Becoming the Person You Want to Be | The Lavendaire Lifestyle
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- čas přidán 28. 10. 2023
- Most of our paths aren't are straight or easy as they seem on the outside. Our stories are never finished and are still being written in every day of our lives. In this episode, Aileen talks about her own journey to release her album 'Honestly,' and how that journey led to the birth of Lavendaire.
Aileen is a content creator, entrepreneur and artist of life, creating content, resources & lifestyle products that empower you to help you become your best self, make positive changes, and create beautiful, meaningful life
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TIMESTAMPS
0:53 The beginnings of Aileen’s story
1:33 The year leading up to Aileen’s first album: Honestly
3:48 Writing the song ‘Honestly’
4:25 How Aileen’s album came about
5:09 The story behind ‘Honestly’
5:29 ‘Honestly’ by Aileen Xu
10:04 Aileen reveals her thoughts and feeling on this song
10:31 When and how Lavendaire started
11:50 About her song ’The War’
12:41 ‘The War’ by Aileen Xu
17:30 Aileen’s thoughts and feeling on ’The War’
18:86 You’ve got to start somewhere
19:42 Commitment and dedication on your baby steps
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• Instagram: / lavendaire
• Honestly EP: open.spotify.com/album/7thPIa...
Complete show notes for this episode at lavendaire.com/lifestyle-242
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☁︎ About The Lavendaire Lifestyle
Life is an art. Make it your masterpiece. The Lavendaire Lifestyle is a podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design. Hosted by CZcamsr and entrepreneur Aileen Xu, this podcast shares insight & inspiration on how to create your dream life.
New episodes released every Sunday.
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The moment “honestly” start .. I teared up with you ..
Aileen, I am so psyched you shared your music today. Your voice is so beautiful. You are a shining light here on CZcams. I've been following you for a few years. You keep me inspired. Thank you for your Love of Life and for sharing your Light with the World. 💕 You are so Soulful.
'Honestly' a heart touching one ✨❤
this song i feel peace and when i see this video i recognize i need to trust yourself than ever.
This is amazing! Though I’ve been following your channel for years I’d never really listened to your music before. I want to thank you so much for sharing this, cause it gave me a lot .
I got so much value out of listening to your music and noticing how you express yourself through your lyrics. The affinity between what you talk about in your videos and your music is crazy, and to me, it shows your courage and determination to be yourself authentically.
It takes a lot to be able to be vulnerable in such a way and to expose yourself so as to be in alliance with who you truly are, at the same time offering others a template for how to do that.
To me, being a musician means showing up for yourself consistently and, dat the same time, embracing your creative self and allowing her to be who she really is. When I make music, I get to be playful, creative, experimental, I get to let my inner child be who she wants to be. That to me is invaluable and it counteracts for all of the difficulties and effort. The biggest difficulty for me at the moment is how hard it is to make a living out of music. Having to work different jobs to make an income can be distracting and draining and art requires a lot of energy!
Your music is precious and wherever you are musically right now, seeing this side of you and witnessing you being your authentic through a different medium was so inspiring! This is what art is all about!
you're the sweetest 💖 thank you so much lovely!
Thank you Aliene you have really brightened my day. Thank you...❤
Today I randomly click this clip and I surprisingly teared up with you. It really resonates with me. Your songs are meaningful and beautiful and I unexpectedly love them! I also play the piano! you are very brave to follow the person you want to be. I'm very proud of you and feel very touched and I understand now why you are one of influencer I early followed since I start using youtube until now. And your "artist of life" are my most favorite product I bought from online influencer. I really love it! Thank you so much for all your love and sharing. I truly appreciate them all.
thank you so much for sharing love 💜 i'm very proud of you too lovely
This is sooooo beautiful your Honestly song and beautiful voice with all the feel of You already ❤️
Honestly is so calm to hear. I love that 💞
So beautiful song Thank you 💖💖💖
I just added you to my Spotify. I'll be listening to The War often. It'll help me get through my winter projects. Sending you my appreciation and Love for your Lavendaire Lifestyle. You are a natural healer.
This is what I need to hear🍁 .... thank you...❤❤
Thank you so much for listening love 💜
I really love song " the war" 🎉
I often listen to it while i need the burst of inspiration to fight against all fear ❤❤
💜💜💜 thank you so much love!
@@lavendairelifestyle 🥰🥰
UPDATE: I am focusing on LOVE 💟💜
Just heard # 100 you and Nomi talking on your podcast, and felt uplifted.
As you remarked at the end, I did see the humor in my decade-long struggle:
Last night I was contemplating filing a claim to the highest "court" in Heaven 😅 that my Betrayer didn't deserve to be a human being 😡 because of her terrible behavior.. But was also worrying, "So what if G-d says then I should be a bug or something?!" 😱 Lol
Anyway I knew my man was worried about me. Yesterday I told him I didn't think I could get married because of my hatred.. because I couldn't be a complete person, a good person..
In the middle of hearing # 100, I paused and called my man. Thanked him for yesterday, and said Goodnight (before 3PM😂), wanting to relieve him. He chuckled 😍
Clearly, I just have to choose the right people for me, because I can't change the fact that there are unintelligent beings, dysfunctional humans and what not 😔
I could focus on my love, what's for me.
Thank you for sharing your music with the world ❤ you've inspired me to do the same one day.
love reading this 🩷
Good
you are so beautiful xoxo
Aileen 💟 12/27/2023, I heard the earlier podcast # 119 where you talked about how you made the song "Honestly" 💜
I cried!!
Understood why you didn't confront the people, why you were able to move on. You should be really proud of growing from your experience by finding your own answers!
I'm not (can't be) you or Louise Hay, or anyone other than myself...
I'm still struggling with what felt like a betrayal (or betrayals) 2013-2015, 2016, ..2021, 2023 (okay enough😅 especially 'cause they're ALL by the SAME PERSON lol) 😂
~ this is too long, sorry! ok to ignore ~
I've been doing much better since the 8 year mark, end of 2021.. since my friend prayed for me by the 🕎.
Then, after my last confrontation with her (fall 2023), my (man's) youngest sister helped me. And then a young friend in her 20s. Their words of support are priceless 😭
Guess because of my extrovert personality, I need to share my negativity and struggles in order to overcome things.
Louise says you know when you've forgiven when you've let go of charge on the matter..
I'm vengeful by nature, so this is a big challenge.
Trying to wrap up on my journey, but I don't even want world peace if it'd benefit her, and rather be in danger together with her TBH. Which means I want her misfortune more than anyone's good fortune? This is where I'm stuck now 😂
I know though, the only answer that'd work for me is leaving it up to G-d.
(My 'lower self' must catch up to this understanding, almost equivalent to what spiritual people say about the 'universe' doing everything*for* us.)