10 reminders for when you’re feeling low, stuck, lost 🫠
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- čas přidán 19. 05. 2024
- Reminders you need to hear if you are feeling lost, stuck, in an existential crisis or things are not going as well as you had hoped. Life is not linear, we all go through these moments. Remember, it's a part of your character development in your beautiful story. Sending lots of love!
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i recently read this - our comfort zone is actually our own personal hell that we have outgrown. But we can't seem to leave it because a familiar hell feels better than an unfamiliar heaven💗💗 the first point in the video just reminded me of that💞💞
wow I love that!
Thats beautiful and a really great read, btw! 👏🏼
Your funny ❤.
that's crazy, but also true! :)
This is so RELATABLE ‼️
everything will be okay in the end. if it's not okay, it is not the end...
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oh thank you for this
Growth happens outside comfort zone
Sometimes you have to fight for what you want
A sign of realignment
Change your strategy
Life is not linear
Do the thing try your best
Character development
Expand and explore yourself
the remedy for my healing process is the ''patience.'' we all have ups and downs, we go through hard phases in life, being judged from toxic people... but i'm very well aware that once i stand firm and face the challanges in my way better days are awaiting me there. ALL I NEED IS PATIENCE!!!
I think my favorite part of this video will be a sign for realignment
I've been feeling stuck for a long time but this year it's caused me so much depression and anxiety which only makes you more stuck. The worst is feeling like you let yourself down, disappointed yourself.
I am stuck in a comfort zone because I live a good life and am blessed yet don't feel like I'm aligned with my purpose and also feel lonely. It's not easy but I'm trying.
I can resonate with this. I have a good life, I'm blessed, but I'm not motivated like I was before . I have a great job where I make good money, but it doesn't fulfill me. I do work remotely so I know the lack of social connection is adding to this.
@@jan854 I've been working remotely too since 2014. I love it but that aspect is what's kept me in the same job because I'd say if I'm gonna be unfulfilled by this type of corporate job , I'd rather it be in the comfort of my home rather than going back to that depressing, mundane, boring office atmosphere where you have to always be in office mode. Then commuting back and forth where I can literally feel and see other people's misery going to their unfulfilling jobs. The social aspect wore off after the first 3 years tbh. I'm considering a total career change which would require going back to school but I really should have made that decision a good decade ago so I've been beating myself up about that too, not making the right decision. Focused more on enjoying life in the short term than thinking long term😢. Lots of regrets and anger. Trying to pull myself out of it but it's a struggle, like a tug of war.
honestly i feel a similar way but once you go out a bit of your comfort zone you get this feeling of freedom you feel a little lighter atleast it was for me still going through this period of uncertainty and confusion but getting through but it hard when we feel so comfortable with people or in a certain situation
" *Gratitude* is simply a shift in your *perspective* to see the good in your life the more you focus on what you have to be grateful for the better you feel about your life" a simple but powerful reminder, this chapter really talked to me thank you for this video Aileen❤
Looking at life and challenges as a "plot" and "character development" is a genius mindset. This is now changing my perspective of my life. Right now I'm stuck/burnt out at my job and I'm being challenged to be more assertive and now I'm starting to see this as a sign of my character development.
I was just about to break down cause of stress. The timing is unreal
Do it for the plot! 💗 Character development regardless of how things go, doing hard things builds character
“Sometimes you have to fight for what you want” - I love that because it gives me so much motivation to keep going and not give up on my dreams! ❤ Very powerful! 🙏
Absolutely loving these reminders, Aileen! Especially the ones about growth: 'Growth happens outside your comfort zone,' 'Fighting for what you want,' and 'Expanding and investing in ourselves' (I see a connection between the last two, in my opinion and I resonated with them the most)
Thanks for the positivity and the chill vibes! 👏🏼 (P.S: Apple picking looks really peaceful and satisfying, haha)
thank you so much for your kindness 🥰
Do it for the plot.
Remind yourself that everything happens for your growth. That will be my favorite quote for today.
I feel blue these days, but after watching this, I feel up now. Thanks a million.
You always know exactly what to say, exactly when I need to hear it ❤
"invest in yourself" ❤❤❤
Uncanny how your videos always come at the right time, thanks a lot
We appreciate how well you've articulated your own insights on this matter. Keep working hard.
Thank you so much for this! You released this on the day I was feeling the exact words on the title of this video. Thank you for encouraging me on my own journey for the past 4 years!
Absolutely needed this right now, perfect timing! Speaking to my soul
This video is such a blessing. I don't know how the algorithm knew I needed this
Love you, Aileen! You’re always saying the right words at the right time ❤️
„Do it for the plot.“ is an interesting thought! ⭐️⭐️⭐️😊
Posted in time I was lost and overthinking.thank you always 💜
I seek your videos like this when I'm stuck, feeling down and behind in life, feeling inadequate, feeling like I'm losing grip with myself and trying not to dwell on my own mistakes and just move. I'm the type to easily get overwhelmed, but I often forget how much effort and energy I have spent my entire 20s to navigate my emotions more than trying to stop them (if that makes any sense to anyone reading this) and it honestly surprises me how much I've improved in a lot of areas where I used to normally freak out and lose sight of myself. I appreciate you continuing to make videos! I have always watched them since my early college days, and they have been extremely helpful! For that, I'm grateful to have wonderful people, like you, to help navigate life a little more easily ❤
Thank you for being such a ray of light. I needed this today and truly appreciate you.
Thank you so much for sharing . I really needed to hear those words ❤✨🫶🏻
i’m so grateful you uploaded this when you did and i got the notification. i’ve been feeling really low lately but man… this helps so much. thank you!!
Hey Aileen! Thank you so much for this amazing video, can't tell you how much I needed this. So grateful you posted this. Thank you again for making my day better. Have a nice day.
Your videos are so inspiring and beautiful. I love your positivity
Thank you, Lavendaire! 💐
Thank you so much!!! Needed this❤❤
I used to watch your videos a lot and I miss them! I’m going to start watching them again because I love your videos on so many things that help me with my daily life! Love you!!
Hi Aileen. I love your videos so much they have helped me a lot. Whenever I am feeling low I can always count on your videos to make me feel better and just change my perspective about things. 💜💜
I’ve been hearing reminders about character development lately! It’s all part of the story! Such a great reminder that keeps things lighter & takes a lot of pressure off. 🤩🙌
When I tell you I needed this video... thank you SO much.
Thank you for this Reminders, Aileen! ☺️
This video came to me at the perfect time when I needed to hear it. These are amazing tips, with #1 "growth happens outside your comfort zone" is my favorite. I feel I have been feeling stuck/low and everyday felt very mundane/uninteresting. I am starting to realize it is really because of me doing the same things and not challenging myself as much as I used to. I will definitely keep this in mind moving forward because recently I have switched up little things in my routine and gotten out of my comfort zone and it has had a positive impact on my mood overall. Thank you Aileen.
‘Do it for the plot’ I really like that concept. It’s a great way to view things:)
Thank you beautiful! you seem to have the answer every time I'm going through weird times in life ❤
I needed this. Thank you so much aileen!
i needed this today! thank you so much
This was awesome! Thanks Aileen! I loved the qu’Adeline about life is not linear. I have had to rewire my thinking on this notion because I am of that generation that was drilled in the ‘life’s trajectory’ and expectations is/was linear. Though I discovered, not too late, when I survived cancer at 36, that life was scribble of paths that eventually take you on the journey your open yourself to. I am so glad you brought this up as I want younger people to realize this now and not later. Cheers!
"Life is not linear" is my favorite reminder from you
Thank you for this video. Stepping outside of the comfort zone and self care.
Love you Aileen.
Thank you for your words 💞
Oh my God, yesterday I was watching two of your videos about feeling lost,
Thank you & good luck Aileen🤍
Absolutely amazing :’) we love you Lavendaire
It's true life is not linear, but filled with ups and down, life will be smooth if we understand the importance of ups and downs and lessons we learnt through our hard times will always be helpful to face the future. ❤ thank you for the video Lavendair 💜🦋
Thank you. This is very inspiring and this is what I need to hear today❤
You are such an amazing teacher/mentor. It is a gift you were born to share. Thanks from all of us to you 🥰
change the strategy and character development and comfort zone were my favorite reminders. thank you.
Great video Lavendaire 💯🙏🏾#7 would be my favourite! Character development… brilliant.
I really appreciate this message today. Thank you so much. Keep up the great work. I found all of them to be great reminders for myself.
This has been very timely, a change of season in life can be overwhelming and terrifying, do it for the plot. Everything was on point.
i can always count on your videos to help me when i’m feeling down
i appreciate you! 💜
My favourite reminders were realigning and expanding myself
I think I need to push myself more to reach my goal since I not satisfied by my efforts but there are lot of fears and self doubts that are holding me back and I promise myself I will conquer all of them
Thank you lavendaire for your great reminders ❤
Which reminder was your favorite? ❤
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Hey Lavendaire, I was wondering if you know how much of your audience are men? I'm a guy and while this your content isn't typically what I watch, it's pretty uplifting and very helpful
@@Slothups it's about 15-20%!
Do the thing, try your best
Grateful for this channel ❤,
I'm following you from June 2023 ,
You helped me a lot in my healing journey ,
I'm doing your guided meditation everymorning❤❤
Lots of love from India 🇮🇳
@@lavendaire What do you think life is about? Our time is limited on this earth. It's either go all in or stop trying. I'm 22 and I still don't have it figured out. Time just seems like its running out. I never felt this way when I was 17/18 I thought I had all the time in the world to do things.
You are always perfect timing for me.
thank you for this, aileen. my favorite part is "find gratitude for how far you've come"
this makes me remember my decision months ago to change my daily phone reminder from "you're getting there" to "you've come this far" - made such a huge difference! ✨
this was exactly the video I needed
Perfect timing, I’m studying for final exams 🫠
Great mind set and actions to shift. These are all good reminders to help yourself and come back to your own inner nourishment, feed yourself from the inside. This is not only smart but also really wise! Thank you.
I really needed this😢thank you for the reminder❤.
Because of people like you i continue to hope.. ❤
You are a source of encouragement and motivation for me. Thank you, you are the best ❤️🩹✨
Thank you for this
this video is SO SO GOOD, thank you Aileen❤
Phenomenal tips! 🔥🔥 Thanks so much Aileen for this boost of positivity🙏
Thanks for this video Lavendaire! It is helpful, hope to see more content like this.
This video came just in time for me. I currently feel lost and stuck because things seem to be getting old and stale for me. I need something fresh to rejuvenate my energy. My favorite reminder is the first one: 'Growth happens outside the comfort zone.' Thank you for this video, Aileen!
I have been feeling low for a month. I never know what is the reason. I try to do the things that used to make me happy. But I always felt something was missing. When I don't know what is happening I cant express myself to others. All combined I started feeling alone. I felt like there was no one to talk to, there was no one to listen to me. I don't know why I searched about this on CZcams today and ended up on your video randomly. I have to thank you for many reasons for uploading such videos and bringing the core energy back. I really feel much better and relaxed after listening to you. Thank you so much. Am a great admirer and fan of your words from today💓
Thank you for reminding us❤
Mine would be Allignment used this word so much today I also appreciate Gratitude and taking time to craft new ideas for new skills and the keys toward the adventure. thank each of you who read this always remember your loved ❤and appreciated.
I love this. I’ve been too lazy to do yoga lately but this video helps me a lot. Thank you , Nico❤
Gratitude for how far you have come ....... ❤
Thanks for being there ❤
these are beautiful and powerful reminders. mahalo Aileen. Needed this.
I feel low, lost but I will do my best everyday to get better. Thank u for this
My favorite was "Change your strategy". Thank you!
I had a hard 2023 so I had the assumption that immediately I'd get everything back or better in 2024 for things to be done at lightspeed! But I still feel stuck and stagnant. These reminders are what I needed to hear today because I was beating myself up and feeling very low.
All are great reminders! And its all i need right now. Ive been going through a rough stage with anxiety ❤ thank you for the reminders!
Just be busy don't sit alone it will help u to deal with the anxiety you've
I'm new to your videos but you have such a beautiful speaking voice!!!
6:07 time is gonna pass no matter what, it's me who will make the right use of it chasing my dreams and giving a chance for me and my family living our best lives ❤
Aileen you look great with this hair color! Thank you for the message
Thanks, i really needed this.
Wow Aileen!! I have watched only a few vedios of yours but they all have literally changed my life so much for good!! Thank you so much for saying the words that I needed to hear because I am also currently going through a low point in my life , You are really the most awesome person I ever know!!
🙏🏼💖 thank you for your kind words!
Thank you so so much Aileen for this video, i appreciate your wisdom and kindness its filled my heart with gratitude for beautiful souls like yourself who share such wonderful and valuable reminders to us all 🤍💖
Number 2 almost made me cry. I needed to hear that so much, because I felt like giving up. Thank you Aileen ❤
sending you love & light 💖
this video is so comforting tysmmm Aileen
Thank you sis ❤
Thank u so much , this helped me so much.
I found myself thinking of having other people experience everything that you said, instead of taking the advice for myself. I was thinking of My soon to be ex-husband and telling him these steps and things. I need to look at myself instead of trying to fix everybody else and help everybody else. Thank you for always always giving yourself to us and teaching us. I ordered the artist journal and cannot wait for it to come in. I love that I also got a digital version of it.
Thanks you Aileen!!
That strong, fiery energy ❤
Not all the parts of the video hit home 100% - like I have definitely been out of my comfort zone lately. But it made me appreciate myself and feel thankful, even though I feel overwhelmed lately. Anyway so inspiring video that lifted my moods.
Every reminder was needed ❤
How do you always know exactly what I need luv?? You're truly amazing ❤❤ thank you so much 💕
wow! that's amazing 💜 thank YOU!
@@lavendaire 💜💜💜!!!
Thank you for this beautiful message. I needed this and it lifted me up! Not feeling myself lately, because I’m not where I want to be. I have been in a comfort zone too long and it’s time for me to move. Husband has a business, my kids became adults and working and now my days of feeding, cleaning the house and making sure everybody is okay, IS OVER 😮 everyone else found their path and now it’s time to find mine. No one is around but me lift in this house. But that’s my fault and I will be make the change today! Will be putting my focus back to being a nail tech and doing facials. Letting this fear go 😊 time to find myself and letting this beautiful gift I have (creating nail art) out to te world!
sounds great! My mum had to face that situation 16 years ago. She got a drivers licence (failed 8 times), joined a 3 year school and worked in a kindergardem for years.Kids loved her, she loved the job and still likes to drive the car. 🥰 If you are into nail art and facials, you probably never had time to experiment with art and beauty classes in the last years. Maybe you ll turn into an beauty specialist or tatoo artist for micro tatoos or so. Try new classes, find out what you love to do and i hope you ll love uour new path!
Your videos have been immensely beneficial to me, serving as a reliable source of support during moments of emotional low. Your content consistently uplifts my spirits and provides a fresh perspective on various aspects. Thank you for creating such impactful videos
thank you! i appreciate you ♡