When he pulls away- ladies, you pull harder- I stop all contact, work on myself, do not block- I want him to see me in 6mos- 1 year looking fly, arm & arm with the next guy….😉💯
If you’re here… It’s done deal girl. Time will change and heal you and when he finally comes back you won’t even give a sht about him. So if you’re here, it’s already over :(
this is so true its hilarious. when they come back they are literally a stranger in your eyes, you dont even bother to read the whole text let alone reply. crazy
"Don't worry about whatever the outcome is. Just do your own thing and move on." I think that was the single most validating, stress relieving, & healthy aspects of dating for me in my single years because it always had me focused on what was best for me & helped to avoid having my time wasted. It's the thing I see young women these days able to do the least. Guys can sniff an outcome-dependent women from miles away & they will milk her dry until he loses interest because he already knows she'll do just about anything to keep him around. I've seen men discard women after 10+ yrs after using her simply because SHE was hell-bent on getting a specific outcome that he never even pretended he was going to give her.
Damn. I’m always this girl. He likes me… but never quite enough. I’m out. I’m getting very used to being alone. And it’s really okay. But hard not to let it get you down sometimes.
I was ghosted 3 months ago. I never showed any concern to him, nor asked him . I moved on. It was extremely painful but i did not show it. Even when we bumped into each other i was friendly; we spoke as if nothing happened and moved on. ...
Let him know you’re not a spare Tyre that only gets used when one of the 4 gets flat. Never makes him a priority when he only treats u as an option. All or nothing
Just leave! 🎉 when u require a value they are not willing to give they go to the one who will give with no required value 💯 KNOW YOUR VALUE! THATS SEXY FOR THE NEXT
Perfectly explained. It’s like you’re reading a woman’s mind! Thank you for this! I did remove him from my social media and to be honest i feel so empowered. I can’t handle him lurking around and having that access to me so I removed him. I walked away silently. Didn’t argue or anything! It’s SO HARD TO DO I know my worth as a woman.
Ok cool it's true this is why it is so important for women to learn about their femininity , once you stop acting masculine around men they weed themselves out really quick that's means not shooting you're shot or pursuing him because if he does pull away and you initiate set up dateswith him you will never know if he is interested. Also of he pulls away seriously don't give a shit and last thing if any man tells me that he wants a women to pursue him I gladly walk away because now I can not stand feminine men or grown ass boys!
I appreciate your videos. As as much as I love men I will always put my family and pets first because they have proven their love for me. I am ok with being alone because I have a family and pets that love me.
You have just described my exact situation. He wants to be friends only now after a 6 month relationship. I withdrew, and now will meet him tomorrow. He wants me as a friends only. I am struggling right now.
No, you accept scraps from him, that shows that you have no options and self respect - block him on everywhere and start dating multiple men untilm you find one who is into you 100%
If he wanted to be a friend, he would have treated you like one in the first place. What he wants is a friend with benefits. I bet he thinks you will give him that if you agreed to meet with him after all he’s done to you. I hope you didn’t give him the time of day and told him to go kick rocks 😂.
Never know i applied this for the whole life.. yes they comeback even after 20 years but Sorry, as a pisces, its one time offer.. no more access.. love is gone..
So I told him bye and walked away. No contact for 45 days. Hes back saying how much he misses me. Im willing to give him one more chance but how do I phrase that?
What happens if he is a friend of you and he was acting like he likes you and when you asked him out he friendzoned you? I have to see him anytime we do group activities and since I asked him out he stopped all the contact to me except cheing my insta stories.
He pursued me then convinced me into a relationship only to drop me for another female friend. Now, wants to shelf me as a friend. Sorry sir, absolutely not. I blocked on all social media. I don't want him having access to any of my energy
Elliot, I have been following you for a few weeks now. I am in the knowledge now that I was in a relationship with an emotional avoidant man. I'm hurting bad. Can you help me.?
Hi Elliott should I hide my last seen and display pic on WhatsApp from my ex during no contact ? I feel him lurking around as my other social media is deactivated and WhatsApp is the only media he can look me up on . If he sees my online status and last seen does that give him relief to some extent ?
You need to BLOCK him on everything! The fact that your worried about him looking at your social media is sending him way too much energy. Don’t give him your time OR your energy.
Hi Eliott, I'm very lost and I'd love to have your input on my situation: I walked away from my situationship with a dissmissive advoidant/ emotionally unavailable guy 5 weeks ago (I'm 28, he's 25). There were signs he did like me but when I confronted him after two months of dating he said he couldn't and wasn't willing to give me more (commitment, exclusivity...). For context: he will move abroad soon and this is his main "reason". I asked him not to contact me unless he was willing to give me more. It's been 5 weeks and he hasn't reached out. Is he gone forever? Should I reach out to know where he stands? Hope this message gets to you. Thank you in advance.
Sweetheart, why would you want a man who doesn’t want you?? If he can’t show up for you; if he doesn’t call or text you, LEAVE HIM ALONE! There are 8 billion people on the planet and about half of those people are men. FAR BETTER men. Put all of that love and effort on YOURSELF! Get your self love and self respect back and don’t give him a second thought. Seriously. Do NOT reach out to him. If he never reaches out to you, he doesn’t want to. He may be dismissive avoidant and trust me, if that’s the case you dodged a bullet. These types of men are not capable of meeting your needs. You saved yourself years and years of heartache. You are FAR TOO GOOD for this guy. Trust me on this.💯👌🏽
"Don't worry about whatever the outcome is. Just do your own thing and move on." I think that was the single most validating, stress relieving, & healthy aspects of dating for me in my single years because it always had me focused on what was best for me & helped to avoid having my time wasted. It's the thing I see young women these days able to do the least. Guys can sniff an outcome-dependent women from miles away & they will milk her dry until he loses interest because he already knows she'll do just about anything to keep him around. I've seen men discard women after 10+ yrs after using her simply because SHE was hell-bent on getting a specific outcome.
7:00 i like your advice but would prefer more respectful language without the cursing especially since your audience is ladies. Please speak to us like a gentleman lol
@alchemicalsoul he is speaking to an audience so we get to decide the standards of how we would like to be spoken to. Not cursing is bare minimum of respect and decency when speaking to ladies
@alchemicalsoul i am his audience. do you know what constructive criticism or customer feedback is? That's how businesses thrive lol I protect my energy and its bad energy and standard to let men curse at you.
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It's not for me Elliot. I thought you correspond with me sincerely
You looking good the haircut suits you
So basically, just remove all access to you and level up.
Facts 👌
When a guy reject you but still wanna be “friend”, he still don’t want you.
Obviously. Men dont want friends. They want easy access to insecure girls. Call it a friendship call it whatever. He still wins at his goal
When he pulls away- ladies, you pull harder- I stop all contact, work on myself, do not block- I want him to see me in 6mos- 1 year looking fly, arm & arm with the next guy….😉💯
If you’re here… It’s done deal girl. Time will change and heal you and when he finally comes back you won’t even give a sht about him. So if you’re here, it’s already over :(
this is so true its hilarious. when they come back they are literally a stranger in your eyes, you dont even bother to read the whole text let alone reply. crazy
Really they comeback??
@@afrintayeba2981 they almost ALWAYS come back
My guy stays out every weekend and come back home like it’s ok saying I’m his bottom girl after 21yrs I’m tired
Totally agree. I know it's over but I'm still sad about it.
"Don't worry about whatever the outcome is. Just do your own thing and move on." I think that was the single most validating, stress relieving, & healthy aspects of dating for me in my single years because it always had me focused on what was best for me & helped to avoid having my time wasted. It's the thing I see young women these days able to do the least. Guys can sniff an outcome-dependent women from miles away & they will milk her dry until he loses interest because he already knows she'll do just about anything to keep him around. I've seen men discard women after 10+ yrs after using her simply because SHE was hell-bent on getting a specific outcome that he never even pretended he was going to give her.
Damn. I’m always this girl. He likes me… but never quite enough. I’m out. I’m getting very used to being alone. And it’s really okay. But hard not to let it get you down sometimes.
If he's unsure about you, he don't like you enough to want to commit.
I was ghosted 3 months ago. I never showed any concern to him, nor asked him . I moved on. It was extremely painful but i did not show it. Even when we bumped into each other i was friendly; we spoke as if nothing happened and moved on. ...
This only works if he likes you but is responsibility-phobic.
@@steph6109 well... he never spoke back
...so apparently..did not like me as it seemed.
Let him know you’re not a spare Tyre that only gets used when one of the 4 gets flat. Never makes him a priority when he only treats u as an option. All or nothing
Just leave! 🎉 when u require a value they are not willing to give they go to the one who will give with no required value 💯
KNOW YOUR VALUE! THATS SEXY FOR THE NEXT
*True happiness comes from within, and you have the power to create the life you desire.*
Perfectly explained. It’s like you’re reading a woman’s mind! Thank you for this! I did remove him from my social media and to be honest i feel so empowered. I can’t handle him lurking around and having that access to me so I removed him. I walked away silently. Didn’t argue or anything! It’s SO HARD TO DO I know my worth as a woman.
Good job!
So awesome! Do you have any updates now, being you posted this three months ago?
Did he reach out to you
This new style of haircut really suits you. Makes you look more masculine, very handsome :)
but he didn't play with his hair once! 😭
He could even feel like an idiot for losing you, even if he’s talking to somebody else.
Ok cool it's true this is why it is so important for women to learn about their femininity , once you stop acting masculine around men they weed themselves out really quick that's means not shooting you're shot or pursuing him because if he does pull away and you initiate set up dateswith him you will never know if he is interested. Also of he pulls away seriously don't give a shit and last thing if any man tells me that he wants a women to pursue him I gladly walk away because now I can not stand feminine men or grown ass boys!
"Once you stop acting masculine around men they weed themselves out really quick" - wow! That is powerful and very true!
I appreciate your videos. As as much as I love men I will always put my family and pets first because they have proven their love for me. I am ok with being alone because I have a family and pets that love me.
You have just described my exact situation. He wants to be friends only now after a 6 month relationship. I withdrew, and now will meet him tomorrow. He wants me as a friends only. I am struggling right now.
No, you accept scraps from him, that shows that you have no options and self respect - block him on everywhere and start dating multiple men untilm you find one who is into you 100%
PLEASE leave this guy and ALL men alone that don’t want to give you what YOU want! Simple.
If he wanted to be a friend, he would have treated you like one in the first place. What he wants is a friend with benefits. I bet he thinks you will give him that if you agreed to meet with him after all he’s done to you. I hope you didn’t give him the time of day and told him to go kick rocks 😂.
This is what I needed to hear.. Thank you for breaking it down like this. I appreciate it ,going through it now and this makes me feel better.
If someone ghosts you after 1 date - they clearly do not like you.
i wouldn't even consider that ghosting. It was only one date
I’m not dating, but I have been here before. Thanks Elliot. 👍🏽
Pull back was so savage I think he got whiplash
😂
You know what girls just be yourself. I swear if they want to go back they will if they don't just move on its hard to move on but yeah we try ourbest
These videos are getting better every day! I love that!
You are totally right! Biggest turn off is to be turned down 😊 once they come back is such a comedy show😊
Love the title 😂 of course he or she or they... are an idiot for leaving & they know it!❤
..your value is based on your time and who you intimate with.. I love this great advise.. thanks a lot..
I was sad for couple days and after that he was dead to me 💀 now with completely much more better guys !!! Oh well 😚
Nice hair cut 💇♂️ ✂️ 👌
Win win situation when u move on and do ur thing !!😊 peace ✌️
Loving the new haircut🙌🏾
This is why I like being INTJ. I legit give no fuqs about men 😂.
And as an INFJ-I legit give way too many! PLEASE HELP Meeeeee😂😂😂😂
@@AudaciousErin82Baby Haha yes, I´m an INFJ too and the F fucks things up lol
@@pridden76 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! And HEY-maybe that's what the "F" REALLY stands for in InFj🤭😂
Pause: revenge booty? 👀😂😂😂
This is absolutely amazing !!
Never know i applied this for the whole life.. yes they comeback even after 20 years but Sorry, as a pisces, its one time offer.. no more access.. love is gone..
Animals are the purest love without risk
Okay, Elliot I see you with the fresh fade
Excellent content and hair style
Hey 😊...I'm the first one!!!! Great advice
Elliot you are my swearing goeroe 😅
Love iT! ❤
Much love from Amsterdam 🌏🌱
Spot on. Thanks.
Love the hair today….very sexy coach😍. Fantastic vid as well! Thank youuu!
They only come back if you let them
Thanks again Elliot! Nice haircut btw!
0:59 oh 😞
good work, he wants to marry me now
Thank you!! 👏🏼
So I told him bye and walked away. No contact for 45 days. Hes back saying how much he misses me. Im willing to give him one more chance but how do I phrase that?
Tell how are you gonna make it up to me? He has to work to get you back
Prove it
He got wrapped up in another woman. Amd lying about it. A lot. So i left
haircut looks great!
😂😂😂😂😂😂 revenge booty!
What happens if he is a friend of you and he was acting like he likes you and when you asked him out he friendzoned you? I have to see him anytime we do group activities and since I asked him out he stopped all the contact to me except cheing my insta stories.
I’m in this exact situation
He pursued me then convinced me into a relationship only to drop me for another female friend. Now, wants to shelf me as a friend. Sorry sir, absolutely not. I blocked on all social media. I don't want him having access to any of my energy
Looking good Elliot 🤤
If you’re looking up videos on these subjects he is not interested ! Move on !
........Elliot is looking like a whole snack over here🤗
Love that salt and pepper. Can we call you Daddy?
I wonder why he's unmarried? Elliot, do u know what soul ties are? Great video by the way.
Revenge booty. Lol 😂
Nice haircut
Elliot, I have been following you for a few weeks now. I am in the knowledge now that I was in a relationship with an emotional avoidant man. I'm hurting bad. Can you help me.?
If you get a session we can definitely go over everything. You'll feel better for sure elliotscottservices.clickfunnels.com/pricing-page1659523299475
Thx
How can I get a session with you and how much is it?
what about spouse (husband)he wants to go away
Sooo should I delete him off ig ?
No
I'd suggest blocking on ALL social media. If he wants you, and ya'll knew each other well enough, he knows where to find you
Let me guess be with another guy and we simply respond your turn to the guy, be careful it stinks
Hi Elliott should I hide my last seen and display pic on WhatsApp from my ex during no contact ? I feel him lurking around as my other social media is deactivated and WhatsApp is the only media he can look me up on . If he sees my online status and last seen does that give him relief to some extent ?
You need to BLOCK him on everything! The fact that your worried about him looking at your social media is sending him way too much energy. Don’t give him your time OR your energy.
Blocking is not a good idea if you want your ex back . I feel that hiding the last seen is fine
Don’t block, just stay unbothered , if you block its somehow comes across childish
Hi Eliott,
I'm very lost and I'd love to have your input on my situation:
I walked away from my situationship with a dissmissive advoidant/ emotionally unavailable guy 5 weeks ago (I'm 28, he's 25). There were signs he did like me but when I confronted him after two months of dating he said he couldn't and wasn't willing to give me more (commitment, exclusivity...). For context: he will move abroad soon and this is his main "reason".
I asked him not to contact me unless he was willing to give me more. It's been 5 weeks and he hasn't reached out. Is he gone forever? Should I reach out to know where he stands?
Hope this message gets to you.
Thank you in advance.
Sweetheart, why would you want a man who doesn’t want you?? If he can’t show up for you; if he doesn’t call or text you, LEAVE HIM ALONE! There are 8 billion people on the planet and about half of those people are men. FAR BETTER men. Put all of that love and effort on YOURSELF! Get your self love and self respect back and don’t give him a second thought. Seriously. Do NOT reach out to him. If he never reaches out to you, he doesn’t want to. He may be dismissive avoidant and trust me, if that’s the case you dodged a bullet. These types of men are not capable of meeting your needs. You saved yourself years and years of heartache. You are FAR TOO GOOD for this guy. Trust me on this.💯👌🏽
@@BetterLoveMovement Thank you, I needed that. It's hard to move on but I know I have to!
Baby girl you deserve better move on ...they always come back! Just Level up
Girl leave him alone . Please start dating men who are available to you!
"Don't worry about whatever the outcome is. Just do your own thing and move on." I think that was the single most validating, stress relieving, & healthy aspects of dating for me in my single years because it always had me focused on what was best for me & helped to avoid having my time wasted. It's the thing I see young women these days able to do the least. Guys can sniff an outcome-dependent women from miles away & they will milk her dry until he loses interest because he already knows she'll do just about anything to keep him around. I've seen men discard women after 10+ yrs after using her simply because SHE was hell-bent on getting a specific outcome.
Do you have more option to pay for the bundle like PayPal or klarna or something?
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Fk yeah...I liked 👍
Get a pair. lol
If hes talking or dating someone new this doesnt apply. Well in todays world most will speak or date someone new quite fast sooo....😅
Hm💇♂️😍
Can do without the cuss words. Good otherwise
High value women never marry. Just saying. - Veteran
7:00 i like your advice but would prefer more respectful language without the cursing especially since your audience is ladies. Please speak to us like a gentleman lol
Or recognize that people need freedom to be themselves without your control.
@alchemicalsoul he is speaking to an audience so we get to decide the standards of how we would like to be spoken to. Not cursing is bare minimum of respect and decency when speaking to ladies
@@basicinfo2022 It's HIS audience and platform. You have a right not to be on it. Cursing isn't absence of moral code. That's fuckery.
@@basicinfo2022I personally enjoy the added curse words. It adds passion to truth.
It doesn’t offend me at all.
@alchemicalsoul i am his audience. do you know what constructive criticism or customer feedback is? That's how businesses thrive lol I protect my energy and its bad energy and standard to let men curse at you.
lmfaoooooo i love you
he said revenge booty 😂😂😂😂😂
uhhh… they’re all talking to other women
I already am hot af. I am not changing my hair for a guy.