great!

    • @littleleah310
      @littleleah310 Před rokem +116

      Tear you down

    • @mahdude4275
      @mahdude4275 Před rokem +216

      @@miguelalvarez8140 She’s not teasing me. She just doesn’t like my advice. But our sibling relationship is mainly good

    • @mahdude4275
      @mahdude4275 Před rokem +15

      @@littleleah310 ???

    • @Evelynisntmyname
      @Evelynisntmyname Před rokem +15

      SISTER?! AYO😳

  • @clarissawilhelm99
    @clarissawilhelm99 Před rokem +2070

    I knew I was unattractive, I keep saying it and I FINALLY know that i was always right.

  • @dyltan
    @dyltan Před měsícem +20

    All the boxes are left uncrossed.
    Genialissimo

  • @TheEerieStudio
    @TheEerieStudio Před 2 měsíci +35

    This video just made me even more self conscious... Thank you

  • @neofulcrum5013
    @neofulcrum5013 Před rokem +2728

    Social Anxiety: Like that’s gonna happen! Everyone is against you!

  • @zoeyhunter
    @zoeyhunter Před rokem +450

    1. I've never actually seen anyone pay attention to me.
    2. I often stare off into space so I sometimes just stare at people.
    3. No one wants to be in any group projects with me unless my friends.
    4. People come to me when they are feeling down or want to vent.
    5. People usually want to end the project with me faster and they don't always do their best.
    6. I'm fairly nice to strangers so I always thought by me being nice they were nice back.
    7. Everyone has at least something to say about my appearance even my best friend. and no they aren't nice comments.

    • @katrinarobinson1037
      @katrinarobinson1037 Před rokem +40

      This comment deserves more likes.

    • @UPBEATFOREVER
      @UPBEATFOREVER Před rokem +14

      When you ignore people,that attracts people.some people want to engage encounters and mingle.there will be people just sit there all pretty bothering nobody.and there comes the people.or when you are down in the dumps.attracts people too!strangers and people you know.they want to help.sometimes it is none of their business.some people want to be just left alone.

    • @slothR99
      @slothR99 Před rokem +13

      Beauty is much deeper than looks. Even though I'm sure you are more attractive than you give yourself credit for, the right people love a great personality before looks. Being attractive is a bonus, keep your head up. I believe in you 😄

    • @DavidNikkiZane
      @DavidNikkiZane Před rokem +13

      you have friends? damnnn

    • @zoeyhunter
      @zoeyhunter Před rokem +11

      @@DavidNikkiZane I only made them last year!

  • @Memelord_Supreme26
    @Memelord_Supreme26 Před 15 dny +2

    i love your artstyle and i am now quite happy after watching this
    VIRTUAL TACKLE HUG RAHH

  • @vetsurgery1013
    @vetsurgery1013 Před 16 dny +1

    this is so sweet and nice, thank you!

  • @maxwellkowal3065
    @maxwellkowal3065 Před rokem +669

    This video has firmly established that I am NOT attractive to ANYONE. Glad my hunch was correct

    • @notarug1208
      @notarug1208 Před rokem +109

      Unattractive gang!
      😃🖐

    • @quincy3367
      @quincy3367 Před rokem +8

      😩

    • @DemetrioZannetti
      @DemetrioZannetti Před rokem +13

      yep same not a surprise though for me

    • @maxwellkowal3065
      @maxwellkowal3065 Před rokem +3

      @bolt I know, but it isn't really easy for me to talk to people or present such good will in the first place when I'm nervous or unable to respectively.

    • @linalessing1354
      @linalessing1354 Před rokem +8

      Attractiveness is very subjective. Believe it or not, there are people out there who will find you attractive. But if you give up and resort to self-pity you might never meet those people

  • @official_otaku3074
    @official_otaku3074 Před rokem +1160

    Thank you so much for confirming me thinking how unattractive I am... literally *none* of these everrrrrrrrr happen to me :)

    • @bumpkin8009
      @bumpkin8009 Před rokem +26

      No one finds you unatractive when you have something that shoots the only thing wich is measured in the metric system at the sweet land of america

    • @zihongezrali6053
      @zihongezrali6053 Před rokem +10

      @@bumpkin8009 debunked: tire width in the US is also in metric (mm)

    • @melam4522
      @melam4522 Před rokem +26

      I have none of these signs either but I don’t think it means that I’m unattractive. I think I’m normal and it’s fine=)

    • @userm180
      @userm180 Před rokem +11

      these arent all the signs that show how attractive you are

    • @soofeesh
      @soofeesh Před rokem +1

      yes

  • @zahiyyaabdulrahman364
    @zahiyyaabdulrahman364 Před 13 dny

    Thank you so much for posting this and other videos ❤

  • @pigoshi
    @pigoshi Před 24 dny +4

    Ur voice is sooo relaxing thats so cool

  • @TheReal_Hunter
    @TheReal_Hunter Před 3 měsíci +439

    The fact that no one ever comforts me or shows that they wanna be around me-

    • @Adrian-qo4gb
      @Adrian-qo4gb Před 2 měsíci +10

      you sure are a cool person!

    • @TheReal_Hunter
      @TheReal_Hunter Před 2 měsíci +7

      @Adrian-qo4gb tysm ^^
      U are too!

    • @somebodyoncetoldme871
      @somebodyoncetoldme871 Před 2 měsíci +14

      I gotchu lil man. I’m sure you’re a great person who just doesn’t realize it yet. Keep on thuggin that shit out homie, it’ll get better because it always does

    • @TheGumdrop1
      @TheGumdrop1 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Relatable 💀 just us all alone in this world brother

    • @TheGumdrop1
      @TheGumdrop1 Před 2 měsíci +6

      True, "just keep thuggin it out" is relatable asf, bc aint nobody comin to save my fatass

  • @fatehyo
    @fatehyo Před 2 měsíci +335

    No one gives attention
    No one makes eye contact
    No one wants to be with me
    No one comes to me for dating styling tips
    People are comfortable around me
    They do make me tear

  • @OmkarJadhav999
    @OmkarJadhav999 Před měsícem

    Your voice is soo soothing 😍, I love watching your videos!!

  • @Conceptbonnie
    @Conceptbonnie Před 13 dny +2

    Well, this has been humbling.

  • @JuliusGuruJG
    @JuliusGuruJG Před rokem +3237

    "The more atractive a person is, the more people play attention to them"
    Me having to repeat everything to everyone about 5 times before they understood what i said: yea that seems about right
    Lil edit: i know this is generic but thanks for all the likes, and replies too, makes me feel better to know there are some people out there that can relate to it as well 💚 Stay strong y'all 🎧
    2024: Do NOT get into their discord server it's really one-sided in terms of fairness, at least it was before I left idk about now

    • @littleleah310
      @littleleah310 Před rokem +44

      Frr

    • @lorrainepurmort4283
      @lorrainepurmort4283 Před rokem +54

      I can identify

    • @mckensismith6798
      @mckensismith6798 Před rokem +40

      Saaaaaaaame. Eventually I give up

    • @rns6889
      @rns6889 Před rokem +40

      People say Im really attractive but it seems the environment says otherwise 😭. They're right but these cues do not help whatsoever, for me atleast.

    • @EV143
      @EV143 Před rokem +62

      You're right, for me nobody wants to talk with me in school, when I want to talk to someone I have to do it because no one is going to talk with me, others have their best friends and they spend time with them so they forget about me in school and I feel invisible the most of the time, they come to me hardly ever to talk ☹️ and I feel bad about this because I feel that something's wrong with me

  • @FreeTaurus1
    @FreeTaurus1 Před rokem +440

    Another point : CONFIDENCE. The more confident you are , the more attraction you get. The first thing people pay attention sadly is appearance. If you're dressed up like a hermit, don't be surprised people don't find you attractive. Just remember , appearance changes. Before i neglected myself pretty bad , got obese even , now since i'm taking care of myself , my appearance ,my confidence , being more positive , i shine. Oh believe me i'm an introvert , i know the feeling of being overshadowed by louder people. And you don't NEED to be the center of attention to be confident and attractive. Just take care of yourself and you will see how your life can quickly turn around for the better. Just believe in yourself.

    • @alexandero-o2392
      @alexandero-o2392 Před rokem +16

      ALSO the right hair cut I got a fair cut and people said I looked way different and people who likened to talk about me were surprised 😂

    • @JadetheFiend
      @JadetheFiend Před rokem +3

      Well shit

    • @dwight3555
      @dwight3555 Před rokem +20

      Confidence is directly linked to attractiveness. The more attractive you are, the more people will talk to you, the better you'll be a social skills and the more confident you'll become.
      On the other hand if you're not attractive and people rarely talk to you, you'll never develop good social skills and every time you'll try you'll be too far behind the rest which along with your physical flaws means you'll be rejected.
      If you're good looking, you'll always become confident without even meaning to. If you're not good looking, trying to be confident will just appear as weird and creepy because of your lack of experience and physique making others weary.

    • @sweetricecakeman8582
      @sweetricecakeman8582 Před rokem +10

      I am confident in my abilities. That being said, I have no abilities. I'm anti-social. Extremely anti-social. Though I'm not depressed, I'm trying to actually get a purpose other than sitting at my computer all day. I've recently been trying to learn to cook.

    • @ubilwilbur4775
      @ubilwilbur4775 Před rokem +8

      After skimming the comments for this video, I'm quite certain that a healthy degree of confidence may very well be the missing ingredient in common efforts to become attractive.

  • @kawaiikoto9260
    @kawaiikoto9260 Před 19 dny +1

    Thanks for making me feel even less attractive than I thought I was ..😀 this channel keeps tearing down my self steam

  • @Wielands_Schmiede
    @Wielands_Schmiede Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is the first video I saw on your channel, that wasn´t about psychology but all about good looks and appearance.

  • @reegitgud
    @reegitgud Před 2 měsíci +243

    As an introvert who doesn't get any of this I see this as an absolute win.

    • @Dwaekki_At_Heart
      @Dwaekki_At_Heart Před měsícem +22

      As someone with social anxiety who never leaves their house and has no social interactions whatsoever, I see this as an absolute win as well.

    • @banhgchans
      @banhgchans Před měsícem +6

      ​@@Dwaekki_At_Heart FACTS BROOOO

    • @Dwaekki_At_Heart
      @Dwaekki_At_Heart Před měsícem +4

      @@banhgchans holy cow your a stay?!?!

    • @user-sx8yy1wp4y
      @user-sx8yy1wp4y Před 22 dny +3

      Honestly introverts get more attention than they think, you have friends you are just not knowing it

    • @DonovanMiller-yc4xc
      @DonovanMiller-yc4xc Před 10 dny +1

      Same

  • @Enjun38
    @Enjun38 Před 5 měsíci +237

    For the first time 'Jealousy is a form of attraction' has made me really arrogant about my heavily bullied childhood. In ways I would have never fathomed.
    Thank you for this empowerment.
    I will do my best not to let this go to my head.

    • @TheGumdrop1
      @TheGumdrop1 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Relateable💀

    • @AristasTheMonsterHunter
      @AristasTheMonsterHunter Před 2 měsíci +4

      Truly relatable 💀

    • @mymaaaan1540
      @mymaaaan1540 Před 2 měsíci

      Ay, we have the same profile picture

    • @FRAGResourceTTV
      @FRAGResourceTTV Před 2 měsíci

      Already did lol The seed has been planted

    • @Greg2ThEMAX
      @Greg2ThEMAX Před měsícem

      Yeah I relate the most to #7. So I feel ya. Most of my childhood people were rude to me. I’ve been told that it means people are jealous that I’m more out togetwhr or maybe it does mean I’m attractive! Who knows haha!

  • @Jwillrocku2
    @Jwillrocku2 Před měsícem

    I see myself differently now. I have never been called physically attractive. However it’s been my belief true beauty is a vibe. I meet these 7 subtle hints and dor the first time as an INFP male I feel confident 😊 much appreciated ya’ll!

  • @alekszockt592
    @alekszockt592 Před měsícem

    i actually can relate to a couple of the mentioned things and it kinda makes me a bit more secure about how i feel about myself thanks for that...

  • @abbygailgaudette5253
    @abbygailgaudette5253 Před 5 měsíci +894

    Everyone has different beauty standards. Even if you're generally considered "unattractive", there will always be someone out there who'll think you're the most beautiful person they've ever seen

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin Před rokem +623

    0:00 Intro
    0:26 1. People pay attention to you
    0:52 2. People tend to stare at you
    1:29 3. People want to be around you
    1:57 4. People come to you for styling, beauty, or dating tips
    2:27 5. People are comfortable around you
    2:50 6. Strangers are often nice to you
    3:18 7. Some people try to tear you down
    3:51 Outro

    • @berlinslostbeanie6382
      @berlinslostbeanie6382 Před rokem +5

      Thank you sm

    • @naudianeels1328
      @naudianeels1328 Před rokem +3

      Thanks I didn't have the patience to sit through the whole video this morning...😘☺️😉

    • @karinweeee966
      @karinweeee966 Před rokem +2

      thank u :D

    • @Erity
      @Erity Před rokem +5

      Everything is opposite for me , youtube making me more depressed

    • @suhanasimran326
      @suhanasimran326 Před rokem +5

      Non happens to me, except the 7th part

  • @Preston_parker617
    @Preston_parker617 Před 4 dny

    thx I needed the confidence boost I think you are a great person and u deserve great things have a wonderful life :D

  • @user-hy5nu7iu5k
    @user-hy5nu7iu5k Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for this it can make you feel comfortable

  • @christ2188
    @christ2188 Před rokem +127

    after watching this, i'm 100% sure that i am unattractive

    • @bumpkin8009
      @bumpkin8009 Před rokem +5

      I mean someone has to be unatractive to have other people be attractive or somethin like that

    • @a_bionicle6635
      @a_bionicle6635 Před rokem +11

      @@bumpkin8009 that’s kind of insensitive… and completely void of any real evidence…
      People got to say what they say though, right?

    • @levisunderwear2988
      @levisunderwear2988 Před rokem +3

      Me too

    • @paprikagames
      @paprikagames Před rokem +2

      with you here glad we are on the same team

    • @userm180
      @userm180 Před rokem

      these arent all the signs for attractiveness

  • @joshuasiebenhofer2452
    @joshuasiebenhofer2452 Před 3 měsíci +93

    I managed to fail all of them miserably.
    Greeeaaaat.

  • @I_Am_Weird_Deal_With_It_
    @I_Am_Weird_Deal_With_It_ Před měsícem

    Tyyy!!! I finally feel pretty for the first time in forever 🥹

  • @Lolo-geinai11
    @Lolo-geinai11 Před měsícem

    that made my day 100% better

  • @Adam-lf1hz
    @Adam-lf1hz Před rokem +145

    I found out what I already knew; I’m VERY unattractive
    Edit: now that I’ve watched the second half of the video I’m in a vast ocean of confusion, I only notice about half happening to me like the “people trying to belittle you or spread false rumours about you” but I think that that’s just because they genuinely don’t like me

    • @alcoholicwh0re737
      @alcoholicwh0re737 Před rokem +6

      Sorry to hear that :(

    • @34S100
      @34S100 Před rokem +2

      😭😡😭😭😡😡😭

    • @sirbughunter
      @sirbughunter Před 5 měsíci +1

      🙏♥️

    • @cameramanTherealone
      @cameramanTherealone Před 3 měsíci +1

      Well, that's the only thing happening to me. The other ones are quite the opposite happening to me...

    • @shajedabegum3467
      @shajedabegum3467 Před 3 měsíci

      Same that's the only thing that matches with my life too

  • @mahdude4275
    @mahdude4275 Před rokem +168

    When you say “attractive”, do you mean “good looking”, or “people will be attracted to you for many reasons including looks and personality”

    • @manciajr2805
      @manciajr2805 Před rokem +21

      Good question

    • @E_T_H
      @E_T_H Před rokem +14

      It’s all subjective to the opposing person 😊 different features about you are going to attract people for different reasons. It could be your looks, personality or even energy that you give off. But in the sense of the word “attractive”, it literally just means you have some pull on people for a reason that is relevant to them 😊 if that makes sense.

    • @elmerfudd6305
      @elmerfudd6305 Před rokem +4

      Number 1 is energy, as in not
      BORING, or self conscious, timid,
      Down, negative,,
      A life force inside that comes out.
      This is what draws me to them
      They don't have to be good looking..!!

    • @Lmao-md3wl
      @Lmao-md3wl Před rokem +6

      @@elmerfudd6305 i gotta agree to this, i got attracted to someone I know just because of the energy she emits, she's easy to talk to and a pretty humorous girl, she may not be the best looking girl I know but that energy skyrockets my attraction to her

    • @lapris7380
      @lapris7380 Před rokem +3

      I believe it’s the latter.
      Actually now that I look at it I think it’s both. Some are things that occur for physically attractive people. If you’ve ever heard of the halo affect that’s what some of the answers remind me of. Then some of the other answers seem to also go with personality and character so I’d say both.

  • @milkman7851
    @milkman7851 Před 10 dny

    This recommandation hit hard

  • @shanedeleeuw7994
    @shanedeleeuw7994 Před 16 dny

    you are always so correct i love it

  • @drippymonke166
    @drippymonke166 Před 2 měsíci +57

    This just lowered my self love
    Thanks

  • @pizzaofdarkness4041
    @pizzaofdarkness4041 Před rokem +120

    Random colleagues and clients in my workplace sometimes told me I am attractive. They had no idea how much those remarks made my day considering I am self-loathing and always lack confidence.

    • @chaseabler94
      @chaseabler94 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I hope there is a part 2

    • @user-mp6cf4bp7y
      @user-mp6cf4bp7y Před 3 měsíci

      Bruh I only related to the last one but maybe more BC I have ADHD so I tend to focus on things that I am doing rather than people ( unless it is your mother )

  • @billiejeanisthylover
    @billiejeanisthylover Před 29 dny

    Most of these only apply to my friends ngl. But I do occasionally get complimented or questioned on my routines (like skin or hair). And tbh I have none, I literally “roll out of bed” with my look. I’m saying this, as I have some of the most prominent dark eyebags known to man… so those people are tripping. A few other things mentioned happen to me occasionally, so it’s a big self confidence booster! Thank you ☺️

  • @blackhagalaz
    @blackhagalaz Před rokem +88

    Nope, nope and nope. I know I am the "ugly friend" lol. Just recently my attractive friend and I where on a small festival. I walked her to the restrooms because she didn't know where they where jet. Two guys who where standing nearby broke up their conversation to talk to my friend. We 4 talked a moment throwing suggestive jokes at each other, and it was clear one of the guys was flirting with my friend pretty heavily. The second she went to the toilet and I was alone with the guys they turned to each other and continued their conversation, just like I didn't exist XD.
    It's always like this around her, at least with random people. Friends who know me a while admire me on another level. They often ask me for advice because apparently "I know it all/am talented with that stuff" etc. They know I will listen to their worries and help wherever I can. I am that "motherly" kind of friend. But sure as heck Noone finds me attractive lol.

    • @bumpkin8009
      @bumpkin8009 Před rokem +9

      Try using firearms and muscle they will care!

    • @blackhagalaz
      @blackhagalaz Před rokem +1

      @bolt Thank you ❤️

    • @blackhagalaz
      @blackhagalaz Před rokem +4

      @@bumpkin8009 Dude 😅

    • @zainabzuhasarafdeen4873
      @zainabzuhasarafdeen4873 Před rokem +5

      May god guide you and bless you with all the happiness you deserve
      Aameen
      Love u
      Tc 💗💗

    • @blackhagalaz
      @blackhagalaz Před rokem +2

      @@zainabzuhasarafdeen4873 thank xou thats very Kind ❤️. You too be blessed

  • @alanirie
    @alanirie Před rokem +83

    3:46
    "Take it as a sign that deep down inside,
    they actually admire you and wanna be more like you."
    As someone who was verbally bullied a lot during her youth for no absolute reason, this statement and #7 as a whole made me feel a lot better.
    Guess my mom was right to tell me that they were just jealous. And to all the haters from my past, thanks but no thanks ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @NasserY11
    @NasserY11 Před měsícem +3

    "People are comfortable around you" Never felt that before, people actually arent in my class

  • @Im_in_your_basement_hehe
    @Im_in_your_basement_hehe Před 2 měsíci

    Watching this for the psychology and the smooth af voice. Could literally fall asleep.

  • @toottoot2756
    @toottoot2756 Před rokem +449

    This is such a nice video! It helped me discover myself a bit!
    I used to think I was attractive!

    • @Luckru
      @Luckru Před rokem +17

      LOL

    • @obi-wankenobi9471
      @obi-wankenobi9471 Před rokem +8

      Lol

    • @vicroynight4630
      @vicroynight4630 Před rokem +9

      yup same

    • @US3LESS_CH1LD
      @US3LESS_CH1LD Před rokem +3

      same here 😋

    • @hafnahaleema4765
      @hafnahaleema4765 Před rokem +3

      lol, dw same here. except i dont know why I thought I would be shown as pretty. i have a busted lip, tissue engraved to my lip (I was trying to stop the bleeding), and I can't stop drooling. plus, my breath stinks cuz I cant open my mouth to brush my teeth.

  • @Fenixflightfr
    @Fenixflightfr Před 5 měsíci +120

    Every video of you guys never fails to make me cry cause I click on it with high hopes just for you to tell me no your not attractive

    • @nerdofherd
      @nerdofherd Před 2 měsíci +2

      😢

    • @nerdofherd
      @nerdofherd Před 2 měsíci +7

      I'm with you on this . I'm sorry for you , this video should not exist .

  • @catabat49654
    @catabat49654 Před měsícem +4

    This video confirmed that I’m just a goblin that people don’t like after checking “no” on every single box

  • @Traffic_ConeRBX
    @Traffic_ConeRBX Před 10 dny +1

    ACTUALLY enjoying the vid while none matches :D

  • @slgremory
    @slgremory Před rokem +122

    Outstanding! I managed to dodge every single one of these :D

    • @bumpkin8009
      @bumpkin8009 Před rokem +3

      Great now dodge the 9mm "love balls"

    • @afroman3724
      @afroman3724 Před rokem +2

      The only one that remotely applied was 5 😭

    • @userm180
      @userm180 Před rokem +8

      guysss these are NOT all the signs that show how attractive u are

    • @afroman3724
      @afroman3724 Před rokem +3

      @@userm180 ITS ENOUGH FOR ME

    • @userm180
      @userm180 Před rokem +1

      @@afroman3724 it shouldnt beee😭

  • @traskindustries4970
    @traskindustries4970 Před rokem +235

    Feels good to know that all my self care is tangibly paying off in more ways than one! All of these happen to me often nowadays :)

    • @marmalademarmalade4996
      @marmalademarmalade4996 Před rokem +6

      Lucky

    • @INGIE32
      @INGIE32 Před rokem +2

      Didn't you build sentinels to kill the x-men?

    • @DT-Wise
      @DT-Wise Před rokem +3

      Me who doesn’t even wash my hair and people still do the things in the list to me… why are ppl like this 👁👄👁

    • @INGIE32
      @INGIE32 Před rokem +1

      @@DT-Wise The dark side is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be... unnatural.

    • @marmalademarmalade4996
      @marmalademarmalade4996 Před rokem

      @@DT-Wise ha same my hair looks light someone empty a can of oil on it

  • @sumonbines-karki4818
    @sumonbines-karki4818 Před 2 měsíci

    I love this channel 😁

  • @meislucid
    @meislucid Před 14 dny

    thanks for telling me in the end that even though i dont apply to any of the 7 points, which yes is true, that i might still be attractive

  • @wendigothedead6416
    @wendigothedead6416 Před rokem +581

    The fact that they're paying attention to you might also just mean they're kind people or really good friends. Good listeners.
    And the staring part can be seen two ways.
    They could also stare at you because of your clothing or your height.
    Maybe the way you did your hair or your hair color.
    Also, other people trying to bring you down might just be because they're bad people.
    Nevertheless, being attractive might come in two different forms. If you're generally a happy and kind person who usually would do kind deeds for others simply because you want to, you might be attractive in a different way that's not physical.
    The important part about that would be how you feel about yourself. Because come push to shove, you're only really as attractive as you feel you are. Beauty and attractiveness comes from within yourself.

    • @misstigerbubbles
      @misstigerbubbles Před rokem +6

      This!!

    • @Shilpa_Kujur
      @Shilpa_Kujur Před rokem

      Not only that, people might be saying bad things about because you might actually be an asshole but no one wants to say it right on your face.

    • @hannahl1477
      @hannahl1477 Před rokem +10

      This made me feel a lot better. I’ve never experienced anything in this video, except with good friends that I’ve known for a while or with strangers complimenting my purple hair. Thank you.

    • @____________________5680
      @____________________5680 Před rokem +11

      I agree with you I always stare at my friends kind of analyzing them and I always try to pay attention to everyone whos talking to me because no one ever pays attention to me and so I wanna pay attention to people who talk with me so they dont feel as bad as I do whenever no one listens

    • @aaronz6252
      @aaronz6252 Před rokem +4

      So im super ugly then? Because thats how i see myself

  • @deckhead33
    @deckhead33 Před rokem +276

    Being an attractive woman can also work against you and is not necessarily always a good thing.
    For example, most of my now ex female friends have been superficial and as recently as in the last few months, I’ve found out one of my closest friend had been talking bad about me behind my back, which I was very hurt by.
    I still wonder to this day where I’ve gone wrong with these people when I’ve only been good to them but know deep down they never really cared about me.
    Also, the men I meet fall in ‘love’ after only a few dates which I know can’t be true as they haven’t gotten to know me well enough.
    However, when they see that I’m quite a deep person with strong morals and values, they decide it’s too much effort and go their way.
    People are attracted to attractive people but mostly on a superficial level as when they get to see that person is human and with faults like everyone else, they are quick to leave. Only the few genuine ones remain.

    • @DeathAngleZoe
      @DeathAngleZoe Před rokem +20

      You explained my entire life so perfectly. I find myself to be prerty average but I get treated like this everywhere I go. Especially with men. 😔 They just expect me to be perfect all the time and to look perfect.

    • @AlexCab_49
      @AlexCab_49 Před rokem +14

      Pretty people privilege is still a thing.

    • @xXLegacy
      @xXLegacy Před rokem +2

      on average it takes two weeks to fall for someone so a few dates sounds about right

    • @AlexCab_49
      @AlexCab_49 Před rokem +2

      @@xXLegacy Eh us guys can do that in a second. But some of us will never get a gf so it's just better to make peace with the situation and try look at the bright side of things.

    • @xXLegacy
      @xXLegacy Před rokem +3

      @@AlexCab_49 speak for yourself😅

  • @DorkNextdoor-sh6ii
    @DorkNextdoor-sh6ii Před dnem

    I related to a lot of these! Mainly the staring one. I have anxiety so when people stare at my constantly, I get really anxious and nervous 😭😭

  • @Phoebe_drawz
    @Phoebe_drawz Před 6 dny +1

    ah wow how fun it is to be a person with actual self esteem watch this video and realize you experience non of these signs, wow, how amazing!

  • @LemonSmore
    @LemonSmore Před rokem +253

    I love how hard you guys work to post every day. It’s amazing. I love psychology and watching your videos makes me love it even more, thank you so much for making these very helpful and educational videos! Keep up the amazing work ❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +7

    • @nabstablookfromundertale5865
      @nabstablookfromundertale5865 Před rokem

      can make you gain more confidence, respect but can also let you lose hope and happiness. its a bit of a gamble really when watching these videos to try and fit your life situations in.

    • @LemonSmore
      @LemonSmore Před rokem

      @@nabstablookfromundertale5865 yeah I totally agree

  • @firenzarfrenzy4985
    @firenzarfrenzy4985 Před rokem +149

    I’m melting at how soft your voice/narration is. The animation is equally beautiful. Messages concisely conveyed. And just sometimes, it feels so alleviating to be so understood it’s scary. Like the bad introvert qualities video. I thought I was being dissected as I watched the most relatable stuff flash before me. What I’m trying to say, is this content is just so… warming. I lost this channel for a bit but it’s now in my favourites to watch once more. Keep it up!

    • @cassieandbradleyalfaroa1936
      @cassieandbradleyalfaroa1936 Před rokem +1

      That first sentence you were totally simping lol. (Joke no hate bro)

    • @firenzarfrenzy4985
      @firenzarfrenzy4985 Před rokem +2

      @@cassieandbradleyalfaroa1936 Lol I know. But like you know how you get those special narrators. Morgan Freeman? David Attenborough? This is just special like that. It is a kind voice. Understanding.

  • @yanoucoolk
    @yanoucoolk Před měsícem +6

    Bru wtf
    1. I often get forgotten by others
    2. I’ve literally never seen someone stare at me
    3. I always am alone on group projects
    4. I’ve never been asked tips for that
    5. People often feel uncomfortable around me and because I notice I try to make jokes but it makes it worst
    6. I’m always nice with strangers, often they are not
    7. Yeah people try to tear me down but I just don’t got enough sh*t to care

    • @mattstorrs6824
      @mattstorrs6824 Před 25 dny

      Blud was torn down to the point being berated is normal
      Dw your villain arc is starting

    • @Lua_You
      @Lua_You Před 20 dny

      @@mattstorrs6824 Then.. Finally... YOU will be the center of attention.. THE MAIN ATTRACTION!! MUAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @mattstorrs6824
      @mattstorrs6824 Před 18 dny

      @@Lua_You I’m legit the guy that encounters him during the montage of him becoming a villain, I look at him confused, and walk away as he yells at me to come back

    • @Lua_You
      @Lua_You Před 18 dny

      @@mattstorrs6824 For real... The struggles of this world remain unsolved, and so do my problems... But, now, I will fix it.. FIX IT ALL! THANK ME!

  • @Stxr_Burst
    @Stxr_Burst Před 28 dny

    The last one I relate to so much 😭

  • @NapalmThunderbum
    @NapalmThunderbum Před rokem +65

    Honestly, I think I'm somewhat attractive but I've never been the attractive person yet I can relate to some of these like being stared at, people paying attention to me, tearing me down unprovoked and people are comfortable around me, I also get asked for advice on certain things but not beauty, dating, or style tips. I think it is just my neurodivergence and the fact that I tend not to judge people the same way most others do so they are comfortable with me, and that comes from having been bullied my entire childhood, I stick out like a sore thumb so people stare and pay attention to me because I am the odd one out, and they ask for my advice because I am a walking encyclopedia of random info that I willingly talk about to find a way to socialize, and I know a good bit about computers. But I don't think any of that has to do with my level of attractiveness.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +9

      You are gorgeous

    • @pokemonkeys9963
      @pokemonkeys9963 Před rokem +1

      same thing with me but i basically get all of the things they said one time in kindergarten this girl spread a rumour about me i forget what it was now but she is still in my class and now we a sorta friends

    • @KodakYarr
      @KodakYarr Před rokem +1

      Are you me? Lol, I'm pretty much in the same situation, which is a little confusing. I guess it's all of those things along with having an at least averagely good looks.
      I do get told I'm cute or good looking from time to time... but I usually reject it as niceness.
      🤷🏼‍♂️

  • @victoriacharney1303
    @victoriacharney1303 Před rokem +31

    “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” 🥰

    • @pirez7932
      @pirez7932 Před rokem +1

      Huh?! Do you mean "is in?"

    • @caelum8160
      @caelum8160 Před rokem

      @@pirez7932 perhaps they meant the Dungeon and Dragons Beholder 😂

    • @pirez7932
      @pirez7932 Před rokem

      @@caelum8160 Still don't quite get it though. Is it a movie?

    • @victoriacharney1303
      @victoriacharney1303 Před rokem

      @@pirez7932 Is that what it was supposed to be?

    • @bumpkin8009
      @bumpkin8009 Před rokem

      It's the face, stupid or the body

  • @gia8943
    @gia8943 Před 23 dny +1

    This is all true. And I do think I'm attractive already! 💅✨

  • @abudiadem7
    @abudiadem7 Před 11 dny +1

    I never been disappointed this much in my hole life

  • @indygogo
    @indygogo Před rokem +15

    I was holding the door at school for people and saw a girl coming to the door, so i held it for her. When she walked through the door, she stopped abruptly, gasped, and said, "You're so pretty!" I was caught off guard and it made my day a million times better. Just shows how much of a difference little things like that can nake for people. Remember to be super nice and have an amazing day!❤❤❤🤗💖

    • @andreicocioran2948
      @andreicocioran2948 Před rokem +1

      Uhm ok...
      But also it dosen't matter if ur a beauty or no.
      It matters if you have a big n'bright heart and if your nice or no
      That might seem attractive to some people but idk🤷‍♂️

    • @crackedfrijoles6696
      @crackedfrijoles6696 Před rokem +5

      @@andreicocioran2948 I cant tell if this is belittlement, cope, or if you're just very young and regurgitating what your parents tell you

  • @briank8697
    @briank8697 Před rokem +19

    Comparing your older videos to your newer videos, wow, such a night and day difference. The animation quality and your delivery is way better over the years

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      thank you!!! Comments like this encourage us so much!

  • @hulkistain
    @hulkistain Před 11 dny

    I feel happier, thanks

  • @thecallofnine
    @thecallofnine Před 2 měsíci

    Oh wow i experience all 7. i needed to see this today😕❤

  • @iamvoicelessmusic
    @iamvoicelessmusic Před rokem +327

    To all the self-deprecating jokers on here, STOP BELITTLING YOURSELF!
    I get it's a joke, but we all know it's a coping mechanism to cover up low self-esteem. Just wanted to encourage you and say that regardless of how you look, you ARE AMAZING! Stop talking negatively about yourself!
    I used to really struggle with feeling attractive. As a dude, I didn't get a whole lot of compliments. I knew girls had liked me in the past, but because my love life was (and still is) stagnant, it made me think I was undesirable. Then, this past week, several people told me of people who at one point had a crush on me and it really boosted my self-esteem. Plus I've been losing weight, portioning my food and exercising more, so I have felt better in that regard as well.
    Just wanted to tell you guys that often times, we don't pick up on other people's perception of us. And not everyone flirts the same way. So there is a good chance then at least one person likes you.

    • @Lavenderlavenderful
      @Lavenderlavenderful Před rokem +10

      Well in that spirit, tell me about yourself! fyi I am not a dude! 😉

    • @iamvoicelessmusic
      @iamvoicelessmusic Před rokem +7

      @@Lavenderlavenderful Hahaha well I like sunsets, art and writing music 😉

    • @Lavenderlavenderful
      @Lavenderlavenderful Před rokem +8

      @@iamvoicelessmusic me too! Except for the music writing bit. 😊

    • @LeonExile05
      @LeonExile05 Před rokem +4

      @@iamvoicelessmusic He’s lying, he’s definitely a dude. Otherwise why point it out? lol

    • @iamvoicelessmusic
      @iamvoicelessmusic Před rokem +4

      @@LeonExile05 bahahaha

  • @nathanaelcrowder5442
    @nathanaelcrowder5442 Před rokem +35

    I am more than just an interest for others, I am loved by not only a circle of friends, but also by a compassionate friendship!

    • @Rooarr
      @Rooarr Před 3 měsíci +2

      U lucky

    • @TheGumdrop1
      @TheGumdrop1 Před 2 měsíci +2

      *jealousy increased to 9999*

  • @davebryancarullo8698
    @davebryancarullo8698 Před 27 dny

    the 3 matched me

  • @spedexep6011
    @spedexep6011 Před 8 dny

    Came here for confidence boost, got reality check

  • @KeanCantuba-dq2xc
    @KeanCantuba-dq2xc Před 10 měsíci +16

    I feel like if you screamed a million bad words to me,I'd still be relaxed and unfazed(you're voice is so beautiful and soothing)

  • @youtubecommentergal4346
    @youtubecommentergal4346 Před rokem +18

    WOAH! I've experienced most of these and I always thought there's something wrong with me. Even when I'm told point blank by people - family, family friends and strangers that I'm beautiful I know that mentally but I don't FEEL IT in my soul. I have low self-esteem and can be self-conscious when people stare at me. If Psych2Go could make a video on how to build your sense of self - self-love, self-esteem, self-confidence, it would help.

  • @smellydoge
    @smellydoge Před 2 měsíci +2

    Damn, worth a try.

  • @danielh1629
    @danielh1629 Před měsícem

    this video made me feel so bad about myself! thank you 😊😊

  • @joaquinhenquin2717
    @joaquinhenquin2717 Před rokem +13

    Thank you for helping others to live life. Don't stop doing that ever! You're great

  • @urqxunqt
    @urqxunqt Před rokem +21

    It made me feel better about myself! Thanks for this💜

  • @Jess-mr2lk
    @Jess-mr2lk Před měsícem +3

    THANK YOU! This has boosted my confidence so much! I know it’s probably not very factual but I can relate to all of these so Tysm!

  • @wxtfishy
    @wxtfishy Před 27 dny

    Well this vid is reassuring.
    Also to those of you that think you are unactractive, yall probably are. Just have more self confidence. You have alot more to give than you think.

  • @BinklingThe1St
    @BinklingThe1St Před rokem +9

    omg i can actually relate to this!!!
    people do try to tear me down!!!

  • @Zenkai200pump
    @Zenkai200pump Před rokem +6

    I feel like you are reading my mind. The order of your recent videos was the order these things happened to me. And they were all accurate when I watched them. Thanks for being a psychic.

  • @CallMeEin
    @CallMeEin Před 21 dnem

    My friends told me to watch this video if I ever doubted my looks, now I feel better.

  • @hamster-xr3mw
    @hamster-xr3mw Před měsícem +1

    one of my friend have almost every thing in this vids. but im pretty sure that i just because he was the best student in class. he might not attractive, but people around him just want to make friend him *so they can copy his work easier*

  • @nvrkhv
    @nvrkhv Před rokem +50

    Thank you for this! It's a confidence booster🤗

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      I'm so glad!

    • @cookieism.
      @cookieism. Před rokem

      Agreed! Especially the last one because now at school when people tell me to go f myself or that I’m a stupid overconfident bitch or even yell racial slurs at me I now know they probably just find me attractive. Right? 😀👍

  • @JerrysBFF743
    @JerrysBFF743 Před 27 dny +1

    I was here before 1k subs but I wasn’t signed on CZcams so I couldn’t sub and I found you again yay

  • @aasiaackerman4417
    @aasiaackerman4417 Před měsícem

    I have had everything except the last one thankfully

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid Před rokem +13

    no matter how hard we try, life will never be perfect.

    • @bumpkin8009
      @bumpkin8009 Před rokem

      That's why i use rope! Solve your problems with a rope and a nice wallnut tree!

    • @Je11keng
      @Je11keng Před rokem +1

      I agree to that because I have depression and hate my life and parents. I cried all day today, suffering in silence, that i feel the urge to hit them and shoot them. :(

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      exactly! So embrace the imperfection!

  • @thenujangunalan4133
    @thenujangunalan4133 Před 9 měsíci +22

    Trust me, I feel attractive after seeing this video. Thank you so much 😊❤

  • @Reuben-li6mm
    @Reuben-li6mm Před 12 dny +1

    Good to know none of these apply to me beside the last one (sort of). But to be honest, I don't care very much either way. Especially considering what stage of life I'm currently in.

  • @TridentTrist
    @TridentTrist Před měsícem +2

    This is more assurance that I’m not attractive. Ngl I kind of guessed it from the start. I’m always the outgoing one putting effort to show my attraction. Nobody does the same for me. Depressing really. Kinda just given up on friendships and relationships because they always take me on a emotional rollercoaster and I always seem to ruin everything or everybody’s day. (I have severe clinical depression and social anxiety)

    • @ankitamandal5301
      @ankitamandal5301 Před měsícem +1

      Don't worry be beautiful to yourself. You don't have to look for others if you are beautiful or not. People are always judging.
      Forgot the outer beauty and focus in inner beauty. When you will find yourself, you don't need others. They will need you then. 😊Like I always do. Nor I'm beautiful neither attractive from outside but I focus on my inner self and find happiness. I'm also an introvert.I don't want anyone's fake attention just because of outer beauty.
      I think I'm beautiful from inside and don't care about others. You also should try it.☺️
      Am I saying too much?🤔

    • @TridentTrist
      @TridentTrist Před měsícem

      @@ankitamandal5301 yeah people say im beautiful inside. But how do they know what im like inside? What if it’s just a facade im putting up because of my depression so nobody really knows me for me. Worst part is im not aware of where im faking a laugh or fake relating to someone until i do it. Oh god why am i getting personal in a comment section 😭
      Also you didn’t say too much. I greatly appreciate the time you took to cheer me up 😅☺️

  • @Soluminary
    @Soluminary Před 2 měsíci +14

    Thanks for the confidence boost! You did a really good job. Keep on pumping out these quality content

  • @AceKite00
    @AceKite00 Před rokem +30

    This was a huge confidence booster because i relate to most things said here, except for people coming to me about dating tips and i don't think anyone stares at me.

    • @patsonical
      @patsonical Před rokem +6

      On the other hand, I relate to none (maybe besides people sometimes tearing me down), which sounds like exactly what I expected...

  • @banga7banga
    @banga7banga Před měsícem

    Thank you

  • @definitelyarealturtle242
    @definitelyarealturtle242 Před 11 dny +1

    glad i can relate to none of this, disappointed this was on my recommended, still a video id listen too though, i like the animation style! also I conveniently happen to have none of these things happen to me! (7 applies, but its online in video games when they lose, not real life, so it doesn't count)

  • @shellylee2443
    @shellylee2443 Před rokem +3

    I cant tell you how many of my friends know they can and do come to me about all of their life problems. You get me into a group of my friends and its literally everyone grasping for my attention. My biggest struggle is self confidence. It has never seemed to matter how much support and love Ive recieved. Ive always been my biggest critic... Still dont know how to change it. >~

  • @gameplayer0534
    @gameplayer0534 Před rokem +16

    Me: oh finally a video that doesn't put me down! Maybe i'm actually attractive
    **Sees the video, and no point matches**
    M:oh....just like I thought, perfect time to use the forbidden workout to hit my new PRs!

    • @bumpkin8009
      @bumpkin8009 Před rokem

      Is the forbitten workout jerking off? Cause it sounds like it