you create your reality ✨ (this can change your life)
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- Reality is subjective. Understanding this could change your life. Once you recognize your own filter, you can begin to reshape it. This video is brought to you by Garnier - get super sleek hair with America’s #1 anti-frizz brand. Learn more at www.GarnierUSA.com. Virtual product placement by Rembrand www.rembrand.com
I hope this video helped you see the power of perspective and your ability to reshape your beliefs. What was your favorite insight from this video?
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Long-lasting change occurs through small steps, repeated regularly, over time. Look no further than your next habit and remember to congratulate yourself every time. You are unique in all the world. Never forget that.
this was helpful to read as I was considering small steps I have been taking, while I am currently overwhelmed
Lovs this mindset
Thanks girl 💖
Yes and yes🙌🏻
Could not agree more. I recently read a study on happiness that showed that 40% of whether we are happy or not is only our mindset and attitude - something we can control. So not only, can you start feeling like you are already living the life of your dreams (as opposed to always placing it somewhere in undefined future) but also you can increase your sense of happiness!
I was thinking about this recently. I was seeing myself as a waste of potential but my friend pointed out how creative I am in multiple ways. That single sentence helped me do a 180 perspective shift.
love an empowering perspective shift!
Oh I love that! Really, one sentence could change everything.
"How am I shaping reality?" Brilliant question we should ask ourselves on a daily basis!
So true
"Absolutely love this concept! It's so empowering to realize that we have the ability to shape our own reality through our thoughts, beliefs, and actions. Let's embrace the power within us and create a life filled with positivity, abundance, and fulfillment. Thank you for sharing this insightful video!"
thanks love!!
Yes! Love it! It really is SO EMPOWERING!! Cheers to manifesting our dream life😊
I realized my mindset really affects my gratitude and when I’m feeling down, everything in the world seems so terrible. I had to do something new to reset my perspective. Thank you for this motivating video ❤
Amen! There's no two versions of the same story, even if you're living the same moment as someone else. I've learned this especially throughout my romantic relationship!
yes! so fascinating
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Hi aileen you are my inspiration. I am 19 and all these 19 years I only face struggles. I lost hope in god. Yeah I have mental illness, everyone in my class say me ugly and it's hurts me a lot now I understood that it has nothing to do with me it is just their perspective and I feel pity for them. I am going to feel like I am living my dream life so I can attract it.thank you aileen
"what internal reality am I trying to create by getting this certain external reality?" this question hit me hard 😅😅 Thanks girl😊❤
We HAVE the power to change our reality. Your video was definitly my reminder for today. After feeling unmotived and depressed for a few days, I feel a lot better ❤
YES🙌🏻
The best part for me is not caring what other people say or do so I am definitely going to work on that. Thank You Love!🥰♥️
I agree with all of this. I couldn’t have said it better myself. We do all see life through the lens of our past experiences, values and beliefs. The hardest part for me is trying to change unhelpful patterns that have been in place for most of my life. I just have to accept that it’s ok to take baby steps and that sometimes I’ll fall back to old habits as long as I’m always learning and growing.
Thanks for another great video. Loved the sunglasses, made me smile:)
So important for me to reframe the past. Thanks for putting things we know into such a kind package.
I completely agree with you Aileen look and feel positive and you can live a better life live negatively and you can hit rock bottom just stay focused and positive on the things you can do
This video was the most helpful for me so far, not that the other videos weren't helpful too, this one just struck a deep chord with me. Especially the part about how you can make your own reality!
This is so so helpful
The video came at the right time, I think it's time to change the filter through which I look at life, thank you very much ❤
Well Aileen, when you mentioned wanting to achieve success to impress others and therefore attract love, I must say it brought tears to my eyes... It's definitely so true... so important to detach self worth from external achievements and productivity. An affirmation to repeat: "I will just focus on enjoyment and peace and I will search within me for more positive motivation, rather than negative motivation attached to a feeling of lack..."
Negative incentives can be quite powerful sometimes especially when that's how we were programmed since our childhood. But they hurt us... Thanks for the beautiful video ❤❤❤
I have in the last two years unpacked so much baggage that I have carried with me for far too long. And what a relief! And yet all that unpacked baggage I carried kept me from my good in the ‘now’. Not feeling present and understanding my personal ‘why’ for so long (again I was tooo caught up in my past) has also begun to hold me back from enjoying the journey and not fixate on the future with fear. So I am currently focusing on goals for my dream life but have discovered as you pointed out that without finding that ‘why’ the what will never meet my hopes and dreams. This was a fantastic vlog piece and so spot on for me to hear right now. Thank you!
Aileen! Thank you as always for your wisdom and perspective. The lesson I'll take away most will be trust and protect my inner light and fire first and foremost, and to allow peoples perspectives to be their own, be it either positive or negative. "There are no wrongs, only one thousand rights" is a mantra I've not respected enough lately; perhaps particularly, my own truth.
I hope you're doing well! Congratulations on the new house! it seems a dream. 🙏 And I'm so glad you've been able to get the time with your boyfriends father, getting the experience of a father.
I understand the feeling.
So much love and light your way, Aileen.
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wow, i like that quote! thank you so much for your kind words 💜
KEEP SHINING! I really love your videos... so much wisdom in here...
You're amazing ❤ thank you for your videos ❤
Really love the way she talks, she spoke deeply from her heart.❤
All of this is a great remembering. This is a reminder that my reality is different than others, especially in relationship. To come from compassion and understanding because they have their reason why they did what they did. And you can shift time lines always by shifting your perspective. The moment you see life through gratitude and abundance it doesn't matter if your living your "dream life" yet or not because your already in the frequency of love, appreciation, and joy. Love this video, thank you for your time and energy to create it! Sending you love and light!
The most helpful part for me was "not letting what other people say get to me"...thank you for this masterpiece❤
omg I never knew you made actual videos I always watch your affirmations and wow you’re so beautiful!! thank you for this video 🥹🥹💗
Thank you for sharing this content!
Amazing!
I especially appreciate how reality-based you are and your meditations and presentations.
i much needed this right now❤ thank you so much
Amazing. My issue has been judging people when I feel wronged by them. Overall, I will look at things more positively. I am living in abundance. Thanks!
Your words were beautiful 😊
This was right on time ❤
thanks cuz you always upload the video that I need right now, Just now I failed my exams and I don't know how to get myself together but its helps me to how to think clearly, and Once again thanks its a lot to me
The way you phrased this was very healing to me, and actually did change my life
Same💛
I LOVE LOVE your CHANNEL and THIS VIDEO OMG THANK YOU
Allien you are really a life saver i am not just saying this as a word because its coming up from my heart... everything i have faced in my life i thought i was the only person going through this but now only i realise that i am not alone your video is like a light which enlight my path help me to guide my life .. i hope we would meet someday ... love you sister do more videos like this❤❤
okay just watched 58 seconds of your video. I know this is gonna be amazing as always. But why do the shampoo bottles look like Marvel CGI
lmao they’re AI inserted so yes they are kind of CGI
Thank you so much you are the person always change my life, help me positive and think right every day🥰
What a great video! Learned a lot through you these past few years, and I must say you are the best! Blessings to you!
wanted to hop here to thank you for putting on captions! i can't hear very well while i watch and eat LOL so this was really helpful video-format style (but also the meaning of this video too!)
"It's the story that you tell yourself." I totally agree with you in that it's all about your interpretation on things. In other words, you are writing the script (= interpretation) for the story of your life. Thank you very much for your deep insight. really helpful. Big thanks from Tokyo/Japan.
Thank you for your content! These videos really changed my mindset ✨💗
You always drop gems! If I want to live an abundant life I need to act and think accordingly with an abundant mindset and like you said once I feel it and truly believe it my life will develop accordingly. Sheesh soooo sooo good 👏🏽
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Your words were beautiful, your energy even more so♥️
thank you 💜
This is indeed life changing 💜
Love your take on this
I really hope one day you have your own book. i want to read it , can’t imagine how successful your book will be ❤ you are changing people’s mind and opinions. I really love you lavendair ❤
i hope so too!
This is so life changing... thank you so much for this video.
Just noticed that it's just been 6 years since being your follower and that it has changed my life so so much and make it much better. I would just like to thank you for all the hard work and love you put in your content and hope I can see your videos for many more years 💕💕💕💕
Wow! Thank you 🙏🏼✨
Thank you so much, I really needed this 🥰
Thank you so much. I’m going through a breakup and also have a really bad image of myself, so you gave a new perspective 😢
This is such an amazing video, everything you said is so true!! I am motivated to keep myself in control of my own brain and mind!
Beautiful video 🎶🎶🎶 Never underestimate the power within you. You are a creative force, capable of manifesting everything you want in your life. May love, health and success be with you every step of your way. Namaste! 🌞💚💫💖
This was right on time 💜
Your videos are inspiring and helpful, Aileen!❤😍
I love this concept, we can create our reality because we can control our mind and subconscious. We can change the story we remember into another aspect with sending a positive flow for us because when we send out the positive, we also get the positive back too. ❤ thanks!
Do u believe in manifestation?
Your amazing, I listen to your meditation videos every day, I can't thank you though for how that has changed my life, you are what every human being should be, thanks. Xx
Thank you for this. Took notes. Do want to improve and become a Better version of myself. Thanks again.
Your videos are like blessing.
This is exciting to learn! I've struggled since I was 18 trying to find a career that really fits me and my desires but also fits with my disabilities. Knowing that I have the power to shape my life as needed feels...incredible!! I also will use this to judge people less. I've harbored such grudges against people not realizing that they have a completely different interpretation of life. This concept you have explained feels freeing.
so happy and grateful that it resonated with you 💜💜
this was so good, thank you
i just realized the beauty of in betweens, love you our queen of manifestation ❤
Thank you ♥️
Thank you for this video.
thank you for this video!!
I like this concept🔥 But I must watch this video several times to be able to absorb new information and change my mind filter💛
You really do changed the way i think and live
This video is everything. My dad remembers and believes things differently from what they actually are, all the time. He tells people he "taught" me how to ski, bike ride, roller skate, ice skate etc. in reality he didn't teach me anything. Not even how to drive a car. His method of teaching was having us "just do it" with no instruction & then yell at us for doing it wrong. -_- So for example, I gave up skiing because i hated it, and he left me on a very dangerous mountain slope alone with no instruction on how to even ski. He wouldn't even sign me up for lessons. I lost both skis and poles. But that same day, I remember admiring the snowboarders & wanting to learn to snowboard instead. Which made me pick up snowboarding as an adult and got my own lessons.
As for the rest? My cousin had to save me from my dad's 2 wheel bike riding "lesson" because my dad pushed me down a mountain hill and I almost ended up shooting into a river because an end was coming and I had no understanding of how to stop. -_- I didn't even know how to swim at the time. Another thing my dad didn't teach me. I got lessons as an adult. My cousin was the one who ended up teaching me how to bike ride. Roller skate, my sisters taught me. Ice skate my sister's best friend taught me. Driving my friends taught me. Parallel parking my oldest sister taught me. The list goes on.
It's just funny how he blabs to everyone that he did all this great stuff, when in reality he didn't. I've taught myself more than he ever did or had people around me do so. Even recently, I took him to the place I snowboard at, and once again he left me! Bombed everyone in the process, not paying attention to the right of way. I'm glad he had a fun time, but if I'm expecting a bonding experience with someone (I'm taking them, they're taking me, or we're going together) I expect to not be left alone the entirety of my time.
sorry you had to deal with that. but yep - ppl really be living in their own worlds that they construct 🤷♀️
I really love this video 💖💖💖
Thank you so much ❤️
This is such a beautiful video, thank you for making it and making my day 😍 your subject brought me out of a judgement based perspective and into a unconditional compassion for all perspectives 🩵
💜 i'm so glad!
Living in a new place, a new scenery, a new lifestyle, its a new fresh start for your life story. cool.
This whole video is golden. ❤❤❤
Lovee thiss concept👍🏻,really
I would like to see more videos related to this concept🤗
Excellent content!
that's something like cognitive behavioral psychology but in more fun and easy way to understand it
Thank you :)
I love this! 💖
Angel. Thank you.
Thank you
Needed this today!
You are amazing, Aileen
Great Video!
You did help me so much. I loved this video and all others that i watched on your chanel❤. Thank you 😊
Thank you ❤
Love you so much. Every time lfeel counfused or have bad feeling. Ijust watching you and be active ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much
i feel better after watching your video, thank so much!!!😍😍😍
aww! that's amazing ♡
❤😂 Thank you for this video
Your amazing ❤
Wonderful,thanks for this
I really love your voice ✨✨
Such a masterpiece message ❤
a powerful teaching
Your contribution is very effective, I loved the way you approach it and how you advance on the subject, we are definitely the owners of our reality and we are also responsible for what we do with it, while on the other hand, we cannot control the reality of others and how these, through their reality, judge us, treat us, etc. In my personal case I will try to be more tolerant. Hugs
speechless 😭😭❤❤❤❤
Powerful! ❤
You are truly inspiring
You are amazing❤