(Full Story) Parents Who Abandoned me Got Another Baby And Want Me To Reconcile
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“He and my egg donor are in a bit of a situation” 🤣 you know it’s a crappy relationship when the OP calls their mom the egg donor
Fr tho
Birthgiver
Female progenitor
Or when the OP calls their dad sperm donor
I don’t like how people are using “egg donor” in that sense. Real egg donors are people who went through some hardcore meds and invasive medical procedures to selflessly give someone else the child they’ve dreamed of. They shouldn’t be conflated with deadbeats.
I feel so bad for op. I’m 100 percent sure the mom is never going to change. And she is going to do everything in her power to poison that child against op.
Move in with us free babysitter......I mean son, we've always loved you
@@terrancemuzic5157💀💀
@@terrancemuzic5157he has proof that his father financed his life and had a college fund for him
I wouldn't be surprised if the dad filed for divorce after the baby is born, and tries to get full custody. Probably would be the best outcome under the circumstances.
I'm pretty sure she's not going to be a factor for long after the kid's born. Given the entire family is ready to testify against her next time she loses her shit she's out.
The dad is much better than mother atleast he actually loved op and didn’t wanna put him to adoption
@@Destiny0_oo wdym so the mother is more of an AH than dad
@@Destiny0_oo what the f**k is “so” supposed to mean
As the dad had talked about too one of the reasons he left was to provide a financially stable household later, while he definitely screwed the pooch on that, he at had good intentions going in and coming out
He's trying, like actually trying and understands that he can't make a parental bond just happen and he can't make up for lost time, so he's trying to just make a positive connection and trying to give his children a sibling relationship.
Those grandparents are literal saints.
Put cameras around the house. Egg Donor might want the baby now, but babies are hard work and she'll be tired of it fast. I would not be surprised if she loses interest in the baby and hurt the baby in a moment of stress.
You do know the Video maker is not the OP right?
@AndrewTaylorNintyuk yeah these people think they are smart 😂
In the last comment, the fact that OP starting referring to his dad as dad is heartwarming, and his mom as egg donor is priceless.
I hate people like the mom. She seems so mean and cruel. 😢 I’m glad everything is okay now 🙂
At least the dad tried to have a relationship.
Poor OP I’m glad everything is getting better with his father and his family. The maternal grandparents are amazing people
"We did the best we could" maybe you did sir. Mom didn't even make an attempt.
The OP kinda glossed over a key point that really needed examining, the father was sending money but the grandparents knew nothing about it? Where did the money go? I know who the money it went to, that part i know it's kind of obvious but what did she spend it on if not the OP or the grandparents?
I thought they only didn't know about the college fund he set up?
The grand parents deserve alot of love care and support and go tell the mother shes the worst 😢 i fell so bad for you op❤
* feel *
The first child would just be a convenient babysitter for the child they actually want
"Late-Night Lessons: The Saga of a Drunken Co-worker"
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I'm glad things are OK with the father and that they have connected well with more of his family that's awesome. Having great grandparents like that sounds like a real blessing to OP I'm glad that people like that exist in this world.
OP's egg donor saw the dollar sign on his father after he came back so she's sticking to him like a barnacle. She's not gonna go away unless another way bigger and smellier sh*t hits the fan. The kid is her meal ticket. She's pissed that OP did not serve his purpose so she made sure she have a back up baby. Notice how OP' did not mention anything about them getting married? This type of people always show their true colors eventually so OP's dad might be getting cautious, as he should be. LOL
"Late-Night Lessons: The Saga of a Drunken Co-worker"
You know, dad is actually fine.... yes, he wasn't there for you as much as most dads..... but he was young and your grandparents did take care of you....
Frankly, your dad seemed to actually do his best and gave you time and love and made effort to make sure you knew you were loved.
Talk is cheap. He needed to be there for OP, not out partying and living his best life.
@@ostlandrbro he had a reason he wanted to be with his son but his parents made him go to another city to learn and he was still sending money to op the dads fine it’s the mother who was bad
@@ostlandrand his parents and the mothers parents told him to live his best life so he did he didn’t know that op was sad about this all that he knew was that he was in a nice healthy household
@@ostlandrActing like all he did is talk makes me think that you didn't watch the video. He sent child support, he made a college fund, he took action when he found out how op had been treated, and he is now doing everything he can to be a part of his child's life while still respecting how they feel. These are actions, not talk.
@@user-jb6ts2ug9wlove how you blame the mom and not the father, they were both awful. He came back when he felt ready. By then he was a full grown teen basically. They are awful
If ur coming from shorts 0:59
Thank you!
Thank you bro
I don't understand how people who with unplanned babies are rude to that baby like bro it's not their fault you can't keep your legs shut calm down 😐 OH BOO HOO I HAVE TO ANSWER FOR THE CONSEQUENCES OF MY OWN ACTIONS WAAAA WAAAA WAAAA 😂
THANK YOU!! 🙏 OH MY GOD THANK YOU!!
To be honest the kid is just proof why abortion is sometimes a necessity.
@@TT35109 THANK YOU FINALLY REASONABLE PEOPLE WITH WORKING BRAINCELLS
I’m confused too like how can you be rude to your own kid like he is a freakin kid a freakin kid what is he adopted or what like huh
??!!! The parents are like boo hoo please move in with me like what the what ??!!!!! 🤔🤔🤔😶😶😶😐. 👀
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It’s not about keeping your legs shut or not. It’s just about the moral obligation of being as kind as possible to any child, especially your own.
I think you should at least try and reconcile with the Dad because at least he was trying to be your father. He tried to be there for you. He tried to hang out with you more, The mother didn’t care for you at all, but Dad really did but you rejected him.
He literally moved away till he was teen and visited him twice a year literally leave
@@gothicvomit4894 what would you do if you were in college and you were having a child he at least was nice to her during those times and he tried to mend their relationship. The mom treated her like s**t and didn’t even apologize for it.
IM DYING “EGG DONER” IS CRAZYYY HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH
All kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids
I would be completely understandable if 2 teens were not ready to raise a child. Not being super nurturing or being kinda absent. But there is absolutely no excuse for the down right cruelty like this.
I don’t think the dad ever actually cared about OP. Mom openly hated him but his dad left and didn’t look back other than when he felt alone. The fact that they got back together shows that the mom and dad never changed and weren’t trying to change. Now the dad is trying to be better but he should have used his mind and been around once a week or month growing up rather than abandon you. If he had all the time to go to partys then he had the time to visit. Like WTF. They wanted a chore doer and babysitter.
That and he could of talk to grandparents bout updates to be sure and heck even we'll op dad is in denial about the situation
I find it very funny how the channel is called "jokes toast" But like most of the videos are just reddit stories
True
Even tho it wasn’t his joke u gotta admit “my egg donor” goes brrrrr
I used to do Jokes at first, now we changed a bit but still want to keep name for the legacy
@@JokesToastyou should give the name of the poster
I appreciate the dad after there was the conversation to clear things up. His absence during the childhood years are easily explained as a kid who thought they were doing right but didn't know better; especially by also getting the wrong information from the mom. I also like the aspect of not wanting to force things and understanding the past can't change but the future can be better if the effort is there
Sounds like mom wants a free babysitter
“He and my egg donor”😭
I bet the mother is gonna make the little girl a golden child and have her treat her older brother like garbage, but I always wondering what happened to the money that the father was giving to the money for his college fund. Did she spend it?
Probably
The OP's mom has proven that she is unwilling to change her ways and never will, plus at least your father is willing to make an effort to be a part of your life and be there for you when you need him the most, but as for your mom, leave her alone and be done with it big time.
I’m proud of you for standing up for yourself. I believe you are improving the situation for everyone by being honest.
Every like this comment gets I’ll do 0 push ups
So Is It 0.19 Push Ups?
No still 0
mans so fucked
More work out than I have ever done in my life
Man this comment doin numbers.
I hate how reddit almost broke the relationship more and the op is only 16 so he's very susceptible to bad advice forgiveing takes time but thats no exuse to not give the one who's trying a chance to change if the mother doesn't want to change then thats on her
He and my **egg donor** 💀💀💀💀
I 💀
why not make ur grandparents ur legal parents and guardians
Nah I would have had an abortion if I was gonna treat my baby that way. I had my son at 19 I’m 21. I am raising him right now with my husband. We are super poor. But we are both actively perusing a higher education for a better job that will get us out the hole.
The dad is responsible for wanting to reconnect, not proud of his actions completely but I’m still proud, the mom it’s a different story: she was suffering with post partition depression sure but still not a nice thing to do to any child
Biology doesn’t automatically make a family. Your grandparents raised you as their own and loved you. Your bio dad sounds like he would have done the right thing with more maturity and support from his family. There may be a good chance to have a relationship with him. Your mother seems like a disaster and a toxic person for anyone who comes into contact with her. Steer clear of her!
Now that's the difference between being good people but bad parent/ being bad people and bad parents.
The dad isn't a bad persone, he was a bad dad, he made mistakes in the past, he acknowledged it, he came to terms with the reality, he understood the boundaries of his son, and tried to create a new bond rather than forcing to redeem old and broken ones.
The egg donor is just bad in every aspect
If I was his grandmother, I’d not only tell the father to visit my grandchild more often, I’d make my daughter level the ground in the yard every time she behaved like that to her son. THAT or I’d give her the same treatment she gives him and ask her how she feels about that. It’s a hard situation, but NONE of my children will EVER be allowed to treat their family members that way regardless of the situation. She wants to act like a child, she’ll be disciplined like one until she decides to act like an adult.
Your grandparents are so kind.
Your grandparents are amazing and your mom is crazy but I hope she actually changed
I grew up with a very similar situation. My mother was young and very similar to yours, my dad “disappeared” and my maternal grandparents raised me. I’m now in my 50’s and my mother hasn’t changed. My grandparents did the best they could, but the older I got, the better I was to see that they had their issues too. After earning a masters degree in psychology and having children of my own, I had a better understanding of how my mother turned out the way she did. My story hasn’t gone as well as yours in terms of having relatives who care for/about me, however, I’d encourage you to continue listening to your instincts about your mother-Based on the relationship you have with your father and little sister, I’d do my best to “be cordial” with her, but maintain VERY clearly defined boundaries with her. Give her as little information about you/your personal life as possible… And if you see abuse, don’t confront her, but document it and report it. Praying for you and your family…
Finally people on the mums side of the family are good people
Egg donor will probably be a monster to the baby as well. She will just use the baby to manipulate the dad into a relationship.
Ok was I the only one who laughed when he said egg donor in the update
Same
GOD DAMMIT. I was watching this bout to sub then I see a little green screen adult in the corner
Where?
Nah I'm not a green screen kid
I think bro has PTSD from seeing too much green screen kids, bc there is literally none 💀💀💀
I’m so sorry you deserved a better life
I’m glad you got the help and support you need.
There is a lot of stories out there that are fake but they say it is true, so I am happy that there is finally a good and not fake story out there thanks for the good content keep it up.
Me and my egg donor is crazy💀💀
3:34 I feel bad for op, their mother calling them a brat. Their mother is immature as hell.
Potential Free babysitter and 3rd parent
You were not abandoned. You were put in a safe place, where you were cared for. Your Dad’s treatment of you was quite similar to typical-more effort on financial support than personal interaction. Mother is mentally ill. New baby is headed for trouble. It would be better to stop the “egg donor” language. Try to see that she seems to be stuck as the 16 year old girl with an unintended pregnancy.
Amazing grandparents and parents nah you have amazing grandparents
Damn bro included everything, even the comments from oop. That’s something I’ve only seen one other reddit youtuber do
NTA I think the mother will make OP take care of the baby if they agreed
The way the mother would interact nta
1:00 for the ppl who came from the short
Your grandparents are really nice. I mean they’re backing you up and everything I mean if I didn’t do that to me, I would I would just not talk to them.
Your grandparents are amazing
The dad is kind of nice
I do think it kind of sucks that the father prevented adoption and then, for the most part, ghosted the kid, leaving the kid with a mother who didn't want him. It's great that he had his grandparents, but he could have been a part of a loving family he knew wanted him.
right. He's an absolute AH, too. These commenters are biased and like to lick the arsehole of the father when he also abandoned OP.
Egg donor and the father can go to h3ll.
right. He's an absolute AH, too. These commenters are biased and like to lick the arsehole of the father when he also abandoned OP.
Egg donor and the father can go to h3ll.
right. He's an absolute AH, too. These commenters are biased and like to lick the arsehole of the father when he also abandoned OP.
Egg donor and the father can go to h3ll.
right. He's an absolute AH, too. These commenters are biased and like to lick the arsehole of the father when he also abandoned OP.
Egg donor and the father can go to h3ll.
They wanted a free babysitter
I actually don’t think any party is the asshole.
Having a kid young and ending up single is no joke. I feel we do not have enough information about any of the people in the situation.
If your mom was able to have the same situation as your father I think she would likely have been the same way. Having to be surrounded by a child you gave up would be miserable and depressing. I am genuinely surprised postpartum didn’t put her in a psych ward it can be really serious… sure she could have made different choices and treated you better but I don’t think it’s fair to act like the dad is the good guy when he got to act like his son was given up for adoption and move on with his life. His mother did not get the same chance, not to mention she was a child going through postpartum.
Honestly I think you’re the asshole for not blaming your dad for putting your mother in the situation in the first place. If you were given up for adoption as she wanted you probably would’ve had a completely different life and been able to come back to them as an adult.
yeah, I was thinking: OPs "mom" wants him back to be a baby sitter
Real life Cinderella story. Except instead of the prince, you got a dad.
I’m so sorry life is hard I’m going to say a prayer for you right now and I very much hope you’re going to have a much better future your Grandparents are amazing 🙏✝️❤️
The father needed a vasectomy and the mother needed her tubes tied after the first kid.
Some people shouldn’t be parents
The father was great what do you mean???
I understand that the father couldn't be present, since he always wanted a relation, but OP's mother has no bussiness being a mother.
The persons dad sounds like he was trying his best and the mom sounds like a monster
Thumbs up for posting link
Your story is so crazy and hart feeling , after what the person been thro
The fact that she changes the subject every time her son wanted to talk about something to get him to shut up has NOTHING to do with her age. Then she ignores him. I know people who have children at 15 or 16 and raised them and been good parents! She just wanted to party and live her young life as she pushed her mistake off on to her parents.
I’m almost crying while watching
I mean the bio dad seemed to have put more effort into being in OP’s life than the egg donor at least.
For those who finished the short 0:56
Thx
❤your grandparents!
Sounds like the egg donor pushed dad away and that's why he wasn't there as much as he obviously wanted to. You don't take an unwanted child to you family gatherings.
I love the narrator's voice for some reason. The story is tragic but it's the parents fault in my opinion. The grandparents are goodhearted people.
I don’t blame you for not wanting to move back in with your biological parents. Your real parents are your grandparents. They were the ones who the parents who were always there for you in good, neutral and bad times. They supported and loved you the entire time.
It’s good that your father eventually saw the hurt he caused you and tried to make amends. Sadly, I don’t think your egg donor will ever truly understand what she did was wrong. I think you will always be the bigger adult than she will ever be or can even aspire to be. If you’re allowed to spend quality time with your little sister, she will be able to see your light shine through no matter what your egg donor says to her. I’m sure your biological father will try to make sure that you and your sister are able to be together on a regular basis, with or without your egg donor.
Bro changed voiced
The writing style just tells me this is caos from the Hades game talking
I’m making this comment at 3:17.
I understand disliking of the mother, but the father? Idk. It still seems like the father put in somewhat of an effort but just didn’t live close by so he wasn’t around much. He still seemed like he cared to some degree. So I feel like the son kinda pushed him away when the father had more time to be with the first son.
15:11 me and my egg donor 💀
It's stuff like this that makes me realize that I was lucky. Like OP, I was also an accident, but by some miracle both my parents cared about me despite splitting up. Grew up with my dad having sole custody. He, and by extension me, lived with my grandparents who were like a 2nd set of parents to me. He wasn't the best dad, had a lot of anger issues and was hurt by some stuff my mom did and for a while I took the brunt of that, but he still tried to do his damn best. When I say anger issues I don't mean I got hit or beat up or anything like that. It took me until I was about 17 and a half to 18 until I felt comfortable around him, but I've always seen him as a dad and I've been proud to be his son.
My dad had me visit my mom every other weekend because "every child deserves to have both parents" despite having full custody, so I've gotten the chance to get to know her. Didn't realize it as a little kid but I do now looking back on it, but she tried to use me as a way to get back at him. Even so, I still felt cared for and loved.
All in all, given how things are now, I'd say I'm pretty lucky and I wish OP had been given the same chance I was
I feel kinda bad for that dad cause at least he actually tried to still live his life and live his child
How can the dad that was literally out of OP’s life treat him better than his own mom that was there for a proportion who literally treats OP like a piece of shit in the corner? Like how tf?
Just pure whining all around from the op to the father to the mother it's just annoying.
Yeah i feel like OPs being a bit of an ass towards his dad when dad first got home. his mother didnt try *at all* and emotionally/verbally abused OP so she can rot for all i care.
Sounds like OP's dads parents forced the dad to move away for school, convincing the dad that going away now would benefit OP later.
doesnt seem like OPs dad had much of a choice in it. Also if OPs dad could only visit twice a year. he was likely a great distance away. making traveling like that costly and likely something a collage student couldn't afford to do more regularly. He should have Texted and called more (definitely!) but no one is perfect. On OP having seen a collage student going out and partying, god forbid dad lives his life a little while hours away and likely stressing TF out. parents unfortunately are people too and the dad was likely HOURS away in a bubble where he seems to have thought his ex GF was taking good care of his son. (he obviously could have and should have done better.)
OP's stated he has been very reluctant to join his fathers side of the family (who has invited op multiple times to join them for holidays and birthday parties) and then blames his own reluctance to join them or see them as family on his mostly MIA dad. something i think is unfair. OP is feeling like hes a stranger to that side of the family but has done nothing of his own to reach out or accept their invitations and join them. its kind of like those people who stop texting first and then are shocked when 90% of people have lives away from their phones and take days to respond sometimes.
i think this whole issue is "young and dumb" both on OP and his dad. OP had his chances to join his fathers side of the family and make them into family not strangers. (OP could have texted or called too once old enough. for as much as that would suck to have to be the first to call but at least he got to talk with his dad. who then may have wanted to call more often as a result knowing the line of communication is now open on OPs side.)
OP is doing the same thing he perceives as what his dad did to him years ago and sees no fault in it, likely bc OPs only 16 and doesnt quite grasp the reality of long distance and still wanting to be yourself after having your teen years ripped from you as a child.
**TLDR:** i think both OP and the father suffer from the saying "young and dumb". Dad didnt reach out as often as he could have but through his actions still tried. OP has been pushing his dads side away and has rejected his father when his father returned.
Ultimately the grandparents are saints, the mom is a complete piece of shit and im worried about the new baby, the dads NTA but kinda shitty and the same goes for OP. im sure in time though OP will see his dad tried the best he could with what he had to get done and things will right themselves. OPs dad loves him and with time OP will see that though his dads future actions (hopefully! lol). that process has already began as of the last update though! so im hopeful things will get better for both dad and son :)
Thank you for saying this 💯 if someone does you wrong (parents included, because they are people too) and they are truly contrite and showing it with their actions, you are also accountable for whether you accept or reject. Too many people want to continue to punish folks who are trying to right their wrongs.
Sounds like they really want a live in baby sitter then wanting to be parents
Your grandparents are so nice that should adopt you
Damn the so called parents should have used protection or shouldn’t have been sexually active if they were still to young
Egg donor is wild💀💀💀
At least the dad tried to spend time with u
Sounds like they want a live In babysitter. Not your problem. They walked away from you. Feel free to reciprocate.
honestly what the parents should of done (since they are still too young to take care of a baby) live with their grandparents but still give them love and affection so they can be see as decent human beings but idk
This feels (it is) fake but real at the same time
I’m sorry to say this but things like this are very real and happen more than you know 😕😞
@@user-kt4fb8rw3g They DO happen, but this is a Reddit story. There are probably only five true stories on the whole website.
Egg donor is crazy😂😂
Wow I feel so bad for you
Fathers often feel that their main purpose is to provide materially for their children. So I kind of understand why the dad would think he was doing his best by being intermittently visiting Disneyland Dad while sending support money, especially when he saw how well his son was doing with the grandparents. Too bad OP didn’t feel comfortable communicating to his father how lousy his mother was. He doesn’t need to worry that his “mother” will poison his sister’s mind against him-his actions will speak louder than their egg donor’s words. A bigger concern would be if she decides to move away with the little girl just out of spite to punish her son and his father for being more favored by everybody than she is. However, she sounds too lazy to bother with that. I don’t have a mother like this, but I do have nieces who would understand OP’s plight, and I was very involved with them while they were children, so being a toothless parent figure is very familiar. If I could talk to the young man, I could only say, Good Luck.
For ppl coming from the short
0:58
Not sure why the dad has to keep knocking up the mom