The TRUTH About Blair Underwood's Marriage to His 'Friend' of 40+ Years 🥴

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  • čas přidán 28. 06. 2023
  • When it was announced back in 2021 that Blair Underwood and his then-wife Desiree DaCosta were going their separate ways after three children and 27 years of marriage, fans were shocked. But before anyone had enough time to fantasize about being the next person to ride Blair’s bacon bazooka, he stepped out with his friend of 41 years, Josie Hart. Here's what we know about their marriage.
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  • @felichiapowe851
    @felichiapowe851 Před rokem +1100

    He got engaged 5 months after divorcing? Classic case of the woman being there in the marriage the whole time👀🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @robbrown3941
      @robbrown3941 Před rokem +21

      Say that agaibt

    • @foreverrcocochenel
      @foreverrcocochenel Před rokem +28

      I can’t say that I disagree, but as far as we know they remained respectful and responsible and that counts for everything. In fact, I think it speaks to the succession possible. Some people can be real tacky and that’s not how they carried it. I can appreciate that.

    • @carsondouglas8600
      @carsondouglas8600 Před rokem +17

      That buppy from the bank 😆

    • @KunitaMirage-pk3qj
      @KunitaMirage-pk3qj Před rokem +22

      @ felica like princess Di said three in that marriage

    • @realestatebykemi
      @realestatebykemi Před rokem +28

      Finally, some words of wisdom. I don’t believe either of them were “waiting”. This was another case of Amy & TJ, messing behind their spouses & probably got busted, hence the 2 divorces back to back.

  • @butterflyygyrlsworld5106
    @butterflyygyrlsworld5106 Před rokem +814

    This is EXACTLY WHY I have always refused to even date guys with close/best female friends. 😂😂😂😂

    • @dianahasan5020
      @dianahasan5020 Před rokem +45

      Exactly

    • @JayMich29
      @JayMich29 Před rokem +102

      Those "best friends" are a bit more connected than they say, heck, even more than they know or will admit.

    • @capricorngoddess3641
      @capricorngoddess3641 Před rokem +49

      THANK YOU ‼️ There Was Underlying LUST ‼️😂😂😂

    • @alishak4061
      @alishak4061 Před rokem +83

      Say that again for the people in the back! I've always been like this and called insecure. No I'm not I'm wise

    • @thecurator2626
      @thecurator2626 Před rokem +19

      Never not ever

  • @TF-gf3fs
    @TF-gf3fs Před rokem +460

    He was low-key waiting for her for 40 years.😂

    • @sierraxx9979
      @sierraxx9979 Před rokem +8

      😩😢

    • @greenytaddict
      @greenytaddict Před rokem +51

      No she was

    • @Maui_Gyrl_
      @Maui_Gyrl_ Před rokem +10

      Yep!!😭🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Maui_Gyrl_
      @Maui_Gyrl_ Před rokem +52

      The first wife is prettier to me...this woman look scary like Count Dracula!

    • @shantellrena1135
      @shantellrena1135 Před rokem +3

      EXACTLY!!!! 🥴🥴🥴😩😩😩😩😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️

  • @gentleentle601
    @gentleentle601 Před rokem +78

    I truly believe that most times, a man’s female bestie is his true love. A man doesn’t just keep women around platonically, not for many years.

    • @patriciamitchell9365
      @patriciamitchell9365 Před 4 měsíci +1

      It's possible. I have had male friends that I grew up with (50 years), but I have NEVER felt that way about them - wouldn't touch them with a ten foot pole - know too much about them.

    • @gentleentle601
      @gentleentle601 Před 4 měsíci +8

      @@patriciamitchell9365But how do they feel about you?

    • @hajaramohammed9498
      @hajaramohammed9498 Před 4 měsíci +3

      ​@@gentleentle601good question

  • @CutiepieCaramel
    @CutiepieCaramel Před rokem +206

    I know 2 women who don't know each other. They were both married and got divorced. Both of their husbands were suspected and accused of cheating with their lifelong 'friends' that were women. Shortly after their divorces, their ex-husbands got married to those same supposed 'friends'. I don't deal with mn who are VERY close with their wmn 'friends'. Why? None of my male friends WANT to be my friend! I put them in the friend zone, but they'd jump at the chance to be with me. I don't want them, for specific reasons. A guy who rushes into a new relationship after a long failed one is the reddest of flags, but ooookaaayyy. I love you, RRG ❤!

    • @KOLAkola
      @KOLAkola Před rokem +20

      💯

    • @enmodelife
      @enmodelife Před rokem +28

      I am the same way about men and their female "friends".

    • @madeyouthink3063
      @madeyouthink3063 Před rokem +14

      This 🙌🏼

    • @emerald_skai205
      @emerald_skai205 Před rokem +36

      So on point, every word!! I've NEVER met a guy who didn't want to be more than friends or sleep with me, unless he was a gay man. Straight men don't even make good friends honestly, they lack empathy and don't truly listen to you, outside of what they want to hear.

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 Před rokem +8

      Well said, my friend, WELL SAID! 👏👏👏

  • @DrLadyBugM
    @DrLadyBugM Před rokem +325

    Five months? After 27 years? Sir you could at least pretend for 2 years. However we as women know when a men are not really in love with us. So maybe his wife knew she didn't have his heart.
    Okay, let me find out that the "best way to over one is to get under a new one" has merit.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +31

      LMAO

    • @stellabellafontay9366
      @stellabellafontay9366 Před rokem +10

      Ouch. 😮‍💨

    • @realreviews4017
      @realreviews4017 Před rokem +25

      He could have done it so quickly as none of us are getting any younger, I am not much younger than them, and I understand that time is of the essence to be honest, plus he knew everything about her. And yes, they may have "hooked up" way before all of this, but it all sounds friendly so happy for all parties involved.

    • @ambberhill1090
      @ambberhill1090 Před rokem +48

      at least mourn the loss of the 27 year old marriage for a year, your bestie is not running away if she had been there for 41 years, what is an additional one year? 5 months is disrespectful and making the whole relationship so quickly dispensable. I am not buying the 5 months sudden realisation story.. They must have been thinking of getting together for at least a year

    • @felichiapowe851
      @felichiapowe851 Před rokem +20

      @@ambberhill1090 thank you! Someone who feels the same as I do. 5 months is crazy disrespectful, and with the “friend” you’ve known most of your life.

  • @lindsaym6607
    @lindsaym6607 Před rokem +99

    This triggers me for some reason. How can you get married so fast after a 27 year marriage?

    • @mirandariley8646
      @mirandariley8646 Před 11 měsíci +9

      Right. I call bs

    • @lynne709
      @lynne709 Před 11 měsíci +21

      Usually when a couple divorces after being married for so long, the marriage had been dead for years and the couple was just delaying the inevitable because of kids, finances, health issues, aging parents, religious reasons etc. If this was the case for Blair, it’s not surprising that he chose to move on so quickly.

    • @eaglementality4380
      @eaglementality4380 Před 10 měsíci +7

      @@lynne709 thanks! You expressed this so clearly and eloquently
      I KNOW ppl who have been legally married 22 years in total…. But the last NINE years, they weren’t even sleeping in the same part of the house…. And no one was cheating- they just never took time to know each other before dating and were so different that they grew apart

    • @sleepnomore6065
      @sleepnomore6065 Před 8 měsíci +2

      That is an excellent point. At least grieve homie!

    • @citygirlingraham
      @citygirlingraham Před 8 měsíci +7

      Because he already had a love connection with his best friend of 41 years...

  • @bariatasudan
    @bariatasudan Před rokem +184

    I don’t know how to feel about this but I’m glad he is not out here embarrassing his children dating 19 year olds. They stayed married and raised their children in one household..their obligation is complete. I hope the ex finds happiness and joy.

  • @nicolesherman8974
    @nicolesherman8974 Před rokem +204

    He looked so good in Set it Off 🥰

  • @yvetkenn90
    @yvetkenn90 Před rokem +676

    I don't know any of these people, but I have lived long enough to know that life doesn't happen in a straight line. Life is shades of gray and sometimes complicated. I've always loved the fact that Blair was unproblematic and seemingly a committed married man. The fact that Blair married an-age appropriate woman, leads me to believe that he is still the up-standing guy I always figured he was. People grow apart. People change. Sometimes we are blessed to "spin the block" with a person who we met early on in life. I wish all of these people nothing but happiness.

    • @swiftkarma4436
      @swiftkarma4436 Před rokem +58

      A voice of reason 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @tez228
      @tez228 Před rokem +21

      so true

    • @urbangirlresin
      @urbangirlresin Před rokem +43

      Very well stated and I've always heard people say the person is always right under your nose or has been there the entire time, or it's the person you overlook I'm paraphrasing. Either way it's good they have the blessing from their exes and the rest of the family wishing them nothing but happiness.

    • @LivingLife-y7c
      @LivingLife-y7c Před rokem +27

      Awesome perspective. Change is a constant in life.

    • @GeminiPeach81
      @GeminiPeach81 Před rokem +8

      💯

  • @niabelizaire3596
    @niabelizaire3596 Před rokem +324

    Blair has aged like fine wine 🍷❤️💞

    • @Thewifelife40
      @Thewifelife40 Před rokem +8

      Yes he has

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 Před rokem +1

      You.Ain't.Kiddin'! He's STILL FINE AS SHIT!
      The SHIZNITS! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @RAJOHN-ke7mc
      @RAJOHN-ke7mc Před rokem +4

      His body has but his face needs some resurfacing . In 2018 I have a picture with him after a play. I was shocked at how bad his skin looked. He was incredibly kind and personable

    • @shoeaddiction123
      @shoeaddiction123 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@RAJOHN-ke7mcwhat do you look like?

    • @valarmorghulis3773
      @valarmorghulis3773 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@shoeaddiction123lmfaoo 😂

  • @fendiboots4481
    @fendiboots4481 Před rokem +213

    I was my husbands rebound during a breakup with childhood friend. Their friendship never stopped during our 23 year marriage. When he died of heart attack, she was at the funeral but did not approach me. I will never be with a man who has close female friends ever again.

  • @gracelove1842
    @gracelove1842 Před rokem +56

    A guy I was with for 8 years disappeared and 3 months later he got married and has a bay on the way. He reached out to me after 5 months of no contract and on my birthday to tell me he was married with child on the way. He told me his wife told him to reach out to me because she knows how important the friendship was to him. Lmbo friendship? So he's telling his wife I was his special friend and she believes him. I blocked him because clearly he's lying to her about who I was to him and he ready to use me again. I'm done being stupid

    • @A1sinceday1-88
      @A1sinceday1-88 Před 3 měsíci +2

      That was so honest and vulnerable....I am done being stupid. I have too have Crossed that line and won't be used ever again ! 🎉 Go 👑 queen !

  • @ladydonna773
    @ladydonna773 Před rokem +191

    When I heard that he’d gotten married I said to myself “damn didn’t he JUST get divorced!?” The only thing that makes any kind of sense as to why he got married so soon after being divorced, is that he was messing with old girl all along 😒🙄

    • @realestatebykemi
      @realestatebykemi Před rokem +13

      Exactly 💯

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 Před rokem +17

      Yeah, I'm not buying NONE of what he's trying to sell, however, he's STILL THE SHIZNITS! 😋

    • @brownbagz
      @brownbagz Před rokem +3

      Agreed!

    • @tperkins9411
      @tperkins9411 Před rokem +2

      Exactly

    • @TNT1719
      @TNT1719 Před rokem +4

      Yeah, they were messing around during their marriages especially getting engaged and married so soon after divorcing. They had a plan and put it in motion. Their significant others already knew they were messing around that's why it wasn't a surprise "omg why you do this to me" acting a fool divorce from either spouse. Oh well, as long as everybody gets along that's all that matters!!! 🤷

  • @rosalindscotton5629
    @rosalindscotton5629 Před rokem +144

    This reminds me of Charles and Diana. Instead of Charles marrying his best friend Camilla in the first place he put Diana through narcissistic torture. We don't know what goes on behind closed doors but I can just imagine Blair being a narcissist toward his ex-wife and whenever they would get into an argument, he would call his female best friend who he's now married to for support. His female best friend was always someone he would call because she knew just what to say. My father used to say when you're married you don't have friends. He said that a husband and wife are best friends to each other. Blair marrying his best friend so quickly after his divorce let's me know that there were more than just confessionals going on in that relationship. Also, people need to realize that cheating is more than just sex. Whenever you mentally disengage from your spouse and you give your mind/thoughts to another, that's cheating too.

    • @chacha2321
      @chacha2321 Před rokem +5

      right, would his new wife allow him to have female friends? She started out one herself. I wouldn't trust rebound relationships either, there is no reflecting just jumping around. The fact that his wife divorces him makes me wonder why? Either way, knowing someone for a long time doesn't mean that your relationship will work out. I feel like it's more to the story than what is being told. People reconnect with exes all the time but that didn't mean that they had to be friends. people should be more honest about what they want and stop dragging others into it. I think that it is good that his wife wanted to focus on raising the kids, but you always see women giving up their goals meanwhile the men chase their dreams and end up with another woman that they could have always wanted. couples should have friends that they both select and get along with but boundaries are everything. Overall, men should be friends with men and vice versa. They can be cordial with the other gender ( hello and goodbye.) It's a lot of sneaky behavior and I can see why people don't trust it. People throw the word insecure around but boundaries and being aware is everything. I refuse to babysit a man, but I won't let you play in my face either. I agree, with you on the couple needing to be that opposite sex that are besties. it seems more appropriate other women shouldn't be that close and they shouldn't want too. keeping things causal makes more sense and it's respectful. The couples that start off sneaky end up with the same results. The ones that stick are just settling, but there is drama behind the scenes.

    • @bonb213
      @bonb213 Před rokem +7

      Charles and Camilla were best friends with benefits.

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 Před rokem +1

      @@chacha2321 I would believe the new wife would be secure enough to allow Blair to have female friends.

    • @dsmith9709
      @dsmith9709 Před rokem +8

      Stop fantasizing about what happened in other people's relationship

    • @Nancybee1000
      @Nancybee1000 Před rokem +9

      Charles was obligated to marry someone virginal to be mother of future monarchs and eventually the Queen. I've always thought Diana's handling was a great injustice to her as she wasn't briefed on the purpose of Charles marrying her and how he was going to eventually resume carrying on with Camilla after they had had enough sons.

  • @ShanecaRene
    @ShanecaRene Před rokem +122

    Hope everyone reading this has a blessed day 💛

  • @so.many.obstacles
    @so.many.obstacles Před rokem +261

    I don’t see the problem. There weren’t rumors of cheating and everyone seems mature and at peace. I wouldn’t want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with me.

    • @Tania-fx4uz
      @Tania-fx4uz Před rokem +9

      IMO it's like food that you might have left in the fridge too long but it still passes the sniff test so you eat it anyway.
      But keeping it classy during a break up or divorce is the best way to go especially when there are kids involved. A Brangelina divorce does nothing for anybody.

    • @tyrellh43
      @tyrellh43 Před rokem +6

      Facts agreed

    • @lt3074
      @lt3074 Před rokem +2

      Amen!

    • @sallysharp4126
      @sallysharp4126 Před rokem +3

      Absolutely. I don’t care if it was My wedding day and I know He wants Someone else. Bye…I’m out. Wish You All nothing less than The Absolute Best. I think the loss of His Mother .I guess he could no only live without His True Love..

  • @geegeesofly2000
    @geegeesofly2000 Před rokem +73

    Ladies if a man is willing to leave you let him go. A man who loves you wouldnt leave you in the world by yourself. Your protection and well being would be his primary purpose and I think thats why the ex wife gave her blessing she realised that he no longer loved her in that way so why throw a fit just wish them the best but God dont like ugly and if they were having an affair during his marriage thinking this new one will be smooth sailing it wont.

    • @asiam1528
      @asiam1528 Před rokem +8

      Yup

    • @ariamason9324
      @ariamason9324 Před rokem

      But the wife filed for divorce

    • @coraclg
      @coraclg Před rokem +1

      @@ariamason9324 She might have filed because he wanted to keep his image -- "she left me". Possibly she didn't care she just wanted her freedom and let him go because she knew he wasn't in love with her anymore.

  • @destinyn63
    @destinyn63 Před rokem +119

    Blair looks good . He hasn’t aged badly at all.

    • @courtneypalmer53
      @courtneypalmer53 Před rokem +15

      He has always been so handsome and distinguished looking. ☺️

    • @pysq8
      @pysq8 Před rokem +2

      Looks like he's getting lots of... exercise 😅

  • @tonyoliver5537
    @tonyoliver5537 Před rokem +51

    Some men and women have to be in a 'relationship' at all times after a divorce you should give yourself at least 2 years to heal before marrying again.

  • @Risse14
    @Risse14 Před rokem +57

    It comes off that he just doesn’t want to be alone especially since he was married for a long time. She’s familiar to him and he’s not starting completely over/ having to get to know her like he would if they weren’t “friends” (😏) in the first place. But that’s just my perspective 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @LilithTheAquarian369
      @LilithTheAquarian369 Před rokem

      Yeah men are lazy when it comes to that.

    • @rhode4917
      @rhode4917 Před rokem +2

      They both are grown, grown people. Who has time to be out here today with this messed up world and trying to date . They have been friends for long time. At least he got a divorce .

    • @Risse14
      @Risse14 Před rokem

      @@rhode4917 you feel better

  • @tlsthoughts
    @tlsthoughts Před rokem +28

    Married men have NO business having single best friends! It took him decades of marriage and several kids later to realize that his first wife wasn't "the one?"
    Well, one thing is true...you reap what you sow. So, I hope his new wife will be okay when her replacement (his newest best friend) gets in their marriage.
    This has red flags ALL over it! 🚩🚩🚩

  • @Wyntah888
    @Wyntah888 Před rokem +188

    Josie was whispering in his ear that his wife don’t deserve him and stroking his ego,patiently waiting for her turn 🌚

  • @Lavender_8497
    @Lavender_8497 Před rokem +193

    Y’all can believe what you want but he was clapping those cheeks over the years they just made sure they didn’t get caught.

    • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 Před rokem +41

      I wouldn't be surprised fr.

    • @Lavender_8497
      @Lavender_8497 Před rokem +38

      @@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 nobody can convince me otherwise.

    • @greenytaddict
      @greenytaddict Před rokem +44

      He moved smoothly into a new "relationship" with her. She was getting clapped while waiting on the side lines.

    • @Lavender_8497
      @Lavender_8497 Před rokem +46

      @@greenytaddict Yup! I’ll go even further and say they’ve been hunching even back in the day when they first met and they never stopped.

    • @norah4892
      @norah4892 Před rokem +17

      I also believe that too.

  • @youknowyoulikeit1000
    @youknowyoulikeit1000 Před rokem +67

    I’m not judging but at that age just go for it. I plan on getting married a few times in 50s. 😂😂😂 y’all uncles better watch out💅🏽

  • @sunlight8366
    @sunlight8366 Před rokem +161

    Im so glad y’all did this video!
    Don’t know anyone of these individuals personally, BUT I wish he and his first wife could’ve made it work after being together 27 years.
    The new wife is “age appropriate” so kudos.

    • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 Před rokem +24

      Exactly but let these men tell it men only want super young and fertile. Women hit the wall by 25/life is over. 😂

    • @ReRe_22
      @ReRe_22 Před rokem

      ​@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302Only delusional men believe that lie. Blair's new marriage, billionaire Jeff Bezos & his 53 year old fiance & Robert De Niro's 45 year old baby mama / girlfriend proves that many men desire a woman that they can relate to and are compatible with.

    • @glw5166
      @glw5166 Před rokem +9

      The age appropriate thing seems to be trending among celebs. Jeff Bezos is also engaged to a woman in her 50s and now Blair. Anna Wintour and Bill Nighy (I know that folks may not know these two). Nowadays older women are looking good so that could be why.

  • @musingsofharmony3159
    @musingsofharmony3159 Před rokem +11

    That Kevin Hart "DAMN!" was everything at 6:28, lol 😂😂😂

  • @traceypatterson1385
    @traceypatterson1385 Před rokem +31

    Men are always in with one foot & out with other.

  • @landismithCOJ
    @landismithCOJ Před rokem +69

    A marriage 40 years in the making.

  • @virtualrealitystudy7114
    @virtualrealitystudy7114 Před rokem +69

    Don't let 6 kids and your husband get in the way of finding your soulmate ladies, hang in there.

  • @hmcnatt1
    @hmcnatt1 Před rokem +6

    They pulled a King Charles and Camilla Parker Bowles...lol

  • @kathleenweinberg5991
    @kathleenweinberg5991 Před rokem +26

    Always look for red flags ladies

    • @anonymouslee8287
      @anonymouslee8287 Před rokem +2

      When the best friend's a woman, and know everything ab your life and wife!...

  • @Thegazelle1000
    @Thegazelle1000 Před rokem +16

    If "saving my love for you" was a person lol...

  • @BklynBabe
    @BklynBabe Před rokem +86

    Sometimes people marry the wrong person especially if they feel pressure to get married and have children 🤷🏾‍♀️ a lot of people decide to stay for the kids or because of religion or are scared of what society will say if they get divorced. Just like people stay in jobs they don't like...

    • @musingsofharmony3159
      @musingsofharmony3159 Před rokem +8

      This is so true. I feel like with 6 kids and grandchildren, Josie is still so connected to her ex-husband. How would they deal with seeing each other at so many family events?

    • @tiberiajames5997
      @tiberiajames5997 Před rokem +8

      If people actually waited on God and not someone just because they want to, they wouldn't marry the wrong person.

    • @Oceanusnovas-um2zf
      @Oceanusnovas-um2zf Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@tiberiajames5997 Humans always get mess when they do what they want and not consult God

  • @chaisroom6631
    @chaisroom6631 Před rokem +43

    That is such a wonderful way how they divorced without a lot of mess...congratulations

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +5

      Thanks for watching!

  • @sharnagrayson9649
    @sharnagrayson9649 Před rokem +20

    He wanted her the whole time ladies don’t get a man With a girl bestfriend

  • @ptrco5
    @ptrco5 Před rokem +35

    It looks like they both carried a torch for each other and I bet they would speak often during difficult times. I adore Blair and wish them the both the very best.
    Thank you RRG ❤

  • @seewhatisee7427
    @seewhatisee7427 Před rokem +47

    Exactly why I’m staying single because I definitely KNOW my someone is somewhere figuring life out as I am and ain’t nothing wrong with that…people change life changes situations change . 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Taniece40
    @Taniece40 Před rokem +19

    Rubbing my hands together I love this messy channel 🤌🏽😎💋🤣

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +2

      LOL we love you too!

  • @StushgyalTV
    @StushgyalTV Před rokem +23

    At least the “wife” got his good years and now best friends can die together I think everyone won here

  • @nikkib7442
    @nikkib7442 Před rokem +11

    She looks older than him

  • @allisonjoyell1702
    @allisonjoyell1702 Před rokem +32

    Sometimes your SOULMATE is worth the wait. To bad they waited so long to realize they were TRUE SOULMATES.🥰

  • @brwnsuga.hokage4009
    @brwnsuga.hokage4009 Před rokem +60

    I wouldn’t be surprised if they were sneaky around but I wouldn’t be surprised if they weren’t out of respect for their partners. I think they just missed the opportunity when they were younger and decided to give it try now that they’re older. I’m sure both of their partners were surprised but I think they had a inkling that something was there.

  • @jensendavenport1406
    @jensendavenport1406 Před rokem +59

    Keep them coming gurl

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +10

      Hope you enjoy it!

    • @musingsofharmony3159
      @musingsofharmony3159 Před rokem +3

      This channel is so entertaining! They do a great job of researching the backstories. Great job!

  • @4.carmeljwn
    @4.carmeljwn Před rokem +7

    Whyyy did you have me screaming lol in the train 🚉 at you, talking about they munched on them RRG beef brisket snacks at the wedding🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +1

      LMAO!!!

  • @apRN1993
    @apRN1993 Před rokem +285

    As I get older I’m realizing that something about aging emboldens people to do what they actually WANT to do & not just the responsible or traditional thing. His ex wife was fortified to file for divorce & he felt free to be with someone he’s had a real connection with for years & years. I don’t think anyone was lurking in the shadows waiting for anyone 😂 I think life just happened & good for them❣️

  • @Goonerette75
    @Goonerette75 Před rokem +31

    As much as I love Blair, my thoughts are "yeah, right!"

  • @regale1995
    @regale1995 Před rokem +11

    I wonder why he didn’t marry his friend in a beginning. 🤔🤔😂

  • @frontrowwithseand.9056
    @frontrowwithseand.9056 Před rokem +16

    Baby i hollered when you said Bacon Bazooka 🥓 😂😂😂😂😂😂 but i noticed something....both of them dated and married their mirror image of what they wanted.....its crazy

  • @lionelluva
    @lionelluva Před rokem +24

    When the special friend finally turned into a wife 🫤

  • @v.a.993
    @v.a.993 Před rokem +74

    Wow, so Blair didn't think his first wife was "the most beautiful...amazing...intelligent..." etc. at any point?

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +9

      He did lol

  • @missmelanin7066
    @missmelanin7066 Před rokem +40

    The song You Make Me Wanna by Usher immediately played in my head. I've known married people to feel as if they married the wrong person, especially when someone in their past better connects with them emotionally/physically. Even non married people feel they're dating the wrong person, I've felt that way a time or two in my 43 yrs. but chile that's a whole nother conversation. 🥴

  • @char_d.0908
    @char_d.0908 Před rokem +28

    Great video RRG. I like how Blair and his ex wife kept it amicable. Especially, as it was a long marriage and they have kids together. I found it very interesting, how he married the other woman after all those years of friendship. 😵‍💫😆

  • @NetSunJin
    @NetSunJin Před rokem +57

    I mean they had a very long run. Also to be fair, it may feel more comfortable to get with a friend who you know for a fact cares about you and you get along with. You know they are there for you. Of course, we’d all hope that they could have made it work. They at least made it amicable and they were mature about it. Some things end. She is free to move on if she wants and so is he. The engagement was really quick but maybe it’s better. At least because everyone gets along and they already knows the family.

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 Před rokem +2

      Girl, grow up just a few more years, THEN you'll get it. No disrespect intended. 🤷

    • @missmack2328
      @missmack2328 Před rokem +1

      Why u say that?^^^

  • @ubiquity02
    @ubiquity02 Před 11 měsíci +12

    I believe that Blair was having an affair, with this "close friend" for years. It may not have been sexual but it was definitely emotional, which is just as bad. I do not believe the split was as amicable as you say because Desiree stopped following Blair on social media the day after he announced his engagement. They may have fallen out of love or grown apart but a true "friend" does not encourage a married friend to get divorced. The fact that Blair got engaged and married so quickly is proof to me that the new wife had something to do with it. Shame on Blair. I know the kids are grown and he deserves to be happy but I honestly am looking at him sideways. I get a bad feeling about this new wife. She seems sneaky and opportunistic.

    • @destinykhan9085
      @destinykhan9085 Před 6 měsíci +1

      It was sexual. He was always away. Never around. He was always alone. Never see him in public with his family. I know his wife was devastated. She will never get over this?

  • @indigoGoddess7
    @indigoGoddess7 Před rokem +172

    I’ve always liked Blair and I’m happy for him and Josie. It’s actually refreshing that there was no drama. Their families are happy too and that’s a sweet deal.
    I personally disagree with those psychology stats. I’ve never witnessed a healthy and successful rebound relationship.
    Most people still carry the baggage from the previous relationship into the new one. Even if it’s been decades 🤣🤣🤣

    • @sarahbaartmansrevenge
      @sarahbaartmansrevenge Před rokem +1

      yeah, psychology today is the same trash that published a so-called study ‘proving’ that black women were the least attractive of all women. nothing they put out is credible!

    • @tyrellh43
      @tyrellh43 Před rokem +5

      Agreed

    • @chiquitaruff5703
      @chiquitaruff5703 Před rokem +3

      💯

    • @mzyotruthnlove8263
      @mzyotruthnlove8263 Před rokem +9

      That's funny that psychologists are saying that rebound relationships are healthy now. They used to say that one should take time to heal after a breakup. That's why you can't put your trust in these "so-called experts ". Their reresearch and data are always changing like a breeze from the wind. 🌬🌬🌬 Sometimes it changes so fast it's like a tornado 🌪 leaving destruction in the lives of those who adhere to the tenets of their ever changing scientific data.

    • @sarahbaartmansrevenge
      @sarahbaartmansrevenge Před rokem +2

      @@mzyotruthnlove8263 💯 💯

  • @onege4460
    @onege4460 Před rokem +15

    Josie's smile is frightful. U wish Blair's wife happiness in her new life

  • @Justforme7
    @Justforme7 Před rokem +9

    No female friends around my husband

  • @retrobabesaves2522
    @retrobabesaves2522 Před rokem +45

    Blair is still fine...he can get it especially if he has a bacon bazooka 😂😂😂

  • @quit2quilt525
    @quit2quilt525 Před rokem +14

    His eyes look sad. Hers don’t but his does. I hope he made the right decision to jump into another marriage so soon as it looks like he didn’t give himself enough time to grieve…

  • @Laurina5152
    @Laurina5152 Před rokem +16

    RRG is the BEST♥️ so informative!

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +2

      Thanks so much, bestie!

  • @LaPrice111
    @LaPrice111 Před rokem +12

    The whole situation is weird 😂

  • @_PAIGE94
    @_PAIGE94 Před rokem +61

    I always wondered when did he start to fall in love with his best friend after all of these years. Hopefully it wasn’t while he was married. Let me get into this video though 👀

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +16

      👀

    • @NetSunJin
      @NetSunJin Před rokem +8

      You’re like me. I want to comment before I finish the entire video lol

    • @DrLadyBugM
      @DrLadyBugM Před rokem +33

      Probably always was but married his ex wife first. Sometimes men marry who is there at the time not who they want the most.

    • @regale1995
      @regale1995 Před rokem +1

      😳😳

    • @LadyAngela678
      @LadyAngela678 Před rokem

      I don’t think he fell with either of them. Not everyone marries for love. They both seem like good women.

  • @empresskurls2226
    @empresskurls2226 Před rokem +7

    I believe they were sleeping around the entire time he’s been married . The marriage was quick as hell in my opinion

  • @goldengoodiestv2177
    @goldengoodiestv2177 Před rokem +8

    I'm sorry, but I always thought. Blair Underwood's first wife looked at least 10 years older than him. But this new one look old as hell too. Are they all the same age?

  • @lagunn327
    @lagunn327 Před rokem +16

    Congratulations! Life is way too short to waste time if you are confident you are making a good decision ❤ I am happy for them and their entire family!

  • @tarahill308
    @tarahill308 Před rokem +19

    Being Blair’s birthday the day after mine, I want to believe he’s loyal like me 😂. I’m just happy he stayed in his lane n married women around his age. I wish both the best n happiness.

  • @IntuitiveGoat
    @IntuitiveGoat Před rokem +12

    My ex left me for his friend of 31 years. 😂😂 He called me this morning for some of my honey pot!! ❤❤😂😂😂 So much for her. So done.

    • @bosslady7611
      @bosslady7611 Před rokem +9

      Please don't allow that man to double dip in that honey💯

    • @LilithTheAquarian369
      @LilithTheAquarian369 Před rokem +4

      Why I thought you was talking bout the Honey Pot from Target 🤦🏽‍♀️ 🤣

    • @BacDaFukUp4life
      @BacDaFukUp4life Před rokem +2

      ​@@LilithTheAquarian369 me too...☠️😖

    • @LilithTheAquarian369
      @LilithTheAquarian369 Před rokem

      @@BacDaFukUp4life 😂 I was like he got the audacity

  • @CrossCreativeMindsConsulting

    Not bacon bazooka 🥓

  • @ambberhill1090
    @ambberhill1090 Před rokem +22

    She was waiting in the wings, nothing you can tell me. The 2 families were so close, why didn't she think Sister's code with his wife? and why didn't he think bro code with her hubby? that both were divorced matters little. Truth is, the men and women waiting to pick y'all husbands and wives are mostly not strangers but family friends supporting and stroking their egos while you are bitching and fighting them.
    Simon Cowell was besties with Andrew Silverman and used to go on holidays with Mr & Mrs Silverman, It did not stop him from planting a baby in Mrs. Silverman ending her 10 year old marriage to Andrew in 2013 and she became Mr. Cowell's fiancé. in 2023 she will be Mrs. Cowell, from one bestie to the other 😁😄 All that said, I wish Blair and his bride a blissful marriage and for the ex Mrs. Underwood, may she find that relationship that will fulfil her.

    • @julslatt6294
      @julslatt6294 Před rokem +1

      She married in 1978 to Burgess Owens, a NFL free safety with NY Jets, Oakland Raiders, member of 1980 Champions XV Super Bowl team, retired 1982 shortly after they joined LDS church. Divorced in 2012 or 2013 article which mean she was single & free for at least 10 years. 🤔💭 30 years affiliation at least with LDS ⛪️ with over 600 rules, one is have lots of children, another is forgive all, hold no grudges.. her ex is now age 72 (b.1951) and a US Congressman, Utah 4th District.. she 👀 and in appearance a much older, mature woman.. 6 adult kids, grands.. met when he was age 16 y/o (1980) and a 43 year friendship.. lost his mother in 2020 and reconnects with old friend… life is precious, hopefully true soulmates💘 🤔💭

  • @AussieAngel826
    @AussieAngel826 Před rokem +4

    Every time I see him I think of sex & the city rolling on river scene with Miranda 🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @seekeroftruth1484
    @seekeroftruth1484 Před rokem +31

    He never was that attractive to me but I don’t fawn over celebrities because they’re regular people to me. I don’t like to speak negatively of anyone’s relationship but I can’t get behind this. I can only imagine what the wife went through before and after the divorce seeing him marry someone he knew before and during their marriage.

  • @elainemoore188
    @elainemoore188 Před rokem +4

    Girl when you said they had RRG snacks I hollered 😭

  • @jorjahpeach1711
    @jorjahpeach1711 Před rokem +23

    Congratulations to Blair & Josie!! Blair is a humble & God fearing man and the way I used to see him & his family at church, I can see him marrying again so soon. He is a true faith filled family man. And it appears to be a bonus that his new bride happens to be a friend of 43 years, and someone who shares his same faith. I wish them both blessings on this new journey.

  • @user-ew1zh2lh9j
    @user-ew1zh2lh9j Před rokem +12

    After a failed marriage and getting older honestly it doesn't take as long to spark love especially with a familiar friend. You also don't focus on silly things. You realize what's important and just want to live. This woman was married and had her kids too...doesn't seem like anyone was waiting around just to say don't ever worry bc you can always write a new chapter and something wonderful is always waiting..

  • @reneebee8693
    @reneebee8693 Před rokem +3

    Great reporting, Sis. Very thorough. 👍

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem

      Thanks for watching ❤

  • @wally6914
    @wally6914 Před rokem +2

    The Viola Davis gif is hilarious 😂. Edit: I actually believed you about the brisket from rrg snacks 🤣..good one.

  • @mrsjoy8831
    @mrsjoy8831 Před rokem +10

    Brian McKnight should take notes, I'm all for this union, this is how you blend a family and everyone is happy and supportive, they like it I love it, best wishes to them.

  • @blackurbangoddess
    @blackurbangoddess Před 11 měsíci +3

    Blair always played the most intense villain roles imo

  • @beverlycrittendon4495
    @beverlycrittendon4495 Před rokem +14

    He always wanted her!!

    • @anonymouslee8287
      @anonymouslee8287 Před rokem +4

      From the beginning, middle, and she got him in the end!...

  • @rainthomps694
    @rainthomps694 Před rokem +9

    I have been WAITING for this one!!

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +1

      Did you love it?

  • @Yadiggg_
    @Yadiggg_ Před rokem +13

    Definitely one of my favorite channels !

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem +1

      Aww thank you so much!

  • @blowe1597
    @blowe1597 Před rokem +5

    He definitely got a type

  • @Chitownhomestead
    @Chitownhomestead Před rokem +9

    I seem to be stuck in friendship zone.. now that I'm 50 I can say I've been friends for 40 years w plenty of men.. so where's my Blair Underwood now ???!!

    • @seekeroftruth1484
      @seekeroftruth1484 Před rokem

      Nice girls finish last. Men are attracted to easy women. They want that sexual need met first. And when she get pregnant, it’s cheaper to keep her. This is why lots of men will turn a hoe into a housewife.

    • @BacDaFukUp4life
      @BacDaFukUp4life Před rokem +3

      patience boo...give it to god! 🙏🏽 on it and stop looking! definitely watch your friends...too many sends wrong signal.
      stay safe 🙏🏽

  • @fsmith1826
    @fsmith1826 Před rokem +2

    “Exercising the patience of Job”
    I scrumpted 😂Lol

  • @andreoneal5337
    @andreoneal5337 Před 4 měsíci

    The plug for the RRG snacks at the weeding 😂 Epic !!!!

  • @donnareece7708
    @donnareece7708 Před rokem +9

    Such a waste to separate or divorce someone after such a long long time😬😵‍💫

  • @bolouereopukiri681
    @bolouereopukiri681 Před rokem +4

    The excitement whenever I get a notification that RRG has posted 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

  • @jmarityre6012
    @jmarityre6012 Před rokem +1

    Wonderful commercial for rrg snacks at the wedding 😂🎉🥂👏👏

  • @SpiritLedLisa
    @SpiritLedLisa Před rokem +1

    When you said they munched on RRG snacks at their wedding, you finished me LOOOOOL!!!! Also, the clips you insert in your videos get me always LOL!!! Hilarious!

  • @timmy841212
    @timmy841212 Před rokem +9

    He’s still a hunk ❤😊

  • @chatsnoirblamo
    @chatsnoirblamo Před rokem +18

    Blair aged so well, my goodness.

  • @amazonkee74
    @amazonkee74 Před rokem

    I love your commentary. You ALWAYS have me cracking up!!❤

  • @victoriaparker-mothershed9427

    You crack me up with your comments. This was good. I wish them all the best.

  • @june520111
    @june520111 Před rokem +12

    He is fine❤💯

  • @TheAfricanGist
    @TheAfricanGist Před rokem +6

    Bacon Bazooka??? Now that's new.

  • @JudeMarchisio
    @JudeMarchisio Před rokem +1

    Love the edits. They're always super funny! And we appreciate the consistent uploads! Thank you.

    • @rrg
      @rrg  Před rokem

      Our pleasure!

  • @DeeDeeSmith06
    @DeeDeeSmith06 Před 11 měsíci +1

    LOVE THIS , BLESSINGS TO YOU, TAKE CARE ❤️

  • @kaysworld8559
    @kaysworld8559 Před rokem +7

    Damnnn this is crazy.. he was in love with another woman..

  • @a.h.2667
    @a.h.2667 Před rokem +6

    I already know before clicking on the video that the less I know about these celebrities the better, but I'm still addicted to this channel 😅