(Full Story) Parents Made Me Quit School And Be UnPaid Nanny, So I Ran Away

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  • čas přidán 20. 04. 2024
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Komentáře • 159

  • @mauve.flowers
    @mauve.flowers Před měsícem +297

    Honestly that friend that pushed her back into the bathroom after seeing the parents is a really good friend
    W friend, L mom

    • @PHEONEXLOVER411
      @PHEONEXLOVER411 Před měsícem +4

      Was just about to comment this lol! Great minds! 😁

  • @walnutsrcool
    @walnutsrcool Před měsícem +110

    I feel bad for the second guy. Saying he is “easily manipulated” is wild, he straight up had every man in his life including his FATHER all making a concerted and planned effort to basically brainwash and gaslight him. Glad the ex saw that he was abused.

    • @ponyta_lover_Boo
      @ponyta_lover_Boo Před měsícem +4

      I wonder if, since she recognized the abuse, tried to talk about it to him, or only realized so clearly after they were divorced/in the process of it.
      I really hope she did try to warn him, at least once, if she realized before they got divorced.
      But, I’m also glad she recognized and was happy for his improvement and actions towards a better future.

  • @Audiogeek-kf2ez
    @Audiogeek-kf2ez Před měsícem +117

    I am proud of OP maturity, she had most of her ideas for a great HS life and college

  • @Sushidogbat
    @Sushidogbat Před měsícem +43

    For story 2 I respect the dude maturity and how he admit to his fault I wouldn’t support them getting back together but at least he own up to his mistakes

    • @codekt
      @codekt Před 24 dny +1

      I’m kinda in the middle of TA and NTA because why would you believe them over your (soon to be) wife?

  • @suzannehernandez1006
    @suzannehernandez1006 Před měsícem +53

    The narcissistic parent won't see u as an individual worthy of independence or a good life, they see u as an object, a tool to use when they see fit. That's why she was utterly out of her mind with rage when op stood up for herself n didn't fall for her antics. In her mind it's like "how dare my tool sprout legs n walk away from me!?!?" She thinks that since she gave birth to u ur a part of her n should do wut ever she wants. Sadly it's true that u are kind of a part of her but the way the relationship works in her mind is very messed up. Like going as low to try to threaten n ruin her day on her birthday, that date was no coincidence, she was trying to send the message that she doesn't deserve a celebration n that she'll always b there to trample on any sense of self she tries to create despite legal repercussions or anything. Ops grandmother is a real one tho, that's amazing that she has some sane family that helped her set boundaries (despite moms total disregard for them)

    • @Decadence13666
      @Decadence13666 Před měsícem +3

      Unfortunately those kinds of people should not be parents. But those are the kind of people that will 100% have kids. Because they want someone to control and do thier work for them. If there's one thing I hate when parents do it's off load the younger children on the older one. If you can't handle having more kids yourself then birth control is a thing. And I don't mean like, sister looks after baby when mom takes a shower. Or for the occasional date night for the parents. Or some minor chores. I mean this situation where the sister is more of a mother to her brother then thier own mother is to her. She was raising this child and herself. Not the parents.

  • @Syntactix_Personal
    @Syntactix_Personal Před měsícem +20

    Your life does not matter to them so why would you care? the little brother is not your responsibility, if they do not want to hire a nanny and want you to do it instead you were good to get out of there and your grandma is a good woman

  • @Audiogeek-kf2ez
    @Audiogeek-kf2ez Před měsícem +18

    This is is a CPS case of peretafication. she is being severely abused

  • @MakaylaJansen-Linardon
    @MakaylaJansen-Linardon Před měsícem +15

    You are completely right and really brave- ur allowed to go to school

  • @pali3329
    @pali3329 Před měsícem +12

    Its weird to me that she never said a word about what these men were asking her and the apparent abuse of OP she could see from the outside. Its a team effort to keep a marriage alive and (from this post it seems like) her witholding these informations definitely played a part in the divorce.

  • @YrOneTrueGoddess
    @YrOneTrueGoddess Před 2 měsíci +121

    If your coming from the shorts here you go 0:58

  • @Dragonoid-xs7jb
    @Dragonoid-xs7jb Před měsícem +38

    Honestly, what I want to try to do was try to convince my parents if I had a little brother to get a nanny so this way someone could be watching the brother and you won’t have to switch shifts

  • @nanadavaibbhavvmelam7123
    @nanadavaibbhavvmelam7123 Před 2 měsíci +20

    she is nerd i aspire to be (not her sad situation tho) but her nerdiness is unparreleled

  • @azimlicocuk9899
    @azimlicocuk9899 Před měsícem +15

    10:20 wow why is everybody giants like 60 meters?!?!?! wth

  • @ShoobieGirl
    @ShoobieGirl Před měsícem +6

    Why is literally no one talking about how the second guy actually approached everything with his ex wife so maturely? He totally owned up to his wrongdoings, let his ex get closure, and accepted the fact that she couldn't forgive him with grace. Gotta give the dude his credit for that, because that whole situation must have been so hard to swallow

    • @81babyruthluv
      @81babyruthluv Před měsícem

      Lol are you the guy? 😂 omg

    • @ShoobieGirl
      @ShoobieGirl Před měsícem +1

      @81babyruthluv lol nah, just been on the receiving end of too many half-assed apologies. I appreciate it when people own to their crap. Doesn't happen a lot

  • @JokesToast
    @JokesToast  Před 2 měsíci +86

    What is going on??

  • @deadlock89
    @deadlock89 Před měsícem +4

    OP is their child, not their live in nanny, not their 3rd parent, not their slave, she shouldn't be responsible to parent her sibling. I get the parents are busy people but instead of demanding the OP sacrifice her life and future career for her sibling they should think of ways to cut back on their own jobs to actually raise their own son.

  • @chelseagamble6839
    @chelseagamble6839 Před měsícem +2

    How tf you going to treat your child like a slave, require to devote her take care her special need brother. I hope that op goes no contact with them when she turns 18

  • @gr-fk8sd
    @gr-fk8sd Před měsícem +2

    the last story pissed me off OP should have been given more slack not by the xwife just by the comments they act like the situation wouldn't played out the same way for most people he was conditioned to fail by almost all of his friends and family

  • @81babyruthluv
    @81babyruthluv Před měsícem +8

    “You can’t let me go without my permission!!!” Reminds me of the psychotic mom from White Oleander. That is a statement only a sociopath would make.

  • @displacerkatsidhe
    @displacerkatsidhe Před měsícem +1

    I'm at the part where the dad is finally filing for divorce, and the mom was literally planning a kidnapping... I am literally having flashbacks to stories my mom told me about my grandma after my oldest aunt ran away in the 1970s. My grandmother stalked her, would write these awful horrible letters to our family, my aunt's husband, his family, just painting this terrible picture of her...but you know leaving the part out where my grandmother was a raging narc who beat her kids and emotionally abused my grandfather for decades...

  • @KV-kt9tm
    @KV-kt9tm Před měsícem +1

    You should tell your Parents if they like him so much they should just get him a babysitter

  • @gamerzone0764
    @gamerzone0764 Před měsícem +1

    On one side .. yes some people are just naturally so good with children that it is difficult for even parents to understand how it can happen.
    But destroying a child's life, so that she can oractice playing mother is just another level of entitlement.

  • @thesheerwoodcrow5465
    @thesheerwoodcrow5465 Před měsícem +1

    These parents are later gonna wonder why their son is a terror who can’t take care of himself

  • @clocwerrk
    @clocwerrk Před měsícem +3

    15 & a junior? I was 15 as a freshman.. am I missing something ?

    • @exiguousmoth
      @exiguousmoth Před měsícem

      Depends on your birthday. I was 14 as a freshman. If she's turning 16 in her junior year, that probably means her birthday was right before the cutoff. There's also the possibility that she skipped a grade

    • @firefly8589
      @firefly8589 Před měsícem +1

      She could also be from a different country and school grades work different there, have u seen how the french school grades work, confusing af 😅

  • @SSFighter1701
    @SSFighter1701 Před měsícem +1

    The fact this young woman did not react at all to her mother coming a s yelling at hers shows great (forced) maturity.
    She is going to have a good life, I think.

  • @dragoniccrab
    @dragoniccrab Před měsícem

    Well atleast the ex is proud that the man is getting help. Hope theyre both doing well

  • @Fantasy4Her
    @Fantasy4Her Před měsícem +2

    Story one :
    if your mother can’t act the way she is supposed to then i’m sorry but she needs to get some therapy, and first one all if hiring a nanny is ‘too expensive’ if they make their shifts longer they would get more money, so their at fault. second of all, matt is not your son, you aren’t a guardian who should be taking care of him. third of all, your grandma is a great person and i appreciate her for what she did by hiring security, and honestly maybe you shouldn’t be going to therapy?? I hope you feel better, and i hope you can get your mom out of the picture.
    Story two :
    i’m glad you cut them out, and maybe she can’t forgive you but that’s okay, because people come and go for a lesson in your life, and she came to give you two lessons “cut off your friends” and “cut off your father and brother” basically saying “cut off the people who hurt you” and that’s a good way for her to help you heal from the abuse, i wish you the best and i hope maybe if God is up to it if you guys can date. goodluck!

  • @ReedHord
    @ReedHord Před 25 dny +1

    The bullies probably told your mom or posted about it and she saw it and went to crash it😮

  • @MrYesntMan
    @MrYesntMan Před 2 měsíci +18

    It that is how Matt stone found out his sister was a nerd

  • @user-wy1zz4xo1q
    @user-wy1zz4xo1q Před měsícem +1

    "suck it up" how fucked are people in the head, like seriously highschool is insanely important and you cant just lower school time to be a nanny. So i think its fair going and staying with your granny. (this is for the original story)

  • @lidijakljucevic84
    @lidijakljucevic84 Před měsícem +1

    Why does she need to stay awake if her brother is asleep. No contact and restraining order. Block everyone that’s on moms side

  • @MatthewGonzalez-cf9qh
    @MatthewGonzalez-cf9qh Před měsícem

    People who treat you like a toy don’t deserve you

  • @jarnalt7456
    @jarnalt7456 Před 21 hodinou

    damn why the hell all his friends so tall in the 2nd story💀

  • @LemonBeanCream
    @LemonBeanCream Před 2 měsíci +7

    B R E A D

  • @VRTIME-nr1nz
    @VRTIME-nr1nz Před měsícem

    Dad seems all right

  • @Darkgrass571
    @Darkgrass571 Před měsícem

    When the book birthday party came up I thought “Sherlock Homels”

  • @Saintsblocksfruitgaming
    @Saintsblocksfruitgaming Před měsícem +1

    I think the OP bullies total the mom because the bullies wanted to crash it so that’s one of the ways they could’ve without being there

  • @jnicoulakos
    @jnicoulakos Před měsícem +1

    9 minutes in, OP's mother was waiting off school grounds to grab her by the hair and take her home. Who does she think she is? Then tried to blame the child for her issues. I would never speak to her again after that. If I where OP.

    • @wkkqewqaver7766
      @wkkqewqaver7766 Před měsícem +1

      This is fake so it doesn't really matters

    • @jnicoulakos
      @jnicoulakos Před měsícem

      @@wkkqewqaver7766 How do you know that this is a fake?

    • @wkkqewqaver7766
      @wkkqewqaver7766 Před měsícem

      @@jnicoulakos bro her parents just magically manifested time in her day not spent working or taking care of the brother to go on Reddit of all places just because a certain sub Reddit had a story similar to her daughters the amount coincidences in that sequence of events is unbelievable it has to be fake, plus every other Reddit story has the exact same scenario play out with the family always finding out about the Reddit like it's the holy grail of social media yeah gtfo redditors I aint believing that.

  • @Devin-O
    @Devin-O Před 21 dnem

    I hate parents that put their responsibility onto their kids shame on you! Worse her parents had the money to hire someone but refused you should be banned from being a parent.

  • @WortWortWortWortWortWortWort

    Holy hell bonus story

  • @LydiaMellor-oh5yf
    @LydiaMellor-oh5yf Před měsícem

    I babysit my brothers but it never gets that bad!

  • @AubreeSpain
    @AubreeSpain Před měsícem

    What duties you are a child too what duties you’re not their parent? I am so sorry.

  • @mrnagekomi
    @mrnagekomi Před 2 měsíci +3

    bread and toast

  • @terry_the_berry
    @terry_the_berry Před 28 dny

    in the second story those are some tall people

  • @sidplays7992
    @sidplays7992 Před 25 dny

    Hey that’s six days before my third brothers birthday

  • @oliversherman2414
    @oliversherman2414 Před měsícem

    Why are there so many people just commenting "bread"? 🍞 lol

  • @ChefRye1
    @ChefRye1 Před měsícem

    2nd Story: ETA family is obviously the biggest AH, OP is for not talking to his wife and listening to his family with no proof. And ex wife is for saying forgiveness isn’t in her nature, I’m not saying she had to forgive him for that but saying she doesn’t forgive anything just means she would of been a horrible wife in the long term.

  • @The-huted
    @The-huted Před 2 měsíci +5

    B r e a d

    • @hem1to
      @hem1to Před 2 měsíci +1

      This thing was uploaded 1 hour ago I think how did you make this 4 hours ago?

    • @aradesmaeili3082
      @aradesmaeili3082 Před 2 měsíci

      @@hem1toyou r right. Tf

    • @mrnagekomi
      @mrnagekomi Před 2 měsíci

      wait how the heck

    • @The-huted
      @The-huted Před měsícem +2

      … hacks
      Jk it was premiered and I didn’t go to the live comments so I went to the normal comments and commented b r e a d it is my way of saying first without looking like a 7 year old I’m 23

  • @Brookboys1
    @Brookboys1 Před měsícem

    friends over you're wife nah at least those friends got to be you're bffs and nobody would forgive you for that you become gullible and you trusted them.

  • @hikarotk5831
    @hikarotk5831 Před měsícem

    What is going on with people that you have to hire Security for a bloody Birthday Party i mean what the hell

  • @sqtip17
    @sqtip17 Před měsícem

    this must be hard for you

  • @user-lr4en5pm2u
    @user-lr4en5pm2u Před 27 dny

    The op said that he slept at 10 11 pm that's like want i always want staying up all Night

  • @charlottehughes6104
    @charlottehughes6104 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Cheese

  • @JacksEpicGamingAlt
    @JacksEpicGamingAlt Před měsícem

    Tf is 41 meters😂?

  • @bullzeye4622
    @bullzeye4622 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Bread

  • @Officially_A_Country_Girl
    @Officially_A_Country_Girl Před měsícem

    Omg in story 1 JULY 16TH IS MY BIRTHDAY

  • @claytonthomas1980
    @claytonthomas1980 Před měsícem +2

    For the first story, the daughter may have to accept responsibility in reference to taking care of her brother but she has a right to have a life and a right to live it which is something her own mother has to respect that down the line and sad to say but a no contact order won't allow her to realize that and never will but at least the daughter can live her life without her mom in her life and for the second story the man was beyond manipulated by his own friends and his own father and he had to cut them out of his life and he also lost his wife because of it,sad, dumb and wrong but unfortunate as well and that is something he has to live with whether he likes it or not, let's hope that he can move on from it and hopefully find love again someday, fingers crossed for now though.

  • @aradesmaeili3082
    @aradesmaeili3082 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Why is everyone saying B R E A D

    • @mrnagekomi
      @mrnagekomi Před 2 měsíci +2

      braincells is bread in local media

    • @mrnagekomi
      @mrnagekomi Před 2 měsíci +2

      i ment socal

    • @ElderWizard
      @ElderWizard Před měsícem +1

      @@mrnagekomibro just edit the comment to fix the mistake…

  • @Red_Dead_Disintegrations
    @Red_Dead_Disintegrations Před měsícem +1

    B R E D

  • @aleksandrakarovskaristovsk5801

    W grandma

  • @evertonbennett7473
    @evertonbennett7473 Před 18 dny

    What the sigma is this😂

  • @CornWhichPopsYt
    @CornWhichPopsYt Před měsícem

    Do you ask people for stories to upload?

  • @danmihelic7773
    @danmihelic7773 Před měsícem

    Where do you go to school

  • @Tadpole_Exists
    @Tadpole_Exists Před 2 měsíci +1

    b r e a d

  • @EmilyHasBeenHotel
    @EmilyHasBeenHotel Před měsícem +1

    0:54 if you came from short

  • @MimiBibi1231
    @MimiBibi1231 Před měsícem

    Slash💀

  • @zaineoakley5555
    @zaineoakley5555 Před měsícem

    The dad while to a good parent was atleats he was willing to change unlike the mother
    The dad would get 2/5 and the mother 4/5 and everyone else 0/5

  • @jgamer3878
    @jgamer3878 Před měsícem

    meters ??? I geuss the M for male was wrriten as meters

  • @Qwertery
    @Qwertery Před 2 měsíci

    Brod

  • @killstrike505
    @killstrike505 Před 2 měsíci +1

    BREAD

  • @YrOneTrueGoddess
    @YrOneTrueGoddess Před 2 měsíci

    🍞

  • @jadesorono6694
    @jadesorono6694 Před měsícem

    .?

  • @-Felix-Berry-
    @-Felix-Berry- Před měsícem

    L🤫🧏🏼‍♀️🧏🏼‍♀️🦅🦅🔥🔥💀🔥

  • @bentlyhartzell5884
    @bentlyhartzell5884 Před měsícem

    it sounds like the OP was not telling the full story first story

  • @ronsucksatrunning
    @ronsucksatrunning Před 2 měsíci +10

    M e t e r s

  • @toilet_master
    @toilet_master Před měsícem +1

    WHAT A NER- just kiddin.

  • @yasinaden4405
    @yasinaden4405 Před 2 měsíci

    @JokesToast

  • @kaidenkennedy558
    @kaidenkennedy558 Před 2 měsíci +5

    B r e a d

  • @Valtrox303
    @Valtrox303 Před 2 měsíci +1

    B R E A D

  • @user-vp4fx3cz2n
    @user-vp4fx3cz2n Před 2 měsíci

    Cheese

  • @PurpleWitch714
    @PurpleWitch714 Před měsícem +1

    B r e a d

  • @ayman-brawlstars1595
    @ayman-brawlstars1595 Před 2 měsíci +3

    B r e a d

  • @rubyfinucane7664
    @rubyfinucane7664 Před 2 měsíci +3

    B r e a d

  • @coastchick
    @coastchick Před 2 měsíci +3

    B r e a d

  • @prty.strawxberry
    @prty.strawxberry Před měsícem +1

    B r e a d

  • @ghazasuit
    @ghazasuit Před 2 měsíci +2

    B r e a d

  • @hem1to
    @hem1to Před 2 měsíci +2

    B r e a d

  • @linkgaming1515
    @linkgaming1515 Před 2 měsíci +1

    B r e a d

  • @julianamerica5178
    @julianamerica5178 Před 2 měsíci +2

    B r e a d

  • @HorrorEclipse.
    @HorrorEclipse. Před 2 měsíci +1

    B r e a d

  • @realslimsophie
    @realslimsophie Před 2 měsíci +1

    B r e a d

  • @meowmeowmeow6808
    @meowmeowmeow6808 Před 2 měsíci

    B R E A D

  • @ARandomBoredShortsCreator
    @ARandomBoredShortsCreator Před 2 měsíci +1

    B r e a d

  • @Imnotpistachio
    @Imnotpistachio Před 2 měsíci +1

    B r e a d

  • @matthewlooez9288
    @matthewlooez9288 Před 2 měsíci +1

    B r e a d

  • @julia_flower-gamer828
    @julia_flower-gamer828 Před měsícem

    B r e a d