Most Insane Voicemail Ever - Very Really Good

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  • čas přidán 18. 05. 2024
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    Crazy episode this week where we talk about me in variety magazine, miranda sings controversy, some dating app dms with the most insane voicemail ever!!!
    0:00 intro
    3:55 im in variety magazine
    8:26 miranda sings/colleen ballinger controversy
    18:14 kurt vs siri
    20:22 dating app weirdo voicemails
    51:38 heart to heart
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    VRG theme song by Erkle Hannson
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  • @veryreallygood
    @veryreallygood  Před 11 měsíci +2058

    SORRY WE HAD SOME TECHNICAL DIFFICULTIES BUT WE’RE BACK

    • @junebuggy1
      @junebuggy1 Před 11 měsíci +81

      its okay kurtboy we love you forever & always

    • @caseyhaggerty4089
      @caseyhaggerty4089 Před 11 měsíci +107

      i almost thought i hallucinated watching it earlier

    • @dgtlnerd
      @dgtlnerd Před 11 měsíci +20

      yeah i watched this earlier lmao i was wondering what happened

    • @lotus3596
      @lotus3596 Před 11 měsíci +1

      yay😭

    • @huntercadima
      @huntercadima Před 11 měsíci +5

      I WAS SO CONFUSED YAY

  • @madisonc6972
    @madisonc6972 Před 11 měsíci +1729

    the pipeline between "hey Siri, are you sentient ?" to "do it fart ?" was crazy

  • @blue-cz5bv
    @blue-cz5bv Před 11 měsíci +2400

    It's okay to cry man, we care about you so much. Please take the time you need, you've helped us all through so many shitty times and you deserve that love in return. I'm so sorry for your loss Kurtis. If you need a few weeks off I promise we'll understand. Please take care of yourself.

    • @tyta.luctuosa
      @tyta.luctuosa Před 10 měsíci +73

      Him fighting against his tears made me cry (and also the fact that the first thing that came to his mind was to tell us to hug our dads, it just goes to show how good of a person he is), that's how much he means to me and to all of you as well, i'm sure. And as a person who has a language barrier between me and my dad, i'd love to hug him but it would just come off forced.

    • @crashh-course
      @crashh-course Před 10 měsíci +21

      bro he mentioned his stepdad n i remembered the instagram post n started bawling... kurtis, man. makes me cry more to see him try not to, as someone who only TRULY and full power emotion cries when she's alone.

    • @QuiteLiterallyTom
      @QuiteLiterallyTom Před 6 měsíci

      Xdd

  • @nutsack2100
    @nutsack2100 Před 11 měsíci +125

    "i'm looking for the sound"
    "AAAAHHHUUUUGGG-"
    "that's not it."

  • @circusclown1503
    @circusclown1503 Před 10 měsíci +1265

    This man is not the neurodivergent representation we need 😭

    • @pisscvre69
      @pisscvre69 Před 10 měsíci +246

      the kinda guy to use "neurodivergent" as an excuse to be a FUCKING NIGHTMARE

    • @sigh_yuri
      @sigh_yuri Před 10 měsíci +80

      like we already have it bad enough with how easily ppl think we’re manipulative and using excuses for him to use our traits as the explanation for his horrendous behavior

    • @Sokal.D
      @Sokal.D Před 10 měsíci +7

      Which part(s) of the podcast is this in reference to?

    • @tpwkluvs2115
      @tpwkluvs2115 Před 10 měsíci +39

      @@Sokal.D the bumble guy

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 10 měsíci +22

      Kurt is the rep we need

  • @rachelfgonzales
    @rachelfgonzales Před 11 měsíci +2550

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad, too, and think a coke and popcorn in his honor sounds like a pretty great way to honor him to me. This wasn’t a buzzkill at all, thanks for sharing with us. To be honest, ending the pod with something heartfelt and genuine was probably the best thing to follow that creep’s stalker messages. Hang in there, Kurt.

  • @vincentwise3188
    @vincentwise3188 Před 11 měsíci +501

    This guy will not stop saying "I'm sorry if this comes off creepy" while continuing to intrude.
    *follows you home* "I'm so sorry if i creeped you out, that was not my intention at all. I just wanted to make sure no one followed you home cause I'm a caring guy "

    • @vincentwise3188
      @vincentwise3188 Před 11 měsíci +28

      Adding because I just got to the end: I'm so very sorry for your loss Kurtis. Never apologize for your feelings

  • @fartybutt42069
    @fartybutt42069 Před 10 měsíci +197

    I feel bad for anyone only listening because Kurtis’ horrified facial expressions are golden

  • @00Noir
    @00Noir Před 11 měsíci +469

    You reacting to these voicemails is putting this episode into S tier status for me. The funniest fucking faces and everything you're saying is 100% facts. Sorry to hear about your step-dad ❤ big love = big grief

  • @michael-tu7ec
    @michael-tu7ec Před 11 měsíci +821

    i heard the voice messages in nicks video and it was painful but i will endure the torture again for you kurt

  • @egg4666
    @egg4666 Před 11 měsíci +1327

    Seeing Kurtis physically reel and cough like he inhaled an entire cigarette during those voicemails is so justified

  • @abbiedoescrimes4086
    @abbiedoescrimes4086 Před 4 měsíci +36

    "sorry for crying on here" KURTIS IT'S OK WE LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU

  • @savanbanan51
    @savanbanan51 Před 8 měsíci +59

    doesn't matter how many times i hear the voice memos, im always surprised and horrified at how long they are

  • @olive6466
    @olive6466 Před 11 měsíci +1767

    Deepest condolences for your step dad. Never apologize for your feelings!! Especially how valid these ones are. I hope you can grieve properly and do whatever you need to move on. Much love 🩷

    • @KuraiCelestial
      @KuraiCelestial Před 11 měsíci +3

      Why have i seen so much people use that question mark

    • @partypoison5135
      @partypoison5135 Před 11 měsíci +16

      @@KuraiCelestial i think it may have been the pink heart its an apple update

    • @froggy5748
      @froggy5748 Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@KuraiCelestialit’s the new pink heart emoji on apple! If you’re on IOS you might need to update your phone :)

  • @Gorentaya
    @Gorentaya Před 11 měsíci +652

    As someone with ADHD i have never cringed as much as i did listening to those voice messages. Holy shit, the lack of self awareness is so embarrassing. You can HEAR in his voice he thinks he is the main character and the coolest person on planet earth.

    • @cl0v3rg4rd3n
      @cl0v3rg4rd3n Před 10 měsíci

      ^^

    • @phonegloomy
      @phonegloomy Před 9 měsíci +29

      yeah, i have adhd and soon-to-be diagnosed autism, and uhhhh wow i dont claim that guy 💀💀

    • @nomoretwitterhandles
      @nomoretwitterhandles Před 8 měsíci +18

      @@phonegloomy First of all, you CANNOT say you have "soon-to-be diagnosed autism" if you are not diagnosed, because that implies that you WILL be diagnosed (which you don't know if you will). Autism isn't a cute or quirky character trait, it's a big pain in the ass. If you're symptomatic of autism then just say so, but do not claim to be autistic or "soon to be autistic 🤪". A lot of us go through extensive screening and tests so we can have answers, not so we can brag about having autism on the internet.

    • @zazazadkiel
      @zazazadkiel Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@nomoretwitterhandleswho shit in ur cereal??

    • @moniqueortiz4489
      @moniqueortiz4489 Před 7 měsíci +52

      ​@nomoretwitterhandles As someone with autism as well, I dont think thats how they meant it and this was an unnecessarily aggressive response. If they are autistic, you just ostracized someone in your own community. I get what you're trying to say but I dont think thats how they meant it. Maybe they're 100% sure but are just going through the formalities of getting diagnosed. Sometimes you just know, you know? I knew for a while before I got formally diagnosed. Anyways, good luck out there everybody!

  • @zoey3107
    @zoey3107 Před 11 měsíci +342

    hey kurt

    • @ssnowstarr4985
      @ssnowstarr4985 Před 10 měsíci +8

      i'm really sorry to hear that. i lost my dad a few years back and it's really tough

    • @zoey3107
      @zoey3107 Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@ssnowstarr4985 sorry for your loss i hope you’re better now ♥️

    • @Novalyraa
      @Novalyraa Před 10 měsíci +5

      I’m really sorry I’m sending all my love your way ❤wishing the best for you

    • @zoey3107
      @zoey3107 Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@Novalyraa thank you so much

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 10 měsíci +2

      So sorry for your loss

  • @bbornitier
    @bbornitier Před 10 měsíci +389

    The head pats took me out. Thank you, Sabrina. The editing in that portion was top tier.
    I felt this really hard. My grandfather passed in 2015 and tbh I still haven’t quite recovered because he was basically my dad growing up. Time doesn’t heal all wounds, but it definitely makes things a little bit easier.
    Take care of yourself, Mayor.

    • @Novalyraa
      @Novalyraa Před 10 měsíci +6

      I lost my grandfather too I hope your okay ❤ :,)

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 10 měsíci +4

      Sorry for your losses

  • @jupiter_jazz
    @jupiter_jazz Před 11 měsíci +792

    hey kurt! i know how hard losing a parent can be, take your time with this & take breaks when you need to. i’m sending my condolences to you and your family. (also it’s always okay to express your emotions, so please try not to feel bad about it.) love ya kurt!

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 11 měsíci +6

      Sorry you lost a parent

    • @jupiter_jazz
      @jupiter_jazz Před 11 měsíci +6

      @@placeholderdoe it’s okay ❤️ thanks for your kind words!

  • @artpadlife8
    @artpadlife8 Před 11 měsíci +612

    We don't care if you cry, man!
    My step-dad has been there for me my whole life too and I can't even imagine how hard it would be to lose him.
    All of your fans would support you taking some more time for yourself too. Grieving sucks.
    Wishing you the best and sending my condolences for your dad.

  • @scattrbeard
    @scattrbeard Před 11 měsíci +1145

    Hey Kurtis,
    Long time listener, first time commenter.
    Just wanted to hop in and say I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure I speak for all of Kurtistown when I say we could all feel your sadness and totally understand how hard it must have been to power through those emotions to close out the episode and it's why we love you.
    This episode I laughed, I cried, and I laughed while I cried.
    An all-time episode from an all-time dude.

  • @halperry01
    @halperry01 Před 11 měsíci +166

    kurtis- im so incredibly sorry for your loss. i lost my dad 16 years ago and father’s day is always especially tough. we all appreciate you sharing this and being vulnerable. you’ve helped us all through bad times and as your audience, we’re here for you during yours as well. it’s never a buzzkill ❤

  • @girl05628
    @girl05628 Před 11 měsíci +513

    I am so, so impressed that you've continued to make content after such a huge loss. I remember you mentioning him quite a few times. I cant even fathom the pain you're in right now. Not that you need our permission, but of course take a break from creating content if you'd like. Ive never experienced a loss like that, so i cant even imagine how hard this is, but i still cried a little when you started talking about it. Its also incredible that you could make me laugh while talking about such a serious thing. Thank you for the amazing content you've made

  • @potfur_z_bagna
    @potfur_z_bagna Před 3 měsíci +10

    "Yeah, a lot of my friends are women and all of them have stories about creepy dudes texting them"
    "Also, I have big feet, think about what that means, babydoll"

  • @jalmonds662
    @jalmonds662 Před 11 měsíci +163

    It's safe to say thousands of people are mourning your loss and holding that pain with you. It's heartbreaking yet so moving to see you be honest and vulnerable. I hope you and your loved ones can grieve peacefully. Much love

  • @karawright9571
    @karawright9571 Před 11 měsíci +246

    It's okay to cry, it's your own podcast after all! I also lost my dad a couple years ago; it can be really painful to remember him and wish he was still alive. You've cultivated an audience that's caring and kind, so be kind to yourself.

  • @livvyyyyyyyyyyy
    @livvyyyyyyyyyyy Před 11 měsíci +692

    Kurtis, thank you for making content. It seriously cheers me up when I’m going through hard times.

  • @mothmistress
    @mothmistress Před 11 měsíci +28

    It's so amazing that Kurtis allowed himself to be so vulnerable and admit that Miranda Sings has always been terrible.
    Much love to you Kurtis

  • @imalittlestinker3451
    @imalittlestinker3451 Před 10 měsíci +41

    as a female presenting person who hasn't tried online dating but wanted to, I think most people in a similar position, in addition to myself, said: "never mind, I think I'm good" after hearing that message. my body physically cringed and I had to take a break when it got to a point where I was in fetal position. great podcast ep though, and I think I can speak for most of your viewers when I say that we're here for you and appreciate you, and all feel saddened for your loss. Hang in there

  • @unticinesetrans
    @unticinesetrans Před 11 měsíci +315

    I just really love the emotional message at the end, especially the not wanting to force love for a paternal figure that one doesn't love. Love is worth sharing with those who genuinely love you back. My deepest condolences for your loss Kurt, thank you for being you

  • @joojimaikeru
    @joojimaikeru Před 11 měsíci +297

    I'm honestly glad someone agrees with me on Colleen's past videos. I remember watching some of them. And to be specific, I have this memory of watching one where she slowly gave this guy this comically large papercut for a prank or whatever it was. It has stuck with me ever since lmao

    • @a.c0tt0nball
      @a.c0tt0nball Před 11 měsíci +32

      I thought she was incredibly weird!! I didn't know anyone in person who actually liked her videos, idk how she was ever popular

    • @cicciofrizzo6663
      @cicciofrizzo6663 Před 11 měsíci +16

      The few people I knew that liked her were all super into the fandom side of Tumblr (Sherlock, Doctor Who, Supernatural, ecc) and Tumblr in general, so draw your conclusions I guess

    • @kh-wp1mj
      @kh-wp1mj Před 11 měsíci +15

      i know i cant believe when people are like she seemed like the sweetest person when the videos of her animal abuse and racism and etc were all public like

    • @hotsexyangel
      @hotsexyangel Před 11 měsíci +1

      SHE DID WHAT 😨

    • @SuzER08
      @SuzER08 Před 11 měsíci +9

      Yeah I also never really "got" her videos. I always thought they seemed weird and figured they were just aimed at a younger audience than me. I was born in 1998 so I feel like in her hay day I was supposed to like her videos but I just found them very off-putting. And for the record I was a weird doctor who Sherlock fangirl lmao

  • @heyosj9705
    @heyosj9705 Před 11 měsíci +150

    sabrina's editing at the end was so cute. the headpats!! I'm so sorry for your loss Kurtis, thank you for being honest and sharing with us. Please take as long as a break you need! Kurtis town will always be waiting for you

  • @nadiahand108
    @nadiahand108 Před 11 měsíci +37

    Thank you, Kurtis for being vulnerable and talking about your step father. Don’t ever apologize for showing emotion. I’m crying with you. Im very sorry for your loss

  • @opeth7021
    @opeth7021 Před 11 měsíci +232

    hearing kurtis' voice crack and try not to cry was really hard almost made me cry. you are doing your best kurt. we love you so so much 🖤

  • @ashleyburklow241
    @ashleyburklow241 Před 11 měsíci +154

    Kurtis you could never be a buzz kill. Ur audience is chilling. Take all the time you need man.

  • @gunsn0t
    @gunsn0t Před 11 měsíci +51

    My condolences Kurtis, We are all so proud of you and your family. I lost my maternal grandfather a year ago. Loosing my grandpa, watching my mom loose her dad, and seeing my grandma loose her partner of 60+ years was so disheartening. We have all grown so much in the past year and supported one another in ways I never would’ve expected. Im sure of his importance to you guys and the loss it is to your family, but you guys got this :) wishing you well in mind, body, & spirit!

    • @ssnowstarr4985
      @ssnowstarr4985 Před 10 měsíci +3

      i'm so sorry. i know what it's like to lose someone like that and i wish you and your family the best

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 10 měsíci +1

      So sorry for your and the other replier’s losses, may they rest in peace

  • @kittymcgee411
    @kittymcgee411 Před 11 měsíci +8

    that voicememo took years off me life

  • @shaunajoyce5889
    @shaunajoyce5889 Před 11 měsíci +219

    Just cracked a can of coca cola in honor of your step dad. Sorry to hear about your loss, Kurtis. Im sure he was a stand up guy, having a hand in raising you to be the person you are. My best to your family during this difficult time.

  • @psychoticnk
    @psychoticnk Před 11 měsíci +452

    Thank you so fucking much for all of the amazing content over the years man, and for opening up about your horrific loss at the end. I'm crying right along with you, man. He sounds like he was an indescribably wonderful person and father to you and I can see how much of a tragedy this is for you. If it helps any, though I doubt you'll see this comment, your videos helped get me off crystal meth this last year, so ie kinda saved my life. I love you, man. Be strong.

    • @extremecatboy
      @extremecatboy Před 11 měsíci +33

      congrats on being sober, it’s hard to overcome addiction. please be proud of yourself :) 💚

    • @patriciapeters7604
      @patriciapeters7604 Před 11 měsíci +15

      That's crazy man, I'm proud of you, and I'm sure Kurtis is too ❤💪

    • @jacobmeyer2781
      @jacobmeyer2781 Před 11 měsíci +12

      Congrats on the sobriety man.

    • @moldy_tshirt
      @moldy_tshirt Před 11 měsíci +8

      holy smokes, huge congrats on sobriety!!

    • @gargles5270
      @gargles5270 Před 10 měsíci +5

      that’s amazing, congrats!!! :) 💖💖💖

  • @jolenezacher9708
    @jolenezacher9708 Před 6 měsíci +12

    I'm hard tearing up at the end. And I don't even have a dad.
    I'm Sorry for your loss Kurtis. You make millions of people smile and feel good everyday. Thank you ❤

  • @Caliio
    @Caliio Před 9 měsíci +14

    KURTIS, it hurts so much to see you hurt like that but we support you and always will. You are nothing like the guy in the voicemail talking a bunch, your job in the podcast is to talk a bunch, and we like hearing you talk A BUNCH. So please don’t feel embarrassed about crying or talking about it because this is YOUR podcast and you can talk about whatever you want. I am so sorry for your loss and hope that you heal. We hope you feel better soon along with your family. My condolences. ❤️

  • @akechilovebot3861
    @akechilovebot3861 Před 11 měsíci +146

    Dont ever feel the need to apologize man. You're grieving and that's okay you don't even owe us an explanation for taking time off. We citizens of Kurtis Town would never judge you for expressing your grief. My condolences for your loss and i hope that the pain eases soon.

  • @alexgomez8026
    @alexgomez8026 Před 11 měsíci +93

    Kurtis, your grief is so apparent, and your ability to still smile and laugh is so important and beautiful. My partner and I feel your pain and send love and support in your direction. Showing your grief was very inspiring and I'm sure it touched others as it did us, especially those who have experienced loss. ❤

  • @GeorgiaElizabethhh
    @GeorgiaElizabethhh Před 8 měsíci +17

    Kurtis I’m so sorry for your loss, I hope you know Kurtistown will understand if you need a break at any time. You’ve helped so many people by cheering them up with your videos & podcast & we love you!! Sending love to you and your family!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lazyapples13
    @lazyapples13 Před 10 měsíci +29

    Hi Kurtis,
    I’m so sorry for your loss.
    I’m currently going through my mom being palliative with not that long left. While I haven’t lost her yet, I very much feel the coping mechanisms vibes at the end of this podcast.
    I’m sending you ~ good vibes ~ at this time, and rest assured that your dad knew you loved him.
    Thank you for sharing; this made me feel less alone. I know that it wasn’t easy.
    Best,
    Random stranger on the internet

    • @dxnthmu
      @dxnthmu Před 10 měsíci +4

      you may not be religious but i’ll pray for your mom. i can’t imagine what you’re going through right now. you’re strong and your mom is very lucky to have you. much love, another internet stranger🩷

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 10 měsíci +2

      Wishing you and your mother good times

  • @isianian
    @isianian Před 11 měsíci +130

    Sorry about your dad, Kurtis. He lives on in you and everyone he touched in life.

  • @thatweirdanimalcrossingchick
    @thatweirdanimalcrossingchick Před 11 měsíci +66

    I lost my dad when I was 12. It's been 23 years now and as soon as you started talking about it I started to tear up because I know those feelings. It fucking sucks dude. You don't have to apologize for crying either. We're fans because you're a human just like us. Just funnier 😂. Side note I wait tables and I saw a girl wearing one of your shirts the other day! It made me so happy lol like I was seeing a fellow member of a club I was in

  • @mymindispropagating
    @mymindispropagating Před 11 měsíci +21

    Kurtis, as someone who has been a fan since your vine days and as someone who is currently going through their first ever major death....thank you for your vulnerability. Ive been a mess. Its nice to feel like thats a normal thing to experience during times like this. Sending all the love and hoping you find ways to grow with your grief ❤

    • @dxnthmu
      @dxnthmu Před 10 měsíci +4

      sending love your way, as well🩷 so sorry for your loss

    • @mymindispropagating
      @mymindispropagating Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@dxnthmu thank you...that means so much 💞🫂

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 10 měsíci +2

      So sorry for your loss, may they rest in peace and may you find peace as well

  • @PissWarlock
    @PissWarlock Před 4 měsíci +5

    “Fellow neurodivergent”; we do NOT claim him.

  • @chloe9179
    @chloe9179 Před 11 měsíci +141

    That guy is exactly how I'd imagine Brian Griffin would be like real life.
    Also, sending my condolences to you and your family. Remember that grief is just another form of love, that remains like a hand on our shoulders. We all appreciate you and your dedication to your channels, but never feel guilty if you have to take time off.

    • @olivia_vermast
      @olivia_vermast Před 10 měsíci +4

      Oh My God Yes huge Brian Griffin vibes

    • @mmeggnn
      @mmeggnn Před 10 měsíci +5

      never heard that explanation of grief, but really needed to. thank u for sharing

    • @chloe9179
      @chloe9179 Před 10 měsíci +5

      @@mmeggnn Got it from Vision in Wandavision ("Grief is love persevering"), I paraphrased but either way it has changed my own perception of grief a lot. Glad it helped.

    • @jeanettebutts9242
      @jeanettebutts9242 Před 10 měsíci +10

      "I am an animal guy but fuck cats". Most Brian Griffin man I have ever heard

  • @Kat-PM
    @Kat-PM Před 11 měsíci +80

    I lost my dad about a year and a half ago. I know how heartbreaking it is. It’s weird having to continue with your normal life when you’ve lost such an important guiding figure in your life. I completely relate to the impulse to make jokes to cope. Take all the time you need to take care of yourself.

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 11 měsíci +4

      hope you're doing better, sorry for your loss

    • @elvira4915
      @elvira4915 Před 11 měsíci +3

      Brought tears to my eyes. Same thing happened to me in my early high school years and its been a few years but the pain is hard. We can all get through this together

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@elvira4915 so, so sorry you lost your father.

  • @juliaaraae
    @juliaaraae Před 10 měsíci +13

    Hi Kurtis! I'm a proud member of kurtistown and wanted to say that I've developed really and anxiety over the last year and it's really hard for me to do simple things like shower or do my makeup without feeling anxious but your podcast has really helped me to just zone out and be present and laugh when I feel like I don't have control of my anxiety. Thank u for what you do, I'm so sorry for your loss and congrats on the variety article!!

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe Před 10 měsíci +1

      Hopefully your anxiety gets better soon, sending my wishes

  • @sylicaa4348
    @sylicaa4348 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Using the fart sound effects to help you power through grief was so real, def been there before 😅 sending you and your family love ❤

  • @m_a_k_e_n_n_a
    @m_a_k_e_n_n_a Před 11 měsíci +80

    kurt your videos and humor were there for me during one of the worst and scariest times of my life, and I appreciate you. now that you've shared the memory of your stepdad with all of us he's immortalized in this small way. I hope you feel better soon

  • @torianderkin8910
    @torianderkin8910 Před 11 měsíci +52

    i know i’m not the only one who really appreciates you openly talking about you’re feelings and certain things that happen in life. i’m so sorry for your loss but really appreciate you being so vulnerable with us, especially after these last few years.

  • @1lylondon
    @1lylondon Před 11 měsíci +10

    I’m so sorry Kurtis, it didn’t kill the mood it’s difficult for anyone to talk about something as serious as this without shedding a few tears, stay strong bro we love you, I know your Dads super proud of you :]

  • @beaniebb
    @beaniebb Před 11 měsíci +16

    Thank you for making me laugh and cry in this episode. Grief is a complicated process and you are brave to share this with us. Sending you so much love and healing energy to you and your family. Biggest hugs from everyone here in Kurtistown ♥️♥️♥️

  • @ExtallOJV
    @ExtallOJV Před 11 měsíci +175

    Hey man, sorry for your loss. It sucks going through something like that yet still pushing through with making content and even talking about it to an audience. We all wish nothing but the best for you and your family

  • @sosocasualty
    @sosocasualty Před 11 měsíci +68

    Kurtis you are an absolute gift. Thanks for being so real.

  • @zeniascreativespace3890
    @zeniascreativespace3890 Před 11 měsíci +8

    You are never a buzzkill Kurtis. My heart goes out to you for your loss and may you and your family find solace and support during this time.

  • @HannahJaneYT
    @HannahJaneYT Před 11 měsíci +5

    My stepdad passed away in 2020 because of covid. I also saw him as my dad. The best thing for me was to embrace the love and support from friends and family that I had around me during that hard time. Also letting myself cry it out and express that emotion rather than pushing it down has helped too.

  • @boxmuncher21
    @boxmuncher21 Před 11 měsíci +47

    I lost my father when I was 13 years old and I learned that the first fathers day and the first one of pretty much each holiday without him is really hard, but it does get easier through the years. From everything youve ever said about him on your channel, your stepdad was an awesome man and he obviously loved you and your sister a lot. Your community loves you and were all sending our deepest condolences (btw, you slayed this episode, per usual) take care Mr. Mayor

  • @evy1073
    @evy1073 Před 11 měsíci +181

    this ep literally could notve come at a better time! having my evening sesh 🍃

  • @ashleyward3829
    @ashleyward3829 Před 11 měsíci +13

    we all love you, Kurtis. please take all the time you need and feel what you need to feel. we'll be here for you every step of the way ❤

  • @somber6396
    @somber6396 Před 10 měsíci +11

    We love you, Kurt, and we're with you through thick and thin. A big hug for all the best dads, whether they're here or not, may he rest in peace.

  • @Shigeo_WokeMob_Kageyama
    @Shigeo_WokeMob_Kageyama Před 11 měsíci +35

    I be giggling jumping up and down saying “yippe!” when the podcast uploads 🗣️

  • @cams545
    @cams545 Před 11 měsíci +29

    was listening to the pod at the gym, thanks for the sound effects at the end they helped me not cry in public. i miss my dad a lot and i will be having one big humongous bowl of popcorn with a rudonculously large coke in honor of both lawrence and my dad. thank you kurtis.

  • @hollmondmilk
    @hollmondmilk Před 11 měsíci +18

    My mouth was open the entire video for this thundercloud blue eye color man and his voice memos 🤡 I am also in the trenches and dating and would yeet myself if this man found me on socials.
    We all love you Kurt, I'm so sorry for your loss. He seems like such a great person and I'm glad he was in your life for as long as he was. ❤

  • @ninin11
    @ninin11 Před 11 měsíci +3

    dude that voice mail guy is UNBELIEVABLE

  • @zoe.zimbabwe
    @zoe.zimbabwe Před 11 měsíci +9

    "Your bio is just the fucking bees knees"
    I hated everything about that.

  • @beeanbeean
    @beeanbeean Před 11 měsíci +11

    We love you Kurtis, I am so sorry for your loss and it's really awesome for you to open up to your audience like this ❤
    Keep being redonkulous

  • @camilledumeige3
    @camilledumeige3 Před 11 měsíci +6

    You really do not need to apologize for not uploading or for crying on your podcast. Loss of a family member we deeply care about is always tough and we need moments to let it all out. Many of us empathize with you and I hope you have your own version of the Very Really Good podcast to take your mind off things, even for a bit.

  • @FamousFennec
    @FamousFennec Před 11 měsíci +24

    To those confused why he deleted this im assuming its because there were parts where they forgot to censor the voice text guys real name and had to fix some things

    • @crow1247
      @crow1247 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Yeah,,sometimes when he was scrolling the blur box wouldn't cover the name.

    • @gloomysoda
      @gloomysoda Před 11 měsíci +5

      the audio became really out of sync with the footage like 15-20 minutes into it the first time, it stayed out of sync for the rest of the video so they probably reuploaded to fix that. I watched the first upload and thought my wifi was lagging or something but it turned out to be the video

    • @crow1247
      @crow1247 Před 11 měsíci +3

      @@gloomysoda oh so thats why my video was weird. CZcams has been acting weird for like the past couple weeks and like every video I watch sometimes gets out of sync so I thought it was just CZcams acting up/my wifi. Thanks for explaining!

    • @FamousFennec
      @FamousFennec Před 11 měsíci

      @gloomysoda oh that started to happen when he turned his camera back on and fixed after 5 minutes, for a podcast I assumed he wouldn't be that bothered to reupload for it

  • @erinclayton4536
    @erinclayton4536 Před 11 měsíci +53

    thank you for being so vulnerable at the end of this podcast. As someone who lost a parent, I know there’s nothing anyone can say to take away your pain, but thank you for being so honest and open about this.

  • @lxver777
    @lxver777 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Your podcast helped cheer me up when my Grammy passed away-I’m so sorry you’re going through all this and I hope you’re able to find something to cheer you up today like your podcast did for me :) 💕 we love you kurtis!!

  • @azmanlugot8149
    @azmanlugot8149 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I'm sorry for your loss, your my favorite creator and you helped my laugh through some pretty dark stuff, it's ok to be sad and we understand if you need time to grief, sending you all the love and support you've given me over the years

  • @cheyhaar
    @cheyhaar Před 11 měsíci +32

    The good thing about being as empathetic and caring as you are, is that you’ve surrounded yourself with viewers that have the same empathy and care. I feel like I can speak for everyone when I say that you don’t ever have to worry about how sharing your feelings or personal experiences with us will effect how we see you or your content. I personally don’t take in any form of content with the goal of laughing the entire time. It sounds like Lawrence was an awesome guy, and I’m sorry for your loss. I hope that your family heals and that you have some better days ahead. For the sake of not sounding like the bumble guy, I’ll leave it at that.

  • @Ethan-io4ku
    @Ethan-io4ku Před 11 měsíci +28

    I really send my deepest condolences man. Your stepdad seems like a truly amazing and a 1 in a trillion type of person. I hope you and your family are doing okay and that heart to heart in the end was really beautiful.

  • @crazygoblinsexfiend
    @crazygoblinsexfiend Před 11 měsíci +1

    kurtis, i am so sorry for your loss, and so incredibly grateful you continue making content for us even though you’re going through a hard time. don’t feel bad for tearing up! we will always be here to support you

  • @AndreaRodriguez22999
    @AndreaRodriguez22999 Před 11 měsíci

    Came from Spotify to comment here on CZcams, you’ve brought me so much joy and I commend you for filming an ep despite most likely feeling so low kurtis. I am so sorry for your loss and I send the most heartfelt condolences to your family. Thanks for everything kurtis, sending love and strength to you guys. ❤❤❤

  • @juliannaomalley3026
    @juliannaomalley3026 Před 11 měsíci +10

    Kurtis I’m so sorry about Lawrence. I wish you the most comfort and love in your healing process, it’s the absolute worst. My stepdad, who was like a father to me, passed away in January and it’s been a lot of crying and laughing and uncomfortable jokes and more crying and Father’s Day this year sucked so much without him but it will get easier to think about him over time without crying. But in the meantime, do not apologize for crying and feeling and all the other terrible parts of grief. Sending all my love to you and your family ❤

  • @em0bxnn1ez13
    @em0bxnn1ez13 Před 11 měsíci +11

    man I was a solid 35 mins in to this when you first posted it LMAOOO so happy you finally reposted :D love you kurt boy

  • @webbedt03s
    @webbedt03s Před 10 měsíci +2

    i’m so so sorry for your loss, kurtis. when i saw your instagram post i audibly gasped, because i remembered how you talked about your step-dad with such admiration and love. continuing to make content and posting is amazing, and you are so strong to keep pushing during such a difficult time. watching you try not to cry and get choked up made me cry. i hope nothing but happiness for you and your family ❤️

  • @readytoenditall
    @readytoenditall Před 10 měsíci +5

    I’m so sorry for your loss Kurtis ❤ From what you’ve said of him in the past, it sounded like he was a really awesome dude and a great dad. I hope that you are taking care of yourself as best as you can, and leaning on your people for support.

  • @crow1247
    @crow1247 Před 11 měsíci +25

    I don't really know why this video went private earlier but?? Yay!! New epsiode!! Also, please take your time if you need it Kurtis. Your mental health is more important than uploading. Thank you for sharing what happened 💚🧡🧡💚

    • @jan.akisa.
      @jan.akisa. Před 11 měsíci +3

      the audio desynced at one point

    • @crow1247
      @crow1247 Před 11 měsíci +1

      ​@@jan.akisa.yeah I found l8tr. Thanks for explaining!

  • @drownedfishba
    @drownedfishba Před 11 měsíci +4

    God the first dude reminds me so much of how I met my ex, he said so much unnecessary shit in the beginning it was just like this 😭 and it did end with him being absolutely crazy out of his mind threatening to commit yk if I left him ..how did I ever even let it get to that point idk what to tell you i am ashamed I should've known 😭😭

  • @pleurnicharde
    @pleurnicharde Před 11 měsíci

    Just wanted to say thank you Kurtis for always sharing yourself, even in these vulnerable, emotional moments. You've been there for so many of us during our difficult times, giving us laughs and making it feel like we have a friend in the room even if we're alone. Whatever you need at this time, however you need to grieve, I hope you are able to do so and know you have so much support and love coming from so many directions 🙏🏽🫶🏽💞

  • @sophiejah
    @sophiejah Před 11 měsíci +2

    i’m so so sorry about your loss. losing someone is so fucking hard and grief is just eugh, the fact you still made this podcast today is amazing cause i know i wouldn’t be able to. hope you’re all good regardless, sending hugs to you and your family during this awful time

  • @nefelibata3213
    @nefelibata3213 Před 11 měsíci +20

    Holy shit dude I'm so sorry to hear about your step-dad. Sending you and your family condolences. I hope you let yourself take time off if you need it, everyone would understand. You've mentioned a few times over the years how important he is to you. Like everyone here, I'm always happy to see a new episode, but I'd never want you to feel obligated. If working helps, then I'm all for it, but if it doesn't then please put yourself first. None of us are going anywhere, there's no rush, and we'd rather you be well than anything else.

  • @DakotaWhite95
    @DakotaWhite95 Před 11 měsíci +15

    Holy cow brother. You had me actually crying there at the end. Don’t feel like you have to act in a certain way when you are who you are and everyone came here to see you. It is a very emotional situation when you lose someone you love. I think it’s healthy to talk about stuff I am going through because it makes it easier for me to process. Sending my deepest condolences! I mask with comedy as well.❤

  • @josie4401
    @josie4401 Před 11 měsíci +3

    kurtis, thank you so much for sharing that with us. you never need to apologize for being vulnerable or crying, if anything this just made me respect you more.

  • @sotiredlol
    @sotiredlol Před 6 měsíci +1

    i too play airhorn sounds and the vine boom when i am getting deeply emotional and vulnerable
    i feel this so hard right now, i recently found out my sorta distant dad is literally addicted to meth and like there's so many complicated feelings around it but i just really appreciate loved ones that are so genuinely there for me and in my corner and appreciate you sharing that with us, we love u

    • @Xstarzyy
      @Xstarzyy Před 5 měsíci

      Hey man, hope ur doing ok 🫂

  • @jillionjangles4177
    @jillionjangles4177 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Actually the most insane voicemail was when kurtis sent me 16 voice messages on insta talking about how he was “zooted off a mfer”

  • @tooi816
    @tooi816 Před 11 měsíci +7

    oh god my whole body convulsed and turned into black hole when he casually mentioned feeding the duck swans.

  • @chippylover
    @chippylover Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable about something personal Kurtis! I’m really sorry to hear about your loss

  • @jennifer.perren
    @jennifer.perren Před 11 měsíci +3

    Yeah that struggle not to cry was so real, dude...it means a lot that you shared at that emotional level. Good dads are hard to find

  • @octaviamendes6948
    @octaviamendes6948 Před 11 měsíci +16

    i’m genuinely sorry for your loss kurtis. i hope you know you can take your time to grieve we’re still gonna be here for you when come back. we’ll support you through all of it. thanks for doing you dude. lots of love bro ❤️

  • @possumqueen9964
    @possumqueen9964 Před 11 měsíci +11

    My condolences to you in this rough time Kurtis. I lost my father in December of last year so I understand how difficult it is to lose that person in your life. Take breaks and time for yourself during your grieving process. Never feel bad for expressing how you feel, the situation is tragic and crying is completely understandable. Peace and love 💗💗💗

  • @NoctiibisCos
    @NoctiibisCos Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you so much Kurtis for making videos and being a real one! Have so much fun watching everything you post and thank you for being so open and stuff, that can be so hard over the internet but just know that you’ve got this! Cried my eyes out I won’t lie lol, but just wanted to say that things will get better

  • @S-CCCC
    @S-CCCC Před 11 měsíci +1

    I swear grief is the weirdest - you can be sitting there thinking about someone you’ve lost and no tears but the second you start trying to talk out loud about that person it’s almost impossible not to cry. Lost my Dad 2 years ago and I still make him a card for Father’s Day

  • @annawallace3383
    @annawallace3383 Před 11 měsíci +13

    I know I don't know you Kurt, but you make my time on Earth a lot more funny and enjoyable. To see your love for Lawrence reminds me why we're all here. I'm so glad you got to love him and he got to love you. Take all the time you need friend. ❤