Our househelp introduced me to lesbianism at 4 years
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Advice to men,if you get in a relationship with a lady who has a child already please treat the innocent soul with love and respect.Huwezi pretend to love the mother and yet hupendi mtoto wake
You have good point brother thank you
Tell them.thenkyo
Very true tell them plz
Thank u
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Can you please add subtitles when the participants start speaking another language outside of English.
One day I hope to be able to speak up as boldly as she has done. I know the therapeutic effects of speaking up. I relate perfectly well to her story only that I am a man. I sought solace in speaking up through my CZcams channel. One day I pray I have this kind of boldness. Parents need to stop being selfish and take full responsibility in bringing up their children soberly.
May God give you the strength to do so...you will be relieved and many will be inspired
God speed. In sue time you will, and it will make a whole difference to you and others. Thanks for watching and for your feedback. Kindly subscribe
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God will allow some things to happen to you for his Glory,I can also relate with what she is saying but in the end I know why it happened to me,the life I'm living now could be the only bible some1 else who is stuck in the world of LGBTI is reading.
yep meshack things happen in life but God heals all these wounds
I like this style of interviews, let her speak without interruption. That was powerful.
Me too
Amen
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@@rosejullie7541 i felt a connection with you in less than 10 minutes of watching this video. I stayed all through and and i understood many things you felt.
I also learned from you.
You're a good narrator and i would love to vlog with you whenever i visit Kenya.
When an adult does that to you at such a young age, it's not called Lesbianism. That's a Paedophilia.. Calling it Lesbianism gives a bad name to consenting adults who are attracted to each other. But still, I empathize and sympathize with your situation. It's horrible that you went through this. No child should go through what you went through. Children should be protected and understood.
Well said..coz if she was introduced to it doesnt mean she become one..
As parent we have to teach kids no one shd touch them their genitals or..keep secrets
It's both.
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That's sounds to me like rape, and child abuse.
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As a young single mom I have learnt a lot from you and I’m so sorry for what happened to you. It’s not okey for parent’s not to protect their kids and guys if you can’t love kids from previous relationships kindly wachana na single parents. When it comes to my son I can’t compromise I love him so much and will protect him as much as I can. He is 9yrs old and haven’t dated for years, I had never introduced him to any guy.. hugs gal and stay strong 😍
I'm only 19 but you're telling most of my story. I hope you overcame all that Julie, lots of love
Thankyou. Lots of love, I pray you heal
@@rosejullie7541 u strong
Single mothers out there please don't sacrifice your kids happiness in the name of getting a man to stay with in the name of a husband, your kids should come first , many kids are suffering silently in the hands of stepdads,
You're right Cate. Sadly the kids don't know any better until its too late. Keep sharing and inspiring. Kindly subscribe
Exactly.
Very true dear
ABSOLUTELY TRUE.
@@SharedMomentswithJustus my apologies, I commented before I saw subtitles.Thank you
And then that laughter she brings on just makes me join her. Am 27 and my father was never there for me or even a step dad. And I thank my mum for raising me as a strong person. There is nothing I can't handle putting in mind I was and I am the only child. May she rest in peace. As for you Julie, I like you and God loves you so much. Otherwise maybe that fire would give ppl the memories of you.
Julie, I know you probably don't know this but. One day in 2014, I was going back to school then reaching githu, the matatu turned coz of traffic so we got out and entered another which left us kwa highway but, I remember how much you helped me push my big bag till pale KU swimming pool. I didn't know you but you helped me. I will never forget this kindness.
Wow! Let's all support Julie in her healing journey as she makes the best out of her life. Clearly she's an inspiration. Thanks Astrid. Kindly subscribe and share
Thankyou. I remember
@@rosejullie7541 you are a brave woman, God is working things out for you
This is an inspiration. You're really strong.
Very wise word! I have a 4 year old daughter myself and I feel like the Lord caused me to watch your story as a lesson to truly invest in open , direct communication with you & your child. Thank you young lady for your courage to be transparent.❤️💕💝You are brave , bold! And beautiful inside and out. God bless
I listened to you intently, I love you, first I felt really bad, with how you felt and treated by your stepdad , But happy ending.
Please, I want to be your friend.
I have lean so much, I'll spend time with my kids now
I love her personality.
Fell for her in less than 10 minutes.
Really helpful content.
Saved.
You are telling the story so many of us have gone through. A house help used to molest me at age 4.. this has left me so scarred and broken... I will never trust any other human with my little ones. Parents, be careful whom you leave your kids with. Children never ask to be born.
@INSPIRE AND TRANSPIRE OFFICIAL thank you, this is the 1st time somebody has every told me sorry.
@INSPIRE AND TRANSPIRE OFFICIAL oh my dear ❤️ our God is faithful and always restores.....may everything that the locusts ate up be restored to us in Jesus mighty name🙌🏾
Someone commented here that its not possible for anyone to remember what happened to them at 4 years. And I thought, that is insensitive to thousands who can recount those traumatic experiences that they went through at that very age. Thanks Cindy speaking up. May yours be a source of healing for many much as for yourself. You are special. Never look back.
@INSPIRE AND TRANSPIRE I must commend you for what you are doing. Those who thought were breaking you, were wrong. See how you're now transforming other kids' lives. Keep doing it and it will pay off. Your dreams shall come to pass.
@@SharedMomentswithJustus yes I saw that comment, it was very insensitive. Molestation affects your psychy and gets ingrained in your brain. This even opens up evil spiritual doors that let in even more vile stuff. The enemy knows this , this is why he influences grown ups to do such despicable acts to young children. This is the ver first time I am publicly recounting this terrible ordeal I went through. Thank you for sharing such stories to the world, it truly puts us a step closer to full psychological, emotional and spiritual healing. God bless you Justus
Thank you for being so Bold and Brave and sharing your story Julie!!!!!
So much to learn 💞
I just have to say this....you soo strong Julie,just look at you smiling like you narrating sm' else's story....I love love your calm and collected character and the fact that you've moved on and you soo happy right now
This is heartbreaking but also eye opening especially to single parents and mothers to keep intent with kids.Trust no one with your kid.God bless you young lady.
Girl you just told my story in the most bold way... God bless you for me coz I have gained a lot of insight. I know I can do this now that I feel that I'm not alone. Thanks a lot
woi, my agemate that we share similar childhood experience ,now I know am not alone. the circle is big. I hope one day the childhood environment shall be safe for kids
It will Blessing. Thanks for watching
Amen. You're never alone
Julie this is your healing path....speaking out and sharing your story. I know you from the saint ministers singers and will be glad to support you in any way I can. You are indeed a strong lady
Thankyou. I appreciate
This is encouraging Julie, Am actually happy to see you come out with this in. Such a bold way... I remember you cried bitterly telling me this stories in high school. Strongest woman i know.
Are you the best friend she mentioned in her story?
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Mury👋Miss u
Sam emu tafta me Peter baya from mld we were together in kitui S. D.A. Mr mureu was our principal Oooh yes God anapatanisha wasee coming to Kenya this verry soon I really want to meet you guys in Nairobi before I go back to mld
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Absolutely wonderful testimony for women of all ages. Thank you 💓
Thanks for the courage to tell your story. I really learned a lot and I know many people would learn from your story
Wow!! So powerful and educative!
I've experienced a bit of step dad side lining me,, I'm so glad you got strong to grow through all of it 😘
It takes courage to share your story. Lessons for all parents...... May God protect all the kids out there, an eye opener to everyone with kids, hope you manage to overcome this in your life 🙏🙏🙏
I am also an introvert and it's what I experienced that made me to be so.
I like your story. The strength of a woman
The things she actually highlighted are so common in our homes.Many people choose to turn a blind eye.Thank you for sharing Julie.Many people should watch this.People should learn from this and parents watch out for your kids.You re never too busy for your kids.
You're very right. Let's keep sharing and inspiring the world. Kindly subscribe
Thank you for your testimony Rose. This was so triggering yet necessary to hear as some if us have also been through same circumstances. We all just shut our mouths and kept it pushing. You are strong
Thanks for your feedback Rita. May this be the beginning of healing for you and many others. Keep sharing and inspire more and kindly subscribe
I enjoy this young lady openness ,Everyone should listen to this lady ,she mention so many warning signs of a child hurting inside wanting to come out ! I,m so glad u talked about this. pain N Hurt ! this is healing . Ty for being so truthful. Ty , .goes to show too ,u cant truth some of your own family members either .I say to anyone .,keep your children close n talk openly to your children ,sothey can talk to u N come to u and talk openly .Ty ,young lady .God Bless .
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I have watched this episode through and through...Julie,you are a gifted story teller and bringing this out with calm and composure is great...Pole sana for all you have had to endure but keep going, keep pushing!
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Having connected together in campus in amazing ways, I would say I have always seen a strong woman in you even when I didn't know your story. You are intelligent and you know that. I'm glad to hear the other side of you. Keep going girl. You are strong.
Hello Mercy
thank you for sharing Julie it's never easy😭. You're strong!
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Great & inspiring, heart-searching story. You are on your final path to healing, & in the process, you have helped thousands face their pain! What courage! God bless you!
Amen. Thankyou
Just to add, to avoid replicating negative perpetuities in your life, use positive language. Rose kept saying that she didn't want to end up a single mum like her mum and didn't want to have a man/husband like her stepfather - and ended up in the same situation she wanted to escape from childhood. Instead, she should have said, I will be in a happy marriage before I have my children, I will have a loving, caring, honest, and kind man for a husband..etc. I hope this helps others on the same boat and good luck to you Rose, I hope your future is greater than your past. Shalom.
Such kind words
Exactly my story.hope so day I will find an opportunity to share.
I've gone through storms too.Jesus healed me.He is everything to me 🙏salute Julie💖
Great to hear that Adalia. We thank God for your healing. Let's keep sharing and inspiring. Kindly subscribe
Thankyou
You truly have a beautiful heart. You deserve much better, sometimes stones on the shores wants to get into the water while those in the water wants to get out..
Happy mother's day dear.
I really admire howmuch positive she is, the looks at all matters in a very positive way.
Let's take care of our Children. I went through alot In my life I promised myself I will take care of my children in the best way possible
And I wish you all the best Everlyne as you do that. God's blessings. Let's keep sharing this and change the world. Kindly subscribe
Me too
Same here me my mum abandoned me when I was 1 week old but thank God the mum who took me as her own was the best mom in the world till now ..
For those of us who do not speak the language please write a subtitle for us so we can follow the story......May God bless her and her home. Thanks for sharing your story.
click CC on the bottom right of the video there will be English subtitles
You are really strong😭😭😭Thanks for sharing this and we thank God for seeing you through that.
She's inspirational Dee. Let's keep sharing and inspiring. Kindly subscribe
You are a very smart, intelligent and very self-conscious woman. The way you have learned and analysed yourself is exceptional. You are a great story teller too. Amazing self healing you have done for yourself. What a great role model and teacher you are. Keep it up. Success to you and your son.
I agree, I was very impressed with her ‘self-awareness’ and emotional intelligence, especially considering how young she is and what kind of parenting she received (or should I say, that she did NOT receive) - I am amazed at her maturity!!
I am much older than she is, and I wish I had as much self-awareness and emotional maturity as she does. I had a messed up family too, in many ways like HER family - but I didn’t learn anything from it really, nothing helpful.... and so I ran away a lot, and not just locally .... one time, as a young teenager, I even stole money (a LOT of money!!) from my sister who was 10 years older than me (she forced me to live with her, because she hated our mother, and she spent so much time speaking badly about our mum, and she was very controlling of me, like i was her slave - and that really messed up my head.... so I stole the money because I was desperate to escape), and I bought a plane ticket to another country thousands of miles away... I was 15 yrs old. Some people would say ‘oh, what you did is terrible’.... but I was escaping all these family problems. (I paid her back, by the way, when I finally returned to my country - it took me a LONG TIME to pay all of the money back. But sadly, she then made me come live with her again, and the only way I finally escaped from her was by getting married at 20 yrs old to someone I knew i should not be marrying..... mmmmm).
Thanks Julie for sharing. Out of this wreck, we come strong, mature and committed. God is good.
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You all prolly dont give a shit but does any of you know of a way to log back into an instagram account?
I stupidly lost my login password. I would love any tricks you can offer me
So many can relate your story with theirs in one way or another. Your mother chose a subtle way of dealing with her challenges leaving you exposed.
The way people insult mama wa kambo and yet baba wa kambo wengine ni wabaya sana mmmmm anyway we thank God for you
I like the level of understanding of your own life experiences nd how they built your character
You are wise
You just made me laugh, talking about your pregnancy and what you wish the child to be:)
God bless you
Me too 8 months later 😂
This is a strong woman,hope one I can also be bold enough to come out of what I passed in my childhood.may God bless u Julie may He fulfil your heart desires.
This is so bold. May God take you through this healing journey. Thank you Justus for the platform
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@@SharedMomentswithJustus done!
Proudly single parent. Thanks be to God for this far. God turns tears into smiles as years go by.
I really enjoyed your story Julie and i love your personality. You are such a beautiful young woman. you had a good plans for your son, may God be your helper. God bless you.
Thank you for being vulnerable with the world! May God bless you!
LET'S CREATE AND BE THE SAFE SPACE THAT MANY ARE CRAVING FOR... Help people Express freely and heal.
Hellow...............hope you're doing good.Would like to share a moment also.Am Eunny from Kisii.
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Hello I wish to say you should put a subtitle since we don't understand your native language
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So kind of you,, keep this up! It's different in the best way 🤎
I have learnt a lot from your story Rose Juliet. It wasn't easy for you growing up, but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I love your strength and courage to pick up the pieces and always trying to make things right. It shall be well with you...
Amen Dan. Thanks for those encouraging words. Let's keep sharing and inspire the world. Kindly subscribe as well
WOW, what a story, what a journey! Powerful and inspiring.
So touching... Hugs mum... Am also a single mother and learning a lot from you.. Kudos
You are a strong woman , keep your head above the storm and remain focused for your son.
I Thank God For you!For keeping you strong and wise! Keep inspiring!
From begginging to end of your story, my story. So many things you said. I am only starting to come to terms with everything now. It is a long journey .
Captivating story indeed, you can write a whole book with that. what you have gone through makes you wiser than an old man who has been in royalty his entire life, because you sing now i know where i have seen you. Best wishes girl.
Story loaded with lessons. I'm must confess I love your choir.
I have gone through that hell brought up by steps father .......I salute you gal,I feel guilty up to now....but we have to accept and Life goes
Thank you Julie...your story is so many of our stories. It hit home for me
Glad to hear that Ronda. All the best in life. Thanks for watching and kindly subscribe
What doesn't kill makes you stronger.
My!my!my! such a beautiful young lady. Very well put together and educated.
Great story.thanks for sharing..It's an eye opening
They made you a strong woman. I was even listening to your music. You are blessed
Thankyou
I've had to re-watch this and I must say I'm really inspired by your story.
I just wish God could give me a chance to have some Sharing with you on the struggles that come with life
Thanks Linet for your feedback. God bless you. He will provide every opportunity necessary for the redemption of his people in due time. Let's keep sharing and inspiring. Kindly subscribe
Thanks Julie for this, you have touched souls and let God give you strength to encourage more
Amen. Thanks Billy. Let's keep sharing and inspiring the world. Kindly subscribe
Learnt alot. Thanks for sharing Rose. You are a strong woman
I just stumbled upon this channel. Sending love and light to this brave young woman.
Thanks Winnie. Keep sharing and inspiring. Kindly subscribe
Thanks for sharing this information. Abuse is real and we all need to create room for our children to come up and tell us things freely
This is quite something. Sorry for all that you've gone through. Thanks for sharing your experience with the world. The vulnerability takes a lot of courage and it speaks to someone out here.
Very true Stella. The world stands inspired as a result. Keep sharing and inspiring. Kindly subscribe
She is pretty.Single Moms never allow the step dads to harass your children..
So touchy😭😭go go🎉🥳🥳May God lead us;raise that handsome son so well🌚 fight for him ✨am greatly inspired 🌹thanks Julie for coming out so brave
Jullie am ready inspired and touched with your story,be strong and I pray that God The Almighty continues to bless you. Much love💙💙💙
Amen. Thankyou
Childhood trauma is real! Thank you for sharing
The only person better tham you is u tomorrow. You have discovered who you truly are. Real real real life is what u choose and become. U r an inspiration
wow so inspiring wish to come out bodly just like you one day to express everything as well.....my favourite singer in the saint ministers singers
I really dont know what to say, but she's strong to have gone through all that and share it. She's an amazing person, and i wish her all the best life can offer! I believe people dont suffer for nothing, or forever. God bless this woman!
Amen. Thanks
Thanks @Boss Man for watching and for your feedback. Keep sharing and inspire someone else and kindly subscribe
you are such a wonderful person I enjoy listening to you.
Wow! So much to learn from Julie. Thank you girl
Thankyou for watching
Wow 😢 I am so sorry for what you you went through . I can imagine that it takes a lot of courage for you to share this.. Thanks so much for speaking openly about this things that happen behind closed doors. A lot of Kids suffer in silence, and alot of parents are not aware. You are helping to give kids the courage to speak, and parents to identify the alarm signals. Thank you. I pray that you will heal. You are so gorgeous and so brave and so intelligent.. May God bless you abundantly and open doors for your success 🙏🏿 your laughter and smile is beautiful. You are a survivor💖
Thankyou
There are great lessons to learn from this story.
This is so helpful... Thanks fir sharing your strory... It's healing in Jesus name.
You are so eloquent and so wise and spoken in 2 fluent languages. So hear this your Experience is lesson for all of us. I utterly respect you.
I had no good relationship with my mum as I as growing up, but I thank God that I never faced things like this
I love watching but please add subtitles for some of us who don’t understand the language
Thanks☺️☺️
Please put in subtitles for those who do not understand the language
Noted with thanks Adaobi
thank you Adaobi❤
Agree please put subtitles.
Tap on the video where it's written cc
Oh my goodness girl, I can relate with your story and I am glad you able to speak out. I don't know If I can speak out. Thank you much.
Now I understand where your walking style comes from😊Jullie indeed you are a strong woman nakupenda mummy 🥰
Haha Naomy wacha uchoki. But isorite. Blessings your way friend. Let's keep sharing sharing and inspiring. Kindly subscribe
😂😂😂 thankyou
Fiercely intelligent..well articulating.. Her introvertedness in her earlier phase of her life has made her a very empathetic person because she keeps on reiterating often by saying '.. i understand/understood..'...she has come a long way... She has used her painful experiences to distill useful lessons for herself and her child.. That is healing coming through if you ask me.. . Kudos Rose!
You put it so well Eric. Thanks for watching and for your encouraging feedback
Thankyou
Thank you Justus.. And thank you for creating such a space
@ Rose.. Karibu sana.. As you so eloquently put it.. It is time to look forward and march on.. Maybe only add to what you said by saying its time to 'make your world your oyster'.. march on
Wow. I love your boldness. May the Lord continually fight for you Julie. Great is His faithfulness
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A deep heart-wrenching narration from a courageous lady, possessing intelligence in character.
Keep on advocating for the child protection against a buse
Oooh my
Have always see her singing
I bet this touched me,and many kids suffering out here they gonna be encouraged
This has to highlighted and used as an eye opener and a learning point to educate the youth as well parents.
You are a real model keep on preaching it as it will save the families.
Thankyou
Standing for yourself and giving your children a room to express themselves. Come on girl, you have a long way to go, keep going jaber namesake. Thank you for sharing.
One of the best sharing sessions watched, you articulated issues really well Julie, am inspired.
This is so bold and a challenge to parents
I can't believe I just watched this long story, it's so touching thank you for sharing
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Watched it in two seatings, I empathize and glad that she soared over her storms.
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The best talk/ show I have ever watched. So inspiring
Thank you. Keep sharing
Wow!I know you from Ngara Girls! Very inspiring!!! God bless you as you heal.
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