Overcoming Fear of Judgement & Ridicule | Sadhguru

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  • čas přidán 8. 05. 2023
  • #sadhguru #overcomefear #fear #judging
    Are you held back by fear of judgment or ridicule? Sadhguru shares his insights on how to overcome this obstacle.
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Komentáře • 293

  • @mohammedvachhiat4233
    @mohammedvachhiat4233 Před rokem +166

    As you get older you learn to stop caring about what others think of you, you realise life is too short

    • @NidhikaMehta-ti3hs
      @NidhikaMehta-ti3hs Před rokem +5

      True...

    • @gowtham6822
      @gowtham6822 Před rokem +5

      Actually you dont care when you haven't done something wrong. It is impossible to commit unconscious actions and not to feel guilty about it.

  • @Forbidden.wisdom.
    @Forbidden.wisdom. Před rokem +419

    *"Do not fear having no friends. Fear having bad friends”* ~My life taught lesson

  • @mridulgoswami2645
    @mridulgoswami2645 Před rokem +32

    I have spent so much time thinking about what others are thinking. Now I understand what a waste of time it was.

  • @udaramanula915
    @udaramanula915 Před rokem +35

    "You must be concerned what is the quality of your mind.
    Don't worry about the quality and content of other people's minds.
    Exploring other people minds is not worth it." Sadhguru
    "If you concern yourself of what should happen in your mind, your life will improve.
    If you concern what he may be thinking , what she may be thinking , you will go crazy " Sadhguru

  • @Justin14379
    @Justin14379 Před rokem +224

    This came to me at a time I really needed it.

  • @stesrad
    @stesrad Před rokem +37

    Exactly what my parents told me don't worry about what other people think and say about you along with think for yourself don't change who you are to try and fit in with the crowd... You just have to be true to yourself.

  • @anaguq4651
    @anaguq4651 Před rokem +35

    I am so happy and lucky that this man has come into my life... when i need him the most! Namasté.

  • @Dil.Careem
    @Dil.Careem Před 9 měsíci +17

    It's liberating to realize that the opinions of others do not define us, and that true fulfillment comes from being true to ourselves. Sadhguru's teachings remind us to focus on self-awareness and personal growth rather than seeking approval from others. I'm grateful for the insights shared in this video, as they serve as a powerful reminder to break free from the chains of fear and live a life guided by our own values and dreams.

  • @hunk261
    @hunk261 Před rokem +41

    Wisdom that helps us survive in the society. Pranam Sadhguru🙏

  • @Future_software_enginneer

    You are absolutely right
    Dont think about anyone
    And dont compair ur self to others also ❤

    • @Yajah
      @Yajah Před rokem +2

      so TRuE🎉❤

    • @raymondtendau2749
      @raymondtendau2749 Před rokem +3

      Healthy comparison is when you get inspired from the other. Aside that, it almost always breeds negativity.

    • @raymondtendau2749
      @raymondtendau2749 Před rokem +2

      @Dark Daze Bright knights We have two forms of comparison. We have downward comparison and upward comparison. It depends which one you re talking about.

  • @andybalogh2252
    @andybalogh2252 Před rokem +24

    So I'm still only concerned with my vaasana, but today i learned that that includes my mind and what i choose to think about 🙏🏻 Much Love Sadhguru Team! 💖

  • @maheshprabhakar9901
    @maheshprabhakar9901 Před rokem +4

    Cry about it or laugh about it. Its upto us. So true.

  • @amarendraborah6941
    @amarendraborah6941 Před 11 měsíci +8

    "Other people's opinion about you doesn't have to become your reality !" - Les Brown.

  • @neelambikas7345
    @neelambikas7345 Před rokem +13

    Thank you sadguru it's an amazing truth, the more we expect good judgement from others more and more we get bad experience.. instead we should try to be true to ourselves and follow our true instinct...
    Namaskaram...

  • @raphaellegedor4070
    @raphaellegedor4070 Před rokem +13

    The manager of the ice rink 😂
    Thanks for the message, I wish I could have listened to this in my childhood, I would have not waste so many years. Balanced education and fair informations are so decisive in a life perspective.

    • @anaguq4651
      @anaguq4651 Před rokem +5

      Those waste years tought you. You have learned from those lost years, so it is not wasted! It all depends on how you look at it now!😉

    • @raphaellegedor4070
      @raphaellegedor4070 Před rokem

      @@anaguq4651 of course and it is not what I am talking about

  • @peekaboosue
    @peekaboosue Před rokem +11

    I have a hard time with this... hopefully it'll help me... haven't seen it yet...so excited to watch and see what wisdom Sadhguru brings us

  • @rvind000
    @rvind000 Před rokem +5

    There is no right or wrong thing, so it's ok to be a fool, everyone is in some way. 🌼

  • @saradhas7338
    @saradhas7338 Před rokem +7

    Never worry abt what other ppl think. Pranam Sadhguru

  • @rishikasharma3361
    @rishikasharma3361 Před rokem +19

    All my life i have struggled with this and sadhguru gsve the perfect answer❤

  • @meganadams6484
    @meganadams6484 Před rokem +2

    He says thank you and when does he get to see you, hes gonna be giving you the biggest hug when he does finally get to see you

  • @SpartanPotato
    @SpartanPotato Před rokem +4

    "Instead of crying about all these things, might as well we laugh what to do" 😂🙏❤

  • @Nameless12US
    @Nameless12US Před 10 měsíci +4

    Don't forget, "we are mortal", we don't have to waste time about the question : " what people think about me" 🙏🏽

  • @thecosmicintelligence2761

    People are abusing me behind me and trying to disturb me when I do aum chatting or talking about spritulity this helped me 🙏

  • @santabhujun3300
    @santabhujun3300 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I stop worrying what people talk about me,or judge me,i continue my way.Sadguru 🙏🙏🙏

  • @abhishekgarole9848
    @abhishekgarole9848 Před rokem +6

    Correct, Nobody has time to think about someone and pass judgement ❤

    • @UsmanIhsan-nd1xv
      @UsmanIhsan-nd1xv Před rokem +1

      Almost every human does it almost everyday 🙂

    • @rvind000
      @rvind000 Před rokem +4

      @@UsmanIhsan-nd1xv Being quick to judge is not a sensible quality to have. We shouldn't be bothered about it.

  • @rensonthandiswa44
    @rensonthandiswa44 Před rokem +5

    Namaste SADHGURU!!! I'm glad for this! Following all the way from Kenya, Africa. ❤
    Great analogy.

  • @sol-vp1qp
    @sol-vp1qp Před rokem +2

    yes ... yes ... it is this way .. that is the best to do in live relations ... with others .. I LOVE YOU SADHDGURU ... you are my life teacher THANK YOU FROM ALL MY HEART !!!

  • @neilcazza3398
    @neilcazza3398 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I am receiving health , wealth happiness and peace in my life right now.
    I am grateful with all of my heart ❤

  • @patriciadunbar6372
    @patriciadunbar6372 Před rokem +10

    🙏🏽❤ exactly what i needed to hear

  • @agucci
    @agucci Před rokem +10

    I will never EVER worry about what others think. 🙏

  • @moehead8257
    @moehead8257 Před rokem +1

    I WISH I COULD HUG U SADHGURU, I love you so much. thx for the wise words.

  • @nitinjadhav108
    @nitinjadhav108 Před rokem +2

    What a beautiful message ❤

  • @denisebelmont1027
    @denisebelmont1027 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much Sadhguru.🙏💖💖💖 Love from Brazil.

  • @quenessyomy6924
    @quenessyomy6924 Před rokem +1

    Ty,, GIVING THEM POWER, use that on YOURSELF❤

  • @samilarungapamestry6466
    @samilarungapamestry6466 Před rokem +5

    Very nice..what people think about us doesn't matter..some people are always critical about others..

  • @Kussu118
    @Kussu118 Před rokem

    Needed This video .Thank You sadhguru.Lots of love from Nepal❤❤

  • @dharmendrakumar5661
    @dharmendrakumar5661 Před rokem +8

    This is the fenomanal one great Sadhguru ji 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nelshanrai4474
    @nelshanrai4474 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Respected sat Gurudev !koti koti pranam,i am listening of sat gurus spiritual speech daily. i am feeling so pleasure.

  • @malavpatel8142
    @malavpatel8142 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Namaskaram Sadhguru!🎉❤💐🙏💯

  • @miyakern
    @miyakern Před rokem +1

    🔥 That’s great, Sadhguru! I completely agree🤗

  • @xsunflwr
    @xsunflwr Před 11 měsíci +2

    How about instead of assuming ppl are silently negatively judging you.. assume that ppl are thinking of you in a positive way 🥰

  • @mishalhamayal7530
    @mishalhamayal7530 Před 11 měsíci +2

    That was just wow❤

  • @jameskeating4719
    @jameskeating4719 Před 11 měsíci +1

    HEAVENlow sir. Much love ❤

  • @Yajah
    @Yajah Před rokem +2

    ❤Thats Right...ThAnk You ❣💟👀😘

  • @kanupriyabhardwaj7254
    @kanupriyabhardwaj7254 Před rokem +1

    Truly said 🎉

  • @sheelpisingh5534
    @sheelpisingh5534 Před rokem

    Thnq sadguru for rudraksha diksha

  • @26rushabh
    @26rushabh Před rokem +1

    I too go through same situations where I feel what people will think.

  • @Anil-gd8qm
    @Anil-gd8qm Před rokem +1

    NAMASKARAM SADHGURU 🙏🏾🪷🙏🏾🕉️🦚

  • @missunknown726
    @missunknown726 Před 10 měsíci +1

    You're great Guru

  • @explorer.samrat
    @explorer.samrat Před rokem +5

    Only the opinion of yourself and God matters, about you. No one else matters. 😊

  • @jenniferhollod2367
    @jenniferhollod2367 Před měsícem

    🙏 brother!❤

  • @xavierpaololedesmamandreza

    This is the first time I've seen you wearing a mala, Kyabje. ❤

  • @prernabhasin5426
    @prernabhasin5426 Před rokem +1

    Shambho❣️🙏🏼

  • @arjunsoni4986
    @arjunsoni4986 Před rokem

    We promise that we will make ourselves fantastic & wonderful

  • @harshitaawasthi1773
    @harshitaawasthi1773 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you Sadguru 🙏

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 Před rokem

    Tq sadhguru...

  • @logandaniel3742
    @logandaniel3742 Před rokem +1

    Such a great video 🥹

  • @ritanyadance5118
    @ritanyadance5118 Před rokem +1

    Thankyou sadhguru

  • @Yoana_Yojana
    @Yoana_Yojana Před rokem +4

    Where I live (small village) people have the greatest ability of telling others what they think about them and their actions. 😅😅
    And above all, to classify it as 'this is bad' and 'this is good'.
    We don't need to read minds.... People just throw their limitations on you and walk away.
    "Very good" for spiritual growth or "very bad" when most people take these limitations as their own.
    😂😂😂😂😢😢😢
    I try to smile and love them as they are, but I cultivate ridiculous ways since I was a child. 😂😂 So, if I don't fall down. I go out in pyjamas.... Now I am on with sadhguru and yoga 😮😊❤😂😂 they don't have to tell me. They think I am nuts they look at me with half smile or some ask with interest.
    Funny place 🎉🎉😊🙏🏽 ❤️ ❤️

  • @Rockyslabitko9648
    @Rockyslabitko9648 Před rokem +1

    Before Sadhguru i was bothering alot with stuff like this, after innerengineering those kinds of things become so insignificant, now i can laugh at most stuff that use to bother me.

  • @JoseRamosPizzon
    @JoseRamosPizzon Před rokem

    Thank you Bigger Sadhguru

  • @Lovableshapes67
    @Lovableshapes67 Před rokem +1

    Bless the naga .may they be kind to us,especially the elements.

  • @mjavellana01
    @mjavellana01 Před 7 měsíci

    This too shall pass. 🙏

  • @KapilSingh410
    @KapilSingh410 Před rokem +2

    @Sadhguru Good video!

  • @user-pb2yv7ml5h
    @user-pb2yv7ml5h Před rokem

    Thanks much

  • @vivekanandturamari3952
    @vivekanandturamari3952 Před rokem +1

    Namaskaragalu Sadhguru 👋🎈 pls come to BELAGAVI city 🙏
    Lot's of love from BELAGAVI KARNATAKA 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @jeevanjyoti3999
    @jeevanjyoti3999 Před rokem +1

    Ooo mostly people are not thinking about me....really sad..but it's ok and good. THANKU

  • @RakeshKumar-yb8zn
    @RakeshKumar-yb8zn Před rokem +1

    Thankyou guruji 🙏🌺🙏

  • @snh3628
    @snh3628 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Superb guruji ☺

  • @ShivaKailashShambho
    @ShivaKailashShambho Před rokem +2

    Shambho

  • @hoopdr3amz23
    @hoopdr3amz23 Před rokem +7

    I've learned many great lessons from this and applied them 2 myself along with a good laugh Thank u

  • @kimhoffman433
    @kimhoffman433 Před rokem

    thank you

  • @gonnyquist627
    @gonnyquist627 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @shreyanshumalviya
    @shreyanshumalviya Před rokem +2

    If you think its ridicule - dont do it..
    If you think its worth doing.. why care what others think..

  • @meditation-music-tv
    @meditation-music-tv Před rokem +7

    Meditation and meditative music can be powerful tools for helping us let go of worrying about what others think. By quieting the mind and turning inward, we can gain a greater sense of self-awareness and self-acceptance, which can in turn reduce our need for external validation. Meditative music can further enhance this process by providing a calming and grounding backdrop that can help us stay focused and present. With regular practice, meditation and meditative music can help us cultivate a deeper sense of inner peace and confidence that allows us to be more comfortable in our own skin, regardless of what others may think

  • @dynasty108
    @dynasty108 Před rokem +6

    if somebody laughs, you can join and laugh, you''ll make a friend.
    sadhguru

  • @chhatrapoudel1955
    @chhatrapoudel1955 Před rokem

    Naman Guruji 🙏🙏🙏

  • @siddharthjoshi615
    @siddharthjoshi615 Před rokem +1

    🌲Sadhguru🌳🌿🌸🌹🙏

  • @NidhikaMehta-ti3hs
    @NidhikaMehta-ti3hs Před rokem +5

    Sadhguru's videos always come at the right moment..

  • @DelutionalReaper
    @DelutionalReaper Před rokem

    Its all in mind

  • @abhipatil4844
    @abhipatil4844 Před rokem

    absolutely!

  • @pradeep-ic7sp
    @pradeep-ic7sp Před rokem

    Nice explained

  • @ajaykhatri2647
    @ajaykhatri2647 Před rokem

    Namaskaram 🙏 Aum Namah shivaya 🔱

  • @coolestwara
    @coolestwara Před rokem

    Amazing

  • @arjunbhardwaj-ow4wc
    @arjunbhardwaj-ow4wc Před rokem +3

    just as i needed it Maharaj is there ❤❤❤

  • @dylaninnes8541
    @dylaninnes8541 Před 4 měsíci

    That man digging into the ice rink had a divine experience

  • @kiranpatil5161
    @kiranpatil5161 Před rokem

    🙏😌shambho

  • @Manu-hc8ff
    @Manu-hc8ff Před rokem +1

    Sadhguru 🙏🔱💐🌹😇💖🥰😇

  • @Safalmasrangi21
    @Safalmasrangi21 Před rokem +1

    Wow😊

  • @samshuijzen
    @samshuijzen Před rokem +1

    I like the presentation method..funky music etc.. they should invest in making some music with his voice in the background..maybe our guru could be like in the top 40

  • @vamsimallarapu4487
    @vamsimallarapu4487 Před rokem +1

    Nice 👍

  • @Hollywood4Fun
    @Hollywood4Fun Před rokem +1

    What Others Think
    Once upon a time it was announced that a dog show was to be held and the top prize was set at $1000. But this was a special show because to win the money it required all ten judges to agree on only one dog as better than all the others. So through a process of elimination it came down to selecting the best dog out of the last two - one was a Border Collie and the other was a Golden Retriever.
    Both were nice dogs and most of the audience wasn't able to tell there was anything special about them just by appearances. So to make them even more noticeable, the owners washed them and brushed their coats until they were shiny and smooth. They even tied colorful ribbons on them and brushed their teeth. Both dogs looked their best and they both wagged their tails and wiggled their butts when their owners would pat them on their heads.
    And now the big moment had arrived and the judges examined the two dogs while the proud owners stood beside their pets. The judges cast their votes and the results were in. Half of the judges liked the Border Collie and half of them preferred the Golden Retriever. And no matter how much they discussed it, neither side could convince the other to change their votes. And so the contest ended in a draw with neither dog owner collecting the $1000 prize.
    Once the two dog owners left the show they met outside in the parking lot to complain to each other how disappointed they were at the results. They talked about how they did so much work trying to win the approval of the judges and it was all for nothing. Then they unleashed their pets and immediately the two dogs ran off to splash and play in a nearby mud puddle. They seemed happy the show was over and they could finally have fun just being themselves again. They wagged their tails and wiggled their butts as they chased each other around in the dirty water.
    The moral of the story is: Your happiness doesn't require the approval of others. Do what makes you happy, and if others don't approve of your choices that's their problem, don't make it yours. As the old saying goes, you can't please everyone, so just please yourself.
    In this story the pet owners let the choices of others determine their happiness, but the dogs didn't care what anyone thought of them, they were happy just being dogs and doing what they loved to do.
    So do what makes you happy and don't worry about what others think. This is an important thing to learn in life, especially for young people who often base their own happiness on the approval of friends.

  • @bhupendradabhole6461
    @bhupendradabhole6461 Před 7 měsíci

    😊🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @rnrnknrnr840
    @rnrnknrnr840 Před rokem

    ❤❤❤❤❤RAM NARAYAN RAM
    RAM NARAYAN RAM ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ashishKumar-we3ev
    @ashishKumar-we3ev Před rokem

    Welcome.varanasi..

  • @balbhatt
    @balbhatt Před 11 měsíci +1

    Fear of judgment and ridicule is a common experience that many people face in their lives. It can prevent us from expressing ourselves fully and living the life we want to live. Overcoming this fear requires effort and practice, but it is possible. Here are some tips:
    1. Recognize that everyone experiences fear of judgment and ridicule at some point in their lives. It is a natural human emotion, and you are not alone in feeling this way.
    2. Challenge your negative thoughts. Often, our fear of judgment is based on negative self-talk and assumptions about what others may think. Challenge these thoughts by asking yourself if they are based on evidence or just your own fears.
    3. Build your self-confidence. The more confident you feel in yourself and your abilities, the less you will be impacted by the opinions of others. Practice self-care, set achievable goals, and celebrate your successes.
    4. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people. Having a network of people who believe in you and support you can help boost your confidence and reduce your fear of judgment.
    5. Practice self-compassion. Be kind and gentle with yourself, and remember to treat yourself the way you would treat a good friend. Practice self-compassion can help you prioritize your own feelings and needs over the opinions of others.
    Remember, overcoming fear of judgment and ridicule is a journey, and it may take time and effort. However, by practicing these tips and embracing your true self, you can find the courage to live a fuller and more authentic life.

  • @RuhulAmin-tx8xi
    @RuhulAmin-tx8xi Před rokem

    In recent videos, the background music/ sounds seems to be little loud to me. In the next videos, please adjust the sounds so that Sadhguru's voice can be heard clearly and peacefully 😊

  • @lesliegaskill650
    @lesliegaskill650 Před 11 měsíci +1

    ❤ I’m laughing so hard
    Thank you!!

  • @belearner807
    @belearner807 Před rokem

    Har har Mahadev

  • @suchitranag5198
    @suchitranag5198 Před rokem

    Yeeeeeee ❤️🙏