How to Show Your Crush You Like Them Without SCARING Them Away
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- čas přidán 18. 05. 2024
- Do you have a crush? Maybe you’ve been thinking about how you can express your feelings for them, without scaring them away. For many, telling someone you like how you really feel can be a daunting experience. Where do you begin? Well, we have some tips to help you.
Did you know that there are things you shouldn't do around your crush? We have a video on that too:
• 7 Things You SHOULDN'T...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
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References:
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Kim, Y. (2020, January 16). How to Tell Your Crush You Like Them Without Making Things Weird. Seventeen. www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a26324989/how-to-tell-someone-you-like-them/.
Fugère, M. A. (2016, May 25). 4 Ways You Can Turn a Crush Into a Relationship. Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-and-mating/201605/4-ways-you-can-turn-crush-relationship.
Bedewi, J. (2018, June 27). How to Tell Someone You Have Feelings for Them Without Freaking Them Out. Sweety High. www.sweetyhigh.com/read/tell-someone-about-feelings-without-scaring-them-062718.
Gaudette, E. (2020, March 17). How To Let Your Crush Know You Have Feelings. mindbodygreen. www.mindbodygreen.com/0-15237/how-to-let-your-crush-know-you-have-feelings.html.
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Imagine having a crush on someone and being afraid of telling them while your crush is in the same position
Yes, that would be really sad..
they will just continue flirting with each other probably. until it got too obvious. maybe.
@@giovanna.6119 awe congrats
In my opinion, you should tell them that you have a crush on them or whatever but you must know previously the consequences of that. Not always the other person can feel the same and sometimes you could end with a broken heart.
Love is a topic you should really be aware of idk
@@merjemtairovska excalty
“You can’t always wait for the perfect time. Sometimes, you have to dare to do it because life is too short to wonder what could have been.”
i wonder what could have been done without doing anything
Love ur videos jt
thank you for this.
Never blocked.controlked by lie
@Daniel Landau bruh
Fun fact : u forget all the tips when u see ur crush
Fax
Fr-
Yeah that's why I will shorten these facts to something I will remember. 😁
Sigh… yep
Set a timer to send the CZcams link to ur crush - there is no backing out now~
Timestamps:
1) 0:42 Spend time around them
2) 1:45 Throw in a few flirty hints
3) 2:10 Go out of your way to talk to them
4) 2:48 Create a deadline for yourself
5) 3:41 Let them know how you feel
6) 4:19 Have a purpose when you do tell them
i feel like going out of my way to talk with them would scare them away
@@humblenoob7631 nah be bold my friend
ok I'm doing this
1) I think i like her and i have seen her every day for the last weeks. Even tho she can't see me, because im sitting in front of her window, I was near her. God I'm already so excited😊
2) I am very shy so I wrote a few letters, how I like her and would like to know more about her children. They are just too cute and always around her these little rascals🤩
3) Like i said, i am very shy, so even tho I gave her the latest Letter in Person, I was disguised as a mailman. (I was so in love with her and i hope she can return this feeling❤)
4) I have made a deadline, but i was so worried that she might not like me, that i accidentally wrote the deadline on the latest letter. I hope she doesnt misunderstand it😔Edit: I have given her another letter in that I told her that I will come to her on that date and tell her something suprising and that it is definitely not related to her husbands birthday😁
5) I just couldn't talk to her in person, so I just called her for the first time🤭 She sounded so surprised when I told her that I was sending her the letters in the last few weeks. She said something about the police and threats or so. I think she is in danger, her husband is being abusive or so, so i told her that I will always be near her and I will get her husband if he trys something funny. (I mean how can he do something so mean to her😟)
6) I also told her that I will be there for her when her husband is going on a buisness trip tomorrow and that I can fetch her and her kids, and take them to see "hell and pain" (a small metal band that she liked a few years back that are performing in town❤)
Edit: guys I don't think she will go with me, she started crying, took her kids and ran out of the house to the van. But luckily I already know that they have a house in the woods to where they will most likely drive. Her husband must have threatened her again. I will just get my knife and wait there in the cabin for her to protect her from her husband.
@@rgbrainbowdash8768cursed comment
This right here... This is the lifeblood of CZcams ❤
"but first, make sure ur crush knows that you exist."
Me: Failed
Same 😭
Lmao
Im sorry who are you again?
My crush is my best friend and we are really close and spend lots of time together and understand each other very well, what sucks is the fact that she has a boyfriend, she complains about him to me as well which is weird.
I mean, I accidentally bumped into him, is it enough?
"In order to tell your crush how you feel, they first have to know you exist" That hits hard RIP
Imagine it's like:
- I'm in love with you
- wait, who tf are you?
But in fact, maybe you think the one doesn't know you but it's not that right cause she may be love you back in secret...
Don’t have to worry about this dilemma when you’re already friends
Step 1 Achieved!
@@poseidon808 yeah but becoming friend also creating dilemma. Because losing friends hits harder than rejecting
that’s the hardest part.
i wanna confess so bad tbh, but i don't want to make him feel uncomfortable.
I wanted to do that too. But if I confess to him, he might get too cocky
In this same situation rn cuz he doesn’t seem to be showing much interest🥲
If you want to confess to him then you should wait till he is alone. Group's really influence ones behaviour.
did u confess???🥺
@@Weirdiohw nopee, he's my classmate, I'm just worried that if I confess to him we'll be awkward with each other
Dang, I love how down-to-earth these videos are. Some of these tips are so simple, so "duh", yet so many of us don't think of them because they require too much effort. We'd rather have "this one super quirky, yet super easy fix", than "this obvious, common-sense method that takes some dedication", and we'd rather blame others exclusively for our problems than take charge and refine ourselves to help with problems that aren't entirely our fault.
i’m too flustered to think about any of these obvious things
I actually told mine that I have the feels for him. Lol He said "I'm not against the idea but let's give it more time." So I guess we are still just friends. That was almost 2 months ago though and recently he's been opening up to me about his personal life and his struggles and spending more time with me and doing things to make me feel special like bringing me my favourite food or dessert and even showing interest in some of my hobbies. It's like he may like me now but I'm afraid to ask again too soon and scare him off.🥺
I guess.. just wait, if he is opening up to you... maybe he just wants you to know how he is. I am sure when he is comfortable he will throw some hints if he likes you :).. All the best with him!!
@@maahidiwan3359 Thank you so much!🥺
@@usagidemeterdeely2443 ^-^
This is what I am doing right now, getting to know them first right after they confessed to me that they like me, I am taking my time and slowly opening my self to the person. It is good to be friends with them first, know what they value, dreams, family backgrounds, experiences and opinions about certain things.
@@lorainebejar2837 Yeah. My current plan is for us to just keep learning more about each other and I figure if we're meant to be it will happen in the right time and if not I'm sure we'd stay as at least good friends. But I must say the more I discover about him the more my feelings grow. I'm trying to put my feelings on pause but it's hard to tuck feelings away.
“Give yourself a deadline”
Calendar: June, D-Day
I thought this was about flirting with your crush not flirting with the beaches of Normandy
You're my new favourite person on earth 😂
i thought that toooo
XD
So glad someone noticed the reference 😆
*applause*
I think I'm gonna write down a whole letter expressing my feelings and give it to her when I have the chance and explain that it's fine if she doesn't feel the same and it won't affect our relationship with each other
That smart
There's just no way your relationship with her won't get affected, it surely will get akward, "very akward"
honestly, I don't think you can recover from that
a warning- i did this. we are now extremely awkward, despite how we used to be good friends. it will affect it. it will not be good, unless she likes you back
@@axt288 is there absolutely any way to do this that wouldn't ruin a friendship or make it awkward with someone you didn't know that well? I think that might just be the cost of failure here
imagine how many people have mentioned ur name in ‘kiss, marry, kill’, and it wasn’t kill
how many people have taken a different route in the hallway just to see you
looked for your username
smiled at ur text
Aww those are some pleasant thoughts fr
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The more interest my crush shows me, the more interest I show her. But, I've noticed, the more interest I show her, the less interest she starts showing me. Seriously, I'm tired of these games. Why can't two people just tell each other how they feel? None of these head games.
Look up love attachments bruh
@@jenjen_oreo oooh savage!!!
First off, I'm not sure, but
Alright, alright. So, mine usually talks to everyone and is usually very social, but when it comes to me they are a lot more quiet and occasionally ask me for help on stuff.
Is this more of a good thing or a *"It's not me it's you."* type of thing?
You are probably making yourself a little too available? Try pulling back a bit and see how things go
Side note for everyone reading this:
Learn to love yourself before trying to love someone else. I know many are dreaming about the other one fulfilling them, but this may lead to unhealthy dependence. And also, people tend to automatically be more attracted to someone in peace with themselves :)
bro im scared what the hell does this mean am i gonna have depressions for waiting for like 3 years yeah i was shy but ill try my best to ask her tomorrow.
@@ezoca8272 how did it go?
@@antonia6143 it went great im so happy that it did!
I really hate this kind of phrases, I know what you mean and it's true that we have to prevent unhealthy dependency but that kind of message always makes me feel like if they're telling me that I can’t love because I hate myself and that’s not true, specially if it’s written like Ru Paul says “if you can’t love yourself how the hell you gonna love somebody else”… it really makes me feel like they are invalidating my feelings.
Really, I get it, we have to avoid unhealthy dependency but I just can’t stop feeling the other way. I don’t know if it's the language or if it feels the same in both languages 🤔
Anyways, I was lucky enough to have fallen in love with my actual boyfriend even while I hated myself even more than I do now. We have been grown together as persons ever since we get together 8 years ago and this relationship really helped me to hate myself less than when we started. I can love while hating myself. This love that I have for him and he for me has been helping me healing myself throw time.
Also whenever I watch Drag Race with my family and Ru says that sentence my mom used to respond “amen” too but one day I just couldn’t anymore and just told her “mom, do you think I don’t love you? do you think in a point of my life I have ever stopes loving you? because you know I hate me and it's beeb worst in the past and you know I've always loved you and never stoped doing that” and since then she has reduced the amount of times that she responds to that phrase.
😞😞😞
@@antonia6143 I’m so sorry for that :c I hope your situation gets better soon :c
I did all of these. Got rejected but still I don't regret it. At least I told him how I felt.
The deadline trick is something I cannot stress enough. My first crush was back in high school. I confessed two years too late. I had broken off contact with her for two years after I accidentally messed up our group project and I couldn’t bring myself to face her after the grade was returned. She told me even if I confessed right there she would’ve accepted, but our feelings had faded in the two years.
Even if you get rejected don't be discouraged. Don't expect them to like you eventually but if you do care for them, in my experience, it's been nicer to have them in my life. Just don't expect them to change their mind.
I've found that there's a difference between infatuation and love. Love can only form with plenty of time to grow together, infatuation is much more surface level.
Being rejected can hurt, but it's better than wondering "what if" or alternatively getting with someone who isn't certain of their feelings can be worse. Just remember that it will hurt for now, but better than dragging that hurt over an extended period.
Well put, I especially needed to hear the last sentence
After living 20 years of my life and 6 rejections... is hard to not be discouraged
It's like you're reading my mind. I did confess to my crush and he rejected me properly. But we still texted here and there and are still friends. I don't have much hope with him anymore but I'm glad to still have him as my friend.
@@sthefanochavarria4474 only 6? Man you're still young don't worry. I get it tho it's hard but you gotta work on yourself. Upgrade your style to your liking and work out(and get the bag). Girls notice when a guy takes care of himself cuz it makes them wonder what makes him worth valuing. Also you should try to stomp the notion of crushes and being stuck on one girl in general. The more you build her up in your head the less chance you have with her cuz just like in a fight she's literally in your head and you lose. Never need a woman. Some of the greatest men go down because of a woman. Remember this planet is half women. Literally crawling with them. You focus on yourself and develop the confidence to take rejection in stride and girls just start showing up without you doin shit. Sorry this was meant to be short but whateva.
Alright, alright. So, mine usually talks to everyone and is usually very social, but when it comes to me they are a lot more quiet and occasionally ask me for help on stuff.
Is this more of a good thing or a *"It's not me it's you."* type of thing?
Imagine having a crush on someone and never even making an attempt to try to find out if they feel the same way. It sucks.
I can relate
literally me
In this rn. I can tell she’s also into me tho. Don’t judge for the pro I forgot how to change it on yt
Been there, trying to be better this year, sometimes finding the right moment is really tricky.
@@doctor_burnsides915 same. Except she keeps smiling and blushing(?) every time she waves at me, which is literally everytime she sees me. Idk if she’s into me too.
when your crush likes someone else but you still obsess over them, waiting for them to stop crushing on them ☠️💔💔....
I’ve been with my good friend-now-girlfriend for 3 weeks now, and listening to this it’s funny to recollect and think about all the steps we unconsciously went through while we were still just friends🤣🤣☺️
This video literally made me ask my crush out. I got SO scared when I asked her but she said yes! Thanks for making my day, if it wasn’t for this video, I would have never plucked up the courage to ask her
W rizz
How that going now? 🤔
We are still dating, we go out for dinners every Sunday, and everything’s going really well.
@@sn0wy_desert74 happy for you both!!
Congrats Broo happy for both of you hope you both are together for long long time ❤❤
the feeling of when your crush is dating another one is way worse than the feeling of fear of talking to them
Absolutely. This is why I can't be friends with someone I have a crush on. I'd have to just stand by and watch that unfold.
Yup that feeling is just outta the world , mine has a boyfriend I'm tired of seeing her with him, and the guy was in primary school and that girl literally stares at me like 10secs straight
@@mamoonazahra9516 there's a chance they break up though!
my best friend is my crush and he likes my other friend who likes my other friend and ik because both of them told me. it's even worse knowing the person you love can't be happy with you and the person that he loves.
Happened to me two years ago it was torture regarding the fact that it was the first time I truly fall in love
I just confessed today. It was over text because I couldn’t bring myself to say to him directly. Honestly, it felt kinda good, like a weight was being lifted off my chest. Basically what I’m trying to say: If you like someone, tell them! It may seem hard but you’ll feel better after! You could also tell them you really care about them if you’re too worried. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take, and nothing will change if you don’t leave your comfort zone! You got this!
Yeah, 100% failed at that. Finally basically admitted my feelings on someone from my high school days who I genuinely crushed on for like 5 years, and ended up inadvertently completely freaking her out. Still haven't forgiven myself for possibly emotionally hurting the one person I've ever truly loved. 😞
rip
Imagine not having a crush and just watching this because you want to just procrastinate on your homework.
Totally not me. Yup.
Same
I feel attacked.
How dare you expose me like that!
Bruh, same.... and I'm realizing that I lowkey do this with a friend
i feel called out T-T
1.)Spend time around them-0:42
2.)Throw in a few flirty hints-1:44
3.)Go out of your way to talk to them-2:08
4.)Create a deadline for yourself-2:56
5.)Let them know how you feel-3:42
6.)Have a purpose when you do tell them-4:20
Ty fellow time traveler
@@chaosdromanah8620 hi
Hello time traveler
HOW HAVE U DONE OT ALREADY
Thank you time traveler! ^^
Just remember everyone, doing this right or wrong still might not work. Ive done these things to a few crushes and they didnt get it for a while…until i told them. But you should still take a chance! Rooting for all of you💖
There are moments where I want to confess not only because i like him but because I'm afraid that I may lose my chance but I'll hold myself because I want him to open up more
Similar sorta thought with my crush, I want to tell her I like her but there’s never quite been an opportunity, whether it be that one of us is busy or most commonly we’re right there next to eachother and yet… the rest of the friend group is too because we’re too busy socialising with people, I’m not sure if she likes me or not but we’ll see whenever I decide to actually not skip past the deadline I set
I wrote my crush a love poem in secret code with translations before fall break so she would have time to react, and it would be easier for me
Awww that’s cute, I didn’t know people still did that. Don’t ever stop writing notes, it’s one of those things I wish more people still did and in the future, little things like that mean soo much
That's awesome, my best friend and I write in Caesar Cipher a lot, it's super fun~
The translation was: Roses are red, violets are blue, I think that I have feelings for you. :3
omg that's so cute
@@spoingle me and my best friend invented a language it's like a is 11 bc it's in the second row of the keyboard and q is 1 bc it's in the first. idk if you understand
Your videos always come at EXACTLY the right time. I literally was just reading a wikihow about how to talk to my crush ✋😭
I hope this video helps!
Lets be honest. Psych2Go is like a magical guardian that is always there for you when you need some wisdom
@@Psych2go It did!! thank u ur videos are always so helpful !!
@@jeshcar haha ikr they’re amazing 🥰🥰
@OFFLIX thank u!!! i’ll try my best to keep that in mind 😅💛
I think the characters go a long way towards making the video relaxing. This really needs to be watched.
If you’re scared to talk to your crush. Here’s a tip. Get your friend to start spreading rumors that will eventually turn up to people saying you like your crush and then your crush will (probably) ask you the question first and by there tone you should be able to find out. And if they don’t confront you it will plant a seed where they think about you two together and could make them open to a relationship.
I am a girl, and I confessed to him, and we're going out together in April... I feel like I found the love of my life. Thank you! 💕🌸
Aww thats so cute! Hope it’s going well!🙌🏻🌸
Way to go!
How did it go? Are you together now? :O
Wow congrats!! It's always good to try. How is it now?? ❤
Hi, I'm a girl. And really a scared one. The thing is that every time I'm on my own just thinking i'm like "it's now or never i'm getting it done". I get confident and feel good about it. But when I wake up the next morning.. it's like my brain resets. I see him at school amd go shy. I'm always the overthinker even talking to my friends. And when he is around it is just over the roof. I can't even put words together. I just can't stop smiling which is another problem I just can't move my mouth. It's like the Marinette and Adrien interaction. But much worse. At least she can say something and that looks cute in a way. But me.. I'm hopeless case.
We do text through messages and all. Sometimes he becomes ill and doesn't go to school. I ask if he's alright. And he does recognize my attention. And he knows that I care. But there is no verbal communication and that's what bothers me.
Like one time he I and a friend of mine were going through a door to make it into the class. My friend got in first and he got in before me. My friend reminded him of being a gentleman and letting me in first. And he apologized by gently touching my shoulder.
I don't know why I said that just felt like it.
Soo just some tips if you gave any.. plzz i'm desperate
At my high school, we had different themed days throughout the year, like pijama day or flower day, there was also a still a kiss day, so in my first year I stole a small kiss from my crush and told him I had a crush on him and he answered “if you were going to still a kiss from me you might as well do it right” and we ended kissing for a while; it didn’t work between us, but i got to say it was an efficient way of telling him 😅😅
Hey, if it works, it works.
Omg!! So lucky ✨️😭
What?
What school do you go to and where?!😭😂
kiss day sounds like homecoming but way more straightforward
Unrequited love is probably the most painful experience you can ever go threw cause I am a victim of it
In today's climate, it feels hard to flirt. I'm always scared it could come off as creepy or pushy. Not to mention I feel like flirting can just be too obvious. I've never been able to do it without feeling awkward.
Same. To me verbal flirting comes off as way too obvious of a romantic interest expression and I’m not comfortable with it.
try doing non verbal cues type of flirting. like doing eye contact and then looking away, etc.
I always lived by the quote "The friend-zone is the best zone" but this video, changed me, *The friend-zone is still the best zone*
I think Erza agrees with you
i ever lived in the friend-zone, and idk if its the best zone!
@@aaryannalouie6994 ohhhh you got him goood!!!
No it’s not
@@derekhemmings1693 better having a friend than being blocked due to being a creepy simp (talking from experience :c)
You know when there’s two people in the friend group who _clearly_ both have a crush on each other and they both are subconsciously doing all of these things apart from straight up saying it to the point that the rest of the group assumed they were already dating and you’re just sitting there like: KISS ALREADY-
- this post was brought to you by the mum friend of the group
Bro there’s this “couple” everyone ships and they’re so close to each other it’s almost like they’re in a relationship alr and they still deny having feelings for each other smh
One of them in my crush and I’m just standing there watching them date like 🕴
@@sugarcoatt_ honestly been there fam. D:
I've been in those before but the other person actually doesn't have feelings for me but I do- and everyones just like- gurl ur perfect for eachother-
I’m literally one of the two and I’m trying to confess today or tomorrow. I even have reason to believe they like me back and support from the group but it’s still so hardddddddd
@@sugarcoatt_ albedo pfp lessgoo
It's funny to think how I'm looking for dating advice on a psychology channel but I like that the tips are all genuinely helpful XD
im really out here instantly coming back to this after finally getting out of the "everything hurts" stage of a breakup
I never got to tell my crush how I felt about her. Many years passed, I graduated from high school and regret filled my heart. If there's anything I can say it's that sometimes you only have a few moments with that special someone you like, so building that relationship and telling them your feelings in the present is something you definitely shouldn't pass up on.
I thought I might regret if I didn't tell so I told directly to my crush. I didn't ask for an answer or want to date.
I believe we'll meet again. I wonder about my feeling. Maybe if we meet and talk again, I can confirm whether I really like him or just want to be friends
I ended up getting a crush on a guy during my final semester of high school. I was In a musical with them. And during graduation he sat behind me. I didn’t tell him I liked him and I still think about him sometimes.
I have one more year left 😔✋🏻, problem is I don't have the courage
Exactly same thing happened with me in college, never got to tell her , now she is married to someone else
@@rohanwarkhade9525 😢
It's a sad thing when you get hurt so often, you can finally say, "I'm used to it".
Yes that is me. I got u
I've been rejected 5 times for major crushes and I can say I'm used to it now.
I lost interest for my crush and i didn't realize that till today, I'm heartbroken 💔💔
Ahh, yes, MY CHILDHOOD
I am very used of having nobody, because when i am meeting someone and she seems to liking me or the time i pass with them, they just get someone else. I don't really know why this happens but it does all the time.
Thanks for the helpful videos! I'm planning on telling my crush that I like her the next time I see her in person.
So there's this boy. He's really cute and has a particular personality. We're good friends, I think, but I'm not sure if he sees me the way I see him. But, rather than thinking about it, I'll just go straight and tell him how I feel for him, respecting his answer wether I like it or not.
edit. I'll let y'all know what happened!
What happened?
Love yourself, respect yourself, because there has never been a person like you and there never will be again🙏🌸🌿
actually there is about maybe 40.000 suicidal people like me
Great wisdom!
Yup no one could ever isolate them self's for the last 12 years like I have.
Are the clone bois a joke to you
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I wish I could believe that, but it's statistically probable that there are plenty of people like me
"So will you follow this steps"
I will be honest
*Not even dead I would be brave enough for such thing as the lasts steps*
You gotta be bold to get what you want in this life hunni. A lot of goodhearted people are scared to confess their feelings yet the jerks are always telling people how they "feel" . Be Brave! Take a supplement to calm your nerves and get it over with hunni!
@@loveapureheart yup!!! Gotta leap out like it's your last day! A calming gummy supplement is actually solid adivce too. Great tip sis.
@@loveapureheart I don't mind doing it, I'm not shy to do so. My thing is I would probably most definitely bet rejected, which is why I'm hesitating. I have a history with people always leaving me and always getting rejected and ignored after confessing. So if she does the same thing after I thought it was different, I would probably lose it finally. Besides, she seems more open with other people anyway and less talkative with me. Of course we talk but it's different with other people. She would only talk to me if I'm around. With others she talks to, she approaches them quickly. And there's this one specific person she talks to a lot and she probably already likes that person. The two of them already have cute nicknames for each other and everything and are inseparable. Even text during class. Can't imagine ever doing the same with her. And I get it, I'm talkative and it can be annoying so i don't see why she would wanna spend too much time with me. She's a nice person so i doubt she cares about looks but I'm still not all that attractive either. If it were different, i probably would've done it already. For now, I'll just be happy that I even have the chance to even see her at all regardless of if she dates someone or not. And she can be a really shy person so she might be the type to be too scared to reject me and force herself to go out with me, I don't want that
@@kennymccormick4428 also i hope this didnt screw over anyone feeling optimistic, and if it did let me know so i can clarify and address it
The thing is my crush this woman is 3 years older than me.. I no longer interested in relationship.. I just realised I'm better off being single forever
I'm definitely in, spending more time/deadline phase haha. I've told myself by this weekend I'll say something. There's still some tenseness in myself but, I'm sure it will all be fine ^-^ I love you're guys videos! Thanks for making such enjoyable and educational content. You are doing such great work for others
we need the update!! how did it go?
i already did all these tips to my crush for the second time we meet each other. i meet my crush in a beach 15 years ago. because my family decided to go to a beach far away from our city. the moment i saw her i have a crush on her. but i'm still young and so shy at that time so i only appreciate her beauty from a distance. so when we already go home i really missed her and keep on thinking about her while in a car. after 15 years when i'm having my OJT (on job training) i cannot believe that she is also working in the resort establishment where i work also. and we even assigned together in a cafeteria. and we talk with each other and letting her know that i already know her and where she lives. but sadly she already has a boyfriend. i feel sad and happy at the same time because i am given a chance to talk to her and touch her and look to her beautiful eyes. maybe right now is not my time to be with her. but maybe we will be together somewhere in the future where my dreams come true
I learnt all this at a young age and love is still the most complicated thing for me
It’s the most complex things you will have to experience.
@@Psych2go That's honestly why I don't want to bother with it until I'm much older, maybe. (I'm 20 btw)
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@@greatwavefan397 the problem is that u don't bother with it. It strikes at a time when you don't expect it. When you let your guard down.
@@greatwavefan397 still young
How to show your crush you like them without scaring them away:
1. Spend time around them 0:41
2. Throw in a few flirty hints 1:44
3. Go out of your way to talk to them 2:08
4. Create a deadline for yourself 2:56
5. Let them know how you feel 3:40
6. Have a purpose when you do tell them 4:19
Have a great day and remember that you are loved 💖 Hope this helped those who were rushing for time 😊✨
thank you so much you lifesaver
This would be helpful if I had a crush, but whatever I might need this sometime :)
Tried number 1 but just got pushed out lol :|
I'd try to talk to him, but I just moved into this new school a few months ago. He seems really nice, but he's also popular, and I'm just some quiet girl. I feel like I'll never even get to talk to him. Although, he has interacted with me twice, he made a weird noise at me the second time lol. I love his humor too. I just feel so un noticed though, like, he'd never actually like me lol. Idk. Sorry for ranting.
@@Syncopated_ please don’t apologise for ranting. firstly, i would like to thank you for sharing your thoughts and ranting cuz honestly ranting is good for you and i am extremely proud of you for setting your thoughts free :) if u want to be noticed by him why don’t you take the first step and talk to him and reach out to him more often? i know it might be scary or hard to approach a guy confidently but just do it! after all you only live once.
a little risk that you take in your life can go a long way! and he will really appreciate your confidence to go up and talk to him. and just remember that no one goes unnoticed so don’t worry and follow what u think is right! all the best and love you a bunch! u go rock!!
I told my crush the 2nd time we hung out and he said, let me think about it. But we've been going to lunch ever since, and have watched a few movies since then. He says as friends, and I respect that. Better than not having him in my life. ❤
I’m a high schooler with anxiety and this video really helped me. They said yes by the way😏😃
Would love to see your take on the psychology of Batman
Like psychological profiling?
@@Psych2go Yes and specifically this current interpretation of Batman being played by Robert Pattinson
Uhhhhhh...... Bro ya tryen to find out abt my personal info ?
@@Andrew_-nr7zt PTSD & abandonment issues. Doesn't get more clear than that. Throw in some sociopathic tendencies & you have a superhero.
@@Psych2go yeah.... Breakdown of the psych of the broken Bruce Wayne.
Don't wait until it's too late. Confess your crush with pride. Time is to short to miss your chance. I almost did miss mine but was lucky enough that my now boyfriend confessed before I was able to. But you can't always count on others. Be brave, you're wonderful the way you are. 💗
I confessed my feelings 2 days before my crush went to another country. I postponed the deadline for almost a week, but at least I'm sure I don't regret doing so.
If you don't do it for her, at least do it for youself :) regret on not acting upon is one of the most acute feelings to bear - especially if you have a tendency to never show up about how you feel - There's this kind of build up of "little regrets". Go on and tell him/her ;)
Brave of you to think my non existent crush could ever like me back........😭
Yeah, I have a crush on Amity from toh...🤣🤣😅😅
@@Gh0st_0122 LMAO-
I love your pfp
@@crazyseaweed5394 thanks
@@Gh0st_0122 damn really
My man is amazing and I’m terrified of losing his respect if he doesn’t feel the same way. Plus our situation is rather…unique.
I HATE EMOTIONS >~
Imagine having a crush on someone and being afraid of telling them while your crush is in the same position
My situation is quite unique too…😑
well then explain ur unique situations its always gud to read other people's experiences (only if u r comfortable)
ive had a crush on a guy for a while but I am a very shy person. its also hard for us to see each other so much since we both travel. i mean, im pretty much afraid of anything that could happen
I also hate emotionsssss. Ahhh
Asking for date or movies when your crush stays in a really strict hostel can be really stupid😂🥺
I'm just afraid to be rejected because I'm an introvert and I overthink everything. 😓
Same
I’m exactly the same way. But, despite feeling like dying, I told the girl I like how I honestly felt. And I didn’t get a definite yes or no, but things have gone on smoothly and we’ve continued to get closer. Point is, it’s worth it, whether it goes good or bad, the worst thing is to miss out and wonder later. Hopes this helps a fellow introvert :)
I'm a introvert that's 10 years old. I can't go on dates. And you know how it is know. If she rejects me people would laugh. I just need a perfect time. But everyone's saying don't miss the chance, I can't build up the courage to ask her to be MT girlfriends. If you can help it would mean so much to me 😀
same
I met my crush a few months before the pandemic and haven't seen her ever since. When we first met and shook hands we continued to hold eachother's hand in place for about 10 secs while looking deep into the eyes; it was love at first sight. She was super nervous throughout the meeting (and so was I!) and when she left, she continued to look back at me multiple times as she walked away.
We continued to text eachother for another week, but then I told her that I'd like to see her again and get to know her better as a person, she dipped for good! Did I scare her away? Probably! lmao
I tried to re-kindle things this April but so far, it had no effect.
Thats odd. Like did she ghost you or what? It felt you hade a good time but I have no idea what happened to get to this result , unless there is some more information that you dont share with us
@@AintHere4You Yup, she ghosted me.
It was a Pokemon-related event where we first met in person.
We're both in our early 20s, both of us love cats and ACG-culture (Japanese Anime, Comics and Games); She's very introverted, very shy, very "isolationist". Certainly afraid of intimacy. My theory is that so far in her life nobody has ever tried pursuing her, and now she has no idea how to handle a relationship with me and she doesn't know how would I react to certain things she does privately.
When it comes to 'non-verbal' things, she still seems open, like when I send her a friend request on Discord, or in an Online game, she adds me back almost right away, so it's obvious that she has feelings for me.
Have no idea how she got so scared of me, even though I look quite girly IRL, I'm probably one of the least menacing-looking man on this planet lol
Once you tell a girl you like them and it’s too soon you scare them away. Women are weird like that.,
@@TwilightRealm723 that’s a tough inte bro. My advice is just to let her go. Yeah they are introverts irl but not trough the grid. Maybe remove her from some of the online networks to make a statement and leave her befriend on 1-2 networks/online games? She’ll notice and then if she feels the same way as you do she will reach out. If not then it wasnt ment to be and you’ll have a closure. Then you can just move on. Dont get stuck with one who wants to be impossible or dont reflect your feelings. There is more girls out there. Dont be afraid bro :)
@@JM-xj5xt some guys are like that too. I don’t think it’s necessarily bad though for people to not want to move to quickly in new relationships
My crush told me I am her best friend, I told her as any husband should be ..
- Modern problems require modern solutions.
Thank you for this especially the last two! They will help a lot! Again thank you for this!
This person has such a soothing voice
For me (bear with me i’m a bad explainer) i would say me and my crush have made a lot of progress!! we talk together other whenever we can, he walks me to class and started to even walk me to my car. he has even chosen to work with me over this best friend!! (of course way more has happened lol) he is soooo sweet and i love being around him, i’m planning on getting his number tomorrow. the only problem we have is that he is super shy which can sometimes give me mixed signals. we are both in band together so we share the same hard busy schedule which lets us relate to eachother. even though it’s small compared to everything else yesterday he waved at me while having this big smile when we were leaving and when he got into his car he was still smiling.
UPDATE: GOT HIS NUMBER AND WE HAVE BEEN TEXTING!! HES HAS TEXTED FIRST A FEW TIMES AND IM SO HAPPY
any more updates?
I remember watching this video back in the fall. I don’t remember if I did end up setting a due date for telling him or not. I did end up telling him a couple weeks ago though and it surprised me, especially since he was my first crush. A few weeks before that we had been talking about crushes and I told him I had one and had been giving small hints as to who it was. We ft practically every day so I told him over that. I found a silence in the conversation and just went “you know I like you, right?” He nodded and I went “ok, just making sure” then we talked about it for a bit and I was so relieved he was chill about it. The next day he told me he liked me and now we’re not dating or anything but we’re friends that like each other which is really all I could want at the moment
It’s been a few months how’s it going?
I want that, at least for now
I want thiss
Confess is game over most of the time in my experience. Asking out is way better and give you more chances or a clear sign of interest
My friend told my crush that I like him and we’re together now. I was so nervous that day fear of rejection but good thing I showed up to school
Yayy.wish u happy times ahead 👏🏽🙂
Sometimes I want to be in a relationship and sometimes I dont
Same
When you want a relationship, go be in one! Take a chance with someone you like and know well
Welcome to my world.
3:22 gotta love the d-day reference with june
very subtle but also very cool
Thank you for this video, this really built up the courage in me to tell her! Sadly this vid was posted abt a week after my last breakup but this really helped and I hope it works!
It's crazy how I did most of the things this vid said before I watched it. It's been going great so far. I just hope they notice my signs
Did all of these things naturally with every girl I was into. Never had a girlfriend or anything more intimate than cuddling. Trying to find someone for almost 12 years (going to be 30 in a few months). Currently sick of trying to find someone and just going to keep living alone. At least I can do what I want, when I want.
But it's good to know I went about it the right way, apparently.
Don't worry bro the u will meet the right girl at the right moment! :)
The hard thing in confessing I guess is the fear of spoiling the friendship, if you're already close. For me I'm afraid he won't feel the same way, and he's just warm like that with every other guy and actually has no interest in me, or might even see me differently for not being straight :/
I know that feeling, I had a crush on a close friend. I never told him, but that doesn't changed the fact, that we aren't that close anymore.
It probably wasn't caused by me having a crush on him, but by us developing different personalities which didn't fit together that well anymore. That made me realize, that friendship doesn't necessarily hold on forever anyway.
So I probably don't have to worry that much about loosing friendship, if it's not necessarily that permanent as I thought. So it's probably bether to take the chance, than try to preserve the friendship.
(But that's just my experience, I can't tell if that also applies for you.)
@@saskia4219 thank you so much for this insightful advice fam~
I thought I'd be over him by now (I had almost forgotten about this comment I made 8 months ago tbh) but apparently I can't let it go,,
Your comment about your own experience really put it into perspective, and as close as friends get, and as convinced as they are it's forever, everything passes anyway amirite? It's just harder to be the one to put such a precious relationship in danger when it could flow peacefully for a bit longer if I kept things as they are.
Sorry for the rambling and thanks for the courage you gave me!
@@yaboiyuri3838 No problem! I'm happy that my experience could help you a bit. :)
where was this video when i needed it
I remember writing a letter explaining my feeling to him. I was very up front and bold. Never received an answer back . Recently had the honor to speak with him and I know now that he received it. It was a special day for me to know finally he read it even though he never responded. He doesn't have the same feeling for me I know now,but I will always respect him.
I actually told them I liked them…unfortunately they are moving away but honesty even if they didn’t like me back it started to give me more confidence in talking to people and actually being myself
Don’t be scared to make a brave move and it’s always fine to not move forward and wait for the perfect time cuz sometimes making a brave move might break ur heart and waiting for too long might also break ur heart so it’s a 50-50 so do what u think is right. It’s your life and u make the decisions. Sometimes no matter how good the decisions u make are there will be negative consequences and u cannot control them cuz this is life. So always remember to never dwell on them and move on and follow your heart, soul, gut or mind 😊 I love all of you out there and I am sure we are all facing our own struggles so feel free to rant below and i will try my best to give u some advice. Remember that you are never alone and we are in this together ❤️
It is the best thing i read today. Thank you for making me read this;)
There is this one boy in my school (I won't say who) and we met during 6th period. Over time, we became best friends. And over time, I started having feelings for him. I had his number, so we talked a lot. But, I never had the guys to tell him how I feel. (I've had crushed before, but I was always worried to be turned down) But one day, I decided it's finally time to tell him how I feel (this happened yesterday) I didn't straight up tell him, but I have him hints. He asked if I loved him. At first,I thought he would turn me down, but he said he felt the same way. And that he was scared I would not like him back. But, now we both know we like each other. And we could never be happier 😊😊
Deadlines are important. For the extreme or closeted introverts out there. Clarity, confidence and doing it on the date you set for your deadline. You need to do this to win at trying
I'm nearly 30 and am still trying to figure out how to even make a friend or get passed hello without getting cussed out, much less confess love. I'm not even sure what I'd talk about even if I did have the chance.
Make confident eye contact and smile. Then escalate that to greeting them. Now you can stop and talk to them.
@@RollingCalf I normally get cussed out at eye contact lasting more than a moment because they think I'm staring, smiling is generally viewed as creepy and saying anything more than hello is rude from experience.
@@traebarringer3438 keep practicing. You'll learn to make eye contact and smile without creeping them.
@@traebarringer3438 You must be ugly. If you are attractive anything you do will be taken the right way, staring at them will be super hot and not looking will be adorably shy cute. Looks are everything, sorry dude.
Just find someone with similar interests
I have actually got out of my way and talked to my crush, i was SO NERVOUS but stood my ground and we had a good conversation, even though rejection was such a great factor in it. 🙃
Love is not about right way and the right time… You time and effort is the key…❤
So I've liked this guy for a long while now and everyone keeps saying he likes me too, which I think so as well. The problem is he used to date my friend. (Yes, she's totally ok with the possibility of us dating and even encourages it.) I've only ever confessed to someone once before, and well it didn't end out to great. I've been wanting to ask him out at some point but I feel like he's still a bit hocked up on his ex and I just don't know what to do. I have tickets to a lacrosse game that I could invite him to I'm just scared and I'm not sure if he does reject me if it will mess up our friend-ship and spilt the friend group. I really don't want that to happen. Should i just go for it and ask him out or should i just leave it be?
Update: turns out he was just using me to get closer to my friend again. I can't believe I fell so hard for it. Gald I never got the chance to tell him how I felt. Haha I guess I'm still as gullible as ever.
UPDATE #2: WE'RE DATING. Yup, he asked me out. Turns out he liked me and didn't know how to express it. We've been dating for about a month and he genuinely seems to be down bad for me😭 still a bit unsure but I still want to give it a chance. I've been pretty satisfied with our relationship and I do feel a lot happier lately. We're going on a date tomorrow actually. Funny how things just happened. We went on a week long trip for school, and he mades sure to always sit next to me on the bus without me asking. The tention was high 😳 if yk, yk. And then on the second last day he told me and on our flight back home he kissed me and we made it official after our four hour plane ride. I should really be more patient about these kinds of things 😭
ASK HIM. But cAsUaLlY, so he doesn't suspect anything
You should ask him, and clearly state that if he doesnt feel the same way thatyou would still like to have him as a friend and to not cause strain on each others friendship and friendgroup
@@gameboyz2569 thanks so much! now i just need the courage to do so lol
@@mythicalcane7935 ill try my best to make it casually, if i can get myself ask him to begin with
@@CrimsonBlossom24 Good luck! I know I donthave the courage to do so with mine
AAAAAAH, I CAN'T HE'S JUST TOO HANDSOME AND CUTE, I CAN'TTTT i'm a coward 😭👌
Edit: ppl- I TOLD HIM- He's my couple now- i have a month with him- THX for y'all comments- love y'all
@@grazel7186 when I see him I turn into a cactus 🥴
@@grazel7186 IKR?! you feel SO weird, and can't even say a word to him, HOW THE H3LL AM I GOING TO TELL HIM THAT HE'S MY CRUSH?!
@@Kiraiisan lol, true. I have a crush on a boy from work, I barely even talked with him and when i did it was mostly about work and that one time when it wasn't about work and he was talking about himself i just froze and was like "ah okay, cool" lol. I wanted to know so much more about him but i just stood like an idiot, all red and couldn't even speak properly like a human being. In my workplace i work next to a girl, unlike me she's hella sociable so she easily talks with everyone, with him too so he started coming from time to time to chat with her, it always makes me jealous but at least I can see him and hear what he's talking about. Idk, he's the cutest man ever, his actions, the way he speaks, everything is so cute about him but you know what? I found out he has a girlfriend haha. Even if he didn't have a girlfriend i couldn't stand a chance and when he has one i can literally just dream about him. What's funny is that even when i dream about him his girlfriend appears and I'm not even kidding
Sameee like I’m sitting there and watching him from a distance like bruh I can’t talk to you and I be like, “Plz look at me” but at the same time, “I swear if you look at me rn ima implode” and my friend goes up to him and talks to him and I’m just like “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH NO STAWP”
@@martyna3793 oh...dayum, srry ig, mine doesn't have a gf, but he's just too cute, kind, honest, attractive, funny, HELLA EXTROVERT, and sweet, we're both in highschool, in the same grade so i get to see him everyday, but i barely talk to him, i'm always watching him in class, sometimes he talks to me and we end talking with eachother like we're best friends, but that's bc HE IS THE ONE who talks to me, not me to him, anyway, i don't think i have a chance with him bc a lot of girls like him too, but he doesn't know that yet, and i'm always thinking ''what if he's in love with another girl'' i mean, he's hella sociable, so it makes sense, my best friend always encourage me, but i can't, i want to confess to him, but it's hard bc ur scared and u don't know what's going to happen next, so yeah, oh and srry for my bad english, i'm latin so i don't speak this language
"Love will always find a way, so if it doesn't , it wasn't love"
For most people it is pretty hard to talk to your crush, there are different ways of getting to know your crush like some of your friends could be friends of your crushes friends. So when your friends are with your crushes friends you move into the group and you just talk or hang around while your crush is there then you can get more information about your crush and become friends.
Disclaimer: I’m unsure this is helpful but It did work for me.
Last year, I became close with a coworker who over the course of the summer I developed feelings for her. The only thing that was stopping me from asking her out was the fact that she currently has a boyfriend. For months I bottled up my feelings until eventually (sometime before her season ended), I worked up the nerve to tell her (I wasn't trying to sabotage her relationship; I just wanted closure). She politely reminded me of her situation and even mentioned that "if things were different, maybe she would consider it". Bittersweet but at least I got closure without ruining our friendship.
I've known my best friend for as long as I can remember but unfortunately she moved 3000 miles away and I lost contact with them for 4 years. When we finally got back into contact I realized just how much I liked her but I've been scared to tell her because not only the distance between us but also I know I'm not in the best place right now with my mental health
If you made it this far thank you for your time, it feels a lot better to actually write this all out and I'm open to any suggestions or comments
Great story man!
U should actually tell her how u feel even if she dosent feel the same. But it would make you feel better! :)
“Give a natural complement”
“you SMART”
1:50
Ungga bungga
I remember a girl wrote a poem for me, drew a picture of my dog and would spend hours a day talking to me on the phone, and I remember I was so nervous because I didn’t know if she liked me. Her advice to not overthinking it is key, just go for it boys
The last bit of this video had me realize that just because the person I like doesn’t like me back, doesn’t make me unloved
I confessed to my crush by sending them the "send this to your crush without context" kinda video while we were in the same room lol. And I'm watching this now already after the confession, but I've done all these things naturally without even thinking about them.
So what was their reaction?? :)
@@sherlinjeniffer220 Well at first he didn't react at the actual confession, I asked him if he liked me back but he said idk. Then we were on my mom's car texting and he said he did like me back. We're not together yet but we're hanging out and I'm going to ask him to be my bf the next time we see :)
@@user-ss8yc7bx4l oh wow congrats and good luck ✨️🌷✨️
@@user-ss8yc7bx4l Ohh okay! :) all the best!!
@@sherlinjeniffer220 thx :3
I agree with this. So awesome short story, I’ve been super close best friends with this girl for 4 years. One day I confessed to her how I felt, but I went in with an open mind. Regardless of the outcome I told her that I’ll either be her partner or still best friends forever. She told me she only liked me as a bro as of now, and I wasn’t upset at all. I was just happy to let her know and to this day we’re still best friends. Don’t be afraid guys, especially if you’ve built a strong foundation to begin with.😊
👏🏿👏🏿
Remember to Respect your crush's feelings if they don't share the same feelings about you. Just because someone doesnt share the same feelings doesnt mean you are worth any less, hey! We are all lovable people😍 the right person will come.❤
where was this when i needed it broo
Have they figured out we’re time travelers yet??
Edit: I’ve said too much
Wait what
Damnnnn
Wait....
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Found yah!
Yes, I do have a crush and yes, I'd like to try and tell him but...he has a significant other already and I don't want to ruin their relationship :(
I just want him to be happy...even if I'm not the one making him happy
Same. My crush has a girlfriend already. I don't really care about their relationship but i know i don't stand a chance and i don't want to make an idiot out of myself
I haven't talked to my school crush that often, but I'm nervous to apologize to her for what I did before the pandemic. I used to creep at her and even while hiding and that literally scared her away.
Maybe do a video on what to do if someone confesses that they like you, because that's an awkward situation to be in, and knowing what to do could help
THIS
It came out that I liked someone a year ago now and they stopped talking to me for quite a while which I found difficult
I know I would've liked it if they could have told me straight that they didn't like me in that way and that they would prefer to stay friends or not see me at all
I think being honest and not avoiding the situation is the best thing to do because otherwise it can cause more hurt in the long run
I think a video on this would be helpful as well but this is just my take on it
Have a good day