Is Dating Broken?
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> pays for HIS food
> walks out on him over overpriced cheese
Dude dodged a nuke.
Facts
I dont see nothing wrong with it though. Yes she was being picky but she can acknowledge it, pay for the date to accommodate the waste of time, and called it off right there to save time rather than pretending the rest of the night.
Isn't this the best scenario for a failed date?
That guy won all the way around.
And she's going off saying she's broke
@@georgedonald9826 as the video says, you can acknowledge something bad with you but if you keep doing it you’re still a piece of sh*t.
Yes is the best outcome for the guy (L for taking a second date) but the girl is still deranged
I always tell my friends and family, “just cause I can afford it, does not mean I will buy it.”
👏👏👏👏
At my old job everybody I worked with was half broke. I'm young, single, I made good money and I saved everything I could. I was CONSTANTLY mocked for not wasting money and I always told them I'm just being smart with my money. Good thing because my boss framed me for a minor infraction and tried to fire me, so I quit and lived off of savings until I found another job. I wouldn't have been able to do that if I spent money like all the idiots I used to work with.
That’s the part many modern women in dating don’t seem to understand. Of course most people can afford X, Y, Z. It’s just not smart, or not worth it, in principle.
Also a good rule to live buy when buying expensive stuff: If you can't buy it 3 times then don't buy it at all.
TRUE
I grew up poor and much of that experience will stick with me forever. Not even in a traumatic kind of way, but just informing what you value and how you interpret certain values of money - everything is just so much more tangible because you know how far you can get on X budget, so you honour your dollars for lack of a better phrase.
Nowadays I live good, I save a lot, but I'm staying well within my means by a country mile because you know what can happen and you know what you really care about vs what's just a nicety or fleeting thought.
I actually kind of like this. Back in the day, it used to take months or years to figure out if a woman you were dating was a narcissistic nutbag, now it's just a Google search away.
This one in the video will
Clean your account out and then say how come you’re not bringing in more.
Hahaha
Dude, I KEEP TELLING people these days that. These people are wearing their red flags on their sleeve like a badge of honor and all I hear is complaining. They must think is was easier or the options were better back then. Nope, same shit but you had to figure it out and if you didn't have the vetting skills to see it you were screwed, jailed or ruined at best, or dead at worse.
@@diypictures to be fair all y’all had to do was get some rims or a nice car and the hoes start piling thru
Managing your money isn't attractive to some of these goofballs. Because if you know how to manage your funds, they can't extort you for them.
They know if the guy is smart about his money, she would not have the free stuff in life she thinks she needs to have from the boyfriend. The deluxe lifestyle, no money economy balancing in her vocabulary.
Hard fax. Unfortunately.
He’s not an easy target
Responsibility is not an attractive trait to modern women it is what it is gents
Truth
The biggest red flag is that she's airing her dirty laundry to a bunch of random people online for validation.
If she does that for a date, she probably do it for other personal stuff.
Yessir, that is exactly what type of person she is, she will have your relationship/ marriage a complete Fuckin nightmare!
These days people airing their most private moments on social media and it’s gross 🤮
Her: You need to learn how to communicate better so we can work through things!!
Also her: can you guys believe what this pos is like?!?
And they wonder why their relationships don’t last longer than a month
True!!!!! Even Joey Swoll was in the comments telling her to be better lol
@@Mugman896 agreed with your points but she's a drama queen, they are back together.
Buddy just finessed a free meal, AND he got to eat it in peace, by himself. Do yall realize how hard that is for a man? This guy is an absolute legend.
Might wanna finish the video before commenting 💀
He's an absolute FOOL
😂😂😂😂 I'm female and that's genius
@@bbbbbbb51 But he did finish the meal by himself and the girl paid .. she claimed that they might see again but the dude didn't confirm and might be only for some smash and pass
And he is still willing to put up with it in hopes of something on a 2nd date, because theyre both "psychos".....cute.
My ex was like that. Lived his life, had holidays and went out. He just avoided the extras, upsizes and sacrificed good coffee for instant. He was amazing with money. Impressive house he was able to set down a deposit for at a young age. Discipline and frugality with money is impressive.
Why did he become an ex?
This is the way. Life is quite simple in that regard: with hard now, relax later. Or relax now, and work hard later. Either way, you'll have to put in the work. Makes more sense to me to do it while I'm going and have minimal dependencies, but that's just me.
@@gmylap7344 👀👀👀
@@gmylap7344 she wanted extra
He sound like a keeper, having someone knowing about money like that is how you setup.
Maybe I'm crazy, but I swear that the creaky floor is adding to the experience. You get to hear how they move when they talk. It's almost like an extension of their body language.
I’m pretty sure they said they talked about getting the floor fixed at one point but decided not to cuz it’s part of the ambience lmao
😂😂😂
It cracks me tf up sometimes when they're laughing so hard all you can even hear is the damn floor cause they're winded 😂
I'm not paying $3 for a damn slice of cheese
For real, you can get a pack for like $6. $3 for a slice, no way.
@@pmontidel literally was gonna say this
For three dollars more, you can buy a 400g block of cheese. Enough for 8 burgers.
Probably crappy Kraft American as well.
Anything more than 50 cents is ridiculous.
$3 for cheese is straight up a scam, I don’t care how much anyone likes cheese, I would never. This man honestly lucked out so much; he got to save that extra $3 and then she paid for the whole meal. Good for him. He won that whole exchange.
@@franklinQR dude what!? The US is the second biggest cheese producer in the world. Look up government cheese.
And you know after he's pays that $3, they'll give him that Kraft singles "cheese product" that's so unnatural, they're not even allowed to call it cheese.
Not to mention how for a $21 burger doesn't include when the most basic cheap burger from MacDonalds does, like what? What about bread, ground beef and onions makes it cost $21? Even if it included actually cheese like mozzarella or cheddar, it would still be overpriced.
@@franklinQR Those singles are literally designed to melt all over the burger btw. No chef or food critic worth their shit would knock it on a burger.
@@franklinQR Lol whatever cheese you have in Holland, we have it here too, bud
@@JesusChristsDick prolly not for $3....lol
The true story is the 3 dollar save was a test. Not only did this man save 3 bucks, he saved his entire life with those 3 bucks. Imagine being married to this crazyness.
That would drive any man to a mental institution with her craziness.
Question, why does dating someone mean you plan on marrying them ? 😂
Very well could be, it is New York City after all
@@yourmom_knowsme Isn’t the entire point of dating someone (having a boyfriend/girlfriend) to build a close relationship and connection with that person? I mean, you don’t start dating someone with the intention of ending it at any point. It doesn’t mean you know for sure it’s gonna end in marriage and/or a long relationship but isn’t that the goal? 99% of people who are dating someone else are doing so because they think that other person can possibly be “the one” for them. “The one” meaning the one who they can build that close connection with, share experiences with, and so on for a very long period of time (for the rest of their life for some people).
@@anthonydonelli6194 Honestly, as much as i’d like to agree with you, that’s just not the reality nowadays. It’s very hard to find someone that likes you for you, when women’s standards are higher than ever. Any little mistake or flaw, & you get shot down immediately. Long term relationships are becoming less common too. That’s why i don’t have any expectations with dating. If we last, then that’s cool. But i’m not settling for ANYONE until they show me the same energy.
I love how Preach just looks permanently unimpressed and unsurprised during a lot of these clips- just like “aah here we go, this shit again” 😂😂
Also, too many idiots like this in the video, and a lot of people actually look up to this stupid lack of responsibility as the way to live life, we’ve all done stupid shit but actively sitting there on social media and defending it like the other person is cheap for not spending $3 on some cheese. There is something seriously wrong going on in this world, and “anti”social media is exacerbating it so much more 😑
He's the physical manisfestation of "I'm too old for this sh**"
The things that bothers me the most isn’t that she did it. Honestly it’s that she NEEDS others to know. Telling her girlfriends isn’t enough, she has to share it with strangers thinking it’s worth telling. And then when she gets absolutely cremated in the comments she gets her feelings hurt. Such beautiful irony and well earned ridicule.
Even more worse, she’s trying to gaslight him saying “WE should of gotten the cheese” what is this “WE” shit. Don’t remember her ordering a burger. She’s controlling and toxic
Absolutely this!
I guarantee there are other chicks telling her what she did was the smart choice
@@jenkhemhuffersanonymous3990 it wasn't a terrible choice. Compatibility over everything.
Sge's the type of broad that will work you into a rage where you have to try hard not to be violent, all without even raising her voice or being dramatic
What really blows me away is that she paid for his meal and left him in peace, this man walked both sides of the line without realizing it and won. Hats off to you ma'am
P.S. I claim no responsibility for the chat battleground, personally a strong believer in forgiveness
for real. only thing she did wrong in my opinion was post about it on the internet. thats just mad corny
@@mizaqenyad4269 It really is. I'm assuming he wasn't named or anything, but its just unneeded man. I expected this story to be way worse then it actually was.
She in some way wanted the "Chase" for a man to pursue a woman is in a way.. "some type of way" welcome to the show ladies and gentlemen. (Also etc anyone we may have forgot to acknowledge)
@FenwickChick Yes of course, men are responsible for your feelings and paying for dinner is not in any way a burden. He's definitely a jack hat for having opinions. He should just shut up and pay the bill.
@Fenwick Chick Are you actually that chick? Lmao
the scariest part of the video as far as potentially dating her was her being so unconcerned about how her debt and irresponsible spending will effect her and her future relationships and living situations
She's a mildly attractive yt girl. She will never pay on that debt, and she knows it.
@@niallk9336 everyone ages...except maybe shoe that bitch almost like 40
Been broken for a while now and it's getting worse.
I won't date and haven't for years. This is just the latest thing to affirm that I made the right choice.
I value my peace above everything else and I sure wouldn't have it with this woman.
there are normal woman out there, with their head on their shoulders. THIS HERE IS NOT THE STANDARD. Just pay attention to these small signals, and people reveal their true nature.
WAIT! WAIT! let me get this straight. It was HIS food, *HIS* FOOD he didn't want to pay extra for and she's flipping out. I thought he told her what she ordered was too much and it was just normal entitlement but this? This is a SEEKNAAAS of the highest order.
Right!
That's fkn loco right??!!!
Him not paying that extra was a red flag to her meaning he's broke. Him saying you gotta pay extra for everything these days cemented that to her also sadly. He dodge one though so good for her, exposing herself like that.
Unbelievable
@@torment6369 If that was her "thinking" it was backwards. I am financially sound. I can afford to pay $3 for a slice of cheese. I do not do so. I simply refuse to be gouged. I could have 100 times my current net worth and I would STILL not pay $3 for a slice of cheese.
Dang...imagine getting rejected because of *CHEESE.*
She's the same woman saying "Where'd all the good men go?!"
Women ☕️
they ran from her ass X'D
Gettin that cheese to pay for extra cheese.
Cheese was fucking $3!!!! Unless it was a half of a pound worth of cheese, I’m passing too!
But the thing is to not let women like that make you go all Sneako lol
There is a difference between treating yourself with something well made, high quality and expensive and getting ripped off for a slice of the lowest quality cheese from a restaurant!
She was so close to redeeming herself saying they had a laugh about it like it was a joke. Then proceeded to tell us how it was not a joke 😅
This man is a genius. He didn't just save $3. He saved himself the cost of the entire meal and the headache of being with this woman. Not sure if the woman was telling the truth about them having a second date...
Headache is the least of my concern. Big Financial damage for BEING with this woman is the number one I am worry about. She didn't care she broke and proceed to pay with her money she didn't have in the first place, just imagine what she will do with your money?
It's scam. What burger doesn't come with cheese. That's like shoes sold without shoe laces. 😂 Wtf. It's a scam
@@houseofhas9355What's a branzino? 😅
😂
@@kro0018 I just googled it. Its a fucking fish. paying 20+ buck for tasteless ass fish, gimme some fried chicken at a mom and pop store for 5 bucks
@kro Basically European Bass. It's common at Italian restaurants.
I got dumped once because I suggested going for street truck tacos instead of sushi/kbbq cuz its cheaper and a more casual first date while still being delcious. I even made sure to check that the trucks food was delicious beforehand too by trying it few days before the date.
The whole date plan was to get the tacos, set up a picnic at a park with a blunt/bottle in tote and just have a mellow time enjoying each other's company but clearly that never happened
Needless to say I dodged a bullet.
People don't wanna eat, they wanna be SEEN eating. People dont wanna date, they wanna be SEEN dating a baller busta so they can post on socials to show off.
Vanity is the plague of the US, only accelerated by the nature of social media.
I dont even ask for much, I just want an average, loyal, down to earth partner but that desire feels unobtainable for early 20s
Aren’t street truck tacos fire though 😅 I can only assume, I’ve never had the pleasure of having gone to one 🥹 yeah you probably dodged a bullet, can’t be with someone that doesn’t love and appreciate food like that 😅
Literally every time I see a woman posting pics like she's single
Tacos > sushi
In general, if the focus of the date is on where you’re at or how much you’re spending rather than on *you*, then you’re better off single than dating that individual.
Street car food is the Best tho, shit be straight bussin 💯 percent
YES, admitting you have a problem isn’t enough you have to also actively take steps to correct your shitty behavior. THANK YOU ABA!!!
This is honestly something that stresses me out. My salary is average for the state that I live in, I have my own place and I'm not living paycheck to paycheck but I'm still kind of nervous that it isn't enough when I look at what people seem to expect in the current dating market.
Literally just went on a date I wasn’t feeling. Not only finished the dinner and paid for the date, but walked her to her car and told her to her face that I didn’t feel a connection. Hugged her and made sure she got home safely. You can respect people too. He’s not for you. Fine. That’s not a crime. He’s definitely taking an L tho runnin after a girl that walked out on him.
Don’t be stoupid ..
I think she lied about that 2nd date shit, so people would stop raggin on her... that nigga didn't say shit about bein cool with her ass in the video he made, so I doubt he went out with her again
Lol he isn’t running after shit. If anything, she unblocked him and is trying to use him to seem like she’s a good person
20 dollars a burger and fries in San Diego since 2019 my guy . Just for my self.
Generally women don’t take that well. It’s all fine if you both don’t feel a connection, but when she likes you can you don’t like her back….no matter how kind you are about it, she will not handle the rejection well. In fact she’ll try and villianise you somehow to get the last laugh and save face. It’s why guys ghost
Gotta love how she can’t handle the mild awkwardness of a first date.
Him: “Wow $3 for a slice of cheese is abit much.”
Girl: 🚩🚩🚩🚩
$21 for a burger?
@@nucleargrizzly1776
Burger, fries and drink? That comes to $31.50 (excluding tip).
Ordering through UberEats or DoorDash? That will be $55 (excluding tip).
@@cheesesteakphilly Last weekend I smoked an entire feral hog I harvested from my property. Total cost? 12 cents for the 30-30 round I reloaded myself. Guess who ate better?
I think back to first dates I had before I got married. Damn, either me, the girl, or both had awkward moments. What is wrong with these kids. Like a little awkwardness and they suddenly think their "energies just aren't in sync" or some dumb sh
It's funny. I mean she didn't like how the date was going, got up and left. Didn't waste anyone's time.
Honestly what pissed me off was the casual dismissal of the credit card debt she has. This generation better learn to live within their means really damn quick, because our money isn’t going to be worth anything for much longer
He didnt flinch at the branzino. He just thought the markup was ridiculous on the cheese
As a woman, I appreciate a man who is responsible with money. The guy didn't care much for the cheese so he decided it wasn't worth the extra cash. A RESPONSIBLE GUY in my eyes! From the title, I thought he was complaining about HER wanting extra cheese on her own burger, but this was HIS OWN BURGER! HIS BURGER, so HIS DECISION! What is her problem? 😅
You know what they say: his burger, his choice 😂
If it was extra cheese on her burger, and he's expected to pay, then shouldn't he get to say what he spends his money on regardless? This is where the dynamics of dating and relationships fail right from the start. Tbh, if you're paying, you should get to dictate what can be bought. Otherwise, pay for yourselves. If SHE wants extra cheese, she can pay for it. It's just like sex, you get to choose what you want to do and what you feel comfortable doing FOR your partner. Otherwise it's r@ape. People dating shouldn't be going on dates expecting the other to pay for everything, then buy the whole menu. That's financial r@ape. My wallet, my choice. Your Body, Your choice. and vise versa. If nobody can agree with that, then I question your humanity and if you even deserve nice things. The fact that we even got to argue about my wallet, my choice and my body, my choice is ridiculous to me. I swear, ever since we've had this push for equality, women and minorities DO NOT want equality, they want vengeance and supremacy. I will always advocate for TRUE equality ALL AROUND THE BOARD. If nobody agrees with that, then you're likely some form of racist, sexist, ageist, any "-ist" that makes you discriminatory against someone else.
@FenwickChick At first I thought you were serious and was like wtf, but I think I've clocked that your comments are satire. I say to you, brava. You got me and it was funny
@Fenwick Chick 🙄....do you even have a man at the moment?
@Fenwick Chick grow up and act like a lady that deserves a gentleman. I have my own business and if I'm buying a burger for myself and the cheese cost half of what the burger cost, I might just pass. How do you feel about her talking about how she is broke while judging another man's person preference in how he spends?
Fam won all rounds😂
-Got free food.
-Avoided a potentially toxic scenario and relationship.
-Got the extra cheese.
-Saved cash.
Lols.... The Perfect Date
And then lost it all when she unblocked him and they both started talking again.
Didnt get the extra cheese, she flat out told him he should have before blocking him
@@Rude_Boi exactly🤦🏽♀️
Up until they said he's going on a 2nd date. Now he's an idiot
One mistake, he didn't get the cheese, but hey, free food 🤣
Aba has one of the most level headed philosophies I’ve ever heard. Specially appreciate him addressing the schizophrenic treating their issues, like if you have mental issues and you’re not working on fixing them ofc you’re gonna go down
yes preach!!! i agree knowing yourself is good, doing something about it is the best for you. also damn people need to relax sometimes...
I'm lactose intolerant so I can relate to the dude. I'm not paying extra for a trip to the bathroom. That experience better be free 😂
lmao i was thinking the same thing. most cheeses don't wreck me like milk and ice cream do. but still don't want to pay extra for discomfort
Omg the most relatable comment ever!!!! 😂😂😂
Facts lmao but if you think about it no bathroom trip is free 😆
@@ext93 I have the exact opposite. I can handle milk, cream is dicey but cheese destroys my stomach! I still eat it sometimes...not for 3 dollars extra
😅😅
They're teaching my daughter financial literacy in high school. I was floored. They never had anything like that when I was in school. I couldn't believe it when my 15 year old daughter came home explaining to me what stocks and bonds are. It was great
You couldn't believe it when a high schooler knew what stocks and bonds are? Wtf. They teach it in basic finance/economics.
@@paradiso4562 a lot of countries don’t have economics class for highschools. Mine did fortunately
School teaches what it is. Not how to get them or maintain them.
@@paradiso4562Maybe in whatever paradise you are from, but I can say from experience that American public schools definitely don’t do that, at least not usually. Or, it was that way 5 years ago at least. Classes like that were elective, or just not available.
@@jacksonpowers4459 Paradise to take a basic finance class? Either you didn't pay attention in school or it really shows how broken and shitty America is.
Came back to this vid. A video of his was on my fyp. Zakir is hilarious. He posts all these crazy dating stories. I hope find someone.
I find it so amazing how quick people are to block others. I don't think I have ever blocked anybody on any platform
She IS a 49er
She blocked him, but they are still talking
She is an unpaid intern, but she gets a paycheck
She is broke, but hates on a guy for not wanting to pay $3 for a slice of cheese
Nothing she says makes any sense
Y'all need to just finish this one with that angry man look straight into the camera
These type of women are the opposite of sense.
She is everything wrong with modern dating today and the guy is too for ignoring the Red flags and still talking with her.
Slice of cheese for his food. Not her's
@@Rude_Boi He wants a quick smash she's a passable 5 maybe 7 in a good day
The wild part about this is that she isnt mad at the concept someone wouldn't pay for the cheese, she's mad that folks won't spend their money as irresponsibly as she does. She even says it in the 2nd video that "I'm not gonna bitch that somethings too expensive. I'm just gonna buy it and worry about it later." She's the type of person who if yall share a bank account, she's going to be ultra controlling over it and possibly lead yall into debt... Or more debt than she already claims she has.
In the second video, she says that she has a shit ton of debt and that she works an unpaid internship...
*THAT'S WHY SHE SAID SHE'S IN A BIG DEBT🤡🚩*
@@elburropeligroso4689 *UNPAID INTERNSHIP = ONLYFANS 🤣*
I couldn't help but laugh that she was boasting about overpaying for food and wine. She doesn't realize she has that broke mentality. '''I'll overpay for silly everyday items like food and beverage just so other people don't realize I have financial troubles''. That is why she was so triggered by him doing exactly that, it forced her to think about her own situation and she doesn't want to do that. I can tell you for a fact that if you are well off you don't care if you look frugal when you are being smart with your money especially in an establishment such as a restaurant or club.
That mentality is why marketers target women. It's been a well known phenomenon for decades. Women are more susceptible to advertising and spending money on frivolous sht. It's also why the powers that be want to transfer wealth from men to women. They're more profitable.
Some people can never be happy because they scrutinize everyone around them but can't or refuse to scrutinize themselves. Plus the whole, deflecting responsibility every chance they get, these qualities seem to be the new norm.
Honestly, I could never understand how people do this yet. So many do it and I know so many that spend what they don't have, I used to be in over 50k in debt making them decisions when I was in my late teens and when early 20s hit, I started spending smart and paid it all off within a couple years, even now where I'm making pretty good money for my age, I still live the same way and keep on saving more by doing so. I'll splurge a little if i'm feeling it but other than that, and the day to day , I could never
The way I see it…
1. He walked away from that date not having to pay a single penny.
2. No longer has to waste precious time and energy interacting with this utterly ridiculous woman. She claims that they are going on a second date AFTER blocking him (cap).
3. Didn’t get ripped off by paying the $3 for cheese.
HUGE W for this man. 👍
yeah that's a good perspective in hindsight but, that's a humiliating way for anybody in a public place to go. I'd think he'd rather be let go gracefully and respectably over money than this way, just my thoughts, you are encouraging with your point by the way.
So why are people so heated? They both didn't waste time, and they both got to move on.
I called cap when she said they're still talking & going on a second date after claiming she blocked him
@@claff4573 I think people are just heated over the woman more (just for the way she acted out of frustration which was immature) .
Remember, we only got a one sided story (and a shady one from the woman), I'd rather not assume the guy is cool with it until I hear his version. You are right, no one should really be in trouble because no one's livelihood is in jeopardy. I agree both parties will laugh this off as a silly and awkward date night.
@@HiddenKeyElement you think she did that because of blow back from viewers who disagreed with her?
The fact that's she's poor herself is icing on the cake. 😭😂
*icing on the cheese
Then wonders why…
@@StillAwesome21 😂😂😂🥂
@@brettlawrence9015 "where did all the good guys go?!!! 🙊"
@@StillAwesome21 *cheese on the burger
My girl showed me those cheese tik toks and was waiting for yall to a reaction video. 💯💯💯 keep doing what yall doing we loved it ❤
Did you peep the tile ceiling where she walked into? Presumably her apt building.... homegirl is complaining about spending but doesn't live on Park 5th Ave
Sometimes, preach's bluntness got me rolling
Without skipping a beat, "Die alone, and to my guy, you dodged one"😂😂
Yea he real can’t deny it
in the words of the late great Kevin Samuels lol ..."buy a dog...die alone"
My husband and I were just reminiscing about when we first got together and went on taco bell dates and spent our nights lounging around watching DVDs with cheap bottles of wine. There's a lot of beauty in the simplicity of just enjoying someone's company outside of fancy dates and expensive dinners.
So true! Cheap wine nights plus some crackers and cheese is good
My husband brings Taco Bell home when he thinks I need a break from cooking. No complaints from me. Give me that cheap ass burrito.
Y’all are probably very happy . Y’all are grateful for each other super lucky.
you are not wrong. for the past year or so one of my favorite thing to do is to go to a coffee shop on the weekend/after work sometimes to just hang out with my friend and chit chat for a few hours.
@@GLoLChibs Yess! Cheap burritos and tacos for us and a chicken and cheese quesadilla for our kid. It's cheap but so nice to have a cooking break lol
On to the next and don't look back, my guy.
People are depressed and feeling the need to "treat themselves", but they don't realize they are perpetuating a cycle that keeps them in the dumps. I've had a lot of men get upset or be turned off about being careful with money. I know it's not fun during, but it's fun after when you don't have debt looming over your head and you have managed to put a decent life together.
That’s why when my husband and I were dating, we dated over splitting cheesy fries and getting refills on coffee. We tried to tip nicely for being broke, but I gotta say, those waitresses at Dennys were very compassionate. ❤
Those times are gone, lot of women (not all obviously) these days expect $100+ paid dinners on the first date lol
NYC is a whole different world. What are considered reasonable expectations there would cause outrage in 99% of the rest of the country. Only LA and San Fran come close to matching it.
Me and my bf love dennys ❤️😊
Girl yes, those Danny's cheese fries are peak!
My now husband took us to Applebee's and I was happy as hell. I feel like these women really think they're worth a $200+ meal on a first date. A FIRST DATE!
Full crazy😂
❤❤❤❤
Her recognizing she's crazy and doing nothing about it is no different than Sneako calling himself a selfish asshole, and all these other things, and thinking because he recognizes it that makes his behavior okay. Recognizing an issue, and then continuing to do it instead of learning and doing better, makes you worse. Because that means you're a bad person who is KNOWINGLY causing problems for people.
We have a big issue these days of people thinking their behavior is okay because they admit they're crazy or an asshole. Imagine someone stabbing you and then saying "I know I'm just a psycho bitch. Teehee!"
“You can’t tehee your way out of prison” 😂
Totally agree on leanring financial literacy
I respect this man for not spending $3 on a slice of cheese.
Am I the only one who appreciate this lady... She pays for his meal, then walks out of his life saving him from future headache...
all crazy people should be like this.
That's if you even believe her in the first place
But then we went back to her 🤦🏿♂️
They are still talking.
They still talking after she said she blocked him
Nah she’s definitely lying about that one. The video that dude posted did NOT look like he was happy lol. I bet she unblocked him and tried to get back in touch cause of the internet backlash she was facing, then proceeded to lie about a second date when he turned her down so the people would stop attacking her. It’s a big contradiction when she says she’s going on a second date and then proceeds to try and validate her insane spending patterns. The whole reason she walked out on the first date was cause that guy had a different idea on finances and spending patterns. One can only guess but I wouldn’t trust a word that comes out of that girls mouth
Dude got his food payed for, dodged a nuke, and then the person who tried to embarrass him got roasted.
Dude won on every front, won a war without even trying.
No casualties type shii😂
Except apparently now they're going on a 2nd date LOL
@@seanwolf8394 bro want's that 2. burger to get paid aswell
@@seanwolf8394 That's a complete lie. Not only did HE make a tik tok response to her but she also blocked him
She's lying.
Dodged the cheese, dodged the red flag chick. Thats Neo level dodging
OMG you guys are hilarious! Love your bantering! The gurl is hilarious too actually! Keep speaking your truth and cracking me up while you're at it!
I've met too many people that say "Yeah I know I have a problem" and do nothing to fix it. They act like everything is okay just cause they confirm they have a problem. Its not. Be better.
"I'm bad at keeping friends." Proceeds to remove people from their life left right and center.
"I understand you're frustrated but I'm not going to apologize out of courtesy and refuse to take blame for something I definitely did"
I'm crazy for trying to forgive people like this. Don't bother with people who don't wanna try. You aren't a therapist, and even if you are, its not your job to try to help them.
Some problems are easier to work around than they are to fix.
There's only so much energy a person has to spend, sometimes it's better to focus on the things that are going well.
The "I understand you're frustrated, but I'm not going to apologize..." sounds exactly like my sister. Cutting her out of my life was the healthiest decision I ever made. Bond over Blood
@@the_inquisitive_inquisitor Absolutely. And its cool to try to help people, but you gotta draw a line before it starts hurting YOU too.
And a lot of problems are easier to solve if you accept help from friends. But if that person doesn't want help, don't keep trying to pester them to the point of it being stuck in your head and ruining your mood.
It depends on the situation, so think and through and figure out what's best. People just gotta remember that sometimes the best decision is to step back. If someone is self destructive and they're unwilling to accept your help then its just gonna mess you up if you keep trying.
If someone wants to just work around their problems in whatever way, that's their prerogative.
@@JellysMate I tried so hard to get them to understand what the problem was, but they never ever listened. I was never allowed to be right about anything. I hadn't even received an apology out of courtesy in like 2 years.
They'll either figure it out the hard way or they'll destroy themselves. I didn't want that to happen to them, but at this point I'm just trying to save a burning ship on my own when the lifeboat is right there.
Lack of accountability is a growing problem in modern society.
Dude just got snubbed in the best way possible. Dodging a problematic relationship AND got free food. Very nice.
So entertaining and good video guys :]
EMPOWERED WOW SO BRAVE 🔥🔥🔥🔥
$3 for cheese?
The guy displayed restraint and the ability to manage money.
He's a keeper.
She's for the streets tho.
They both are beta ...he wants to go on another date with her ... fxcking loser
How is she for the streets? Obviously she has money, she stayed polite with him and paid for his meal and even let him know it's over instead of ghosting him.
That's pretty decent tbh. Even if her reasoning to reject him is odd, she did not act inappropriate in any way.
You red pill weirdos have ruined the sentence. Every woman is for the streets according to you losers.
@@VixxKong2
You: " Obviously she has money"
her: admits to being broke/poor multiple times
just found that funny
@@VixxKong2 What planet are you on?
She walked out on the date without letting him know what was up and texted him saying he should've gotten the cheese. That's NOT polite in the slightest.
That's practically ghosting someone while on a date. It's highly disrespectful to treat another human being like that just because they didn't want to pay for cheese on a burger.
Do you have any idea how that would've felt to the guy being treated like that? The girl just walks out after going to the bathroom and you receive a text while you're still at the table telling you she up and left cause you didn't want to buy cheese.
Just role reverse the situation as if it was a girl left at the table for a moment. Can you do that? Yeah? You realize how absolutely indecent this was?
You got some issues if you think this is healthy adult behavior.
I literally would have not thought about the cheese thing for even a second lol. These young ladies go out of their way to find reasons not to like a guy then complain they can't find a good guy. ugh!
You’re a woman…..you do the same exact thing
The thing is, that I am allergic to all dairy (think of it as lactose intolerance with steroids) and if I'm going to be on the toilet for the whole next day, it better be some good blue cheese if im about to fork over 3 extra dollars. lol.
which then sadly makes most of us not even want to bother in the first place since majority of people you meet are exactly like her in some way
Women know that they have tons of options (thanks to social media and thirsty/simpy men who will F anything and put up with BS just to get their pee-pee moist)...so one wrong move, and on to the next guy...and the next guy...and the next guy. Then she'll be post-Wall and complain about how come their aren't any 'good guys' out there. So tired of hearing this. Women screw up their lives due to poor choices, and expect a man to come in and rescue them after they've ridden the c@ck carousel and wants to be a wife at 30...and too many women, like yourself, proclaim 'BUT I'M NOT LIKE THAT'...only for a man to find out they are, it's just varying degrees at this point. No surprise Passport Bros has gone mainstream...Western women are toast and men are exercising their options.
It's all so very strange
You know what; maybe she had a moment and now it's something they're both laughing about. A funny moment they share. Their connection will probably last bc of this tbh which is awesome. I hope they have or had a great time together on the 2nd date
I don't mind not picking the cheese. I have a similar mind set but not on dates since the point is to splurge unless plans for a simpler date was made. Seems like a simple difference of thought on money and its good she left cause having differences on money does cause break ups anyways
Paying extra $3 for a slice of cheese is ridiculous and he was right to skip it. She really jumped the gun and probably is just not ready to date.
21$ for a burger? I can buy 20 burgers where I am from. Even at the best places I can buy 5 of them.
She just wasn’t into him and wanted a way out
He skipped it on principle alone. I get it. He was willing to spend a good amount of money on the date, but he just couldn’t rationalize having an additional cost being added for an already expensive burger.
@Lalith Kumar bro he cant buy burger for 1 dollar in new york, come on 🥹
@@animeuniverse5586 hopefully its worth it
$3 is a lot for ONE slice of cheese. This guy got a free meal and avoided a disasterous relationship simply by not ordering cheese. Butterfly effect is real. Man's a champ.
here in Sweden i can get like 10 of them at the store for 3 dollars x)
I stopped listening to what she was saying when I heard that a slice of cheese is 3 dollars. The fact she puts this on the internet is even crazier...
@@agamersinsanity oh yeah it's the same in the US for most areas, he was better off bringing his own cheese lol. 3 dollars is normally the price for a soft drink with refills. You're out of your damn mind thinking I'll pay 3 bucks for some stupid cheese.
You have to pay extra for the cheese on a burger. I wouldn't because the restaurant should include that in the cost from the get go, is there are cutlery charge, what about the chef washing his/her hands after using the bathroom. If this is their attitude to their customers you wonder about the rest of the restaurant - sell by dates, hygiene, quality of ingredients etc... I'm not a cheap skate, I paid £1000 for dinner for two at the Enoteca Pinchiorri in Florence...
Now I do completely agree financial stability should be in the forefront of these people's minds, not spending, now there are those that try to say "well but you have to spend money to make money, " yeah that philosophy is true when you have the funds to actually do that, but if you're just straight up poor, and you have debts and you aren't any where near frugal with your time or your money your not going to be able to spend your money and make money, in that situation specifically, you need to think more like the more I save the more money I build up in my bank account/s the better off you will be later.
Saw this on tiktok a week ago, and both her comment section on her video, as well as remakes and/or responses to her video, was overwhelming clowning on her. Even females crowned her badly for how she handled that date, and even her date posted responses with receipts. 😂
She is the face of what's wrong with female high standards nowadays. All for and extra $3 cheese her date would not pay for, which I agree with.
Wouldn’t even call them standards-they’re delusions.
Oh man tell me you got a link
"and even her date posted responses with receipts" so what did he say?
Let them have their high standards. Dude dodged a bullet. He'll find someone else and she'll die alone.
The people commenting on her face are missing the point, her face isn't the issue.
It's her behavior and actions that are the problem.
The fact that he didn't want to spend the money on himself and it bothered her is crazy, I could see if he wanted to cut the costs on her. Imagine this girl when it comes to bedding, curtains, carpets etc if you don't get what she expects
That happened to a buddy of mine that's very frugal. His wife wanted to spend like 4k on a couch, and a boatload more on a bedroom set, and they got into a huge fight. Shockingly, it didn't work out.
@@Schwaka I fundamentally can't understand those people who want to buy, buy, buy and make their home a monument to their massive debts.
Plus people are assuming a lot based on a piece of cheese. Sometimes people make decisions based on the principle of the situation.
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo facts I buy cheap t shirts but expensive shoes💪🏿gotta take care of my dogs
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo exactly, its probably plastic cheese that’s overpriced
It's strange that she didn't even give him a chance to pay the bill before writing him off
'You wanna live lavish and have a brenzino..' 🤣🤣
She isn't displaying accountability, she's simply showing awareness. They're aware of themselves and their problems, but do not care to do anything about it (and usually blame it on the state of things).
It's even worse that she's self aware, yet sees no need to change.
Dude got a WIN! He got a free meal and the potential life headache walked out of his life with zero effort. I am tempted to start a gofundme for him to get extra cheese every meal. 😂😂😂😂😂
They got back together to go on date two later in the video 😂😂😂
Bruh you’re finessing these people for cheese. 😂
Apparently they're going on 2nd date tho which if true is a massive L on his part
IMAGINE IF SHE WOULD HAVE UPGRADED TO ONION RINGS INSTEAD OF FRIES!
THAT COULD HAVE COST A WHOLE $2!
Lmao🤣🤣
Financial literacy most broke and people know how to manage their money. It's those who chase presenting an image through brands. It's kinda that people have become more poor ironically since credit became a business not between neighbourhood business to the community around them. Everyone was already living check to check but once credit went from neighbourhoods small stores to get a store credit card to a whole big business industry of companies the value of the dollar depleted and inflation bumps over money people actually didn't have but we're spending.
Preach got that Han solo looking fit on 😂
I saw this video a few days ago and I thought she was crazy. Who wants to pay $3 for a slice of cheese? That’s just stupid. It’s stupid paying $21 for a burger anyways. My husband and I just went to Five Guys with our kids. We walked in, looked at the menu and the prices, looked at each other and said, “no way,” and then we walked out.
Facts
Agreed. I've heard 5 guys is stupid expensive for what it is.
😂😂😂I love this, hehe both of you said no way, love that for you 😅😂😂😂😂
It drives me crazy how they feel comfotable charging that for a regular shmegular basic plain Jane bitch ass burger
And they don’t even give you fries!!!!
Aba is right. It's one thing to take accountability, but it's only effective when you actually do something to correct it.
Yeah, and the way she said "I know I'm crazy" that's pride. That's that "yass queen" energy. So no. And if that wasn't enough, she had 0 reason to pay for his meal as well; hers is enough. She did that just to be petty so no I won't be like "well thank you for paying for HIS meal" not only was she petty af but she did that despite her being in serious debt and making good financial decisions. Miss me w that lmao
“Oh no cheese for you?? Mmkay no crazy for you either” LOLL
aba killin me you definitely said die alone..ay ...but I agree with ya 😭😂
Homie dodged a bullet and got a free meal 😂
WIN!
It's him agreeing to a second date for me. You mean to tell me she left the date, paid for your burger, called you out for not adding cheese, put you on blast on social media, and you somehow decided to say, "Yeah, I wanna go out with you again."
Heresy...
Sounds crazy.
Did he say that or her, cause she’s full of cap
He wanted another free meal 😂
Bet he's trying to see if she'll somehow bang him and then go no contact. Personally I don't think she's worth it at all.
But wait, how did he get a second date if Crazy blocked him? Lol
Maybe she paying again 😂
I'm the kind of person who doesn't always wanna pay extra, but when it comes to my loved ones It's impossible to say no to them. Plus my finances is way better then my "I treat myself whenever i got the chance" friends.
that's her point this is their first date and the guy cant even splurge with a girl he's interested in
0:52 Brunsino sounds EXPENSIVE. Someone let me know otherwise. Im used to fish being the most expensive. Also theyre in NY! I just joked about how men will drink water and bread on a date because women are inconsiderate going out. On the flip side if he chose the restaurant he shouldve known the possibilities of her choices
My man is making smart financial decisions. 3$ for a slice of cheese is worse than her attitude.
Yep. Basically a 15% tax that was added on to a likely “mid” burger.
I had a woman match me on Tinder JUST to verify that I wasn't wearing animal fur. She told me this and never spoke to me after she confirmed it was faux.
So when I hear shit like this I'm not surprised at the audacity. And then she'll say how hard it is to date.....
you should have told her it was dolphin fur
@@jebes909090 or from the extremely rare weasel snake
Lol, that's wild. She has too much time on her hands.
I would have said I killed it personally just to trigger her lmao
@Seth Gibbs well considering its a " dating" app, the purpose of matching is to find a date. That is the general point of matching with people. So his point is still pretty valid
Wow!
When Preach fixing the squeak on the Wooden Floor on😂😂😂
I wouldn’t pay $3 extra for cheese either!! She is ABSOLUTELY ridiculous to shame someone for not wanting to pay extra for something and then to leave like a spoiled child and not say anything to him before departing. Girl, bye!!
a burger should have cheese on it already. Just restaurants being greedy
I watched her original video with my husband, and the man's short response, and were both confused wth she was mad about. I told him closest guess I could make was that her mentality was something like "if he's too cheap to pay $3 for cheese, he'll be too cheap to put $30k on a ring". Could be way off base, but nothing abt it made any sense to us 😂
30k ring? Waste of money
@@Vastspartan Any man who buys that for a women Is straight up a simp or brain damaged.
Extra cheese for $3 at a restaurant is ridiculous - you could buy a hunk of cheese at the supermarket and have that $3 of extra cheese at the restaurant for less on your own plate at home
would you rather have a shiny rock on your finger, or a new car…
@@evanforst7272 well I know what I would rather have but she doesn't seem like the most reasonable type.
5:00 abas preaching loll
I got an add for bumble before this vid played, winning
I try to tell me sister what it's like out here in the dating market and she doesn't believe some of the things I tell her. Women like this make it easy for me to show her what's really happening out here lol.
Woman rejecting you over you not buying cheese or man stalking you and thinking they're entitled to something out of you because they payed for a 12 dollar meal.
Unpaid intern going to a wine bar paying $15 a glass...no wonder she's broke. You're supposed to spend your younger years laying the foundation for the life you want, not fraudulently pretend like you're living the life you want while you're young when you know you can't afford it. Work hard now, play later.
People like her set themselves up to work mediocre jobs for the rest of their lives instead of retiring.
Such a headache. Most of these broads are like that. Will go out and drink till she can’t.but shes broke and overweight and doesn’t know why.
Good advice, hope she (or other irresponsible types in her situation) will read this.
I get what ur saying, but you are better off while young to live ur life, make those mistakes while under 30, because once u hit 30 its time to grow up. And i dont want to be a 65 yr old with cash in the bank but too old to actually enjoy it. Some like the simpler things in life. Money come money go. We also dont want to date people obsessed with making money. Thats a turn off also. U need to find the right balance of saving and spending. You also dont want to turn into one of those bitter old men because u didnt take any chances. U played life too close to the books, and missed out on living. Its like if u dont go backpacking by a certain age, u never will. U will miss that boat in life for an adventure, because ur job was more important. There will alwats be jobs, but ur health not so.
That’s ridiculous though that company’s can do this.
I believe in a relationship you are taking time out of day to spend money and time to be with someone. There is nothing wrong with being on a budget but you should let the person know before hand if you are on a budget
Man. Whats skippy up too lol. Hi am skippy and this is my hostag..date. you guys are great. Some sense and humor on the tube :).
Him not paying $3.00 extra for cheese on his burger would’ve been a plus for me. Showing he cares about his money and is financially responsible. If he was super cheap and counting coins all the time that’s another thing but eating out can be expensive.
That restaurant is a scam
Cheese for $3. Wtf. What burger doesn't come with cheese. That's like selling shoes without shoe laces. 😂
Yeah bro, $3 can take me 20 miles in my car, ain't a slice of cheese on this planet worth that much. Honestly if I was with somebody and they paid for that slice of cheese I'd be worried about their ability to avoid getting scammed in general, a $21 burger is ridiculous already.
perfect example of why social media and these apps were a mistake
people reject others at the slightest "offense"
Honestly women's rights was the bigger mistake
I actually think it's the opposite. I get to see these damn people and avoid them.
@@Token_Black_Guy a little intense of a reaction no? 😂
@@Token_Black_Guy Based
That's the point of dating. You can be as shallow as you want and pick someone that fits you
As a struggling young lady she should know the meaning of "No extra cheese "
8:29 21 bucks for a burger. Wow. Euro buying power must be through the roof