How To Psychologically Attract Someone
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- čas přidán 9. 06. 2024
- Often when we have a crush, there’s a desire for them to feel the same way about you as you feel about them. You may think: How can I get them to notice me? How can I get them to view me romantically? Here are a few ways to psychologically attract someone.
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Eat to live
I love your channel thank you for being you!!
I think eat :D
Live to eat
While we were originally meant to eat to live with so many scientific discoveries we can now live to eat.
"Physical attraction is common. Mental connection is rare" - Johnny Bravo
The man the myth the legend Johnny Bravo
Yeah true. Can i ask what are those plus 18 comments tho?😂
@@DiamondSkull1 they are bots
Ah yes, one of the great philosophers of our time
@@DiamondSkull1 there only fans you might be interested 😆
how to psychologically attract someone
1. reveal a secret of yours and show that you can keep one too 0:23
2. ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you 1:25
3. display confidence and show open body language 2:56
4. don’t be afraid to show that you like them 3:47
5. choose a date location with dim lights 4:40
6. engage in deep conversations and sometimes paraphrase what they say 5:51
Lol number 2 is heartbreaking y.y
@Dooblevoo-cartoonist no.
@Dooblevoo-cartoonist SEVEN FOOT FRAME, RATS along his BACK, when he CALLS your name it’s all fades to BLACK
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I don't get what is so mysterious and psychological about these? These are all common sense and not something so mystical. Show interest and pick a dark romantic place? Duh.
Psych2go has been trying to get us into a healthy relationship all month. The wing man I didn’t know I needed 😂💜
Literally all I’ve been seeing is “how I know my crush likes me” “how to attract my crush” etc I’m putting my trust in them 😤😤😂
I mean they are the best wing man
We try our best! Thanks for
Your support
Facts!!!!!!
I like how the original title was" do not release pending" 😭
Lmao and Adam listened 💀
Lol
“Do not release pending Adam” 😭
HAHAHA, someone's getting a memo XDD
lmao I got a notification that said "DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM" so of course I clicked on it
Yeaa
Oops 😅
Adam did you allow this to be released yet?
Edit: okay it appears Adam is okay with it, all good 👍🏻
That's what I was thinkin
AHAHAHAHAHAH I SAW THATATSHSHS
Hahahaha exactly what I was thinking
I saw that, too! Lol
I was thinking the same thing lol
Tips:
1. Smile, laugh, get sleep so you're energized.
2. Show compassion, and a bit of an edge. Everyone likes a sweet and exciting person.
3. Be open. Express yourself, others will see that as a genuine trait.
Ta da. You're chances will go up.
Cries in introvert
@@inanimate125 samee but my crush watchs and play game I do so it's a bit more easier to talk smth in common. So maybe u can find smth u both have in common??
@@xiao1695 ah true true
Excuse me good sir... I did all of this but in the end it didn't work out ☹️ nobody is attracted to me ☹️💔
Ta da! I’m never getting love
Hmm, but how do you know your own level of attractiveness? I think our perception of ourselves is often skewed in either direction, either thinking we're uglier than we are or hotter than we are.
(I think I actually experience both extremes depending on the day which is damn confusing)
This is sort of a dilemma for me. 😂 I've been told I'm attractive and to a certain degree I do see it. I know I look better now than I have in my preteen and teenage years, and even my 20s. Problem is it's hard to find someone in my age group who looks as young as me. 😅
@@eval4495 hell it's hard to find people in my age group who look as OLD as me 😂 I'm living fast so I think I'm aging at an accelerated rate
THIS
I just made a comment about this. Lol
I’m super ugly. I have red hair, freckles, I wear glasses, I am an extreme introvert
It seems that Adam can follow instructions. That or he can't and he needs a reminder.
lmaoo-
"Similarly attractive". This one doesn't really make much sense as physical attraction is in the eye of the beholder and dependant on individual preferences and "types". How do you measure and compare if someone is similary as attractive as you are? I understand the point around sharing similar features but not the statement around physical attraction.
For the pupil size theory, I wonder if the means people with brown eyes are generally considered more kind, since they look like they always have large pupils
real ones saw it first when it was titled, “do not release pending adam”
i accidentally found this in the dating playlist
How 4 days ago?????? The vid just released
What in the hell ?
How 4 days ago?
4 days ago tf
@@ailynn14 magic ✨
4 days??
Wh-
I usually fall for girls with personalities I like. My first crush would be considered plain looking, but OMG did we have some amazing conversations. She also had a unique sense of humor, man, I miss her.
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From the title… this is what i need
Great video, showing an open body language is one one the easiest and most effective way to attract someone. We can totally relate!
Thanks! Would
You like to share an experience?
@@Psych2go Body language includes non-verbal communication through which people give way to their emotions and intentions. This could include body posture, facial expressions, and hand gestures. Body language reflects how others see the person. People who maintain an open body language will seem more welcoming and approachable by others.
Easiest? I don´t even know what "open body language" is.
But don’t forget there’s a very big difference between attraction and manipulation.
Edit: you made a mistake (your recent video) it States “DO NOT CLICK THIS” so I won’t, that’s why I’m commenting here. What does this say about me? Other than I’m a smart arse 😅😂
Yup! Would you like
To expand on that
Your comment was a realty check for me. Thanks for putting this out there.
Bloody hell this got a lot of attention very quickly! @@Psych2go I would but I know very little about human psychology I’m afraid I’ll give misinformation but to anyone reading if you think of doing/saying something for/to anyone your attracted to turn the tables imagine them saying/doing that to you. If you don’t like it because it seems manipulative it probably is. It is a fine line and you can’t please everyone.
Dale Carnegie says that manipulation benefits only you, while persuasion benefits both. Manipulation is bad, but persuasion is not.
@@Masked_One_1316 I personally have a bad habit of manipulating women and get easily manipulated myself. It's a really bad cycle. All the women I get with are selfish and compulsive.
I’ve subconsciously done almost all of these (except for the mood lighting) with my crush, so I think things are going well on that front ☺️ Hopefully when I tell her how I feel it will be reciprocated 🤞🏽
you got this bro! just be confident and open to the possibilities and itll go awesome
Wish you all the best !!!
well?
WHAT HAPPENED BRO??? DID YOU GET THE GIRL?!
@@kylaj3602 he didnt get the girl
I didn’t realize that I usually reflective listen until you talked about it.
Now I understand why my friends say, “I like talking with you”. But usually they do most of the talking but I don’t mind listening. 😊
Thanks for giving this video the green light Adam 👍🏻
Xotwod
@@whoisgliese what
@@Khadeeen oh I thought your name was from the Weeknd's show haha nvm
@@whoisgliese yeah, it's not. It's Latin for remember death
All am going to say is.. Momento mori #UA!!
How To Psychologically Attract Someone!!
1) Reveal a secret of yours and show that you can keep one too 0:23
2) Ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you 1:24
3) Display confidence and show open body language 2:56
4) Don’t be afraid to show that you like them 3:48
5) Choose a date location with dim lights 4:41
6) Engage in deep conversations and sometimes paraphrase what they say 5:52
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6. Paraphrasing is something you should do ALL the time, including business. Not only does it clarify issues which may not be visible, and the other person gets to talk more. :D
Should I be concerned over this Adam person?
YOU HAD ONE JOB ADAM!!!
YOU DID IT SUCCESFULLY, YOU HELPED ME :)
I think they didn't mean to release this yet 😳
Why did the notification say Do Not Release Pending Adam 😂
"Do not release pending adam" soooo was this an accident?
Always enjoy the content from this channel and it's varied, never boring.
Thanks Psych2Go ❤️
Thank you for another wonderfully informative video again. After watching saved to my watch later as well. Your videos have helped me see just how toxic my last relationship was and get the courage to end things. Still in the healing stages, but can't wait to try these tips sometime soon. Thank you again for all of your dedication and hard work, and you have helped me emotionally more than you know 👍🙏🙂
Dammit Adam you had one job
Fr
🤣
This content is great! Thanks to all of you for providing these videos!! 😊
I see it as if you don't find me attractive physically your judging and guessing something I am not but when you get to know me personally or just starting to know me, you see that your wrong and you feel bad for it when I'm sitting there giggling because I love it when people are wrong about me which is all the time
Physical appearance is not the same as who you are and there are so many people that mistake other people for who they are just by the way they look
Truth
But this video is also true which I'm happy about, instead of them trying to figure you out, you are giving them hints to who you really are.... I recommend on doing this in order to at least have a chance with someone because them guessing who you are is going to make you a "bad person" in their eyes so it's always better to talk about yourself
Phycology speaking, all your really doing is giving someone a chance to be with you without the uncomfortable feeling is what the video really is saying😂
Apologize for the long comment, it's almost 11 O'Clock at night and my brain works more during the night than the day and I get off topic as anyone that reads this can tell
I give up on love but thank you anyways.
wait, choose someone attractive on our level? what if we're painfully insecure
True, also I'm ugly
I got a notification, and the title was (DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM) at the start of the title or something like that
I wanted to read about this all day, but forgot. And now you post about it. Thank you❤
Actually makes too much sense to me! Thank you very much
"DO NOT RELEASE. PENDING ADAM"
Nice video title ^-^
As social creatures, we live to eat. It is one of the most enjoyable events we can do together. 😎
Expecially if the food is still alive.
@@petkofuchalski9809 yes
eating with someone is a nightmare for me
nah actually we eat to live. we arent even sure why we try to live but we defentily dont live just to eat.
Nice to see Adam gave the green light on this one!
Her voice is so calming 😌
Even from day one your videos has been brilliantly crafted to make even me smile when I’m the most depressed, and I take a second to say how much I love the narrators voice! PLEASE NEVER REPLACE HER!!
ADAM I SAW THAT
Thumbnail: "Attract Anyone"
Point 2: "Ask out someone who is similarly as attractive as you."
It's not really attracting anyone if you are restricting the group of people you want to attract, right?
"Tip #1: Don't be ugly ❤" 🙄
#2 was such a shocker 🤯
tip #3: EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
“[DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM]” Excuse me what does that mean?
Can y'all do a video about the psychology behind dark humor
How about a video about what to do when your date/crush is very shy and dosen't talk about themselves much?
Your videos made me realize that i do most of the things in these type of videos without knowing it.
Its weird because i never used to watch videos like this expect for the past few months
We all have that certain someone(s) in our mind 💕💕💕
well, did Adam approve it or not? 🤨
DO NOT RELEASE PENDING DATING ADAM
I saw that!
I saw that too
Thanku guys keep up the good work it makes my day so much better
The video literlaly was out 15 seconds ago
Bro... not in a wholesome channel like this one...
Adam! They said not to release it!
Thank you for making these videos u guys r helping a ton of people
I see that [DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM] at the title, is that gonna change?
CHRIST SAKE I NEEDED THIS VIDEO THANK YOU, I KNOW NONE OF THESE ARE A GUARANTEE BUT NOW I KNOW WHERE TO START
I'm confused by the title, I got a notification about this being uploaded
Did no one else see “DO NOT RELEASE PENDING ADAM”??
Yep
your content is so helpful !!
Thanks for sharing. Glad you find it helpful!!
See, the thing is, in these videos they assume I am capable of maintaining a conversation with my crush
Trust is first . Love develops after that .
Looks is before trust.
@@j.d.s.1837 nope. Attraction is first, it isnt always physical attraction
Adam is gonna get mad at the person that released this video
Something tells me this wasn’t supposed to be released yet
🤔
It’s a good day when Psych posts
Edit: my comment is already getting raided by bots
The 2nd point is so hurting... I just can't find someone appealing who is at my attractiveness level XD lol but I get the point that if u r in a relationship with someone way above ur lvl u will get inferiority complexes and will feel easily replaceable
Love the podcast btw, listen to one every morning❤️☀️
Thanks! How many times a week should we post?
@@Psych2go whatever works for you😇
I just found this channel and I'm amazed by your work
Subbed
ily Adam
The forbidden video
this comment is golden
Was- was that suppose to happen or...?
Anyways, poor Adam (._.')
Unless Adam is a total genius and did that in order for more people to click the notification of this video 🧍♂️
Either way, thank you Psych2go! 💖
I believe Adam did it by accident 🤣🤣
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Love ❤️ is the greatest. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤️.
my dream died when i woke up
I will once you stop repeating the same comment
@@upbestsalt1551 fr so anoyin
Do you think there's any hope for me?
I don’t even know what I am feeling right now, I’ve liked girls and I’ve really liked girls, but this one, this one is just on whole other scale and she gives me the feeling that’s so much more filling than anyone else. At first I didn’t really find her attractive but over time she just seemed more attractive (Physical and Personality wise) and from there it’s been this non stop feeling. I look like an idiot when I’m next to her and I tense up and can’t even look her in the eye because she’s so stunning. I’m 15 but this is so exotic to me
Thanks for this sweet video
Love ur voice too
It's soothing
"ask out someone who is as similarly attractive as you"
Me : *i guess it's just me and my potato*
Dude as an Introvert I usually have deep conversations but still I am single since forever and have 2 friends
Super cute drawings again!!!
This is number 1 in the morning yet I immediately clicked on the vid
Ooooh Adam!😮
this is my comfort channel
these recent videos seems like they all are made for me 😂✨
Guys they removed the dont release part in the title lol
the 4th one is actually so true. i was in 6th grade when i guy confessed that he likes me. i was not really attracted to him although he is a nice guy. i just told him that i'm happy that you told me but i'm just not into this kind of stuff. fast forward to 8th grade. he confessed again that he still likes me. i told him again that i really appreciate him being so open but i just didn't feel the same way and he respected that. however we would still talk normally AND something in me knew that i lowkey liked him as well. i wasn't sure if it's because of the attention i was getting but i was certain that there was something unnatural going on in me haha. but i started talking to another guy and we were really connecting and i started gathering feelings for him so nothing really ever happened between us. i'm pretty sure that guy now has a loving gf and i'm genuinely happy for him cos he deserves it.
Noted. 😊Thank you ❤️
adam what have you done
Your voice is so relaxing
Love your channel 🥰❤️
What to do when you’ve asked the girl out, and she hints that she likes you, but you aren’t sure.
It’s going to be very weird for me (She isn’t mad, and understands me and my situation) seeing her on a daily basis as a result of school/work.
OMG, that's the same thought that i've been thinking now i heard that she likes me but aren't sure and i don't how to ask a girl to go out cause i really wanted to get her in a date, my bad conversation skills, awkwardness, clumsiness, being not a focus serious mature person ( im 17 ). i don't know what's wrong with me i just live the way i am i'm currently 17 grade 12 student, funny and loud person, confident, i often smiles no matter what my currently status i just really like to smile even in a hard day's, im huge talk and bulky, but a soft hearted person i'd often like to listen to my friends abt their rants, problems, their personal prob, how's their day, about their families, hobbies, they like and they don't like, i almost listening to everything just to make themselves feel free to talk to me anytime i make schedule but if they need me im going without hesitating i wanna feel them appreciated.
Adam you had one job
a good video, as always
Do not do it Adam! Do not even thing about doing it!
Don't risk your job Adam, it's not worth it!
Thank you 😊 I’m always afraid to be annoying or too shy
Your videos r really helpful and best to maintain any relation...
Glad this helped! Which tips did you find most helpful?
ill try this later
Deep conversation
Bro very nice!!!
Teehee Adam released it
autumn
dude are you reading my mind why do you keep on appearing at the right time