How to Flirt For Beginners (9 Flirting Tips)
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- Are you learning how to flirt? Find flirting strategies that work? Are you trying to learn how to flirt with girls? How to flirt with a guy? Or How to get a girl you like? There are a few common flirting tips, that may work. Watch this video learn some of them. :)
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Ben-Zeév, A. (2021). What makes a good flirt? | psychology Today. Psychology Today. Retrieved January 20, 2022, from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/202103/what-makes-good-flirt
Apostolou, M. (n.d.). Menelaos Apostolou. The Evolution Institute. Retrieved January 20, 2022, from evolution-institute.org/profile/menelaos-apostolou/
Christoforos Christoforou. St. John's University. (n.d.). Retrieved January 20, 2022, from www.stjohns.edu/academics/faculty/christoforos-christoforou
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Yes! I’ve been doing better this Valentine’s Day :))
Yes I am! How are you?
Yea
it just got better bc you just posted 🙃
I broke up with my boyfriend 2 days before Valentines day because it turned out he was a horrible person.
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Confidently being flirty? I find nervous flirting even more adorable because it shows that you don't do it with just anyone.
Yes, It makes it more endearing
or you try not to make yourself look creepy because you don't know what others bountries are or you have a different idea on a flirt than the other person
Good because that's the only kind I know how to do lol
@@mbank3832 boundaries*
@@-Faris- good boy
0:44 Non verbal behaviour.
1:15 Intelligence.
1:28 A gentle approach.
1:45 Cheerfulness.
2:06 Romantic intentions.
2:28 Courage and determination when flirting.
2:48 Something in common.
3:12 Good looks.
3:32 A mysterious allure.
Come on finish!
@Dooblevoo-cartoonist cool
@Dooblevoo-cartoonist i went in the replies then came back out and voila the comment was finished lol
:D
I definitely have good looks just ask my uncle quidward 🤔
Me: flirts with everyone jokingly
Also me: can’t even go near my crush
@aliceorace1234i commented this one a year ago and my crush is still the same and my approach is the same although we’re friends now
☕️
@@emotionalteaspoon5306sounds very specific to my situation some girl who her friends told me that she liked me always talked to me through email but never in person
@@emotionalteaspoon5306 u doin better than me brotha
1. Nonverbal behaviour
(Eye contact, genuine smile, hygiene, scent)
2. Intelligence
(Joke, show education)
3. Gentle approach
4. Cheerfulness
5. Romantic intentions
(Show how romantic i can be. A hint of romance)
6. Courage and confidence when flirting
7. Something in common
(Find something in common)
8. Good looks
9. A mysterious allure
(Don’t reveal everything)
Nice 😌👌
good looks? shit, i give up 😂
@@imawakemymindisalive13same
I have everything in common with my crush lmao
@@imawakemymindisalive13Bro, do not focus too heavily on looks. My colleague looks like an overweight and balding Jared Fogle and he got two numbers from two different women in the same week just because he is social, funny and confident.
besides, just clean up, get a haircut that compliments your face and workout occassionally, and youll lole fine. A lot more than most people are doing.
The most funny thing about this channel is that it helps me refresh and apply the best practices of the interpersonal communication and be the better version of myself. Thanks!!
You have such a positive spirit!
You are a sad specimen
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Man, this is good and I tried all of this, but I still can't get no bitches lol
@@ChillinOnga wise man once said…
"he who gets no bitches, will eventually get the bitches"
Wanna add something to the "something in common" point. You don't have to have the same opinion and can even have opposite opinions if you still show interest in your partners opinion. I dated a girl who was scared of big dogs and was more of a cat person. I understand why she didn't like big dogs and even though I'm not against cats I told her I have a mild cat allergy so I could never own one. But I can go to a friend's house even if they have a cat.
After we started dating I told her I'd like to try and show her the even the biggest dogs can be big teddy bears.
We're no longer together but we still see each other occasionally. I'm a dog walker and go visit her and her calico and walk her 110lbs Rottweiler.
We might not be a couple anymore but because of the respect we had for each other's differences in opinion we were able to go beyond them
Thx for sharing your experience, that was helpful 😌👍
thats so cool
A 110lbs Rottie? Wow lol.
wouldn't dogs trigger your allergies too ? ...
@@mbank3832 Why would they? If you're allergic to apples doesn't mean you're allergic to oranges.
I love flirting. I guess I view flirting as something that can be nonromantic and I think of it as “a conversational dance.” It’s seriously so fun to find a way to fit in a pun, compliment, or playful insult into the conversation in a natural way. :)
@@shadxw_hunter Awww I love that :)
@@shadxw_hunter Lmfao
The girl i liked also liked to flirt for fun really led me on
If someone flirted with me without intentions it'd blow my mind a lot 🤪
Oh god, no I don’t know if I was flirting with them or not… I thought I was just being funny
I flirt better in real life than on text😆
Texting plenty of miscommunication lack of tone of emotion being conveyed
Compliment a girl on her style, her taste, her hobbies, point of view
Tease her playfully give her a nickname she’ll appreciate the thought
Emojis help..a lot
Try voice notes
Voice you can feel a person’s vibe
The voice communicates subconsciously
Lead her
Flirting is about leading the convo in
your frame
Lastly find a woman that’s matches your vibe
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
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Skwjdhsh thank you so much you're amazing too
I'm the complete opposite of confident but ok then
Thank you so much!
THANK YOUU!!! And all the same to you!
We met each other on a learning language app. When we had our first conversation through the phone, I had a crush on him. But he's so popular on that app that he seems to ignore me. I feel so sad about that, because I can see that he's a good hearted person and I really want to go further with him. We still keep talking but I can never be with him. That tears my heart apart. :(
How tf do you do that on a language learning app?
Along with finding something in common, ASK QUESTIONS!! Majority of people, even the shy ones, love taking about themselves. Human nature I guess idk. But this also comes with being able to be a good listener. I ask questions that I feel like would be interesting which will ties us both into the convo more.
"Shines light in to her face" Whats your favorid pokemon?
i hate talking about myself and it lost me my last boyfriend 😂 i’m better off though he was hot but had a cult following of jealous girls and lowkey gave off sociopath vibes
Omg not gonna lie I’m terrible with flirting so this is perfect 😅
you ain’t even gotta do any talking the way you look
You can practice with me ;)
@@moneymakinmitch8130 what is that supposed to mean?
@@userm180 it mean she don’t gotta flirt to win somebody over
@@moneymakinmitch8130 ohh alr
I feel like I could be a great flirt. But I spent my life believing my sexuality was inherently insulting to women and must be hidden. So now it feels extremely unnatural unless the girl has already expressed interest in me first. Good luck on that, right? Haven't gotten that since college.
So I have to get over the wall of feeling like expressing interest is invasive and unwelcome. Honestly, I have no idea how to do that.
I've been working on my limiting beliefs when it comes to relationships for the past three days, too. What I suggest is write down on a piece of paper (that's important!) what you're afraid of. Really allow yourself to write exactly the thoughts that come up, even if you're ashamed of them. If you have any feelings about what you're writing, write those feelings down, too. Once you feel you've written enough, or a lot of emotions are bottling up inside of you, take a moment to let these emotions sit. When you're ready, you can let them go. Then rinse and repeat. Know that your beliefs will most likely persist a bit. That's okay. Just keep on working.
Here a tool to welcome and let go of feelings/thoughts:
Could you welcome the feeling (without wanting it to go away)?
Could you let it go?
Would you (let it go)?
When (would you let it go)?
(This tool is called "The Sedona Method")
I think I’ve made myself believe that looking at women is wrong, which is why I’m so bad at looking them in the eye. Whenever I’m around girls, I’ll just stare at the ground. Is something wrong with me?
@@crazilyryan6274 I believe you are oy nervous my frienf. You should treat girls like you do anyone else, but if you are interested then perhaps follow this video..?
Give up the outcomes, you can be whatever you want to be. If you want to be the hero of your own story you've gotta slay some dragons and it sounds like your fear of rejection is holding you back.
And I grew up thinking my sexuality was inherently evil and that my job was to make sure men didn't ever have "impure thoughts" about me so while I'm a huge extrovert and should be able to flirt I completely am at a loss as to how to communicate to men that I think they're attractive cause that alone feels dangerous and immoral. So like I feel this bro. And in a strange way I'm glad to know it's not just a phenomenon to be ashamed of your sexuality amongst girls only. Though I wish neither sex had this issue put on them. And I pray you find growth and healing here as I recently have been slowly doing and I'll leave you with the wise words of Master Yoda "you must unlearn what you have learned" lol
as I noticed - being funny and/or having a lot of positive energy inside is very effective.
Like, not many people want to be around someone who is always pessimistic about everything and grumble all the time.
People like those people who are happy and smiling. They enjoy your company - that energy that shines through. it makes other people feel good :)
I think many people don’t realize the benefits of flirting, and this applies to long-term couples as well. Flirting is most certainly not a new development in the modern dating world. I think there are just a couple of reasons why flirting is essential for relationships:
-- Reignites the Passion
-- It’s Good for You
-- Keeps the Friend Zone Away
There’s definitely some skill involved when flirting:
✅ Make eye contact.
✅ Keep your body language relaxed.
✅ Change your tone of voice to fit the situation. For example, whisper if it’s a sexy question.
✅ Bring in some humor.
✅ Be original and stay away from cheesy pick-up lines.
✅ Smile.
✅ Be confident.
Don't forget the requirement to be attractive. That's the real skill issue
@@Hirotechnics it's not that important and that can't be really adjusted that much by "learning how to do it", is it? that's not a skill, that's just something you had to begin with and can decide to put to waste or not
@@Hirotechnics Just be you
how to flirt for beginners! (9 flirting tips)
1. nonverbal behavior 0:44
2. intelligence 1:15
3. a gentle approach 1:28
4. cheerfulness 1:46
5. romantic intentions 2:05
6. courage and determination when flirting 2:25
7. something in common 2:46
8. good looks 3:11
9. a mysterious allure 3:31
Thank you 😊
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how to flirt for beginners idk why this is funny
tip 10 dont try just dont lmao
Well I do like taking space.
I am a smart ass.
nope...
I can find anything funny (and I mean ANYTHING).
None, unless I know you already.
I'm very easily distracted.
Honestly not a problem.
I'll get back to ya when I lose 50lbs.
I'm a bit of an open book, because of that my friends are scared to associate with me in public 😂
Damn I'm way off lol
Help god what if I fail…
I just assume everyone I have a crush on is already in a relationship. It makes things easier by giving me an excuse to not even try, and it's almost always the case anyway.
Same!
I can't even make a regular friend how tf am I gonna every gonna find someone that would want to be in a relationship with me lmao
@@Omen465 patience and focusing on improving myself first is how I’m doing it. I haven’t been in a relationship either, I’ve had opportunities but it’s best not to rush something so important. I hope you have a great day and someday find great friends and the best person for you! 😊
Damn same lmao
I have the same thing. I once had a crush which I initially assumed to be single, and I talked to her pretty often. Then I found out she was in a relationship already. Eversince that, I just assume any crush I have is already in a relationship or just interested in somebody else
I love the way this says to look your best basically and for the last three months I've been wearing the same hoodie almost every time I've seen my crush and I see him close to daily
Most important is to be mysterious. Don't reveal everything about yourself in one go. Leave that person to want something more. Something I'm trying to work on
Flirting feels like the most dangerous form of social interaction especially for the people that aren't socially adept. Like One missed word and they hate you
especially if you poking fun at them and they can’t take it as flirting, it’s really over from there.
Being a little nonverbal has helped. Facing toward her and we smile a bit. Not much of a talker but always get fuzzy talking to her. We laugh in every awkward moment we've had since we started seeing each other with our circle of friends.
I was nervous at first when flirting with her. Started out with a gaze and a laugh, sitting shoulder to shoulder, mine lightly rubbing hers, then almost kissing her. She asked if she tried to but I playfully turned it around, and it turned out she was trying to.
Dress to impress? We both manage to do that. And I think it's my nervousness with a hint of mysterious allure that she's been into me for so long.
Sameeeee
(In a playful, middleschool-like way) oooOOOOOOoohhh
Go fot it, champ
Lucky 😭😭😭😭😭 I'm nonverbal too but everyone tells me my smile and laugh are creepy so I just stay quiet and to myself all the time. I'm so lonely and I'm almost ready to kill myself
Aaaaaaaaaa whenever i talk to him i stare at him and get the chance to playfully touch him, but im still nervous talking to him, i like him but dont know him enough to wanna date him tho, i love him platonically and im still a coward and get nervous just to hang out with him it hurts
When I stopped trying to flirt with my crush, it actually worked out. I was being too intense in the beginning. She was a lot more laid back when I took a few weeks off. When we met up again, the chemistry was a lot stronger and instead of me ruining it by being too forward, I could feel it just build up until she was flirting more than me.
I've always been the nervous guy in our relationship, but my girlfriend thinks it's actually cuter than if I get flustered at a flirty comment she makes.
I love her so much.
This is so adorable, I could cry-
@@softsquishysuga I'm glad it gave you those feelings. I had a pretty sad breakup early this month. So I'm back to being good ol' single me.
@@Cyberwasyoinked Aww no, I'm sorry to hear that :( what happened, if you don't mind me asking?
@@softsquishysuga It was just us being at different stages of life. She was going into college, I was just starting to work, and it was just a lot of stuff that piled up.
@@Cyberwasyoinked Ah, that's unfortunate :( that actually sounds a bit like part of a situation I was in with someone recently as well. I hope that you have been feeling better.
When I try to flirt, it doesn't work. When I'm casually creating puns and making people laugh. It comes off as flirting.
Weird lol
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Want to know the shortcut to flirting? Don't try.
Just be yourself and think sexual thoughts about them while you're talking to them. Then the flirting will happen naturally.
@@AutomaticDuck300 what
@@AutomaticDuck300 I generally try to downplay my sexual thoughts when I'm talking to people. Not sure if it has helped...
@@hakanstorsater5090 in a professional context, yeah. That's when you control yourself. Otherwise go for it.
Judging from my personal experiences, I can get people to laugh but then I guess it comes naturally to me because I try to find something funny out of everything even if it's a really awful situation. I have experiences where people go "stop trying to be funny in everything" but I eventually learned they were the types of people that would criticize me for everything and never treated me like an actual human being.
The last time I had an industrial accident, my remark to my supervisor was "ah hell now I can't go to the gym because of my own stupidity and a faulty screwdriver".
i think that's a strength, if someone tells you it's a weakness, don't listen to them :P
Good on you for trying to make something funny out of any situation! It's great to have someone to brighten up a terrible situation.
We, the funny guys, thats the way we hide the pain... never show the pain, they will use it against you... bottle it up like a man and die young, thats my plan.
@@Kalorag Amen brother
Edit: not that I'm funny. Just agreeing with the other stuff
I always thought that the attempt to flirt is more endearing than the actual ability to do so. Sometimes trying it despite how bad you are at it is by itself enough to get a conversation going. I had the anxious need to outright ask my babe for our first kiss before I could actually bring up the ability to do so, I've seen both sides of this. It took me a long time of experience simply watching casually to finally get this information to stick in my head and relate it to my own hindsight.
It is my view that the best thing a person can do is simply try
asking for consent isn’t an anxious need, it’s hot af. i had my first kiss STOLEN from me by this racist guy who decided to suck on my lips with no warning and i just froze not processing it until he already pulled away 😅
crazy how well your voice suits this content, like it's so relaxing and reassuring, going well with the topic of most of these videos
"I found I'm really good at flirting but I lack the courage to go talk to random girls. I literally hit on and managed to get some kind of positive outcome out of every single girl I've been introduced to. But I'm terrified to just go meet new random people. Life is weird. Back to gaming, I guess.
" - Jimmy Neutron
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You can say same for me 100% 👍
amen🙏
I never thought I would hear a close to home quote like this from Jimmy neutron
Life sucks big time
I think this video is missing one important thing. Communication is a two-way thing. Don't just talk, listen. Not just to what they are talking about but also to where they are steering the conversation and what that says about how they are feeling. Are they comfortable with the approach and speed you are taking or do you need to adjust it?
I had a person I had only just met flirt at me by text. And that's the thing, it was "at" and not "with". They just kept giving me compliments on my looks (which as somebody who has been lovebombed is a major red flag) while I was trying to steer back the conversation to actually talking about the one thing we had in common/where we had met. But they pretty much ignored me and acted as though I had been flirting back in the same way they were. So they kept flirting more and more aggressively, sending texts you would, in my opinion, send somebody you had been on dates with. Then they tried calling me about 5 times in one afternoon. I had panic attacks as a result the entire afternoon, had to get a friend to text them to tell them to leave me alone and block them.
So yeah, don't act like that. Listen to how they react to you. Are they flirting back? Are things going a bit too quick for them and are they trying to slow you down or are they driving at the same speed as you. Also remember that compliments on a person's appearance before you know their personality can come off as quite shallow, as though you were not interested in them as a person. The best compliments are usually more specific ones that relate to a person's personality or skills
Yes, good advice. Being able to gauge the situation is super important. Thanks for sharing your own personal experiences with others :)
i know you typed this two months ago but in the chance you do respond i want to ask a question. say i had met this girl through school etc. we’ve been texting here and there. sometimes for long periods of time, such as back and forth very consistently, and sometimes very vague, like id say something and get a response hours later. it’s very inconsistent and i know that she isn’t busy. should i take this as a hint that she is uninterested or, such as you said, adjust a little. am i being too predictable? it’s hard because i like her and i have no idea what she thinks about me therefore i am unable to receive any feedback from her. i need help so if you could respond omg that would be amazing!
@Aaron a bit late, I'd say don't get too caught up if she doesn't respond right away , she could have indeed got caught up with doing something.... I sometimes find myself taking a bit of time to respond to my crush even though I could right away just to sort out my thoughts....
I think it's important to not forget this after you find a partner. Love requires to reconnect with what made y'all fall in love.
I once had a crush on a girl, when I used to go to taekwondo, I met a girl that was actually older than me (I was 10 or 11 when she was 13 or 14) and I started to like her when we both learnt fighting techniques and positions, I had warm feelings about her and I were just hiding my interests from her because I was very shy, and now I’m starting to regret about it as getting in touch with somebody makes it better for yourself. Especially with girls.
Me: *finding a crush and wanting to get closer to her*
Psych2go: *making vid about flirting*
Me: Write that down, write that down!
Want to know the shortcut to flirting? Don't try.
Just be yourself and think sexual thoughts about them while you're talking to them. Then the flirting will happen naturally.
Lol
@@AutomaticDuck300 that sounds like what a creep would do.
@@petkofuchalski9809 Na, a creep would make overly sexual comments and violate her personal space and boundaries.
I'm saying that you should let yourself fantasise about them and let yourself feel how you feel about them while you're talking to them. Everything else will happen naturally.
What crush are you on. Right now im on 25😎
JUST WHEN I NEEDED THIS
Ug
SAMEEEE
BRO SAME
SAME RIGHT?
Same ❤️
These flirting tips are actually pretty good but still not everyone likes people who flirts with them. They usually prefer being very good friends with each others and develops feelings for that person after knowing him/her.
My in-person flirting/romance skills certainly leave a lot to be desired, as the only relationships I've had after some flings in high school have been long distance...like very long distance lol. Starting with no experience but wanting to get out there, meet someone amazing, and potentially even find a lifelong romantic companion is proving to be a challenge for me.
My attempts to flirt:
“You have nice hair”
“I couldn’t help but notice you have a cool jacket”
“So…..you come here often?”
“Jokes”
*mission failed*
lmao why are you just like me😭😂
Mission failed, well get’em next time
Mission Failed
your crush wasn’t interested
@@Max0x1 I'm shy but my happiness is the goal life is perfect you always get to try again let forever be
-Gta wasted sfx-
2:56 I noticed the album cover right away! I have a huge soft spot for day6, so I had to take the album out to make sure I was right lol
I haven’t seen anyone else mention it yet, sadly
You should look at the background too lol
I was scrolling to see of anyone else notice!
Really sweet, lovely animation, quick and easy and from a mature standpoint, theoretically quite effective. I say theoretically because if your crush isn't interested in you, you can be the nicest guy and get friend zoned at best. This is not meant to discourage you but to keep in mind. As someone who had very poor luck (and very very rough and countless experiences with getting rejected) this is something personal I want to add.
On the plus side, I learned a lot through it, especially how I treat people now and always giving my best to be helpful and friendly (because I know the exact feelings if someone you like isn't nice to you)
It’s funny how I already knew most of these but because I was constantly trying to show my affection all the time I end up being seen as a one dimensional being that only does one thing and never adds to the relationship.
As of today I am changing my page. After talking to friends and watching a couple videos hopefully I’ll make better use of the techniques I already knew in order to be engaging as a person so I’ll be taken more seriously. Thanks for this guide and wish me luck people, I’ll need it.
Anyone else just love the animation and research put in all of Psych2Go’s videos!!! They make my day! 😊
"Levi Ackerman is such a cool character."
*"You're* such a cool character."
"..."
".."
"Thanks."
-Me and my friend 2022
Yes. Levi Ackerman is a cool character.
I approve this message 👏
My flirting skills go about up to there
@@jinstyles8323 Levi and Hange supremacy
Yes.. yes he is!
I know you're joking but this is unironically good flirting. It all lies in how confident about giving that compliment.
I'm a grade nine student but I just said to my crush that I like and I waited 5 years and she said she likes me too I show her care every day make her happy and support her when she's feeling down
Flirting tips:
•nonverbal behavior eye contact, genuinely smile, good hygiene, good scene
•intelligent
•gentle approach respectful/mature
•cheerful
•romantic scent
•confidence
•find things to talk about both like
• a mysterious allure, be honest, gentle but dont tell them everything about you
•
The thing is, I'm pretty sure I don't use subtlety. I either address the problem head on, or most of the time, don't address the problem at all. What this means is that I have more of an issue admitting that I like her at all because I'm scared that she isn't going to like me back and/or has a boyfriend already.
just because theres a goalie doesn't mean you can't score 👀
Can relate to this but I've decided the best tactic is to give a light but genuine compliment of something like "You're really handsome/pretty" and if they're like "I have a bf/gf" just be like "Well they're very lucky" and mean it. Like don't put too much weight just on making light conversation that happens to have a compliment in it. That's my new philosophy
@@jackconway6571
Yeah but like if she has a boyfriend and then if I win her over like that, who's to say some better guy won't come along and win her heart?
@@superstar64 Exactly, that’s a great point that I feel everyone should know. The other person probably was joking, but still, you’re absolutely right.
i just like how this channel doesn't make any of their characters look a certain gender, they're just little example people.
Apparently, people will get offended otherwise.
fr it’s the stupidest sh it ever
green = guy. pink = female. 😉
I love this style, anyone can interpret how they want. But most of all, It's extremely cute!
@@6wade Can you elaborate a bit more?
I used to think flirting took insane courage or skill but this all seems actually possible! Thanks guys
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It has been 1 year and I don't know how a comment as funny as this does not have more likes and comments 🤣
Bro thinks he's edgy
This channel is a blessing.
You're a blessing too! Thanks for watching and supporting!
This is such a great video.
Honest, relatable, and inspiring.
Thank you so much ❤️
complementing the last tip. Make the person talk as much about themselves as possible, and you, talk about yourself as little as possible, talk about yourself when asked or when you don't see another option, but always try to make them talk more about themselves, while people like you Talking, especially about yourself, a person who likes to listen, stands out.
I'm a real stool when it comes to flirting. I can literally think for days about what to say, how to compliment, how to show romantic intent, and absolutely nothing comes to my mind, well mby other than "I like you, you are pretty". I feel like an alien around girls and people who I barely know. I now think I've always got girls and never even said anything to get them. But what I know for sure, there was always a lot of touching right from the start of knowing each other. Something like friendly shoulder grab, hand on the back of the girl, sometimes carrying her in my arms. The point is neither I or a girl ever remembered what we were speaking during our first encounters. Always when I met girls that later became my girlfriends I was at the peak of my "I don't care about absolutely anything right now, I'm just having fun and not thinking about consequences" mentality.
I remember One time I was flirting with this girl, we were talking about fashion and I asked her: do you like my shoe? She replied, yes it’s pretty. then I said: well your face is much more prettier. The next day she blocked me lol
That moment I realized that I’m not such a good flirt
well , we have a common flirting that goes by "your eyes are prettier" even if you compliment a poop lol , you were not wrong though
@@Hantout25 I know I wasn’t. Don’t know what is wrong with those ladies, I really meant no harm lol
This rollercoaster :((
That line you used will never work on any girl you need to use a better way than that lol
@@keiron.4612 I figured that out little too late lol
Been married for a few years and at the age of 41, i can't believe I'm watching this. LOL
Ikr? I’m married too and flirting is a distant memory, so it’s a curiosity now.
Did you learn anything interesting? Never too late to keep flirting with your partner :)
@@Psych2go the video caused me to think back and remember I was pretty good at flirting, but I would never be romantic with it, just cheerful and cute. Nowadays my husband and I tease each other with little in-jokes and it cracks us up!
I don't know how I feel about watching this, either I'm lonely, curious, or bored, but no matter what, thanks for the tips
When you learn a skill you'll never use:
I mean, in school, there are skills that you probably will never use too
Oh god, I've been doing all of these subconsciously. Thank you for making me realize them and improve them more😂
The mystery thing really works. I personally suck at flirting but my looks and mystery keep women interested. Its best to just be as authentic as you can be instead of be something you're not. If you're weird you'll probably find someone who likes your weirdness; you'd be surprised.
Yes, being yourself is always attractive!
But there's a line btw being mysterious and one who can't be read at all like you're into them or noy
@@preach6787 good point, which brings me to say you have to show initial interest and go from there. Hint at it or else they won't even know if they should try being attracted to you in the first place
@@megafiremario12volt try being attracted? XDD that's a first ig the mystery between me and someone has grown sm now that it's hard to cut thru
@@preach6787 What do you mean?
This is actually useful. There are so many pickup artist nonsense going around.
This video has got to be so informative and helpful, even a musician is here
Never flirted, never wanted to. Always been too afraid of being taken wrong and accused of sexual harassment and going to jail. That was only made worse by the last girl I talked to accusing me of stalking her and doing everything she was actually doing to me. Now my PTSD has made it so I will never talk to another girl again.
Most people are not this crazy. Just walk away from these people. They have serious mental and emotional problems. And what are they gonna do? Complain about it on Twitter?
@@AutomaticDuck300 or try to destroy your reputation / get you fired like the absolute psycho that they are.
😂😂😂 Fr everything is sexual harassment now a days
@@moneymakinmitch8130 give a few examples of that?
im sorry ab what happened to you :/
An unconventional method that has worked for me that has given me confidence in approaching and talking to women is visiting your local gentleman’s club. Practice there talking to them and genuinely having a good time and making them laugh and you will see how easy flirting will become. Just yesterday I hanged out with my bro in law’s friends which I had never met 15 mins of talking and laughing with them one of the girls asked my sister if I was married.
This was the most helpful video in the channel.
I find myself a great flirt, and even often choose wisely who to flirt with.
Thank you for sharing these tips. Finding the courage to speak to someone you like is one way of living full out
Yes, easier said than done! But once you can see the big picture, it's very rewarding.
Someone's ugly can be another person's beautiful. Like, really if you think you don't look good then grooming and hygiene can not only make other people see you at your best but it helps you develop self confidence and self love. Even if it doesn't work out on your first attempt well, get more experience. You have your entire life to flirt and look for someone compatible.
exactlyy
This channel has really helped me build my self confidence up, thank you so much!
Genuinely though, eye contact completely melts my insides. Especially from a distance. Just gives me that feeling of *"AAAAAAA THEY'RE LOOKING AT MEEEE"*
Maybe this is a good video for me to watch right now, considering my ex broke up with me right before Valentine's day :') no idea
I'd really love to see a video on how to handle a break up and feel better and deal with the grief. . .
Sorry to hear about that. It must be really hard for you right now, but maybe this is a chance to finally meet someone new and amazing for the year,
@@Psych2go I don't honestly know 😔 I don't know if I should meet anyone else right now, and even if I wanted too I have no idea where to meet them.
The biggest things is my world has really fallen apart because of this. I was gonna marry her and she gave up on me because it's a long-distance relationship. I feel so many things and I'm trying to get my life back together. . .
@@Heartache2491 Piece of advice: keep yourself busy. Start learning an instrument, a language, go workout, join a book club etc.
Don't ruminate on it.
@@Rouhollah74 It's so hard to keep busy 😔 I have next to no energy to do anything. And so much of what I do enjoy reminds me of her because we had so much in common. I'm trying to get a sense of normality back into my life but it's not working well, and I need to get my life back under control because there's still so much I need to do, but it's so hard. . . I'm trying so hard to just hold together and even that's not working well, let along getting back to my normal life schedule. . .
This happened to my friend, her boyfriend of 2 years broke up with her the month of Valentine's Day. I didn't even meet the guy that long ago and he already left her. Only the rudest people break up with someone in February (Unless they have valid, understandable reasons)
This is super helpful for people who arnt very good at flirting, surprisingly I’ve always had a flirty personality and sometimes it’s a curse lol. Anyways for anyone reading this, you got this, trust me you will find love fore sure:)
when you overthink about flirting with someone it fails, but if you start casually talking to someone without thinking about it, it works that's my guess
I love that this channel consistently reminds me how how of the loop I am 😂. They make it very clear that I'm not as smooth as most people 😂.
Love these, short sweet and to the point. Music is a good choice.
I have no idea how to discern what flirting looks like but I have unintentionally done most of these things in general with people
Ayoooo bro me to I have no idea what the heck I’m doing man
For me. I’m just taking time to realize I finally think I’m ready to start dating. Im 18 and felt like I never knew who I was and since coming to college I let myself be free of social graces as I had done on certain trips before. Im finally feeling at home in my own skin and more confident in myself. Before I’ve watched stuff like this because I had a crush or the like, but now with an empty mind I watch these for actual knowledge I haven’t had the ability to have before. I’ve been working on mental-me for so long that I feel ok finally. Im excited for what’s to come.
Also, I still don’t know exactly what people mean by flirting.. I’ve never gone out with anyone as previously stated and I don’t know what exactly flirting is. I’m sure I’ve done it, I just don’t know what it is besides “letting someone know you’re into them in different ways”
I needed this video 5 years ago.
I don’t try to flirt, it’s not my fault everything I say is as smooth as butter.
I've never flirted or been flirted with, but this might help me take the first move on my next crush!! Thx Psych2Go!!
Same. Hoping to move to a smaller town for better chances, because feck online dating.
@@fireblade295 Haha, yeah I agree-
Just what I was looking for! Thanks!
2:56 omg a day6 reference! the background already was giving me my day vibes then the album cover 💚🍃
Can you do a video about bipolar or ocd next? Thanks for taking your time to read this!❤
Stay tuned!
Love this! Thank you!
You're welcome!
after watching all of your videos, I can proudly say that I have 5 restriction orders, thank you so much!
Sorry I came here to watch because someone from Twitter tweeted about the reference of Day6 kband. Yes, I saw it at 2:50 - 2:55. Thank you for this content.
This video has helped my autistic ass realise why people often mistake my being friendly with flirting haha thank you! I will actually use this to help myself avoid things that are interpreted as flirting 😂
I understand you, same here.
Ditto, accidentally flirted hard with a waitress when I was having dinner with my family. I thought I was being friendly, my dad complimented me on my flirting. I was stunned
@@CaptainShenanigans42 your pfp perfectly shows your face after your dad complimented you lol
@@josephjoestar77 Lmao yeah, honestly too stunned to even feel awkward in the moment though
I don't think I have ASD but for me it's the other way around. I almost never notice if and when someone is trying to flirt with me. My ex always let me know afterwards, telling me when someone tried to flirt with me. I'm absolutely oblivious.
I actually struggle with flirting verbally. I’ve never really done it before but it’s easy for me over text just not verbal. I end up freezing on the spot and overthink what to say to my crush.
HER VOICE IS FLIRTING WITH ME STOPPPP IM IN LOVE
FINALLY A VIDEO WHERE I CAN IMPROVE MY RIZZ!!!
I know people have a lot of trouble with talking to their crushes… for some reason, I usually develop feelings for someone in the same friend group as me, which makes it slightly easier to talk and a lot less nerve-wrecking… a downside is the fact they’re a friend and might see you as just a friend because of it.
I do feel like this may help me in the future, but for now… I already have someone
Same!
3:53 glad leaf guy successfully rizzed flower girl up 💯🔥💯🔥
WE ARE GETTING OUT OF THE FRIENDZONE WITH THIS ONE!!❤🔥🔥🔥
Your voice calms me and Idk why
Everytime I show a little more courage I actually already use some of these techniques. But all I ever got is friendzone or total rejection (girls just disappear) and I am not a beginner. I started doing this when I was a teenager and now I am almost 28. So I just have come to terms that some people (like me) are not likable in any sort of way, sexually or romantically, no matter how I hard we try
Others experience no romantic or sexual attraction whatsoever.
If the person looks busy or preoccupied it may not be a good time to flirt.
Don’t be a creep and hit on people outside of your age range too.
And don't try to hard brother! Rejection only leads to the person who wants to be in your presence. Nothing is wrong with u. You just need to let go of bad experience, and know that you are fkin worth time and effort. And if someone isn't interested in what u say, that's their problem
Hey! That is not true at all. You are likeable, loveable and worthy of desire. Your brain might tell you you're not those things as a way to explain your past experiences, but don't listen. Are you maybe only looking at the prettiest girls in the room? Are you maybe being too direct with girls? Women don't want to feel like they're being played or being preyed upon. And if irl experience doesn't work, try dating apps! You are absolutely beautiful and that's the mindset you need to carry! Women also don't want someone who brings self-pity, they're not therapists! I wish you the best of luck, don't ever decide that you're not desired sexually or romantically! You are an amazing human being that managed hardships all the way to your 28th year! I think that's pretty fucking cool.
Let me tell you as a reasonably attractive woman who has lived in the Friend Zone so long I think they elected me mayor a few times sometimes you gotta step back and look inside and find what about you needs to grow. Not for the sake of finding a date but because you want to like who you are more. Which in turn makes you more likable and attractive. I've done a ton of person growth in the last couple years and while I live too rural to have a lot of dating options I did have a guy buy me a beer at the last concert I went to which had never happened before so I call that progress. Just keep working on liking who you are on the inside and then whether you find a mate or not you'll at least be living with someone you like for the rest of your life rather than dealing with your insecurities through suppression and bad coping mechanisms
That’s not true, you can be likable I’m sure, just gotta find someone who appreciates you! It’s hard, but don’t give up, try to stay strong
*This video* : be gentle and romantic
*Me* : challenging my crush to a fight (play fight) and creating insulting banter back and forth with them lol
Update: it’s working
Update: we’ve been dating a month now lol
Lol
@@nicoleacire5502 holy crap, so you just need to do a fight, damn
@@SR_73 gotta see if they have survival skills, ya know? Lol
LESSS GO I NEEDED THIS
Time for a refresher course. It's been a while..
Two of my biggest weakness that I learn from watching this video is the romantic aspect and mystery. I am not very romantic, I tend to treat people I am interested like everyone else. I realized I f#$@ up when I do ask them out, they are surprised. They probably thought romantically about me, but because I don't give them special treatment, they assume I have my eye on someone else. Another weakness is building mystery, I have a bad tendency to show my hand. I do this because I don't want people to make assumptions about me.
I've never flirted with anyone and don't want to in case i come across as weird, but..
i might use this on one of my crushes :)
s o m e d a y
The fact that these videos always pop up when I have a crush. It’s like the CZcams algorithm KNOWS.
thank you for this theres a person ive made freinds with and we became pretty close and ive got feelings for him now i can show my feelings