Scárs from my stepfather | Vicky Itenyo | Shared Moments with Justus
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Long live Vicky as we enjoy the blessings of God.
It only takes a courageous daughter of God to speak out . This is not for the faint hearted.... So many people out there are suffering with depression... And sucide.
Proud of you Vicky
It will pay off. She's on the right track
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When u have a child or children and feel that u want to move in with another man b sure to protect them coz its no longer about urself but about ur n ur children🥺🥺🥺I have been separated n later divorced him for the past 4½ years n trust me whenever a man approaches me i just measure their mind by how they relate wth me but non can see my girls until am sure this one will b a good one n yes God has blessed me wth the best n it took an year for me to finally introduce them
Lastly b4 u re marry sit down wth ur kid or kids explain that there will b a new man in their life n that from now they have 2 dads whether their biological father is bad or good let the children b the judge for that just play ur role as a woman and mom❤
U will b well Vicky i was also raised by my maternal grandma not bcoz my mum was dead or unable noo she got married n said she had no child so anyway lets move on from wea we r n put the past in the past🥺😭🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
That is why we have to stop romanticising motherhood, most women are unable to choose their children over a new man. How many children are being raised by their grandparents as their mothers enjoy their new marriages. Aye, women should know having a child does not fill the void in your heart, it makes your other unfulfilled desires burn 🔥 brighter, it makes future relationships difficult and it binds you at times forever with a man who despise with a passion. Also, women are not saints, you can love your children but you will always be resentful for the things you feel you have missed and man 👨 whose forever in your life
It is true Mary Kariuki. Women have to make decisions about when and how to have children. Since when things go wrong, we are the ones who end up having to bring them up alone, let us reason.
Yeah. Unfortunately mothers are not as perfect as we make them out to be. They are human beings with flaws just like anyone else.
This is a second story I am watching in youtube where a daughter has been molested by the step father and the mothers did nothing. Women please stop protecting the men who abuse your children. Living with a predator and protecting them is the worst sin. I better stay single than have a man around me who has abused my child
Well said women in Kenya it’s better for them to protect the perpertrator than their child
That is why so many children are scarred
Yeah. It broke my heart when she said her mum didn't believe her..and it's sad that they never talked about it towards the end.
Imagine mariage is more important to many kenyan women than the welfare of a daughter...just horrible.
Dearest Vicky, Sister from another mother & another continent: I am very proud of your having overcome so much trauma. May God continue to guide and news you.
We need to normalise having open/candid talks with our children on matters sex and sexuality from an early age. They certainly will look for that information from other sources if you don't provide it and it might not distorted
What a privilege it is to have women like you share your wonderful stories with the world. I wish more women could join this platform and know that they are not alone and help is available. Women please talk to the Lord, he answers. Thank you beautiful lady for being an inspiration and for your encouragement, God bless you. You are amazing ❤
Hi Vicky... I feel your pain in all this and I’m here for you. Whenever you want to talk, I’ll listen - I’m just a call or a text away
Vicky you are strong,a survivor indeed God got good plans for you dear.
Lots of love to you and Naima.
Forgiveness is the only medicine that will heal your soul, thanks for sharing, remain strong in the Lord, God loves you so much
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I have really cried.. You are very inspiring. And I have just remembered a friend who has had it rough.. Let me go and check on her. Some people go through very tough times. We need to check on each other.
Vicky you are a wonderful lady, I'm glad to know you in person, great work you are doing with our young lady N. So sorry for what you have gone through, may God continue blessing you in all your endeavors. We love you guys
Thank you for sharing and for being vulnerable Vicky. Love and light to you.
What a beautiful story of victory. Very well, beautifully narrated ❤️
You are so beautiful and God has not finished with you. That's why you couldn't go through with suicide and that's why you have started the healing journey! God is molding you. Stick with God and He will wipe all your tears. You are full of courage and you have a beautiful heart!
I'm still watching yet I'm really impressed with how Vicky actually narrates on the different phases in her life. You seem healed Vicky, the scars never disappear, but the way you narrate this is clear that you're healed.
You've really moved me to tears. I also lived in a shelter for 14 months with my 3 kids. And really an eye opener that this also exists in Kenya. My healing also started at that level. It was a moment of confrontation where you cry your eyes out and decide to stand up and face whatever the challenges are.
God bless you. Its a journey we keep moving... don't stop moving
@@SharedMomentswithJustus we definitely have to keep moving indeed and the tougher the challenges sometimes, the better the reward ❤
@@Stellageuz hugs ❤❤
God bless you Vicky, all my love and hugs😘😘
I really needed to hear this 🥰 Thank you
Hugs. Thanks for sharing your story. May you and your daughter enjoy the finest things in life. God is always faithful ♥️
Vicky hugs mummy 🤗🤗🤗God is in control
Hugs Vicky, your story is sad and very touching..indeed you are a strong girl..May God continue healing you🙏
Vicky, you are beautiful ❤️, God bless you
This is therapy....God bless
I think when you call God your father
I normally say, God, you are my father, my husband, my friend, my all in all....you find peace.
What I would like to say to people, please don't take any overdose of anything.....not blaming anyone...to avoid organ failure.
God bless you lady...you have a golden ❤️.... even thanking your Ex...you have a great ful ❤️
‘God will not heal what you hide’ ❤
Vicky, I have so much respect for you . We knew each other from high school days coz you were classmates with my friends linet and flora, many years back. I never knew how much pain you had/were going through and yet I would see you everyday either going to or from school and yet you managed to be ever jovial and happy. God bless you and your daughter. The world is really cruel. Glad you are doing well.
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I always love the happy ending n acknowledging God above all...may God heal u completely Vicky
Thanx for sharing your experience! Big hugs
Vicky you are such an inspiration. May God continue to bless you and Naima. We love you
Hugs vicky, u are so beautiful, eloquent and good story teller.Always put God first.i wish u well 💓
Inspiring! God bless you Vicky.
Thank God for your healing. Also thank you for using your story to teach the world. I pray your path will be like “Prov 4:18”
God bless you! Hugs 🤗
Your story is so heart breaking,,May the Almighty make it easy for you hun ,,
My darling Vicky. Super proud of you for standing to share your story as am sure many who suffer in silence. I love you and Naima....as you know. You have always been in my corner and today I celebrate you...🥰❤️
Vicky you are strong and you have done well.Thank you for helping a life somewhere.Thank you for the ability to forgive.About your stepdad,it will come with time.Just pray about it and live your life.Fall in love with yourself more.I congratulate you for this far you have come.Glory to God.Kiss that daughter everyday.I see a young girl who will grow to be a great woman in future.It ends when God is the center.Kudos and many hugs mami💕💕💕
Thank you for sharing your story Vicky. I am Encouraged.
Hugs and love mommy ♥️
Very Emotional Testimony 😢 Stay Blessed God is Faithful
Encouraging. There is God in heaven. 🙏
Vicky, despite all you have gone through, remember, "it is well"
Vicky tuko wengi,hugs dear
Good and educative testimony. Every situation however bad it is must finally have an end....
You are so beautiful and wonderfully made such a strong lady ,,,
Hugs Vicky 🤗
Justus I have a story to share. I hope my healing will start there
Hugs and love Vicky.You are prayerful.keep strong.
A step to healing. It shall be well.
God bless you!
These testimonies and experience is a whole ministry in itself. You know not how many souls you touch and give a reason to hope for a better tomorrow, that all is not done until it is done... it shall be well
You're right
Sorry Vicky never understood you but at least i met you you are strong and unajiamini sana as a strong woman 💕
Thank you for sharing your story and im sure it will help others
All is gone be well you've taken a step to refurbish all that happened and be the best version of you that you deserve to be, just know that God cares about you much and you gone get over this
Thanks Vicky for telling your story for many of us...every single word you said, describes me. I also have a son and struggling with identity and forgiveness. God help us all to get to the point of healing
'God will not heal what you hide' 👏👏👏
So so so many hugs mummy
Wow so Touching..... Nothing is impossible. I'm Proud of You Vicky. (Jeremiah 29:11)...
Always a good verse
I agree,I did a video on this also,the dirty old men in our lives. True the perpetrator is close,our uncle, grandfather, stepfather, cousin's and others.
Especially cousins, sad
Sad story.sorry for all you went through.beautiful ending.
And your command of English language is remarkable!
If u Eva feeling like talking u r well come 🙏💕😇
Sending you hugs❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏😘😘🥰🥰
You're a strong woman, keep your faith and trust in God and all good things will be added to you.
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My dad was not in my life like he should have been.
Waiting!
I’ve cried and laughed throughout this interview. Thank you for being vulnerable with us, you’re so strong Vicky. Your relationship with your daughter reminds me of mine. I wish you everything good in this world. 🙏🏾❤
Too much loss but when you are on the side of God. Things always change.
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Am sorry Vicky!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I remember my ex ,step father to my daughter asking me na nikirape mtoto wako unaeza nifanya nn? Sikuamini masikio yangu..nliona kama sijasikia...
Wah I am a single mum and reading these stories damn
She is cute
Biiig 🤗🤗🤗
Kaki pole pole… some of us have lost so much..mum /son / never to know my father.., same things happened to me… but ha long story.. but u know what u have to live on n know u r not alone please love be strong 💪 please hugs I love you.. I have been there etc 😢😢❤️🙏♥️if u Eva went to talk to u r well be blessed 😇
Your money failed you..she was not supposed to continue living with the rapist..she chose a husband over you..
How sad 😢
Vicky you are just a strong woman, May God come through for you and your daughter Naima,
Amen
You are a strong woman my dear. Whatever happened to you was dreadful, but you are rising beyond your pain to help others. Kudos my sister as we join hands to change lives, one life at a time. Im so proud of you. Baraka tele
No, your mother was not an amazing mother. She protected your abuser. If that's what makes a mother amazing. I dare you do the same to anyone who'd abuse your daughter. (God forbid & this is not my wish for your daughter-because some small minded people will think I am).
Quiet peace
Hi Vicky, well you are saying your Mom was an amazing woman! Mmmmmmm....... I politely wish to have a divergent view despite it being invalid. She wasn't a good caring mother because she betrayed you and freely sold you to her barbaric lover.... You are so beautiful, eloquent and strong woman in your maturity and I affirm you for that.
Just for the sake of Justus fans and listeners to your story, I want all of you to know that in as much as many of you are from a single mother families, some of your mothers sacrifice your vulnerability to chase their happiness leaving you to this stupid foolish step fathers and other opportunists out there. Step fathers are never that easy or loving as is expected. A woman that gets married with a child from previous sex escapades/rape/divorce God forbid and leaves such a kid at the mercy of men there are failures. You cannot bring out a child to this world out of carelessness or forced circumstances then abandon such a child and continue chasing new love with total disregard of the innocent vulnerable kid. Such women are not loving mothers in my view. I could be wrong but I hold that view as an individual.
Vicky, sorry about your sister, friend and mother's demise. Regarding your drunkard father, forgive him. His relationship with your mom didn't happen for their own reasons but happy to you because you got to know him finally as per your wish.
Naima for you is a 🎁 please Vicky by that a lone and based on your past history, never leave your kid to anyone as your mother did...!! Never...
The second attempt to suicide was God's plan to test your faith and deliver you once and forever. Now give yourself fully to Him and nothing shall ever happen to you till death. Your child and you are safe under His wings. It shall be well my daughter. Naima is a special kid who belongs to Christ. God's script is always the best. He started unpacking your wounds slowly and helped you unpack yourself to a new creation. You started discovering yourself. God is your father. Once in His kingdom, nothing shall ever happen to you.
Justus, this channel of yours is taking people places. May you continue with God's grace.
It’s because love is a complicated thing, your loved ones may hurt you, but we live in a society where we are socialised to live and honour them regardless. I think she’s torn and it’s quite a conflicting situation to be in. But you are right, the society is too merciful on mothers who chase self pleasures while their children suffer. I wish we could tell women having children is better than having them with anyone. Because even if I have a child today, I will always be looking for a grown up to love me because children can’t fill that void of companionship. I know most mothers would have us believe that once you have a child all you do is think about what’s best for them. But that is not human nature, for most they will still chase after their own happiness but at this point, desperately.
@@marykariuki7381 well said. I listen to these type of stories alot in counselling and I can tell you some mothers are that inconsiderate and uncaring yet they are the ones that brought these innocent vulnerable kids to this wold. It breaks me each time I listen to this type of stories....Her X too wasn't caring enough for he should have allowed a woman she once loved go to an adult orphanage despite the differences. She is such a beautiful woman in-out. May God grant her wisdom to urge on
@@balancedviewpoint7418 yes 🙌 its time we started addressing toxic mothers. Honestly, they are a part of the problem.
That was a selfish toxic mother..
How do you live with someone who has defiled your daughter?
I struggled with that too..when she said her mom was a good mother. But I can see the conflict for her.
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Where is this Hope Center?
Where is that hope center located at I think I need help before I do something regrettable..am Soo tired of trying to be ok
I want to hug you Rn 🤗🥺
Such a lovely lady. God has really drawn you to himself! Wow!
2 Corinthians 12:9
"And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.
Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me."
Indeed you are walking and talking with God.
She.was.truly.depressed
I want to teach you a dance🙆
She was truly depressed
I AM VICTIM OF BEING ANGRY WITH MY FATHER BECAUSE HE NEVER SHOWED UP IN MY LIFE UP TO THIS MOMENT AND AM 44 YEARS OF AGE THE WUND IS STEEL FRESH.
I am so sorry.
Have you tried to reach out to him?
Just finished watching this and looked Vicky up on socials. Then I realized that her late sister was my friend and school mate back in high school. I was sleeping right next to her during her first (I think it was) suicide attempt. I am so touched by your story Vicky. It was so heart wrenching to receive news of Julie’s passing. ❤️
Small world @Di Kajigi the loss of a loved one is never easy... Thanks for watching. Let's spread love and more love
Healed wounds, ugly scars.
Why didn't you shout for help since there was someone in the house????
Of course he threatened her and covered her mouth, stop victim shaming.
I remember my ex ,step father to my daughter asking me na nikirape mtoto wako unaeza nifanya nn? Sikuamini masikio yangu..nliona kama sijasikia...
Sad 😔
Waaah pole hope hauko uko bado