Overcome The Fear of Being Judged- Sadhguru
Vložit
- čas přidán 12. 05. 2019
- Is it okay to live in fear of being judged by people around us? Should the opinions of others influence us? Watch Sadhguru’s answer to a group of young IITians at Kharagpur.
The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes (Listen Now on)"
open.spotify.com/show/69ZUhdV...
To watch this video in Gujarati - • શું લોકોના અભિપ્રાય મહ...
#Sadhguru
Yogi, mystic and visionary, Sadhguru is a spiritual master with a difference. An arresting blend of profundity and pragmatism, his life and work serves as a reminder that yoga is a contemporary science, vitally relevant to our times.
Sadhguru Exclusive (Register Now)
⚡ isha.co/ex-yt
Sadhguru App (Download)
📱 onelink.to/sadhguru__app
Official Sadhguru Website
🌎 isha.sadhguru.org
Donate Towards Crafting A Conscious Planet
🙏 isha.sadhguru.org/sanghamitra
Offerings from Sadhguru in Challenging Times
🌼 isha.sadhguru.org/sadhana-sup...
Guided Yoga & Meditations by Sadhguru (Free Online)
🌼 isha.sadhguru.org/5-min-practices
🌼 isha.sadhguru.org/IshaKriya
Official Social Profiles of Sadhguru (Subscribe)
🌐 czcams.com/users/sadhguru?sub_conf...
🌐 / sadhguru
🌐 / sadhguru
🌐 / sadhgurujv
🌐 t.me/Sadhguru - Jak na to + styl
Listen to The Sadhguru Podcast - Of Mystics and Mistakes
Overcome The Fear of Being Judged- Sadhguru
Full episode link :
podcasts.apple.com/in/podcast/sadhguru/id347854569?i=1000461431603
“don’t give people the privilege to decide if you are sad or happy.” truly inspiring
DEEP
@@imkatekanemoto8738 lopplplnnjjklllll
neither do I, (så klart) but what about algorithms ?
¹
Except it cant actually be implemented. We are a product of the people around us.
Emagine that you somehow grew up all by your self with no people around you ever, no influence.
Who would you be? What words would you be saying? What music would you like? How would you behave and eat your meals?
We Owe ourselves to our fellow human beings cause' ist the people around us who makes us who we are.
I’m beating my fear of being judged! Who’s with me? 😃
🙋
He will judge you behind your back.
Jovelyn Marco ✋
Who so ever judges behind u. Does it matter? It only does when you judge😊
Marco you are so sexy
" No one can insult you without your permission " - Quote
❤
It's right.
me , have you conquered your fear
"What they say will not determine how I am" powerful words.
“What they say will not determine what I am” 😇
Are you a dermatologist???
@@ankitamondal4313 Do you need some meds sister ??
*how I am
But y do not you hear from them when they speak subjectively and try to be the better version of yourself ....why you don't even care for others ppl think or say...and we should hear from you ....do you understand what I'm talking about ...
I enjoy watching your channel. 😊
“ The fear is simply because you are not living with life, You are living in your mind. ”
--Sadhguru
I have one question i.e. when I was 19 i ran away from home, but the society, family and friends bullied me so badly still there is some . I want to know how can I overcome by them
@@udasspieme9044 hmm I think we need to discuss Bcoz it's not a small issue if u really did that. That would have been trauma
S I don't know how to over come
Wisdom of yogi Yes just like Sadhguru says: You’re not the body & not even the mind! :)
So you think that fear is wrong? Not at all if we wouldn't fear and live life without it we would be dead.
"We think that the other person is thinking about you" and "Other person think that you are thinking about him"
So dont get fear all are equal.
True... The whole matter is this.... We trying to read others mind constantly and make very strong assumptions
That's funny
"Be so rooted that nobody's absence or presence could disturb your innerpiece".
GOD BLESS YOU
The only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself, everyone else is irrelevant.
True
only you holds that key.
your mom is irrelevant heheheh
James Cadzow, sure up to some certain point but its natural to care what other think as this is biological.
my opinion is that you just accept what other people think and move on (e.g: self_acceptance of oneself)
lets say, a person says you are a killer through an assumption but with no evidence to back it up. and someone finds evidence that you are indeed a killer? wouldnt that make you a killer? wouldnt they excluded you from society.
if someone had evidence for me being a killer, i would just self accept what i done and move on.
what is done is done. (btw i havent killed anyone, its just an example)
James, how do you think people form the option of themselves?
great shortcut. you save me 8mins
No one is an island no one stands alone
“Right now you are the consequence of somebody’s opinion”. Mannnn that line was extremely catchy and true. ✌🏻
I posted the line on my insta status.😍❤️
Amazing...
@@ananyasaini6596....so that you can be better in someone's opinion. Right? 😀
@@adityakumar8148 Nah mate, it's just the fact that this line is soo beautiful, you just wanna share it with everyone and make them understand the deeper meaning of life. Although I understand why you said so. I feel sorry for you mate as your character of judging others is too over-powering that you can't be optimistic and look onto the bright side. 😄
Ii donte kare if i listens day and night to this lakcher
@@ananyasaini6596 Now, You are a consequence of sadhguru's opinion. Actually, This is the thing that they want to tell you...
When you overcome fear life begins.
,%+➊➌➊➌➏➍➒➎➌➌➌%
*’Sadhguru‘ to overcome the fear of being judged.*
When it comes to creating wealth, the truth is more important than the facts. I realized the secret of creating a wealth of over *800K $,* and would love to share my ideas with ignorant ones here.
That’s great. I’m lucky I stumbled over this comment. I have an exigent question on how to possibly generate good returns off my *250K $* doing nothing in the bank. Please can you share ideas and thoughts with me?
@@sarahfletcher01 I engage in different kinds of prolific investments through compound interest and leveraging and as well operating with an lnvestment ProfessionaI, so far I've attained great returns of investment.
As to get more details about my Investment ProfessionaI; *Genevieve Glen Rogers.* Find her on the *Net,* where you can easily reach out to her and as well write her.
Great! Got it
I just looked up your lnvestment ProfessionaI and found her web page. Her experience is pretty impressive. I wrote her and I'm waiting on her reply.
*FOR EXTERNAL WOUNDS : BERNOL*
*FOR INTERNAL WOUNDS : SADHGURU*
Sooo true !!!!
So true
Very true 👍
@Brandi832 it is a medicine, not a person.
@Brandi832 : ) you're welcome. ❤️
It's lack of self confidence that makes a fear of being judge by others..
Good point, Noor. What do you think is self-confidence? How do we grow and sustain it?
Yes very true
@@greanbean001 Achievements and moral actions
@@greanbean001 by doing what is positive and whatever benefits you
@@greanbean001 by gaining more and more knowledge.
" right now you are a consequence of somebody" s opinions " -- this just made me realise that we dont even try to find what/who are we from inside .... just because of the judgements being made ... we have shaped ourselves as a result of somebody else' s expectations and stereotypes.....
,%+➊➌➊➌➏➍➒➎➌➌➌%
No one is born ugly,we're just born on jugemental society
Army
Yup!
armyy
Basic criteria of judgement is Like or Not..
Beauty is felt through eyes... ok.. but.. in case of another sense.. for eg, tongue.. I don't know why human beings don't like bitter taste?
is it part of this judgemental society?
@@007Sanoop it's judgement but not part of our judgemental society
" no one cares about u as much as they care about themselves "
So true
Exactly. People care more about their little world than anyone else’s 💯
👏👏👏
Absolutely right.
@@plantmama7442 Is this true? That people care more about their own little worlds?
The judgment always comes from frustrated unimportant people
True bro😃
He right on that
Michelle M you’re judging too 😌
Agreed
Michelle,
Spoken like a tragic victim.
As a caucasian of European descent, I find Sadhguru's insights are very moving. Although great western philoshophers have converged on many of the same core insights, they feel less spiritually conveyed than from Asian cultures. While we are one people on this planet, I feel as if no wisdom has been as deeply distilled and continuously refined since antiquity than from India, so my instinct tells me to pay the highest attention to this great gentleman's thoughts.
Beautifully stated my friend. I share the same sentiment.
Individuals bring wisdom, not people.
you had to highlight your superior origin!
"as a caucasian of european descent"
sounds redundant, doesn't it?
@@flairy1661 Not English descent😂😂😂but ur genius
"I have not given this privilege to anybody that somebody can make me happy or sad." - Powerful lines by Sadhguru 🙏
But you can't realize this with mental effort. Only Spiritual progress can help you attain this state of being.
"Be defined by your actions not their words."
cool !
ever heard of defamation
Words of wisdom.🙏❤️
WOW yesss 👏🏽👏🏽💯
It shows a lack of self-confidence to be overly-concerned about what others think of oneself.
Thank you captain obvious, but some people lack self confidence because they were openly judged by parents siblings etc so one can grow that way.
What I am saying is that it is not so much "the fear of being judged" that needs to be addressed, but the underlying "lack of self-confidence"; when their self-confidence is built up, that fear of being judged will go away! Simple as that.
@@asmodeus9075 great
@J F the more you will be "self conscious" the lesser you will become confident. Because self consciousness is character ( unchangeable). And also it comes up with more accuracy in all the way of life. So the roots are in personality.!!?
@@jf8461 lack of self confidence isnt the issue...sometimes u agree with others, maybe their judgement is right and you need to change urself
Whoever is reading this now, remember:
You are the light! You are unique and worth it! You are blessed to be in your body and experience all that is!
Blessings to all beings!
Love and Light!
Absolutely, well said. :)
@@powerofone1645 ❤️✨
And so are you!!💥
🙏🙏♥️
Thank you beautiful
If other people words can decide your mood that means anyone can control you.
“We are all telling ourselves a story in our heads”
,%+➊➌➊➌➏➍➒➎➌➌➌%
Fact
Right
"I'm stoned in such a way that I haven't lost my judgement at all. And at the same time, whichever way you judge me, has absolutely no impact on me because I'm completely stoned."
pure wisdom. ♡
Old Soul he smokes weed
@@brunomerko it's divine.
What is the meaning of stoned?
Old Soul divine weed
Bell Sognodi it means that nothing can penetrate you
I made my exgf my higher power. She tormented me for years, I believed I was worthless, which she told me so often. Sadhguru makes me realize just how ridiculous it is to believe her. I was good before her, and I’m good after her. God bless you all, love and humility.
7:44 is 100 💯💯 percent true...
Watching from Ireland we need people like him running the country.
people like him wouldn't want to.
Ireland is known for booze and alchohol. Its great.
We already have a yogi in the form of Modi.
Like the great Tywin Lannister said
"A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of a sheep"
That was a great line never forget that
Thank you for this line. I need it right now. My anxiety is drowning me 😬
By what right does the wolf judge the Lion? By what right?
The sheep don't care either haha
@@Karma7711 But sheep is sheep😈
To not be influenced by others, it starts by taking responsibility for yourself, about all aspects, emotionally, mentally. Then really your inner world is in your own hands, you choose how you want to feel etc.
That "hallo!" makes me sit up straight everytime
🌝😁😂😂
"What they say will not determine how I am. Never ever."
Sadguru's sense of humour....top notch 😍
yeah, sadhgyru says about don't think people what says u know how u are
What did you find funny in this 10 minutes blabbering?
@@jay1970 some people won't get it...its better for u to stop investing time over here
@@h9production Hi
“Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth,
faithfulness the best relationship.”
- Buddha
I always come back to listen to you Guruji. May you live long
" I would not give the privilege to others to make me feel sad, Happy, fearful, hopeless". I desperately need implication of this mantra in my life.
The only way out to realize this is Spiritual Enlightment. There is NO other way out. And Spirituality must therefore be the utmost focus of every citizen of the planet, without which it's forever an ignorant and struggling life.
Me too!!!
I was really in need of this...cz I always fear to get judged by others.
But who's gonna judge a so gorgeous woman like you. MY GOD!
अल्ली X no more...fear😂
Enlightenment u got I guess
Same here 😥
I know me too, a lot of people tell me I'm nice or pretty.. I just need to stop doubting everything about myself because of a few people that make me uncomfortable
Until I learned to ignore people's judgement about me, life wasn't easy and I was always living in darkness.
Humanity will judge you but they will never determine who you are
I was inspired by what the old man said. Don't be anxious no matter what people are going to talk about you, because you are yourself, you are not the others. Thanks to the master.
First of all if you are agreed and inspired by the the man who is seeing the video don't call him old man call him Sadhguru vid means to teacher who enlightment the life of other people by their fishes experience and knowledge called gyan in Hindi
Don't call him an old man he's the Sadhguru - enlightened person
You're right call him "Sadhguru"
@@tarunbhalla7972 are yar no problem
Sadguru don't affect by this because he already stoned himself not to take opinions of others.
Bitter truth,well said but you better called him as sadh Guru will be the better than bitter🙏
"The first time in human history that this many people can think for themselves"
I cried,what a strong and eye opening words
What's the meaning? Please explain
First time in human history... how does he know? Has he been conducting survey since the first generation of human beings?
jay1970 it’s basic knowledge duh
Have you not heard of science and evolution? And also internet?
What is the meaning??
I didn't understood this line
Positive way to tell someone that they are wrong on something is to appreciate them when they are right on something
They will understand their mistakes by themselves
That's the only way to be at peace within your self
So many positive vibes he generate omg 😭💜
What they say will not determine who I am. 😊
You are the temple of God
*How I am
@@Type797 Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou
easy to say tough in practical
Hardeep Kaur ddddfdt
What other people think of me is none of my business! 😃🤩
The only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself, everyone else is irrelevant.
“Right now you are the consequence of somebody’s opinion”
"A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of a sheep"
“ The fear is simply because you are not living with life, You are living in your mind. ”
Be defined by your actions not their words."
It's lack of self confidence that makes a fear of being judge by others..
We listen to everybody ,because we could be doing something wrong . But what they say will not determine how I am. "
REMEMBER
His appearance gives me the impression of a person well versed in the problems of the world and what he says to his audience makes a lot of sense. It does not matter if his looks are old....but what he says is what makes the difference. He is a very sincere person with a way of making his voice and mannerisms look very distinguished, very intelligent to me.
" We listen to everybody ,because we could be doing something wrong . But what they say will not determine how I am. " ... Love this quote & I believe on this always .
,%+➊➌➊➌➏➍➒➎➌➌➌%.
I’ve had a low self esteem for such a long time and I constantly fear what people think of me. I’ve listened to all the bad things people have said to me over the years and this pattern of worrying was created. The hard part is learning to trust yourself and knowing that how you feel about yourself is enough. But how do you truly love yourself and not let those opinions of others control you?
It's very specific to each individual. All journey starts with a first step. The first step is to realise and acknowledge that letting other people's opinions affect you (+ve and -ve way) is not good for oneself. From there, it gets deeper. I find that over time you can get better at looking at what other people say, what facts and evidence that is there in reality to support their view/opinion and accept their comments as feedback to change one's behaviour or educate the other as to why their opinion does not stack up to reality and most importantly ignore the person's opinion if they are not able to see reality.
All of this when done with an attitude of humbleness and kindness to oneself and the other person, it works wonders for one's self-esteem.
It takes lots of practice to develop this mindset. One needs to be very kind to oneself and readily forgive oneself.
It takes practice. Always usher the bad thoughts out of your mind & remember all the good things about yourself. ☺️✌️❤️❤️❤️
@@GireeshVenkateswaran wonderfully said.
The problem is we think we have more time than we actually do. Live your life. It's over in the blink of an eye.
@@GireeshVenkateswaran perfectly said and practical advice too. Something I will defo be practicing! Thank you 🙏🏼💙
I’m stone cold an humble blessing ❤😊🙏🏾, toxic issues is jealousy an addiction illness stop the bullying look at yourself before you judge others…I don’t judge that why I’m with all the blessings from my believing 🙏🏾
I think you're the only person in the world, whose each answers to any kind of questions can satiate me in every way.
After I see that I have no power to change how someone else sees me, and after I know that I am trying my best to be positive and good and they still judge me badly, I know that me worrying about what they think is a wasted worry. I might as well be happy with me, because if they see me smiling despite their negative thoughts of me, they have learned that I am not affected by their view of me. The only place that they can then go is to either not think of me at all, or, to be envious of my happiness.
0:42 Sadhguru laughs likes so innocent kid..Even I got laughter along with him
True😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love his laugh it's a real belly laugh 👌💚🍀
😄😄
I was looking for this one..
"a friend of mine was drunk"
Plot twist: it wasn't the friend
Hahaha 😂 .
😂😂😂
Lol
❤️❤️
Ooooooooh she gets dooooooooown……
When i can't sleep,
I play his session and listen then i dont realise at which instant i fall a sleep,
Are u guys agree that his voice has a magic hmm ?
This also happens with me
Me too
This things happen when you feel lonely
'I will never give anyone the privilege of judging me' Wow!!!! Why has it taken me to age 50 to implement that ?! Whenever I watch Sadhguru I am enthralled, sitting here just thinking Yes ! YES! Wake up world and listen 😊💕
Same here! Why give them that power?
I'm glad I find it at 31
What an enlinghtment this man has got 🥺 I was messing round with my life and then this man happened ❤️
Anil,
So... u keep messing around with your wife till reaching orgasm while watching sadhguru cracking jokes.
@@peacebe2u480 wth? What do you mean by that?
At the age of 15 I like to put spirituality in life..
me to.
its tough to understan and practice.
I advise you to trust in God first
@@daneladu god is within you look in
Being yourself is useful to other’s people because that’s how you change humanity
I am going to addicted to u
Lots of love from 🇵🇰
@LE MONKE obviously
In the last conversation I had with my father before his Soul departed from his body, He said and stated very clear: Noone absolutely NoBODY should judge Shanti. Most Dying people speak the Truth, he knew who I Am knowing if you judge me, upfront you've already lost. Never judge some1, for you never know, if that same person can become the Cure you'll need......
That's amazing!! Thanks, and love from Australia
That's so true... that's one lesson I learnt by myself within the phase of passing my school,going through many phases in just 6 years in a roller coaster ride and I'm still learning everyday sth from diff people ....when u stop judging u start learning bcz u have an open mind then
I had a near death experience myself, very true. We are truly all the same entity in different bodies, I know it’s been said countless times, but I’ve experienced it first hand. We’re playing chess against ourselves but we always calibrate it perfectly for the maximum amount of learning and fun.
@Arjun Warrior Prince Bevause they are competing and very catty.
got bad marks in two subjects today , thankyou Guru ji to make me feel good
Sadhguru...I LOVE YOU ..coming straight from my heart !!!
I am here only for his fluency of being English spoken
I too watch his videos for the same reason
I am also
Same here bro👍
Morethan that there is something else which you ever learn before
but when we already have 22 language of our own den why concentrate learning english language..
Sadhguru’s answer is always in the first sentence, it’s up to us if we grasp it🤓🤓😃😃😃♥️🙏🏼💜
Stoned
Everything you need you already inside of you. Best advice through the up and downs in my life
Though laughter is medicine and Sadhguru's humor is profound, there is an element of a TV show sitcom to these.
,%+➊➌➊➌➏➍➒➎➌➌➌%
He is a gift to everyone
Thanks for your generosity.....
Yes
No
@@paper-2447 yes
Seeing him a lot in my recommendations and being as isolated as I am this helps me hearing this man's words
Simply Wow. This man is beyond imagaination. Thank god I found you.
Esta charla es simplemente maravillosa y la emoción aportada por Sadghuru: wondrous!
There is truley only one Judge, and that's you. You judge you. Unconsciously, conciously, subconcoliously. Your own judgement is the only judge that counts.
Love Sadhguru
Namaste 🙏
,%+➊➌➊➌➏➍➒➎➌➌➌%.
Respect from Pakistan.
Pkmkb
Kya be bin mtlb ladne lgte ho uski kya glti h
Thanks gentleman
@@MuhammadFarooq-pv3wc sorry for the bad comments above bro some fool will never change no matter to whom they gonna listen love from india.
Don't let other people make u loose ur ethics.
Honoured India. 💚
Every of his speeches touches me...
I don't know how I found this breathe of fresh air, ywt I am grateful for doing so. It may take me a lifetime to master his level of thinking. However, I will get there. ❤
Knowing yourself deeply will definitely shield you from what other's think about you. This kind of clarity builds your confidence. Respect your limitations and develop skills for survival. Only listen to sound advice but not to ridicule and destructive criticism that belittles you as a person. Don't rely on others for motivation but be self-motivated towards living an honest life. Don't even try to compare yourself with other's growth or achievement for each individual blooms in his own time.
There is a saying in Marathi- Aikave janache , karave manache.. means listen to every body but do what your Vivek says..
Thanks for your generosity.....dear man......
Wow! This video and perspective just blew my mind. I wish I would have heard somebody say this a loooooong time ago. Thank You!
he is my healer and so much logics in every of his words 🥰🥰🥰🥰 love from mauritius
true, I listen to everybody's judgement whether it is good or bad. It settles in my mind for long and keeps running.
I floating on clouds if it is good judgement but the bad judgement ruins my 15 16 days. I forget good judgements sooner than bad ones. It demotivates me and makes me unhappy .
This video helped me to change my behaviour and to remove fear of being judged.
I don't use chemical but anxiety desolves as a chemical in my mind that ruins my mood and work and everything. I should not care of being judged by people and try to be stoned.
Dimple it's so simple...
Like a pop star said once, "What other people think of me is none of my business!" I took that to heart years ago. Thank you Sadhguru, you too are changing my life.
I live in a Senior community where they are all stoned... prescribed medication...and some are still driving...I am following you now and have found new peace.. thank you for your dedication to bliss.
I think that overcoming people's opinions is directly tied to others affecting me. Freedom from others yet caring for others is my goal
Wonderful man, quiet humor so refreshing! Great audience. Love the lack of pomposity; science he adds.
His laughter itself is wisdom and I can't help but laugh with him
Sushmita: likewize me too😄👌
the first line alone is incredible already. He got such a beautiful lot of humor
How do you manage to give answers for all sorts of questions wisely. Amazing
I needed to hear this, thank you.
Listeners should stop being so curious about clapping and laughing... instead it should be on understanding
Yaa true, I also felt the same
Dude I always feel like this
Why people clap without listening
The fact that they are laughing and clapping shows that they are listening to him and understand what he is saying while also showing that they agree with it
if you was talking to a bunch of people and they all just sat there stairng at you it would be awkward as fk and you would be questioning weather or not they even have a clue what you are talking about or if they are even listing to a word you say
they should learn from japanese archery kyudo
maybe stop shoulding on people and attend to yourself. lol
Thank you so much for uploading this session and major thanks to Sadguru sir for explaining things in simplest way!!
Love everyone conscious enough to want to learn and evolve, just wish there was more people open to being better around me ❤😇 but happy to know you all are out there somewhere
"What they say will not determine how I am!!"
Stop. Looking ur self from anyone else view,
To be happy
This is the theme
I'm forever grateful to the universe for directing me to you. My life has not been the same.
I have learn this during meditation
You cannot let yourself be affected by other people.
In samadhi state innerworld is clean then the outside world cannot harm you.
Imagine a generation, who s Alys happy,,, wow,, I wish I could heard this years before... MA life ND career might hve changed.
For years I was praised often that when I stop being praised - I went crashing like an airplane which engines failed to keep its float in the sky.. and I now realize that - its never the fault of what others says about us and never the fault of how they make judgement about me. But rather yet our dependence on always hearing the things that we feel fed by as resource of motivation to go out and be something whereas if we trained our thinking to be self willed than to acknowledge praises. I would haven not been seeking it everywhere else and end up being disappointed when it turned to criticism. self views on this
Me too
I got Ideal thoughts for my life make me unaffected from others judgement thankyou sadhguru ji