She Got Bull*ed At School ON CAMERA & The School Did Nothing So She Took Her Own Life
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That wasn't bullying, that was felony assault, the father is right
The students who attacked that poor girl were rightfully charged: aggravated assault, two were charged with conspiracy to commit aggravated assault and the fourth was charged with conspiracy to commit aggravated assault.
If the fight was bad, we would have to go to court. Not sure if that’s changed since then
@@bean-pod So 3 were charged with conspiracy to commit aggrevated assault.
@@bean-pod and this is why parents are failing their kids Parents need to make sure the child knows how to defend themselves telling the teacher does nothing and Kids need Karate
yeah that was not a *fight* that was a premeditated *assault* *ambush*.
What infuriates me is the fact that if a student fought back and defended themselves, THEY’D get in trouble. I swear if my kid hit a bully back and got in trouble I’m suing that school.
It’s happened many times, from first hand experience. My middle school principal straight up said “well it’s clear to me that if they can all get along well, then you’re clearly the problem.”
If that's what it takes. After I threw a desk at my bully he ain't fuck with me no more. You fight
Better to fight back and get suspended than to do nothing and still get suspended. F no tolerance policies
I know how u feel bruh I went through the same thing I say it all the time shi life ain't fair if you fight back your done for
Remember kids, being in trouble is better than being dead!
Bet more than half of them “protesting” sat back and laughed while she got bullied . Now they care after it’s done .
I wouldnt say they laughed but its likely that most of them were just witnesses and stayed silent when the incidents were happening.
Or they just didn't know her.
Exactly
When I was bullied I counted on anyone who sat and watched while their friends attacked me, laughter definitely included.
@@sadie8834 as they say in their protest. "silence is compliance" if kids want to protest against bullying they need to stick up for one another, see it happen speak out. stop it. get a teacher. just because they didnt know her is a bullshit excuse.
Bullying only became a problem when fighting back became against the rules.
The worst bullies are the manipulative nonviolent ones.
Couldn’t agree more, especially with boys fighting is so natural. I can’t imagine growing up in a place or time when we weren’t allowed to…
This. They are the worst and they do more damage 😢
definitely was problem before that but it became more widespread and continued for longer because of it
luigi supernut pfp 💀
I strongly agree with you. Last year at my high school, this dude pretended to be my friend and ended up talking about inappropriate topics, threatened me if I didn’t do what he wanted, and even started to sexually harass me. I told the teachers about it but they didn’t really do anything and multiple people have had a problem with the guy. My mental health had been absolutely destroyed during that year.
Schools love to protect bullies. 🤦🏽♂️
Society loves to protect bullies as a whole. School is just where we learn that being bullied is something to accept and not fight back against, lest we face further punishment.
@@alphabetsoup6837 bullying is only bullying if the crowd deems it so. I have seen people get beat up and harassed for having certain affiliations depending on where it was it was considered not bullying.
I swear
They care 2 shits about the kids. They are prob worried about their reputation. Schools hide the worse things in order protect their reputation.
Schools ARE bullies
Everyone is blind to a child being bullied until that child decides to take things into their own hands. Suddenly, now it becomes a tragedy!
bunch of hypocrites some of these students teach their kids how to be a monster
Ain’t no bullying my kids, we takin 10 day suspensions over disrespect
This is also the reason why a lot of school shootings happen as well
Fax, someone made fun of my brother's friend for his parents being dead and when the teachers refused to tell the bully off even after he was trying to start shit by pushing him n stuff he decked him at lunch. The bully got nothing, but my brother's friend got put into isolation for a week where he was in an isolated room for the entire school day and does textbook work and also yelled at him for not just ignoring the bully. Schools never understand that zero-tolerance policies for fights are shit and always benefit bullies over victims who rightfully stand their ground.
That dad didn't seem very upset, just offended on his own behalf, which is jarring. She probably was getting more than just bullied at school. She probably had parents who weren't doing jack shit about it, ether.
"The only way to teach a bully a lesson is to put them in the hospital." - My dad
It’s amazing what a broke nose can do for someone’s attitude.
Bingo. Exactly 💯
Yes or da psych ward
or 6ft below in a casket
ICU
That isn't bullying, that's grievous assault with a deadly weapon.
What was it anyway?
As a victim of bullying in the 90s, i can say nothing has changed. I was bullied right in front of a teacher, asked her to do something, and she said "There's nothing i can do". Teachers who stand back and do nothing are just as guilty as the bullies themselves.
That's basically what my teachers told me and then got angry with me when I started hitting back.
@@ChiceJigle same, I went from that timid kid to the troubled one who was getting suspended once a week because I would fight everyone who was giving me a hard time.
Same. However I was told that I must have done something to make those bullies act that way towards me.
Not discrediting your experience at all. But the big, obvious difference is that when we were young, it stayed at school for the most part. Nowadays, these kids have no where to run to or hide with all the social media, camera phones, etc. The 90s was tough, but atleast we didn't have to worry about our embarrassing or shameful moments being broadcast to everyone and online forever. So glad I'm an adult.
@@crackazack510yea if you’re home life was okay you at least had that safe haven back then. Interesting a lot of bullies have a bully at home
People tend to forget how cruel kids actually are
Nah, they know. They just don't wanna look, know why? Those kids remind them of themselves.
Shitty kids who learn from shitty parents
How cruel kids who aren’t raised right are
Yeah because adults are so civlized
Definitely. I remember a bully threatened my sister by saying he'd come to our house with his dogs and have his dogs kill our cats. I wish I was making this up. She was crying to mom absolutely terrified. This was in elementary school.
I was bullied real hard. Until I finally snapped believed “fck it, I don’t care if I get suspended” and IMMEDIATELY trying to throw down anytime they said anything. Getting loud and making sure EVERYONE saw them go “naw man, naw. You’re crazy”.
And when they would call my cell at night to talk sht, I finally snapped one day at dinner and said they better meet me right now or I’d burn their house down with their entire family in it (never happened. But I decided to go “crazy” so people stopped messing with me).
After that, I was NEVER messed with like that again.
But going through it made me totally different. It gave me severe anger issues. TO THIS DAY when someone say anything messed up I feel that explosive anger - and I immediately want to get in their face and either fight or shut them down.
But we all know fights aren’t worth it. People can die and you lose your entire life in jail, etc… it’s just absurd.
It feels like the entire legal system is geared to people to intimidate, bully, etc… but if you do anything to stop it - THAT is when people step in.
Which is why I feel you have to show you’re ready to go scorched earth when someone tests you. Make an example of it.
I hate that this is the reality. It makes me angry. I went from a really happy person who was always smiling to walking around and being pissed off ALL THE TIME.
The worst part is they all tried being friends later on and showing respect. But I just couldn’t get over what happened. I just could not to let go. I struggled with that for an ENORMOUS % of my life. It wasn’t until some few years ago I could let it go.
Which I have to thank one of my amazing ex’s (who was Buddhist). She taught me how holding onto anger is just like holding onto a burning coal - you only hurt yourself. It does nothing to help you, instead only hurts you and holds you back.
How did you let go. I get very defensive due to something similar, but i don't want to be like that. Im just very angry and stressed.
I get you man. I was fucked with a lot in my life, especially by this puny steroid taking kid (who didnt like me cause i'll always be stronger and more masculine than him), he was a manipulative bully who was my "friend." I had anger issues for like a solid year cause people dont know how to mind their own damn buisiness.
Unfortunately, I think that's the only way to stop them once and for all. To go all out and retaliate without any care of consequences. That's the only way for these bullies to see how what they're doing affects you and for the school to see how serious things are.
@@iagreewithyou3478 Yup, or at least in my case snapping at him and being snippy with him made him back off and suck up to me. He was a manipulative narcissist so of course he wasn't gonna let up, but the only way to get those kinds of people to back off is to strike yourself.
@@landmindssoul4636unfortunately I believe that’s something that only you can truly figure out what works for yourself, but for me I distance myself from everyone until I calm down enough to think over the problem and solutions to it, I usually use that anger in physical work, whether it be working out, Gardening, riding a bike whatever makes you happy that will help you move on from the problem, My Dad had to get a dog to distract himself from his rage of him and his sister get jumped by junkies years ago, he was to the point of contemplating getting drugs putting mercury in it and finding a way for it to get in the hands of his attackers, he’s glad he got his dog because having her help with both his anger and mental health, he didn’t have time to be angry about what happened, In my case When I calm down I think about it and go it’s not wrth being angry, it’s not good for your health to hold onto anger, I don’t know if this helps any but I hope it helps you to figure your own way out for dealing with your anger
I had a student at my school commit suicide, our school made us give her a moment of silence. I feel like most students don’t really care about bullying, in fact, most manage to participate in bullying in some type of way. It’s only when the person dies that others really start to care, and that’s the way people are in general. They turn you into a martyr when you die, and say all of these good things about you, but if you hadn’t died their feelings towards you would be completely different. They act like they always “cared”, but in reality they didn’t. It’s mind blowing to me the amount of people who will laugh when they’re not on the receiving end of verbal or physical bullying, and then wants to “protest” to “end bullying”. Not saying there aren’t any people who genuinely are against bullying, but that’s what I noticed. The schools don’t help either, in a lot of ways, schools help promote a mob mentality.
This is assault. They should be arrested and convicted.
can't really arrest and convinct a minor in most places
@@bobowon5450 yes you can. You cant charge them as an adult. You most certainly can arrest children.
@@oz_peterfull on homicide.
@bobowon5450 have you not seen the thousands of cases where a 13 year old murderer gets life in prison?
@@bobowon5450🤡 alert
Going to be honest. As a person who was bullied throughout my schooling. I find the protests to be vain and ineffective. Most of my bullies would go on to advocate for anti bullying. These students are probably the ones who saw that video and did nothing to help their fellow students. Most people screaming about anti bullying are/were bullies themselves or sat by while others got bullied.
Yup some of the kids holding the signs are likely bullies themselves trying to make themselves look good
True!
sadly thats the first thing that came to mind watching this.
this comment should be pinned. I used to be a class clown soft bullying everyone its interseting how quickly people laugh when they are not on the receiving end.
Took the words right out of my mouth.
My husband was bullied and he died through suicide. Everyone went right back to what they were doing. It's fucking terrifying.
Sorry for your loss
@@KindKillNONDU Thanks, it's okay. I just wish people realized that their words have power.
That's how any horrific human event in history has started.
Genocide starts with words.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
@@sadie8834 Thanks. It's been hell. I miss him every day.
It was terrible watching someone study their ass off and work so hard just to die like that.
I am sorry for your loss
As a father of 3, I would gladly roam the halls to keep this shit from happening. I’m willing to bet that if the school asked for help, there would be at least a few parents, or community members that would gladly keep the peace in the halls and help with this issue. Some sort of creep filter would need to be in place, but I would gladly volunteer to either roam the halls, help with investigations, or whatever needs doing. From personal experience, the school system doesn’t care that much, so let the real adults step in and school these kids. They wouldn’t even have to pay me to give classes all year about tough life lessons, and wisdom from an old ass geezer(32) those kids need guidance, and not just a half hour every other week, as was my case.
Stay at home parents?
Even they’re busy.
Lets focus on parenting for this issue. Nip it early on by being present, proactive, and displaying consistency for kids.
This.
They're always people willing to sacrifice some or all of their days off to supply the school environment with watchful eyes and mentoring hearts.
It's been done before.
@@WALKIETEAM12while i agree that it could work, thats a privilege, aint no way on earth public schools gonna have enough people with stay at home parents to have enough people to stand up against bullying, and with how some parents just are they raise their little kids to be demons through their parenting, just letting them get away with anything and treating it as cute
And then the parents of the bully roam the halls. Great idea.
They won't call for bullying, but if you have a hoodie, chew gum or use the bathroom without permission , it's an uproar
It's about order, not fixing real issues.
What’s wrong with hoodies now? I wore them all the time back when I was him high school. Still wear em now, so comfy.
@@steele5371 Apparently, it increases your chances of being a drug dealer or school shooter by 150%.
@steele5371 the can't see your face so it a no go
On god. Bullying from before highschool still affects me to this day. And the bullying I got from highschool even AFTER I graduated still has affected me. I can't let it go. It messed with my self esteem and people now that I've graduated say I'm pretty and I'm beautiful and all these other compliments and I just can't accept it. I don't know how to accept it and I think people are just being sarcastic and making fun of me just because. But no their actually being genuine. But I can't get over people always talking me down and now when I get compliments I don't know what to do. I don't acceot them and I don't believe them. I don't trust people because I've been backstabbed and I used to just be shy. I was quiet but really fruendly to people but over time from being bullied I became super withdrawn I wouldn't tell my parents anything. And people always told me I complainted too much and to suck it up and deal with it. And why wanted to move ME because of what SOMEONE else was doing. Which did not help. Not to mention I got picked on by a high school teacher. Not to mention most of my teachers showed FAVORITISM and ignored me when I told them my problems so I just kept my head down and keot to myself even my friends told me I complained too much and no one protected or defended me unless it was "SERIOUS". That still haunts me and as much as I try to let it go I can't. I really try and let it go. I really do but I can't. So now I don't trust people. When people try and do nice things for me I don't let them. When they try and spend time with me I make up excuses because even with my 'friends' I get lost in the background and forgotten. Even with my friends. So I stay by myself and mind me own business and perfer to do everything myself unless it's with family. I don't trust my friends with nothing important to me. It's how I protect myself. I don't think EVERYONE is out to get me. I just learned to stay by myself because how can someone hurt your feelings or hurt you physically if there is no one around you to do it. I still talk to them but ion share stuff even after highschool and we've known eachother for 5 or 6 years. I just only really rely on myself for important things. That also might be why I don't get into relationships either. Because I don't really feel any romanic feelings for people because when I did I got embarrassed, made fun of, or those people betrayed my trust. The very people that were supposed to love me. Granted any 'love' you have in high-school might not last or be 'real love' but still. Those are the building blocks that shape who you are and if something is missing or damaged and broken it leaves holes and scars, and cracks on who you are. You are missing things or can't handle certain things or would rather not deal with it. Don't get it twisted I can handle myself and talk to people but it's nothing more really than hi and bye for the msotpart. I don't like making new friends and nor am I good at it unless we have something in common if we don't then I push on. I hate that I am this way and I try and work on myself more and more to not he so cold and sometimes my friends have to remind me that I'm being super aloof or cold to them and that they care and I can trust them. They have to remind me that they care even if I somethimes get lost in the background they don't mean to do it but they do. I know a lot of this is my fault and I'll take responsibily for it of course but I will also hold other people accountable for being the assholes thar made me like that. I used ti be really kind, and sweet and friendly even if you didn't like me and slowly I became cold and moody and snappy and quiet and withdrawn. And I stick that way. When it comes to new people I don't really talk to them unless they talk to me or I have too. With the very few friends I have I laugh with them whenever were together mostly but even then I feel like I don't really belong. But enough ranting I'm prolly going to get lectured about how to grow up and let that shit go and that you graduated hughschool and middles school and to let that shit go grow thick skin so I'm going to leave it at that. It's nothing I haven't heard before. It hasn't been the first time I heard it and it won't be the last. I just wanted to get that off my chest. I was even bullied at work when I worked at Taco Bell. Made my life there hell. And I worked at 2 different one. A corporate and franchise and they both made my life hell. The first one which was franchise more than the corperate but still.
P.s.: Sorry for the long paragraph I can get carried away. If you read this far anyways thanks for listening even if you might not care. Or think I'm weak and need thick skin. You read and listened and that was all I care about. Thank you. Have a great day or night wherever you are and stay safe.
I think the worst part is that the people at the school are only going to put up this front that they genuinely cared about her only when shit hits the fan and wouldn't have done so otherwise
this^
Exactly
Exactly!!!!!!!!!! That fake ass love I guarantee they posting on all social media too acting like they was best friend with her
Preach!!!
Do you mean like the staff? If so I get it. If you mean the students then sure, if so I just wanna say that it’s good that they’re acting now and not at all. Get me?
Getting suspended for defending myself in a fight showed me all I needed to know about school. They don’t really care and they don’t care about this girl who lost her life. They are just using her death as an opportunity to gain more attention which is disgusting. If the school system wasn’t that bad more kids would like school but it is awful it was awful when I was growing up and it’s still awful now.
This is why I say cameras should be in the worst most violent schools. Nobody is going to protect those children when the teachers/faculty have chosen to ignore the problem.
In the worst most violent schools it’s accepted as a “their culture.” At least state-side… you bump into race issues with this stuff very quickly.
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im sorry to hear about this, thanks for covering it
shes yt tho
@@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395 Okay and?
@@etoileshine1011 yt privilege do you know what bullied black kids go thru?
I wonder how many of the kids who took part in the protest also took part in bullying.
My sister a year younger was bullied relentlessly in middle school, culminating in 10+ other students mostly male following her home. I’m thankful that she had the sense to ask me to walk her home that day. I managed to get her out of there while i was jumped by 10+ students. The school did nothing and stated that they were just “misguided” kids.
I’ll also add, you would be shocked at how many of these kids screaming to stop bullying are the absolute worst bullies themselves.
I’m fairly extreme so I think I that’s 10+ needed graves.
What the fuck did your sister do to get 10 people wanting to jump her? You live in chicago or something? What hood on earth would this happen in? That's ridiculous even by the most ridiculous standards.
I'm 40 years old and I remember getting in trouble for physically threatening my bullies after finally getting tired of their crap! THEY didn't get in trouble!
@@waterotter3625 it's still like this lol.
Last year a kid at my daughter's high school got bullied in a restroom and ended up in the hospital. The next day a group of about 10 students found the bully before school (before he got called into the office fit suspension) and those 10 kids stomped that dude to the ground. Of course it was all caught on video, but the kids took justice into their own hands. I'm not saying I agree, but I do understand.
But back in my high school days, you need with the wrong person you will get jumped that day by the other person's friends, and maybe have a drive by in your house. The early
90s were wild.
Honestly, what bothered me more than when I was bullied and assaulted in 7th grade, with the school doing absolutely nothing about it, was when I was attacked again in 9th grade but fought back. Instead of treating it like self-defense, which it was, the school tried to charge both of us with assault. The other kids were assholes, sure, but the physical violence and psychological violence was nothing compared to the bullying of the schools against the literally defenseless children they're supposed to be protecting.
Been there, I feel this deep.
One quick correction -- the schools don't do "absolutely nothing" -- they enable it by drawing false equivalents, and punishing victims. They validate and normalize it in the eyes of the bully
That's true lol. Probably the most important lesson I learned from school was to avoid trusting anyone in a position of authority.@@Jex134
As a person who was bullied in highschool back in the early 90’s it changed me for the better. What made it sweeter was finding out that the jocks that bullied me were either in jail or didn’t do anything with themselves after highschool.
Back when I was a senior in high school, this one guy got caught in the bathroom watching "adult films" and messin with his piece and a group of kids recorded it and sent it everywhere. Everybody was watching it and sharing it and had everyone laughing and joking about it. 4 days later the kid jumped off the 3rd story and took his own life.
For the next two weeks everybody was spread anti-bullying messages, but the hypocrisy comes when the people shouting "stop bullying" were the same ones who watched the video, laughed at it, and shared it with more people.
Humanity needs a reset.Also,why the f would he fap in a school bathroom?.That seems stupid as hell.
@@cosmancho2959 I was about to say the same shit bullying is not cool we all understand that. BUT slapping the snake in the bathroom? man mental Health and no guidance is crazy these days. When i grew up we got even with bullies instead of killing our selves.
@@cosmancho2959 He was a kid. And probably a kid going through puberty.
@@kamu38 I was a kid too and the thought of fapping in a high school never crossed my mind .It's simply absurd to do that.
@@cosmancho2959 DW the politicians about to hit the nuclear reset button
Bullying is without a doubt one of the most, if not the most ignored issue in schools. Very sad.
Human nature, what can be done to stop humans from being humans??
It kept escalating because the people around them were just watching the bullying as it happen.
@@KidFromQueens consequences, if a bully would get expelled after 2 or 3 fights and it doesnt even have to be fights, even consistent verbal abuse as well. then most of this shit wouldnt happen.
@@KidFromQueens
As another person said, expulsion and also therapy. These people are not fit for society.
You know what's also sad, the teachers endorse the bullies more.
Bullying for me and my sister was a nightmare. I was hit, slapped, shoved, even thrown one time...a girl also hung goose droppings in my face. Someone hung my sister by her shirt on a coat hanger and a group of boys ganged up on her and beat her up. That's not even counting the amount of rumors and insults aimed at us. School staff did nothing. Absolutely nothing untill my mother noticed bruising on my sister and called the school... Only then were the bullies punished... But not as severely as you would think...
That poor father. This is disheartening.
This is why I tell my kids if someone hit you, knock them the hell out. I moved to the US at 11 and for the first year I was bullied relentlessly. On the last day of school I wrapped my hair in a tight bun and kicked a couple of asses that day. Upon return of the new year not a single person messed with me afterwards. Not everyone is resilient or has parents who got your back so if someone you know is being bullied, stand up and do something. I’m 52 now and still don’t take shit from no one.
I agree!!! As a parent I rather have you expelled than you facing the mental impact bullying has on you.
They kick you, You punch back! It’s the only way you get respected.
Unfortunately it's not that easy. I was bullied by several kids in school and didn't really have anybody on my side. A lot of times i had anger built up and was ready to beat the shit out of them, but i stayed composed because i knew, even if i knock the shit out of them that day, the next day i come to school 5 of them will be waiting behind the school for me and beat the living crap out of me. That's why i never seriously fought back. It's easy to say "fight back" but you have to keep the consequences in mind
@VoLT4ge I disagree. Bullies won't learn until you fight back. Even if you get jumped, focus on one person to deal as much damage as possible.
Even if it means every time you fight, you get your ass whooped and they only get a black eye. You fight back.
@@agord7591well i don't know your story and you don't know mine. I was always the youngest and smallest kid in my class because i advanced directly into 2nd grade after kindergarden. I physically wouldn't really stand a chance against them and i put a lot of thought process in that and decided i'd rather just get bullied verbally and them destroying my things from time to time than have the same +being beat up and end up in hospital but that's just me. In the end i'm now a 23 y/o and i'm fine, who knows how that would be if i did fight back
100% agree. As much as I’d like to agree with people saying that it’s better to get parents or teachers involved sometimes it’s ACTUALLY better to fight back and I mean PHYSICALLY!! people see that as abuse I see that as Rightful defence for yourself and well-being.
My niece was in 8th grade and another student told her he was going to rape her after school. She told the teacher and the teacher gave him a DETENTION so she could leave earlier than him because they were both walkers. When my sister found out she flipped her stuff and threatened to sue the school and then came to find out he had been harassing multiple girls and the school never told his parents. He was expelled and luckily he never messed with her again but the fact that the school knew and basically did nothing to protect these girls was crazy.
What the actual Fffffffffff?!🤯 I’m so sorry your family and those innocent girls were subjected to this🤬 People think I’m crazy when I say I made up my mind at 18 on homeschooling my children when I have them and HEAVILY monitoring who I let into their lives.
How do kids even know what rape is nowadays? don't get me wrong, we knew what it was but I never heard someone threaten it in my life, let alone at that young of an age.
the school is in self preservation mode. if they do crack down on bulling they will face death threats and more from the bullies parents if they don't do something about they will face columbine and more.
@@Aaron-kj8dv I'd have to blame it on the rise of Andrew tate and creators like him
@@whydidiwritethat8218 That's a smooth brain take if I've ever heard one. Not once has Tate or anyone like him advocated for or supported forcing yourself on someone. I'd be more inclined to blame the alphabet community and their supporters for all the grooming they've conducted unchecked over the years. Talking to little ones about Shreks is gross and creepy and leftists do it all the time. Why would the boy know about grape? Maybe because his groomer teacher would talk about gross and inappropriate things with her students
Bullies needs to be taught a lesson and made an example of. I don’t mean violence but they need some type of Repercussion.
And this is the mentality that creates the victims. Thanks for a whole lot of nothing
@@wickedfrigginryan4645 there will be victim either way. You comment is just as pointless. In my pov, it's a survival situation , not civil anymore, and i'd personally show the bullies that no wrong are unpunished. Even thought I know its wrong to do so.
@@ununun9995 But it's not wrong to enact justice on someone if you know they are 100% without a doubt deserving of such justice. This is the problem with the church and all that gay ass turn the other cheek and do not resist and evil person crap
As someone who was bullied and was a bully, I know that pain from both sides. Feeling ignored by adults because you're a male and they expect you to be tough enough to deal with physical and verbal abuse from older students. Learning you have the size to push your weight around at school as a way to deal with an unhappy home life. It's not right. I wish I could take those moments back. But I've done what I can to be a better person and deal with my mental trauma in a healthier manner as an adult.
Most kids feel bullied at some time. I was a smart teacher's kid in a lot of extra curricular activities, not just football. I still don't go to highschool reunions and it's been thirty years.
Saw this on Reddit, one of the commenters left the schools phone numbers with a message saying "I didn't leave this here, but I trust you redditors to do the right thing."
That school hasn't been left alone since, and that brings a smile on my face.
❤❤❤❤❤
What’s the number or source so it can continue
the power of Reddit and 4chan autists is pretty up there lol
I was a bully in middle school, but my mother made me apologize to the victims and to the parents so I stopped. She told me, “If you don’t like someone, leave them alone. Mind your business.”
At least you admit that you were mean to people. Kudos to you for your honesty!
Good for you cause if not someone would have eventually gave you a reality check the hard way instead of you're mom
Good on your mom, despite you being a piece of trash
Where was your father?
@@lio5073 on his bullshit, I dunno lol
I was bullied for being that weird girl who likes "Japanese cartoons" but also gets a lot of attention from guys. Girls HATED that guys liked me. Meanwhile I was the biggest tomboy so I could relate to the boys alot easier than they could. ALSO I dated sooo many guys in high-school and after high-school because why? Say it with me, DADDY ISSUES. I was a heartbroken, rejected kid, out there looking for her father in the guys my age and all the other girls saw was "oh look, a whore"
Kids aren't well equipped to understand that there is a reason behind everything people do and most often it's a sad reason.
You're not a hore. Them girls should have been taking notes. I thought women don't put other women down calling them 304s and hores. I guess I'm wrong.
That sounds like how really
@@Anxh007 ok big dawg lol
Girls are so jealous of tomgirls and guys are jealous of pretty boys.
Girls call the tomgirls a wh*re while pretty boys get called gay. One of my friends was frequently called this because he was super popular with girls, the bullies at our school would call him gay and other stuff when they themselves had 0 game.
I was severely bullied almost daily from 5th to 8th grade. It was a living hell. & these people moved on with their lives like I’m not scarred for life by that. I’m 28 now and I feel a bit of pain and shame when I think about it. The teachers did nothing. And my mom couldn’t really help because as soon as she left the school the bullying would start again. I thank God that I was too afraid of self-deletion, cause I really wanted to.
I feel you. Just remember, newer think you are not worth it and do not hesitate to chase what ever it is you want. Take this advice from a person almost twice your age and coming from same situation. That is what i have been pissed about my self later on life, wasted many years on being too scared to just go for it.
Worst part about this video, is how common bullying is in schools and they turn a blind eye. And people wonder why teen self-deletion rate is becoming higher and higher.
Don’t forget about school shootings either
@@dillpickle7358 those have only shot up since the pandemic
Dill pickle, more like dill weed. Everything about this video screams whiney bitches. What happened to us. They all need to stand up for them selves.
@@HasanPikerIsADouche they were trending up before the pandemic happened.
@@dillpickle7358 Most of the school shooters are bullied people that nobody defended and they decide the gun will make things even.
I was bullied a lot. Beat up, the works. My mother was literally dying of cancer at the time so I would clean myself up before going home so my parents didn't have to worry about. School knew and did nothing. Teachers didn't care and the coaches thought it was hilarious when a 200 lb linebacker would full tackle a 130 lb band kid in the halls. F that school, F those teachers. All you have to do is make it to graduation and you'll never see those people again if you don't want to.
So sorry about you had to go through that and it’s usually the kids who are in sports and favored by the teachers are the dickheads
Im sorry you had to go through that
My coach would of had linebackers doing soul in the hole drills VS the whole damn d-line for that shit
Expose them. If you can provide any evidence, expose them and ruin their lives.
@@ANPC-pi9vu100% this.
I was bullied real hard. Until I finally said “fck it, I don’t care if I get suspended” and IMMEDIATELY trying to throw down anytime they said anything.
And when they would call my cell at night to talk sht, I finally snapped at dinner and said they better meet me right now or I’d burn their house down with their entire family in it (never happened. But I decided to go “crazy” so people stopped messing with me).
After that, I was NEVER messed with.
But going through it made me totally different. It gave me severe anger issues. TO THIS DAY when someone say anything messed up I feel that explosive anger - and I immediately want to get in their face and either fight or shut them down.
But we all know fights aren’t worth it. People can die and you lose your entire life in jail, etc… it’s just absurd.
It feels like the entire legal system is geared to people to intimidate, bully, etc… but if you do anything to stop it - THAT is when people step in.
Which is why I feel you have to show you’re ready to go scorched earth when someone tests you. Make an example of it.
I hate that this is the reality. It makes me angry. I went from a really happy person who was always smiling to walking around and being pissed off ALL THE TIME.
that’s what so many kids need to hear. You will never see those people again after graduation.
God this hurts my soul. She was looked so kind and beautiful. What a loss, hold these degenerates accountable for their actions
Preach took me back to those days. This story is so tragic, those bullies are going to live with that guilt for the rest of their lives, they might not realize it now but they will.
I went to a really good high school. Not that there wasn’t bullying, but it wasn’t tolerated. I was bullied for about 2 days. My history teacher saw it and the next day I called down to the office. The boys who bullied me were separated in different rooms told if their stories didn’t line up their punishment would double, and I was asked by the school police officer if I wanted to press charges for assault. And they didn’t even physically harm me.
For the rest of the school year, September to May, they spent every lunch period cleaning and they were kicked off their respective sports teams even though one was a really good player and won games for the team.
That’s why we didn’t have people killing themselves. That’s why we didn’t have terrible bullying. That’s why kids weren’t afraid to ask teachers for help.
Not because the kids were somehow better but because it wasn’t tolerated and was made clear that even off of school grounds an altercation between students would result in school punishment.
It’s possible and I’m tired of all these grown ass adults making excuses for their incompetence and apathy.
If only more schools worked like this. Also, it shows the victims justice, and the bullies that there is actually consequences for their awful actions, just like in the real world.
That's amazing. All schools need to adopt this type of policy. Schools need to stop just "accepting" bullying and take action. It's not fair for kids to be in fear when they're trying to learn. They already have to deal with it when it's online, the actual school time should be a safe place for them with zero tolerance for bullying. Your story proves repercussions work.
Once more for the back 👏👏
Yea my school didn’t have the best track record for bullying but I do remember when my friend snapped and beat the shit out of his bully, he was given a one days suspension while his bully was given a one week suspension. They couldn’t condone violence but recognized he deserved a lesser punishment. My friend was met by high fives and cheers when he came back.
I agree with this but to be devils advocate if you get the wrong people in this system they will falsly accuse you of bullying and try to set you up. Had someone try to label me as a stalker in grade 10 even though they invinted me over to their house, had my parents over and we worked together. Next thing I know I wake up to a random dude texting me to leave that person alone even though I had no idea what the fuck was going on. Get this the person had the gall to come up to me the next day and say we can still be friends right? No.
Kids are evil, as a teacher I once had to deal with someone bullying a guy who just survived brain cancer. They bullied him for his permanent balance, almost blindness and his fear of bacteria (they caused the tumor). The bullies would go get water and spit it at him for no reason. The guy won a competition at school a few weeks ago, they only thing he said was " I hope someone will like me now". That was one of the major reasons to why I wanted to become a teacher
Sadly the matter of bullying is basically hopeless. As repulsive and unfortunate as it is, it's a part of human social behaviour. As such any preventative measures are always going to be less effective than you'd like as human nature will always triumph.
Fact of the matter is you've just gotta hope kids are strong enough to get through it. And ideally that adversity will act as a catalyst for greater perspective, empathy and understanding.
I think the most important thing you can teach a High Schooler is perspective. And one part of that is that, despite what they think, High School will be over VERY quickly and as soon as they graduate their ENTIRE life will be different.
They'll probably never see those scumbags again but if they do now ALL the rules change in THEIR favour. It's no longer school bullying and attacking. It's Criminal Threatening, Assault, Battery, Harassment, Theft, Destruction of Property, etc, etc. There are real consequences for that type of behaviour as an adult in the real world.
Time for some teacher vigilante stuff
@@PaddyMcMe I honestly think if parents were held accountable bullying could be reduced. Imagine if parents got into trouble and were ticketed or charged as a result of the actions of the child in school in terms of bullying. I think parents are complacent and uninterested in disciplining their children. Ik that solution doesn’t solve the issue of toxic home environment for a lot of the kids who are bullies but I’m damn sure even if the parents had their problems they would make damn sure their kids were not bullying and earning them hundred dollar tickets and or charges based on the severity of the action. Idk maybe it’s a very stupid idea but it shouldn’t be the job of the teachers to discipline and make students behave. And as it stands now, parents agree as teachers are not allowed to do much to any kids regardless of how rude or disruptive they are for fear of the parents making a fuss against the school
@@Freshwitdaposites18 that just means only rich kids could bully
@@nuansd and more kids may face abuse at home. A lot of bullies come from backgrounds that lead them to doing what they see in school. That could get them cilled if it’s reported and held on the parents. It’s so much that goes into this issue including media influence and politics
When I was at school in the UK, my bag would be routinely thrown accross the room as the studants taunted me and bullied me in the middle of class. The teacher was so oblivious he thought we were an amazingly well behaved class with a culture of hard work. When all that was happening was the bullies were distracting him and milking him for good points while their mates bullied me.
My point here is, that teachers can be AMAZINGLY AND STAGGERINGLY OBLIVIOUS to the evils being perpatraited right in front of them.
Oh my goodness. I'm so sorry for the loss of his daughter. Schools need to be held accountable. This is not the first time we have heard of this. It's absolutely exhausting.
I was bullied profusely in elementary and middle school. In second grade, two kids beat me and kicked me while I was on the ground. I ended up with deep tissue bruising in my ribcage. Told the teachers, nothing happened, no consequences at all.
In fifth grade I fought the kid bullying me and he stopped. In middle school I started swinging on every kid who picked on me. I learned that violence is the only answer. What a horrible lesson for a young man to learn. I'm just glad I've gotten over it and learned to deal with my problems differently.
I'm glad it didn't turn into anything worse, still serious though. It was always interesting that they had these school meetings for bullying, but it never got resolved. I hope you're having a good Tuesday or whatever day.
Sadly that's the truth. No one will protect you you have to do it yourself. Worst part is if you seriously hurt your tormenter they'll make you out to be the monster
@@space_bunny3018 I appreciate that. You as well!!
Learned the same lesson. I was bullied and hit for years. Then I grew bigger and learned martial arts. Anyone I ever hit deserved it though. I regret nothing and I tell people that two things kept me sane during the time I was bullied. 1. Never bend or avoid anything out of fear. If they are hitting you because they find your very existence annoying, annoy them more. Make them avoid you because you don't break and that's no fun. 2. Go somewhere else and find friends and do other things. Make sure you have people that don't treat you like shit around other than your parents so that the bullies aren't the only ones to give you an opinion of yourself.
I think the second one was what gave me the strength to do the first and to later start hitting back.
Oh fun. Happened to me to
Aint no way all those kids out there "protesting" actually cared about her. Hell some of them are even laughing and smiling when the cameras pointed towards then "Mom I'm on camera!" energy. Fucked up society we live in
Edit: I was planning on deleting this comment since getting hundreds of likes on a comment regarding the criticism of people using another's misfortune to gain their "15 minutes of fame" seems somewhat hypocritical. That being said, I don't want to stifle any conversations that this comment has spurred, so I just ask for people reading this to feel free and continue the thread, but to not like/thumbsup the original comment.
It's Black Mirror out here now. Kinda makes me see why the elites do want to control the masses.
Probably
Nah some of them could actually be protesting GENERALLY against how the board don’t do anything about bullying
I did get that general vibe from that first shot of a protest, although I couldn't clearly see everyone. Notice the part at about 0:28, where the reporter uses the words "angry" and "fearful", but some of the people on screen look like they're smiling. I'm sure I could have misread that, but something about the image didn't seem to fit the general tone of the segment.
@@scoobiesmastermystery7957 I hope you're right
I feel for this girl as I went through the same, My parents had to recently move my siblings out of that sane school due to administration ignorance and willingness to not take action. Teachers deserve less imo till they can actually prove they can handle social interactions with kids
I've experienced a lot of bullying, but the one example that stays in my head is when I was among the bullying. God, that felt so good back then. For once being part of the group. For once laughing with them, and being laughed at. It felt so good, and 20 years later and still can't stop feeling disgusted with myself. Having power is a hell of a drug, especially after feeling powerless for so long. I wanted to find that person, reach out and apologise, but I don't know if that's something he needs. I might only bring up some old scars in the dude, just so I can feel better.
It won't change anything at this point anymore but it might offer some closure and thus help that person in general. Fact is, we do carry these things for rest of our lives in a way or another and it does affect our behavior in general in a way or another but not all of it is bad either, at least if that person has learned to turn those weakneses in to strengths. Oh and i would think that i am right if i say that in general, all the bullied will bully someone at some point for sure, just for survival. We understand where it comes from.
Apologise without the wish to be forgiven
I wish I could have known how my actions then would haunt me now. Memories of highschool thirty years ago with my buddies at the time tormenting this one girl will arise completely unbidden from time to time and it makes me mentally recoil in disgust as though I were kinda spiritually dipped from head to toe in something foul that won't come off. I was such a horrid P.o.S. to her, I wish I knew how to reach her in the present to beg her forgiveness. The memories haunt and torment me, but I'm not the victim - I can't begin to imagine how much more traumatizing it was/is for her and I'm so so sorry. I wish I could forget; I know she can't un-experience the bullying. It's probably for the best that the memory will follow and sting me for the rest of my days as a reminder to be decent and kind.
As a nerdy black guy in middle school in South Carolina, I caught a lot of hell from everybody. I tried to be the bigger man but the bullying didn't stop til I almost broke some kid's finger. Then I moved (army brat, I was in 5 schools between 4th and 7th grade) and had to do it all over again.
For everyone dealing with this and thinking about self deletion, please don't. There are people that care about you, please find one of them. Trust me, it gets better.
Thanks, you're stronger than most 💪
Nerdy black guys get bullied a lot. By white and black students, I think.
My story might not be shit, but when i was in school I looked like a jock or whatever because my dad was a bodybuilder and a big guy so I was born with the genetics, but got my mom's brain. I'm a super nice and quiet type of guy, but people picked up on it and saw me as an easy target because I looked tough but I wouldn't fight people or even push back against bullying. So what happened is the other tough guys would constantly try to fight me since it was an easy fight and I would give up quickly. I didn't have any confidence and it messed with me my while life. I got beat up, had my eye punched into my head by some meth head's kid and got hit in the balls all the time, had people fucking with me constantly. It drove me to join the Marines so I could learn to fight, and I STILL get "bullied" a little at 29. It made me angry and hostile towards people. One of the things I remember was whenever I asked to use the bathroom, this kid who was like a foot taller than me would ask to go after me, then he followed me in there and would beat my ass in the bathroom. If I saw him or another guy on the street, I'm not sure that I wouldn't immediately whoop their ass. It really fucks with your mind, especially when you're a kid
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"nerdy" black guys are so undervalued yet the most adorable. Sorry you went through that.
I took care of that by fighting back, showing my dominance learning to become stronger.
My kid was bullied at school and scared to inform us. When I know about the situation I went to the school, met up with the bullies parents, and told them calmly that I will do something if the bullying continues. The bullying stopped.
Sometimes the parents need to be involved in the kids life.
yes sadly parents dont get involved when they see a kid is unhappy. Also most kids dont want to show it.
@@Lightflames85 Yeah, some parents either treat their kid's emotions as burdens or invalid. Like "just go to school you're there to learn, just ignore them" Then the parents are like "how could this happen to me baby" when something tragic happens.
Sometimes the parents are worse than the child
You are better than many parents. Bravo to you!
Salute to you and that’s exactly what I would do if I had children of my own
I still have hundreds of scars from harming myself, and attempting to take my own life. I dropped out of school the second time i tried to take my life. None of my offenders were ever punished, however I was always in ISS (In school suspension) which made me fall behind in school work, and eventually held back. Which lead to more bullying, until i threw in the towel and left school. School is such a traumatic thing for me, that it heavily effects my life, on the DAILY. I struggle because I did not finish school. I have tried to get my GED and gone to adult classes, it is still a struggle, it is still hard for me to learn when my brain shuts down from trauma just being near a "school".
Love your friendship. When Aba just let Preach purge his emotion from his experience. One friend feeling safe enough to speak to his experience and one friend just being present. Well said from both of you guys.
What I don't understand is how all these people can get together and protest, but when it comes to being at school, they don't all come together and stop the bullying themselves.
Why do they expect the school system to be the only thing to change it? They need to hold the bullies accountable, and they need to stand up for people. Protesting does nothing. You have to act!
Yeah its cute when the bullies protest the bullying and the kids who watched you get picked on are now joining the trend. While watching on the sidelines as they always do. 😂
You make an interesting point.
People would rather protest against others than take responsibility for themselves.
The kids know who the bullies are. The teachers know who is being bullied and is the bully.
Because they don't care. This is all theater. A good way to get a day off from their responsibilities. If they truly cared, they would have stopped the attack.
I'm so glad my mom told me, no matter what the school does or says, that I would not get in trouble if I fought my bully. She was right because she took me to get a steak dinner after the school suspended me. Shout-out to parents that don't let the toothless schools fail their kids.
I told my daughter the same thing. Tell them to leave you alone, walk away, etc.. but the minute they touch you, she has free reign. Deal with the system, but at home we're going for whatever she wants for dinner
Right! We not punishing self defense over here.
First of all, I need them to stop minimizing this girls experience buy calling it bullying. Bullying indicates something young immature kids do to annoy each other. Trip you down the hall. Knock your books out your hand. Maybe even slap you around a little bit just to embarrass you. Considering her injuries and these kids ages, it’s straight up harassment and assault. I’m so sorry the school and the dad is going through that. That’s insane. He better than me, I’d be at the school right now fighting them girls and their parents.
For real yal
I wonder how many of those crying and getting in front of the camera demanding change were the worst bullies there.
I feel like our culture celebrates people that succeed after getting bullied rather than stopping/preventing bullying from happening
Our culture celebrates being a victim rather than being a victor.
@@jaymann5180 it celebrates victory as well... Olympics etc, try that logic again. But the whole victim part goes into how you view fellow humans and if you view them as beneath you of course what you said would make sense. There will always been innocence or weaker people but to say they shouldn't bring to light their plight is dangerous because the question you ask is what happens to when it's one of your own
@@KangTheDigitalNomad Yah, you completely missed the point there, chief. Like Stevie Wonder playing darts.
@Jay Mann i dont think its that. I think its the celebration of the underdog winning. Vs the idea that someone needed protection from their peers.
@@jaymann5180 what does that have to do with this? Shut your dumb ass up.
I was bullied in school, and I was literally told "If I didn't see it, it didn't happen." This is a real problem, and it has been for decades.
longer than decades lol
@@SaturnVII oh I'm sure, but I've only been alive for three of them. Lol
The bigger problem are these weak ass kids. They're so pathetic and the bullys know this. They paint a huge target on their backs.
@Gabe Mord you aren't wrong. I think it would be good to put some of these kids in a good martial arts class. I still believe, however, that the administrations we see in most schools are continuing to the problem in their own right. I personally was stuck between a rock and a hard place when it came to peers and admin. It wasn't until I literally beat a stutter into one of the bullies that it finally stopped, it never should have come to that.
@@AngryYetiTV no if it needs to come to that then so be it. These kids need to learn how to handle things themselves. You can't always go running for help. The world will not always hold your hand.
As someone who grew up with an abusive parent, I had a lot of anger built up as a kid. But I re-directed it towards these people who bully others
And every time I got in trouble for defending others? I would tell them exactly what happened PLUS what the bullies lied to the teachers about. And when the truth came out, they tried apologizing, that they had to be impartial
And my reply was, “so was I supposed to be impartial to my friends being bullied while you pretended to see nothing?”
Needless to say, those teachers hated my guts. But if I see shit like that, I can’t turn a blind eye to it
I was a very violent child with anger management but I was scared of my parents and making them disappointed in me. I had to put on a facade of being a nice person. Until some kids started to try to bully me. They became my target for the rest of the year. I had all the teachers in my pocket. And because of the rules my parents put out I had a perfect excuse for being the way I was to that person because they started it. I just took my time finishing it. The next school year a new person would come thinking I was easy pickings. Everyone else knew about my ways so at the end of my school years people understood and made it known that I wasn't the one. And I'd make their year horrible. The next year it was a complete reset. I went through alot of anger management courses and got into mma I'm not angry anymore and I'm pretty chill now. But young me was a mess.
My schools lack of response at all taught me that Violence is the only language that bullies will respond to. When I fought back, the bullying stopped.
Sadly because that's the only consequences. If people actually took action or punishment then people would think twice
Same. Parent intervention, admin discussions, and class separation did nothing but fuel the bully. The only thing that worked was old-fashioned resistance in the form of verbal rejection in the beginning and when it came time, physical defense. Only required one instance and it stopped. If I had better guidance as a child, the bullying wouldn't have gone on for five years. But it did finally come to an end when I decided to ball up my fists and fight back. It's never about winning a fight, as much as having a presence of resistance.
Force chooses the path of least resistance.
@@RParis-ov2rq It was an important lesson to learn. It took about the same amount of time for me.
My mum told me to hit the biggest one. I did and broke his nose. My mum got called into the office and I remember her going apeshit at the head teacher.
To this day I’m still angry at myself for never figuring this out (even though I want to let go). Sometimes, I daydream about going back in time and physically fighting back as much as possible. I still remember one teacher being so fake kind and telling students that if they ever have a problem their door is always open. It was a bunch of bs cause I simply asked them to change my seat and their answer was no.
when I learned my daughter was being bullied in school, I went there and confronted the kid and told her that if she did not stop, I will talk to her parents and her teachers. when my other daughter was hurt by another kid I remprimanded him in front of his grandmother. As a parent, we should do something immediately to protect our children. We should also teach our kids not to bully other kids. It should start at home. We need to discipline our children.
Sounds like you should beat up the parents and say if you bully my kid again ill beat your parents up again
props to you, my mum did the same and i never had issues after that
My mum was driving and saw them walking down, rolled down the window and shouted/lectured them and told them to leave me alone.
Never had an issue after that.
Sometimes the parent of the bully is the problem
As a kid, My brother was bullied, and my dad told their mom upfront that if it happened again, he’s calling the police. The bullying stopped instantly.
Bro preach straight up brought me to tears. I've struggled with self-esteem issues since adolescence and when he said that shit about looking in the mirror and not liking yourself just took me back to that very spot man. That was fucking heavy
Bullying is such an epidemic. It's a public health issue at this point. I always ask my pediatric and adolescent patients if they're being bullied at school or online. This is crazy.
Im tired of people saying “Be the bigger person and walk away.” No fight back. I was bullied because i suffered from alopecia since I was 6 months old. I cried in elementary school due to the bullying. In middle school, I started to fight. The more I fought, the more people left me a lone and actually began to respect me. Do not roll over, start fighting. Continue to fight until the school notices.
If you physically fight back you get in trouble and the bully gets a slap on the wrist
@@tony_5156not always
@@tony_5156 but they leave you alone except it's a very violent school.
Jujitsu
I always fought my bullies, and I never even got so much as a suspension. Well it helped that I didn't look threatening at all as a kid.
I was bullied mercilessly when I was a kid. Looking back, I was pretty hard to deal with for people my age. Therefore, getting thumped on a weekly basis was my life. I never had any support from any of the administration or anyone in authority. Even when it happened right in front of them. Nothing changed. Anytime I fought back, I got in trouble too. And even if it prompted that bully to leave me alone, there was another one waiting around the corner. This is not new. I remember one gym teacher that told me I would stop getting bullied when I wasn't a nerd. Adults bully worse than kids.
I am still grateful that I had teachers who gave an f, cause otherwise I might be totally ruined now. I took things for a long time...then reported it. First the responsibile teacher tried to counsel me and the bully talking it out. Result: nothing. Took a little more and went straight to "I wanna be transfered" and the teacher agreed. Luckily she was a good observer and my bully really had a demonic aura. She had no trouble believing me and also went off on her. People who have no emotional intelligence and dont give and f about things that are outside of their timetable, should not be teachers. Hope you are fine now and you dont have lasting issues from this.
Your last sentence 👍🏻 as a kid I was bullied by my teacher in 4th grade and then in high school some teachers were not nice and even now as a young adult older adults are just mean… it was never that serious with kids my age but adults? that especially broke my heart because it was super confusing
should of relentlessly kicked him in the nuts, sounds like he'd be a terrible father.
Most gym teachers are idiots. They became gym teacher because they're too dumb to teach anything else
When I was bullied back in highschool I had put on a animal mask and wait for the bullies to be alone and one by one I used my brothers bat to send this lunatics into hospital.
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The emotions pouring from this student explained it all.........
They tried to make the school aware and they did nothing but watch it unfold.....
This is absolutely tragic, and the criminals who make up this school's staff should be held accountable to the most fair extent of the laws in our state allows.
This makes me worry for my son's safety more than ever especially being that this happened in my own state......
This gives me flashbacks of an incident in third grade (back in 1999) where I was assaulted by 4 or 5 boys after a soccer game during recess. The teachers on recess duty were busy escorting the children already lined up inside. I managed to barely break out of the pile up by ripping my shirt, and I sprinted inside, screaming for a teacher.
I’ll never forget the look of the first faculty member that looked me dead in the eyes, heard me pleading and begging for help while bloodied and clothes torn, and he just…🤷, and watched as the boys burst through the hallway doors, looked at the teacher, teacher turned his head as if to say “carry on,” and proceed to beat me to a pulp.
As punishment, they got detention (ALONG WITH ME FOR NOT GETTING A TEACHER TO HELP 🤬). A couple days later, the same group of kids ran up on me, but I was ready this time. I whipped out a pocket knife, and they didn’t even try me… but they did tell a teacher on me and got me suspended for 3 days.
From that day on, I always fought back. Sure, I got suspended a bunch for defending myself, but I’d rather get suspended than beaten/robbed/severely injured/or worse.
The school system is pathetic. Idk if anything’s changed in the last 20 years or so, but seeing this, it doesn’t seem like it.
Yah. my mate will still pull a shank on someone who gets smart with em even today. long lasting effects.
@@bibsp3556 it’s sad. I’m not saying carry weapons or be belligerent to anyone, because that’s just causing more problems. Had I actually cut someone or worse- it’d just be perpetuating the notion of needing “protection” at all times, and fear makes people act all kinds of wild.
I guess I meant to say, always protect yourself above all else, but practice deescalation wherever possible.
Stay safe.
@@NikolasAknorov absolutely. They carry because they feel like they might need it. I don't, and realistically the weapon would just escalate. Both of us can handle ourselves unarmed, but when you pull a shank, they aren't gonna go easy.
Yeah stay safe g
I was in a predominantly white school and was picked on hard. I walked in the nurses office one day with a bloodie nose cause I was sucker punched at my locker. The school did nothing I even over herd the office making fun of the situation. Oh that Asian boy is in the office again, says he got punched and is bleeding. Ew does the blood smell Chinese. After that the next time they ganged up on me I stabbed on of them in the leg with a pencil. I wish it was deeper but it was pretty shallow. They left me alone after that. Plus I said next time it was going to be with a knife. But the fact of the matter is, if the school will do nothing about it the kids will.
@@mengkhang1037 that sucks, I’m sorry you went through that. Funny enough, this is how I met one of my best friends in high school. He was picked on (not necessarily because he was Asian, because I went to a pretty multicultural school, but because he is a bit of an eccentric). One day, I heard of a boy that stabbed his bully in the head with a pencil. It was such a wild story, front to back, that I had to meet this person as a curiosity and as a fellow outsider. When I finally met him, he had taken to tripling down on his uniqueness, challenging anyone to step to him. He was in my history class and started wearing a large sombrero and was seen eating weed like it was broccoli. 😆
We made fast friends, and he’s definitely one of the most memorable people I have ever met.
Bullying is no joke, when will the world accept it
The sadest thing about this is that she's going to hell for killing herself. So sad
its upheld by the ego of parents. they would rather this stuff happen than admit their kid is no good and then work to make them better because it makes them look bad.
@@ryancialone3045 this ☝🏿
I’m 31 now I was bullied in elementary school all the way up until I changed schools in 8th grade and then it got better. But they were saying the same thing back then, “change your schedule”, “don’t hang out where they’re at” “you’re not aloud to hit them or you’ll be in trouble” etc… they ain’t never gone change!!
There will always be bullies when will the would accept that
I think a possible resolution is somehow changing the mindset of the students. I've seen bullies get embarrassed and stop their torment of another student when the entire class turns on the bully. At that moment the bully felt alone & outnumbered while the kid who was being bullied probably felt empowered & cared for. The problem is that everyone just sits there and watches while the bully does what they want. If bullying became a taboo for everyone instead of something that they ignore, the bullies would have to find another outlet.
I never understood why people bully other people , I don’t ever will. It makes no sense
there's a difference between bulling and what's happening at these schools, this is just pure lord of the flies now. The teachers who were aware of the bulling and choose to take her to a nurse instead of ER need jail time. When I was in school teachers were fully aware of things like this and never got in trouble for their inaction this needs to change. Felony charges are need against these teachers and staff.
AND the bullies themselves!
Lord of the flies a movie or book?
@@presidenttnediserp428 originally a book
@@presidenttnediserp428 both, book first
The good teachers are retiring because the current school system cannot be saved. It can only crumble, and then we will have to rebuild. Hopefully, dealing with these criminal kids will be on the forefront of whatever the school reform is.
I was bullied hard in High School (UK version). I went to my Guidance Teacher for help every week because it was that bad. I was told by her that I was the problem and I should suck it up. Eventually I got in two fights with some of my worst bullies. Both I got excluded for; the first time after he threw the first punch I decked him. He burst into tears and I got everything thrown at me. The second things escalated quickly and I lost my temper so much so that I blacked out in a fit of rage… what I remember was I came out on top and the whole school followed me home (I never got home that day) because I was fighting against a mob.
Bonus: My tormentor, a very specific person. He bullied me every day of my school life until I moved, he now preaches about how important Mental Health is. I get he had his own problems but it definitely makes me a bit bitter to see him acting like this Paragon when he ruined my life for many years.
He is probably a narcisist and doesn't actually give a shit about what he's preaching. You should expose him if you can and ruin his life.
Yeah, it sucks, it really does. One of those things you just gotta remember we all were young, dumb, and naive. Person probably grew up and realized what they were doing was wrong and is too embarrassed to admit it. Only thing to be done now is to forgive them in your mind, not for them but for you. Cause you'll just hold on to that resentment the rest of your life having hate in your heart. I'm sorry and I really get it but that is the conclusion I've come to when I've been through some bad shit growing up and you eventually gotta let it go and learn from it. I hope you're doing much better now.
Yeah, it's kinda fucked up how in the one form of school violence that's actually excusable: two kids mutually fighting each other, the punishment is actually there. Nothing notable for kids who gang up on and bully another, hell even jumping them, but for fighting each other, that's where you'll actually get in trouble.
Call him out
Having issues doesn’t justify him being a cunt.
🎶All the other kids and their pumped up kicks🎶
In my experience, the worst bullies were not the big scary kids or even the most popular kids. They were the average ones that had to feel better than someone else. They also were the best actors and put up the most convincing front to the adults and other students. They would spread rumors the fastest and find the best way to isolate and dehumanize you. Middle and high school are brutal for so many kids and these "do nothing" schools and administrators are definitely not helping.
that superintendent is a prime example, that assault is on tape, and he has the gall to stand up and say hes never seen any *violence* sad. Does it have to happen right in front of him to count?
I was bullied for 2 years straight at school terribly, I was beaten until I was unconscious several times because of my autism and had even lost teeth. On several occasions I was even bullied in front of teachers, what made it worse was I even got treated poorly by the teachers because they saw me as the weak kid they could use to win point with the other students. I got so depressed during this time that I considered taking my life several times but luckily I never did, Because I was in a care home and I had no parents to turn to it meant I had no outlet for my emotions and I ended up getting into fitness and callisthenics to just have a sense of peace within my life as I began to lose my sanity. In the end I got into a fight with some of my bullies and I didn’t give up, I went into the fight to cause harm and I did, the kid ended up with a broken jaw and I got kicked out the school because of it. Imagine that, I was bullied for years and I got no help but the one time I defend myself I’m just thrown to the side like trash.
I still have nightmares because of some of the stuff I’ve went through and I’ve noticed I am very very angry because of it. I’ve been working out a lot because it’s the only time I have some tranquility in my own head.
Sometimes I wish I could go back in time to strangle some of those fckers, but I know these thoughts won’t solve anything so I try and block them out
If you don’t want to be the victim anymore, you have to beat down. That’s our society.
We don’t talk enough about how Bullies are not the grotesk monsters, their are often victims theirself, even being victim from domestic violence through their parents
When I was bullied in high school, I wanted to do the same thing to end the misery. A guy in my class spread a rumour about me because I wouldn't go out with him. Luckily I had a sister to talk to who was able to talk me off the ledge and I didn't feel so alone. This guy just needed to feel better about himself because he couldn't handle rejection. You're absolutely right.
@@winstonpeanutbutter that was the price to pay to get your life back, it does worth it. If something similar happens to my son, I'll pretend to be listening to the principal and once we get the hell out of that school, I'd high five him.
Unfortunately, many people see difference (on a neurological level: autism, adhd,etc) and harmlessness as a weakness and it attracts the vermines... only a brutal stop (like hitting back, strongly) will make them stop.
You did well, young man, you fought back... I hope you'll have nice dreams.
I was the bully of the bully.
My dad put me in Martial art when I was 5 (to avoid being bullied). Around 10 fights started, till my 18.
Was punished almost everyday for defending people.
Never hesitated, never ashamed, my mom was pissed from time to time but always proud.
There’s always someone rooting for you at a school if you’re bullied.
Don’t hesitate to ask for help from the big guy or the kids who know MA.
You are my fictional hero
I wish you were in my school 😢😢😢😢to help me.
Thank you.
I was never really bullied but I always looked up to folks like you, if you're telling an honest story that is lol
Every small and gentle kid needs someone like you. Also wish you were at my school.😭
Those girls were jealous she was pretty❤
my brother and i were both bullied in school. our dad told us “don’t start fights, finish them” and we never got in trouble for defending ourselves.
i broke a girl’s knee in sophomore year in high school because she was trying to jump me and i kicked it out. her friends immediately quit trying to fight me with her screaming on the ground.
my brother ended up being the popular one, having friends from every clique / group and i was the outcast with a few friends in our own group. he never had to worry about being bullied at that point and i fought back so we were good.
school was trash but i never really cared what people said - if they touched me we had a problem, otherwise i used headphones and ignored everyone.
glad that was a long time ago lol. school must suck even worse now.
As a teacher, I always want to see a Superintendent go undercover into a school as a janitor for two weeks & they will see what a school is truly like. They haven't seen a pattern of bullying or violence - in high school? If they did they'd realize it's a damn war zone!
Superintendents were students at some point right? Bullying has always been a thing. They have to know.
As a former junior high janitor, I second this message 👊🏾✊🏾 man this breaks my heart
Ooh that would would give all the tarded parents more reason to complain and condemn the administration which is usually trash anyway.
I agree. They should go and sub for at least a week or a month to get a real clear idea of what's happening in schools and classrooms.
Oh please. They don't need to do that. Your not the first teacher in the world and this child isnt the first to be bullied or take their life. They know children are being bullied. What other proof does one need. People just don't give a shit. Policemen wear cameras and still do f up shit. Most times people don't give a shit. Your supervisor made up their mind a long time ago. No need to go undercover.
I was bullied for 2 years straight at school terribly, I was beaten until I was unconscious several times because of my autism and had even lost teeth. On several occasions I was even bullied in front of teachers, what made it worse was I even got treated poorly by the teachers because they saw me as the weak kid they could use to win point with the other students. I got so depressed during this time that I considered taking my life several times but luckily I never did, Because I was in a care home and I had no parents to turn to it meant I had no outlet for my emotions and I ended up getting into fitness and callisthenics to just have a sense of peace within my life as I began to lose my sanity. In the end I got into a fight with some of my bullies and I didn’t give up, I went into the fight to cause harm and I did, the kid ended up with a broken jaw and I got kicked out the school because of it. Imagine that, I was bullied for years and I got no help but the one time I defend myself I’m just thrown to the side like trash.
I still have nightmares because of some of the stuff I’ve went through and I’ve noticed I am very very angry because of it. I’ve been working out a lot because it’s the only time I have some tranquility in my own head.
Sometimes I wish I could go back in time to strangle some of those fckers, but I know these thoughts won’t solve anything so I try and block them out
Life did you bad then. Glad you picked yourself up and managed to get through i
i hope you can find peace after all those terrible experiences. try to build up your social circle with people that care about you and youll do great! ☺☺
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Remember those who anger you control you so letting that shit go is the best thing you can do for yourself.
U need mental help, good god this dude unleashed the whole wall of china in .txt form and then wished he could strangle people😆
As someone who was bullied for the first nine years of my time at school, this is so sad to hear about. Hell my ankle got broken in my FIRST YEAR, all that was done was the other kid being expelled. Lack of legal action is unfortunately not surprising - and so many times its not even the physical bullying that gets to kids. It's the stuff you can't just show in a picture, the things that linger with you for YEARS. In a bizarre way, I'm thankful for it, because of how badly treated I was, I came into adult life knowing people were terrible, and that inaction is the most common thing. It's not something I'd ever wish on another human being, but it undeniably made me who I am today.
To anyone who is being bullied or has experienced it, always keep in mind others see it, find those who are worth a damn so you can have people who you can talk to. It might not be easy, but it is for the best to have people you can talk to, because it isn't always the easiest to even talk to family.
The point you made about social media and the fact you can't even get a safe space in your own home is such a good one.
The only problem with bullying is that fighting back is punished just as badly as bullying.
it's not pretty either way so fighting back at least to me is an option since its self defense.
Yeah because when the kid does, it usually ends up with the kid coming back randomly shooting people at the school.
It is honestly is crazy. My kids school has a policy that punishes self defense. You are literally expected to not protect yourself at any point. In my mind that is making rules that take away rights the law gives a person. Knowing what we know about head trauma that is insane. My kids are not going to take kicks to the head with a fight
I've rarely seen bullying go punished. But, God forbid the bullied swings back.
Why are we letting these schools decide the rules? I don’t understand parents. If the school seriously punishes your kid for fighting their bullies it’s time to get a lawyer and buckle up. Nobody is putting my kid in a corner without repercussions.
I promise you a bunch of those kids out there protesting are bullies. There’s so many now a days. It’s so freaking sad. What a beautiful young girl. I am so sorry for her family. I hope that the girl who bullied her got into trouble for a$saluting her in the least. I hope she realizes how she acts now and I wish it didn’t take something this horrible to make it happen. Social media has made everything 10058492002953 times worse too.
first thing i thought when i saw the protesters, "which one of these mfers bully too". 😬
True they're just there to get time off of school. Even if they aren't the bullies they were fine standing by and watching shit happen.
Yeah like I get it that kids are young and immature but I feel like we got away with so much. Fact is even at that age, kids know what is right and wrong and should take responsibility as well as the teachers
Adults are not made to be in social media for such longs periods of time and absorb all of the clusterfuck that it contains. And it can ruin us. Now imagine how worse it can be for children or teenegers consuming so much of social media.
Its so fake.
No body cares till its too late and then when it happens they bring out the tears.
This is really eye opening. I’ve personally never been bullied, nor have my schools ever had bullies who went much farther than talking behind someone’s back.
I grew up in jersey in the 90s bullying was huge and teachers did nothing.
I relate to Aba. Someone tried to bully me once and I beat the crap out of them. Little did they know I was a martial artist. It’s not something I went around bragging about.
I’m going to have my first baby soon, a boy and as soon as he’s old enough, I’m enrolling him in martial arts classes. He will never get in trouble for defending himself. My message to him will be to use whatever force is necessary to stop the threat.
If the school wants to discipline him, that’s my battle to fight.
I fought back with a big stick, once.
Was never bullied again.
It was the same story for me nobody knew that I was in martial arts too
Unfortunately this isn't actually how bulling is for most people. The truth of the matter is is that it is normally a group activity which multiple people will take part in. For the average person that's getting bullied it is not reasonable for them to fight their way out of the situation, they will lose just based on numbers. I remember I tried to fight back once in the bathroom against these three guys force my head down the toilet passed out woke up later on the floor. Guess what they still didn't stop.
@@andrewgardner58 here is a secret about fighting. You don't have to beat them all, you just need to strike first and beat one of them, then the rest won't want to fight. If you can act like a psyko that helps to. No one want to fight a psyko. You did not hit them first did you? places to hit: nose, dick, eyes, ears, throat. your going for a one hit win when fighting nothing what you see in movies. And if you can do a hit and then run.
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@16:50 I have EVER seen someone put it so eloquently. Truer words could not have been said!! My guys, you have won my respect and my sub
I could have been one of these kids, it is scary that shit is allowed to happen. As a young adult in NJ I faced shit like this in high school.
i've worked in public schools and education for over a decade and it's always been the same: the administration is more afraid of the parents than they are of the police/consequences. to avoid a headache, they will NOT report things like this to certain "hard to deal with" moms and dads. so other children slip through the cracks or even die, like in this case. it's gross.
makes me sick to think about!
That is crazy though. Basically kids have to fend for themselves.
Then there should be nothing stopping these kids from violently defending themselves from bullies
YES! Administrators don't care! Counselors don't care! Security don't care! Other teachers don't care! It is worse now than ever before! Schools are underfunded, understaffed and overworked. They are dumbing grounds ... free baby sitters for most parents. Lets not sugarcoat this stuff. Many of these kids came back from being quarantined for under a year (Florida went back 2020-2021 as half and half... and most of these kids came back far worse than ever before. They are uncivilized and unsocialized. Imagine being in a classroom and half the class are Bebe Kids in it? Not little ones, but kids who are already taller than their own parents. Not kids at this point, but kids in adult bodies. I'm talking about grades 4-8.
The parents are nutty. Parents have been increasingly aggressive towards teachers over the years. They don't want to hear that their child is a bully. They don't take accountability for being a bad parent.
I remember when I was in elementary school, I got bullied for not knowing english. Then, in middle school, I started defending myself and got suspended for a month for "fighting." The word "bullying" is not as serious as assault, blackmail, and stalking. We need to stop treating these accounts as "bullying" and punish these behaviors accordingly.
Getting punished for fighting back against bullies is one of the most fucked up parts of high school.
@Matias Munoz Yeah, it's very demoralizing. It makes you feel even more alone and hopeless. It's almost like you're trapped in this condition until the school year ends. I remember I used to get home from school and just get high to not think of how pathetic it was that I was in that situation.
Im so sorry for What you’ve Been through. It takes however a great amount of strength and courage to go endure that hell you’ve been through and live to tell the tale. You’re mother would have been so proud of you.
"Teenagers are ruthless."
Sooooo fucking true. I'm a psychiatric nurse who works in a mental health hospital, and working the teenagers wing is A NIGHTMARE. I deal with junkies, schizophrenics and burnt out combat veterans, and that is nowhere near as horrible as working with teens.
EDIT: Also, it wasn't mentioned in the video, but the girl decided to self-delete. She might very well have decided to delete the bullies instead, and you now got yourself a school shooter. When the world is unfair to you to the point it's irrational, you will come up with irrational solutions to it, and a teenager's brain isn't equipped for it.
as a 15 year old guy, yes, yes we are completely different creatures and im sorry for us. i personally dont bully ppl. recently in my area of KY a girl killed herself from bullying as well. shits an epidemic and needs to be stopped.
you'd think with all the school shootings this whole bullying thing would get looked at more seriously, but no.. apparently it's a mental health issue and they're just crazy. pretty convenient excuse.
Teenage girls especially
@@oz_jones can confirm they are absolutey ruthless so i jus dont mess w any of them fr
I keep saying this about school shooters.
I snapped at the level of throwing hands. Had I repressed that sh@t another year or two, trying to appease the school's BS "no tolerance" policy they only ever used to punish victims who self defend... I'm scared of what I mightve done... I was definitely on that road.
That opening protest kind of hurts, simply because I know not one of those damn kids did a fucking thing themselves to help until after this girl killed herself. As her peers, they are not innocent, either.
Was thinking the same thing, as soon as the cameras come on everyone suddenly gives a shit
That thought crossed my mind almost immediately. It's highly likely that they ignored it so they didn't get picked on either or just because they saw it as none of their business but now that she's dead they're sad. It's sad man
We were all teens, nobody is worrying about other random teens... we're all stuck in our own little bubble, where everything happening to us is the biggest deal. It's only after something like this that anyone pays attention, but even then it's like a 2 days b4 everything is back to normal
Virtue signalling
I hate that I agree. The first few seconds have narration that the kids are angry and fearful... But they're smiling and laughing. It feels like a reason to get out of class, and I'm sure that some in attendance are bullies themselves. It's depressing.
Sounds like some bullies need to take matters into they one hands ugh I hate seeing this
Social media and the internet and phones have made bullying so much worse some big tech ceos dont even allow there own kids to be online
But when you fight back that’s when the teachers finally decide to do something.SMH🙄
If they have video of the bullying then audience for defending yourself..... HUGE GIANT LAWSUIT! And they will settle.....
And the student who defends themselves get suspended or arrested see it happen too many times
Fight them. Don't give a f*ck.
I was bullied a lot in school. I was chubby, wore glasses, liked cartoons, and had non name vrand clothes. Bad combo. Eventually I realized if I acted crazy, other kids would be afraid of me and leave me alone. I started wearing dark clothes, frowning all the time, talking a lot less, and I carried around a baseball bat. Basically giving off mad "quiet kid school shooter" vibes. Worked like a charm. The teachers were afraid of me too.
My kid got expelled for that image alone.
I did the same thing. Bit me in the ass later in life.
I wasn't going for the look but it sort of happens... "this guy might be crazy" defense works.
I did the same thing except I looked normal and only acted crazy and the thing is it worked perfectly near my friends I would be normal so they all think I’m normal and near the bullies I made myself to crazy to mess with I dressed normal and always acted normal unless pressed by a bully in which case I would retaliate in an intimidating way such as biting them etc haven’t been messed with in years
Problem with that is even then and now, that kind of act or image would have led to a lot of school counseling and principal visits and even some suspensions.
And they say we need bullying back
That’s why every incident need to be reported and filed appropriately! Every time!