Dale Carnegie explains that if you want people to be interested in you, you don't have to be interesting. You just have to be genuinely interested in the person you're talking to. Sometimes it's good to stop pushing inward and instead look outside of yourself. Top that on this video and you'll be unstoppable :)
Yeah for sure I agree with that advice but since people aren't that inquisitive (don't really ask questions about the other person) it just gets boring and one sided
yeah I guess, idk I mean like honestly I can agree with what you're saying, I also think by the time someone succeeds in finding what they want using either these steps or something else, their reasoning my come out a little different for how to achieve this, actually I really appreciate you're comment being here really good food for thought :).
thank you for helping me with my depression you helped me find out I uave depression and I was able to get back a healthy lufe because of you giys so thank you
Another tip, remember them and what they talked about. They're more likely to remember you if they know you actually listen to them, remember what they talk about, and engage with them as much as you can. Just make them feel like you care, that way they want to come back to you to hang out and stuff, not just think about you.
Ooooh, and here i thought i just a memorable face because pretty much everyone i lived (still a bedspacer and people come and go here frequently) remembers me. This is exactly what i do with everyone i talk to.
In my opinion, just make it go smoothly and have a good bond with them. When you have a great relationship with people or your loved one, it makes people remember us more
1. Create Positive Associations 0:08 2. Make Yourself a Mystery 0:39 3. Use the Zeigarnik Effect (think cliffhanger) 1:20 4. Become Obsessed With Yourself (NOT in a narcissistic sense) 2:08 5. Invest in Yourself 2:45 6. Find Something to Share 3:23
Step 3: Use Zeigarnik Effect (think cliffhanger)....🎵Cliffhanger hanging on a cliff, and that's why he's called cliffhanger🎵 "Can't hold on much LOOOOONGERRRRR"
I thought about someone for a year straight one time - of course, they were harassing me and sending texts at all hours of the night even after I filed for a restraining order - had to change my number... I don't recommend stalking/ harassing people, but it certainly makes people keep you at the front of their mind...
Im just glad they have that disclaimer in the description . I saw the terms phychological conditioning and the title of the video and felt my anxiety do a spike lol
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It's amazing how I subconsciously knew almost all of these tips and have been doing it for years, but every attempt to make just a lasting positive connection is crushed by my BPD and depression. It becomes harder and harder to persuade myself, that people are even capable of caring about someone else's feelings. Everyone is ok to hang out with you as long as you are happy and entertaining to them. Once you are feeling down and ask for support (just some kind words, not even actual help) - they are gone once and for all
@@crimeaisukraine6605 Youll eventually find the right people as long as you continue to put yourself out there. It can take a long time but at the very least try enjoying your time with and without others and you might draw in people that have a similar vibe.
You know, some of the things here you said are things that I just now noticed by watching this video that I already naturally do when I see my crush, so now I'm kinda excited I guess
Something that someone did literally today and that I can’t stop thinking of is that I was running and a girl on a bike passed by and said good luck It sounds dumb but I am not used to people just being nice like that for no reason Honestly I think that I should do this more too, like just a few words can really make someone’s day better I wish I got to talk with her because I go to the park pretty often and I try to see if there are some people I could go meet but I never find anyone It’s funny that I’m thinking about someone that I don’t even know the name of
I like how simple this seems, though of course it depends on the person, its still really fun piecing together steps or traits from this video and associating them with the things I do In real life, thank you for this video!
Timestamps 1). Creative positive associations 0:08 2). Use the zaigarnik effect 1:19 3). Become an obsessed with yourself 2:07 4). Invest in yourself 2:44 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Anime References in the video the I know of: 0:00: Delicious in Dungeon (and any part of the video with the elf girl) 0:42 - 1:09: Bocchi the Rock! Not really anime: 2:01: Doki Doki Literature Club Let me know if I missed some things and I'll try to add it!
Technically, all interactions with people are a form of manipulation. Not all manipulation is bad but when we hear the word, we associate it with negative things.
Step 1: *Get them to know your existence*
NOOOOOOOOOO
:)
yea maybe if i start talking to people that would help too
[SYNTAX ERROR] [VARIABLE EXIST NOT FOUND]
Nahhh broo 🤣
Why did i click so fast literally everybody i know knows me-
Be sigma lol, we don’t care😂
@@Justin-ts2dw correction: you don't care
It’s okay man, I gotchu
I do that with every Psych2go video about crushes 😅
@@King_SusYou aren't the only one 😅
I'm a simple girl. I see Marcille, I click.
I can understand that 🙂↕️🙂↕️
What is Marcille
@@infjsolitaire.3538 i think is the girl in the miniature
I see farcille I click
@@infjsolitaire.3538The same of the elf character in the video holding a circle top stick
I’m embarrassed at how fast I clicked on this video 😭💀
Edit: OMG 1.1K LIKES?? TYSMMM
Edit:OMG 1.2K LIKES?? YALL ARE BLOWING UP MY PHONE BUT TYY 💕💕
I can relate😏
@@royalehijabi3528 😭😭😭
Me too
Don't worry, you're not the only one
Same... right when I was feeling a type of way for someone this video pops up lol
Dale Carnegie explains that if you want people to be interested in you, you don't have to be interesting. You just have to be genuinely interested in the person you're talking to. Sometimes it's good to stop pushing inward and instead look outside of yourself. Top that on this video and you'll be unstoppable :)
And then they just use you for attention over and over 😐
@@melessemansur4647 Well, if they aren't really interested in you in return, then there's definitely a problem
@@melessemansur4647 oof yeah I know how that one goes. Stay strong lads.
@@melessemansur4647same
Yeah for sure I agree with that advice but since people aren't that inquisitive (don't really ask questions about the other person) it just gets boring and one sided
So be a decent person, who values their own privacy, and loves themselves enough to let themself be vulnerable around people.
yeah I guess, idk I mean like honestly I can agree with what you're saying, I also think by the time someone succeeds in finding what they want using either these steps or something else, their reasoning my come out a little different for how to achieve this, actually I really appreciate you're comment being here really good food for thought :).
Step 1: get eaten by a red dragon....
Step 2: get reanimated with dark magic...
Step 3: Become a chicken...
Step 4: Cross the road...
Step 4: Go to KFC...
Step 6: eat fried chicken
I was like “wait is that marcille”
“THATS MARCILLE”
thank you for helping me with my depression you helped me find out I uave depression and I was able to get back a healthy lufe because of you giys so thank you
Another tip, remember them and what they talked about. They're more likely to remember you if they know you actually listen to them, remember what they talk about, and engage with them as much as you can. Just make them feel like you care, that way they want to come back to you to hang out and stuff, not just think about you.
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Ooooh, and here i thought i just a memorable face because pretty much everyone i lived (still a bedspacer and people come and go here frequently) remembers me. This is exactly what i do with everyone i talk to.
In my opinion, just make it go smoothly and have a good bond with them. When you have a great relationship with people or your loved one, it makes people remember us more
Remember and still don't give a shhh... Just in a moment of need they recall our existence and seek for a comfort/help
Yeah, that's a... pointless advice. If you're homeless, just buy a house.
1. Create Positive Associations 0:08
2. Make Yourself a Mystery 0:39
3. Use the Zeigarnik Effect (think cliffhanger) 1:20
4. Become Obsessed With Yourself (NOT in a narcissistic sense) 2:08
5. Invest in Yourself 2:45
6. Find Something to Share 3:23
🫡 we thank you for your time stamp services.
@@puppetyoshi220 You're welcome :]
Thank you 😊
Step 3: Use Zeigarnik Effect (think cliffhanger)....🎵Cliffhanger hanging on a cliff, and that's why he's called cliffhanger🎵
"Can't hold on much LOOOOONGERRRRR"
❤❤❤
Finally a Dungeon Meshi Art :D I love Marcile soo much :D
The color and art style makes me feel warm and cozy very chill
It’s beautiful
I thought about someone for a year straight one time - of course, they were harassing me and sending texts at all hours of the night even after I filed for a restraining order - had to change my number... I don't recommend stalking/ harassing people, but it certainly makes people keep you at the front of their mind...
Ghost them and wait for them to respond , got it
The worst feeling, is seeing your best friend slowly get a new best friend and stop caring about you
I feel like I am that friend😐
Should be illegal how fast I clicked 😞
Is it offensive 😨?
@@vip_izza no 💀
Omg I love this animation styleeeeeee :D
Frr
Marcille from DunMeshi on the thumbnail
*Dungeon Meshi.
Im just glad they have that disclaimer in the description . I saw the terms phychological conditioning and the title of the video and felt my anxiety do a spike lol
Psych2Go shipping Marcille and Falin wasn't on my 2024 bingo list but i definitely love it 😂
The fact I clicked this fast.
Just a tip to anyone who watched the episode where they talked about “being excited to see people will make them excited to see you” it’s true!😉
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I really need it Thank You Psych2go ❤
Wdym you watched like 5 seconds of it 😭
0:11 already failed im kind not nice😭😞
Saw Marcille.
Psych2Go: One video against psychopaths, the next one about how to manipulate others to think about you.
Just be yourself. Stay confident. Be humble and kind.
Yo delicious in dungeon reference?
Yes. ❤
Clicked for the thumbnail, stayed for the video.
I certainly need whatever advice this video has to work, I'm sick of being abandoned by friends. Thanks for posting =)
I love the way they used Delicious in Dungeon as Thumbnail 💕
Its not because i want a certain someone to constantly think about me but i clicked because of marcille
I only clicked because of Marcille
SAME
I thought it was Zelda 😭
But we are thinking about them 😅
INCEPTION! 😱😂
didn't even read the title, as soon as I saw Marcille I clicked immediately
i clicked on the video cause i immediately recognized naphia's art lol
good going naphia!! that's incredibly amazing :)
Lured in by the thumbnail 💀
Build a genuine connection ❤❤
I didn't even realize, but I do all of these except becoming obsessed with myself
4:15 - Mental Abuse :(
It's amazing how I subconsciously knew almost all of these tips and have been doing it for years, but every attempt to make just a lasting positive connection is crushed by my BPD and depression. It becomes harder and harder to persuade myself, that people are even capable of caring about someone else's feelings. Everyone is ok to hang out with you as long as you are happy and entertaining to them. Once you are feeling down and ask for support (just some kind words, not even actual help) - they are gone once and for all
you have no idea how FAST i clicked when i saw marcille... and thanks again for another helpful video
Be someone that is enjoyable to be around. Stop emotional dumping (venting) on them.
I needed this, time to get some girls. Nah I’m lying
No u don't. Just be yourself
@@SeinIshamiadotried that. Didn't work
@@crimeaisukraine6605sadge
@@crimeaisukraine6605 Youll eventually find the right people as long as you continue to put yourself out there. It can take a long time but at the very least try enjoying your time with and without others and you might draw in people that have a similar vibe.
@@SeinIshamiado I’m sure that being myself might work with some women but where I live, I’m doomed
Fans of the series Friends will know 👌😂
Why those videos appear in the perfect time?!!!
Aw man 2:26 apart of the reason i want to get close to people is because I'm not like this and hope being around people could help me out
Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back. Pursue your curiosity and you'll rebirth countless times ❤
1.Create Positive Associations 0:08
2.Make Yourself A Mystery 0:38
3.Use the Zeigarnik Effect 1:19
4.Become Obsessed with Yourself 2:07
5.Invest in Yourself 2:45
6.Find Something to Share 3:22
The fact that you not only knew what I’ve been thinking about recently, but also used my favorite character from Delicious in Dungeon. That’s wild
These videos are the reason I’m choosing to do psychology next year
Oh yess thats what I need give me all the attentionnn 😊
I am a simple person, I see marcille and falin in the thumbnail I click
You know, some of the things here you said are things that I just now noticed by watching this video that I already naturally do when I see my crush, so now I'm kinda excited I guess
Love the anime references👌
I love these videos! They’re very interesting lol keep up the work :D
Something that someone did literally today and that I can’t stop thinking of is that I was running and a girl on a bike passed by and said good luck
It sounds dumb but I am not used to people just being nice like that for no reason
Honestly I think that I should do this more too, like just a few words can really make someone’s day better
I wish I got to talk with her because I go to the park pretty often and I try to see if there are some people I could go meet but I never find anyone
It’s funny that I’m thinking about someone that I don’t even know the name of
I like how simple this seems, though of course it depends on the person, its still really fun piecing together steps or traits from this video and associating them with the things I do In real life, thank you for this video!
OHMYGOSHH I RECOGNIZED NAPHIAS STYLE SO QUICKLYYY
I see what you did there,putting marcille from that anime❤❤
My mind works in a rather simple way: I see Marcille, I click
whoa art style goated and softboy voice
THE ARTSTYLE I PROMISE I'VE SEEN IT BEFORE GOING CRAZY
it's mine :3
I am too lazy to tell story and I have good memory of my experiences .
So naturally,, I always spread breadcrumbs 😆
Every picture is the chubbiest cutie!
Well others were clicking as fast as they could While i was ignoring it and telling myself I didn't need to see this yet! Here I am!
I clicked this immediately after I saw it
As I clicked on the video my inner monologue said in a sing-song voice "naarrcissiiiist"
Step 1: get them to notice you step 2:be your self
Timestamps
1). Creative positive associations 0:08
2). Use the zaigarnik effect 1:19
3). Become an obsessed with yourself 2:07
4). Invest in yourself 2:44
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
How to teach people to manipulate. :3 Such mental health awareness.
Anime References in the video the I know of:
0:00: Delicious in Dungeon (and any part of the video with the elf girl)
0:42 - 1:09: Bocchi the Rock!
Not really anime:
2:01: Doki Doki Literature Club
Let me know if I missed some things and I'll try to add it!
Meanwhile me, Not saying too much about myself not because i want to be misterious, but because i dont know how to socialize and i get shy easily 🗿
I love how I enjoyed the animation more and totally listened
Loved this ❤
I love the Dungeon Meshi illustrations.
Also, misssed a step: Get eaten by a dragon.
these characters are so damn cuuuteeee
instructions unclear, crush transformed into a chimera…
So everyone is surprised that they clicked this video so fast.
Same
1:29 Bruh, I was feeling the smae thing on the end of Danganronpa 3: Future Arc(Final Episode)
Maybe next game if we get one. We'll see if the creators get the rights to do it again.
@@Rurple Yea, but it won't be a fight against depsair; it'll be against "hope"☠️
Now we need the guide of: how to make someone NOT think about you AT ALL.
Pretty funny how I do like all of that besides that mystery-thing with all of my friends
Crumbs. Positive Crumbs. Positive. Crumbs everywhere.
You forgot "borrow money from them".
They'll never forget you after that.
Someone said I love you to me. That changed my game
OMGGG DUNGEON MESHI AND THE LESBIANS OMMGG
OMG! saw the thumbnail, my Farcille ship is sailing 🫶
the bocchi the rock reference made me giggle
Is it wrong i clicked so fast LOL :')
dude naphia on psyche to go is insaneeeee
Technically, all interactions with people are a form of manipulation. Not all manipulation is bad but when we hear the word, we associate it with negative things.
Hi
Hello
Sup
Hi there
Howdy
I fully expected a cutaway gag at 1:06 💀
3:50 he spoke about me🤣🤣
Helpful tips for sure ☺️
FARCILLE AND BOCHII...❤
wooow refering to soviet psychology , thats a great move right there hehe