How To Be SO CONVINCING That You're Over It That He Regrets Leaving And Chases

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  • čas přidán 14. 07. 2024
  • Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott
    Tired of feeling taken for granted? It's time to turn the tables and make him realize what he's lost. In this ultimate guide, I, your trusted dating coach Elliot Scott, will walk you through the art of making him regret his decisions. Let's jump right into it, and I promise, by the end of this video, you'll have a blueprint to not only boost your self-worth but to possibly get him knocking on your door, full of regret.
    First off, I am going to teach you the importance of believability in your actions post-breakup. Understanding the dynamics of your relationship and the power play at hand is crucial. I'm going to give you actionable steps on what to do before and after a breakup to ensure he realizes his mistake. From maintaining no contact to presenting yourself as the high-value woman you are, each strategy is designed to make him see your worth.
    You will want to watch this video because I dive deep into the psychology of regret and how to leverage it in your favor. Whether you're looking to get your ex back or simply want to move on with the confidence that you left a lasting impression, this guide is for you.
    - Why believability is your best tool
    - The correct way to use no contact
    - How to be the most believable post-breakup
    - Signs he's starting to regret his decision
    Furthermore, I show you how to establish a healthy dynamic before things go south, ensuring you never find yourself in this position again. Attract your crush, get a guy to like you, or get your ex back with confidence. My relationship advice, based on years of experience, is designed to empower you in the dating world.
    For those ready to take their dating game a notch higher, download my free guide linked below, or sign up for one-on-one coaching. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. I am here to guide you every step of the way with proven strategies that have helped countless others.
    *Disclaimer: I am in no way a professional or licensed. This is all just my experience, knowledge, and opinion.*
    Embrace your newfound knowledge and head into your dating life with confidence. The link is down below so get it at the end of this video. Ladies, I love you all. Take care and peace.
    #HealthyBreakup #RegrettingEverything #MakeHimRegret #HowToGetAGuyToLikeYou #UnderstandingMen
    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 - Make Him Regret Losing You
    0:38 - Understanding Regret Dynamics
    6:07 - Be Irresistibly Believable
    9:58 - Mastering No Contact Rule
    10:28 - Importance of Silence During No Contact
    10:43 - Personalized Coaching with Natalie

Komentáře • 68

  • @ElliotScottDating
    @ElliotScottDating  Před 5 měsíci +1

    Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott

  • @TheRightSideOfHistory
    @TheRightSideOfHistory Před 4 měsíci +30

    Is there one honest sincere man left in the world that doesn’t play games? Gosh!!!

    • @dishappywithlife2556
      @dishappywithlife2556 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I know right!! It’s so bloody exhausting 😑

    • @chilloften
      @chilloften Před 4 měsíci +1

      No mam, and they all want a mother and finding them.

  • @unintendedbeginning
    @unintendedbeginning Před 4 měsíci +17

    He is 100% correct. I had an ex reach out to me after we broke up 20 years ago via email around Christmas. We lost contact 10 years ago. I did not notice as I don't check that email anymore. 6 months later he sent another message, once again I missed it. 8 months later he sent me another one, on Valentines day. Ignoring the messages was purely accidental as I'm not the type of person to do that, especially after 20 years. I'm the type to view it as water under the bridge. I responded casually and with a few sentences. A few weeks later, I received a very long message. He clearly started to chase after a period of a year and a half. I believe he was lonely and looking for attention, but the lack of attention definitely made him chase. The behavior i was seeing was surprising after so many years. Men clearly love the conquest.

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd Před 5 měsíci +56

    Why do I care if he regrets leaving me if I’m actually leaving? The only way to be convincing is if we never actually take them back right?

    • @Eadrene
      @Eadrene Před 5 měsíci +10

      because a lot of times, this method actually does help a woman to move on from the pain. You really do have to fake it until you make it at times. And even if you don't ever take him back, showing so much sadness and sorrow is also not a good look!

    • @abbyjones2414
      @abbyjones2414 Před 5 měsíci +5

      Why are you watching this if you don’t care lol. You aren’t convincing anyone

    • @Beautifullysaid
      @Beautifullysaid Před 5 měsíci +2

      I was wondering the samething they always say they got the gift of goodby and all that yet they comment the most i dont get it why they watch if there done with the person humm

    • @emmaboyett8667
      @emmaboyett8667 Před 5 měsíci +3

      ​@@abbyjones2414 if you paid attention to any of his videos you would know that the commenter is agreeing with Elliot. So stop putting people down.

    • @emmaboyett8667
      @emmaboyett8667 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@Beautifullysaidare you dense? you're beefing at someone who actually understands his points a lot better than you. Learn comprehension

  • @susannefitzpatrick9955
    @susannefitzpatrick9955 Před 4 měsíci +10

    Basically, a man will do and say ANYTHING and travel any distance to get into your pants. Women need to do everything they can to see what a man is made of first - does he SHOW what he professes (or is it all BS)? Keep him waiting ‘til you’ve found out all you need to know, then make a judgement.

  • @Lifeofcivilrightactivistanetra
    @Lifeofcivilrightactivistanetra Před 5 měsíci +9

    On the right path. I kept God first..kept pushing❤❤❤

  • @sharonmckay2886
    @sharonmckay2886 Před 19 dny +1

    Love yourself more than you love them.The end.

  • @jmb4975
    @jmb4975 Před měsícem +1

    I love the animated language in this video!😂 This is all soooo true.
    One thing I learned: I've never lost a dude because I ignored him!

  • @alexandrahernandez3647
    @alexandrahernandez3647 Před 5 měsíci +8

    We love you Elliot! Wish you were my bestie or older brother I never had. These guys would’ve never stood a chance over these past years 😭😂

    • @susannefitzpatrick9955
      @susannefitzpatrick9955 Před 4 měsíci

      Totally agree. I grew up without a male role model of some sort - Elliot would have saved me SO much trauma and heartache.

  • @rileysmiley9585
    @rileysmiley9585 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Forget about it. Stay positive and invest in yourself.🙂

  • @jacquelinebayonne1580
    @jacquelinebayonne1580 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I needed this advice. It verified my perceptions. Thank you.

  • @majamaja8690
    @majamaja8690 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thank you! Some real talk here, useful as usual. :)

  • @Mellie726
    @Mellie726 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Excellent advice as always!

  • @smores8982
    @smores8982 Před 4 měsíci +3

    When you said don’t text him HBD after you guys have broken up, it slapped me in the face as I did just that 😢…5 whole months after we broke up. After I received a very lukewarm yet curt reply from him, i instantaneously felt like an azz. I’d like to reinforce to the ladies what Elliot said…DONT do it! You’ll regret it. He will recognize that he’s still on your mind 😣

  • @Callie0818
    @Callie0818 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thanks Elliott! The hardest thing is to stay strong and dont cave in!

  • @Empressenergy444
    @Empressenergy444 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Love you Elliot

  • @perpetualogan-eb8jo
    @perpetualogan-eb8jo Před 5 měsíci +5

    You are a legend

  • @BrodieJ-mw6vl
    @BrodieJ-mw6vl Před 4 měsíci

    Thankyou for your honest insight ❤ you’re so funny 😂

  • @manuelalivi3982
    @manuelalivi3982 Před 21 dnem +1

    You Are Great!!!!❤ THANKS🙏🙏

  • @CCrockergirl
    @CCrockergirl Před 4 měsíci

    In my instance you lead me on thinking you were single but actually married and I fell for you 😂

  • @Relaxinwealth
    @Relaxinwealth Před 5 měsíci +7

    Front center and listening !! As always you never disappoint

  • @Sparksflymich
    @Sparksflymich Před 5 měsíci +1

    Elliot ure working overtime this month 😊😊😊

  • @Liz-dragon-street.
    @Liz-dragon-street. Před 5 měsíci +2

    Elliot all the love from Amsterdam ❤
    Wanna have a beer with you one day here in Holland 🫡🍻

  • @88kimberly
    @88kimberly Před 5 měsíci

    Can't be any more clear than this!👍😁

  • @annakane7243
    @annakane7243 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Bravo! 👏🎉

  • @gyonia
    @gyonia Před 5 měsíci

    this was hilarious. I can’t even get through the video. You’re hell Elliot 🤣☠️

  • @michelleryan6119
    @michelleryan6119 Před 4 měsíci

    You are great! Humorous but the male perspective is accurate.

  • @NNV337
    @NNV337 Před 4 měsíci

    Elliot, you got me at "Biild a Pablo Escobar jail" Rofl 😂😂 Loved this video ❤👌💯

  • @deana_
    @deana_ Před 5 měsíci

    Would be awesome to hang out with you dewd. Super entertaining and sharp as always.
    💙 from Norway

  • @aspegel5281
    @aspegel5281 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I didn't know about the birthday wishes. Found out too late, but he responded wirh a cut, and some indirect comment. Since it had no intention towards a resolution, I didn't respond and haven't since.

  • @jeandoe4887
    @jeandoe4887 Před 4 měsíci

    Funny my ex already had a new one, hope they're happy in the end. ❤😊

  • @Beautifullysaid
    @Beautifullysaid Před 5 měsíci

    I love the analogy can u use more 😊

  • @CR-eh7qk
    @CR-eh7qk Před 4 měsíci

    The Pablo Escobar prison 🤣 love it

  • @corulvoceacopilariei9855
    @corulvoceacopilariei9855 Před 5 měsíci

    Elliot, all I want to say is you look really good in the suit 😉

  • @Jazzi_Jeff
    @Jazzi_Jeff Před 2 měsíci

    “Oh bish, you be thinking about me”
    🤣🤣🤣🤣
    But frfr that used to be me thinking bout him😕

  • @veronicasmith1332
    @veronicasmith1332 Před 2 měsíci

    love u very true

  • @amandat392
    @amandat392 Před 4 měsíci

    Iam now in week 5 of NC we pass each other at work and ignore each other feels good but weird.

  • @Swampy_stick
    @Swampy_stick Před 3 měsíci

    😂 Pablo Escobar , yes good analogy !lol!

  • @Crgb777
    @Crgb777 Před 4 měsíci +1

    The first step - is to convince yourself.

  • @J3nnycat
    @J3nnycat Před 4 měsíci +1

    Ugh I was doing so well for 5 months. I went dead cold on him. He contacted me a week ago and we’ve been talking. He says he has too much love for me than to cut me out of his life completely, but that he wants to be friends.
    I’m not sure what’s worse, not having him in my life at all, or being stuck in the friend zone because he’s not taking the opportunity to pursue me/make things right. He’s open to losing me if I meet another man someday, and is hoping his feelings for me die off by then.
    But then says things like, “who knows, maybe one day a year down the road we can try again.”
    I feel stuck.
    We were together for 5 years and went through so much together. It hurts being just friends.
    Advice? ❤

  • @Sheilaalien
    @Sheilaalien Před 3 měsíci

    these games would be exhausting

  • @jadeboller3657
    @jadeboller3657 Před 4 měsíci +1

    this is good shit but I disagree from my own experience that the man is going to beg for you back he is most likely gonna say some thing super casual like hey how have you been doing to test the water and see how you react first

  • @sheila7909
    @sheila7909 Před měsícem

    It's my birthday on Tuesday and we are not speaking.

  • @Beautifullysaid
    @Beautifullysaid Před 5 měsíci +1

    Lol people always come in the chat acting like a coach and block them all this stuff they be the same one calling first lol why comment if the topic is not for u . Weird

  • @juliegalea7720
    @juliegalea7720 Před 3 měsíci

    Games...why do people instigate playing games..he's already doing that and am fed up with the emotional roller coaster...decent people give the benefit of the doubt coz life is busy..if i have to force a man to be with me...he's not for me!

  • @user-jq8uq8sd5v
    @user-jq8uq8sd5v Před 4 měsíci

    your so funny

  • @karendifranco8649
    @karendifranco8649 Před 4 měsíci

    Play Stupid Games win Stupid Prizes 😂😂