how to believe in yourself (even if no one else does)

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  • čas přidán 6. 04. 2023
  • Let's talk about how to believe in yourself & your vision, even if no one else does. Self belief is having self confidence, self love and knowing your self worth. It's trusting your intuition, because sometimes, only you can see what you see. Don't expect others to understand. Just do it, and show them. Stop doubting yourself and believe in your vision ☀️
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Komentáře • 512

  • @lavendaire
    @lavendaire  Před 5 měsíci +3

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  • @peckishpagan
    @peckishpagan Před rokem +494

    This title hit me hard in the feels because I’m literally sitting here, feeling like a joke and wondering what steps I have to take to surround myself with people who do believe in me. 6/10 self belief; I need to be more patient, make a plan I can stick to and set boundaries on how much I share. Thank you!!

    • @PrincessMira64
      @PrincessMira64 Před rokem +23

      Hi there😊I believe in you and that you'll get through this. There are moments I need to hear this so if it's the same case here you have it ❤

    • @mcpoulina5746
      @mcpoulina5746 Před rokem +17

      Hi there, what helped me was getting new people around me who were in a new starting chapter. We had our own ideas or focus but helped each other to keep going. I only talk my ideas to a certain amount of people and that is what fuels my believe. I am still not at my full potential but working on it. So you keep going and keep believing in ur vision. U will get there just keep going. ❤

    • @wendysylvain4273
      @wendysylvain4273 Před rokem +16

      We believe in you 🌸🌸🌸

    • @danieye
      @danieye Před rokem +14

      I believe in you♥️ you are a beautiful soul🦋

    • @readwithelahe
      @readwithelahe Před rokem +7

      Same 😢

  • @yurikain9354
    @yurikain9354 Před 11 měsíci +50

    For me when I need.
    3:12 “People can’t see what’s in your mind.
    Only you can see what’s in your mind and in your heart.”
    3:34 “Trust yourself, trust your vision, and truly believe in it in order to give it the energy.”
    5:08 “If you feel like your vision is so out there and a lot of people are going to reject it, then just don’t tell them. Keep a boundary that protects you from anything that takes you away from that deep inner knowing.”
    6:54 “Get super clear on your vision & idea.”
    11:03 “Because only you can see it, you are like the medium to bring that vision to life.”
    12:18 “Your dream don’t have to make sense to other people. You don’t even have to share it with other people if you want to keep it to yourself, if you want to protect it for yourself.”
    13:14 “Have patience for the journey”
    13:56 “Putting all of your energy into it and just do the thing and be patient.”

  • @andirecruits
    @andirecruits Před rokem +179

    You can’t really do anything difficult if you don’t believe in yourself 💯

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Před rokem +10

      Yup!!

    • @andirecruits
      @andirecruits Před 11 měsíci +6

      @laurasouto6256 Yes! Remind yourself that when you put your mind to it you are able to accomplish hard things. You did it with English and can do it with other things. English is a hard language to learn so if you can learn that you can learn anything!

  • @healingthesoul5647
    @healingthesoul5647 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Where I’m at right now is realizing that I kinda believe in myself but when there’s so much negativity I start to doubt my dream. I need to learn or figure out how to have a barrier around me when ppls opinions are just negative.

    • @gamerrodz
      @gamerrodz Před 3 měsíci

      I feel like why other people opinion matters so much to us is that if no one's watching or appreciating you begin to question what the worth of what you're doing is. I noticed that I'm more dedicated and passionate when someone is watching me on the other hand I feel like a waste of space when I'm doing nothing productive and I'm being watched. Very intriguing

  • @Sanchurecording.in29
    @Sanchurecording.in29 Před rokem +41

    "People don't see what's in your mind or heart" That's so beautiful... Everybody has talked about self love but no one actually pin pointed this thing... Thanks aileen🧡💚💜

  • @opticmusprime808
    @opticmusprime808 Před rokem +3

    I'm a dude and I found this channel by accident one day looking for an anxiety relief. I love your channel and listen to it everyday and got one of your videos and go back to often. Your videos are calming asf I'm going to start checking out your meditation and getting unstuck videos😂Im glad you pushed through the beginning even when no one was watching😊💜

  • @courtneymagyar
    @courtneymagyar Před rokem +5

    I have more confidence right after listening. I’m definitely going to stop giving everyone my energy

  • @eileenalvarado4303
    @eileenalvarado4303 Před rokem +17

    Beginning again! Love that you said that. I’m 52 years and gave a presentation to my community for the first time about my work. I’ve written several books but allowed fear to keep me from moving forward. My heart is now lighting up.
    I’m doing worships for the first time. New dreams are being becoming real for me. Thank you for sharing! Right on time😊

  • @chickofmusic001
    @chickofmusic001 Před rokem +70

    I needed this as I am going to study again, hoping to make my family proud of me. And today is my birthday so this is perfect 🥳🤩

    • @ems4596
      @ems4596 Před rokem +2

      Happy Birthday!🎉❤🎊🎉🎊💕💞💐🎂

    • @thegirlwhoalwaysdidit
      @thegirlwhoalwaysdidit Před rokem +2

      Happy birthday 🎉 You can do it!

    • @calistaj2284
      @calistaj2284 Před rokem +2

      Happy birthday! Sending tons of positive manifestations your way 🥳✨

    • @NancyGupta
      @NancyGupta Před rokem +2

      Happy Birthday 🎂

    • @masumi6626
      @masumi6626 Před rokem +1

      happy birthday!!!

  • @aureliaperez3847
    @aureliaperez3847 Před měsícem

    "Cleanse your energy"... Gosh! I completely forgot that yes, we can absorb negativity and clean ourselves is so important. Thanks for the reminder!!

  • @SaransEnglish
    @SaransEnglish Před rokem +98

    Hey Aileen,
    I have been following for around 5 years and I have grown so much with you. I never forget to send your videos to the people who struggle with self doubt. If I write an autobiography, you will be there in at least 5 to 10 chapters. I am not at all exaggerating. 💓 I love you so much and I have never missed any of your videos. Whenever I look back, it's amazing. I still have struggles but life is just a bliss now. I am extremely grateful to you. ❤ You really have no idea how much I love you as a person. Thank you so much❤❤❤ If you ever visit India, please let me know. I am dreaming to meet you one day and I am sure I will one day♥️♥️♥️♥️This has been a dream for a long time. Either in India or in US. ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  Před rokem +12

      Wow!! So amazing how long we’ve been on this journey together 💗

    • @itsdaksha
      @itsdaksha Před rokem +6

      Indian follower here too! So amazing to attend a lavendaire workshop!

    • @idrwsometimez
      @idrwsometimez Před rokem +5

      Another indian, following you aileen, you are just amazing

  • @another20sth
    @another20sth Před rokem +42

    This is something I've been struggling with ever since I started being active in my journey to grow. It was easy to hype myself up when things were going like I wanted but then there are days where I wish someone else saw the effort I was putting in, or the goals I had achieved and was cheering me on. It made me feel lonely and sometimes even question why I was doing it. Thank you for this reminder. I want and am going to be intentional and patient with my self on this journey to become better little by little. This is a message to my future self when she does revisit this video, you are doing your best right now. Even if no one sees it or acknowledges it, even if some days when you feel like nothing is changing and you feel stagnant, know that change takes time and what little you're doing matters. Remember the butterfly effect and how you're always allowed to start from scratch 💕✨

  • @Lylie77
    @Lylie77 Před rokem +1

    Why you need to believe in yourself
    Because only you can see it the blessing on it and its a special gift you have ✨

  • @dianetvlogs
    @dianetvlogs Před měsícem

    as a 15 yr old girl i struggled with self doubt, drainage in my mental health and lost hope in life. But i continued to believe in myself and t9 soread positivity, because i knew i had this vision and potential. It was tough, i woukd rate myself in the way of believing in myawlf a 8/10

  • @r.j3771
    @r.j3771 Před rokem +40

    Oh my God! This video dropped just right on time. The most important test of my academic life is just 1 month away and I am very nervous as it's very difficult to crack this exam... I so very much needed this! Thank you so much Aileen💗💗

    • @courtneymagyar
      @courtneymagyar Před rokem +1

      SAME

    • @readwithelahe
      @readwithelahe Před rokem +4

      It’s interesting and sad at the same time when I read how many people were in this state that you described at the same time in the comments here

    • @cozyhobbies_
      @cozyhobbies_ Před rokem +1

      Good luck 🎉

    • @ishikab
      @ishikab Před rokem

      Same

  • @xSweetHoneyBeex
    @xSweetHoneyBeex Před rokem

    Thank you for posting this ❤

  • @dishaholani5996
    @dishaholani5996 Před rokem

    You've always been so helpful! ❤

  • @Iamjohnnythethird
    @Iamjohnnythethird Před rokem

    Thank you so much! This is perfect timing for this vid ❤!! I needed this

  • @che5music
    @che5music Před rokem

    This was so so so good! Thanks for creating ❤❤❤

  • @prerza
    @prerza Před rokem +1

    i needed this, thank you and ilysm

  • @HebrewsChapter11
    @HebrewsChapter11 Před rokem +1

    Great content ❤ I needed this today.

  • @michaelcalderon1964
    @michaelcalderon1964 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks for this 😊

  • @bigdreamwithliz
    @bigdreamwithliz Před rokem

    I needed this right now, thanks! 🤩🙌

  • @HolisticFlo791
    @HolisticFlo791 Před rokem +2

    This is really for me..... As a holistic health and Wellness Coach, I'm trying to build my CZcams channel and I believe I will one day get to where you are.... Thanks so much for sharing this😊

  • @learningjourney602
    @learningjourney602 Před rokem

    Thankyou for this video ❤

  • @OleaAurora-yf1jf
    @OleaAurora-yf1jf Před rokem

    You made my day by posting this 💖

  • @happilyeverafter5673
    @happilyeverafter5673 Před rokem

    Thanks .I needed this

  • @Nanai13
    @Nanai13 Před rokem

    Thank you so much i really need this

  • @ArielleDalia
    @ArielleDalia Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this! I really needed it today

  • @sonal7928
    @sonal7928 Před rokem

    Thank you so much..much needed video

  • @toaka5568
    @toaka5568 Před rokem +2

    i like that you said if you have a positive vision but people cant understand it you stay awway from them some people just cant unserstand and we should focus on ourselves and understand that we cant control everything i hope youre wella and happy

  • @anniebannannie2326
    @anniebannannie2326 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much! I really needed this❣️💖💕

  • @johngomes4278
    @johngomes4278 Před rokem +1

    This is so inspirational! Thank you 🎉

  • @winniis
    @winniis Před 6 měsíci

    thank you for your kind sharing and reminders!

  • @kusum6396
    @kusum6396 Před rokem +1

    Love your videos and the knowledge you provide ❤❤

  • @deborahmeyers551
    @deborahmeyers551 Před rokem +3

    Needed this inspiration thank you Aileen 😊

  • @sharonangelica8409
    @sharonangelica8409 Před rokem

    Thank you lavendaire!

  • @samiksha4524
    @samiksha4524 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for making this video. ❤

  • @405Lenny
    @405Lenny Před rokem

    Really great advice! 🙏

  • @shallyway
    @shallyway Před měsícem

    Thank you for this video 🫶🏾

  • @Gabbiereal
    @Gabbiereal Před rokem

    Thanks for sharing!Nice video!

  • @lisarkippen2182
    @lisarkippen2182 Před rokem

    Thank you! So true. You are very inspirational! Love your motivation and authenticity! 💜

  • @kdsagar4570
    @kdsagar4570 Před 10 měsíci

    I love your work so much 🥰

  • @kyraangkasa5046
    @kyraangkasa5046 Před rokem

    Thank you Aileen 💝

  • @chrisjarvie716
    @chrisjarvie716 Před rokem

    Thank you❤and congratulations 🎉

  • @michlegaspi730
    @michlegaspi730 Před rokem +1

    thank you for this video

  • @josedosanjos2200
    @josedosanjos2200 Před rokem

    So nice post ! Thanks for sharing this .

  • @DodongoManoof
    @DodongoManoof Před rokem

    Ty labendaire I love your videos and meditations videos ❤❤🥰

  • @fatimawaheed2452
    @fatimawaheed2452 Před rokem

    Exactly what I needed to hear today thank you

  • @sophea2023
    @sophea2023 Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing I really love ❤

  • @kimt6411
    @kimt6411 Před rokem

    Thank YOu! This is what I really need. Loving your channel

  • @user-mh5dd2nw1s
    @user-mh5dd2nw1s Před rokem

    I really love all your videos .

  • @shaggy9946
    @shaggy9946 Před rokem

    Really helpful...perfect timing... 💓

  • @nproject2913
    @nproject2913 Před rokem

    Thank u,,i need this 🙏

  • @ManifestationMastery101

    Thank you for this video. You really made my day. Thank you.❤❤❤

  • @sarahsaid5890
    @sarahsaid5890 Před rokem

    At time l was looking for a video about this topic, thank you for your hard work ❤❤❤❤

  • @therainjournal
    @therainjournal Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you always Aileen 🤍🫶🏻💫

  • @meiChantrakul
    @meiChantrakul Před rokem

    Very inspiring 💝 thank you

  • @hollymarie1697
    @hollymarie1697 Před rokem

    This feels like exactly what I needed to hear right now. ❤

  • @paolaxgisela23
    @paolaxgisela23 Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing your story! I started following you during the pandemic and you’ve helped me sm on my healing journey. ❤

  • @gabrielnicholls2000
    @gabrielnicholls2000 Před rokem +1

    Love this.! I'm at the gym listing to this now.

  • @Threeeyedkitten
    @Threeeyedkitten Před 9 měsíci

    You are truly helping me! Thank you so much for continuing this channel. I recently found you and I’m so grateful.

  • @sidneyking11
    @sidneyking11 Před rokem

    Keep up the great work. You are doing an awesome job

  • @giftsofspring
    @giftsofspring Před rokem

    thank you so much for this video, I needed it ❤ you do a great job, a very important one. Thank you for being there and helping. Take care! ❤

  • @parisamaboudi7596
    @parisamaboudi7596 Před 11 měsíci

    Loved that bubble idea

  • @chellebelle6458
    @chellebelle6458 Před rokem

    Thankyou for your videos. You're so inspiring and I'm so grateful to have found your channel. Sending you so much love and light 😊🙌❤️

  • @bouchrahoumeur6742
    @bouchrahoumeur6742 Před rokem

    You such an inspiration Aileen, thanks for this boost of self confidence video, have a great day

  • @sabyslay
    @sabyslay Před rokem

    This year I got into meditation and self growth and your videos are being a big part of it, so thank you.💞

  • @anujaramuth2416
    @anujaramuth2416 Před rokem

    Thank you for this encouragement and inspired words.
    Just on time.
    Stay blessed ❤

  • @mayurigole6256
    @mayurigole6256 Před 8 měsíci

    Im greatful i found you ❤ love you lavendair thanks for existing

  • @mrs.sanchezbudgetz3787
    @mrs.sanchezbudgetz3787 Před rokem +6

    I honestly never thought about not telling anyone about my dreams or what I’m working on. I always thought I needed a second opinion or approval from someone but I’m just realizing I’m too sensitive with that, I just need to do it. I also need to work on patience.
    Congrats on 2M subs 🎉 love your videos so much, I am so grateful for your guidance in me being a better me in ever aspect of life and I hope you get everything you want in life because you deserve it! ❤

  • @maemae3905
    @maemae3905 Před rokem

    Very inspiring! And I absolutely love your makeup today! You look gorgeous!

  • @carmenchavez9803
    @carmenchavez9803 Před rokem

    I’m so glad you followed your intuition ❤your channel has helped me so much especially during my awakening thank you 🙏 keep going

  • @CrunchyDolle
    @CrunchyDolle Před rokem

    Beautiful video! Your videos help me when I'm at my lowest point and I thank you

  • @quynhanhv
    @quynhanhv Před rokem

    Love you so much. I've felt positive whenever I watch your videos

  • @spacequeenn
    @spacequeenn Před rokem +2

    you are such a beautiful soul! i literally typed "how to believe in yourself" on YT and your video was uploaded hours ago, what a great timing! i appreciate all your words, they resonated with me so well, it seems quite hard for me to believe in myself at this moment, but i just have to trust myself and have patience with me. thanks for your wisdom

  • @andrewthepancake
    @andrewthepancake Před rokem

    I love when I get to queue your videos for my morning routine. Also, yellow looks so great on you!!

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 Před rokem

    Thank you for this video. We appreciate your transparency in this. May God bless you.

  • @thanhbinhnguyen7484
    @thanhbinhnguyen7484 Před 10 měsíci

    this video truly great!! I do love her voice

  • @jccheang
    @jccheang Před rokem +1

    Thank you Aileen. I feel supported. Practical video as usual.

  • @Artistnouf_
    @Artistnouf_ Před rokem

    I love you!!🧡🧡

  • @cleliascorner-calmpiano

    Great video, very inspiring and helpful! 💪✨ Thanks a lot for sharing!

  • @halloweencreations6552

    Wow, so powerful. This is help me a lot. Thank you.

  • @rayoneforall
    @rayoneforall Před rokem +2

    Congratulations on the 2M subscribers! Thank you for being a part of my life

  • @user-hm2jt3yg9w
    @user-hm2jt3yg9w Před 9 měsíci +1

    Oh it's my first time to see u and I really do love.. I enjoyed listening to u.. so many thanks 😊

  • @eugenefontenot7898
    @eugenefontenot7898 Před rokem

    Congrats on reaching 2 Million Subscribers 👏

  • @Happy_girl3939
    @Happy_girl3939 Před 9 měsíci

    I listen this many times. And rally love to listen to you 🎉 thank you for make a great video ❤

  • @cristinapavone7233
    @cristinapavone7233 Před rokem

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @Shadowkitty360
    @Shadowkitty360 Před rokem

    I really needed this today 💜 Thank you!

  • @sarahsaleem5885
    @sarahsaleem5885 Před rokem

    Lavendaire is my inspiration and my hand guide to life ❤

  • @PrincessMira64
    @PrincessMira64 Před rokem

    Yes for believing in yourself ❤ I believe in myself the most

  • @mariaplans1151
    @mariaplans1151 Před rokem

    Your videos is inspiring, thank u))

  • @dominika.dziadosz
    @dominika.dziadosz Před rokem +1

    Really needed this video, I fell my dream life is going to happen for sure, I know it will happen for sure. The only problem is that it's happening too slow, I don't have patience, even if I see slow progress.

  • @theliateko
    @theliateko Před rokem

    wonderful video, as always

  • @remuspierre7573
    @remuspierre7573 Před rokem +1

    Congratulations Lavendaire

  • @Trikyoi
    @Trikyoi Před rokem

    i'm really so love your energy much. Thanks for making this video. hope watching see your next step in your channel

  • @hanadiavlogs3088
    @hanadiavlogs3088 Před rokem

    Hi thank you so much for this wonderful video, I am a fan of your channel. It helps a lot to my inner self understand things more.

  • @jessicabolduc8716
    @jessicabolduc8716 Před 10 měsíci +4

    This is exactly what I needed to hear this morning😂 I've been down and out, and this is a great reminder that things will be ok and just keep trying

  • @chitramondal1152
    @chitramondal1152 Před rokem

    Girl you are such a therapy !!