Internalized Self-Hatred

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  • čas přidán 10. 06. 2021
  • It is inevitable that we will experience events, situations and circumstances in our lives that will seemingly communicate to us that we are not worthy of love, respect and value. When unacknowledged and unaware, these beliefs become part of our psyche that then increasingly sabotage our lives, resulting in self-destructive behavior through both abuse and neglect.
    By learning to become aware of our beliefs through our behavior, and incrementally changing our behavior, we begin to change the underlying beliefs, those that are inherently untrue and out of alignment with proper belief in the light, love, mercy, grace, goodness and benevolence of God.
    How we treat ourselves is a direct reflection of how we believe we should be treated, and thus is a direct reflection of our beliefs about God. To heal our relationship with God, we must heal our relationship with ourselves.
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Komentáře • 47

  • @rohaibmahmood8198
    @rohaibmahmood8198 Před 3 lety +60

    This man is underrated

    • @marymasstherapy7370
      @marymasstherapy7370 Před 2 lety +4

      I absolutely agree

    • @melissadelgado3381
      @melissadelgado3381 Před měsícem +1

      I’m a Christian and I’m finding my soul being fed through his teachings. God is working through this man.

  • @mohammadqasim1295
    @mohammadqasim1295 Před 3 lety +13

    You spread the message of peace and love, as did Maulana Balkhi (Rumi), in the best possible, understandable (to most people of this time), and practical way. Kindly keep uploading and enlightening us.
    May Allah SWT bless you Ihsan brother.

  • @jrovert
    @jrovert Před 3 lety +9

    A beautiful message of hope to all. 🙏❤️ May God continue to open our hearts and minds to the blessings of His creation

  • @fahmidalutfullah361
    @fahmidalutfullah361 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you brother İhsan, for such a positive message which we can all benefit from!!!! Your message is like a healing balm!

  • @kausarbibi3436
    @kausarbibi3436 Před 2 lety +5

    An amazing topic and video that sadly affects so many today. Destructive methods are being used to address this lack of love and cover the pain. Thank you for sharing this message of love and wisdom.

  • @ananoud
    @ananoud Před rokem +2

    Whenever I feel what I'm feeling there you are showing up on my feed and as soon as I listen to your reminders I cry because it makes me realise that Allah is reminding and sending me messages through these amazing videos and messages. I wish more people like you were out there passing on messages the way you do.

  • @shazmahmood280
    @shazmahmood280 Před rokem +2

    This has to be one of the best videos ! I enjoy watching reminders repeatedly, and how the meanings are so different @ stages of ones life.

  • @Mercy_bahr
    @Mercy_bahr Před 3 lety +2

    love you!

  • @BismillahirRahmanirRaheemB

    Much appreciated man.

  • @SadiaM1960
    @SadiaM1960 Před 3 lety +2

    Jazaka Allah khayran

  • @Eightandahalf
    @Eightandahalf Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you! 🌹

  • @ZiggyCoco
    @ZiggyCoco Před 3 lety +6

    Just what I needed to hear. Thank you Ihsan.

  • @abidaaltaf5212
    @abidaaltaf5212 Před 3 lety +2

    Subhanallah... Jazakallahu khair

  • @BubbleBratable
    @BubbleBratable Před 3 lety +1

    Subhana’Allah jazzakallahu khair

  • @TheBoogiebruva
    @TheBoogiebruva Před rokem +1

    Thanks a lot for this

  • @superd96
    @superd96 Před 3 lety +1

    Great video - Thank you brother.

  • @yahyeabdirashid9716
    @yahyeabdirashid9716 Před 3 lety +1

    I love you so much, brother

  • @vahabmalik6458
    @vahabmalik6458 Před 3 lety +1

    Very useful video 👍

  • @5starStunner1978
    @5starStunner1978 Před 3 lety +2

    I needed to hear this. Jazakallah brother Ihsan.

  • @seemachoudhry2960
    @seemachoudhry2960 Před 3 lety +4

    I think your videos are fantastic.....please make more.

  • @shehrzadqasim4900
    @shehrzadqasim4900 Před 3 lety +1

    May Allah bless you, you are guiding and healing people.

  • @sarah14843
    @sarah14843 Před 3 lety +2

    May Allah reward you immensely, thank you for helping us 💕

  • @CG-zi5ku
    @CG-zi5ku Před 2 lety +1

    Mashallah.

  • @eval2314
    @eval2314 Před 3 lety +3

    Asalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu brother!
    Much love and appreciation from Albania. Love you brother! May Allah bless you and reward you! Ameen!

  • @arrivalsstartaxis1683
    @arrivalsstartaxis1683 Před 2 lety +1

    Mashallah Mashallah

  • @tremonia1014
    @tremonia1014 Před rokem +1

    your channel gives me hope to keep going I am more than grateful ¡
    Thank you
    ما شاء الله

  • @YT-dw5eq
    @YT-dw5eq Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you!!

  • @aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557

    سلام عليكم و جزاك الله خيرا..
    Deeply interesting and beneficial..
    Rectify ourselves..
    Taking responsibility and healing by our Eman..
    Belief..
    I am telling myself I believe That ..
    Dhikr become Confirmation also..
    الحمد لله بخير

  • @magnolia8626
    @magnolia8626 Před 3 lety +2

    I agree. Any religion that teaches us we are sinful and inherently bad in the eyes of God is a very damaging religion. This is still taught in many orthodox Christian sects.

  • @paolasandoval6992
    @paolasandoval6992 Před rokem +1

    Haqq ❤

  • @rizwanai8753
    @rizwanai8753 Před 11 měsíci +1

  • @hana.xplorz_GB
    @hana.xplorz_GB Před 2 lety +2

    I have BPD sometimes I don't know who I am or if I'm worth anything, I battle my BPD on a daily basis. Sometimes I don't feel like I belong

    • @anniex5233
      @anniex5233 Před 2 lety +2

      Hi sister
      I also was diagnosed with BDP when I was 18 and I think the best thing you can do is stop internalising the diagnosis. I was lucky enough that I found a holistic therapist and she told me there is nothing inherently wrong with my brain, I just learnt several coping mechanisms and belief systems and behavioural patterns, but they’re like wearing a woolly sweater, I can choose to not identify with it and take it off
      I know it’s easier said than done, I’m 20 now and some days I will still struggle, but realising that Allah created me perfectly and I can become that perfect state of peace again really helped me
      May Allah make easy your journey

  • @rot.7525
    @rot.7525 Před rokem +1

    You are helping remain Muslim

  • @norrinamobarez7076
    @norrinamobarez7076 Před 2 lety +1

    May Allah help you help us. 🤲🏻☀️🧎🏻‍♀️

  • @Dmitriy-hf7jv
    @Dmitriy-hf7jv Před 3 lety +7

    I'm a Christian and I've practiced Islam for a year but I never said the shahada. It has been about 7 years since I had the revelation that Islam isn't wrong, it's just wrong for me. Because my bloodline is that of Isaac, and not of Ishmael. With that being said, Im thankful I found you. I relish in many of your videos because I wish more religious people took what you say more seriously. I wish for Christians and Muslims to unite. The people of the book are being led to slaughter by being divided and set against each other because of our differences. But that's a big lie because we are actually the most alike.
    So with that being said, I'm compelled to tell you this. I believe, or have a strong feeling or sense that the root of you making videos less frequently is actually due to the lack of views.
    I am one person who is thankful for your videos and check CZcams specifically for your channel. Please don't forget that what you are doing is not for you, it's for God. And the byproduct of serving God is serving humanity.

    • @MuhammedMishal369
      @MuhammedMishal369 Před 3 lety +1

      Hey....how you feeling now....

    • @yasminkausar5186
      @yasminkausar5186 Před 3 lety +3

      Salaam brother...Alhamdulilah, they say every drop creates an ocean...My teachers, teachings are far removed from just set Laws, regulations and practices to focus on the 'soul' of Islam...We are nothing without the soul, empty practices are empty of the essence of our creator...Ustadh Ihsan teaches Islam as a whole...Glad to hear you are benefitting...The basic message of ALL faith is the same, we must open our hearts to learn of God and our purpose no matter what religion...
      Ustadh Ihsan has teaching modalities were he spends most of his focus through his website Spiritual Excellence.com...He's messages n teachings are universal...Blessings

    • @berhoom2024
      @berhoom2024 Před 3 lety +3

      your post makes no sense - if you practise Islam, you have to say the shahada in the ritual prayer or after ablution. Also bloodline has nothing to do with truth. I have no bloodline from Isaac or Ishmael. Does that mean I should stay away from Judaism or Islam ? Strange. I'm of Hindu background and I am Muslim.

    • @Dmitriy-hf7jv
      @Dmitriy-hf7jv Před 3 lety

      @@berhoom2024Have a good day sir!

    • @muslimamustaqeem4376
      @muslimamustaqeem4376 Před 2 měsíci

      @@berhoom2024 leave the man alone! His post makes sense, you have to learn what Islam is first....subhan Allah. Wahabism is not Islam.

  • @yasminkausar5186
    @yasminkausar5186 Před 3 lety +1

    😥🤲

  • @mar1no124
    @mar1no124 Před 3 lety +1

    Forgive me for using your videos as ASMR 😊