(Full Story) Parents Favored My Sister and Forgot About Me, So I Cut Them Off
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- čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
- 00:00 Story 1
Parents Favored My Sister and Forgot About Me
14:50 Story 2
Found Out My Friends Introduced Me To My Girlfriend As A Joke, They All Slept With Her
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I'd be ultra petty. As soon as Allison starts complaining about her parents, I'd hit record and send it to her parents saying "This your golden child ?"
EXACTLYYY
Yo should do it your gf is a good person and your love
😮 I was thinking the same
I would make one small but sizeable payment to the bill and say that was for the room and food growing up. And walk away
Same 😂
Parents: "our daughter won't help us. Oh wait. ..didn't we have a spare backup child? Let's try her. What was her name again?". 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️😡😡
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Hmm... my petty side says figure out how much they spent on you, how much you saved them (on college fees), and how much you spent on them. Whatever is left, pay that towards their bills.
@@cchastant8251 LOL 😆
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@@healjoy-hd9tcfr
Stop thinking of them as parents, think of them as people who were -forced- to care for you. They dont love you, they just want money. Dont let them in your life again, and tell the so called family that you are disowning them and not to talk to you again. Just have a happy life without them.
Story 1: I mean this from the depths of my soul, go to therapy, You are not over it. Do not fall into old habits
Agree🫡👍🏻👍
As long as she was loyal to him it doesnt fucking matter. Im glad he is being an adult that realizes that she is a sexual person. All his friends havent grown up since highschool
Story 2: OP, those three guys are NOT your friends! They aren't ANYONE'S friends, not even themselves. Your GF loves you so much because you are probably the first person in a long time to treat her like a person with thoughts and feelings and not three holes to stick something in. You're a kind and decent person! Keep your girlfriend and continue to go to conventions and watch anime. Ditch the three losers! They'll probably die unhappy and alone, not even ever figure out why!
If anything, my advice to op for him to move on and get comfortable again with his girlfriend, like before he found out about her being passed off like a toy is getting therapy both himself and then do couples to hopefully move permanently from that
Op can go to couples therapy so his girlfriend at least knows what to try to get her boyfriend comfortable with her and get the image of his "friends" out his head permanently and that way they can both move on
I mean it will be good till she starts sleeping with other guys again behind OP’s back. And his friends will be like tried to warn you bro.
@@ChefRye1 This is true but if the trust is rebuilt and op continues to go to therapy, even after they gain that trust back he will learn to move past the cheating and leave her if she ever did that again
@@ChefRye1 I know I would go do the same and just go to therapy besides I would understand since we weren't together and there it isn't my business but still I probably wouldn't feel comfortable so I would go to therapy and if she cheats oh well she's a b word for lying to me and hiding it from me I'm leaving that relationship and that's it
If I got a phone call like that I would say so what they never cared about me. Why should I care about them?
Exactly what I was going to say
If the wreck was the other driver's fault, the medical bills should be covered by their insurance. None years working in auto insurance speaking. They are just trying to rip you off.
They didn't have insurance
@@nishasharma2746the other drivers insurance
@nishasharma2746 The parents didn't have health insurance. The other driver's wasn't mentioned except for that it was his fault. His car insurance is supposed to cover the medical expenses of the others involved if it is his fault.
@@NunyaDammeBiznismost likely fake you can never trust Reddit
Auto insurance has limits for medical expenses, and that's assuming you don't have to fight them about it. If your expenses exceed that limit, you better get a lawyer
Both of these stories are heart breaking. In the first story, the fact that they did all of that to their own daughter, she would have been better off in the system than being with her parents. The second story, just hold her in your arms. It’s clear you live her, and cut your friends off. Be with the person that you love. Don’t be with people that will only make you hate yourself and your loved ones.
Bro, the second story makes me just… ANGRY. Like, it doesn’t sit well with me what they were doing with that girl. I get sex and stuff, but it was like she was just a piece of meat for them to pass around, like a prized pig.
OP1 would have been an idiot if she sacrificed her life and future to help those people. It wouldn't have changed anything. They'd still be discarding her and sucking up to her sister. Take the money she saved and get therapy
For the second story- this OP sounds like (if what was posted is real and sincere) the classiest and most compassionate person possible. If they love this girl and believe she loves them back, it would be a tragedy to not understand that people can change. It sounds like for her, that meeting the OP was the catalyst for her to change and grow into the person she thought the OP deserved. I can't think of any greater love than that. The 'friends' sound bitter for not realizing how amazing she is until she was out of their reach.
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Sounds like you have all the closure. You need the only thing I would add to that is to forgive them and keep your distance. Because for giving a person allows you the freedom to not have to carry that baggage of hating and holding on.
Cutting contact with these narcissistic people will do you a world of good. I definitely think OP in the second story should go to Couples Counseling before getting married so they both have a safe space to talk it all out. I hope they find non-toxic friends in the future.
true purest version of favorism
Everyone has a past and if you are willing to look past her's and see what a good person she really is, then don't worry about it.
And those are not your friends but a bunch of pathetic guys who will eventually spend the rest of their lives utterly alone
Do not give them any money. Walk away!
The first story make me wonder if OP and Alison are identical twin or not. If they do, it's so weird that their parents have favoritism toward one of them. They have the same look! And born in the same day!
How come they didn’t make the driver who hit them responsible for their medical bills? If they were so hurt that they spend days in the hospital? It just sounds like that driver would be responsible for any medical cost?
As should be…if they caused the accident, then their insurance should pay for parents medical bills.
As someone who worked in insurance, it takes time and sometimes you pay and they pay you back.
I would track down the brother in laws ex wife and feed her information about the twin to help her get full custody back
14:50 “Found Out My Friends introduced me To My Girlfriend As a Joke, They All Slept With Her.”
Ty twinn
@@just_sallyok Yw lol
You shouldn’t believe what your friend say because at the end of the day the girl is still with you and they probably jealous because they ain’t got somebody loving them like that unconditionally. Because what happened in the past stay in the past and this girl love you from the bottom of her heart with everything she. So, don’t let your friends throw you off track just because of something happened that in the past because that girl is a keeper because most people don’t got that type of girl that will stay by your side, through thick and thin, to hell and back and will be your partner until the end of time. And your parents, they were wrong for what they did to you in your childhood because they had a choice, everyone has a choice on how they treat their kids, and raise their kids. So you were not wrong for cutting them off. So forget about all that mess and get on with your life because if you keep sticking in the past, you’re going to miss all your opportunities you have in the future.
Story 2: Men can literally be so scary and malicious for their own amusement and somehow I'm the judgemental ahole for avoiding them
“Nobody falls in love that quickly” I mean.. my sister and my brother in law married eachother after a few months of knowing each other. Thing is, neither of them had something to gain for the marriage. So..
The natural thing for parents should do is properly love all their kids and make them feel special❤
SO TRUE❤
Hey there, this one for the second story. I'm quite impressed that the girl wasn't in it with him as a joke but actually commited to the relationship and being polite and apologetic about her past, atleast she never continued it
Last story, run dude. She's no good.
I know right bro is going to see the grand canyon down there I would not date a toy
The youngest is always the golden and spoiled child
as someone who was in a horrible car wreck, always have health and car insurance.
0:57 from short
You’re a legend! Thank you
🫵 are him
It's sad to think that narcissists like this actually exist
Story 1. If the accident is not the parents fault the other driver’s insurance will compensate their medical bills.
Story 2 those friends aren't friends. And I kind of get the feeling they didn't want OP marrying her because they all just want to have another pass at her but she's not giving them any. So what they're doing now is basically trying to air out her old dirty laundry in hopes he won't marry them so that the friends can have good ol times again. Gross
Not to defend Allison, but I feel that OP is unnecessarily cynical about the possibility of a step mom honestly caring about her step children.
Well Allison has been *uncaring* for her own sister her whole life. It's not surprising OP is cynical about Allison actually having the ability to actually care about anyone other than herself.
After all, this woman abandoned her own parents who gave her their whole world.
So I won't say the possibility is zilch, but it just doesn't seem likely. After all, bragging doesn't mean the truth
Come on she hates her own parents she sounds incapable of caring about anyone else let alone step children of all
Omg THIS
People forget Golden children aren't at fault for beeing Favoriten, its the parent's who do so!!
Just bc you are favored doesn't mean you can't see how your parents behave!
Allisson clearly has a distant relationship with her parent as an adult aswell
And the way Allison refused to ask her husband for money actually is a sign she is NOT a Gold digger in my opinion.....
@@minus606 Bragging doesn't mean the truth either though. That's what makes this whole damn thing so grey-rocked
For what Im thinking about story number 1... OP ownes its parents NOTHING. It is not being petty. For her they are stangers.
I understand what you went through I am 61 my siblings made me feel a guy looking from the outside looking in only have 7 pictures of me growing up always left out even told by siblings telling I was adopted most of my life only nice to me when need money then I was left alone most of my life lived all over the Canada and not even missed felt safer being alone
sign a contract to take everything from them if they dont return the money in time
The answer is No you can’t slap me then reach out your hand for me to help you. They will figure it out and they were using your feelings to manipulate you into paying their bills. It is stupid to not have health insurance. So they never were going to help pay it back. These two are shitty parents you had twins!1 A blessing by anyone’s standards.. 2. They decided to raise her and they should have done better. 3. They encouraged to bad behavior and that was wrong 4. They made a crazy decision there were repercussions. 5. Allison is clueless and so she will be back with the parents.
The thing is that you could’ve paid like 1/4 of the bill and said ‘sorry times are tough’ so that atleast your ears won’t hurt of hearing non sense
Story 2: OP’s “friends” are garbage. He should never speak with them again. Of course his gf was terrified of losing him she met a real man. One with character and integrity. Not those creatures she associated with before.
They probably removed op from the will because to them, this was a test which the other daughter failed it too but they'd still probably leave everything to her. Im sorry but op should've taken the chance to be petty because those parents deserve it.
Damn your sister is the yapping queen
The second story that man is amazing 😊😊❤
God dang it, there’s already enough wrong with California
Just stop and think about what you want to do and don't regret it and own it
Ummm OP’s parents are going to jail in the first one. Not having car insurance is illegal.
Honestly in most situations uninsured drivers are considered at fault so they're lucky for that however the other drivers insurance should have at least covered part of the medical bills.
Wow, that's a tough life you have to live with your family but at least you have made the decision to cut them out of your life and live life for yourself without question and objection because they have shown you their true colors and it's time for you to show them your own for good measure and for the second story cut your friends out of your life and stay with your girlfriend and never look back for any reason whatsoever and just be yourself.
So, she's a shutdown bit they're not ?
Bro theres no fucking point of saying 12 minutes difference that's twins
If you're in the States, sue your car insurance company or the other vehicles company.
They did not have auto insurance either. The father is an idiot. No auto insurance and no health insurance. How he got plates for the car is a mystery because most states REQUIRE auto insurance just to get license plates for a car.
no as jojo siwa said in her song karma is a jerk dont pay for them
Lmk when the full story is out
First story OP is kinda an asshole. Not for ditching the family, the parents suck and took just expected her to return after not caring about her for years. I can understand that, It's the crap she said about her sisters step kids. I understand being bitter about your childhood but lots of people love their step children, even when those children are jerks. For her to bash her sister for not wanting to be away from them is extremely judgemental. You marry someone with kids then it should be treated as a package deal, to assume the husband doesn't love her and she couldn't possibly love the kids because she didn't give birth to them is messed up. It might be true, it might not, but to just assume that is just hateful and bitter.
THIS
OP wording is like she knows...but OP actually addmits herself that she doesn't have contact for years and only knows info from 2nd hand/friends...thats so hyporcitical
Literaly everything OP sais about her sister are assumptions or stuff from the past when they were KIDS. And tbh not even bad stuff...Allison didn't ''bully'' her or anything. The only thing Op sais is that OP was ''competitive'' and that Allisson ALLEGITLY used that for sympathy...a competition to be better...OP started!???
Also what ever she assumes about Allison, if true or not...doesn't Matter.
OP saying stuff like ''they aren't her children, they aren't blood related'' is just generaly SH'TY like adoption exsists and adopted children and parents ARE FAMILY!!
This OP is so hateful. Especially towards her sister.
Yeah, no, she would not her money back people like that do not deserve any time wasted on them all you can do is hope for the best if that was me I would hope they would go to hell I will be like a ghost I will be gone like that
Pretty sure the 2nd story has an update about how his GF ultimately cheated on him. I remember this story from months ago.
Probably should post the link if you can. Let’s not assume cheating happens and perpetuate this belief that promiscuity or causal sex means infidelity.
Yeah
@@TheLegendaryLegacy yt gonna delete the link
U/ThrowawayBuddy
From all the updates and comments, it seems that she didn't cheat
@@krazybonnie5523just came from there no cheating yet.
OP is so irritating to listen to. Wet noodle really.
0:58
time for short users
I mean 50 bucks cash is 50BUCKS cash
I wonder, who would have a power fantasy like this? Cause the story is obviously fake
OMG! I’m so seasick from watching this. Why? Just, why?
I feel motion sick after watching Minecraft Parkour all the time 🤢
Why the toxic attitude towards housewives and being a mom?? I can sympathize thru most of that but women support women, babe
If you can't see what's wrong with everyone there then you clearly need to think more about the situation.
She didn't love him nor the kids, she was being used so he wouldn't lose the custody battle. She pissed on her parents and didn't care for them all because she wanted to be banked by a rich dude so she wouldn't need to work and have plenty of money, while all she had to do was babysit 2 kids in some days while at others she was free all day to do whatever she wanted with tons of her husband's money lol
@@FrutoseDeMorango correction
OP who didn't had contact for years and probably didn't even met the husband CLAIMS that she ASSUMES he doesn't love her and her sister is a Gold digger etc etc.
Really everything OP sais...is an assumtion and OP literaly addmits to that, several times mentioning how they didn't talk/didn't had contact and most Infos are from wnd hand friends etc....
Tbh I think OP has just alredy a ''picture'' of allison, and no matter what Allison makes OP will view it in a bad light as she alredy has a pre exsisting assumtion.
Story 1: if it was me I would have dated and married and got pregnant before the golden child and not allow ops parents to see their grandchild out of spite and pettiness just to rub it on their faces that I succeeded in spite of their actions or cut them out completely as in ghost all of my past as of I was never born and never existed except my best friends completely and let them have their perfect family or they might realize their mistakes bit it would be too late as I would never meet them until very very later in life or after they regret it too much
Ops has the option of eternal peace by ghosting her family completely or stay in low contact and thus stay in their drama
So wait is the poster a chick or nah?
Story 2 is U/ThrowawayBuddy
0:59 for the shorts
2 story is not real it's just some s ... Writing it so men start to do same as this story
Wish me luck for staar 👇
Hey I would have done that too
i dislike sister but dang she can call her step kids her kids do you want hey George hey stepchild hey offspring that isn't mine
I get that OP hated her sister. I would to, but it seriously rubbed me the wrong way that she kept bringing up the fact that Allison's kids weren't her biological children so she should stop acting like it. That's disgusting on OPs part. I am a adopted daughter, and even though I wasn't my father's biological child he loved and cherished me like I was his own flesh and blood.
And if I married a man with a child, I would absolutely treat that child like it was my own flesh and bone. Because they are a MY child too by the action of marriage, and I will treat them as such. I can't even imagine being so bitter that you shame your sister for loving her children
Is this in Australia?
Probably, they are a wild bunch 😜
@@1bestfriend2u18 dam I know someone called Alison but she seems nice though
Story 2, you are dating the pass around girl in the friend group. Girl had 0 self esteem to be ok with this. She HAD WE⁴ to know this is how they saw her. Then she stayed friends with these people after she was used by them. She passed herself around and kept it a secret from OP. So first, she's entitled to have a past, but come on now. I would not marry her. I would feel the same way if it was a guy. There's just something gross about it.
Honestly the way the "friends" said that they would all get high and "pass her around" really creeped me out. It gave me rather strong rape vibes. Because even if she willingly got high, once she was high she couldn't really consent. Maybe I'm reading too much into it but the way the guys were talking about her makes my skin crawl.
@yukikitsune7366 they got high with her...that would mean they couldn't consent either. Also that's not how that works. Just because a woman is drunk or high doesn't mean her consent isn't valid
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I don't know if this going to come to you, But I want you to know that your friends are mad not because you won't stop dating her, It's because they realize that you are the top tier dude and that they were crumbs. A woman grades men differently from the what Men do. She chose you over every guy that has ever come into her life. you saw her As a person were your friends saw her as something that they could use and throw away. They are now realizing that you're the man, You are an alpha dog By finding and loving your woman the way she's supposed to be loved. Get rid of your friends. They are going to do whatever they can to hurt you. They pull this situation on both you and her. If she was as loose as your friends tried to say that she was, They would not have to had lie to her just as much as they lied to you. Keep your woman happy and near you and you'll be loving only each other. Purge those scrubs from your life and you will be happy with your woman.
@@tiffanysmith4760tf 😭
The person in story#2 should absolutely not marry that girl.
I’m going to go against the grain and the OP seems so spiteful, bitter, and childish.
I get she wasn’t given love by her parents and all but her calling her sister the embodiment of ungrateful is ironic. OP parents almost died and needed help from OP but OP said no? OP parents still raised and provided for OP, but even then OP's sister played no part in this.. OP's sister, just like OP, was a kid. Now she’s grown up, came to OP and told her about her life and how she’s happy and thinks of the kids as her own. Yet OP is spiteful and making SAHMs look bad as well as dismissed her sisters relationship with her husband and kids. I’m sorry, but it costs nothing to be happy for someone especially when they played no part in the favouritism, that was the parents.
Reddit is the wrong place for life advice, people just jump on bandwagons and validate negative feelings instead of offering good worthwhile advice.
Yeah that’s what bothered me because even if she didn’t give birth to the children doesn’t mean she isn’t their mother honestly i think it’s really good for her to accept them as her children so fast because most people take a long time to accept their step children especially as a first time parent. Her life was probably upside down when she first tried stepping in as their mother
I would agree with you if it was not for that thay only got in contact with her when they needed money and where happy to ignore her if they had reached out to to her at any time before that i would agree
The parents suck. They only came to her because they need something. If they hadn't gotten into the accident they never would have contacted her. She doesn't owe them anything. They abandoned her first. The sister was almost as bad as the parents and i don't blame op for thinking badly of her. Sister only came to op because she wants nothing to do with her parents and wants op to take care of them. She's not making sahm's look bad. Just the sister. She didn't say all. Just her sister. They screwed her over so many times and you think she should just roll over and take it because "family"? Nope, not going to happen.
@@oonachestnut509 I disagree, she kept assuming "oh her husband only wanted her for this" "oh why she acting like they're her kids" "oh i want to kick her out cos how dare she suggest i also be a sahm". It's so spiteful, I get why OP feels like that but she is now an adult and should act like it.
@@markmatthews2391 Yeah true, but I feel like people dismiss how easy it is to bring kids up. Yes, there was favouritism and her upbringing wasn't fair BUT it is infinitely better than her parents giving her away for adoption and her growing up as an orphan, or even worse, her being abused (which is the reality of millions of children around the world).
The OP is very ungrateful, I know people will reply to me saying "that's the bare minimum" but I can guarantee everyone saying that is not a parent. Being a parent is difficult and by no means should we dismiss it by saying it's the bare minimum because it is not. I'm not saying treat the parents like royalty but the LEAST you can do is help them out financially after a near-fatal car crash. It's more likely than not that they spent MORE on her while bringing her up so you can even see it as "paying them back".
I mean... refusing to help your parents after a near-fatal car crash just because they favoured your sister when you were kids is BEYOND spiteful and immature. I know a lot of people watching this and a lot of redditors are teenagers so they will encourage this behaviour due to naivity but at some point you need to grow up and be an adult.
On the trip, I’d be evil and use all the water keeping the taps running, move out and leave it like that😻😻
NAHHHH YOU HAD THE EXACT SAME THOUGHT AS ME