Karen Takes Over Daughter Wedding To Save A Buck
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 10. 08. 2021
- TLC's Extreme Cheapskates where Mom (Karen) takes over her daughters wedding to save money. It's got to be fake because no daughter would ever agree to any of this.
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My wedding was well under 1000 and didnât feel cheap and tacky like this one did. Outdoor wedding like you suggested, a lot of luck getting a dress off Craigslist, family took the photos and I cooked the food and did my own hair and makeup and made my bouquet with flowers from Trader Joeâs. Man this made me cringe.
Yes, it can be done if done with some decent thought and planning put into it. For my wedding we bought a whole heap of flowers that I like'd and all of the bridesmaids and I made our own bouquets ourselves while we had a few drinks together and it was really special they were all very beautiful. My Aunty made the cake and helped decorate the outdoor wedding site. My sister-in-law did my hair and we did our own make-up and it was really nice to spend that time together at home rather than running from one place to another all morning on the day.
That's what I was saying! My Gram did her last wedding in her back yard for well under $1000 and it was beautiful and everyone enjoyed themselves, why is this mom buying literal TRASH for her daughters wedding!?
You live in the south, right?
@@gringoamigo8146 I did for a couple months and ran away screaming and now happily live back in the northwest
@@Alexandra-oy2xu Ahh Washington or Oregon. You ran away screaming? Lemme guess, Florida?
isn't the whole point of saving money to have money to spend on special things... like a wedding...
You would think so..but this mom is making the wedding about HER and her ability to to be "cheap" when in reality she's giving her daughter a trash wedding
Exactly!
Yeah well it's been established cheapskates are usually morons and extremely selfish so smh.
Its not special enough for her to use her Savings.
I guess I would say the point of saving money is to have it for emergencies and to be able to retire someday
I love how the mom tried having the wedding in a highschool instead of a park, you know, *a nice outside place for free*
Generally you need permission & pay a fee for an outdoor venue as well
Parks are not free
Got my wife's wedding bouquet for under 25 bucks and it turned out really pretty. I went to a local florist, picked the specific stems we wanted, and they arranged them for free. I had actually called the same florist a few days before and asked about a wedding bouquet with the flowers we wanted and they quoted 150 minimum. The key is to never ever mention that it's for a wedding. It's a 'gift' or a 'decoration' - amazing what the markup is when people hear the word 'wedding'.
Tips to save money: don't use the word wedding. It's commonly known there's a wedding tax. Just say party.
Just be careful with this and read all the contracts you sign. Photographers will frequently have clauses to cover themselves since party photography is not the same as wedding photography.
Lol I tried to do that as much as possible. Then luckily covid downsized my wedding and we skipped DJ, changed venue to a much cheaper one. Had a 2nd chance to get smart & save. Made out GREAT!
Ppl get taxed on their weddings in America????đłđłđłđł
@@jafafam5972 it just means that those things get charged more (for no reason, because companies are greedy and will use any excuse to charge more for no reason).
Like the "Pink Tax" where womens items are priced higher than mens items (Like Razers and Deodorants/soap etc.)
@@artasinn ooohhh but then how will calling it a party effect the price if ur still gonna buy the same things?
We actually did find my friend's wedding dress at a thrift shop and it was exactly her size AND still had the tags on! She was basically having to elope and was going to go to the court house and I was like that's fine, but you should at least get a dress, let's check the thrift shop. It was $75 and needed no alterations.
That is really rare luck
I got my prom dress at a thrift shop. It was small but I loved it and it was only $100. We knew of a very sweet elderly lady who did alterations for cheap for people who couldn't afford it, so we went to her and she turned the back of the dress into a corset for $20 and the cost of the materials (which was just two types of ribbons and she had matching thread).
I made my daughters wedding dress. My grandmother taught me how to sew & make patterns. My daughter wanted a dress that was several different designs put together. It turned out gorgeous. I made it for less that $300 & it looked like one costing over a few thousand. I even added the sm pearl beads in the floral pattern on the lace, accenting the wide lace on the dress & veil. (I dont like & wouldnt use the netting. It looks so cheap). It took a while doing all the details on it. But it was impressive.
Same!! I found a beautiful lacy dress, still with the tag and fit perfectly! I was 2 months postpartum, and we were eloping on Halloween. The white dress was a bit more so went with a classy black, and had so many compliments!
It was meant to be! Weddings are expensive af, that's shopping smart!
I always love how ken tries to out cheapskate the cheapskates
"You wanna know whats even cheaper then a gym? Outdoor wedding BOOM"
So I planned a wedding for me and my ex fiance (this is part of the reason we didn't get married and aren't together anymore) and the mother (or as I call her devil in disguise) took over. I didn't want to get married in their family's church but respected it because of family and religion. Wanted us to change our colors because she didn't like the color she would have to wear as a mother of the groom. I had a limit of 100 people because the church SHE picked couldn't hold more and she complained not enough of her family could come and insisted I cut down my side (mind you it was about over half the people there were hers) then tried to change our music because she didn't like the songs. She tried to correct my wedding dress because it had an open back and it showed off my tattoos. Wanted me to pay for a caterer so family wouldn't have to cook as well as maybe a decorator for the church. All while she had my family paying for the whole thing. I wanted to use my mom's old bouquet of flowers my great grandmother had made by hand with a Japanese inscription of love on it and she ordered a lilly bouquet (I don't even like Lillie's) instead because it was ugly. Mind you through all of this her son who was supposed to be helping make OUR wedding special let her act this way and when I would stand up for myself saying it was my wedding and his not hers. He didn't want half of what she was doing either but figured why not have his mother have HER day since it was her oldest son's wedding day.....I'm so glad I did not marry into this family
You were very smart to get out before she started trying to dictate other things. She sounds like the type that would relentlessly pester you for grandchildren and dominate the whole parenting process, right down to the names.
That went down the mountain not the hill
I'm happy for you that you got out, that was definitely the right decision. I hope you're surrounded in your life now by people who see you, hear you, and support you because your exes did none of those things
My wedding was a total of like $300. My cake was beautiful and it was from Meijers. My dress was thrifted and was $30. I homemade all of the decorations. we got married in a park on bridge under a willow tree next to a duck pond. We had a picnic after party and bought foot long subs for 15 people. Cheap doesn't mean trashy. I wouldn't of changed a thing.
Same. I paid the Justin of Peace to come to where our family was vacationing. I didnât buy a dress. Told everyone. Wear what you want stay in your swimsuit. I was just happy to get married to my best friend and be with people who love me.
I agree that you don't have to spend a lot of money. I'm not married, but if I do, I would rather spend money travelling for a honeymoon, but this lady is so tacky about it.
that sounds like such a sweet wedding! that mom shoulda called you for some advice! LOLOL
That sounds so lovely and like a wonderful afternoon
I'm so happy for you it sounds like you had a good time
Why is everyone pretending like Ken didn't spell Wedding flowers as wedding flours
weeding flours
**Mississippi intensifies** đ€Ł
I guess people are getting used to his misspellings.
honestly the cheapness of Shelley was so intense most of us that noticed just forgot immediately lol
Right? đ
My husband and I got married for less than $1k including rings. We had maybe 5-10 people there and went to a park where we had our first date. Reception was at the pizza place we ate at on our first date. My dress was clearance prom rack, he had a suit, our cousin is ordained, and my friends and I all went to school for media arts so they did photography. Wouldnât change anything for the world bc everyone wanted us to have an extravagant wedding and we did what we wanted. Celebrating 4 years in May đ
My wedding was the opposite- I wanted small and simple and my mom was like âNo way. Youâre my only daughter and Iâve been planning this your whole life!â đ
I feel you there. I decided to skip getting married at all. Ha!
the doesnt sound like a good thing like i could be reading it wrong but she said shes been planning it your whole life but its supposed to be abt yu and what you want again i could be reading too much into it i dont know the full situation but yeah
@@angelina544 most moms wants their kids wedding day to be special. your probs reading way too much into it.
@@neenayannelli2334 i mean yeah dont get me wrong i understand tat but due to that alot of parents will go against what their kids actually want is what i was trying to say
@@PCLHH I'm with you there. I won't exclude it completely, but I certainly want no ceremony.
I'd rather go to city hall and get married than deal with that woman.
*_YES!!!_*
Lol thats what I did
Wanna talk about a real cheap wedding...
It's $45 last I checked. That wouldn't be a wedding, just marriage tho.
I'm thinking of doing that as well since it won't be terrible...
imagine going into a bakery to just talk about baking a cake yourself
i would post banned photo signs on the door, lmaoo
You can't, because you don't work there, if an inspector catches you or better said the owner in the act she will have to pay for it, not sure about how much is in USA but in Europe it reaches thousands plus you may be charged with working place (which is a kitchen) contamination. In better words you will lose more than you may gain in months for a cheap garbage of a human being. Will be way easier to call the police on them and be done with it.
So cringe đŹ
So many customers do this. Donât go to a professional and talk about how can i do this myself. Donât waste their time
Asking her to borrow her display in exchange for "exposure" was probably just as bad if not more insulting.
Very traditionally, the Bride's parents pay for the wedding. But we live in modern times and everyone should pitch in lol
I love how Ken corrects his spelling of wedding but keys in the word flowers as flours in the search bar. You guys crack me up. I'm here for it.
âWedding floursâ Lmfaoo
Had to scroll too far to find this! Was just about to just comment it myself đ€Ł
He had cake on the brain lol
@@GeekExtremist I just referenced this in my comment, too - before seeing this comment!! Lolđ€Ł
Weeding flours. đ„Č
@@melodyconte na he didn't know how to spell it lmao
I paid $84 to marry my husband in a chapel in Reno. I wore a sundress that was white with pink and grey flowers on it. We went to Olive Garden after. Itâs been a decade next March â€ïž They probably would have been happier eloping without mom.
We got married in a courthouse almost 6 years ago, for about $175 total including the dress and marriage license. We also went to Olive Garden after đ I wouldnât change a thing!
Cheers to the two of you!
We got married at the court house then after we when to outback best dinner ever
Same. Eloped in town. Less than $100, then out to dinner. 18 years ago. â€ïž
It's not exactly eloping if parents are involved... lol
Aaah yes, come into my place of business. Tell me youâre in no need of my services. Then ask to borrow something.
My wedding was definitely under $1,000, and it was perfect! Outdoor, courthouse wedding, my mom made my wedding dress, my flowers came from Trader Joeâs. We had our reception the next day at our house, pot luck style, and my best friend made our wedding cake.
The problem isnât âthere couldâve been better choices that were also cheap!â The problem is her daughter was upset. Itâs HER day, her special day. I find the mother selfish she only wanted to save money for her own benefits and pleasure. The part when she said âwe can get a discount from the rat peeâ annoyed me so much. Like wtf itâs your daughters WEDDING and youâre treating her like a peasant.
If it's her wedding then she can pay for it. đ€·đŸââïž
I'd only be pissed if mom WEREN'T paying for it, but she is. Her decision how much to spend. Daughter doesn't like it? Pay for it herself.
Same way if she doesn't like house rules, she can move out. Same concept. If she wants control over the situation then she needs to take control.
@@kiyokumabear Except Mom won't let her pay for her own. That is why she is not letting future MIL have a say or offer to cover costs. This is not about who pays. This is about Mom getting things for as cheap as possible everyone be damned. She is even worse for her second daughter's wedding where she sets a budget of $750. She even gets pissed that the 2nd daughter and her husband bought their own rings. You notice it isn't a situation where the Mom is "we are only willing to spend X amount, if you want more pitch in" It is "This wedding will be done for under $1000". The daughters go along because it is obvious over both shows that they have been steamrolled by mom's cheapness their whole lives.
@@kiyokumabear that's honestly such shitty mentality, especially for the situation. did we watch the same video?? seriously, if you think it's okay to do any of this shit, you aren't any better than her.
@@ramsfan515 Its an addiction for her, most definitely. She gets off on the high saving a buck gives her and its despicable
@@ramsfan515 you took the words out of my mouth, I was floored by the other persons response, itâs like they didnât see the video at all and completely missed the point about caring for your loved ones and wanting their special day to actually be enjoyable. If she really wanted to save money so bad she shouldâve not offered to pay for the wedding and let her daughterâs special day actually be special instead of making her miserable for her own benifit. The way she treats her own kid is so degrading, sheâs going way too far to save money, and itâs clearly not because they donât have the money to make it a nice event, itâs because she gets a thrill out of these extreme bargaining moves and will put this addiction above her own family
â$400 for a wedding cake is a waste of moneyâ lady, you could argue that weddings themselves are a waste of money.
That's what I don't get tho... My Gram had her 3rd wedding in her backyard and spent under $1000 for the cake, tent, ex. And it was wonderful and beautiful, I don't get this lady trying to get bullcrap for her daughters wedding???
@@brooklynnbailey4356 Because the wedding isn't about marriage it isn't about the daughter it's about being a crappy person who is delusional enough to think it was perfect and cheap. Its also seems like a power play like "even if you don't live with I STILL CONTROL HOW MUCH YOU SPEND AND WHERE YOU SPEND IT DON'T FORGET IT"
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Are wedding cakes normally 400 dollars? Hell, I would be ok with a couple sheet cakes from Krogers or Walmart
@@madisonlewe1057 i think its because of the word wedding. i would just get all the kids and women in the family and make our own cake. that's if you cant save 400 or less. creates memories and (if you know what your doing) a good cake.
the fact that she loves her money more than her daughter is killing me inside :''
I got a beautiful 3 tier wedding cake that was delicious for $200 at a local supermarket that makes the best cakes in our smaller town. You just have to bring back the columns and separators after the wedding. There are lots of ways to cut costs if your on a budget. I did the flowers, made the veil, dress was $250 on sale, used the grooms family church for $100, and had some deli platters, cooked a couple of turkeys, and all the immediate family made a couple of side dishes each. I think we spent about $1000 in total, but it was beautiful.
This lady may say her budget is a grand, but her budget in her brain seems to be 50 bucks for the whole wedding.
Is that girl's purse strap a measuring tape?
My original wedding was going to be in my uncle's back garden and his partner was going to do the flowers (he was a florist), My maid of honors mom was doing the cake. Some family was going to make food. Our small Polish wedding lol.. dress was discount and my husband was going to wear his dress blues. And it all had to be scrapped because he couldn't get leave lol. So my uncle bought me a weekend in Vegas for our gift, I still got the bouquet. He drove from CA for a day and a half. Still wore my discount dress and we went out to eat with the couple who drove him. Must have worked out. March will be 30 years.
Such a heartwarming story †đ
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Wow
I was wondering why she had measuring tape across her shoulder in the car, until i saw it was her strap lol
My aunt an uncle got married in their backyard, my parents at a beach. Cheaper and better wedding venues exist. Compared to a highschool gym.
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Honestly I'd rather elope, run off on a vacation and marry on a beach maybe bring a few close people, just have a reception/celebration at home when we get back maybe.
Lol literally a field *by* a highschool would have even been better because there wouldn't have been a ceiling falling a sort above you and natural lights
We had a court house wedding and then had a reception on the weekend where we rented out a restaurant with food and drinks for about $800. my family and friends loved it. Casual, fun and memorable.
Thatâs a great idea
The sneak peek of pinhead lol I love heâs just hanging out in a pawn shop.
This isn't just a wedding, it is the story of a Karen coming of age.
priceless!!
I love how all of Kenâs tips for having a cheap romantic date/venue is always the park or being outdoors đ I mean itâs true but I see a trend
Everything indoors is expensive
Now that heâs in Australia heâs probably going to have to rethink that
@@billpardy4094 nah, the parks here are awesome!
@@gimmeyabeans3916 I was thinking exclusively of the spiders lol
@@billpardy4094 hahah well yeah thereâs that!
My mother and father used to own a restaurant, so that's catering taken care of right there. If you have a friend with a big backyard, and a pool, that can be the whole shebang. Pool party / wedding. I think it works great!
Pool party / wedding sound like a fun unique idea!
There's a line between being resourceful and being tacky. This was all over tacky and I hope they had a second party that wasn't so embarrassing. They deserve the party they want and the service they want.
Tacky doesn't even do this justice. This wedding was GHETTO!
I would literally⊠tell my mom to f- off if she did this. She would never do this, but Iâm just saying, Iâd pay for it myself. I would NOT let MY wedding be all about showing how cheap someone could be. Be cheap somewhere else, not at my wedding.
The funny thing about all these scenarios is how much these people enable these cheapskates because they have no thoughts of their own. If my mom only had $1,000 to put to my wedding, I'd thank her and add it to MY budget. And I'm saying this because my mother is crazy too. If my mother tried to say "Well I'm paying for this so I deserve a say" I'd tell her to sit down because her money is contributing, but its not paying for anything.
No! Even better, I'd tell her I spent her money on my rent. XD
I would honestly cancel the wedding and go to a courthouse, save up for a wedding down the line that I wouldnât be mortified to attend.
Because spending as much money on a wedding is what makes getting married so special. Itâs no wonder that more than half of marriages end in divorce
Pretty sure mosto f this show is fake anyway.
@@madturtle8826 I mean it's not about the money. You can still have a nice and classy wedding and do it cheap. Like Ken said - do it outside. Or have a yard wedding if you or your friends have a nice house with a nice yard. I'd also say do your own decorations (didn't see any there), there are so many instructions available nowadays, like how to make cute fairylights out of a used jar, some flowers, lights, etc. And you could cook actual homemade food (for example potato salad is a super popular celebration-food in my country) and it would probably come out cheaper than tons of dry sandwiches. Friends could each bring one dish as part of their gift. Also the mom was soo fixated on the total being no more than 1000 just for the sake of it (so she could brag how she did it with this exact sum), leaving no room for small changes. I bet it could've been a nice wedding in under a 1000 but the mom or anyone didn't put in any effort (like I said, decorations, buffet and etc).
My husband and I got married while he was in the Coast Guard. We had almost no money so we had his mom and aunt plus his coworker who was an ordained minister. It's one thing to work with what little you have, it's entirely different from being cheap for the point of it. I hope they get a do-over
They won't get a do over
maybe with the tlc money they can do a real one
Yeah I hope they save the money and do a renewal of vows or something.
If anyone is planning a wedding I highly recommend doing some research in this comment section lol. Some people seem to have had beautiful weddings on a budget, and have shared their tips and tricks. Congrats to anyone who is about to tie the knot ..and wishing you luck, health and happiness
i think we watched very different *Scooby DooâsâŠ*
thereâs normally a spooky owner of a theme park, rather than *a murderer* đł
nah they have to be the same, right? đł
I genuinely feel bad for these people's wedding but they also didn't fight back at all....
They're probably afraid of being written out of the will đ
It appears they have learnt not too...
Professional cakes are high priced for a reason. Youâre paying for not only ingredients, which arenât cheap unless youâre a huge company.. but youâre also paying for skill and all the time the person put into making it. Honestly most bakers grossly undercharge for the work they do. Itâs hard work and long hours.
My mum makes the most amazing cakes and got asked by my cousin to make wedding cupcakes to cater to different tastes and diets (there were a couple vegan friends at the wedding and she wanted to make sure they got cake too). She knew that vegan cakes could be a little tricky, and she spent months working on three different recipes for the wedding to make them as perfect as possible, and the end result was so popular that not a single cupcake got left behind. The people at the venue were boxing up the remaining cakes cos everyone wanted to take them home, and the owner actually asked my mum if she was a pro baker because she would really like to sell those cupcakes at the counter. My cousin cried so much when she saw my mum again after the wedding. It had been so much more then she had been expecting. Those cupcakes are still talked about five years later and are now a special family recipe. I canât imagine how much my cousin wouldâve had to spend to buy the same thing from a cakery or something, especially the quantity.
Only downside is that it took me nearly a year to want to go near a cupcake again after all that. Being one of only three taste testers for all those experimental batches will take a toll on you đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
We do charge more for wedding cakes in general though. We also include delivery in that cost, and set up because usually the cakes way well over 100 pounds. But if you really want a good deal on a cake for your wedding, donât tell them itâs for a wedding we were automatically charge you a minimum of about $300. Itâs just how the industry works. If you get just a normal two-tier, For about 100 people, in white with some nice designs, and then donât tell them itâs for a wedding you could pay about 250. If you tell them itâs for a wedding youâre paying automatic 400. Because weâre going to insist that we deliver it because we know that people are dumb they canât deliver the wrong case for some reason. I literally watched a guy say no I can deliver my own cake and then drop it right outside my store
Coming from a baker/cake decorator myself, I can confirm this. And honestly wedding cakes are 90% of our profit 99%of the time. đ
It's a cake
Anyone else enjoy just watching Buff's facial expressions as Ken does the intro? Very emotive eyebrows.
Lmao I find it funny how the pawn shop guy remembered how much he paid for the dress but doesn't recall if the stain was there before or after he bought it. Chances are that is a rat urine, because he admitted to having a rodent problem and kept it in a storage room without anything to protect the dress.
I would have suggested the thrift shop first, her saying better than a thrift shop? NopeâŠ
My sister went to the Davidâs Bridal clearance section and found a dress that was the perfect size, in the style sheâs always loved for $90. Itâs okay to be cheap, but keep it classy.
Alteractions done at David's bridal are expensive go to a mall for them
The problem with people like her though, is that she is too uneducated about going to such establishments. Sometimes we think Walmart is the cheapest, and get surprised that clearances elsewhere are cheaper. I once got a 12Âą office desk from Office Depot (it was part of their system where it rolled out of inventory as a loss - meaning the company already declared it as loss years prior and got their tax cut or whatever) either way, never will you find a 12Âą (yes, cent) desk at Walmart OR a thrift store or pawn shop.
In fact, I got a lot of things from Office Depot from $0.12-$4.92 (the 2âs where how they identified them in their system).
Anyways, all that just to agree with you that you can often times find better deals at the source brand new than going 2nd or 3rd hand at thrifts or pawn shops
I feel bad for that girl and I donât much believe in weddings
Online there are beautiful dresses for under $200, it's insane! I imagine you'd spend on alterations but that's likely off the rack too
It's always the Karens, they be so weird for absolutely no reason
At least you won't forget us lol đ!
i am perfect at making vidios
@@karentucker2161 what a twist! Hey! đ
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I swear. You have commented on almost every youtubers videos
My wedding was less than $750. We got married in a beautiful botanical garden, in the rose garden, complete with a raised natural waterfall fountain and beautiful archways. We went to the place my husband and I had our first date for our reception, Steak n' Shake. My best friend photographed it. My grandmother made my dress, and my mother did my hair and we got fake flowers from Hobby Lobby when they were 50% off. It was beautiful, and there weren't many dry eyes in the place. It's a great day. One of the two happiest days of my life. The other was when our son was born.
Ken: âyou know where else you can get flowers?â
Me: âgraves?â
it ain't her wedding, i would hate to be remembered as "that wedding"
They shouldâve just done a courthouse wedding honestly. Cheaper, less stress, and less Karenâs
I need Kenâs âheuheh-heuheh-heuheh-heuheh-heuhehâ loop as a ringtone!
My hubby and I did a last minute wedding with dollar tree supplies, pizza, and some clearance prom outfits. I baked my own cake and made the decorations. We spent well under $1000, but it was still nice. It doesn't have to be expensive. Just don't tell your parents if your intention is to elope. They really guilt trip you into having a party đ„Č
For a lot of places, if you dont tell them it's for a wedding specifically, you'll get normal "event" prices. As soon as you drop the word "wedding" prices are gonna hike up đ€·đ»ââïž
Because a lot more time and effort go into a wedding cake. They are also made with better ingredients usually. Wedding cakes are hugely important and you are feeding a large group usually, they stack higher than your average birthday/event cake. Bakers take a very different approach to wedding cakes than regular event cakes.
@@omoidashu yet but some companies usually make stuff more expensive with the excuse that it's for a wedding
Only place I would argue this with is cake and photography. Everything else it's just "a party" *wink wink*
@@omoidashu You are completely wrong. At least in my shop we use great ingredients already in all of our cakes. Wedding cakes are made more differently than any other cake and any other shop. And we donât really take different approaches. If itâs a tier cake with some type of beautiful, fancy design itâs gonna take us a while anyway. With weddings we offer delivery, which means we have to take time out of our day to deliver. Which means were taking a decorator away usually on a Saturday to take your cake to some god-awful location, to put it on the most unstable of Stands, and then we make sure that your cake looks nice before we leave and sometimes leave and stay and cut it for you if you so choose. But if you really want to save the money, donât tell them itâs a wedding cake. Look up how to safely transport a cake by yourself, thatâs assuming if itâs three tears or less cause I really want to try to transport anything else, and then order it as a normal event cake. Because weâre still gonna have to take all that time out of our day to decorate a tiered cake with a nice design. Weâre still gonna have to stack all the layers, make them sick, then ice the cake then tear the cake then with the cakes that then decorate it. The only difference is weâre not delivering it to you. I work in the industry and I can tell you right now, the process of a wedding cake is really not any different than any other cake. Itâs just that we had to do a tasting with you and we have to pull at least two or more employees to deliver your cake which takes time away from other cakes. So basically when you book a wedding cake, youâre booking a delivery as well which means youâre taking the time of about two or three other cakes away from the business. And thatâs why we up charge you now because we do it special. We do cakes just the same. thatâs a complete fallacy
They literally could have found a random field to have a wedding in and it would have been better lmao
In Utah it's pretty common for people to have their receptions in gyms. Usually at the ones in their churches
You can have a low-cost wedding without being tacky. At my wedding, I handmade a lot of my decor (I'm a sculptor and painter), baked my own desserts, friends donated fake flowers from their wedding, we got a really good deal on a cute dress, and all sorts of other little shortcuts and connections that helped our wedding come together for way less than a traditional one. Our goal was to be memorable and fun without spending a fortune; this just hurts to watch
Had one week to get married. My grandmother made me a dress, hubby wore his dress blues, my husband's grandmother made our cake, family pitched in for the decorations and food. Got married at my church, no charge, brother-in-law bought me flowers. A friend who was the boss at a car dealership gave us a brand new expensive suv to drive for the weekend for free. It was great. Married 21 years now.
Congrats.
Well year 2000 was a different time. I doubt any boss at a car dealership will let you lend a new car for free now. Even if they are your friend.
I'm so glad that Ken said it! You can go to a park at most parks have a pavilion that you could rent for super cheap like 50 bucks......
Everybody brings a dish. You get one cute cake from Costco and like six sheet cakes
I feel like a justice of the peace at city Hall and a reception would be cheapest?! I'd be down to minimize the ceremony and.maximize the party. Lol I mean .. I'm not married so, I can't say, I know anything about the sentimental ceremony. But, I also feel like a wedding is all about a piece of paper that means nothing
Mine charged for over $100! ...I had to snag an empty gazebo without the town knowing and hoping there was no event ahead of me, lmao.
@@redrhapsodos6630 and it worked?
I love the idea of an outside wedding, but you'd probably have to rent the place months before and you won't know what weather to expect. A storm or heavy rain can ruin these very easily, too risky I think, sadly.
Your wedding is supposed to be a day that you never forget. I'm sure that includes not forgetting all the fun you're supposed to have while shopping for all of your wedding stuff. I have a feeling that this is going to be the day that the daughter never wants to remember.
I was one of the lucky people that had paid for wedding planners etc so all we had to do was show up and tell them what we wanted, yes it was very expensive compared to just dyi'ng things and sourcing things, but we had the understanding that we weren't only just paying for the products but also for the people's time and services. That's why things are cheaper when YOU do it yourself. I recommend DYI'ng if you don't mind the effort and searching, sourcing things yourself, but if you can pay for the wedding planners etc, it's very worth it, they are trained to make your day as memorable as they can with the services they provide. It's not as bad as people say it is.
"She even ran the narrator off." She haggled the amount of his lines down to save money from TLC
I wanna see a Buff and pewdiepie episode. Just to see what the chemistry is
I second this!
Yes! Pewdiepie had Buff in a thumbnail a while ago and I was so disappointed it wasn't real.
@@LauraGardnerYoga yeah,same. That was a painful clickbait
I would love that! An episode with all three of them.
@@LauraGardnerYoga yeah, i got like so mad when he wasn't actually doing a vid with him
Mom at the pawn shop was like âexcuse me sir, weâre not longer interested in the dress, but how about you let us use your HellRaiser mannequin, and weâll pin your business cards to his head with the nails sticking out of his head. Whatâya say?â
We spent a total of 2K on ours and it was amazing. Found a flower wholesale place and my bridesmaids and I made all the bouquets, boutonnieres, etc, I love making flower arrangements), bought our dresses new at a dress warehouse, a friend had opened her restaurant (beautiful country inn) the year before and asked us if we could be her and her hubby's experiment in throwing weddings (we still are featured in their wedding brochure), we'd get the venue and a horse drawn carriage (not kidding, a carriage) for free and just have to pay half price for the food per guest. I have a ton of friends who are musicians who volunteered to play sets for food (we payed them too, because it didn't feel right not to give them anything). Another friend and the venue (because they needed them to advertise) took pictures for a really good rate. You really can have a beautiful wedding for cheap, you just have to look and be resourceful, it's not necessary to go seedy and barbed wire back door deal.
Thereâs better wedding dresses for 50$ at the thrift stores....
A white sundress would've been better. At least itd be clean
Davidâs bridal had a whole $99 and under dress section. đ
I used to work a lot of weddings as a musician, and let me tell you there are so many nice work arounds for cost. Flowers: Have friends with some land pick wildflowers and greenery, or my personal favorite was homemade cloth flowers that the aunts did. The bouquets were so cute and not intended to look too real (patterned fabric and such) and really fit the DIY feel of the wedding. They gave me a centerpiece and I still have a couple of those flower to this day.
Cake: Just have a baker friend make one instead of a gift! You can make a plain 3-tiered cake for very inexpensive, no need to fake a display cake!
Dresses: if you know your measurements Etsy has a ton of vintage dresses, and just get matching less fancy dresses from a normal store for bridesmaids.
So first we need a baker friend and a friend with land, noted
@@thedoctor3528 do you not have those?
@@rachelr3484 nah Karen most millennials have friends that work three jobs and are barely making rent đ
@@thedoctor3528 so first we need a friendâŠ
@@doggolovescheese1310 my dude, I'm nearly gen z, yall gotta get out more. Most people have friends that can bake and someone's family with an acre of land, kinda how they were suggesting just going outside somewhere. Just sharing my thoughts as someone who's worked a lot of weddings and some cute stuff I've seen that didn't cost much
Rewatching this after my aunt and uncle's wedding and we made their flowers out of paper and they ended up being very cute, and it was a nice bonding activity before the wedding
Lmao those dresses were totally planted there đ Iâve never found ANYTHING in a pawn shop that has fit me
Best way to save on any wedding stuff is not to say it's for a wedding. Especially flowers! The instant the word "Wedding" drops, the prices go up.
I'd be pretty careful doing this though. Especially with catering and photography because there is alot more that goes into it for a wedding
Florists aren't stupid. You can't order a bridal bouquet, bridesmaid bouquets, boutonnieres, and then flowers for the center pieces and say it's not for a wedding. Also the price of the each stem of flowers doesn't go up. It's the fact that you go from 10 min for a nice arrangement up to two days of work for a full wedding which ends up costing you. The price of the flowers wanted, whether they are in season or not will also affect cost and of course labour. Plus delivery, setting up the center pieces day of wedding etc.
Most things for weddings are like this. You can't compare a simple birthday cake you pay $20 for to a wedding cake made to feed 150 people.
You can't compare a family session for photography to a full 12 hour day, plus the hours editing, plus making photo albums, delivery again for the products etc.
So no, a lot of things cost more because there's more to it than just oh it's for a wedding suddenly this rose costs $100 a stem!!!!
@@darkinside2213 I just made my own with fake flowers from the craft store. Did the same for my sister's wedding. Bought bulk flowers from wholesale websites and Oriental trading for centerpieces and saved a mint.
@@INGLINFILMproduction That's a perfectly reasonable thing to do (literally what I'm doing haha). We are really just saying that "adding wedding adds more $$$" is a over generalization. Sometimes yeah thats true, but there is alot of effort that goes into wedding stuff which is why it's pricey.
@@dariankent yeah, I see your point. I think I may have been a little too zealous and impulsive with my comment XD just something I've heard from friends who have planned weddings. I think the most expensive thing was my dress for my wedding XD plus I only had my sister in the bridal party as my MoH.
This is one time I would NOT mind everything being staged.
I want to imagine that a lot of what's going on here is due to friends and family sitting back and letting Mom have her time to shine on this show she wanted to be on. Best case scenario, this was just a spectacle for the camera, and the couple had another ceremony later.
This girl grew up with her mom being Like That, she's probably (hopefully) used to just rolling her eyes, playing along, and making her own plans later. The fiance's mom also does not look like someone who would quietly sit still and let this happen to their son on a normal day.
Everyone knew the cameras would be there, and with one of those in your face it's easier to get someone like the Pawnshop owner to play along as well.
I mean, I'm not too bothered about having a "nice" wedding, personally - I myself wouldn't mind doing something like that for a family member under the right circumstances.
You guy's laughter is 1,000% contagious. Thank you guys.
My wedding was under $1000 and didnât feel cheap but also traditional weddings are not our thing so we saved on things like cake, flowers, dress, venue
We worked at a beautiful 1800s theater that we use for free for the ceremony and then went to an upscale restaurant for dinner with our family (most expensive part but my dad payed for it as our wedding gift) and later we went to a speakeasy to celebrate and had a blast
So basically had to pay for our outfits and photographer
Bonaroo was our honeymoon lol
Protip: if you're getting married, sort out what you want and how much it'll be before you tell them it's for a wedding. As soon as they hear wedding, it's like Mr Krabs with dollar signs for eyes. "That'll be 400% more than it'll normally be, thanks"
There's some reasons for that though. Everything for a wedding is checked and triple checked, because if it is for someone's wedding, everyone turns into a Karen. "I see a fingerprint." " The colours are uneven." "It clashes with the table runners!" Seriously. People are usually prepared to pay extra for a wedding, but the expectations are through the roof.
â@@JuMiKunot everyone. I'm not a picky person and I tend to avoid confrontation. The only thing I'd be close to picky on is my cake and dress which I'm totally fine paying extra for. Everything else, I can care less.
@@fanime1 Me neither, but could you say the same for the bloody guests? (People often give the brides a hard time, but it's usually guests that are super picky.)
Anyway, even if at one venue everyone is nice and relaxed, the business won't know until it's too late. So they can't take the risk.
Why couldn't they just have their wedding at a church or a park, that could still be free.
Some churches charge but park is 100% free
@@joywolf83 that's why I said "could be free"
Your church is free to get married in??
My church was free to get married in and we had the reception at the church as well. No cost at all for venue and saved tons on fake flowers except for my bouquet, some boutonniĂšres and our momsâ corsages. Itâs easy to work around cost if you really look at it.
I got married in a friend's awesome yard, made all my centerpieces, boutonnieres, my bouquet. Dress off Amazon was 150, guests pitched in with food and drinks instead of gifts, and my brother in law got ordained and performed the ceremony. It was on Halloween, so after pics we changed into costumes. Cheap, fun, and gorgeous. We had a great time and I wouldn't change a thing.
My parents got married on the Puffing Billy train back before that was a normal thing to do, and the biggest expense was hiring the carriage. My grandmother made the dress, my uncle filmed it and put it on tape (he and Dad had a small film company at the time), the train took them to the Packing Shed where they had dressed up chairs and set the food and cake out on tables. Iâve seen the footage and it was a beautiful day, and it didnât put anybody into debt to do it. I hope to have my wedding the same way some day, on that same train with the people of Puffing Billy that have meant so much to my family.
traditionally its the bride's dad who pays for the wedding. basically like a "dowry" situation to give her away. But barely anyone strictly abides by this tradition anymore. it's uncommon, which is much better :) everyone chipping in is much fairer
mom is paying because dad divorced her crazy ass after 2 weeks.
Much easier and faster as well
Tradition where? It's a big wide world out here.
Also, with most people getting married years after having moved out and being financially independent, it doesn't really make sense.
@@Fo__Sho_ here in Britain it is and I think in America and a lot of western countries
I had my wedding for $500. Got a Davidâs bridal dress off of a lady from Facebook for $75, got a canopy and a 2 tier wedding cake from Walmart for like $100 total, my mom had craft supplies for decorations, bought fake flowers and a cake topper from Michaelâs, had the wedding outside at a friendâs house and our family friendâs brother is a magistrate so he married us. And our wedding was really nice while also being crafty so you can have a cheap nice wedding
My wedding was in a church but I wore a wrap around denim skirt with a white blouse. Groom wore multi colored suspenders like Mork (tv show character) with denim jeans and a Tee shirt. Spent night in the Cow House Motel. priceless memory!
Ok but like if they used the cake display, what happens when they do the cake cutting ceremony? Do they just chuck the display out, say pranked ya and bring the homemade one? LMAO
Me and my husband paid for our own wedding. And we also paid for are own house. This women is absolutely ridiculous.
I can understand wanting to cut costs on weddings. They're expensive as hell. But what this woman did to her daughters (yes both daughters, she went even more cheap for her youngest) is shocking. I'd be surprised if they still talk to her.
I got my wedding dress with a beaded bodice and needing no alterations no imperfections whatsoever for literally 15 DOLLARS AT A THRIFT STORE!! IT WAS ABSOLUTLY PERFECT!! I still have it for my daughter's wedding or when we renew our vows in 100 years lol
Flours ... lol it's ok Ken it made me laugh when you typed that in đ đ€Ł love you guys both!
I paid $100 for my dress, brand new, off the clearance rack. No rat pee, either đ€Ł
Thing is -- you know mom's wedding wasn't like this.
I love that Ken has become the bullshit detector "What'd he say? Lemme check google I'ma find out"
Big mood
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Ken is just trying to act like this isnât the most ridiculous wedding because heâs still in denial about how much money he spent on his own
Are we not going to talk about how Ken spelled flowers âfloursâ đ
Exactly what I was thinking lol
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Pro tip: say you're planning a family reunion and you can book venues, DJs, cakes, catering, etc without the wedding premium cost. It'll still be pricey, but not 20%-extra-just-because-it's-a-wedding pricey.
They'll be happy with you when you show up in a wedding dress.
But when the DJ or the venue find out itâs a wedding, can the cancel? Or demand more money? Itâs something Iâve always wondered
@@chelseac8855 I suppose they have the power to do that, but it would be a pretty scummy move.
Solution 1: wear a non-white dress, and pick something a bit more casual
Solution 2: All you gotta say is that this one couple decided to elope right before the reunion and showed up in their dress. You can't do a formal first dance, toasts, etc, but it's pretty easy to get away with. The venue, dj, etc. all have contracts, and as long as you uphold your end of based on the legal language of the contract, they cannot back out without repercussions. Besides, if they're already there and they've already paid, they're not going to storm out with $3k worth of food. It costs more for them to walk away at that point.
Pro tip: don't marry in the USA probably the oy country that ads a tax for a wedding.
My aunt had a really cute wedding at a local park that had a little lake and some hiking spots, completely empty and during spring when the plants were all nice. She wore a lovely sun dress from Kohls, bought a bunch of food at Costco in bulk, and had a "reception" in my grandparent's backyard. Definitely cheap, but classy ya know (although the most money spent was probably on the secret alcohol stash kept from all the parents lol). I feel horrible for this girl, she could've had cheap and classy, but her mom was really damned and determined to get cheap and trash...
I won't lie I was horrified with the wedding dress situation. I actually felt my soul shrivel up and die. Poor girl.
I've definitely been to cheaper weddings in the south, when the family didn't have any money so they did the arrangements out of wild flowers, grandma made the dress, and mom made a beautiful cake, and the service was in grandpa's barn... cheap doesn't have to mean trashy, this Karen just gets off from shocking people, it's not even about the money for her it's about the control.
Right. I'm from the south and my friend had a wedding in the back yard and we all just brought food. The most they spent was on the weed.
"free advertising" for the cake place ..
Then everyone gonna be eatin' the actual cake and thinkin' .." This Sugarlips cakery place tastes like store bought cake mix...don't ever go there.."
A pretty cheap wedding idea in the UK is twilight weddings. The ceremony is later and you donât have a sit down 25 course meal! We saved over half the cost on the venue doing thisâŠalso get married on a weekday as opposed to a weekend. The people who really care and want to be there will book time from work. Iâm very crafty and made all the decorations, invites and even my bouquet and my mum made my beautiful dress. I bought a supermarket pre iced cake and decorated it myself. A friend did our photography as a gift and a musician friend loaned us his sound system and we had a Spotify playlist instead of paying for a DJ. It was a fantastic day and didnât look cheap or tacky at all.
My sister had a beautiful wedding for under $5000. My cousin had a shotgun wedding for like, $500 haha. My best friend's wedding was probably like, $10,000. And honestly we all had a great time at all the weddings! All three couples are still married and all were able to put money that they saved from their weddings toward their first homes. I used to be obsessed with weddings but I'm 34 and have been single for like 5 years, by choice. If I end up getting married, I could never feel comfortable spending astronomical amounts of money for one day. What matters is your future together, and starting that with a mountain of debt is so stressful.
Backyard weddings can be so much nicer than.... a highschool gym.
Probably cleaner too
Lol, at that point just go elope and avoid the awful gym wedding in the pee dress.
Momma would have been kicked off the planning committee and BANNED from the wedding, because she clearly doesnât care about her daughter.
Dude..kens detail to the small things in the background and buffpro's laugh alone makes me happy and just wanna laugh along with him. I love y'all videos.đđđđđ
Have a wedding outside? Everyone in the U.K. shakes head. Nawww, we daren't do that here đš
I would rent a few of those huge outdoor tents (like $85 a day) and some mats :D
Grandes knowing me rain would fit my wedding kinda.
Unless itâs super windy đđđ
@@annajohnston9528 when it rains not even a tent will save. The water would make the ground like a shallow pool
Fun fact if you call a place and ask for the same space at the same time that you want and say its for a family reunion instead of a wedding then its much cheaper. Same with flowers and catering, as soon as you say wedding the price is jacked up.
When she gotta organize the funeral:
"Nah mom you getting thrown in a ditch"
I think we spent $500 on ours, including our wedding rings. Small wedding, outdoors, just family, exactly what we wanted.